Folks have been using a variation of boob tape for years. When I was planning my 2004 wedding, I remember reading of folks placing duct tape on a towel to reduce the stickiness before using it to lift and shape their breasts. KT tape has been a popular option, too, but in recent years many brands have come on the scene creating specifically designed boob tape to lift, shape, and work with modern fashions.

I have received boob tape products as gifts over the years and decided this was a good time to try them out and share an honest review of how they worked on my F-cup 50+ chest. On one side I used NOOD, on the other Brassybra. This is my honest review of trying these two brands of boob tape on my midlife gravity-blessed breasts.

Boob Tape Review in Midlife: NOOD vs. Brassybra

For reference, I am 5'3″ tall, a size 14, and have a 36 F/G bust. I nursed for almost three years, my weight has fluctuated over the decades, and I am 51 years old. While I still have large breasts, they have dropped every year since I turned 30, and have lost a lot of the volume in the top. This is common for us women over 40, regardless of our bust size. Also with age, our skin becomes more delicate, has less elasticity, making it more likely to be damaged, irritated, and also creased if lifted and scooped into place.

Every boob tape review I've found was tested by someone in their 20s or 30s, with breasts that still have volume across the top and more… shall we say durable of skin. Boob tape works by lifting and anchoring skin and tissue upward. When decades of gravity, nursing, weight and life changes have shifted volume downward and thinned the skin, the tape can't necessarily be applied just like the viral videos and achieve the same effect. It doesn't mean boob tape doesn't work for our 40+ breasts, it just means we need a different plan than our 20-something friends when using them.

I no longer wish to show myself in bras on the internet, so I am surely not going to show you my body just in boob tape. But I wanted to share my experience in case you have been considering boob tape and are large of bust and grown of self.

NOOD Game Changer Lift & Shape Bra Review

The NOOD Game Changer Lift & Shape Bra is designed for breasts up to G+ with a shape so a longer edge scoops up side boob. Four non-reusable sets come in a pack for $49.50. It is recommended to use nipple covers, but they are not included. I didn't own any, so I got creative and just used a folded up piece of toilet paper. I read the included instructions, watched a few of the videos on the NOOD website, and attempted to recreate in my bedroom in front of a mirror.

The adhesive backing paper is stiff, and I had a hard time peeling off just one edge of the bottom half, fold it out of the way, not peel the whole thing off, and get it to lie in the right place. I also found to have it lift like the videos, it needed to be closer towards the center of my body which meant it would show in the dress neckline. I tried the other side, changing the placement to have it not so in the center and was able to get good lift, but it creased the top of my breast due to the lack of volume. Not a cute look at all.

Luckily the NOOD is relatively easy to remove once applied, though do not expect it to restick with as much strength. These are nearly impossible to rearrange, expect to waste one set just getting the hang of it. My second try, I was able to get it to achieve some lift without having my breast look like a half-filled water balloon.

The NOOD Game Changer did lift, but I couldn't get the advertised lift without having my upper breast visibly creased. However, thanks to the NOOD design with the side boob action, it helped scoop the breast so it stayed in place and didn't migrate into my underarm.

To be honest, I planned on doing NOOD on both sides, but I again struggled to get it properly in place. You too may find it's easier to see and manipulate and apply on one side than the other. I ended up having to trash my third NOOD, and this inspired me to do this review by trying Brassybra boob tape on the other side.

Brassybra Boob Tape Review

The Brassybra comes with flower shaped nipple covers that are lightly adhesive on the sides and soft in the center to protect but also stay in place while maneuvering the boob tape. There are three non-reusable sets plus a test strip in a pack for $38.

Brassybra also carries and sent me That Little Extra, which are additional strips of boob tape in case you need more support or coverage. I thought I'd need it because the Brassybra is so much smaller than NOOD, but I surprisingly didn't.

I am not sure what NOOD is made from, on the website I could only find what it did not have and that the adhesive is acrylic-based. Brassybra's adhesive is also acrylic-based and they both stuck with the same level of intensity on my skin, but Brassybra's boob tape is 97% cotton/3% spandex and I could tell by it being more textured, heavier yet softer, and stretching but not as much. NOOD Game Changer feels more like kinesiology/KT tape in regards to texture and how it stretches.

I was able to maneuver the NOOD a bit once on the skin, Brassybra it was near impossible. If I removed it, the adhesive lost all its strength and it peeled. I again used a second one to get the placing just right and was able to get a bit more lift since it wasn't so big that it went into the neckline area.

That being said, I was shocked that something so much smaller ended up achieving just as good of results while also being easier to get on. The paper backing wasn't as stiff, and that in combination with the size, I found it easier to get on without creasing.

I can see that if I really cared about preventing side boob or having more forward a bustline, using That Little Extra strips on the side would be a benefit when using Brassybra Boob Tape. That isn't necessary with NOOD.

NOOD vs. Brassybra: Side-by-Side for a Large Bust Over 40

Removing Boob Tape Safely and Comfortably

Both held up exactly the same through movement, sweat, and time. The Brassybra came off more easily because of the thicker textile, but both benefit from using a bit of oil to loosen the adhesive and not irritate the skin. The longer you wear these, the more you need oil to get it off.

Both brands carry an oil-based adhesive remover, but really any oil will work. Sweet almond, sunflower, canola, olive, baby… no need to get fancy, use what you have. If you soak the tape, let it sit, and then hop in the shower, peeling from bottom up, the heat, water, and oil will make it an easy process and then you can shower off any oil residue.

My Honest Take After a Full Day in Boob Tape

I did not enjoy wearing these boob tape products. In midlife, my skin is thinner and my breasts have less volume on top, and they manipulated my skin in a way that was not comfortable. As I sweat, I found the experience itchy and more uncomfortable in a sensory manner. This experience makes me not wish to buy anymore clothing that requires boob tape.

I think if I practiced more often, I could improve the process and find both NOOD Game Changer and Brassybra more comfortable and effective. I also think if I was blessed by gravity but a smaller cup size, or if I had more volume in my breasts like I did when I was younger, I would find application easier and the experience more comfortable.

That being said, I love my dress, and the next time I wear it, I will use another pair of Brassybra. I will keep the NOOD Game Changer if I ever have a situation that requires more precise lift and shape. But honestly, I hope that situation never arises.

Outfit Details

As for the dress, since I got it at a Rent the Runway sample sale this past winter, it is not a dress that is still for sale. However, the style name is the Tana dress from Hemant & Nandita, I am wearing a XL which is equivalent to 10/12 but it fits my figure due to the looser fit, open back, and elasticized waist.

The earrings are Lele Sadoughi, but no longer available. It's worth checking sites like The RealReal and Poshmark; the style is called the “Wilma” and they came in a range of colors. The Sandals are from Bella Vita but almost a decade old. The bag is from COS (on sale), and the sunglasses are Ray-Ban. My lipstick is Merit lip blush in Framboise.

Your Questions About Boob Tape in Midlife, Answered

This is a shortened Weekend Reads because I wasn't able to get any computer time until Friday evening. Since last Wednesday night, I have been working as an election judge for early voting in Maryland. Friday morning I had an appointment, and then a date with my sister to get massages to help heal my body from 12-hour days on my feet in a community center gym.

Weekend Reads

Welcome to California: land of plunder and hypocrisy. (The Guardian)

I have and love this from L.L.Bean, but this one has a hook for keys or a charm and a crossbody strap.

The Least Logical Fashion Rule. (The Atlantic – gift link)

The Last Days of the Times Square Red Lobster. (The New York Times – gift link)

I got your summer lingerie right here.

The FDA Finally Approved a New Sunscreen Filter. (Allure)

Bowser and Oscar would look so good on this.

On sequins, snow globes, and the not-so-secret divides of 90s girlhood. (Midriff Mag on Substack)

This dress is even prettier in person.

The Rise and Fall of the ‘Hipster Music’ Era, 2000-2014: VICE’s Definitive Timeline. (Vice)

Breakfast Pizza and Other Things We Never Thought to Explain. (Titty Boobwitz via Substack)

New-to-me brand making me wish I didn't need prescription frames. These really caught my eye.

I’m a 53-Year-Old Woman. Stop Telling Me I’m Invisible. (New York Times – gift link)

I just reordered this. I love the smell, and it makes my skin feel like silk without being sticky or heavy in the heat.

What It’s Like to Treat Ultrawealthy Shopping Addicts. (The Cut)

I'm not a butter yellow person, but the combo of this color, texture, and silhouette make me love this bag and find it a chic go with everything unexpected neutral.

Meet the 50 American Style x Vogue Finalists. (Vogue)

The Women Who Don’t Own Clothes. (The Atlantic – gift link)

The color, the bead detail, the large bust design… not sure what I love most about this swimsuit!

If you're looking for an easier, cheaper, and more eco-friendly alternative to pads and tampons, may I suggest this? Code WARDROBEOXYGEN gets you 15% off.

I love making capsule wardrobes because it is proof you don't need a lot of clothes to achieve a lot of style. It's like playing Tetris, you're rearranging pieces to get them to fit and the more you play with the pieces, the better you get at it. For this capsule wardrobe, I made a work travel-friendly collection of pieces that shows color can be both versatile and professional.

A Colorful and Work-Friendly Capsule Wardrobe for Summer

This capsule was inspired by an elevated tropical wool shorts suit from Banana Republic, and how I found it to be an unlikely but very chic closet addition that together is modern, and separate are closet classics enjoyed for years. Longer tailored dress shorts are back in fashion, and paired with a blazer and elevated shoes, is work appropriate. And come fall and winter, Banana has pants in this same fabric. This is the kind of fabric that works in an air-conditioned office and the shorts won't suffocate you on an August afternoon outside.

I mixed this suit with pieces either I own, or am admiring this season as I like to walk the talk and show these capsule wardrobes are truly wearable and on a range of bodies, not just the tall, slim, and young.

