The (Secret) College Sugar Baby

Cabernet Sauvignon, Ahi Tuna, and Irish Accents

2012-04-05T14:53:00.001-07:00

What can I say about last night! Just wow. Haha!

After working a mid morning shift at work, I hurried home to take a quick cat nap and prep for drinks with Mr. Lucky. The theme of the night ladies was NETWORK NETWORK NETWORK!!

While the sugar lifestyle is fun and exciting, professional relationships can be ignited whether intentionally or unintentionally! (I'll touch more on this later--definitely met a mover and shaker in the executive arena of the NBA.) RANT! Back on track...

I wore a cute peach/flowy New York and Company dress top with a beige shawl, A&F dark wash skinny jeans and some 5 inch no name go-to heels. :)

I was going to press out my natural curls, but I remembered that Mr. Lucky said he liked my natural hair (which is another good reason to have a detailed account of potentials in a Sugar Baby Must Have: A Little Black Book!)

I showed up to the bar (which was GORGE by the by!) and it was PACKED. If you ladies follow me on my SBFB you'll see a few pictures. The bar was indoors but the place to be was on the patio at the front of the establishment. It was like a stage being there! Think fresh-cut Chrysanthemums on every table, cushy over-stuffed cushions and the best Ahi Tuna I have ever had. It had a live musician with a mic and a 6-string who sang all night; it had a country club vibe what with all the Oxfords and Polos. :)

Considering the sporting event that was hosted in my hometown, almost EVERYONE was an out-of-towner. I met men from Switzerland, New York, Kentucky, Pennsylvania, Dublin, and a few other places I cannot remember to save my life!

Prior to even entering, I freaked and called my only "friend" I knew of. She was at work but showed up as my wingman about an hour later. (I say "friend" because lo and behold: she's my manager and we aren't supposed to fraternize outside of work. I love her to death though and initially took a liking to her because she was a natural hair girl as well!)

ANY-who, Mr. Lucky was so cute and looked exactly like his picture! I could have done without the mustache. What is it with these damn mustaches?! BUT he was very kind and of course I get the whole--"are your breasts real?" question so thats always a fun conversation starter!

His friends showed up about 20 minutes later which was PERFECT because my girlfriend popped up minutes after with a bottle of champ to boot! (I swear the sugar goddesses were on my side last night.)
The night carried on with our party mingling with random tourists and singing tacky John Mayer cover songs after my girlfriend stole the microphone from the live singer! I thought management was going to toss us out (of all the patrons there were like 8 brown people sooo we definitely tried our luck!) but they seemed to enjoy the spectacle. I think it kind of beckoned for passerby's to come in and see what the commotion was about!

At around 1 AM, Mr. Lucky and his posse had to leave because they had a reception to go early that morning. I walked him to his waiting car and he kissed my cheek and with his left hand slipped something in my purse. I honestly didn't know if he was trying to pick pocket me or what! Haha!

Turns out there was a nice little wad of cash ($300.00) just for showing him and his friends a good time.

All hail the sugar godesses! Ha! We have plans to meet at a different locale tonight with a few of the people we met last night. I really wished he lived in the States! UGH! Until next time, dolls!

-Viv

New Pot: Mr Lucky & Mr. Busch Update

2012-03-26T17:35:00.000-07:00

Aye, the luck of the Irish!

Okay, enough with the schtick! Ladies, like I mentioned in my post titled "Mr. Mustache & Dubai" I met a potential pot while on a vacation with my current SD. I really didn't expect it to turn into much since he was from Ireland and I, at the time, was from a hunky-dory town in Texas. Funny how things work out because four months later I'm at a different location where I have the PERFECT chance to meet him.

In my current home town there is a week long sporting event that is literally SEETHING with affluent, rich men from around the globe. My pot, appropriately named "Mr. Lucky", has set up a 4-day long arrangement that will bring in $3,500...to little ole me. Yes!

I really wish he lived in the States, but he is married (I know, I know) with a Google-able partnership in a reputable pharmaceuticals distributor in Dublin. He was really straightforward and has a drool worthy accent! His physique?
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Noooot so much!

He wants to do dinner every evening which frees up my days to pursue some IRL sugar with some of the out-of-towners. :)

All in all--a success...SO FAR!

An update on Mr. Busch: We have kept in contact here and there but he hasn't said anything that makes me believe he really wants to pursue an arrangement with me. :/ I think it's because of how young I am in comparison to him, also it doesn't help that I look like a damn 16 year old! UGH! I will keep you girls posted.

Until next time!

