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    <title>Wendy Harpham on Healthy Survivorship</title>
    
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    <updated>2009-12-14T22:03:40-08:00</updated>
    <subtitle>Dr. Wendy Harpham is a doctor of internal medicine, cancer survivor, and award-winning and best-selling author of books about cancer: Healthy Survivorship, recovery and late effects, and raising children when a parent has cancer. She is also a public speaker, patient advocate, and mother of three.</subtitle>
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        <title>The Hope of "Yet"</title>
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        <published>2009-12-14T22:03:40-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-14T22:04:54-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Sometimes one little word can lift you from disappointment or even despair. See what happens to the following sentences after adding “yet” at the end: “I can’t embrace the uncertainty...</summary>
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            <name>Wendy Harpham</name>
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        <title>Tell Me What's Wrong, But Don't Complain. </title>
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        <published>2009-12-12T22:21:46-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-12T22:23:20-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Patients sometimes get into trouble because they don't want to complain. I'd like to suggest a simple solution. "To complain" is to tell of your aches and pains. Some patients...</summary>
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            <name>Wendy Harpham</name>
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        <title>Off to Miraval</title>
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        <published>2009-12-09T17:43:06-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-09T18:46:18-08:00</updated>
        <summary>I'm having déjà vu as I pack my bags for a four-day trip to Miraval. Just like last year, my presentation notes and jump drive with my PowerPoint are packed...</summary>
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        <title>Live Each Day As If It Is Your Last</title>
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        <published>2009-12-08T21:39:10-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-09T18:45:11-08:00</updated>
        <summary>CURE is a superb magazine. Excellent writing and graphics serve its mission. As its tagline says, "combining science with humanity, CURE makes cancer understandable." As if that weren't enough, subscriptions...</summary>
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            <name>Wendy Harpham</name>
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        <title>Temporary Friends</title>
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        <published>2009-12-07T19:57:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-07T19:57:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Like many people this month, I'm reconnecting with old friends through our annual "holiday letter." One group of friends will always have a special place in my heart. Lauren Kessler*...</summary>
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            <name>Wendy Harpham</name>
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        <title>Your Friend's Keeper?</title>
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        <published>2009-12-06T11:00:33-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-06T11:12:16-08:00</updated>
        <summary>You've survived cancer. Now a friend develops the same type of cancer and is making horrible decisions (in your opinion). She's declining conventional therapies for a treatable cancer or deciding...</summary>
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        <title>Cancer-Colored Glasses</title>
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        <published>2009-12-02T21:21:03-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-02T21:31:27-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Okay. You were treated for cancer. It doesn't mean every medical problem thereafter is related to your history of cancer. I'm just as guilty as the next person. Once my...</summary>
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            <name>Wendy Harpham</name>
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        <title>"Good" and "Bad" Thoughts?</title>
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        <published>2009-12-02T07:24:15-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-02T07:25:08-08:00</updated>
        <summary>When patients refer to "good" and "bad" thoughts, I often wonder exactly what they mean. Friends and family urge patients, "You need to focus on good thoughts." Patients seek guidance...</summary>
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        <title>Happiness in the Storm of Alzheimer's Disease</title>
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        <published>2009-11-30T19:32:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-30T19:32:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>You will never hear me call cancer or any other horrible disease a "gift." So how can I talk of happiness when dealing with Alzheimer's Disease (AD)? Until I read...</summary>
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            <name>Wendy Harpham</name>
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        <title>Cheaper Drugs</title>
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        <published>2009-11-29T18:56:14-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-29T18:57:41-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Yesterday I addressed the issue of availability of antibiotics (without a prescription) on the Internet contributing to the problem of antibiotic-resistant germs. Kairol Rosenthal commented that some patients may be...</summary>
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            <name>Wendy Harpham</name>
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