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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/dHTZFnCptdQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/03/03/your-trusted-advisors-5-criteria-to-build-the-right-team/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/03/03/your-trusted-advisors-5-criteria-to-build-the-right-team/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Divorce: Hung Up on Your Ex?</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/BCmafzRHx4Q/</link><category>Dating/Relationships</category><category>Divorce</category><category>Motivation &amp;amp; Mindset</category><category>Resources</category><category>grief</category><category>letting go</category><category>separation</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 16:11:19 PST</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=818</guid><description>Q. I am having a really hard time letting go. I still love my ex-husband and don’t know how to let that go so I can move on.
A. Thank you for a wonderful question that many people can relate to for sure! Letting go of any significant relationship requires time, awareness and support. In a [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/BCmafzRHx4Q" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/03/03/divorce-hung-up-on-your-ex/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/03/03/divorce-hung-up-on-your-ex/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Inspiration: 3 Keys to Crossing Any Finish Line</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/0lWm2cIPlm8/</link><category>Coaching</category><category>Motivation &amp;amp; Mindset</category><category>inspiration</category><category>Olympics</category><category>purpose</category><category>success</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 06:30:55 PST</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=800</guid><description>During the 2010 Winter Olympics, Canada hit an exciting milestone. Alexandre Bilodeau became the first Canadian to win Olympic gold on home soil when he won the men’s mogul freestyle skiing event. It is an incredibly demanding and gutsy sport. To see the hometown crowd go wild when he was declared the winner was a [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/0lWm2cIPlm8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/02/18/inspiration-3-keys-to-crossing-any-finish-line/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/02/18/inspiration-3-keys-to-crossing-any-finish-line/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Divorce and Attorneys: How to Manage the Costs of Divorce</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/Pdt9UaBpKiI/</link><category>Divorce</category><category>Legal System</category><category>attorneys</category><category>divorce attorney</category><category>legal system</category><category>separation</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 06:28:03 PST</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=803</guid><description>Q. I&amp;#8217;m overwhelmed by the legal questions - who to turn to? How do I keep the costs down? How do I really come up with a realistic financial agreement with my spouse? Do I trust what the lawyer is telling my soon-to-be ex?
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~4/Pdt9UaBpKiI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><wfw:commentRss xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/02/18/divorce-and-attorneys-how-to-manage-the-costs-of-divorce/feed/</wfw:commentRss><feedburner:origLink>http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/2010/02/18/divorce-and-attorneys-how-to-manage-the-costs-of-divorce/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>Dealing with the Unknown: 3 Strategies for Handling Uncertainty</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ThriveAfterDivorce/~3/V8Ehqurvf8c/</link><category>Coaching</category><category>Motivation &amp;amp; Mindset</category><category>mindset</category><category>success strategies</category><category>uncertainty</category><category>unknown</category><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Carolyn</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 11:11:58 PST</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.thriveafterdivorceblog.com/?p=790</guid><description>Uncertainty and dealing with the unknown is something we all must learn to cope with. John Lennon once said, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” If that’s the case, are there ways to live with the unknown with a greater sense of mastery and ease? I believe so!
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