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Lots of Changes...

2013-03-13T21:35:00.000-07:00

Things have been a roller coaster in our lives. When I last updated we had just finished the basement and celebrated our first wedding anniversary. What has changed or what I didn't say last time is...

1) The basement was rented out to some friends of ours, things were good, not prefect but good. And most of all we were happy. It was also nice to see the rent cheques coming in, instead of payment to contractor cheques going out. Since then (as of this weekend) we have moved into the basement. I am thrilled that we can do this and be back in our house, but it will be hard to keep the budget in the green.

2) What I didn't say about our anniversary trip is that we also found out we are expecting our first baby! Yup, nothing classier than peeing on a stick in a campground outhouse. But that is our story! I am now about 31 weeks and it's a.... Boy! We are very happy, pregnancy has gone very well but I am beginning to get very tired. I guess I should get used to it, so everyone says :)

A new Leaf

2012-09-23T09:15:00.001-07:00

Once again lots of time has gone by, but here is the recap!

1) By far the most important thing that has happened is... the basement is done! We finished the inside enough o have people move in and best of all start paying rent! They moved in at the start of August 2012. And so far so good! There are still a few projects left around the outside but we are taking a much more relax approach to those as they don't affect the inside and daily activities of living in the basement.

2) We celebrated our first wedding anniversary. PJ surprised me with a wallet friendly, honeymoon inspired trip to an island nearby. He chartered a sailboat and we went on a private afternoon sail (we did a sailing cruise on our honeymoon in Maui), we camped on the beach ( we rented a condo on the beach on Maui) and he brought a pineapple that we were going to eat but the situation didn't work out, but he got good marks for effort.

3) We spend lots of time camping and visiting the recreational property that PJ's parent have on a local island. It was loads of fun. For one of the trips we invited some extra family and friends, so in total there were nine people and six dogs! I think everyone had a great time!

So that is about it for now, we are just getting back in to the swing of things and saying goodbye to the last days of summer.

Long Over Due

2012-07-26T07:34:00.002-07:00

This post is way overdue, I have been busy but mostly just out of the habit. The basement is almost complete and we have new people moving in August 1! The final inspection was completed last week and this means it is safe for habitation.

I have had a lot of mixed feelings about the project coming to completion. They range from thrilled to be getting on with my life to a little heart broken that all my hard work in going to to enjoyed by other people. I have spent hours and hours thinking about paint colours and finishes only to hand them over to someone else who may not even like my choices. I may change my mind when we cash the first rent cheque though.

We are planning a little vacation getaway in about a week and a half. We will spend half our days at my family's lake cottage and the other half on PJ's family's property on a nearby island. It will be some well deserved R&R. Most of all, the doggies will love it. They have been a bit put out by the evenings spent working on the basement. I am excited to try out the new bike trailer we got for Rhino so he can join us on some longer bike rides on the island. Summer... here we come!

Reno Update#3

2012-04-19T12:24:00.001-07:00

I am happy to report some progress in the basement, despite a whole new set of issues (general contractor was hospitalized). Most of our developments are on the inside. Here is the the list of things that have happened:

1) Drywall is basically complete, there is still some touching up but it is less than a days work.

2) Primer paint on the walls

3) Concrete floor is level, we had some crazyuneveness going on and no flooring would have looked good without this step. A word of advice: make sure to read the warranty info on your flooring product as some have unlevel subfloors as a reason to void the warranty.

4)Laminate floor installed

5) New window beside the french doors

So as you can see we still have a ways to go, but we are getting there and I am feeling good about the pace and progress we are seeing!

Is there an echo in here?

2012-04-10T16:16:00.000-07:00

There might be and echo because I haven't been keeping up to date with the blogs so I bet no one else is visiting it anymore.
Things are still crazy but slowing down. Where I last left off it was PJ's birthday. Here is a quick list of things that have been going on since then:

PJ's birthday surprise party was a success, thank goodness! I am not good at surprises so I was quite proud of myself for pulling it off
We cancelled a trip to Calgary, but decided to take the time and go skiing instead. So worth it! We had one of the best days on the mountain.
Everyone I know seems to be annoucing they are pregnant. I am thrilled for them and ~~not so~~ quietly wishing it were me. But alas, my time will come one day.
Basement reno is two steps forward, one step back. We thought we were making progress and the drywall was up, then it took 2-3 weeks of politics and phone calls to get someone to mud and tape and sand. I think ( please don't let me jinx it) that is done and the painter is coming this week. Also our general contractor was in the hospital and might be back to work next week so we are dong it all by ourselves.
Rhino our lovely old dog, has a lump :( Not just any lump, one in his nether regions, one that makes it uncomfortable for him to do a number two. He is done his blood work and is going in for the biopsy in 2 days. Get better soon Rhino
My niece had her 3rd birthday, we had so much fun in the boucy castle, I think the kids had fun too!
Happy Easter!

