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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearch/1.1/" xmlns:blogger="http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" gd:etag="W/&quot;DU8FQX0_fip7ImA9WhNQE0Q.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6125029086423428487</id><updated>2012-11-20T02:50:10.346-05:00</updated><category term="people suck" /><category term="education" /><category term="health insurance" /><category term="spectrum disorder" /><category term="communication skills" /><category term="staying positive" /><category term="venting" /><category term="little squares with colors" /><category term="communication problems" /><category term="christmas" /><category term="adhd" /><category term="noah" /><category term="hope" /><category term="power of positive thinking" /><category term="anxiety" /><category term="being a hero" /><category term="challenges" /><category term="travel" /><category term="golden retrievers" /><category term="taxes" /><category term="disney world" /><category term="applied behavior analysis" /><category term="selfish people" /><category term="sensory processing disorders" /><category term="grateful" /><category term="taking a break" /><category term="ASD" /><category term="kids" /><category term="holiday stress" /><category term="christmas stories of hope" /><category term="sanity" /><category term="working too hard" /><category term="peace" /><category term="stress" /><category term="positive thinking" /><category term="vacation" /><category term="lavender" /><category term="politics" /><category term="yes there is a santa claus" /><category term="autism" /><category term="maple shade" /><category term="parenting" /><category term="aspergers" /><category term="stay at home mom" /><category term="when times are tough" /><category term="non verbal" /><category term="oprah" /><category term="trials" /><category term="computer wiz" /><category term="stressed out" /><category term="verbal" /><category term="complaining" /><category term="traveling with autistic child" /><category term="work at home mom" /><category term="sleep issues" /><category term="autism spectrum disorders" /><category term="believing in yourself" /><category term="cure" /><category term="ABA" /><title>What Doesn't Kill You, Makes you Crazy</title><subtitle type="html">This blog is about life with an Autistic child and all the other mentally challenged people I know, including myself. Life is a rich tapestry of beauty and poop, and because it is so complex and simple the ultimate paradox.</subtitle><link rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/" /><link rel="next" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6125029086423428487/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false&amp;v=2" /><author><name>Christina Dagnelli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03173392764265696707</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/S4XEX7QrN8I/AAAAAAAAABM/fp6wWAjroZw/S220/seaside4.jpg" /></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>66</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/WhatDoesNotKillUsMakesUsCrazy" /><feedburner:info uri="whatdoesnotkillusmakesuscrazy" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;AkMHQXg8fCp7ImA9WhNRGEw.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6125029086423428487.post-4035049852106059769</id><published>2012-11-05T11:03:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2012-11-13T09:53:50.674-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2012-11-13T09:53:50.674-05:00</app:edited><title>An open letter to my cats and dog</title><content type="html">&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Dear ones I support and govern. I am sick and tired of your entitlement
ways and dependency on me who governs you. Why can’t you go get your own food?
Do you think just because you’re adorable and loving I should feed you, provide
shelter and clean water? I think it’s time you pulled yourselves up by your
bootstraps and started feeding yourselves, cleaning up your own filth and
paying me more money for putting up with your lazy asses.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;However, I also want to apologize for being pressured by
society to take away your fertility, it was wrong of me as it should be up to
god on how many litters you have and not us humans. Obviously we have plenty of
room on this planet, and even if it gets a bit more populated, I can always put you on
the roof of the car. More survival of the fittest you know. Sorry Gibson, you
are the slow one, so we will miss you.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;As far as veterinary care, I will no longer be making you go to the vet
as who am I to tell you how to take care of yourself. If you want to get
healthcare then get a job and walk yourselves to the vet.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; All you do is sleep and eat, you disgust me.&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;I will also not be spending any more time trying to educate
myself in your care. Education is just a form of indoctrination and my time
would be better spent making money. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Gibson, you in particular have to stop having these female
or mommy tendencies, I know you weren’t born that way and I am obviously failing
you as a pet-parent because you are not more male-like. So stop cleaning the
kittens and taking care of them, if you love them too much they won’t be able
to take care of themselves. And you will go to HELL!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Things will change; we will bring our household back to a
time where there were fewer rules. You will be able to piss, poop, scratch and sit
on anything you like. And Fred you can eat it all, since as I said we aren’t
worried about going to the Vet anymore. You will be able to do whatever you
