Thrive After Divorce

The Power of “No”: 3 Ways to Save Your Sanity and Create More Calm

Carolyn — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:13:17 PST

I am blessed with a beautiful south-facing backyard. I love those moments when I can sit outside or play with my dog, just to soak up some sunshine and fresh air. But lately I noticed things haven’t been so sunny in my backyard. The willow I planted over 10 years ago has branches that now [...]

Divorce Decisions: A Step-by-Step Approach

Carolyn — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:09:58 PST

Q. “I haven’t started the process yet. I’m looking for a step-by-step and/or checklist to begin to engage the process. The task seems so daunting and I’m so emotional drained and I can’t think straight. I have project management skills, I’m having problems using those skills to get this process started and see it through [...]

Recovering From a Wipeout: A 4-Step Formula for Success

Carolyn — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 06:31:17 PDT

Do you ever wonder what goes on in the mind of the surfer after he gets wiped out by a huge wave? Riding high and then something comes along to take you out is an experience everyone can relate to. What do you do when you make a mistake or when life fires an unexpected [...]

Divorce: Do You Really Need a Lawyer or Not?

Carolyn — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 06:27:39 PDT

Q. “ My husband and I have decided to file for divorce, and we have two children and some real estate as assets. He thinks we can work out the divorce on our own, but I wonder if I should get a divorce attorney. I want to make this a civil process, but am afraid [...]

The Info Trap: Break Free by Taking Action

Carolyn — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 16:07:00 PDT

“My name is Carolyn, and I am an information addict.” I don’t know if there are 12-step programs out there for info-aholics yet, but it might be a good idea for someone to start one! In all seriousness, I love learning new ideas about all kinds of topics. When I went through my separation years [...]