Totally Reinventing Me

Check Out Primp & Prep

2012-09-17T01:01:00.001-04:00

This post brought to you by Hpnotiq. All opinions are 100% mine.

Going out on the town, enjoying clubs and socializing, can be a great way to spend an evening. It's fun to visit different places & meet different people. But lots of times the most fun is had before hand, at home getting ready. It's great fun to get a group of your friends together and just let go - hair down, music up!
Thats what I love about the new site onHypnotiq. It's called Primp & Prep and you are going to have so much fun! There are tons of great things to do on the site. Style, fashion and beauty tips. Do you strive to look and feel like a celebrity when you go out? If so Primp & Prep is just the ticket!
You'll also love the music aspect of Primp & Prep. There's even a Pandora music player for you to listen to popular dance songs while getting ready to go out. Admit it....you love dancing around the room while you're getting beautiful! I sure do!
I love everything about Primp & Prep, but my favorite are probably the beauty tips. Be sure to check the site out for yourselves! You may find that you & your friends are having so much fun that you end up staying home and playing on Primp & Prep all evening!

EdenFantasys Makeover

2012-08-15T11:06:00.000-04:00

Have you visited the EdenFantasys site recently? Wow! They've done a complete makeover and it's awesome!! I've always thought that they were the best sex shop online, but now their website is just so much more user friendly!

All the great sex toys are still available, things like dildos, vibrators, lingerie, lotions, oils and so much more. Plus now you can also easily find the other fun features they offer. I'll be writing posts about some of them later but let be tell you....you'll be on the site for hours! There are forums, "edentube", interviews and so much more. Lots of fun!

If you are looking to add some spice to your life, of if you're an old pro like me who is just looking for more fun, head over to EdenFantasys soon. You'll have fun checking out all their recent additions and old favorites! Plus, for a limited time, you can save 20% off the entire site! Just use the code PLAY20 when you check out.

I promise you'll find lots of fun things to play with....either alone or with a partner! I also promise that your significant other will be thrilled that you're making the effort to have some extra fun in or out of the bedroom. Have fun and keep it spicy!

Famous Footwear Coupon

2012-08-11T07:20:00.001-04:00

This post brought to you by Famous Footwear. All opinions are 100% mine.

As you all know, my daughter is "all grown up" now & headed off to her Sophomore year at college soon. But not so long ago, she was a little girl with very specific tastes in fit & style of her shoes. My husband and I used to dread going shoe shopping with her. One store we would always hit, though, was Famous footwear. They have a huge variety of styles and the shopping experience was always very easy.

The best part about shopping at Famous Footwear, in my opinion, is that they have very reasonable prices. You're sure to find lots of shoes you love and can afford - what a great combination! Plus, if you join their FREE Rewards Program you will save even more money. Here are some of the great points from their program...

• Earn 1 point for every $1 you spend in-store or online
• Accumulate points to earn certificates up to $100 a year
• Discount offer just for signing up
• Other special inside discounts and perk

Right now you can save even more money by using their BOGO + 15% off Famous Footwear Coupon. I highly recommend printing off the coupon and redeeming in your local Famous Footware store between 8/2 - 8/18. The great news, too, is that if you are already a Rewards Program member or if you sign up to be one, you will actually receive 20% off with the coupon instead of 15%!! Preat great, right?! I'm sure you're all gearing up for back to school shopping and this coupon is just the ticket! Not only will you be able to choose from a wide range of shoes for your kids, at a great price, you might even be able to sneak a pair or two for yourself as well! Have fun shopping!!

Trying Something New

2012-05-08T23:00:00.000-04:00

I am contemplating trying something new in our marriage, but I'll be honest, I'm a little bit afraid. I've always worried that my husband would rather be with someone other than me. He's strong, gorgeous, and amazing. I'm not. I feel like he could do better than me and I've always felt that way.

