Tips In Romance

Romantic ideas-part 2

2012-01-30T17:57:00.000-08:00

Accroding to the pervious Romantic ideas-part 1 ,we will complete these ideas . let`s go :D

IDEA # 11

Memorize one of Shakespeare's love sonnets and recite it to your partner

when you are in a romantic setting like a botanical garden. Don't just

suddenly start reciting poetry as this will just sound corny.

While you are cuddling your partner, ask in a joking manner, "So is now a

good time to recite a love poem to you?" She will probably say yes, expecting

you to come up with something of the "Roses are Red..." variety.

Instead, look into her eyes, smile and recite the sonnet while you gently stroke

her face. Try the sonnet below. If this is too long, just memorize the first four

lines and the last two.

Shakespeare Love Sonnet 18

Shall I compare thee to a summer's day?

Thou art more lovely and more temperate.

Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,

And summer's lease hath all too short a date.

Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,

And often is his gold complexion dimmed,

And every fair from fair sometime declines,

By chance or nature's changing course untrimmed.

But thy eternal summer shall not fade,

Nor lose possession of that fair thou owest,

Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade

When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st.

So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,

So long lives this, and this gives life to thee

IDEA # 12

If your partner has to work late, take a lunch box and fill it with some of her

favorite things such as chocolates, herbal tea, cookies, a small teddy bear.

Next, get a piece of paper and write

"Michelle's Late Night Survival Pack"

Draw a big red cross below this and stick the paper to the top of the box. Tell

your partner to open the box when things get really tough.

IDEA # 13

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride.

This will often bring back happy memories from her childhood.

IDEA # 14

Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying:

"Thank you for coming into my life."

IDEA # 15

If your partner is starting a new job, buy a copy of "The Sound Of Music"

sound track. Tape the song, "I Have Confidence" onto a tape and add your

own message at the end of the song saying,

"Good Luck honey, I have confidence in you."

Give the tape to your partner to play on the way to work in the car.

IDEA # 16

Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some

massage oil and a blank card.

Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write

the following message on the card:

I know a great Masseur.

For an appointment ring:

(Your Phone Number)

IDEA # 17

When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her.

Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe.

Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly

made bed with a kiss on the forehead.

IDEA # 18

For this idea you will need a portable CD player. If you and your partner have

a favorite song, get a copy of it on CD and take it with you when you go away

for a romantic weekend.

When you are in a romantic spot, ask your partner if she would like to dance.

Place one earpiece in her ear and one in your own and enjoy your private

dance floor.

This technique is particularly effective if the romantic spot you have chosen is

somewhere where people would not normally dance, for example, the top of

the Empire State building at sunset or on top of a mountain during a camping

trip

IDEA # 19

If your partner has a pet that she adores, at Christmas, in addition to buying a

gift for your partner, buy a small present for her pet.

IDEA # 20

Go for a walk on the beach. Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the

sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go

down.

IDEA # 21

Invite your partner to go for a walk. Get a back pack and pack the following

items: A picnic blanket, a selection of fruit in small containers eg.

strawberries, grapes, watermelon and kiwi fruit. Some cheese and crackers.

Some sandwiches. A small tin of caviar. A half bottle of champagne and two

plastic champagne glasses. If your partner asks what's in the backpack, just

say a jacket and some lunch.

When you find a romantic spot, ask if she would like to stop for a bite to eat.

Open your pack and remove the items one by one to set up your picnic. The

last item you remove should be the glasses and champagne.

IDEA # 22

If you play a musical instrument, create a romantic environment in which to

play for your partner. For example, let's say you play the saxophone. Contact

your partner's roommate and arrange for her to make sure that your partner

steps out onto the balcony of their apartment at exactly 9.30pm.

Drive to her apartment and set up before hand. Place a large sparkler in the

music holder of your sax and light it as your partner steps on to the balcony.

Play something slow and romantic.

IDEA # 23

Use this idea if your partner is going to work and you are staying at home for

some reason (Perhaps you are sick or are working from home).

Say goodbye to her at the front door and then immediately send an email to

her work address. The email should simply say,

"Miss you already".

The email will be in her in-box when she does her morning email check.

IDEA # 24

If your partner has long hair, take the time to brush it using long slow strokes.

This is particularly effective after she has had a shower or when she is getting

ready for bed

That`s enough this time . Don`t angry your love

Romantic ideas- part 1

2012-01-27T17:27:00.000-08:00

Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the roof above

your bed to spell out a message such as "I Love You" When the lights go

down, your message will be revealed!

IDEA # 3

On a special occasion, buy your partner eleven real red roses and one

artificial red rose. Place the artificial rose in the center of the bouquet.

Attach a card that says:

“I will love you until the last rose fades.”

