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Rare - Asian Star tiedup in Bondage and Ball gagged

2011-09-28T00:36:00.000-07:00

It is all over the internet in a matter of minutes upon its initial release, but it is now confirmed: Asian pop culture star, Cecilia Cheung, is the sole model in a 39 second short clip, which feature her being tiedup in obviously professional and extremely sexy silk rope bondage and mouth gagged with an large-size rubber ball gag.

It is hard to believe at first, but it did not took long before it is confirmed and detail revealed that it was indeed Cecilia herself, "performing" in scene that acted out the frustration of being the "prisoner" of media, especially the properazzi.

When Bondage and BDSM is still considered a abnormal lifestyle in Hong Kong, a film like this was definitely a shocking to the general public, but a big boost to open-minded individuals whom grew tired of hearing "professional" psychologists calling practitioners of this lifestyle psychological abnormal. Forget the UK, Germany or even the USA, Hong Kong's collective conservativeness of sex will dwarf even the People's Republic of China.

There could still be a long way ahead before Hong Kong gracefully embrace this lifestyle as part of its own, just as she did with many other culture aspects before, but Asian hot girls, like Cecilia, being tiedup and mouth gagged (and act this submissive) is more than anyone could've asked for.

~ TUG

Emily Marilyn - Half Goddess, Half Precious

2011-08-17T05:22:00.000-07:00

This is a simple post to celebrate the one and only, Emily Marilyn, an amazing Goddess whom would occasionally play the role of the submissive.

No Country For (Macho) Men - Femdom Desire in Mainstream

2011-08-16T20:38:00.000-07:00

Many men are facing a rather "hard" choice nowaday in their bedroom: they must choose between winning over his lover with muscle power, mental toughness and longevity of their blood-flow OR submit their will and total-control over to his Queen/Mistress and become the "bottom" of the relationship.

Now don't get it wrong, being at the "bottom" can have many benefits over being on the "top", for one you don't have to constantly worrying about your performance, for example.
Image all the hard works that you used to be doing all night? Gone!
Image all the brainpower to come up with creative foreplay? Gone!
Image all the time that you have asked for your lover to take control? Yep, it is finally in the mainstream.

Female-domination (FEMDOM) lifesltye have been around for centuries, but it will be the internet that finally pull all the men together and said: Hey, you know you like this! And you acknowledge by constantly logging in to Femdom website one after another...
What used to be a Victorian royal hobby or prison-camp fantasy is now at everybody's reach.

With more and more Women in dominating positions (referring not just in bed), men are no longer the sole-decision maker in the house (of senate) and Women want a share of that power, too. And men love them for that, as well (although many would not want to admit it).

What used to be fantasies in every naughty boy's dream are slowly becoming reality (at least in online porns), like the Femdom Strapon Sex (femalte puts on a strapon dildo and have her way with the helpless "bottom" male, House Discipline (House Mistress uses whip or paddle to "correct" her maid's behavior in the house), Sissy fantasies (Role-reversal and men will be dressing up in sexy female clothings to please the female, whom tend to dress in a uni-sex or power-symbol clothings)

The idea that female will one day take control of the world and enslave all men is still lightyears away from reality, in fact most female today still prefer the "bottom" role of the relationship!
But that does not mean that some women would want to give it a try once in a while and many couples do embrace Femdom lifestyle after a few years into their marriage.

You may heard that many women enjoy the fantasy of Rape sex or forceful sex, but what they did not specified clearly was that many women actually enjoy Raping Men in these fantasy.

According to women that actually done "raping" their men, it is such a power-rush to them when they just thrust their men from behind and reaching climax all without the removal of her pantie!

People used to said that men are more excited by sexual images than women, hence more men watch porn, but in reality women are just as excited by sexual images and scene of men being tied down helplessly to the bed, as well.

And did you noticed that in many Femdom porn pictures, the women are usually well-dressed and fully clothed and the men are naked and exposed? It is obvious that women are in power in these scenes as they can do whatever they want - they can stop and leave the scene if they want to, they can have whip, cuffs, strapon, and many other toys at their disposal. Men in the other hand, are usually naked and exposed, often restraint in humiliating way and are there for the women to enjoy and play with.

Femdom liftstyle and strapon sex are great stress-releasing fun for both men and women: power man can come home and service his Queen on his knee; ordinary housewife can come home from the supermarket and discipline her husband with a wooden spoon... the only limitation is your imagination.

Introducing: Sensual Loving Sleeping Masks / Blindfolds!

2011-06-08T03:41:00.000-07:00

Made out of high quality Silk, these blindfolds will give you the most sensational and erotic blindfold-love-making that you have ever "seen"...