He has always tried to tell me that he thinks I'm perfect and that he is the lucky one. He says that he would never want to be with anyone but me. He says that there isn't any in the world as gorgeous to him as I am. I still get self conscious though which is why it's such a stretch for me to attempt what I'm contemplating.

I'm thinking about getting some masturbators for us to play with. We have lots of great sex toys from EdenFantasys but most of them are toys for me to enjoy. Things like vibrators and dildos. He uses them on me & we have a great time. I don't think about anyone else & hardly ever use them on my own. So why am I so afraid that if I get some masturbation sleeves that he'll use them on his own or that he'll think of another woman while using them instead of me? Because of my own insecurities. I need to face that! Ordering something like a Fleshlight or Tenga might be just the ticket!!

Bye,
The New Me

Neighbor

2012-04-24T17:05:00.001-04:00

Written by my friend Dong Wood

I am usually not one to try and 'keep up with the Jones', but the other day I saw a Direct TV truck at my neighbor's house and it really made me want to get it also. I went to direct.tv to check it out. I guess that is why they put the company's name on the side of the truck. What better commercial is there than seeing your neighbor getting something new! These neighbors happen to be the nicest people I have ever met, and I do kind of want to me the woman that lives there! She is so nice and just seems like such a good mom. She has seven kids and she home-schools them all. I only have two kids and I can't imagine home-schooling them. I can picture me trying and then just getting so frustrated with them that I send them outside to go play for the day! If she wasn't so nice, I may actually hate her because she seems to be so perfect. Needless to say, I am going to get Direct TV!

Sexy Bath & Body Products

2012-04-16T14:55:00.000-04:00

You guys all know that I love talking about EdenFantasys, the best sex shop online. They have a huge supply of toys, oils, lingerie, and other fun things. You are bound to find something you love! Today, though, I want to talk about some really great bath and body products they offer.

The great thing about products like this is that both you and your spouse will love them! You'll feel pampered, which will add to your confidence and self esteem. And your spouse is going to really enjoy your soft, sweet smelling skin! It's a win/win situation!

So what are some of the choices? Well, I would love to try the Venus Body Scrub and they have so many different fragrances available. Oh, and the Milk Made Nourishing Body Butter looks really, really great too! Actually, there are quite a few things I'd like to try. I'm positive you'll find some things you want to try as well.

Bye,
The New Me

Introducing CampusBookRentals

2012-04-12T21:28:00.001-04:00

Have you heard of CampusBookRentals? They are a unique online bookstore where you can rent college textbooks. Pretty great, right! You simply search for the book needed, for instance "Theories of Personality", and are given your choice of rental time periods. The longer you rent it, the higher the rent. You only pay for the time you need the book! Much cheaper than buying and easier than trying to sell it when you are finished! Here is a great video to give you an idea of how it works...

So, whether it's you or your college aged child, if you need some textbooks then CampusBookRentals is the way to go!

Bye,
The New Me

Believe Your Mate

2012-03-26T00:21:00.000-04:00

I'm sure you all remember when I wrote about shopping for a special trip a few weeks ago. I ended up buying so really sexy lingerie from EdenFantasys. I was nervous when I was choosing the pieces and again when they arrived. That isn't normal for me, lol. Usually I really enjoy shopping at the best sex toy shop online! This was different though. The nerves were because I didn't know how I was going to look in the lingerie, simply because I don't have a lot of confidence in my body.

Well, the big box arrived & I anxiously sorted through everything. I bought eight different outfits as well as a romantic restraint kit. My husband was at work and I thought it would be good for me to try them on alone first. I started with the first one in the box and worked my way through each of them. Unfortunately, I was crying by the end. I didn't like the way I looked, I felt like I looked like a silly, old woman who was trying to be sexy. It was terrible & I wanted to send them all back.

Later that evening, once my husband was home & had calmed me down, he convinced me to try them on for him to decide if he liked them or not. I was nervous but I decided to humor him. Wow - was his reaction amazing!! He loved them all!! The mesh & lace babydoll and the plaid chemise were two of his favorites!

