<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786</id><updated>2024-10-25T05:06:42.643-05:00</updated><category term="Direct link to Jackie&#39;s article on ManageMyLife.com"/><title type='text'>TheSchoolCounselor</title><subtitle type='html'>Welcome to my blog. Have a look around, check out some of the gadgets, tools and other fun stuff, and be sure to leave your comments too.  If your interested in some of the educational, career or motivational services I offer, click on my Betterfly badge in the sidebar, but mostly just enjoy the topics and dialogue.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>32</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-6755691500746195551</id><published>2012-03-04T23:00:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2012-03-04T23:02:24.864-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Blended Learning</title><content type='html'>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Got this from one of my all-time favorite professors, Dr. Andy Berning. Check out this cool video to see where education is headed or should be headed if your local school has their act together.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xMqJmMcME0&quot;&gt;Click here for an informative look into blended learning.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/6755691500746195551/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/03/blended-learning.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/6755691500746195551'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/6755691500746195551'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/03/blended-learning.html' title='Blended Learning'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-1921991949872461999</id><published>2012-02-24T10:37:00.005-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-24T12:00:55.276-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Swing into Summer: Summer Enrichment Programs and Camps</title><content type='html'>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;Do your kids vegetate in front of the TV with&amp;nbsp;siliva slipping from there mouth in an Xbox or Playstation&amp;nbsp;induced coma&amp;nbsp;over summer break?&amp;nbsp;Hopefully,&amp;nbsp;at the minimum, you&amp;nbsp;force your kid&#39;s to encounter the great outdoors,&amp;nbsp;even if it&#39;s just your back yard. They need some form of non-digital stimulational, and should do something other than mindlessly disengage completely from their academics. &lt;br /&gt;
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Certainly, to be fair, all kids and adults, especially those of us that work with them all year long,&amp;nbsp;need a mental break from the rigors of school. Yet,&amp;nbsp;we still to need stay sharp over the summer. &lt;br /&gt;
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With that in mind, take the time now, while you&#39;re planning that&amp;nbsp;great summer vacation (which is also a great&amp;nbsp;activity to keep them sharp), make some time to also help your kid&#39;s &quot;Swing into Summer&quot; by having them take part in a summer activity.&amp;nbsp;If you can&#39;t afford to pay for a camp, have them journal about your vacation adventures, or do a little photo-journalism on their next trip to the museum or ball park.&amp;nbsp;That being said, there are a great&amp;nbsp;number of&amp;nbsp;free programs, fundraising opportunities and still other orginazations that offer scholarships or reduced fees for those with financial need. &lt;br /&gt;
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At any rate, your kids can and should earn some college credit, travel, go to an activity based camp or take part in a volunteer program. There are many great opportunities to stay active and to continue&amp;nbsp;their personal growth and development, the time to plan is now...so don&#39;t wait. Find a program or activity that is not only fun, but also challenging and personally enriching. When it comes time to submit college applications these summer adventures often set your kid appart from the rest. &lt;br /&gt;
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Summer Camps and Opportunities Websites:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://myfootpath.com/life-experiences/&quot;&gt;http://myfootpath.com/life-experiences/&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;(resource guide)&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.petersons.com/summerop/&quot;&gt;www.petersons.com/summerop/&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;(search tool)&lt;br /&gt;
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There are countless sources for summer activities, camps, schools, travel, and employment that will provide your student&amp;nbsp;with an enriching, educational and fun summer. Whatever&amp;nbsp;their interests are, there are many great programs that will meet&amp;nbsp;their&amp;nbsp;needs. Summer programs will not only provide&amp;nbsp;them with the opportunity to develop&amp;nbsp;their current skills, sense of confidence and self-worth, but provide&amp;nbsp;them with a once in a lifetime memory. Think about what kind of activity you&#39;re looking for and then peruse them by using the myfootpath or petersons websites found above, search for &quot;Summer programs for High School students&quot; using any of the search engines found on the web such as google, bing etc.&amp;nbsp;or stop by&amp;nbsp;your local guidance counselor&#39;s&amp;nbsp;office to look through the numerous applications and information packets that&amp;nbsp;they have compiled. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;Below you&#39;ll find just a few of the many&amp;nbsp;summer programs of note:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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Northwestern University Experience College Various programs&lt;br /&gt;
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University of Chicago Language Program 15+ language programs&lt;br /&gt;
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Indiana State University Summer Honors Two week seminars&lt;br /&gt;
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Southern Illinois University Architecture Camps &lt;br /&gt;
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US Military Academy Leaders Seminar 2 week long sessions&lt;br /&gt;
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Washington University Summer Scholars 4 week long sessions&lt;br /&gt;
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Bradley University Summer Enrichment Nursing, Engineering...&lt;br /&gt;
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Pratt Institute( New York) Pre-College Program &lt;br /&gt;
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Jr. Statesmen Foundation Political Debate National Program&lt;br /&gt;
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Grinnell College Summer Institute Preview College life&lt;br /&gt;
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Western Illinois Univ. Adventures in Filmmaking &lt;br /&gt;
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Boston University PROMYS (Math/Science)&lt;br /&gt;
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Savannah College of Art &amp;amp; Design Rising Star Various Sessions&lt;br /&gt;
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Chicago College of Pharmacy in cooperation with Walgreen and Osco Drug Career Explorers Program &lt;br /&gt;
Student&#39;s who complete the program receive a $1,200 stipend &lt;br /&gt;
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UC Santa Barbara, UCLA, UC San Diego, University of Michigan, Georgetown University, University of Vermont, Cambridge University, and the University of Sydney (Australia) Summer Discovery featuring Discovery Works Community service Research Mentorship Pre-College Program&lt;br /&gt;
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Brown University, Harvard University, Georgetown University Pre-College Program Various programs&lt;br /&gt;
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Northern Illinois University Academic Camps 6 Academic Areas&lt;br /&gt;
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Lake Forest College Writing &amp;amp; Thinking Workshop &lt;br /&gt;
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Outward Bound Adventure Outdoor &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.outwardbound.org/&quot;&gt;http://www.outwardbound.org/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Habitat for Humanity Volunteer Program &lt;span style=&quot;color: #388222;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.habitat.org/cd/local&quot;&gt;www.&lt;strong&gt;habitat&lt;/strong&gt;.org/cd/local&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Kendall College Culinary College &lt;br /&gt;
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Purdue University Excel Enrichment Programs for Gifted and Talented Youth &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.purdue.edu/geri&quot;&gt;www.purdue.edu/geri&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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Eastern Illinois University Leadership &amp;amp; College Prep Camp for Minority students &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/1921991949872461999/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/do-your-kids-vegetate-over-summer-time.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/1921991949872461999'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/1921991949872461999'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/do-your-kids-vegetate-over-summer-time.html' title='Swing into Summer: Summer Enrichment Programs and Camps'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-8947723808999322391</id><published>2012-02-14T14:34:00.012-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-16T23:20:29.238-06:00</updated><title type='text'>How do you feel about your kid&#39;s school?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Calibri;&quot;&gt;Here at TheSchoolCounselor Blogspot we hear a lot of  rhetoric about school performance, test scores and annual yearly progress, but  we believe the best judge of a school&#39;s performance is the level of parent  satisfaction. Feel free to leave your thoughts, comments and insights about your  local school (good, bad or otherwise) in the comments section below and then  take our little straw.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Calibri;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #222222; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/8947723808999322391/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/how-do-you-feels-about-your-kids-school.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8947723808999322391'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8947723808999322391'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/how-do-you-feels-about-your-kids-school.html' title='How do you feel about your kid&#39;s school?'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-1042987049793893990</id><published>2012-02-07T20:22:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-14T22:47:22.503-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Is Your Kid&#39;s Principal Great or Just Average: A Parent&#39;s Guide to Knowing How to Spot A Great Leader</title><content type='html'>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #292526; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;How can you tell if you’ve got a great leader in charge of things at your kid’s school? Some&amp;nbsp;principals just show up every day, not inspiring anyone nor creating&amp;nbsp;anything special, but,&amp;nbsp;by and large, they&amp;nbsp;do their jobs. Still others fail miserably, and then, very abruptly,&amp;nbsp;they are gone. Every great&amp;nbsp;once in a while, there are the other ones: &lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;a rare breed of folks that inspire the best from all of those around them, whether students, parents&amp;nbsp;or staff. Which kind is running things over at your kid&#39;s school?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;color: #292526; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;A great principal is able to lead without using an iron fist, they inspire others to follow their lead without the use of punishment&amp;nbsp;or force, yet they’re certainly not pushovers. While, the authoritarian leader may see some early success, they will soon encounter a backlash and subtle level of animosity that will eventually decay any modicum of success they forced out of their troops. Of course, a leader, who cannot command respect, or inspire people to believe in their values, goals and beliefs, will fail almost immediately.&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 5pt 0in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #292526; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;To the contrary, is the Principal whose&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt; goal is to educate, motivate and ensure that students’ are successful, while at the same time, ensuring that they and their staff are doing their very best to model hard work, enthusiasm and cooperation. They expect that everyone on their staff takes pride in,&amp;nbsp; not only, the school, but in their&amp;nbsp; own unique abilities and undying efforts to inspire&amp;nbsp;every student to maximize their individual potential.&amp;nbsp;They realize that even as the goal is lofty, it is simple, and accomplished&amp;nbsp;with hard work,&amp;nbsp;camaraderie built&amp;nbsp;around mutual&amp;nbsp;respect,&amp;nbsp;and an undying loyalty to their mission to serve kids and each other. Anyone should be able to walk into their school and feel welcomed, yet energized by that uncanny feeling that stuff is happening….good stuff like learning, engagement, involvement and a true sense of community. How, or&amp;nbsp;more importantly, what&amp;nbsp;do you feel when you walk into your kid&#39;s school?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 5pt 0in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;Of course, much of what I am saying&amp;nbsp;can&amp;nbsp;be criticized as just one man&#39;s opinion, but, to the contrary, most of&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;it is supported by a great deal of research.&amp;nbsp;Several studies suggest a few things you should expect from a leader, who has it &quot;going on.&quot; Beyond doubt, those things have nothing to do with standardized test scores, and everything to do with learning. Your&amp;nbsp;principal&amp;nbsp;should:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst&quot; style=&quot;margin: 5pt 0in 5pt 0.5in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;1.&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;Create a challenging environment that questions, tests and reevaluates the status quo.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin: 5pt 0in 5pt 0.5in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;2.&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;Model their values, expectations and beliefs, and then, be the one taking the reins when things get tough.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin: 5pt 0in 5pt 0.5in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;3.&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;Inspire collegiality and a sense of&amp;nbsp;cooperation and common&amp;nbsp;purpose&amp;nbsp;for the path the school is to take (a.k.a. shared vision for those who like educational&amp;nbsp;cliches).&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin: 5pt 0in 5pt 0.5in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;5.&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;Allow all&amp;nbsp;staff members&amp;nbsp;to do their thing within the structure of the school&#39;s mission, and create the freedom for teachers to teach and students to learn in the style that is best suited to their abilities.