I own the blue stripe button-down (see it in my The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens review), the black-and-white linen print peplum tank (see it in my Universal Standard stretch linen review), the adjustable silver necklace from Heaven Mayhem, and the Quince leather clutch.

I own and love the longer Spanx stretch twill pants and fell in love with this hot coral cropped version. I own this dress from Lands' End. I own similar sandals from Fitflop, a similar bag from MAISON de SABRÉ and have had the washable pink silk blouse from Ruti in my cart for a while.

The Capsule: 9 Pieces of Clothing, 18 Items Total

Yes, color can be professional. Clear, right colors, and playing with unexpected combinations with ivory and black keeping everything grounded and elevated. Silver accessories add a modern touch. Shoes are more casual, but when you're on business travel and you're a grown woman, you can get away with not wearing pumps. However, if you want more polish, a closed-toe slingback or structured flat can also provide just as much versatility.

Shop the capsule: blazer (0-18 & petite) | sneakers (ALISON20 for 20% off) | cropped pants (XS-3X & petite/tall) | belt (XS-XL) | shirt (I own; XXS-XXL) | dress (XS-3X & petite/tall) | bucket bag | adjustable necklace (I own) | shorts (0-18 & petite) | sunglasses | broderie-detail tee (0-20/22) | silk tee (XS-XL; ALISON15 for 15% off) | ring | earrings | clutch (I own) | linen wide pants (00-20 & tall/petite) | sandals | linen peplum tank (I own; 00-40)

Every piece in this capsule is made from a summer-friendly fabric. The blazer and Bermuda shorts are tropical weight wool, which is a great fabric for work because it breathes and doesn't wrinkle but looks polished and professional. The striped button-down is 100% cotton, as is the embroidered tee and the dress. The coral pants are a cotton blend. The wide-leg pants and the printed tank are both linen blends. The pink blouse is washable silk. Even the sneakers have perforations for ventilation.

20 Outfits from 9 Pieces

Below you'll find 20 outfit combinations. Some are polished enough for a presentation, some are casual enough for a walking tour, a few are right for drinks with clients, lunch with a friend, or an outdoor event in the heat. To see the images larger, click on any one of them. Tap or slide through to see all 20, and to return to this page, just click or tap outside the slideshow.

The Why Behind These Items In The Capsule

The blazer is your Swiss Army knife. It transforms the cobalt dress from afternoon meeting to client dinner. It makes the coral pants feel boardroom-appropriate. It turns a tee and shorts into something intentional. Pack the blazer on the top of your carry-on so it doesn't get crushed, and it will earn its space every single day.

The striped shirt is your multitool. I own this shirt, I love this shirt, and I often take it on travel. Spot clean it in the sink, use the hotel iron to get it crisp again. Wear untucked, tucked in, tied, unbuttoned, sleeves cuffed or loose, collar popped or classic. A blue and white stripe is classic and like a leopard print, goes with most everything. Check out my review of the shirt by Rochelle Behrens.

The coral pants are the star. These pants at first may look a bit OTT, but coral red reads sophisticated, not casual. The stretch keeps them looking fresh even if they're worn on repeat, the silhouette feels modern but still work-friendly, and it's a color that is surprisingly versatile. Yes, you can wear coral with rust (and pink, and red, and green, and brown); unexpected color combos are very on trend this year.

Three different pant silhouettes. Shorts that hit middle to below the knee are back, but now they have pleats, proper waistbands, and are like super cropped wide-leg pants or modern divided skirt/culotte. Mixing them, a cropped kick-flare, and a wide-leg full-length pant in three different colors and three different fabrics gives the tops completely different effects while all working with the same exact style of shoe.

Not your jam? Switch out the shorts for a suiting skirt, the kick flares for a wide-leg crop or barrel leg, the wide-leg pants for straight or tapered. The point is mixing up the silhouettes, colors, and fabrics.

The “weird green” bag is intentional. Not only are unexpected color combinations hot this year, so are unexpected colors. Weird shades of green, yellow, and chartreuse are the “pop” that makes bold colors contemporary. This green (MAISON de SABRÉ calls it Martini Green) is not only chic this summer, but will look great this fall and winter with everything from autumnal hues to wintry gray and black.

Alternate your two bags by occasion. The crossbody bucket bag is big enough to carry what you need for a day away from the hotel, but polished enough for more casual of evening activities. The black clutch comes out for dinners, evening events, as well as daytime events where you desire a more delicate purse (I have this bag and regularly use it as a crossbody).

The easy dress will save the trip. It's hot out and you don't want the least amount of fabric touching your body but you need to look polished. You had an amazing decadent dinner the night before and the idea of a structured waistband sounds like torture. You don't know if the networking event is shorts or sheath dresses. This dress will be a welcome addition to your suitcase.

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Why I Keep Recommending Soludos

If you have been reading Wardrobe Oxygen for a while, you know I often recommend Soludos espadrilles and sneakers. I love the classic yet cool aesthetic, the color and design options, and how they are perennially chic non-heel options for summer and beyond. That being said, you never see me wear Soludos because I have wide and high volume feet that do not fit in them, along with most non-wide width shoes.

But over the 20+ years of running Wardrobe Oxygen I have learned that what makes us women great is that we are not all the same. And because we are all different, we all have different needs. I want to offer quality options for a range of bodies and lifestyles, and I know from my site metrics that y'all love classic yet comfortable shoes that transcend trends, and y'all love espadrilles and lifestyle sneakers. And I know Soludos offers great options for both styles of shoes.

Over the past two years, I have gifted Soludos to two different readers so I can offer you details and feedback on these shoes that you may not find on the product website or from a sponsored post on social media. Rachel Sutherland, a longtime reader and former fashion editor, previously shared her thoughts on Soludos espadrilles and sneakers. And more recently, Jessica Plaxton, a full-time working mom in midlife received two gifted pairs of Soludos to share her experience.

For 2026, I decided to combine these two reviews together to provide a more comprehensive Soludos review: three styles of espadrilles, two styles of sneakers, from two very different women with different lives but both with the goal of finding footwear that combines style with comfort.

Meet the Reviewers

I asked each reviewer to pick one espadrille and one sneaker, but from that their choice. In 2025, Soludos offered three pairs of gifted shoes; in 2026 two. This is why there are five Soludos shoes reviews. The two reviewers:

Rachel Sutherland

Rachel is CEO of a communications company, mother of two, longtime Wardrobe Oxygen reader, and a self-described shoe lover. She loves shoes so much that during her years as a fashion editor for a large daily newspaper, her weekly column was called If The Shoe Fits. Rachel has tried every style of shoe imaginable and brings a sharp editorial eye to her assessments. Rachel wears a size 8.5.

Jessica Plaxton

I met Jessica decades ago when we both worked for fashion brands at the same mall. We both had a passion for fashion and a love of heels… and now we both suffer the consequences. Jessica now lives many states away but we have kept in touch through the Wardrobe Oxygen community. She is a full-time working mom with a 9-year-old plus two bonus kids in their 20s. Her job has her visiting client sites, requiring her to be on her feet but always looking polished. She wears a size 8.5 shoe.

The Soludos Shoes Tested

The two reviewers tested three styles of Soludos espadrilles and two styles of Soludos sneakers across multiple days of real wear:

• Dali Original Espadrille (Jessica)
• Dali Mule Espadrille (Rachel)
• Smoking Espadrille (Rachel)
• Roma Retro Sneaker (Jessica)
• Ibiza Classic Sneaker (Rachel)

Jessica's Review: Dali Original Espadrille and Roma Retro Sneaker

By Jessica Plaxton

As a busy working mom with a 9-year-old boy, I've gotten a lot more practical about shoes over the years. My days usually involve some combination of work, errands, family activities, and trying to squeeze in a little personal time somewhere in the middle of it all. I used to wear heels almost every day, but comfort matters a lot more to me now — although I still want shoes that feel stylish and reflect my personal style. Since I wear dresses most of the time, I'm always looking for shoes that feel feminine, versatile, and realistic for everyday life.

A couple of years ago, I bought a pair of Soludos velvet ankle-tie d'Orsay heels and had such a good experience with them that I was excited when I saw Alison's invitation to try the Soludos Dali Original Espadrilles and Roma Retro Sneakers. After wearing both pairs through full, very normal busy days, I can honestly say they've both earned a spot in my regular rotation for completely different reasons.

For sizing reference, I wear my usual size 8.5 with a regular-width foot. The Dali Espadrilles came in an 8–8.5 range, which fit perfectly, and I also went with an 8.5 in the sneakers.

The Dali Original Espadrille in Iberia Brown

The first pair I tried was the Dali Original Espadrille in Iberia Brown. Right out of the box, I loved the rich dark brown color. It feels classic without being too heavy for summer, and it works so well with neutrals, white, denim, and linen — basically most of my warm-weather wardrobe. I also liked that the darker brown felt a little more polished than a typical sandal while still keeping that relaxed espadrille feel.

The first day I wore them, I paired them with denim shorts, a jewel-toned top, and gold accessories. The brown really tied everything together.

When I first slipped them on, they felt a little firm — not uncomfortable, just more structured than I expected. But throughout the day they softened up nicely and started molding to my feet. By the end of the day, they felt noticeably more comfortable while still feeling supportive. This was my first experience with flat espadrilles (my other pairs are wedges from Viscata and Lisa Vicky), so I wasn't sure what to expect comfort-wise. I ended up pleasantly surprised.

I also happened to wear the espadrilles on a very hot North Carolina day — around 92 degrees — which honestly felt like the perfect test. I had them on around the house most of the morning and later wore them walking around downtown Wake Forest and the reservoir. I fully expected my feet to feel hot by the end of the day, but they stayed breathable and comfortable the entire time.

