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&lt;/div&gt;</description><feedburner:origLink>http://violetlim.com/2009/06/21/when-2-becomes-1/</feedburner:origLink></item><item><title>My Best Friend’s Wedding</title><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Violetlimcom/~3/GLTp2tXY3mM/</link><description>For the past week, I have been travelling. However, I have been very hesitant to tell people where I am going. Because telling people that you are going to US, is like telling people you have AIDS....&lt;br/&gt;
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As for the ladies, they often raise the question – “How can I get my guy to...&lt;br/&gt;
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In case you are wondering what I have been up to&amp;#8230; well, I still have not &amp;#8216;popped&amp;#8217; yet. My estimated due date is 7 Apr. Tummy getting really really big. It&amp;#8217;s...&lt;br/&gt;
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Ironically, it was Jamie who suggested that we watched it because so many of our female friends have been swooning about how the...&lt;br/&gt;
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How are you? First and foremost, Happy Lunar New Year &amp;#38; Happy Moo Moo Year!  
I have &amp;#8216;disappeared&amp;#8217; for a while as I have been very busy with work, business travel and...&lt;br/&gt;
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