tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449Mon, 07 Oct 2024 05:54:23 +0000Are You Lying to Yourself?EmotionsAre You Lying to Yourself? It's All Just An IllusionDid You Know?It's All Just An IllusionNLP (Neuro Linguistic ProgrammingBody LanguageHypnosisSelf-ImprovementCommunicationControl Your MindOur Defense MechanismsRapportAwardsEmotionGames for the MindHuman naturePsychological StudiesSocial SciencesEmpathyIt's An HonorPerceptionPsychological NeedsSend Me an EmailTravel with me to the valley of your mindhttp://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)Blogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-7286340481792211882Fri, 06 Feb 2009 17:33:00 +00002009-02-07T14:34:16.350-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?CommunicationHuman natureLiars, cheats, copycats and thieves come in many forms, but since the Internet has come into play, there has been a steep rise in one particular liar, cheat and thieve, and that is Plagiarists. The Internet has made it so easy to gather information on any subject of your choosing, and to easily copy that information, including an entire Website, with a few short clicks on your keyboard - to use http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2009/02/plagiarists-liars-cheats-copycats-and.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-6373316087936422166Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:46:00 +00002009-01-04T13:00:54.349-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?CommunicationEmotionEmotionsRapportSelf-Improvement<!--Begin-->By Mort Fertel: (Guest Blogger)HOW DO YOU GET OVER YOUR PAST (AND PAST YOUR MARRIAGE PROBLEMS)Are you hurting? Has your spouse neglected you? Rejected you? Emotionally abused you? Are you struggling to get over the pain of an affair?If you’re having marital trouble, the chances are good that you need to put some hurt behind you. It’s one of the most common questions I get. “Mort, I http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2009/01/get-over-your-past-and-save-your.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-5306167662166502924Sun, 23 Nov 2008 15:48:00 +00002008-12-24T15:24:46.693-05:00Did You Know?Self-ImprovementI am very careful about who and what I allow into my life. Anyway that you look at it, it is a shield I attempt to build around myself. I am a firm believer, as you well know if you have spent anytime on this site, that like attracts like. We are, and bring into our lives that which we think about. This thought creates the next moment and action, and so on. Every person, and situation creates a http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/11/dont-let-toxic-people-thrive-on-you.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-1629458618786971288Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:50:00 +00002008-12-12T01:55:38.039-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?NLP (Neuro Linguistic ProgrammingSelf-ImprovementOne NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) Method that has helped me tremendously in problem solving and personal relationships is the use of Perceptual Positions. I have learned more about myself, and come to understand others better through this method, than any other, in my opinion.Perceptual PositionsFirst Position – The easiest one for all of us to understand is the first position, because this http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/11/learning-through-eyes-of-another.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-7563742302196337706Tue, 11 Nov 2008 13:45:00 +00002008-11-11T08:48:42.005-05:00It's An HonorIn honor of our Veterans and soldiers who have made the sacrifice for us. http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/11/honoring-sacrifice-veterans-day-2008.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-7683920365326140398Fri, 07 Nov 2008 18:37:00 +00002008-12-12T01:57:30.029-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?Control Your MindEmotionsPsychological NeedsSelf-ImprovementAddictions come in many forms, and rarely do we see, or acknowledge them within ourselves. We all know about the usual ones, like drugs, alcohol, eating, etc., but what about the non-visual ones like the addiction to drama, grief, victim hood? Usually we don’t stop to consider that our thoughts can be addictions as well.Addiction is: “anything that compels you, in actions or thoughts, and you http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/11/conflict-addiction-meets-psychological.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-8791858061485543541Wed, 05 Nov 2008 17:23:00 +00002008-12-12T02:01:43.755-05:00Did You Know?Games for the MindIt's All Just An IllusionRapportIf you are human, no matter how self-confident you are, we all have that voice within that gives us varying degrees of doubt. We all feel the need to fit in, and no-one wants to be wrong, because if we are wrong, then we have failed in some way. Even though a mistake is a vital step in learning and becoming better, a mistake is still perceived as a failure.If we fail we may be rejected. There http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/11/simon-says.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-7753256701370911652Tue, 04 Nov 2008 15:41:00 +00002008-11-06T11:50:51.960-05:00Control Your MindEmotionsSelf-ImprovementLast year I had several drastic things happen in my life. Each one in itself, is hard for anyone to deal with. Before I was able to recover from one, and get my feet planted back firmly underneath of me, another one would hit. The man that I was building a life and home with, and thought I would be spending the rest of my life with, and trusted with my heart, the man who I believed had http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/11/confessions-notebook-and-journaling-to.