vidhi majithia

What if SUN takes a holiday ?

2019-11-26T10:39:00.001-08:00

I have been thinking about this since a while now, never in my life or may be never ever universe must have noticed that SUN decides to take a holiday . Simply speaking no sunrise for a day . Ever thought about it how would it be ? Leaving all the scientific things aside for a while like no sunlight, no food and disturbed eco system I feel sun plays a very important role in life other ways.

The most popular way to motivate someone is that there is always a sunrise after sunset. Sunrise is a hope. A hope for every negative thing to end and a ray of positivity. It makes you believe that the darkest night, those scary nights are not for ever. Literally means your problems are not forever. Your confusions are not forever. There is something good waiting for you . There is an assured sunrise waiting for you. A bright sunny day that shows you the most beautiful ray of hope to fulfil all your dreams and achieve all what you have desired for yourself. No dark nights are for ever. Never !!!

Vidhi Majithia

THINK before you THINK !!

2018-02-20T08:44:00.001-08:00

Why our minds are trained so much to complain ? Why do we easily see the negative side of something and fail to see the positives till the end ? Why one negative thought kills the relationships and several attempts made to clear that thought goes in vain ? Why people trust on negative talks easily and takes time when something positive in spoken ? Why do we have grievances departments and customer support for our clients where clients can complain and why there is no specific department taking care of only appreciation ? Why people can take out time to complain and not appreciate ?

The world is such. We complain about negativity in life but the thing is that we are so used to about thinking negative thoughts that bad things are normal but a good deed is absolute abnormal for us. Cheating is common but honesty is uncommon.

We need to change our perspective at looking and treating people first. It's only then when this world will be a better place to live in ... I repeat to live in...Not just a normal inhale and exhale of oxygen !!

God fearing or God loving , what’s your choice ?

2017-09-17T12:17:00.001-07:00

I wished to cook something special for my dad, a special treat for a special person and was excited for the same. I shared this idea with my mom and she suggested me few dishes and finally I decided and started preparing . My mom immediately came up with the exact recipe and insisted me to follow it closely so that I do not make any kind of error and the dish turns out to be absolutely perfect. I appreciated the effort put in by my mom to make sure I get all the success in my task but at the same time I had this thought in my mind that what if after putting all these efforts I end up spoiling this dish ? What if it does not end up like how my mom expected it to be ? Is it like my dad is going to judge me how much I love and respect him on the basis of this dish ? Is it that the relationship between us will no longer remain the same because the taste was not up to the mark? Certainly not, relationship between me and my dad is above all these materialistic things and nothing on this planet can change It, definitely not. Then why this fear ? Why am I so bothered when the bonding is so strong and I know that my dad will see the feelings and love for him and not only the taste and presentation ? Obviously I would give my best and would make sure that he enjoys it but ultimately we all are humans and things can go wrong, right ?

This is exactly how we think when we pray to our God. We get into the details of following the correct process and get so much involved in it that it makes us God fearing, we often tend to forget that the pioneer of any prayer is a good intention and a loving heart. Nothing is beyond good intention and faith towards our beloved God. Yes, a process is designed and it’s highly appreciated if we follow the exact process and preach our God but at the same time its equally important to know that failing to follow a process but still having a good intention is not at all a wrong prayer. In fact no prayer can be wrong any time . No boundaries of process can stop any one at any point of time to connect with your God. We need to remember that these process are designed to make us feel close to God and in case if we fail to follow the process but still feel the same closeness towards the God it means we are on a right path. It is good to be God fearing but it’s even better to be God loving. We need to love our God and when there is love there is no fear.

Bonding are always above any process or any specific methodology be it with our parents, siblings, friends or even God. As long as the intentions and faith is strong nothing can go wrong, ever.

Live life the way you wish Girl !!!

2017-05-20T11:00:00.001-07:00

How does it feel when you are not accepted the way you are ? Or let me put it this way, how does it feel when you are asked to alter yourself to fit in the criteria of someone else, as if, you yourself does not have your own identity, yes identity, my first identity is how I look, I may not be the so called perfect photoshoped model that world sees on the cover page of magazines but whatever I am I have accepted myself and I am proud of myself. Just because I am dusky, skinny or obese, short or not so superbly crafted by nature does not make me less then anyone else in this universe. Incase if people have forgotten, everyone irrespective of his outer personality has a right to live the way ‘they’ wish to, and are not required by other people to be judged. They have a right to live carefree, not worrying about how people will look and think about them and they have all the rights to enjoy themselves.
If I am not good looking, or sorry if I may not fit in your criteria of so called good looking girl that is absolutely your problem World, I am not here to please anyone, I m here to live my life on my terms, I am here to live my life the way I want to. Yes I am dusky and I do not wish to spend my time working only on how to look fairer then my actual complexion because I do not care what you feel about me. Yes I am obese and I still wish to eat all what I like and wear all that I love wearing, because I am born with a purpose to enjoy the life gifted by God to me and I do not owe this to you World.
This is the level of confidence I wish to see in each and every female of our society and then I want to see how many people would dare to judge any female. Somewhere, it’s us who gives them this chance to make us feel low when we ourselves do not accept us the way we are. For the world to accept us, the first thing that we need to do is accept ourselves. We have worked hard to create an identity of ourselves working hard at home, at work and given our best at every point of time. We have many more things that makes us precious like our talent to work in corporate world and yet strike a wonderful balance between our personal and professional lives. Our outer beauty alone cannot justify our identity. If the world wants to judge they need to see the inner and outer qualities before passing the judgement, else stay away. We females are strong enough to handle our lives beautifully without judgmental people surrounding us.

Life always gives a second chance, so grab it !!!

2017-04-13T08:07:00.001-07:00

Just a week was left and I was all set to marry Ria and start our new life. I got a text from her “ I need to meet you Shyam”. It was a simple court marriage we had planned for. Later in the evening we met at our regular coffee shop, same place where it all started for the first time. She was in a different mood, I missed the excitement and happiness in her eyes that normally any girl would have when she is so close to her wedding day. She was not comfortable, something was bothering her too much.“I am done, I cant take it anymore.” She complained, “ what's wrong, what you cannot take anymore?” I asked, “You” she said, “ I cant marry you, we are just not made for each other, we are not compatible”. She said all this in one go, as if she wanted to get rid of me and I was holding her back . She had high career aspirations and was doing extremely well in her career. We both were successful in our career in “our own way”. Yes, what I mean by our own way is that we had a different definition to achieve our goals, but little was I aware that this would come in between our relationship shattered me to the core.

