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Ann Taylor - Save 25% This Weekend!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 08 May 2009 16:22:00 +0000

Today through Sunday, save 25% off at Ann Taylor!

Promotion: 25% off at Ann Taylor
Dates: May 8 - May 10, 2009
Code: MOTHERSDAY

Offer valid May 8, 2009 through May 10, 2009 at Ann Taylor stores and ANNTAYLOR.COM. Offer may be used only once and is not combinable with any other offer. To receive 25% discount online, promotion code MOTHERSDAY must be entered during checkout. Taxes, shipping and handling fees, purchases of gift cards, charges for gift boxes and payment of an Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card are excluded from any discount. Not valid at LOFT stores, Ann Taylor Factory stores, LOFT Outlet stores, anntaylorLOFT.com, on purchases of gift cards, on payment of Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card accounts or in conjunction with any other offer. No adjustments to prior purchases. Not valid for cash.

Origins: Friends and Family 25% off!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 17:49:00 +0000

Origins is currently having their Friends and Family promotion where everything is 25% off! Promotion is running until May 5, 2009. This promotion works at Origins online and within their retail stores. Click on the image to the left for a printable version that can be used for the discount at Origins stores.

Promotion: 25% discount at Origins.com and Origins stores
Promotional Code: FF
Valid: April 30 - May 5, 2009

*Offer valid from 4/30/09 to 5/5/09 only at Origins.com and Origins Retail Stores (not valid at Origins Department Store locations). Offer may not be used in combination with any other offers or discounts. Offer applies to in-stock merchandise purchases only. Offer is not applicable to the purchase of Gift Cards or eGift Cards, gift sets, sales tax or shipping charges, items marked as ineligible, pending purchases or purchases made prior to 4/30/09 or after 5/5/09. Other restrictions apply.

Ann Taylor and LOFT Friends & Family!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 16:43:00 +0000

Save 30% off your entire order at Ann Taylor or Ann Taylor LOFT!

Plus, if you spend $100 or more at either Ann Taylor or Ann Taylor LOFT you will receive free shipping on your order!

This promotion is for regular and sale priced merchandise.

WHEN: April 28 - May 3
PROMOTIONAL CODE: FRIENDS

Happy shopping!

Offer valid April 28, 2009 through May 3, 2009 at ANNTAYLOR.COM and anntaylorLOFT.com. Offer may be used more than once. To receive 30% discount and free shipping online, promotion code FRIENDS must be entered during checkout. Free shipping valid April 28, 2009 through May 3, 2009 11:59pm EST on orders placed at ANNTAYLOR.COM and anntaylorLOFT.com with standard shipping and a $100 minimum purchase. Standard shipping not available in HI, AK and PR. Additional fees apply for expedited, multiple shipping destinations and shipments to Alaska, Puerto Rico and Hawaii. Taxes, shipping fees, purchases of gift cards, charges for gift boxes and payment of an Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card are excluded from the discount and do not count towards the qualifying amount. No adjustments to prior purchases.

Review: IGIGI Plus Size Bridal Collection

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:17:00 +0000

Buying a wedding dress is a stressful experience for any woman, but it’s harder when you are fuller figured. Most bridal boutiques don’t carry any samples larger than a size 10, and many dress retailers do not offer plus sizes for all their styles. When dresses are available in a larger size, they aren’t usually designed to flatter and fit the fuller figured woman.

This is why I got really excited to find out that IGIGI, a company that creates gorgeous fashion for plus-sized women came out with a bridal collection! Finally a brand that can offer style and fit to a woman on her special day!

My friend Amanda is getting married this fall, so I had her be my “bridal guinea pig” to try out the bridal collection from IGIGI. Amanda tried the Christelle, the Eveline, and the White Diamonds. She came over for a fashion show so we could both remark on how these dresses fit, were made and were designed. To let you know, Amanda is petite as well as curvy, so these dresses may fit completely different on a woman with different curves or more height.

I have set up this review with Amanda and my remarks for each dress noted. If you would like further information about any of these dresses, feel free to send me an email.

The IGIGI Bridal Collection:
Amanda: Overall, none of these dresses by IGIGI are overly formal or structured the way a lot of princessy, traditional bridal gowns are. This can be a truly good thing for a bride looking to get away from traditional dresses while still being lovely. They are also an excellent consideration for anyone who wants to have a beach or outdoor wedding where a 50 foot satin train dragging over the sand and surf would be a bad idea.

Alison: The dresses really vary in style and level of formality. From the three we received, I could see one work for a casual day affair, one for a beach wedding, and one for an event at a ballroom or historic mansion. I was happy to see such versatility in IGIGI’s bridal collection.

Christelle:
Amanda: Unfortunately, Christelle hit me in all the wrong places. This dress would be a much better fit for someone 5’6” or over, and probably someone with more of an hourglass figure.

The bodice was very flattering to the cleavage and I did like the back of the dress, especially where it transitioned from waist to skirt area creating a cinched waist look and then flowing out without over accentuating the back. The front hips were where Christelle fit worst on me.

The lace accents on the top are not well-suited to my tastes, but I think they would be great for someone slightly more traditional than me- especially at a spring wedding. I do love the idea of gloves with this dress.

Alison: Christelle was a really cute dress, and I agree, it would most likely work on a taller woman who has a true hourglass figure. The fit and flare cut would not be so flattering to a woman who carries much of her weight in her midsection. The slight off the shoulder neckline was very flattering and feminine and I could totally see this dress at a daytime garden wedding or an intimate brunch affair.

Gosh, this style would work for a non-wedding affair too!

Eveline:
Amanda: Of all three of the dresses I tried on from the IGIGI line, Eveline one felt the most traditional. The material is heavy and very silky- I couldn’t stop running my hands over the skirt because it felt so lovely! If you’re a shorty like me, you need to have this dress massively hemmed, it is quite long.

The top of the dress above the waist line is very flattering to breasts and cleavage- if you are looking to cover up on your wedding day this is not the dress for you! But if you are comfortable bringing a little sexy to the day this could be a dress to consider. As they say, if you’ve got it, flaunt it!

Girls who are trying to minimize their belly will also want to steer clear of Eveline - this empire waist emphasizes a round tummy. However, the dress is very flattering in the rear and hips, so if that’s your trouble area you may do well with Eveline.

Alison: Eveline was made of the most gorgeous fabric, the micropleats were quite elegant. The style is simple enough that a bride could really personalize the look with hair accessories, jewelry, gloves. A loose updo with chandelier earrings would make this perfect for an elegant evening affair, loose waves would make this lovely for a garden ceremony, and it could totally look glam with a bunch of varying long crystal or pearl necklaces and a low chignon.

White Diamonds:
Amanda: One thing I have discovered while searching for “The” Dress: try on everything, because it just may be the one you like least on the hanger is the one you like best on your body. This turned out to be true with the White Diamonds style.

I initially thought this dress would be too sheer, too stretchy and too rough to the touch. Once I put it on, though, it was a whole other story. Of all three dresses this one fit me best and felt the best. The material is gauzy and sheer and made me feel like an ethereal goddess. The fit was great in all of the important places- hips, chest and rear. The beaded accents on the front were in exactly the right place, bringing attention up to my chest while minimizing the belly. Be forewarned though, White Diamonds IS sheer- there is no room here for special under garments, especially on your lower half so this dress should fit you as-is, with no nipping and tucking.