He kept telling me that he couldn't believe that I had cried all afternoon about how I looked & that I was so sexy. He couldn't keep his hands off of me & made me promise to take them all with me on our trip. I felt so sexy, hot and irresistible.

The moral of the story is that you should always believe your mate. What he thinks is very important and really the bottom line is that my husband is the only person that I want to impress! I'm so happy he loves my body & curves as much as he does!

Bye,
The New Me

Penny Pincher

2012-03-24T18:45:00.001-04:00

Authored by Rickey Combs

After going to www.texaselectricityproviders.com, we found some very competitive energy rates for our home. I am all about saving a dollar wherever I can. Growing up my family did not have much. My mother would cook rice for most meals and if we were lucky we would get some meat to go with it about once a week. We heated our house with an old wood burning stove and it was my job to make sure that we had enough wood to keep us warm. You could forget about turning the AC on in the summer as well. It didn’t very hot where we lived, but when it did you just had to grin and bear it. I guess this hardship is what has caused me to be such a penny pincher these days. I love being able to provide for my family, even though they get annoyed with how frugal I am sometimes. Sure my kids won’t drive brand new cars but they will never be able to say that their needs weren’t met.

Shopping for a Special Trip

2012-03-03T23:20:00.000-05:00

My husband and I will be going on a special trip later this month & I thought of a great surprise for him. I'm going to visit my favorite sex toy shop, EdenFantasys! We already have lots of great sex toys, though, so this time I'm going to pick out some sexy lingerie. I really don't have any at all right now. Well, I do have one but it's basically a lacy, black slip.

It isn't really very sexy but yet it does the job every time. Honestly, it isn't even on very long! I need to remember that as I'm shopping tonight though. I'll be honest, I'm not a stick thin little thing. I'm a plus size girl with very generous curves. My hubby loves those curves though & he'd probably really like to see them in some sexy lingerie.

The thing I really love about looking at & buying lingerie on EdenFantasys is that they offer really awesome pieces at very reasonable prices. They range in levels of sexiness & are available in lots of styles. Plus, they also have a very wide assortment of plus size lingerie if you are extra curvy like me. Some of the models are even plus size, which is great!

So now I'm off to choose some really sexy pieces for our upcoming trip. I hope my husband likes me in them! I think, really, as long as I'm happy & confident he'll think I'm as sexy and hot as can be!

Spicy Valentine's Day

2012-02-11T15:00:00.022-05:00

Valentine's Day is coming very soon & I know the perfect site to order something special from. Where else but the best sex toys shop online? EdenFantasys! They have so many options for sex toys for couples. You could go gentle & try out one of the romantic kits or love games. Or, if you are more adventurous, you could go straight for the costumes or sex swings!

There is even an awesome "Save the Date Gift Central" section of the website that will help you choose the perfect gift this Valentine's Day. You can choose the appropriate category from "For Her", "For Him" "For Couples", "For a Friend" and "Gifts Under $30". Then, from there, you will be given various ideas with links to even more items to check out. It's really a great tool to find the perfect gift!

Most importantly, though, this Valentine's Day I hope you take a few minutes to tell your significant other just how important they are to you. Be sure to let them know exactly how much you love, treasure, appreciate, and adore them. This will mean more than any gift you could ever purchase!

