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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This is the story of the unexpected implosion of Scribe Media, and its incredible rise from the ashes. </p>
<p>As told by the founder, Tucker Max.</p>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is the story of the unexpected implosion of Scribe Media, and its incredible rise from the ashes.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you were involved or watched it happen, then this piece should fill information gaps and give you a more complete picture of what happened.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you don&#8217;t know the story, in short: Scribe Media was on top of the publishing world in 2021, the founders left in 2022, and by May 2023 it was bankrupt and collapsing. Over a hundred full time employees were laid off without warning, almost 500 part time and freelance employees were not paid for work, and hundreds of authors&#8211;many of whom had paid in full&#8211;got nothing back, and investors were scammed out of millions.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s been more than a year since. I&#8217;m telling this story now for a few reasons:&nbsp;</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I couldn&#8217;t tell this story as it was happening, because I was on the outside and had very little direct knowledge of events. Enough facts have surfaced to give a (somewhat) complete account.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve had many people reach out and ask for answers, and I want to write this for them, especially the authors and ex-employees of Scribe.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Most people do not have an understanding as to </span><b><i>why</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> some of the major players made the decisions they did, especially JeVon McCormick, whose lies, mismanagement, and fraud almost single-handedly caused the issues.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Because of my position&#8211;co-founder of Scribe and the person who hired and worked with JeVon for years&#8211;I believe I can shed light on motivations that will explain not just what happened, but why.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So if you’ve ever wondered ‘What happened to Scribe,’ this post should give you (most of) the answers you’ve been looking for.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">November 2021 &#8211; January 2022</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">By the end of 2021, JeVon McCormick (the CEO), Zach Obront and I (co-founders) got the company to $21 million in gross sales. We&#8217;d totally revolutionized the professional book publishing services space, and got famous for publishing the massive bestseller </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can&#8217;t Hurt Me</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> by David Goggins.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This was the peak of the company. We had a great team, everyone was bought in, everyone was working hard, and we had amazing plans to scale to $100m a year and beyond.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The future was bright.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The future was so bright, Zach and I could step back from day to day operational work at Scribe, and focus on building other companies.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The plan was that Zach and I would each build whole new companies related to Scribe, that the three of us would own in the partnership, but not be part of Scribe the company.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We were on that path. I was building our traditional publishing arm (called Libra Press) when Zach decided that he wanted to&nbsp;</span><a href="https://obront.substack.com/p/the-next-chapter" target="_blank" rel="noopener">leave the partnership to focus on blockchain tech</a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. It was a shocking reversal, as Zach was very close to leading the launch of a new division of our company and raising tens of millions in VC money.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I understood. He was 24 when we started Scribe, and after spending the last 7 years killing himself to build the company, was ready to start a new chapter. I was sad Zach was leaving, but ultimately happy for him.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">JeVon was not. I can&#8217;t put this any other way: </span><b><i>he was enraged, and freaked the fuck out.&nbsp;</i></b></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I need to explain in detail why he did this, because understanding the relationship between JeVon, Zach and I is the KEY to making sense of what happened over the next 2.5 years.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We hired JeVon in August of 2016.&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/i-fired-myself-as-ceo-why-and-whats-next/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>I wrote about it here</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Our relationship grew very deep from that moment on, was cemented during Covid, and we all three were committed to each other well beyond just business.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Only a year or so earlier, JeVon had gotten a lot of external job offers (or at least he claimed he did). We obviously wanted him to stay, so we drew up a package to keep him involved and reward him for the great job he&#8217;d done so far. A part of it was us committing to each other for the next decade (not in a strict legal sense, but in a &#8220;friend promise&#8221; sense).&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To JeVon, this was not a company, and we were not just business partners. We had many, many long and deep conversations, were incredibly vulnerable with each other, cared about each other, knew each other&#8217;s families. There was a time where I considered JeVon one of my best friends on earth (Zach is still a dear friend, that&#8217;s not changed). We were a brotherhood. We were the family he never had, the brothers he wanted but never got.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I believe JeVon could not get past his own deep emotional issues around Zach leaving. He felt, on a deep level, Zach had betrayed and abandoned him.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A quick note about JeVon’s past: he had a father who was a literal pimp, and his mom was one of his dad’s prostitutes. His dad literally abandoned him, and his mom did too at different times. This was deeply scarring and he wrote about this&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Got-There-Overcame-Poverty-American-ebook/dp/B01MZ6HJG8" target="_blank" rel="noopener">extensively in his memoir</a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Zach leaving the partnership really triggered JeVon in ways he could barely admit, much less emotionally explore. I assured him I was not going anywhere, and he eventually calmed down.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But he wasn&#8217;t the same after that.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With the benefit of hindsight, I should have insisted that we find a broker and sell the company then. The company was very strong, it was a great market and we would have gotten top dollar.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The signs were there that JeVon would not handle this well&#8211;I probably spent 50-100 hours talking about this with him, and in effect, being his therapist through this period.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But I didn&#8217;t really recognize them or believe them to be that bad, so I ignored them and convinced myself everything would be fine.<br></span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">March 2022</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Things settled down, and the new company I was building was doing great&#8230;and then JeVon’s mom died.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The most important person to JeVon was his mom. In fact, she was the most important top 5 people in his life. His wife was sixth, then his kids, then probably me.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He and I had talked about his mom dying and what that would be like for him for years, and he knew it was going to be a big deal, and yet&#8230;it was even worse than anyone could have seen for him when it happened.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have to take some blame here: I KNEW this was going to be devastating to him, and had he taken time off to deeply grieve, I think everything might have ended up fine.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But he did the exact worst possible thing:&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He said he was fine, pushed all his emotions away, recommitted himself to work and dove into his job.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Again, looking back, this was a MAJOR red flag. I knew JeVon well, and I know that the way he dealt with hard emotions was to run from them and focus on work. Which was exactly what he was doing.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But he was very convincing, he insisted he was fine, and at the end of the day&#8211;I couldn&#8217;t make him take time.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So, things kept going.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">May 2022</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The next major event was he and I deciding to begin the process of selling Scribe and all its assets.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This was inevitable once his mom died, I can see that now. But it took me two months to emotionally get there and push it to happen.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The next major mistake: JeVon was emphatic about him handling the entire process, not hiring a broker that he said would take too high a fee and slow things down, and so&#8230;Zach and I let JeVon handle the sale process himself.&nbsp;</span><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If there was a single critical decision that contributed the most to the Scribe collapse, this was it.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s so easy to say now that I should have hired the broker and been in on every part of the process. Of course I should&#8217;ve.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But Zach and I still trusted JeVon, still believed he was our brother and that he was working our best interests, especially because they were his interests too.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And JeVon played every card he had with me and Zach to keep control of everything, he promised us the world&#8230;and we let him be in charge.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;d just moved to a ranch, I had 4 young kids, I had lots of other things going on. Zach wanted to go do other things.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It was easy to say yes, and I wanted him to do the work and be done with it&#8230;so I chose the easy path, to believe and trust him and let him control everything.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">June through November 2022</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The first thing JeVon did was get an outside appraisal of the company. The appraiser said it was worth between $52m and $65m. If we could get the high end price (which is no guarantee of course), that meant that my share would be worth about $20m.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After that, he updated me constantly with stories about all kinds of offers, deals, people he was talking to, etc. It was an entire season of the best business drama anyone could ever make up. I ate it up at the moment.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Were his stories true?&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m going to quote&nbsp;</span><a href="https://documents-legal.s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com/PLAINTIFFS++ORIGINAL+PETITION+(2).pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>the lawsuit against him</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;filed by Jawad Ahsan and John Kim (two investors he screwed over), the bolding is mine: </span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br></span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br></span> <i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;During discussions with Ahsan and Kim and until well after their investments were</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">completed, McCormick made repeated misrepresentations to Scribe employees and investors (including Ahsan and Kim) that Scribe was on the verge of being acquired by another company.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">For example, in the fall of 2022, McCormick represented that Scribe was going to be acquired for $47 million by AffiniPay, an Austin-based financial technology company.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">McCormick represented to investors and employees that the deal fell through as a result of the Internal Revenue Service walking into the meeting during which a letter of intent with AffiniPay was purportedly being signed that day, thereby scaring away the AffiniPay team.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">McCormick also represented that Scribe was going to be acquired for $35 million by Podium Audio, a leading publisher for audiobooks and ebooks. McCormick also mentioned possible acquisitions by Scribd, a subscription service for audiobooks and ebooks, and even a Saudi Arabian prince.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">In addition, McCormick claimed to have had &#8220;70+ calls with eager investors&#8221; about investing in Scribe.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><b><i>All of these representations were false.</i></b><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here are some more of the other major things that were going on at Scribe during the second half of 2022, I&#8217;ve heard from people who have left since:</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br></span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The entire culture manual and process&#8211;the one authored by Zach and I and that won us dozens of awards, attracted tons of people to come work there and built the company&#8211;was wholesale replaced by JeVon and the executive team. It was made much worse (as you will see below).</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Jevon stopped focusing on growing Scribe sales and customer experience, and instead began spending all his time promoting his &#8220;Modern Leader&#8221; brand, and none promoting books, Scribe or anything that produced revenue for the company.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">JeVon during this time tripled the office space, spending a huge amount on building out a very expensive new office.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">When we left we told JeVon to be watchful of Meghan McCracken. She replaced me as the effective &#8220;Head of Product,&#8221; and she was smart and hard working&#8211;but she has deep &#8220;spreadsheet brain&#8221; tendencies, and would get caught up in the process instead of worrying about people. He turned her loose to run the company, and she was not ready for this responsibility. She possibly did more to destroy the profitability of the company than he did over the next 18 months.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Some examples of things Meghan did, all taken from conversations I have recently had with former Scribe employees who were there during this period:</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;Tucker, you created amazing internal processes and training and they worked. Meghan dismantled every internal process in favor of her own processes that made no sense. She got rid of Publishing Managers, implemented “book teams”, which were wildly disorganized, and took almost ALL of the personalization/emotional support out of what we were doing with authors.&#8221;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;One of the major issues was Scribes drastic overhiring, and this was driven by Meghan creating a whole new process as well as hiring an in-house manuscript creative team, which was a huge waste.&#8221;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;When Meghan made changes, she was always in a panic and created a mess. She would stay up all night, come in with a COMPLETELY new system, and make everyone adhere to it.&#8221;&nbsp;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;Remember how open the culture was to improvement and criticism? That was gone. She absolutely COULD NOT hear that she was wrong, and the people who pointed out OBVIOUS issues lost their jobs. It happened a lot.&#8221;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;Meghan publicly scolded and shamed people for asking basic questions about failing systems and made examples out of people who challenged her.&#8221;&nbsp;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;I really can’t emphasize enough what an iron fist she ruled with, pretty much everyone who had a close working relationship with her came away with some sort of emotional baggage, and many went on mini-leaves. Or even quit.&#8221;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;After the layoff happened, she personally asked the Sales team to continue to sell. When they refused because they didn&#8217;t know if these people would ever actually produce a book with us or get their money back, Meghan told them to kick the can down the road and said it would be new ownership&#8217;s problem. They left.&#8221;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I asked a person who I knew well why they didn&#8217;t tell JeVon. Her answer:</span>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;It slowly got worse in 2022, and then got really bad in 2023. Tucker, we rallied everyone together, even most of the Executive Team, and we all went to JeVon and laid this out in clear terms. We brought the receipts. He acknowledged all of our complaints, and even made her take a leave of absence. But he refused to make her change her behavior or get rid of her. I guess because she was such an enabler for him? I don&#8217;t know why. She&#8217;s why I left.&#8221;</span></i></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Meghan examples could go on for tens of thousands of words. There&#8217;s more in this same vein, and you can read it on the&nbsp;</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://www.glassdoor.com/Reviews/Employee-Review-Scribe-Media-RVW76790101.htm" target="_blank" rel="noopener">old Scribe Glassdoor reviews</a>&nbsp;or&nbsp;</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/austinjobs/comments/13w6eny/comment/jmdk790/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=web3x&amp;utm_name=web3xcss&amp;utm_term=1&amp;utm_content=share_button" target="_blank" rel="noopener">in this Reddit thread</a>.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I didn&#8217;t publish those because I can&#8217;t confirm the person writing is legit (even though most sound legit), whereas I can confirm the above quotes because they came from people I hired, trained and knew personally who were at Scribe during this period.</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Neither Zach nor I knew this at the time&#8211;because JeVon was hiding this from us&#8211;but in October, JeVon took an &#8220;investment&#8221; from an investor for $1 million dollars. This was without telling me or Zach, which he had a duty to do.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In Early December of 22, JeVon also took out a loan from John Kim for $500k. This was also without telling Tucker or Zach.</span></li>
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<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">December 2022</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is where it all came to a head. And the IRS triggered it.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I owed the IRS a six figure sum in taxes (over an investment payout I had, nothing to do with Scribe), but they also owed me some in a refund that was years old. So I was trying to negotiate with them to apply the refund to what I owed in taxes.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I heard nothing from them for 8 months, then a specific revenue agent decided to come hard at me, put a lien on my ranch, and pursue aggressive collections. But even though none of this had to do with Scribe, this triggered me to push JeVon on the Scribe sale.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As I stated above, Zach and I knew NOTHING about the money issues Scribe was having, because JeVon was lying to us.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Looking back in hindsight at the situation with all the information I have now, I can see that the problems would have been fixable with courageous leadership&#8211;he clearly needed to fire 50% of the staff, make other cuts, and drive sales hard, all things we had done in the past and could do again&#8211;but JeVon was long past being a courageous leader.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This put JeVon in a serious corner: he had to produce a buyer, both for me and for Scribe.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He came to us with a deal that valued the company at approximately $15m, instead of $65m the company was valued at less than a year ago.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Of course, this was a SHOCK to both Zach and I. It took me days to deal with this. I was expecting to get an 8 figure payout. I had put my life into this company for a decade, and I was going to get very little for it, relative to the value created.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He&#8217;d been telling Zach and I stories about so many deals on the table, with prices ranging from $30m to $60m, and so we were expecting something in that range.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This offer made it clear he wasn&#8217;t telling us everything.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When we confronted him about this obvious problem, he went full on defensive, yelling at us, obfuscating, prevaricating, and throwing literally every single textbook malignant narcissist gaslighting and distraction technique in the book at us. It was impossible to get a straight answer from him.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">At that point, I thought he was trying to cover up for the fact that he screwed up the sale in some other way we didn&#8217;t know about.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I would learn later that his betrayal was far worse than I knew then, but even at that point, I realized the basic fact: </span><b><i>he was not telling me the whole truth.&nbsp;</i></b></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This was a soul crushing realization for me. The CEO of my company, my trusted friend, my sworn brother, the man who asked me to take care of his kids if anything happened to him&#8211;that guy had been lying to me.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I honestly spent days in a deep depression. It&#8217;s still so hard, I don&#8217;t even feel ready to write fully about my emotions then, almost two years later (I&#8217;ll go deeper on my personal experience here in my next memoir, which I&#8217;m writing now).&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Zach was not sad, he was furious. He and JeVon fought and argued for days and weeks. The drama that occurred over the last three weeks of December could literally be its own season of a Netflix series. Five different times I thought the whole thing would come crashing down, or that Zach or JeVon would sue each other, or any number of other calamities would come about.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It all ended when Zach and I realized that we really had only one choice: we had to sell, regardless of this terrible price.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After the initial shock and horror and pain, I was pretty calm about this. Zach was confused how I could be so calm when I was losing more money than anyone.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">I&#8217;d thought about it a lot. And as much as it pained me to admit it, IO missed a lot of signs, that, had I really looked and really paid attention, where there.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">For example, when we hired him he was literally in the middle of leaving his old company, or being pushed out, we still don&#8217;t really know the truth, but it was sketchy. <br><br>He did things like show us the thumb drive he said was all of his companies secrets, in case they tried to sue him.</span></p>
<p>And one of his previous jobs he told us he was one of the ones who created the mortgage crisis in Texas by having his team at Wachovia write so many bad loans, and it led to Wachovia eventually going bankrupt? He was never accused of any crime, but he was right in the middle of that. </p>
<p>And at Scribe, we saw him ruthlessly manipulate people so many times in ways that helped us. Never anything illegal, but always very sketchy.</p>
<p>And that exactly what he did to us at this period. </p>
<p>He made a bunch of bad decisions he won&#8217;t own, he didn&#8217;t tell us everything, he painted himself into a corner and so he tried to figure out a way to manipulate our emotions to get out of this situation. </p>
<p>He&#8217;s not being honest and trying to figure out how to solve the problem. He only cares about manipulating how we feel. </p>
<p>We knew from the beginning we were dealing with a dude who is really good at his job&#8230;but does not have impeccable integrity. </p>
<p>Of course we had no idea he would be this bad, but man, when you pick up a snake, no matter how nice it might seem, it&#8217;s only a matter of time before it bites you. We got bit.</p>
<p>I know that doesn&#8217;t make me look good, but it&#8217;s the painful truth.&nbsp;<span style="font-weight: 400;"><br></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here&#8217;s possibly the CRAZIEST part: as he was telling us his set of lies, he was telling the guys he wanted to invest in Scribe a </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">whole different set of lies</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is directly from&nbsp;</span><a href="https://documents-legal.s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com/PLAINTIFFS++ORIGINAL+PETITION+(2).pdf" target="_blank" rel="noopener">the lawsuit against him</a><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;(the bolding is mine):</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br></span></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;On December 22, 2022, </span></i><b><i>McCormick provided Ahsan with financial statements and financial projections for Scribe, which Ahsan later discovered from Scribe&#8217;s executive team were false and had been altered by McCormick</i></b><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">McCormick also provided Ahsan and other investors with </span></i><b><i>falsified personal financial information</i></b><i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> in order to convince Ahsan and other investors that they would be repaid if Scribe was unable to do so.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">On January 3, 2023, just one week before the closing of Ahsan&#8217;s initial $5 million investment, McCormick sent Ahsan an email with a screenshot of his bank statement, which purported to have an account balance of $31,933,947.16.&#8221;&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The lawsuit claims that JeVon </span><b><i>changed the Scribe financial numbers in photoshop</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> and sent them to Jawad to get him to invest in Scribe. Again from the lawsuit:</span></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;In addition to providing falsified bank account information to Ahsan to induce him into making his initial investment, McCormick sent Ahsan falsified financial statements to reflect a $2.6 million profit in 2022 (instead of the $2.2 million loss the company had suffered in the same year).&#8221;</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What JeVon had done was run Scribe into the ground, and lie to everyone to cover it up and get more investment in the hope he would eventually sell it and cash out, and no one would figure out his lies.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And it would have worked.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The problem was that he didn&#8217;t sell it before his lies caught up with him.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">May-August 2023</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Looking back at the true financials, and knowing the core team at Scribe and the situation, I still believe that had JeVon been courageous and taken the hard path, even starting as late as January 2023, he could have turned Scribe around and either sold it or made it profitable. It would have been hard, because he spent all of 2022 squandering the huge lead that Zach and I handed him&#8211;</span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">but it was still possible</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He didn&#8217;t take the courageous path. Once Jawad put his money in it appears that JeVon doubled down on his bullshit, and in May 2023 JeVon&#8217;s house of cards fell.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I was not involved at all with Scribe when it imploded, so I had no firsthand visibility into anything, so from legal docs and people who were there, this is the basic timeline:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">April 12, Scribe couldn&#8217;t make payroll, and JeVon talked Jawad into loaning the company $775k to make payroll.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">May 15, Scribe was unable to make payroll again, and JeVon induced John Kim to invest more money into Scribe, to help him make payroll.&nbsp;</span>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">A former Scribe employee told me, and another confirmed, </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;On one of these late payrolls JeVon claimed that an investor had reneged a payment, and that JeVon was covering our pay personally from his own accounts. And we fucking thanked him for it.&#8221;</span></i></li>
