<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192</id><updated>2024-08-29T02:24:19.861-07:00</updated><category term="adoption"/><category term="TiesToMe.com"/><category term="adoption fears"/><category term="adoption resources"/><category term="communication with birth mother"/><category term="conversations"/><category term="pictures and letters"/><category term="being pregnant"/><category term="birth mother letter"/><category term="books on adoption"/><category term="children"/><category term="children&#39;s adoption books"/><category term="creating an adoption profile"/><category term="dear birth mother"/><category term="questions about adoption"/><category term="waiting"/><title type='text'>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</title><subtitle type='html'>Information for families who have gone through the adoption process, both birth families and adoptive families. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tiestome.com&quot;&gt;TiesToMe&lt;/a&gt; - Where Families Share Their Bond After Adoption.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192.post-8442801499862277006</id><published>2011-10-04T07:20:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-04T07:21:22.690-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption fears"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption resources"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="being pregnant"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="conversations"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="questions about adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="TiesToMe.com"/><title type='text'>To Tell the Truth?</title><summary type="text">How many conversations have you had with new friends where they ask you specific questions about child birth? &quot;Were you pregnant in the heat of summer?&quot;, &quot;Do you even remember the moment your child was born?&quot;, &quot;What hospital did you give birth in?&quot;, &quot;How much weight did you gain?&quot;... The questions are endless and almost impossible to answer if you have not actually been through the experience </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/8442801499862277006/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2011/10/to-tell-truth.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/8442801499862277006'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/8442801499862277006'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2011/10/to-tell-truth.html' title='To Tell the Truth?'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192.post-7552991503885899446</id><published>2011-04-14T19:24:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-04-14T19:39:48.240-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption fears"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption resources"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="books on adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="children&#39;s adoption books"/><title type='text'>Resources on Adoption</title><summary type="text">So you have adopted. Now what? You have endured months and probably years of research and paperwork on fertility and adoption. Prepare yourself because all that research was just getting you ready for what is ahead. Since we have adopted (and this goes for every new parent), I have spent hours online and in libraries looking up cold symptoms, rashes, milestones, adoption stories, pre-schools, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/7552991503885899446/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2011/04/resources-on-adopiton.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/7552991503885899446'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/7552991503885899446'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2011/04/resources-on-adopiton.html' title='Resources on Adoption'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192.post-7981452160323626107</id><published>2011-01-23T09:31:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-23T10:47:31.845-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption fears"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="TiesToMe.com"/><title type='text'>Fears of Adoption</title><summary type="text">Ever since the idea of adopting enter my mind, I wondered about the fears that so many people have had about adoption. Having gone through the process, I have been able to meet many other couples who also had decided to make this exciting journey. I can honestly say that I had very few fears concerning the process. Any fear that I did have I rationalized out... 

Finances - A good friend </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/7981452160323626107/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2011/01/fears-of-adoption.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/7981452160323626107'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/7981452160323626107'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2011/01/fears-of-adoption.html' title='Fears of Adoption'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192.post-9086587230807464438</id><published>2010-12-29T21:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-23T10:44:33.935-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="children"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="conversations"/><title type='text'>Tell Me About My Other Mommy</title><summary type="text">&quot;Tell Me About My Other Mommy.&quot; Wow, 4 years old and I am already hearing this. Not that it really surprises me, my daughter is a genius. (says every mother) But really, I do wonder what is the best way to handle this. 

Every child is so different, and for me, I knew that with my first child she would be wanting to understand it all. I have had friends say, a toddler needs short answers. Well, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/9086587230807464438/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/12/tell-me-about-my-other-mommy.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/9086587230807464438'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/9086587230807464438'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/12/tell-me-about-my-other-mommy.html' title='Tell Me About My Other Mommy'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192.post-2705726684411255881</id><published>2010-12-07T07:52:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-23T10:42:32.440-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="waiting"/><title type='text'>Waiting to Adopt</title><summary type="text">Ah, the emotions that go with adopting. Trust me the emotions you are going through are not unusual. For me, we tried to get pregnant for about five years before starting the adoption process. That included about 4 years of various fertility treatments which also did not work. The medical reason... Unknown. In the back of my head, I knew that we were meant to be parents. God would not put the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/2705726684411255881/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/12/waiting-to-adopt.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/2705726684411255881'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/2705726684411255881'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/12/waiting-to-adopt.html' title='Waiting to Adopt'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192.post-5807538927092522399</id><published>2010-11-21T21:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-03-12T20:22:35.104-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="birth mother letter"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="communication with birth mother"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="creating an adoption profile"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="dear birth mother"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="pictures and letters"/><title type='text'>Adoption Profiles - Making Your Match</title><summary type="text">I have gotten many calls to create profiles for other families and what a blessing that has been. Getting to know each family is the best part. Maybe it is because I too have been where each of these families are now, but I am amazed at just how I enjoy getting to know each of them.

There was a time in which an adoption profile consisted of a simple letter that described the perspective adoptive</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/5807538927092522399/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/11/adoption-profiles-making-your-match.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/5807538927092522399'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/5807538927092522399'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/11/adoption-profiles-making-your-match.html' title='Adoption Profiles - Making Your Match'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5541812827136287192.post-6533577656834304822</id><published>2010-11-17T19:28:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-23T10:47:08.263-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="adoption"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="communication with birth mother"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="pictures and letters"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="TiesToMe.com"/><title type='text'>Adoption, Their Heart To Ours</title><summary type="text">My husband and I were waiting for a little one to arrive... for years. We knew that in time we would be blessed with a precious little baby, we just didn&#39;t know how many people would eventually be involved in our journey. Like many families, we brought both of our beautiful babies home from the hospital, however, I did not give birth to them. While we were struggling with the lack of ten tiny </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/feeds/6533577656834304822/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/11/adoption-their-heart-to-ours.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/6533577656834304822'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5541812827136287192/posts/default/6533577656834304822'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://tiestome.blogspot.com/2010/11/adoption-their-heart-to-ours.html' title='Adoption, Their Heart To Ours'/><author><name>TiesToMe - Communication Between Adoptive Families and Birth Families After Adoption</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11114857802519236282</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>