What stood out most:

• Versatile enough to wear with a sundress for errands, lunch, travel, or work
• Held up for a full day on my feet — not just a short outing
• The dark brown reads as polished, not casual-only
• I can absolutely see wearing these to visit clients at dealerships

The Soludos Dali Espadrilles feel like the kind of easy, reliable pair you end up reaching for constantly.

The Roma Retro Sneaker in Sunrise Cloud

The Soludos Roma Retro Sneaker may honestly be one of the most comfortable sneakers I've owned.

The first thing I noticed was how soft the sole felt immediately. There really wasn't a break-in period at all. I wore them with the laces out, although I also like the tucked-in look Soludos styles on their website. Either way, they felt great from morning until night.

I wore these sneakers on a packed Saturday: a golf lesson, immediately followed by a kids' birthday party, then grocery shopping. Basically a very typical busy-mom Saturday where comfort matters because you're in your shoes all day.

Since I was heading straight from golf to the party, I paired the Sunrise Cloud color with a white dress, and I loved how the outfit came together. The colors are soft and subtle without feeling overly trendy, and they worked perfectly with the dress.

What I loved most:

• They feel casual but still elevated — a lot of sneakers look too sporty or bulky with dresses, but these don't
• Lightweight enough that even after hours on my feet, they never started feeling stiff or heavy
• The cushioning stayed soft all day
• The closest comparison in my closet would be Nike Court Vintage Premium sneakers, but those lean more athletic. I preferred the softer color combination of the Soludos pair and liked that they felt more versatile style-wise

Jessica's Overall Verdict

“I really feel like Soludos understands that women want shoes that work for actual everyday life — not just something that photographs well online.”

Both styles feel polished and stylish, but more importantly, they're comfortable enough to wear through full, busy days without counting down the minutes until you can take them off.

• Dali Original Espadrilles: Perfect for warm-weather days when you want something breathable and a little more polished than sandals
• Roma Retro Sneakers: Ideal for busy weekends, casual outings, travel, or any day where you know you'll be on your feet for hours

As much as I still love heels and wedges, I've started gravitating toward shoes that I'll realistically reach for over and over again. Both of these fit that category for me.

Rachel's Review: Ibiza Classic Sneaker, Dali Mule, and Smoking Espadrille

By Rachel Sutherland

It’s been a long minute since I wore espadrilles – middle school, maybe? – so I was doubly excited for the chance to slip into some shoes that are the embodiment of summer. And the brand, founded in 2010, is just fun. Soludos combines the Spanish words “salud” (cheers) and “sol” (sun).

The Ibiza Classic Sneaker

I, like many women, welcomed the arrival of fashion sneakers, and I have embraced the comfortable trend with gusto. I’ve got all styles and profiles in my closet: platform, custom, solid colors, designer … The list goes on. I was missing a set of metallic kicks, so I chose to test the Ibiza Classic in Platinum, size 9.

I used the perfect fit tool on the website, and it suggested a 9.5. I’m typically an 8.5 in sneakers. Hm. The website says: “The Ibiza runs a bit small, please size up by 1/2 a size for the perfect fit. They're made from irresistibly soft leather, so there's no break in period.”

After a good bit of waffling, I ordered the 9, and they're fine, but I probably could have gone with an 8.5 for a more perfect fit.

My experience with Soludos sneakers:

• The shoes are wide (I have a pretty normal foot, not high volume, not especially wide), and no matter how tight I tied the laces, they never felt snug
• The leather is buttery and supple, with no break-in period
• The shoes do not offer support
• I felt like my foot was sliding around in the shoe. I added a pair of slip-in inserts to get a more snug fit.
• Polished enough for work-adjacent scenarios, relaxed enough for weekend wandering

“This sneaker balances style with practical comfort. It's polished enough for work-ish scenarios, relaxed enough for weekend wandering, and chic enough to elevate even simple outfits.”

Sizing note: The Ibiza runs small; Soludos recommends sizing up half a size. Rachel ordered a 9 (one size up from her usual 8.5) and found it slightly roomy. If you're between sizes, lean toward your true size rather than going up a full size.

The Dali Mule Espadrille

I love a shoe I can take off at a moment's notice – mules and clogs are my go-to, always. I want options! I can’t be constricted by the back of a shoe! A mule espadrille? Sign me up. I chose Noche Black in 8-8.5.

I was concerned the fit for the Soludos Dali Mule Espadrille was going to be too tight, but they were right on the money. The website tried to calm my fears before ordering: “Heads up, these are meant to feel a bit snug out of the box and mold to your feet within 15-30 minutes of wear.” Absolutely true, though I was freaking out for the first 10 minutes I had them on.  

My Experience with the Soludos Espadrille Mules:

• The Dali Mule Espadrille is an easygoing update to the classic espadrille.
• The cotton canvas is snug, but not suffocating, and in concert with the traditional jute soles, they molded to my feet after the first wear
• The unique arch flap is a tricky trade-off: adds pliability but can pinch or fold
• It’s perfect for lounge-y summer outings or brunch — but definitely not your hero shoes for long walks.

“These espadrille mules will forever earn a spot in my suitcase, infinitely packable and fully prepared for double duty: cute with pants, dresses, and excellent as slippers too.”

A detail worth noting: There is a right and left shoe with the Dali Mule Espadrille, a welcome modern update from the traditional espadrille style from Spain. 

Sizing note: Runs true to size. The mule is meant to feel snug at first and molds within 15–30 minutes.

The Smoking Espadrille

Note: The Armada Chili print Rachel tested is no longer available, but Soludos offers other seasonal embroidered styles and classic colorways in the Smoking Espadrille silhouette.

With a nod to the timeless smoking slipper (a type of slip-on shoe, similar to loafers, that was initially designed as indoor shoes for the upper class in the 1800s), the Soludos Smoking Espadrilles are instant classics. I chose Armada Chili, size 8-8.5.

The fit was tight at first, so much so I doubted I could get them on my feet. But I persevered, and just like Soludos said, they stretched to my feet without being pinchy or painful.

Cropped wide leg pants are practically begging to be worn with these comfy smoking espadrilles, and the shoes work well with midi and maxi dresses too.

“The Soludos Smoking Espadrille is a comfy silhouette upgraded with playful embroidery that practically dares someone to comment (and they will). It's equal parts cheeky and chic.”

Rachel's Overall Verdict

Overall, my Soludos experience was good, but also surprisingly challenging. The shoes are high quality and well made, but the sizing, especially for sneakers, was problematic. I am sold 39 euro size, which translates to about 8.5 in US women's sizing. While standardized guidelines should ensure consistency across the board, sizing can be a tricky situation when you factor in brand, materials, toe box, heel height (not the case here), and personal comfort.

Soludos Sizing & Fit: What You Need to Know

Before you order, here's what both reviewers found regarding Soludos sizing:

• Soludos runs true to size for standard-width feet
• The espadrilles come in half-size ranges (e.g., 8–8.5). If you're between sizes, size up.
• Soludos is not a good fit for wide-width feet. The toe box is narrow. If you wear a wide fit, I'd recommend looking at my guide for where to shop for stylish wide width shoes instead.
• The sneakers don't require a break-in period; the espadrilles soften over the first day of wear

Experiencing Soludos Customer Service

Rachel initially received the Soludos Smoking Espadrilles in the wrong size. I reached out to Soludos and they provided me with their customer care email address so I would get the true customer experience dealing with an exchange.

Soludos' customer service is email-based, but also human-based and provide quick responses even in off-hours. The situation was remedied very quickly and painlessly with Soludos sending the correct size and a postage-paid label for Rachel to return the wrong shoes.

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The Bottom Line

My wide high volume feet don't work with Soludos. But I know my feet are not typical, I know Soludos is famous for quality and classic style, and I love that two members of the Wardrobe Oxygen community have given these shoes a workout and year after year, have found them to be great for quality, comfort, and style.

If you have a standard-width foot and you've been curious about Soludos, consider this your sign to try them. Use code ALISON20 for 20% off at Soludos.com.

I grew up on the East Coast but I have still spent many years being wrong about rain. Wrong about whether I needed a jacket, wrong about how waterproof “water resistant” actually is, and wrong believing raincoats couldn't be functional and fashionable. Thanks to two decades of writing about fashion here at Wardrobe Oxygen and connecting with you, women across the country and the globe, I have learned much, and want to share my knowledge with you.

This post covers the best raincoats for women across every situation, including personal details with the coats I own, close friends own, or I have tried at some point. I've also included a dedicated plus size section because finding a well-made, actually waterproof raincoat in extended sizes is harder than it should be in 2026.

Before we get started, we need to talk about the difference between waterproof and water resistant. They are not the same, but brands hope you don't realize that. You know me, I want you to be an informed consumer.

Waterproof vs. Water Resistant: What You Actually Need to Know

Water resistant means the fabric repels light moisture, a drizzle, some mist, a short shower. It is not built for sustained rain and will eventually soak through. Most fashion raincoats, trenches, and “packable jackets” fall into this category.

Waterproof means the jacket has a membrane or coating that prevents water from penetrating under sustained pressure. True waterproof jackets have taped or welded seams (so water can't sneak through needle holes), a waterproof rating of at least 10,000mm (15,000mm+ for serious weather), and usually a DWR (durable water repellent) coating on the outer fabric as well.

If you live somewhere it actually rains, or you travel to places where it does, you want at least one truly waterproof jacket in your closet. Those who live in places where there's the occasional shower or drizzle, water resistant can usually get the job done.

For example, here in Maryland, a water resistant jacket worked for me most of the time as I commuted to work via Metro and walking a few short blocks. However, for camping with the Girl Scouts come rain or shine, travel to rainy locales, and taking the dogs out during a downpour, I have appreciated my truly waterproof raincoat.

Best Trench Coats That Are Truly Waterproof

Most classic trench coats are water resistant at best, which is fine for a commute in a drizzle but not for standing outside in a downpour. That said, a good trench is the most versatile piece of outerwear you can own and several brands have figured out how to make them properly waterproof without sacrificing the silhouette.

