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		<title>A 2Dopeboyz Exclusive</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Baby Sis and I jetted out of the SweetCheeba event a little soon. We missed this 2DopeBoyz exclusive, featuring none other than Spec Boogie, Dallas Penn and NeckBone.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Baby Sis and I jetted out of the <a href="http://www.sweetcheeba.com/">SweetCheeb</a>a event a little soon. We missed this <a href="www.2dopeboyz.com">2DopeBoyz</a> exclusive, featuring none other than Spec Boogie, <a href="http://www.dallaspenn.com/">Dallas Penn</a> and NeckBone.</p>
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		<title>Pi(e) Day 3.14</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[But not really. It actually took place on 3.13. The infamous Tasty Lacy decided to hold yet another Pi(e) Day event. This time, I was in state (if you don&#8217;t know, I spend six months in Florida, six months in NYC each year) and able to attend.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>But not really. It actually took place on 3.13. The infamous <a href="http://tastylacys.wordpress.com/">Tasty Lacy</a> decided to hold yet another Pi(e) Day event. This time, I was in state (if you don&#8217;t know, I spend six months in Florida, six months in NYC each year) and able to attend.</p>
<p>For as long as I have known Miss Lacy, she has been an excellent baker. And writer. I am NOT a sweets eater, but her treats are so good&#8230;it&#8217;s nearly impossible for one to resist.<br />
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<p>Although late and out of breath, I attended and was welcomed with hugs and a table full &#8216;o&#8217; desserts. Pies in attendance:  banoffee, lemon meringue ice cream, key lime, grasshopper, chocolate cream and sugar cream.</p>
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<p>Quite tasty were the desserts AND the drinks. Each pie offered a beer and liquor pairing. For example, it was suggested that my lemon meringue ice cream slice be paired with a <a href="http://whatscookingamerica.net/Beverage/LemonDrop.htm">lemon drop martini</a> (not an extra whiskey shot&#8230;but that was nice too).</p>
<p>On hand were many other writers and eaters&#8230;.including but not limited to, <a href="http://daveburdick.com/">Dave Burdick</a> of <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/green/">HuffPo</a> and <a href="http://www.myauthenticsstyle.blogspot.com/">Tim Peterson of The Authentics Foundation</a>. Enjoy the photos because I enjoyed the pie!</p>
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		<title>High.Lari.Ous. Thee End.</title>
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		<title>Changing My Energy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 23:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Experience
BLT Burger is many things, but oddly, it’s the things it is not that make it unique.
Consider the following: it is in Greenwich Village; but has a decidedly un-Village crowd. It’s a burger joint with burger, fry and beer combos; but it’s full name includes the word bistro. It’s menu boasts traditional—even, common—restaurant fare; [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=justme1a.wordpress.com&blog=1416713&post=272&subd=justme1a&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://www.bltburger.com/" target="_blank">BLT Burger</a> is many things, but oddly, it’s the things it is <em>not</em> that make it unique.</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-bottom:0;">Consider the following: it is in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greenwich_Village" target="_blank">Greenwich Village</a>; but has a decidedly <em>un-Village</em> crowd. It’s a burger joint with burger, fry and beer combos; but it’s full name includes the word <em>bistro</em>. It’s menu boasts traditional—even, <em>common</em>—restaurant fare; but has peculiar standouts like Grandma’s Treat (a <a href="http://www.makersmark.com/Lpa.aspx" target="_blank">Maker’s Mark</a>-spiked milkshake) and a Lamb Merguez sandwich (with a mint-cilantro yogurt sauce).</p>
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<p>Sample fare from my table included the namesake burger, the Tex Mex and the Turkey Burger (each about $11).</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-bottom:0;">Ironically, especially considering the walls being plastered with painting of cows, the most delightful dish was the turkey burger, which reminded us of a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gray%27s_Papaya" target="_blank">Gray’s Papaya</a> hotdog (“…But in a good way,” said one diner), with it’s grilled onions and herbs.</p>
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<p class="western" style="margin-bottom:0;">Nestled between a <a href="http://www.rickysnyc.com/" target="_blank">Ricky’s NYC</a> and a small nail salon, was <a href="http://www.bltburger.com/" target="_blank">Bistro Lourent Tourondel Burger</a>, 470 6th Ave. The blend of people inside was like an awkwardly mixed drink: the elementary school student still in his uniform, having dinner with his mother; a the table of John Jay professors swigging beer and a table full of young adults having drink after $12 drink was just another paradox in the restaurant.</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-bottom:0;">While appetizing, the food was hardly gourmet. Though in a place with staff wearing t-shirts with slogans like “If you are what you eat then I’m fast, cheap and easy,” I remembered that a gourmet atmosphere was never promised.</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-bottom:0;">Overall, this experience as overshadowed by the fact that something was always just a little bit “off.” It was almost affordable, <em>but</em> the watered down drinks were too expensive. It was almost authentic, <em>but</em> the wood appeared <a href="http://www.fauxwoodbeams.com/" target="_blank">faux</a>. But, as was the theme for the night, everything it wasn’t made it everything it should be: the food wasn’t delectable, <em>but</em> a fun night with friends in a new restaurant made it <em>just </em>good enough.</p>
