A Poor Young Girls Journey

While it’s possible for a relationship to work between a man and a woman who meet online with a significant age gap, there are several reasons why it’s unlikely to succeed. For example, if you meet a girl online who is 20 years younger than you and in her 20-26 age range, she may be insecure, have little income, and be willing to say and do anything to attract your attention. Despite her professed love and admiration for you, she may quickly become spoiled and not fear the consequences of relocating to your country.

If you’re wealthy, she may fake her love for you until she can divorce you and receive a large settlement. In order to protect yourself, it’s essential to have a prenuptial agreement in place. Remember, you’re not foolish for falling for her apparent sincerity. She is simply a young woman searching for a fairy tale romance that often ends in disappointment.

In Asia, a woman may consider you too old once she reaches 28. If you bring her to America, she may quickly realize the rules of Western civilization and change her behavior. Ultimately, you may find that despite your best efforts, your relationship will fail as her feelings wane and the physical attraction dissipates.

Education is Key

When looking for a stunning partner overseas, it’s crucial to ensure that she’s well-educated. While farm girls may seem like an attractive option at first, they may have little knowledge about Western culture and education. These women are great at cooking, cleaning, and satisfying your desires, but they can become demanding when it comes to material things. Without education, they may lack a sense of money and think that you’re being cheap if you don’t fulfill their requests for luxury items like BMW or Mercedes. These women may end up finding a wealthy man to use and never learn the value of money. Despite all that you’ve done for them, they may take everything for granted without education. In the second year of your relationship, the lack of education may cause frustration for both of you. Therefore, education is a crucial factor to consider when looking for a partner overseas.

Her Age Matters

It’s crucial to keep the age difference between partners within 10 years to ensure a successful relationship. However, in Asia, if the woman is 38 or older, you can extend the age difference to 20 years as a 38-year-old woman is considered older. For a 45-year-old man, the best age range for a partner is a 35-year-old woman. She’s likely to be more mature and experienced, which means she’s less likely to leave you. As long as she’s also well-educated, you can expect a successful relationship. Keeping age differences realistic and within cultural norms is key to a long-lasting and happy partnership.

Spend Time Wisely

Want to find your perfect match overseas? Signing up on a Cupid Media dating site could be your best bet. With access to thousands of single women, you’ll be spoilt for choice. Take your time and email a few back and forth, and narrow down your search to two or three girls that you’d love to meet when you visit. The best part? You’ll rarely be stood up because Cupid Media is that strong.

When selecting a girl, make sure to base your decision on age and education, rather than the sappy romantic messages they may send your way. Remember, on these sites, you’re in demand, and they’re the supply. Take advantage of this power dynamic to find the perfect match for you.

With Cupid Media, you can leave Skype addresses and emails without censorship, so you can get to know your potential match better face-to-face. However, make sure to avoid talking about sex if you want to stand out from the crowd. Be friends with them first, and you’ll have a better chance of finding a good girl. Don’t worry, being friends first won’t lock you in the friend zone as they are hunting you, not vice versa. So, what are you waiting for? Sign up on Cupid Media today and start your search for true love overseas.

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Love Overseas Or Sex Overseas Which Choice Is For You?

Finding a woman overseas never entered my mind, as I was told that all of them are after a green card, and my money.  While this situation might have some truth to it, there was NOTHING different from the reality of America.  God forbid an American girl would go after 1/2 my belongings along with alimony and child support.  Truth be told, many places overseas don’t even have these laws, and an overseas girl would generally know nothing of these entitlements, until of course she became Americanized, which brings you back to square one.

Finding love overseas happens, only if you let it.  If you just want to find sex overseas, than that’s the easy part.  If you like European women, than I suggest places like the Ukraine and Prague as they have some of the most beautiful Sport’s Illustrated looking women in the world, just ask Donald Trump. Your only stumbling block here is the English is limited, but there are many ex-pat bars and social gatherings in the Ukraine, where the girls go to exclusively meet foreigners.  I suggest using Ukraine Date to find the english speaking girls before you travel there.

Dating Abroad Is Less Hassle Than Dating In America

If you like Asian women, than you have to decide how much time you want to put into finding a one night stand.  If it’s Thailand or the Philippines, just go there and dress nice, and don’t talk about sex, just have a night out at a local bar that has women in it.  Dress nice.  This is the number one thing that shows your successful, and that dressy  look does all the work for you, no speaking necessary.  Worried about the language barrier?  Thai people can speak broken English, and in the Philippines they speak English perfectly.

If you want to go to places like Taiwan, Japan or Korea than I suggest the same as above when it comes to dress, but you must be patient and prepare BEFORE your trip.  I suggest joining an online social network.  The one I have been involved with and admittingly use is Cupid Media or Love Links.  These services are not like the American dating sites, with 1 million men and 3 thousand women.