Post completion of my engineering and MBA I started working for an American MNC. I always wanted to be my own boss, hence started my own venture, but it takes time to settle when you move out of your comfort zone and start something of your own. Yes it was a risk and I was ready for it, probably she was not. We were dating each other since 2 years, things were good at start but I noticed her insecurities when I discussed my plan to start my own venture but I ignored it and assumed things will be fine as time would pass, also, I was confident about my skills and talent to start my business. This is what was making her insecure. Insecurities, fear was understood, but a drastic step of break up for this reason was difficult for me to digest. Time and again I was thinking the same thing that she did not trust my capabilities and my talent to handle things. It was all over, I tried to convince her, explained her but guess she had made up her mind and nothing was left for me to do . I had to let her go.

The date skipped from the calendar just as a casual day and many more such dates skipped , months and later a year. Her last words were still hitting my mind and this made me hard like a stone. My concentration was only at my work. My mom, who is a single parent insisted me to get married and got tons of proposals but I denied as the thought of getting into a relationship itself was stressful for me. I always had an opinion that knowing someone well in advance is better then getting into a pure arranged marriage, but after all what had happened I had lost interest in knowing someone and moreover I had lost interest in the concept of marriage, because all I believed in did not happen.

After lots of discussions and arguments with mom about me to settle down finally I agreed for an arranged marriage. I agreed to marry Kavya. This was a new beginning of our Life, we hardly knew each other, we met for good 2to 3 times and things were final. There was just one thing I told her “ Its a new relationship we are starting with, I am ok to tell you my past before we go ahead, but, I do not wish to carry any kind of baggage in my new relationship.” She said, “ Lets start on a fresh note, let us both not discuss about past , lets not dig it, instead, speak only about present and future”. I asked her “you would be spending your entire life with me, dont you wish to be aware about all what I was in past ?” she replied , “ We both have lived our life separately till now, we have met so many people in our life, we must have had so many good and bad moments and we have handled it in our own way. Rather then knowing about what could have happen, what went wrong and why were we not able to change it will make no difference to our present life, so why to start knowing about each other with past and judge each other. I am sure we have many more good things to discuss and know each other rather then discussing all that’s gone and not a part of our Life anymore.” I loved this attitude of her. One thing I understood from her is things are never permanent in life be it good, bad or worst. It’s all on us about how we look at it. I loved the way Kavya took efforts for our relationship and that made me do more to make it stronger. I forgot Ria. She was a closed chapter for me, not only in my life but also in my mind. Since it was not love marriage in the beginning what worked out for us is the trust, respect and positive approach. Love followed eventually.

Today we have a five years old daughter and things are good. I have understood that It does not matter since how long you have been knowing each other and it’s not always true that strangers cannot be good partners. For every relationship the correct approach, acceptance of the person as they are, trust and positivity is all that matters. This creates a bond which would never fade. I have no regret for all that happened because I would have never got a chance to meet a gem like Kavya who brought so much of positivity in my life and I firmly believe all that happens, happens for a reason.

Priceless sleep

2016-08-27T08:25:00.000-07:00

I have often heard oldies shouting and complaining about the young generation as why do they prefer to sleep so much during holidays? But no one has tried to know the reason for same, its very easy to judge and say that people are lazy but its difficult to go to the roots and find the reason for this. Sleeping makes you forget about everything going around you for sometime, it takes you away from everything that's bothering you, corporate stress, career stress, social stress, competition is everywhere , we all are willingly or unwillingly part of this race and this keeps your mind continuously busy thinking how would u reach your goals, how will u cope up with the rest of the people around you and specially when there is no choice but to be a part of it . Life is no more a simple task where office and home locations are nearby, people spend quality of time and energy to reach work place, later the work pressure, along with this you are always gifted with some or the other political stress at work place, very few are blessed with a very peaceful and huddle free personal life, some struggle for finances and some for relationships. After all this if its just a peaceful sleep during a weekend it is a big ask ??

Diwali Learnings

2016-08-27T08:22:00.003-07:00

After spending quality time at Marine drive sea face this diwali there were few things that inspired me to the core. I have heard , read , and seen people suggesting not to include fire crackers for diwali celebrations and I do agree as they are right on the environment and health issues but where my mind was stuck is that if crackers had so many disadvantages then why were they invented ?? Probably not all but few were invented with a reason , a reason to give a lesson of positivity , a lesson of hard work. An example of rocket will be a perfect compliment to what I exactly mean. One needs to be at ground level if he dreams to touch the sky, without being down to earth you cannot fly high. One needs to take the extreme pain of touching fire, this indicates taking risk in life, take a risk and trust yourself . Once the risk is taken pull your socks and move towards your direction without bothering what are the remarks given by the society to you, good, bad or ugly whatever be the case you need to reach the destination. Be so enthusiastic that people take a step behind and give you a space to fly high. Then when you reach the highest peak , your destination, you shine like a star and the people on ground level the ones who had taken a step behind will be the one capturing you in pictures. That's called your day, your moment . Live it , whatever be the duration and come down with all calm and compassion. This is what exactly life is all about . Everything in life has a meaning we just need to take an initiative and look deep inside.

Live Life !!

2016-08-27T08:20:00.001-07:00

We all count the investments we made in our life , the returns that we are earning out of it. We are so busy earning money that we are constantly in the process of knowing how and what should we do so that we can earn more, live a better lifestyle, have a luxurious life . We start from the initial level that's education, forgetting the entire purpose of education we use it as a tool to earn wealth. But what next, and where does this end ? The answer is no where , we tend to ignore the biggest fact of life and that is to live our life, life is much beyond inhale and exhale of oxygen , its all about creating wonderful moments , to cherish them, live life with your loved ones, make mistakes , learn from your mistakes and move ahead , laugh on your mistakes nothing wrong in it , we are humans and we are bound to make many of them. Move out of your comfort zone and try something adventurous where you may not earn dollars but for sure some beautiful experience . At the end of your life dont count your dollars count your memories , trust me it will bring a bigger smile on your face .

Mummy and Me

2016-08-27T08:17:00.002-07:00

Dear Mom, I don't need any special day to thank you , because you have not waited for special day to help me, to nurture me and be with me, you are all the time exclusively and unconditionally available for me and that's what makes me write this for you . The word Thank You stands no where if I compare to all what you have done for me and are doing till date but still , I thank you from the bottom of my heart for being there with me , for knowing all what my heart says even before I convey it to you, you not only read my mind but also read my heart. Thank you for all those instant solutions and the expert advice given by you when they were needed the most. Above all, thanks for listening to me patiently, to motivate me and for believing in me all the time. Thank you for everything once again !! You mean the whole world to me :) Lots of Love, Vidhi :)

Let go !!