-Viv

New Pot: Mr. Busch

2012-03-07T11:08:00.000-08:00

Hello Dolls!

I finally found a pot worth writing about! He says he is 55 but I'm almost sure he is fibbing! He is married and has been for 30+ years. The most striking attribute is that he is a major hitter for Anheuser Bush which allows him to travel to retailers and certain clients around the world. He's is Google-able which almost made me wet myself! Picture and all--it's him!

We met at a nice little eatery 10 minutes away from where I live. When I walked in he looked a little nervous but managed a smile. I can only imagine how people were looking at us--a cute twenty something brown girl sitting with an old white man! AH!

He is not a looker: white hair (all there, thank baby Jesus) with dazzling baby blue eyes. He looked like he had a bit of a hip flexor problem and went to the bathroom TWICE during our 35 minute lunch. (How long do you have to know someone to ask them to get their prostate checked?!) I know this may seem weird, but I am a VERY visual person and take everything in.

We chatted about my schooling and my future wants, I asked him about his wife and his family. He was very open to talking about it which was a relief--he was very candid as was I. We chatted very naturally and he said he had never had an SB but had a girlfriend for 6 years that he supported her financially.

When he got the check, we walked to my car and he asked me: "So how do you want to do this? Do I pay you everytime we meet? Or monthly?" I told him with a smile, "3-4 times a month for $2,000." I thought he would scurry away but he replied, "not bad at all." :) I'm really hoping this works out because, money wise, he is BEYOND legit.

I don't want to reveal too much, I hope it's enough to appease you gals. :)

Until next time,

-Viv

Sugar Baby Must Have (SBMH): GoogleVoice

2012-03-07T10:41:00.000-08:00

Hello Dolls!
I have decided that along with taudry tales of my sugar escapades I would start a piece called "Sugar Baby Must Haves" (SBMH). For the most part it will be full of ways to safeguard your IRL life versus your SB life and things of that variety. :)

First on my list of SBMH's is... Google Voice! I cannot say ENOUGH about this small sliver of what Google has to offer. All you need is a Google email (Gmail) account.

Why You Need It: It allows you to create a phone number with the area code OF YOUR CHOOSING to give out to previously screened SD's. (By previously screened I mean men (or women) that you have chatted with via email and have a good enough feeling about to dole out an immediate means of communication.)

I know, from experience (unfortunately!) that when you give your number to a pot, or even a pot boyfriend, that you run across the chance of having a "crazy" who feels like they have the right to call and text whenever the hell THEY feel like it! Um, no sirree Bob!

GoogleVoice gives you a measure of control on who can contact you and when! Along with having a phone number you can seamlessly block unsavory callers from, you can also send texts! The GoogleVoice service allows you to route your GV number to your smartphone! That is what sold me; in a day and age where we are almost never without our cellphones, being able to have your personal cell phone calls AND your private GV calls coming to the same device is fantastic! I've attached a video explaining the use of GV and how you can sign up today--oh, and did I mention...it's free!

Stay Sugary-Stay Safe.

Enjoy dolls!
-Viv

ABC News Requests College SB Interview

2012-03-02T11:56:00.002-08:00

I kid you not! I had to do a bit of digging (and by digging I mean looking up archived ABC News articles from said unnamed news correspondent!) but it was true! A scout, who was tasked with revealing the secret world of Sugar Babies, wanted to have a telephone conference interview with me. I was completely lost as to how she came in contact with me! Here I was--in Dubai with Mr. Mustache, fielding requests on exposing my secret life.

The answer was revealed as I continued to read the email:

I’m a producer with ABC News in New York and am researching a story about sugar babies – specifically women who are putting themselves through college. I really loved reading your blog and wanted to know if you’d consider an off-the-record phone chat when you’re free? I can be reached at 212-456-xxxx or on my cell – 917-692-xxxx. Alternately, you can email me a good time/number where you can be reached. Thanks so much for considering this request. Would love to hear more about your perspective and experiences.

Thanks.

(Name Removed)
ABC News

At first, I felt really--VISIBLE! Seriously, my stomach fell into my butt! I have taken every plausible measure to share this life of mine while managing to protect the day to day life my family and the rest of the world is privy to. Thankfully, I was half-way across the world where I couldn't even ENTERTAIN the thought of revealing this part of my life. I politely responded:

Name Removed,

Thank you for reading my blog! It chronicles my time spent as a college SB. Right now I'm on holiday in Dubai (with my honey!) so I wont be able to exchange contact with you as freely as I would like.

I will be back stateside next week and am more than interested in contributing to your "off the record" interview.