Ultimate foreplay aid - anticipation

2010-09-17T07:33:00.000-07:00

It is so very hot to NOT knowing what is going to happen in your bedroom ( or bed, bathroom, backsit of your car...), especially when you have no way of finding out - with your hand binded and blindfolded.

"...What's he going to do to me now? I can't even remember how long I have been captive by this stranger and I don't know how lnog I will be staying here......mmm... I hope he goes for doggie style tonight..."

"...ah...Please...I will tell you everything that you want to know... please...take me to bed and make me cum... I can't take this anymore...Please...ah...."

(Shown in this image - Red Silk Rope)

"I can hear his foot steps...he's coming to this room, swinging his bullwhip as he walk slowly toward the door...omg...this is going to be a long, long night..."

(Shown in this image - PU Strap Blindfold)

"Where is Link? Who is running the stimulation program now? Why am I binded and blindfolded the moment I log in?? Oh no...this is must be that new "Slavery-Trainning" virus that I have been hearing about...now...just how am I going to get myself outta this...think Trinity, think...."

(Shown in this image - Sensual Sleep Mask)

"ahh.....hmmmm.....mmmm......ohmm....."

(Shown in this image - White Silk Rope, Leather Bar Gag)

"Jack?! Are you still there? Why don't you say anything? Are you still drawing or just standing there staring at me?...If you are not drawing, why don't you come over here and start kiss me? I am already so very wet from all these..."

How would you like to start your foreplay next time??

(Shown in this image - Leather Head Harness with solid ball)

~ TUG

In a bdsm-hotel near you...

2010-08-25T04:48:00.000-07:00

Need to get away for a while?
You may go to vacation to free yourself up, but some of us look to do the oppose...

Please allow our lovely London call girl with a pink hand cuff to introduce you some of our favorite vacation spots around the world...

Hello Kitty S&M Room, Hotel Adonis, Osaka, Japan

Murder Mile Studio, London, UK

Toppers BDSM Retreat, Malaga, Spain

Hotel BDSM, West Yorkshire, UK

Medieval Room, Hotel BDSM, West Yorkshire, UK


Medical Room, Hotel BDSM, West Yorkshire, UK

Suspension Room, Hotel BDSM, West Yorkshire, UK

Whether you are spending your holiday in the West or East, remember that a BDSM-hotel may be very near...more local scenes to be updated soon!

~ TUG

Femdom Mistress Dominates - you are either in love or in pain.

2010-08-24T23:31:00.000-07:00

We all have erotic fantasies that goes beyond the realm of reality, such as having sex on rooftop, having sex while driving, etc...Let's just say that unless you are in a adult movie, it is best to just keep these fantasies to within our imagination.

Luckily, we have a Mistress that know what she is doing with that whip in her hand and is very kind to share her opinion and knowledge with those seeking to explore more into the realm of female domination (such as myself).
If you have not read any of Ms. Sutton's femdom articles and books, I would highly recommend that you start by exploring her Love Female Authority website.

And in the month of August, Ms. Sutton release her 3rd book "Searching for Wanda". A book that follow Leopold von Sacher-Masochthe's life story, the man from whom the term “masochist” was coined, and a closer look into today's submissive-minded men and their journey in finding that cruel and loving (or unloving) female authority of their dream.

As usual, the cover is drew brilliantly by The Sardax, the famous artist whom also did quite a few good drawings, such as these :

And I agree with Ms. Sutton that men need simply to treating & caring their women as their Queen with love and respect, and to empower the love of your life with the supreme female authority (of your house).

May all men can eventually find that Wanda of their life and live happily ever after in the hand of their loving (or unloving) Mistress.

You can find more sexy corsets here.

~ TUG

Bondage figure in Japan, Art or Toy?

2008-06-21T21:15:00.001-07:00

You may never find these figures hanging out in the living room of your cousin's house, but they are being bought and collected in Japan by Hentai (Japanese adult animation) lover all the time.

Many gamers in the USA probably do thing similar to the following: you bought Tomb Raider game for your PC, then download a "SKIN" patch that would "remove" Lara's clothing so you could see her naked body bouncing in front of you while you try to shoot the boss... Now, it is more or less the same in Japan, except they carry it over just a 'slightly' more to reality.

If you really love a female character in a Japanese animation, chances are there may be a sexy "1-to-16" figure of her in some lusty fashion. One of the most regular items to show up in this list would be the following girl from EVA (Evangelion). It is one of the fetish icon in the Hentai world, the look of her eyes, the eye-patch, the white-ribbon wrapped body, etc...

What are the advantages of wanting to date a imaginary figures like these? Let's see: ultra-unrealistic body figure (or just WOW-body), very very submissive (BDSM??), like to be treated like a slave at all time (c'mon, have you seen their gestures?), and have perfect hair regardless of the situation that they are in. You can't have that in a real girl, can't you? Yes, but you can't have these girls in reality either, or CAN YOU!?!?! (Some Japanese scientists are already trying to figure this out as we speak...)

