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		<title>Comment on The District of Public Failure by US Bank Rates</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/03/16/the-district-of-public-failure/#comment-1462</link>
		<dc:creator>US Bank Rates</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 21:42:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And people wonder why Americans are seen as unintelligent. This is what actually counts as news today.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Kids &#038; Sign Language = Amazingly Cute Conversation by kenzie</title>
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		<dc:creator>kenzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2011 03:42:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sighn languge is so cool and im in a class</description>
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		<title>Comment on The District of Public Failure by RL</title>
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		<dc:creator>RL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Feb 2011 21:38:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Weather is only a tiny part of it, if so, Florida would be loaded with homeless people.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Kids &#038; Sign Language = Amazingly Cute Conversation by Andrea Papadatos</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/04/06/kids-sign-language-amazing-conversation/#comment-1451</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrea Papadatos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2011 02:40:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>May be she drinks her milk at night, get sleep, and when she wake up she think's she has just finished her milk, so she wants some "more". 

Sorry for my English.

I hope I helped you.

Byeee!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>May be she drinks her milk at night, get sleep, and when she wake up she think&#8217;s she has just finished her milk, so she wants some &#8220;more&#8221;. </p>
<p>Sorry for my English.</p>
<p>I hope I helped you.</p>
<p>Byeee!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The DMV Heart Attack by DMV</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/02/27/the-dmv-heart-attack/#comment-1442</link>
		<dc:creator>DMV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Dec 2010 08:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good job on being friendly, although avoiding a test isn't random. Its usually every 10 years.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Should Women Pay Child Support If They Don&#8217;t Have Custody? by D</title>
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		<dc:creator>D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Nov 2010 18:27:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think whomever does not have custody of the children, should YES be obligated to pay support to the parent that is raising the child.  In our situation, we did not have custody of my step sons for 12 years, and paid an enormous amount of money for support, and still had to supply clothing and food, and a bedroom when they were with us.  So we were paying for HER to pay for their stuff at her house, and had to pay for their stuff at our house as well.  Now, the children have decided to live with us full time, and have now for about 8 months.  We get NO support financially, emotionally, physically from their mother, and are now paying for EVERYTHING.  So how did she get away with her part of the responsibilities for 12 years when I had to work 3 jobs to cover our bills because all of my husband's income was going to his ex...and now she doesn't have to pay a penny?  I don't understand the system.  She hasn't worked in almost 13 years, and has had plastic surgeries, leaving her kids in need of braces and eyeglasses, but she now doesn't have to do anything...again.  The system is completely messed up in my opinion!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think whomever does not have custody of the children, should YES be obligated to pay support to the parent that is raising the child.  In our situation, we did not have custody of my step sons for 12 years, and paid an enormous amount of money for support, and still had to supply clothing and food, and a bedroom when they were with us.  So we were paying for HER to pay for their stuff at her house, and had to pay for their stuff at our house as well.  Now, the children have decided to live with us full time, and have now for about 8 months.  We get NO support financially, emotionally, physically from their mother, and are now paying for EVERYTHING.  So how did she get away with her part of the responsibilities for 12 years when I had to work 3 jobs to cover our bills because all of my husband&#8217;s income was going to his ex&#8230;and now she doesn&#8217;t have to pay a penny?  I don&#8217;t understand the system.  She hasn&#8217;t worked in almost 13 years, and has had plastic surgeries, leaving her kids in need of braces and eyeglasses, but she now doesn&#8217;t have to do anything&#8230;again.  The system is completely messed up in my opinion!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is A Lazy Spouse Grounds For Divorce? by JNevelyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>JNevelyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Nov 2010 04:46:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If your view of your husband is that he is lazy because he sleeps until 9:30, lays in bed until 11:00 gets up eats something, plays games on the computer, does a few computer surveys, then plays more computer games, does maybe 30 min. of something around the house or yard, then walks the dog, then reads the newspaper, does suduko puzzels one after the other, then watches TV and he says that he knows how to relax when you bring it up.  How would you feel? 

