Weddings InStyle

It's been an AMAZING 5 years

2014-03-17T11:24:00.000-04:00

After 5 wonderful years Weddings InStyle would like to announce the close of its venue on Murray Street Effective Sept 30, 2014

This has been a challenging decision for me to make as I love the venue, all our clients and the joy of being in the heart of The Byward Market. However the timing is right for me to say good-bye to the Market after 5 amazing years. We have officially outgrown the space and it is next level time so we will not be renewing our lease.

This journey started over 7 years ago when Balance InStyle our personal concierge company was born out of a personal need. I watched a friend struggle with cancer and realized there was a need in the marketplace that wasn’t being filled. There was no one company you could call for everything from A-Z.

There needed to be a “one call does it all” solution – from Glamour to Janitor where people were licensed, bonded and insured and where you knew the quality you were getting in advance. Afterall what do you really know about the people you hire from the yellow pages or online?

We’ve graced the pages of Flare Magazine, McLean’s, House & Home, Food & Wine. Have partnered with some of the largest automotive companies, home builders and large corporations to offer our services to their clients. We are grateful that we are in a position to expand our brand and are getting ready to take it to the next level with franchising.

After a few years in the Concierge industry it became obvious that there were further needs in the events and wedding market that needed to be met.

A place for the intimate and smaller gatherings. You had City Hall and you had the larger hotels. There was no in-betweens that could handle everything under one roof, a place that did it’s homework on vendors and was willing to share their little black book.

We’ve faced many challenges building the business because our main objective and sole purpose was to serve our guests at the highest level. No wedding was too small, no couple would be discriminated against everyone was treated equally at InStyle. We always tried to work with whatever budgets we were presented with. We believed in love so much that we offered free vow renewals on Valentine’s day for a few years because we understood the commitment of marriage and sometimes the recommitment of it. We offered $199.00 ceremonies because we heard of so many that were living as a married couple but couldn’t afford to make it legal. We believe in love.

We bend over backwards because we were so passionate and committed to the vision we created, and we were proud to offer something that no other venue was offering in Ottawa. A full turnkey stress free experience.

Sadly at times were we told we were too expensive and it was a reflection on us, but what many failed to realize is, we merely acted as a broker for all our wonderful wedding industry friends. We were not caters, florists, bakers, dj’s, rental companies or photographers. We were merely the creative minds behind orchestrating it all and allowing our couples to have one point of contact, one bill and one set of contracts to review.

We bared the risks, we absorbed the credit card fees, we spent our time treating each wedding as if it were our own.

Agreed we work with the best that sometimes are a little more expensive then the others but that is a reflection of our standards and us knowing that you can pay now … or pay later with disappointment.

When we make recommendations we are making them knowing that they are fail proof. The cater’s food is tested, the baker’s treats savored, the floral designers work is art in the making and the photographers work is gushed over. We did our homework so our couple’s didn’t have to.

Did we spend countless hours putting ideas and boards together that we couldn’t recover? Of course – would I change a thing? Of course not.

We’ve been blessed to deal with some of the most talented people in the wedding industry. If you want AMAZING flowers – Call Erin from Full Bloom – she’s amazingly talented, her stuff is like art seriously! She is in demand. So book early if you can get her. We’ve also had the privilege of working with Elizabeth from Flowers Talk. She is a real community gal with a vibrant personality. She makes things happen!

Ottawa Flowers was also a company that we used and Pavel and his family run a wonderful business.

Comes down what kind of statement you want to make with flowers.

I’m an icing girl so I fell in love with Auntie Loo’s treats. Their assortments of cupcakes and icing have left me breathless at times. They are adorable, sweet and lovely ladies and we simply cannot get enough of them. They offer gluten free & vegan options and they are AMAZING! They have a location on Nelson Ave so you can always pop in and sample their goodies.

Julie Cole from Sugar & Spice is a master of cakes. In my opinion she is like Ottawa’s very own Cake Boss. She and her husband are adorable. They care, and pour so much love into their creations. They brighten up our venue everytime we book them.

Kate Green Cakes is another example of sheer talent and amazing cakes! We still remember the 11pound cake that she made for one of our couples that you could smell from 10 feet away. Everytime we walked by we wanted to be like a kid and poke our finger in for a taste. She is a true artist.

We LOVED working with Matt from It’s a Matter of Cake – but he just retired and has joined forced with his love Erin from Full Bloom so booking them you get an awesome duo in one.

Party rentals. We’ve watched our friends at Ottawa Special Events grow from AV and staging company to an EVERYTHING company. You need it – they will get it for you with the most amazing customer service you will experience in town hands down. “No” just doesn’t exist in their vocabulary. They sleep with their iphones just like us so they get it. You need a heater in a pinch they are on it. AV isn’t working properly cause you pushed a button you weren’t suppose to – they are there to save the day. They’ve grown so much over the years that now they offer everything you could ever want and more so it’s literally a one-stop shop. We LOVE them and highly recommend them.

Master Mind Events. They run a tight ship and they too understand customer service. Scott & Jen are on every order and have created a culture of people who care. You are not just another order and your product does not show up in need of cleaning or mending. Unlike some of the other companies in town. Their pricing is competitive and they too are major community folks giving back at every turn. Great company. Great people.

Groovy Linen has also been a delight to deal with and they have some beautiful linens to choose from. They’ve recently changed hands in ownership and we understand that there is some amazing new stuff coming in daily.

Photographers. We’ve worked with so many over the years. Joel Bedford, Kathi Robertson, Melanie Rebane, Photography by Voula, Bonnie Findlay Foto, and Mark Cooper have all produced amazing shots that have graced our social media pages. At the end of the end – pictures are all you have left to relive the moments so make sure you leave some room in your budget for a great photographer.

Wedding dresses. Saved the best for last. We LOVE David & Christina from Mc Caffrey’s. They make you feel like a million bucks really go the extra mile to make you feel sooooo special. Their creations are all unique and each one is really it’s own creation. Nothing mass produced. Bonus: you get to sip bubbly while dress shopping.

With Love Bridal is another amazing company that we LOVE sending our brides to. Dana has grown so much over the past 5 years and really has an amazing selection of gowns and the personality to match. You are in great hands with either company.

Trying on dresses is such an intimidating process. Especially with all these ridiculous say yes to the dress reality shows. Trust me when I say both these options will help you say yes to YOUR dress without all the drama.

Lastly, I would like to thank the media. You've been so gracious and kind to us.

We are going to miss dealing with all of these wonderful vendors and more on Murray Street but feel that “Sharing is Caring”so we hope you find our recommendations to be worthwhile.

To the other wedding industry professionals I offer you these final words. Be honest. Don’t steal other people’s clients, ideas and marketing. Be imaginative. Treat your clients like they are family. Don’t make promises you can’t keep and if you make a mistake, own it and make it right. Clients come to us for a stress free experience afterall.

Lastly there is a difference between being competitive and copying and passing material off as your own creative thoughts and ideas. A fake is still a fake no matter how you dress it up. Copying is still copying no matter how many words you try to alter. Be an original. Ottawa is a small community and talking bad about others really only ever reflects badly on you.

Finally to all our couples my sincere thanks for allowing us to be a part of the most important day of your life. Your loyalty as the face of weddings changed only confirmed that creating and designing an all inclusive wedding venue and destination was much needed in Ottawa. We have loved getting to know each and every one of the over 300 weddings that we have performed over the past 5 years.

Watching your families grow and being given the opportunity to marry your parents, siblings and friends allowed us the opportunity to stay in touch and continue to be a part of your lives. Forever grateful. We have a full season ahead of us and look forward to each and every last wedding we have the privilege to be a part of.

After 5 FABULOUS years we at Weddings InStyle are getting ready to write the final chapter of our wonderful story – The final chapter of this story will conclude with MY VERY OWN wedding. I met and fell in love with the man of my dreams at InStyle 3 years ago when he walked through my doors at 107 Murray in search of an Event Planner. Therefore the last wedding that will be held at Weddings InStyle fittingly will be my own. Meet my future husband and best friend Elia Saikaly

Thank you for all your amazing stories and for allowing us the pleasure to marry you InStyle!

Fear not. We love creating fabulous events and weddings and have every plan to continue to do so, so stay tuned for what's in store. Same team, same high standards, same passion - different book! :)

Many blessings & much love

Amanda xo

Ceremony Location in Ottawa

2014-02-26T10:13:00.002-05:00

Engaged and looking for the perfect Ceremony location in Ottawa?

Selecting your ceremony site, venue and wedding officiant is so important; as it sets the tone for your wedding day and the fit needs to be perfect! The ceremony and the day itself should be a reflection of YOU!