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;In the end, a great leader, and one we’d all want to be in charge of our kid&#39;s school, knows that it’s &lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;a matter of putting what they preach into, not merely, practice, but interweaving it with an honest, structured and consistently applied approach. That approach needs to guide them in everything they say and do. Very clearly, it needs to become imbued within their core values and has to shine through their day-to-day activities and interactions. Whether, it is a matter of daily function, a larger long-term program, or in their interpersonal relationships and dealings, the great principal needs to live, model and inspire hard-work, friendship, loyalty, cooperation and enthusiasm (See Coach John Wooden’s Pyramid of Success).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 5pt 0in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;Ask yourself, or maybe, your kid’s principal, if they have the qualities of a great leader, or are they just getting by and cashing a paycheck until they can&amp;nbsp;retire?&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; Then again, don&#39;t simply question it, demand it of your child&#39;s school, particularly, if the Principal is unwilling, or unable&amp;nbsp;to strive for greatness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/1042987049793893990/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/is-your-kids-principal-great-or-just.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/1042987049793893990'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/1042987049793893990'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/is-your-kids-principal-great-or-just.html' title='Is Your Kid&#39;s Principal Great or Just Average: A Parent&#39;s Guide to Knowing How to Spot A Great Leader'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total><georss:featurename>Chicago, IL, USA</georss:featurename><georss:point>41.8781136 -87.629798199999982</georss:point><georss:box>41.6887156 -87.837909699999983 42.067511599999996 -87.421686699999981</georss:box></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-1860742162803212689</id><published>2012-02-01T22:42:00.005-06:00</published><updated>2012-02-01T23:17:24.722-06:00</updated><title type='text'>A Few Recommended Reads on Happiness, Goal Setting and Success from The School Counselor&#39;s  Personal Library</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Symbol; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;v:rect fillcolor=&quot;#b32c16 [3206]&quot; id=&quot;_x0000_s1026&quot; o:allowincell=&quot;f&quot; strokecolor=&quot;white [3212]&quot; stroked=&quot;f&quot; strokeweight=&quot;1.5pt&quot; style=&quot;flip: x; height: 80.25pt; left: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-top: 0px; mso-position-horizontal-relative: page; mso-position-horizontal: center; mso-position-vertical-relative: page; mso-position-vertical: top; mso-width-percent: 1000; mso-wrap-distance-bottom: 10.8pt; mso-wrap-distance-top: 7.2pt; position: absolute; text-align: left; text-indent: 0px; width: 495.75pt; z-index: 1;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Franklin Gothic Book;&quot;&gt;  &lt;v:shadow color=&quot;#595c62 [2409]&quot; offset2=&quot;-148pt,-60pt&quot; offset=&quot;-80pt,-36pt&quot; on=&quot;t&quot;&gt;  &lt;v:textbox inset=&quot;36pt,0,10.8pt,0&quot; style=&quot;mso-next-textbox: #_x0000_s1026;&quot;&gt;     &lt;/v:textbox&gt;&lt;/v:shadow&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/v:rect&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;     &lt;w:wrap anchorx=&quot;page&quot; anchory=&quot;page&quot; type=&quot;square&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Get a Free chapter of &lt;span style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;Darren Hardy’s&lt;/span&gt; new book: The Compound Effect&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/w:wrap&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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Great read on all things success from the editor of Success Magazine. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red; font-size: large;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;  &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thecompoundeffect.com/downloads/The_Compound_Effect_CH1.pdf&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red; font-size: large;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Click here for The Compound Effect&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraph&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Symbol; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;·&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;i style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-style: normal;&quot;&gt;How to Be Like &lt;span style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;Coach Wooden&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; by &lt;span style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;Pat Willams&lt;/span&gt; and David Wimbush&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0757303919/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader-link&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img alt=&quot;How to Be Like Coach Wooden: Life Lessons from Basketball&#39;s Greatest Leader&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;200&quot; id=&quot;prodImage&quot; src=&quot;http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51vDSC0zK8L._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraph&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: center; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
A wonderful examination into the life and lessons of the legendary Coach Wooden. If you&#39;ve read my blog for any length of time, you&#39;ve witnessed his stricking&amp;nbsp;influence on my beliefs, values&amp;nbsp;and philosophy of education and life.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/How-Like-Coach-Wooden-Basketballs/dp/0757303919/ref=sr_1_32?s=books&amp;amp;ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1312600633&amp;amp;sr=1-32&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: orange;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Click here for an Amazon link to How to Be Like Coach Wooden&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraph&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Symbol; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;·&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-style: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;Who Moved My Cheese: An Amazing Way to Deal with Change In Your Work and In Your Life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraph&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-style: normal;&quot;&gt;“Yes or No” The Guide to Better Decisions – A Story. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraph&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: center; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;&quot;&gt;&lt;i style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-style: normal;&quot;&gt;Both by&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;Spencer Johnson&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot; class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: inherit;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #990000; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red;&quot;&gt;&quot;Look at what&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;happened in the past, learn something&amp;nbsp;valuable from it, use what you learn to improve the present.&quot;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: red; font-family: inherit;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;-- Spencer Johnson&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0399144463/ref=sib_dp_pt#reader-link&quot;&gt;&lt;img alt=&quot;Who Moved My Cheese?: An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;300&quot; id=&quot;prodImage&quot; src=&quot;http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51K%2BGWepH2L._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg&quot; width=&quot;300&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Both books provide quick and valuable lessons in the form of parables and short stories, which are eminently readable and thought-provoking.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot; class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Who-Moved-My-Cheese-Amazing/dp/0399144463/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;amp;ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1312601698&amp;amp;sr=1-1&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #d2611c;&quot;&gt;Click here for an Amazon link to Who Moved My Cheese!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot; class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot; class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: center; text-indent: -0.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Symbol; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;mso-list: Ignore;&quot;&gt;·&lt;span style=&quot;font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 7pt/normal &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;i style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-style: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt; by &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;b style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0061339202/ref=sib_dp_kd#reader-link&quot;&gt;&lt;img alt=&quot;Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;300&quot; id=&quot;prodImage&quot; src=&quot;http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41LDXwmSGNL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg&quot; width=&quot;300&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot; class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;ptbrand3&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: windowtext; font-family: &amp;quot;Arial&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 10pt; line-height: 115%; mso-no-proof: yes;&quot;&gt;&lt;v:shapetype coordsize=&quot;21600,21600&quot; filled=&quot;f&quot; id=&quot;_x0000_t75&quot; o:preferrelative=&quot;t&quot; o:spt=&quot;75&quot; path=&quot;m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe&quot; stroked=&quot;f&quot;&gt;  &lt;v:stroke joinstyle=&quot;miter&quot;&gt;  &lt;v:formulas&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;sum @0 1 0&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;sum 0 0 @1&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;prod @2 1 2&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;prod @3 21600 pixelWidth&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;prod @3 21600 pixelHeight&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;sum @0 0 1&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;prod @6 1 2&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;prod @7 21600 pixelWidth&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;sum @8 21600 0&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;prod @7 21600 pixelHeight&quot;&gt;   &lt;v:f eqn=&quot;sum @10 21600 0&quot;&gt;  &lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:f&gt;&lt;/v:formulas&gt;  &lt;v:path gradientshapeok=&quot;t&quot; o:connecttype=&quot;rect&quot; o:extrusionok=&quot;f&quot;&gt; Click on the authors name&amp;nbsp; below for a link to the book, which is by one of the foremost happiness researchers in the world. His lessons are one part Buddhist philosophy, one part Nike slogan, but exceptional in&amp;nbsp;their simplicity and applicability.&lt;/v:path&gt;&lt;/v:stroke&gt;&lt;/v:shapetype&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot; class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 0pt 0.5in; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot; class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpLast&quot; style=&quot;margin: 0in 0in 10pt 0.5in; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Mihaly-Csikszentmihalyi/e/B000AQ1KVM/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1?qid=1312601873&amp;amp;sr=1-1&quot;&gt;&lt;b style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #d2611c;&quot;&gt;Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;b style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #004b91; font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-no-proof: yes;&quot;&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: &amp;quot;Britannic Bold&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;sans-serif&amp;quot;; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;&quot;&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Click on the book if you want to get it on Amazon. Without doubt, this book takes much of theory found in the aforementioned books, and turns them into a step by step&amp;nbsp;guide toward, not&amp;nbsp;only&amp;nbsp;finding, but&amp;nbsp;making your dreams into reality. A must read!&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: large;&quot;&gt;All of these books will help you set goals, get more organized and be just a little better and definitely happier than you already are today&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/1860742162803212689/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/few-recommended-reads-on-happiness-goal.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/1860742162803212689'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/1860742162803212689'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/02/few-recommended-reads-on-happiness-goal.html' title='A Few Recommended Reads on Happiness, Goal Setting and Success from The School Counselor&#39;s  Personal Library'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-8855797128857617298</id><published>2012-01-27T22:29:00.009-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-28T12:25:42.884-06:00</updated><title type='text'>5 Easy Ways to Ensure Your Kids Will  See the Intrinsic Value of Learning and Actually Enjoy It!</title><content type='html'>Whether you want to call it being a lifetime learner, appreciating the value of education or getting the most out of the richness life has to offer, getting your&amp;nbsp;kids to&amp;nbsp;learn and appreciate&amp;nbsp;it is&amp;nbsp;a daunting task for most parents; especially for those of us, who are simply struggling with just getting little Johnny&amp;nbsp; to do&amp;nbsp;his 3rd Grade Spelling words and Math homework. Yet deep down, and in spite of the daily homework tug-o-war and meltdowns&amp;nbsp;that takes place in many homes, the majority of us want our children to make the most of their potential and to leave no opportunity wasted. If you really want your children to see the intrinsic value of learning and to enjoy it throughout their lives, start with these&amp;nbsp;5 easy, and&amp;nbsp;headache free tips:&lt;br /&gt;
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1. &lt;strong&gt;Reflect on Your Own Attitudes, Beliefs and Experiences with Learning: &lt;/strong&gt;Kids (even the teenage variety) are watching and listening to you, even if you don&#39;t realize it, and, most particularly, when you least expect it. As with anything else, your actions and internal beliefs&amp;nbsp;say a lot more than your actual words. Do you tell them to do their homework, but later say to&amp;nbsp;your husband or wife, &quot;All that crazy&amp;nbsp;teacher does is give them hours of senseless&amp;nbsp;homework,&amp;nbsp;I wish she&#39;d ease up with it.&quot; Um...yep, they were listening to what you were really saying, and undeniably,&amp;nbsp;it&#39;s the message behind the spoken&amp;nbsp;words that children really&amp;nbsp;learn best. To wit: &amp;nbsp;I&#39;ve&amp;nbsp;heard more than one&amp;nbsp;adult&amp;nbsp;say in exasperation and &amp;nbsp;frustration, something to the effect of,&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&quot;I don&#39;t care how long it takes, you&#39;re doing that stupid homework, even&amp;nbsp;if it kills you.&quot; If you don&#39;t value education, or&amp;nbsp;even send out&amp;nbsp;a subconscious&amp;nbsp;message that it&#39;s not important, how will your children learn to value it for its own sake? For many parents, learning was an arduous, tedious&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;negative experience, which&amp;nbsp;often leads them&amp;nbsp;to unwittingly diminish its value&amp;nbsp;and importance,&amp;nbsp;regardless of what they tell&amp;nbsp;their children. In spite of your own experiences,&amp;nbsp;take a realistic and honest appraisal of your own beliefs and have an awareness of how what you say, and, more importantly, what you&amp;nbsp;do impacts your child&#39;s natural affinity to learn. A positive outlook and nurturing environment will give your child the freedom and energy to keep learning as they grow into and through adulthood. &lt;br /&gt;