Happy Birthday PJ!

2012-02-28T10:27:00.002-08:00

It's PJ's Birthday this week! Unfortunately, he is in Europe so we won't get to spend the actual day together. He will be back tomorrow and I couldn't be happier. He travels for work and some trips are easier than others. This was a hard one. With everything going on in the basement it was tricky to make decisions and deal with things while he was away. Also the time difference was hard so we didn't really get much chance to talk, like ships passing in the night.

We will be celebrating but I don't want to give anything away so I will let you know the details after it all happens. For now, let's just send him good birthday wishes and safe travels! Love you PJ!

The Wall

2012-02-27T13:21:00.000-08:00

There has been a flurry of activity in our basement and as well as the upstairs of our house. Last week the following happened.

UPSTAIRS:

Loft bedroom got a wall. We decided to close it in and make a proper 3rd bedroom, when we lived there we noticed a few issues and while we liked the 'lofty' feel we felt the added bonus of calling the house a 3 bedroom as well as eliminating the sound and early morning/ late night issues was worth it.

Also the new tenents moved in so now wee are landlords! Yikes!

Standing in the 3rd bedroom looking down into the living room

Standing in the living room looking up at the bedrrom, you can see the start of the wall

Standing in the living room looking up, the finished wall

Standing at the top of the stairs looking into the bedrrom

BASEMENT:
We also had some progress in the basement. (Insert a squeal here) What a difference drywall makes! The rooms used to be so dark. Also, seeing the framing and exposed insulation was real getting me down because everyone kept saying " as soon as drywall goes in , it will all happen so fast!"Well after 3 months I was really getting sick of hearing that. So I have been waiting ~~paitiently~~ for the drywall stage so I can get on with the only good part, picking finishes. I have been planning and dreaming of paint colours and floor samples for a year and I just want to see my ideas come to life already! (not to mention move on with my life and stop renovation)

Basement Living room

Basement Kitchen- thise are the cabinets all waiting to be assembled

Basement Bathroom

Basement Hallway- looking into the basement bedrrom

French doors that will replace the old garage door

So now that we have drywall I hope the momentum continues and I will be updating a little more frequently. If anyone is still reading I hoping to get a few more posts in but in the mess of moving and managing the reno and new tenents all while PJ is a away has really taken it out of me so, hopefully with PJ back this week and the much anticipated drywall in place I will be a little more present. Thanks for sticking with me, all 3 of you!

Reno Update #2

2012-02-09T20:32:00.000-08:00

Well it has been an embarrasingly long time since I have updated the progress at our house. This is mainly for two reasons:The first is that I have been a bit busy, with everything going on during the holidays I just didn't take that many pictures and who wants to read a renovation update with no pictures! The second reason is that there really wasn't a lot going on to make an update. Stuff has happened but it was mostly work that needed to be redone or fixed from the ex-contractor doing it poorly.

But it is now time so here are some udated photos!

The framing in of the wall for the master bedroom

New driveway in the back of the house

Wedding mulligans...

2012-01-27T13:10:00.002-08:00

I had a lovely visit last night with a friend who is in the process of planning her own wedding and I got to thinking about our wedding and what I would have done differently. I will preface this with the statement "I really enjoyed our wedding and am thrilled with how it all turned out."

Having said that I would be lying if I said I wouldn't change anything or do anything different. There is only one biggy and and couple of minor things that are really fine tuning of any major event for smoothness and comfort.

Here is the Biggy! We did not hire a videographer and I am happy with that plan. However I do wish I had asked someone to videotape the ceremony. I am an auditory person and certain songs trigger strong emotions in me, with that in mind, I selected songs for our ceremony that really set a mood or embodied the way I feel about PJ. Lovely! Except, once the ceremony began I was in a different world all together and I didn't even hear the songs or the words the marriage commisionaire was saying. I couldn't look PJ in the eye for fear of losing my graceful teary eyed bride status for a blubbering mess of silk and tissues. So basically I have some beautiful pictures but nothing to take me back to the feeling of the day.