Weddings InStyle is the perfect location for your upcoming ceremony. Our private ceremony site is nestled in the historic Byward Market and is the perfect place to get Married in Ottawa. It's where old-world charm meets modern amenities. Here, your guests will be surrounded with natural sunlight, exposed brick, hardwood floors, and a very New York Loft feel. Our Wedding Chapel is private and intimate. So imagine, chic, elegance, style while exchanging vows by candlelight.

Enjoy just a few of our couples getting Married InStyle! ( notice the ease, the smiles and just the pure bliss of the moment ) THAT is how your ceremony location should make you feel!

We at Weddings InStyle are here to serve you at the highest level. Whether you are just 2 people and needing witnesses to make your ceremony legal or 80 people and you want an intimate ceremony location we accommodate both. We work with local and international couples who all share the one common goal and dream of having the most memorable wedding possible.

Our licensed wedding officiants are able to perform:

Civil Ceremonies
Religious Ceremonies
Spiritual Ceremonies
Interfaith / Interspiritual Ceremonies
Same Sex Marriages
Renewal of Vows

For those couples coming in from out of town: fret not, we can provide you with all of the information that you need for obtaining your marriage license and any documents required to enter the country and get married. Our resident Concierge will also be happy to recommend and arrange accommodations, dining, entertainment and honeymooning suggestion in Ottawa or anywhere in Canada.

Cost for Ceremony Only

2 people and 2 witnesses is $450 plus tax Monday - Friday 9:30-4:30pm

1 hours in the chapel for up to 90 people starts at $1150.oo plus tax. ( 24 white wedding chairs included )

As always, all the fun happens over on Facebook! Join us there for daily tips, inspiration and updates.

When One "I Do" is simply not enough!

2014-01-13T13:18:00.000-05:00

We LOVE love at Weddings InStyle, so what better way to celebrate the most romantic day of the year then to offer an all day private vow renewals for those looking to recommit their love to one and other.

Marriage is an institution that now a days could use some renewing. Life sometimes gets in the way. People have these blowout weddings, but that doesn’t necessarily correlate with having a long marriage and maintaining it. A vow renewal can be a signifier to oneself and to the larger community that something has endured and that there is a commitment to keep it going.

Good relationships never stop growing. Like fine wine, they get better with age. No marriage is perfect. Many couples tend to think of marriage as a 50/50 proposition. Actually, the best relationships are 90/10. If you both will give 90% and take only 10%, you will have a formula likely to continue to bring both of you happiness for a lifetime.

Whether you have been married a short time or 60 years we are offering a beautiful setting so that you could renew your vow and recommit your love for each other... InStyle!!!

Why is this event-taking place?   This is your chance to tell your significant other just how much you still love him/her as part of a romantic ceremony that will conjure up emotions from your wedding day or civil union.

When does the Renewal of the Vows take place?  All day Friday, February 14th by appointment first come first serve!

Where does the Renewal of the Vows take place?  Weddings InStyle 107 Murray Street in the Byward Market

Will each couple renew their vows separately or as part of the group?  The renewal ceremony will be performed privately so please call to book your appointment .

Will religion be a part of this event? No. This is not a religious event.

What is the cost to participate in this event?   $35 + HST per couple includes champagne toast.

Do we have to register for this event?   Yes, you will need to pre-register for this event by phone to confirm a time slot. 613-440-4446 - info@weddingsinstyle.ca

How long will the ceremony take?   The ceremony will take approximately 10 minutes.

Is this a legally binding event?   No, this is simply an opportunity for you to reconfirm your love and commitment to your significant other.

Do we need to bring anything with us?   All you need is to show up with your

significant other and lots of love.

Can we bring guests with us? No, this is a private ceremony for you and your significant other.

www.weddingsinstyle.ca 107 Murray Street Ottawa Ontario 613-440-4446

2014 Weddings Trends to say I DO to!

2014-01-10T15:38:00.000-05:00

While we love looking at trends like everyone else - trends are just trends in our opinion and just like fads they come and go. These are just a few that we thought you might consider saying "I do" to if you are looking for something whimsical and fun for your upcoming wedding!

Radiant Orchid

A colour and a name we will be hearing and seeing alot in 2014 as it has been named Pantone 2014 colour of the year. This blush shade of purple and pinkish hues is bound to create a dramatic impact in weddings this year. From flowers to dresses to lights and linens this is a colour we will surely be seeing alot of this coming year.

Monochrome & Mismatched Bridesmaids Dresses

Monochrome and mismatched bridesmaids dresses have been making their mark on the weddings scene for quite some time now. We LOVE this trend because it adds more color and versatility to your entourage if you have one. Maybe pepto bismol pink isn't everyone's thing, but various shades of blush might work. Check out some other styles here.

Low Back Wedding Gowns

The Wedding Dress industry is bringing "Sexy Back" this year with the dramatic backless wedding gown.

Unplugged Weddings
We think that this is a trend that should stay around long after 2014 is done with. The main reason we love this idea is that you avoid your guests being captured in the background of your photographers shots during the ceremony, first dance, cake cutting and other photo worthy moments. We've seen it SO many times and this idea takes care of it! It also allows your guests to be fully present and enjoy all the hard work that you've put into your special day.

Pinterest
Pinterest is really changing the game for the wedding industry. Couples in 2014 are really strong about bringing their style into the wedding so people recognize whose wedding they're at.

We love it because we know what people want. It's how they live, how they decorate their home. They want their wedding to be a reflection of their lives. If you don't have a Pinterest account get one! It will make your planning process alot easier and will keep things organized for all to see. Happy Pinning!

As always - daily excitement happens over on Facebook. Join us there!

Belly up to the Barre

2013-10-15T11:14:00.000-04:00

Belly up the barre! Not the one located in the pool, the one located on Richmond Road called iNSiDE Out STUDiO owned by newly married couple Janine & Greg Charron.

My name is Amanda O’Reilly, I am the founder & owner of Weddings InStyle, Balance InStyle & Events InStyle I am an addict and my current addiction is Barre. The other ladies at InStyle are also dipping their toes in and are loving it!

Often I will blog about trends, designs, time-saver etc … but today, I am here to share my favourite addiction, if you try it, I am sure will be yours too!

You don't need to have a looming wedding date or a holiday dress that you want to fit into to appreciate the results of this class. If you want to burn fat fast, shrink your waistline, and increase your metabolism all while sculpting your entire body, then you need to go try this class. Best part is the first class is FREE! So no investment to try! Click here to register for your first class. FREE CLASS.

Bar-none for results! This full body workout will AH MAZE you! You would think that I would for the company right? Nah, just sharing secrets to get your mind body healthy from the iNSiDE Out and besides we are in the business of sucking the stress out of clients lives so this is our way of sharing a super fun way to do that with almost immediate results!

Okay … so what is Barre??? (pronounced BAR ). The Barre classes sculpt the body proportionally so that all body parts are equally challenged. This total body workout serves to strengthen, lengthen, and stretch the body from top to bottom. The end result is a long and lean physique… think dance class meets Pilates with an energetic combination of floor work, light weights and resistance balls all performed small isometric movements are set to upbeat music.

Loved by Madonna and Drew Barrymore, and many more Hollywood celebs.

The Barre technique isn’t just a ballet class. It’s a total-body workout that utilizes a ballet barre and THANK GOD for the barre at times. When you take your first class you will understand my appreciation for the barre. (Something to hold on to when my legs start to shake beyond control).

Ladies and Gentlemen: if you want to lose weight, it all boils down to calories in (food) versus calories out (energy expended). I’ve never seen a fat ballerina, but how many calories are burned in a barre workout? “A LOT”. They say that 300-600 calories are burned in an hour-long barre class. Additionally, barre classes are anaerobic, meaning one can expect to burn about 100 calories post-class through the “after burn effect” :)

I have to admit – it took me over a year to get my butt into iNSiDE Out and now my butt is thanking me!

At Barre Studio they talk about the core A LOT! When they talk about "the core" they are not referring to the downtown core where the bar’s are at either. Instead they are referring to the group of muscles with in our bodies that promote full body strength, energy and power.

Remember: Shaking is good: In a barre class, your goal is to start shaking almost immediately after starting an exercise. You AREN'T weak and you aren’t doing something wrong this is actually THE GOAL! You might even hear your instructor say, "Nice shaking" or "Everyone should be shaking," throughout class. I, along with 20 other women stand on our tip toes, lifting our legs into various ballet-inspired poses while holding onto the barre—our thighs and calves quivering as under-used muscles are awakened. When your body shakes, you are exhausting that muscle and forcing it to tone, so embrace the shake! And TUCK! Sounds fun huh?

It's like personal training in a group setting. The class builds the inner thighs and lower abs, while strengthening the spine and shoulders—especially good for people, like myself, who sit all day in front of a computer creating and dreaming up ways to WOW our clients.

I've definitely found my new fitness fix!

Hope to see you on the barre soon!

Amanda xo

AMAZING Proposal!!!!

