tips to impress Indian girls

My secret of finding girls on social networking sites

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Fri, 24 Dec 2010 15:47:00 +0000

According to new studies, orkut.com (and Facebook.com) have
become the most popular destinations for meeting women!

So I have to ask you...

Do you use either of these sites?

If you've tried this site to meet women, then you've probably
realized that it's actually pretty difficult to meet women. One
reason is there a lot of stiff competition from other men.

The other reason is there is a lot of women on this site who say
they're looking for dating, but instead they're out to take
advantage of you.

Let me explain.

Some "women" on this site aren't there to make connections or
date. Instead they're on this site to make a profit or to build
their ego. In today's email, I will discuss the different types
of women on fbook and why you should NOT contact them. If you
know how to identify the "women" who are not interested in
dating, you can save a lot of time and aggravation.

1- Avoid the 'Friend Whores'

There are a lot of women on facebook who are only interested in
bulking up their list of friends. These 'friend whores' don't
want to know you. Instead they want to increase their number of
friends. Any attempts to talk to these women will be ignored.

Bottom line is they're not interested in getting to know the
guys on their list.

So if you see a woman with more then a couple hundred friends,
then you know she's not interested in dating. Just move on and
find someone who is open to talking to a guy.

2- Avoid the Web Cam or Porn Girls

If you've been on facebook for more then a minute then you've
probably come across the 'web cam' or 'porn girl'. Typically
they operate like this...

You get a message or a friend request from a girl who thinks
you're interesting but she doesn't have time to talk. But if
you go to her "private" site, she'll be able to talk to you.

It goes without saying that these women are complete fakes.
They're only interested in you pulling out your credit card and
paying for access to their porn website.

3- Avoid the Businesses

Marketers and businesses are getting smart these days!

They know if they slap a pretty female face on a profile, men
will be more responsive to friend requests and will check out
any site that is recommended on their profile.

Instead of looking for a date, these type of people want you to
check out their website. As a you can see, they are on MySpace
to make money.

4- Avoid the Phishers and Criminals

The phishers and criminals are the worst type of people you can
encounter on facebook.

These people are on this site for the sole purpose of obtaining
your private information to rip you off. Their goal is to control
your account or even gain access to your financial information.

Here is how they operate:

These criminals will send a message or bulletin asking you to
check out a site or page. On this page is a script which informs
you that you've been logged off facebook.It then tells you enter
your facebook account data.

Once you enter this information, the criminals will have your
private information!

So one second you think you're talking to a pretty girl then
suddenly a criminal has access to your important data.

5- Avoid the Models, Stars,

There is a group of people on facebook who request friends in
order to build buzz about their work. So if you get a friend
request from a model, star, comedian or band it's not because of
your charm, wit or good looks. It's because they want you check
out their profile and support their work.

Now I'm NOT against this type of promotion. I just want to
recommend that you don't waste your time trying to hit on any of
these people.

Your messages will go unanswered.

6- Avoid the 'Suspect Women'

There a lot of types of people in this group.

My advice is to always look at her entire profile (not just the
pics) before contacting a girl. Look for anything that looks
suspicious which might raise any warning bells.

For instance, here are a couple of things you should look for:

* A profile that states a girl is 18 and older, yet she makes a
reference to being in high school

* A girl with hundreds of comments from guys

* Any girl who has lots of friends, but doesn't seem to receive
any personal comments

As you can see, there are a lot of pitfalls when trying to date
women on facebook. While I think this site is an excellent source
for finding available women in your area, you should know what to
look for and the type of women to avoid.

Just use common sense and don't waste time with women who aren't
interested in dating.

How to increase your chances with Indian girls

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Fri, 24 Dec 2010 15:33:00 +0000

I want to start this off by saying this
isn't going to be your typical blog.
Today, I want to talk about something that
really seems to be an important topic to a
lot of guys.

My blog, Tips to impress Indian girls, is about
how to meet girls. In it, I do my best to
unveil every little tip and trick I can teach
you about how to avoid the painful, dreaded
sting of fear that can build up inside you
when you want to meet a beautiful woman.
The funny thing is, I get emails all the time
from guys who say something like...
"I can't do it, I'm too afraid of rejection."
"Every woman rejects me and laughs at me."
"There's only so much rejection I can take."
A lot of dating sites and products will give
you a lot of different advice on how to deal
with rejection. They'll say stuff like "you
gotta force your way through it" and "ignore
it, shrug it off."
But none of them really tell you how to do that.
They expect you to be some type of numb
and just act like you don't care
about what anyone thinks of you.
Though I do believe it's good advice not to
place too much importance on how others view
you, for some guys this can just be too daunting
a prospect to handle. Their heads just aren't
in the right place to act like that.
Let's face it, if you see a girl you think is
hot and you want to get to know her better,
how can you not care about what she thinks
of you?
And should she reject you, that can still HURT.
They give into that pain and
dwell on all the shortcomings and things that
made that girl reject him. They wallow in the
self pity and guilt, and thinking about how "no
girls like him."
Well, I want to tell you that this is not just
self-destructive and unproductive behavior, it's
simply not true.
There are girls out there who will like you,
you just need to find them!
Ever hear that old saying: "There's plenty of
fish in the sea?"
It's true. Meeting women is about numbers.
Too many guys want to sit up in a tree with their
sniper rifles and try to hone in on just one target.
If you do that, your chances of missing are much
greater than if you were running around with a
shotgun.
So your goal in meeting a woman who likes you is
to meet as many women as possible!
Duh.
But here's the trick to eliminating that painful
sting of rejection that comes with that...
Ready for it?
Here it is...
Of all the women you meet, only go after the women
who like what you have to offer!
There is something to be said about going up
to every woman and trying to get them into you.
In fact, there are very effective methods of
creating attraction in women you meet, despite
what your own personal shortcomings are.
But this can be a painful method for most men,
because you can't win them all! Therefore, you're
going to feel the sting of rejection if you do that.
For those of you who can't handle doing that
just yet, and need to build your confidence,
here's what I want you to do.
Go out and meet AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE.
(if you don't know how to do this, my blog Tips to impress
Indian girls can teach you how)
Now, don't try and pick-up all these women, even
if you'd want to. Just meet them, and observe how
they react to you when you're interacting with them.
The women will tell you if they're into you if
you PAY ATTENTION TO THEM.
Some guys call this "vibing" or "feeling a vibe."
But if what you're doing is working, you'll notice
that the girl will smile at you a lot, touch you,
and various other things.
When you notice these little flickers of interest,
start flirting with her! Show her you also like
what SHE has to offer (even if you don't, this is
practice, remember?). Then see how she reacts
to THAT.
If she plays along and flirts back, she's interested!
If she doesn't, she may like you, but not be
interested in you romantically.
If that's the case, don't get down, you weren't
rejected. You found out that there isn't an
opportunity there for you just yet. But if she
responds, that's a "GO" signal that will tell
you the chance of getting rejected is shrinking,
and you should proceed.

In my blog Tips to impress
Indian girls, there's a LOT
of information in it that will teach you how to
recognize the signs a woman gives off that she's
attracted to you.
Little effective tricks on how to read a woman's
body language, see the common signs of interest, and
how to effectively flirt with a woman.
If you want to learn these special skills and
start getting rid of rejection from women all
together, check out my whole blog here:

http://tips-to-impress-indian-girls.blogspot.com

Story telling to girls- Most important

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 10:37:00 +0000

Building attraction is not about approaching a woman, saying a
few lines and instantly seducing her. Instead it's about
demonstrating higher value then using it to make girls
interested.

That's why it's important to understand what makes women
attracted to guys and how use this information to instantly
build sexual chemistry with a girl you've just met.

The good news is there is a great technique you can use to show
ALL your positive qualities without a woman noticing what you're
doing.

It can be done by telling a good STORY.

Out of all your routines, the stories you tell are as important
as your openers. If you know the RIGHT way to tell them, you'll
have an unfair advantage over other guys.

So what makes a good story?

Well it has many elements. Unlike the stories you tell your
friends and family, you MUST concentrate on specific things in
order to demonstrate high status.

That's why I've decided to list my 10 part complete system
for creating stories that'll attract women.

1- Keep it simple stupid

When you tell stories, you must stick to the old adage-
K.I.S.S. (Keep it simple stupid)

The usual venues for meeting women can be loud and crowded.
Furthermore, girls in bars/clubs have short attention spans.
All of these factors combine to create an environment that
makes it hard to tell a story.

So the first thing to know about a story is to keep it short
and to the point. (No longer then 1-2 minutes.) If it's longer
then a few minutes, then you have to edit it and ONLY keep the
important parts.

2- Use good material

The next element is easy. You have to ONLY use material that's
interesting to most women. (In other words, don't tell anything
that'll offend or bore anybody)

Specifically, girls like hear about drama, adventure and anything
humor humorous. So do yourself a favor and concentrate your
stories on these specific topics.

3- Demonstrate higher status

As I mentioned at the beginning of this email, a story should be
told in a way which demonstrates YOUR high status. Any material
you use has to briefly touch on the SPECIFIC qualities that women
love about guys.

For instance, here are some qualities you should focus on:

* Preselected by women
* Leadership within your peer group
* An ability to take action
* Bravery in tough situations
* An adventurous and fun lifestyle
* Loyalty to your friends

4- Be indirect NOT direct

Now when I mention how it's important to demonstrate high status
in your story, I don't mean you should start bragging about
yourself. Instead use your storytelling to indirectly mention
your positive qualities.

The best way to do this is to use language that vaguely
demonstrates your positive qualities.

For instance, let's pretend that you want to demonstrate that
you're pre-selected by attractive women.

You wouldn't say something like:

"I have an ex-girlfriend who is model. In fact, I date LOTS of
models. Anyway, I was hanging out with her at a photo shoot one
day..."

Instead you want to something like this

"So get this, the other day I was hanging out with my ex at her
photo shoot, when the craziest thing happened..."

As you can see both statements say the same thing. But the later
reveals that you often hang out AND date attractive women in a
way that does NOT appear to be bragging.

5- Hook them in

With every story, there will be ONE element that stands out from
the other facts. In short, this will be part that HOOKS the
listener in.