1. Rains Suva Hardshell: Rains is a Danish brand that since 2012 has been making performance outerwear that is fashionable too. The Suva Hardshell is a waterproof trench from soft and lightweight 3-layer fabric with taped seams and a matte surface. With a detachable belt, detachable hood, and waterproof coated zip closure hidden behind a placket, this is the epitome of fashion and function. Sizes XS-XL; $295
2. Lands' End Squall Waterproof Modern Trench Raincoat: Fully seam sealed and a waterproof shell helps keep you dry in inclement weather; windproof fabric prevents cold air from cutting through and helps trap warmth in. Fully lined, this trench is classic, chic, and will keep you cozy even in a chilly downpour. Sizes XS-3X with petite options; $199.95
3. Lolë Alizé Trench Coat: Made with sustainable, recycled, breathable 3K fabric with sealed seams, this coat looks great with or without the belt, and has a hood that stows in the collar. Lolë is known for high quality coats, and this one offers that quality with elegant classic trench styling. Sizes XXS-XXL; $128
4. Helly Hansen Jane Trench Coat: High performance with classic design, the Jane from Helly Hansen is made with the iconic HELLY TECH® PROTECTION fabric system which makes it waterproof, breathable and windproof. With a removable hood and optional belt, this is versatile and great for travel to rainy locales. Sizes XS-XL; $275

Best Waterproof Raincoats for Serious Weather

These are the jackets you reach for when the forecast predicts a downpour and you need to leave the house. These coats have taped seams, proper waterproof ratings, hoods that cinch down and stay put.

1. Lands' End Squall Packable Waterproof Raincoat: I own this raincoat, and have for several years. It has been in hurricanes and on camping trips that went on rain or shine and road trips and kept me covered as we had to head outside in a downpour to declogg gutters. The slightly longer back helps rain slide off curves; the taped seams, storm flap, zip pockets, and elasticized cuffs keep rain out. Sizes XS-3X with petite and tall options; $149.95 (but often on sale)
2. Patagonia Torrentshell 3L The Torrentshell has been one of the most consistently recommended women's rain jackets for years, and the 3L version is deserving of its raves. Three-layer construction, fully taped seams, a packable design, and Patagonia's recycled materials commitment makes this a great investment. Sizes XXS-XXL; $189
3. REI Co-op Rainier Rain Jacket: Made from 2.5-layer recycled ripstop nylon shell with HydroWall membrane, taped seams, storm flap, pit zips, and a DWR finish shields you from rain, while staying breathable and dry on the inside. All this and an under-$100 pricepoint. Sizes XS-3X; $99.95
4. Columbia Weekend Adventure II: If you desire a longer jacket that is still as high performance, this is it. Omni-Tech fully seam sealed prevents moisture from seeping into every seam while using waterproof-breathable fabric, so you stay completely dry in the rain, plus with zippered pockets, back vents, adjustable cuffs, and a drawcord-adjustable waist offers function and convenience. Sizes XS-3X, $160

Best Everyday Raincoats for Women

These are your everyday grab-and-go options, but still performing well enough that if you get caught in a deluge, you won't end up sopping wet. And, the styles will work with a range of clothing and seasons.

1. Eddie Bauer Girl on the Go® Waterproof Trench Coat: While called a trench, this looks more like a classic raincoat, but with nice details. So nice, it's one of my recommendations for the best packable travel jackets. A two-layer shell with WeatherEdge® 5k/5k waterproofing, sealed seams, and StormRepel® DWR finish, you're going to stay dry even in a surprise downpour. A removable hood makes this also a great windbreaker and early spring topper. Sizes XS-3X with tall and petite options
2. Stutterheim Mosebacke Lightweight Raincoat: There are some pieces of clothing that are IYKYK iconic pieces; the Stutterheim Mosebacke is one of them. The a-line style makes it work well over dresses, pants, and even chunky sweaters. The ultra lightweight waterproof fabric and tailored with triple-welded seams keeps you dry without bulk; this is a coat that will last a lifetime. Sizes XS-XL; $320
3. L.L.Bean Wharf Street Raincoat: Featuring a TEK® waterproof-breathable shell, mesh lined upper body and mesh back for breathability, this is a coat that will keep you dry and comfortable, even during a humid summer storm. Sizes XXS-3X and petite options; $170
4. Varley Alyssa Rain Jacket: Chic and sustainable, this matte PU rain jacket features adjustable hood, cuffs, and waist, taped seams, and a back vent for waterproof comfort. Sizes XXS-XL: $320
5. Hunter Adela Hooded Waterproof Jacket: Heat-sealed seams ensure full waterproof protection on this hooded jacket crafted from durable cotton canvas. Internal drawcord waist, adjustable cuffs, and machine washable makes this jacket a functional classic. Sizes XS-XL; $199 (but currently on sale)

Stylish and Functional Raincoats

Yes, a raincoat can be fashionable and functional! These chic performance raincoats prove just that.

1. SOIA&KYO NALANI Swing Coat in Waterproof Twill: This waterproof swing coat combines practicality with style. The detachable hood and funnel collar add versatility, while the boxy silhouette and breathable waterproof shell make it a polished choice for rainy days. Sizes XXS-XL; $345
2. Ilse Jacobsen Lightweight Hooded Raincoat: Made from lightweight, waterproof rubberized PU with a soft tricot backing, this is comfortable, lightweight, and functional. Double-welded seams and detachable hood with a faux-leather neck strap adds both function and refined detail. Sizes 4-16; $219 (but currently on sale)
3. Seasalt Cornwall Sea Drift Waterproof Coat: With a 5000mm waterproof rating, this coat has a PFC-free waterproof coating on a 55% linen/45% organic cotton Tin Cloth® outer with fully taped seams and lined for added warmth. All that and a chic yet classic style with toggle buttons and a swing style that accommodates chunky knits. US sizes 6-22/24; $328
4. Rainkiss Rain Poncho: One wouldn't usually call a poncho fashionable, but then I'd say they have never seen ponchos by Rainkiss. I own one of these and I have used it in conditions I would describe as “biblical.” Rainkiss is an Amsterdam-based brand that makes 100% waterproof ponchos from recycled polyester with taped seams and in some of the coolest prints. However, know these are “one size” saying they best fit up to 76″; I'd say based on my experience these fit up to a size 20. One size; $89

Best Plus Size Raincoats

Finding a well-made, truly waterproof raincoat in extended sizes is harder than it should be. These options deliver on both fit and function.

1. Coldwater Creek Pack-It Jacket: Thousands of positive reviews and I have a friend who took this to Scotland and swore by it. A stowable hood, cinchable waist, and true weather protection with a classic customizable style. Sizes XS-3X with petite to XL; $109.95
2. Columbia Lillian Ridge II Jacket: Omni-Shield repels moisture and resists stains, a longer back, drawcord waist, and snap sides provide customizable comfort.
3. Lands' End Squall A-Line Rain Jacket: Don't let the low ratings scare you; most of them are due to this jacket being too roomy. Waterproof and windproof with sealed seams, an adjustable hood with visor, and fleece lined upper body, this will keep you warm and dry while looking great. Sizes XS-3X with petite and tall options; $169.95
4. L.L.Bean Mountain Classic Raincoat: A chic nautical style, this recycled packable nylon jacket has a PFC/PFAS-free durable water repellent (DWR) finish and the soft flannel lining wicks moisture. Sizes XS-3X and petite options; $200
5. Universal Standard Derjon Trench: This is the only coat on this list that isn't truly waterproof, but I own it and it has held its own during a light- to medium-rain while also garnering compliments (and even a stranger stopping me to ask where I got it). Classic, elegant, water-resistant, and the most size inclusive on the list. Sizes 00-40; $248

Your Raincoat Questions Answered

A Colorful Summer Capsule Wardrobe for Grown Women

This colorful summer capsule wardrobe is inspired by items in my closet and items that have caught my eye for this summer. I recently got this printed linen tunic and have seen how versatile it is. Untucked, tucked in, tied at the waist, left open like a jacket, worn as a swimsuit… and it goes with so many colors, too! I know this is one item not in plus sizes, so I have made a collection of similar breathable tunic shirts:

I just ordered the red voile top and matching pants; realizing the pants could work with the tunic inspired this capsule. A matched set is such a great option for summer; together the effect is elevated and polished but the pieces make great separates (as I show below).

I own a similar white poplin skirt (seen here), the orange dress in a different color (seen here), a dress similar to the green one, similar black pants (see here), linen pants, and cardigan. I own the same black tank, a similar hat, striped tee, the same black sandals, and similar or same rest of the accessories. I like to walk the talk when it comes to my capsule wardrobes!

The Colorful Summer Capsule Wardrobe Pieces

Shop the capsule: gold wicker clutch | red pants (XS-XXL; code ALISON15 for 15% off) | striped tee (XXS-XXL) | large scarf | palazzo crop pants (XS-3X & petite/tall) | print linen tunic (I own; 0-22; plus options) | black sandals (I own) | orange linen dress (I own; 00-40) | straw tote | mesh sneakers | green cotton dress (XXS-3X & petite/tall) | earrings (I own) | sunglasses | red top (XS-XXL; code ALISON1 for 15% off) | gold sandals | white poplin skirt (XS-XL & petite; plus option) | pink cardigan (XS-3X & petite) | convertible bag | linen pants (XS-XXL & petite/tall; plus option) | packable hat (code ALISON10 for 10% off) | refined tank (I own; 0-22)

Sample Outfits from This Capsule Wardrobe

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This capsule wardrobe is free of shorts, activewear, and swimwear because I figure if you wear such things, you need what is specific to your life (check out my guide to the best shorts for grown women, and my guide to swimwear for large busts). I also was wanting to create a capsule that could also work for travel, and I do not recommend shorts for visiting many countries that are overseas.