Thank you again for reaching out to me.

Ms. Vivian Jade

Sent from my iPhone

Fortunately, she was in a sort of time crunch and later replied:

Dubai! What fun.

Thanks for writing back. We’re actually airing the story on Friday, so unfortunately it looks like the timing might not work. But if you happen to know any other women who share your same outlook and put themselves through college with the help of a sugar daddy, please let me know!

Enjoy your travels!

And thanks again for the reply.

Best,
Name Removed
ABC News

Bullet dodged I guess! I talked to Mr. Mustache and he had a "mini-heart attack." (His words!) I reassured him that the interview wouldn't happen if either of the two of us were exposed.

Word of advice: IF you decide to go on national television and name yourself a sugar baby please for the love of all that is good and holy ARTICULATE! Cross your ankles, wear suitable attire, and brush your MOTHER FUCKING HAIR. The newscast that I would have been in is above and it DEF looks like they scraped the bottom of the daggone bucket for these chicks! Bleh. I almost wish I did the interview just to show that not all self-proclaimed SB's are trash.

Until next time dolls,
Viv

Mr. Mustache & Dubai Part Two

2012-02-20T08:43:00.000-08:00

Like I was saying, the food was fabulous. Mr. Mustache being the food conneiseur that he is, ordered a little of everything and we ate ourselves silly. :) We had drinks nightly at Armani: Prive which helped when it came to our intimate times together. :) All in all a good time.

A 17 hour plane ride later, we were back in Austin and I, unfortunately, had an hours drive ahead of me before I could lay my tired head down! Mr. Mustache and I aren't SB and SD to one another anymore due mostly to his schedule and my transition to moving. (Still not sure if I want to discuss where I am exactly for fear of my second life being exposed.) We still keep in contact and he pays for my apartment and car note while the job hunt continues/ SD hunt ensues.

Remember the man I met in Dubai from Ireland? Turns out he visits my area for a popular sporting event and wants to link up. I'm excited! But it's bittersweet because it would only last a week and wouldn't be a long source of income. :/ All in all, still a good "seasonal" pot. :)

I know 2012 will bring more sugar my way--it's just difficult being in a new area! Kisses until next time, dolls.

-Viv

Mr. Mustache & Dubai Part One

2012-02-19T15:21:00.013-08:00

Hello Dolls!

I promised this time I will keep you more informed and updated with the Sugar in my life. I decided it wouldn't hurt to share a few quick iPhone pics of my trip to Dubai with Mr. Mustache. (Pictured left, the view from our bed.)

For those of you who are new to my blog, Mr. Mustache was my first real BONAFIDE SD. He is a force to be reckoned with in the Texas legislature and quite a handful in the bedroom if I do say so myself!

This picture was the view I was afforded the blessing of waking up to for six wonderful days full of shopping, sight-seeing and quite a bit of sugar networking! (Hey, I was loyal to Mr. Mustache the entirety of our time together, but I needed a Plan B; good thing because now we aren't together! More on that to follow.)

It was a magnificent trip in whole, the Dubai representative (connections through his working for the legislature) chartered (and comped) a vast majority of the finances for the trip--leaving him no excuse NOT to take me shopping. :p Ladies, if you have never flown 1st Class International (Quatar Airways), you don't know what you're missing! It was so lavish. I didn't take pictures of the cabin-mostly because there was a watching and waiting audience (I mean come on: a 20-something year old brown girl with an overweight heavily mustached man is BOUND to catch anyones attention).

Something worth mentioning: while I was getting my things situated in my seat, I noticed something that was similar to the life I was leading. A 20-something year old blonde bombshell with a sun-pruned older gentleman who had a pungent aura of self-importance. I could see, unlike me, that he probably wasn't as kind to her as she would have liked. I cast a sympathetic smile her way as she glanced at my travel companion and grinned right back. :)

While he was away, mostly during the day, I spent quality time with his credit card and chatting up the Europeans and Australians who lingered in the hotel lobby. There was a SMOKING Aussie I flirted shamelessly with before reminding myself I was "spoken for" and exchanging emails. Also-- a man from Dublin, Ireland who noticed Mr. Mustache and I the day prior and revealed to me that "arrangements like that are a very splendored thing"--also got his email. :)

Ask me if I feel guilty. A LITTLE bit. But not reeealy, honestly. I'm in the business of achieving my goals, emotions aside. While Mr. Mustache is kind and oh so generous to me, I need to be a REALIST and prepare for the instance that he may not be a prominent part of my life. A la TODAY! In conclusion! Cast your judging eyes elsewhere--because everyone is a whore. Whether it be to industry, social trends, an oppressive employer or in the literal sense we all sell out in one way or another. (Pictured: The Burj Khalifa-tallest building in the world...I think. Don't quote me, dammit!)