The hook should be a little nugget of information which is
something out of the ordinary that people wouldn't ordinarily
hear during a conversation.

When you're telling the story, the hook should be a statement
during the first few sentences that'll attract her attention
and make her wonder where you're going to go with it.

6- The opening statement

Like your opener, the first thing you say will set the WHOLE tone
of the story.

When you first approach a group you should project fun and
energy with your body language. This also the case when you
tell stories to a group.

When you start a story, you must begin with a high level of
energy and fun, THEN give a statement that is congruent to what
you're saying.

For instance, you start with something like:

"Holy crap, the weirdest thing happened to me yesterday..."

7- Create conversation threads

A good story can set up HOURS of conversation topics. If told
properly, it should reveal a lot of facts about your personality
and background without sounding like you're bragging.

That's why it's important to be a little vague and mysterious
about what you're revealing. Instead of coming out and telling
things about yourself, you should introduce certain topics in a
way that'll naturally arise some curiosity from your audience.

For instance, you could say statements like:

* "So whenever I drive my bike, I get the weirdest looks..."
[Why is it weird looking]

* "Fortunately because of my job, I can do stuff at a moments
notice..." [What type of job do you have]

* "Ever since my childhood, I've had this protective streak about
women..." [What happened to make you this way]

8- Learn to tell a story

In order to tell a good story, you should think of it as comedy
routine. Just think of your favorite comedians. They probably
ALL get laughs not through WHAT they're saying, but more about HOW
they do it.

To tell a good story, you have to learn how to pace and deliver
the crucial elements. Often, it's not about what you're saying,
it's about how you deliver it.

9- The payoff

A good story will always have a payoff. This is basically a
statement that is similar to a "punch line" or at least indicates
a conclusion.

While you don't have to always go for a big laugh, the payoff
should let the group know that you're done with the story

For instance, one of my favorite stories ends with:

"And that's why I'll NEVER drink desi during a pub crawl!"
[Trust me, this particular story ALWAYS gets a good laugh]

10- Practice

You will NOT tell a good story if you haven't perfected ALL the
details. That's why it's important to practice it till you know
it cold!

A great illustration of this element can be found in the classic
movie- Reservoir Dogs. In one scene, Mr. Orange [an undercover
cop] practices telling a story that'll be used when he's talking
to criminals.

In a particular memorable scene, Mr. Orange, spends hours on a
rooftop practicing every little detail of the story. It was
only AFTER he practiced did he try to use it on a real audience.

Well there you have it...

Ten ways to tell the perfect story!

Remember that a good story contains many crucial elements. As a
result, it's important to sit down and create ones that use all
the things I discussed in this post.

If used properly during the rapport and attraction building stage
of your approach, you'll be able to demonstrate high status in a
very unique way.

How to get your ex-girlfriend back

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sun, 10 Oct 2010 02:34:00 +0000

Do you want your ex-girlfriend back?

If so, then this blog is for you...

Relationships often end for a specific reason. Whether the
romance died or there another person entered the picture, it's
often better to look forward instead of behind.

But what happens if you can't forget about that one woman who you
can't get out of your mind?

Well, my first advice is to take a close look at why you're
obsessing over an ex-girlfriend. Most of the time, you'll discover
that she's not as great as you remembered.

But if you feel that you really need her, then I recommend a
simple course of action. (Just remember that it's often much
easier to get a new girlfriend rather then contacting an old
one)

What you need to do is convince your old flame that you have
improved yourself and you have a lot more to offer her.

To get started, I recommend you follow this 5 step plan for
getting back with your ex-girlfriend:

1- Analyze what went wrong

The first step to is to think about what went wrong. For instance
you should ask yourself:

* Was there another guy?

* Does she no longer like me in a romantic way?

* Was there been a dramatic change in her life?

* Did I do certain things that drove her crazy?

The reason WHY you ask these questions is to determine if things
can be fixed between you and your ex-girlfriend.

If she's with another guy or didn't seem to care about the
break-up, then you probably have LITTLE chance of getting her
back.

So before you implement this system, you should first find out if
you have ANY chance of success.

2- Change yourself

Once you've analyzed what went wrong, you need to make changes to
your life.

The MAIN reason that guys get dumped is due to a LACK of
attraction!

If you want to get her back, then you must make subtle changes to
yourself which demonstrates attractive qualities.

Now the reason women want to date other guys is these men provide
excitement in their lives. Without even knowing it, you probably
developed into a lower status male around your ex-girlfriend.

In order to become an attractive to her, you need to develop
attractive personalities. This includes manly characteristics
like confidence, initiative, an interesting personality and
determination.

If you're able to show these core character traits, then you'll
have the attractive personality that ALL women want from a guy.

3- Start dating other women

While it might seem counterintuitive, one of the best ways to win
back an ex is to start dating other women. When you "see" many
different girls, you'll gain a whole new perspective on your past
relationship.

Plus a woman's jealous nature can be used to your advantage. A
lot of girls are highly attracted to guys who are "preselected" by
other women. By dating other women, you'll be able to trigger her
jealous reactions.

4- Become friends with her

Now that you've made changes to yourself and you're dating other
women, you should contact your ex-girlfriend.

When you first talk to her, set up a "friends date" where you'll
catch up on "old times." This means grabbing coffee, catching a
bit to eat or playing a quick game of pool.

Once you're on this "date", act casual. In other words, don't try
to convince her to get back with you or drudge up past arguments.

Instead, demonstrate your new confident demeanor and focus on
your role as her friend. Then every so often make a comment about
one of the women you're dating. Don't be overt about it, but
nonchalantly mention that you're actively dating other women.

5- Proceed with normal attraction techniques

Since you're now talking to your ex-girlfriend, you have an
opportunity to demonstrate positive qualities. Instead of trying
to rekindle things, I recommend that you show exactly how much
fun you can provide!

It's important to you treat her like you would with other
girls. This means that you follow the basic attraction and
seduction techniques which I recommend.

For instance, you should tease her, be confident and act like you
don't care about the outcome of your interactions. If you do your
job correctly, she'll start to realize that she's missing out on
a golden opportunity. Once this happens, she'll start to pursue
you!

Getting a girlfriend back is something that many guys desire.
If you follow these rules and recommendations, you'll discover
that you can make it happen!

5 attitudes in life to become a guy all girls desire

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sun, 10 Oct 2010 02:29:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered how some guys have a knack for meeting
and attracting different women?

Their secret is they are unafraid to act like a man that women
desire.

I think we all should follow this example!

Here's why...

In the last few decades, society has created a group of men who
are afraid to act like themselves.

We longer go for what we want.

Instead we waste time seeking approval for our actions. Social
pressures have forced us to be mindful of never offending or
making others feel uncomfortable with our actions.

As a result, men have become AFRAID to pursue women!

When talking to a woman, a lot of guys are worried about doing or
saying the wrong thing.

In fact, they're so worried about "getting it right" that they
end up boring women to tears.

But there's a simple cure...

You can become the type of man who women love!

This is the socially dominant male who is ATTRACTIVE to different
women, while NOT behaving like an arrogant prick.

Here are a few rules for developing this attitude:

1- Be Unique in Your Actions and Efforts
To stand out from the crowd, you have become the unique person
who is desired by ALL women. You can achieve this by radiating
a confident and positive attitude everywhere you go.

Contrary to what you've learned, you're wildly attractive to
women even if you don't have good-looks, money OR power.

In other words, you have a STRONG belief in yourself!

2- You Never Settle For Second Best

Being a man means you have enough confidence to NEVER let people
take advantage of you. In your dating life, this means only
hanging out with women who ENRICH your life.

If you ever experience drama, you have enough faith in yourself
to walk away without a second glance.

In addition, you never chase after women. Instead, you make them
work for your affection. You know deep down inside that you're a
prize worth fighting for. If a woman wants your company, she's
going to have to do something extraordinary to earn it.

3- You Have a Busy Life and Only Include Quality Women

Like other men, you have a busy life. In addition to work and
family, you occupy your time with exciting activities.

Since your time is important, you ONLY make plans with women who
are fun and interesting.

If you ask a woman on a first date, you make sure it's only for
an hour. That way, if she turns out to be boring, you've
only wasted a little bit of your time.

When setting up future dates, you make plans when it's convenient
for YOU. If she can't meet you when you're available, then you
walk away and find a woman who fits better in your life.

In fact you don't even need to look that hard for a woman,
because you already have a large selection of women who want to
be part of your life.

4- You End All Phone Conversations First

As part of your busy life, you don't have time to stay on a
phone all day.

You have TOO MUCH to do!

Furthermore, you know ending all conversations first because
you know it leaves her want more. You know that the busier your
life appears, the more she'll want to be a part of it.

On the phone, your primary task is to set up a date. And the
conversations only last for about ten minutes.

This is enough time to set up plans for your date.

If she wants to talk more, you let you her know this
conversation could be continued during the next time you see her.

5- Have Fun On Your Dates and Know How to Flirt

The final rule is you have fun on ALL of your dates.

While other guys worry too much about messing up, you take risks
and enjoy the time you spend with each woman. If your date goes
well and becomes more physical, then that's great!

But if it doesn't go well, you're still happy with the knowledge
that you met a great person who COULD BE a life long friend.

While on your date, you look for every opportunity to tease
your date. If she says something, you twist around and have
fun with it.

In fact, you often bring sexual innuendos into the conversation.
You have great dates because you're able to flirt and enjoy
yourself.

Well that's it for the 5 rules! Hopefully these will help
you become the man who ALL women desire!

If you implement these guidelines, you'll discover that life is
more enjoyable and women will find you more attractive.

what girls actually want in men,-the most important topic

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 23:18:00 +0000

Ask any woman what they're actually looking for in their ideal man,
and most of them will say they want a nice sensitive guy that will buy
them flowers and basically act like one of their girlfriends.

They like the idea of getting flowers and having a sensitive guy to talk
to about their problems.

Note: A lot of men end up becoming that guy, the guy that girls talk
to about their problems. But the relationship usually doesn't get any
farther than being just friends.