~Mstr_William
6-22-2008

How Japanese bondage porn can mix good story telling, artistic cinematography AND sex!

2008-04-28T20:31:00.000-07:00

Perhaps even a 15 years old teenager could tell, that the some of the major differences between the West & the East in the way they film sex scene and tell naughty tales. It could be just a matter of taste and the way majority of the audiences like in term of either stop/fast forward whenever someone start talking (rather than you know, 'acting').

Now there are plenty of Western adult films that have strong "story" telling & good "action", don't get me wrong, but when being compare to their Eastern counterpart - everything just seems overwhelming and unnecessary.

Think about the way Japanese directors put his/her camera is worth noting: always follow the actions wherever they goes! Let it be zooming in & out of the nipple while its being twisted (or as simple as being revealed!), going down the curvy body line and back, or even the slightest flicking of the model/actress's emotional face is so dynamic because of the camera movement and the ever-so-slow, hand-held shooting.

C'mon, even a DVD-cover shot use ridiculously fine focus & over the top soft touch (& background blur in this case). I highly recommended that you check out one of the best AV (adult video) studio in Japan (they even have English version :), named CineMagic.co.

These covers alone could almost convince you that those girls can really act! (they can't...really "-_- ).... However, the credits goes to the photographers & the directors who made the films and movies so enjoyable (and ALSO exciting to watch, nonetheless).

Once again, great photography, but more importantly here in this particular example: the shadow! Yes, a technique many Western porn simply don't care or forgot they have it in their camera. We are bombarded constantly with "High-Definition" vaginal & pennis all the time here in America (I believe this is also the case in Europe as well), not because we own more HD-TV here...(Sony is from Japan, yes?).

The reason there are so many close-up, brighter than daylight shot of their genitals in Western porns is because audiences enjoy it more here (or "more audiences", should I say) and they need to see everything that they already paid for.

Okay, on paper, this should be quite popular in Western porns, but it isn't - Daylight as light main light source. I am not talking about outdoor scenes, no, this is strictly in-door with windows or holes that allow limited sunlight to act as spot-light or reflected light source. Not only does this put a happy atmosphere into a otherwise, "dark" scene (like above), it is also beautiful and flattering on the subjects.

Directors can use spot-light to direct viewers' eyes toward the intended spot - "Wow, look at that nice ass of her!!".

Everything is so sublime, if you can call it, that many viewers from Japan may not even know that they are there...but they are working, even in unconscious level.

Believe me, like any movie industry in this world, only few studios in Japan can accomplished what CineMagic.co can do.

And let's not forgot one of the limited use technique in Western porn - color matching. No, we are not talking whether or not her T-back match her clear-heel here! We are talking about the composition of the scene - you know, the background, middle ground, foreground and how viewers' eyes are directed to go around the screen? Yes, that!

How many time have you seen a DVD-covers of a Western porn that has multiple blond ladies almost all blended in with one and another? Even blended in with the background? Note: that beautiful beach, handsome fireman or dark night club doesn't even help to bring class to the scene (but it does improve your vision if it is the breast that you are starring at :)

Feel free to visit the studio's website and enjoy more of their beautiful models & photography and share your opinion if you may.

You can find similar Japanese soft hemp ropes used above in here.

~ TUG

These sexy, bondaged secretaries will make your overtime - priceless!

2008-04-21T19:15:00.000-07:00

There is something so mysterious about beautiful women in tight suit, short skirt & heel, but somehow being sexually humiliated at work (in a good way...not all bosses are mean & unattractive ;)

In many Japanese adult films, secretary slaves appear almost 1 out of every 5 movies (especially the bondage type). They are not just a popular white-collars' wet-dreams toward that unreachable hot babe sitting next to the boss in Japan, it is all over the world!

Let's break this fantasy down a bit:

First of all, there's the surface level attraction that secretary give off naturally in a work place because they are usually the prettiest among your co-workers (even if she may not be the smartest, but that's outside of our subject here...:)
To properly represent the image of her company and the gentleman she accompanied with, she will have to look her best most the time...your company image never look so impressive!
Men love to image women naked in bed when they see them dress so properly (especially ladies with respectful manner & elegant figure) - why you think they are so eager to go to the meeting this morning?!?!?

Bullshit aside, now let's break down the Fetish side of this fantasy:

Heel - Men will give up their life for a taste of that elegant pump that she's been wearing all day...maybe that's just me but still - beautiful long legs, smooth satin/silk stocking, short skirt, matching pump or high heel...just kill me please!
Did I mentioned satin stocking? or silk stocking? Check.
Short skirt? Check.
Not to encourage raping at all, but who wouldn't want to undress a fully suited up babe (with shirt so tight, that those nipples are clearly visible in them chest pockets!)