Alison: I fully agree, White Diamonds completely surprised me. Out of the box it looked like a pile of random chiffon and polyester. On my friend, it was elegant, flattering and quite lovely. White Diamonds truly gives a Grecian feel, and would be beautiful with a loose updo of curls, possibly with some ribbon or bands of beading through it to continue with that “goddess” feel. This would be a great dress for a destination wedding because it won’t get destroyed in your luggage, and would feel cool and breezy during an outdoor ceremony. I am usually not a fan of “bling” on dresses, but this beading was quite pretty and really made the dress (especially the beading on the bodice). The bust covered nicely (believe a bride could purchase a traditional bra and have it hide under these straps – always a plus!) while still flattering a curvy figure.

If you are looking for a plus sized wedding dress that isn’t the usual cupcake confectionary, you may wish to check out IGIGI’s bridal line. I was pleasantly surprised by the variety, pleased with the quality, and look forward to them extending the line in the future. IGIGI has already gotten the reputation for being a plus sized designer that loves and flatters a women’s curves; now they can be known for loving and flattering curvy brides!

Guest Blogger at In My Professional Opinion

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 17:35:00 +0000

Hi all, I recently was asked to be a guest blogger at In My Professional Opinion!

I love this blog and the two authors - Melissa Street (who has become a good blogging friend of mine) is a mom and professional, freelance makeup artist with 20 years of experience in the film, television and live event industries; Aileen Wrench has worked as a Strategic Marketing Professional for 13 years. The two offer very valuable advice on beauty and products from their "insider view."

My guest post is the second in a series of posts about How to Be a Budget Bombshell.

Many of us are feeling the pinch due to the current economic situation, and I have always believed that style can be found at any budget level, so I find this series of posts very beneficial to any woman.

I encourage you to go visit In My Professional Opinion (and check out what I wrote). Hope you find it entertaining and helpful!

My Personal Mertaugh List

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 18:17:00 +0000

I am a huge fan of How I Met Your Mother, I feel this show is highly underrated. Every time I watch an episode, I fall more deeply in love with it.

A recent episode was called, “The Mertaugh List,” after Danny Glover’s character Roger Mertaw in the Lethal Weapon movies. Many times in those films, Mertaw would catch himself having to do something and he would say, “I’m too old for this s**t.” Ted had created his own “Mertaw List” of things one shouldn’t do after a certain age. Barney decided to do all of them, and made a list of things that they were too young to do (which Ted then decided to do).

My husband and I have been using this catchphrase ever since, seeing and experiencing things, and saying, “that is SO on the Mertaugh List!” This morning in the shower, I was thinking about how certain fashion should be on the Mertaw List. I went to Facebook and saw a friend of mine was selling many of her old witty sayings tee shirts on eBay – one thing that I feel should be on anyone’s personal Mertaw List. With that, I decided to share my personal style Mertaugh List:

Allie’s Style Mertaugh List:
- Any tee shirts with witty sayings

- Any pants or shorts with writing on the bum

- Going braless

- Embellished jeans – embroidery, blinged-out pockets, bleach spots, fabric insets, purposeful holes and tears, etc.

- Baseball caps when not at a sporting event

- Belly button rings

- With that, piercings anywhere other than the nose and ears (and the nose better be very small or for cultural reasons)

- Cheap bras that are bought because they look pretty, not because they look pretty AND lift & separate

- Any skirt or dress that can’t let me pick up something I have dropped on the ground and still maintain some dignity

- Lacrosse shorts

- Having a bad dye job – be it blue or blonde, there is a point where no matter your favorite color of crayon, you better have some serious talent or else leave it to the professionals

- Anything tight enough to show the dent where your cleavage is, where your belly button resides, the separation of your butt cheeks, or the cellulite on your thighs

- Cheap boots – tall boots made of obvious pleather, stretchy microfiber, faded suede; boots with flimsy buckles, plastic heels, cheesy details; boots that are too loose, too short, too tall. Cheap shoes can often times be played off as good quality; cheap boots are too much of a focal point to get away with it

- Messy updos and ponytails - the type made with an elastic or *gasp* a scrunchie while talking, eating, driving, or doing something else where your mind and time is focused on anything but your hair

- Cheap club tops

- Hello Kitty/Disney/Warner Bros.

- Ray Ban Wayfarers

- Anything from Hot Topic

- Gummy bracelets

What is on your personal Mertaugh List?

Talbots - 40% off All Sale This Weekend

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 14:31:00 +0000

This weekend (through April 5th) - 40% off all sale prices PLUS free shipping at Talbots! No code needed, it will show in your shopping bag. However, if you use the promotional code 027945429, you will get an additional 25% off your Talbots order of $100 or more.

I have recently had a ton of success with Talbots for their dresses - classic wrap styles are on sale, plus tons of classic cuts of trousers (in petite and women as well as regular sizes!). Do check it out - I just got a pair of wool crepe trousers, a silk blouse and a wrap dress for less than $100!

Happy shopping!

Save at Ann Taylor Loft this Weekend

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 11:25:00 +0000

Starting today (March 27, 2009) through Monday (March 30, 2009) save at Ann Taylor Loft Online!

Promotion: Get $20 off $75 or more, $50 off $150 or more
Code: WEEKEND

This promotion is only online, not valid in Ann Taylor Loft stores. However, this promo is on all merchandise - full price AND sale! Enjoy!

*Offer valid March 26, 2009 through March 30, 2009 only at anntaylorLOFT.com. Reduction is taken at checkout. Offer may be used only once and may not be combined with any other offer. To receive $20 discount, a minimum purchase of $75 is required. To receive $50 discount, a minimum purchase of $150 is required. To receive your discounts online, promotion code WEEKEND must be entered during checkout. Taxes, shipping and handling fees, purchases of gift cards, charges for gift boxes and payment of an Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card are excluded from any discount. Not valid at Ann Taylor stores, LOFT stores, Ann Taylor Factory stores, LOFT Outlet stores, ANNTAYLOR.COM, on purchases of gift cards, on payment of Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card accounts or in conjunction with any other offer. No adjustments to prior purchases. Not valid for cash.

Guest Post at Already Pretty

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 20:23:00 +0000

I love Sally McGraw and her blog Already Pretty. She has an amazing sense of style, and gives wonderful advice that works for most any woman. If I lived closer to the Twin Cities, I would totally have her as my favorite shopping partner!

Sally asked me to do a guest post on her blog about pregnancy chic and I was happy to oblige, and honored to be considered. You can check out my post here!

Sale at Buxom Inc.

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 19:01:00 +0000

Buxom Inc. is excited to announce a closeout sale on all Fall/Winter items; EVERYTHING is under $30! Get silk chemises + nightshirts (reg. $72 - $112), buttery soft micro-modal camisoles + lounge pants (reg. $54 - $62) and more all for under $30 now through March 23rd or while supplies last!

Buxom Inc. is a sleepwear line dedicated to full-busted women. Buxom Inc. believes that women should never have to sacrifice comfort and support to have fabulous sleepwear style. The label recently has been featured in InStyle, Mothering Magazine, The New York Daily News, and The Boston Herald.