</ul>
</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have also learned that during this period (not sure on exact date), JeVon took a $250k loan from an EMPLOYEE of Scribe to make payroll. Multiple previous Scribe employees have told me this is accurate.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">May 18, Jawad confronted JeVon about his lies. JeVon resigned as President and CEO of Scribe. It says in the lawsuit:&nbsp;</span>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;McCormick did not dispute the allegations of fraud and wrongdoing when confronted about them. Instead, McCormick agreed to reimburse Ahsan for his $5,775,000 investment in Scribe. McCormick, however, was allegedly unable to secure the funding to make the payment, citing as a reason that the trustee of his family trust refused to release the funds.&#8221;</span></i></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">As a side note, this is a very common JeVon tactic&#8211;when confronted with truth, he will say anything to get away, then make up a lie to get out of it later. He used his &#8220;trustee won&#8217;t let me&#8221; lie for years and for various reasons with Zach and I.</span></li>
</ul>
</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">UPDATE: Sometime in this period, JeVon tried to scam AT LEAST one other investor. I did not know about this until I released this story, and&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/BeerInHell/posts/pfbid0cgD34KXTMVM8j7Em8H4tqeEeuNufC4Jju7QzSJhbC13e2tgGbx77SCh1G7H2hmPBl?comment_id=425326417258638" target="_blank" rel="noopener">got this message</a>:
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">&nbsp;&#8220;<i>When I found out Scribe was in trouble, I reached out to JeVon and offered to facilitate an investment group. I had a group of Scribe Alums willing to help.<br></i>
<p><i>H</i><i style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">e called me several times and ended up saying something to the effect of &#8220;You need to put $1m in an offshore bank account so that the Board knows you are serious with your intentions. Then they will show you the financials and how things aren&#8217;t really as bad as they seem. I&#8217;ll make sure you win the bid if you do this.&#8221; </i></p>
<p><i style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">&nbsp;</i></p>
<p><i style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">He had account numbers ready for me to copy. I audibly gasped and said &#8220;I&#8217;m not doing that, good luck with any party willing to do that.&#8221;<br></i><i style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;"><br>Later that day (a Sunday), the General Counsel called and said &#8220;We are announcing a deal on Tuesday, it&#8217;s been signed. JeVon knows this and has been told the has no authority to negotiate on behalf of the company. Please tell me you didn&#8217;t send the money because it is gone if you did.&#8221;<br></i><i style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;"><br>I always thought that if he had those accounts at the ready then there must be funds somewhere.</i><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">&#8220;</span></p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">On May 24, Scribe was forced to lay off 86 employees.&nbsp;</span>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/austinjobs/comments/13w6eny/comment/jmdk790/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">There are details of the chaos of the layoff process here.</a></li>
</ul>
</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">As Jawad dug into the company details, it got worse. From the lawsuit:&nbsp;</span>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8220;Ahsan and Kim learned that Scribe&#8217;s cash flow problem was not just a result of McCormick&#8217;s reckless mismanagement of the company, but also a result of McCormick using Scribe as his personal piggy bank. Ahsan and Kim learned that McCormick used the company credit card to fund a $30,000 trip to Disney World with his family only weeks after Ahsan&#8217;s investment in the company. Around the same time, McCormick also used company funds to buy an approximately $15,000 Louis Vuitton bag and employ a personal driver for himself. In addition, Ahsan and Kim discovered that McCormick made a $125,000 distribution to himself from the funds invested by Ahsan, in Violation of several covenants restricting McCormick from doing so. McCormick made all of these expenditures during a time when Scribe was in financial distress.&#8221;</span></i></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Obviously he never did anything like this when Zach and I were there. Zach especially was on the financials like a hawk before he left.&nbsp;</span></li>
</ul>
</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Right after this, Scribe defaulted on two loans that ABC Bank had made to Scribe. ABC Bank took possession of Scribe’s assets and took operating control of the company, as was their right as senior creditor.</span>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This was another wonderful surprise lie&#8211;we knew about the ABC loans, but JeVon had sworn that he was the ONLY guarantor on those ABC loans. Turns out, he made me and Zach personal guarantors as well, and lied to us about that (and I believe lied to the bank as well). The way he did it was a very sophisticated trick. There&#8217;s no shock quite like realizing not only is your old company bankrupt and you won&#8217;t get your money, but that you might end up OWING money to the bank because of your &#8220;friend’s&#8221; fraud.&nbsp;</span></li>
</ul>
</li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The minute the layoff happened, these problems became public. Rumors started flying online, and authors started calling to see what was happening at Scribe.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of those authors was Eric Jorgenson, who published a book with Scribe in 2020 (</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Almanack-Naval-Ravikant-Wealth-Happiness-ebook/dp/B08FF8MTM6" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Almanac Of Naval Ravikant</a>, a huge hit), and had another one in progress. Seeing that Scribe was in financial distress and needing new owners or investment, he started calling potential investors to try to save the company. He connected with Sieva and Xavier.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sieva Kozinsky and Xavier Helgesen, founders of a firm called&nbsp;</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://enduring.ventures/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Enduring Ventures</a>&nbsp;(a long-term private holding company), flew to Austin to meet with the team and the bank, and assess the situation.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The second day Sieva and Xavier were there, the landlord put a padlock on the door and claimed everything left in the office as payment for rent they were owed.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mid-June 2023, they started a new company called Bond Financial, and hired the majority of remaining Scribe team members, keeping them paid to support authors, continue to publish books, and prevent the situation from worsening.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sieva Kozinsky steps in as interim operating CEO to navigate the crisis and communicate with authors.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">On July 7th, Sieva broke the hard news to authors that their past payments to Scribe had been squandered by JeVon, and they would not be getting the work they had paid for. In order to continue working on their books, the team at this new company would need some additional payment to cover costs. Authors were pissed.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In early August, the new company owned by Enduring Ventures finalized the purchase of certain assets of Old Scribe (namely, the Scribe logo and website) from the bank and assumed the bank’s loan liability from Old Scribe.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In late August, Eric Jorgenson invested in the new Scribe and joined as CEO.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In August 2023, Bond Financial (the new company) started working on author projects and publishing books again. Though they had no obligation to do so, the team worked at-cost for all previous Scribe authors trying to help them finish their books.</span></li>
</ul>
<h1><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Common Questions I Get</span></h1>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">How did JeVon fool so many people?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">JeVon didn&#8217;t fool a few people. He fooled (almost) EVERYONE he came in contact with.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He fooled everyone at Scribe, including Zach and I.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He fooled multiple billionaires, including John Mackay, the billionaire founder of Whole Foods, who put him onto the Board of Directors of Conscious Capitalism (no, seriously).&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He fooled Jawad Ahsan, John Kim, and other investors, who are each very smart and very successful and do not get fooled by people.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How could someone do that?&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Well, first off, he&#8217;s actually good at his job.&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/i-fired-myself-as-ceo-update-5-years-later/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>I wrote about his managerial ability here</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, and it&#8217;s still true. He is a skilled dude&#8211;at certain things&#8211;and you cannot fake that over a long period of time. He can deliver when he wants to.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And along with that, he&#8217;s an INCREDIBLE manipulator. Some of the things I have seen him do to people were, quite frankly, breathtaking.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For example, we had a running joke that we never fired anyone at Scribe, no matter how bad their performance was. It seemed like they always &#8220;chose&#8221; to leave right before we had to fire them.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You know why?&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Because JeVon would have a meeting with them, and like some hypnotist Svengali, convince people that they didn&#8217;t want to be at Scribe and should leave &#8220;on their own.&#8221;&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He did this so many times, to people who had NO INTENTION of leaving, that it was legendary. He took pride in his ability </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">to get anyone to do anything he wanted them to do.</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One more thing he can do that all great manipulators can do: he would convince himself of his lie before he tried to convince you. And when he believed something, he was very convincing.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So the only way you could hold the center with him was to have a very clear handle on the facts independent of him, and a strong sense of self.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How many people do you know like that?&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Probably the thing he could do the best is find the thing you wanted the most, and then promise to deliver it.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s a really powerful technique. He did that to me, and it worked. I needed someone to help me scale my company, and he already was that in most ways.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The problem comes when you keep promising bigger things to fool people more, but you can&#8217;t deliver anymore.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Don&#8217;t get me wrong, JeVon has the air of a bullshitter about him, and plenty of people saw that&#8211;including my wife.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even Zach and I saw the potential for it from the beginning. When we first hired him as he was leaving his old job as President of a software company, we structured the deal so that </span><b><i>he couldn&#8217;t fuck us</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">. The only way he could succeed would be to make us money as well. We tied his success to ours, and thought this would protect us.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The thing we did not foresee at all was his willingness to COMPLETELY BLOW UP HIS OWN LIFE.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That&#8217;s the most confusing thing about this: he didn&#8217;t set up a master theft and disappear with the money to Belize or something.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You could make a good argument that he got the worst result from this debacle!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">His career is ruined. His reputation is shattered. His wife took his kids and left him. He has MULTIPLE FEDERAL LAWSUITS pending against him for millions of dollars!!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He&#8217;s in his mid-50s, and every day he has to live with the knowledge that everyone he said he loved and cared about wants nothing to do with anymore, and the only person responsible for that is&#8230;him.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why would he do that? That&#8217;s the next question.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why would JeVon do this?&nbsp;</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">JeVon was called a lot of things as this went down: evil, sociopath, psychopath, incompetent, etc, etc. Most of the labels were not accurate, but one fit perfectly: malignant narcissist.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s easy to say that JeVon was a malignant narcissist, but what does that actually mean?&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A psychiatrist once told me you can understand narcissism as an addiction to external adoration and reflected self-image, as a replacement for the love one never received as a child. In essence, someone creates a false self-image, then creates a reality around them that supports it&#8211;and they become addicted to the image itself.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I did not understand that when she told me.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I understand it now, because addiction is the best frame with which to understand JeVon&#8217;s behavior.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you think of him like an addict, you can understand everything that he did. All his behavior, all his decisions, everything makes sense if you understand that he is addicted to his self-image, and will sacrifice everything&#8211;</span><b><i>including himself and his family</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8211;in order to continue to think of himself as a perfect and brilliant CEO that didn&#8217;t need anyone, and could fool everyone and get his way out of any bind, regardless of the facts.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is why he destroyed Scribe, the company he invested his life in building with us.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why he betrayed his best friends.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why he broke up his family.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why he ruined his career and reputation.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why he lost everything he valued in the world.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Because he was addicted to an identity, and focused on retaining the image of that identity over doing the hard work needed to actually BE that person.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I cannot speak to what story he tells himself about why Scribe collapsed today. I can tell you that as this whole thing was going down, he came to me for sympathy, and tried to tell me (and the world) a story of how he made a few isolated mistakes that snowballed, and subtly shifted blame to others.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He even&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/posts/scribe-media_a-message-from-jevon-mccormick-i-have-not-activity-7070433849922482177-VaZB/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>wrote a Linkedin post about this</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, but it ended up with hundreds of comments from the people he laid off at Scribe, coming at him with the receipts, displaying his lies to his face (he posted that on his personal page and deleted that one, because the comments were vicious, though true).&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What does a narcissist do when their facade begins to break down?&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">They attack and shame everyone who questions it, and double down hard on whatever lie is needed to reinforce the image.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is exactly what JeVon (and Meghan) did after Zach and I left, and his decisions started to hurt the company.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What does a narcissist do when the facade finally breaks and everyone knows the truth?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">They convince themselves everyone else is wrong, and go into hiding.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Which is what he&#8217;s doing now.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Are you upset/hurt/mad about this whole thing?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Yeah of course.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A lot of people asked me if it was hard to watch something I created and built fall apart. Yeah, I mean, that was sad I guess, but honestly, I don&#8217;t care about &#8220;brands.&#8221; I care about people.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What really hurt was watching all those people at Scribe that Zach and I hired, trained, worked with and loved get hurt by a man that we brought in and we vouched for.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And the authors. So many of whom signed with Scribe because of me, and got screwed out of money. And many got nothing.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Thankfully everyone understood we were not involved, that we would never have let that happen if we&#8217;d have been there&#8230;but I still was so sad that it happened at all.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I know I&#8217;m going to sound cliche, but it&#8217;s true: I am now thankful that this occurred, at least to me.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">No, I&#8217;m not thankful that anyone else was hurt by his actions, of course not.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But the fact is, I clearly had a LOT of lessons I needed to learn, and I obviously wasn&#8217;t learning them the easy way. I lost (potentially) $20 million dollars to learn the lessons, and that sucks, but the truth is: it could have been far worse.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I still have my family. I have my ranch. I have my health, my reputation and my friends. All the things that matter, I still have. Most of them are better now than when I was at Scribe.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I could have paid a lot more for these lessons, if I&#8217;d been truly stubborn.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I could have ended up like JeVon.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So yes, this sucks, but I&#8217;m appreciative of the lesson, and appreciative that it wasn&#8217;t as expensive as it could have been for me.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why did you pick JeVon, and what lessons did you learn from this?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For me personally, these two questions are the most important ones. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I look at myself honestly and take the right lessons and internalize them, then this whole event&#8211;as painful as it was&#8211;is not wasted.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I hate to do this to you, but I&#8217;m not going in depth into why I was drawn to him initially and the lessons I eventually learned. A few reasons:&nbsp;</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This piece is primarily about what happened at Scribe and why. What I learned is a different piece altogether, and this is already at 9k words.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I hate the spammy listicle &#8220;7 Lessons I Learned From Losing My Family To Murder&#8221; posts, where people try to take extremely emotional events and distill them to intellectualized data. I&#8217;m not going to do that.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The basic lesson is a pretty obvious one: I didn&#8217;t want to see what I saw. He filled a role for me in my life, and I wanted the role filled more than wanted to recognize the yellow and red flags.</span></span>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The honest truth is I&#8217;m not quite ready to write about them in depth. I&#8217;m currently writing my next memoir, and I promise I will deeply explore the lessons I learned and how I felt about them in that book.&nbsp;</span></p>
</li>
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<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Did you get out in time? How much did you actually get from the sale?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I know a lot of people thought I &#8220;got out just in time.&#8221; They assumed I took my money and ran. I heard that a lot.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The truth is, I lost more money than anyone (maybe, Jawad might have lost a little more).&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I should have gotten around $20 million for the company had we sold when we started the process. OK fine, that money never existed, but the deal I eventually agreed to was $6.75 million, to be paid to me in 4 installments over the next 2 years.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I only got the first payment, which was about 12% of the total, before Scribe went under.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For a decade of effort building a company that did almost $100 million in topline sales in 9 years, I ended up with less than a million dollars in payment.</span>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I hope this is clear: I&#8217;m not looking for sympathy. I brought JeVon in, and I worked with him, this was the result and consequence.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why didn&#8217;t you and Zach sue JeVon?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Oh man, we talked about it. A lot.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We have a GREAT case, and we would&#8217;ve won. There are a lot more details I didn&#8217;t put in, and JeVon even admitted to both Zach and I at different times after this all came out&#8211;and on recorded calls&#8211;that he lied to us and defrauded us.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I can&#8217;t speak for Zach precisely, but here&#8217;s why I decided not to sue:&nbsp;</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I honestly didn&#8217;t think I would collect much of anything. JeVon is very good at hiding his assets. He constantly bragged to Zach and I about his money that he&#8217;d moved offshore (I do believe he *might* have moved some Scribe or Libra money offshore, but neither Zach nor I could not find any definitive proof of this).&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I didn&#8217;t want to be emotionally entwined with him anymore. I decided to forgive him and move on.</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It wasn&#8217;t worth the money or time. I&#8217;d rather pay the price, learn the lesson, and move on with my life. I can make more money elsewhere, and honestly, not even $20 million is worth years of my life trying to track him down and make him face justice.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Also, for me PERSONALLY, I felt like suing him would be, in a way, trying to blame him for everything. It&#8217;s easier for me to blame someone else than recognize how I betrayed myself, how I denied the signs, and how I kept going with what was not working because of my own issues.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">All this being said, I&#8217;m glad that Jawad Ahsan and John Kim sued him, and I hope they win and are able to collect from him.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What&#8217;s going to happen to JeVon?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I don&#8217;t know. The last time I talked to him was in 2023 as this was going down. He was calling me for sympathy and emotional support.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Literally as my old friends at Scribe were scrambling to pay their bills after the layoff, as authors I knew were asking me what was going on, he was asking me to be on his side.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I told him to not call me again until he had solved the problem that he put me (and them) in.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He hasn&#8217;t called since.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The story isn&#8217;t over though.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He still has two pending federal lawsuits against him for many millions of dollars.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He is not in the clear on criminal charges either. I don&#8217;t have any specific knowledge, but I am confident that, given the right circumstances, those could happen. He committed serious crimes that have prison time as the punishment.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What&#8217;s crazy is that I believe </span><b><i>JeVon could still turn this around and make things right.&nbsp;</i></b></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">JeVon is very religious and very serious about his relationship with God. He prays, goes to church, and being a &#8220;God guy&#8221; is a core part of his identity.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is no definition of &#8220;God guy&#8221; that can include his actions in 2022 and 2023. He is living a lie there as well. If he decided to take that seriously, he&#8217;d realize that the only way back to God begins with truth.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That means being totally honest about everything he did, taking FULL responsibility for his actions, making restitution, and sincerely asking forgiveness.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He would have to pay back Jawad Ahsan, John Kim, Zach, me, the Scribe Authors that paid for work they didn’t receive, and the Scribe employees who were left in a lurch by mass layoffs.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have not discussed this with any of them, but I believe that if he approached each person in sincerity, took full responsibility for what he did, apologized, and offered a fair amount to make them whole&#8211;I think almost everyone would accept it.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That being said, I can&#8217;t imagine what it would take for him to convince me he was being sincere and telling the truth after all of this&#8211;but who knows? </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s not too late and it&#8217;s not impossible. It&#8217;s just hard.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">By my calculations, making real restitution would be somewhere between $20 and $30 million in total.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">JeVon LOVED talking about the tens of millions he had in his trading account. Was he telling the truth? I don&#8217;t know.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But if he has that money, and wants his life back, he could start there. It&#8217;d be an amazing redemption story.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the worst parts of this is that I truly do not believe JeVon is just a horrible bad guy and did this out of malice. A lot of people think he&#8217;s a psychopath. I don&#8217;t. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I believe there&#8217;s plenty of good in him. He just didn&#8217;t let the good part win. He let the bad guy win this round.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The good guy in him could still come out on top, eventually. JeVon is such a fast learner, maybe he can learn this lesson, do his healing, truly repent, and make things right. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I hope it happens, even though I am not counting on it.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[A note here on forgiveness: I&#8217;ve forgiven JeVon, but that forgiveness is for me, not him. It&#8217;s so I can let go of my emotions around this and move on with my life. Forgiveness does not mean justification or validation. What he did to me and others was wrong, pure and simple. And even if he truly repented and made things right, I would be appreciative and accept it and wish him well, but he cannot come back in my life.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If he does the hard work in front of him, he deserves grace and acceptance, and he will get it from God, but not me.]&nbsp;</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What happened to you after Scribe? What are you doing now?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Financially, it was not fun to go from looking at flying private, to having to scramble to ensure we have enough to cover our monthly family spend. There was a month or two last year where things got tight, but we&#8217;re thankfully in a good enough position that we managed and are fine now.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As I said, I was in a financial position to be able to survive this.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And all the things that matter most, are still here and doing great.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Emotionally, it was far harder to deal with, and given that there are still places I&#8217;m not ready to write about means the healing is still on going to some extent.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Two really good things came out of this though:&nbsp;</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I get serious about writing my next memoir. I&#8217;m tentatively calling it </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Feelings I Didn&#8217;t Want To Feel</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. It will be about how I went from the guy that wrote </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> to who I am now; husband, father of 4, homesteader, etc. It&#8217;s a pretty intense story, and people ask me how I did this all the time. Even&nbsp;</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://tuckercarlson.com/the-tucker-carlson-encounter-tucker-max" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Tucker Carlson had me on his show</a>&nbsp;to talk about it.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></li>