2016-08-27T08:15:00.003-07:00

The best way to stay happy is to let go !! Easier said then done but that's the only way how you can keep yourself at peace and live this life in a beautiful way. The reason why people feel negative is because first, we cannot let go things in life, we hold on to things even when we know that its not in our control, rather then working on it we just sit and worry about it , don't we ? Second, we expect a lot from this universe, we expect all good deeds to come back to us immediately, we want all the success immediately , we expect that we never fall into any awkward situations in life and always have a fairytale like life , but, that's not possible and that's what we need to tell ourselves. Our life is not a fiction story, it is a real life where the author is none other but our own set of karmas performed by us. Whichever century we cross, whatever gadgets we use in our life the theory of karma will always remain the same . We need to do good deeds , expect less from this universe and have to let go things that are not in our control. Remember one thing, no one is fully satisfied in his life , a beggar starves for a single meal and a rich man walks miles to digest a meal !!!

God's painting for me

2016-08-27T08:13:00.001-07:00

You have made a beautiful painting ( imagine a plan of your future ) and then someone comes there ,( imagine god) looks at your painting , takes the brush from your hand and intervenes , changes the colour combination, erases few objects. You get pissed off as the plan looks completely different from what you imagined, not even close to your imagination, you cry, you beg in front of that person, you even get furious and feel everything is destroyed but he continues his work without even bothering about your reaction. You get depressed , you loose hopes, feel like everything is destroyed and dont even look at what he is creating and then suddenly he comes and gives you your painting and says, take it ,its all yours now. Now the one that you are holding in your hand is so wonderful, pleasing and attractive , moreover much better and beyond your imaginations to what you were planning for your painting . This is what God does everytime .

Instant Karma....Not always Instant !

2016-08-27T08:06:00.002-07:00

Social media is full of quotes and videos that speak about karmas, our karmic account, good deeds etc. Latest of all is INSTANT KARMA this one is widely accepted, or let me put it this way, highly shared and liked among the new generation. Well, to be very honest it does not work that way and its not instant. Yes, its not a packet of noodles, it's your own karmic account and it has a cycle . There are videos uploaded on social media that shows some silly acts like a man pulling another one and due to this act he falls into his own trap and instead of the other guy falling down, he falls down and hurts himself. Good thought, but unfortunately it does not happen so instantly. A human being when gets into the activity of performing negative karmas for his own benefits and decides to harm other humans or any living creature he gets success at the beginning phrase, he gets the confidence and here is when karma tests him. Yes, he gets all the success in the beginning, here, if he realises his mistake and regrets, good for him, but normally it does not happen. Later, when he reaches to the peak of his success karma plays it's role. This is the time when he pays for all the negative karmas performed by him, because it's only when you loose something that you love the most you realise your mistakes. It's all about the pain that you feel post loosing all that's close to your heart. Karma is a cycle which no one can escape, it comes at the right time and not at your time . Vidhi Majithia

Recipe for happiness

2011-05-30T03:21:00.001-07:00

We all run behind this word , we all love to have this feeling in our life , we never show exit to happiness , we want god to give us happy moments unconditionally , because “Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence”
Let us start with the basic ingredients for this recipe, a whole lot of positivity in your mind is the core ingredient to be happy, now, I know its easier said than done to get a whole lot of positivity, the question here that would arise by the scholars will be that if the person has so much of positivity in his mind he will not be unhappy.
So the way to happiness is through positivity. You know when I was a child, somewhere around three or four I was the favorite amongst all my family members because I was the youngest and obviously I was the cutest as all fall under the category of "cute" until they are under the category of “Kids”. You know the reason why I was happy? I never compared myself with others or I would say I was too young to do such comparisons - others did but I did not care , I remember the moment I started worrying about the thing like with whom I am compared , why I m compared ,for what reasons they are doing and how to overcome etc . I forgot myself. The moment I forgot myself , I started living like others , I started pleasing others , did what is acceptable in the world rather than doing something that would bring happiness to my life .I was successful , people liked me , they respected me ,but , I was not happy , I thought , I got all what I wanted still , y I m not happy ? Then I got an answer, I did all what is acceptable in this world, but, I did not do anything to please myself !!!
This is not what I wanted from my life; this is not what I wanted to do. Painting was my passion. But I am a CEO of a MNC , this title does not give me that smile or that spark in my eyes that I get when people praise my paintings , I feel content , I feel satisfied , I feel complete , and most important I feel "HAPPY" , when I paint . Its not like whatever I have done in my life have done it unhappily, but , everyone has one certain passion and it can be anything, it can be any weird thing on this planet and its only you who knows about it very well so go for it , do something crazy , do something that will bring smile on your face , don’t give a damn to this bloody world, forget each and every problem , each and every liability , every tension , each stress, forget your boss who is sitting inside and watching you each and every moment , just live your life for one day the way you like , they way you wanted .
Once you get the feeling of happiness, positivity will have to come behind happiness.
There is one main task you need to do in your life, this word “positivity" has to be marked with permanent marker in your heart, soul and mind. You need to understand one thing that nothing is permanent in life, nor failure neither success. Each of them has equal share in our life , There would be times when you would be experiencing the best days of your life , may be you must be feeling that you are on the top of this world and wish that you remain there for your entire life . At the same time, the darker side of the life is also inevitable, and honestly after reading this if you feel yes I have gone through both such times trust me this is something very normal and has been faced by Every individual, so let the darker side come and go but you should be strong enough to sustain your positivity in each and every period. When you get the feeling of failure in your life , you recollect the days of your achievement , the days when you were counted as one of the best amongst others ,and this is what you should say to yourself “Its the same person , its the same effort its just not the same period that’s it ...!! “May be someone else who was experiencing a tough time earlier is having a good time right now. Its a vicious circle and everyone has to go through it sooner or later.
I hope you must have understood that, happiness is not something that we can buy or achieve, its something within ourselves to be precise it should be like, “ever since happiness heard your name, it has been running through the streets trying to find you.”