Buxom Inc. creates sleepwear exclusively for the average-sized woman (as opposed to a plus-sized woman) with a fuller bust line. The label cuts for a D cup, as compared to the industry standard B cup. Company founder Christine Kurek conceived of the idea after frustrating and often fruitless searches for beautiful sleepwear designed to support her fuller bust line – a frustration shared by many of her girlfriends.

As a fuller busted woman, I love the idea of this company. Check out their sale, hopefully you can find yourself some fabulous goodies!

Ask Allie – Pregnancy and Beyond

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 16:29:00 +0000

On my other blog, I have been writing a bit about pregnancy and motherhood. Because of that, I have received many emails about pregnancy and motherhood-related fashion and beauty. I thought I would share my answers here so that they may possibly benefit other women:

What is a good nursing tank or bra for large busts?
I really don’t get it – your chest grows with pregnancy and breast feeding, why is it so darn hard to find a decent nursing bra over a size C? As with sports bras, it seems that all nursing tanks and bras either provide monoboob or no support. I tried many of the suggested brands and had to return them because they gave quad-boob, monoboob, were indecent (too exposed to wear the tank out of the house), or had me sag to my belly button. However, I had some success:

Bravado's Body Silk Bra: This wire-free. Comfy bra is not as bad as most because it has removable soft cups. With the cups inserted, your breasts have a bit of shape; remove them for a comfy sleep bra. Now this bra won’t give you a nice enough shape for work, but it’s a great weekend/sleep bra. Bravado knows how to make quality nursing apparel – the bra washes well (I have only put it in the washer once, but I hand wash at least once a week), the clasps are easy to hook and unhook with one hand, it doesn’t stretch out. I have it in black; the neckline looks like a cami so it’s not so bad if it peeks out of a scoop necked tee when a certain little one decides to grab onto Mommy’s shirt and pull with all her might.

Anita Nursing Bras: I have tried two underwire styles and have returned for more. FINALLY a company that has created a nursing bra that lifts, supports, separates, is easy to hook and unhook AND doesn’t look atrocious. Anita bras look like regular bras, but have easy-use strap clasps and even little loops (helps with rehooking and also good if you use a little marker to remember which side was last nursed). I find they run pretty true to size, hold their shape well, the wires stay in place even after many openings and closings and I feel feminine in them (a rarity in the nursing attire world).

Bravado Nursing Tanks: These were constantly recommended to me, but when I tried them on, I found that they made me look like a porn star. My size hardly covered my breasts and I totally poured out of the neckline and underarms. Not only that, the bodice was skin tight (even the maternity version) on my postpartum tummy.

Then I read online that one should not only order a cup size (or two) bigger, but even a band size bigger. So I did, purchasing a band size and two cup sizes larger and hooray – a nursing tank that covers, supports and gets the job done! Now this isn’t the prettiest bra in the world – the rouching in the front is a bit strange and I feel a telltale sign that it is a nursing bra. However, it’s a great piece to have for the summertime, yoga class and weekends with a cardigan or hoodie (or with the shrug that Bravado also manufactures).

For the first-time mothers, a word of advice: do not purchase a nursing tank in white. It seems like a nice basic color, but it will quickly get poop, puke and plenty of milk leakage on it. It will constantly be in the laundry and will require plenty of Oxiclean or bleach to keep it wearable. I have black and dark red and they are far more wearable. The white one I received as a gift is now only worn at night because it has turned a light shade of gray and has perma-spots on both breasts.

Bravado Plus Original Nursing Bra: Okay, these are NOT flattering. They give you monoboob, they don’t lift very much, they don’t separate, and they look like a deformed sports bra. I hate them, but if you’re leaky like me, you will find that you need to wear some sort of bra 24/7 and you won’t be comfortable in your synthetic or underwire bras while sleeping. Also, Bravado offers Plus and Double Plus styles specifically for larger busted women. This way the cup grows without having a too-big and unsupportive band. These larger sizes also are constructed differently to assist in separating the breasts. I found a Medium Plus Plus bra was perfect for my size.

There is an online site called NestMom that will custom tie-dye these Bravado bras for you. This may seem silly when you can find a basic white or black one for cheaper elsewhere. However if you ARE like me and in need of a bra 24/7, it’s such a welcome change to have color in place of dingy neutrals. Also like the Body Silk, it’s cute if it peeks out from under a tee or a ribbed tank. I ordered the bright tie dye and it is a gorgeous rainbow of colors that has held its intensity through many washes and runs through the dryer. NestMom is also a great site to find larger sizes of Bravado products, and more colors and selection than your local mall store (it is where I got my red nursing tank).

What did you use to prevent stretch marks?
Stretch marks are based more on genetics than lack of moisturizer. That being said, I did slather on plenty of products in hopes that it could help (and also to minimize the itching from the stretching belly skin). I used Neutrogena Body Oil and Body Shop’s Coconut Body Butter (in the last two trimesters, I used both – oil first, then butter once the oil dried).

The stuff kept my skin nice and soft, but I still got many stretch marks (and new ones post-pregnancy as well). I still use the Neutrogena Body Oil and occasionally the Body Butter as well to keep the skin supple. Two months postpartum, I do see the stretch marks slightly fading, and the skin changing/tightening.

My husband calls my belly stretch marks my “flames” (a-la the flames people put on cars and motorcycles); I see them as a badge of honor, a battle scar and a reminder of the intensity of pregnancy and labor. It’s something I stressed about a lot before my daughter was born, and now something I hardly care about. My mind has other more important things (like my daughter) to worry about. I already wore tankinis or one pieces to the beach so the stretch marks really haven’t affected my wardrobe choices.

What are your favorite nursing pads?
Before I got pregnant, I had no clue that mothers needed things like nursing pads. Wait, you leak between feedings? Some women do more than others, but I have yet to meet a woman who didn’t need to invest in at least one box or set of nursing pads.

I really didn’t want to go with disposables. Just as with disposable diapers or sanitary napkins (both items I do not use), it is so much landfill waste. However a friend of mine had to stop breast feeding so she gave me two boxes that she already owned – Medela and First Years.

First Years were completely invisible under clothing, but were plasticy and I feared would cause thrush or clogged milk ducts. The Medela were really bulky and showed under thin knits. Luckily I went through these two boxes before I had to go back to work and worry about show-through and absorption.

I then ordered some washable nursing pads – one pair from a Work at Home Mom via Etsy, one pair from Lansinoh. Both work equally well (It’s wonderful to support small businesses and working moms and they usually have equal or better quality, so check out Etsy before you go with a brand name) but both really show under thinner knits. I now use these at night, at-home weekend days and days I work from home. I figure at least using them at these times I am reducing some of my waste…

But this meant I had to purchase some disposable nursing pads. I received free samples from Avent and found them to be way too bulky; reading online reviews I decided to try out Lansinoh. Lansinohh is known for great breast feeding products. Their pads are fine – they are large, they are absorbent, yet thin and invisible under all clothing. However if they shift, they do bunch up and if pressed against, have a papery sound. I went through my whole box without a single issue with leaking, and I didn’t find that they shifted very often (though if I forgot to remove it when nursing, I found it would crease so much that it had to be replaced or else be very visible under clothing). When this box ran out, I went online to read more reviews and decided this time to try the pads from Johnson's. These are cheaper, they aren’t individually wrapped (which means less waste), they have an indent for the nipple (which is a nice feature), and I read that they are less likely to itch than Lansinoh. I didn’t even think about it – itching I thought was a side effect from nursing. But hey, if Johnson's can minimize that… works for me!