*Steps down from soap box.*

On a happier note! I ate like a fat petulant child! I couldn't help it! So very yummy. If you dolls have a restaurant called Ruth's Chris Steakhouse in your neck of the woods, you need to eat there ASAP! Succulent steak and a bomb ass lobster bisque. (Yes, yes I said bomb ass...it's warranted!) We ate at that particular steakhouse two times and once was enough to make me feel like a glutton! The decor was fabulous and lush and everyone reeked of money and indulgence.

*Part Two to follow! I can't upload more pictures in this post so I have to split it. :) *

Dolls! New Things This Way Comes...

2012-02-19T12:53:00.007-08:00

I have a nasty habit of becoming so engrossed with school, work and sugaring that all else that is not of priority falls by the wayside. I promise I still love you! :) Since Mr. Mustache, I've relocated and am on the hunt for employment and Sugar--whichever comes first! I'm not so sure if I will reveal where I have relocated because as the title of my blog states, I am a (Secret) College Sugar Baby! Expect more posts from me chronicling my time with Mr. Mustache, trips to Dubai, requests from ABC reporters, and my hunt for a new pot. Until then, think sugary thoughts!

-Viv

The Timewaster and The Genuine Pot

2011-09-25T18:19:00.000-07:00

Hello my beautiful dolls. I feel it necessary to touch on the men who occupy our lives. (biological fathers aside, LOL) The ones who waste our time and the ones who are our potential/SD's!

Timewasters

I promise as confident as I may come off (which is a separate post in itself-more to come!) I am still fairly new to the SugarBowl. I'm finding that my radar to gage "timewasters" isn't as sharp as I would like it to be. Recently I met a man on SA.com who was a single father in Chicago working with foreign currency. We exchanged emails via the site and he seemed so very open to my wants and even offered to fly me out to Chicago to visit. We finally exchanged personal emails, which led to exchanging phone numbers. We spoke on the phone he seemed so...normal!

He was attentive with his kids (which I heard in the background EVERY fucking time) and he even had a little puppy in the back yipping on occasion! The Wednesday before the weekend we pegged for my CHI visit, he stops responding to texts, emails, or phone calls. I KNOW RIGHT?!

Fucking ass.

It wasn't incessant the communication between us-I must stress that! But he up and disappeared! I even sought advice via the SB's on FB: I was given a very great piece of advice. I found a link to a flight that had the shortest layover and most direct route and emailed it to him. To quote the SB I chatted with: "If he doesn't respond in the AM with flight details write him off as a timewaster and go about your business."

Lo and be fucking hold, boo boo did NOT respond--which honestly upset me because nothing is more irritating than someone who openly and BLATANTLY wastes MY time. But as she said, I "went about my business" of searching for another pot. That SAME evening, I sent a "Wink" to a gentleman who lives not far from me (about an hour ten, tops) and he was more than interested. We will call this man Mr. Mustache. (For those of you on the FB SB train, I posted a picture of him with his ginormous stache, it's been removed now considering his potential. :))

The Genuine Pot

Mr. Mustache is an active part of the Texas legislature working as a lobbyist and making a cool 500 thou. He's a little pudgy (fuck it, I'm being nice--poor thing is just fat) bald on top and semi-short. The trip was soo much fun! We went to the state Capitol building, dinner, then drinks at his place. Long story short, I stayed at a nearby suite, and walked away with a nice $2,500 in hand. He was very sweet and had more to talk about than only sex! LOL

No sex was had, but we did have a few make-out sessions--damn his mustache!

Considering my degree, he proposed in the future (interests permitting) I would work at his office while still receiving the agreed upon allowance. ($2,000/per meet max three times per month.) We also talked about my relocating to him. (which was a step that I would have eventually taken considering the location of the Uni I want to attend.) He's really big on holding hands in public and what have you, so I had to adjust myself to the gawks and whispers! But THINK ABOUT IT: a short period of time of being uncomfortable for $2,500?? STARE ALL YA WANT! After this chat, he became very adamant on me deleting my account on SA. I asked if he would delete his, and he said "I already have."

...

Okay--don't let me catch your ass on that shit; I'll bust that bubble WIDE open. Haha!

Do any of you girls have a semi-embarrassing story of an outing with your pot? Do tell!