No love / arranged Marriage its time for " Wise marriage "

2010-09-01T11:32:00.001-07:00

"इश्क बेदर्दी म्जुह को पता है ..इसकी चाहत में मिलती सजा है .... बेकारी में मरर ही न जाऊं ..... ना समाज को में कैसे समजाऊ “All this is now just a part of entertainment and love is only found in history ..." आज कल टाइम किसके पास है प्यार करनेका ... मुझे तो मस्त एकदम टिकाव & show piece type Wife चाहिए ...." This is what I hear from some of the prospective grooms in my latest profession. For me this is a complete different experience. I have convinced people to buy investment, to pay off their liabilities but never convinced anyone to get married. It sounds amusing but this is one of the most interesting profile I have ever come a crossed. First day , when I was new to this world of matrimony I thought after selling the most toughest product like Insurance this will be a cake walk , but , I confess today , that was a wrong perception I had . Because, here it’s emotional selling. These people have everything in their life except spouse & to some extent they are solely responsible for their loneliness. They spend most of their time behind their career and had paid least or no attention towards their personal life when it was required and now blame all possible events, person etc for their late marriage. Trust me , within these 6 months I have met so many "Shaadi Pagal " ( yes , I call them shaadi pagal ) people that now if some one comes to me within 15 minutes like a doctor I can analyze the reason why is it getting delayed and prescribe him some tonics (read tonic as necessary changes that needs to be done in his personality ) so that he/she can get married ASAP . No intention to boost myself but this is the fact and this is actually what I have learned in my latest job. Most amazing fact that I have learnt is there is nothing like Arrange marriage or Love marriage, infact, there is a new concept developed "Wise marriage”. A pure balance sheet is prepared and people analyze where there is profit and where there is a loss .

1st example, If 1 girl is pursuing her Post Graduation or if she can be a decent home maker in future and 2nd is already a Post graduate then go for 2nd one. "Income flow will be much faster!!! Think positive.... मेरी home loan है यार.... If she will start giving output soon it will be easier & 2nd thing , if I am getting a readymade Post graduate girl why should I waste money and time behind the one who is still pursuing , may be she will change her mind in future and I will have to bare the loss . They have a beautiful definition for home makers and that is " the one who helps me to make my home (read financially) "....Caste जाने दो यार .... Hardly matters , Its high time now I need to settle down in Mumbai . I am 27. "

We literally pity such kind of people. I really respect those people who value education, the one who values females and treat them equal, trust me a female never has any objections to support her better half financially during bad times and there are lacs of females doing this right now and as per the growing inflation rate the number of working females will increase day by day, but, what irritates most is greediness. If you want her to do all this for you, respect her views, respect her decisions, give her some space, allow her to decide on her career, give her the liberty to take the decision weather she would like to work for her entire life or only till the crucial period. Don t judge her only on the basis of her degrees. There are lacs of females earning more than 50K on basis of only Graduation and that to at very respectable positions. There are various fields & Sectors like Sales, BPO (not only voice process, remember BPO is a huge Industry and has various process), to some extent in banking and financial sector too and many more decent jobs .There are people who do not accept self - employed females, for obvious reasons. But people do not wish to think so much. They just want lucrative degrees and handsome salary from their wives so that liabilities could be paid off easily. These kinds of people actually deserve fantastic professional life, truly they are excellent professional, but, as far as their personal life is concerned...... "Its better I don t say anything”. But, here I will not blame only boys, there are females too who force guys to think in this manner. Over ambitious girls , one who gives priority only to their career will love such kind of guys because they do not like joint families , they feel taking this financial burden is easy rather then taking the burden of In laws .

2nd example, beauty , how can one forget this as this is one of the most ancient and most ever green requirement in matrimony purpose , but , here I saw various colours in this requirement . I have one customer, well qualified, one of the most reputed businessman (would not like to name here) in their community, very rich family. But they had a very wired requirement , location no bar , caste no bar , no issues with education ( under graduate is also fine , even though his son is an MBA ) , financial status is not required a middle class girl will also do or someone even lower , nothing matters only one thing matters "Beauty " , she should have sharp features , that’s it , and most important guy does not have any say in this . Its family who decides , yeah , show off will be all done , they will sit for a meeting together and discuss all relevant and irrelevant topics but that will be least considered , "Vidhi उसको क्या पता चलेगा , वोह तो बच्चा है ... " . I said, " yes Uncle , 28 yrs का बच्चा ही तो हुआ " (obviously in my mind ). I have lacs of such high class people's profile who run blindly behind beauty . This is life ....thats it . They feel they are rich they can get best of the best , and as per their definition beauty is the only quality , nothing else is required .

3rd example, these are simply called " sample piece " , because they themselves don t know what they want from their own life , forget expectations from spouse . Sometimes they themselves are so confused about themselves they don t know what exactly they are searching . Initially they register saying they are very strict about their caste , show themselves as very decent and sophisticated people . But , within few days we come to know that its all show off , they are so frustrated and fed up with their own lives that they are fine with anybody and everybody but not a single person on this planet is ready to marry them . The reason is their nature, that’s it . They have this non adjustable, suspicious nature, false ego, etc etc . These kind of people who go for Personalized services, because , here they feel they have hired someone who will be responsible if they do not get married , because , otherwise there is no one who takes their non sense but here they feel they can speak in any weird way just because they have paid . Once, my customer was rejected due to the reasons mentioned above and the reason she said is “There is a fault in my relationship manager, a relationship manager should always be a psychologist . she should have selected a guy for me , she does not understand the process of marriage as she is just 23 ( commonly said by people who get no other reason to blame the company , relationship manager is too young ), if she would have selected a right candidate I would have not wasted my time " . I felt like saying " Sure madam , from last 36 years you are wasting your time because of me , right ? , U don t know about your caste as your parents are both from different caste and you don t understand either of culture , but still you expect a person who belongs from your native , how intelligent , isn't it ? one more thing , at this age also you feel you will not be comfortable staying with in laws and you dont hesitate to speak all this in front of the prospective groom and still you feel someone will accept you and will welcome you ? , I think madam you need to decide who actually needs a psychologist. "

Some also say , I got rejected because of this relationship manager , she does not have effective communication skills and must have failed to explain my profile to the prospective groom , agreed madam , I said , your extra ordinary profile does not allow me to use my communication skills , your pics with micro mini shorts and tight t shirts and the stylish way you have mentioned in your profile that you enjoy partying till late night , its still my fault that i did not convince the person to marry you . You are absolutely right madam . At the age of 30 also you are so enthusiastic and energetic . I still remember the way she said "what's wrong with my pics ? People are very modern now a days everyone wants an extra ordinary beautiful girl , and thats what I am . " I salute your confidence madam , what else I can say ?

But , If I add all this and If I don t add those excellent people in this post it will be very unfair , yes , there are some pure and true souls also , the one whose marriage genuinely get delay either due to social responsibility , some unavoidable circumstances in family or some other reasons , but , they are real gem of a person and we as a part of matrimony team actually wish that they get best of the best person and live an excellent life after their marriage because they actually deserve nothing else but the best in this world . I have seen old parents coming to my center and genuinely worried about their children , they trust us , we feel satisfied when we help them and this builds trust , love and respect for each other. There are cases where we personally give guarantee about the girl / boy only after seeing such kind of decent people . What these people need is just a shoulder to rely upon , and we as a team feel its a pleasure to cater such kind of true souls , it is more then just a job , its humanity . Just because of such kind souls I feel satisfied at the end of the day , their smiles and lovely blessings that they shower on me motivates me to work for them .