Here we have some great example of the diverse influence of the secretary fantasy finding its way to the silver screen:

Then there is the Japanese's hilarious Adult Video scene imitating TV show! :)

Kinda make you want to start up your own company in Tokyo just to have an excuse to hire one of these hot babe to sit next to you, doesn't it? (Or if you don't speak Japanese like me, you can always spend fraction of that cost and buy your girlfriend/wife a suit and play along... :)

4-21-2008
~Mstr-William

Self-bondage, basic body rope-harness - 01

2008-04-11T02:05:00.000-07:00

Click above image to enlarge

Do you have an inclination for BDSM?

2008-04-09T11:01:00.000-07:00

Take this test to find out whether you may be secretly wanting to be dominated or to dominate your partner: BDSM Inclination Test

or

http://quizfarm.com/test.php?q_id=136192N

CFNM or Clothed Females Naked Male - It is already happening!

2008-04-09T10:47:00.001-07:00

Male Chastity Device for Dummies (Vol. 3000)

2008-03-25T17:50:00.000-07:00

There are numerous chastity devices in the world and it has been produced ever since the realization of male sexual hunger. Women are very good at controlling themselves, as well as their lover in term of orgasm denial (i.e., I am not gonna have sex with you if you...) Ladies, you won't have to do/say that anymore: all you have to do is put this little baby onto your hubbie and hold on to your key (yes, it come with it, but a special lock & key of your own goes a long way here... :), and you've got yourself a powerful tool in your hand (or on his member).

Alright, enough introduction into the device and we are moving into the subject of this article: how the hell do you put this thing on?? Although it is pretty much self-explanatory, it is in fact not so easy to tell if you are only looking at those products' pictures that's out there today (you know, the one that only show the man and his chastity, a finished product). What if you have doubt to whether you will be comfortable in it? (models are trained to smile no matter what anyway)

Fellow submissive males, fear no more as the unofficial CB for Dummies is here:

Here's a sample CB-3000 being used as demonstration and of course it is quite similar to many of the male chastity device out there in the market today (female chastity devices are vastly different, so until next time...).

The package include:

5 x different cuff rings
5 x Spacers
3 x Guide Pins
1 x Cage Portion
1 x brass lock & keys
3 x Points of intrigue (not shown in the picture)

The steps are broken down and accompanied with pictures to give the easiest learning curve possible :), let's start:

Find the right size Cuff Ring. Open it to its widest point and put behind the ball sack. Find the smallest size possible for a comfortable, secure fit. Close the ring and insert the locking pin in the middle hole (if you experience any swelling or discoloration in the ball sack, go to the next larger size).
Lubricate the head and top shaft of the penis with baby oil or baby gel. Insert the penis into the cage. Push the penis down in order to avoid pinching when inserting the guide pins for connection to the Cuff Ring.
Spacers are provided for proper fitting. Spacers go between the Cage Portion and Cuff Rings on the locking pin. This ensures security and comfort and to avoid any pinching. The small Spacers go behind the lock and in front of the Cage Portion when needed.
The two guide pins will be inserted into the Cuff Ring. Once you wear it for a few days and find the proper spacing, cut the ends of the guide pins off with a pair of side cutter pliers and smooth the edges with an emery board.
Attach the brass lock through the hole at the end of the locking pin (remember where you place your key or better yet – hand it over to your lover!)
Use a mild soap and soft brush to clean the inside and outside of the Cage Portion when needed. DO NOT USE HOUSEHOLD CLEANING PRODUCTS.

Remember - After showering, make sure that you body is dried before applying body lotion or baby oil to the head of the penis and spread with a cotton swab or your hand. This allows the penis to easily slide back down into the Cage Portion

*Please notes: Air travel is not recommended with this product as the cuff ring connectors are still made out of steel (sacrificing stealth for maximum quality and comfort)

This concluded the CB for Dummies - Male Chastity Device Guide, happy locking! :)

~mstr-william
3-25-2008

ZeroPointZero Watch Handcuffs - "Kinky" is going to Paris

2008-03-19T19:10:00.000-07:00

Check out these new watch from designer Luis Beruman: a digital watch attached on top of a pair of hand cuff. Even if you've lose your key during last night's wild foreplay, you won't have to rush to get these trendy accessories off in a hurry. Pictures has been spread among the web on this low-tech, high fashion item, but little is known at this time.

Whether the owner of this watch suggest anything underneath his/her basement is outside of the equation, as nobody would associate it with fetish enthusiasts (similar to the theory that, no one living a BDSM lifestyle refer themselves as "kinky" - which make sense because to them it is just better than the regular "vanilla-sex").

Nevertheless, this is actually a small step forward as it will ignite more fusion in designers to make more fetish-themed products, since I have always wanted a "LV" collar to go with my wallet.

