Violence in the family

Domestic violence agencies

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Family violence in Argentina

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violence familiar: an evil that grows in Argentina
The case of Maria Rosa Barrientos says Peacesuffer an ordeal by her former husband holds thescourge. "I pointed the revolver at the head having my baby next to" the woman told Channel 26.
"I do not want to be or Alicia Muñiz, Carolina or Hello ... I will not be any. What I have to kill me? "Says the woman crying in front of the cameras of Channel 26. Maria Rosa gives an alarm signal recognized by appealing to cases in which couples killed their wives.

Mary Riosa argues that they and their daughters are afraid to leave his home, which prevents them from doing their normal lives. "We did not sleep at night ... my daughters do not know what to dance or anger at a friend's house. We have no freedom. "

The question is how Mary Rose and her daughters deal with their day to day?. "We slept two hours, we took turns sleeping, I'm the most awake I stay. We live here enclosed. We ask a neighbor or friends of my daughters to be us errands. If we leave the house gets you in and you destroy everything. My children are two years since I go to school because they can not get out. "

In 2007, 15 000 complaints were made in the City of Buenos Aires. The Directorate of Women received another 12 thousand complaints, while the Ministry of Justice acted on other 3 000 complaints. In terms of percentages related to family violence, 95 percent of victims are women, 2 percent are men and 3 percent of cases the violence is crossed. According to a report by the IDB in Argentina 25 percent of women are victims of some form of violence .... something to think about.

Violencia familiar: un mal que crece en la Argentina
El caso de María Rosa Barrientos Paz que dice sufrir un calvario por parte de su ex marido sostiene el flagelo. “Me apuntaba con el revolver en la cabeza teniendo a mi bebita al lado” contó la mujer a Canal 26.

“Yo no quiero ser ni Alicia Muñiz, ni Carolina Aló...no quiero ser ninguna de ellas. ¿Qué tengo que matarlo yo?” dice la mujer llorando frente a las cámaras de Canal 26. María Rosa da una señal de alarma apelando a reconocidos casos en que las parejas dieron muerte a sus mujeres.

María Riosa sostiene que ellas y sus hijas tienen miedo de salir de su casa, lo cual les impide hacer su vida normal. “No dormimos de noche...mis hijas no saben lo que es ira a bailar o la a casa de una amiga. No tenemos libertad”.

La pregunta es ¿Cómo María Rosa y sus hijas sobrellevan su día a día?. “Dormimos dos horas, nos turnamos para dormir, yo soy la que más despierta me quedo. Vivimos encerradas acá. Le pedimos a algún vecino o a los amigos de mis hijas que vayan a hacernos los mandados. Si dejamos la casa se te mete adentro y te destroza todo. Mis hijos hacen dos años que no van a la escuela porque no pueden salir”.
Durante 2007 se hicieron 15 mil denuncias en la Ciudad de Buenos Aires. La Dirección de la Mujer recibió otras 12 mil denuncias, mientras que el Ministerio de Justicia dio curso a otras 3 mil imputaciones. En cuanto a los porcentajes relacionados con la violencia familiar el 95 por ciento de las víctimas son mujeres, un 2 por ciento son hombres y en un 3 por ciento de los casos la violencia es cruzada. Según un informe del BID en la Argentina el 25 por ciento de las mujeres es víctima de algún tipo de violencia....algo para pensar.

Domestic violence cases

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The Lissette Ochoa Case

Lissette Ochoa husband forgave her attacker, withdrew the charges against him and returned with him

Lissette Ochoa's story is similar to the thousands of women in Colombia. It is a frequent victim of ruthless violence by the man who claims to love her. The difference is that his case had national resonance because their own family, who saved his life when he was attacked rescuing and transferring it to the hospital emergency took pictures that hung on the Internet, prompting a nationwide rejection.

His face beaten summoned the country to reflect on the violence that soon goes underground in the mass media. They demanded justice, and Rafael Dangond Lacouture, her husband, as was obvious, ended up in jail.

Lissette Ochoa wrote a testimonial for the magazine SoHo as an example of what can not happen in the heart of a home (see text).

However, the case took an unexpected turn in the last hours, when it transpired that the victim decided to forgive her attacker, withdrew the charges against and reconciled with him. The relationship had been resumed in the increasingly frequent visits to her in her prison. After he left prison, she received it.

"Rafael is mine, mine, mine," they heard him screaming at people Lissette Ochoa asked if they had really become. And yes, the fears of her parents, family and friends, and became a concern, before the withdrawal filed by the victim.

A source who follows the case confirmed to SEMANA.COM information. "Lissete dropped the charges, terminated the criminal proceedings and divorce. She gave up a personal and individual, without your counsel or your family. "

Additionally, Lissette cut off all communication with their parents, who now worries what might happen to the couple's children, ages 8 and 6 years. They are together, says everyone in Ottawa, as they have been seen together at school for the children and took a few days ago to rent an apartment.

Given the events transpired that the ICBF would be taking action on the matter for fear that something might happen to children.