All women will tell you they want to date the nice guy or that they
can never seem to find a nice guy to date.
The problem is, this isn't exactly correct. These women aren't
lying when they say they want these things...when they think logical
they do, because it makes sense.

But remember, women don't choose logically what they are attracted
to.

So, when they think about it consciously. Women want a guy that
will buy them flowers and talk to them when they feel down.
But in reality, their instinct is to like a guy who will take control
and act like a man should.

So what qualities do women want in men?

What they've always wanted and always will want. Women want real
men, men that are in control and don't ask for permission to do
anything. They don't want to be in charge, they want someone to be
in charge of them.

I know this sounds harsh, but it's true.

Here are some examples, have ever noticed that...

When you give a girl a compliment or tell her how beautiful she is
she shies away from you?

This probably happens every time you try and start a conversation.
But when you...
Notice a flaw about her, she will get more involved in the
conversation and take you more seriously.

Also, have you noticed...
When you spoil a girl by buying her gifts, taking her to an expensive
dinner, she usually thanks you the evening and goes out with another
guy?

But, If you simply go for a quick drink and act like you are equals
she feels attracted to you, because you're not catering to her every
need.

Have you noticed when....

You call a girl often after a date and she seems distant and funny.

But, when you don't call her and you act like you're busy and could
live with her or without her, she won't stop calling you.
The truth is women don't want to be catered to, spoiled or
treated like princesses. This is what women want from a man...

First of all, women want you to be confident in your self. So, if
you approach a girl and seem shy and awkward, that is a turn off.
Women want you to lead the way, not the other way around.
They don't want to talk about what you are going to do, they just
want you to lead the way and do it.

They want you to keep it cool and NOT get emotional.
Using 'disconnections' works most NATURALLY to make it
challenging, fun, yet exciting enough to 'entice' women (esp those who
get hit on a lot) to stick longer and see what you've got in store for them
as you're talking.

Women want you to be fun and entertaining, not boring and dull.
Just because you are into collecting stamps or currencies,
it does NOT mean you have to bore the poor girl to death about your
hobby.

Women want you to make them laugh. So as you can see,
entertaining and fun = VERY IMPORTANT.

They don't want to know everything about you all at once, they want
to wonder. So, no matter how tempting it may be you don't have to
tell them you whole life story.

Women want to keep guessing.

They hate it... guessing, not knowing what you're up to...

But secretly LOVE at at the same time... that's what makes this
game so 'exciting'... so appealing for them... not knowing what's
going to happen next.
They want you to have more to talk about than "the game last night",
they want you to be interesting.

They want you to be headed somewhere, they want you to have
a life goal or something you are trying to achieve.

In other words, they want to know what you want from life.
so go on guyz.....

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5 sex secrets about indian girls

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 23:16:00 +0000

Women are mysterious creatures. While they're great at displaying emotions, often they'll hide their hidden desires. This is especially true when it comes to what they like in the bedroom. The truth is women have many secrets about what they like and what they don't like from guys during sex. Probably right at this moment, your woman really wants you do things during sex which you not be aware of. If you can discover her hidden desires, then you'll rock her world. To get an idea of what I'm talking about, here 5 of the most common sex secrets she probably will never reveal to you.

1- She doesn't want you to go for hours
Many guys think the key to pleasing a woman is to have the sexual stamina of a marathon runner and go for hours. The problem is women get tired (and sore) during a long sex session. Secretly your woman wants you know please her without subjecting her to a lengthy sex session. If you can please her in a half an hour, then she really won't care if you can go for hours.

2-She sometimes wants sex, not romance
While all women profess a love for romantic lovemaking filled with candles and soft music, sometimes they want sex to be a little dirty. Even though romance is an important part of the sexual experience, there are often moments when you can score some serious points simply by acting in a VERY non-romantic manner. For instance, she'll sometimes wants you to simply rip her clothes off and have a quickie.

3-She wants YOU to be in control
It's a simple truth. Women want to be with men who act like MEN. This means you should never behave in a lower status man and act like you don't know what you're doing in the bedroom. Simply put, you have to act like a man when you're having sex. Being a man is about knowing the specific things which pleases your woman and then DOING them. So when you're in the bedroom, don't act timid or shy. Instead give off the aura that you're completely confident during sex and you're in complete control of her pleasure. Remember one of the most intense orgasms a woman can get is from being with someone who can confidently show that he knows what he's doing.

4- She wants to try new things
There are a lot of different sexual experiences your woman secretly wants, she's probably privately fantasizing about stuff you can with her (or to her). The important thing to remember is everybody has fantasies. Your job is to coax them out of her and then work hard to fulfill them

5- She wants it in the morning
Guys are known for the ability to be ready for sex in 3.5 seconds. Women on the other hand profess a desire for extensive foreplay. That's the reason why many guys think women don't want a "quickie" in the morning. However the truth is a lot of women secretly want a bit of sex in the morning before they start the day. Simply try to initiate things in the morning and you'll be surprised at her response. Women have lots of secrets they keep from men. But if you can reveal her secret desires in the bedroom then you'll quickly become her perfect lover. Finally, there are a lot more secrets to giving her what she wants in the bedroom

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take the first step to seduce her

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sat, 31 Jul 2010 03:13:00 +0000

There are moments in your life when you just want to have sex!

While you probably know the importance of a relationship or even
might be looking for that special someone, sometimes you just
want to get laid.

That's why it's important to know how to seduce any woman you
meet!

Without seduction, you have little chance of having sex.

Now many guys understand the importance of seduction, but they
don't know where to start. In fact they've probably found that
it can be quite difficult to transition from a date to "getting
it on" with a woman.

If you're one of these guys, then I don't have to tell you that
it's frustrating to like a woman but have no clue about how to
seduce her.

But allow me to let you in on a little secret...

WOMEN LIKE SEX AS MUCH AS US!

While they pretend to be seduced, they actually probably have as
much desire for sex as any man. However they're fairly selective
about the manner of their sexual encounters.

For instance, women don't like to make the first move. Instead
they want to be pursued and desired by men. In essence this means
you have to have the courage and forwardness to become a seducer
of women.

Even if a woman is really into you, sex won't happen unless you
make the first move. That means if she's into you, there'll be
little resistance to your seduction techniques.

Now you might be one of those guys who is nervous about making
the first move.

If that's the case, then you can use the following technique
for progressing from a date to having sex...

It's called 'MAKING A initiation'

A initiation is any point where you can ESCALATE and interaction
with a woman.

An example would be when you're talking to a woman and you start
kissing her.

It's important to know why initiations work. In other words,
you have notice those SPECIFIC moments where an OBSTACLE is
preventing you from taking any further action. By spotting
these roadblocks, you easily overcome them!

And once this happens, you'll rapidly increase your success
with women.

To go from meeting a woman to having sex, you need to make a plan
for EVERY escalation point and what you need to do to get to the
next step.

By knowing how to navigate through this process, you'll discover
it's pretty easy to seduce many different women!

My advice for planning out your transitions is to write down
all the times where you encounter a roadblock or stopping point.
Then make a plan for overcoming it!

So think of this moment and how you'll handle it!

Some examples could include getting a woman's number, setting
up a date, initiating physical contact, kissing her and then
finally seducing her.

Once you know what you're going to do, put it to memory!

By planning out your transitions, you'll be able to rapidly
seduce her with confidence and ease.

Understanding how to succeed with women is something you CAN learn!

If you understand these transition techniques, you'll be able
to QUICKLY and EFFORTLESSLY seduce any woman you meet.

Seduction isn't a hard skill! If you're in a conversation
with a woman and she's attracted to you, then it isn't hard
to get her into the bedroom.

You just have to know how to handle the next step!

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openers for all situations

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sat, 31 Jul 2010 03:11:00 +0000

I'd like to tell you a story...

I want to share a story with you all that I thought was
interesting.

Friday night, I was out with a friend of mine clubbing. As we
were walking from one club to another, we saw two women walking
together in front of us.

These women were HOT!

So hot, in fact, that every guy they passed by on the sidewalk
tried to talk to them. How did they try this? By saying things
like:

"Hey, where you going?"

"Damn, you fine!"

"Hey, come back here, baby!"

Needless to say, these girls were completely ignoring each and
every guy who talked to them.

It's a harsh reality that most girls who are as hot as these two
were get approached by men ALL THE TIME, and have heard every
stupid line in the book. In fact, they get approached so much,
that they don't even respond anymore. They're just focused on
getting to where they're going.

So of course, upon seeing this, I thought to myself "How would
I approach these girls?"

The answer was pretty self-evident. In fact, it was staring
me right in the face!

The situation was dictating what I should say to them.

"Oh my god! Every single guy is trying to pick you guys up! How
annoying is that? You guys need to hire BODYGUARDS just to keep
all these horny waldos away!"

This is an example of a SITUATIONAL OPENER.

Situational Openers can be the best way to meet a woman if
they are done right. This is because this type of Opener is
UNIQUE to the interaction you are having with the woman.

Not only that, but it shows you guys have a common
understanding of the reality you are mutually experiencing.
And that, my friends, creates a connection between the two
of you.

It's like knowing the punch line to a joke most others have no
clue about.

And more importantly, this is one of my most favorite kind of
situational opener, namely, the "Crash and Burn" opener.

This is a situational opener where you capitalize on other
men's failures, while conveying the illusion that you are
different from the other guys and are not looking to get into
the woman's pants (even though the truth may be VASTLY
different from that which you are conveying).

For example, anytime you are in a situation where there are
women you want to approach, and you see a guy go up to them
and try to hit on them, this gives you the chance to use the
"Crash and Burn" opener.

Simply walk up to the girl, and comment on what the other
guy did wrong.

Saying things like:

"So, how'd he do?"

or

"Did it hurt? He was hitting on you pretty hard. Did it
hurt?"

Or anything along those lines will open up your target for
conversation. These types of "Crash and Burn" openers work
great in high stimulus environments where girls are being
hit on (like malls and clubs, for example).

So next time you see some poor schmoe strike out, be sure
to take the opportunity to capitalize on it!

You can find out more about the "Crash and Burn" Opener,
along with other Situational Openers in my ebook, "The Art
of Approaching: How to meet ANY Woman, ANY Time, ANY Where
you may be."