IDEA # 4

Buy the domain name of your partner's name if it is available for example

www.TanyaJohnston.com. Create a web page containing a romantic poem

and a picture of a rose. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask

whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let

her type it in to discover her page.

IDEA # 5

Buy a stylish hand mirror and give it to your partner as a gift. Include a card in

the box saying

“In this mirror you will see the image of

the most beautiful woman in the world.”

IDEA # 6

Take a book that your partner is reading and using a pencil, underline letters

in a section of the book she has yet to read to spell out a love letter. For

example in the following exert from a novel, the underlined letters come

together to spell out the secret message "I love you"

The palace was a labyrinth, their passage through it tortuous and

interminable. Initially they passed from building to building under the sodden

sky. Steve's feet ached; he might have laughed at himself, the tireless

traveler, grown too soft from his months in the city to walk any proper

distance. Abruptly the guards halted.

The underlined letters will make your partner curious and with a bit of luck she

will write them down. Spend time to encode a proper message such as "Dear

Belinda, I love you honey"

IDEA # 7

Have flowers delivered to your partner's workplace. She will not only enjoy

the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her office mates

which will add to her enjoyment.

IDEA # 8

While walking with your partner on a weekend getaway, pick up a smooth

stone and say that you're going to keep it as a special memento of your trip.

Later, have a message such as

"I Love Rebecca"

engraved into the stone by a jeweler and give it to your partner.

IDEA # 9

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill and lie with your partner and look up

at the clouds.

Play the kid’s game of looking for shapes in the cloud formations.

IDEA # 10

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a bright childlike picture with a

smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your two

names pointing to the stick figures. Write "I Love You" inside a heart.

Next get a large formal envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a

formal address label of your partner's work such as:

For the immediate and urgent attention of:

Rebecca Jones

Level 20

Collins & Smith Solicitors

New York

Mail it to your partner so she receives it in the middle of a busy day

These are some romantic ideas for you

These are some romantic ideas for you

IDEA # 1
If your partner is going away for a few days, tell her that you are worried about

her so you have organized a bodyguard to look after her. Then give her a

small teddy bear
.

IDEA # 2

What is love ?

2012-01-26T11:30:00.000-08:00

What is Love.....?

All people always talk about love and our parents tell us about it but when it came to us some people refuse it and some accept it but no one can agree on one defination for love ?

I think love is everthing in our life cause of it we live now . Love makes you dance happily when you see a smile on the face of whom you love . They see love can make miracles but do you leave that ? ...personally , I believe that cause this is the real love . Yes, it is hard to find but it is possible .

I finished my words waiting your words .

10 tips to have a strong relationship

2012-01-25T20:36:00.000-08:00

When you hear about couples who maintain a strong relationship

through all of life’s challenges, you may wonder how they do it. Some

of these couples have faced the same kinds of difficulties that can lead

to break-ups for other people, such as financial problems, trouble with

in-laws, or differences in interests or personalities. But somehow,

these couples have stayed together while others haven’t.

For a long time marriage counselors and others thought that couples

had the best chance of staying together if they had similar

backgrounds and interests. But recently, experts have developed a

different view. Many people now believe that common backgrounds

and interests may be less important than other factors, such as

differences in values, how couples handle disagreements, or how

committed they are.

Every couple is different, so there’s no one-size-fits-all formula for a

good relationship. But people who’ve stayed together for a long time

tend to have some of the same things in common. Here are ten tips

based on the conclusions experts have drawn from studying successful

relationships:

1. Have a strong commitment to making your relationship

work.

Many couples start out with a strong commitment to their relationship

but, after a while, begin to give it less attention. They may neglect

each other while focusing on their work, children, or a time-consuming

hobby. In strong relationships both people may have outside interests,

but they continue to make their commitment to each other a top

priority.

Staying committed begins with accepting that having a good

relationship takes work. Problems can occur in any relationship, and

both people have to make compromises and adjustments. So it’s

important to accept some difficulties or “rough patches” as normal and

inevitable. Instead of trying to pretend that they don’t happen, make a

commitment to solving your problems together.

2. Think of yourselves as friends, not just as a couple.

Couples who stay together see themselves as good friends. They share

a variety of activities, enjoy each other’s company, provide support in

good times and bad, and they don’t take each other for granted.

3. Accept each other’s limitations.

Nobody is perfect, and long-lasting couples accept this and learn to

cherish each other despite their flaws. One of the biggest challenges

you may face as a couple is learning to live with many different kinds

of shortcomings. In the early stages of a relationship, both of you may

have to accept only small limitations. (One of you is messy and the

other is neat, or one of you always wants to try new restaurants while

the other would like to have a home-cooked meal every night.) Over

time, you may have to cope with larger disappointments -- for

example, that one of you has never achieved a big career dream or

earned as much money as you’d hoped. At every stage of your

relationship, it’s important for both of you to know that you’ll love and

cherish each other even if things don’t always work out as expected.