Lissette told the prosecutor that Rafael Dangond ever attempted murder. In the legal arena, lawyers for the defense of Dangond Lacouture even won a success for you, with a legal Malabar: presented the results of the Institute of Legal Medicine where she reportedly suffered no consequences, so the actions of attempted murder are also about to fall. Possibility that in practice is an imminent reality because Lissette also withdrew criminal proceedings and also suspended the divorce that was already doing its course. Lissette Ochoa's story is similar to the thousands of women in Colombia are beaten and then return to her attacker. There is no right.

What is family violence?

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Family violence

There is talk of violence when one person hurts ormistreats another. In cases of family violence, the person who hurt or abused a family member or partner, for example, your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. The abuser can be male or female.
Family violence also receive the following names:
Domestic violence.
Domestic violence.
Violence against women.
There are different types of family violence:
Physics.
Sexual.
Emotional.
Psychological.
Financial.
In Canada, domestic violence is a crime. Are prohibited by law.
In Canada, at least one in ten women have beenvictims of abuse. Family violence can occurbetween people of any culture, race, religion, sexual orientation, income or education level.

Domestic violence Occurs when a person knowingly and willfully causes physical or psychological harm to another person. This includes all acts of violence against womenin the family or intimate relationships. Besides being the leading cause of injury to women in the United States, this is an alarming situation of concern about its negative effects on all family members, especially children.

Although it is difficult to obtain accurate information and data on the problem of domestic violence because it is extensively under-reported, you know some aspects of the problem:

Domestic violence is not limited to any socioeconomic group, ethnic, religious, racial.
About 20 percent of all women in the United States has been involved with abusive partners at some point in their lives. In fact, American women are more likely to be assaulted or injured, raped or murdered by a man in their relationship than any other type of assailant.
As many as 4 million cases of domestic violence in women occur annually in the U.S.
Nearly 25 percent of all emergency visits to hospitals for women have been the result ofdomestic violence assaults.

What are the signs of domestic violence?

If you think you are in abusive relationship, here are some questions to ask yourself:

Have you ever been hurt physically, and kicked, pushed or hit by their partner or ex-partner? Has your partner threatened to hurt her to force her to do something?
Has your partner tried to keep her away from her family, or going to school or doing other things that are important to you?
Do you feel as if under the control or isolated from your partner?
Have you ever been forced by their partner to have sex when you did not want?
Has your partner has insisted on having unprotected sex?
Is your partner jealous and it always asks if you are faithful?
Does your partner blame for things that are beyond your control?
Does your partner regularly insult? Are you afraid of your partner or go home? Does he make you feel insecure?
There are other signs of domestic violence that observers can see a family member or friend who is in an abusive relationship:

It is very biased, "accidents" or is injured at different times
It blows that can not be caused by an "accident" or that do not match the story than to cause them occurrió
It blows to various parts of the body, especially in areas that are less prone to shocks, such as the face, neck, chest, abdomen or genitals
Bruises, burns or wounds in the shape of teeth, hands, straps / belts, cigarette or you have gloves or socks covering their wounds (due to burns on the hands or feet with boiling water)
Seek medical help more often or not, wait too long to seek medical help or even to completely prevent serious injury or shock
Signs of depression
Use alcohol or drugs
Has attempted suicide
What is the law of domestic violence in Illinois?

The Domestic Violence Act, 1986 Illinois government efforts focused more on this problem. These efforts were enforzados by recent decisions of the Supreme Court of Illinois, putting more "teeth" in the law by terms of enforcing the law to protect victims of domestic violence. According to Illinois law, police officers must take steps to protect victims of domestic violence when a family member or household has committed any act abusive.

"A family or household member" includes spouses and former spouses, parents, children and stepchildren, who previously shared the same household, persons who were dating or were involved (regardless of gender), people who claim to have children in common , impedimentso people and their personal assistants.

"Abuse" includes physical abuse (pushing, hitting, forced sex, prevent you leave, harassment (creating distractions at work, repeated phone calls, chasing or watching, preventing you from seeing your children, threatening to hurt), force a child or any other person to see the abuse, forcing her to do things you do not want to do and to deny a disabled person the right to needed care.

Violencia familiar

¿Qué es la violencia doméstica?
La violencia doméstica occurre cuando concientemente y a propósito una persona le causa daños físicos o psicológicos a otra persona. Esto incluye todos los actos de violencia en contra de las mujeres en el contexto familiar o de relaciones íntimas. Además de ser la causa principal de lesiones en las mujeres en los Estados Unidos, esta es una situación de alarmante preocupación por sus efectos negativos en todos los miembros de la familia, especialmente los niños.

A pesar de que es difícil obtener información y datos correctos sobre el problema de la violencia doméstica porque está extensivamente bajo-reportados, se conocen algunos aspectos del problema:

La violencia doméstica no está limitada a ningún grupo socioeconómico, étnico, religiosos, raciales.
Cerca de 20 porciento de todas las mujeres en los Estados Unidos han estado envueltas con parejas abusivas en algún punto de sus vidas. De hecho las mujeres americanas están más predispuestas a ser asaltadas o lesionadas, violadas o asesinadas por un hombre en su relación que por cualquier otro tipo de asaltante.
Tantas como 4 millones de casos de violencia doméstica en las mujeres ocurren anualmente en los Estados Unidos
Casi 25 porciento de todas las visitas de emergencia a los hospitales por mujeres han sido resultado de asaltos de violencia doméstica.