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2. &lt;strong&gt;Love Reading and Books, or at Least, Make Reading a Priority and Daily Activity in the Home:&amp;nbsp; &lt;/strong&gt;Read books, buy books, go to the library, get an e-reader, order magazines and online versions of the local newspaper, grab brochures and leaflets, shut down the television, at least&amp;nbsp;every once in a while,&amp;nbsp;and make your home a reading rich environment. Most importantly, foster&amp;nbsp;a love of reading in&amp;nbsp;your child, and you&#39;ve&amp;nbsp;opened&amp;nbsp;up a path to all&amp;nbsp;the wonders,&amp;nbsp;knowledge and mysteries&amp;nbsp;the world has to offer,&amp;nbsp;and subsequently,&amp;nbsp;inspired&amp;nbsp;them to seek knowledge for&amp;nbsp;the sake of learning, understanding &amp;nbsp;and personal growth.&lt;br /&gt;
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3. &lt;strong&gt;Figure Out How Your Kid Learns Best: &lt;/strong&gt;The legendary Howard Gardner surmised that there are at least 7, if not more, distinct learning styles, and that most of us learn best via one or two of these. While&amp;nbsp;it would be great to only emphasize your child&#39;s specific strength, the real world dictates that you determine which one of the 3&amp;nbsp;major styles is strongest for your child:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Visual&lt;/strong&gt;: learning via demonstrations, charts, graphs and pictures.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Auditory&lt;/strong&gt;: learning by listening to the teacher, or taking part in class&amp;nbsp;discussions and having an ear for music.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Bodily-Kinesthetic&lt;/strong&gt;: learning by doing, interacting with the world around them, role-playing, athletic and hands on activities.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;Once you determine&amp;nbsp;your child&#39;s&amp;nbsp;main learning style, let their teachers know what it is, and provide plenty of opportunities for your child to engage in&amp;nbsp;learning activities and endeavors that place an emphasis on their strength area.&lt;br /&gt;
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4. &lt;strong&gt;Ask for Help:&lt;/strong&gt; Develop a good rapport with&amp;nbsp;your child&#39;s&amp;nbsp;teachers, school counselor and other school staff to better understand your child,&amp;nbsp;find resources and engage in your child&#39;s life in a supportive way. Seek outside programs such as summer camps,&amp;nbsp;clubs&amp;nbsp;and groups, and,&amp;nbsp;of course, take advantage of your local library, which will provide more than just books. My own local library has monthly programming for kids, free passes to all the area museums and zoos, and many other value-laden resources that inspire and peak the interest of&amp;nbsp;even the most fickle children. If you don&#39;t know an answer, seek it out and&amp;nbsp;show your kids that it&#39;s okay to ask for help; that simple lesson may be the greatest thing you ever teach your child.&lt;br /&gt;
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5. &lt;strong&gt;Provide a Positive, Focused and Structured Learning Environment as you Celebrate&amp;nbsp;your&amp;nbsp;Kid&#39;s&amp;nbsp;Successes and Help them Overcome their Setbacks: &lt;/strong&gt;Praise and encourage your child, but have high expectations for them and hold them accountable for their actions. Guide them, and help them with their homework, but resist the temptation to do it for them, and have the courage to let them fail. It&#39;s okay...you can let them fail, at least every now and again, it doesn&#39;t make you a bad parent, and&amp;nbsp;kids, just like adults,&amp;nbsp;actually analyze and&amp;nbsp;learn best&amp;nbsp;from their failures. Certainly, like a great coach, pick them up when they fall, but don&#39;t let them loose focus;&amp;nbsp;and if&amp;nbsp;they&amp;nbsp;become over-confident when they succeed, teach them the value of humility, and if need be, take them down a notch, and then build them back up. They&#39;ll thank you later when they can handle themselves with dignity, respect and integrity&amp;nbsp;in adulthood.&lt;br /&gt;
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In conclusion,&amp;nbsp;be honest with your children, and&amp;nbsp;let them know that you make mistakes, but rather than letting those errors defeat you, you embrace&amp;nbsp;them as meaningful learning opportunities. Model the notion that life isn&#39;t about being perfect,&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;instead,&amp;nbsp;help them to recognize that learning is about growth through trail and error. Show them that the obstacles we face&amp;nbsp;are an important part of&amp;nbsp;a journey that makes life a wonderful and rich adventure, no matter how young or old we are.&amp;nbsp;Teach them&amp;nbsp;that&amp;nbsp;working hard, being enthused and&amp;nbsp;challenging our assumptions about the world leads to wisdom,&amp;nbsp;knowledge and, most importantly,&amp;nbsp;happiness.&amp;nbsp;Children are born with an innate and insatiable desire to learn, and if&amp;nbsp;you simply provide a nurturing, structured and supportive environment that is&amp;nbsp;bolstered with love and understanding, nature will ensure that your child&amp;nbsp;develops an intrinsic&amp;nbsp;and deep desire for learning.&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/8855797128857617298/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/01/5-easy-ways-to-ensure-your-kids-will.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8855797128857617298'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8855797128857617298'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2012/01/5-easy-ways-to-ensure-your-kids-will.html' title='5 Easy Ways to Ensure Your Kids Will  See the Intrinsic Value of Learning and Actually Enjoy It!'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-2716012511164653012</id><published>2012-01-24T22:32:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-27T16:30:09.737-06:00</updated><title type='text'>Career of the Month: Engineering</title><content type='html'>So you want your kid to be an engineer, but what qualities and skills&amp;nbsp;should they possess? First off, they need to have excellent analytical skills and must truly&amp;nbsp;enjoy their math and sciences classes. Then, make sure they take&amp;nbsp;and&amp;nbsp;do well in both Chemistry and Physics, but also encourage them to take applied classes such as Drafting or Computer-aided Graphics. Moreover, foster their ability to communicate ideas and opinions both&amp;nbsp;verbally and in written form as you guide them toward leadership roles in clubs, organizations and activities that challenge them to think&amp;nbsp;creatively and analytically. &lt;br /&gt;
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Just because you want them to go into such a well-paying and highly respected field, doesn&#39;t mean they have the desire or even the affinity for it. Before pushing your child toward engineering, ask them the following questions:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;do you want to make an impact on the environment and world around you?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;do you enjoy making decisions and solving problems that will impact other people?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;do you like turning your ideas into things that people can live and work with?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;are you ready to take on a challenge and can you think quickly and adapt to change?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;If your child can answer those questions positively, then engineering may be the perfect career for them. There are a variety of options for your student to choose from,&amp;nbsp;so both you and they&amp;nbsp;should contact their guidance counselor, seek out job shadow opportunities and even internships and summer camp programs offered by local businesses, colleges and community organizations in your area.&lt;br /&gt;
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The field of engineering is an exciting one, and one of the best-paying careers one can have after leaving college. Opportunities exist in aerospace, biomedical, chemical, computer, electrical, structural, environmental and civil engineering. In just&amp;nbsp;a few short years, your child could be working on the latest space project, saving lives with the latest&amp;nbsp;medical device or simply improving the infrastructure of your own community. Whatever field of engineering they choose, they will make an impact on the world around them and enjoy a creative, exciting and rewarding lifestyle and career.&lt;br /&gt;
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If that&#39;s you or your kid, seek out a mentor, counselor or family friend who has gone to college, and then,&amp;nbsp;just do it! No time is better than the present. Also, if you&#39;re looking for help with the college application process, need an accomplished motivational speaker or need&amp;nbsp;a new approach to ACT prep, I provide all of those, and other related services, too. Check&amp;nbsp;them out&amp;nbsp;at &lt;a href=&quot;http://betterfly.com/il/chicago/college-and-higher-education-entrance-betterists/user-65034&quot;&gt;http://betterfly.com/il/chicago/college-and-higher-education-entrance-betterists/user-65034&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/308428603995657260/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/10/college-application-time.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/308428603995657260'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/308428603995657260'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/10/college-application-time.html' title='College Application Time'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-8117032899032357918</id><published>2011-08-04T00:49:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-04T00:56:07.771-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Get Accepted...The Education Doctor is in!</title><content type='html'>It&#39;s that time of year again, and soon High School Seniors will be filling out college applications, and many of them will lack&amp;nbsp;what it&amp;nbsp;takes&amp;nbsp;to get accepted. Sloppily written or typed application forms, or not knowing what to say in an essay and just a lack of experience will cause a lot of those applications to end up on the reject pile at&amp;nbsp;colleges and universities across the Nation.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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As a Guidance Counselor, I&amp;nbsp;work closely and personally with students to help them choose the best schools for them, and know what admissions officers are looking for. However, like most counselors, the demands of the school day simply does not allow for&amp;nbsp;the time or environment to give the&amp;nbsp;direct one-on-one attention&amp;nbsp;that we&#39;d really like to provide. &lt;br /&gt;
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So, it may be worth looking into some individualized attention outside of the school system;&amp;nbsp;much like getting a tutor to help with that tricky math class, finding an application review specialist, may be a perfect solution. Let&#39;s face it: teenagers procrastinate for a bevy of reasons, but in my experience, it&#39;s usually just a fear of the unknown. Wouldn&#39;t it be nice to have an experienced mentor to get them going and walk them through the application process, and then review their essays or personal statements and ensure that the application is up to snuff? &lt;br /&gt;
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Normally, I don&#39;t self-promote, but today I&#39;m going too. I offer one-on-one application review and support with over 15 years working directly with students. So here is what I can do:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/8117032899032357918/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/08/get-acceptedthe-education-doctor-is-in.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8117032899032357918'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8117032899032357918'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/08/get-acceptedthe-education-doctor-is-in.html' title='Get Accepted...The Education Doctor is in!'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-2759478933738651754</id><published>2011-07-21T15:05:00.026-05:00</published><updated>2013-12-16T14:39:17.840-06:00</updated><title type='text'>What Every Child Needs: A Parent That Can Fail</title><content type='html'>&lt;div dir=&quot;ltr&quot; style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot; trbidi=&quot;on&quot;&gt;
The more I fail the more&amp;nbsp;I learn. Great advice-to learn from our mistakes, but it can be a pretty unsettling feeling as a parent. For years, I&#39;ve given other people advice about their kids,&amp;nbsp;and I&#39;ve always known that&amp;nbsp;it&#39;s&amp;nbsp; much easier to give advice than to actually execute it, especially in my own life.&amp;nbsp; Telling someone else what&#39;s best for their kids comes, oddly enough,&amp;nbsp;much easier than actually applying&amp;nbsp;it with&amp;nbsp;my own kids. Luckily, the more I fail as a father, the more I&#39;ve come to understand what every child needs to thrive through an honest,&amp;nbsp;yet often&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;unsettling analysis of my mistakes. In no particular order kids need:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;PATIENCE:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Having the kids home for summer and not wanting to put them in summer camp has tested my patience mightily. The nearly constant&amp;nbsp;bickering and unabated&amp;nbsp;sibling rivalry that is not uncommon with school age children&amp;nbsp;has caused me to snap at my kids on several occasions already this summer, but worst of all, I&#39;ve found my self being aggravated by their mistakes...broken window screens, random bits of food products&amp;nbsp;left in their rooms,&amp;nbsp;the unaccounted&amp;nbsp;number of doors left open with the air on&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;and the more &amp;nbsp;typical gamut of childhood faux pas.&amp;nbsp; I really snapped the other day when one of them opened my contact case and lost one contact from a week old set. Sigh...aah...what the hell. After I finished my tirade and felt guilty about losing it,&amp;nbsp; only then did I remember what every child needs: patience and understanding. My moment of anger allowed me to forget&amp;nbsp;that they grow, learn and develop via their errors. Yes...parenting will test your patience-a lot, and it&#39;s frustrating and expensive, but we all signed up for it, didn&#39;t we?&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;ACCEPTANCE&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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It seems really obvious that a parent would appreciate their own children and their individual gifts and unique talents, but as with everything else related to parenting, it&#39;s just not that simple. Whether we like to admit it or not, we tend to relate better to at least one&amp;nbsp;of our children better than our other little blessings, and that can be fertile ground for a parenting disaster. My 8 year old son is&amp;nbsp;a little carbon copy of me, and not only do we&amp;nbsp;look alike, we tend to like the same things: from baseball and every other sport under the sun&amp;nbsp;to sophomoric humor, to pretty girls and being&amp;nbsp;a little&amp;nbsp;mischievous every now and then. Unquestionably, we have a special and undeniable father-son bond, which is incredible, except that it is often offensive to my oldest daughter, who looks upon&amp;nbsp;our testosterone laden amalgam with disdain, and often, even if wrongly, feels unaccepted. While we share many commonalities, they are more subtle and less obvious to her tender heart, and I struggle to connect with her just&amp;nbsp;as mightily as I so naturally bond with the little boy called mini-me. She is smart, careful, and&amp;nbsp;loves school, magic, drama and band...all beautiful qualities and exceptional hobbies, but&amp;nbsp;her hobbies&amp;nbsp;just don&#39;t hold my intrinsic interest like baseball, survival shows, Adam Sandler movies&amp;nbsp;and swimsuit models. &lt;br /&gt;