-Viv

Fake SD Alert

2011-06-20T20:18:00.000-07:00

Freaking nasty ass! If I could punch an image it would be the image of this old, shirtless excuse of man who began jerking off THREE MINUTES into our conversation! THREE MINUTES, GIRLS! UGH. Stuff like this makes me irrate, and want to find a new pot ASAP. But while we are in this sugary world together, I think I should warn you of this ugly piece.

His name is Clark. He claims to want to be a genuine SD, but the above picture proves the latter. Be warned he is a fake. He has a profile on SD.com under RealKnight7. BLEH! That's it for now. I'm usually more of an upbeat, happy, SB--but this ass-clown right here got under my skin! Now time to wash the icky-ness off of me!

-Viv

Ladies! Ladies! Ladies!

2011-06-19T18:54:00.000-07:00

So after the failed date (if we can call him asking me to piss in his mouth a date) with Chaz- I decided to take a bit of a hiatus from the sugary life-style. Annnnnd just like the crack that it is--I GOT PULLED BACK IN! Bleh! I don't understand why I can't just meet a Richard Gere-esque married SD that is the business in the sack and doesn't have a gut! LOL

On a lighter note I have met and connected with a few girlies from my SB FB page and have plans to stage a Texas freestyle later this year! WOOT! I'm telling you having a sense of community with you ladies has been the backbone that keeps me going when those unsavory facets of the sugar life style pop up. I know I can come to you girls with questions ONLY YOU would understand, and I would get an unbiased honest answer. :)) So kudos to the SB's round the world for the unending support! ALSO, I have a pot who is okay with a $3K allowance and wants to meet me next weekend for a rendevous of sorts. :)) I will keep you ladies updated--PROMISE!! Until then happy sugar search!

-Vivian Jade

A New POT-Buuuuut...

2011-02-06T14:01:00.001-08:00

Buuut.....he lives in the SAME CITY AS CHAZ. Eek. While most sugar babies wouldn't even attempt to pursue a suitor who lives in the same vicinity as a prime candidate, I think that I will take my chances and see where this can lead. Let's call the new pot Doctor H. According to his stats, he is married (I know, I know), a 6'3'' athletic blue eyed doctor who makes..*drum roll please* more than $1M a year. YAH I KNOW! He sent me this email via SeekingArrangement:

For this email (above) to be his first contact (stating clear and true his allowance), I think is a good sign. Hmm, I'm not sure, but I'll keep you dolls updated. IF (and only if) I manage to get Chaz to uphold to the $5K and Doctor H to live up to his $4K, then that will be near $10K in the bank...THINK THINGS INTO REALITY, GIRLS! *sighs* My head is swimming. Out for a jog, and then I'll be back with a follow up.

Viv

Is One SD Enough?

2011-02-06T07:39:00.000-08:00

Hello sugar sweeties! While I have a REAALLY faboosh pot SD (Chaz) I need a contingent plan of sorts. You know, something to fall back on if Chaz starts to fizzle. I've started to put effort into looking for a second (and third!) pot that show promise, but believe me it's been a bit tough. I met Chaz on SugarDaddie .com, the only thing that blows about that site is that to send messages to men, you have to pay $20/monthly! Is that not freaking bananas??! I mean, hello! We are SB's shouldn't it be free? BUT I can say that the quality of men there is better than other sites. Bleh-I can't complain because, if I think about it in a financial standpoint, I have made hundreds in cash and gifts from a man I have yet to meet! Which kind of puts the "pressure" on for out first encounter which is a weekend stay in his hometown. BUT-nonetheless I give no nookie without the allowance cookie! I'm still gunning for the $5K/mo, but am willing to negosh for $3,5K/mo at the LEAST. If he's not for it (though I think he will be!) I will gracefully walk away.

The ONLY site I have found that is free for women is SeekingArrangement .com; the only thing that sucks is the fact that the quality of men are majority FAKE FAKE FAKE. Sometimes I don't even bother reading the plethora of Inbox Mail, Winks, and Favorites-it's ridiculous. I like having a pot SD who lives a ways away from me. Chaz lives in Houston which is like a 3 hour car drive from my hometown. And I know all you girls are wondering but yes, he is married. It is ideal for me because I'm not getting those, "what are you doing?" text, emails, and IM's at all hours of the day. ANOTHER reason it works for me is because during our visits, we will spend time during the day: shopping, dining out, and the like-and my evenings are to myself! I have a few friends in Houston that I will have to make sure I hit up.