To the Moon

2012-02-09T11:01:00.002-05:00

Thanks for the post from Sylvester Campbell

After our move to Dawsonville, we logged on to dawsonvillegasatellitetv.com buy our satellite TV package. We did this just in time. On Sunday night, a great TV-movie came on about a high school special education class that had aspirations of attending Space Camp in Huntsville, Alabama. Up until that point in Space Camp history, no special education class had been permitted to attend camp as the camp did not have the accommodations to deal with a mixed population of students. Through the hard work and efforts of a persistent teacher, this class overcame the odds, raised the funds, and found their way in Huntsville competing with various other teams of “normal” kids to earn the most points to finish the camp. This story was inspiring on so many levels. From the beginning, I connected to the movie because I had the opportunity to attend Space Camp for a week one summer with my best friend. It was one of the best weeks of my life as a youth. From a professional standpoint, I connected with this movie as a fellow teacher who also likes to push the envelope to maximize the potential I see in each of my students. For those students who are willing to work, I will work with them, side-by-side to help them reach and exceed their goals. From a personal level, I connected to this movie as a mother of a special needs child. Although my daughter is only five, I felt almost propelled to what her life may be like in ten more years. I celebrated with the victories of the class, and I cried with the ridicule, disappointment, and frustration these students faced each day while at school. It was one of the best TV movies I have seen in quite some time.

Liberator Shapes Review

2012-01-21T10:00:00.034-05:00

Time for another EdenFantasys post! I know you all love their store as much as I do. It's an awesome place to get sex toys to play with. Today I wanted to write about something we've been interested in for quite some time. My DH and I have really wanted to try out some of the Liberator Shapes but they are just so expensive. We didn't know if it would be worth the investment. We finally took the plunge & I'm here to tell you about it.

After looking at some of the different options, we decided if we're going to do it then lets do it all the way, lol. So we splurged on the Liberator Wedge Ramp Combo, which has a price tag of $210!! When it arrived we were both very impressed with the quality. The pillows are very firm yet comfortable & the material that covers them feels very luxurious.

I have to admit, though, that we've been slightly disappointed with the actual use of these shapes. They just aren't adding much to our experience. I do have to say that we are very, very sexually active & enjoy each other a lot. We're adventurous & try lots of new things. I don't know if maybe that is why the shapes haven't been as exciting for us as some of the reviews I've read, or if maybe we're doing something wrong!

I do think that for a couple that has been hesitant to try new things, or especially if one of the partners is a little hesitant, any of the Liberator Shapes could be a relatively gentle way to introduce new things. We'll probably still use ours once in a while, but honestly our sex life is pretty amazing without them. I do like to use the Ramp to prop myself up in bed when I'm playing on my laptop though, lol!

Sexual Frequency

2012-01-17T21:34:00.000-05:00

This is a personal topic but I'd love to hear your answers. How often do you and your significant other have sex (any type of sexual act...not just intercourse)? How old are each of you? And how long have you been together? The reason I ask is because this is a recurring issue in my marriage. I want it all the time. He wants it a lot but generally not as much as me. I'm beginning to think my expectations are just way, way, way too high.

As for my marriage, I'm almost 40 and he's 42 1/2. We've been married 20 years. We average 6 or 7 times a week. I'll be honest....I'd like even more than that. But he's actually feeling like it's too much for him. I know that part of it is that I'm in my "prime" and he's past his. I also think part of it is that I am a housewife & don't have a job. Whereas he works fulltime in a factory. He's tired, lol!

So, I'd imagine most of your answers will be lower than mine. It'd be good for me to hear it. Maybe that will make me quit bugging my hubby so much! Please leave me a comment!!

Bye,
The New Me

Mom and Me

2012-01-10T16:40:00.000-05:00

My mom and I have always been close but now that we own a business together I guess you could say we’re closer than ever. I love her to death but now that we spend about half the time in any given day side by side I think we’ve both been getting on each other’s nerves! My sister also works at the store but it’s only part time so I don’t think she’s dealing with the same family overload that we are, to be honest. Mom and I both have really strong personalities and though I know she always means well sometimes she comes across as a know it all. She’s always telling me to look into bank card processing and call the security guy and clean up the break room – as if I’m just some staff member that works in the store we co-own! I know she’ll calm down when things aren’t so busy and I guess I’m glad someone is taking the reigns since I’m a bit of a softie when it comes to that stuff.

Spicy New Year's Eve

2011-12-31T14:45:00.001-05:00

Every since our daughter was born, in 1993, my husband and I have never celebrated New Year's Eve alone. We've always had her here with us & most years she stayed up until after midnight. Tonight, though, we'll be celebrating alone - yay! She's home from college and will be babysitting all night to night....which means we'll have the house all to ourselves.