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Though&amp;nbsp;I never do it intentionally, and because she is extremely sensitive, my neanderthal-like&amp;nbsp;maleness often leaves her feeling a little less accepted then my son. Again, parenting is hard work, and we all fail once in a while-some of us more than others-but we must&amp;nbsp;accept the&amp;nbsp;responsibility to make our children feel and know they are accepted, special and unique individuals, who hold a special place in our hearts.&amp;nbsp;Perhaps, I&#39;ll put down my baseball glove, drop the remote and take my daughter to&amp;nbsp;a magic show and then&amp;nbsp;to one of our local art museums, which she would love and absorb with the same passion my son has at a baseball game or watching the latest episode of Sponge Bob Square Pants.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;PRAISE AND ENCOURAGEMENT&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Too often, and quite naturally, we take the ones we love for granted, and I am guilty of this misgiving way to much with my own children.&amp;nbsp;It&#39;s more than just telling them you&#39;re proud of them, it&#39;s expressing utter delight and joy for the things that make you proud of them.&amp;nbsp;Sometimes it&#39;s&amp;nbsp;that simple smile&amp;nbsp;of acknowledgement of &amp;nbsp;their&amp;nbsp;individual attributes that&amp;nbsp;matters&amp;nbsp;most.&amp;nbsp;Sadly, as a child I remember being discouraged more often than being praised, and it took a while to overcome that as an adult. I remember the pain of coming home with mostly A&#39;s on my&amp;nbsp;report card in high school after never doing that well before, and my father&amp;nbsp;rather than showing his approval&amp;nbsp; pointed out the B&#39;s.&amp;nbsp;This was his way of parenting: good was never good enough...so at some point in my younger years, I&amp;nbsp;stopped bringing girl friends home because he inevitably pointed out their flaws rather than their strengths. Now, to be fair,&amp;nbsp;my father loved me, and in spite of his flaws, he ultimately provided&amp;nbsp; for us and&amp;nbsp;we all turned out okay, but I&#39;m certain, I wouldn&#39;t have struggled as hard or as long with finding myself had he been a little more&amp;nbsp;forthcoming with his praise and encouragement.. Though I&#39;m not perfect, I do my level best to praise and encourage my children&#39;s efforts&amp;nbsp;and accomplishments, knowing full well my support will allow them to develop creativity, a sense of adventure and most importantly a confidence in who they are. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;RESPECT &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I&#39;ve always heard the greatest gift we can give our children is to respect and honor their mother, which,&amp;nbsp;to be honest, is often times easier said then done-even in the&amp;nbsp;best of times. For his flaws in the areas of praise and encouragement, my father was not just a bastion, but a veritable superstar model&amp;nbsp;of respect and love for my mother. He loved and honored her passionately until the day she died, and I&#39;ve always appreciated and&amp;nbsp;carried that with me. &amp;nbsp;Unfortunately, most times marriages don&#39;t turn out for the best, but even when they are in the midst of&amp;nbsp;failure or have failed, it&#39;s important for both parents to do their best to treat each other with respect and value what the other&amp;nbsp;has to say, at least in front of the children. Sadly though, as human beings with emotions and feelings, it becomes so easy to show disrespect, but the harm it does to our children&#39;s psyches is undeniable. Every time I say something mean or disrespectful I feel remorseful, and&amp;nbsp; almost immediately thereafter, I try to learn from&amp;nbsp;my failings and return to the basic underpinnings of good&amp;nbsp;parenting: treat others as you&#39;d like to be treated yourself. Each time I fail to remember&amp;nbsp;the golden rule and&amp;nbsp;it&#39;s value to my children,&amp;nbsp;it&amp;nbsp;always leaves me&amp;nbsp;unsettled, yet reflective&amp;nbsp;and hopeful.&amp;nbsp;Certainly, it&#39;s not about being perfect, but rather trying to do better&amp;nbsp;by learning from our mistakes as we try to model respect. The lesson of respect is&amp;nbsp;a powerful one for our children, &amp;nbsp;especially&amp;nbsp;when&amp;nbsp;love is no longer part of the marital or post-marital&amp;nbsp;equation. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;HONESTY&amp;nbsp; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Amidst my numerous mistakes and parental failures, is one area that never fails, and that is being honest with my children. Not only do we talk about the importance of being honest, but I am honest with them when I inevitably fail, or make&amp;nbsp;one of my numerous&amp;nbsp;mistakes. Children need to know that their parents are fallible and can admit to those very human weaknesses. By doing so, we build a deep trust and sense of authenticity that&amp;nbsp;enables our children to build upon&amp;nbsp;our core values and to&amp;nbsp;take them further as they grow toward adulthood. Above all else, and when everything you do seems to go wrong, there is one sure-fire, tried and true thing that always works and every child needs most:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;LOVE&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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We can screw everything else up, but because children are resilient, pure at heart and forgiving they always respond to love. Show it, say it and reinforce it everyday, and in spite of all else, your kids will turn out okay, if not even thrive. Simple, but effective is the daily hug and these&amp;nbsp;three simple words: &quot;I LOVE YOU.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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In the end, and as difficult and challenging as parenting is,&amp;nbsp;I&amp;nbsp;am always bolstered and reassured, despite my flaws, by love-both for and&amp;nbsp;from my kids. It really is just that simple: show them your affection and tell them how much you love and care for them and the other things tend to fall into place, even if you screw up every so often, or like me, a lot.&lt;br /&gt;
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Just like our children, parents learn from their mistakes and get better with time.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/2759478933738651754/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/07/failing-always-makes-me.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/2759478933738651754'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/2759478933738651754'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/07/failing-always-makes-me.html' title='What Every Child Needs: A Parent That Can Fail'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-4860173588886826385</id><published>2011-06-23T21:48:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-07-15T16:46:23.713-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Please join me and my friends on Team Emily as we run in our fight against cancer.</title><content type='html'>Welcome  to TEAM EMILY!&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div a5_=&quot;0&quot; align=&quot;left&quot;&gt;Several of us are training to participate in The Bank of  America Chicago Marathon in October and other events this fall as members of The  Leukemia &amp;amp; Lymphoma Society&#39;s (LLS) Team In Training. At any rate, I&#39;ll be  anchoring the effort for the Chicago Half Marathon in September. All of us on  Team In Training, no matter which personal goal we&#39;ve set, are raising funds to  help stop leukemia, lymphoma, Hodgkin lymphoma and myeloma from taking more  lives. We are completing this event in honor of all individuals who are battling  blood cancers, but there is a very special little girl, and a schoolmate of my  son, John.&amp;nbsp; Emily Beazley,who is serving as special motivation to us, is  eight years old and was recently diagnosed with T Cell Lymphoblastic Lymphoma.  Emily is a courageous little girl who wants to be back at school with her  friends but instead is facing cancer with a fight and determination that is  truly amazing. We are running to help raise money that can go to research so  that the doctors and specialists have effective treatments at hand so not only  can survivors like Emily beat cancer they can do so with more good days than  tough days. These people are the real heroes on our team, and we need your  support to cross the ultimate finish line - a cure! &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div a5_=&quot;0&quot; align=&quot;left&quot;&gt;Emily has a special place in my son&#39;s heart and because of  that bond, I was able to meet her mom, who is a gracious, strong and courageous  lady herself, and with all those factors, I knew I had to do something more than  tell her I was sorry. I&#39;ve decided to join the fight, and show my support  through my own effort to live a more fit life as an example to my own  children.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div a5_=&quot;0&quot; align=&quot;left&quot;&gt;Greg&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/4860173588886826385/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/06/please-join-me-and-my-friends-on-team.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/4860173588886826385'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/4860173588886826385'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/06/please-join-me-and-my-friends-on-team.html' title='Please join me and my friends on Team Emily as we run in our fight against cancer.'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-7599545556910493053</id><published>2011-06-21T19:48:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-06-21T19:48:21.779-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Tribute to Clarence Clemons...Every Good Education Includes Great Music</title><content type='html'>Check out this great piece by Dave Miller of Chicagoconcertgoers.com that captures the greatness and legacy of Clarence Clemons. Thanks for the happiness and education, Clarence.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.chicagoconcertgoers.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;amp;view=article&amp;amp;id=123%3Aremembering-clarence-big-man-clemons&amp;amp;catid=37%3Apast-reviews-&amp;amp;Itemid=49&quot;&gt;http://www.chicagoconcertgoers.com/index.php?option=com_content&amp;amp;view=article&amp;amp;id=123%3Aremembering-clarence-big-man-clemons&amp;amp;catid=37%3Apast-reviews-&amp;amp;Itemid=49&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/7599545556910493053/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/06/tribute-to-clarence-clemonsevery-good.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/7599545556910493053'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/7599545556910493053'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/06/tribute-to-clarence-clemonsevery-good.html' title='Tribute to Clarence Clemons...Every Good Education Includes Great Music'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-374791342393208146</id><published>2011-06-13T21:08:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-06-15T00:18:58.197-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Summer Vacation: Nature&#39;s Alternative to the Mega-Waterparks</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;School&#39;s out for summer, and if you&#39;re like me and Alice Cooper, you&#39;re more ready for a summer vacation then your kids are. Certainly, by now&amp;nbsp;they have mentioned those giant mega-parks like the ones you&#39;ll find in Wisconsin Dells, and while it&#39;s undeniable that taking your kids there will earn you big points on the coolest parent meter, what will you have taught them in the end?&amp;nbsp; Sure, White Wolf River Lodge,&amp;nbsp;or one of its counterparts,&amp;nbsp;is decorated in the outdoors style, but it&#39;s really just an expensive&amp;nbsp;inauthentic, bogus&amp;nbsp;version of the real thing. So this year, I&#39;ve made a deal with my kids, one night at the Madison Holiday Inn&#39;s Cypress Cove, which for $115 bucks got me free admission to the tamed down waterpark, a themed children&#39;s suite with bunkbeds and all their meals included,&amp;nbsp;in exchange for 4 more days of authentic adventure,&amp;nbsp;learning and history&amp;nbsp;in Devil&#39;s Lake State Park. After we leave Madison (a great place in it&#39;s own right),&amp;nbsp;via Route 113, where we&#39;ll cross Lake Wisconsin / Wisconsin River&amp;nbsp;on the Merrimac Car Ferry, the Colsac III &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.dot.wisconsin.gov/travel/water/merrimac-history.htm&quot;&gt;http://www.dot.wisconsin.gov/travel/water/merrimac-history.htm&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;( it and it&#39;s predecessors have&amp;nbsp;carried people across the river&amp;nbsp;since 1844), we&#39;ll spend our time camping, hiking, swimming&amp;nbsp;and exploring one of the most&amp;nbsp;unique geologically, ecologically&amp;nbsp;and biologically diverse&amp;nbsp;areas in our region, if not our nation.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Did you know that there&amp;nbsp;are thriving numbers of&amp;nbsp;Black Bears, or that there are&amp;nbsp;even&amp;nbsp;Rattlesnakes and some of the country&#39;s best Rock Climbing&amp;nbsp;and Bouldering all&amp;nbsp;within 3 hours drive of Chicago? I bet not, but my kids have already&amp;nbsp;started to learn about it, and in a few weeks, will get to experience it-even if my&amp;nbsp;wise and safety-orientated&amp;nbsp;10-year old daughter rightly&amp;nbsp;questions my logic that includes&amp;nbsp;taking children to&amp;nbsp;such dangerous environs.&amp;nbsp;We&#39;ll sleep in an authentic plains&amp;nbsp;style Tepee,&amp;nbsp;learn about the forces of the last Ice Age and swim&amp;nbsp;on&amp;nbsp;a near pristine&amp;nbsp;beach and in a&amp;nbsp;lake&amp;nbsp;with real sand and&amp;nbsp;fish, not plastic tubes and fake palm trees.&amp;nbsp;Sure, I&#39;ll probably give in and take them to Circus World (historically important, by the way)&amp;nbsp;and even spend some time in the tourist trap called Wisconsin&amp;nbsp;Dells (less the 30 minutes from Devil&#39;s Lake), but I guarantee what my kids remember most will be the&amp;nbsp;life-lessons and&amp;nbsp;things they&amp;nbsp;experience&amp;nbsp;in&amp;nbsp;the great outdoors.&lt;br /&gt;
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There are so many natural wonders and encounters&amp;nbsp;to be had for a lot less then you&#39;ll spend at Great America, Crystal Cove or Grizzley Jack&#39;s Water Resorts all within&amp;nbsp;a few hours of Chicago (or any metropolitan area)&amp;nbsp;that it would be a complete and total&amp;nbsp;shame not to&amp;nbsp;take advantage of true summer fun and indelible lifelong learning experiences. If you&#39;re not ready to give up the mega-park addiction,&amp;nbsp;try to balance it&amp;nbsp;with, at minimum,&amp;nbsp;a day trip to encounter&amp;nbsp;at least one natural, historic or geological site on your next road&amp;nbsp;trip. &lt;br /&gt;