ATTENTION ATTENTION! Are there any Houston based sugar babies who want to meet up the weekend of Feb. 18-21? I would be sooo indebted to you gals! We could grab drinks, my treat!

Chaz keeps saying that we will go shopping, I wonder..if he'll hand me a card, hand me some cash, or do as we always do and use my trusty friend PayPal! Speaking of PayPal, if you have a pot SD who is wary about leaving a paper trail, have him setup a PayPal account; he can direct deposit cash (and LOTS of it) into your PayPal account. It's up to you as to whether or not you want to securely link a personal checking account to your PayPal account so you can transfer funds straight to your account! I did this when Chaz sent the just because cash and the tire replacement cash. Question: how do you girls receive your moo-lah from your pot SD's? Oh, and thanks for the FaceBook fam who read the blog! It means THE WORLD: KNOW THIS! We girls need to support one another because in this sugary world, it's easy to get swept up into the benefits (cash, shopping, cars, clothes) but we are still WOMEN who FEEL, even if we have a jaded approach to getting what we want. We still FEEL. *Okay I'll stop preaching!* :) Have a sugary day!

Viv

Signed, Sealed, Delivered!

2011-02-02T13:16:00.000-08:00

Currently in the process (literally-we are IM'ing the deets right now!) of getting my cash for a new set of tires. It's a little funny: after my test (which I'm almost sure I got a A+ on) I stopped by a local garage to get a quote for the tires, installation, rotation, and all that jazz-and for four tires it costs $530. YIKES! I was about to leave and IM my SD on my Yahoo! iPhone app when the mechanic looked at my tires and said that the rear two tires could use another 8,000 miles. Sooo...thinking of how I could benefit, I asked for a quote to fix the two front tires and it's roughly only $175! I called Chaz and let him know that it costs $530...therefore pocketing an extra $350 of spending money. I smell a phone payment being paid for two months and a mini-spa day for this SB's weekend! We still haven't discussed the topic of gas money, spending money, etc. for the trip. But we have two weeks to prepare so I'm not much concerned. I don't want him to feel as if I'm milking him-even though in reality...I am. Considering his personality, I'm almost sure that I'll gain genuine caring feelings for him, but for now? He's just another pot SD trying to plead his case. And I, a sweet SB, here to lend a listening ear. :) I'll be sure to update when things are finalized. Happy Sugar Search!

**UPDATE**

My bank account has $600 extra in it as of NOW! Whoo hoo! Until next time. Viv

Why Subliminal Hints Work-Without Making You Seem Like A Begger

2011-02-01T20:40:00.000-08:00

Ok, last post then I'm in bed sleeping soundly--PROMISE!

Earlier in the week when I was talking to my pot SD (he needs a damned nick-name...hmmmm how about Chaz.) I was talking to Chaz and we thought about me driving to see him. Before I answered, I thought like a SMART SB; *well, I need a new set of tires for my car, and have absolutely NO extra cash to throw down to have them replaced*. So instead of saying, I'll drive or lets setup a flight-I said, "I would LOVE, to drive...but the tires on my car are in pretty bad shape. I would hate to pop a tire on the way to see you." If he's a quality MAN much less SD, he would be thinking of how he can help to alleviate your problem! Well, I just read an email Chaz sent me saying that he would direct deposit the cash needed for gas and a brand new set of tires for my Chevy! Ah, womanly wiles how I love them so! Goodnight!

Phone Sex With SD

2011-02-01T20:12:00.000-08:00

Yeeeeeeeeeeaaaah...about that. It was mostly him moaning, me agreeing, ooh-ing and ahh-ing on interval annnd then it was over! LOL It was so weird!! I had never done it before tonight, but after it was over, he was really happy that I "participated". I told him I never had phone sex- he said that that was OK. It's all a part of the sugaring world I suppose! Any advice vets?! Ta-ta got to rest up, I have a test in the morning!

It Has Been FAARR To Long!

2011-02-01T18:32:00.000-08:00

Firstly, I would like to apologize!

I COMPLETELY abandoned my "sugar diary" of sorts! That was probably because the "SD" that I met turned out to be a creepy creepin creepster...you know what I mean! But since then, I've upped my standards. My allowance of $2,000 +gifts has changed to a whopping $5K +gifts (which is probably what made my pickin pool smaller LOL) I'm enrolled part-time at a community college until I transfer to a big name University later on this year.