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-7486766520645419156Mon, 03 Nov 2008 21:39:00 +00002008-11-03T16:42:10.737-05:00Control Your MindLong ago in a small, far away village, there was a place known as the House of 1000 Mirrors. A small, happy little dog learned of this place and decided to visit. When he arrived, he bounced happily up the stairs to the doorway of the house. He looked through the doorway with his ears lifted high and his tail wagging as fast as it could. To his great surprise, he found himself staring at 1000 http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/11/house-of-1000-mirrors.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-7947693081302131043Tue, 28 Oct 2008 23:33:00 +00002008-12-12T02:03:35.248-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?Human natureIt's All Just An IllusionThe Shadows That Lay Within UsMost all of us want to be good people, and to act with wisdom, dignity and integrity…three qualities, I know that, I strive for. Along with honesty, but then, I believe, that is a quality that is only a portion of the other three. But humans, as a whole, are less good than we want to be, or even imagine ourselves to be. I have written several times before about the http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/10/only-shadow-knows.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-850634457007247374Wed, 22 Oct 2008 14:12:00 +00002008-12-12T02:05:49.389-05:00Control Your MindDid You Know?Games for the MindIt's All Just An IllusionI was born with mitral valve prolapse syndrome (MVPS (also known as "click murmur syndrome" and "Barlow's syndrome"), which is the most common heart valve abnormality, affecting five to ten percent of the world population. I never knew I had it until after my son was born.At first it felt like a thump in my chest that would cause me to gasp. At times in the middle of the night I would wake up http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/10/mitral-valve-prolapse-syndrome-meets.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-6901901167617215396Sat, 18 Oct 2008 19:38:00 +00002008-12-12T02:08:17.829-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?Have you ever really taken the time to think about it? Control and manipulation are at the core of all our inter-personal relationships.Control and manipulation, is a very vast subject. They are such ugly words, but we experience them everyday of our lives. People and institutions use our fears and our needs against us to get us to do what they want. We are being manipulated by our Government, http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/10/if-you-dont-change-your-mind-others.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-991865802501371323Fri, 17 Oct 2008 12:25:00 +00002008-10-17T08:33:26.611-04:00AwardsI believe everyone puts a lot of time, thought, and themselves into their individual blogs. For myself, whether I am writing from my heart, or about a subject that is more technical, which I do a great deal of research for…they all take me days to write, and get right.Even using Entrecard, where you are assured many visitors, you have to wonder whether anyone actually reads anything on you blog, http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/10/uber-amazing-blog-award.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-565208295596220692Sat, 11 Oct 2008 12:26:00 +00002008-12-12T02:10:41.624-05:00Body LanguageCommunicationEmotionHuman natureAs humans communication is the cornerstone of our lives, and we communicate in so many ways, mostly subconsciously. We communicate through words, body language, smell, touch, sound. We use every sense, including our sixth sense, which would be subconscious, to communicate with one another. There is a continuous assortment of energy and signals being transported from each other at all moments in http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/10/communication-is-cornerstone-of-our.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-9102852444153458146Thu, 25 Sep 2008 17:02:00 +00002008-12-12T02:12:54.171-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?HypnosisIt's All Just An IllusionNLP (Neuro Linguistic ProgrammingOur Defense MechanismsHumans need to feel in control. In control of their lives, emotions, destinies, and many times those around us, in an attempt to achieve their hearts desires. But in order to be in control of these things, we must be in control of ourselves. In order to be in control of ourselves, we must first begin to know ourselves. Why do we behave the way we do, feel the way we do, believe the things we do?http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/09/how-core-beliefs-impact-our-lives.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-5726008504703069357Fri, 19 Sep 2008 13:47:00 +00002008-09-27T09:19:54.491-04:00Games for the Mindhttp://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/09/workout-for-your-mind-mastermind.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-6922874960640540988Mon, 15 Sep 2008 18:10:00 +00002008-12-12T02:16:07.635-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself?EmotionEmotionsHypnosisNLP (Neuro Linguistic ProgrammingI don’t think that there is any doubt that emotions play an important part in all of our lives. In every moment we experience them, and are faced with a choice as to how we choose to respond to them. Most of us don’t always understand the emotions that we are feeling during certain circumstances. If we want to know more about ourselves, and understand those around us better, we need to understandhttp://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/09/emotions-center-of-social-interactions.