~mstr-william
3-19-2008

From kinky collectors to everyday users: bondage figure going mainstream (in Japan)

2008-03-08T17:21:00.000-08:00

You will never find this type of "action figures" in Wal-Mart, nor will it come with your "happy-meal" from MacDonald's, but they are in many places in a country known for its unique tolerance (if not appreciation) toward erotic animation (aka Hentai).

There are comics all around Japan, and a lot of them contains sexy animated figures (straight from comic or the animation) and they are up for sale in these convention (or for auction sometime ~ often quite expensive to start with!)

If you have read the iDollator article from this blog, the it is no surprise to you that increasing number of Japanese males are in love with animated sexy dolls (the ones in the animation), rather than some equally attractive females in reality. One man even mentioned in the interview on his iDollator that, "...Unlike real women, these "girl" will never cheat on me or unfaithful to me..." He may not be very optimistic when it come to relationship, but he does have great imagination!

Now, if they really enjoy being around their doll, and Shibari (Japanese rope-bondage) is originated from Japan, it only make sense that they also bondage their doll while they are at it.
These poor ladies are being bounded in some extreme position just to please their masters. Well let's face it, real women can't stay being tied up like that for half an hour, can they?
Plus, not only are these action figures got some unusually huge tits, they are also willing to fit into any kind of imaginable costume/situation/fantasies or-(insect yours here).

Isn't it exciting to be kinky collectors in Japan? Now, let's take a look at some of the action figures or collectors' toys that ordinary folks in Japan are getting:

Awwww.....

How cute~~~

**@%*#&$#@**! ~~~ Are you kidding me?!?!?!? If I am to take my time to decorate my iPhone with a nice piece of accessories, at least give me something like this:

3-9-2008
mstr-william

Use bondage toys to correct your love one's bad habits

2008-03-08T03:31:00.000-08:00

When people think of Bondage toys or novelties, the first thing that come to their mind may be some naughty scenes from a recent porno flick (or one that they starred in :). However, there are many many PRACTICAL things about these toys that we just don't see pass that.

Here's a list of bondage toys that can be put to good use outside of the bedroom (treat this as a alternative way of using them if you ALREADY use them outside often :P):

Ball Gag - Ever wonder what it would be like to enjoy your favorite sport game without any disturbing from your love one? Just suggest a role-playing game half an hour before the GAME, tied him/her to the bed (or anywhere other than the living room), blindfold, ball-gagged and struggling helplessly. Use a vibration toy or anything that she/he like for stimulation and of course, you are free to enjoy your OTHER favorite show for at least an hour or so... :)
Riding Crop / Flogger- Cowgirl or reverse Cowgirl is among the top favorite position by the ladies, but it is a intense workout to shake that nice ass all night long (especially when the men are simply enjoying the show and do nothing!) Well, fear not to use your elegant riding crop on your RIDE ladies. Determine the speed of your engine by slapping that whip downward whenever and wherever you see fits. Maybe invite your girlfriends and their lovers for some exciting competition!
Collar - Tired of having your love one just sitting in that sofa for hours, watching TV and gaining another 10 lbs by Friday? Bring out your collar and leash him/her around the house in a little role-play game that you created. Just tell him/her that you love to walk your favorite pet everyday, and who could turn down such generous gesture.

The only downside of incorporating these toys into your ordinary routines is that it is hard to get rid of his hard-on when you don't really need it there. Well, put on a chastity device on him and you will not feel the trouble until...you allow it.

3-8-2008
~Mstr-William

Light, Camera, Rope, Gag, and...Action!

2008-01-31T10:57:00.000-08:00

Another beautiful portrait of these two lovely ladies is captured and it will be viewed by tens of thousands of viewers all over the internet, in China alone. If you type in the website address watermarked on these photos, it will take you straight to the wonderful bondage world of the Chinese cyberspace - where freedom of expression and speech get more gigabytes than their real life counterpart.
This article, however, does not want to rise the political issue or whatever policies they might have within the Great Wall. What is more certain is that there's now a wider audiences around the world interested in the beauty of bounded/gagged/blindfolded (...your fantasy here...) beauties. And it is not just the females that we are tying up and shoot at the studio either, there are even documentary regarding the Fetish of males who love to be dominated by women (Search for "Bondage" in JOOST to see it).

These photographs are not from what you might called "porn-site", but they are "salon-picture" from studios all over China taking professional photographs for their clients. Yes, these girls might be models, but they are there to attract the real customers - male/female who want their pictures to be taken, while being bounded in different elegant positions/styles. You didn't think that they are making their money from viewers alone, didn't you?

It is gaining popularity in Japan, China and someday it may even be a option in your wedding shoot category. The chemistry of Bondage and photography is so huge that even professional photographers are seriously considering whether they should being to learn the basic of rope-work for future business needs (or for creating a more modern portfolio).