Find Sex Overseas and Capitalize on Your Age in an Ageless Society

They are loaded with responsive women, just waiting to meet a man, a foreign man, whom is willing to visit them abroad.  Connect with them online and find the right ones (yes that’s plural) and plan your trip.  I suggest making three strong connections, and go from there.  This isn’t being a dirt bag, this is simply allowing for the possibility that a girl might flake on you and find and not show up.  This has never happened with me as of yet, my connections have always been strong, so my new problem is every mans dream.  Which one?  Think outside the box, and get started on finding your woman overseas.

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Finding an educated girlfriend in the same area, is not always easy. For example in Thailand, most of the nice forward women are farm girls from Issan.  They will call you constantly, beg to stay with you, and treat you like a king.  This is true. However, it will be short lived, until the next more profitable suitor is available.  If you want a girl for marriage, I suggest staying out of the bars, and going into the more sophisticated areas.  A quick google search will help you start your Journey.  I always like Taiwan, simply because the girls are much smarter.  They have and value their educations.  They value a mans intelligence far more than his looks, as this is quite evident when you go there and see so many visual mismatches.

Once in a relationship, you rarely see them look your way, which is a good thing.  They like to work and produce income like you do, so you won’t have to worry about that single income coming in.  Thai girls love money, and will have no problem buying all the “brand” name things they can find.  I know of a situation where one girl was given a free car from her bf, and because it was a Honda and not a Mercedes she told him to sell it, and get the Mercedes.

Farm girls of Asia are generally educated only with advertising, and Louis Vuitton and Prada are just the start.  These girls have no idea what investing is, and are so adjusted to living without money, that when they get hold of it, the money quickly disappears on these items, and family members.  Money is not for saving, it is for buying things not needed, or gambling, or for parents whom also demand and ask for more money from you.  They put pressure on her to get your salary and send half of it abroad.

The educated girl knows this is not realistic, and while she may still hold some of the same “material” desires, she handles her needs responsibly and also contributes to your cause.  I can not say this is true of every poor farm girl in Asia, I have met a few  that don’t fit this description… I call them Unicorns.  Finding the educated girl overseas is very possible, but first you must do your homework and join an overseas dating site so that when you do arrive at your destination, you already have your search completed, now it’s as simple as testing your choices in person.

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Getting set up by a friend also rarely works, as both side of the friendship are so interested in seeing you hook up that it ultimately feels unnatural.  Online dating makes a statement before you meet.  It says, I am willing to go out with you because what I have seen so far looks good!  The problem with online dating, is what you see you don’t always get.  Online Dating profiles are much like that of  a job resume, they are filled with fluff and everything you want to hear.  The better the online profile sounds the most likely the farthest thing from the truth exists.

Most experiences I hear from men deal with women showing up with the attitude of what can I get from you, rather than what can I do for you.  When you show up on an online date, the last thing to do is preach about your wants and needs, it might be important, but it sets the tone negatively.  If she comes out and orders the most expensive thing on the menu, checks her phone and constantly texts friends, I suggest you get up from your seat for the bathroom, find the waitress and pay your half of the bill.  There is no use in figuring out a “No Go” woman, so get the fuck out and get out fast.  Women in the american dating scene that are very attractive and still dating online are one of 2 things.  Hot, and to good looking to be satisfied with just one mans bank account.  Crazy, and when I say crazy, I mean well above the normal range, or they are new to the scene, and freshly out of a bad relationship.  The last option is rare, but it really is your only shot.

So if you already agree why dating online sucks, what can you do?

The process works like this you sign up for lets say Thai Love Links  and you put your profile up.  Start by staying away from any terms relating to sex or sexuality, it’s best to talk about your job and family life along with your love for “Thai Food”.  If you talk to Thai women about food and family you are as good as gold.  If you want something more European like Russia, than research Russian women and join here.  There are many option for dating online abroad.  You don’t want to travel across the world to meet a woman? No shit.  Most of us don’t, but your options on a stable, beautiful, hard working woman here in the states are limited to the 1 percent whom either has so much money it’s ridiculous or is just that good looking that he is hit on every day. Schedule a vacation with dating in mind, set up 3-5 girls in personal video cam conversations on the above selected links.  (BTW… the girls on these dating sites are real, you can talk to them via cam if you don’t believe their pictures, and their demand for you is high, as the supply and demand for good men in their country is low, so don’t worry you will find someone well out of your expectations.)   The options of meeting them online through the love link program also allows for you to have cam to cam privileges once you pay for your account.  Don’t bitch about online dating, do it right and it can work for you!

