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		<title>Do couples have to sleep together?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Oct 2018 14:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Once again this week I had to do the embarrassing thing. Someone invited Charles and me to stay and didn&#8217;t need to mention that they were assuming we&#8217;d share a bed. Everyone assumes married couples share a bed. Even unmarried couples have to share a bed. There&#8217;s no escape. Unless, of course, you don&#8217;t love [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<title>Do you have to get up too early?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2017 14:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve become well aware of many forms of discrimination and how to avoid them in the past few years, but there&#8217;s one I suffer from (besides, increasingly, ageism) that rarely gets any acknowledgement at all. Being that which is popularly known as a night owl. I&#8217;ve become very conscious of this lately because we&#8217;re having [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<title>Is excluding people just not on?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Mar 2013 15:44:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[We recently made two new friends (I hope… I trust..). We met them at supper at another friend’s house and since then we have all continued to meet as a group. This has been great. But I think that you can’t really get to know someone and solidify a friendship within a group. Perhaps you [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<title>Are you being reasonable?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2012 16:27:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Once upon a time &#8211; no, this is true. Once I had a friend with a very sweet small boy, and I watched his mother bringing him up from when he was a baby. She never, ever just said &#8216;no&#8217;. Everything he was to do or was not to do was carefully explained to him [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<title>Shopping</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Nov 2012 16:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; Being a good housekeeper was once a good thing to be. Something you might take a pride in. Or fail at. But we&#8217;ve grown out of all that and value ourselves on much better criteria now. Housewife, housekeeper, nah&#8230;. And you’d think we’d all be experts at doing the shopping; we seem to do an awful [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<title>Change your world with your mind?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2012 13:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[We have just heard that Charles&#8217; employer is planning to cut his salary (and hence his pension some day too&#8230;) very drastically in the name of cost cutting. We were just planning our holiday, and although this won&#8217;t affect that directly as it won&#8217;t happen for a little while, it cast a cloud. The nature [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<title>Cheese or pudding first??</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Oct 2012 14:03:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Charles has just been to France. One of the results is he has waved a flag for an old, not quite resolved tension. Which is: pudding or cheese first?? Understand: pudding is for guests and on normal days cheese is an optional extra for the greedy or still, somehow, peckish after the main (=only) course. [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Sep 2012 08:42:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; There may be one thing worse than having to produce the happy surprise response to a surprise birthday or Christmas present (acting lessons, anyone? &#8211; I mean it doesn&#8217;t matter really whether you love it or not, you have to do an instant and convincing surprised delight either way, often in public. ) The worse thing is [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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		<title>Being a pleb.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[anne]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2012 09:11:11 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know many people from the ruling class. I guess I am a pleb. I do bump up against a colleague occaisionally though who seems to come from a totally diffferent and quite bewildering world. I think he&#8217;s one of them. I don&#8217;t, sadly, have quite enough to do with him to ever get [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-related-none yarpp-template-list'>

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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Sep 2012 12:47:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; People understand loneliness. If they know someone is alone they may respond by offering company for comfort and will almost certainly worry about them. People are not quite so clued up about those of us who suffer easily from over exposure to people. I don&#8217;t know how people have coped in the past, when privacy [&#8230;]<div class='yarpp yarpp-related yarpp-related-rss yarpp-template-list'>
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