¿Cuáles son los señales de la violencia doméstica?

Si usted cree que se encuentra en relación abusiva, estas son algunas preguntas que debe hacerse:

¿Alguna vez la han lastimado físicamente, como pateada, empujada o golpeada, por su parejo o ex-pareja? ¿Alguna vez su pareja la ha amenazado con lastimarla para obligarla a hacer algo?
¿Su pareja ha tratado de mantenerla alejada de su familia, o de ir a la escuela o de hacer otras cosas que son importantes para usted?
¿Se siente como si estuviera bajo el control o aislada de su pareja?
¿Alguna vez ha sido forzada por su pareja a tener sexo cuando usted no quería?
¿Alguna vez su pareja ha insistido en tener sexo sin protección?
¿Es su pareja bien celoso y siempre le pregunta si usted le es fiel?
¿Su pareja la culpa de cosas que están fuera de su control?
¿Su pareja la insulta regularmente? ¿Tiene miedo de su pareja o de regresar a su casa? ¿El la hace sentirse insegura?
Existen otros signos de violencia doméstica que observadores pueden ver en un miembro de su familia o una amiga que está en una relación abusiva:

Está muy predispuesta a los "accidentes" o se lastima en diferentes ocasiones
Tiene golpes que no pueden haber sido causados por un "accidente" o que no coinciden con la historia de lo que occurrió para causarlos
Tiene golpes en diferentes partes del cuerpo, especialmente en áreas que son menos propensas a golpes, como la cara, el cuello, el pecho, abdomen o genitales
Tiene moretones, quemadas o heridas con la forma de dientes, manos, correas/cintos, cigarrillos o la persona tiene guantes o medias cubriendo sus heridas (debido a quemaduras en las manos o en los pies con agua hirviendo)
Busca ayuda médica con mucha frecuencia o al contrario, espera demasiado para buscar ayuda médica o la evita por completo hasta para heridas o golpes serios
Tiene signos de depresión
Usa alcohol o drogas
Tiene intentos suicidas
¿Cuál es la ley de la violencia doméstica en Illinois?

El Acta de Violencia Doméstica de Illinois de 1986 enfocó más esfuerzos gubernamentales en este problema. Éstos esfuerzos fueron enforzados por recientes decisiones de la Corte Suprema de Illinois, poniendo más "dientes" en la ley mediante mandatos de que se cumpla la ley para proteger a las víctimas de violencia doméstica. Según la ley de Illinois, los oficiales de la policía deben tomar ciertos pasos para proteger a las víctimas de violencia doméstica cuando un miembro de su familia o de su hogar haya cometido cualquier acto abusivo.

"Un familiar o miembro del hogar" incluye esposos y ex-esposos, padres, hijos e hijastros, personas que anteriormente compartieron el mismo hogar, personas que fueron novios o estuvieron comprometidos (sin importar su género), personas que alegan tener hijos en común, personas con impedimentso y sus asistentes personales.

"Abuso" incluye abuso físico (empujar, golpear, sexo forzado, impedir que usted se vaya, hostigamiento (creando distracciones en su empleo, repetidas llamadas telefónicas, persiguiendo o observándola, impidiendo que usted vea a sus hijos, amenazando con lastimarla), forzar a un niño o cualquier otra persona a observar el abuso, forzándola a hacer cosas que usted no quiere hacer y negándole a una persona incapacitada el derecho a el cuidado necesario.

Violence against men

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Violence against men
Violence against men is a type of domestic violence that is part of what is called intimate partner violence, where the role of aggressor is taken by women (heterosexual couples), or by the male character in those couples homosexual. Violence against men is not considered violence (such as with intimate partner violence perpetrated against women) as it is not attributed to inequalities between the sexes (as in female), 1 however, some authors indicate that both violence against women and in which is conducted against men can find similar reasons, 2 while the process of identifying the man as a victim is complex and no free controversias.3
From this perspective, and in the context of heterosexual couples, female violence is socially less acceptable than the male, indicating that they usually tend to use indirect ways to express it, suggesting that many times when a woman has been violent, it is have previously been victim, 4 in fact born here the figure of the "primary aggressor", which in simple terms relates the violent attitude of the woman with the existence of ex ante background as víctima.5 6 In the case of homosexual couples in both , we would observe a similar attitude, even in a mistaken logic "mutual combat" situations of violence by one party to the otra.7
Within the sociocultural context of the stereotype of masculinity, they often conceal some of the victims or disguise the be suffering this problem for fear of being judged negatively by the rest of the society.8 In some men, this avoidance behavior could be justified by the fear of being ridiculed by their friends, coworkers or simply retreat to their semejantes.8 Because of the reluctance of men to disclose their status, the scope of this problem becomes difficult to assess, but several studies indicate that within the various acts of violence perpetrated against them can be found: indirect sexual violence (ridicule, unfounded accusations or attacks when you are not able to respond sexually), 9 verbal violence, physical violence, among others.
It should be noted that there is no inclusion of this phenomenon as gender violence within the legal systems of Spain and Latin America, although in the first case for example, some Spanish journalists who define themselves as such