<p class="western" style="margin-bottom:0;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>The Bottom Line</strong></span></p>
<p class="western" style="margin-bottom:0;">The <a href="http://www.bltburger.com/" target="_blank">BLT (Bistro Laurent Tourondel) Burger</a> is a medium-sized restaurant on a medium-length block that serves medium-well, medium sized (mediocre) burgers. However, their friendly staff, open space and multitudinous menu spice things up. It is a great place to relax with friends, take in the sounds and try something new…like the <a href="http://recipedude.com/recipes/fried_pickles.html" target="_blank">Fried Dill Pickles</a>….or The Stripper.</p>
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		<title>The Ultimate in Christmas Jams</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Dec 2008 08:34:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I am a total holiday badass!
I love everything related to the Christmas season. (I am also one of those people who go through holiday withdrawal around January 5. I&#8217;m generally pretty depressed until Valentine&#8217;s Day&#8230;which, depending on my personal life, can bring a whole new set of problems.)
Anyway, somehow (perhaps when I upgraded my [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=justme1a.wordpress.com&blog=1416713&post=264&subd=justme1a&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>So I am a total holiday badass!<img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-267" title="ornamenthanging101" src="http://justme1a.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/ornamenthanging101.jpg?w=128&#038;h=96" alt="ornamenthanging101" width="128" height="96" /></p>
<p>I love everything related to the Christmas season.<img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-265" title="images" src="http://justme1a.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/images.jpeg?w=127&#038;h=96" alt="images" width="127" height="96" /> (I am also one of those people who go through holiday withdrawal around January 5. I&#8217;m generally pretty depressed until Valentine&#8217;s Day&#8230;which, depending on my personal life, can bring a whole new set of problems.)<span id="more-264"></span></p>
<p>Anyway, somehow (perhaps when I upgraded my laptop) I lost most of the good Christmas music I had. So, I&#8217;m taking suggestions (and links) for songs you consider the Ultimate in Christmas Jams. Yeah, I said JAMS! That let&#8217;s you know exactly what type of music I&#8217;m looking for; it can be straight from the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Motown-Christmas-Various-Artists/dp/B00000JPBZ" target="_blank">Motown Christmas Album</a>; or something that should have been included.</p>
<p>So the questions is: What Christmas Jams put you in the mood for food, family and fun? (**For the slower readers, I&#8217;m taking suggestions!)</p>
<p>My number one: <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donny_Hathaway" target="_blank">Donny Hathaway,</a> This Christmas (<a href="http://www.megaupload.com/?d=1FFRGCTY" target="_blank">http://www.megaupload.com/?d=1FFRGCTY</a>):</p>
<p><span style='text-align:center; display: block;'><object width='425' height='350'><param name='movie' value='http://www.youtube.com/v/nJO_kdkrj1g&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' /> <param name='allowfullscreen' value='true' /> <param name='wmode' value='transparent' /> <embed src='http://www.youtube.com/v/nJO_kdkrj1g&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' allowfullscreen='true' width='425' height='350' wmode='transparent'></embed> </object></span></p>
<p>**Okay, I lied. I also LOVE Ray Charles and Betty Carter, Baby It&#8217;s Cold Outside (<a href="http://www.megaupload.com/?d=MP13SF3V" target="_blank">http://www.megaupload.com/?d=MP13SF3V</a>):</p>
<p><span style='text-align:center; display: block;'><object width='425' height='350'><param name='movie' value='http://www.youtube.com/v/G5Rbkcxiibw&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' /> <param name='allowfullscreen' value='true' /> <param name='wmode' value='transparent' /> <embed src='http://www.youtube.com/v/G5Rbkcxiibw&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' allowfullscreen='true' width='425' height='350' wmode='transparent'></embed> </object></span></p>
<p>*Track I really enjoy, but am sort of embarrassed to admit: Macy Gray, Santa Baby (<a href="http://www.megaupload.com/?d=HB4SVWNM" target="_blank">http://www.megaupload.com/?d=HB4SVWNM</a>):</p>
<p><span style='text-align:center; display: block;'><object width='425' height='350'><param name='movie' value='http://www.youtube.com/v/mPK15QIDS-s&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' /> <param name='allowfullscreen' value='true' /> <param name='wmode' value='transparent' /> <embed src='http://www.youtube.com/v/mPK15QIDS-s&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' allowfullscreen='true' width='425' height='350' wmode='transparent'></embed> </object></span></p>
<p>Suggestions, please, folks! xoxo</p>
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		<title>Creative Christmas</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a recent telephone conversation, Forest announced that he wanted a &#8220;creative&#8221; Christmas gift. WTF?