Lastly , no negative feelings for any one , its after all their own lives and may god give the best of the best to everyone .

I keep saying this word "Destiny"..........

2010-05-31T13:59:00.000-07:00

"वक़्त से पहले .... और तकदीर से ज्यादा किसी को कुछ नहीं मिलता" Its one of my most repeated lines , or rather I should say I am a strong believer of this particular saying . Yes , some might feel it as a negative attitude towards life , some might feel that only after putting insufficient effort in a particular task which results into a failure I say this to save myself .....maybe they are right , I feel they are right because its a fact that I cannot be right always. But, the fact is I believe in destiny . I feel God has already stored something for us , its just a task given to us to find out what is stored in our destiny , or rather that's the only duty we have , or to be more professional its a "Job Profile" which we need to perform during our entire life .

There will be several people who will oppose this by saying , " You cannot get anything in this world without putting efforts ...... not putting adequate efforts and then blaming destiny is a sign of a person who is not confident about himself and most important who does not wish to accept the fact that he is incapable and does not wish to change himself " This has been heard by me from those people who strongly oppose destiny . First of all , hats off to these guys , because this means people who do not believe in destiny are those who believe in themselves which is an excellent quality and which is actually very useful for a person to become successful in their life. But , the only thing I wish to say is , for example , if we take a normal MBA entrance exam , there are approximately 10 lacs (or may be more) who appear for these kinds of exams , but hardly 1 % people will mange to actually get admission in the top most B schools and the rest either drop or prefer the B or C level B schools option and then easily blame destiny for their failure . Well, I do not support them who actually got an admission in B or C level B schools because there it can be easily figured out that there is a lack of effort , but my argument is for those people who actually managed to get a call from a B school but , later on were not able to make it up to finals . Here, destiny plays a huge role , because in spite of putting lots of effort a student not getting selected just because his personality was not good enough to impress the management team , or may be a candidate getting too nervous at the last moment and fails to get an admission is all because of destiny . Its because you are running behind something thats actually not made for you , something which is not stored in for you . Because , here in spite of putting endless efforts the results will never turn positive. So now , the question arises is that what about the people who actually got success in their life and how come they got it and did not make any wrong decision or why it was like no wrong steps were taken by them during the entire task ? definitely , efforts play an important role , but more than that is luck factor , since it was stored in his destiny the situations became favourable , the time was always correct , the efforts were rightly taken etc etc , because ultimately it was meant for him and he ought to receive it . If there would be nothing like destiny in this world then everyone would have become either a High Profile business tycoon or an IIM A student , then there would have be no followers of god , and it would be a straight calculation of efforts towards success, but guys , life is not so easy always .........इसमे भी उपरवाले का बोहोत बड़ा calculation है ...... think if we all would have been born with that crystal bowl and could have been capable enough to find out about our future then would have been our life so interesting and creative as it is today ?

Now , the next thing is Astrology , I would really like to add this because in to days world more than 60 % of us believe more in man-gal and Shani rather then believing in ourselves , just because my man-gal is not good I will not perform a certain action for a limited period of my life as it is advised by one of the most knowledgeable astrologer . These is specially for those who believe that astrology will actually help them to change and get better things in their life i.e. they feel they can get a power to change their future . But , it is a completely wrong interpretation of word astrology , I do not say that I do not believe in astrology, but to believe in astrology more then our self is frankly speaking nothing more but pure stupidity. Astrology is something which gives you a rough idea about your future but cannot assure you anything about your future , astrology has powers that to some extent can bring happiness to your life temperately but ultimately its you who need to work hard and get the most out of your life . As said by one of my friend who is a scholar in astrology said , " Happiness and sorrow are part of your life ,it is a cycle which continues till the end of your life if you are sad , to certain level with the help of astrology and other superior powers you can change the order of your happiness and sad moments , but mind you , only to some extent and only the order of the same for a temporary period but, ultimately you need to actually face each and every moment sooner or later in your life......" .

So, lastly its all about our mindset and our thought process that how much do we trust on our self and how much does the other factors influence us .

After a long time ......

2010-05-31T12:47:00.000-07:00

Feels like a guest in my own house ..... :) . Writing something after a gap of almost 9 months , but frankly speaking was waiting for a good topic wherein I can express my views and most important is where I feel satisfied from within after writing . For me blogging is much more than a passtime ....I would say its a part of my life , its a platform where I can freely share my views with each and every person . It really makes me feel happy when I receive a comment in my scrapbook stating " It was good to read your blog ...... " . Blogging helped me to make new and most important valuable friends in my life . Anonymous people reads my post and sends me beautiful comments and later on which turns into friendship is actually very amazing and interesting . People who must be reading this blog must be wondering that today since I have no good topic to write I have chosen to boost myself , but no, its not true, even I believe "Self praise is donkey praise" (some1 very close to me told this before many years ..... and I still miss him and his golden words ). Actually , today wanted to dedicate this special post to all my friends who always appreciated me & encouraged me to write a blog .

I use to love writing since I was in school , but , never took it seriously , later , as the time started moving and when I got myself engaged with other responsibilities of my life I almost forgot writing, or I should say I forgot that I know writing. Then before few months I came across to this medium , wherein I can write whatever I feel in my mind and the whole world can read it . Awesome !!!!

I know by now my friends must be really really bored so would not make them more unhappy by extending this post further . Would just like to thank all my friends for their love and support they gave me till date .
Thank u Guys !!!!! .

Today I wanna say something..........!!!!!!