Filio-parental violence

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Filio-parental violence

Filio-parental violence (VFP) and violence of children to parents is the set of behaviorsrepeated physical aggression (hitting, shoving, throwing objects), verbal (repeated insults, threats) or nonverbal (gestures threatening,breach of valued objects) aimed at parents or adults who take their lugar14. It includes, then, threats and insults, whether performed through gestures or verbalizations, physical assault of any kind, or conscious break objects found by thevictim. Furthermore, violence must be directedagainst parents or parent figures those theyreplace, tutors, teachers, etc..
Not be included, therefore, in this definition theoccasional violence and no previous history does not repeat. This excludes, almost generalized, parricide, which has specific characteristics that set it apart and often constituted a single episode,without a prior history record. Excluded are also the parents sexual assault and assault with deadly weapons premeditated as being of a different profile, and the violence that appears in a state ofserious decline in consciousness (autism orsevere mental retardation) and not when this stateis repeated forwards: violence during intoxication,organic mental disorders, disorders of the course or content of thought, and so on.

The phenomenon of domestic violence

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The phenomenon of domestic violence
Author: Ms. Diana Sanz. Psychologist. Specialist Child abuse and child sexual abuse. Director of Home for Adolescent Mothers and Supervisor of the telephone line "I help you" orientation, containment and referral of Child and Adolescent abuse; services of the Government of the City of Buenos Aires | e-mail: diana_sanz@hotmail.com

Certainly violence is a phenomenon that is part of our everyday experiences in the most diverse circumstances. It is an invisible presence that colors many of our everyday experiences, and causes intense feelings. News reports about robberies, murders or rapes, more subtle forms of abuse suffered in the workplace, an insult street. The different forms of violence to which invisibly and even in a "naturalized" usually suffer personal emotional resonate in each of us. The violence itself takes specific forms of appearance according to the contexts in which it states: social, political, economic, family, etc. Violence within the family (violence against women, abuse of parents towards their children, adult children abuse their elderly parents), not a problem neither modern nor recent, on the contrary has been a feature of life family since ancient times. It is only recently beginning to become aware as a phenomenon very serious and damaging the health of the population and the social fabric.

Recognition of the phenomenon is due to many factors, first, the family has ceased to be a private haven impassable, subject to the internal decisions and the authority of one who governs. The global state policies tend to comprehensive protection of the family and the members who compose it, the authority of "paterfamilias," has declined, they have changed the position of women in society and the child is considered a subject of rights . The neutrality of public power away to circumstances that endanger the integrity of people in the family. Safeguarding the domestic intimacy does not preclude support or help from the community. For that one must know the issues and problems affecting family dynamics. has struggled very hard to run the idyllic image that carried the concept of family, and that obscured the recognition of aberrant acts committed within it.

We can say that although throughout history the family has been conceived as a place of "refuge, repose and wellness for individuals who compose it; basic cell affective shaping individuals, gives them ownership and helps form subjectivity and learn social reciprocity "also carries nuclei generate violence and authoritarianism that go against the individual.

Why deal with family violence?. Once we dispel the myth of "peace familar," we are confronted with some facts. The clinical observation, empirical research, news reports, and newsletters, we describe painful violence between spouses, adult children to their care, and elderly dependents in the family. All these events have increased public awareness and have forced us to recognize that violence within the family is a common phenomenon in our modern society that crosses all socioeconomic and cultural levels. In fact, people are more likely to be killed, physically assaulted, beaten, slapped or sexually abused in their own homes by their own families, than in any other place or any other person in society. Some realities of data from other countries put us in tune with the magnitude of the problem.

News of Great Britain based on police records and court show that 42% of murders including "domestic disputes" and a third of the victims of domestic violence are children. The National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (UK) reports that three to four children die every week abused by their parents. In the U.S., approx. 40% of homicides are the result of violence within the family. The homicide rate caused by domestic violence is similar to USA (40%), the United Kingdom (42%) and Australia (44%).

Similar but unofficial figures are handled in Latin American countries. This complex reality makes our social system inadequately prepared to relieve the suffering of the victims and their families. All disciplines involved in the detection, intervention, and treatment (medicine, education, social services, justice services, mental health) do not have adequate training and specific. Social policies do not respond to the emerging realities. The health and social services, criminal justice system and civil deal with the problem without adequate monitoring and technical incompetence of assigned personnel. The community at large experience alienation, confusion and lack of basic information about how to work the various network services and their interdependence.

The Dictionary of the Spanish Royal Academy says that "violate" is "the application of media on people or things to overcome their resistance." This has defined violence as "the use of force, open or concealed, in order to obtain an individual or a group they do not want to consent freely," and according to the Council of Europe, domestic violence is defined as "Any act or omission done within the family by one of its members, to affect the life or physical or psychological, or even the freedom of one of its members, which causes serious damage to the development of his personality ".