2013-07-04T15:51:00.000-04:00

Megan and John; Amazing Proposal in Pictures

The Proposal Story:

Megan had a hunch that John was getting ready to propose sometime this year. She was on her toes…as any girl who has been dating a guy for an extended point of time is. Aside from his real full time job, John owns a tacky Christmas sweater company, Skedouche. Every year they add new products and he invites all of his friends to a photo shoot where they kick off the busy season and have fun modeling these sweaters. Megan had one of those mornings where she couldn’t decide what shoes to wear and her power went out while doing her hair. It was safe to say she was a little frazzled when she showed up to the meeting spot for the Skedouche photo shoot.

Megan searched outside for everyone. Little did she know that her childhood best friend, Katie O, and I were waiting inside the coffee shop with a note that would change her life. Katie and I freaked out and called john a billion times because she was late patiently waited inside until we saw Megan wondering outside like a lost soul. We ran outside and told her we needed to borrow her phone (she wasn’t allowed to have it all day) and handed her a sweet note with a her first of many clues in a scavenger hunt that would end with a proposal.

The note said:

Dear Megan,

I have a confession to make: there is no photo-shoot today. Instead, this day is dedicated entirely to you, the love of my life! I have been thinking about how I would ask you to marry me for quite some time. I know you have had “hunches” that it may be sometime in the fall, so it’s difficult to create that “surprise factor” without being too obvious. Instead of just popping the question out of the blue, I’m choosing to embrace the fun and excitement of getting engaged and have planned a scavenger hunt for you today. Spoiler alert – if you complete the scavenger hunt, then I will reward you by asking you a very important, life-changing question.

Rules:

• You are not allowed to use your cell phone and you are not allowed to borrow any other cell phone to make calls, post to Facebook, etc.

• At each clue, you must read the clue out loud and someone must film you with a flipcam.

So follow the clues that I give you and above all, have fun! Today is all about you!

Love,
John

The first clue of the scavenger hunt lead us to the Hyatt in Reston Town Center. When walking to find her first clue, we passed a breast cancer run. Megan, on the other hand thought AM I GETTING PROPOSED TO BY A FLASH MOB?!? No Megan, rest easy. When we arrived at the Hyatt, there was a limo waiting. Here’s a picture of John with the driver setting it all up!

The driver handed her a clue that read:

You can’t go on a proper scavenger hunt without a limo. This chariot will take you wherever you need to go and comes complete with mimosas and a decent Kleenex supply. At the final stop on your scavenger hunt, you will need certain things, so many of your clues will allow you to acquire these key items. Your next clue is waiting for you at 13067 Worldgate Drive in Herndon.

We jumped in the “chariot” and found a bulk supply of Klenex, CDs with songs that they listened to during their “courtship” (yes, there was a crunk-rap CD) and mimosas.

Megan was still a little shocked. She knew what was happening, but as the day went on the tears started falling more and more. This was one of the first times it really started to sink in.

We road our chariot to the next clue…a nail salon! Does this guy think of everything or what? Not only was it just a nail salon…but it was a nail salon with two more of her best friends from college waiting for her! Hellooo LBG and Savino! There, they handed her another clue that read:

Can you imagine getting engaged and having ugly and damaged nails? Me neither! Use the cash provided to get everyone’s fingernails “did”. (hint: for yours, go with French Tips). Your next clue will be given when you are done.

Not only did Megan get her nails done, but he treated ALL of us!

The next clue said: Do you remember the time we first kissed? Sharing a poncho has never been as fun as that was! Your next clue is waiting for you at that very spot.

We all jumped into the chariot, with our newest additions, and headed to the Wolf Trap! Megan said she didn’t think John would be there, but she DEFINITELY was getting nervous driving up there. That was the best part of the entire day. WE knew when it was ending, but Megan thought that at any stop John could be waiting for her. Little did she know this was the first of many stops! Waiting for her, sitting in the same place they had their first kiss was Megan’s high school friend and college roommate, Chelsea!

Chelsea handed her the next clue:

Because we were in a long distance relationship, we definitely did not have a typical dating schedule. In fact, our first date was actually AFTER we officially started dating. I remember it like it was yesterday – we checked the wait at two restaurants with the agreement that we would go to the one with the lower wait time. As chance would have it, we ended up enjoying a flight of beer at the spot where your next clue is waiting.

Onward to Tysons Mall to Gordon Biersch! Of course it’s not just any other lunch, that’s not John’s style. We walked in to find her older SISTER, Katie K, sitting at the table waiting for her. This is when the tears really started flowing. THEN, out popped another college friend who flew up just for this special day. I didn’t get a picture of this because we were just as surprised as it my Megan. But just for the record- Regina was hiding in a bush.

After lunch, we gave Megan the next clue.

I hope you enjoyed the lunch! For your next clue, you don’t have to go far…it is waiting for you at Francesca’s boutique in the mall. (This also included a map of the Mall. Thanks John, although I’m sure Megan has the layout of that mall engraved into her memory by now.

As we walked through the store (hesitantly), we noticed 4 little feet coming out of the dressing room in the back. Oh hello there little sisters!

They handed Megan another clue that read:

Before you are given your next clue, you must first buy a nice dress and a pair of shoes for tonight. Given the size of your posse, you should have a wealth of opinions.Your dress should be classy and elegant – just like you! Feel free to shop around at any store in Tysons, but remember you only have two hours until the limo departs. So find a nice dress, grab some shoes, and you will be given the next clue once you are done. Happy Shopping!

LET THE SHOPPING BEGIN!

After we did some damage at Nordstrom responsibly shopped, Megan was given her next clue. This is where the real nerd in John comes out…

Fun fact – did you know that I have owned the domain name “megankaplar.com” since April 2011? Let’s just say I’ve had a hunch for a while…Your next clue is waiting for you on www.megankaplar.com.

On this webpage was a picture of them and this note: Your next clue is waiting for you at the place where we shared our first New Year’s Eve together.

We then found our chariot and headed to the Gaylord National in D.C. (well, technically Maryland). This may have been one of the funniest parts of the trip. Megan was CONVINCED this was the place John would propose. She even started to fix her makeup in the car. I would be lying if I didn’t say that we all egged her on a little.

Well, we got to the hotel and no John. She started telling us how mean of a trick it was. Meanwhile, she had another important visitor….

Hello Mama!

And of course, Mom had another clue for Megan.

Grab your dress and shoes, and head up to the suite that I have prepared for you. Take a shower and get yourself ready for tonight. But be quick -you have only 1.5 hours until you receive your next clue!

After all of us got dolled up, we headed to the front lawn to take some pictures. I think Megan also thought this may be where John was. Until she was handed another clue.

Tell the girls to pack up their suitcases and take them in the limo. You can leave your stuff in the hotel room. Your next clue is waiting for you at your favorite restaurant in downtown Clifton. And no, it’s not the pub, or Peterson’s. Go there and buy a round of Titanics for you and the girls!

This is when Megan responded, “WE CAME HERE FOR NOTHING?!?!” I think she was ready to see her man. But alas, we had our round.

We all piled back into the chariot and headed Trumer’s in downtown Clifton to get a round of their famous drinks. After a round…or two…Megan was handed her 13th clue:

Your next clue is waiting for you at the place where I met the love of my life for the very first time.

We were headed back to Megan’s childhood home. Megan knew that John would do something creative, maybe transform the backyard with some candles or some nice signage, but she really had NO idea what John had done. We jumped back into the limo for the final time and headed back home.

We also jammed out to some Bruno Mars I Think I Wanna Marry You and did some MEGAN! MEGAN! MEGAN! chants.

As we were pulling into her neighborhood, Katie pulled out John’s tie to blindfold her. Megan was a nervous nervous girl. We pulled up to her house and all scurried out of the limo. Katie walked her up to the front of her house where she heard the last and FINAL clue being read to her. She felt someone grab her hand and heard a familiar voice…her dad.

Congratulations Megan! You have arrived at your final destination. We are standing at the very spot where we first met back in 2008. I remember shaking your hand and thinking to myself what beautiful woman you were, and finally understanding why Danny K kept me away from you for so long! I had no idea that day that I had just met the love of my life. As promised, the time has come to ask you a very important question, and there is no better place to ask then here at the place where we first met.

As her blindfold was removed, she walked around back to find the most stunning, beautiful, amazing thing ever….John. And a backyard transformed with chandeliers hanging from trees.

10 hours after the day began, Megan walked through her backyard and said “Yes” to the man of her dreams….Amazing story told by best friend and photographer Susan Lines.

Get Married In Ottawa this Summer - Say I Do InStyle!

2013-05-23T15:09:00.000-04:00

Summer is "almost" in the air and this brings tourists from near and far to our amazing capital city looking to say "I do"

We have been receiving alot of calls lately of people looking to say an impromptu "I Do" while visiting Ottawa and have heard that City Hall is booked until the end of the summer. Lucky for both us AND the couple .... City Hall is a place you go to apply for your divorce - NOT start your life as a newly married couple!