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I wonder if I&amp;nbsp;can convince my Little Princess&amp;nbsp;and Mickey-loving&amp;nbsp;6-year old daughter&amp;nbsp;to eschew her dreams of Disney World for a trip to the Everglades?&amp;nbsp;My son&amp;nbsp;is already down with the idea...are you? &lt;br /&gt;
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In chapter one, the author explains in great depth the achievement gap. Defining the specifics and putting light on a very ironic twist of the American Dream, he sets the tone for the impassioned wake-up call that is to follow. People from around the world have come to America in droves because of the perceived educational and socioeconomic opportunities they believe exist in our home of the brave and land of the free, only to come to a place where many of its current citizens have been failed by it schools. In stark contrast to the American Dream scenario is a situation that sees a highly segregated and, for many, an ineffectual educational system, where the remnants of deeply seeded racism and social inequality still leave deeps cut across the carotid artery of the American soul. Moreover, Howard is able to succinctly disaggregate data, and gives meaningful context to the historical and socioeconomic aspects that characterize the achievement gap. Further still, he looks at the unsettling information found in the NAEP or as it is often called the “Nation’s report card,” which paints a bleak picture of the more than two decade trend showing that “persistent gaps have existed in the education outcomes of White and certain Asian American students in comparison to their African American, Latino, and Native American counterparts across several important indicators of school success” (Howard, 2010, p. 14). What becomes clear is that the effects of generations of overt racism followed by decades of an unintentional, subtle and perhaps, more insidious form of discrimination, have left our nation with an ever-widening achievement gap; an educational abscess, which continues to fester, and as it grows deeper, it becomes a more acute and malignant malady.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
However, as with most illnesses, even the most debilitating, there are a variety of treatments that can be applied to the issue. Like a highly skilled surgeon, in chapter two, Howard thoroughly assesses his patient and uses that information to develop a course of action. What he discovers is a country rapidly changing as it grows older, and despite its earlier incarnation as a mostly Eurocentric and protestant nation, it is becoming a country where its non-white population will no longer be in the majority. An explosion in the population growth of its Latino citizens (and non-citizens) has implications for the long term health of not only America’s disadvantaged and poor population, but for the well-being of the very teachers, most of whom are white, and entrusted with educating its disparate citizens, even as they may lack the cultural skills and understanding to do so effectively. The primary challenge for educators is that they must adapt to a growing and collectively more diverse student body, for which they have already shown a failure to effectively educate. This conundrum calls for a restructuring of educational theories, practices and policies, but the question remains: can a system with deeply entrenched beliefs and a certain level of system-wide complacency be inspired, or even prodded slowly toward the change that, even the most staunchly and unapologetically ingrained amongst us must admit, is crucial, especially if we are to compete in the ever growing and competitive global marketplace. The reality is undeniable and it calls for an immediate response to address these cultural, racial and social inequalities that continue to cripple us as a nation. Yet, and still, there is hope for a more equitable and functional future through a sincere belief in multicultural education and authentic reform, which addresses the entire spectrum and is wide in scope and focus.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
While, on many levels, most educators have good intentions and are well-meaning, they are often handicapped by their own theoretical backgrounds and traditional assumptions regarding culture and how it applies to pedagogy. In chapters 3 and 4, Howard provides a new and more applicable definition of culture, which he describes as far more complex than the narrow and simplistic version most educators have conceptualized. He goes on to describe applicable and germane practices that can be utilized to provide more meaningful instructional outcomes for all students as educators struggle to close the achievement gap. “To do so, we also must examine our own cultural frameworks and recognize that our own ways of being are not necessarily shared and embraced by others: ‘Even without being immersed in another cultural system, comparisons of cultural ways may create discomfort among people who have never before considered assumptions of their own cultural practices’” (Howard, 2010, p. 16; Rogoff, 2003, p.14). This simple, but direct reality, is perhaps, the best and most powerful section of Howard’s book because it asks educators to take account of their own culture, biases and to turn their pedagogical approach toward their students into a student centered paradigm, rather than from within their own internal realities and typical, yet antiquated teacher-centered instructional methods. Howard advises that for those of us concerned about this educational malapropos, we should gain a strong grasp of “culturally responsive pedagogy” and improve our knowledge and skills to more deeply engage our students in meaningful and culturally relevant instruction. “Culturally responsive pedagogy embodies a professional, political, cultural, ethical and ideological disposition that supersedes mundane teaching acts; it is centered in fundamental beliefs about teaching, learning, students, their families, and their communities, and an unyielding commitment to see student success to become less rhetoric and more of a reality” (Howard, 2010, p. 67). The reality is that for widespread closing of the achievement gap, successful programs, initiatives and even single lessons must be replicated and shared on a grand scale.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
What of race? Does it still play a part in educational outcomes? How can it be addressed and move beyond its status as the White Elephant in the room no one apparently sees? In chapter 5, Howard looks at this highly loaded and delicate topic, and, in recounting the works of W.E.B. DuBois and the equally significant Cornell West, tells us that indeed race still matters, saying, “a plethora of scholars, philosophers, researchers, and practitioners have lamented the way in which we talk (and do not talk) about race and its manifestations in our everyday lives” (2010, p. 91). Certainly, the issue of race is always lurking near the surface, waiting to rear its ugly head at a&amp;nbsp; moment’s notice, yet many people seem unwilling or even afraid to mention it, like a an ostrich sticking it’s head in the sand to avoid a prowling predator. Needless to say, if nothing is done to avert the danger, our nation like the unwitting ostrich will be consumed by the vicious animal typified by: hate, uneasiness and or simple ignorance. Some educators proudly espouse their “colorblind” approach to teaching, while others hold fast in their paternalistic ideologies that float in the murky waters of unintentional racism as they dummy down curriculum and feign pity on their students of color. While neither is overtly racist, both are highly injurious and continue to widen the achievement gap. This often passive ignorance of why race matters is an endemic and insidious issue that needs to be burned out through its core, otherwise it will lead to a place where “educators [continue to] ignore race or adapt colorblind approaches, while failing to realize that the greater avoidance of the topic denies students an essential part of their being, and only increases the likelihood of race becoming an explosive topic” (Howard, 2010, p.100). As Howard so eloquently shows in some of his most qualitative research, race matters, it matters and is uniquely and significantly real and painful for many of today’s students of color. He calls for us to move toward what he calls a post-racial paradigm where the economic, social and historical implications of racism are taken into account and openly discussed in a less opaque place, eliminating much of the uncertainty, trepidation and disagreement that currently keep our heads collectively stuck in the sands of racial disharmony.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The second to last chapter, entitled &lt;i&gt;“Developing Cultural Competence and Racial Awareness in Classroom Teachers&lt;/i&gt; is one of the most applicable chapter in the entire book. In it, Howard (2010) keenly looks at how to help educators, both the newly initiated and the grizzled veterans, to obtain, develop and broaden their existing cultural understanding, competence and racial awareness, which he sees as critical for teaching in today’s pluralistic and diverse schools. In the end, he details very specifically the requisite tools that all educators, and those seeking to improve the educational circumstances in our nation, need, if we are to close the achievement gap in any real and meaningful way. Simply put, he gives us the recipe to successfully “acquire the skills, knowledge, and dispositions needed to become effective teachers and researchers in multicultural classrooms,” (p.112) and to become more productive and egalitarian citizens, who seek an authentic leveling of the socioeconomic and racial playing field. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In the final chapter of Howard’s (2010) tome, he provides four cases where the achievement gap has been reduced significantly through the diligent efforts of school leaders, teachers, parents and most importantly, students. He identified five important themes that he found to be the most predominant in the success he witnessed in the mostly low-income schools of color he studied over a 3 year period. As a result of their efforts, these schools broke the demoralizing trend and narrowed the so-called achievement gap found in similar schools nationwide. Upon further review, Howard (2010) found the following practices and beliefs systems most essential to their miraculous success: “(1) visionary leadership, (2) teachers’ effective practices, (3) intensive academic support, (4) the acknowledgement of race, and (5) parental and community engagement” (p. 130). The significance of visionary leaders can’t be understated, and is, perhaps, the most important aspect of eliminating the academic deficits found in too many of our nation’s schools.&amp;nbsp; These leaders show an unbending belief in their student’s and work hard to dispel the naysayers and disbelievers, but perhaps their greatest skill is their ability to exemplify the effort it takes to succeed, and the high standards that must be set on a continuous and inflexible basis. They improved all areas of the school from staff, instructional services to the building itself, which, collectively added together, inspired pride and confidence in all of those who had a stake in the success of the school.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Improving and creating effective instructional practices, is the most obvious, yet most enduring factor leading to the success of these underdog schools. In these schools, “teachers spent more time on task in classrooms; there were few interruptions, distractions and disrupting of instructional time. The teachers had effective management practices, appeared to build classroom community, were able to multitask effortlessly, and had multiple ways of assessing students” (Howard, 2010, p.137). Beyond that, rigor was evident and accelerated learning was more common than remediation and re-teaching, but perhaps, most importantly, teachers in these schools brought out a sense of competency, self-belief and a strong understanding of their students’ backgrounds and held themselves accountable for the success of their students. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
While rigor and high expectations are par for the course at these schools, they also have established a commitment to their at-risk students by developing intensive academic interventions and enrichment opportunities for them. Moreover, the staff at these schools provided the spaces and places for enrichment to occur in a proactive and transformational way. Furthermore, an explicit acknowledgement of race and its subsequent implications were common at these schools, and were discussed openly and comfortably across the staff, community and student body. Lastly, and particularly significant for me, a crucial facet that is often missing in many of our most underperforming schools was the significant role played by parents and even the community at-large. Parents at these schools were treated as equal partners in, rather than as obstacles to the success of their children. Both parents and community partners were made to feel welcomed and integral parts in the achievement of the students and schools, and were actively and thoughtfully engaged in the process of building an atmosphere of success.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
In the final section of the book, Howard calls for our national leadership and ordinary citizenry to look with a critical eye toward our so-called democratic ideals and the inequality that still pervades in many disparate parts of our country. Do we truly believe in our ideals and are we “committed to providing all students a first-rate, rigorous, humanistic, culturally and socially responsive education that will allow them to compete in a technological age and global society” (Howard, 2010, p.149)? The answer to that important and enduring question still remains to be answered, but, as Howard believes, because “our collective fates” depend on the success and growth of all of our nation’s children, that important transformation can happen through the efforts and support of our country’s last and greatest line of defense: its educators.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;Body&quot; style=&quot;text-align: justify;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
