So, aside from sounding like Barney (wwNPHd) from How I Met Your Mother, the above is an example of someone’s ego defense mechanisms completely insulating their id. While this state of delusion can make the world a nice place to inhabit — being completely id driven is how children live after all — it can be disastrous for a business.

Every company must deal with Brewster’s Law of Online Community Management:

“In every online community there lurks a small but vocal minority of attention-seekers. These folks are ready to pounce on any change, brand it as a Sign of the Coming Apocalypse, and announce their intentions to leave in a loud, angry huff. The only problem? They never actually leave….”

While these people definitely exist, there are many more users that criticize because they actually want the product to get better. How do you determine which type of user has given the suggestion and fairly judge the idea?

I propose that we start “Turning Oranges into Apples”. In other words, flip the negative feedback you receive 180 degrees before adding it to your potential To Do list. Criticism for not having a feature is converted into positive feedback for having the feature in place. Instead of “I hate that you don’t have [XYZ] on the site” you list “I really loved that you added [XYZ] to the site.”

Turning Oranges into Apples does three things for you:

1. It separates the negative emotion of the critique from the idea itself.
2. It truly lets you “compare apples to apples” as the old saying goes. The benefit of the feature can be judged against other ideas without bias. Which keeps you from over/under-prioritizing a feature based on the way it was presented.
3. It protects your collective team id — which makes life nicer and keeps everyone from thinking all of your users are [insert favorite explicative(s) here] idiots.

Since having an engaged audience is becoming more critical to business success every day, anything that we can do to improve the process should be very valuable. Do you have any other life-hacks for dealing with user feedback? Please share them in the comments.

MyBlogLog Sr. Engineer (and my brother) John Sampson was pictured on TechCrunch’s Live From Google Campfire One.  John stepped up and attended the event after I hurt my back a few days ago.  Thanks for going John!

After asking a lot of Twitter black belts, I have come up with a simple setup that works great for me.:

1. “Follow” everyone that you are remotely interested in hearing from. The more the merrier.
2. Turn “Notifications” on for the 8-10 (or so) people that you really care about. Personally, I receive notifications for several close friends that live in my area since I may want to join them if they Tweet about being at a location near me.
3. Use Twitter’s “Track” feature. I was missing this one for a while and it has really helped me out since adding it. By submitting a “track topic” message to Twitter, you will receive all notifications for the topic you enter even if you are not following the person that sends the message. This is great for following mentions of your business or other areas of interest, but there is an even better use. If you track your Twitter username (e.g. “track toddsampson” for me) you will get notifications for all messages that mention @username. You will never miss a message that is to or about you!
4. Always send notifications to your mobile phone. Yes, it is easy to switch to IM — and this may be preferable on occasion — but you have to remember to switch back to the mobile before leaving the computer. After forgetting too many times, I now just stick with the phone. (Note: It would be great if Twitter would check to see if you are Away/Offline on IM and automatically re-route to the mobile; but the service isn’t there yet.)

When you are at your computer, you can follow the full flow of conversations — as time permits. When you are away, you are still in the loop. It’s the best of both worlds.

So, what’s your best Twitter tip?

(Via Laughing Squid — How does Scott always find best stuff first?!? Thanks man!)

• a Digg killer.
• a Technorati killer.
• a FriendFeed killer.
• a Socialthing killer.
• a MySpace killer.
• a Facebook killer.
• and a dozen more I am forgetting.

Aside from thinking the person telling me this is on crack, I usually have a few additional thoughts. First, there is enough killing in the world already; we don’t need to add to it. Second, as people around Yahoo! are painfully aware, I am a natural born startup guy. I truly respect every person that lets the entrepreneurial spirit grab them and follows through to start a company. I want them to succeed. (I think that any startup team I have spoken with will attest to the fact that I will do anything I can to help them. Please feel free to ping me if there is anything I can do for your startup.) Third, part of being an entrepreneur is knowing that your new startup is going to change direction several hundred times on the way to its final destination. Just because there are similarities in a current feature set does not mean the companies are heading in a similar direction. (MyBlogLog started as outgoing click tracking!) Third, if the services are similar, there is plenty of room for competition. Fourth, if we have created a new feature, it has next to nothing to do with competing with existing services. We do try to learn from what others are doing. But if we add a feature, it is because it is the right thing to do for our users.

In the end, I don’t want any feature we build to kill another company. I just want the feature to be killer.

(Via Ian Kennedy’s New with Me on MyBlogLog.)

It seems to me that the really great bloggers (and successful self-promoters) do the opposite of this interest to post inversion pattern. The more interesting things are in their lives, the more these people take the time to share their excitement and good fortune with others.

Note to self: Take the time to stop and smell the roses. Then take extra time to share those moments and the ideas they drive with others that may be interested.

I just installed Akismet — hope it helps.  Any other recommendations for controlling spam on a Wordpress blog?