Why Accessories Matter in a Summer Capsule Wardrobe

Accessories work hard in this capsule; the scarf is larger than usual (34″ square) so it can be a belt, a headscarf (very on trend this summer), tied on the diagonal at the waist (also a popular trend), and big enough that maybe you can do some of the popular hacks on social media to turn it into a bag, a top, etc.

I have more bags and shoes than usual; I think in summer shoes really make a difference in regard to comfort, activity, and formality of outfit. I own these black leather sandals; they are great for walking and standing and IMO are wide toebox friendly. The sneakers are mesh, providing airflow while also covering your toes (I believe the insole is removable, cover it with a no-show sock for comfort). The gold sandals are IMO a summer must; they take up no space in luggage and can quickly take a sundress or pair of wide leg trousers from day to evening.

The hat is packable; it won't get damaged even if you tuck it in your tote or squish it into your suitcase (if green isn't your jam it comes in many other colors). The orange bag is one that recently caught my eye; I like that it can go from dressy handbag to functional crossbody and it's proof that bold colors like orange can be incredibly versatile (though it comes in a bunch of other colors, too). The clutch is adorable and timeless; this will be a summer favorite for years to come. And I threw in a straw tote, which is a summer must-have for farmers markets, trips to the mall, the beach, or when you just need to carry more.

The sunglasses… I was torn between them and classic Wayfarers. I was able to get the classic ones in a Memorial Day Weekend sale for less, so I put the puffies in this capsule as I still think they're so chic. And I own the earrings; loved them so much I got my sister a pair, and we both find each time we wear it folks stop us to compliment us. They're also lightweight and comfortable to wear.

Fabric Choice in a Summer Capsule Wardrobe

The green dress and white skirt are cotton poplin, the tan pants, orange dress, and printed tunic are linen. The red top and pants are cotton blend voile. While the black cropped pants are polyester, they get rave reviews for being light and comfortable in the summer, wrinkle-resistant, and easy to dress up or down. The striped t-shirt is a cotton blend; it gets high ratings for comfort, opacity, and if you line dry, it lasting a long while

The tank is synthetic, but as an owner of several of these tanks, they are summer favorites. I wear with active shorts for days that are hikes to cafes, sport under suits, pair with skirts and jeans, and find it comfortable, versatile, and durable. If in doubt, size down. Line dry, it will last for years.

Even the bags are styles that are travel friendly: collapsable or structured enough to hold their own. With a travel steamer, you can get all the clothes and the scarf refreshed and ready to wear the next day.

Why a Colorful Capsule Wardrobe Works

When creating their own capsule wardrobes, folks often ask me if colors are harder to mix and match than neutrals. My answer is no… but it's all about how you approach it.

Colors are colors, whether they are beige and gray or pink and orange. The key to any capsule wardrobe is balancing the colors with a neutral base. Even with beige and gray you will want to add a neutral base of white, ivory, black, or denim. The same holds true with colors. It's what grounds the capsule, makes it cohesive, and provides the versatility.

Note how even with this capsule brimming with color and print, there is still black, white, and even a, gasp, beige-like color. If anything, these neutrals help the bright colors sing. If orange, red, and lime green aren't your jam, I get it. But I hope this colorful summer capsule wardrobe inspires you to rage against the beige, and see that whatever colors or prints bring you joy can also bring you style and versatility all season long.

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I shared a Flyte.70 makeup review a few years ago and have updated it yearly as I continued to be a fan. I was saddened to hear that Flyte.70 makeup is closing, like many independent brands PostPan. I invited Elena Behrakis, co-owner of Flyte.70, to share her thoughts and a letter to those of us who loved this beauty brand so much.

A letter to our amazing Flyte community.  

It is with heavy hearts that we are announcing the closure of Flyte.70 as of June 15, 2026. This decision was made based entirely on the increasingly volatile economic, environmental and political climate that has undoubtedly affected many small to medium sized businesses across the country. We cannot deny the impact this has had on the spending habits of millions of Americans. 

When we first launched during Covid, it came with its own unique set of challenges that we were able to face and move past. However, during these past two years it has become near impossible to plan and predict a business module. Every week there is a new set of obstacles to face and people are continuing to lose their jobs and having trouble filling their gas tanks and paying for their essentials.

Society is struggling financially, physically and mentally, and we have always said from the beginning that if we felt that we were starting to become part of the problem, then we would need to reassess and reevaluate our purpose. 

In 2020, there were only just a handful of beauty brands that addressed the unique needs and concerns of women in midlife. By 2026, most brands have created initiatives that include women over forty into the mix. They had finally looked at the glaring data that we saw over seven years ago and felt it was finally important enough to do something with.

Whether it was genuine or simple marketing strategies, we will never know. The most important takeaway is that women in midlife now have a seat at the table.  

As a small, independently owned company we have had opportunities and successes that so many emerging brands could only dream of. Loyal clients that stood by us from the start. Brand partnerships, both big and small, that we will always be proud of.

We are deeply grateful and satisfied to where this journey ends and where the next one begins. We never cared for the word ‘disruptor’ but that’s exactly what we were and what we set out to do.  

If we can leave with some final thoughts, let them be these… 

• Practice discernment: Investigate and understand where your hard-earned dollars are going. You may be surprised to learn that you are supporting brands with a very different ethos and value system than your own.  
• Resist falling for marketing traps that prey on your dopamine. This is creating landfills full of products that are disastrous to our planet’s ecosystem. No one needs the number of products that are being forced into your feed every day. Just look at your email inbox for proof. “Gone viral.” “Sold out in 24 hours!” (but miraculously restocked within a week.  
• When one brand launches a foundation stick or lip oil (for example and dozens of companies follow suit, this is not a coincidence. This is the marketing system set up by the beauty industry and the labs that create the products. It is causing a system that is not sustainable for your wallets or the planet. It’s a system that wants you to buy, buy, buy. It is extreme capitalism. 
• Lastly, consider placing more value on intentional purchasing and influencer following. If someone is always pushing new products, it’s a red flag. Follow influencers with solid, long-standing brand partnerships, as they are likely to be more genuine, knowledgeable and honest about what they truly love and want you to experience.  

We hope to witness a resurgence in honest capitalism if there is such a thing. We hope you continue to support brands that are aligned with your values and influencers who speak up for what is right for humanity.

If we are unknowingly filling the pockets of billionaires while hurting the other 99% then perhaps it’s time to do an analysis and detox into our own spending habits and behaviors. It may be the only way out of this mess we’re all in.  

As a final farewell we wish to offer you 70% OFF all products through June 14^th at midnight. **Now is the time to use that gift card you may have sleeping in your wallet.  

Peace and love to you all, 
Carolyn, Elena and the Flyte Team 

** 100% written and edited by us humans and not AI.  

Yesterday was our 22nd wedding anniversary. We actually began dating in 1993, but did college, the Navy, broke up, got back together, got jobs, got a “temporary” place to live together, and then got engaged a year later. And now, we have a rising high school senior, are still living in that temporary place (though we have made it more permanent with a renovation), experienced joys and loss and hardship and growth, and built a true life together. I'm proud of us.

Weekend Reads

The RealReal Seller's Guide. (Inventory via Substack)

No surprise, I love the color of this dress.

The Finsta Renaissance Is Here. (Nylon)

I love this ring, and I love that it goes up to a size 10, too!

The Average Guys Outsmarting Wall Street on Prediction Markets. (New York Times – gift link)

For my fellow creatine consumers, these are brilliant for travel. I got them, I am a fan.

Speaking of which… Can Creatine Really Help With Menopause? (New York Times – gift link)

Midlife Crisis–ing in the End-times. (The Cut)

The ‘Vibecession’ Is Over. The ‘Permacession’ Is Here. (The Atlantic – gift link)

I saw this tee on Instagram and gotta say, I'm a fan.

A Luxury Survivalist Community Is Tearing Itself Apart. (The Wall Street Journal – gift link)

For far-right extremists, the rise of a new enemy: Women. (NPR)

We inherited my mom's outdoor furniture; it's brown weatherproof wicker with blue cushions. I'm thinking about getting this to go with it.

A book about how AI shapes perceptions of reality came under fire for using AI-generated quotes. Its problems go beyond that. (Wired)

Does your furbaby need some bling?

The Loneliness Influencers. (The Cut)

Did you see Universal Standard came out with swim coverups? If you loved the Thames, it's back. I also dig this gauze beach shirt and matching shorts.

With Nostalgia In Full Boom, Younger Music Fans Are Turning Back the Clock. (The Hollywood Reporter)

I hardly ever wear heels but my 40+ friends have been raving about these. Have you tried them?

At Glamour, a Once-Mighty Magazine, a Skeleton Crew Churns Out Shopping Links. (New York Times – gift link)

Style Inspo & Sale Alert

Turquoise is a classic summer color. It looks so good with brown, tan, wood, and raffia. It makes red and coral pop. It adds a certain something to cobalt, lime, and navy. And shades of turquoise, teal, aqua, and seafoam are plentiful this year.

dress (0-18) | bikini top and bottom | striped bag | rashguard (XS-XXL) | tortoise sunglasses | pendant bead necklace | refined tee (XXS-XXL) | sweater (XXS-XL) | earrings | swimsuit | long necklace | round sunglasses | pants (00-18 & petite) | beaded bag | woven leather bag | stacked rings | bead necklace | linen shirt (XS-4X & petite/tall) | primer | oval sunglasses | clutch | raffia bag | bracelet | watch

Sale Alert

Lilly Pulitzer has 40% off wear-now styles at this link. Spoiler alert: I have a capsule coming next week with a Lilly clutch in it and while it's not part of the sale, it got me perusing the site and seeing plenty of cute things. I'm partial to this dress, this dress, this UPF jacket, and this reversible poplin wrap skirt.