I have clearly identified the strength and positive aspects in the author’s ideas and supported them throughout. Nevertheless, I did find one negative aspect in his otherwise masterful work: while he clearly identified the 5 primary qualities that can lead to the elimination of the achievement gap, I was left wondering, what about the schools and communities where abject realities dictate otherwise. What of the schools that lack inspired and visionary leadership, or where parental and community apathy outweigh the engaged and supportive constituents? All the same, Howard’s (2010) work was truly enlightened and proactive in its tenor. Of particular merit and usefulness were his chapters describing the nature of cultural understanding as it has been interpreted and his conception of a better and cultural responsive pedagogy, and also his chapter on why race still matter, and as he states, “to give readers a better understanding of how racial ideas, beliefs, and attitudes continue to influence educational practices” (p. 5) was particularly pertinent. Perhaps, the most applicable chapter for initiating a diverse curriculum in any educational organization was his last. Howard (2010) provides very explicitly five core principles that can be implemented immediately to create what he says Dr Martin Luther King (1967) referred to as “the fierce urgency of now” (p.130). Simply put, this is the most significant lesson from the entire work:&amp;nbsp; something drastic must be done immediately then ardently believed in, if we are to swiftly and irrevocably close the achievement gap.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/7490216166838071041/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/book-review-why-race-and-culture-matter.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/7490216166838071041'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/7490216166838071041'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/book-review-why-race-and-culture-matter.html' title='Book Review: Why Race and Culture Matter in Schools: Closing the Achievement Gap in America’s Classrooms.'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-8763256291155217872</id><published>2011-05-10T13:40:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-10T13:41:08.959-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Projects on Regions of the United States | eHow.com</title><content type='html'>Here is a special post from my work at ehow.com , just for social studies teachers...enjoy!&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ehow.com/info_8354565_projects-regions-united-states.html?sms_ss=blogger&amp;amp;at_xt=4dc9864e4659b54c%2C0&quot;&gt;Projects on Regions of the United States | eHow.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/8763256291155217872/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/projects-on-regions-of-united-states.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8763256291155217872'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/8763256291155217872'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/projects-on-regions-of-united-states.html' title='Projects on Regions of the United States | eHow.com'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-6273810119728877995</id><published>2011-05-10T10:40:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-10T10:41:43.040-05:00</updated><title type='text'>How to Get a MS Certification for a Nurse Aide | eHow.com</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://img.ehowcdn.com/article-page-main/ehow-uk/images/a07/vo/0i/ms-certification-nurse-aide-800x800.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; src=&quot;http://img.ehowcdn.com/article-page-main/ehow-uk/images/a07/vo/0i/ms-certification-nurse-aide-800x800.jpg&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Read my latest article from ehow.com and look for other interesting educational, coaching and career posts from my work with ehow.com , plus material exclusively found on my blog.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ehow.com/how_8380434_ms-certification-nurse-aide.html?sms_ss=blogger&amp;amp;at_xt=4dc95a880bb48ca2%2C0&quot;&gt;How to Get a MS Certification for a Nurse Aide | eHow.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/6273810119728877995/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/how-to-get-ms-certification-for-nurse.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/6273810119728877995'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/6273810119728877995'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/how-to-get-ms-certification-for-nurse.html' title='How to Get a MS Certification for a Nurse Aide | eHow.com'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-677904955193278765</id><published>2011-05-03T22:57:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-04T21:48:31.307-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Saving the Dinosaur: Adapting Your Conception of Education to Meet the Flip, Part Three</title><content type='html'>If you decided to stick with me through the first two parts of my diatribe on the need for a more appropriate and effective use of technology in education as it exists today, I&#39;ll assume you&#39;re with me and believe that best practice teaching must include sound, creative and thoughtfully implemented technology. The simple fact is that today&#39;s student is ingrained with an innate ability and natural inclination for technology that makes it almost inexcusable for a teacher to dismiss its relevance or use it simply to computerize traditional strategies.&lt;br /&gt;
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As Professor Andy Berning discusses in his Appropriate Use of Technology in Education blog,&amp;nbsp; the ultimate goal of effectively incorporating technology into your lessons, and, in a larger sense, your school or district, is to bring added value. As he writes, &quot;Value means that the innovations in question brings something to the  process that was not previously there.Value means pushing beyond  computerizing the status quo (cramming) and discovering what new  dimensions technology can bring.&quot; Essentially, what he&#39;s saying to us is this: Don&#39;t put your old lecture notes into a power point, or have your students look up definitions online at dictionary.com, and claim to be on the cutting-edge. Use technology to energize, invigorate and optimize your lessons and schools, not to make yourself feel better by making token efforts every once in a while. Don&#39;t be that teacher...you know,&amp;nbsp; the one the younger teachers make fun of&amp;nbsp; because of their continued use of the funny blue-inked mimeographs from 1985 that they borrowed from the Fast Times at Ridgemont High&amp;nbsp; teachers companion guide. Nice going, Mr. Hand.&lt;br /&gt;
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Okay, to be frank, I abhor preachy &quot;know-it-alls&quot; who stand on their soapboxes complaining and finding fault, but never providing solutions or answers that address the problems they so vehemently object to. So, with that being the case, and not wanting to be a blithering hypocrite, I&#39;ll shut up and try to provide some solutions.&lt;br /&gt;
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Perhaps, at least in my mind, the most powerful strategy for implementing technology is the&lt;b&gt; use&lt;/b&gt; of &lt;b&gt;Asynchronous communication&lt;/b&gt;, or time-delayed learning&amp;nbsp; that allows students and teachers to interact at various points in time and locales in a more responsive and efficient method than simple face to face exchanges. Research shows that &lt;b&gt;Emails, text-massaging, blogs, and computer conferencing&lt;/b&gt; have increased total communication and for many non-traditional students it is a &quot;safer,&quot; and more convenient way to interact, and for teachers, it enables them to teach far more content and reach many more students than they could otherwise accomplish.&lt;br /&gt;
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Researchers, Arthur Chickering and Stephen Ehrmann suggest that &quot;Good learning, like good     work, is collaborative and social, not competitive and isolated. Working with others often     increases involvement in learning. Sharing one’s ideas and responding to others’     improves thinking and deepens understanding.&quot; Enter technology, again. &lt;b&gt;Creating a class Wiki&lt;/b&gt;, or a web page where users-students in this case-can add and edit content collectively, is an exciting and powerful tool that ensures collaboration, shared learning and a feeling of collective ownership and pride. Check out&amp;nbsp; &lt;a href=&quot;http://pbworks.com/content/edu+features?utm_campaign=nav-tracking&amp;amp;utm_source=Top%20navigation&quot;&gt;the PBWorks&lt;/a&gt; website to set-up and create free wiki pages and get tutorials, templates and examples of  what other educator&#39;s have done with this exciting Web 2.O technology.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Use technology that activates learning and engages the student&lt;/b&gt;. Options include simulation software that allows students to utilize real world tools in a safe environment. Think about using non-computer technologies to create apprentice like scenarios where students utilize various tools to create work. For example, a science teacher teaching about sound waves, could have her students design a transistor radio or even a simple amplification system. Such use of real world tools and instruments engages the students and brings the content (sound waves) to life, providing a deeper level of meaning that theory alone almost always misses.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Use technology to provide feedback more efficiently&lt;/b&gt;, Technology that lets students spend more time on task and increase their and your own efficiency. The examples are too numerous to mention, but think about the software programs and applications that are meant to optimize time and production. &lt;br /&gt;
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Learning that is social has shown positive impacts on student achievement. God forbid, but consider utilizing social media sites under controlled conditions. Instead of letting student cell phone use frustrate you, embrace it as a productivity tool..Twitter, facebook and myspace are tools, not the devil&#39;s playground. Certainly, even computers, calculators and books have all at one point in time been looked upon just as capriciously, but when&amp;nbsp; regulated with appropriate use guidelines and consequences for inappropriate use, those tools, like social media now, can and do provide endless educational rewards.&lt;br /&gt;
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Hopefully, I&#39;ve given some useful solutions, and maybe even provided some food for thought, but most importantly, I&#39;ve shown that if you haven&#39;t made the technology flip yet, you are running the risk of becoming a dinosaur, whose existence is doomed by a stubborn inability to adapt to changing conditions. My research, readings and own personal observations lead me to believe that a major change in how we approach, distribute and evaluate education is coming within the next 3-5 years. My prediction is that though teachers will always be important, their role will change from instructors, who direct from the front of teacher-centric classrooms to facilitators and content consultants providing expertise on the side of a new student-centric model.&lt;br /&gt;
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Safe travels my hardy cyber-friends. It&#39;s a brave new world, and a world without dinosaurs.&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/677904955193278765/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/saving-dinosaur-adapting-your.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/677904955193278765'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/677904955193278765'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/05/saving-dinosaur-adapting-your.html' title='Saving the Dinosaur: Adapting Your Conception of Education to Meet the Flip, Part Three'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-4833380641627252875</id><published>2011-04-25T00:59:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-04-25T00:59:25.577-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Saving the Dinosaur: Adapting Your Conception of Education to Meet the Flip, Part Two.</title><content type='html'>Recent studies indicate that a flip is coming that will transform education. According to Dr. Andrew Berning&#39;s research on the appropriate use of technology in education at the University of Texas-Arlington, &quot;Ninety-six percent (96%) of U.S. students ages 9 to 17 who have Internet access use social-networking technology to connect with their peers. Nearly sixty percent (60%) of these students report discussing education-related topics online, such as college or college planning, learning outside of school, and careers.&quot; Further still, a study done by Dr. Robert Marzano found that student achievement was improved by a stunning 16% when technology was incorporated into teacher lesson plans. Researchers from South Dakota State, Penn State and Lock Haven University found that social media sites like Twitter can increase student engagement and improve their grades substantially (see http://www.sdstate.edu/news/articles/twitterresearch.cfm ). According to researcher Ray Junco, &quot;It was clear that students were highly engaged with us and with each  other on Twitter and that had a significant effect on their overall  academic success,&quot; which begs the question, why are such tools so frequently besmirched by educators?&lt;br /&gt;
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What can technology do for students and teachers?&amp;nbsp; According to Berning&#39;s blog, Appropriate Use of Technology in Education:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;1.Technology can increase achievement.&lt;br /&gt;
2.Technology can facilitate creativity.&lt;br /&gt;
3.Technology can bring relevance and creativity into the learning environment.&lt;br /&gt;
4.Technology can facilitate experiences too expensive or too dangerous to do in real time.&lt;br /&gt;
5.Technology can offer alternative means for students to demonstrate what they know.&lt;br /&gt;
6.Technology can individualize and personalize instruction.&lt;br /&gt;
7.Technology can increase productivity for staff and students.&lt;br /&gt;
8.Technology can prepare students for a digital workplace and economy.&lt;br /&gt;
9.Technology can increase communication between educators and stakeholders in the community.&lt;br /&gt;
10.Technology can facilitate data driven decisions.&lt;br /&gt;
11.Technology can increase retention and decrease dropouts.&lt;br /&gt;
12.Technology can increase achievement.&lt;br /&gt;
13.Technology can facilitate creativity.&lt;br /&gt;
14.Technology can bring relevance and creativity into the learning environment.&lt;br /&gt;
15.Technology can facilitate experiences too expensive or too dangerous to do in real time.&lt;br /&gt;
16.Technology can offer alternative means for students to demonstrate what they know.&lt;br /&gt;
17.Technology can individualize and personalize instruction.&lt;br /&gt;
18.Technology can increase productivity for staff and students.&lt;br /&gt;
19.Technology can prepare students for a digital workplace and economy.&lt;br /&gt;
20.Technology can increase communication between educators and stakeholders in the community.&lt;br /&gt;
21.Technology can increase retention and decrease dropouts.&lt;br /&gt;
22. Technology can Level the Playing Field&amp;nbsp;-- Adaptive/Assistive&lt;br /&gt;
23. Technology can Provide Opportunity to Advance for gifted/accelerated learning.&lt;br /&gt;
24. Technology can allow Differentiation and student centered learning&lt;br /&gt;
25. Technology can allow students to control pace of learning&lt;br /&gt;
26. Technology can allow Social Learning&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt; 27. Technology can provide Instant Access to Information&lt;br /&gt;
28. Technology allows for alternative structures of teaching e.g. Master teacher, teacher aid, master lecturer etc.&lt;br /&gt;
29. Technology can allow better communications/feedback &amp;nbsp;with parents and stakeholders&lt;br /&gt;
30. Technology can provide access to Unserved and Non Consumers&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt; 31.  Technology Lower the Barrier to Entry for Publishing --Anyone can publish&lt;br /&gt;
32. Technology can allow educators to implement gaming and other modern forms of learning.&lt;br /&gt;
33. Technology can Manage large numbers of learners&lt;br /&gt;
34. Technology can adapt to learning style&lt;br /&gt;
35. Technology can make serve 24/7/365&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Dr Andrew Berning&#39;s blog can be found at http://appropriateuse.blogspot.com/2011/03/review-module-three-introduce-module.html&lt;br /&gt;