Thus understood, violence is always a form of exercise of power through the use of force (whether physical, psychological, economic, etc.) and implies the existence of an "up and down", real or symbolic. The use of force "is, therefore, a possible method of intrapersonal conflict resolution as an attempt to break the will of the other, cancel precisely in its capacity as" other. " The violence involves a search to remove obstacles to the exercise of power by controlling the ratio obtained through the use of force "(Jorge Corsi, Family Violence, 1995). For possible violent behavior has to be an imbalance of power, which can be defined culturally or context or interpersonal maneuvers produced by control of the relationship.

Why is Family Violence?. The family as a social organization is organized hierarchically according to principles that vary historically. But there is one that has remained stable over the centuries: that of the hierarchical structure depending on the age and the system of "gender". That is, culturally held beliefs and values about the behavior of men and women, relationships between them and the characteristics of the sexes. Evaluative considerations about what is predominantly male and female, determines social models on the place of man, women, relationships within the family, instead of the children.

This will make implicit assumptions underlying the family organization, and governing the distribution of power among its members. Some of these culturally implicit assumptions are:
1) The family is organized into hierarchies of unequal power between men and women.
2) The inequality comes from a biological arrangement between the sexes that gives superiority to man.
3) Women are bound to have maternal functions beyond their reproductive capacity.
4) Is this natural condition that gives them the features of weakness, passivity and sensitivity.
5) Men dominate nature by means of intrusion, the action and force.
There is another set of implicit assumptions that govern the relationships with their children, legitimating "socioculturally violent actions toward them:
a) Children are privately owned by the parents.
b) Acceptance of the use of physical punishment as an educational method.
c) Everything that happens within the four walls of the home is the exclusive concern of the private sector.
According to some authors, the degree of potential violence in a family is given by:
I) The degree of verticality of the family structure,
II) The degree of rigidity of hierarchies,
III) Beliefs about the obedience and respect,
IV) Beliefs about the value of discipline and punishment, V) Degree of adherence to gender stereotypes,
VI) The degree of autonomy of the members.
All these assumptions implicit social consensus, correspond to an authoritarian model of family, where respect is not understood as reciprocity among members, but is defined from a vertical power structure. The dependence of the weakest to the strongest is reinforced, and autonomy is a right not recognized equally for all members of the family system.

Abused Womens

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Abused womens.
Divorced or separated women, young and low socioeconomic status are those
have higher rates of abuse, but the battered woman does not show
any characteristic of premorbid personality profile.Isolation,
imbalance of power and alternating behaviors of abuse and kindness of the couple
predispose these victims believe a very strongemotional bonds with their
aggressors, which explains why battered womenstruggle to separate
emotionally from whom the attacks and why they return so often with the aggressor
after leaving. Can often be observed behaviorsthat can develop after a
situation of violence such as:
• Increased physical health problems and mental health.
• Fear.
• The minimization of the abuse situation.
• Isolation.
• Learned Helplessness.
• Internalisation of guilt.
• Ambivalence.
• Low self-esteem.
• Hope.
• Increased use of drugs, alcohol and tranquilizers

Men who batter.
The attackers do not lose control, but made with him. The salient
Frequent offenders are dependence and jealousy of your partner, belief in the
Traditional gender roles, in dire need of control,hostility and difficulty
to trust others, and the refusal to accept responsibility for their behavior
violent. 90% of men who batter have no criminal record.

Phases

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Phase 1 Accumulation of tension

The dynamics of domestic violence exists as a cycle that goes through three phases:As the relationship continues, demand increases and the stress.There is an increase in aggressive behavior, more usually at objects to the couple. For example, slamming doors, throwing objects, breaking things.Violent behavior is reinforced by the release of tension after the violence.Violence moves from things to the couple and may be an increased verbal abuse and physical abuse.The couple try to modify their behavior to avoid violence. For example, each time keeping the house cleaner, quieter boys, etc..The physical and verbal abuse continues.The woman begins to feel responsible for the abuse.The violent becomes obsessively jealous and tries to control everything you can: time and behavior of women (how they dress, where to go, who you are, etc.).The violent attempts to isolate the victim from family and friends. You can tell, for example, that if you love do not need anyone else, or that outsiders are of wood, or you fill your head, or are so crazy.This phase differs depending on the case. The duration can be weeks, days, months or years.Becomes shorter with the passage of time.

PHASE 2. ACUTE EPISODE OF VIOLENCE

Appears the need to download the accumulated tensionsThe abuser makes a choice about their violence.Choose time and place for the episode, made a conscious choice about what body part hit and how you will do.As a result of the episode the tension and stress disappear on the abuser. If he shows police intervention calm and relaxed, while the woman appears confused and hysterical because of the violence suffered.

PHASE 3. STAGE CALM, REPENTANCE OR HONEYMOON

It is characterized by a period of calm, nonviolent and tokens of love and affection.At this stage, it may happen that the striker takes over part of the responsibility for the acute episode, giving the couple the hope of a change in the situation in the future. They act as if nothing had happened, they promise to seek help, they promise not to do, etc..If there is no intervention and the relationship continues, there is great potential for violence then escalated and its severity increases.Unless the batterer receives help learning appropriate methods to manage your stress, this stage will only last a while and begin again the cycle that feeds itself.After a while the first phase again and it all starts again.The abusive man does not heal by itself, must be pursued. If the wife stays with him, the cycle will begin again and again, each time with more violence.