&#8220;I don&#8217;t even know what that means,&#8221; I said to Canela, frustrated out of my mind.
&#8220;It means create something; make something,&#8221; Canela said, after which I promptly rolled my eyes and sighed heavily, while leaning back into the super soft arm [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=justme1a.wordpress.com&blog=1416713&post=256&subd=justme1a&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>In a recent telephone conversation, <a href="http://justme1a.wordpress.com/2008/08/26/flaws-and-all/" target="_blank">Forest</a> announced that he wanted a &#8220;creative&#8221; Christmas gift. WTF?</p>
<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t even know what that means,&#8221; I said to <a href="http://canelanyc.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Canela</a>, frustrated out of my mind.</p>
<p>&#8220;It means create something; make something,&#8221; <a href="http://canelanyc.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Canela</a> said, after which I promptly rolled my eyes and sighed heavily, while leaning back into the super soft arm chair.</p>
<p>I have no idea what to give. As a <a href="http://aginlock.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">former writer</a>, my mother suggested writing a poem (she went a step further by suggesting I write it on a photo silhouette) or making a dyed noodle picture. I don&#8217;t really bake, although many websites and people suggest baking him cookies. I really don&#8217;t know. Finances are tight (and he knows) so I know that although he IS the type to appreciate and love something creative and from the heart, this also lets me off the hook financially.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s weird that I am having such a hard time with this because I know how I feel about him and think should be simple. If you see me in the coming weeks with a furrowed brow <a href="http://justme1a.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/images-1.jpeg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-261" title="images-1" src="http://justme1a.files.wordpress.com/2008/12/images-1.jpeg?w=96&#038;h=96" alt="images-1" width="96" height="96" /></a> you&#8217;ll know why.</p>
<p>**Any ideas?</p>
<p>**Maybe I can do this (make a Christmas ornament out of a credit card): <span style='text-align:center; display: block;'><object width='425' height='350'><param name='movie' value='http://www.youtube.com/v/6DzCkUCBWNY&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' /> <param name='allowfullscreen' value='true' /> <param name='wmode' value='transparent' /> <embed src='http://www.youtube.com/v/6DzCkUCBWNY&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' allowfullscreen='true' width='425' height='350' wmode='transparent'></embed> </object></span></p>
<p>Mine serves no real purpose, anyway.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 09:01:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I always have a hard time with apologies. Like a man in an awkward sense, but more because I need them and men don&#8217;t give them.
