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I came across your blog as I am desperately looking for an answer.  So here&amp;#8217;s my story.  My boyfriend and I met at work.  He has recently returned to Singapore while I am staying...&lt;br/&gt;
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I received a very heartwarming note on a Monday morning. It really instantly brightened up my day, and it was a great start to the week. It is from one of my LUNCH Actually clients who...&lt;br/&gt;
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Must be attractive. Big eyes. Slim.
Tall, broad shoulders, extroverted, must make me...&lt;br/&gt;
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Corum said,&amp;#8221;No Po-po! It&amp;#8217;s Mummy!&amp;#8221;
He had my mum and I in stitches!&lt;br/&gt;
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