4. See yourselves as equal partners.

In successful relationships, two people may have very different roles,

but they see themselves as equal partners. They don’t regard one

person’s views or interests as more important than the other’s. Each

person feels that he or she is making a vital contribution to the

relationship.

One of the best ways to foster this kind of equality is to ask for the

other person’s opinion frequently and show that you value it. Try to

make joint decisions on big issues -- deciding how to save for

retirement or how to divide up the household responsibilities -- and

learn to find creative solutions or make compromises when you can’t

agree.

5. Pay attention to how you communicate.

More than two-thirds of the couples who seek counseling say that their

problems include poor communication. It’s vital to learn how to

communicate with your partner so that both of you are able to express

your needs and desires clearly. One study found that couples can stay

close by spending as little as twenty minutes a day simply talking to

each other.

The quality of your conversation also matters. Researchers have found

that couples who stay together are much more likely to give each

other praise, support, or encouragement than those who break up.

Many people in long lasting relationships make a point of saying “I love

you” every day. Others continually show their affection in small ways.

They may touch or hug frequently, give each other back rubs, or tuck

romantic notes into the other person’s lunch bag or briefcase. It

doesn’t really matter what you do, as long as you and your partner

show each other how much you care.

6. Develop a support system.

When they fall in love, many couples think they don’t need anybody

but each other. In the long run this usually turns out to be untrue.

Maintaining a good relationship is difficult enough that most couples

who stay together need a lot of support along the way. This may come

rom their friends or family. But it can also come from groups or

organizations that reflect their deepest values.

Some couples develop a support system naturally. They have large

and close families, or they’re naturally outgoing and make friends

easily. If you haven’t found a support system this way, you may be

able to develop one by making an extra effort to reach out to others.

Sometimes you can find support by getting involved in a community

group such as a parents’ organization, a religious organization, or an

athletic team. It’s also helpful to take the first step to reach out to

others -- for example, by organizing a block party or inviting a

coworker who’s new to town to have dinner with you and your family.

7. Handle disagreements constructively.

Even in the strongest relationships, it isn’t usually possible -- or

healthy – to try to avoid all disagreements. A desire to avoid conflict

can lead couples to ignore problems until they become too big to

handle. A healthy argument can help to clear the air and clarify

different points of view.

Since it’s impossible to avoid all arguments, it is important to deal

constructively with your differences. This means avoiding personal

attacks during arguments or discussions, which can destroy your trust

in each other or chip away at your feelings of being loved and valued.

No matter how upset you feel, try to focus on the issues involved in a

disagreement, not on who’s “right” or “wrong.” If you’re unhappy that

your spouse doesn’t pay the bills on time, don’t accuse him or her of

being lazy or neglectful. Instead you might say, “I’m concerned about

how late we’re paying our bills. This could affect our ability to buy a

house someday.” Or, “I’ve noticed that we’ve had a lot of late charges

on our bills. Do we need to work out a better system for making sure

these get paid on time?”

8. Make sure each of you has some privacy and independence.

In the early stages of a romance couples may want to do almost

everything together. But over time, most couples realize that each

person needs room to grow and develop, not just as part of a couple,

but as an individual.

In practical terms, this means that each member of the couple needs

time alone or with friends away from the other. Allowing each other

some independence is a way of giving your relationship room to

“breathe” and showing that you respect another’s unique needs and

interests.

9. Share rituals and traditions.

Almost every successful relationship involves some cherished rituals

and traditions that help to bind a couple together. Some couples share

daily rituals, such as eating dinner together or talking before bedtime,

even if one person is traveling and the conversation takes place by

phone. Others enjoy weekly rituals such as going to religious services

or to a favorite restaurant every Friday night. Still others have annual

traditions such as holding a Fourth of July barbecue or attending a

special holiday concert.

These activities help couples to define their values and can become a

kind of emotional glue that holds them together. The specific rituals

you choose aren’t as important as whether yours have a meaning and

importance for you and your partner. You might want to adapt the

favorite traditions of both of your families, create some new ones, or

use a combination of both.

10. Have fun.

No matter how hard they work, couples who stay together usually

make time for fun. Some set aside one night a week for a “date” with

each other even if you just go out for pizza or for a moonlit walk. What

you do isn’t important, what’s important is that you spend time

together having fun.

In order to keep having fun as a couple, you’ll need to keep reevaluating

your definition of “fun.” If you aren’t enjoying your life

together as much as you used to, you may want to take up a new

interest or activity that the two of you can share, such as a hobby, a

sport, or a volunteer project. You don’t have to have the same

interests, but try to find at least one thing that you can enjoy

together.

Most strong relationships include at least some of the 10

characteristics listed above. You and your partner can make building a

strong relationship a priority by working these tips and characteristics

into your everyday lives.

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