My husband is a pilot that has been laid off now for 18 1/2 months.  Now, this behavior did not start after the lay off but was how he justified relaxing after he had been gone for awhile.  I just call it lazy....  This is both of ours second marriages and I came into this now 8 1/2 year marriage with two children and he has none of his own.  When we got married the girls were 15 and 10 and they watched this behavior and resented him asking them to do things around the house. I would defend him and say that they don't understand how hard is to be gone from home all the time.  I tried to explain to him that children learn by example and if you don't set the example then they are not going to follow. Didn't seem to matter to him, "children should just do what they are told". This has caused so much tension in our marriage to where I have just recently moved out.  This was prompted over an argument (one of many) that he and my 19 year old daughter got into. He does not seem to understand that his lack of motivation, especially after being laid off, has caused a lot of resentment on my part when I feel that he has picked on my girls over the past few years about what they don't do.  He now has a "compromise" that with my money I get her an apartment and if she needs help then I help her with my money.  I feel this compromise sends a message to my daughter that she doesn't matter.  He says the daughter wins, I win, and he wins but how do she and I win in this?  She would never feel like coming home for the holidays because I choose the lazy husband over her.  

Then on our relationship, if mentioning to him about something that bothers me envokes a response that "If you don't like it then how about I don't do it at all and see how you like that?" or "Why don't you tell me what else I am doing wrong since I can't please you?" If he loves me why would he not want to please me.  I tried to always make sure that when he has been traveling that he had a home cooked meal to come home to, went to baseball games when I don't really care about the sport but he will not go to a musical with me, separate the laundry out in the way that he asked me to when it was not laid out like he wanted.  Now I could go on but I think you get the idea.  

He wants me to go to reconciliation at our church. If he can not see the harm in all of this, how is the church going to help other than telling me that the man is the head of the house and he should be respected?  You earn respect it is not demanded.  

What would you do?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If your view of your husband is that he is lazy because he sleeps until 9:30, lays in bed until 11:00 gets up eats something, plays games on the computer, does a few computer surveys, then plays more computer games, does maybe 30 min. of something around the house or yard, then walks the dog, then reads the newspaper, does suduko puzzels one after the other, then watches TV and he says that he knows how to relax when you bring it up.  How would you feel? </p>
<p>My husband is a pilot that has been laid off now for 18 1/2 months.  Now, this behavior did not start after the lay off but was how he justified relaxing after he had been gone for awhile.  I just call it lazy&#8230;.  This is both of ours second marriages and I came into this now 8 1/2 year marriage with two children and he has none of his own.  When we got married the girls were 15 and 10 and they watched this behavior and resented him asking them to do things around the house. I would defend him and say that they don&#8217;t understand how hard is to be gone from home all the time.  I tried to explain to him that children learn by example and if you don&#8217;t set the example then they are not going to follow. Didn&#8217;t seem to matter to him, &#8220;children should just do what they are told&#8221;. This has caused so much tension in our marriage to where I have just recently moved out.  This was prompted over an argument (one of many) that he and my 19 year old daughter got into. He does not seem to understand that his lack of motivation, especially after being laid off, has caused a lot of resentment on my part when I feel that he has picked on my girls over the past few years about what they don&#8217;t do.  He now has a &#8220;compromise&#8221; that with my money I get her an apartment and if she needs help then I help her with my money.  I feel this compromise sends a message to my daughter that she doesn&#8217;t matter.  He says the daughter wins, I win, and he wins but how do she and I win in this?  She would never feel like coming home for the holidays because I choose the lazy husband over her.  </p>
<p>Then on our relationship, if mentioning to him about something that bothers me envokes a response that &#8220;If you don&#8217;t like it then how about I don&#8217;t do it at all and see how you like that?&#8221; or &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you tell me what else I am doing wrong since I can&#8217;t please you?&#8221; If he loves me why would he not want to please me.  I tried to always make sure that when he has been traveling that he had a home cooked meal to come home to, went to baseball games when I don&#8217;t really care about the sport but he will not go to a musical with me, separate the laundry out in the way that he asked me to when it was not laid out like he wanted.  Now I could go on but I think you get the idea.  </p>
<p>He wants me to go to reconciliation at our church. If he can not see the harm in all of this, how is the church going to help other than telling me that the man is the head of the house and he should be respected?  You earn respect it is not demanded.  </p>