want, but if I don’t like it I can shoot you at any time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; You can't fool me again, I gave you that toy first...okay it was given to me to give to you, but so what&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;There will be no more sharing of toys, beds or food.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Sharing is wrong, only the lucky can prosper,
if you aren’t lucky you aren’t praying hard enough.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;I know it isn’t all of you; it’s just about 47% of this
furry bunch that thinks you are victims to humans.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Just remember I can wheel this power because I have opposable
thumbs and you don’t know how to operate a gun. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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and don't try to be cute and give me that look...you didn't work for that food.&lt;br /&gt;
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Love and Kisses your human over-lord&lt;br /&gt;
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PS. Be sure to tell your fellow cats and dogs without homes that immigrate into our society that they are not real cats and dogs, but even bigger moochers then you guys. We here are going to start rounding them up and sending them back to Egypt (well the cats anyway). &lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhatDoesNotKillUsMakesUsCrazy/~4/AE3QDPC9vjY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/feeds/4035049852106059769/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/2012/11/an-open-letter-to-my-cats-and-dog.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6125029086423428487/posts/default/4035049852106059769?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6125029086423428487/posts/default/4035049852106059769?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/WhatDoesNotKillUsMakesUsCrazy/~3/AE3QDPC9vjY/an-open-letter-to-my-cats-and-dog.html" title="An open letter to my cats and dog" /><author><name>Christina Dagnelli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03173392764265696707</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/S4XEX7QrN8I/AAAAAAAAABM/fp6wWAjroZw/S220/seaside4.jpg" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-9mt8xOhjZik/UJfftzX6luI/AAAAAAAAAPo/fGmirQaVqsM/s72-c/007.JPG" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/2012/11/an-open-letter-to-my-cats-and-dog.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUYDSX07cSp7ImA9WhNSEko.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6125029086423428487.post-3033840125606758978</id><published>2012-10-26T13:39:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2012-10-26T13:39:38.309-04:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2012-10-26T13:39:38.309-04:00</app:edited><title>It's been a while</title><content type="html">

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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;It has been a long while since I have updated this blog. I
wrote the following a few months ago and never finished it to get it on here.
But today is a new day, and I decided while updating other sites I would do so
on this one. I hope to build some momentum on here again.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;I spent a lot of time
on my health, and with the idea of working smarter not harder. In the time
since I last updated there has been some changes. Noah is more like a typical 7
year old, but he will be 10 in 10 days, wow. I can’t believe it’s been 10
years! He is doing so much better, is off the gluten free-casein free diet
(minus yogurt and milk) and doing very well in school. He is interested in
having us be proud of him. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Working on Health&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;This is necessary for so many of us. We take on more than we
should, sometimes because there seems to be no other way. Sometimes because we
just think we can. Maybe you are like me, and you tend to bite of more than you
can chew, I find its best to do so, as long as you don’t’ mind spitting
something out if you truly can’t chew it all. Pushing ourselves beyond our
comfort zone is necessary for growth.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Goals I had were to make sure I exercised every day, drink
enough water, get to bed so I can have 7-8 hours’ sleep, have a day of rest,
and eliminate as much bread as possible(because I truly have issues digesting
it, and its causing me inflammation). I like many of you know to do these
things, and do them pretty consistently, but it still can be sporadic. Which
means, sure you do all that you should for weeks or months on end, but then
suddenly you have more on your plate, so what goes first, all the things you
need to do to take care of yourself. Before you know it, a few months pass and
you realize you have been barely drinking water, your sleep is disturbed, you
are eating foods you can’t digest because they are there when you need them,
and others aren’t there. You may be busy, sweating your butt off and having
plenty of activity, but no fun exercise or decent consistent like you normally
do.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;So for one year, I wanted to make sure I did all those
things, I got through most of September doing so. Then Joe got laid off and was
home every day for a MONTH, screwing up my routine. Now he is working, but they
are sporadic hours so it’s taking a lot of adjustment to find a routine in this
small house. So some things are within my control regardless, but others,
including work &lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;or exercise which are in
areas that we share or are equipment we share aren’t just when I want because I
don’t live here alone.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Overall I made a lot of improvements, and I keep reminding
myself I have to put myself on the list, it’s my job to do so and no one else’s.