When I gave up on the sugar-world, I had only had a taste! A man with an ungodly amount of money, his mansion in Irving, his fly ride, and the money that was thrown my way. (I mean it was one date!) I've been in contact with a gentleman I met on SugarDaddie...and...he...is...the...business. After talking on the phone and email exchanges, I had a $300 Amazon Gift Card sent to me along with random gifts from my Amazon WishList throughout this entire month! (Totaling of about $2K: a SonicCare Micro Dermabrasion Kit, Mac Makeup, Chanel scarves & perfume, Fredericks Hollywood lingerie, a shit ton of Betsey Johnson clothes/accessories, and random other goodies!)

I FINALLY get to meet up with him and I am excited rather than frantic and scared as THE FUCK like I was on my first (and only LOL) sugar date. I think the reason things didn't work out with my first potential was because I was super nervous, and I could tell he just wanted sex. When he found out that wasn't happening he kinda bailed mentally LOL.

FOR ALL EXPERIENCED SB's: What is your "rule" on sleeping with a SD on the first encounter? It's just a question: I'm really considering coyly asking for half of our previously discussed allowance ($5K-so $2.5K up front!) a fair amount of time before I mentally commit to having sex with a man I may or may not be physically attracted to.

He's not hideous, but he's no George Clooney! (a girl can always dream!) I've found that reading some of the posts from you beautiful (newbies && experienced!) SB's that I find a sense of community in women who want more out of life-and are willing to do what they need to do to get it!

*sigh* Any advice? It HAS been a while since I whole-heartedly invested time and energy into my Sugar Daddy.

Spas, Steaks, && Cash

2010-02-27T19:21:00.000-08:00

Attention Attention, is this thing on?

I have successfully made it to my SD's hometown and it's like living in a movie! Here I am, it's 9:30PM @ night && I'm laying on a Queen size plush bed in awe at the days events! Here's a run down:

He picks me up from the airport (in a white BMW no less:D)

We go to lunch in a cute little bistro, the sun was out so we enjoyed our meal outside. We talked about what I need, and what he needs && laid down a few ground rules.

I go to his home, holy moly his home is like out of a movie!

After a little tour of the surrounding neighborhood, we go to the Four Seasons for drinks.

By then it was five and he wanted to treat me to a spa day. OMG I have sooo many pictures:p

After the spa, which was AMAZING! We went to our dinner reservations at a very posh steakhouse. Best steak of my life I might add!

When we got to the car he said, "I have something for you," and put 300 dollars on the table. I'm not gonna lie it was kind of weird:/

After that he took me to my room @ the Four Seasons (part of our arrangement-no sex on the first encounter, only until it feels right) and here I am!

Question: When we were out together, we would get some offhand stares, any advice on how to deal girls? It really bothered me though I didn't let it put a damper on our evening:))

I'll be sure to update when I touch down, until then.

Viv!

And I'm Leaving-On A Jet Plane

2010-02-26T09:11:00.000-08:00

Okay not exactly a jet plane:)

JUST got of the phone with Mr. Mac && we've made flight plans for me to see him! I can't believe my sugar search has bore fruit! From Saturday to Sunday; short I know but I told him I would try for the whole weekend next time! I'm super excited ladies! Anyone have any sure fire tips when meeting a potential for the first time? Like: what to wear, what to bring, any first date no-no's?! I'm taking my laptop so I'll be sure to update when I arrive-maybe upload a few pictures?? Until then!

Viv

Could He Be THE SD??

2010-02-22T21:23:00.000-08:00

Okay so, I've been trying to be good about keeping up with the blog! :) New update!

Mr. Compliments turned out to be a total douche, I repeat DOUCHE! Mr. Swirl is still a works in progress-no phone conversations yet, just a few FaceBook messages back and forth. Nothing to rant and rave about. But MR.MAC~he really seems like the real deal. ATTENTION ALL SUGAR BABES && SUGAR BABE PROSPECTS: I had asked the "career-Sugars" about how to broach the topic of allowance/gifts to a pot. SugarCookieBaby noted it may be a good idea to hint that you wanted something. I took a shot! I told Mr. Mac that a *insert popular singers name* was performing in *insert city* and I would go if I could. 45 minutes later: I receive a text asking me for my address so he could send two front row tickets to see *insert popu--* okay fuck it I'm putting it: JOHN MAYER! I never thought it would work! But apparently it did:)) Shout out to SugarCookieBaby! Bitch knows the game! (Thanks a million!)

Mr. Mac && I talked on the phone today and it was such a comfortable conversation! I told him I had an early exam tomorrow and that I would have to go to sleep. I still haven't drafted my English paper! Time to hit the books:) TTYL girls.