<p>What would you do?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should Women Pay Child Support If They Don&#8217;t Have Custody? by ron</title>
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		<dc:creator>ron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Nov 2010 17:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My ex, ordered to help support her children,by a court of law,has seldom made a support payment and is now over 5,000.00 behind. Her step-father is a sherriff,she lives with at 33 years old. She has two more kids both by different fathers. I called the prosecutor because I was told she was to have a warrent issued on Nov.1st.now it is Nov. 4th he told me that he had spoke to her and she had had surgery(hystorectomy4months ago)so he was giving her until Nov.28th He told me that he did not want her to lose her job so he extended the time... He spoke to me as if I were the one being prosecuted and was defending her. Mind you the court order says she is to pick up and drop the kids off at my house, I have brought the kids to her for three years now.She doesn't bake them cakes on their birthdays, buy them gifts for christmas. She doesn't even call them throughout the two week periods to which I have the kids until she sees them again. Well now I'm tired of sugar coating everything for her. I was arrested before for owing less than 3,000.00.Is the system still not recognizing that this day and age mothers are "dead beats" too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My ex, ordered to help support her children,by a court of law,has seldom made a support payment and is now over 5,000.00 behind. Her step-father is a sherriff,she lives with at 33 years old. She has two more kids both by different fathers. I called the prosecutor because I was told she was to have a warrent issued on Nov.1st.now it is Nov. 4th he told me that he had spoke to her and she had had surgery(hystorectomy4months ago)so he was giving her until Nov.28th He told me that he did not want her to lose her job so he extended the time&#8230; He spoke to me as if I were the one being prosecuted and was defending her. Mind you the court order says she is to pick up and drop the kids off at my house, I have brought the kids to her for three years now.She doesn&#8217;t bake them cakes on their birthdays, buy them gifts for christmas. She doesn&#8217;t even call them throughout the two week periods to which I have the kids until she sees them again. Well now I&#8217;m tired of sugar coating everything for her. I was arrested before for owing less than 3,000.00.Is the system still not recognizing that this day and age mothers are &#8220;dead beats&#8221; too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is A Lazy Spouse Grounds For Divorce? by Dana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Sep 2010 05:23:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Absolutely...laziness is complete justification for divorce. 
John, perception is reality. Laziness is abuse in the form of neglect. If a lazy husband "forgets" to change a diaper, feed the kids, pick them up, drop them off, keep the house clean for the sake of providing a safe environment for the offspring that is neglect, and neglect is abuse. The video games are a bother because men who are addicted to playing video games can become slovenly disgusting and unappealing. Women can't "get them (men) excited for life," motivation is something that comes from within, not something that a woman must also be burdened with in order to make sure that her adult partner is staying focused on life. If a man is not excited about life then he is likely the one who is suffering from depression and needs to do the adult thing and seek professional help. Encouraging laziness??? Uh-huh, that will get him in gear!!! If they want to spend the rest of their life in front of the TV, then they can do that in their mother's basement like the rest of the losers who are too immature to have an adult relationship. I agree with Liz...drop the dead-weight before he drags you down with him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Absolutely&#8230;laziness is complete justification for divorce.<br />
John, perception is reality. Laziness is abuse in the form of neglect. If a lazy husband &#8220;forgets&#8221; to change a diaper, feed the kids, pick them up, drop them off, keep the house clean for the sake of providing a safe environment for the offspring that is neglect, and neglect is abuse. The video games are a bother because men who are addicted to playing video games can become slovenly disgusting and unappealing. Women can&#8217;t &#8220;get them (men) excited for life,&#8221; motivation is something that comes from within, not something that a woman must also be burdened with in order to make sure that her adult partner is staying focused on life. If a man is not excited about life then he is likely the one who is suffering from depression and needs to do the adult thing and seek professional help. Encouraging laziness??? Uh-huh, that will get him in gear!!! If they want to spend the rest of their life in front of the TV, then they can do that in their mother&#8217;s basement like the rest of the losers who are too immature to have an adult relationship. I agree with Liz&#8230;drop the dead-weight before he drags you down with him.