Okay, I love these nursing pads. They are far thicker than Lansinoh and will show with a white or light colored tee shirt, but otherwise are perfect. The mild itching I experienced is completely gone. These babies soak up so much I need to use far fewer (less waste and a box goes a long way). They are very cushy and comfy, they don’t shift at all for me. Johnson's are not as big in circumference as Lansinoh, but I haven’t had any issues with shape or leakage. Best part? They are usually cheaper than any other brand. Score!

Where can one find stylish nursing attire?
Ugh, the majority of nursing clothing is hideous. Dowdy silhouettes, boring colors, cheap fabrics. As with maternity clothing, most nursing clothing designers seem to think that mothers want to look like their children. They use way too many bows, ruffles and calico prints for any decent adult woman.

The only company I have found that regularly offers stylish nursing clothing is Boob Maternity. I have two of their dresses – one maternity (which has a surplice neckline that works well for nursing) and one nursing. Boob's quality is excellent, the styles are simple yet chic, and the customer service is phenomenal. Yes, the prices are not cheap but the maternity dress I own has been worn since the beginning of my second trimester and I still wear it today. It has been washed dozens of times and even went through the dryer a few times when my husband did the laundry. The style is so simple, I have worn it with tall boots, with pumps, with tights and even with jeans and it has looked great for work, for evening or the weekend. If you consider cost per wearing, my dress from boob maternity is a better bargain than anything on the clearance rack at the mall.

Most of my nursing clothing (and pumping clothing – I pump at work) is not exactly nursing attire. I wear lots of separates, knits that can handle being shoved around to accommodate the activity and items that button in the front. However the best nursing attire I have found are matte jersey wrap dresses and tops. Wrap dresses are an item that look good on almost any woman’s figure. Matte jersey washes easily, doesn’t wrinkle and it a touch water resistant (I usually can blot away a drop of milk before it sinks into the fabric). The wrap neckline is easy to push to the side (I usually hold the neckline closed with a safety pin when not nursing or pumping) and the fabric makes it perfect for work, weekend or even a wedding or special event. Best of all, matte jersey is a pretty timeless fabric, works year round, and wrap dresses have been stylish for years and aren’t planning to go out of favor any time soon.

If you want to see real-life examples of nursing and pumping attire, visit my other blog – My Wardrobe Today.

If you have any questions you would like to see answered here, feel free to drop me an email. I will try to get back to you as soon as my schedule allows and will let you know if your question is used on the blog. An upcoming post will be exclusively about maternity fashion.

Marshalls - The CUBE

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 14:27:00 +0000

Where in the world can you find Marc by Marc Jacobs sunglasses, Coach boots, Theory blouses, Ralph Lauren sheets and organic olive oil all at discount prices?

Marshalls, one of my favorite stores!

Marshalls used to be a must-visit when I was in high school, on a budget, and a size 4/6. I always knew I could find some trendy pieces for far less. I never had a problem finding my size, could always score a great deal on their clearance racks, and if something exceeded my paycheck from the local florist, I could always put it on layaway.

Then I grew up and changed… and Marshalls seemed to do the same. The store got junky, both in cleanliness and in brands that they stocked. Every time I left a Marshalls, the only thing I gained was a headache.

Marshalls has changed, and for the better. I have recently written about their Shoe MegaShop, well they have also created a boutique in some of their stores called The CUBE. The CUBE is a department that carries hot brand names for juniors and misses. Brands like Urban Outfitters, Tommy Hilfigger, Marc by Marc Jacobs, DKNY, Seven for All Mankind, and Calvin Klein. The in-store boutique displays not just rolling racks of clothing (like most of Marshalls), but displays of bags and other accessories. This unique way of organizing the department helps one really create a complete look in one shopping trip.

Unfortunately, there isn’t a The CUBE in-store boutique at my local Marshalls. Check this link to see if there is one near you.

And if you have visited The CUBE at Marshalls, I would love to hear your review of it!

Win a Tolani Scarf!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 13:37:00 +0000

I wanted to let you all know I am holding a contest on My Wardrobe Today where one reader can win a Tolani scarf! These scarves are coveted by many celebs like Jessica Alba (pictured wearing her zig zag Tolani scarf. I have the same one and LOVE it!).

The Tolani scarf is courtesy of chickdowntown.com, an awesome site that sells hip women’s designer clothing from the likes of Black Halo, Marc by Marc Jacobs, Diane Von Fürstenberg and Nanette Lepore.

Contest ends Friday, March 20th, 2009 at midnight ET. Winner will be contacted by email. Scarf will be mailed out from chickdowntown.com. Sorry international readers, but the contest is only open to those in the United States.

Stop by my other blog for more details!

Save 20% off at Ann Taylor

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 20:31:00 +0000

Save 20% off any purchase of $100 or more at Ann Taylor from March 9 - 12, 2009. PLUS if you have an Ann Taylor credit card, you will receive double Style Reward points until the 15th of this month!

Promotion Code: EMAIL20

Offer valid March 9 2009 through March 12, 2009 at ANNTAYLOR.COM. Offer may be used only once and is not combinable with any other offer. To receive 20% discount online, promotion code EMAIL20 must be entered during checkout and a minimum purchase of $100 is required. Taxes, shipping and handling fees, purchases of gift cards, charges for gift boxes and payment of an Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card are excluded from any discount and do not count towards the qualifying amount. Not valid at LOFT stores, Ann Taylor Factory stores, LOFT Outlet stores, anntaylorLOFT.com, on purchases of gift cards, on payment of Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card accounts or in conjunction with any other offer. No adjustments to prior purchases. Not valid for cash.

Cardholders will receive double STYLE REWARDS points for purchases made from March 9, 2009 at 12:01am EST through March 15, 2009 at 11:59pm EST. Purchases must be made with an Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card only at ANNTAYLOR.COM. Offer not valid at Ann Taylor stores, LOFT stores, Ann Taylor Factory stores, LOFT Outlet stores or anntaylorLOFT.com.

Style with Substance – TOMS Shoes

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Mon, 09 Mar 2009 19:51:00 +0000

I love it when you can find style and also know you are doing good with your purchase. TOMS shoes fits that bill. I love these shoes – they look like a hybrid between Vans skate shoes and espadrilles: perfect for casual summer looks.

I could see them at the beach with a little cotton sundress over a bathing suit, a L.L. Bean Boat & Tote over the shoulder. They would be great with a worn pair of favorite jeans and a tank at a backyard barbecue or running around town in a chino skirt and fitted tee.

What’s great is that these shoes are cute, but they also do good.

TOMS shoes was started when owner Blake Mycoskie (in picture) went on a trip to Argentina and was shocked by the poverty and health issues in that country. He saw children who had to share one pair of shoes with their siblings; they had to take turns going to school in them.

For every pair of TOMS shoes purchased, a pair of shoes goes to a child in need. Since 2006, TOMS has given over 10,000 pairs of shoes to children in Argentina and 50,000 in South Africa.