Bluemercury is having its Summer Shopping Party Sale through June 14th. This is Bluemercury's biggest sale outside of Black Friday. Save 20% off $200+, 25% off $500+, and 30% off $1,000+. If you don't know about Bluemercury, it was started in 1999 in Georgetown, D.C. by husband-and-wife team Marla Malcolm Beck and Barry J. Beck. It curates a collection of high-end, research-backed lines for skin, hair, beauty, and fragrance. This means you can get Augustinus Bader, Oribe, SkinCeuticals, Byredo, Dyson, Elta MD, and more for less!

True Botanicals, the science-backed “clean” beauty brand loved by celebs like Brooke Shields, Laura Dern, and Olivia Wilde is having 30% off sitewide. I have yet to try this brand, but those I know who have recommend the Pure Radiance Oil and the Chebula Active Serum. Have you tried this brand? I'd love your feedback.

Through the 7th, Baublebar has its custom phone cases for $50. These are really cute and make great gifts for teens and college kids.

The DEAR FRANCES Summer Sale is on with select styles at this link 50% off. A luxury sustainable brand, these shoes are made in Italy from the finest materials and this sale makes them the price of shoes with half the quality and care. While it is a lot of fall/winter styles (stock up), the Tye Slide is included in this sale which is known for being uber comfy while also being uber chic.

Paula's Choice is celebrating 31 years with 30% off sitewide + FREE shipping on all orders. This blows my mind, because it feels like yesterday that Paula Begoun's Don't Go to the Cosmetics Counter Without Me was my Bible when I worked in beauty apparel. And now Paula's Choice is a highly rated effective skincare brand loved by many. I have used this line off and on over the years and honestly, everything is good. Other brands are more trendy, but Paula's Choice is a safe bet with quality ingredients.

Hear/See/Read

The Testaments by Margaret Atwood was available on Libby. Em and I are planning to watch the Hulu series based on it together this summer so I decided to listen to the book. I don't know why I didn't think. had read it yet; how could I have not read a Margaret Atwood? Since reading The Handmaid's Tale in 11th grade, I have been a fan and read most of her work. But I borrowed it, quickly realized that yes, I did read it already, but continued to enjoy it.

The audiobook is narrated by Ann Dowd (who plays Aunt Alice in The Handmaid's Tale on Hulu), Bryce Dallas Howard, and Mae Whitman with Atwood introducing each section.

As for the screen, we watched The Bride!, a movie by Maggie Gyllenhall starring Jessie Buckley and Christian Bale. A retelling of the The Bride of Frankenstein, the concept is that Mary Shelley had a story she wanted to tell but died too soon. So in 1936, she possesses a young woman, the woman dies, and is brought back to life to be the life partner of Frankenstein.

This was too much story to fit into one film. It felt like a thick novel that you read for weeks. There was the life of The Bride/Ida before she died, the black & white moments that Mary Shelley talks to the screen/Ida, Frankenstein meeting Dr. Cornelia Euphronius (Annette Bening), The Bride being brought back to life, Frankenstein's obsession with actor Ronnie Reed (played by Jake Gyllenhaal), choreographed dances, a feminist overthrowing of New York City, a mobster that collects the tongues of young women, a detective (Penélope Cruz) who is both famous and revered and completely ignored for being a woman, her assistant (Peter Skarsgard) who has a past with The Bride, a Bonnie and Clyde montage, a hint of Rocky Horror (especially Greta, played by Jeannie Berlin), and an overlying theme about female rage, the male gaze, and the patriarchy.

Whew, that was a long paragraph and I didn't even delve into everything in this film. That being said, we enjoyed it. It was creative and fun and thoughtful and after seeing so many shows and movies with plot holes and stupid scripts and desperate attempts to be “deep” and missing the mark… this was refreshing. The acting is stellar; if you're not already in love with Jessie Buckley, who IMO channeled Lady Gaga for this role, you will adore her. Christian Bale put his all into this role, as did everyone else.

For Your Entertainment

I shared this song with my husband and asked him to guess who was singing. He guessed Liz Phair. But then, we both feel like the 90s were only 20 years ago. Well, 20 years ago Dave Grohl and his wife had a daughter and her name is Violet and she is the singer of this song. So I don't know if that makes you feel old or nostalgic or what, but the song is a bop and has a bit of Liz Phair meets 2026 vibe.

If you've spent any time Googling “summer wedding guest dress,” you probably are feeling frustrated, depressed, or both. Likely you found half the results are frumpy gowns that seem to assume that once you hit 40, you desire a mauve beaded waterfall jacket. The other half are cute little slips of dresses that either you can't wear a bra, or you can't bend over without showing your bits.

Well, my friend, this collection of summer wedding guest dresses is for the rest of us. The grown women who want to be able to wear a bra with the dress, but may not want to wear a pair of Spanx. Who want to look modern, or pretty, or cool, or fun, and maybe a bit sexy or sassy too. Even if you are the mother of the bride (or groom, or married person), you don't want to look like a cliché mother of the bride. No waterfall beaded cardigans in the mix, I promise!

Dress Trends for Summer 2026

It's valuable to know what trends are happening, and then you can decide whether or not to embrace them. This helps you know what to expect when shopping, know what you can thrift, buy resale, or sew that will feel modern, and help accessorize what you own in a contemporary manner:

• Pastel shimmer: Shimmery fabrics in soft tones (think ice blue, champagne, and pink) are big right now, and are balanced with more sophisticated silhouettes so you don't look like a cupcake. (source)
• Bold, vivid color: Drop the “don't outshine the bride” cliché. Bright, saturated color is everywhere this season and looks right at home at summer weddings. (source)
• Loose gowns: Slip dresses, columns, shifts, tanks, and goddess gowns that drape right from the bust are in this year, working well with flat shoes, statement accessories, and a lack of compression garments. (source)
• Ruffles: Feminine ruffles are back, but they're romantic and playful, not twee. You'll find them just on the shoulder, just on the hem, and for formal dresses you'll find tiers of chiffon ruffles. (source)
• Scarf necklines: Halters that drape down to the floor, tie necklines, and one-shoulder styles with long scarf-like ties abound this year. What's great is a lot of these styles also end up offering breezy coverage for backs, shoulders, and arms. (source)
• Statement accessories over a simple dress: Bridal stylists are calling out unique bags and bold jewelry as the move this year. This is a great way to modernize the not-so little black dress or simpler frock in your closet. (source)

Stylish Summer Wedding Guest Dresses for Grown Women

I spent weeks scouring department stores, formalwear brands, and a bunch of lesser-known labels that make great dresses in a great range of sizes. What you'll find below is a mix of styles that feel current and wearable, work across a range of sizes, and that you won't regret buying six months from now. There are options for every type of wedding: garden parties, black tie evenings, beach ceremonies, afternoon ballroom affairs, and everything in between.

A few things I kept in mind while pulling these together:

• Can you wear a bra? Maybe not your everyday style, but at least a standard strapless or convertible style (I recommend this one, this one, and this one)
• Can you skip the shapewear if you want to? (I have a whole section for dresses specifically designed with this in mind.)
• Can you wear relatively comfortable shoes? Maybe not Birkenstocks, but at least a flat or low heel should work with these options.
• Is it joyful and trend-resistant enough to wear again? Personally, I find the more interesting the dress, the more you will want to wear it again. And if not, these dresses are so good you can sell or pass down this dress to another grateful person.

I've organized by dress code, need, and occasion. You'll also find a dedicated plus size section up top, because those of us over a size 12 deserve more than boring black polyester options.

Plus Size Wedding Guest Dresses

As someone who has worn everything from a 10 to a 16W on her 5'3″ frame, I have experienced the dread of having to shop for a plus size occasion dress. Boring, ugly, cheap, or more appropriate for a Vegas bachelorette weekend than a wedding… I worked extra hard on this category to find you some gems.

Top row: one (XS-3X) | two (XS-3X) | three (10-28) | four (10-26)
Bottom row: one (14-32) | two (14-26) | three (XXS-5X & tall) | four (XXS-6X)

The dresses in these collages range from 10W to 32+ and cover every type of summer wedding on your calendar. You'll find options here that are current, interesting, and will garner plenty of compliments.

Top row: one (XS-3XL) | two (15-33) | three (XS-3X) | four (0-26) | five (10-26)
Bottom row: one (10/12-30/32) | two (15-33) | three (14-24) | four (XS-3XL) | five (XS-4XL)

Some are from the usual suspects, some are from brands you might not have shopped before. There is quirky, classic, daytime, evening, styles with sleeves, styles with skin, and I believe all of these looks can work with a flat to low sandal, ballet flat, or kitten heel.

Top row: one (XS-XXXL) | two (XS-3X) | three (10/12-30/32) | four (14-24) | five (14-28)
Bottom row: one (XXS-3X) | two (14-26) | three (10-28) | four (12-32) | five (XS-3X)

I hope this collection shows you don't need to resort to bland black, chiffon waterfall jackets, or polyester cabbage roses to attend your next wedding or special occasion!

Garden and Outdoor Wedding Guest Dresses

A daytime outdoor wedding dress code is varied, but in the way that likely you already own something in your closet. The key is choosing something that feels like a garden: cheerful colors, floral prints, and a breezy silhouette. From linen to silk, you can really play with fabrics and silhouettes.

Top row: one (0-14) | two (XXS-XXL) | three (0-14) | four (XS-XXL) | five (2-18 & petite) | six (XXS-XXXL)
Bottom row: one (00-14) | two (XS-3X & petite/tall) | three (00-40) | four (0-20/22 & petite/long) | five (XS-XL & petite) | six (0-18)

What is key is practicality: shoes that are flat or a wedge so they won't sink into soil. Skirts with flow; breezes can be stifled under event tents. Wear sunscreen and consider bringing a lightweight shawl for sun protection and for post-sunset temps dropping.