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-295123721952579457Fri, 12 Sep 2008 12:10:00 +00002008-09-12T08:40:01.204-04:00AwardsLea at Ocean of Perspectives has honored me by presenting “Valley of the Subconscious” with the “I love your blog” award. Thank you Lea, it is always nice when you put so much into something, to know that others are appreciating it. I love your blog also, and had you not presented me with the award, you would have been on my list.Now it is my duty to pass this award on to others:Here are the http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/09/i-love-your-blog-award.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-4100621159078141341Thu, 11 Sep 2008 14:27:00 +00002008-09-11T11:25:00.547-04:00There is a lot of speculation about who the terrorists really were and for what purpose, among the American people, and the World, for that matter. The acts of these terrorists, whoever they were, and wherever they came from, and for whatever purpose this act served to create, it caused the American people to unite. Even though it may have been under deceptive reasons, we as Americans had almost http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/09/dedication-to-911-hereos-victims-and.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-6016149532959222084Tue, 09 Sep 2008 18:46:00 +00002008-12-12T02:14:12.632-05:00Did You Know?Let’s see if you know any of these:1. Your tongue has it’s own exclusive tongue print, similar to the distinctiveness of your fingerprint.NOTE: When the doctor asks you to stick out your tongue, it isn’t only to stick the tongue suppressor in their, it is part of his examination of the state of your health. Want to know what your tongue is saying about your health? 2. Did you know that a http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/09/some-amazing-things-you-may-not-know.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-8555699494430370167Thu, 04 Sep 2008 13:20:00 +00002009-02-17T21:05:41.354-05:00It's All Just An IllusionThe purpose of this blog is not for my rants, however, I have just been subjected to some of the worst and deceptive customer service that I have ever experienced in my lifetime. I feel that others should be aware of the experience before they themselves are subjected to the same treatment.This is what happened and my opinions of these events, along with documentation from others that also sharedhttp://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/09/tvs-depot-aka-fotoconnection-aka-etc.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-6210336088683557768Sun, 31 Aug 2008 15:50:00 +00002008-08-31T14:42:57.898-04:00Are You Lying to Yourself?EmotionsIt's All Just An IllusionOur Defense MechanismsI write and study about relationships, on my blog “Open Your Heart to the Love”, and how the mind works, as I do mostly here on this blog, as a way of learning about myself, and the idiosyncrasies of the thoughts, reactions, and behaviors that make up who I am. Why is it that sometimes I behave in ways that go against my own values, and against whom it is that I desire to be as a person? No one http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/08/i-write-and-study-about-relationships.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-4687284000368587098Wed, 27 Aug 2008 16:22:00 +00002008-12-12T02:19:29.416-05:00Body LanguageDid You Know?Psychological StudiesRapportWe all have done it. You watch a heart wrenching movie and you sit there and cry, just as if you are the actual person that it is happening to. Or you see an accident happen, and you gasp, your heart races, you feel sick to your stomach, your face wiggles into all sorts of contortions, you feel weak in the knees, and run to help. How many of you have watched any of the 9/11 tapes, and not had http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/08/monkey-see-monkey-do-are-you-relating.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-2325746807220780389Thu, 14 Aug 2008 18:31:00 +00002008-12-12T02:21:33.156-05:00Are You Lying to Yourself? It's All Just An IllusionPerceptionOur brain has a way of making shortcuts to process information…an auto-pilot, so to speak, that takes care of so many of our tasks, so that we don’t have to stop and think about it, and process how to react. Driving a car for example; when we are first learning to drive, we have to think about just about every move we make; however, once we have learned this skill, we do it on auto-pilot, pretty http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/08/doctor-doctor-whats-wrong-with-my-eyes.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7260940483131040449.post-2580370247992972802Thu, 14 Aug 2008 18:02:00 +00002008-08-14T14:24:40.514-04:00Are You Lying to Yourself? It's All Just An IllusionWhere are all the faces? Can you find them all? Click on the illusions to see what you can find.I find an Indian woman, a woman laying on her stomach, bear, hawk, tiger, horse, swan, and a wolf.By: Jonathon Earl BowserGo by his site, there are so many more magnificent art pieces there.You should find 13 faces, can you find them all?Animals, faces, people. What all do you see?By: Octavio OcampoBy:http://valleyofthesubconscious.blogspot.com/2008/08/faces-faces-where-are-all-faces.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (searchingwithin)1