It’s my job to say no, and I am not in the position to help others until I help
myself.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Working Smarter not harder&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Most people work hard, and we should. But this doesn’t mean
we shouldn’t think about ways to accomplish tasks more efficiently or find
better paying work to cut back on some of the stuff that we have to spend more
time on that pays less. I was grateful for the experience I received from some
of the websites I write for, but needed to get more pay up front work. So I focused
on more print work which pays much better than online. Hence, not seeing much
here. (Since this pays pennies…but one day!)&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;I also made sure I was fully available for Noah, and
anything related to the house. I need an organized and clean home, otherwise I
get all stressed out.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;When you work for
yourself you are fully in charge of finding your work also, and anyone who does
so will tell you, this is a task you do every day. Each day someone who has
their own business or is their own contractor spends time finding more work,
networking and just keeping their radar up. I have been fortunate where work
has occasionally fallen in my lap based on someone reading an article and
wanting to publish it in their magazine. But that doesn’t happen often enough
to just rely on the maybe of it. Like all things, you need some luck, but
mostly a lot of perseverance to see things through.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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When you are child, believing in magic of course is much easier, and not believing it in would feel foreign and wrong. Something happens to us along the way which flips these two ideas-the one which believes with the one marked with cynicism. &lt;br /&gt;
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Life happens to us, as we live we lose. We lose people who mean the world to us, we lose jobs, pets, friends, and sometimes we lose our homes, our sanity and even our way. The loss of things that mean more than a misplaced toy, slowly affects our inner-workings. We still believe, but our prayers go unanswered much more often than they did before. &lt;br /&gt;
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At some point we get to a cross roads where we can take one path or another. We can choose to believe in good, in magic and in life. Or we can choose to dismiss those things, value them as unimportant and embrace bitterness. My husband took one road, and I have been on the one which believes in magic, even though countless things have happened to me which should kill that. However, there has been magic too, like blowing a tire on 95 in the middle of the night and being picked up by nice people who drive you home, and like what happened to us this Christmas.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #274e13;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;Most of us Have Been Dealt a Bad Hand from One Time or Another&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Sometimes the hand is temporary, and the next round is better. We only wind up a bit behind, maybe we still break even at the end of the game, or only take a minor loss. And with that loss, we at least gain some wisdom.&lt;br /&gt;
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Other times the hand we are dealt is not the type we can recover from so easily. Not without the help of others, and not without a little magic.&lt;br /&gt;
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The idea of Santa Claus when you are a child fills you with hope, excitement and can make you a bit nervous. Santa is judging you after all, but it didn’t feel harsh, cruel or in the ways people judge each other later in life. Santa still accepted that even if you were flawed, you were still worthy, and loved for trying.&lt;br /&gt;
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As you grow older you then can find yourself feeling as if magic is dead, it never existed, and it was just a lie. Cynicism takes hold, yet somewhere within me, I refuse to accept it. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red; font-size: large;"&gt;We had some bad luck about 6 years ago, just before Noah was diagnosed. I will give what I call the Reader’s Digest version. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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We are a good example of people who did things right, made good choices. We saved money to buy the current home we are living in, and bought something a bit smaller to not have to take on a huge mortgage when a smaller house would be just fine for awhile. While selling our former home laws changes regarding underground oil storage tanks, and it took some 2 years to get the house sold. During this time we had 2 sets of taxes, mortgage payments, water bills and though we lived conservatively, we could not afford 2 homes. And it wasn’t as if we could sell the new one and move back into the old, it had an “environmental problem” now, and was deemed uninhabitable. So there was inevitable debt, plus testing and clean up costs for the soil. This wound up costing close to just over 75,000 dollars. Then Noah was diagnosed with autism, just after the house was sold. The costs of Autism ran up another 40,000 over the past five years. &lt;br /&gt;