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5 easy steps to seduce any girl

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sat, 31 Jul 2010 03:10:00 +0000

Seduction can be a confusing concept for many guys. Because this
is a topic covered by MANY sites, there is almost TOO much
information out there.

What's the end result? Well, with the large amount of "seduction
material", the average guy can learn a lot about various "pick up
tricks".

But in all likelihood, he'll fail to understand the PHILOSOPHY
behind each technique.

Frankly, I think the ENTIRE process of seduction can be boiled
down to a few easy steps. If you understand the philosophy behind
each step, then you'll do better then 99% of the other guys who
only look for "quick-fix" solutions.

So here is formula for how seduction works:

1- Mental Game

The most "seductive" men are the guys who overcome the PROBLEMS
with their confidence AND self limiting beliefs. What these guys
understand is the importance of having the right mindset before
approaching women.

I think that most men fail to realize the importance of their
mind when it comes to meeting women. In order to be seductive to
women, you must ensure you're displaying an attractive
personality at ALL times!

2- Approaching Women

Approaching women isn't about using some cheesy pick up line!

It's about displaying a high status personality while attracting
her interest. That's why it's important to use a neutral opener
that doesn't indicate your interest.

Most women want guys who are high status. By NOT displaying signs
of interest on your approach, you'll attract her attention
without triggering her natural inclination to be wary of new guys
talking to her. And this helps to reinforce a confident, yet
mysterious persona.

3- Make Her Attracted

You CAN'T have seduction she's attracted to you first. And this
attraction is established within the first few minutes of meeting
a guy.

As I stated before, a big mistake you could make is to
demonstrate YOUR attraction to a woman before she displays hers.

Once you approach a woman, you need to focus on creating
attraction. There are many routines and techniques you can use to
make this happen. In fact, MOST of the content you'll find on
"seduction websites" focuses on creating that spark of attraction.

For now, all you need to know is the importance of creating
attraction.

4- Show your attraction

In order for a woman to become emotionally invested in a guy, she
must know that you like her for who SHE IS instead of her
appearance.

As a woman becomes attracted to you, she'll demonstrate specific
'Indicators of Interest'. Once you detect these flirting signals,
you should "push and pull" the interaction. Basically these are
routines where you subtly get a woman to sell herself.

And if she gives you the responses that YOU look for, you can
demonstrate your own signs of attraction.

Basically the idea of giving (then taking way) your attraction is
to create sexual tension. This is what flirting is all about. One
minute you're showing signs of interest, the next you're pushing
her away and teasing her in a funny manner.

5- The Seduction

While this is the last step listed, seduction is something that
should be happen from the moment you meet a woman. From the
moment you first speak to her, you must be communicating a
sexually confident aura.

Seduction is about recognizing her attraction signals and
responding with the appropriate response. And during the later
stages of interaction, seduction is about knowing how to
physically escalate, kiss her and THEN progress towards "closing
the deal".

In addition, it's also about being the guy who is confident
enough the control each level of progression. This is the essence
of the DOMINANT male!

So there you have it! The ENTIRE process of seduction summarized
into a few steps.

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body language basics for impressing girls

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 05:01:00 +0000

Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out
over 50% of your communication comes from your body language -
what you DON'T say and less then 8% of your communication comes
from what you DO say.

What does this mean to you?

It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say
things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to what
you say (at least initially).

You see, you could have the best game in the world and be able
to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online,
but if you used those same successful techniques in the real
world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc -
You would simply crash and burn.

Honestly, body language is most important in attracting women.

Body language basics:

1. Smile

You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that
you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick
as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time.

You also need to let her know that you are confident and
comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best
way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen
that you can tell is about to give you the "dead eye", give her
a big smile.

Practice smiling at random people. You'll be surprised by how
many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling
WORKS. Just don't make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)

2. Eye contact

As you know there's nothing worse than staring at a woman's chest
- or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys
who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to
not look at her chest - she'll wonder why her womanly powers
don't work with you and she'll seek your attention and
subconsciously try to get you to look!

When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much
because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact
with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be
comfortable for most women.

Don't stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally
look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make
a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make
serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window
to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that.

There are even speed dating type events being run that involve
just staring into each others eyes - and from what I hear, they
are pretty successful.

Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation
time. Be natural.

3. Upright posture

Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do
prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big
film actors like john,hritik etc. They all have good posture.

It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at
least in mind). It's just generally more attractive and says
lots about who you are. Plus it's good for your back and will
help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.

Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.

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what to say on first phone call

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 04:59:00 +0000

Today I want to discuss "phone game." Specifically we're going
to cover what to say on your first phone call.

As you probably know, a girl's opinion is largely based on the
feelings she experiences during your first phone conversation.

Most guys fail in this area, because they simply "wing it"
instead of forming a plan of action.

Whenever calling a girl there were a NUMBER of things you should
do. For instance, you should do the following in EVERY phone
conversation:

1) Have a "call back humor" joke:

Before you get a number, it's important to have some sort of
connection or private joke. It could be a nickname you give her.

Or if you met her online, you could refer to something about her
profile that you busted her on.

The point is using call back humor will immediately establish
that connection you formed when you first got her number. It
doesn't have to be anything fancy, just a something that shows
points out the connection the two of you have.

2) Have a few questions about her

It's important to establish a connection with any conversation
you have with a woman. Before calling her, jot down a few
questions that you geniunely want to know about her.

Ask about her:

* Hobbies and life outside work
* Dreams and aspirations
* Favorite places to travel
* Music, movies, and books she likes

Now you'll find that many so-called "seduction gurus" tell you to
ignore any rapport seeking questions before you know she's into
you. And they'll also probably recommend never asking anything
that makes you seem like you're trying to seek her approval.

But I honestly believe that it's necessary to ask questions like
this. Honestly, it's important for creating attraction. However
it's equally important to make her feel that sense of connection
where you truly get her.

So I recommend you ask questions about her. But you also want to
challenge her at the same time. Ask her why she likes the things
she does. Tease her a little. Create some banter between the two
of you.

3) Have stories to tell

Stories should be the backbone of ANY attraction building
conversation. Frankly one of the biggest mistake I've made in
the past was having nothing to talk about.

Before picking up the phone, you should jot down a few notes
about some of the interesting things you've done during the week.
Also if you have a story from your past that you know women love,
NOW is the time you should tell it!

Any story you tell should put you in the best possible light. It
should subtly demonstrate that you're a fun, high status guy who
has a lot going on in your life. And if this isn't the truth,
then it's time to get out there and do something!

4) Have a date idea

NEVER, ever pick up the phone without having a few fun activities
planned. It can be something you're doing with your friends. Or
it can be something as simple as a trip to the mall.

The point is you want a specific activity that you're doing
during the week. And then as the conversation comes to the
conclusion, you should invite her to come join you.

Typically this is known as a date. However I'm a firm believer
in not using that word OR making it sound like a big deal. Let
her know that you want to see her again. But you're also NOT
structuring your entire life around seeing her. If she agrees,
she agrees. If she doesn't...Oh well. Next.

Bottom line is a phone call should be a fun experience. Use it
to establish a connection, create attraction, and showcase your
unique personality. Don't make the mistake of being boring

Instead be a exciting, engaging guy that she'll want to
immedietely see in person.

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15 signals to know does she likes you

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 04:52:00 +0000

1: She adjusts her clothing or her hair when you are around.

2: She points her breasts in your direction and thrusts them out
when talking to you.

3: She laughs at your jokes... even if they are somewhat unfunny.

4: She gets visibly jealous when you talk about other women.

5: She bends over backwards to satisfy your requests.

6: She asks other people (your friends) about you.

7: She dresses up when she sees you.

8: She asks you if you have got a girlfriend... or your love life
in general.

9: She asks you out.

10: She approaches you first.

11: She texts you out of sudden, and making up trivial topics over
text.

12: She gives you her phone number when you only asked her for
somethning else.

13: She flirts with you and pretends to be annoyed when you tease
her.

14: She maintains eye contact with you and doesn't look away, or
over your shoulder.

15: She appears nervous when you touch her... but she doesn't move
away.

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Flirt while teasing

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 03:55:00 +0000

Teasing is about being fun, but it's also being charming. In
conversations with women, it's a way to demonstrate that you have
high social status. Whereas most guys kiss girls asses, YOU will
use teasing to PUSH them away with a bratty comment, then PULL
them in with something that shows your interest.

For example, you could tease her by taking her hand in yours,
only to push it away and tease her for "being too forward." Then
you continue on by saying that "she's the one treating you like a
piece of meat and is only interested in 'one thing'..."

Sure this doesn't make LOGICAL sense to guys. But you have to
remember flirting isn't about doing stuff in a logical manner;
it's about emotion.

You want to create the kind of tension that's VERY sexually
attractive to women.

Think of being a little kid again...

When you were 10, you teased a girl that you liked by slapping
her, or pulling her hair. And while you'd likely to get a
restraining order placed on you by pulling those stunts now, it's
still basically the same idea.

Put another way: Teasing is "the new" method of pulling a girl's
ponytail.

Teasing should be light when you first meet a woman. Stick to
topics like her choice in purses. Accuse her of buying "knock-
off" or imitation clothing.

The key is to make her think you're funny...not an egotistical
prick.

If she's laughing, then you've won half the battle.

Now one of the best ways to understand humor is to study comedy
and comedians. The caveat here is to avoid the comedy routines
where the person makes fun of himself the whole time.

YOUR comedy should NEVER be used to point out your own flaws or
insecurities. This will only lower your social value and
showcase the unattractive side of your personality.

To blend humor with teasing, you should joke with women in a way
that's playful and not offensive. In other words, you should know
the RIGHT way to showcase a personality that'll make women laugh
while making you extremely attractive.

When you're talking to a woman, you can three tactics REALLY ramp
up a humorous personality:

#1 - Exaggeration

This concept is simple, you take something about her and pick on
her in a RIDICULOUS manner.

For example, try saying something like, "I like the size of your
handbag. It's like you're hiding a Mexican army in there!". Or
if she's wearing a large piece of jewelry you say "Damn girl,
that's some serious bling you got there!"