<li aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I launched&nbsp;</span><a href="https://www.tellyourstory.academy/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><b>a memoir coaching company, Tell Your Story</b></a>. I have a very different and very compelling approach to writing a memoir. I started it with&nbsp;<span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://www.tellyourstory.academy/about" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Emily Gindlesparger</a>&nbsp;(the woman who helped me build the book coaching program at Scribe), and it&#8217;s going great. We&#8217;ve got amazing clients who are doing incredible work, and I am writing my memoir alongside them, showing them my rough drafts, etc. It&#8217;s the most fun I have had writing or teaching in a long time.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What happened to the authors that JeVon screwed over?&nbsp;</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Well, at first, they were totally screwed. They got nothing. Scribe Media almost ended in May 2023.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But the story&#8217;s not over!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There were hundreds of authors JeVon screwed over by hiding the truth until the very last minute. Hundreds of authors had paid tens of thousands of dollars for work. The sudden bankruptcy left them with nothing. No refund, no work, and no recourse. The money was gone.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But a few people on the Scribe team stayed at their desks. Think of the people who stay at their desks through a dumpster fire like that. They are the most dedicated to authors, to the mission, and to each other. <strong>Heroes in my opinion.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">They kept working through this chaos, not knowing if anyone would pay them for this work.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Authors needed files, needed guidance, or just needed someone to talk to (or scream at). This team carried the burden of someone else’s mistakes. But they kept moving.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">They started a new company and many of the authors who got screwed over by JeVon signed on with the new Scribe. The new Scribe – though they did not have to – offered to complete every affected author’s book at-cost.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Yes, they had to pay more and that sucks. But look at the reality of the situation: you can&#8217;t hold them responsible for the fraud of another person.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is no easy fix for a catastrophe like this. There isn’t even a true fix. There is no secret pot of gold to pull from to make people whole (well, not until JeVon&#8217;s &#8220;trustee&#8221; opens it). Everyone is worse off.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But getting a group of Scribe veterans to work at-cost to finish your book is the best solution in existence right now, given the constraints of the situation.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I think there are more than one hundred of those authors who have published or are in progress now with the new Scribe, and from what I hear and see, things are going well.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">JeVon created a shitty situation where there are no perfect solutions. Unless he comes out of his own pocket, no one will be truly made whole. But without this team picking up and carrying on, doing what they can, things would be a lot worse for a lot more people.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What&#8217;s going on with Scribe now?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the encouraging parts of this story is the rise of the new Scribe.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Enduring Ventures, Eric, and the rest of the team have been killing themselves to pick up the pieces and build a new version of Scribe.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I call it a &#8220;new Scribe,&#8221; because it is a whole new legal entity, with entirely new owners, and a new CEO.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But it&#8217;s a very unusual case, because it&#8217;s also got a bunch of old Scribe employees&#8211;some of the very best people we hired and trained and worked with&#8211;and all the old IP and all of my content and processes that Zach and I created.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Zach and I recently spent two days with the current Scribe team. I can&#8217;t say enough good stuff about the new CEO Eric Jorgenson, the new exec team (and of course my old peeps from Scribe). They seem great together and are very sharp and caring.&nbsp;<br></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Like me, Eric was an author before he started at Scribe. I can’t emphasize enough how rare this is. Most people who work in publishing don’t write books, or at least don’t write real, successful books that sell a lot of copies.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">My favorite part of what they doing is going back to the fundamentals of what made Scribe great:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They went back to authors having </span><b><i>one</i></b> <b><i>point of contact</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> (seems obvious, but Meghan set it up so Authors had multiple points of contact, which was a disaster).&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They changed back to a simple project management tool (they&#8217;d moved to a large, slow, and expensive headache).&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They went back to understanding each author&#8217;s needs individually and making the process fit the author, as opposed to forcing the author to fit the process.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They are back to a small, tight knit, and nimble team, getting rid of a layer of management that were not involved in making the author’s experience great or publishing books.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They have the financial controls and stability that JeVon so carefully avoided: A CFO, regular board meetings, and honest accounting.&nbsp;</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The&nbsp;</span><a href="https://scribemedia.com/scribe-team/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">team at the new Scribe</a><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;has gone back to what made Scribe great – putting the author&#8217;s experience and book quality front and center.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Some of my favorite people are back and doing the same great work they did while I was there: Mark Chait, our first full time employee. Ian Claudius who&#8217;s worked with me for over 15 years. Erica Hoffman, Ellie Cole, Andrew Lovell, Emily Sisto, Lezeth Alfaro, Rachael Brandenburg and Emily Ellis all worked at Scribe for years before Zach and I left, and were key members of what made Scribe great.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And of course, Rikki Jump is back doing sales. I hired her and she sat next to me for 6 months learning exactly what Scribe does, why it matters, how to understand what authors need and to always approach sales from a service mindset. I know her and trust her&#8211;she will always tell you the truth. If she&#8217;s working in sales, you can guarantee that things are going well and being run with high integrity.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I used to happily guarantee that Scribe would produce a great book, because I was there and I could make damn sure it happened.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m not there now, and I can&#8217;t guarantee anything, but I can say I am really impressed with them, and I happily refer people to them again.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s so great to see, because this is a company that must exist. It does so much good in the world. I spent 8 years there working with authors every day. We helped 2,000 people publish their books, each for their own reasons. Some people made millions of dollars, some saved lives. Some authors left a legacy, and some truly understood themselves for the first time. Those&nbsp;</span><a href="https://scribemedia.com/success-stories/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">author’s stories</a><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;are all here.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When we started Scribe, we changed the publishing industry. We put a credible stake in the ground with the </span><b><i>opposite</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> of what every traditional publisher does. They take control, we give freedom. They dangle an advance, we charge for our work. They take royalties, we take nothing.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Scribe needs to exist because authors need a way to publish high-quality books while controlling their own book, their own rights, and their own finances. We can’t have 10 people in New York deciding who get to publish books.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’m glad our original vision for Scribe lives on in this new company.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The &#8220;good guys&#8221; are back in charge at Scribe, and I’m optimistic about their future.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are a good fit to work with them, in my opinion, I believe you can do it safely knowing that they do a great job and ensure you are taken care of.</span></p>
<p>.<br>NOTE: Obviously I received no compensation from Scribe for this, of course, I just want to be clear about that. I own no part of that company, get no referral fee from them if you work with them, etc.&nbsp;</p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">EDIT ON 5/1/24:<br>This program launched, and is a ton of fun for me, so I made it permanent.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you think you&#8217;d like to join and write your memoir with us, then read this post or watch the video and <a href="https://calendly.com/tuckermax/tys?month=2024-05">set a call here</a>.&nbsp;<br><br>You can read more about <a href="https://www.tellyourstory.academy/">how we approach memoir here</a>.&nbsp;<br><br>ORIGINAL POST:&nbsp;<br>I’m launching the best in class memoir writing program, with a unique approach.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m also doing something no commercially successful memoirist has EVER done:</span></p>
<p><b><i>I’ll be writing my next memoir alongside those in the program, sharing my struggles, and sharing my rough drafts.</i></b></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you want to write a memoir, this might be the place for you.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h2><b>The most important questions: </b><b><i>Why do you want to write a memoir, and why now</i></b><b>?</b></h2>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m not going to convince you to write a memoir.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This program is expensive ($25k+) and challenging, the last thing I want to do is &#8220;sell&#8221; you on writing a memoir or being in the program.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This program is for people </span><b><i>who KNOW they want to write a memoir, but are waiting for the right time and the right mentor.</i></b></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">For those people, there are two big questions, </span><b>why now</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> and </span><b>why this program</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">?.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Let&#8217;s start with why now. How do you know you&#8217;re ready to write your memoir?</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here&#8217;s how you know it&#8217;s time:</span>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><b>You&#8217;re ready to tell YOURSELF THE TRUTH about your life (maybe for the first time).</b></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">NOT your mom’s truth.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">NOT your dad’s version of your story.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">NOT your X’s version.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">NOT your society&#8217;s truth.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you&#8217;re one of those people, this is it. This&nbsp; program will get you there.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why this program?</span></p>
<h2><b>The 4 Keys To The Tell Your Story Memoir Program</b></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are four unique ways we see memoir that make the TYS memoir program unique:&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li aria-level="1"><b>1. The goal of writing a memoir is to tell yourself the truth about your life.</b></li>
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<li aria-level="1"><b>2. Memoir is inherently a therapeutic process, and we treat it as such.</b></li>
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<li aria-level="1"><b>3. Separate the decision to write a memoir from the decision to publish it.</b></li>
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<li aria-level="1"><b>4. The Memoir Algorithm means you are never stuck.</b></li>
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<h4><b>1. The goal of writing a memoir is to tell yourself the truth about your life</b></h4>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I already talked about this, but its so important&#8211;and so ignored everywhere else&#8211;I want to emphasize this.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Many people resist writing their memoir because it can feel like its a vanity project, or they don&#8217;t think anyone else will care about their story. They can&#8217;t understand the point of writing a memoir because NO ONE ELSE TEACHES THE TRUE POINT OF IT, which is to tell yourself the truth about your life.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><b><i>In fact, if the main point is to tell yourself the truth, it doesn&#8217;t matter if anyone else reads your memoir.</i></b></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, you may not sell one copy, or even if you publish it all (which I talk about later).</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I only realized this when I started my publishing company, Scribe Media. People would come to me to write their memoir, and I would ask them why they want to do it, and the really sincere ones would say: &#8220;I want to tell my story, and I don&#8217;t even care what else happens after that.&#8221;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What I realized after dealing with hundreds of these people is that I was looking at a memoir from the perspective of a professional writer, but they were not.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They just wanted a private space to uncover, speak and consider the whole truth of their lives. To be fully honest with themselves in a way they couldn&#8217;t be anywhere else.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><b>I&#8217;m not saying you can&#8217;t have other goals for your memoir&#8211;and we&#8217;re going to talk about those in a second&#8211;my only point is that the PRIMARY goal of MEMOIR is to tell the truth, FIRST AND FOREMOST TO YOURSELF.&nbsp;</b></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">And in fact, ALL OTHER BENEFITS that can come from memoir, come from telling the truth.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Think about it: what&#8217;s the greatest memoir ever?&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Diary of Anne Frank.</span></i></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why&#8217;s it the best?&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">No one says, &#8220;Her sentences sparkled.&#8221; </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">They say &#8220;She told the truth about her life.&#8221;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">All she did was plainly speak about the truth of her life, how she felt about it, and what she learned, and that&#8211;along with the crazy historical context&#8211;has inspired millions for decades. And sold tens of millions of copies.</span></span></li>
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<h4><b>2. Memoir is inherently a therapeutic process, and we treat it as such.</b></h4>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Writing a memoir is not just a writing process, it&#8217;s also a therapeutic process.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If the point here is to tell yourself the truth about your life, then this is your space to be selfish. To tell your stories without fear of what others think. To not filter your story through the lens of how other people may feel about it or react to it&#8211;which is literally the point of therapy, is it not?</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I can promise you, this mastermind will at times feel more like therapy than writing. That&#8217;s OK, and it means you&#8217;re doing it right.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here&#8217;s the thing: </span><b>You cannot do that with just a writing teacher. It&#8217;s not enough to know the correct way to write.</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">You have to have someone who has walked this path themself.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve written 4 of my own memoirs, ghostwritten a dozen and coached hundreds more through this process.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve also done a ton of therapy and trauma work, and I have helped hundreds of people do this.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I understand both trauma and writing, so I can explain why you are procrastinating, I can help you see why you are so anxious and what to do about it, I can help you navigate the stuff that comes up when you finally admit to yourself that your mom didn&#8217;t love you. I&#8217;ve been there myself and I&#8217;ve helped other people through this before, I can do it with you.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">That&#8217;s why having both me, and other people going on the journey is so important and key to this program is: </span><b>this is a place you can be free to admit who you are, first to yourself, then a small group of people (if you want to).&nbsp;</b></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Just to be clear&#8211;I am not your therapist, and writing a memoir is not a </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">replacement</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> for therapy.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">But it is just a therapeutic process, like yoga or meditation or other things you can use to help yourself.</span></span></li>
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<h4><b>3. Separate the decision to write a memoir, from the decision to publish it.</b></h4>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I want to point something out: Notice how I said &#8220;tell yourself the truth&#8221; and not &#8220;tell the world your truth&#8221;?&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">That&#8217;s on purpose, and probably the most crucial part of this program: </span><b>You don&#8217;t have to publish your memoir to get the benefit of writing a memoir.</b></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, the decision isn’t to tell your story or not. The decision is whether you write it, whether you print it or whether you publish it.&nbsp;</span>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="3"><b>1. Write it only:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Many people can get most or even all of the benefit of a memoir without even publishing it. One woman once wrote it and never published it was super happy with the whole process.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="3"><b>2. Print a few copies and thats it</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">: We had one author print two copies &#8211; one for him and one for his dad. He loved every aspect of the process and worked great for him.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="3"><b>3. Publish to the world;</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> For some people, putting it out to the world is a very important part of their process, and that&#8217;s OK as well.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I used to tell people, “FUCK THE CONSEQUENCES AND PUBLISH.&#8221; That&#8217;s bullshit, and that was my issue. I have stopped doing that because its the wrong arpproach. That was me pushing my issues on others, but the fact is, all three paths are valid.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Once you decide to publish, or not, you can then edit it in a way appropriate to your desired result and goal.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">We say: </span><b><i>you write your memoir for yourself, but you edit for your reader.</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">And when you start to write, you don&#8217;t know who your reader will be. I teach that you write your memoir WITHOUT deciding whether or not you will publish it.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This frees you up to be totally open with yourself in the writing, whiel still feeling safe to know you can either never publish it, or change anything you want before you publish it.</span></span></li>
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<h4><b>4. The Memoir Algorithm ensures you never get stuck</b></h4>
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<li aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the hardest things with a memoir is knowing what to write.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have a simple process that makes it very easy to always know what to write, and it&#8217;s the exact algorithmic formula that I’ve used to write 4 NYT bestselling memoirs.&nbsp;</span>
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<li aria-level="2"><b><i>1. What happened?</i></b></li>
<li aria-level="2"><b><i>2. How did you feel about it?</i></b></li>
<li aria-level="2"><b><i>3. What did you learn (or what changed)?</i></b></li>
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<li aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">It really is that simple.</span></li>
<li aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are of course lots of other details, and I will teach them as you need them, but the point is: you will never be stuck because you know what happened, and you know what you felt and you know what you learned.</span></span></li>
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<h2><b>Why the other programs don&#8217;t deliver this</b></h2>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why don&#8217;t other memoir programs do this?&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">A few reasons:&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">1. Most memoir programs are taught by people who have either never written their memoir. Shocking, I know, but true.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">2. Even those who have written a memoir often just pass on cliche advice, or a few tips and tricks, and that&#8217;s it. They&#8217;ve never had to work hundreds of people through the process personally and actually stress test their ideas.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">3. They also tend to focus on what you have to do to put on the identity of a professional writer and traditionally publishing the book to literary acclaim. Or, they are totally focused on selling books. Commercial interest, catching reader attention, etc, etc. For them, memoir is a job, not a thing you do in order to help yourself.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">4. Or they focus on the writing process, and tell you how to get your sentences to sparkle, or things like that.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">5. They don&#8217;t understand trauma and healing and they haven&#8217;t done their work&#8211;so how can they help others or see what the process is?</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve never seen anyone so far&#8211;and I have read every book that exists on writing memoir&#8211;actually understands why people write memoirs, what job they do for the WRITER.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The reality is, they see non-professional writers as just people to charge money from. Whereas I never identified as a writer. To me, writing is a tool to get what I want from life, not an identity.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<h2><b>Why write your memoir with me?&nbsp;</b></h2>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I wrote 4 memoirs, 3 of them major NYT bestsellers that sold over 3 million copies.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">First memoir invented a new literary genre, and landed me on the <em>Time Magazine</em> Most Influential List in 2009, and led to a Hollywood movie made about my life.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">My entire first chapter of my career and most of my personal wealth came from me writing not ONE but FOUR of my own memoirs.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">But they were all my books. I wanted to see if I could help OTHERS tell their story.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;">A lot of people can write their story, but can’t write for others and can’t develop a repeatable process to write their memoir, and successfully used it with hundreds of paying clients. I’ve done all three; wrote my own, wrote others, and built a repeatable process and coached hundreds of others through it.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I built Scribe Media, helped 2000+ authors do their books, hundreds of them memoirs.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I ghostwrote Tiffany Haddish&#8217;s massive best seller, </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Last Black Unicorn</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I edited &amp; published David Goggins </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can&#8217;t Hurt Me</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">, a Top 5 bestselling memoir of all time.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I created and refined this process then, through personally working with the clients at Scribe.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Possibly the Biggest Reason to do it with me: I&#8217;m going on the journey with you.</b></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m in the process of writing my next memoir, and I will not only lead this mastermind, I will be a participant as well.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, a big reason I am doing this is for accountability for myself. I have been stuck with my memoir, and I want to get seriously moving, and having a dozen or so people paying me to show up and help them will ensure I plow through any excuses I have.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This means I will be sharing my stories as I finish them, and will make them available to mastermind members to read and give me feedback.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is optional of course, no one has to read my stuff or give me feedback.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The point is I will be there with you, not just as an expert and a coach, but as a player.</span></li>