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is A Lazy Spouse Grounds For Divorce? by Nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2010 13:04:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, I doubt she has TIME to play XBot if she is the only adult willing to work and feed herself and her children. Depression isn't an excuse to bail out on life and it's not a reason to be a slob with no work ethic. Clinical depression does need treatment but if this man can't recover then he really has no place playing house and making everyone else pull his weight does he? If she is in a "frenzy screaming" it might have taken time and lots of bad lazy behavior to get there.  Real men don't leave the little lady barefoot and pregnant while struggling he SUPPORTS his wife and growing family. Agree?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, I doubt she has TIME to play XBot if she is the only adult willing to work and feed herself and her children. Depression isn&#8217;t an excuse to bail out on life and it&#8217;s not a reason to be a slob with no work ethic. Clinical depression does need treatment but if this man can&#8217;t recover then he really has no place playing house and making everyone else pull his weight does he? If she is in a &#8220;frenzy screaming&#8221; it might have taken time and lots of bad lazy behavior to get there.  Real men don&#8217;t leave the little lady barefoot and pregnant while struggling he SUPPORTS his wife and growing family. Agree?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Man With Many Wives by Neal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Neal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 19:47:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well I am married and have ONE (1) beautiful amazing wife! I honestly think any man that wants more than ONE......well....is NUTS! Sorry Ladies no offense</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well I am married and have ONE (1) beautiful amazing wife! I honestly think any man that wants more than ONE&#8230;&#8230;well&#8230;.is NUTS! Sorry Ladies no offense</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should Women Pay Child Support If They Don&#8217;t Have Custody? by Karen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 04:59:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Comment to Dave. I understand what you are going through, although I'm the other gender going through it. In the midst of a divorce now. He's still paying for our basic needs(I've been home for 12 years) and I too have an autistic son and 2 other children. My family also is a long way away and his lives in this area, yet I'm doing this on my own(looking for work, fixing a home he left in disrepair, caring for the children, appts., etc and all while having to listen to him telling me I'm doing nothing because I'm not earning a paycheck yet in addition to everything else). He sees, by his own choice, the children very irregularly(he lives with his new girlfriend less then a mile away). In the end, it's infuriating to watch a parent's irresponsibility from any angle. I watch the emotional dropping of the ball and it makes me so very sad and I'm overwhelmed by everything I have to do. I just feel for you and others going through this. I don't know about you(and others) but I'm the one who gets the constant barbs and scrutiny too from the other party. I'm tired of it. My heart aches for my kids. I try to get him to see them and he's got excuses as to why: he has to work more(although when he sees them he throws money at them left and right so I'm not buying he's so hard up), he doesn't have the space over there(although when I visit my new beau, the kids do perfectly fine for a weekend in the same size place), etc. All excuses to dodge the real emotional meat and potatoes of being a father:-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Comment to Dave. I understand what you are going through, although I&#8217;m the other gender going through it. In the midst of a divorce now. He&#8217;s still paying for our basic needs(I&#8217;ve been home for 12 years) and I too have an autistic son and 2 other children. My family also is a long way away and his lives in this area, yet I&#8217;m doing this on my own(looking for work, fixing a home he left in disrepair, caring for the children, appts., etc and all while having to listen to him telling me I&#8217;m doing nothing because I&#8217;m not earning a paycheck yet in addition to everything else). He sees, by his own choice, the children very irregularly(he lives with his new girlfriend less then a mile away). In the end, it&#8217;s infuriating to watch a parent&#8217;s irresponsibility from any angle. I watch the emotional dropping of the ball and it makes me so very sad and I&#8217;m overwhelmed by everything I have to do. I just feel for you and others going through this. I don&#8217;t know about you(and others) but I&#8217;m the one who gets the constant barbs and scrutiny too from the other party. I&#8217;m tired of it. My heart aches for my kids. I try to get him to see them and he&#8217;s got excuses as to why: he has to work more(although when he sees them he throws money at them left and right so I&#8217;m not buying he&#8217;s so hard up), he doesn&#8217;t have the space over there(although when I visit my new beau, the kids do perfectly fine for a weekend in the same size place), etc. All excuses to dodge the real emotional meat and potatoes of being a father:-(</p>
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		<title>Comment on Kids &#038; Sign Language = Amazingly Cute Conversation by Jack Duffy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jack Duffy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 21:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the child signe language chart. Problem ON my computer. I can not see the hands of the child very clearly. It would be great to have the hands in a heavy lines. so we can see them more clealy.