Some of the littles!

Have PJ and I switch sides during the ceremony. No one could see my face because the side swept hairstyle I chose blocked my face.
Asked the photographer to get more guest photos. We didn't give the photographer much guidance and let him do what him felt was right. What did we know, we've never done this before, but it did mean we have some guest photos, but they are mostly of a few specific people, one of which is the only person who neither PJ and I knew.
I would have had a reception dress ready. I loved my wedding gown and didn't want to wear anything else, but being strapped in that thing for 10 hours and having been born in a century without corsets as daily wear meant my ribs were killing me by the end of the night. Having a nice little comfortable dress would have meant I could have enjoyed the party a little longer and eaten a little more of the wonderful food!

That is about it, so really not too much to regret. But I, like most brides am only planning to do this once so these are bit and pieces to pass on to other brides as things to consider. If you have planned a wedding, what would you do differently? If not I hope these thoughts are helpful to you.

Oh, in case you are wondering here are the songs I chose for our ceremony:

Bridal party walking down the isle
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0uItd-nL6U

And me walking down the isle ( not quite this version, but you get the idea)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tXPDnMnWF1k

Otis the oddball

2012-01-25T19:39:00.000-08:00

Sometimes I take the boys with me to work on Wednesdays. We have a little hump day routine and friend to walk with at lunchtime. After work, I drove most of the way home with Otis sitting like this:

Safety first Otis!

Four Months!

2012-01-12T19:57:00.000-08:00

I just wanted to say that PJ and I have now been married for 4 months! Yippee! I couldn't be happier about it. We have been through a lot in the last year. Somehow we managed to plan and host a wedding, deal with a house reno gone bad and make some pretty hard decisions, during that time not once have we fought, lost it on each other. We have not always wanted to deal with things in the same way but we have been able to get through together.

I am so happy to have found PJ and been welcomed into his family and have him welcomed into mine. I love him more now because I really do feel like I have a partner in life, someone to help me get through the lows in life and someone to celebrate the highs in life.

Holiday Happenings

2012-01-06T11:45:00.000-08:00

We spent last year's holiday season in the UK, but this year I was really looking forward to a quiet holiday at home. In addition to begin at home, my niece is almost 3 years old! To me there is nothing that creates more christmas spirit than a child. It has been a while since there have been kids around for christmas, next to my niece I am the youngest in our family.

Helping her daddy hand out gifts

So excited about her "santa" gift she didn't know what to do

My niece, myself and my sister riding the mini trains at a local hertitage site

She was so much fun to have around, just watching her eyes light up with every new package and activity was really wonderful. And unfortunately for PJ, kicked my baby fever in high gear!

The sun is out

2011-12-29T16:53:00.000-08:00

Well I think I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I was pretty down for a while about the prospect of leaving our house and I was ~~pretty~~ screaming mad at our ex-contractor for putting us in this horrible financial situation! I am still mad, but I am getting over it. We have a plan now. I am impaitient to get things moving and I really want to start seeing some progress, but at least I know hat direction we are going in. PJ's parents have been great and really helped us get some much needed yard clean up done, my mom has been kind enough to offer us her house while we get things sorted.

In the mean time I am looking forward to enjoying our house for Christmas and enjoying this season of joy and thankfulness. Despite all the the other "stuff", we have a lot to be happy about this year. We got married, we are still very happy about being together, we are tired but healthy, we have good jobs and families who are there for us. It is really not so bad.

I am looking forward to the holiday parties (5th one this weekend) and relaxing on my holidays! One more week before back to work!

To move or to move farther...

2011-12-02T07:57:00.000-08:00

We have decided that in order to complete our reno faster, we need to move and rent out the upper floor of our house. It isn't really something I want to do, in fact it is the thing I least want to do. It feels so much like a step backwards. If I were really honest it is because it means letting go of the dream life where everything goes according to plan. I get my house, we get married, we have babies and I have money to buy them things and decorate a room for them and I happily have fun lunch dates with friends while on maternity leave.

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My brain seems to work in extremes, so because of the money situation that is requiring us to move out of our house means my brain thinks we will never have enough money to have a child, it will always be hard and blah blah blah. I need a money tree!

Right, Back to reality! It is not the end of the world. We are very fortunate that both PJ's parents and my mother have offered to have us in their homes while we get things sorted out in the basement. Logistically my mother has more space and privacy to offer, and we have already lived there so we know it works. I also am willing to let go of the dream and realize things may not be how I planned but it will all work out.