TOMS shoes are available for women, men and kids. The site now also offers other products such as vegan boots, tee shirts, hoodies (shoes are still donated with every clothing purchase) and even skateboards that were created in partnership with the company Element. For every TOMS + Element skateboard purchased, Element gives a skateboard to a child outside of Durban, South Africa to provide refuge from the dangerous areas in which they live.

Spring is in the air and it’s time to purchase those warm weather essentials. If a pair of comfy, casual shoes is on your shopping list… consider purchasing a pair of TOMS shoes. Improve your style, and the life of a child!

Do Good and Save at Ann Taylor LOFT

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 13:34:00 +0000

What a wonderful promotion - bring in any gently used pair of trousers to an Ann Taylor LOFT store between March 2-8, 2009 and receive $15 towards a new pair of pants!

All donated pants from the partnership will be sold in Goodwill retail stores and the revenues will help fund Goodwill job training programs and support services.

Goodwill Industries International enhances the dignity and quality of life of individuals, families, and communities by eliminating barriers to opportunity and helping people in need reach their fullest potential through the power of work. For more information about Goodwill Industries, please visit www.goodwill.org.

Offer valid March 2, 2009 through March 8, 2009 on select full-priced pants, excluding denim, at LOFT stores and anntaylorLOFT.com. Reduction is taken at checkout. Offer may be used only once and may not be combined with any other offer. Taxes, shipping and handling fees, purchases of gift cards, charges for gift boxes and payment of an Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card are excluded from any discount. Not valid at Ann Taylor stores, Ann Taylor Factory stores, LOFT Outlet stores, ANNTAYLOR.COM, on purchases of gift cards, on payment of Ann Taylor or LOFT Credit Card accounts or in conjunction with any other offer. No adjustments to prior purchases. Not valid for cash.

Shopping Paid Me $500!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 18:41:00 +0000

I don't think anyone is into a shopping frenzy these days. The economy isn't too fabu, I know many people who have lost their jobs or fear losing it pretty soon. Anyway to save money or make money is pretty nice these days.

I have written before about Ebates, and well I just have to again. Yesterday I deposited a check for a bit over $500 into my bank account from Ebates. Yes, $500.

The later part of my pregnancy, I was on bedrest and was no where near finished prepping for this new addition to the family. Also, it was the holiday season and I now had to do all my gift shopping from home. I ended up being best friends with my laptop, scouring the Internet for the best prices on baby supplies (and home goods as that may house was being renovated at the same time), free shipping, coupons and more. Whenever possible, I used Ebates to visit retail sites. I shopped Old Navy, Overstock, Drugstore.com, Nordstrom, Beauty.com, Target, Gap, Ann Taylor Loft, CafePress, REI, Avon, The Children's Place, Diapers.com, FTD, JC Penney, L.L. Bean and more and received at least 1% cash back on my purchase. Most stores offered more like 5% back (some even offered 10 or 20%) on purchases and Ebates also kept track of any current promotions or coupons for the sites.

After months and months of online shopping... I received a check in the mail from Ebates for around $500. I know along with it, I got the best prices, rarely ever paid for shipping, and had the same service as usual from online retailers. I was so psyched, I just had to share it with you all!

I'm Back!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 18:40:00 +0000

I have a few half-posts written, hope to finish them up and post them within the next week. Missed you all! Stop by My Wardrobe Today if you would like to see the little one!

Taking a Short Break

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 19:35:00 +0000

Hello readers, just wanted to let you know I will be taking a short break from writing for Wardrobe Oxygen, and will be returning late February/early March.

On January 8th, my daughter was born. I will be spending this time getting to know her a little better. :) I will be returning to work in a few weeks, and at that time will also return to writing. I look forward to reconnecting with all of you at that time!

And do know, I have been writing all sorts of ideas down for future posts and love email suggestions for topics and questions. So keep them coming! :)

-Allie

Gap: Extra 25% Off Sale

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 15:00:00 +0000

Offer valid until December 29, 2008
Additional 25% off all sale merchandise at The Gap
Promotional Code: SALE

I just got my husband a nice tailored shirt, a waffle shirt to wear under tees, a sweater for me, a sweater for the baby, and a dress for only $65. Definately worth a look-see!

While you are there, all sale at Old Navy sale merchandise is up to 75% off - you can find some good steals ovewr there as well - hurry while there is still selection!

Also... if you are a Banana Republic card holder, you can get an extra 20% off sale merchandise until 1/1/09. Code is EXTRA20 and is valid on markdown merchandise only.

*Offer valid on Gap sale merchandise only from 12/26/2008 at 12:01 am ET through 12/29/2008 at 11:59 pm ET in the US (including Puerto Rico) online only. Not valid at Gap stores or Gap Outlet. Not valid on regularly priced merchandise. Not valid on Gap (Product) RED™, Junk Food™, Converse®, Robeez®, Medela®, or babyGap home merchandise. Discount applies to merchandise only, not value of gift cards purchased, phone orders placed in stores, packaging, applicable taxes or shipping & handling charges. To redeem online enter code at checkout. Online code is limited to one time use only. No adjustments on previous purchases. Not valid for cash or cash equivalent. Gap Inc. is not responsible for lost or stolen coupons. Cannot be combined with other offers or discounts including Gap Inc. employee discount.

Duo Boots - Save up to 30%!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 15:10:00 +0000

Up to 30% off select styles at DUO Boots! Click here to check out what styles are available!

By the way, my new DUO Boots were backordered but I just got an email telling me they are on their way. Expect another review at the beginning of the year!

Sale Terms & conditions: The DUO sale will run for a limited period only, and DUO reserves the right to change sale prices or sale duration at any time. Stocks are limited, and only available whilst stocks last. Some sale items are not available in DUO shops or fitting rooms. For mail order purchases during the sale period, DUO's usual exchange, refund and return policies will apply. For purchases made through DUO's shop and fitting rooms exchange, refund and return policies may vary - more details available in store.

Amazing Sale at IGIGI!

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 17:34:00 +0000

Take 30% off everything at IGIGI.

Yes, you read that correctly, IGIGI is offering 30% off everything on their site!

This event starts 12/19/08 and ends 12/24/08
This sale does exclude sale rack items
Code: "save4holidays"

What a great promotion; IGIGI has a great collection of pretty and festive holiday fashion right now, and always has great fashion for plus sizes!

PLUS, IGIGI is offering two ways to save on shipping:
1. Only $10 shipping on 2nd Day On All US Orders $150+ Ends 12/30/08
-or-
2. Free shipping on Cont. US, $15 Off for HI & AK, $15 Off for International
On Orders $150+
Ends 12/30/08

Happy Shopping!

What to Wear When Working From Home

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 16:53:00 +0000

Many readers write to me, stating that my staples and many of my posts do not work for them because they either work from home, or are stay at home mothers or wives. As someone who never did work from home, I would always respond back that there is life outside of your house and you should be prepared; anyway you will feel better and be more productive if you are well turned out.

I often got responses back that I didn't know what I was talking about; to be in your home comfort is key, style is not important.

Well I am now working from home, on semi-bedrest no less. As I type this I am in my bedroom, my laptop on a tray table. I have been like this for a bit and will be until my baby arrives. Once she arrives I have six weeks of maternity leave at home and a couple of transition weeks - working from home, part time working at the office until I return back as a full-time office employee.