Exaggeration is a great way to joke with her about a small thing
she does and tease her in a way that "assumes familiarity."

#2 - Role Reversals

This is all about taking line traditionally used by women, and
pretend that SHE is doing it to you. For instance, your average
girl is always being viewed as a sexual object by men. So you
reverse roles by making the claim that she's hitting on you and
is "trying to get into your arms."

Not only does this make you seem funny, but it also shows that
you understand women.

A variation of this technique is to make the self-conscious
statements you'll often hear girls tell each other. A comment
like "Does this outfit make my head look big?" will be sure to
make her laugh.

#3 - Use Characters

Taking on the role of a funny character can be excellent way to
show your humor. This is where you take on a persona or a "type"
of guy she typically meets.

For instance after vibing with a girl for awhile, I'll joke about
her getting hit on by all these WIERDOS. Then I'll immediately
switch into a nerdy persona (hands in pocket, slouchy posture,
geeky sound voice). Then I'll make a joke about how she HAS to
come a Star Trek Convention with me.

A character like this works REALLY well when she knows that
you're a fun, interesting guy. It shows that you *get* what she
goes through AND you're not like the losers she normally deals
with.

One rule of thumb for creating characters...Think of the "types"
of guys that usually annoy her, then assume this persona. But
do it in a way that let's her know that you understand what
it's like for her to deal with someone like this.

Now you might be asking "what if I'm not a funny guy?"

Also, watching stand-up comedians is also a great way to expose
yourself to all that is funny.

Another great technique that is often overlooked is to pay
attention to your friends and the funny things you discuss
together. Taking cues from those you're most comfortable with can
be invaluable.

My final piece of advice is to pay CLOSE attention to the things
that come out of a woman's mouth. Be an opportunity seeker and
spot the moments when you can rip on something she's saying.

For instance, you could misinterpret EVERYTHING she says into a
sexual context, like she's trying to "take advantage of you."
Look for EVERY sexual innuendo that she gives you. Exaggerate the
little things.

For instance, if she says, "This dress doesn't look right on me,"
tease her by saying something like, "Yeah, I didn't want to tell
you that."

If you're able to pick up on the little things around you, it's
easy to create a personality that's both FUNNY and incredibly
ATTRACTIVE to women!

Keep on Rocking and Rolling,

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A small trick to know that a girl is ready to be approached

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:50:00 +0000

"Here's How You Know When A Woman Is Ready To Be Approached..."

This amazing tactic will increase your success rate by 90%, and ensure you NEVER get rejected on the approach!

The Eye Contact Test

We all know that eye contact is important, but something funny happens when we make eye contact with another person...

We become COMPELLED to respond to them in some fashion!

When it comes to women, you can use eye contact to find out if she's open to meeting you. In fact, in a way, she'll be opening YOU!

So here's what you do...

The next time you see a woman you want to meet, LOCK your eyes on her!

Seriously, just stare at her eyes, even if she's not looking at you.

When people are out and about, they will usually look around to keep aware of their surroundings. This is an unconscious thing we all do. Eventually, the woman you're locking onto will look around to scan the area.

When she comes to you, her eyes will inevitably meet yours, and you'll be locked in eye contact.

When that happens, simply SMILE at her.

If she smiles back, guess what?

She's OPEN TO YOU MEETING HER!

If she doesn't, then move on to someone who is.

And when she does smile back, say "Hi!" And if she responds - you're in! Go right into your opener.

I like to use this tactic in low-key situations, like grocery stores, coffee shops, book stores, etc.

Even though it can work just as well in public places (as long as the light is high enough that she can actually SEE you!).

Often times, after you smile, the girl herself will say "Hi!" and then the rest is easy.

The next time you go out, do this to every woman you see. Lock your eyes onto them and see what happens. I guarantee you, you'll be surprised by the results.

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How can I get her leave her BOYFRIEND

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:32:00 +0000

Every day, I receive dozens of emails from
readers just like you who are having difficulty in some aspect
of their dating life.

Throughout this blog, I'm going to include some answers
to the questions I commonly get. By doing it this way, I can
hopefully cover the problems you're having while telling the
thousands of other guys on this list.

In today's blog I'm going to respond to a question I
typically receive once or twice a DAY:

"What do I when a girl already has a boyfriend?"

I'm going to be honest with you...

When a woman talks about her boyfriend, she's sending you signals
that she's not available for dating. It's her way to tell other
guys that she's taken WITHOUT creating an awkward situation.

From what you've written, it's my OPINION that she likes you as
a friend.

To be honest, this happens a LOT to guys. They mistakenly
think a woman is showing a sign of attraction when she opens up
and shares her inner feelings. However when a woman enjoys
hanging out with you, but talks about her boyfriend, she's
telling you that you're her FRIEND.

Now that does NOT mean you don't have a chance. The sad fact is
SOME women are open to doing dating guys despite the fact that
they have a boyfriend.

If you're wondering if she's like this, I recommend you do
something called "The Attraction Test". I works like this:

1- Treat her like a woman

When you're with her, treat her LIKE a woman. In other
words, don't be afraid to joke about sex or tease her in a
suggestive manner (ie: cocky/funny).

Don't be coy or nonsexual around her. Instead act like a guy
who is comfortable with the topic of sex. You're doing this
because you want her to view you as someone she WANTS to date,
NOT as a only a friend

2- Find out more about her boyfriend

Next, you should do some research on her boyfriend.

Now I want to mention one thing....I personally think it's a
BAD idea to intentionally sabotage a relationship.

But...

If she's not happy (or is attracted to you) then it's YOUR
decision if you want to pursue things. I want to take a chance
then you need to find out more about this OTHER guy.

So try asking her about the boyfriend. Figure out what she thinks
of him and their relationship. If it appears that she's not in a
good relationship, then this might be an indicator that she could
into you.

You might have a chance if she's not happy!

On the other hand, if she gushes about how wonderful he is and what
she loves about him, then you're being sent a CLEAR sign that you
probably won't succeed with this woman.

3- Date other women

Finally, you want to do something that might seem a little
"counterintuitive". Instead of going after this girl, you want
to date OTHER women.

The idea behind dating other women is to test her reaction. If
she seems upset or jealous, then you KNOW that she's ripe for
the taking!

Next time you're around her, start talking about the women
you're currently dating. In fact, make it seem that you're
being actively pursued by a number of different girls in your
life.

But back to this particular woman...

If you're talking about OTHER women you're interested in, you
could see some jealous feelings from her. When this happens you
know she has feelings for you.

Well if you want to find out the true feelings of the girl,
you have to a little research.

Remember this...

Regardless of the outcome, you should work hard to date different
women till you find one that you REALLY want to be with. Once
you've dated lots of women, you won't be wrapped in ONE woman who
might not be returning your feelings.

Never confuse a woman's TRUE intentions!

My advice is if you like a woman THAT WAY, then act like a guy
she WANTS to date. In other words, don't be her buddy
or the shoulder to cry on.

If you do, you'll end up in the worst place possible...

THE FRIENDS ZONE!

This is the last place you want to go.

SO......Dont be there.

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How to be naturally attractive to all girls

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:14:00 +0000

In the past few months, I've thought a LOT about what makes a guy
naturally attractive to any woman. While MOST men need routines,
gimmicks and other PUA games, there are some born with a natural
ability to attract without even thinking about it.

What I find interesting is "naturals" come in all shapes and
sizes. I've seen some who are ugly, fat AND poor. Yet they're
BLESSED with the uncanny ability to unleash a girl's "WILD SIDE"

Now I'll be the first to admit that I am NOT a natural with
women. Before I tried to make a change to this area of my life, I
did manage to "Forrest Gump" my way with women. But looking back,
most of my success was largely due to a few factors:

* Alcohol
* Being in a comfortable environment
* Talking to a friend of a friend
* Having a woman approach me

As you can see, I wasn't as bad as some others out there. But, I
feel that at one point in my life, my success with women was very
limited.

But to the main point of this blog...

There ARE men who have a natural touch with women!

What makes them different?

Well as I've recently discovered, there is ONE major factor that
separates the "naturals" from the "average" men:

Naturals give off a postive attitude!

Okay, I know I'm venturing into the realm of "hippy-dippy" new
agey talk. However, there's an important lesson to be learned
here...

Naturals intuitively know the importance of triggering a woman's
positive emotions. In other words, naturals are FUN to be around
and provide an interesting view of the world.

Primarily, naturals know how to clearly describe their goals and
dreams. Whenever given an opportunity, naturals will talk about
life in an exciting manner.

Since most women live boring unfulfilled lives, a natural can
provide an dramatic change of pace.

Next, naturals are able to avoid the negativity displayed by many
men. If you think about it, most people are constantly
complaining about how much life sucks.

Instead of simply complaining, a natural will express what he
doesn't like in way that isn't negative. Instead he finds a way
to put a positive spin on almost any scenario.

To illustrate, let's go over a few statements made by an AVERAGE
person and by a NATURAL:

Average :

1) "Those girls are so bitchy. I can't believe they treated me
like that! "

2) "This is the worst service I've ever had. Where the hell did
they hire this waitress? "

3) I'm so tired right now. I don't feel like doing anything
right now"

Natural :

1) "I didn't do my best in that set. Next time, I'm going to
display more energy and positive body language"

2) "Looks like we're not going to have the greatest service
tonight. But, at least I know the food is going to be awesome!"

3) "Who is tired? I'm ready to go!"

As you can see, these statements basically say the same thing.
However the WAY each type of guy says them has a direct link to
a specific emotion.

Naturals know that energy and enthusiasm is important in EVERY
interaction. If you can learn ONE thing from these guys, it
should be that you NEED to display a more fun and exiting
personality. If you show a woman a GREAT time, then she'll be
naturally drawn to you.

An one of the best ways to be more "natural" with women is
to understand how to display an attractive personality

You won't believe how easy it is to get ANY woman when you're
displaying them with a FUN, exciting attitude!

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How to turn women 'ON'

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:05:00 +0000

"How can I have sex with this woman?"

This is a common question guys have when they're on a date with
a girl. They like her, think she's attractive and want to
find a way to "close the deal".