Advice for first time renovators

2011-11-14T12:05:00.000-08:00

Like every other first time homeowner, we bought a house and dreamed about its possibilities. Our house has a full basement that we thought we could turn into a basement apartment and then in later years reclaim as extra living space as our family grew. We took about eight months to live in the house and get a feel for it before we made the decision to start the renovation. We thought we did everything right, We got quotes from at least four different contractors and recommendations from family. We decided on one contractor and looked at some his work in person and photos. We signed a contract with him and thought we good because we "had it in writing". So, we were well on our way to having a fully finished basement in about 3 months.WRONG!
About four months into the project is where things started to go sideways and where our lack of experience was our downfall. The following are the things I think we will try to remember when moving forward with our project or in attempting other projects.

1) A contract is not good enough. You need to understand what is in the contract and it needs to include everything. We had a contract but the breakdown of work was so vague that we didn't know what tasks were included in each section and how much each of those items was going to cost. It was so general, that we didn't actually understand the steps in completing our project.

2) Keeping up with the job as it goes. We were not able to be there because we both work full time but mostly we just blindly trusted the contractor to know what he was doing and relied on the building inspector to catch anything not done correctly.There will always be things that are unexpected in a renovation and you need to be responsible in dealing with those changes. We should have educated ourselves as the project moved forward with proper techniques, talked to the building inspectors ourselves about building codes and permits that were required. Don't just trust the contractor because as it turns out ours lied and did not get the permits he was supposed to and the building inspectors are only there as a last backup after the work is completed.

3)Check your contractor's qualifications, we checked that ours was a member of the better business bureau but didn't know about professional associations that exsisted to govern builders. We also didn't know that there are different types of contractors, finishing contractors do finishing work etc.

4) Your contractor is not your friend. This doesn't mean you need to be mean to them, but you have a business relationship and you are the boss, so if they aren't doing the work or following your directions it is your job as the employer to ask why or question the reason. Don't nag but you are paying for the things you let slip by. In our case, we had some bad weather and the contractor said he couldn't work because of it (more so because the wet made our yard turn to quicksand and push a wheelbarrow through it would have been really hard).Turns out there was an easy fix to the problem, but we didn't find it until we actually looked it to ourselves much much later, about 2 months later. We excepted the excuse because we didn't want to be unreasonable and demanding and I wouldn't want to work outside in the rain and snow either. But I choose an office job so I wouldn't have to, the contractor knew going into this career that they may need to get a bit wet or cold in order to finish the job.

I think that is a start, I don't want to scare anyone away from renovating nor do I mean to imply that builders or contractors are bad people. I except that part to the reason for our situation is our fault. I just wanted to pass on what we had learned in the last year in the hopes that it will help someone else avoid what we are going through.
In case you were wondering, we are now speaking with a lawyer and trying to borrow money from family to finish the house, but it will cost more because of the damage that was done because it has been sitting so long. There is also a possibility we won't get our money back as we know the the contractor does not have the money, the company will most likely go bankrupt and close, then they will re-open with a new name and carry on.

Reno Update #1

2011-11-11T11:48:00.000-08:00

So we have had a bit of slow progress with our basement reno. It is hard to keep things moving quickly when you have no money, work full time and have to try to figure out pursuing legal action against the ex-contractor. This does cause me some frustration but I do like the fact that the slow pace means we can make sure things are happening correctly. More importantly that we are comfortable with the decisions being made considering our ex-contractor didn't involve us in a lot of decisions.
So here is the progress,
1) Our retaining wall now has a layer of drainage rock behind it
2) Our driveway is free of bricks and they are now stacked on pallets ready for sale ( anyone want to buy some bricks?)

We had some wonderful helpers with the driveway bricks, amazing how much quicker things go with a few extra hands

The next steps are removing a patch of asphalt at the bottom of the driveway, then to add the layer of screenings to complete the driveway.

We also need to add a bit more gravel behind the retaining wall and potting soil in the area where we will make a garden bed.

I love sundays

2011-11-06T12:48:00.000-08:00

I love the way sunday feels, so relaxed (not always, it used to be the day I had a handover, ugh) but now it is the day you got to sleep in twice in a row. It is the day my amazing husband brings me tea in bed. I even got a little homemade apple pie in bed this morning, such a lucky girl.