Jack. Over&#38;Out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the child signe language chart. Problem ON my computer. I can not see the hands of the child very clearly. It would be great to have the hands in a heavy lines. so we can see them more clealy.</p>
<p>Jack. Over&amp;Out.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should Women Pay Child Support If They Don&#8217;t Have Custody? by Karin Lehmann</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/02/18/should-women-pay-child-support-if-they-dont-have-custody/#comment-1408</link>
		<dc:creator>Karin Lehmann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 May 2010 15:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a true story. I lost custody of my children to my ex-husband in 2000. He lied in Court against me. Yes I had a few small issues with my mental personality but it was never a problem for 16yrs I was an attentive and caring mother involved in my childrens life and schooling. Taking care of their everyday needs. This all ended when I no longer wanted to stay in my marriage due to my  ex-husbands Marijuana smoking habit. He told the courts that I had threatend to stab him with a knife. Bang I lost custody of my children and the right to see them. My son 16 and two daughters aged 9 and 5.The years without them were shear hell.  My 9 year old and I were reunited when she was 15 and a half. She had been out of school for nearly two years running a muck had seen everything you hope to protect your children from. Very angry and difficult to care for. Its was a nightmare. Now she is nineteen and we are closer and she is maturing into a different person. Which is great. But that still leaves her younger sister in the care of their father. Who has done nothing in all these years to make their lives something every little girl should have the opportunity to be in. I basically pay maintenace to a man who spends the money on himself and has not done one thing to discipline, supervise and encourage a young girls to do something and learn something beneficial for themselves. My youngest is now 16yrs old and has not attended one full year of Secondary school. Goes out all the time with whoever whenever and is not even home from one day to the next and has been doing this since she was 12 years old. Yet I still have to pay Child Support and she isn't even being cared for. So instead of just suffering the loss of custoday years ago I still suffer, having to pay Child Support to a selfish evil man who has not benefited my daughters welfare in anyway. I'm not well off I manage. One rule I told myself was that I had to keep going so that I could be someone my children would want to know one day. He has turned them into nobodies. Lucky my Son was much older than the girls and managed to get a traineeship and a good job.How many men are out there taking womens money and not seeing to the basic needs of a child.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a true story. I lost custody of my children to my ex-husband in 2000. He lied in Court against me. Yes I had a few small issues with my mental personality but it was never a problem for 16yrs I was an attentive and caring mother involved in my childrens life and schooling. Taking care of their everyday needs. This all ended when I no longer wanted to stay in my marriage due to my  ex-husbands Marijuana smoking habit. He told the courts that I had threatend to stab him with a knife. Bang I lost custody of my children and the right to see them. My son 16 and two daughters aged 9 and 5.The years without them were shear hell.  