Daytime and Semiformal Wedding Guest Dresses

Daytime doesn't always mean casual. A wedding at a hotel ballroom, a historic estate, or a country club at 2pm calls for something a step above garden party. You're not in full black tie territory, but you're also not in a sundress. Welcome to daytime semiformal wedding guest attire.

Top row: one (XS-XXL) | two (XS-3X) | three (12-30) | four (0-14) | five (XS-3X)
Bottom row: one (XXS-XXL) | two (6-16) | three (8-28) | four (2-16 & petite) | five (12-30)

Like with garden weddings, the focus is on color and floral, but just taken up a notch with chiffon overlays, silk, taffeta, and embellishment. If the dress hits the floor, it is a more relaxed style; shorter dresses can veer into cocktail dress territory.

Top row: one (XXS-XXL) | two (XS-XXL) | three (00-16) | four (XXS-XXL) | five (XS-2X)
Bottom row: one (XS-2X) | two (0-20) | three (2-18) | four (XS-XL) | five (2-16)

Accessories can amp up a dress to daytime semiformal territory. Metallic sandals, a clutch purse, and a swipe of pink lipcolor or an earring that catches the light is a great addition.

Destination and Beach Wedding Guest Dresses

Dressing for beach and destination weddings are about fun and function. Sand, wind, docks, boats… you need to dress for the occasion and the environment.

Top row: one (XS-3X) | two (XS-XL) | three (2-34) | four (XXS-XL) | five (00-16)
Bottom row: one (XS-XL) | two (2-16) | three (00-40) | four (00-22) | five (XXS-XL)

A longer, flowy dress is a smart choice, both practically and aesthetically. Styles with some structure on top (straps, halters, boning, self belts) will help keep the dress in place even if the skirt is swishing. If you choose sleeves, look for wide or flutter styles to keep things breezy. As for shoes, I recommend a flat metallic sandal that's easy to slip off when you hit the sand but structured enough for a dancefloor or cobblestone path.

Top row: one (XS-XXL) | two (XS-XL) | three (XS-XL) | four (XXS-6X) | five (XS-XL)
Bottom row: one (XS-3X) | two (00-16) | three (XS-3XL) | four (0-12) | five (0-20)

Formality depends entirely on the couple and the venue. A candlelit ballroom in Tuscany calls for something different than a clambake in Maine. When in doubt, choose a midi or maxi floral in a dressier fabric.

Evening and Formal Wedding Guest Dresses

Evening and formal weddings, including black tie dress code, are an opportunity to go all out. Length, shine, sparkle, and details that can't be carried off most anywhere else. Don't let it intimidate you, let it be a chance to play dress-up.

Top row: one (2-12) | two (0-14) | three (XXS-XXL) | four (10/12-30/32) | five (2-14) | six (0-16)
Bottom row: one (0-14) | two (XXS-XXL) | three (0-14) | four (0-16) | five (2-14) | six (32-44)

Black is an acceptable color for evening formal weddings, but don't be afraid to branch out. While many still find wearing red inappropriate at weddings in many cultures, there's nothing wrong with orange, bright pink, cobalt blue, and Kelly green. For summer, steer clear of velvet, brocade, and heavy sequins and instead seek out chiffon, satin, crepe, and lighter metallics more comfortable in the heat.

A perk to a long dress? You can wear flat shoes! A satin ballet flat, metallic sandal, or dressy slingback is totally appropriate for such nan occasion.

Chic Mother of the Bride Dresses / Mother of the Married

No, you don't have to wear mauve, and you don't have to wear a chiffon beaded jacket when you are the mother of the married. But there is a reason why those looks never leave the department stores: as the mother of the married, you need to complement (not match) the wedding colors, fit the formality of the event, and you will be photographed a lot so you want to feel comfortable and confident. Let this collection show you that you can look great and feel great and not have to resort to those three-piece polyester sets.

Top row: one (0-20) | two: jacket, skirt (00-18) | three (0-14) | four (6-16) | five (4-12) | six (0-14 & petite)
Bottom row: one (32-44) | two (XX-XXL) | three (0-20) | four (2-14) | five (2-12) | six (XS-XL)

It's a long day, you want an outfit that will hold up and remain comfortable. Very structured dresses may look pretty, but a bit of flow may be a better choice. Shorter dresses are appropriate for daytime and more casual weddings, but as the mother of the married you can wear full-length regardless of the dress code. Make sure your shoes are comfortable.

Top row: one (0-20) | two (4-14) | three (XS-2X) | four (4-18 & petite)
Bottom row: one (4-18) | two (0-26) | three (00-16) | four (2-16)

I know a lot of grown women like to cover their arms to feel most confident so I added in a lot of options in these collages, with nary a beaded chiffon waterfall jacket in sight. Embrace the scarf and cape trends for coverage, as well as the trends of ruffles and statement sleeves. A one-sleeve look can actually give you the coverage you desire while still being summery (have that be the side facing the camera).

Top row: one (4-16) | two (0-14) | three (0-18) | four (2-16) | five (0-14)
Bottom row: one (2-18) | two (2-14) | three (4-18) | four (0-14 & petite) | five (2-18)

If you are someone who gets hot and sweaty easily, consider an updo that won't show it or fall in the humidity. Also consider having the person doing the bride's makeup also do yours or look into tubing mascaras, primers and setting sprays to keep your makeup up with the heat and tears. Finally, if you have a dress with sleeves, a tailor or your bride's seamstress can put in dress shields.

The Not-So-Little Black Dress

In 2026, wearing black to most weddings in the United States is acceptable and expected. Daytime, nighttime, black is a classic choice. If in doubt, ask the couple. The key to making a black dress work for a summer wedding is how you accessorize.

Top row: one (0-14) | two (2-16) | three (XXS-XL) | four (14-32) | five (XXS-XL)
Bottom row: one (2XS-10XL) | two (XS-XL) | three (00-22) | four (00-16) | five (14-32)

The quickest way to summerize a black dress for a wedding is to choose non-black shoes. A dressy textile close to your skintone, a metallic, or even a fun pop of color or print will bring a festive feel. Same with your bag: choose a color or a print; this year you will find a lot of clutches and small dress purses in fun shapes and made from unexpected materials like metal and acrylic and decorated with raffia fringe, beading, stones, and embroidery.

Something Different: Statement and Architectural Dresses

Wedding guests shouldn't upstage the bride, but that doesn't mean yoi have to wear a basic fit and flare floral or a crepe sheath. In 2026, there is a lot of fun architecture and design happening in dresses and a wedding is a great time to wear such pieces.

Top row: one (00-14) | two (14-32) | three (XXS-XXL) | four (0-20) | five (XXS-XXXL & petite)
Bottom row: one (XS-XL) | two (0-14) | three (0-14) | four (0-18) | five (0-16)

3D embellishments, draping and knotting, puff sleeves and hips, and architectural details abound. When you purchase a dress that is unique, it becomes a signature piece. It isn't, “she's wearing that same dress again,” it's “oooh, she's wearing that awesome dress again!” Rewearing is chic, especially when it's something that makes a statement and fits your personality.

Summer Wedding Guest Attire for Those Who Don't Like Dresses

It is 2026, and you do not need to wear a dress if you don't like wearing them. However, you still need to adhere to the dress code of the event.

• A pantsuit in crepe, silk, or a linen blend can look great at a daytime or less formal evening wedding. Choose a base layer either that is high-quality crisp shirting, or a silky/beaded option.
• For evening, a Le Smoking or lady tux is a chic option. Again, go with a classic tuxedo shirt, or a dressy base layer.
• A matched set in a dressy fabric is not only comfortable but highly on trend. Retailers like Ann Taylor, MISA, L'Agence, Universal Standard, Dressed in Joy, and ELOQUII often carry pants with matching blouses, tunics, tanks, or jackets. This is best for daytime or less formal weddings.
• Labels like Wildfang, Kirrin Finch, and Peau de Loop offer stylish suiting and tuxedos for those whose bodies may not fit properly in menswear, but they like the vibe.

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Before You Buy: A Few Things Worth Knowing

Please note: wedding guest dress shopping has a short window. When something is in stock today, it may be gone in your size tomorrow, especially as we get deeper into summer wedding season. Shop sooner rather than later, and if something sells out, copy the name of the dress from the brand site and drop it into your search engine. Just because I found it at Nordstrom doesn't mean it's only at Nordstrom. The same dress often lives at Saks, Bloomingdale's, the designer's own site, or even Poshmark if you're open to secondhand.

Some more tips when shopping for wedding guest dresses:

• If a style is sold out everywhere, search by silhouette rather than by brand. “Flutter sleeve midi dress chiffon” will get you further than hunting for a specific item that's gone. Same goes for color: if you fell in love with a sage green wrap dress and it's no longer available, that's your search term.
• Size ranges vary wildly by retailer. A dress listed as “up to 3X” at one store may run completely differently than the same size at another. Read the reviews, check the size chart, and when in doubt, size up and plan for a simple alteration. A good tailor can take in a dress; they cannot add fabric that isn't there.
• Speaking of alterations: don't rule out a dress because it's not quite right off the rack. Hemming, taking in the waist, adding a strap, shortening a sleeve; these are all straightforward alterations that can turn a “close” into a “perfect.” Nordstrom offers alterations in-store on purchases. Bridal boutiques will often alter non-bridal formalwear. And your local tailor who does everyday alterations is worth a call before you write off a dress you otherwise love.

I strive to provide truly useful content, not just a bunch of links to randomness. This offering of wedding guest dresses is my gift to you. We grown women deserve to wear what makes us feel great, especially when it's an event that may bring up a lot of anxiety. I hope in this collection, you find the right wedding guest or occasion dress.

Your Summer Wedding Guest Dress Questions, Answered

Now, in 2026, I am an owner of a multiple pieces from The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens and felt it made sense to update this review based on my PostPan, 50-year-old soft curvy current me. Spoiler alert, I don't know whether it's me or the product but this review is far more positive in 2026.