Unfortunately, most guys are CLUELESS about how to take things
to the next level.

If you're like a lot of men, then you're probably had problems in
the past with making that transition from a date to the bedroom.

And most women aren't NEVER seem to help you out!

But there's something that you probably never realized...

To have sex with a woman, you have to understand that it's a
PROCESS not a DESTINATION. In other words, if you're wondering
how to make a move 2-3 hours into the date, then you've
ALREADY failed!

The secret to moving from a date to sex is simple...

You establish physical contact at the start of the date and
build up this tension till you're having sex. In other words,
you have to know how to TOUCH her.

Establish a physical connection, is the BEST way to led things
towards a sexual encounter. But you have to do it the RIGHT
way!

So when I tell you to touch her, I DON'T mean you should act
like a sex-starved pervert who is constantly groping women.

Instead you should follow a natural progression which revolves
around her levels of comfort.

In essence you want to follow what I like to call:

The Touching Progression Model

The idea behind this technique is to make a woman feel
comfortable with your touch in order to increase the level of
sexual tension.

So if you want to become intimate with her, you should
initiate touching in a manner that starts with "safe touching"
and goes all the way to "sexual touching".

And as you progress up the "touching ladder", you'll constantly
observe her body language and see if she's comfortable with your
physical contact. To get started, here is a list of touching
which ranges from LOW RISK all the way to HIGH RISK:

--> Touching her arm (or vice versa)

--> Touching her leg (or vice versa)

--> Touching her medium risk areas (forearms, shoulders, knee,
or wrist)

--> Holding her hand

--> Putting your arms around her (or vice versa)

--> Having her sit on your lap

--> Touching her intimate areas like her face, chest, neck and
inner thighs

Now there is something important thing to remember about "The
Touching Progression Model". Your goal is to go from an initial
conversation to KISSING her.

If done correctly, you can use it easily transition into sex. So
you must take any with a woman interaction through these steps
and ensure that she's comfortable with each escalation point.

To really ramp up your touching, you should implement the "Two
steps forward, one step back" rule.

This means you should constantly advance your physical contact,
but also pull back before she's uncomfortable. Just remember to
be the first to break contact. If she doesn't like your arm
around you, then COMPLETELY break contact. What usually happens
is the girl enjoys your physical contact. When you end it on
YOUR terms, she'll try to find a way to get you to reinitiate
the touching.

Now the big question is this:

Should you touch her or should you get her to touch you?

Well the answer is pretty simple. ALWAYS make it seem like she's
the one who is initiating the physical contact. A way you can do
this is to take her hand and put it on YOUR arm.

By making it seem like she's the one to initiate contact, you'll
reduce her nervousness and let her know that she's in complete
control of the physical escalation.

Another thing to remember about physical escalation is keep you
have to keep it active. When you're touching her, you want to make
it lively not stale. For instance, if you're holding her hands,
then you could lightly run your fingers along her hands in
playful manner.

Initiating physical contact is the gateway between a conversation
and sex. If you want to be intimate with a woman, then you have
to know to make her turned on JUST from your touch.

If you follow the physical escalation model that I talked about,
then you'll discover it's easy to move things quickly towards
intimacy.

Remember touching a woman is the FIRST indicator of what
you'll be like in the bedroom. So make sure you're doing it
RIGHT!

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FOUR most common problem of boys with women

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 06:34:00 +0000

Do You Have ANY of These 4 Problems with Women...

Everyday i recieve dozens of Emails,containing the same question.
So instead of sending out four different emails, let me cover
FOUR of the most common questions that I receive from readers
just like you.

Hopefully this will clear up any doubts that you might have
about your own unique situation...

Problem-1:-Do I have to be good looking to attract different women?

This is probably the most common question I get!

The fear of not being "good enough" is a feeling that a lot of
men have!

While they secretly hope to attract that 'hot thing' from across
the room, many guys feel like they're not good looking enough to
really make her interested.

Even though each guy has his own problem area, this fear is
a universal issue that has impacted the lives of countless men.

But each one has his own "sticking point" when it comes to
some aspect of his appearance. This can include feelings of
being:

* Too Old
* Too Fat
* Too Skinny
* Too Poor
* Too Ugly

Now let's be perfectly HONEST here...Good looks can HELP you
succeed with women. BUT, it is NOT the only factor that affects
a woman's level of attraction!

The psychology of women is a tricky thing. While you MIGHT
think they go for only good-looking guys, MOST are attracted
to the men who make them FEEL GOOD about themselves.

And this has NOTHING to do with looks!

So even if you're NOT happy with your appearance, there is STILL
a system which can help you attract different women.

Basically any excuse YOU HAVE about not being good looking is
just that - AN EXCUSE!

If you believe in yourself and pay attention to the resources I
provide, you'll develop the proper techniques to attract ANY
woman, regardless of your appearance!

Problem-2:- Isn't It More Natural to Wait Till True Love Finds Me?

Another question I Often receive is from men who feel fate will
decide when they'll meet the woman of their dreams.

Unfortunately fate will almost NEVER bring a great woman to you!

Here's a scenario that can help illustrate my point:

==

You're hanging out in a restaurent with your friends, having a
few drinks and some laughs.

Suddenly you look across the room and there she is...

THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS!

Not only is she beautiful, but she also has a special quality
that you've never had before.

Perhaps this is even LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!

Unfortunately, you're nervous and unsure of what to say.

In the best case scenario, you muster up a bit of courage, walk
over and use some lame pick-up line you heard from your buddies.

She then gets disgusted and turns her back on you, virtually
shutting you out from her world.

Now this is the best case scenario.

Another thing that could happen is you sit there thinking of
every smooth line you could possibly say to her. In fact,
you spend HOURS trying to figure out the best way to approach
her.

Before you get enough "liquid courage" to talk to her, another
guy walks up to her. He strikes up a conversation with her
and the two of them are suddenly best of friends.

Your hesitation and fear has ruined any chance of meeting this
amazing woman. Now some other Asshole is sitting there talking
to her.

==

Pretty crappy story, right?

The point was to illustrate how you might make up some excuse
about meeting someone when FATE allows it to happen.

But the truth is even if you're randomly put in a situation where
you could meet the woman of your dreams, you might clam up and not
know what to say.

By implementing the techniques I describe in this email list,
you'll be prepared to take action whenever you see a woman you
find interesting.

So while we all want to believe in fate and how it'll bring us
that perfect woman, the reality is this...

LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE OF IT!

Fate won't bring you women. However, knowing what to and TAKING
ACTION will help you create your own destiny!

Problem-3:- Does this stuff teach me to manipulate women?

This is a really good question!

Now, I truly believe that the stuff I teach in my blogs and email
list FOCUSES on teaching men the importance of finding the inner
strength which lies within all of them.

It is NOT about using and abusing women.

But let me be honest here...

We live in a world where women are actively pursued by guys. As
a result, a lot of them have learned that men will do anything
to attract their attention.

The end result is many women have learned to turn dating into
a sport. Some understand how to manipulate men to get what they
want.

And when they tired of one particular guy, they will quickly ditch
him.

Now this shouldn't make you angry. Instead, it should OPEN your
eyes to the reality of the dating world.

Sure, MOST women are just like you. They're trying simply
trying to find the *right* guy. Unfortunately, since they
get hit on ALL the time by men, they've developed subtle, yet
effective tactics to WEED OUT the losers.

My goal is to help you avoid becoming THAT GUY!

What I'm trying to teach is how to build your confidence when
meeting women. That means you meet a girl on EQUAL grounds.

Instead of catering to her every desire, you'll learn how to
stand up for yourself and converse with her in a attractive
manner.

AND...in no way do I want you to become a jerk or learn how to
abuse women.

Instead it's my hope that you take what you learn and be confident
enough to approach women in ANY social situation.

But ultimately it all comes down to your own personal viewpoint
about women.

If you're the type of guy who harbors a hatred towards females,
then there is VERY LITTLE I can teach you.

The point I am trying to make is it's important to learn about
each woman you meet and find out what makes them great. Then you
can create an engaging conversation with her which could lead to a
more intimate encounter.

Problem-4:-How Do I Get Started?

Well hopefully by now you've had time to read through my free
blog- "Tips to impress Indian girls".

If you haven't, then you should start there!

In fact, it's really important to read through the whole thing.

After that, you can advance your education.

So I urge you to get out there and take massive action!

To your success with women,.

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A little "MAN TO MAN" talk

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 06:28:00 +0000

When it comes to dating and women, you can do away with reason, particularly when it concerns flattery and praise.

Contrary to what most women will tell you, flattery does not always get the results that you expect.

A man constantly praising a woman he doesn't know, telling her she is stunning, sexy, exciting, clever, or just plain great will simply end up annoying her. His remarks will be regarded as flippant and her interest levels will drop dramatically.

Why?

Well, if you put yourself in the place of a beautiful woman, it is a bit easier to Lovely Woman understand.

Someone who is approached endlessly each day by any number of guys all saying how gorgeous she is without even knowing her, ultimately will end up believing the compliment to be insincere and the guy to be unoriginal or boring, or both.

Since you are neither of those, you need to take another approach.

Naturally women do love to hear that they are pretty or sexy, but gushing compliments in the beginning only cheapens your efforts at a relationship, as she will believe that you are solely interested in physical beauty and/or having sex with her.

Although this may be true initially, it is an immediate turn-off for women.

In addition, by frequently complimenting a woman, you will empower her and psychologically will give her a "hold" over you, allowing her to think that she can turn you away anytime she likes, and that you need her more than she needs you.

For two people to date and continue dating, they both need to feel that they are on an equal par, socially. In this respect, excessive compliments and praise from you detracts from your status and adds to hers resulting in an uneven standing for you both.

Now I don't want to imply that you not flatter a woman at all. Subtle compliments in the beginning - to get her attention - are very effective, as is the timing of such compliments.

Saying "I love what you've done with your hair" on the first date is much less likely to be believed as your date will consider it to be "a line".

However, the same compliment said two weeks later can be interpreted very differently as your date will think that you have taken note of her hair before she changed it, noticed that she changed it, and liked what she did after she changed it.