Neurosis factor family and social violence

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Neurosis factor family and social violence

Morelia, Michoacan. - The World Health Organization estimates that 1 in 3 people worldwide will have to have emotional problems.The agency estimates that by 2020 depression will be a factor in absenteeism and low productivity.Ricardo "E" and Laura "S" Neurotics Anonymous group Movement Goodwill regretted that causes neurosis and social violence, a dysfunctional society and crime in many parts of the world is a feature of everyday life.At a press conference, noted that a neurotic think everyone is wrong except him, felt rejected and has difficulty socializing, depressed, aggressive and violent for them there help and support groups that base their work on restoring trust and love in the person and to his fellow men.It was observed that the attacker needs attention due to lack of affection and other emotional needs. Teens, 4 out of 10, suffer from psychological and physical harassment when they attend school. Meanwhile, for driving while intoxicated, by haste or anxiety, motor vehicle crashes have increased over the last 4 years.About drugs, the Ministry of Education has identified significant growth in drug use among students in primary and secondary, where 200 thousand children and young people have tried marijuana.Ricardo "E" and Laura "S" said that "those who have lived in all its intensity the mental and emotional illness, we recognize that we were selfish in our lives and did not find anything until we learned to eliminate selfishness and acquire the ability to love ".With regard to suicide, reported that based on data from the Attorney General of the State from January to December 2010, were raised in the state 185 suicides, while from January to November 2011 were reported 195. Until 2011, State of 100 thousand, 2 thousand 345 have committed suicide attempt.Around the violence, said that by 2010 Michoacan was among the 7 states of the country more unsafe. Crimes against women and children increased 15 percent, with most of them caused by increased consumption of alcohol as a factor in violence, including family.Goodwill Movement In 24 hours, Michoacan submit such problems can find support. It is located on the street in Colonia Michelena center of this capital city, which has helped thousands of people who were in decadent spirals of violence.Just to offer its support program, next Sunday will be held the public meeting information neurosis in Cecufid theater, Colonia Mill Parras. (J)

Organizations

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Family violence Protection center
http://www.fvps.org/

Mosaic Family services
http://www.mosaicservices.org/espanol.php

Violencia domestica (Safe horizon)
http://www.safehorizon.org/espanol/domestic_violence.php?gclid=CLX3m8Oara8CFeUEQAodKgMhpA

Oficina de Violencia Doméstica Argentina
http://www.csjn.gov.ar/ovd/ovdhome.jsp

Asociación Argentina de Prevención de la Violencia Familiar

http://www.aapvf.com.ar/

Articules

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1) Family violence Free Book

http://books.google.com/books?hl=es&lr=&id=GqQKFA2I9n0C&oi=fnd&pg=PR9&dq=family+violence+prevention&ots=QWz8ruY0Qb&sig=Wgf3WH7x7wZxawzHoWrColKgiwE#v=onepage&q=family%20violence%20prevention&f=false

2) Policing domestic violence: Experiments and dilemmas...

http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1992-98439-000

3) The phenomenon-of-domestic-violence

http://familyviolence0.blogspot.com/2012/04/phenomenon-of-domestic-violence.html

4) Domestic Abuse and alcohol

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/abuse/a/aa990331.htm

5) America Latina: Crecer no atenuo la violencia domestica

http://edant.clarin.com/diario/2008/01/22/opinion/o-02101.htm

Contact

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Common Ground Sanctuary
Toll Free
248.456.0909
800.231.1127

HAVEN
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248.334.1274
877.922.1274

If you would like copies of this handbook, please contact:

Oakland County Coordinating Council Against Domestic Violence
2550 Telegraph Rd.
Suite 111
Bloomfield Hills, MI 48302
Phone 248-334-1284 Ext.682
Fax 248.292.5294

Introduction

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Introduction

Domestic Violence; It's EVERYBODY'S Business.
Please join us in supporting Domestic Violence Awareness!

Domestic violence should not happen to anybody. Ever. Period. But it does - and when it does, there is help. Maybe you have lived with abuse, maybe it happened just once; maybe you work or live next to someone who is being abused right now. Whoever you are, this book can show you how and where to get help.

In 1994, 1995, and again in 2000, Michigan changed the laws that deal with domestic violence to make it easier for the victims of abuse to get protection through the legal system.

We have tried to include information to help you get support and plan for your safety including resources to the best and most affordable divorce attorneys in Detroit and other Michigan locations.

If this booklet applies to you, you just need to remember two things: first, abuse is never okay; second, you are not alone. Help is yours for the asking. Your safety as well as the ones attached to you is a priority.

If you know someone whom you think is being abused - a friend, family member, co-worker, client, patient or parishioner - please consider contacting one of the agencies listed below to discuss ways to safely help them.