My 9 year old and I were reunited when she was 15 and a half. She had been out of school for nearly two years running a muck had seen everything you hope to protect your children from. Very angry and difficult to care for. Its was a nightmare. Now she is nineteen and we are closer and she is maturing into a different person. Which is great. But that still leaves her younger sister in the care of their father. Who has done nothing in all these years to make their lives something every little girl should have the opportunity to be in. I basically pay maintenace to a man who spends the money on himself and has not done one thing to discipline, supervise and encourage a young girls to do something and learn something beneficial for themselves. My youngest is now 16yrs old and has not attended one full year of Secondary school. Goes out all the time with whoever whenever and is not even home from one day to the next and has been doing this since she was 12 years old. Yet I still have to pay Child Support and she isn&#8217;t even being cared for. So instead of just suffering the loss of custoday years ago I still suffer, having to pay Child Support to a selfish evil man who has not benefited my daughters welfare in anyway. I&#8217;m not well off I manage. One rule I told myself was that I had to keep going so that I could be someone my children would want to know one day. He has turned them into nobodies. Lucky my Son was much older than the girls and managed to get a traineeship and a good job.How many men are out there taking womens money and not seeing to the basic needs of a child.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should Women Pay Child Support If They Don&#8217;t Have Custody? by Carrie</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/02/18/should-women-pay-child-support-if-they-dont-have-custody/#comment-1405</link>
		<dc:creator>Carrie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 20:32:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a mom who shares time with dad 50/50. However, I pay him child support ($600/mo.)and all of my childs expenses, including child care. I support my son 100%. I am very involved and would love my son 100% of the time. Still he takes me back to court for more money and the court system doesn’t favor me because I’m the “mom.” I am a single mom and have another child to raise on my own… I am strapped every month. My ex has remarried and is making more than me with their income combined but I cannot use that in court. I still have to pay him more every time we go back to court. It’s sad because I feel like I am being punished for having a decent job and supporting myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a mom who shares time with dad 50/50. However, I pay him child support ($600/mo.)and all of my childs expenses, including child care. I support my son 100%. I am very involved and would love my son 100% of the time. Still he takes me back to court for more money and the court system doesn’t favor me because I’m the “mom.” I am a single mom and have another child to raise on my own… I am strapped every month. My ex has remarried and is making more than me with their income combined but I cannot use that in court. I still have to pay him more every time we go back to court. It’s sad because I feel like I am being punished for having a decent job and supporting myself.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How Soon Is Too Soon&#8230; by alan</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/01/14/how-soon-is-too-soon/#comment-1404</link>
		<dc:creator>alan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 05:21:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think it would be good to have lots of wives the love that would be around the home and you wouldn't be londy at all  how mandy aer londy out there now more the better i say</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think it would be good to have lots of wives the love that would be around the home and you wouldn&#8217;t be londy at all  how mandy aer londy out there now more the better i say</p>
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		<title>Comment on Bleached Skin Isn&#8217;t The New Black. by Kyra</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/02/02/bleached-skin-isnt-the-new-black/#comment-1399</link>
		<dc:creator>Kyra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 12:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This does happen in the US.  I'd say it's not as common, as in some other countries (though it used to be more common in the US roughly 90 years ago); but it certainly does happen. It also happens in Asia and India, though it's a lot more common there (India in particular).  

My sister's husband is Nigerian and we were shocked to learn that he does the same to his skin.  