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We still live frugally; we do all the things suggested to save money. No landline phone, cheap cable, thrifty shopping, and no extras. We do not buy new coats or shoes every year. We do not go shopping for fun stuff; we do not go out to eat. And for seven years, never took a vacation. During Noah’s treatments it was not possible for me to go back to work fulltime, it still isn’t because there is no one who can handle him in between. When he was getting therapy it had to be done here, for 40 hours a week, with multiple therapists. But I digress, I wrote all about that &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Little-Squares-Colors-Different-Autism/dp/0984247211?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=whatdoesnotkil-20&amp;amp;link_code=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969" target="_blank"&gt;in a book&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=whatdoesnotkil-20&amp;amp;l=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0984247211" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; padding-left: 0px !important; padding-right: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important;" width="1" /&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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We both work as much as possible, but it isn’t enough to keep up with the $1,000 of debt bills we have in addition to regular bills each month,&amp;nbsp;but it helps. If not for our frugality, things would be worse and we would have lost our home years ago. So even though it is this way, I am grateful it isn’t any worse, and I have always believed deep down, since we didn’t ask for or create any of this. One day, the universe will balance, and it will be ok. One day, there will be such prosperity it will give new meaning to our suffrage. I have always cared about others, but it will force me to never forget…when I am wicked famous :)&lt;br /&gt;
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The economy has been a problem for many people the past few years, at first for us it wasn’t that much different. We were already living the way other people now had to. Of course with no raise from my husband’s job for over 2 years, but higher costs for everything, healthcare, tolls, taxes ect. We now had less money, for an already stretched out budget. We skip meals, we are sometimes cold, but I have also found that you can adapt to a lower thermostat and make it a personal goal to push it a bit lower each year. Christmas has always been small for us; we give to others, but not ourselves.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red; font-size: large;"&gt;A Child Shivers in the Cold, Let us Bring him Silver and Gold.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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This year, a miracle happened. I decided to look into getting food from our town’s food bank. Hoping this will help shave something off of the food bill. I figured there wouldn’t be too much for Noah’s diet and particular aversions. But something is better than nothing. Somehow this outreach for help led to help.&lt;br /&gt;
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A former school mate, and now current council member of our town decided to do something about it. His wife and he did a toy drive, they collected gift cards, cash, boxes of gluten free/dairy free food and reached out to two members of the&lt;a href="http://mapleshadebusiness.com/"&gt; Maple Shade Business association&lt;/a&gt; who are &lt;a href="http://bcove.me/nxxej94r"&gt;Santa and Mrs. Claus&lt;/a&gt; ever year. &lt;br /&gt;
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These two people have been adopting a local family every year for the past 12 or 13 years, it is their gift to each other. They deliver gifts, and bring food. This year, it was our family they shared Christmas morning with. This also led to another old friend donating a tree to us, and some elves who know Noah’s occupational therapist donating some food gift cards. Another writer from one of the websites I write for is sending a $100 to us after I mentioned part of this story in our forum, not because I was asking for help. But because I was remarking how wonderful people can be, and they are as good as they are nasty.&lt;br /&gt;
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Noah woke up earlier than expected on Christmas morning as children can do, and found nothing new under the tree. “My sock is empty.” he said, and noticed Santa’s coconut milk and cookies were still uneaten. He didn’t cry, or get upset-though I think the Farmville gift card in his stocking from me took the sting out. He just said he would go on Farmville and open his presents!&lt;br /&gt;
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About twenty minutes later, Santa and Mrs. Claus knocked on the front door, and with them brought cookies and gluten free dairy free donuts for Noah, as well as two huge contractor bags of wrapped presents.&lt;br /&gt;
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“ Wow Santa you were busy at your workshop”&lt;br /&gt;
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Noah was extremely happy and excited to tear through gift after gift, even was excited to open up box which held an Eagles sweatshirt and wind breaker. &lt;br /&gt;
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“Oo a sweat shirt!”&lt;br /&gt;
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They had a big wheel! Something we wanted to get for him for some time. Legos, playdough, games. Noah is a big toystory fan, and someone even got him the Andy's toys gift pack, I couldn't afford to buy this year because I missed the black friday sale at Target. I cried when he opened these gifts.&lt;br /&gt;
They even had a few gifts for my husband and I. His heart did indeed grow "three times this day." My favorite was an ornament of a stocking with one small powerful word on it. Believe.&lt;br /&gt;
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On Christmas Eve, our new best friend dropped off a ham, card and small box to us to be opened after Noah went to bed. We opened this, and it was full of gift cards. So many we had to keep reaching in the box and more and more came out. What we received from the good people of Maple Shade was more than what was in the many boxes. Hope, love and belief were the best presents of all. I am always overjoyed when I see people helping people, it gets me every time. I just never knew it would happen to me one day.&lt;br /&gt;