2009-09-05T22:09:00.000-07:00

It was a normal day, infact a normal weekend, I was sitting in a coffee shop with my best friend, and we have been together right from our school days. We were busy discussing about our present lives, our schedules, work, social matters, politics etc etc. We generally love to share each and everything and I feel a coffee shop is a best place to meet up our pals. She started the topic after having a bite of chocolate cookie, "my younger brother Sameer, he has completed his graduation and u know what? He wants to join a Call Centre!!! Can u believe this" I said, "Pooja, It’s just a Call Centre, relax he is not planning to join any terrorist group and have no plans to became a terrorist. Why r u over reacting?"She intureppted,"Vidhi, what are you saying this? I can’t believe, how can you support someone who wants to work in a call centre? You know what is a call centre? night shifts, health problems, no social respect, high chances on him to be a drug addicted , have you not seen the guys out side the call centre taking drugs, smoking complete alcoholic people and at the end of the day what do they learn ? Nothing, complete zero. No B schools will consider any BPO experience, no companies will hire a person at a senior level on a basis of his Call centre experience.........nothing doing, he is a dumbo, he does not have any sense to take decisions, dad has already decided he will be giving MBA entrance exams in this last quarter and will go for an MBA and that’s final!!!!. “Pooja said all this without a single break and after listening to all this I just said 1 sentence, "Pooja, try once you can beat Shankar Mahadevan for breathless .....” She was looking complete blank, I was able to read her mind, she was angry on me, she was quite but her eyes said lots of things, the very obvious thing which I read is "Vidhi, I am discussing something so important and you are busy cracking jokes......" and this was the same sentence she repeated after 30 seconds, pooja said,"Vidhi, I am discussing something so important and you are busy cracking jokes....". I said, "no dear, I am busy reading your mind, I know you inside out, I know how you think and how you react on some particular topics in life, but, this time its not for you, Pooja remember you can suggest sameer, you can guide him but no one can force him, I know sameer, he is no more a kid, If he has decided something about his career he must have at least thought 10 times over it. ......"and she interrupted in between, no no no .... No Call Centre please, I can’t see my brother coming late night, alcoholic, nooo I cant imagine this....." I should say she is a melodrama queen, I picturised her in a 1970 type movie and saying a dialouge like 'nahiiiiiiiiii...........kehdo ke yeh jooth hai .......yeh nahi ho sakta.............yeh sab sunnne se pehle dharti maa ne mujhe apni godd mein kyun nahi sama diya..........' and then I could not control myself and started laughing, definitely I was a centre of attraction in the coffee shop but courtesy my thought process, I could not stop laughing. But I know she was angry and I apologized immediately I said, "Sorry Pooja, but now on a serious note, please don’t interrupt me in between let me complete, let me share my views my thoughts with you rest it’s your family matter and will not interfere." She said "OK".

“See, do you know more than 45% of India's population work in this call centre, I agree, as a sister, as a well wisher you will always feel that your brother does something that’s very unique, intelligent, outstanding etc etc and you are not all wrong if you think like this. Agreed, when compared to profile of an Investment banker, Fund manager, HR head, marketing and Advertising head etc etc this profile has no learning involved in it. But, just to ignore saying this industry has no growth is something that’s completely wrong. Its not only our degrees and our experience that will lead us towards success, definitely they do and they are very important for our professional lives, but, something that’s more important than all this is our self motivation, our aggressiveness, our determination towards our goal in our lives. Pooja I have 2 good friends working in a leading BPO and would like to tell you their success story in short. They both joined as an agent some 5 yrs before in a leading call centre of Mumbai, started their part time MBA and today one of them is a UNIT HEAD managing a unit of 100 agents for a particular process and when a profile includes management of a group of people there is no need to include that the complete responsibility about the quality of service rendered and being an out bound process also the revenue earned from his team. And my second friend, he got shifted to the administration department as he wanted to start his own call centre so wanted to get trained in every possible aspects of BPO. And, today he started his own BPO, successfully managed to achieve projects of couple of leading companies of UK and AUSTRALIA. Defiantly at the early stages it has to be out bound but that’s something which can be made vast later on, isn’t it? Dear BPO is a vast industry, call centre is just a part of it, each and every companies need to outsource their work due to several reasons like to concentrate on the main core business, efficiency, higher profit motive etc etc. Now, can you imagine your brother going to UK for business trips and a CEO of a leading call centre? Or at a very respectable position of a leading BPO? Would you still react in a similar manner the way you reacted today?

I have still not completed pooja. I still need to clear your doubts you have regarding the knowledge and other aspects of Callcentres. All these high profile people in our society, with their high profile jobs and their extra ordinary qualifications feel that they have got a license to speak any thing and everything for those people working in callcentres. Sorry If I am sounding rude this time, I have no intentions to speak anything negative about the high educated people in fact even I respect them because of their intelligence, their self motivation and their determination towards their work. They are actually role models for the upcoming generation but, just because they are blessed with superpower full position and degree they do not get a license to speak anything that hurts or ruins any ordinary men's image in the society. How easily they say," what’s the learning in a call centre? , now I want to ask them a simple question our older generation more then 50% were into the retail business of sales of stationary, grain merchant(retail), cloth merchant(retail) , fast food stalls etc, now can anyone please explain me what have they learnt in their entire professional life ?
Or I should say they have a PhD degree in sales of stationery items, selling books and pencils, selling icecreams, selling sarees and kids wear. In fact I have heard people saying" kya margin wala line hai ...bosss....kitna chaapta hai ". So now where is the learning? In fact they were known as respected businessman. What I am trying to convey is, up to certain age learning plays a very important role and if you are lucky enough you learn and earn for your entire life but, after a certain age there are responsibilities where you need your money, not your knowledge. What will a 27yrs old guy feed his son? Food or knowledge?
Still I am not done Pooja, you gave a pathetic reaction on Night shifts, are you aware about the profiles of nurses and ward boys in hospital, airhostess, people of hotel industry, people in army, air force.....do I need to speak anything more on this ? I think you are smart enough to understand, aren’t you ?

One more thing, Drugs, night life, alcohol.....still in your mind right? Pooja, all the people who are working in BPO are above 18. Do you understand the meaning of above 18? ADULT, ADULT who is mature enough to take his own decisions, who has a right to vote and when we talk about adults we should not forget that they need to take there own decisions, let them learn from their own mistakes, let them see this world in their own, We cannot spoon feed them all the time. That’s all what I wanted to say; now you decide......"

Hey guys, I am neither trying to change everyone's mind, nor I am interested to become a politician, my aim is to convey the message of peace and to politely request each and every individual of the society to respect each other as they are, remember guys everyone is not born with a silver spoon, you need to earn that silver spoon and that requires not only hard work but also love and support from the society.

LOVE

2009-08-01T09:12:00.000-07:00

Today I feel to write on a topic which is always read with curiosity specially among the younger generation, a topic which everyone loves to discuss and that's topic of LOVE. But somehow I feel the word love has changed its definition completely. LOVE a word which comes with an essence of sacrifice, a sort of craziness has somehow lost it identity completely in this today's new and modern world. People today are so addicted towards the mechanism and the modern technology that they expect the same kind of leisure and comfort even in relationships. People today are open for relationships but not for any kind of commitment towards life but, does that life make any kind of sense where there is no commitment towards your loved ones ???? at least not to me.
But, courtesy bollywood who feels and very proudly feels that they and only they can describe analyse and represent love, but, is it true ? Is that reel life love actually possible in our real lives ? but still we get carried away with all those reel life love stories but guys, LOVE is not just a physical attraction but much much deeper than a physical relation. Its all about committing ourselves to our partner for the rest of our lives, to be faithful towards our partner and most important is to respect our partner and accept him/her as they are.