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No matter what I write or as negative as I might sound in this article, I still would not change a thing, because compared to the American counterpart, I am still happy, the perfect woman was just not as perfect as the dream, but still allot better than what I would have got here in the States. I would say the best Thai girl you could get is the most educated one.  Find one with a degree and the desire to pursue a goal.  She will know the value of money, and respect everything that you bring to the table.  However, if your a waiter back in the states, I suggest the farm girl.  The educated Thai have very high standards and are very picky and rarely go out with “farang” men as they do not want to look like a bar girl.  However, if you are educated, and show a business savvy persona than she might just make an exception.
Farm girls are better than bar girls, in the way that they most likely haven’t already had sex with over 1000 men, but they also lack the educational skills to keep them realistic in their new life in the states.  Most “farang” or foreigners think that she will be more than grateful for all the new amenities that you will offer her, but to their surprise she will always want more and look at things as a matter of fact rather than complete astonishment. So in short will she stay the way she was… No.  She will change, but not to the degree the amount your American buddies tell you she will.  My favorite thing ever is the commentary from those whom never spent a day overseas in their lives, lecturing you on why not to marry this girl whom will take every cent you have, while they themselves are on their third marriage and now supposedly completely content with their fat ass spoiled wife, who bitches all day long.  On that subject will she dump you or stay the same once the required two years are up for her citizenship.  Possibly, but that depends on a few factors. One are you an idiot who married a bar girl, one that you met while she was working other men in Thailand.  Two, was she constantly interested in your income, size of home and car you drove, and three have you known her for more than a year or less than 2 months.  I suggest you take things slow, visit her frequently and watch how much money she demands from you.  Sending more than 500 a month to girl you want to marry is still too much in Thailand.  If she is educated and works and has to much pride to ask you for money, than you might have a keeper. By the way the things that will stay are her desires to cook for you, and be your best friend.  The cleaning can go either way… The sex, well that too will lessen over time, unless of course you got the “one”.

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This visa allows you to fly your girl to be to the United States for a free 90 day trial.  Is 90 days enough?  Probably not.  However, that’s the deal, so here is how to go about it.  You must first petition for the paper work.  You can do it online.  Click here if you want guidance on how to fill out the forms.  I suggest about one full year of “logged” chat on Skype or Facebook.  Social media shows that you are for real, and not just flying over a girl on an all expenses paid Sexcapade. Using Skype over the course of a 6 months to a year will also give you the information you need, as well as dedicating yourself to a person whom you can monitor for faithfulness.  Your girl might be that perfect innocent little pumpkin you have been waiting for your whole life, but plenty of smart men get fooled every year around the globe.  The turn around time for visa approval is around 3-4 months coupled with an interview for your fiance from the U.S. embassy.  They will check into her back round, and verify whether or not she has been married before.  DO NOT pay the high price for a lawyer. There are plenty of place on the Internet that will show you the sample paperwork you need.  It’s a bit time consuming by yourself, but you do the paper work in stages, never spending more than an hour or so per stage.  Once she is cleared, she will be given a date on which she can fly to the U.S.  I would make use of the 90 days wisely.  You don’t have to do the full blow wedding, just get the legal marriage certificate, and worry about the actual marriage later.  She must wait around 1 full year before receiving her green card, so her ability to work will be suspended.  The worst that can happen is on week 2, you figure out she is nuts, and only skin deep with looks, and you fly her back early. The USCIS is the agency that will review your application.  You just have to meet some minimum salary requirements, so that they are sure you can take care of her in your host country.  Approval for fiance visa’s are fairly easy, if you fly out to meet her first, and show contact before and after that meeting.  If you never meet her, than it is highly likely your application will not process.  I cant stress enough how well the Cupid Love Links works in getting that first start to meet a girl abroad.  It’s very cheap, it has a video chat interface, and if you pick the right country, you will have 1000’s to choose from that respond all the time.  Good Luck

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1. Wear a condom. These girls that let you have sex without one don’t find you too special. They simply don’t care enough or know enough about all the STD’s being passed around. The proof is in the pharmacy’s located at every corner or ever other shop.
2. Blowjobs are safe. Well, not really but they are much safer than sex without a condom. 99 percent of the girls will blow you without a condom. You have a small chance at the clap or oral herpes. Don’t be that guy.
3. I only work bar 3 weeks or 1 month. This is a favorite. Every girl is trained to say this. Every foreigner wants to believe it. Boom it must be the truth.

Girls in Pattaya range from 500 baht to 5000 baht. The beach walkers are on the low side, because they can’t pass a health exam to work the bar. The high side workers are in the higher end clubs and look amazing.

The best place for conversation meets quality and price is the outdoor bars. These bars have a mixed bag and lower fees. The bars always have a bar fine ranging from 500 baht to 1500 baht. Choose wisely. The hottest ones are rarely the best in the sack. The 7’s and 8’s are usually your best bet. Happy hunting and be safe.

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