Violence in the Family

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Violence in the Family

By Geri Redden

Family violence is the most popular violent crime in America. According to Physical Violence in American Families, "just over 16%, or one in six, American couples experienced an incident involving physical assault during 1985" (Straus & Gelles, 1992). Although alcohol is not necessarily involved in all cases of family violence, any police officer, ambulance driver or emergency room doctor will tell you that it is involved in a large percentage of these crimes and certainly in the most violent incidents. The family is a system, which means that violence in any part of the family equals violence in every part. Woman abuse is a primary indicator of child abuse and vice versa. This system of violence in the family is so exact that the family dog tied up in the yard and abused indicates that inside the house the family is being battered, too. Most people who work with children of alcoholics are well aware that these children often suffer from physical violence against them by a drunken parent. What they may not understand is that these children probably suffer more often because of abuse against their mothers, because woman abuse is even more common than child abuse. Many children of alcoholics have mothers who are abused and the mother's abuse affects the child in significant ways:

Children who have witnessed abuse often suffer low self-esteem, depression, stress disorders, poor impulse control and feelings of powerlessness. They are at high risk for alcohol and drug use, sexual acting out, running away, isolation, fear, and suicide (Jaffe, Wolfe & Wilson, Children of Battered Women, 1990, pp. 28-29).
Children of battered women are fifteen times more likely to be battered than children whose mothers are not abused ("Women and Violence", U.S. Senate Judiciary Hearing, August/December, 1990). A woman who is battered may turn to alcohol for relief from her pain and become alcoholic herself.
The woman who becomes unable to cope as a result of the battering may develop an emotional or mental illness that leaves her unable to fulfill her parenting role.
Because the abuser often uses the children's behavior as an excuse for battering the woman, children come to blame themselves for their mother's abuse.
Children of battered women suffer "survivor guilt" because they must watch helplessly while their mother is beaten and can do nothing to save her.
Since battered women are often raped (and, therefore, have little access to birth control), an alcoholic battered woman is at high risk for having a FAS/FAE child.

How to Help Women and Children Coping with Violence

There are ways to help women and children cope with family violence. The first step is to learn as much as possible about the dynamics of the violent family. To work directly with battered women, for example, one must learn that, when the abused woman leaves the abusive situation, her chances of being killed increase dramatically. Divorced and separated women, who compose only 10% of all women, account for 75% of all battered women and report being battered 14 times as often as women still living with their partners. (NCADV Voice, the newsletter of the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Spring 1992.) To help battered women and their children:

Work with shelters for abused women so that the women and children have somewhere to go for safety.
Learn how to develop a Safety Plan for both women and children.
Work with local child protective agencies to find resources to help children cope.
Help children learn non-violent conflict resolution, anger control and other skills which will serve them well in their future relationship.
Learn how to help battered women and their children safely leave the violent situation.

Family Violence Always Leaves Home

Violence is a learned behavior. Children who are raised in violent homes may learn to repeat the family patterns either by becoming abusers or battered themselves as adults. Boys who have witnessed abuse of their mothers are 10 times more likely to batter their female partners as adults ("Women and Violence," Hearings before the U.S. Senate Judiciary Committee, August/December 1990). Schools and institutions suffer as children who witness violence at home often act out their rage and frustration in violent ways against other children, authority figures or even animals.According to the American Medical Association (AMA News, 1993), family violence is the number one drain on our domestic economy because it is the bedrock for virtually all of our social problems such as violent crime, homelessness and the next generation of alcoholics and drug addicts.
There is much that can be done to help these children. As we educate ourselves about family violence and begin to develop the skills to work with the victims and perpetrators of violence, this oldest of human crimes will begin to disappear. The willingness to listen and to hear the cries of battered families is the first step. As long as we refuse to ask, battered women and their children will not talk about what's going on at home. Their shame is too deep, and they cannot trust that anyone will be able or willing to help. The solution to stopping violence in the family is up to each of us. When we understand this critical social issue, we will overcome our fear of working with battered families, and we will be able to reach out and draw them back into a sane and safe world.
Geri M. Redden, M.Ed, is former executive director of the National Center for Violence Prevention in St. Louis, Missouri.

Images/ Imagenes

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Educational videos of domestic violence

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Laws

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Argentina

Provincial Laws *
Buenos Aires
Law 11,243. Criminal Procedure Code.Incorporation of Chapter V-Injunction-Law 12,569. Family ViolenceLaw 13,138. Commemoration Day of No Violence against Women

Catamarca
Act 4943. Family Violence

Chaco
Act 4175. Family ViolenceAct 4377. Establishment of Provincial Program for Prevention and Comprehensive Care of Victims of Domestic ViolenceDecree 620/97. Regulation Act 4377 creating the Provincial Program for Prevention and Comprehensive Care of Victims of Family ViolenceAct 4633. Programmatic Basis for the Prevention and Assistance for Mothers Girls, Parent Child and his Family EnvironmentAct 5492. Provincial membership to the National Law 24,632 of adoption of the Convention on the Prevention, Punishment and Eradication of Violence against Women, Convention of Belem do Pará
Chubut
Act 4031. Creation of the Assistance to Victims of CrimeAct 4118. Family ViolenceAct 4405. Jurisdiction of Courts Procedure in Cases of Domestic Violence