My sign, if you believe in that sort of thing, is Cancer. There are a lot of adjectives used to thrust me and others like me into that category, but [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=justme1a.wordpress.com&blog=1416713&post=252&subd=justme1a&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>I always have a hard time with apologies. Like a man in an awkward sense, but more because I need them and men don&#8217;t give them.</p>
<p>My sign, if you believe in that sort of thing, is <a href="http://www.astrology-online.com/cancer.htm" target="_blank">Cancer</a>. There are a lot of adjectives used to thrust me and others like me into that category, but the one I will elaborate on now is sensitive. Things really effect me. I was recently pissed because a guy I thought was my friend was ignoring me on <a href="www.twitter.com" target="_blank">Twitter</a>. It&#8217;s freaking <a href="www.twitter.com/aginlock" target="_blank">Twitter</a> for goodness sakes! (I also don&#8217;t think he really cares for me in real life, but, that&#8217;s neither here nor there.) It wasn&#8217;t until I found out that he wasn&#8217;t even following me on Twitter (which brings even more issues to my heart) that I realized he wasn&#8217;t purposely ignoring me.</p>
<p>So while I file many grievances, another Cancerian trait I have is loyalty. Like a dog. It&#8217;s pathetic in some ways. I mention this because it doesn&#8217;t take much to win me [back] over. (Granted, I am a true CRAB and when you&#8217;re outside of my hard outer shell, it&#8217;s a wrap!<span id="more-252"></span><!--more--></p>
<p>&#8230;Back to my grievances&#8230;.The main thing I ask for from people, in situations when I feel wronged are apologies. I mean, I would hope they are sincere, but (and I think this is more of a female trait than anything) I often just want people to acknowledge the wrong.</p>
<p>Scenario: My BF was out uber late and never called to say, &#8220;I&#8217;ll be out uber late&#8230;holla homie!&#8221; Now, I&#8217;m not a nagging girlfriend and to be totally honest I didn&#8217;t even care where he was. We have trust so that&#8217;s never an issue. However, I&#8217;m of the &#8220;courtesy calls&#8221; era and I don&#8217;t believe HOURS should go by without so much as a word. Anyway, I screamed on him (via text. hehehe) and he just didn&#8217;t get it. After I&#8217;d calmed down, I realized that all I wanted was for him to say, &#8220;Wow. I see how it frustrated you. My bad.&#8221;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t need love songs and chocolate. Just an acknowledgment of the situation. Sigh&#8230;I guess my issue though, is how do I move on when I can&#8217;t get that.</p>
<p>And while I&#8217;m over my ex, there are still days when I just want to call him and scream, &#8220;Just acknowledge that you were wrong too!&#8221; As what I considered the high road, I apologized to him post-breakup for what I felt were my shortcomings in our nearly six years relationship. But for whatever reason, he could never do that. I wonder how that has served him in the two years since our split?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure why this topic blasted home tonight (save for a <a href="http://www.ptygrneyez.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">blog</a> i read earlier), but it obviously resonated for a reason since it compelled me to blog for the first time in months.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll post a video below that was featured in said blog (and come back with links and tags later).</p>
<p><span style='text-align:center; display: block;'><object width='425' height='350'><param name='movie' value='http://www.youtube.com/v/0LH_xEpsFyc&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' /> <param name='allowfullscreen' value='true' /> <param name='wmode' value='transparent' /> <embed src='http://www.youtube.com/v/0LH_xEpsFyc&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' allowfullscreen='true' width='425' height='350' wmode='transparent'></embed> </object></span></p>
<p>And finally, some apologies of my own:</p>
<p>1. To <a href="http://justme1a.wordpress.com/2008/08/26/flaws-and-all/" target="_blank">Forest</a>: I&#8217;m sorry I didn&#8217;t say I love you when I hung up last night. Of course I do, but I know you hate it. I think that&#8217;s why I did it.</p>
<p>2. To My roommates: I apologize for being quiet (some would even say moody) since my return to NYC. I am relatively depressed. Period.</p>
<p>3. To The Cabbie: I apologize for not calling you the next day. I just didn&#8217;t have the money&#8230;even though $40 IS the price you quoted!</p>
<p>4. To D.Dot: for blasting you (even though you didn&#8217;t realize) on Twitter.</p>
<p>Peace!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I looove this song, but had never seen the video. Until today. LMAO@ the credits during the ENTIRE vid

**Shouts to CanelaNYC for not buggin when I had this song on repeat. And Trish for bringing it to my attention. And big shouts to all the people on the 1 train who diddnt flip when I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=justme1a.wordpress.com&blog=1416713&post=246&subd=justme1a&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>I looove this song, but had never seen the video. Until today. LMAO@ the credits during the ENTIRE vid</p>
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<p>**Shouts to <a href="canelanyc.blogspot.com" target="_blank">CanelaNYC</a> for not buggin when I had this song on repeat. And <a href="http://www.dailymotion.com/swf/k61BwgyoqmlzTAtklj" target="_blank">Trish</a> for bringing it to my attention. And big shouts to all the people on the 1 train who diddnt flip when I was rappin it OUT LOUD.**</p>
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