Madonna and Angelina Jolie did their part of spreading the erotic beauty of BDSM (better yet, showing what an elegant, beautiful, and absolutely "striking" Mistress that they can be :) - lucky Pitt), and now it is like a wild fire spreading all over the world thanks to the power of the Internet.
Beauty and restraints are becoming a powerful symbol of control and domination (works for both top/bottom) and it may just become a routine part of love couples in the future: "Honey, I can't wait to kiss you all over and then spank you all over, whichever come first!", "O, Honey, that's so sweet!" ~

2-1-2008
~Mstr-William

Red Light Center - Secondlife for the Sexual-Minds

2008-01-05T18:34:00.001-08:00

First there was Second-Life, where users can create & engage within their own virtual community with vivid 3D imageries and of course, beautiful Avatars.
Now there's a new virtual world in town for a very specific reason: to allow adults to engage in Cyber-sexual activities in a all too real 3-dimensional world - Red Light Center

It is no surprise that such games are growing ever more popular as internet is currently housing more porns than any single civilization can ever produce. Whether you are going to this 3D world because you are curious about it or simply want to play your favorite fantasies out in a more imaginable world, you will want to give this game a try.

Of course, you DO need to pay to enjoy some of the VIP service of this games, but then again, you are a "casual adult game participant", you could enjoy this game just as much as gamers that own 100 pairs of "programmer-designed" pumps.

It is no secret that many users within Second Life are engaging in Cyber-Sex as we speak, but with games like Red Light Center, at least there won't be any kid wondering into a strip-club while looking for a educational class room in the Second Life world.

Sensua-wise: It is almost identical as Second Life unless they do upgrade it with a Unreal Engine, but this is a 3D adult game and it is the skin and fresh that you are really looking at most the time.

Consensual-wise: It is wise to keep the adult content away from kids so they don't accidentally wonder into it by typing a wrong keyword (yes, you can teleport to a strip-club easily in SL). If kids are looking for porn these days, it is nearly impossible to stop them with the help of the internet. However, this is a good news for parents as businesses for adult are begin to put 18+ sign on their contents.

1-5-2008
~Mstr-William

iDollator, and no, Apple has nothing to do with it :) (news)

2007-12-04T16:31:00.000-08:00

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Fake Intimacy (Part IV) - iDollators

" This is our fourth feature on Real Doll subculture, or what we’ve deemed “fake intimacy.” The latest term to refer to someone in a romantic relationships with a love doll is an “iDollator.”

We may have featured the first story a few months ago, but the trend is picking up momentum in traditional media, with new articles being published each week to detail these controversial intimacies.

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Here are a few other features that have received media attention:

On MTV Cribs, Vince Neil (Motley Crue) showed off his Real Doll.
Real Dolls were featured repeatedly on Boston Legal.
On Tip/Tick, a Real Doll was created to look like Kelly Carlson.
Howard Stern revealed details on his own encounters with a Real Doll.
A UK documentary called Guys and Dolls followed four men with Love Dolls, detailing their individual reasons for having them.

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“Mike, a Texan, risks a real-life relationship for his eight dolls. Another owner, Davecat, explains he prefers the security of his inanimate girlfriend over unpredictable, potentially cruel treatment he could be subject to from a real woman,” Canoe explained.

“The documentary also takes a fascinating look inside the San Diego factory where the dolls are made. There, Abyss Creations has been manufacturing Real Dolls at a rate of six to eight each week for more than a decade. What Abyss makes are high-tech versions of ‘love dolls’ dating back to Second World War, where they were introduced by the Japanese and Germans to help their soldiers cope in an all-male environment.”

We’re not talking about cheap blow-up dolls here; these are very life-like and beautiful, some selling for over $6,000. "

(~article property of http://www.trendhunter.com~)

Read the whole story here...

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Bondage Companion Blog: Bondage manual – Tantric Bondage.

2007-10-24T15:33:00.000-07:00

Bondage Companion Blog: Bondage manual – Tantric Bondage.

Chained, hanged, and loving every bit of it

2007-10-24T14:32:00.001-07:00

This woman is very vulnerable, both physically and psychologically in this position. However, what is more important is that her health, her body, her life is also very vulnerable and fragile in this bondage position, especially during a spank/whip/wax/ or even pro-long session. I know, I know, I've mentioned safety almost in all of the previous posts and it is redundant here, but at least we get that out of the way first this time ;)

Notice that her wrists are suspended with leather restraint instead of rope here, which significantly lower the risk of cutting off her blood flow on both wrists. All you need is a good old fashion ceiling hook (or some tripod made out of Home-depot materials work just fine) and a good pair of wrist/ankle restraint and you guys are off the hook (or on the hook in this case).

