Start living, Step one.

2010-09-04T16:06:00.000-07:00

Living 101 ; 'Lets start living'

'What makes a person a good person?'

There are thousands of different ways of answering this question and they are all correct, because I believe every person is a good person, some just don't know they are yet.

Lets approach this question from a different angle,

'What makes a person a bad person?'

now there is more to think about, i believe a bad person is a good person who is looking for attention, was Hitler looking for attention? I don't know, but he was looking for pride, pride is just a bigger word for attention, so yes, Hitler was just lost.

He was a bad person, that is what every six grade kid learns in history class, but I heard a few million's of German's didn't agree with us 70 years ago, so Hitler was good for someone.

Is it possible that maybe we we're wrong and all those Nazi's we're right?, I believe not, but that there is still a chance.

All that I can figure out of this mess is that no person is evil, and no person is holy, maybe the whole mankind is motivated by what is thrown first to them, if its a roaring country looking for a fierce leader like what happened in Germany, or if its a lost tribe, looking for a new mentor, like what happened with Gandhi.

Do I think that if Hitler was born in India he would become who Gandhi is today? Most probably not.

It is even amusing to think what would've happened if Gandhi would be born in Germany and try convince the people in pure blood.

''WE DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU... AGAIN !''

I am sorry readers, ill get to my point !.

What I am trying to explain is that good and evil are balanced, When you give to someone you take from someone else, it could sound sad, but I think it sounds fantastic, every time something unlucky happened to me, I can look at the bright side, someone found a penny today.

''If every time I push up I get pushed down shouldn't I stop pushing?''

As sad as it is, This is the biggest problem our world has today, people don't know when to stop, the average man does not have the ability to foresee his own limits.

Try thinking about the last time you climbed a mountain or went for a hiking trip.

Your greatest memories come from the journey itself rather than the moment you reached your destination.

Allways try to be the best, at anything ! (if feels great) , but NEVER let the final destination distract you from the journey's heading in front of you.

I'll give you one final example.

Every kid who is not 18 talks about the day he will graduate and finish school while every adult who passed the age of 18 finds his thought wonder about how fun would it be to go to school again and experience those days one more time.
Kids tend to forget how awesome school is, they usually find out only when they are finished with it.

And me?, I enjoyed every moment of it.

''PainKiller, You finally made a point!''

Readers, this is the first piece of information I share with you and I hope it will help you think twice before pushing your limits, hurting you friends, or being greedy.
Try absorbing the love and beauty of every part of your life.
Don't let your goals distract you from the journey, Don't let the journey distract you from your goals.

Be a better person, Start today.
Yours with love.
The Young Pain Killer.

Introduction.

2010-09-03T11:54:00.000-07:00

Welcome to what may be your greatest adventure in life.

I do not think I am the son of god or the resurrection of Einstein, I wouldn't say I'm as brave as the great Alexander or as smart as Buddha.
I do not think I can tactically lead a war or stop a siege,
Frankly, I'm not sure i could even stop a bar fight between two drunk girls.
Well then you may ask, ''Why would this guy compare himself to a painkiller?'', even though I don't think I have the ability to stop any physical pain I do believe I can help the ones who feel sometimes lost, insecure, lonely or just feel they could use someone to cry, laugh, or talk with them.

A few years ago I had this obsession with the word 'confidence', I used to scribble it on notebooks, say it frequently to friends and family, and repeat it in front of my bathroom mirror every night, soon the word confidence became a part of me, actually, more than just a part of me, I was confidence.
Being one of the shortest kids in high school didn't stand in my way of becoming one of the most loved people in high school, I gave people the respect they deserve while being confident when I did not get the respect I deserve, if a man would walk up to me today and ask me what in my opinion would you need to be successful in life I would definitely say to give respect and have confidence.
People like feeling respected, people like knowing they are worth something, sometimes in life a man loses his confidence and finds himself lost and confused, he does not know if he is even worth being respected which will gradually effect his whole life.
I'll give you a Little example ;
A few weeks ago I was in a party talking to one of my old friends, i used to go out with her when we we're back in junior high, we we're just talking about how we don't see each other anymore and we should meet up sometimes, I didn't truly mean it but I think she did.
Anyways, her best friend comes up and asks if she is interrupting us, I politely answer 'no', the truth is she didn't, then she started telling a story and asked if I remember it, her story went like this ; 'Do you remember back in junior high you sat with some friend of yours, (she didn't remember who) and I came and sat down next to you and you asked me 'do you know what is the feeling when you talk to someone you like alone and then someone annoying comes and sits next to you?' she claims up to now she finds herself always asking if she is interrupting when she steps into a conversation between her mom and the shop clerk, although I was flattered by the idea that I was that awesome so many years ago, and had enough confidence to say that to her, I did have a hard time realising I could be that disgusting to people back then, I understood somewhere along the way I learned to respect people, now thinking of it I gave her years of trauma when coming close to two people talking and fitting in, god knows what she missed in all those conversations, you will learn soon that one of the things I say all the time is to never give up on any kind of experience, If its listening to some one's story or if its just looking at the screen when someone says 'Dude you have to see this...'
Julius Caesar himself said '

Experience is the teacher of all things.' and I believe he knew a thing or two.

'Please stop talking and explain this blog !'

You should be confused by now, GOOD!.
If your not, you will be soon, the whole point of this blog is for you to travel with me into the minds of people, making yourself a better person and learning to love yourself, no matter who stands in your way.
I hope with the help of my blog you will learn that when you let yourself be yourself, everyone will follow you.
When you stand confident but at the same time give people the respect they deserve you will get the respect you'r worth of.
People travel all the way to the far east or the rivers of Brazil to 'find themselves', why travel thousand's of miles to find something that is sitting inside you?.

I hope people will enter this blog once a week to learn more about themselves, grow their confidence and find the answers they are looking for.
Find me at TheYoungPK@gmail.com if your looking for 1 on 1 chat.

See you in a week, Truly yours,
The young pain killer.

TheYoungPainKiller

Start living, Step one.

Introduction.