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<h2><b>Details of the program</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span></h2>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Important note: You are joining a mastermind, NOT a workshop</span>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mastermind is a group of people who work together for a period of time to help each other.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">A workshop is simply a class you take, and nothing more. You&#8217;re going to get a workshop for me to teach the basics of how to do this, but that&#8217;s only the beginning.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">You&#8217;ll be in a small group of, all doing the same thing you are, and all led by me.</span></li>
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<p><b>Writing Support:</b></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Two day workshop with Tucker walking you through each step of memoir writing.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Complete video recording of all materials for review, accessible anytime after the workshop.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bi-weekly 2 hour deep dive group call.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Quarterly 1-on-1 call with Tucker.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Group chat with Tucker and other mastermind members.</span></li>
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<p><b>Editing Support</b></p>
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<li aria-level="1"><b><span style="font-weight: 400;">An early chapter review from Tucker, to ensure you are on the right track</span></b></li>
<li aria-level="1">When you finish your rough draft, a full &#8220;deep dive&#8221; edit from Tucker Max.<b> I usually charge $30k for just an edit.</b></li>
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<p><b>Publishing Support</b></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">A full publishing review with Tucker to help you decide how you want to publish.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you decide to publish your memoir (in any form), you&#8217;ll get full guidance on the two publishing paths: self publishing or traditional publishing.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you choose self publishing, Tucker will take you, step by step, through each phase. He will personally introduce you to freelancers for every step of the process: interior layout, cover design, Amazon uploading, etc.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you choose traditional publishing, Tucker will introduce you to book agents who might be interested in your memoir and advise you on every step as you move through the process.</span></li>
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<p><b>Price: $25k&nbsp;</b></p>
<p><b>(or $10k a month for 3 months)</b></p>
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<h2>Apply Here:</h2>
<h3><a href="https://calendly.com/tuckermax/tys">https://calendly.com/tuckermax/tys</a></h3>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2022 14:38:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>"What do you do when the most important people in your life don't see what you see or grow the way you are growing?"</p>
<p>That is one of the hardest questions I have faced in the past, and still face today. In this episode, I walk you through how I deal with this issue in my life.</p>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I got this email, and I wanted to answer it: </span></p><p>&#8220;Hi Tucker, I hope all is well with you and yours and your path to sovereignty is still on track. I’ve read your articles and listened to the podcasts you’ve put out on Doomer Optimism.</p><p>It was a rude awakening as i’m unprepared but I’m very grateful for what it allowed me to see. Fortunately, I’m not too far behind the 8 Ball as I’m in excellent shape, I’ve trained Judo, BJJ, and Muay Thai for years, and I’m currently an apprentice electrician.</p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s not myself I fear for, it’s the people I love that either can’t see or won’t accept the harsh reality of the future that, too me, now appears to be blatantly obvious. </span></p><p>A wise man once said that the meaning of life is the relationships you keep with the people you care about, but it seems unreasonable to assume that I can help everyone I love. It’s been my experience that you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.</p><p>These however are some very special “horses” (pardon the analogy) and I doubt whether I’d be able to look myself in the mirror if I haven’t exhausted every resource in my power to get them to drink.&#8221;</p><p>So I get this point, I really do. Let me try to explain my perspective on this, and what I have had to do in my life: </p><p> </p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After you&#8217;ve woken up and &#8220;seen the matrix,&#8221; how do you wake up friends and family?</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have bad news:</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You can&#8217;t wake anyone up.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Either they&#8217;re willing to see it or they&#8217;re not.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Furthermore, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s a wise strategy to push someone to wake up.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">First off, you can&#8217;t wake anyone up. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You&#8217;ll never force a change on someone who isn&#8217;t willing.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Either they decide to change, or they don&#8217;t. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You may help or influence or assist people on a journey they decide to take, but you cannot make the decision for anyone, and cannot change anyone who isn&#8217;t willing.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s just not possible to do.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">People think convincing others is about showing them the evidence.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Nope. </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why?</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mainly because most people evaluate information through the lens of identity&#8211;NOT truth.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If someone&#8217;s identity is tied to a belief, most people will literally ignore clear direct evidence that their beliefs are inaccurate in order to keep their identity.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Identity is paramount.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Think of a friend who defines as a Rep/Dem.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How often do you see them reject clear and obvious evidence&#8230;because it hurts the Rep/Dem image?</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is how most people are about EVERYTHING they believe.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Plainly put, they choose Tribe Over Truth.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve stopped trying to convince anyone to see truth or change.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Instead, I talk about what I see, what I believe because of what I see, and what I&#8217;m doing as a result.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m an example, not an assertion.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Those who agree, come along. </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Those who do not, don&#8217;t.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That&#8217;s all anyone can do.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Second, change is the INEVITABLE result of waking up. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Once you wake up and start changing your life, I totally get why you want to get others to come with you! </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I did too! </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here&#8217;s the thing about growth: </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You&#8217;re going to have to leave some people behind as you grow.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s inevitable. People don&#8217;t grow at the same rate, and in fact, some people don&#8217;t grow or change at all. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That is a HARD truth to face.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">At least 3 times in my life I&#8217;ve had a major change cycle, and I had to let go of my best friends. That sucked. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But there was a new group of people waiting for me at the new stage. Different people, far better aligned to who I was at that time.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I REALLY wanted my old friends to come with me! I put pressure on them, I tried to change them.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Didn&#8217;t work. Never works.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And honestly, that is more reflective of an issue with me, not them.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I am trying to get people to do what I am doing&#8211;instead of focusing on my change&#8211;it means I&#8217;m insecure about my change and want to focus on others to distract myself.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve also done another common thing: I will stay in an old relationship, one that I&#8217;ve grown out of. I tell myself this is because I want to preserve the relationship&#8230;but the honest truth is that I fear change and am using the relationship as a crutch to stay the same. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve done this SO MANY TIMES.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, I can see this clearly in my own life:</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>EVERY TIME I&#8217;VE BLAMED ANOTHER FOR MY LACK OF GROWTH, IT WAS A WAY TO AVOID TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY OWN DECISIONS.</strong> </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the core lessons I&#8217;ve learned over the past few years is that the only thing I can do is my own work.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Focusing on others, arguing about what &#8220;we&#8221; should do, yelling about what I want to see happen&#8211;that&#8217;s at best bullshit, at worst a distraction from the only thing that matters.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I can do my work, or not, and that is it.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Everyone else life is up to them, not me.</span></p>								</div>
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		<title>My Entire Self-Defense System</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 15:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Tucker describes everything he's done to develop his self-defense system, including who he learns from, what skill he practices and how, and how to figure out your own self-defense system. </p>
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									<div>Pre-2020, I didn’t worry about self or home defense. I was an American living in America, so I could be sloppy and lazy and stupid, and I was still safe.</div><div> </div><div>That’s all over.</div><div> </div><div>I don’t believe America is the safe place that it was, and I believe it’s going to get far worse (at least for a while).</div><div> </div><div>As a result, I&#8217;ve become very serious about all aspects of self-defense, and have developed a self-defense system for myself.</div><div><br />Over the last 2+ years <b><i>I’ve spent at least $100k in guns, ammo, gear, training and other costs associated with increasing my defensive readiness</i></b>.</div><div> </div><div>I didn’t want to spend that much money–it took me that much money (and time) to figure out what was bullshit and what wasn’t and find the good people to learn from, and quite frankly, I made a LOT of mistakes along the way. </div><div> </div><div>I will walk you through the evolution of my thinking on self-defense, what I tried that worked and didn’t, and what my self-defense system is, plus I’ll link you to every effective resource I know of so you can develop your own system. </div><div> </div><div>Ideally, this post should save you thousands of dollars and months or years of wasted effort and time–not to mention, it may even help you protect yourself or your family. </div><div> </div><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[BTW–If you think America is safe and I’m being paranoid, cool, good for you. Ignore this post, it won’t be useful for those of you whose strategy is to ignore reality and just hope for the best.]</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ll detail my experience with self-defense, so you can understand where I started (if you don’t care and just want the info, skip right to the next section, Step 1).</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I grew up around guns. My uncle and grandmother shot all the time on their farm, and guns were normal to me. I had a .22 in high school, dicked around with it, but never shot anything with it beyond tin cans. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I started MMA and Muay Thai pretty seriously in 2007 and have trained in it off and on since. I started BJJ in 2011, and aside from a 5 year break, have trained in it since. I currently train at Gracie Humiata in Austin, where I am a brown belt under Paulo Brandao (a former world champ and 6th degree black belt under Royler Gracie). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In January of 2020, I owned one pistol, one shotgun, and one hunting rifle, and did not carry a gun with me anywhere. I would hunt maybe once every few years, and just for fun. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I never had a fancy assault rifle, or any high speed military gear. Don’t get me wrong, I thought that stuff was cool, but I didn’t think I needed it. To have something like that, and not be in the military or be a serious hunter felt very fake and LARPY to me in 2019. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Then came the summer of 2020, and the BLM and Antifa riots, and well, I realized that I needed to gear up and train up and be ready.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I went about my preparation very wrong from the start. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">First off, it is VERY hard to find reliable knowledge about what I needed to get. Gun people are fucking impossible to get straight answers from, they all see things from the perspective of an expert and they think about things that made no sense to me. Doing my own research was so frustrating and confusing. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I know a lot of military guys, and I talked to them, and most of them are very knowledgeable–but very few were actually helpful. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The main reason is because I’m a beginner, I don’t even know what I don’t know, and they were giving me advice they’d give to some other military guy who knew the basics. I did not. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What ended up happening is that I bought all kinds of horrible and stupid shit, because I had no idea what to do. I also wasted a TON of time going down training rabbit holes that took me in the wrong direction. Honestly, it was very frustrating and annoying.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So, how to get your self-defense system up and running, and do it right?</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Probably the single most important person I have met in the self-defense space is Clay Martin. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">His two books (</span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Concrete-Jungle-Green-Berets-Survival/dp/B095DKWDVQ/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2CRVQ7LY1B3T6&amp;keywords=clay+martin&amp;qid=1661525157&amp;sprefix=clay+mart%2Caps%2C219&amp;sr=8-2"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Concrete Jungle</span></i></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> and </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Prairie-Fire-Guidebook-Surviving-Civil/dp/B08YNVBR8J/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2CRVQ7LY1B3T6&amp;keywords=clay+martin&amp;qid=1661525157&amp;sprefix=clay+mart%2Caps%2C219&amp;sr=8-1"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Prairie Fire</span></i></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">) are basically my bibles. I found him, reached out to him and ten minutes into talking to I knew&#8211;this was my primary guy. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I hired him as a consultant to go through my entire defensive system with me:</span></p><ol><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What gear to buy and not buy</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to set up my gear and train with it</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Where I should live</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to ensure I can get back there from wherever I am</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Building the community around me</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Setting up the defense at my ranch</span></li></ol><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I can’t even begin to tell you how much he has taught me and helped. You can get a huge amount of this value in this three hour interview where I do </span><a href="https://tuckermax.com/how-to-defend-your-family-during-civil-unrest-with-clay-martin/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">a deep dive on where to start with gear with Clay Martin here</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">  </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I highly recommend starting with that interview. Clay begins with you where you are right now, and walks you through each step from there.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When I decided to get serious about self-defense, obviously I thought about carrying a concealed weapon&#8211;specifically a gun.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But everything I was learning about carrying a concealed weapon was confusing to me at first. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do I pick a holster, what knife and why, what else do I need to carry, etc? </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Well, little did I know that a guy I was already training BJJ with was one of the best concealed carry experts in the world: Jeff Gonzales. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Jeff Gonzales helped build the &#8220;low-vis&#8221; program for the Navy Seals (when he was one), and now trains civilians on all aspects of carrying concealed weapons. </span></p><p><a href="https://tuckermax.com/podcast-7-guest-speaker/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">So I sat down with him and went deep into this world to get all my questions answered</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. He gives great advice on things like: </span></p><ul><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What guns are best used for concealment, specifically which caliber of pistol.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What holsters are best for concealment.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What kind of knives he prefers, and why.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What kind of belts to use to hold up your holster and guns.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why the magazine capacity determines what gun you carry, and what capacity is optimal.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to think about concealment.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How much you need to worry about actually hiding your gun and knives.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lots of other things about concealment.</span></li></ul>								</div>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;">The term “EDC” is something you will hear a lot once you start learning serious self-defense. It stands for “Every Day Carry” and is meant to designate the tools you have on you, all day every day.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A lot of people ask me about mine, so here is a basic rundown of EDC:</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What does EDC stand for?</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Every Day Carry. Your EDC is the gear you have on you, every single day.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Everyone has an EDC system, the only question is what’s in it.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is the thing about EDC: we all have one. The only question is if you will have the tools necessary to defend yourself or not?</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why does EDC matter?</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This matters because in any self-defense situation, the only gear that matters is the gear you can use. If you ain’t carrying it, it doesn’t exist.</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What if I’m wrong?</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will consider it a massive victory if I carry for 40 years and never have to use any of this. Nothing would make me happier than never having to shoot or stab someone. I consider my EDC gear as insurance. I don’t want to make a claim, but I need to have it just in case I don’t have a choice.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Timeline of why I carry weapons in my EDC</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Before the summer of 2020, I had never once carried a gun on me, and I sometimes carried a folding knife. No reason to carry a gun. Once the 2020 riots and chaos started, I got guns and serious about training. Took me awhile, but I started carrying consistently with a Fanny pack and folding blade in my EDC. Here is a video of how I used to carry.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Then took Bill Rapiers Force on Force course, and I got my ass handed to me and realized my EDC was totally fucking broke. I totally revamped it, based on using it in near realistic force-on-force training, and have tweaked it to get to my current regiment.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What tools are in my EDC?</span>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Gun: Sig 320 XCarry</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">SS Knife: Amtac Blades Magnus</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">OS Knife: Headhunter Blades Rat</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Non-lethal: POM OC spray</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Belt: KORE</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Holster: Blackpoint Mini-Wing</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Phone</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wallet</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Truck key&nbsp;</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To see how my EDC changed, here is my original EDC. Fanny pack, two mags, folding knife (the picture is missing my phone, keys, and wallet):&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> <img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-4733 size-large" src="https://tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/originalEDC-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="1024" height="768" srcset="https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/originalEDC-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/originalEDC-300x225.jpg 300w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/originalEDC-768x576.jpg 768w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/originalEDC-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/originalEDC-2048x1536.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span>This is my current EDC, as of Sept 1, 2022:</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter wp-image-4734 size-large" src="https://tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/currentEDC-790x1024.jpg" alt="" width="790" height="1024" srcset="https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/currentEDC-790x1024.jpg 790w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/currentEDC-232x300.jpg 232w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/currentEDC-768x995.jpg 768w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/currentEDC-1185x1536.jpg 1185w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/currentEDC-1581x2048.jpg 1581w, https://www.tuckermax.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/currentEDC-scaled.jpg 1976w" sizes="(max-width: 790px) 100vw, 790px" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Note, I also have a full IFAK, multi-tool, flashlight (and a few other things) in my truck at all times, and around my house &amp; workshop. I don’t carry that stuff on me, but always have it very close if needed.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why I carry concealed vs open</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I can do either because I live in Texas, but I think carrying open is asking for trouble in a way that carrying concealed does not.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why I carry in a holster and not a fanny pack</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Because carrying in a fanny pack is twice as slow on a draw. I learned this the hard way at Bill Rapiers Force on Force class. Using airsoft guns, I went up against guys carrying concealed on their hip with a holster, and I got my ass handed to me. Plus, watching any video of people actually using guns to defend themselves, it became very clear that carrying in a fanny pack was not going to cut it. So I stopped.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why I carry at 3 oclock vs appendix</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is a personal choice, its fine to carry either way. To me, a 3 oclock carry is far more comfortable and I think gives me far more draw and concealment options.</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why I carry a compact and not a subcompact or micro</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I like the feel of shooting a compact. The subcompacts don’t fit my hand well.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why I carry loaded and chambered</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Its the only way to do it. I was so hesitant to really carry loaded and chambered for a long time. Then I saw the videos of how so many self-defense situations go down, and realized I was fooling myself if I thought I could chamber a round and fire in many of those situations.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why I carry 2 knives</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I use the Sayoc system, which is a two knife system.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why I carry only fixed blade</span></li>
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<p>Folding knives are much slower and less reliable to deploy. Test them in pressurized situations and you will see quickly that folding blades don’t work.&nbsp;</p>
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<li aria-level="1">Why I carry a non-lethal</li>