Weddings InStyle is nestled in the historic Byward Market in downtown Ottawa. Old-world charm meets modern amenities. Here, your guests will be surrounded with natural sunlight, exposed brick, hardwood floors, and a very New York Loft feel. Our Wedding Chapel is pre-decorated, private and intimate. So imagine, chic, elegance, style and exchanging vows by candlelight.

We at Weddings InStyle are here to serve you at the highest level. Whether you are 2 people and needing witnesses to make it legal or 100 people looking to enjoy a full blown affair. We work with local and international couples who all share one common goal and dream of having the most memorable wedding possible.

We have our own in-house officiants who are onsite and available at a moment's notice to perform:

• Religious Marriages

• Secular Marriages

• Non-denominational Marriages

• Same-sex Marriages

• Inter-faith Marriages

• Multilingual Marriages

For those couples coming in from out of town: fret not, we can provide you with all of the information that you need for obtaining your marriage license and any documents required to enter Country. Our resident Concierge will also be happy to recommend and arrange accommodations, dining, entertainment and honeymooning suggestion in Ottawa or Canada.

No request is too big or small ... We, are at YOUR service - Think of us like your own Personal Wedding Concierge.

Wish away .... and welcome to Ottawa.

Megan & Wayne Married InStyle - A Sweet Love Story

2013-04-22T16:12:00.002-04:00

After dating for eight years and engaged for only a short four month on March 30th, 2013

Megan and Wayne said I Do! at Weddings InStyle!

Their love story is a "sweet"one and began in 2004 when they met each other online. When they decided to finally meet, it was in our neck of the woods in the Byward Market at Sugar Mountain. "Let's meet and look for each other" she said. They both have a serious sweet tooth and a weakness for chocolate so meeting at Sugar Mountain was the perfect start to their sweet love story.

Megan and Wayne are as close as close can be. They are frankly inseparable. From daily commutes to and from work to spending every other waking minute together this played beautifully into their wedding day. "A wedding day goes by so quickly; so why not spend as much of it together as possible?" Megan said in response to us asking her why they choose to see each other prior to their vows. They wanted to be there to help each other get dressed into their respective wedding attire. Calming each other's nerves and just enjoy every single second was top their priority. #sigh #soromantic

The butterflies were flying from the moment they opened their eyes on March 30th and they are still a flutter today.

After a mere 4 months of being engaged they knew they didn't want to wait any longer so on they went to planning the perfect day and into Weddings InStyle they came.

Easter week-end was the perfect weekend because everyone that they wanted to celebrate their love with WAS available. So in a short 5 weeks the most amazing wedding was pulled together flawlessly.

What makes this wedding SO special is these two were completely and utterly PRESENT. You can just feel their love in these few pictures.

What we at Weddings InStyle LOVE to do with our couples is offer up our "Little Black Book" of amazing vendors and we LOVE it when it is a match made in heaven!

With Love Bridal

Flowers Talk

Findley Foto

The Details:

Wedding Venue: Weddings InStyle

Wedding Officiant: Weddings InStyle Jillienne Currie-Payant

Photographer: Findley Foto

Flowers: Flowers Talk

Fascinator & Jewellery (Earrings & Necklace): With Love Bridal

Dress: David's Bridal

Groom's Tuxedo: Tip Top Tailors

Bride's Black Shawl/Wrap: Handmade by a Friend of the Bride

Facebook Love: Weddings InStyle

It's TIME to cast your Votes!! 2013 Wedding Industry Awards!

2013-04-16T10:43:00.000-04:00

In 2012 Weddings InStyle was honoured with 3 awards from the Weddings Industry Experts. We won BEST venue under 150 in Ottawa, in Ontario, in Canada and we placed 3rd in the WORLD! We are SO thrilled with these bragging rights that we DON'T want to loose them! :)

With your help we can retain the rights again this year. Let us tell you about the award.

Wedding Industry Experts is a unique website that is uniting the wedding industry by recognizing vendors who excel in their fields in Australia, Canada, Ireland, New Zealand, the United Kingdom and the United States.

There is no Judging Panel  - Instead of appointing an arbitrary panel of judges to pick winners, the Wedding Industry Experts Awards is a TRUE peoples choice Awards.

We personally LOVE this because it means anyone can vote for the vendors they love. The results will show who is the most popular choice in each category by city, state/province, country and internationally.

We of course see that some of our fellow colleagues in the industry are also being recognized for their fabulous efforts (We supported their nominations by clicking thru and voting for them too!) Because we at Weddings InStyle believe one should NEVER be so busy side eyeing everyone else's blessings that you can't see YOURS staring you in the face!

We believe in CELEBRATING not HATING because there's MORE than enough fabulous to go around!

What we particularly LOVE about this award, is much like the Brides Choice Award that we won in 2011, 2o12 & 2013 - is the fact that it is 100% driven by people JUST like you who want to honour and express gratitude for the great service they received or are receiving.

Click Here to cast your vote. Voting closes at midnight April 23rd, 2013. Just follow the link and click to vote.... Easy Peasy Lemon Squeezy. BEST PART: you don't have to leave your email address or fill out any form just click away. They use cookies and IP Address tracking to ensure only one vote per person per day is recorded.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. Your support means everything to us and inspires us to continue to do what we do InStyle!

As always - the action happens on Facebook - so why not join the party there?

Inspire. Love. Dream. Share. Grow. Together!!!

Much Love,

Weddings InStyle team!

Grooms first glance. Why Photography is SO important!

2013-01-21T15:25:00.001-05:00

Real, spontaneous emotions of our favourite "grooms first glance" shots. The following images illustrate why wedding day photography is so important. All eyes are normally on the bride ... make sure you have your photographer have at least one lens on your groom to be. Remember the food will be devoured, the flowers will wilt but at the end of the day your pictures will last a lifetime.

Now .. gush over the raw emotions then men show their ladies .... #love!

Source: blog.thebecker.com

Source: joeelariophotography.com

Source: denisebovee.net

Source: carolineghetes.com

Source: featherandstone.com.au

Source: joielala.com

Source: michellenewellphotography.com

Source: abryanphoto.com

Source: greenweddingshoes.com

2013 Bride's Choice Award Winner.

2013-01-14T20:09:00.003-05:00

Ottawa, Canada – January 14, 2013 – WeddingWire, the nation's leading online wedding marketplace, is thrilled to announce that Weddings InStyle has been selected as a winner of the prestigious WeddingWire Bride’s Choice Awards® 2013 for the third year in a row.

The esteemed annual awards program recognizes the top five percent of wedding professionals in the WeddingWire Network who demonstrate excellence in quality, service, responsiveness and professionalism. Weddings InStyle’s selection as a Bride’s Choice Award 2013 winner was selected based on the positive experiences expressed by past clients on WeddingWire, the world’s largest wedding review site with over one million reviews. While many industry awards are given by the host organization, the WeddingWire Bride’s Choice Awards® winners are determined solely based on reviews from real newlyweds and their experiences working with Weddings InStyle.

The WeddingWire Bride’s Choice Awards® 2013 are given to the top local wedding vendors in more than 20 service categories, from wedding venues to wedding photographers, based on professional achievements from the previous year. Award-winning vendors are distinguished for the quality, quantity, consistency and timeliness of the reviews they have received from their past clients. As a Bride’s Choice Awards winner, Weddings InStyle is highlighted within the WeddingWire Network, which is comprised of over 200,000 wedding professionals throughout the United States, Canada and abroad.

“Each year, WeddingWire looks forward to celebrating the success of the top-rated wedding professionals within the WeddingWire Network,” said Timothy Chi, CEO, WeddingWire. “Now in its fifth year, the Bride’s Choice Awards® program continues to recognize the elite wedding professionals who exemplify a commitment to quality, service and professionalism. These businesses were chosen by our bridal community for their responsiveness and dedication to their clients over the past year. We are honored to recognize Weddings InStyle for their impressive achievements within the wedding industry.”

Weddings InStyle is thrilled to be one of the top Wedding Venues in Ottawa, Canada in the WeddingWire Network of sites, which include leading wedding sites such as WeddingWire, Project Wedding, Brides.com, Martha Stewart Weddings, and Weddingbee. We would like to thank our past clients for taking the time to review our business on WeddingWire. We value all of our clients and truly appreciate the positive feedback that helped us earn the WeddingWire Bride’s Choice Awards® for 2013.

For more information about Weddings InStyle please visit our WeddingWire Storefront here To learn more about the Bride's Choice Awards®, please visit www.WeddingWire.com/brides-choice-awards.

About WeddingWire, Inc.