But, In this modern and competitive world who follows all this,in fact I sometimes feels people do not understand the difference between their mobile phones and their girlfriends which changes as per the demand and requirements and everyone wants the latest model. There is one more important thing which I feel to add and I strongly feel that if its not added the topic would remain incomplete. There is one latest fashion in to days younger generation and that's break up ke baad friendship and again courtesy to our own bollywood. One of the latest and the most awaited movie love aaj kal displaays the same kind of relationship where a guy falls in love with a girl and suddenly they feel that they cannot remain happy together and happily end their relationship but, still remain very good friends with each other and unknowingly again get involved in the same kind of relationship with each other,but again there is a twist one partner suddenly realises the need to get married and again a breakup and a promise of no relation to make a happy married life but, suddenly 24 hrs post marriage bride realises that she is actually in love with her ex , how stupid is this now ? Just because you are beautiful, earn handsome salary and are very intelligent do u actually get a license to ruin any ones life ? yes, you are free to take your own decisions in life and can have a choice in your life but, you can never take anyone else for granted just because you yourself are not sure about your feelings in your life.

At the end of the movie everyone is happy ke hero heroine mil gaye but what about the guy who got married to that girl why is that love and sacrifice unidentified ? Isn't that true love ? Isn't that a true sacrifice ? I would like to add one more thing that I am not at all against the movie,in fact hats off to the director to make such an entertaining movie but, my only question is what after that ??? at the end of the day what message are we passing to our younger generations ??? to take people for granted specially who loves us truly just because we are not sure about our destiny ??? do think about it guys......

I would like to conclude it by saying that let the world be completely modern and full of the new technologies but, let the feeling of love remain as pure and as fresh as it was before. Let us not try and make it very comfortable and lavish as our other modern technologies.

For my mom..........!!!!!!!!

2009-06-14T09:25:00.001-07:00

Dear Mummy,

Mom, you must be feeling that what made me write this letter to you on this simple day. Yes I will call it simple day because there is nothing very important happening or going to happen in these days, but, I feel I don't want to wait for any such occasion to write to you and say what all I aways wanted to tell you. In fact, today I want to say all what I did not say when I was suppose to say it, sometimes because I did not understand the importance of what all you did for me and sometimes when I understood everything but had no words to appreciate you or just to say a "Thank you mummy !!" , mom sometimes I purposely did not say thanks because it required much much more then just a THANKS .

Sometimes it was not easy to understand what you wanted to explain, what all you wanted me to understand so that I could lead a better life than what I had but, may be it was because I was too young to understand. But, I appreciate you for each and everything you did for me this includes the most important and I should say the most precious thing you did for me and that is you were not only my mom but my dearest and closest friend I ever had in my entire life till now. You treated my like a friend and advised me like a mother and that's the only reason why I am so successful and most important I am so happy in my life, yes I am happy and you know why, all because of those recent things that happened to me and the way you supported me in each and every tough situation in life which I think you must have understood by now and know the reason why I did not mention in this letter, Its only because when it is a past it has to be forgotten.

Well, this was something very recent. But, I still remember those small mischives that I use to do and make you angry but trust me mom today it really makes me feel laugh and feel so proud that I have such a loving and caring mom. Hey, do you remember I was so crazy about your cosmetic items when I was in my Kinder Garden. It was so difficult for you to find new places always and hide them from me, but still I was smart enough to find them.....hahaahahha !!!! You know mom why was I so crazy about your cosmetic items ? It was because I wanted to be like you, whenever I use to see you using them I use to feel that If I apply this even I will be like you, because I always wanted to be like you Mummy...!!!!!! never found anyone more beautiful and charming then you. For me my mom was most beautiful, charming and yes "very cute" this is what I keep telling you all the time (very cute) because when my eyes look at you is not only the outer beauty but also the inner beauty of yours, the affection and care that you keep showering on me till date and which is very very precious to me than any other thing on this planet.

I agree I was not always an obedient child and sometimes was too stubborn but, there is only one word that I have to say for this "SORRY", sorry for all what I did against your wish. I know I am trying to be very kind towards myself by just saying sorry for all those time when I hurt you but the reason for just saying sorry is that I do not want to repeat my mistakes what I did when I argued with you for a wrong reason. But, trust me mom there was never an intention to hurt you, whenever we had a difference of opinion I might have ignored your opinion and must have moved forward but there was always a guilt feeling later in my heart.

Mummy do you know what I still miss the most? I remember those days when you used to embrace me in your arms while returning back from school, those moments will never come in my life again . I wish I could be so small today also and can enjoy the same kind of love and affection from you in that particular way. But I guess life has to move on and some of these moments can never be repeated but can be only cherished for the entire life. But, mom as I grew older I got a lovely and most important is that I got a most reliable friend with whom I can share everything which bothered me in my life, and you gave me the most successful solutions for each and every complicated problem of my life.

I think this letter of mine is too short to express my feelings towards you but still I feel I am happy that I got a chance to tell you all what I wanted to tell you my dearest Mom. I know I am trying to be little selfish but there is one more and probably last wish of mine to you and that is keep loving me the same way you did till today and support me always for the rest of my life. Correct me whenever I am wrong but, always be with me, I need your support for each and everything that I do in my life and once again thanks for everything.

Your loving daughter,

Vidhi......

When I met someone.....................

2009-05-24T01:43:00.000-07:00

I was walking alone on a silent road one evening and suddenly he came in front of me and said " Hi !!! How r u ?........" , he was a stranger for me I said, " Who r u ? I don't know you........." he said, " Yes, that's the biggest regret of my life that u don't know me, you know everyone who is close to you but u don't know me ........" and I interrupted in between " excuse me..........I think there is some misunderstanding from your side I am very sure that I don't know you and I have have never met you before any day in my life, so, excuse me plzzzzzz.........."

but he did not stop, he again started as if he did not hear anything what I said.

" Do you want me to prove it, I challenge you that I know you better than you know yourself...dear I know you since you were in your kinder Garden, I always wished to play with you but you never asked me.....I still remember how beautiful and charming you use to look in your pink colour school uniform ............." and I was completely shocked that time "hey Mr. plz stop this non sense OK ............. you think by saying all this you will impress me, I don't entertain all this, plz stop all this and move away from here"

He was still smiling and said " you still don't believe me, I know and I don't blame you for this because it was always me who noticed you but u never noticed me anytime, you were always so busy with your own friends and your family that u never got that much of time to notice that someone is so concerned about u and cares for you than anyone else in this world. I was always there with you in your each and every happy and sad moments of your life, how can I forget that day when you scored highest in your college in 12th board and you were feeling so happy so satisfied as it was a dream come true for you, I had seen you working extremely hard and I should say you actually deserved it what u had received. Believe me I was very happy for you."