We're really looking forward to spending the evening naked in bed! With her here from college we haven't had the time we're used to, plus it'll be awesome to start the new year off all wrapped up in each other's arms. Good thing we bought lots of awesome sex toys from EdenFantasys the last few months!

I'm sure we'll be spending some of the time being all romantic & cuddly, talking about how much we love each other and so on. But there will be lots of time spent playing with some of our EdenFantasy toys like our vibrators or massage kits! I can't wait!!

Bye,
The New Me

Hormones Stink!

2011-12-26T16:40:00.000-05:00

Man! I am so stressed out and grumpy today! I know it's just my hormones and menopause but it's really kicking my tail! I keep alternating between wanting to cry, laugh, punch something, scream, and run away. Anyone else ever feel like that?

We had a great Christmas yesterday. My wonderful husband is off work for a week. Our daughter is here visiting from college & things are going great. I am very blessed and I should be so happy. I am happy - deep down - but emotionally I'm a mess today!

Menopause is hard and I'm struggling today. I am thankful to have such an understanding family though. They give me my space, let me cry or grump around if I need to, and are there to offer a hug when it's needed. I truly am blessed. But....hormones still stink!

Bye,
The New Me

All Together

2011-12-23T16:14:00.000-05:00

The holidays are almost here! DD is home from college for winter break. She'll be here for approximately 3 weeks. And DH is going to be off work for a whole week starting tomorrow. It'll be nice to have everyone home together!

I have to admit, though, that DH & I are missing our empty nest a little bit. It's great to have our DD home & she's been a joy to be around, but we are really spoiled by the amount of time we have together. We're missing each other! We have been sneaking some time in here & there though so that makes things alittle better.

It feels like just yesterday that our DD was a baby & we were excited about our first Christmas as a family. It is so hard to believe that our "baby" is now almost 19 years old! Time sure does fly by. Sometimes I wish I would have savored the time we had a little better. Not gotten so stressed or grumpy, not been too busy.....just enjoyed life as it was happening.

Bye,
The New Me

Spicy Saturday - Wand Opinions?

2011-12-17T15:39:00.000-05:00

Time for another "Spicy Saturday" post! Today I wanted to get your opinions about wands. I recently purchased the Fairy Wand Massager from EdenFantasys. I love it! I really, really love the vibration power it possesses. I am beginning to accumulate a lot of sex toys but I've never had one that plugs in and I can really tell a difference in the intensity. It's awesome!

My only complaint is that it's just a little too big. I would prefer if the top part wasn't quite so wide. Plus, we got an attachment and it doesn't seem to fit properly. I thought it was for the Fairy Wand but now I'm thinking it might actually be for a completely different wand massager.

I'm thinking about getting another Fairy Wand. They come in a few smaller sizes & I think that would fit my desires perfectly. My question, though, is which one should I get? I don't know if I want the Fairy Mini or the Fairy Miniature. They also make two that are even smaller - the Pocket Fairy and the Fairy Baby - but I think they'd be just too small. Finally, I just realized that they also sell the Fairy Rechargeable, which might be a great option too. I don't know!

So, any opinions out there? Basically I'm trying to decide between the Fairy Mini, Fairy Miniature, and Fairy Rechargeable. I want something alittle smaller than the original Fairy but I don't want to sacrifice any of the intensity! I love how strongly the Fairy vibrates!! I also would like to be able to get some attachments eventually but that isn't a deciding factor. Thanks for your advice!

Bye,
The New Me

Good Vibrations' Tri-O Triple Pleasure Ring Review

2011-12-15T17:03:00.000-05:00

Time for another Good Vibrations review! I love my job, lol! Today I'm going to tell you about the Tri-O Waterproof Vibrating Couple's Cock Ring. Here is a picture..