WeddingWire®, the nation's leading marketplace serving the $70 billion wedding industry, is the only online wedding planning resource designed to empower both engaged couples and wedding professionals. For engaged couples, WeddingWire offers the ability to search, compare and book over 200,000 reviewed wedding vendors, from wedding venues to wedding photographers. WeddingWire also offers a comprehensive suite of online planning tools for weddings, including wedding websites and wedding checklists, all at no charge. For wedding professionals, WeddingWire is the only all-in-one marketing platform for businesses online and on-the-go. WeddingWire offers one simple solution to build a professional network, improve search visibility, manage social media and reach mobile consumers. Businesses that advertise with WeddingWire appear on WeddingWire.com, ProjectWedding.com and other leading sites, including MarthaStewartWeddings.com (NYSE: MSO), Brides.com and Weddingbee.com

Expert Status!

2012-12-18T16:30:00.000-05:00

What a year Weddings InStyle has had - and TRUST me when I say - we couldn't have done it without the help of our AMAZING vendors. Earlier this year Weddings InStyle was awarded Top Venue in Ottawa, in all of Ontario, for all of Canada and we placed 3rd overall in the world.

There was no Judging Panel  - Instead of appointing an arbitrary panel of judges to pick winners, the Wedding Industry Experts Awards was a true peoples choice Award. Anyone was able to vote for the vendors they loved. The results showed who was the most popular choice in each category by city, state/province, country and internationally. We were VERY thrilled that our couples, fans and vendors took to voting and we took top prize across the nation.

The Wedding Industry Experts approached us earlier this month to participate in a trial call "Expert Status" Peer Verification. Expert Status makes it easy for couples to identify respected wedding professionals in their local area. This will be GREAT for the wedding industry when it rolls out next year. You won't have to guess what dealing with your wedding vendor will be like because you will be able to find out before you sign on the dotted line.

There are so many things that could be taken into consideration when determining if a person deserves Expert Status. Is a person an expert because of their credentials, their training and education, their professional memberships, their publications, their level of experience - or a combination of these? Seems that EVERYONE is a wedding planner a wedding photographer, videographer or in an expert in something wedding these days. But are they really????

The Weddings Industry Experts thought one of the best way to determine in a wedding service provider is an "expert" is to ask other Wedding Profressionals who have personally worked along side them at weddings. Those who see time and time again what goes on behind-the-scenes, and those who have the same clients are often in the best position to judge.

Some might think twice about being reviewed by industry peers - we were happy to oblige the process. We didn't blink an eye and handed over OUR "Little Black Book"

They contacted 10 of our vendors and asked them the following to determine if WE at Weddings InStyle deserved the Expert Status seal.

To the best of their knowledge, we;

Excel in all aspects of their profession.
Are honest and fair in all dealing
Have a positive, professional attitude and is well presented.
Honor agreements made with clients and suppliers.
Present our qualifications and expertise accurately.
Communicate effectively and return calls and emails promptly.
Demonstrate exceptional customer service.
If a dispute arises, we resolve it quickly in a professional, courteous manner.
Operates or works in a business that is a credit to the local Wedding Industry
Are well respected within the local Wedding Industry

We are THRILLED to announce after 10 calls to 10 vendors in Ottawa we have been given:

We have just been vetted by some of Ottawa's industry's best. Wedding Industry Experts independently contacted 10 of our vendors, and they all confirm that they agree (to the best of their knowledge), that we at Weddings InStyle meet the requirements and have all the criteria for Expert Status. Check out our site here.

A BIG thank you to all our WONDERFUL vendors who spoke so graciously about us! We LOVE working with each and every one of you and that's why EVERY event we do together is ALWAYS InStyle! Not booking your wedding with us but need a referral? No doubt we have AMAZING vendors and would LOVE to tell you about them!

As always, if you want to follow what we are up to come join the fun on Facebook or better yet come see us in person! We'd love to meet you!

Until next time ... Happy Holidays and see you in 2013!

Wedding Trends to say "I do" to in 2013

2012-12-11T16:20:00.003-05:00

Say good-bye to vintage, mason jars and rustic and hello to glamour!

The romantic style of the 20's will be a hot trend for bridal gowns and beauty. Think retro. Think flapper. Think Great Gatsby. Hallmarks of this look include dropped waist dresses, lace in soft colors of ivory, beaded gowns, fringed chandeliers, and black and white tie dress code. To channel this look through your accessories, try on some long strands of pearl or gold toned jewelry. Instead of a traditional veil you could wear a cloche style headpiece or a beaded headband with art deco details.

Gold will be everywhere in 2013. From gowns to accessories to linens!

Mint Green is also one of the hottest colours for 2013. You can thank the wildly popular vintage trend for this colour inspiration. This hue compliments many colours particularly creams and golds.

Incorporating patterns into wedding day decor is going to be HOT as well! I think we’ll continue to see chevron and stripes used on everything from table runners to bowties. We are also going to start to see more and more gingham, paisley and even polka dots. Picture bridesmaids in striped skirts, and groomsmen with paisley ties. How FUN!

Loung receptions in a variety of different styles are VERY hot this year. This is a GREAT place to add pops of colour or patterns to your wedding. Keep in mind as beautiful as this "trend" might be, it could get costly trying to recreate on your own. Talk to your wedding planner about ways to get creative and keep the look within budget.

Hair: Think slick chic and top buns. They both offer a classic style that softly frames the face, and offer a perfect base for a veil. We will also be seeing alot of undone hair in 2013.

Live-stream weddings will continue to gain popularity in 2013. If a loved one cannot attend the wedding, you can "broadcast" your wedding and allow front row access to anyone, anywhere! Don'tcha just LOVE technology?

Of course like anything trends come and go .. These are just a few that we thought you might consider saying "I do" to if you are looking for something whimsical and fun for your wedding!

If you want to follow us for more tips and trends come join the party on Facebook or visit our website at Weddings InStyle.

Happy Planning!

Here we GROW again ....

2012-12-09T12:53:00.000-05:00

Weddings InStyle & Events InStyle is hiring again! We are looking for a special someone to assist with the upcoming 2013 Season.

Before you shoot off that resume, please review the following to make sure this is you:

You must understand confidentiality. We are a sounding board for our clients. Like in Las Vegas what happens at 107 Murray stays at 107 Murray. NO EXCEPTIONS!

Must be able to:

Manage client expectations
Manage and develop a strategic plan of action to ensure that the cost of the event remain within budget
Search and negotiate suitable venue or locations if outside of our capacity as per the requirement of client and within their budgetary constraints
Carry out all the functions as per legal guidelines and contract
Work on determining a suitable layout and theme of the event as per the requirement of the client
You must be interested in the wedding/event industry. Event Management or Wedding planning experience is a must.
You must have strong communication skills.
You must be available to work weekends (including Friday).
You must be a hard worker and understand that while this job can be glamorous, on the day of the event, it’s an extremely physical gig.
You must be well put together and presentable. We SELL style and drama we DON'T employ it! When we meet, we need to see how you would meet with our clients and vendors. So yes, we will be checking you out: your clothes, your hair, your makeup, your accessories….all of it. Do your clothes fit properly? No tight clothes, cleavage, etc please.
You must have a great sense of humour and be approachable and social.
FINALLY, you MUST realize that this job is nothing like the Jennifer Lopez movie.
Own transportation is a bonus!

Still sound like you? Fabulous! Here are some tips on how to stand out from the rest:

Tell us a little about yourself in the email body (but not your life story). We want to get to a feel for your personality to see if we’ll mesh with our team! Bonus points if you love bubbly!

Please do not call us to check the status of applications.

Tasks may include, but are not limited to:

Answering phones calls and email inquiries
Meeting clients and showing them the venue
Assessing client events needs and preparing custom quotes ( nothing we do is cookie cutter)
Coordinating with clients & vendors
Wedding research for new local talent and trends
Assistance in client meetings
Event timelines
Vendor liaison
Day of Event Coordination including supervising staff
Set up & take down

We are looking for an experienced wedding planner or event manager for this position as we need you to hit the ground running. January is going to be BUSY!

If you love pinterest, cupcakes, champagne, everything chic, are a hopeless romantic, and have a fabulous eye for detail-please apply.

Key Skills & Core Competencies:

Must be available to work evenings/weekends - this is 30 hour a week position plus evenings and weekends
Excellent time management and organizational skills
Enthusiastic and self motivated
Ability to work in fast pace environment
Creative/Stylish
Knowledge of budgeting and financial management

Send your resume and cover letter to info@weddingsinstyle.ca

To apply, please write 2013 Employment in the subject of your email; include your resume as an attachment, and your cover letter within the body. Your cover letter should explain why you are the perfect candidate for the position. Be sure to include previous experience and why you are passionate about this industry.

Learn more about Weddings InStyle and Events InStlye click on the highlighted links and don't forget to become a Fan on Facebook @ www.facebook.com/weddingsinstyle & www.facebook.com/eventsinstyle - we notice the little things and the enthusiasm.