The result will be a genuine smile of appreciation, which will undoubtedly take you one step further in a relationship with her.

Much better, wouldn't you say, than her breathing a sigh, rolling her eyes, and turning you down?

The thing to think about when you hesitate in approaching a woman...

...is to compare between the risk and reward.

When you talk to a woman, either she likes you, or she doesn't. So, you technically have got 50% chance. So, you will have at least 1 in 2 probability of success.

Which is high!

If you instead do nothing, your chances are NIL.

So, go for it as you have got absolutely nothing to lose. What's the absolute worst thing that can happen?

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Avoid such kind of girls

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 06:25:00 +0000

On Sunday night, I arrived back to the mumbai from my week
long trip to Agra and New Delhi. I was dog tired and
need of some sleep. So naturally I made the smart decision and
went out with a few friends to a local club.

After a few approaches, I got into a conversation with a girl
I'll call Priya. At first, I was interested in Priya. She was
a tall, willowy college girl from Mumbai. Definitely the kind
I like.

However after a few minutes, I quickly determined that she was
showing all the classic signs of what my friends and I call a
"Trainwreck".

What's a trainwreck? Well this is a girl who fills her life with
extremely poor life decisions. Typically this is someone who
only lives for the moment and thinks nothing about the outcomes
of her decisions.

Like the name describes, a trainwreck is an accident waiting to
happen. If you wait around long enough, things WILL come crashing
down around her.

You can usually spot a trainwreck by a number of qualities. For
instance, she'll:

~~> "Party" or go out to bars 4-5 times a week (Or get REALLY
drunk every time she goes out)

~~> Frequently use hard drugs like cocaine, speed, or Ecstasy

~~> Rarely talk about long-term plans or goals

~~> Need constant attention from many different guys

~~> Have an overall "crazy-eyed" look about her

Now the major problem with trainwrecks is they can be very
attractive. A girl like this can bring a lot of excitement to
your life. Unfortunately, she also provides a ton of chaos and
drama.

In the past, I used to be drawn to girls like Priya. Ones that
were beautiful, and promised that hint of excitement. But
during the last year, I've learned a VERY valuable lesson about
a trainwreck...

YOU CAN'T FIX THEM!

A trainwreck can be fun to be around. What's unfortunate is your
average guy will date a girl like this, expecting that she'll
magically change her self-destructive ways. And after weeks
(even months) of trying to fix her, his life will suffer.

Now if you're NOT looking for a girlfriend or anything
permanent, then you probably date a trainwreck without TOO
much drama.

However, it's important to keep things in perspective. Remember
that she's basically looking for a good time and isn't in the
market for a serious relationship. Furthermore, she's probably
hanging around a LOT of other guys. So don't make the mistake
of thinking of she's "the one." Have fun with her, but don't
lose perspective.

On the other hand, let's say you're a guy who only wants quality
women. IF you encounter a trainwreck, I have a simple piece of
advice...

RUN!

Don't make the mistake of getting involved with a girl like this.
Sure she might be good-looking OR be a nice girl deep down OR
promise that hint of excitement. If you have your shit
together then a girl like this will only bring unnecessary drama
into your life.

To have true success with women, you want to surround yourself
with women who can bring more to the table than just their looks.
They should have qualities that can stimulate you on a number of
levels. And part of having standards means you won't accept ANY
behavior that damages your life.

So when you find yourself in a conversation with a trainwreck,
the best thing to do is to quickly excuse yourself. As they say,
there are plenty of fish in the sea. In the long run, you'll be
much happier if you only interact with women who bring positive
things into YOUR life.

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8 Topics to use on your next date

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:22:00 +0000

8 Incredible Conversation Topics You Can Use on Your Dates

Being out of topics is actually a
pretty common thing that happens to a lot of guys. You go on a
few dates and then it seems like there is nothing more you can
really talk about.

But what you probably don't realize is there are a LOT of
different conversation topics you can cover. The trick is to
ONLY focus on the ones that'll increase the level of sexual
tension.

So in other words, NEVER talk about things that are boring
OR focus on NEGATIVITY. The goal of first couple of dates is
to make that physical/emotional connection.

It's NOT about talking a girl's ear off with things that
doesn't want to hear.

So never-

- Say anything negative about the people around you
- Be rude or talk in an arrogant manner
- Talk at length about past relationships which have failed
- Focus on boring "interview topics" like jobs or schooling

Now that you know which topics to avoid, let's move on...

What you need to do here is create an atmosphere on this date
which will increase the chemistry. The best way to do this is
by talking about specific topics that she'll find interesting.

And here are 8 different ways to do this:

1. Tell Great Stories

Learn how to tell 3-4 interesting stories that can be interjected
into your conversation. These stories should portray you in an
interesting and exciting manner while being funny at the same
time! What I suggest is you sit down and craft a few stories
from your life.

Then practice these stories till you know them cold!

2. Focus on emotion

There are numerous topics which women love to discuss.
Generally, these are the focus on basic human emotions (i.e.:
drama, conflict and romance)

You can easily connect to the emotional side of her brain by
discussing *charged* topics that include any of these topics.

3. Personality tests and other games

The best way to be attractive towards women is to demonstrate
higher value. Commonly this is done by demonstrating a skill
or ability that most guys DON'T have.

So if you have the time, I would urge you to read up on "cold
reading" techniques.

You can use these techniques to describe a woman's personality
from limited knowledge you have of her. Even though you've
been on a few dates, learning how to "cold read" is a quick way
to build interest and attraction.

4. Talk about celebrities

People (especially women) LOVE to talk about celebrities. So all
you have to do pay attention to the different headlines in the
tabloids. Then start talking about the shocking exploits of
society's elite.

Trust me, there is ALWAYS something going on in bollywood which
can provide you with a great conversation piece.

5. Create an our world conspiracy

While I think it's important to be a positive person,
you can still have fun gossiping about the people around you.

If you're stuck with stuff to talk about, you can resort to
people watching and commenting about the groups situated around
you.

Doing this create an "our world" mentality where you're having
fun playing guessing games about other folks.

For instance you can watch other couples on the date and
determine if they're going to make it.

Another example is to spot a big group of people, you can play a
game and try to figure out who is the "Alpha Male/Female".

6. Talk about your dreams and aspirations

A great topic of conversation is talking about the different
things you want to achieve in your lifetimes.

When you talk about things like this, you're making a connection
to a positive emotion. As a result, you'll discover it's easy to
piggyback on these emotions and build attraction

7. Use past topics

During past dates with other women, you've probably had
incredible conversations around specific topics.

The truth is these conversations worked for a reason...

They were INTERESTING!

Since you've recently started to date this woman, you've probably
haven't talked about a lot of things. So you can easily use
conversation topics which you have worked on other women.

8. Keep up with current events

Topics of conversation are happening in the world right NOW!

Since the planet is a big place, you can easily find interesting
topics to discuss! All you have to do is listen to the news each
day and you'll have plenty to talk about.

Just remember to stay away from polarizing topics like war,
religion or politics.

Well as you can see, there are lots of things you can discuss on
your date. If you take the time to do a little preparing, you'll
discover that it's actually quite simple create an engaging
conversation which will quickly build attraction.

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How to Impress older women

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 16:57:00 +0000

Question from a reader:-

Am a regular reader of your blog and am really got a huge help from your blogs in my love life.But I really want to tell you a storywhich happened

Last Friday I went out with some buddies and the whole place was bursting with hot female models. My first thought was 'bring it on', as I thought of the many possibilities of being in a room full of tens.

Me and the rest of the guys went our separate ways to cover more ground, and I managed to get at least two phone numbers. Things were really going well, and it was crazy, but something weird happened.

One of the women I approached asked about my age and I said 20. She's 25. After that conversation about age, she started talking to me in an extremely polite manner, which was a far cry from the way she was talking to me before we got around to talking about age.

She was flirting like hell until that point. What gives?

I don't know exactly if it's her body language, or the tone of her voice, but I got the vibe that she was very civil with me.

Worst of all, I got the feeling that she's 'sitting it out' until I got tired of talking to her so she can finally talk to other people. It seemed as if she tolerated my convo because she’s a nice girl who couldn’t diss a guy rudely.

I picked up on her sudden change of mood and with the proverbial tail between my legs, went back to the buddies. It wasn’t a bad thing, I suppose, because there were many more women in the vicinity, but still, it seemed strange.

Now on to my main question:

In general how can a guy get around the age-related bias and make a girl think you’re fun, adventurous and worldly? To phrase it more succinctly, how can a guy make a woman switch off the “you’re too young for me” mindset?

I like dating older women, and my experience with girls a few years older than me has been great so far, but this was the first time I’ve encountered a girl who made me feel like age should be an issue.

If I meet a girl who thinks like this again, should I just lie and say I’m older than my actual age?

SOLUTION of the problem

Getting judged because of your age or age group is a nightmare, I can tell you from experience.

Most of the time, women dig you and banter with you comfortably until they start guessing your age (or you tell them yourself).

To illustrate this dilemma, imagine a young guy who can open conversations with women like a dream.

He can start a sexually-charged discourse with any woman and get her lusting for him. Think eye-to-eye contact, visible heart bubbles over her head… she’s quite ready to give in anytime, until he opens his mouth and tells her his real age...

...and BOOM!

Her hot loins freeze over, her heart turns black, her flirty glances turn serious, and she looks at you like she just saw you.

As you talk to her, she puts on a quizzical look and asks the question that’s burning in her brain right at that moment… “How old are you?”

Talk about getting hit where it hurts most. Believe me, I’ve felt this same feeling many times in the past whenever a girl busts my ego by telling me I’m too young, not old enough, or too adolescent for her to date.

From that moment on, you can expect her to say something like “Um… yeah… well, I don’t date guys your age”, “you’re cute like my little brother”, “you remind me of my eldest son”, or “I really don’t date younger guys”.

Now, what’s a guy to do if faced with this scenario? Do you just sit there and take it? Do not wait for your ego to return to its normal size.

Instead, do something to bounce the criticism back at her so she will know never to judge a virile guy by his age alone in the future (and of course, to turn the situation around to your benefit).