We usually keep it simple on sundays, relaxing and getting ready for the week ahead. We also go to my mother's house for dinner on sundays. I love this sunday dinner at mom's house. My family is very close, I grew up with just my mom, my sister and I in my family. (My father was killed in a car accident when I was 4 years old.) So even though my sister and I are complete opposites and we don't always get along, we are very close. I love that my mom makes dinner and we all come and eat and talk and visit. Sometimes we have others like aunts or cousins, but mostly it is just the main characters. Mom, my husband and I and my sister, brother in law and my niece. She is almost 3 and I couldn't love her more.

Boo! Take Two!

2011-11-04T22:44:00.000-07:00

Well I made a few stops on the way home to try to up the spook content of our house this Halloween. I started with this and added a big furry spider and some crows to sit around the house

PJ and the 'Boys' even got in to the Halloween spirit.

Although Otis wasn't quite sure about the hat.

I also bought some mason jars for $6.79 and painted them all black except for some clear spaces in the shape of spooky eyes or jack-o-lantern faces to line our stairway. Also, just a tidbit, If you want the paint to come off afterwards so you can reuse the jar or whatever you are painting on, just add a little liquid dish soap, and the paint will slide off with water. However in all the rush, I forgot to take a picture of the jars and the outside set up, Opps!

And as for the trick or treaters? We had 8 in total! Boo Hoo. Not sure if we are in a neighbourhood with no kids or if the shopping centre trick or treating is taking over. I will keep trying and hopefully the candy scent with lure them in. Insert maniacal laughter here.

On a side note, I am looking for something to spice with the old window in the first picture. It is from our basement renovation and is original to our 1935 house, but it is kinda bland on our mantle. Anyone have any ideas? I can't leave the halloween and spider, the next holiday is just around the corner.

Boo!

2011-10-31T14:39:00.000-07:00

It's Halloween! I love Halloween. Unfortunately, I have been able to decorate much of the house yet this year due to budgets and most of all a lack of time.
This is the start of the decorations, my family had a little pumkin carving/painting soiree on the weekend and this is what I came up with. $3.99 for the pumpkin, and the paint I had left over from other projects.
But I do have a few plans and I have been stealing ideas from some very crafty and creative bloggers I follow. So I will head home after work to today and see what I can come up with. Last year we had a whooping 12 kids come to our house so maybe if I make to outside say "Halloween" loud and clear then a few more kids will stop by! Wish me luck!

Happy Birfday

2011-10-26T17:30:00.000-07:00

I recently celebrated my birthday by hitching a ride with my mom, sister and super cute niece to visit a dear friend who has moved away to another city. I had a great time visiting with her and we got a lot of catching up done. I rambled on about married life, basement renos and future bambinos (shhh, that last one isn't info ready for our families just yet). She told me about her life in the new city and the struggles she is having. We reflected on the fact that we are now into our early thirties and how things are so much different than we imagined.

Here is what I thought my thirties would be like when I was 22:
1) I would be married to a great guy... Check
2) I would own a house....Check
3) That house would be nicely finished and beautifully decorated..... ummm, not so much
4) I would have at least one child...hmmm, ~~working~~ thinking on that one still
5) I would have a great job... Check

That is as far as I got in my planning when I was 22, I guess I am not doing too badly, but isn't it funny how things and priorities change as you enter the real grown up world.

These things are never more present in my thoughts as we are contemplating a move back in with my mother. Some how it feels like a huge step back to own a house but be living with you mom at 32 years old! Sigh, but at least we have a lot of other things going for us I am really not complaining.
I wonder, did anyone end up where they thought they would be at a younger age?

The wall

2011-10-23T10:02:00.000-07:00

We have been working hard in the backyard to get things sealed up for the winter. Well, PJ is working very hard, I was sick with the flu or flu shot reaction, so I did what I could. And then I was away visiting a friend for my birthday which was fantastic, I only wish PJ could have been there with us but he was a good home renovator and stayed home to build this!

We now have... drum roll please... a wall! A very sturdy retaining wall that will hold our backyard in and double as a lovely planter garden box for our renter (when we finally get some).

We also have three properly sealed windows! However we do need to do four more. We did another weekend blitz of stuff, mostly prep work for upcoming jobs, but still hard work.