City of Buenos Aires
In this district is 24,417 existing National Law on Protection against Family Violence and its Regulatory Decree 235/96

Corrientes
Act 5019. Family ViolenceDecree 3.015/98. Regulation of the Law on Family Violence 5019Decree 945/99Modification of Decree 3.015/98, which regulates the Family Violence Act 5019Act 5464Accession provincial National Law 24,632 of adoption of the Convention on the Prevention, Punishment and Eradication of Violence against Women - Convention of Belem do ParáAct 5563. Creation of the Prevention and Comprehensive Care for Victims of Family Violence

Entre Rios
Act 9198. Family Violence Prevention: Comprehensive Protection and Assistance of Persons Involved in the Problem

Formosa
Act 1160. Family Violence: Family CourtAct 1191. Amendment Act 1160 Family Violence: Family Court

Jujuy
Act 5107. Comprehensive Care for the Family ViolenceDecree 2.965/2001. Regulatory Act of 5107 Comprehensive Family Violence

La Pampa
Law 1,081. Special Service for the Eradication of Domestic ViolenceLaw 1,327. Creation Support Service for Victims of CrimeAct 1333. Creating the Service and Support of Abused ChildrenAct 1918. Prevention and Protection Against Domestic Violence and School

Rioja
Act 6580. Family ViolenceDecree 1.039/99. Regulation of Family Violence Act 6580

Mendoza
Act 6080. Criminal Procedure Code: Victim RightsAct 6182. Family Violence: Criminal Procedure CodeAct 6672. Family Violence

Misiones
Act 3325. Family ViolenceDecree 1.686/99. Franco psychoprophylactic Workers / as the Department of Family Violence Prevention

Neuquén
Act 2152. Creation of the Center for Care of Victims of CrimeDecree 981/98. Regulation Act 2152 creating the Centre for Care of Victims of CrimeAct 2212. Assistance and Protection Against Family Violence ActsDecree 3.168/98. Regulation Act 2212 on the Protection and Assistance of Acts of Domestic Violence

Rio negro
Act 3040. Family ViolenceAct 3205. Housing Planning and Promotion Institute of the housing for Comprehensive Care Centers Family ViolenceDecree 656/2002. Creating the Provincial Executing Unit for Comprehensive Family ViolenceDecree 475/2003. Ratification of the Convention for Cooperation and Technical Assistance between the judiciary and the Ministry of Health and Social Development of the Province on the Rio Negro Comprehensive Care for the Family ViolenceDecree 909/2003. Regulation of Family Violence Act 3040SkipAct 7202. Protection of Victims of Family Violence

San Juan
Act 6542. Prevention of Violence against WomenDecree 281/96. Regulation Act 6542 Prevention of Violence against WomenAct 6918. Modifying the 6542 Law on Prevention of Violence against Women

San Luis
Act I-0009-2004 (5477 * R). Family Violence

Santa Cruz
zAct 2088. Creation of the Center for Victim Assistance CrimesAct 2466. Protection Against Family Violence

Santa Fe
Law 11,529. Family ViolenceDecree 1.745/2001. Rule of Law 11,529 of Protection against Family Violence

Santiago del Estero
Act 6308. Family ViolenceDecree 1.701/97. Putting into operation of the Commissioner for Children and Women

Tierra del Fuego
Law 35. Creation of the Provincial Prevention and Assistance to Victims of Domestic ViolenceLaw 39. Domestic Violence: Creating a Special Judicial Procedure for the Protection of Victims of the sameAct 390. Mandatory Release Reporting Procedure Abuse in Public Agencies and Private Sites** If you need a particular text, we invite you to visit the site of the National Council of Women. In the area of Law / Provincial / find all the full text.

Diagnose

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DIAGNOSIS.

The most important step that doctors can give is to ask the suspectif women suffer or have ever suffered abuse. It is crucial that the physician takesa relaxed and uncritical negative responses on the lower levels of abuse do not rulepositive responses on more serious aggressive acts.Spousal abuse are a complex social problem that requiresclassic medical schemes to transfer patient care to cope with theirown personal feelings and attitudes. In the unselected patientsphysicians identified only 1.5% to 8.5% of the victims. In a study conducted at afamily medicine respondents only about 6 of 394 abusewomen.Treatment.The quality of medical care often determines whether it will go to agencieslegal, social and health that the doctor wants.It should be very careful not to cause a secondary victimization is thephenomenon that occurs when a victim of domestic violence an institution uses(Police, hospital, court) or a professional (doctor, psychologist, lawyer, etc.). Infor help. These professionals, steeped in myths and ignorance can be converted tothe person a second time a victim.The intervention must be appropriate, persistent and effective in the crisis situation the personis particularly vulnerable, which further strengthens the impact of the intervention. Thegoals in the first interview or first responders are basically three:increase personal safety of abused women and their children, take up their balanceemotional, psychological safety and ensure that women take a decision on the stepscontinue in the foreseeable future.How to act: The intervention policy will not fall into accepting responsibility,problematize the patient, to make aware that the problem is yours.