Look forward to finding the next member of our InStyle team!

Food & Drink Holiday Issue - Featuring InStyle

2012-11-12T16:45:00.000-05:00

With the holidays just around the corner we were honoured to be featured in this months Food & Drink Magazine ( available at your nearest LCBO ) offering 4 tips on how to "Entertain InStyle" this coming season.

You know us as Weddings InStyle, but did you know we have a sister company called Events InStyle? We are Ottawa’s premier event planning solution for any of your event needs. We are experts at organizing and executing all types of events, be it in our own venue or another location of your choice. Whether it is a night out on the town, a memorable birthday party, or business conference, charity gala or of course a wedding. We plan events that are a reflection of your personal style and we customize them to meet individual your needs.

Whether you are hosting a team building meeting, an intimate cocktail reception or a gala, you want a unique and unforgettable (for the right reasons) experience. No matter the theme we create flawless events that are representative of the hosts.

We have coordinated distinctive functions for organizations of all sizes; from small VIP dinners to large-scale corporate events. Our experience with top vendors enables us to recommend venues and service providers that will meet your specific needs. From invitations to decor, catering, performing artists, lighting and audio-visual equipment, we will orchestrate a seamless event at which you will surely feel like an honoured guest.

We hope that you will enjoy the following tips and make sure you check out our bubbly recipe on located on page 266 of the magazine.

Remember as the holidays approach planning a party or event shouldn't be stressful or intimidating. By staying organized and starting early, you can plan, create and host a memorable event with flare and ease. Tip: Create a timeline, get organized, create a theme and REMEMBER that it is the host that sets the tone for the party - SO RELAX and have FUN and your guests will too.

Founder of InStyle & Co Amanda O'Reilly Food & Drink Holiday 2012 Edition

Get Married in Ottawa for only $199.00

2012-11-05T20:33:00.000-05:00

The concept of eloping has changed drastically over time. I bet when you think of a quick ceremony you either think of Las Vegas or your nearest city hall right? Think again ....

Nowadays eloping can include destination weddings, city hall ceremonies or intimate gatherings—basically anything outside of your "traditional" wedding.

One benefit of having a celebration such as this is that it doesn't necessarily have to take as long to plan or cost as much to put together.

Back by popular demand; Weddings InStyle is offering to Marry you InStyle for only one hundred and 99 dollars.

You want to elope? or finally say I DO ... then we want to help you do that without breaking the bank this holiday season.

Yup! that's right From December 3rd - 21st from Monday - Friday between 9-5pm couples can say their vows in a romantic and intimate setting located right in the heart of the historic Byward Market.

 Budgets are tight and the holidays are around the corner but fret not. The reason we started this promotion is because we heard about so many couples who are living together as a married couple, sharing a mortgage, kids etc ... but just haven't made it "official" due to finances.  Sound familiar? Know someone "just like this" maybe someone intimately? :)

Last holiday season we were able to give the gift of love to so many couples who thought getting married was not affordable and they would need to keep on saving ... Instead, they celebrated last holiday season as husband & wife!  Happy 1 almost year anniversary to all who participated last year! We thought, hey Santa comes back every year - why can't we? After-all EVERYONE "believes" in love.

We are taking appointments Monday-Friday 9-5 December 3rd - 21st. All you need to do is call, book your appointment, bring your "significant other" and your marriage license and leave the rest to us - candles, custom vows, an intimate setting ... and if you need we can even provide your witnesses! 

For more information about our venue or this offer please visit us on Facebook www.facebook.com/weddingsinstyle or at Weddings InStyle or call us directly at 613-440-4446

Are YOU Weddings InStyle BIGGEST FAN!?

2012-10-10T12:43:00.000-04:00

***We've received alot of entries and have had some technical issues uploading videos ... Therefore we decided to EXTEND the deadline to November 30th, 2012!! Good Luck Everyone and THANKS for your continued support! we LOVE reading all your stories! xx

If a picture tells a thousand words, how many words does a video, blog post or a Facebook Wall post tell? We’re looking for Weddings InStyle's biggest fan. We want YOU to help US spread the word on how you have benefited from our services, advice, daily postings, referrals etc ... This is your chance to get married for FREE! * Read on for details and how to you can enter. It’s easy!

Why are YOU Weddings InStyle’s BIGGEST fan?

That’s the question we want to answer and want to hear it from you! The only thing that separates you from being crowned our Biggest Fan is a video on YouTube, an epic blog post or a detailed update on our Facebook Page. We have some fans that we KNOW are major fans of ours - they like every post, comment on every picture and we KNOW that they aren't married as of yet because of certain circumstances .... are THEY our BIGGEST fan? or are YOU?

Here are suggestions to help you with your submission:

1. Do you come to our Facebook/Twitter Page daily for inspiration? What has inspired you the most to date that we have posted? What would you like to see more of?

2. Did you get any new ideas for your Wedding from us – if so what and from where? Centerpiece ideas, your wedding vows etc..

3.Have you had more freedom by automating the sometimes painful processes of planning your wedding by using our services? If so how did it make your life easier and was your wedding day and days leading up to it less stressful in your opinion?

4. Have you conquered your own chaos of Wedding Planning by using Weddings InStyle’s services? If so how?

5. Did/Has Weddings InStyle supported you along the way to having your dream wedding? If so how?
6. What was a stand out memory of your experience with us?

These are just a few suggestions – but you are by no means bound to them. We LOVE creativity and want to hear YOUR stories about how we at Weddings InStyle were a part of making your big day so special.

1. Write a blog post! Be sure to add “Weddings InStyle” to the tags or mention us in the title.
2. Submit a Video! Upload it to YouTube. Don’t forget to tag the video with "Weddings InStyle" after you upload it and post it on our wall.
3. Post on our Wall! We invite you to swing by our Facebook Fan page and write on our wall.

In addition, the winner will be highlighted on our website so others can see why they are Weddings InStyle’s Biggest Fan.

If you benefit from using our services, are a daily friend on social media and LOVE what we do, you have every reason to enter and win this contest! This contest ends Friday, Oct 31, 2012, so what are you waiting for?

BEST part is the gift of love is TRANSFERABLE! So if you know someone who maybe is living as a married couple yet hasn't made it official due to finances or know someone who is looking to recommit themselves to their current partner this might be a GREAT gift to give this holiday season.

The fine print for Weddings InStyle’s ‘Biggest Fan’ Contest: 

Participants must be a current client, previous client or friend or follower on Facebook or Twitter. They can create as many articles, posts, videos of content as they wish; submitted on our Facebook Wall, they’re eligible to win. Selection of the winner is at the sole discretion of Weddings InStyle and will be based on adherence to contest rules. No additional purchase is necessary. Odds of winning are based on the number of entries and likes received on your post. So tell your friends to come vote for you... often! When submitting content, you authorize Weddings InStyle to spread the word about what you think about us indefinitely for marketing purposes. Content restrictions: if using videos must be a minimum of one minute in length and accurately represent the entrant within them, blog posts must be a minimum of 200 words, and Facebook Wall Posts must be a minimum of 200 characters.

Now that you read the fine print, go ahead and tell us why you’re our biggest fan!

Once you published your content (video, blog post or Facebook Wall Post on our Page), get your friends to “like” your link. Most “likes” wins! We look forward to crowning you our Biggest Fan!

* Winner is awarded a FREE wedding ceremony/vow renewal for up to 24 guests. Dates subject to availability.

Weddings InStyle & Events InStyle is hiring!

2012-08-20T18:31:00.000-04:00

Weddings InStyle & Events InStyle is looking for an Intern to assist with the upcoming 2013 Season.

Before you shoot off that resume, please review the following to make sure this is you:

You must understand confidentiality. We are a sounding board for our clients. Like in Las Vegas what is said and done with us, stays with us. NO EXCEPTIONS!
You must be interested in the wedding/event industry. We prefer students studying Communications, Marketing, Public Relations, Event Management and Hospitality/Tourism.
You must have strong communication skills.
You must be available to work weekends (including Friday).
You must be a hard worker and understand that while this job can be glamorous, on the day of the event, it’s an extremely physical gig.
You must be able to commit to a 3-4 month internship term. Weekday & Weekends
You must be well put together and presentable. We SELL style and drama we DON'T employ it! When we meet, we need to see how you would meet with our clients and vendors. So yes, we will be checking you out: your clothes, your hair, your makeup, your accessories….all of it. Do your clothes fit properly? No tight clothes, cleavage, etc please.
You must have a great sense of humour and be approachable and social.
FINALLY, you MUST realize that this job is nothing like the Jennifer Lopez movie.
Own transportation is a bonus!

Still sound like you? Fabulous! Here are some tips on how to stand out from the rest:

Tell us a little about yourself in the email body (but not your life story). We want to get to a feel for your personality to see if we’ll mesh with our team! Bonus points if you love bubbly!