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<p>I go back and forth on this. Sometimes I think OC spray is a good carry, sometimes I don&#8217;t. The people who know EDC are also not aligned on this, and fall all over the map with it. As of the day I took that pic, I was carrying one.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Having an EDC is great, but I will tell you this:&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><b><i>Your training with your tools is far more important that the tools you pick.</i></b></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The next two sections will help you get the mindset for training and figure out where to start training. </span></p>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Having gear is great, but before you even start training, you need to ask yourself a question: </span></p><p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why are you training at all? </span></em></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The honest truth is I never really paid much attention to violence. I thought I was safe. I thought I didn’t need to worry about that stuff. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It might have been true, pre-2020. It’s not true anymore. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Once I realized I had to get very serious about self-defense, that means truly understanding violence. And there is no one who knows violence better than Tim Larkin.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tim Larkin has been a friend of mine for years, and I always loved hanging out with him because he’s a great and real dude. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But it wasn’t until recently I really got him to sit down and explain violence to me, not just as an interesting thing to know, but as a concept I needed to understand to survive. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="https://tuckermax.com/how-to-defend-yourself-against-violence-with-tim-larkin/">In this interview, Tim helps you understand some really important concepts</a>: </span></p><ul><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Understanding why you train, and why the answer to that question is so important. </span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How violence is different than fighting.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why the distinction between violence and fighting is VERY important to learning self-defense.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What violence is, really, and why its important for everyone to understand.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What is the first question to ask yourself once you get serious about self-defense, and why its so important.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What it means to think violently, as opposed to normally.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">When to start thinking in terms of violence.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What it actually feels like to inflict violence on another person, and why you need to train this.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">What most people get wrong when they begin training for self defense.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The many different roles of fear in learning and applying violence.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The most important concept you must know and consider when you commit to training to use violence (I struggled with this MIGHTILY).</span></li></ul><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are interested in learning more from Tim, I highly recommend his </span><a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/TimlarkinSelfProtection/videos?app=desktop"><span style="font-weight: 400;">YouTube channel</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, or his book, </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/When-Violence-Is-Answer-audiobook/dp/B074N919NV"><span style="font-weight: 400;">When Violence Is The Answer</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. It has like 1700 reviews on Amazon, its amazing. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He also runs classes on his system all around the country, which are great.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Why would you pay good money for a carbine instructor who has never engaged another human with a carbine? We’re dealing with life and death here.”</span></i></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">-Kyle Defoor, former Seal Team 6</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The man has a point. I learn BJJ from a literal world champion who can still beat the tar of anyone that walks in his gym (including some current world champions). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, almost everyone I learn from is demonstrably good at what they do–they have proven themselves in their field. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do I tell who’s who in fields I don’t know? I ask my friends who’ve served multiple tours in Special Forces units, as they tend to know who is legit and who is not.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do you tell, if you don’t have friends like that? The thing that all the ones I recommend have in common: </span></p><ol><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They are run by men who first spent decades learning and then practicing their craft in real life or death situations, usually (but not always) while in the employ of Special Operations in the US military. The primary being Green Berets, Navy Seals, Delta Force, MARSOC (Marine Special Forces), etc.</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">They also have LONG and established histories of doing a great job helping CIVILIANS learn techniques. It&#8217;s not enough to be a badass killer if you can’t teach the right techniques to regular people. </span></li></ol><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ll walk you through how I pick instructors, and make a few recommendations:</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For unarmed hand to hand fighting, the best place to start is honestly some combination of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsiu, Muay Thai, or MMA. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Yes, I know those are “sports” but the differences between the sport versions and true life or death fighting are very slim. The fundamentals are the same. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The hard part here is picking a school. It can be very confusing, as there are almost no brand names and ways for outsiders to judge. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Generally speaking, what you are looking for here is someone who has competed at a very high level, or someone who has trained for a long time under someone who has competed at a high level. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here is a very SMALL list of BJJ schools/groups that are almost all very good. There are many other schools that are top notch, its impossible to list them all: </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Gracie Humiata (I train at the Austin location of this org)</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Gracie Barra</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Machado (any of them)</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Atos</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Checkmat</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Alliance</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">10th Planet</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Top Team</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Those are just a few of the great schools, there are so many, its impossible to name them all.</span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Note that there are also some disciplines to avoid: </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Krav Maga</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Akido</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Hapkio</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tae Kwon Do</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Karate </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Kung Fu</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One answer: Find a local Sayoc Kali instructor and train with them. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I am not a knife-fighting expert, but I know several, and pretty much all of them tell me the same thing: there is no one better in the world at training knife-fighting than the extended family of Sayoc Kali. They are the people who literally train Seal Team 6, and Delta Force, on knife fighting. They’re the best at it, period. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I train with Jake Patterson at </span><a href="https://www.pamatx.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Patterson Martial Arts</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. He’s a Full Instructor in the Sayoc system (equivalent of a black belt). Highly recommend him.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Go to the </span><a href="https://sayoc.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sayoc website</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> and email them, they can tell you who is in your area. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will say this: if you are short on time, you can focus on BJJ and gun training, and leave knife training off. Knife training is no fucking joke. I truly had no idea how intense it was. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Also note, Sayoc as a self-defense system is NOT just knife fighting, but thats the main part I train in.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I am not the best person to ask about this, since I literally live near some of the best trainers in America (see below), and I just train with them. </span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are not like me, and do not live near total badasses who will train you, then go read Clay Martins book, </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Concrete-Jungle-Green-Berets-Survival/dp/B095DKWDVQ/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Concrete Jungle</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He walks you through the EXACT steps to find a really solid local person to teach you and train with.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A “self-defense masterclass” is what I call an in person training that teaches a specific skill you can add to your self-defense arsenal, but is not on-going training. Basically, a class you can go to, that are usually taught by the best people in the world to train with. </span></p><h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Schools I Can Personally Vouch For:</span></h4><p><a href="https://sheepdogresponse.com/"><b>Sheepdog Response</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">: This is Tim Kennedy’s school, and I&#8217;ve taken the Protector 1 &amp; 2 classes, the Vehicle Defender class, the Carbine class (2x), and the CQB class (Singleton Security) from them. I really like Tim and the Sheepdog instructors, and this is where I learned most of my fundamentals in shooting.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are new to this world and looking for a place to start, </span><b><i>this is the place</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I think for most beginners Sheepdog is one of the very best places you can begin training. Sheepdog tends to be oriented to the beginner civilian market, and they excel at that. They are not just experts in their field, they are VERY good at helping beginners get past their fear and their reluctance and learn the most important basics of self-defense. </span></p><p><b><i>Sheepdog is also one of the best places in the country at training women</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8211;especially women who have no self-defense experience. They have several female only courses and have female instructors that are very good at helping women get comfortable with all aspects of self-defense. My wife has gone to their classes and loved them.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">NOTE: I&#8217;m obviously biased, as I roll BJJ with Tim and several of the instructors and we are friends (but if they were idiot losers, I wouldn’t be friends with them; a huge part of why we’re friends is because they taught me useful skills).</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will say this: if you have a good amount of training and are looking to really level your skills up, Sheepdog can still be good, but there are also other options that will serve you better.</span></p><p><a href="https://www.amtacshooting.com/"><b>AMTAC Shooting</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">: AMTAC is run by Bill Rapier, who spent 14 years in Seal Team 6. He’s an incredibly skilled practitioner, and his classes are very good. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">AMTAC is nearly the opposite of Sheepdog–if you&#8217;re a true beginner, I would not go to an AMTAC class. Bill’s classes assume a basic level of proficiency and experience with firearms and training, and without that, you won&#8217;t get the most out of his training. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Once you have some solid fundamentals, I HIGHLY recommend taking at least one AMTAC class. Bill will teach you amazing things. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ve taken his Force-on-Force Course, and it fundamentally changed my entire orientation to self-defense (for the better). It was this class that essentially broke my old self-defense system, and forced me to get very serious about doing it right. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I plan to take several more classes from Bill in the future.</span></p><p><a href="https://www.tridentconcepts.com/"><b>Trident Concepts</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">: This is run by Jeff Gonzales, a former Navy SEAL. I know Jeff personally (we train BJJ together), and he has trained me in scenario specific situations (which was amazing). Jeff teaches classes all over the country, including teaching at Sig Sauer Academy (which is a big badge of honor in that world, Sig Sauer Academy can get most anyone they want to teach at their place). I highly recommend Jeff for almost any sort of training, but he excels in training concealed carry, and he is one of my primary sources for knowledge and training in that area.</span></p><p><a href="https://claymartindefense.com/"><b>Clay Martin Defense</b></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">: Clay does not have a school and does not run public classes (as of yet), but he does private 1-on-1 or small group classes, and has done both with me. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Clay is probably the very best shooting instructor I’ve ever learned from. I improved my shooting exponentially with Clay. This is not an insult to the other places–I learned an immense amount from them and am taking more classes from each in the future–it&#8217;s just a massive complement to Clay.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Clay&#8217;s style of instruction not only fits me well, he is incredibly good at understanding the people he is teaching, and adapting his info and style to them. Additionally, he holds small classes, so he can focus intently on each person and correct issues in real time. In two hours with Clay, I more than halved the size of my pistol groups, even under pressurized, high stress shooting. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Clay also excels at training women and children. He trained my son on long range shooting with a .22, and it was probably my son&#8217;s favorite thing he&#8217;s done in his life. </span></p><h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Have Not Been, But Actively Trying To Go:</span></h4><p><b>Viking Tactics (VTAC)</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">: Kyle Lamb and his crew are the OGs of this world. If you are lucky enough to get the chance to work with them, DO IT. And please invite me, I will pay and come anywhere to get the chance to learn from them.</span></p><p><b>Defoor Performance Shooting</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">: Kyle Defoor has built an amazing reputation in this space over the last decade. His reputation is so good that when he puts a new course up, </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">they sell out in 15 minutes</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">. That’s insane. I’ve not been to his classes, but am signed up for two in 2023. </span></p><p><b>Fieldcraft Survival</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">: Mike has one of the best reputations in all of the Special Forces community. Both as a person, and as a trainer, I have never heard anyone have anything less than glowing praise for him. I plan to take at least one of his courses in Texas this year. </span></p><h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Heard Good Things</span></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Every name below this list are recommendations made to me by one of the people I have trained with: Tim Larkin, Clay Martin, Tim Kennedy, Jeff Gonzales, etc. I can’t vouch for them </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">personally</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">, but they come recommended by high level people I trust. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">NOTE: Many of these are groups who tend to focus on and specialize in government and private security training. Some of these do not have many courses available to a regular civilians, so if you can’t get in them, thats why:</span></p><p><a href="https://t1g.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://t1g.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://northernredtraining.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://northernredtraining.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.gunsite.com/welcome/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://www.gunsite.com</span></a></p><p><a href="https://kmprecisionrifletraining.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://kmprecisionrifletraining.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.sagedynamics.org/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://www.sagedynamics.org/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.sigsaueracademy.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://www.sigsaueracademy.com/</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><p><a href="https://rogersshootingschool.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://rogersshootingschool.com/</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><p><a href="https://thunderranchinc.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://thunderranchinc.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.frontsight.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://www.frontsight.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://trainkagwerks.com/course-schedule/texas-september-pistol-carbine-level-2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://trainkagwerks.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://shivworks.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://shivworks.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.gryphonsecurity.com/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://www.gryphonsecurity.com/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://guerrillaapproach.com/courses/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">https://guerrillaapproach.com/</span></a></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">IMPORTANT NOTE: The list above is NOT comprehensive, and I’m sure there are a LOT of great schools and teachers I don&#8217;t have on that list (I’m new to this field after all, and don&#8217;t know all the best people yet, not even close). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you know of a great school I should add to this list, hit me up and I’ll add them (and maybe go train with them).</span></p><h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Trainer/Schools to Avoid</span></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are also some tactical schools that don’t do a good job, and I avoid them. I can think of two specific ones off the top of my head. Understand that there are a LOT of clowns in this space pretending to be tough guys, but who really have no business training others.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The biggest RED FLAG to avoid: if their background is primarily Israeli Defense Force (IDF), or Krav Maga, or any Israeli associated defense systems, </span><b><i>I would not train with them at all</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m sure that statement will upset a lot of people, but literally every single person I know who is skilled in any aspect of self-defense is unanimous on this. You can pick a name above and reach out and ask them what they think of IDF trained fighters. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Clay Martin even told me that in the high level defense community, calling something “Israeli style” is the ‘cool guy’ way to say it sucks. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[And yes, for a short period I carried my gun loaded but not chambered, which is literally Israeli style, and that was stupid of me&#8211;I realized quickly my mistake and started carrying the right way.]</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is a LOT in this post, and if you are a beginner, I know it will seem overwhelming. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The good thing is that you don’t have to do this all at once. I started my journey in the summer of 2020, and in two years have made immense progress. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You can too. It simply requires the decision to do it and some effort to get it done.</span></p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2022 15:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Tim Larkin is one of the most influential trainers in self-defense, and in this episode, he walks Tucker through how to think about violence and defense. </p>
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									<p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">The honest truth is I never really paid much attention to violence. I thought I was safe. I thought I didn&#8217;t need to worry about that stuff.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">It might have been true, pre-2020. It&#8217;s not true anymore.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">Once I realized I had to get very serious about self-defense, that means truly understanding violence.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">And there is no one who knows violence better than Tim Larkin.</span></p><p>Tim Larkin has been a friend of mine for years, and I always loved hanging out with him because he&#8217;s a great and real dude.&nbsp;<br></p>
<p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">But it wasn&#8217;t until recently I really got him to sit down and explain violence to me, not just as an interesting thing to know, but as a concept I needed to understand to survive.&nbsp;</span></p>
<div><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">In this interview, Tim helps us understand some really important concepts:&nbsp;</span></div>
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<li>Understanding why you train, and why the answer to that question is so important.&nbsp;</li>
<li>How violence is different than fighting.</li>
<li>Why the distinction between violence and fighting is VERY important to learning self-defense.</li>
<li>What violence is, really, and why its important for everyone to understand.</li>
<li>What is the first question to ask yourself once you get serious about self-defense, and why its so important.</li>
<li>What is means to think violently, as opposed to normally.</li>
<li>When to start thinking in terms of violence.</li>
<li>What it actually feels like to inflict violence on another person, and why you need to train this.</li>
<li>What most people get wrong when they begin training for self defense.</li>
<li>The many different roles of fear in learning and applying violence.</li>
<li>The most important concept you must know and consider when you commit to training to use violence (I struggled with this MIGHTILY).</li>
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<p>If you are interested in learning more from Tim, I highly recommend his <a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/TimlarkinSelfProtection/videos?app=desktop">YouTube channel</a>, or his book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/When-Violence-Is-Answer-audiobook/dp/B074N919NV">When Violence Is The Answer</a>. It has like 1700 reviews on Amazon, its amazing.&nbsp;</p>
<p>He also runs classes on his system all around the country, which are great.&nbsp;</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2022 15:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Tucker sits down with Jeff Gonzales to discuss all things related to carrying a concealed handgun. Jeff, a former Navy Seal and long-time firearms instructor, walks Tucker through everything he has to think about; which gun to use, what holster to use, what else to carry besides a gun, and much more. </p>
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									<p>When I decided to get serious about self-defense, obviously I thought about carrying a concealed weapon&#8211;specifically a gun. </p><p>But everything I was learning about carrying a concealed weapon was confusing to me at first. </p><p>How do I pick a holster, what knife and why, what else do I need to carry, etc? </p><p>Well, little did I know that a guy I was already training BJJ with was one of the best concealed carry experts in the world: Jeff Gonzales. </p><p>Jeff Gonzales helped build the &#8220;low-vis&#8221; program for the Navy Seals (when he was one), and now trains civilians on all aspects of carrying concealed weapons. </p><p>So I sat down with him and went deep into this world to get all my questions answered. He gives great advice on things like: </p><ul><li>What guns are best used for concealment, specifically which caliber of pistol.</li><li>What holsters are best for concealment.</li><li>What kind of knives he prefers, and why.</li><li>What kind of belts to use to hold up your holster and guns.</li><li><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">Why the magazine capacity determines what gun you carry, and what capacity is optimal.</span></li><li>How to think about concealment.</li><li>How much you need to worry about actually hiding your gun and knives.</li><li>Lots of other things about concealment.</li></ul><p>You can <a href="https://www.tridentconcepts.com/evolved-training/about-jeff-gonzales/">learn more about Jeff Gonzales here</a>, and if you get the chance to train with him, I would highly recommend it.</p>								</div>
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		<p>The post <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/podcast-7-guest-speaker/">How to Carry a Concealed Weapon (with Jeff Gonzales)</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com">Tucker Max</a>.</p>
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		<title>How to Defend Your Family During Civil Unrest with Clay Martin (Part 1 &#038; 2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2022 15:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>In this two-part episode, Tucker goes to one of his primary self-defense gurus, Clay Martin, to help him walk through the exact and actionable steps to take once you have committed to becoming serious at self-defense. </p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/how-to-defend-your-family-during-civil-unrest-with-clay-martin/">How to Defend Your Family During Civil Unrest with Clay Martin (Part 1 &#038; 2)</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com">Tucker Max</a>.</p>
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									<p>Probably the single most important person I have met in the self-defense space is Clay Martin.</p><p>His two books (<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Concrete-Jungle-Green-Berets-Survival/dp/B095DKWDVQ/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2CRVQ7LY1B3T6&amp;keywords=clay+martin&amp;qid=1661525157&amp;sprefix=clay+mart%2Caps%2C219&amp;sr=8-2"><i>Concrete Jungle</i></a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Prairie-Fire-Guidebook-Surviving-Civil/dp/B08YNVBR8J/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2CRVQ7LY1B3T6&amp;keywords=clay+martin&amp;qid=1661525157&amp;sprefix=clay+mart%2Caps%2C219&amp;sr=8-1"><i>Prairie Fire</i></a>) are basically my bibles. I found him, reached out to him and ten minutes into talking to I knew&#8211;this was my primary guy. </p><p>I hired him as a consultant to go through my entire defensive strategy with me:</p><ol><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">What gear to buy and not buy</li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">How to set up my gear and train with it</li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Where I should live</li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">How to ensure I can get back there from wherever I am</li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Building the community around me</li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1">Setting up the defense at my ranch.</li></ol><p>I can’t even begin to tell you how much he has taught me and helped. In this two part interview, he will help you understand:</p><ul><li><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">What self-defense gear you need. </span></li><li>Why buying a gun is NOT the first, or even the second thing to do.</li><li>What the first thing you should do, today, to start your self-defense journey.</li><li>Whats the second thing you should do. </li><li>What gun you should buy.</li><li><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;">The most important thing to do BEFORE you buy your first gun.</span></li><li>When you should buy a rifle.</li><li>What brands of gun to buy&#8211;and not buy.</li><li>Why military people don&#8217;t always do the best job teaching civilians the basics of usable self-defense.</li><li>Why the first step of gun safety is not using learning to use a gun, but something else.</li><li>Why Airsoft guns should be part of your plan.</li><li>What ammo to buy&#8211;and not buy.</li><li>What holster to buy&#8211;and not buy.</li><li>What you must have with your rifle, and what is optional.</li></ul>								</div>
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									<p>Clay and I continue our conversation.</p><p>To learn more about Clay, <a href="https://claymartindefense.com/">go to his site, <b>Clay Martin Defense</b></a>.</p><p>Also, Clays two non-fiction books are hugely influential on me: </p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Concrete-Jungle-Green-Berets-Survival/dp/B095DKWDVQ/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2CRVQ7LY1B3T6&amp;keywords=clay+martin&amp;qid=1661525157&amp;sprefix=clay+mart%2Caps%2C219&amp;sr=8-2"><b>Concrete Jungle: A Green Berets Guide to Urban Survival</b></a></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Prairie-Fire-Guidebook-Surviving-Civil/dp/B08YNVBR8J/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2CRVQ7LY1B3T6&amp;keywords=clay+martin&amp;qid=1661525157&amp;sprefix=clay+mart%2Caps%2C219&amp;sr=8-1"><b>Prarie Fire: Guidebook for Surviving Civil War 2</b></a></p>								</div>