Feel free to tickle her exposed armpits, upper arms, around her breast (circle toward nipples work great here :), caress the tummy, and of course, observe the twisting body "fighting" to avoid your finger tips.

For a more classic spanking/whipping/flogging this position, unless you know what you are doing, avoid the upper body altogether. The upper back is accepted for light whipping/flogging, but area around her/his buttock is really the juicy spot when comparing pain/pleasure ratio. Ideally, you might even want to invest in a leg spreader bar to expose your lover's private, thus heighten his/her senses, humiliate them greatly, and allow better access to absolutely every inch of their body.
As seen here, a bit-gag is used to "silence" the victim from call for help, screaming too loud for the kids next door, or even for viewing pleasure of the Dom.

Consensual-wise: a easy accessible position for anyone with ceiling hook or tall tripod (or similar setup) and the captive can effectively communicate her/his needs even with the present of a ball gag. Arms can get pretty tired or sore after a pro-long period of suspension, so take break once in a while to avoid hurting the muscle. Spank/whip lower body (butt) is highly recommended in this position, even preferred by some. A safe-word during the scene could be stumbling the floor couple time in a pattern discussed or releasing a rubber ball held in her/his hand.

Sensual-wise: great position that offer vulnerability, exposing areas that rarely seen daylight, and damn right humiliating with or without leg spreader bar. It is highly recommended given you have the space and setup in your "play-room" and plenty of time to enjoy. Remember, you can start with foreplay, introduce bondage/SM sessions, and then end with intercourse, all in this same position!! (take break in between if possible).

~Mstr_William 10-24-2007

Are we living in the age of Femdom?

2007-10-10T18:15:00.000-07:00

Female-Superiority, is not a political issue or vote-getter for some female presidential candidate :), but rather an erotic fantasy for submissive men/women that long for the domination from their beloved Mistress. Instead of some hand-shakes and empty promises, she delivers deadly flogging/whipping to your ass and service-demanding commands (and I suggest you follow them!).

According to relationship expert (she wrote books about it, answered questions from her readers, and she IS a Femdom herserlf!...well, the picture on the left is not her...sorry:), Elise Sutton, there's quite a lot of people who enjoy the fascinating relationship of Femdom around the world. In her Females Superiority Website, there's plenty useful information about Femdom and many of them describe this activity in depth, psychologically and physically. In one of her answer to her reader, she suggested that some males do have this urge to be closer to his female counterpart, by becoming more feminine, more submissive to female authority and by servicing his Goddess with all of his love.

Female worshiping has always been around, but it is slowly and surely becoming a mainstream fashion in many domestic relationship, and into the public in many European countries. Club Pedestal is a fine example of the fetish-welcome atmosphere in Europe and I'm sure there are plenty other clubs around the world that share similar interests if you care to look around. It is just a Google search away :)

There has never been a better time to be a Dominant woman than the present, and it is looking even better in the near future. Whether women will actually take over the world is still too early to tell (imo), but it is a growing trend for males to accept such power-exchange, either temporary or permanently. Who knows, maybe by the time that Females supremacy actually happens, women might feel strongly about submitting to men once again :)

A little advice for submissive women out there: there will always be some dominant MEN out there that are dying to take control of women. It might seems like there are a lot more submissive men in the "market", but the reality is that men has always been expected to be the DOM (i.e. HIStory) in a relationship. If you are a female-sub, the easiest thing to do will be finding a "vanilla" boyfriend and then introduce him to the wonderful world of "you-tied-up"... a offer that VERY few men could turn down :)

Talk to your love one about your Tied-Up needs, maybe she/he DO shares the same interest with you, but were always afraid to talk about it. There could be no sensual bondage, without your consensual initiation. Good luck.

~Mstr_William 10-10-2007

~ TUG

Why some Bondage is better in SecondLife (ONLY!)

2007-10-08T21:07:00.000-07:00

Before virtual reality become reality, our imagination was the only world where the sexiest, darkest and even the most naughty bondage scene within ourselves exists. Now, those scenes are everywhere in virtual reality game such as SecondLife and several other 3D Chat Games.
It is not news that "Residents" of S.L. (Second-life) enjoys variety of cyber sexual interaction, but Bondage has becoming more and more mainstreamed thanks to the countless Novelties shops and fetish-theme clubs across the S.L. universe.

While this is certainly a good news for Bondage practitioners to iron their fantasy down to every line, what some people might not realized is that some of the "Stunts" being performed by their "Avatars" in S.L., stays in S.L.
The woman in the top photograph represent one of the many SM tools available in S.L. (for sales mostly) and it is very erotic indeed. However, it is not recommended (nor practical) to do the exact same thing in real life. It might sounds like a common sense, but there are people who died from S&M related activities (although most are not being reported).