Tyra's show is a bit freakish and designed to perpetuate negative stereotypes.  However, while it's not as common in the US anymore (especially amongst African-Americans), it certainly does still happen to an extent and needs to be banned and addressed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This does happen in the US.  I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s not as common, as in some other countries (though it used to be more common in the US roughly 90 years ago); but it certainly does happen. It also happens in Asia and India, though it&#8217;s a lot more common there (India in particular).  </p>
<p>My sister&#8217;s husband is Nigerian and we were shocked to learn that he does the same to his skin.  </p>
<p>Tyra&#8217;s show is a bit freakish and designed to perpetuate negative stereotypes.  However, while it&#8217;s not as common in the US anymore (especially amongst African-Americans), it certainly does still happen to an extent and needs to be banned and addressed.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Jon &#038; Kate Plus 8 - Follow Up by help children</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/03/25/jon-kate-plus-8-follow-up/#comment-1397</link>
		<dc:creator>help children</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 23:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hang in there Jon &#38; Kate, I think there is no excuse for the cheating but however I think Jon is unhappy but not because of the fame he is unhappy because of the way Kate is. I whave seen the show but did not continue to whatch because of her being so hateful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hang in there Jon &amp; Kate, I think there is no excuse for the cheating but however I think Jon is unhappy but not because of the fame he is unhappy because of the way Kate is. I whave seen the show but did not continue to whatch because of her being so hateful.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Ticking Clock! Tick, Tock, Tick! by nadia</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/02/20/your-ticking-clock-tick-tock-tick/#comment-1395</link>
		<dc:creator>nadia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2010 20:03:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sooooooo true!  Im  32 and the only one of my friends not married and with no kids.... but Ive been with my bloke for 10 years.  We are blissfully happy but dont need to get married, and are not ready for kids... might never be.  But every day Im reminded by my friends "your clock is ticking".... its actually quite rude... Do I tell them that their face is sagging and they should get some cream?  No because that would be rude... but its fine for them to tell me that Im soon to serve no purpose as a woman on this plannet if I dont produce a child soon - or that if I have a kid over the age of 35 it will be disabled?  For all they know I could be trying right now and have problems.   Its the smug, condasedning "I bet you wish you were me" look they give you that hurts... but I remind them that I have sex with my bloke every day, we take fab holidays and are really happy in each others company.... which frankly none of them seem to be so whos the smug one now.   ha ha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sooooooo true!  Im  32 and the only one of my friends not married and with no kids&#8230;. but Ive been with my bloke for 10 years.  We are blissfully happy but dont need to get married, and are not ready for kids&#8230; might never be.  But every day Im reminded by my friends &#8220;your clock is ticking&#8221;&#8230;. its actually quite rude&#8230; Do I tell them that their face is sagging and they should get some cream?  No because that would be rude&#8230; but its fine for them to tell me that Im soon to serve no purpose as a woman on this plannet if I dont produce a child soon - or that if I have a kid over the age of 35 it will be disabled?  For all they know I could be trying right now and have problems.   Its the smug, condasedning &#8220;I bet you wish you were me&#8221; look they give you that hurts&#8230; but I remind them that I have sex with my bloke every day, we take fab holidays and are really happy in each others company&#8230;. which frankly none of them seem to be so whos the smug one now.   ha ha</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is A Lazy Spouse Grounds For Divorce? by john</title>
		<link>http://blog.weweclothing.com/2009/03/27/is-a-lazy-spouse-grounds-for-divorce/#comment-1390</link>
		<dc:creator>john</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 06:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>are yall serious? divorce out of laziness? marriage isnt what it used to be. To death do us part, unless one day i percieve him/her as lazy.
Maybe you have heard of depression? Your spouse is probably suffering from your "stress" as well. It must be terribly uncomfortable for you to have to endure someone else's mere presence. Why does the XBOX bother you so bad? why dont you pick up the controller and make him play it with you? cant you figure that contraption out? If your spouse isn't doing anything you feel is constructive, ask them to do something with you that you feel is. get them excited for life and wired to do great things. It's probably not just laziness. It might even be a good idea to encourage the laziness and be overly nice. i'd bet you'd get a much better response. show them you love them and if they really want to spend the rest of there life in front of the TV you'll stand by your spouse.  I doubt it will help going into a frenzy screaming...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>are yall serious? divorce out of laziness? marriage isnt what it used to be. To death do us part, unless one day i percieve him/her as lazy.<br />
Maybe you have heard of depression? Your spouse is probably suffering from your &#8220;stress&#8221; as well. It must be terribly uncomfortable for you to have to endure someone else&#8217;s mere presence. Why does the XBOX bother you so bad? why dont you pick up the controller and make him play it with you? cant you figure that contraption out? If your spouse isn&#8217;t doing anything you feel is constructive, ask them to do something with you that you feel is. get them excited for life and wired to do great things. It&#8217;s probably not just laziness. It might even be a good idea to encourage the laziness and be overly nice. i&#8217;d bet you&#8217;d get a much better response. show them you love them and if they really want to spend the rest of there life in front of the TV you&#8217;ll stand by your spouse.  I doubt it will help going into a frenzy screaming&#8230;</p>
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