Viv

A New POT!! && Girls He Seems Like A Sure Thing

2010-02-21T15:30:00.000-08:00

WOW! So where to begin. After a 3 hr search (yes, three) I have found a very very good pot SD. Let's call him Mr. Mac.

First off annual income oooooof: 500k-1MIL (<--uh yeah!)

He loves women of color and has dated women of color and loves them (WTF with the white guys!) We exchanged Y!IM addresses and started chatting away. He's actually really down to Earth. He's not one of those "Ok lets see a naked picture" kind of guys; and I felt comfortable enough to tell him I don't do that...AT ALL. He said he respects that. So after an hour of talking he IM'd me his phone number. I was so scared to call him! My heart started like racing! It was so surreal. I picked up my cell and saved him under "Mr. Mac" and put "POT" in all caps :p

Then I called, it was so cute. He had a really heavy Texas drawl. He mostly wanted to talk about if I was physically attracted to him and I told him I was(really I am girls I promise!), he said he likes me and wants to fly me to Dallas to visit him. I told him that would be okay in due time:)

Girls, I'm excited, but I'm not going to put all my sugar cubes in one Chanel clutch! I'm still, modestly, searching! Any career Sugars have any advice on how to broach the topic of allowance with him? Please feedback is needed!

Viv

I ORIGINALLY MEANT TO END HERE, BUT MR. MAC TXTD ME ASKING TO SEE ME THIS WKND

Holy be-jebus advice ladies come on now. Rally up the troops and help a girl with this decision!

SeekingArrangement VS SugarDaddie

2010-02-21T10:53:00.001-08:00

Hello ladies (and gentlemen?)! Viv here and I am honestly a little excited. After all the cock shots I could handle from www.seekingarrangements.com, I have looked into a new way of finding pots (potentials for those new new sugar babies lol me!) and that is www.sugardaddie.com. I dunno I just feel like it's much more personal! Like on SA it was like a vast pool of SB's and only a few genuine SD's. Granted every site is going to have their fair share of posers, it seemed like SA was pulling in first in the loser poll. Hmm, maybe I'm being harsh; I have only been on SA for like a few months. While I've received plenty of emails, they seem to bear no fruit!

SD.com on the other hand yielded the results I wanted, I believe. I seemed to be a rarity (a young, beautiful, black woman who 'likes all flavors' so to speak!) and some men like that! I have a pot from SD.com (only one day of membership and we have a POT:) ) who is from Maryland and is looking to spoil and mentor a "beautiful woman of color". He is white if you must ask, and he seems so very doting! I'll keep you posted on that. Codename: Mr. Compliments. :p

I have a second pot who was hesitant to sign up but (thankfully!) did. His profile blatantly said that he prefers black woman (and yes, he's white..WTF with me and the white boys!). He didn't post his picture because of his job but did email me (by accident I'm not sure) his full name. Sooo, what did I do with this tidbit?? Yup! I Googled him! And the search results were quite nice! He's into real estate (in the Washington D.C. area) and is at the forefront of the company he works at. Codename: Mr. Swirl. ALSO LADIES: if you do get a full name I encourage you to utilize the website: www.dirtsearch.org. It's totally free and lists damn near anything you can think of: whether he is married, deeds, loans, it's all right there at your disposal. Be a smart SugarBabe! I know I'm reeeally new (like two days in new!) but I'd like to go about the mechanics of seeking an arrangement as professionally and safely as possible. You should too:)) OOH! Question: how do you bring up the topic of "allowance?" I can see this being a conversation with my pots in the near future. Ta Ta for now.

Viv

I'm On Some New-New Boo

2010-02-20T22:44:00.000-08:00

Hey Sugar World- Viv here. *sighs*

I honestly never thought I could bring myself to do it; to post an "ad" on www.seekingarrangement.com. Buuuut, bitch I did LOL

I dunno! This recession is just the PITS! I have bills to pay, creditors a-calling and an education that demands, well, MONEY. I'm 22, I'm broke, and I'm basically out of options. Double life? Maybe, but with good reason..

I've been reading some blogs of some girls who started out like me: clueless and awkward. That are now with a regular GENUINE SD who fulfills all their needs and more. Ok, you're probably wondering why I titled my blog with "Secret Sugar Baby": it's the God honest truth. Nobody in my social circle or family can find out about this, I mean, I'm a confident beautiful black woman, but some people will take a SD/SB relationship at face value. (i.e. comparing it to fancy prostitution). I mean just take a look at College Sugar Baby's blog; this chick (black girl get it! :p) is living a very coveted life! But she works for what she wants and GETS IT. It's 2010 ladies, and I want it all...