Status Quo

2011-10-21T16:07:00.000-07:00

We are a few weeks post wedding, post honeymoon and back in the swing of real life(sigh vacations/ honeymoons are never long enough). I can't tell if it is good thing or bad thing but I can't say anything is really that different. I am really not complaining as things were pretty good before the wedding and still are pretty darn good. Maybe slightly better because the pressure of the wedding deadline is off me now.

I wonder if this is common? PJ and I lived together before we were married, actually we bought a house together six months after we met and we had already been living together for four months. If you are math savy, that's right we lived together two months after our first meeting and if I was being honest it is probably more like one month after we met. Let's just say it felt right to us and to my surprise it made sense to everyone else too! Anyway, we lived together before marriage so I feel like a lot of the adjustment to that lifestyle was already complete. Now we have some new stuff and a piece of paper to prove it ( and a wonderful memory).

The reason I wonder is because a lot of people told me " even though you live together it will feel different..." or " things will still change" , Well not so far, and I think I am ok with it. If anyone else is reading this....did marriage change things for you? Are you worried it will?

My sheepish secret

2011-10-11T13:05:00.000-07:00

A while ago I ripped off the band-aid that was my little blogging secret and told PJ about the blog. I not sure what made me keep quiet about it before, embarrassment, maybe? A desire to have something just for me, possibly? I think maybe a bit of both. Either way, I decided that we were about to be married and he should know about it, especially if I was going to talk about him in it.

Decision made! I was going to tell him. I told him. Unfortunately I didn't really think this decision through very well, because then he wanted to READ IT! After a few squirmy moments I handed over the address and waited while he read each post. He was given the instructions he was not allowed to give feedback on my writing style (writing has historically been difficult for me so I have a little sensitivity to correction), content feedback was welcome.

The end of the story is a happy one, he thought it was good and was happy with some nice things I wrote about him. I don't think he has read it since that night, which is fine by me, it keeps it just for me. But I feel better knowing he knows.

Making up for lost time

2011-10-10T16:13:00.000-07:00

Things have been a bit sparse on the blog posting front and I apologize. I will try to make up for it by filling in the gaps with a few more posts ( and posting twice today!), also I am sick so I have a lot of time to sit with my computer.

So now that the wedding and honeymoon are over, we can get back to normal life. In the last while since returning from our honeymoon we have been focusing on getting our renovation back on track. I am not sure if I alluded to this in my other reno post, but part of the reason our basement project is taking so long is we had to fire our contractor. It is a long story of poor project management, inexperience and covering his tracks. Anyway, the long story ends with him being 'let go' and us missing a ~~large~~ huge sum of money and our basement only halfway done. This means we have become 'do it yourselfers'!

The first order of business is to address the half completed exterior of the house. Winter is coming and I have no desire to be working outside in the cold and dark. Not to mention the possible damage to the house if there is not siding on it.

Part of the problem is the windows. They were improperly installed and have to be taken out and redone. Then we need new siding, because there is none of the old siding left to cover the exposed parts.

And the biggest barrier, apart from no money to pay someone to do the work, is the deck was put back together and is literally blocking us from doing work on some of the windows and siding. Blah!

The good news is we have help, people who took pity on us and are professionals who will guide us, and non-professionals who will help us with the labour. In the last week/weekend, we (PJ, carpenter, PJ's mum and I) removed the old siding, partially took apart the deck, and reinstalled the three windows on the back side of the house, and put up the tar paper in preparation for the new siding. I promise to get some pictures, but I couldn't be bothered because I have the flu and today is thanksgiving. I am pretty sure PJ took some in progress photos, that I can steal.

I'm BACK and BETTER than EVER!

2011-10-10T10:29:00.000-07:00

I am happy to report that the wedding was huge success, not only because PJ and I are now legally married but because it was amazing. Everything turned out how I envisioned and everyone had a great time. With out further ado, here are some pictures...

The ladies getting ready

My Dress

The ceremony set up

Our "first look" before the guests arrive

Some of the bridesmaids, missing my sister but it is such a nice photo I had to include it

Adorable flower girl

Walking down the isle with my mother

The ceremony

First kiss as Mr. and Mrs.

The full bridal party

Our lovely vehicle

The reception

Place cards

Guest book painted by a friend and card/gift table

Swedish lawn game to help guests relax and fill the time while we did some photos

And some sangria on the deck

Groomsman's speech

Cutting the cake

Gorgeous cake made by a friend

I loved every minute of our wedding, well not the one where I got stung by a bee, but every other minute was wonderful. I am so happy to have been lucky enough to have found someone so amazing to love and to have him love me back.