Please do not call us to check the status of applications.

Tasks may include, but are not limited to:

Coordinating with Clients & Vendors
Social Media & Marketing
Wedding Research for new local talent and trends
Assistance in client meetings
Event Timelines
Vendor Liaison
Taste Tasting new Vendors
Day of Event Coordination

Bridal/Event Experience is preferred, but not a must. If you love Pinterest, Cupcakes, Champagne and everything chic, and are a Hopeless Romantic, and have a fabulous eye for detail-please apply.

Send your resume and cover letter to info@weddingsinstyle.ca

To apply, please write FALL INTERNSHIP in the subject of your email; include your resume as an attachment, and your cover letter within the body. Your cover letter should explain why you are the perfect candidate for the position. Be sure to include previous experience, what you'd like to gain from the internship and why you are passionate about this industry.

This Internship is unpaid, however school credit can be negotiated and there are plenty of other perks that come along with the job.

We are ALSO seeking an Event Manager to Run Evening/Weekend Events

Tasks may include, but are not limited to:

Conduct research to identify new opportunities for bringing about innovation in events
Discuss with clients about their specific requirements and expectations concerning the event
Manage and developed a strategic plan of action to ensure that the cost of the event remains under the decided budget
Search and negotiate suitable venue or locations if outside of our capacity as per the requirement of client and within their budgetary constraints
Carry out all the functions as per legal guidelines and contracts
Work on determining a suitable layout and theme of the event as per the requirement of the client
Oversee new and existing staff prior to the event so that all operations and duties were executed smoothly and as per clients guideline

Key Skills & Core Competencies:

Must be available to work evenings/weekends - this is a part-time position
Excellent time management and organizational skills
Enthusiastic and self motivated
Communication and customer handling skills
Ability to work in fast pace environment
Knowledge of budgeting and financial management
Have own transportation

Send your resume and cover letter to info@eventsinstyle.ca

To apply, please write EVENT COORDINATOR in the subject of your email; include your resume as an attachment, and your cover letter within the body. Your cover letter should explain why you are the perfect candidate for the position. Be sure to include previous experience, what you'd like to gain from the internship and why you are passionate about this industry.

This is a paid position.

*Both positions must be available to interview in Ottawa.

Express your gratitude for great service by voting for Weddings InStyle

2012-08-20T15:40:00.001-04:00

There is no Judging Panel  - Instead of appointing an arbitrary panel of judges to pick winners, the Wedding Industry Experts Awards is a true peoples choice Awards. Anyone can vote for the vendors they love. The results will show who is the most popular choice in each category by city, state/province, country and internationally.

Over the course of the last week we have seen some of our fellow colleagues in the industry be recognized for their fabulous efforts (We supported their nominations by clicking thru on Facebook or Twitter of COURSE!) Never be so busy side eyeing everyone else's blessings that you can't see YOURS staring you in the face! We believe in CELEBRATING not HATING because there's MORE than enough fabulous to go around!

Call it the laws of attraction but today Weddings InStyle was honored with their own nomination in the category “Best Wedding Venue under 150 people”.

What we particularly LOVE about this award, is much like the Brides Choice Award that we won in 2011 & 2012 - is the fact that it is 100% driven by people JUST like you who want to honour and express gratitude for the great service they received or are receiving.

Click Here to cast your vote. Voting closes at 4pm on August 31. Just follow the link and click to vote.... Easy Peasy Lemon Squeezy. Best part you don't have to leave your email address or fill out any form just click away. They use cookies and IP Address tracking to ensure only one vote per person per day is recorded.

Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. Your support means everything to us and inspires us to continue to do what we do InStyle!

Much Love,

Weddings InStyle team!

Engagement ring. ✔ Fiancé. ✔ Venue ????

2012-08-07T16:26:00.000-04:00

You have found “the one” that you want to spend Happily Ever After with … now what?

It’s time to decide what kind of wedding you want. Breakfast or Brunch, Afternoon Tea, Champagne & Cake, Sips & Bites or a dinner reception.

Champagne & Cakes is probably the least expensive type of reception, and is what was once the norm for most weddings. Everyone gathering post vows for a bit of cake and a few toasts. If you go this route we suggest that you put on your invitation "Champagne & Cake to follow" so that guests will know there isn't a meal - always best to manage expectations.

If you are opting for more of an affair; here are some things to consider when selecting your perfect wedding venue.

Weddings/Events InStyle

Venue

If the ceremony and reception are in two different locations:

What is the distance?
Will there be traffic? 
Transportation: how will people be arriving? How will you get there? Will you keep your guests waiting and if so what is your plan so to entertain your guests and start the party off right?
For out of town guests, are there hotels nearby?
What are the refund policies if any?
Parking
Restroom accessibility
Gratitude’s and taxes
Is there Bride/Groom Room so you can escape if you need to?
Do they offer Turn Key Services – They will decorate for you?
Is there an on site Wedding Planner & Day of Coordinator?
Do you see yourself planning the wedding day of your dreams with this person, as you will be tightly connected until the day after your wedding.
What near by locations are there for pictures?
Does the venue allow candles?
Does your venue have a variety of reputable vendors that they work with and can recommend to you? Are you allowed to bring your own vendors?

Inside

Does the venue come with a sound system?
How is the lighting? A crucial question as no one wants to celebrate in a dark room.
Is the room beautiful or do you need to spend extra money covering up the walls?

Outside

Is there a back up plan in case of rain?
Do you need a permit?
How is the sound system? Will everyone be able to hear the ceremony/speeches?

Food and Drink

Do they offer a variety of Caters?
Can they accommodate special meals? Gluten Free, Vegan, Vegetarian? All your favourites like midnight Poutine Bars and Sushi?
Can you do your own signature drinks?
Are there minimums you need to reach for food/drink?
Does the wedding venue allow you to supply your own cake/desserts?
Is there a Cake Cutting fee?

Just a few things to consider as you set out on your hunt for the perfect venue.

We at Weddings InStyle wish you best of luck with your search, and with all the planning for your upcoming wedding.

Until next time!

Great SUMMER special for Couples!

2012-07-06T14:57:00.000-04:00

We just read a survey performed by the Wedding Channel that stated that 42% of couples went over budget for their wedding. This obviously can cause serious problems and undue stress. We find it interesting that about 70% of couples don't know what their wedding budget even is. Tip #1 decide on a budget for your wedding. One that you BOTH can be comfortable with and won't put you in debt for your first few years of marriage.

We at Weddings InStyle want to help you get married InStyle and stay within budget. If you book your wedding with us from Monday to Thursday, we will discount selected wedding packages by 15%. This promotion is only in effect for the summer, expires August 31st so book as soon as possible to avoid disappointment.

In addition to booking your wedding with us at Weddings InStyle from Monday to Thursday, we’ve got some other cost saving tips for you:

• Use our chic free custom invitation to send electronically and save on invitations, RSVP cards, and postage

• Share your wedding details online thru social media - set up a custom FB Wedding Page

• Save on décor – Weddings InStyle is already beautifully pre-decorated

• Get married in the morning or early afternoon – that way your food/beverage bill will be considerably less expensive.

• Have a cocktail reception

• Serve a signature drink only and have a cash bar

• Use flowers that are in season

• Choose larger blooms – you’ll need less of them

• Buy shoes that you can wear again

• Have a mini dessert stations with a variety of treats

• Bring your ipod loaded with all your favourites in place of hiring a DJ.

Have a look at some of wedding packages online or call us for a custom quote and we can take 15% off the price of selected wedding package from Monday to Thursday. Our packages our flexible and totally customizable.

Looking forward to marrying you InStyle.

Check-In & Win at Weddings InStyle, Events InStyle, Balance InStyle

2012-04-30T13:11:00.000-04:00

Are you a Facebook junkie, or a twitter addict? If you are, then you’ll love the news that we have to share today. Starting this week, and repeated every week after, all of our Facebook Fans, and Twitter Followers on Weddings InStyle Facebook & Twitter; Events InStyle Facebook & Twitter and Balance InStyle Facebook & Twitter will be given an opportunity to win an assortment of goodies! From Spa Gift Certificates, to Trendy Restaurants all the way to your very own Personal Concierge!

It’s easy to win, and here’s how to do it:

Remember to Check-In to WIN!

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Anytime you come into Weddings InStyle, Events InStyle or Balance InStyle on 107 Murray Street you’re only one step away from winning fantastic prizes. So be sure to check in to win!

Whether you use Facebook, Twitter or Google+, we are watching for your check-ins. If you check-in, tweet or update your status saying that you’re at one of our businesses (and tag us), you’ll be automatically entered to win. Take a photo while you here to get an additional entry to win (and make sure you tag us so we can get the notice)
You can enter as many times as you like – so don’t miss an opportunity to check-in just because you already did in the past! Whether you are attending an event, coming in for a planning meeting or popping in to do a site tour – be sure to Check-In!