"Are you a CID officer or something ?????? or a professional romeo ???? who finds out everything about a girl and then tries to impress her using this type of polite and attractive language.........", I said. " hahhahahaha, I know how difficult you are and that's what makes you so special and different among those other girls." he said.

" OK fine, u claim that you know me since my childhood and about each and every precious moments of my life. So now tell me why it took so many years for you to come and tell me, if you really cared for me you would have come at that time itself............." but he interrupted in between " I always wanted to be close to you, always wanted to be your best friend but you never noticed me, whenever you were in need of someone you approached your friends your family but never me. I consoled myself that your happiness is more important than anything. But now I feel that I should tell you everything, then it is up to you whether you believe it or not .........."

"Do you still feel that I will trust you........." I said, but, somewhere in the corner of my heart even I wanted to trust him I don't know why but even though I was talking rudely to him I wanted to know more about him. I think it was because of all that he said so confidently. But I never showed this feeling on my face and he instantly said " You just pretending that you don't trust me .........but you have got many questions about me in your mind right ? don't hesitate ask me whatever you feel like asking ." and he smiled.

I was shocked " hey do u even read people's mind ? are you an astrologer or someone ?" I said. He said " Dear I said I know you...................I know what you think, what you like,what you dislike etc etc .........that's the reason why I claim so confidently."Then I smiled and I asked him "OK tell me your name" , he said, My name is ......................."

tring tring..............tring tring............ It was my mobile that was ringing '" hello Vidhi, where r u, I hope you are still not sleeping we need to be in time today at college mid term results are going to be declared yaad hai na...........ke bhul gai ..........", and I was smiling , I felt, I still wanted to be in that dream world but then it was disappeared I had lost that moment forever and a drop of tear came out of my eyes !!!!!!!

Dreams................

2009-05-17T10:24:00.000-07:00

We all dream don't we ??????? and most of us dream almost everyday, everyone has their own dreams but the most exciting part in our dreams is it changes as per the different stages of your life..............our dreams are actually our priorities which changes at every different stages of life.

When I was a kid my dream was to have a house made of chocolates, a garden full of lolly pops and everything made out of that sweet yummy choc late.........wow !!!! it sounds so innocent........ so cute right ?.........because that is what a childhood is, not only for me but for everyone......its all about fun and enjoyment at that stage dreams have got nothing to do with real life, but, things change gradually, then it all comes for marks, degrees,
standing first in class, preparing for all the competitions etc etc.

But till now there is one thing that I have noticed, Its only our dreams who can make us successful or a failure in our life, suppose if we had no dreams in our life ............ then there would be no hard work no ambitions nothing !!!!!!!!! life would have been nowhere guys !!!!!!!!!!! Our dreams are our motivators they motivate us to reach at a height in our life, to achieve success, to achieve fame,money and everything else in life.

Well this was all about when we dream about something and we assume about getting the same in return. But, what about those dream that we cannot full fill any day in our life, don't we have those broken dreams still somewhere in any corner of our heart guys. Even though they are broken they are so capable that they can make you cry, aren't they ???? but there is hardly anything that we can do about it right ???????

But its all part and parcel of our life which we need to accept and move forward in our life . :)

Vidhi

ahhhhhhhh I cannot forget this !!!!!!!!!

2009-05-13T07:38:00.000-07:00

This is gonna b one of the most memorable event of my life..........................its sometimes so funny to b STUPID.............seriously i mean it. People tend to find out jokes frm stories and all other stuffs but u know wat ?? fun is acctually present in our daily routine life, we should be smart enough to find it out................well i think this was a lill overdose of philosophy.........sorry guys :)

Lets talk abt the main story now.............. some dayz before i got a privelage to insure a "pilot" let me inform all my frnds who come frm a non insurance background that to insure a pilot is next to impossible bcz no company is ready to take risk by insuring avaition people...........but as u all know i m Born lucky in such matters........people in this industry from last 5 or 6 yrs did not get this chance but I got it in just 6 monhts !!!!!!!!

But...............its gonna b against all rules and regulations if I complete the assigned task without creating any blunders in it ...............u know na i m that type of a person jo galatiyaan kar kar ke seekhta hai !!!!!!!!! ;)
and the guy was soo sweet (pilot) that he had a complete faith on me ( definately he had a regret fot it later !!!!!!!!!!! LOL..........)

So the fun begains now..................I did all the formalities with him and subbmitted all the documents and was very happy abt the experience I got..........................but.....................there i got a ring frm my operations dept and the lady on the opposite side said......." Vidhi, u have subbmitted a case of Mr. XYZ Singh (sorry can reveal the name ) on xyz Date but the application is Rejected bcz he has mention that he is involved in criminal activities ................................" MY GOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was like wat the hell r u speaking ????????? R u in your senses ??????????????????? Have u lost it ?????????????????????

and again that female on the opposite side said " yes Vidhi there was an option below "R U INVOLVED IN ANY CRIMINAL ACTIVITIES ? Y/N and the ans marked is Y ....................did u fill up the form on customers behalf ????????? GOd ................i was like ...........and frankly speaking it was me who filled up the form and it was 100% my mistake but cant reveal this in front of the operations people................god I know how much effort I had to put to convience the operations people to take the case forward ..................

BUT......................that was not the end unfortunately.............afet 2 dayz i again got a call frm the operations dept " Vidhi srry we cannot take this case forward because..........in the mandatory answerable questions ur customer has mentioned NO OF HOURS TRAVELLED = 420 NO OF ACCIDENTS COMMITTED = 420....................
hellllllllllllllllllllllll it was a hell for me , my boss was not ready to help me (bcz he was too new to the organisation and had no idea abt how the pilot case works ) my bad luck :( ...................................again I had to go back and convince the ops people and do all the formalities again.......and this time I had kept my fingures crossed ................ things went smoothly for some dayz ................even I was busy wid my routine stuff and again afer some dayz i got a call............this time it was my faithfull customer MR Pilot himself................." Vidhi !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WAT IS THIS ?????????????? WHAT THE HELL HAVE I RECEIVED ??????
........................"
i said " wat happend sir ?" he said " these documents say that the nominee is my "son in law" what the hell is this I wanted to make my SON nominee ............ I want my money back.........................

AND GUESS WAT I SAID ?????????????

" SORRY SIR I M NO MORE ASSOCIATED WITH THIS COMPANY ........................"
lollllllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

my baby steps

2009-05-10T03:33:00.000-07:00

Hi !!! I am very new to this world of blog and everything....................lets see how exicitng it is to blog and everything