As I type this, I am in black ponte trousers, a gray silky jersey empire-waist top, black socks and diamond stud earrings. My hair has been blown out, I am wearing tinted moisturizer, rosy lipstick and mascara. There is a good chance I will see no one but my dog and husband all day, and that the only time I leave this bed is to use the rest room or refill my water bottle.

However when I started working from home, I relished in the idea of not having to worry about my attire. I often worked the day in a variation of what I slept in - knits, sweats, garments better made for my Saturday yoga classes. It was fun, decadent to not put on a bra, not "do" my hair, and just be comfortable.

My schedule was one day working from home, next day working from the office. I started noticing that the days I had to go to the office, I was dreading them. I wasn't dreading the office or the work, but the need to pull myself together and look professional. I started having more difficulty pulling together a decent outfit from the clothing I already owned and knew so well. The days I worked form home seemed to drag on longer than necessary - often because I would get distracted with a non-work Web site or the desire to do housework instead of payroll work.

I decided that each morning that I felt well, I would try to pull myself together. Shower, an easy wash-and-wear hairstyle (for me is letting the hair air dry with a tiny bit of product and then come back later to smooth the bangs for 5 seconds with a round brush and dryer), small bit of makeup to make me look alive (amazing what a quick swipe of blush and mascara can do for the face). As for clothing, well I wasn't going to endure bedrest in constricting denim, but I could do it with dresses and leggings, and pants made out of knits.

My morning routine is less than ten minutes because for me, showering at night works better with my schedule. Those ten minutes each morning make me a more productive at-home employee, have less concern with having to leave the house last minute or sign for a package when the UPS driver comes to the door. With my exterior organized, my interior seems to be more organized as well. I feel less tired, less sluggish, and more receptive to visitors.

The easiest way to be polished at home, is to start with the purchases. Be careful with every purchase you make - can it handle time on the floor, in bed, and to be accidently tossed in the dryer by your spouse? Keep away from that which will fade, requires ironing or special washing instructions. Also keep away from that which resembles gym attire, sleepwear, or something that your husband would wear. It's better to have less that is quality than more that is junk. As you find great durable and flattering pieces, donate those which aren't up to snuff.

A few pieces I have found to be great while being at home:

Old Navy's Stretch Ponte Mid-Rise Wide-Leg Trousers - I love love love these trousers. They look elegant, but they are made of fabric that is as comfy as sweats. The fabric is heavy enough to hide lumps and bumps and look work-worthy. They have a classic waistband and zipper, but they don't dig into your tummy, even when sitting or reclining. They are machine washable - I usually hang them to dry, but they have also gone in the dryer when I have been in a rush and they haven't pilled, shrunk or faded.

I usually despise slash pockets, but these lie pretty nicely. Best of all - they come in petite and tall lengths! $34.50, currently only available in black. Get yourself two pairs so you have some ready while the other pair is in the wash.

J. Crew Merino Sweaters - Their turtlenecks are cozy while looking elegant, the crewnecks are a stylish alternative to a sweatshirt, and the v-necks add femininity to your simple outfit. Unlike cotton, merino usually keeps it shape and color through many wears and washes. Unlike cashmere, it's usually at a reasonable price point. The tight weave glides over curves, isn't itchy like shetland and looks polished. Come winter, I often layer with a tencel, silk or fine jersey tee or camisole underneath (a silk undershirt is incredibly warm without bulk). Black and gray are always chic, but bright colors are always nice to see and wear. Consider a jewel tone that pleases your eye - it will go with black, gray, camel, denim and other neutrals just as nicely as a more subtle or predictable color. Though the sweaters usually say Dry Clean Only, I have always washed my merinos on the gentle cycle in the machine with Woolie or a gentle landry wash, and either hung them up on a padded hanger or lay them on a towel on top of the dryer to dry. This specific merino turtleneck has select colors on sale for $39.99 - not too shabby!

Wrap Sweaters - This one is from Target. Wrap sweaters are great because they offer the layer you want, but flatter your feminine shape far better than a sweater coat or hoodie. This could work over a nursing tank, a cami, a tee, a turtleneck all with ease and look elegant and feminine. Sweaters and tops that wrap to the side give the illusion of a smaller waist; lightweight sweaters add warmth without bulk to your frame, and again this is a great way to add a pop of color to your basic neutrals. This specific sweater is under $25; I have found great wrap sweaters at Gap, Ann Taylor, Nordstrom, Macy's, and more usually under $50. Another ting - if the sweater is layered over a cami or tank, you don't have to wash it as often. Have a Tide to Go pen at the ready, and you can get more miles between washes!

Mossimo Ultra Soft Long-Sleeved V-Neck Sweaters - I learned about this sweater from another blogger and agree that they are fab! They are super cozy and soft like cashmere, but far less in cost. They come in a good range of colors and seem to flatter a variety of shapes of women.

Very nice with trousers, jeans or even with a simple pencil skirt for church or dinner out. Layer with a cami or tee, dress up with a strand of pearls or a scarf tucked into the neckline. You very well may find that a sweater like this will get more wear and bring far more joy than your most snuggly fleece pullover!

Lands End Fine Gauge Twinsets - Lands End is awesome - they have the best selection of colors, most of their pieces are made of great quality and are easy to wash, their pieces run a bit big, they have an amazing return policy and their styles are classic without being dowdy.

A very easy way to look polished is by wearing a twinset - the shortsleeved crewneck and matching cardigan from Lands End is a great choice. I was mine in the wash on the gentle cycle and hang it up to dry overnight. The colors never fade, the shape maintains, and it dresses up or down nicely. Pair the set with capris in spring, wool blend trousers in winter, a pencil or a-line skirt for brunch, toss the cardigan over a sundress on breezy summer evenings, wear the crewneck alone with trousers and pearls for a simple Business Casual look. Again, consider a cheery color that will bring sunshine to a dreary winter day. Lands End carries most styles in petite, plus, and other extended sizes. The cardigan is $39.50 and I think worth every penny. Keep up with the site, Lands End often adds pieces to this line of fabric so you can get things like sleeveless shells or 3/4 sleeve cardigans come summer and turtlenecks come winter.

Merona Black Leggings - Okay, the leggings under the dress look is gone and done. It was hip for a season and now it looks pretty dated and desperate on most. The thing is, the look is pretty awesome when you are at home. Suddenly you can get on the floor with the kids, chill in bed, hang out at the playground and more without worrying about a breeze. A dress in knit or matte jersey with black leggings and ballet flats is still more chic than a velour jumpsuit or your husband's favorite hoodie. If paired with a solid color dress that has a simple silhouette, the look can be artsy and elegant. I love wearing my black leggings with a dove gray dress and a long scarf at the neck; my friend's weekend look is a black jersey dress with bell sleeves, black leggings, red ballet flats and a long silver necklace with red pendant. She looks polished, but is jsut as comfortable as she would be in her pajamas.

These leggings are less than $10 and get the job done. They aren't miracle workers, but they will last you through a season quite nicely.

What to Avoid:
Memorable Prints - It's hard to wear the same things week after week if they are so unique. Find creativity in your going out pieces, or your accessories. Choose great colors, flattering neutrals, and then detail piecves to add personality.