What is The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens?

Rochelle Behrens and I have two things in common: we have large busts and we have lived in Washington D.C. While Behrens grew up in California, she moved to D.C. in 2004 and became a lobbyist. Here, she realized that a buttoned-up K Street work wardrobe didn't work with her buxom figure.

Behrens resorted to safety pins to keep the placket of her shirts closed over her curves, but noticed that her female colleagues with a range of body types were also dealing with shirts gaping over the bust and when seated.

Behrens began spending her night trying to design the perfect button-front shirt for women. No gaping, not too low of a neckline but not frumpy, and of the quality and design that was classic, elevated, and on par with menswear. She had no fashion training, but Behrens had gumption, finding a pattern maker, sourcing fabrics at NYC's Mood, and getting a patent. The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens was featured on NPR in 2008, but didn't become famous until 2011.

In 2010, following in the footsteps of Sara Blakely of SPANX fame, Behrens sent one of her shirts to Oprah. Oprah included it in her 2011 list of Favorite Things, which put Behrens and The Shirt on the map. That same year, Behrens was profiled in the New York Times and Glamour. In 2014, designer Tory Burch featured Behrens in her popular blog, and by 2016, Behrens was included in Inc.'s famous 30 Under 30 list.

The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens Review

Back in 2019, a member of the Wardrobe Oxygen Community asked if I had tried The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens. I hadn't heard of it, but liking that it was a DC-based woman-founded company and geared towards busty women like me, I was down for ordering a couple to provide an unpaid honest The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens review

In 2019, I found the fabric of The Shirt excellent – a subtle sheen, tight weave, just the right hint of stretch for comfort and fit without clinging or losing a professional effect. The quality was the same for solid and print. On both shirts, the buttons were black. Even with stretch, these were crisp shirts that looked polished tucked or untucked, buttoned up or the neck open, sleeves down or rolled up.

Both shirts had the patented No Gape Technology, which was a placket of standard buttons exposed on the front of the shirt, but hidden in the placket were more buttons in between, keeping the shirt from gaping over curves or when sitting.

The Short Sleeve Shirt from Rochelle Behrens

When I was asked about The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens, the Short Sleeve Shirt was specifically mentioned. The community member noticed that even with slender arms, the sleevees looked snug on the model. As someone who has always had arms a bit snug in shirts, I looked at the size chart and decided to go up one size from what was recommended.

In 2019, The Short Sleeve Shirt was 75% Cotton, 20% Nylon, 5% Stretch and made in Portugal. I am pleased to say in 2025, The Short Sleeve Shirt is still of the same composition and made in the same country and factory.

The Short Sleeve Shirt was as I feared – going up one size made it too big almost everywhere, but the sleeves were just too snug for the size of my upper arms. I couldn't fully bend my arm and felt a smaller size wouldn't have even fruit. I found this disappointing, as many people born with large breasts also have fuller upper arms.

The Icon Shirt by Rochelle Behrens

The Icon Shirt is long-sleeved; I chose a print to compare the quality and composition to a solid. In 2019 and still in 2025, The Icon Shirt is 97% cotton and 3% spandex and made in Portugal. For this shirt I chose an XL, which the size chart recommended for my frame.

This shirt fit far better than the Short Sleeved Shirt. The shoulders were in the right place, the back didn’t buckle, the shirt skimmed my curves showing my shape, yet it didn’t pull across the bust.

That being said, the sleeves were again too slim. They were very fitted, straining when I bent my arms (thank goodness for the stretch), and downright uncomfortable when the sleeve was rolled up. I didn't keep either shirt.

Why I Came Back to The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens

In the spring of 2025, I received an offer from The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens to choose a shirt from a lookbook to receive as a gift. Recalling my original review, I decided to accept a shirt to see if the brand had improved in any way.

Recalling how I found the sleeves of The Icon Shirt and The Short Sleeve Shirt too narrow, and considering that my body is not only older but also softer, I decided to try The Boyfriend Shirt, which offers a more relaxed fit. Looking at the size chart, I determined I was still a size XL with the brand.

I decided to go with a blue and white stripe because I already own a blue and white stripe boyfriend shirt size Large from Old Navy and wanted to see if a $156 shirt was really that much better than a $40 shirt. Gentle reader, the difference is so ridiculously obvious, I don't know if I can ever shop Old Navy again. And the quality of The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens is just as good as it was PrePan.

The Boyfriend Shirt by Rochelle Behrens

I wore The Boyfriend Shirt on the 4th of July. It was very hot in Maryland, and I went to a day party where I spent 90% of the time outside in the sun and 10% of the time inside which wasn't much cooler. I tied it at the waist, rolled the sleeves, popped the collar, and paired it with a white poplin midi skirt. It looked so crisp and fresh… and it looked crisp and fresh five hours later. I was comfortable in the heat; sure I sweated but it didn't affect the look or structure of my shirt (while my skirt grew and I wish I had bought the smaller size).

Not only are there hidden buttons in The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens, the buttons in general are closer together than on my Old Navy Boyfriend Shirt. This meant I could better customize the neckline; I often safety pin a neckline because two buttons is too high and three is bra-exposing territory. I know this element increases production costs but also increases my confidence while wearing.

I untied it and unrolled it, and it was a bit creased but not so bad that if I hadn't sweat in it, I could have hung it up and worn it a second time before laundering.

This collage above shows the different fit of the two boyfriend shirts. Both are a relaxed cut, but the Rochelle Behrens one still has the shoulder seams relatively near my shoulder. Both, I unbuttoned three, buttoned three, and unbuttoned three to tie in a knot. Both I rolled the sleeves three times the width of the cuff and then pushed up. Both I tried popping the collar. Both were worn after washing gentle cycle, line drying, and then ironing.

The back of the Old Navy Boyfriend Shirt has a pleat and a locker loop; the back of The Boyfriend Shirt by Rochelle Behrens has two seams that start mid ribcage to the hem to offer shaping without making it fitted. One could say the pleated back of the Old Navy shirt is to give it a true “boyfriend” fit, but that detail with the extremely dropped shoulders made it so big I had to go down one size and likely could have gone down two.

Now a year later, The Boyfriend Shirt is a favorite in my closet. It has been laundered so many times and still looks new. From the dryer it is rumpled in a casual way, not a slept in it way. However, if ironed (or taken to the cleaners), it comes back looking exactly as it did when I first got it.

The WFH Dress by Rochelle Behrens

So impressed with my Boyfriend Shirt from Rochelle Behrens, I decided to try the WFH Dress, which is essentially a longer version. I love shirtdresses like these, but they don't love me and my bust; they are always either too snug in the chest or else too big in the shoulders. Again, I went with an XL.

Made from 100% cotton in Portugal, the WFH dress is the same perfect mix of crisp yet silky and fit exactly the same in the shoulders, neck, and bust. On my 5'3″ self it hit just above the kneecaps. If you read what I wore on a VirginVoyages cruise, you know I took this dress. I wore it on the flight from Baltimore to Miami, wore it for hours walking around Miami, having lunch, shopping, sweating in the humidity and even getting caught in an afternoon downpour.

Once on the cruise ship, I draped the WFH Dress over a balcony chair, let it air dry, and wore it on the cruise as a swim coverup. If I had brought a steamer, I could have gotten it looking good enough for an afternoon wandering the ship or sightseeing at a port of call.

I've worn the WFH Dress many times since; in spring and summer it's a favorite with sneakers and an optional oversized denim jacket. In the winter, I wore it with a short sweater dress, the shirttails hanging out, paired with opaque tights and boots. I've also worn it as a duster, open over a ribbed tank and cutoff denim shorts. It has been laundered many times and continues to look and fit like new.

Novelty Shirts from The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens

While The Shirt is known for its classic shirts offered season after season, Rochelle Behrens also offers limited edition novelty pieces each season. These may have unique silhouettes, be matched sets of top and shorts, have embroidery, or be from a special fabric. Last summer, The Shirt had several embroidered pieces that I loved and I got a boho-inspired cotton peasant top with bold blue embroidery. Again, I went with a size XL.

And again, I was impressed with the quality; the kind of quality that is so incredibly rare in this day and age. The same crisp yet silky 100% cotton as my button-front shirts, and beautiful detailed embroidery in the richest royal blue. I wore this top many times last summer and fall and need to take it to the cleaners to get it crisp to wear again this season! Stay tuned, you will be sure to see me wearing it on Instagram and/or my Substack!

Details About The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens as a Brand

The fabrics for The Shirt are sourced from a family-run mill in Spain and produced in a female-led factory in Portugal by a local team of artisans. The Shirt has worked with this same factory since the company started.

The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens is opaque, silky, high quality, and designed with care and the curves of a woman's body in mind. While you will find the largest selection of this brand on the company website, The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens is also found at online and in-person boutiques such as Tuckernuck, North Carolina's Poppy & Pink, Michigan's Paula & Chlo, and Maryland's own Sassanova.

The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens is available in sizes XS/0 to XXL/16. However, as someone who usually needs to buy a 16 for her bust and shoulders, the size chart should be used on the specific shirt as Rochelle Behrens carries Tailored, Drapey, and Oversized fits.

If you are outside this size range, check out the button-front shirts from Universal Standard. Not as thick of fabric and hidden snaps instead of buttons, the brand also has a manner to prevent gaping and its quality far exceeds Old Navy or even higher-end mall brands.

Final Verdict on The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens

I am a fan. I am such a fan, I am considering getting another one this fall. In my closet are five white shirts, most gifted to me by brands, and most with tags still on them because they're not quite right.

Quality, not quantity is the name of the game for us grown-ass women style seekers. No need to buy one of these shirts now, but if you are looking to add or replace a button-front shirt in your closet, I think it's worth your time and money to check out The Shirt by Rochelle Behrens.