Watch for the winner to be chosen every week

Every month we will select a different winner of our Check-In and Win. If you win, you’ll receive a message from us with information on how to claim your free stuff.

There’s no purchase necessary, no cost to enter and no “favorites” being played. Just check-in via your favorite social network when you visit us and win.

Valentine’s Day Vow Renewal: When One ‘I Do’ Is Not Enough

2012-02-07T13:02:00.000-05:00

We LOVE love at Weddings InStyle, so what better way to celebrate the most romantic day of the year then to offer a MASSIVE vow renewal for those looking to recommit their love to one and other. Marriage is an institution that now a days could use some renewing. Life sometimes gets in the way. People have these blowout weddings, but that doesn’t necessarily correlate with having a long marriage and maintaining it. A vow renewal can be a signifier to oneself and to the larger community that something has endured and that there is a commitment to keep it going. Good relationships never stop growing. Like fine wine, they get better with age. No marriage is perfect. Many couples tend to think of marriage as a 50/50 proposition. Actually, the best relationships are 90/10. If you both will give 90% and take only 10%, you will have a formula likely to continue to bring both of you happiness for a lifetime. Whether you have been married a short time or 60 years we are offering a beautiful setting so that you could renew your vow and recommit your love for each other... InStyle!!!

What is this event about?  

Weddings InStyle Valentine’s Day Vow Renewal Ceremony allows committed couples to take part in a romantic declaration of love.

When does the Renewal of the Vows take place?   Tuesday, February 14th at 5:30pm

Where does the Renewal of the Vows take place?  Weddings InStyle 107 Murray Street in the Byward Market

Will each couple renew their vows separately or as part of the group?  The renewal ceremony will be performed as a group.

Will religion be a part of this event? No. This is not a religious event.

What is the cost to participate in this event?   This is a FREE event.

Do we have to register for this event?   Yes, please pre-register for this event. The chapel will be filled on a first come first serve basis and we will be closing registration once we hit capacity. We would LOVE to have you join our fan page on Facebook too as we will be sharing some your love stories there.

When should we arrive?   We will begin to fill the chapel at 5:00 Couples should arrive no later than 5:15pm. Ceremony starts at 5:30 sharp!

How long will the ceremony take?   The ceremony will take approximately 15 minutes.

Is this a legally binding event?   No, this is simply an opportunity for you to reconfirm your love and commitment to your significant other.

Do we need to bring anything with us?   All you need is to show up with your

significant other and lots of love.

Can we bring guests with us? No, unfortunately space is limited so we are limiting this only to married couples renewing their vows.

www.weddingsinstyle.ca 107 Murray Street Ottawa Ontario 613-440-4446

Find us on Facebook www.facebook.com/weddingsinstyle

The Perfect Wedding Speech

2012-01-30T12:40:00.002-05:00

If you're lucky you'll have the honor at least once in your life of being the maid of honour or best man in a wedding. This honour comes with a variety of responsibilities, not least of which is the duty of giving a tribute toast during the reception.

Do you ever notice, that for some people the words just flow and the humour is appropriate, and the speech is really amazing? and then ... there are those who are a little more on the awkward side with public speaking and you just sit and cringe in embarrassment for them.

The good news is that if you have the esteemed honour of standing up at delivering a speech anytime soon, you are not the first person to do this and this wonderful thing called GOOGLE that can help your research words of wisdom.

Here are some tips we thought we worth mentioning.

1. Don't wing it

If you think that you're just going to stand up and magic is going to pour out of you in the moment, you are sadly mistaken. As John Wooden used to say, failing to prepare is preparing to fail. Don't be that person. Put some thought and heart into what you are going to say. Let it be a reflection of the relationship you share with that person you are honour to stand up for.

2. Be respectful

Contrary to what you might see in the movies, being "that person" doesn't go over well at weddings in real life. Trust me! You want to be remembered for the right reasons. Take time to consider not just how you will look, but how your speech might reflect on the bride, groom and their family. I have seen one too many brides just sink into their chairs as the best man tries to be "funny". Be respectful - if all else fails, give your wedding planner a sign to plug the power on the mic - yes, it can be done!

3. Don't give a drunk speech

Yes, it's tempting to head straight for the open bar after the ceremony and picture sessions, but if you want to give a great speech you need to be on your A-game. That means being soberish ...

4. Know your audience

Consider your audience as you write your speech. Incorporating tasteful jokes into your speech is always fun, but careful not to turn it into a roast. Is this a gathering of frat buddies or a five star affair? Also be mindful of the bride and groom. Noone wants to hear about past relationships at their wedding. REALLY! This is truth and I have seen it so many times and it is just tacky and people do remember.

5. Thank all the right people and speak from your heartThis is speech giving 101. Thank the people who made it their mission to make this day happen flawlessly. Thank the bride and groom, the parents, the officiant, the wedding party, the venue and their staff and anyone else who deserves your gratitude. In this way the speech is sort of like winning an Academy Award. Just try not to ramble too much cause there is no music to cue you off the mic.

At the end of the day you need to keep in mind that you are merely a supporting player. It's nice to give a speech that has some sass and humour, but mostly your job is to wish the bride and groom all the best as they start their new life together.

Example of fun & sassy that will surely get a laugh for all the right reasons:

(Groom), take (Bride)'s hand and place your hand over hers.

I want you to remember this moment and cherish it... because this will be the last time you'll ever have the upper hand!

Happy toasting - until next time! xx

Dream Wedding Dresses

2012-01-27T16:00:00.000-05:00

On one of the most memorable days of a woman's life is her wedding day. Any bride who is lucky enough to dawn a McCaffrey creation will always remember how exquisite she felt in her gown. And for that, the label continues to strive and inspire moments that will be remembered forever.

Meet the man behind McCaffey's Haute Couture, David McCaffrey.

First and foremost he is a father, a partner, a friend, a brother and a son. He is a creator, a designer, a visionary, your BEST friend when you are shopping for your wedding gown. He is an inspiration to the bridal world.

I have had the pleasure of working with and watching David in action many many times. My best friend of 20 plus years Jill, got married this past summer. Given that Jill is in the industry, she wanted nothing to do with planning her own wedding as that is what she does all day long here at Weddings InStyle. This time SHE wanted a wedding planner/fairy god-mother to make all HER dreams come true.

We started talking dresses ... she wanted the best of course, so we called David and Christina and up the street to McCaffrey's we went. David and Christina greeted us warmly and in anticipation and with some feedback from Jill, had already pulled a bunch of dresses for her to try.

Unbeknownst to us, the dresses that David has selected were strategically choosen and were strategically given to try on. Jill started with what she thought was "THE" dress. David just smiled. This went on for about 4-5 dresses. Then David said, "try this" at first sight it wasn't Jill's first choice, mine neither, but when she put it on and stepped out of the dressing room we knew THIS WAS IT! She said YES to the dress that day.

From selection, to the fittings, to the added touches our experience was sheer perfection.

This is WHO he is, this is what he does. EVERYONE, I mean everyone that walks thru those doors on Sussex is made to feel like the most beautiful women alive! It doesn't matter if you are short, tall, thin or carrying a few extra pounds once David starts working his magic you on you ... look out! It's almost like self esteem classes and wedding dress shopping all rolled into one!

Each of David's Haute Couture wedding dresses is precisely crafted and in the Haute Couture tradition and made in Canada. The dress components are delicate and luxurious silk satins, taffetas, and organza's, often paired with Swarovski crystal beading, delicate feathers and the finest French laces. The incorporation of built-in corsets completes the workmanship and finishing's within the wedding dress, making it truly couture.

The fashions of the McCaffrey Haute Couture label reflect an innate sense of grace, romanticism, and refinement. The wedding dresses are not specifically trend-oriented; instead the McCaffrey Haute Couture label stands for something timeless with a hint of nostalgia to the classics. This mastery of elegance is incorporated into luxurious gowns - satin draping, bias-cuts, sweeping ball skirts; each with intricate detailing and tasteful body conscious silhouettes. The wedding dresses capture elements that flatter every woman, making her feel beautiful and elegant on her most special day.

Now available to all women, David is now creating evening and cocktail wear, custom-made, perfectly crafted for the occasion.

For more information on David and his creations. Pop over to their website or better yet, pick up the phone, make an appointment and go experience first hand what we are talking about.

CAUTION: Prepare to drink bubbles and be treated like a princess!

McCaffrey Haute Couture

465 Sussex Drive Ottawa, ON K1N 6Z4

(613) 789-4336

If you are feeling inspired and are ready to slip into luxury, they are having a trunk show THIS weekend Friday, January 27, until Sunday, January 29, 2012 * Receive a 10% discount on the purchase of a new custom-made Wedding Dress when you make your purchase this trunk show weekend.

Until next time ... Have a very InStyle weekend!