Bedazzlement - Just because a tee shirt has fake gems at the neckline does not mean it's fun or cool. In all honesty, most embellishment (embroidery, jewels, grommets, patches, accent fabrics, ribbons) makes the garment look cheap, not more stylish. Again, find your style with actual accessories to have versatility, style and polish.

Logos - A woman of style NEVER advertises what brand she is wearing. Style comes from the garment itself, NOT the designer.

Anything that Sheds, Pills, Fades or Creases - This means most khakis, cotton button-downs, angora blends, low percentage of cashmere blends, some silk blends, and cheap knits. If the black jersey already has a slight tint of gray or green, you can be sure that it will head further int hat direction after a few washes. Knits with at least 5% of lycra or a synthetic are less likely to shrink thank 100% cotton.

Be honest with yourself. If you don't have time to blow dry your hair after a shower, will you have time to properly iron that oxford shirt? If the answer is no, then don't buy it in the first place. It won't smooth out from wearing or if you pull it down and press it between you and the car seat. Stay with knits and synthetics if your lifestyle doesn't give you the time for ironing.

Polo Shirts - Unless you have a very slight frame or a slightly athletic build, these shirts are NOT flattering on women. Yes, they make feminine cut ones, but they still are not as flattering as a basic knit. The collar shortens the neck, the sleeve rounds shoulders and draws attention to larger arms, the neckline makes a large bust look matronly and a small bust look more obvious. The cut is usually too boxy or too tight at the belly, and the length is more often than not at the worst part of a woman's body (somewhere around the middle of her bum or right at the love handles). Want to get away from the tee with a creative knit? Try a wrap style, one with puffed sleeves and a scoop neck, one with lantern sleeves or a notched neck.

Cropped Cargo Chinos - These do not flatter a woman's frame in any way; the shortened length makes calves look bigger and legs look longer. The extra pockets add bulk (and usually end up wrinkled after the first wash). Want the cargo pockets for day tripping at the park or in the woods? Go with a jacket or a full-length pant or even a small backpack or sling. Want the cropped look? Consider a heavy jersey, a ponte fabric or a synthetic in the same fabric as a jacket or cardigan for something just as comfortable but far more flattering.

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Pregnancy Must-Haves

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 22:20:00 +0000

Every woman's pregnancy and body is different. however as I near the end of my own pregnancy, I thought I would offer to you a few items that made this life experience that more pleasant. Feel free to comment and provide your own pregnancy must-haves!

1. NARS Blush in Orgasm. I know, I have worn this for almost four years but I never loved it more than I did during this pregnancy. Everyone says you get this pregnant “glow,” but especially during the first trimester when you’re trying to not toss your cookies on your keyboard, you are completely devoid of any glow or color (other than green).

Orgasm is a peachy-pink shade that works on so many different skin tones (pale wintry Allie, spent too much time at the beach Allie, fading tan Allie, tan in a bottle Allie, etc.) and has that perfect bit of shimmer – little enough to wear during the day, but enough to make your flaky dry and sallow skin look dewy and fresh.

The color lasts all day, one compact lasts for YEARS (I am JUST replacing my compact this month after purchasing it for my 30th birthday), and when I wear it people say I have “The Glow.”

2. Laura Mercier's Flawless Face Kit. Bought on a whim. This kit really works in making the face look natural yet finished. Great instructions, great bag to hold everything, all the size to be carry-on-luggage worthy, lasts all day. For my skin, I chose the kit in Sand. You can read a more detailed review by me here.

3. Ina May's Guide to Childbirth. This book may seem too far-out, too hippie, too radical for many. So be warned. However for me, it was utterly empowering. When I found out I was pregnant, I didn’t have a regular OB/GYN. I had changed insurances (for the better) and it was right around the time that I had to schedule my annual. I did what any intelligent pregnant woman would do – I asked friends, Googled reviews, read reviews in local papers and periodicals and then made an appointment with the best one who was associated with the best hospital that was a reasonable distance from my job and home.

This is a great route for many, and the doctors from this practice were very good and very knowledgeable. Something just didn’t click with me. Lurking on a pregnancy message board, I heard about this book and bought it used on Amazon. I didn’t know anything about The Farm, I knew little about natural childbirth (outside of trying to go at it in a hospital without an epidural), and had never heard of Ina May.

After only a few of the true stories in this book, I switched to a group of midwives who had a practice that was connected to a hospital (can go natural but if anything goes wrong, I am minutes from L&D). I went from fearing labor to seeing it as a rite of passage. I felt empowered, proud to be a woman, part of this sisterhood. I felt more connected to this pregnancy, this body and this little person growing inside of me. I started craving knowledge and gobbled up every book, documentary, article and message board I could find.

This route is not for all and I am not one to try to sway people or force people to see my side. Many people have also said they found this book to be very scary, weird, and mean if you are considering a hospital birth. However if you are curious about reading real-life experiences of women who have had natural births… you may get as much from this book that I did.

4. Naturalizer's Creston Flat. I love heels, and feel uncomfortable in flats. However my husband is a photographer and I am often his assistant, running around weddings and events and standing on my feet for hours. I bought these flats over a year ago just for photo shoots. I thought they were dowdy and made me look shorter and heavier than I already am. They were worn only a handful of times before my pregnancy.

As my pregnancy went on, my feet started to change. At first, it was just a bit more pain than usual after a day in 3” heels. Next, I lost some of my stability and felt awkward in anything that wasn’t a wedge, a chunk heel or a flat. By third trimester, my feet had grown a half a size. Now rounding out my pregnancy, my feet are a size an a half bigger and far wider than they were even a month ago. I pretty much fit a shoebox better than I do a shoe. I have tried dozens of shoes – online retailers who specialize in comfort and wide shoes, footwear boutiques and mall shops with very little success.

Today in my 37th week, I am sporting the heck out of those Naturalizer Creston flats. They are one of the only shoes I have found to be comfortable and fit all day. The soft leather grows with my feet as I swell, and retracts when I do. The look is simple and can work with dresses or pants. The sole is good and grippy – I feel safe even on slightly slippery days. The footbed is heavily padded so I feel relatively comfy even after many hours. These shoes were a chance purchase and now are worth their weight in gold. So much, I wish I had also purchased them in another color!

5. Sofft's "Veronica" Mary Jane. Another chance purchase. I just couldn’t let go of heels and had heard great reviews about Sofft so I bought these online in brown suede.

You would never think it, but these cuties are the only shoes, other than the Creston flats, that I can still fit into and wear comfortably. I wore them Saturday night when I went to DC for a friend’s birthday dinner. I wore them Thanksgiving, to my baby shower, and at least once a week to work.

The heel is not very high and it’s scalloped so the weight is well distributed. The footbed is super comfy, the sole is rubbery, flexible and grips nicely. The strap has elastic hidden under the cute flower so it grows when my foot swells later in the day. The style and height makes them cute with dresses or even with trousers.

I purchased them in brown suede; I found the suede to be more flexible and accommodating than the leather version. How amazing to find shoes that get regular compliments AND baby the heck out of your feet? I adore these shoes and post-pregnancy am considering purchasing another pair in a different color.