Although most mails I receive regarding the age issue come from women complaining how this or that guy is way older, this questions really made me smile because I got to go back to the way I was treated by older women in the past as soon as they learned how much younger I was compared to their age.

Women then always made me feel inferior by acting haughty about their experience. For some reason age equates experience to most women, and when they find out you’re way younger, they would automatically assume you don’t have what it takes for them to date.

No woman wants to babysit, I can tell you that much. But sometimes, there are women who simply dislike dating younger men, just because. No reason given, and no apologies issued. This tendency to get busted like this for being ‘too young’ is painful at the very least.

Now that I’m older, I’ve had to deal with this from the other end of the spectrum. Suddenly, some girls are thinking I’m too old for them to date!

It’s funny how things turn out, but the best part of being a part of this whole age shenanigan is getting to know some methods to make her think of you differently regardless of her age-bias and regardless of your age.

I’m going to show you how to turn the situation around … and make her feel attracted instead of turned off in as little as 30 seconds.

Here’s how you start to turn it around...

How to handle 'tricky' situations regarding age...

Don’t get me wrong, I personally like older women, and I think the maturity they have is attractive.

But if push comes to shove and a woman tries to make me feel inferior to her because of my age, I won’t hesitate to flip things around to get her turned on.

Albeit, that’s not the way our culture is set up. For females, their age and looks are fused together. You can tease a girl about her age when she starts giving you the snotty about how young you are.

Do it like the cosmetics marketers do… push her age-looks pain button and it won’t matter if she’s just a year older than you. She will undoubtedly feel the sting of your flippant remarks, and start reacting.

When she goes on her ‘reactive phase’, you know what that means right? You can push some more buttons to immediately generate attraction and get her coming home with you.

If she notices that the age comment affected you in any way, she will think she’s the prize and you should prove yourself to her before she flirts with you again.

Instead of falling for it, do this: throw a neg about her age and see her whole confidence crumble. Tease her lightly with words that clearly say you think her regard for your age is foolish. Here’s an example:

Her: “You’re way too young for me. Come back when you’re older”

Me: “You’re absolutely right. You’re way older than me. You’re past your prime in ‘girly years’. “

If she asks about that remark or if she looks shocked, educate her further by saying, “a girl’s age peaks at 18. That’s when her modeling career takes off. If she’s lucky, it stays good until she’s 25. You at 25 is basically a senior citizen amongst hot women.”

Are you catching my drift? :)

She will probably laugh in recognition of a rebuke, and that’s when you can really get her.

This tactic works like gangbusters, and here's why...

First of all, she sees you in a new light. You’re the impertinent man of the world who dared challenge her ego so you must be something else.

Another thing, even if you told her she’s way old in your eyes, you still gave her a compliment somehow (by pitting her against hot young girls aged 18-25)… but still, you made her uneasy and she feels provoked.

When you get her in this state, you have her where you want her. You will have her thinking of ways to prove herself to you.

The combination of indignant reaction, heightened senses, emotional discomfort and fuming gives rise to an emotion women interpret as ‘attraction.’ Believe it!

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My secret of sending SMS to women.

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 11:17:00 +0000

I'm Going To Show You Exact Flirty Text Messages, How To Create
Attraction, Get A Date, Turn Her On To Where She Is Dying To Meet
You And More... All Through Text Messaging...

Normally I don't reveal personal details about my life. But
I thought you might appreciate this...

A few weeks back, I was chilling with my buddies before going
out to a local bar.

And like guys do, we get to talking about our favorite
subject- WOMEN.

Each of us mentioned the different girls we're dating and I
felt a childish need to top them (Hey, I'm only human)

So I pulled out my cell phone and showed a few
pics I received from this one girl through text messaging.
(For the sake of privacy, we'll call her 'abc')

And of course, my friends wanted to know more about abc.

What really shocked them was when I told my friends that I
never met OR had a phone conversation with this girl.

In fact, the only contact I had with her was one orkut
message and a dozen text messages.

Naturally my friends wondered how I could get a girl to send
pictures of herself when she never met me!

What's even better is I met up with abc about a week after
this conversation.

I didn't really plan out an activity. In fact, I happened to
be in the area with my buddy Rahul and was actually pretty
drunk.

but I knew she lived nearby so I sent her a quick sms
and asked if she wanted to join us.

And even though I was retardedly drunk, and had zero game, it
took only about an hour of in-person conversation to get
her into bed!

Let me say that again...

I had sex with abc after only 1 hour of conversation.

Now I'm telling because I want to brag. In fact, I work really
hard to NOT discuss my personal life with people.

But I think there's a really important lesson to be learned
here...

SMSING should be a major tool to use when you're
meeting women.

Unless you've lived in a cave for the last couple of years,
you're probably familiar with SMSs.

They're widely used because they're incredably useful for
when you just want to ask a quick question or send a
brief message.

What's interesting is women love SMSing!

If you've watch women, you'll notice how much many
SMSs they send. In fact, I think this form of technology
is rapidly replacing phone conversations.

So when you SMS a girl the RIGHT way, you can
quickly build enough attraction that you won't have to do
much in-person game when you see her next.

but there's one major problem here...

Most of the guys I know totally screw-up their SMSs.

They SMS the way we men typically have conversations. When
talking to one another, we like to think logically and make
plans. This means are SMSs are usually straight to the point.

Women on the other hand, view SMSing as a way to get to
know one another. They use it to describe their problems and
stay in touch with people in their lives.

It's important to remember this rule when SMSing!

The way I use text messaging is to build sexual tension.

Before each SMS I send, I think carefully about how
this message will advance the interaction I'm having with
a particular girl.

Whether I'm teasing her, sending "comfort" messages or making
plans, my SMSs are specifically designed to create a strong
emotion in the girl who is receiving them!

And from the above example, you can see that there is
a TON of power behind sending a well-written SMS.

With that being said, I'm actually really surprised at the
lack of information about sending text messages to women.

While I know many guys use them, not much has been written on
the subject! So for the last 5 months, I've had to create
my own system for SMSing.

And the results were INCREDIBLE!

For instance, I tested his techniques on a "dead number".
(A girlwho I called a few times, but could never get on
the phone).

After sending her a few SMSs, I was able to create a
ton of sexual tension. And tonight I'm going to meet
her for a coffee.

From the enthusiastic responses she's sent over SMSing,
I'm pretty sure I'm about to have a very
enjoyable evening.

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Dont be a shy guy

noreply@blogger.com (Nishant) — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 11:13:00 +0000

One of the hardest emotions for a man
to deal with isn't anger, sadness, or
depression. It's SHYNESS.

Shyness is the gateway to all the negative
emotions I just listed, because shyness is
the one thing that actually works to umpede
us from achieving what we desire.

When a man gives into his shyness, he doesn't
talk to the women he likes. He doesn't take
a chance on making a new friend. He doesn't
do ANYTHING. He just sits by himself,
wallowing in self-pity and fear.

And before he knows it, his feelings of
loneliness and inadequacy become overwhelming,
and he becomes depressed.

All because he is shy.

So why does this happen? Why are some men so
prone to give into their shyness?

First, realize that shyness is a behavior that
stems from what MIGHT happen.

Let's say you see a girl you like, and want to
talk to. But before you can, all sorts of
scenarios flash through your mind...

You can see her rejecting you.

You can see her laughing at you.

You can see yourself being upset after saying
the wrong thing to her.

As I said - ANY NUMBER of possibilities exist.
And even if we're aware of it or not, these
possibilities run through our minds when we

feel the need to take action regarding a girl.

And our SHYNESS is a defense mechanism to try
and PROTECT ourselves from experiencing those
bad outcomes!

But the problem is that if we don't risk the
bad outcomes, we'll never get any GOOD outcomes
either!

At it's core, shyness is the fear of being
judged harshly. Someone who's shy doesn't
want to be subjected to the opinions of others,

typically because:

1. They believe those opinions will always be
negative

and

2. They do not have a strong sense of self esteem,
and feel vulnerable.

And it's even worse when dealing with a beautiful
girl because there's the element of "sexual validation"
at play. If a beautiful girl rejects us, not only is
it a harsh judgment, but we must also be UGLY too,
right?

And to make matters worse, shyness in men is
far more crippling than shyness in women.

A shy woman will still have men approaching and
pursuing her. However, because of the dynamics
of the dating game, shy men will rarely, if EVER,
be pursued by a woman - even if the woman LIKES him
and is attracted to him!

Shy guys often fantasize about having a woman
come up to them and ask them out. But this is
just a way to rationalize their shyness. In

their mind, they're hoping to be the one that
is pursued because then they don't have to risk
anything by being the pursuer.

However, this is never the case. 99% of women
wait for the men to come after THEM.

Essentially, you have shy guys isolating
themselves from success in love, not only
due to their inability to act, but also
due to their contentness to continue being
shy.

So what's the solution?

The only way to break through shyness is to adopt
different behaviors and thought patterns that
promote a better outcome.

One must learn to gain confidence in himself, so
that he is not vulnerable to the judgment of
others for his self esteem.

One must learn to take action when necessary, and
seize opportunities as they present themselves.

One must learn to see the positive outcomes as well
as the negative ones, and choose to strive for the
positive.

See - I used to be a "shy guy."

My efforts to meet and date the kind of women I
wanted were constantly being hindered by my shyness.

And you know what? IT SUCKED.

I was lonely, angry, and bitter because of my shyness.

But once I overcame it, a whole new world opened
up for me. I was able to meet the women I wanted.
I was getting lots of dates. I had wonderful women
in my life.

And THAT, my friend, is success!

So how can you do what I did?

Well, for starters, I would recommend you check
out my Renegade Rapport home study course.

Rapport is all about learning how to connect to
people, and when you connect to someone, you feel
comfortable around them.

Too often, the anxiety shy guys experience around
women keeps them from succeeding. But learning
good, solid rapport skills will help you to relax
around the women you like.

More so than that - it will help you create attraction
in them that will make your job much easier!

Check out my Renegade Rapport course here:

Check Out Renegade Rapport Here!

It's a long process to overcome your shyness, but
it's well-worth the effort, because in the end,
when you overcome your shyness and find the woman
of your dreams, you'll be happier than you ever
thought possible.
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