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		<p>The post <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/how-to-defend-your-family-during-civil-unrest-with-clay-martin/">How to Defend Your Family During Civil Unrest with Clay Martin (Part 1 &#038; 2)</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com">Tucker Max</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2022 15:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p>In this episode, I collected as many of the questions about psychedelic medicine as I could into one post, and answered them all at once. </p><p>If you combine the original <a href="https://tuckermax.com/beginners-guide-to-psychedelics/">Beginner&#8217;s Guide to Psychedelic Medicine</a> with this, it should be MORE than enough to answer any question you have about getting started. </p><p>Here is a list of the questions I answer in this video/podcast:</p><ol><li>How much does an underground guide cost?</li><li>How long should you wait in between sessions?</li><li>What do you microdose? And how to do you it?</li><li>Can you microdose without a guide?</li><li>What are the long term risk factors for using psychedelics, with regards to health, fitness, etc?</li><li>What if I am afraid of the quality of the psychedelics that an underground guide might use?</li><li>Are there psychedelics I can take while still on SSRIs or other anti-depressants?</li><li>Are psychedelics addictive? Do I need to worry about getting hooked on them?</li><li>I’ve done MDMA many times in a party setting, will it be different if I do it in a guided, medicinal setting?</li><li>Can bipolar people safely do psychedelic medicine?</li><li>Can psychedelic medicine help me change certain behaviors, like impulsivity, compulsive behaviors, OCD, ADHD, etc?</li><li>Does psychedelic medicine help you heal from autoimmune issues and other chronic illness?</li><li>I saw what you said about the different medicines, but I still don’t know which one to do. How can I decide?</li><li>If I have addiction issues, which psychedelic should I use?</li><li>How can I guide myself through a psychedelic healing session if I have to do that?</li><li>Can my friend and I guide each other in psychedelic sessions?</li><li>Do you do psychedelic medicine in group sessions, like with other people around doing it as well?</li><li>What exactly happens when you take MDMA? What does it feel like? What happens in the brain?</li><li>I want to do psychedelics, but I am afraid of doing something illegal. Should I wait for these to become legal?</li><li>Even if I do everything like you say, what can go wrong if I do psychedelic medicine?</li><li>What types of traumas can psychedelics treat effectively?</li><li>How destabilizing is the period between MDMA sessions?</li><li>Is there value in psychedelic medicine for those who do not have any trauma to work through?</li><li>How do I know if I’ve experienced trauma?<ol><li>Life Trauma and Human trauma</li></ol></li><li>What do you say to someone who is afraid of losing their issues? In essence, that by getting rid of the traumas and neuroses, they will lose a part of themselves? Like the quote, “<strong>If my devils are to leave me, I am afraid my angels will take flight as well.</strong>”</li><li>Should I be worried about my drive and ambition disappearing if I do MDMA therapy?</li><li>Is there a specific type of therapist I should look for to help me with integration?</li><li>Can your therapist also be your guide?</li><li>How does psychedelic medicine compare to just doing traditional talk therapy?</li><li>Do you still feel heavy shame or negative emotions when tough memories come up? Does MDMA treatment help alleviate these emotions?</li><li>I’ve done two sessions and I feel like things are worse. After doing MDMA and psilocybin. How can you tell you&#8217;re actually making progress?</li><li>What if my psychologist is not in favor of me doing psychedelics?</li><li>How do I find a good therapist and what do I look for?</li><li>Are talk therapists trained in helping psychedelic integration?</li><li>What if I choose to do psychedelics, but my partner won’t do them, or doesn’t want me to do them? What could happen?</li><li>You said you have your wife in your sessions with you and the guide. Can you explain why you do that?</li><li>I have kids and a job and a lot to do. Is it realistic to do this therapy while also upholding work and family responsibilities?</li><li>What&#8217;s the end game. Is there a point where you don&#8217;t need therapy anymore? Can you actually heal all of your trauma? Do you eventually get to a place you don’t need the medicine, where you are healed? How do you know when you are done?</li><li>Any advice on how to identify and feel my emotions?</li><li>Have you had a bad experience with psychedelics?</li><li>I know you took a lot from your first few MDMA sessions, do you think it would have been the same had you done them before you did your years of talk therapy? I’m wondering if I should do a lot of talk therapy before I do psychedelics?</li></ol>								</div>
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		<p>The post <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/tuckers-psychedelics-qa/">Tucker&#8217;s Psychedelics Q&#038;A</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com">Tucker Max</a>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If you’re thinking about using psychedelics as medicine and you aren’t sure where or how to start, this is the guide for you.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/beginners-guide-to-psychedelics/">The Beginner’s Guide to Psychedelic Medicine</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com">Tucker Max</a>.</p>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you’re considering using psychedelics as medicine, and aren’t sure where or how to start&#8211;this is the guide for you. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It will help you answer two questions: </span></p><ol><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Is psychedelic medicine right for you?</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If so, what’s the best way to start?</span></li></ol>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m not an expert on everything about psychedelics. For a deep dive into the broader aspects of psychedelics, I link out to my favorite experts at the end.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What I am is </span><b><i>an expert at being a beginner at using psychedelics as medicine</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ve spent the last 4 years using psychedelic medicine to help me heal my trauma. Though I’m a beginner, I&#8217;ve sought out and learned from some of the very best experts and guides in the world, and I’ve listened to them.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">All this being said, I’m not just some random. Psychedelic Invest named me </span><a href="https://psychedelicinvest.com/most-influential-people-psychedelics-2021/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">the #8 most influential person in psychedelics</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, and they did it mainly because of pieces I’ve written about my psychedelic experiences (like </span><a href="https://tuckermax.com/what-mdma-therapy-did-for-me/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">the piece I wrote about my first two MDMA experiences</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, or </span><a href="https://tuckermax.com/how-to-get-started-with-plant-medicine-therapy/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">how to get started in psychedelics</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">), or the many podcasts I’ve been on talking about my experiences. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’m in the unique position of having 4 years of deep and intense experience with psychedelic medicine, led by some of these top experts in the space–but I still remember what it’s like to be a complete beginner who knows nothing and is totally confused.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This world was incredibly complex and hard to comprehend for me when I started, and I hope to make it easier for you.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’m writing this guide to fill that glaring gap in the psychedelic space: </span><b><i>to simply and clearly explain psychedelic medicine to the true beginner who is considering using it. </i></b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will do my best to speak to you on your level, as plainly and simply as possible, with no other agenda than to help you make the best decisions for yourself. </span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">IMPORTANT: </span><b><i>This guide is NOT advice or advocacy.</i></b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Psychedelic medicine is right for many people, but NOT right for everyone. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, </span><b><i>many of you reading this will probably decide not to use psychedelic medicine</i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&#8211;at least not right now, and that&#8217;s fine.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I approach this topic from a neutral perspective because I’m not selling you anything and I have nothing to gain from your decision, one way or the other. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This medicine has been so meaningful to me, I really do want to share what I know and have learned about it to help people. All I want is the personal satisfaction that comes from sharing my experiences and helping people make the right decision for their own lives–which in many cases is NOT to do it.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will NOT tell you “should” do. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What I will offer you is INFORMATION about my experiences + what I learned from the many experts I’ve both read and personally interacted with. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In short: </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ll tell you what I’ve done, and what I’ve learned. </span></i></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ultimately, YOU MUST MAKE UP YOUR OWN MIND about what’s right for you personally.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The first question to ask: </span><b><i>Why would someone take psychedelics at all? </i></b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are two main uses for psychedelics:</span></p><ol><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Healing trauma (therapy)</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mind expansion (enlightenment)</span></li></ol><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In essence, you go looking for enlightenment or therapy. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Psychedelics are most well known in popular culture for their ability to expand the mind, and this piece is not about that. There are much better experts to consult if you are primarily interested in that (I link them at the end). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">These days, most people who use psychedelics (at least as medicine) do so because of their incredible potential to help them heal their trauma.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you’ve never heard of using psychedelics to heal trauma, and your only experience with them is the hippie culture of the 60’s, this might seem very weird. That was where I was about 5 years ago as well. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The easiest way to dive into the history of psychedelics as a medicine is to read Michael Pollan’s book, </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mind-Consciousness-Transcendence-ebook/dp/B076GPJXWZ"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">How To Change Your Mind</span></i></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The first half of the book goes deep into the history of psychedelics, how they used to be regarded as medicine up until the 50s, all the amazing research that was done then and how thousands of therapists used them for therapy, and how they got banned (fucking Richard Nixon playing politics), and how they came back into the mainstream. It&#8217;s a long read, and you don’t need to read it at all, but if you’re interested it will catch you up to the current day. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As of now, using psychedelics as medicine is a cutting edge idea, and not a passing fad, or some fringe notion. Some of the most prestigious research institutions in the world have set up dedicated centers to study this. </span><a href="https://hopkinspsychedelic.org/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Johns Hopkins</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, </span><a href="https://www.imperial.ac.uk/psychedelic-research-centre"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Imperial College</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, </span><a href="https://dellmed.utexas.edu/units/center-for-psychedelic-research-and-therapy"><span style="font-weight: 400;">UT Austin</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, and </span><a href="https://news.berkeley.edu/2020/09/14/uc-berkeley-launches-new-center-for-psychedelic-science-and-education/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">UC Berkeley</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> just to name a very few (literally new ones open up every month). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In case you’ve missed it, the past few years the news has been full of stories about this. It’s been covered in places as varied as </span><a href="https://www.vox.com/recode/22716491/psychedelics-ketamine-mental-health-research-fda"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vox</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, </span><a href="https://www.axios.com/psychedelic-therapy-science-funding-55a84eeb-8b27-4ecc-8a23-f1e01f4d5c43.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Axios</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, </span><a href="https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2021-04-30/why-psychedelics-big-in-1960s-draw-new-interest-now-quicktake"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bloomberg</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, </span><a href="https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-new-science-of-psychedelics-1525360091"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wall Street Journal</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. You can google your favorite news outlet and “psychedelics” and get multiple articles to come up, as it has been covered quite a bit in almost every news outlet imaginable. Here are </span><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/11/25/travel/psychedelic-retreat-ayahuasca.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">three</span></a> <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/09/health/psychedelics-mdma-psilocybin-molly-mental-health.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">different</span></a> <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2022/01/05/well/psychedelic-drugs-mental-health-therapy.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">pieces</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> in the </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">New York Times</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> just from the past year. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It&#8217;s so mainstream </span><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/24/us/politics/psychedelic-therapy-veterans.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">the VA of all places is using it</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Even the incredibly conservative ex-governor of Texas, Rick Perry, </span><a href="https://www.texasmonthly.com/news-politics/rick-perry-drug-pusher/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">is on board with this</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> after seeing the results from vets he knows who used this treatment.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But you don’t need to rely on the corporate media to filter reality for you. I prefer to assess primary sources myself, and in this space, you can read the research directly–there’s already been a ton of it published. There are so many studies to read that show how psychedelics can help resolve PTSD, depression, anxiety, fear of death, smoking–the list goes on and on, it’s hard to keep track. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To follow along with the most cutting edge scientific research on psychedelics, MAPS is the organization you want to follow. They have a page that curates most of the research being done on psychedelics as a modality to heal trauma. </span><a href="https://maps.org/research"><span style="font-weight: 400;">You can access it here</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you don’t want to read that, you can get the gist of all this research just reading this one paragraph summarizing (</span><a href="https://maps.org/research/mdma/ptsd/phase3"><span style="font-weight: 400;">from here</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">) some of the early results of MDMA research:</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">“In MAPS’ completed Phase 2 trials with 107 participants, 61% no longer qualified for PTSD after three sessions of MDMA-assisted therapy two months following treatment. At the 12-month follow-up, 68% no longer had PTSD. All participants had chronic, treatment-resistant PTSD, and had suffered from PTSD for an average of 17.8 years.”</span></i></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you don’t understand what that means, then Dr. Dan Engle, a board certified psychiatrist and psychedelic researcher, said (this is from amazing book about MDMA therapy, </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dose-Hope-Story-MDMA-Assisted-Psychotherapy/dp/1544521022/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&amp;keywords=a+dose+of+hope&amp;qid=1634824013&amp;sr=8-1"><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">A Dose of Hope</span></i></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">): </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“</span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">When it comes to treating chronic severe PTSD, the current standard of care model (psychotherapy and medication management) has a roughly 35% improvement rate. </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Compare this to chronic severe PTSD treated with MDMA-assisted psychotherapy. It has roughly a 70% cure rate.</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">At face value that sounds pretty good, as it appears to double the benefit rate. Except it&#8217;s better than that. MDMA-assisted psychotherapy is </span></i><b><i>orders of magnitude</i></b><i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> better. </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Conventional standard of care has a 35% improvement rate. A mild to moderate improvement is better than nothing to be sure, but it still means the symptoms are present and they are negatively impacting the person&#8217;s life in a significant way.</span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">MDMA-assisted psychotherapy on the other hand, has a 70% cure rate. A cure in this context means a person no longer has symptoms meeting the criteria for even having PTSD at all. </span></i></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is not a small change. </span></i><b><i>This is as big as it gets in the field of mental health. </i></b></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">No other tool known to the world today has as much potency and potential to help people heal trauma, and instigate change in their lives, than MDMA-assisted psychotherapy.” </span></i></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The evidence is pretty clear that psychedelics work to heal trauma (among other things). But even if you believe the evidence shows this is clearly, that still leaves the question:</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">How do you know it’s for you? </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Well, I hate to say this, but there’s no way to know </span><b>for sure</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The best thing to do is learn as much as you need to about what the medicine does, talk to others who have used the medicine (or read the experiences others have with it), and then determine if you feel it&#8217;s right for you. That&#8217;s the only way you can know if it&#8217;s for you. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I don’t believe anyone else can tell you if it&#8217;s right or wrong for you. You must make up your own mind based on what you think and feel. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I can tell you what led me to using psychedelics as medicine: </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’d done 4 years of intense talk therapy and years of other therapeutic modalities like meditation, and though many of them helped, none really got to the core. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I was often angry or sad or depressed or anxious, and could not understand why, nor really solve the problem. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I felt stuck, and wanted to get unstuck. I wanted to get to the root of my problems, and stop dealing with symptoms. I wanted to live a life I knew I could live, but just couldn’t seem to reach.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Then a friend of mine did MDMA therapy, I saw the profound change in him, and I knew I wanted the same thing. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I already knew about some of the research and how people were using it, but it wasn’t until I saw the results on someone that I knew, that I realized for myself I was ready to do it.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And once I did it, I knew&#8211;this was the tool I was looking for. I describe </span><a href="https://tuckermax.com/what-mdma-therapy-did-for-me/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">my first two experiences here</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Again, I am NOT saying you should do it. I don’t know if it’s the right choice for you. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But in my experience, people tend to know&#8211;almost intuitively&#8211;if they want to do it or not. The ones who do want to do it feel as if they are “being called” to the medicine.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you feel that way, it might be for you.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are several expectations to set for yourself, these are the ones I find most helpful:</span></p><h4><strong>Expectation #1: Psychedelic medicine is not a magic pill, and in fact, things can get harder before they get easier.</strong></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Many people who ask me about this medicine do so because they are looking for a quick fix, or a magic pill type solution. Something that will take their pain away, without much effort on their part. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If that is your desire–and I am not judging you, I was the same way at one point–then I would avoid psychedelic medicine.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is something that often shocks people: </span><b>psychedelic medicine can often make your life harder before it gets easier. </b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why is this? </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Because most of what psychedelic medicine does that helps facilitate healing is to create a space to bring up old, painful, traumatic memories and experiences. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The things you have run from and pushed away your whole life will come up. That shame you felt as a child that you have hidden away deep in your psyche? Well, letting it come up and feeling it will be very challenging. Yes, it will help you in the long run, but in the short run, it can be extremely hard to face. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">By doing psychedelic medicine, it&#8217;s very common for things to get much harder for you, at least in the short term.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are many people who kind of think they just take some MDMA and then everything will be better.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It doesn’t work that way. In fact, when taking this medicine, life can often get harder before it gets easier. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To be even more clear: </span><b><i>psychedelic medicine does NOT directly cure you or heal you.</i></b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Psychedelic medicine opens a space for you to awaken your inner healer, so that you may do the work to heal yourself. This can make the healing journey easier, yes, but they do not do the work for you.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are looking for a magic pill or a quick fix, psychedelic medicine is not the approach to take.</span></p><h4><strong>Expectation #2: Healing trauma through psychedelic medicine is often a long process. </strong></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I went into this assuming it would be at least a 5 year process for me to heal my trauma, and that’s looking to be a pretty good expectation. I am 4 years in, have had substantial healing and improvement, but still have more work to do to work through the bulk of my trauma. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Don’t get me wrong, after even a few sessions I saw incredible changes and massive improvement. I could’ve stopped after only a few sessions, but I wanted to keep going and keep healing. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even though I saw incredible results pretty quickly–as do most people–but the deepest healing often takes time (though not always).</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">And to be clear: time and psychedelics are, by themselves, not enough. Which leads to the most important expectation:</span></p><h4><strong>Expectation #3: Building a full therapeutic practice is an absolute MUST (and should come first).</strong></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The absolute KEY expectation to carry into psychedelic medicine is that it’s only ONE tool to be used in your whole therapeutic practice, and should NOT be the only tool.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In psychedelic medicine, everything you do to help you heal and process is often referred to as an “integration practice.” </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So what is a good therapeutic/integration practice? </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is not ONE correct answer to this. There are many ways to build an effective integration practice. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will say that almost all good integration practices involve some form of serious and sustained talk therapy. Being able to talk about your emotions and experiences with people who can be non-judgmental and on your side is an absolutely key aspect of this process. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">My integration practice:</span></p><ol><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Talk therapy</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Daily journaling</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Daily nature walks (I live on a ranch, this is easy for me)</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Acupuncture</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Body work (I really like cranial-sacral massage, and somatic release massage)</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Eight hours sleep every night</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> No refined grains, sugars or seed oils, I instead eat a lot of meat, organ meats and other natural sources of crucial vitamins and minerals.</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Daily exercise (I do ranch work and BJJ/MMA 3x weekly)</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span></li></ol><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will dive deeper into building and maintaining an integration practice later, because it’s the most crucial piece of using psychedelics as medicine. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The important thing to take from this is that psychedelics are a tool that help you heal your trauma, but they don’t don’t do the work for you. They open a space for you to feel your emotions and integrate them–</span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">how you do that</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is what makes the healing take or not.</span></p><h4><strong>Expectation #4: There are real risks with psychedelic medicine that must be considered</strong></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The major risk is, of course, that psychedelic medicine is still mostly illegal in most places. We will talk about this further later on, but that is a real risk. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The other major risk is that it can make things worse before they get better. As discussed above, for many people, psychedelic medicine facilitates you feeling all the emotions you&#8217;ve avoided your whole life. That can be VERY challenging. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is where a &#8220;bad trip&#8221; can come up.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A &#8220;bad trip&#8221; is conventionally defined as something like &#8220;a mentally or physically horrifying drug-taking experience, as one accompanied by nightmarish hallucinations or by physical pain.&#8221;</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That&#8217;s not inaccurate, but its also not fully accurate. In my experience, a &#8220;bad trip&#8221; is when you aren&#8217;t ready or expecting for what comes up on psychedelics. But also in my experience, these very challenging experiences can be the most important experiences. If dark and hard things come up, its because they are in you and need to be felt before they can be let go. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To put it simply, the only way out of it, is through it. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is why I&#8217;ve never used psychedelics in a purely recreational way. I can&#8217;t imagine taking LSD and going to a concert, for example. I&#8217;m not judging that experience, but for me, when I use psychedelics to heal trauma, I am expecting that it might be challenging, and I want to be in a set and setting that is best for me to deal with that.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Your next step is to decide the psychedelic medicine you will use. There are many options for which medicines to use, and this area is where a lot of confusion comes in. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I hear lots of people with opinions about the various medicines, and most of those opinions I hear are based on poor understsanding of psychedelics or at worst, dangerous for people. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will describe the major medicines, why you might use them, and what to think about when deciding. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><h4><b>MDMA</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">MDMA is the best starting point for psychedelic medicine for most people. This is for two main reason:</span></p><p>1. MDMA is by far the most effective medicine for healing trauma. MDMA is a nearly perfect medicine for dealing with trauma. The shortest explanation of how it works is that it helps you feel loved and safe, which makes the space for your body to bring up old traumatic emotions, process them, and let them go.</p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The best description I’ve heard is that it “feels like doing 5 years of therapy in a day.”</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">2. MDMA is safe and gentle. MDMA is very physically safe, but beyond that, the actual emotional experience of taking it is safe as well. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It is not technically a psychedelic in a chemical sense, and because of that, the experience is very different from what most people think of with psychedelics. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For example, on MDMA, most people know where they are, who they are, what time it is, and are fully in their mind, they simply have a deep and open experience of love and safety. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Contrast this to a true psychedelic like psilocybin or LSD, where once you take the medicine, you are on the “ride.” There is no getting off or modulating it, you just have to come out the other side. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is not really so with MDMA. You can, to some extent, modulate the effects. If it feels overwhelming, you can take your mask off and distract yourself and reduce the felt impacts. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is a much higher feeling of “control” with MDMA (though of course, the best possible scenario for healing is to surrender and let go of control), and MDMA is far less intense in most ways than traditional psychedelics.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you&#8217;re interested in MDMA therapy, there is an amazing book about it that walks you through what every step is like, called </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dose-Hope-Story-MDMA-Assisted-Psychotherapy/dp/1544521022/ref=sr_1_1?crid=18PMOONAEF3T0&amp;keywords=a+dose+of+hope&amp;qid=1644376512&amp;sprefix=a+dose+of+hope%2Caps%2C201&amp;sr=8-1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">A Dose of Hope</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> (written by Dan Engle, a psychiatrist and one of the moderbn pioneers in psychedelics, and the book is incredible, I cannot recommend it highly enough). </span></p><p><b>My experiences with MDMA: </b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have done at least a dozen MDMA assisted psychotherapy sessions, and though many of them were incredibly challenging, each one has been transformative and ultimately wonderful for me.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I had to pick one medicine for trauma, MDMA is the hands down pick, no question. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><h4><b>Psilocybin</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is what most people call “mushrooms” because it comes from actual mushrooms. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mushrooms are the “multi-tool” of psychedelics. You can use them effectively for almost anything that psychedelics can do: trauma healing, mind expansion, releasing the fear of death, etc. They&#8217;re an amazing and beautiful compound and I like them very much.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are people who&#8217;ve used mushrooms to effectively deal with trauma, and for that, they can absolutely work. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here’s the thing with mushrooms: they can be very dark, especially for people with a lot of trauma or those who are new to using psychedelics to help with trauma. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">They can also be very confusing, because they tend to be very psychedelic in nature&#8211;meaning that there will often be lots of visuals, confusing symbols and shapes, and many other things going on that can be hard to interpret or understand.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If someone is really interested in dealing with trauma, mushrooms are not usually the optimal place to start. For most people, “graduating” to mushrooms is the best way to go. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One strategy I&#8217;ve seen many people utilize effectively is to begin by microdosing mushrooms, and then move to MDMA therapy, and from there move to larger doses of mushrooms. This is what I did, and it has worked great. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">[This is </span><a href="https://thethirdwave.co/microdosing/mushrooms/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">an excellent beginners guide to microdosing mushrooms</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> if that is appealing to you.]</span></p><p><b>My experiences with psilocybin: </b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have done several mushroom sessions, ranging from microdosing to 8.5g (which is a large amount, and I of course did with a very qualified guide). In fact, I routinely microdose, using </span><a href="https://doubleblindmag.com/stamets-stack/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">the Stamets Stack</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, which works great for me. I have found mushrooms to be an important part of my healing and growth (especially microdosing). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For me, mushrooms are most effective when used either as a microdose, or as a “reset” for me. When I feel stuck in my thinking, or spinning in circles on something, mushrooms are a great way to get me out of that cycle and open up space for new ways of thinking.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In my experiences with mushrooms, I usually get far more “mind expansion” than I get “trauma healing,” which is why I use them sparingly, and more as a supplement to my core trauma healing practice.</span></p><p><span style="color: var(--the7-base-color); letter-spacing: var(--the7-base-letter-spacing); text-transform: var(--the7-base-text-transform); word-spacing: normal;"> </span></p><h4><b>Ketamine</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ketamine is the best known compound for two things: suicidal ideation, and chronic pain. If you are thinking about killing yourself, or have chronic physical pain that won’t go away, nothing beats ketamine.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Studies are also seeing promising results using ketamine to help with depression, anxiety, and other issues as well. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There&#8217;s one major problem with ketamine: the effects tend to be very short lasting. The effect of ketamine (usually) only lasts about two weeks, though of course they can and often do last longer. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That being said, ketamine has one major benefit: it is legal and accessible to everyone in America, right now. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are a few problems with ketamine: </span></p><ol><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ketamine tends to be a very dark and difficult medicine for many people, especially at the beginning of their experiences with psychedelic medicines. It is not technically a psychedelic, but has many psychedelic properties and can be very challenging for the user. </span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though ketamine is legal, and you can find clinics to do treatments, very few ketamine clinics are set up to do it in a way that is reflective of the intensity of the process. They essentially treat it as a basic outpatient treatment, but it is not, it is an INTENSE psychedelic treatment.  </span></li></ol><p><b>My experiences with ketamine: </b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ve never used ketamine in a clinic; all my experiences with ketamine were with licensed practitioners who administered it to me in a private, safe, and supportive setting. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the most challenging, but ultimately rewarding, experiences of my life was with ketamine. It took me to a very dark and hard place, and pushed me to access some parts of me I had stored away and forgotten. It was the first time I ever truly achieved ego death, and it was very very hard for me, but I am so glad it happened (now, at least, it was not fun during the process). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I had done that early in my journey, I believe I would have considered it a &#8220;bad trip.&#8221; But I was ready for it when I did it, and so I was able to see even though it was very challenging, it was what I needed.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I also combined ketamine with another medicine, that helped me navigate that space. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><h4><b>LSD</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I do not believe LSD is appropriate for everyone, and rarely at the beginning of a healing journey. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">LSD can be harsh. It is reality breaking and boundary shattering, and this tends to be very disconcerting for beginners. If you are not ready to essentially have everything you believe challenged and broken, then LSD is not the option. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">LSD is also impossible to predict. Reactions to it can vary widely based on dosage, biology, and other factors. </span></p><p><b>My experiences with LSD: </b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">LSD has been my absolute favorite psychedelic medicine–it pulled the veneer off of reality and forced me to see all of those things I was avoiding. It did not “pull its punches” and felt like it was shoving my face into what I didn’t want to see. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This was extremely disconcerting and identity breaking–which what I was looking for at the time. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Had I NOT been looking for this, LSD would have been a very bad choice. I can see why so many people have what they call “bad trips” while on LSD. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As discussed before, a “bad trip” is best thought of as things coming up you are not ready to deal with, and LSD seems to bring them up. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will say this: even though my intention is primarily to heal (right now), I get quite a bit of mind expansion on LSD. I don’t use it that often because of this: the mind expansion is incredible, but very distracting from healing (at least for me, it keeps me in my head instead of in my feelings).</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><h4><b>Ayahuasca</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ayahuasca is a well known medicine, and I’ve used it and love it. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But aya is also one of <i>the last places</i> I would begin my journey, especially if my goal was to heal trauma.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have known many, many people who began their healing journeys with aya, and it was extremely hard for (almost) all of them.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Two specific people I know are both very experienced with psychedelics have similar stories: they went to the jungles of Peru many years ago to begin their psychedelic journey with aya, and both of them spent weeks (or months) in a horrific agony of vomiting, shitting themselves, and intense psychological pain. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Both of them made it through, and both are–on one hand–very grateful for the experience. But both also cautioned me against starting with aya for this reason, and I’m glad I listened to them.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are many people who disagree with me on this subject. I know many people who recommend people begin with aya, and you are welcome to seek them out and hear their take as well.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will say this though: most people who call themselves “ayahuasca shamans” are NOT reliable and should NOT be administering that medicine.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Aya–along with iboga–are somewhat unique in that the skill of the shaman is absolutely crucial to the experience of the medicine. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With MDMA and ketamine and LSD–and to some extent psilocybin–you don’t usually need a skilled shaman, you only need someone who has experience with the medicine, has done their own work and knows how to hold space. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is because the psychedelic does the work, and the guides job is to hold space. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But with aya, the shaman is very involved in the medicine itself. They sing, they decide how much medicine you get, they work with you actively during the process and guide the medicine itself. I know this might sound a bit out there if you have never done the medicine, and I was quite skeptical of this notion as well&#8211;until I did aya. Then it all made sense. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It takes years of apprenticeship and work to get to the point one is able to lead others in aya sessions. The problem is that most people calling themselves “shamans” are not experienced and did not apprentice under real shamans in a true lineage. One of the major risks of aya is in fact that huge demand paired with the lack of experienced and capable shamans. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are VERY real downside risks when working with inexperienced aya shamans. I would and do not trust my mind and soul to someone who is not very experienced in handling that medicine. </span></p><p><b>My experiences with Ayahuasca:</b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I came to aya after 2.5 years of psychedelic medicine therapy, and it was great. I was ready for the intensity and the depth, and it helped me immensely. I would not have been “ready” had it been the first medicine I used, and would have been incredibly challenging for me, and possibly set me back.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A BIG part of why it was so great for me is because I was lucky enough to work with possibly the best shaman in North America. He trained with and lived with one of the primary tribes who use aya as a medicine for decades. I would not personally use this medicine with anyone who did not have that level of experience.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><h4><b>5-Meo-DMT</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is the deep end of the psychedelic ocean. 5-Meo-DMT is (arguably) the most “psychedelic” of all the psychedelic medicines, and is often lauded as the premier psychedelic for mind expansion. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Were I seeking mind-expansion only, this medicine might be my first choice. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But I do not recommend 5-Meo at all for trauma healing (for most people). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Again, there are people who disagree with me on this subject, and you can find them and listen to their opinions as well. </span></p><p><b>My experiences with 5-Meo-DMT: </b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have done 5-Meo-DMT one time, and it was brutally challenging for me. Probably the hardest experience I have ever had with psychedelic medicine. It felt to me like I was feeling all the grief and sorrow of the world. I honestly felt like I was going to die from grief during the session (obviously I did not). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I was also way out of sorts for weeks afterwards. It took me awhile to fully re-center and get back to myself. And all of this happened even though I had a very experienced guide. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will do 5-Meo-DMT again, but not until I feel as though I have faced and processed the vast majority of my life trauma. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><h4><b>Iboga</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Iboga is called “grandfather” for a reason: it’s probably the most intense, most challenging psychedelic medicine there is (for most people). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even though Iboga is very intense and challenging, it IS a place to start for some people. Iboga is considered one of the very best total immersion treatments for drug and alcohol addiction. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is not a medicine to try lightly. Everyone I know with extensive experience in psychedelic medicines has said it is one of the most challenging medicines they&#8217;ve ever taken, and there are some real medical risks associated with it. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Do not do this lightly or with anyone less than an advanced shaman. </span></p><p><b>My experiences with Iboga:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is the only medicine on this list I haven’t tried, because even after many years of deep and intense psychedelic medicine and integration and healing, I have not believed I was ready for it. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I expect this to change in 2023, and will update this when it does.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The difficulty of finding a guide varies widely based on the medicine you want to take. Here I examine both paths to finding a guide.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Fully Legal Options</span></h4>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Ketamine</strong>&nbsp;</span>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ketamine is currently legal in America. Most states and major cities now have several ketamine clinic options.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Note that not all ketamine clinics are created equal. MANY are quite poor, in that they simply inject you with ketamine and don’t do any integration support.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">When selecting a clinic, pay attention to how they treat you outside of the administration of the medicine.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Look for places that have someone with you in the room the whole time, and have some sort of psychological and emotional support.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><strong>Psychedelic Churches</strong>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Psychedelic churches are a legal way to find treatments. These are legal in America.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are many around, </span><a href="https://maps.org/news-letters/v12n1/12117stu.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">this is the best list I could find</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, though it is not comprehensive (or updated recently).</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><strong>Study Participants&nbsp;</strong>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">MDMA and psilocybin studies are currently on-going and many people looking for treatment are enrolled in these studies.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><strong>Psychedelic Resorts</strong>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Psilocybin is legal in Jamaica, and there are several facilities there that are reputable, though many have struggled with safety issues.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ayahuasca is legal in Peru, and there are a few legal clinics in other countries.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are also resorts in a few other central and south American countries (Costa Rica especially) that offer services in a quasi legal manner.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li><strong>Databases of treatment options</strong>
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<li>There are several websites where you can find clinics, guides, integration coaches, and other services. Here are a few I trust:
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<li>1. <a href="https://directory.thethirdwave.co/">Third Wave</a></li>
<li>2. <a href="https://psychedelic.support/network/">Psychedelic Support</a></li>
<li>3. <a href="https://healingmaps.com/">Healing Maps</a></li>
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</li>
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<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Less than fully legal options</span></h4>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><strong>MDMA</strong>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is a small but high quality underground network of experienced and capable guides who will facilitate for people.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you’re reading this, you can reach out to me and ask for an introduction to a guide. I know two guides who are willing to take “blind” referrals. Email me through the contact form on this site, I will email you their contact information. I get nothing at all from this referral, of course.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">You can often find them through the databases I listed above, you just have to be discreet and read between the lines a little.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li aria-level="1"><b>Psilocybin</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span><br><ul style="font-weight: 400;">
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is the same as MDMA, in that there is an underground network of guides.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<li aria-level="1"><b>LSD</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span><br><ul style="font-weight: 400;">
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are far fewer guides who facilitate with LSD. I only know two, and they only take personally vetted referrals, and usually only for a series of treatments.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The reason is that LSD has such a long time frame in the body and can also require a skilled psychiatrist, thus it tends to have less experienced guides.</span></li>
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<li aria-level="1"><b>Ayahuasca</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span><br><ul style="font-weight: 400;">
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">As I said, there are very few shamans who are truly experienced in Aya facilitation in America. The two I know and trust do not take blind referrals.</span></li>
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</li>
<li aria-level="1"><b>Iboga</b><br><ul style="font-weight: 400;">
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Iboga is very similar to aya, in that an experienced guide is crucial. I only know one truly experienced iboga guide in America, and they do not take blind referrals.&nbsp;</span></li>
</ul>
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<p><a href="https://psychedelic.support/resources/legal-ways-to-pursue-psychedelic-experiences/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here is another resource about these options, which covers many of the points I make above</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Do You Need A Guide?</span></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A question I get a lot: </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Can you do psychedelics without a guide?&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Yes, of course it’s possible.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But in almost all cases, I do not recommend it, especially for beginners.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Psychedelic medicine is no joke, and entails a lot of risks and without proper experience, doing it alone magnifies that risk.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Furthermore, doing it alone can be re-traumatizing. If emotions come up that are hard to handle, and you don’t have anyone there to support you or help you work through them, that can lead to even more difficulty.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In my experience, having an experienced guide to hold space for you and be there to help is a crucial part of the process.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But yes–I HAVE done this medicine without a guide. Twice. Once MDMA and once psilocybin. Both times were very challenging and I did not take as much from them as when I do guided sessions.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even if I don’t talk to the guide at all, having them there changes the experience drastically for me. I have found that all psychedelic medicines do is open the space for healing; the healing work itself is often done relationally, between two people. Talking can help at times yes, but even without talking, I have had profound healing experiences with guides there.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">All this being said, there is a strong case to be made for doing MDMA without a guide in some cases. And if you are going to do that, there is a somewhat different approach to take than what I am describing. If you are looking to do that, I highly recommend this guide: <a href="https://castaliafoundation.com/kali/MDMA-solo.pdf">MDMA Solo</a>, by the Castalia Foundation.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I actually agree with 90% of their argument for why doing it solo makes sense. I agree that having a therapist in the room trying to intervene is a bad idea. Thats why I recommend a guide who does NOT intervene with the patient unless the patient asks, and not having your therapist be your guide.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">However you find your guide, know that they are NOT all the same. There is no formalized training (though there are training programs), and there is no formalized review or accreditation system (yet). It is your responsibility to assess your guide before you work with them. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ve worked with many guides, some of the most experienced and highly recommended in the world, and I still did my due diligence assessing them prior to working with them.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The number one thing I look for when assessing a guide: </span><b><i>Do I trust them? </i></b></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I‘m going to open up my mind and my soul and ask them to hold the space to protect me as I do my work–and possibly interact with me while I do my work–I have to believe they can do that job effectively.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though my trust is very much based on feeling, it is also based on other factors. The primary factor I cobnsider is </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">have they done their own work, especially with this medicine</span></i><span style="font-weight: 400;">?</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I’m going to use a psychedelic medicine to face the dark parts of myself–and that always has the potential to go sideways and be very challenging–I need to know they’ve already been there and done that, so they can understand how to help me should I need it. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To explore their experience and my level of trust, I like to ask them a bunch of questions. An example of some questions I ask of my guides: </span></p><ol><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> “How many times have you done this medicine, and how often do you still use it?