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Coming in Part Three: Best practices for adapting your lessons to incorporate technology and my prediction about where I see education going in the next few years...&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/4833380641627252875/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/04/saving-dinosaur-adapting-your.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/4833380641627252875'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/4833380641627252875'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/04/saving-dinosaur-adapting-your.html' title='Saving the Dinosaur: Adapting Your Conception of Education to Meet the Flip, Part Two.'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-5776525540854906252</id><published>2011-03-31T00:21:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-05-20T21:24:46.031-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Saving the Dinosaur: Adapting Your Conception of Education to Meet the Flip</title><content type='html'>Visualize a monolithic and inflexible system in which the user is unable to penetrate the structure or even bend the framework. If you&#39;ve got a vision of&amp;nbsp; a caveman trapped in a box canyon without a rope or even a rudimentary stone hammer to chip away at the canyon walls, then you&#39;ve seen the peril that too many American school children face.&lt;br /&gt;
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The current model of American Education is like a dinosaur that will inevitably be forced to change or die like the triceratops, stegosaurus and tyrannosaurus 65 million years before. Some folks argue whether it was an impact event, or a failure to adapt to changing conditions that led to the demise of our paleolithic predecessors, but unless we are struck with a meteor of catastrophic proportions in the next few years, it will be our failure to recognize and adapt to the changing conditions so ever-present in the world around us. While educational reformers yap about this and that, and blather away about standards-based learning, academic rigor and other educational psychobabble, the simple truth is that nothing will really have a meaningful impact until we realize that the conditions for learning have changed, and students are bored by our current monolithic, teacher-centered cookie-cutter system.&lt;br /&gt;
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While we waste our precious time playing the political shell-game trying to stay one-step ahead of big-brother, and the achievement score police, who keep making standardized testing companies like ACT rich as the pockets of sleaze-ball politicos get fuller, we&#39;re allowing American education to die on the vine. Sadly, as we continue to bore students with ACT prep-driven instruction, and retest after practice retest them into zombie-like creatures, we continue to prohibit the very tools that students do their most effective learning with. How ironic is it that most students process and retain more information from their cell phones, MP3 players and other devices, which bring the world to them via YouTube, social media sites like Twitter and countless other highly adaptable and individualized technologies then they learned in school last year?&lt;br /&gt;
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Have I angered you, yet? Sorry, but be angry; then realize that the conditions have changed, or to put it in educational psychobabble, the paradigm has shifted, and if you want to exist, you&#39;ll need to adapt. That means allowing kids to use their I pads, wikis and facebook to learn; it&#39;s what they do best. It means changing the way you do things in your class, and realizing it&#39;s about your students not you. It means accepting that the best tools for instruction are tools that your students are, most-likely,&amp;nbsp; more proficient with than you. It means that you have to actually use technology to create project-based 21st century global lessons, instead of using that fancy new whiteboard to replace the blackboard, or merely putting your notes into a simple power point or using the computer lab so that kids can utilize Microsoft Word. While those are all fine tools, you are basically using technology to replace the status quo, as University of Texas at Arlington Professor Andrew Berning has coined, which is at least a step, but understand for all intents and purposes you are still doing the same thing you&#39;ve always done. Challenge yourself to learn about Web 2.O, cloud computing or an even fresher technology, and as you do, realize the benefits of those tools as you&#39;re asked to differentiate and individualize instruction.&lt;br /&gt;
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But where is the evidence for the claims I&#39;ve made, and what are some of the best&amp;nbsp; practices for adapting your current methods?&lt;br /&gt;
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Check back later, for part two of Saving the Dinosaur: Adapting Your Conception of Education to Meet the Flip to find those answers, and see my prediction about where education is going in the next few years. In the meantime, check out the link below for a little precursor:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://educationtechnews.com/tech-tool-boosts-learning-study-confirms/&quot;&gt;Tech tool boosts learning, study confirms&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/5776525540854906252/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/saving-dinosaur-adapting-your.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/5776525540854906252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/5776525540854906252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/saving-dinosaur-adapting-your.html' title='Saving the Dinosaur: Adapting Your Conception of Education to Meet the Flip'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-7635627318302456867</id><published>2011-03-25T23:53:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2011-03-27T23:35:50.129-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Replacing Grandma&#39;s Cheesecake: So, What&#39;s the Issue  with Reconfiguring the School-Year.</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;How do you feel about extending the school day and going to a year-long school calendar?&amp;nbsp; Talk about a loaded question. Certainly, there has been a great deal of discourse surrounding this issue, and, of course, nothing seems to touch a cord with Americans as much as when they are asked to change the status quo.&amp;nbsp; We like what we are comfortable with, and that goes even more so with education. We’ve always had a 40 week school year and summers off, so it must be good, right? &amp;nbsp;Maybe, or maybe not, but if recent trends continue, change is coming.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;In spite of those trends, there will continue to be a great deal of debate as some districts and school boards resist, while many others will follow suit with this emerging trend. With that being said, the purpose of this post is to shed a little light on the issue and provide some balance, which I hope informs and allows for each of us to make the best choice for our kids when the question is inevitably raised in our locales.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRMrTcKSikQe4vX2GsbSHagLwuTIJfCcYU4JnkQT4EkCs0iMrY_SA&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;149&quot; src=&quot;http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRMrTcKSikQe4vX2GsbSHagLwuTIJfCcYU4JnkQT4EkCs0iMrY_SA&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Without question, when most people hear “year-round” school, they immediately have a strong reaction one way or the other. One parent wrote, “I would hate it... These kids are burnt out. They need free time to play and have friends ....NO WAY TO LONGER DAYS AND GOING TO SCHOOL ALL YEAR... I ENJOY SPENDING TIME WITH MY KIDS... THE WAY IT IS SOME PEOPLE THINK OF SCHOOL AS A BABY SITTING SERVICE SENDING THE KIDS TO SCHOOL SICK.”&amp;nbsp; Obviously, as the CAPS declare, she has very strong feelings and legitimate concerns, but in reality, a year-round school calendar would still provide the aforementioned kids with extensive free time and still enable them to spend quality time with their family.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Nevertheless, most people immediately envision a schedule that leaves no time for summer vacations and the necessary mental break all students require to be at their best. &amp;nbsp;In spite of those legitimate concerns, the reality is that the year-round model actually keeps kids from burning out and at the same time increases their retention rate, while eliminating the wasted time teachers spend re-teaching concepts that kids lose over the traditional 3 month summer break.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;How is that possible,&amp;nbsp; you say? Interesting that you should ask; so here is the reality of what a typical year-round program looks like: In the most common design, the school year is split into four nine-week terms followed by three-week vacation between each session. &amp;nbsp;So essentially, the sequence is 45 school days followed by 15 days off not including weekends; basically breaking the year into 4 quarters.&amp;nbsp; Other models provide 6 weeks off in the summer with 3 weeks off during the winter (holiday season) and another 3 week break in the spring. &amp;nbsp;Another less popular, but fiscally prudent plan creates a multiple track plan that has the same 9 week quarters, but is divided between 4 groups of students, who have different breaks, so that at any given time only 3 of the 4 groups are in session. This model allows for more students to be taught during the same time period, which in theory would cost less money, and lower the overall class sizes across the curriculum (For more information and an extensive list of data-driven research, see &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ericdigests.org/2001-3/year.htm&quot;&gt;http://www.ericdigests.org/2001-3/year.htm&lt;/a&gt; ).&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;The obvious benefit is that because the grading periods are shorter and the breaks more frequent, the likelihood of burn-out is greatly reduced and therefore, as logic indicates, the absentee rates would also be significantly cut for the same reasons. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Another important factor to consider is that a large majority of teachers, about 60 percent, according to one source (see the aforementioned link), prefer the year-round model. &amp;nbsp;In that vein, a local teacher, and parent, says, “I have thought that with the right calendar, it would be wonderful. The kids would have better retention and with more frequent mini breaks, I think the kids won&#39;t get so burned out this time of year.”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Certainly, as she goes on to say, “As a teacher, I understand contractual issues with extending the school [year] with regards to pay etc., “ but the benefits more than outweigh those minor roadblocks. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
Another veteran teacher explains, “I would be okay with year round. My sister’s kids are year round, they have the same amount of time off; it&#39;s just broken up more though out the year. I think our students would be less burnt out if they had breaks between quarters or longer time between semesters.”&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Of course, not all teachers feel the same way, as witnessed by the comments of one grizzled teacher, who believes that &quot;if the U.S. wants to see our suicide rate double in teens, then go for it. Summer break is needed for students and faculty to recharge themselves and to learn effectively. It&#39;s not like a Corporate America job where you can hide in your cubicle for a day and &quot;recharge&quot; - there are no hiding spots in a classroom!”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;While not everyone agrees about lengthening the school year, it is fair to say that the model as witnessed in competitively driven countries like Japan, does lead to higher youth suicide rates and more of the typically adult-onset health issues like ulcers and other stress-related maladies. However, the model we’d most likely see in the U.S. would assuage those undeniably valid concerns.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Perhaps, the best answer is somewhere in the middle: As a young, but gifted teacher writes, even as he opposes the notion of year-round school, “First, I believe the school day should not be lengthened, nor should the school year. The breaks should remain the same in dur&lt;span class=&quot;textexposedshow&quot;&gt;ation, but be spread apart more. We are no longer an agrarian/agricultural area that needs free labor in the summer and early fall. These kids can&#39;t afford to forget the precious information they learn in school in an age where that is true wealth: knowledge and skill sets that are marketable.&lt;/span&gt;”&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;textexposedshow&quot;&gt;In spite of this uneasy dichotomy of opinion that surrounds this contentious issue, I have an uncanny feeling that much of the resistance really comes down to our emotional and psychologically conservative nature, which causes many of us to hold tight to what we know and have been accustomed to. Change is an uncomfortable thing, but is often the very element that leads to meaningful growth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://images.fanpop.com/images/image_uploads/cheesecake-cheesecake-296643_600_478.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;158&quot; src=&quot;http://images.fanpop.com/images/image_uploads/cheesecake-cheesecake-296643_600_478.jpg&quot; width=&quot;200&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Yet, to be fair, sometimes it does make sense to keep things the way they are, and granted, like the traditional school year, your Grandma’s cheesecake recipe has worked for 3 generations-so why would we want to change it? More than likely, we’d leave the recipe the way it was. It tasted great back in the 1930s and it still tastes good today, but sometimes other factors alter the paradigm and it becomes imperative to reevaluate the process by which we make our cheesecake. Certainly, we need to look at the underlying reasons we do anything, then, at the same time, consider if technology or other relevant variables have changed the equation.&amp;nbsp; Sometimes, as difficult as it may be, we need to let go of tradition, especially if we find a better or more effective way to do something.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;Consider for a moment that Grandma’s recipe calls for ingredients that were perfectly fine in the 1950s, but a recent study proves that one of those main ingredients causes lung cancer or some other equally heinous affliction. While I certainly love Grandma’s cheesecake, as a parent, I’d have to strongly consider finding a different recipe that was safe for my family to consume, and despite my yearnings for Grandma’s delicious recipe, I’d do so with the primary determinant being what was best for them. Unquestionably, when we evaluate our feelings about going to a year-long school calendar, we must analyze all the factors and then, above all else, decide with our primary motivation being what is in the best interest of our children; even if that means breaking with tradition.&lt;br /&gt;
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And really...isn&#39;t Eli&#39;s Double Chocolate Chip Cheesecake every bit as good, if not better than, your Grandma&#39;s cheesecake?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/7635627318302456867/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/replacing-grandmas-cheesecake-so-whats.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/7635627318302456867'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/7635627318302456867'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/replacing-grandmas-cheesecake-so-whats.html' title='Replacing Grandma&#39;s Cheesecake: So, What&#39;s the Issue  with Reconfiguring the School-Year.'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-5567909454035429631</id><published>2011-03-20T03:06:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-03-23T22:05:55.210-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Are You a Helicopter Parent?</title><content type='html'>How much control should parents have in directing their child&#39;s life? It&#39;s a matter of perspective,&amp;nbsp;I suppose, but certainly when parents control every decision, choice or option, they are crippling, and, in all actuality,&amp;nbsp;retarding their child&#39;s growth. Do you support and guide your children from the side, or do you control their every move like a maniacal puppet master? The answer to that question has serious implications for your children.&lt;br /&gt;