Of course, most Bondage "toys" in SL are merely imagination being re-created using virtual reality engine, but these "toys" are actually much easier to be made in real life than its 3D counter part. You could purchase most of the parts for the above tripod in your local Home-Improvement shop (i.e. Home-Depot) and internet (novelties, hand-cuffs). Now, image your lover, hands and legs suspended in the air and with her/his neck being the main supporter to the entire body weight! One of the most important elements in Bondage (and for all BDSM activities in fact) is SAFETY! It is very natural for human being to enjoy his/her sexual nature, on or off-line, but he/she should be aware of the differences in limit for both world.

Self-bondage is very common in S.L. as "Avatars" SIT in these bondage furniture and toys to "try" out their functionality. You can't tell whether or the devices are safe because the avatars don't die or suffer from pain (they enjoys most of the stuff most the time :)... These tripods can be a death-trap if one should ever decided to try the same thing in real life.

Originated from Japanese Hentai (erotic cartoon), these sex-loving-testicle monsters are starting to appear in many S.L. locations. "Victims" of such beast are usually killed from the intense sexual activities being done to them (or life-source being "drained" by the monsters or simply killed by her/his master). We get turn-on by these exotic scenes because we were told not to, and anyone can tell you that it is a great feeling to be released from such society boundary (unless you like to be lock-up, then that's another story :)

Consensual-wise: To allow your imagination gone wild once in a while is a excellent "stress releasing method", not to mention how much fun you gonna have. But you should have a clear boundary that separate the real world from your second (world, life, etc...). If you are determined to act out one of the safer scene in real life, never try them alone. Remember that you won't have a second life if you die in real life.

Sensual-wise: Virtual reality is really a dream-come-true for many the Bondage community because it allows us to actually see the fantasies that are inside of our head, inside of our heart. To be able to witness such sexual imagery is a blessed and it could be a rewarding experience. Not to mention that it could be just as a nice place to meet friends (who are usually into the same thing as you are!).

~ Mstr_William 10-9-2007

~ TUG

You can't buy Mistress's love in bondage

2007-09-26T12:09:00.001-07:00

Now there are plenty of Ads out there promoting professional Dominants (pro-domme) and you can, technically, schedule an appointment with a Mistress and have a good whip-spanking time. However, like the topic suggests, it is a totally different matter when you are loved by your Mistress and the both of you are engaged in a sensual (or hardcore, whichever you guys like :) relationship. Her slave might be still required to do the houseworks and serves his/her Mistress as ordered, but at least the Mistress will be dominating him/her with love now.

Personal Dominants are rare among the fetish/bondage community, which is the second reason why they are charging such high price, aside from their professionalism in the job. As any market analyst could tell you, when the world exists a lot more submissive clients than the necessary dominants to dominate them, the demands for pro-domme can go through the roof.

Why the world needs dominating Mistresses? In her book, "The Mistress Manual", Mistress Lorelei explains:

"...First, the joy of escape into a fantasy world. Second, the sheer sensual delight of the costumes, the risk, and the physical stimulation. Third, the bliss of sharing the deepest possible intimacy and trust with another human being." (page 13)

In real life, you could usually pay for the first two, but you'd have to be a Mistress's personal slave to enjoy the deepest possible intimacy and trust (which is what the mistress enjoy doing when she's "off-duty") with her. There are husbands being turned into a sissy pantie-slave by their dominant wives, powerful boyfriends giving up total control to their girlfriends, and tough, demanding bosses totally humiliated by their low-salary secretaries. We live in a world where stressful responsibilities are put upon our shoulder from all directions, and what better thing to do to escape from pressures than to have pleasures? A weekend getaway to Queen's land is a lot better than a trip to Vegas, unless of course, that's where your Mistress lives.

Consensual-wise, you'd have to spend the same amount of efforts and time (if not more) on a relationship with a dominant like you would in any other relationship to achieve a stronger bond and closer intimacy. Start off by sharing the joys that the two of you might both love and eager to try on, do experiments, talk about the result and communicate any concern and problem that could bother either of you. Even the pro-domme requires her clients to explain their fantasies and needs before the scene, so it is only common-sense to do so in a domestic "tiedup game".

Sensual-wise, you'd feel the difference in the way you get spanked by a paid pro-domme and your personal Mistress. There's just no way that a stranger could give you the kind of attention and affection in such intimated love-making. She knows you weaknesses (from all those interrogations and tortures...:), your darkest fantasy, most shameful moments (if there's none in the past, there ought to be plenty by now :), and of course she might even have a contract clearly stated that you belong to her (optional). It is absolutely sensational how great it is to be humiliated, torture, control, and feminized by your beloved Mistress, while this can be the worse things that can happen to a human being if these are done by someone else (usually dictators or some governments...)

~Mstr_William 9-26-2007

~ TUG