</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> “What have your experiences been like with this medicine?”</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> “Who trained you in facilitation?”</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> “How many people have you facilitated for?”</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> “What happens if things get very hard for me?”</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> “What’s the worst/hardest/most challenging thing that&#8217;s happened to you while facilitating?”</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> “Why did you focus on this medicine? How did it help you in your journey?”</span></li></ol><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are no “right” answers to these questions. For me, its more about finding patterns and seeing what they say and getting an idea of who they are. The more they tell me about themselves and their own story and their own healing, the better I know them. I like to know they have survived the things I may have to face. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I also like to see what questions they ask me. This is often enlightening. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For example, if I’m doing MDMA, the most important question to ask is about medicinal counter-indications. If you do MDMA while on SSRI antidepressants, that’s quite bad, and in a (very) rare worst case scenario, you can die. If the guide isn’t asking you what medicines you&#8217;re on, that&#8217;s a major red flag. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is not a “must ask” list for guides, but the types of questions I look for are: </span></p><ul><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Are they asking about what other medicines I&#8217;m taking?</span><ul><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is important for obvious reasons.</span></li></ul></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Are they asking about my therapeutic and integration practices? </span><ul><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is important because it shows they understand that the medicine is only a tool, and they want to ensure you are both ready with a support system and capable of handling what comes up. </span></li></ul></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Are they asking about my previous psychedelic experience?</span><ul><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is important because it shows they are looking for patterns as well, to ensure this is the right medicine for you and that its the right time.</span></li></ul></li><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Are they pushing one medicine on me (red flag), or are they asking questions and trying to help me figure out what is best for me (green flag)?</span><ul><li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="2"><span style="font-weight: 400;">If I feel they are pushing a specific medicine, I am out right away. But if I feel they are listening to me and trying to help me find the medicine, then it creates trust for me.</span></li></ul></li></ul><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For a great example of what it looks like to question a guide and have a guide question you, read the book </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dose-Hope-Story-MDMA-Assisted-Psychotherapy/dp/1544521022/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">A Dose of Hope</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It details a very enlightening exchange between a guide (Dr. Dan) and a new patient (Alex) in the first few chapters, and helps show how that conversation can go when done right.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Once you’ve made the decision to move forward with a guide, it’s now time to begin planning for the session (and post session). </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Your guide should have some sort of plan for you, depending on the medicine. For example, with MDMA, there are several supplements you can take and practices to do that make the process much more effective. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With psilocybin and LSD there are not (usually) any supplements to take, but many guides will recommend certain readings or practices to do in the week leading up to the session. For example, my mushroom guide had me avoid pork, sex, and processed foods for a week leading to the session. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Each medicine (and guide) has its own specific best practices, so I cannot give you a “correct” template. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The thing I will help you with is understanding and setting up your integration practice if you don’t already have one.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’m going to walk you through my personal integration practice, then I’ll tell you about other things people have used effectively.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Building an integration practice is essentially building a self-care routine that is oriented around helping you heal your issues and become the person you want to be.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It’s not specifically “self-improvement” oriented. Think of it more as self-care. Self care, is at its core, keeping promises to yourself.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><ol><li><b> Talk Therapy</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The only thing I believe is a “must have” for an integration practice is doing some sort of talk therapy with a trusted therapist or qualified coach of some sort.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I define talk therapy as this: </span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">talking to a specific person on a regular basis, who is there only for you, and provides space to fully explore your thoughts and feelings in a supportive and non-judgmental space.&nbsp;</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are some many great talk therapists out there, but sadly, there are plenty who aren&#8217;t very good.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There is not a “right” way to find a therapist, but here is what I recommend:&nbsp;</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Make a list of at least 5, but ideally 10 to 15 therapists that are either recommended to you by friends, or seem appealing.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Schedule an appointment with them.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">See how you feel during and after that appointment.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Pick your therapist based on how well connected you feel to them and how much you feel able to trust them.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It is not a scientific method, but it is very effective. The most important factor to effective talk therapy is not the skill of the therapist–though that is of course a relevant factor–but how much you trust them, how comfortable you are with them, and how open you are willing to be with them.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here is </span><a href="https://psychedelic.support/network/?online=false&amp;acceptingClients=false&amp;profileType=practitioner&amp;profileType=clinic&amp;size=12&amp;s=8&amp;pc=false"><span style="font-weight: 400;">a long list of talk therapists</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> of many different accreditations that are supportive of psychedelic medicine.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Important Note: It is normal and natural to “outgrow” therapists in time. A person can (almost) never help you deal with something if they have not dealt with something at least very similar. As you heal and raise your level of consciousness, you may outgrow your therapist and need to find another. That’s fine, and it does not mean anything “bad” about your therapist, or anyone else.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We are all walking our own path.</span></p>
<h4><ol start="2"><li><b> Eight hours sleep every night</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Creating a schedule that allowed me to sleep as much as I needed was one of the most important things I did for myself.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are so many great resources about sleep, but the big thing I did was make sure my bedroom was totally dark, and cold. Helped me sleep a lot.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><ol start="3"><li><b> Daily journaling</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ve been journaling consistently since 2014, and daily since 2019. This practice has been incredibly helpful for me in so many ways that were hard to measure at first, but became very clear once I was consistent. The more I journal, the clearer and simpler my life becomes.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">My journal prompts are very simple:&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">What happened today, and how do I feel about it?</span></i></p>
<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">What one thing am I especially grateful for today?</span></i></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That’s (basically) it. But here’s the thing: it&#8217;s not prompts that create great journaling. It’s how I use it.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I use my journal as a place to be totally honest with myself and really allow myself to explore anything I want, in any way I want to.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I highly, HIGHLY encourage journaling for people who use psychedelic medicine. Commit to doing it for 30 days, and by the end you will understand what I mean.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><ol start="4"><li><b> Daily nature time&nbsp;</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I live on a ranch, so nature time is basically my life whether I want it or not. I am out in nature and with animals every single day, and it is incredibly refreshing. Just that change–moving from the city to a ranch in the country–improved my life at least 25%. Everything is so quiet and soothing, I was automatically calmer.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That&#8217;s not possible for everyone, but just about everyone can find some nature and be in it for a period each day. For me, it has become crucial to my daily routine.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><ol start="5"><li><b> Body work&nbsp;</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This basically just means massage or some other sort of physical work. To me, it’s a crucial part of integration. Great body work centers me and helps me really connect to myself and my emotions in another way.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I like acupuncture and I really like cranial-sacral massage as well. I also do energy work with a Andean trained shaman named Christina Allen, the head of the Austin Shamanic Center. I used to be a deep energy work skeptic, and then I tried it, and well…its pretty amazing for me.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are many other forms of body work as well. Many people use somatic massage or things like lomi massage to actually access emotion.</span></p>
<h4><ol start="6"><li><b> Serious nutrition focus</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I got pretty serious about nutrition long before I was serious about mental and emotional health. I cut out all refined grains, sugars and seed oils at least 15 years ago, and it made my life much better. For the most part, I eat clean and healthy meat and vegetables, with some fruit and fermented dairy.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">An important part of this for me is paying attention to blood work, and vitamin and mineral levels in my body. When I did my first micronutrient test a decade ago, I realized I was B-12 and magnesium deficient. Correcting those deficiencies alone&nbsp; leveled me up.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I do not take many supplements. Instead, I get all my nutrients by eating a lot of organ meats, like liver, heart and kidney. Yeah, that is too intense for many people, but its amazing for me. The only supplements I take are whole food ones, like liver pills.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><ol start="7"><li><b> Consistent exercise&nbsp;</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I’ve been consistently exercising for most of my life, so this is nothing new. But when I don’t exercise for a while, shit goes sideways.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">My daily movement is doing ranch chores, but I also have a home gym, and do some sort of high intensity weight training at least twice a week. I also do BJJ/MMA 3x weekly.</span></p>
<h4><ol start="8"><li><b> Conscious time with my family</b></li></ol></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This encompasses a lot of what is above, but one of the most important parts of integration for me is spending a lot of time with my family. I don’t just love my family–I really like them, so I have structured my life to spend as much time with them as possible.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This might seem obvious to you, but it wasn’t until the Covid lockdowns hit that I really saw how little time I was spending with them. Being forced to be with them all day was actually awesome, and I realized that was what I wanted my life to be like. So I made it that way.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I built a sauna in my backyard specifically so I could have a nice sweat every day and take time to really stop and reflect on my thoughts. Sort of like meditation, but more active.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The sauna has some amazing health benefits and intense sweating has a long history of association with shamanic practices, and I like that, but I mainly use it as a way to feel better each day and focus on my thoughts without distraction.&nbsp;</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">These are not things that are a regular part of my integration experience, but other people do them and really find them effective.</span></p>
<h4><b>Meditation</b><span style="font-weight: 400;">&nbsp;</span></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have never been a big fan of formal meditation, for many reasons. That said, many of the most experienced guides and psychedelic practitioners I know are avid meditators. I absolutely see the benefit in being still and connecting with your thoughts and feelings, but I feel like I do this in other ways than classic meditation.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the few true meditation masters I met told me that both BJJ and carpentry are forms of meditation, so I’ve got both of those going for me, which I guess means that I mediate in some form.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><b>Yoga</b></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To me, yoga has never made sense. It feels like a combination of bad exercise and mediocre meditation.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That being said, there are plenty of people who find it incredibly rewarding, and of course yoga has a long and deep history in the healing arts. The people I know who love yoga tell me it helps them connect to their body in ways nothing else does.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><b>Float tanks</b></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have never felt comfortable in these, but I know many people who love them and swear by them.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><b>Group Therapy</b></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">There are a lot of people who resist one-on-one talk therapy, but thrive in a group setting. With a skilled practitioner, that can absolutely work as well. Even informal groups can work, as long as there are people in there who have done their work and keep the group on track.&nbsp;</span></p>
<h4><b>Red Light Therapy</b></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is one of those things that the science bros argue endlessly about. Some people love it. Others think its snake oil. I don’t know. I just go out in the sun on my ranch.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is simply making sure you really understand that this can get harder before it gets easier, and then understanding what your intentions are. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Setting intentions is a place that people tend to take it too far and spend too much time. I never spend much time on this, and I try to avoid getting too detailed. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For example, I will say something like: </span></p><p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I intend to surrender to whatever comes up, let it have its say without judging or fighting it, and allow it move through me and back to where it came from.”</span></i></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is opposed to a more specific intention, the type I try to avoid: </span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I intend to heal from all the pain of my childhood.”</span></i></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I am NOT saying this is the “right” approach. But I have found it to be very effective–and I tried both. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why do I take this approach? </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Setting a specific intention is about control, which is not a useful frame for psychedelic medicine. I&#8217;ve found it far more useful to surrender to the experience as much as possible. </span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the big questions I get is &#8220;Do I have to tell people in my life I&#8217;m doing this?&#8221;</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">No. You don&#8217;t have to do anything. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That being said, it might make sense to tell people who are very close to you, especially those who live with you or you may rely on, on a day to day basis. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you do feel comfortable telling them, then I tend to recommend being honest and upfront, discussing what you will be doing and what you will need from them afterwards. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Your guide should help you navigate this conversation and give you advice here as well. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A lot of people do get serious resistance from other people in their lives. That is a complicated area to talk about in general, let me just say this: </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If people or factors in your life are not supportive of your truth and values, it may be time to leave them behind and continue on with the path you have chosen in life.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">That has been a hard lesson for me to learn. But also a crucial one.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I also recommend you take as much time as possible after your session to recover. I like to take at least 3-4 days with little to nothing on my calendar to rest and recuperate and integrate everything that came up. The first few days after the session can be very impactful if you make enough space for them. </span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Your guide should give you a pretty good rundown of what to expect from them during the first session. Anything they tell you should take precedence over what I&#8217;m about to write, but I want to at least give you a very basic and high level understanding of what a session is “normally” like.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The basic set-up is that you will go to the guides space that they have set-up. It will be a warm, comforting place, soft lighting, candles, sage, stuff like that is most common. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You&#8217;ll take the medicine, and usually lie on a sofa or small bed, with an eyeshade on. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Why an eyeshade? </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Well, the visual system of your brain when active takes up a huge percentage of your brains resources. Turn that off, and you can&#8217;t distract yourself with what you are looking at externally, so you have to look internally. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If that sounds weird to you&#8230;it did to me too at first. But damn if it&#8217;s not accurate. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">From there, generally speaking, you let the medicine do its work. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;m NOT going to describe in detail what you will feel, simply because that&#8217;s impossible to explain this in words. If that sentence doesn’t make sense now, it will after your first session. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What I can do is give you some idea of the basic important themes. </span></p><h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Set &amp; setting</span></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The most important aspect of any session is what is referred to as “set and setting.” In short, set is the mindset you bring to the work, and setting is the total environment that the work goes on in. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Generally speaking, this is the domain of the guide. A good guide will help you get the right mindset, and then totally be in charge of the setting, so you can relax as much as possible and do your session safely. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Whole books can be written on set and setting, the key thing to remember is if you feel safe. If you do, you&#8217;re good to go. If not, pause and re-consider whether its the right place, person or time. </span></p><h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Intense Emotion</span></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I&#8217;ll be upfront: you can expect to feel a lot of intense emotions. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Beyond that, it&#8217;s impossible to say what will happen. One thing people expect is that they&#8217;ll only feel &#8220;negative&#8221; emotions. No. They may not all be challenging. You may feel joy, appreciation, connection, etc. There is now way to know ahead of time.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The thing with emotions is that they tend to go away in about 60 seconds, maybe 90 seconds max. If you let them come and have their say, you can let them go.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This does not mean ALL emotions go away. The first time I did LSD, I was in grief for 9+ hours. It was what seemed like an endless cycle of feeling intense and horrific grief, surrendering to it as it reached its peak and cascaded over me in waves of sorrow and wracking full body sobs, and then it would recede, and I would recover for awhile and wait until the next wave. Almost like surfing, except I never got on the board, I just had a wave crash on me and pull me under, over and over. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But the important part is that I always came up for air. There were times I thought I was going to die from grief, but I never did. I just kept surrendering to it, and I eventually came through it.</span></p><h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Basic Instructions: Trust, Surrender, Receive</span></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The basic instructions I subscribe to for a session are this: Trust, surrender, receive. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Trust the medicine.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Surrender to the process.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Receive what comes up.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I know it seems basic, which is why it works. Whenever I get off kilter, I can always come back to trusting the medicine, surrendering to it, and receiving whatever comes up. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This is another one of these things that I did not get until I started doing this work. It seems easy and obvious, but once I was in the medicine, it wasn&#8217;t so easy. </span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">What to do after the first session?</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Keep going with integration. THIS is where the work really happens. During the session, you might get 10% to maybe 30% during the session. The majority is after the session, and it comes from how you integrate what you felt. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This might be hard to understand until you&#8217;ve been through it. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One of the things I like to do is not talk about it with others for awhile. I find that talking about things is a way to &#8220;make meaning,&#8221; and can often just put me back in the same old patterns that were not serving me. Whereas the best part of integration is to let the meaning find me out of the space I leave&#8211;which means not talking about it. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Again, I know that probably sounds weird, but you will probably get it after you do a session or two. </span></p><h4><b>IMPORTANT: It’s OK To Not Do It</b></h4><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you decide that psychedelic medicine is not for you, that’s totally fine. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, if you have any doubt, then it’s probably not the right thing for you, at least right now. For many people, it’s not right at all, and for others, its not right now, but will be right later. </span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I know for me personally, I had access to this treatment at least 5 years before I did it. Even though it&#8217;s the most important thing I’ve ever done for myself, I’m glad I waited as long as I did, because I was not ready 5 years before I did it.</span></p><p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I was ready when I did it.</span></p>								</div>
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									<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here is a list of resources I recommend to people who need more information:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If your goal is to use psychedelics to help you heal trauma and pain, there are three books I recommend:&nbsp;</span><b><i></i></b></p>
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<li><b><i>The single best book on MDMA is </i></b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dose-Hope-Story-MDMA-Assisted-Psychotherapy/dp/1544521022"><b><i>A Dose of Hope</i></b></a><b><i>. </i></b><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you are going to read one book, that is the book to read.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;">The single best book on developing an integration practice: </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Work-Recognize-Patterns/dp/B092394734"><span style="font-weight: 400;">How To Do The Work</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Its not at all about psychedelics, but the author nails the integration process very well.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;">The single best book on trauma and why psychedelic medicine is so necessary: </span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/B08TX585RN/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Body Keeps The Score</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. This explains the science behind trauma really well, and is not necessary to read, but was really eye-opening for me.&nbsp;</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">You can read a lot more books if you want, but you don&#8217;t need to.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you want to use psychedelics primarily for mind expansion, then there are several options. Here are the books I&#8217;ve found really useful:&nbsp;</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;">The best place to start to learn about general use of psychedelics for mind expansion is <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Psychedelic-Explorers-Guide-Therapeutic-Journeys/dp/B09ZD2HCQY">The Psychedelic Explorer&#8217;s Guide, by James Fadiman</a>. This book is easy to read and a great resource on psychedelics by a true pioneer in the field.&nbsp;</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you liked that and want to go REALLY deep, try <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Food-Gods-Radical-History-Evolution/dp/0712670386">Food of the Gods by Terence McKenna</a>. I&#8217;m just going to warn you: that book will totally change how you see everything and melt your mind. At least it did for me.</span></li>
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									<p>This is the introductory episode of The Tucker Max Experiences. </p><p>I tell you what I will do: I&#8217;m going to post about what I&#8217;ve learned and experienced in my life. </p><p>I tell you what I won&#8217;t do: tell you what to do, or give bullshit life coach advice. </p><p>And I tell the story of how I came up with the name, and realized I was an idiot. </p>								</div>
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		<p>The post <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com/welcome-to-the-tucker-max-experiences/">Welcome to The Tucker Max Experiences</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.tuckermax.com">Tucker Max</a>.</p>
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