It includes two rings as well as two bullet vibrators. The vibrations are not extremely strong but they get the job done. This toy provides a nice combination of sensations for both you & your husband. We enjoyed playing with our Tri-O and will use it again from time to time. The thing I like the most is that because the toy is worn by the man it enables you to easily integrate some vibrating sensation into your lovemaking without a lot of trouble. Easy and fun!

Bye,
The New Me

Home for the Holidays

2011-12-09T20:56:00.000-05:00

With Christmas quickly approaching us, all of our minds are on family & loved ones. I know mine sure is. Probably more so this year than ever before because of our only child being off at college. I have to admit, we are very much enjoying our empty nest, but we miss our "baby" too. I can't imagine how hard it would be if she wasn't going to be coming home for Christmas break. Thinking about her being away, and being excited about her coming home soon, really makes me love this video even more. I know you will too!

"This post is sponsored by T-Mobile."

American Cancer Society

2011-12-08T16:26:00.000-05:00

Cancer is a terrible thing. Unfortunately, most families in America will deal with it at one point or another in their lives. But thanks to the American Cancer Society many strides have been taken to overcome this terrible disease. There is a great deal of information to digest on their website. Articles about cancer, how to stay healthy, finding treatment, ongoing research and how to help. Please, this holiday season, consider donating to the American Cancer Society. Every dollar helps to bring more birthdays to cancer patients!

"This post is sponsored by American Cancer Society."

Spicy Saturday - Massage Anyone?

2011-12-03T01:44:00.001-05:00

Well, the EdenFantasys giveaway is over & a winner has been chosen. I'm sorry if it wasn't you but keep your eye out for more awesome giveaways! In the meantime, I thought I'd write about some of the great sensual massage items they carry. The great thing about a massage is that you will immediately feel much closer to your spouse & that can only lead to fun times!

As you can imagine, they offer a wide variety of massage oils and candles. But they also carry lip gloss, body lotion, sugar scrubs, even bronzers. The Getaway Kit - Sensual Kit looks really interesting and it's even on sale right now. The Shunga Garden of Edo Organic Collection also looks absolutely luxurious and guess what....it's on sale too!

We all know that EdenFantasys is a great place to shop for sex toys but you'll also find some wonderful things that are a little tamer. Of course, what comes after the massage is completely up to you, lol! Have fun!

Bye,
The New Me

Meeting At The Bus Stop

2011-11-27T16:11:00.001-05:00

Thanks for the post from Barney Crosby

Afternoons are my favorite time of day during the week. Monday through Friday at 3 o’clock, I put the leash on our dog Bingo, set my las Vegas adt security and lock the door then head to the bus stop to meet my daughter. I must confess that I was very nervous about her riding the bus home from school because she just started kindergarten this year. Because I work from home I could easily have picked her up every day. However, she insisted that she is a “big girl” going to the “big school” and wanted to ride the bus with the rest of her friends in our neighborhood. It’s so sweet to watch her skip down the bus steps with her back pack on and her lunch box in hand. Her face lights up with a big smile when she finds me and Bingo in the crowd and she runs over to give us a big hug. On the walk home we talk about her day and make our plans for the evening. It’s always the bright spot of my day!

Telling Parents About New Home

2011-11-27T16:10:00.002-05:00

Author: Joseph Sandoval

I just bought my first house. It has been a huge move for me, but I am feeling very good about it. The hardest part was telling my parents. When I was renting a place, I think they always thought there was a chance I would live in the same town as them, but once I bought a place it was permanent. While they were and are very happy for me, I know they wanted me to live closer. I tried to let them know it was in a great neighborhood and that I felt very safe. I went on to tell them I had Long Beach ADT Security watching over me, but I could tell that wasn’t enough. My mom wanted to be watching over me and wanted to be a short car ride away. She worries about me and will always think of me as a little girl. I know she will always think of me that way, but she needs to eventually realize I am growing up and eventually accept this as my new home. I hope they will make the trek out her one day, but until then I think they will always want me to come back home.