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Unfortunately, the competitive nature of our society has pushed parents into an unrealistic fear that if they don&#39;t make every decision for their kid, they may miss an opportunity, or fail to move to the top of&amp;nbsp; the mythical, yet non-existent leader board of life. In reality, kids need space to fail, to make mistakes and to take responsibility for fixing their errors.&amp;nbsp;Learning to overcome mistakes is one of the most powerful gifts we can bestow upon our children. Nevertheless, and with that being said, I certainly understand the innate and undeniable need to provide our children every possible advantage and to protect them from the inevitable missteps that&amp;nbsp;ever adolescent takes.&amp;nbsp;Yet,&amp;nbsp;we must resist the natural tendency to&amp;nbsp;give our kids the best of everything and&amp;nbsp;deny our well-intended desire to save them from having to deal with hardships. Sometimes, the best lesson they can learn is&amp;nbsp;what it&#39;s like to struggle a little, to know difficult times and to feel the pain of accepting the consequences of their actions, even if those consequences may occasionally set them back a step or two on the road to adulthood.&lt;iframe align=&quot;left&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; marginheight=&quot;0&quot; marginwidth=&quot;0&quot; scrolling=&quot;no&quot; src=&quot;http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=thesch08-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=bpl&amp;amp;asins=0814758533&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr&quot; style=&quot;height: 245px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 5px; width: 131px;&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Sadly, many well-meaning parents have pushed their love too far, and&amp;nbsp;in doing so, have taken the joy of life&#39;s simplest pleasures&amp;nbsp;from their children. To wit: A young lady, who once loved soccer for its own sake, begins to look at it&amp;nbsp;as a tedious, non-rewarding job. Why?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Because&amp;nbsp;an over-zealous parent pushes her to far in the misguided dream of a&amp;nbsp;scholarship offer. Another child sits in the&amp;nbsp;office of a therapist with a stress-related psychological malady after being pushed to hard academically, and is left feeling anxious.&amp;nbsp;Perhaps, the unintended victim&amp;nbsp;of the unrealistic expectations of an over-involved, goal driven parent. Meanwhile, another young adult is left trembling behind the walls of an apartment they can no longer afford, feeling irresponsible and unable to make logical everyday decisions.&amp;nbsp;Unfortunately,&amp;nbsp;their parents took care of everything important, micro-managed their life and gave&amp;nbsp;them with very few responsibilities&amp;nbsp;up to that point in their life.&lt;br /&gt;
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How do you deal with your child? Do you pay all their bills, make sure they follow up with all of their school-related responsibilities, or ensure that all of their homework has been finished every night? Perhaps, you have filled out a few job applications for them, or signed them up for the ACT or SAT test, or completed all of their college applications...perhaps, you&#39;re a&amp;nbsp; &quot;Helicopter Parent!&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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Despite our paternalistic instincts that say otherwise, the best answer to that question is that we need to give our kids space to grow, to develop basic life-skills&amp;nbsp;and to manage their own responsibilities. Most importantly, parents must demonstrate self-control and restraint when it involves their children.&lt;iframe align=&quot;left&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; marginheight=&quot;0&quot; marginwidth=&quot;0&quot; scrolling=&quot;no&quot; src=&quot;http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=thesch08-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=bpl&amp;amp;asins=0743260775&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr&quot; style=&quot;height: 245px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 5px; width: 131px;&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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But what&amp;nbsp;can parents do without being labeled&amp;nbsp;with the obviously&amp;nbsp;unfavorable &quot;Helicopter&quot; tag?&lt;br /&gt;
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It&#39;s okay, you can go ahead and monitor grades, and step in when there is a problem, but calling the school&amp;nbsp; after every subpar assignment&amp;nbsp;or quiz result is a definite sign that you&#39;re hovering a little too close. Back off and give your child the opportunity to self-correct. How will your child learn to handle the requirements of everyday living, if&amp;nbsp;you&amp;nbsp;take care of&amp;nbsp;everything for them? Observe and guide, rather the control and do...Inspire and motivate, but hesitate when the urge to micro-manage burns in your belly. Beyond all else, accept your child for who they are, don&#39;t compare them to anyone else, and allow them to make mistakes...even&amp;nbsp;the occasional BIG ones.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Their teachers and coaches, future mates, and most importantly,&amp;nbsp;your own children will thank you later.&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/5567909454035429631/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/are-you-helicopter-parent.html#comment-form' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/5567909454035429631'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/5567909454035429631'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/are-you-helicopter-parent.html' title='Are You a Helicopter Parent?'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-6338281160483687527</id><published>2011-03-14T23:47:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2011-03-22T20:20:24.620-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Site of the Week and a Sneak Peak at Future Posts</title><content type='html'>&lt;iframe align=&quot;left&quot; frameborder=&quot;0&quot; marginheight=&quot;0&quot; marginwidth=&quot;0&quot; scrolling=&quot;no&quot; src=&quot;http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=thesch08-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=bpl&amp;amp;asins=0880117869&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr&quot; style=&quot;height: 245px; padding-right: 10px; padding-top: 5px; width: 131px;&quot;&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;Check out this really great initiative from the AdCouncil and the USOC, then&amp;nbsp;encourage you kids and&amp;nbsp;teams to play asterisk free by clicking &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.playasteriskfree.com/&quot;&gt;http://www.playasteriskfree.com/&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;color: blue; font-size: large;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;Look for&amp;nbsp;upcoming features on &quot;Helicopter&quot; Parenting,&amp;nbsp;a look at the recent call for extended school days and year long schools, and my bold prediction about where technology will take education in the next ten years...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style=&quot;color: blue; font-size: large;&quot;&gt;Also, be on the lookout for a recap of my trip to the 2011 Connections Conference in St. Charles, Illinois. In the meantime, be sure to check out the following link:&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;blogger-post-footer&quot;&gt;If you like what you&#39;ve read, check out some of the services I offer on www.betterfly.com/gregfoertsch&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/feeds/4366457108011122796/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/colleges-for-nutritionist-major-ehowcom.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/4366457108011122796'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2021507789015844786/posts/default/4366457108011122796'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://theschoolcounselor.blogspot.com/2011/03/colleges-for-nutritionist-major-ehowcom.html' title='Colleges for a Nutritionist Major | eHow.com'/><author><name>The Counselor</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09230851971243438337</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqg_FbBjPri4mQZQm-GlWSXF5O8ChIeMETd4hIA04FOow8e_SHA7-WJh6Ch2z6ajVH9Uk0sGZFTuyBVPM67t4mXK_VTExfe-qF53PoZDq8jswQXSxUZFaeH8f86aBitA/s220/105_0117+%28800x600%29.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021507789015844786.post-1981397190162969073</id><published>2011-03-12T20:23:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2012-01-30T00:12:31.302-06:00</updated><title type='text'>7 Not-So-Secret Secrets to the College Admission and Scholarship Process</title><content type='html'>Whether your student is in 3rd grade, middle school or getting ready to take the ACT this spring, you&#39;ve more than likely wondered if there are any secrets to gaining the favor of college admissions officers and scholarship committees.&lt;br /&gt;
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While it may be obvious that grades are important, and the almighty ACT or SAT tests have traditionally&amp;nbsp; been important determinants, there are other things that can make your student very appealing to even the most selective and discerning schools. A recent trend has witnessed&amp;nbsp; many of the most prestigious schools going to a test-optional admission process. See the fair test website link below for a list of well-over 825 schools that have de-emphasized the standardized test scores or don&#39;t even require them as part of their application criteria.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://fairtest.org/university/optional&quot;&gt;See the searchable listing of schools.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/College-Admissions-Petersons-Guide/dp/1560790180?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=thesch08-20&amp;amp;link_code=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;College Admissions, Peterson&#39;s Guide to (Peterson&#39;s Guide to College Admissions)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;American University&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Arizona State&amp;nbsp; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;UCLA&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Knox College&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;DePaul (recently announced a move to test-optional admissions)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Kansas State&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;University of Iowa&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;George Mason University&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Rollins&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Wake Forest University&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;Truth be told, if you have the money and the willingness to do a little footwork, there&#39;s a school for you, but to attend a more competitive school,&amp;nbsp; students need to develop a strong portfolio, which includes these 7 essential, if-not-so secret secrets:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Life Experience:&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/b&gt;Whether it was a part-time job at the local burger joint, or a family vacation to Europe, students need to take account for the things they&#39;ve experienced and be able to elaborate about them in a way that shows they are well-rounded and have a life beyond the world of academia&lt;b&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Volunteer:&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/b&gt;For the same reasons you need to document other life experiences, it is vital to give back and show a sincere and philanthropic side to your character. From giving blood, to walking for breast cancer or weekly visits to a food pantry or nursing home all&amp;nbsp; those experiences count and need to be documented in a personal statement.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Awards:&lt;/b&gt; &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Keep track of any award and certificates that have been earned. It&#39;s all part of developing a strong admissions resume, and while we all can&#39;t be valedictorians, pretty much anyone can get a CPR certificate or other awards or letters of recognition with minimal effort.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Extra-curricular Activities:&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt; Participate, participate, participate! I recommend joining at least one sport, club or activity per semester, but if possible join one of each. Nothing looks more impressive than a student who plays a sport, joins the band and is part of the literary club. While it may seem to be overly demanding and you might worry about the impact on grades, studies, and many years of experience, show that students who are actively involved in extra-curricular activities actually have higher gpa&#39;s than the general student body.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt; &lt;b&gt;Hobbies: &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &lt;/b&gt;Yes, Virginia, it&#39;s all about selling yourself, and the best way to do that is to show depth of personality. Like a used car salesperson, students need to emphasize their strengths and highlight all of their unique features, while minimizing any&amp;nbsp; weaknesses. Do you sing, paint or crotchet? If it makes you stand out from the rest of the crowd, all the better.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Skills, abilities and interests:&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/b&gt;Human nature being what it is, most people undersell and don&#39;t give themselves credit&amp;nbsp; for the things they do. Can you type 50 w.p.m., or do you know how to create a website, or a blog? Do you belong to amnesty international? Can you speak a little Spanish or are you really organized? Personal attributes, computer skills and even the most basic language skills are all important, so don&#39;t under-value them.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Develop Relationships:&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Develop relationships with people who can positively comment on each of the previous 6 areas. Teachers, counselors, employers, community and religious leaders can really help you by writing a strong letter of recommendation or even putting a call in to the right person. Then, during the application process, make a connection with a college admissions representative and seek out there advice without pestering them. &lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://0.tqn.com/d/collegeapps/1/0/c/2/-/-/UMaryland4_synaethesia_Flickr.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;200&quot; src=&quot;http://0.tqn.com/d/collegeapps/1/0/c/2/-/-/UMaryland4_synaethesia_Flickr.jpg&quot; width=&quot;150&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class=&quot;tr-caption&quot; style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;University of Maryland&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;Build a strong portfolio with each of the 7 aforementioned criteria and you are sure to attract, not only top colleges, but you may even snag a scholarship or two along the way. Most importantly, students need to start the process of building their portfolio early, even as early as the grammar school years, and certainly, they&amp;nbsp; shouldn&#39;t wait for the start of their Senior year. &lt;br /&gt;
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