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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/yMuVQjLbfSY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/09/02/transitions-3-strategies-to-make-transitions-smoother-and-easier/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/09/02/transitions-3-strategies-to-make-transitions-smoother-and-easier/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Divorce and Separation: When Your Ex Badmouths You To Your Children</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/9qnZHmwdypE/</link><category>Children &amp;amp; Parenting</category><category>Communication Skills</category><category>Divorce</category><category>badmouthing</category><category>parental alienation</category><category>parenting</category><category>separation</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 11:26:01 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=970</guid><description>Q. “How do I maintain a good relationship with my son who is regularly exposed to negative talk about me from his father?
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/9qnZHmwdypE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/09/02/divorce-and-separation-when-your-ex-badmouths-you-to-your-children/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/09/02/divorce-and-separation-when-your-ex-badmouths-you-to-your-children/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>3 Keys to Staying Afloat In Turbulent Times</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/UmZO04Fbhz8/</link><category>Coaching</category><category>Motivation &amp;amp; Mindset</category><category>goals</category><category>success</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 09:40:07 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=949</guid><description>Life is not always going to be a “smooth sailing” kind of experience. Right now there is a lot of turmoil going on in the world – economically, politically, environmentally, even socially. In the world of your own life, how are you faring? Are you getting rocked by the waves and wondering to stay afloat?
This [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/UmZO04Fbhz8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/08/19/3-keys-to-staying-afloat-in-turbulent-times/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/08/19/3-keys-to-staying-afloat-in-turbulent-times/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Divorce and Separation: You’re Not Losing Your Mind</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/m0m1kLZ80Bo/</link><category>Divorce</category><category>Motivation &amp;amp; Mindset</category><category>Resources</category><category>decision-making</category><category>mindset</category><category>separation</category><category>stress</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2010 09:37:27 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=953</guid><description>Q. “My husband and I are getting separated after 15 years (his idea) and I feel crushed. I feel like I’m losing my mind though – I keep forgetting things and can’t seem to focus my attention any more. Is this normal?”
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/m0m1kLZ80Bo" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/08/19/divorce-and-separation-you%e2%80%99re-not-losing-your-mind/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/08/19/divorce-and-separation-you%e2%80%99re-not-losing-your-mind/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>3 Ways to Break Free of Resistance</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/tE8v6yO-XCA/</link><category>Coaching</category><category>Motivation &amp;amp; Mindset</category><category>change</category><category>resistance</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 13:01:00 PDT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=935</guid><description>We’ve all had those great moments of inspiration, where an amazing idea is sparked within us and we’re totally energized to make it happen. Your focus is clear and your creative juices are flowing. With your confidence and joy at an all-time high, you feel invincible. That was certainly the case for me when I [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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