6. Chantelle Senso Seamless Bra. I adored this bra pre-pregnancy for its ability to lift, separate, completely disappear under lightweight and light-colored knits and give enough padding for nip coverage without adding to my size. I usually despise molded cup bras, but this one always seemed tailor made for my figure. The nude color is very close to my skin tone, the straps are stretchy enough to not dig, but stiff enough to give good support. Same with the band (many people find this bra to seem too small at first – try it for a bit, it seems to mold to your shape instead of being super stretchy like most bras).

When my breasts started growing with pregnancy, I looked for cheap larger bras. I went from a 36D to a 38E and it wasn’t in one fell swoop. To keep purchasing new bras each size would cost a small fortune. I bought bras on sale, bras from lower-end brands, and thought it was fine. They were comfortable, they got the job done…

Then I saw a picture of myself wearing one of these cheap, comfy bras (the Gap tee shirt bra that was on sale). The look was horrible. My breasts looked horrible – bit in an unflattering way, spread out, sort of pendulous (you can see the look here). I always loved my breasts, but this picture made me embarrassed.

So I bit the bullet and bought the Chantelle Senso in my new larger size. It hurt to drop so much money on a bra that wouldn’t fit me for a long while but I just couldn’t take looking giant and sloppy. For those who haven’t been pregnant, even though you tell your pregnant friend she doesn’t look fat, she will feel fat. Her face rounds out, her arms grow, her breasts grow (and for many of us, everything else in between will also grow and soften). If I could at least keep my bust looking perky, I could feel better about my appearance.

The bra was worth every penny – I suddenly looked slimmer, my breasts no longer ached at the end of the day, my clothes fit better. My décolleté looked as it did pre-pregnancy and I gained confidence. The bra hid under everything – semi-sheer sweaters, lightweight knits, white cotton shirts. It was one less thing to worry about during the maternity period.

I am currently wearing the Senso; this is my fourth Senso bra. I wash them by hand or in a lingerie bag on the gentle cycle of the washer. They hang to dry, but they get ten times more wear than any other bra in my collection and wear out. I hope they never discontinue it for they have a lifetime customer with me!

7. Ingrid & Isabel's BellaBand. I didn’t “get” this item for a long time. I hate the layered look and am not one to sport it on a regular basis. IT seemed to be a tee-shirt extender that would hide the fact that my non-maternity pants were unbuttoned. Why did I need an overpriced piece of lycra to do what a ponytail elastic (looped around button hole to extend the button hole) could do?

Then I tried it. No longer did my pants bunch, did the button show through my shirt. As I got larger, the BellaBand helped keep too large maternity pants up, and extended non-maternity ones through most of my second trimester. Crappy roll-waist maternity trousers stayed high on the belly, lowrise waistbands no longer showed off skin when I sat down, and I was able to wear it high enough that it never showed with outfits (preventing the teenage look of layered tees). I even wore the BellaBand over my bust under dresses as décolleté coverage/in place of a cami. Post-pregnancy, I know it will be worn to keep up pants, and to cover the tummy while breastfeeding.

I bought mine in black since the majority of my pants and wardrobe are that color. I know there are cheaper versions out there, but I loved knowing that this little piece of Lycra maintained its color, its shape, its durability through many washings. Having that reassurance made it worth the price.

8. Old Navy’s Ponte Knit Maternity Trousers. Awww boo Old Navy for discontinuing this item. If it weren’t for these trousers, I may have not left my home in the third trimester.

I have often wrote on this blog about my love of ponte knit – it’s heavier than other knits, refined and has a dressier look than jersey fabrics. Since it is a knit, it has stretch. Since it has weight, it doesn’t cling and glides over bumps and curves. It can be machine washed, usually matches ponte garments from other retailers, and works year-round. I have dresses, suiting, skirts and pants of this fabric and thought though most of my pregnancy, “Why doesn’t someone make a maternity line from this fabric?”

My sister found these pants on the Old Navy Web site and I ordered a pair. They are a slightly wide leg that is comfortable even with swelling and hip growth. The waistband is like a yoga pant – wide and of the same fabric. There are two patch pockets on the front and two besom pockets on the back. They stay up even in the last few weeks, match my ponte garments from places like Ann Taylor and Banana Republic, go in the washer and dryer and are completely work-appropriate.

Many pregnant women get to a point where chino and denim are no longer comfortable. When you still have to look presentable for an office environment, items like these are a Godsend. I found a similar item from Liz Lange for Target, but found the length too long for anyone under 5’5” and the fabric to be far thinner (looking more like yoga pants than proper trousers). Hello maternity fashion designers – this is a potential goldmine! Make some trousers in black, brown, charcoal, ivory and possibly navy… add lengths and an extended size range and you will have so many happy pregnant customers. Offer some coordinating jackets and we would be utterly ecstatic! Until then, I will still love Old Navy for offering such an item, even if it was only for a short time.

9. Neutrogena Body Oil. When I was in my first trimester and many smells made me ill, this was one smell that seemed to calm me. When I got PUPPP in my third trimester, it was one of the only products that seemed to soothe the itchies. When stretch marks started to itch and hurt, nothing felt better than to rub them with Neutrogena Body Oil after a shower. I would pour it in a bath when I would have severe itching and insomnia - the smell and the soft feel would relax me and let me sleep a couple more hours.

This has been a product I return to every couple of years. I try out new products, covetable lines, but usually come back to Neutrogena Body Oil. It absorbs quickly, is gentle on my sensitive winter skin, the smell doesn't compete with my perfume, my husband likes the smell, I like the feel and look of my skin when using it, it is versatile, and I love how I can grab a bottle at my local Target. It's a product I could see being in my bathroom even 20 years from now.

10. My DayRunner. When you are pregnant, your brain disappears... at least part of it does. It's very slow and very subtle; suddenly one day you forget where your friend's house is located, what time your doctor's appointment is, what is the date of your grandmother's birthday. I had Outlook, I had my cell phone's calendar, I had the calendar in the kitchen that my husband and I had used for years to reind one another of events we both had to attend. It worked very well and I never double booked or forgot an occasion.

Then my second trimester arrived and my brain left. I forgot passwords to Web sites and would take elevators to wrong floors. Next thing, I couldn't recall what day Halloween fell on. I bought an agenda book - one small enough to fit in my purse, but large enough that I could add pages and customize to my needs. I added all the addresses and phone numbers I needed in case I lost my cell (which happened once with this Baby Brain), added necessary passwords in code so if I forgot them, I could refresh my memory. I added the most basic of dates like my husband's birthday, the baby's due date, the days I worked from home. I added work appointments in case I got stuck somewhere without Internet. I made lists of what needed to be done and put dates on them so I knew what I was thinking when.

I think my DayRunner kept me from losing my job or a single friend.

An agenda book may not be what you need, but do prepare for the slow loss of brain cells while pregnant. Just as many women swear they are not acting crazy due to PMS (and then admit it was the hormones talking after the event took place), pregnant women will swear they are not becoming forgetful. Be good to yourself, your friends, your coworkers and figure out some sort of system that will keep your life in order when your mind has lost it. It will probably also come in handy post-baby to organize family events, play groups, day care, doctor appointments and more. If you get one that has the rings where you can add pages, you can add little clear sheets to show off pictures of your new bundle of joy too. :)

The Cosmetic Market - Save 20%

wardrobeoxygen@gmail.com (Allie) — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 20:12:00 +0000

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