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Gift cards and presents = about 60 items&lt;br /&gt;
money, gift cards, food, presents for Noah given&amp;nbsp;= about&amp;nbsp;$3,000&lt;br /&gt;
Hope, faith restored and love= Priceless&lt;br /&gt;
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It isn't as if this will wipe away all of the debt by magic- it certainly helps, and this Christmas was the best ever. It absolutely has made me believe this is the beginning to it getting better. All of this generosity warmed us so much inside; I didn't feel cold in the 62 degree house. And now some extra money means I can crank that heater up to a steamy 65 degrees..at least for the next few days. There is enough food, and food gift cards&amp;nbsp;to last us until February at least.&lt;br /&gt;
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I know Santa&amp;nbsp;is real, he was in my living room! Twice, but only one of them had a beard. Santa is as real as love is real, and magic is real, for it took a bit of it and some luck for this to happen. When people come together like this, it is amazing. I have loved Maple Shade my whole life, people often joke about how you can't leave it, if you do, you come back. This is one of the reasons why. Local businesses helped too, they donated, and one night this week Joe and I will enjoy a nice dinner out, thanks to &lt;a href="http://www.charliebrowns.com/location-details.php?locationID=2681"&gt;Charlie Browns&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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Thank you good people of Maple Shade and elsewehere you helped our family this magical Christmas.&lt;br /&gt;
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Yes, Noah there is a Santa Claus.&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhatDoesNotKillUsMakesUsCrazy/~4/67wLZnZtNU8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/feeds/1124087127320236800/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/2010/12/yes-noah-there-is-santa-claus.html#comment-form" title="2 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6125029086423428487/posts/default/1124087127320236800?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6125029086423428487/posts/default/1124087127320236800?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/WhatDoesNotKillUsMakesUsCrazy/~3/67wLZnZtNU8/yes-noah-there-is-santa-claus.html" title="Yes Noah There is a Santa Claus" /><author><name>Christina Dagnelli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03173392764265696707</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/S4XEX7QrN8I/AAAAAAAAABM/fp6wWAjroZw/S220/seaside4.jpg" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/TRdm-sSs48I/AAAAAAAAAPE/ohs8-Cgh-FE/s72-c/192.JPG" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/2010/12/yes-noah-there-is-santa-claus.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DkUMQ3k9cSp7ImA9Wx9RGEs.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6125029086423428487.post-5582694644102366712</id><published>2010-12-20T11:55:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-20T11:58:02.769-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2010-12-20T11:58:02.769-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="holiday stress" /><title>Ready, Set, Holidays!</title><content type="html">&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/TQ-JKkkU9eI/AAAAAAAAAO4/Tockl6SokRM/s1600/P1070088.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" n4="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/TQ-JKkkU9eI/AAAAAAAAAO4/Tockl6SokRM/s320/P1070088.JPG" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;The holiday season has begun. Haul out the headache medicine, do the plastic shuffle and try to not go insane. You will need your mind when it is all over. Personally I love the holidays. I love the lights, the music, the movies, the special foods! My favorite aspect though is being able to laugh and exchange ideas and just have fun with friends. I have been fortunate where I have had some wonderful memories with terrific people over the years. &lt;br /&gt;
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From Halloween through New Years there are so many different tastes, sights and smells to enjoy. Parties or activities to attend or tend to, and people to share your time with. It is a season of good stress, but stress all the same. Here are a few tips I use, which helps me look forward to the holidays every year.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;My Top Holiday Survival Tools.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;Be Prepared&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. Wrapping paper, check, Gift tags, check. Tape, check. Scissors??? Where the heck are the scissors! I discovered after many misplacements of my scissors to just buy an extra pair and keep them with all the other gift wrapping supplies. Try to get these types of items at the end of the season, pack them all together-maybe in a red and green tub, so it's all there for you. Stock up on batteries, and don't forget the sensory tools for your special child who will sense every bit of your stress.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;The House to Your&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;self&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;/strong&gt;You need to be able to have the house to yourself for a few hours, a couple of times during the holiday season. Not only to get things done, but to decompress. Send the kids (and maybe even the husband) off to the grandparents, your sisters, your brother, best friend’s house …somewhere they will have fun for a few hours. This also makes a great gift.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;A Money Plan.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;No one wants to go into debt. But you do want to have funds to buy extra food, and even making gifts costs money. The best scenario is to save money-even if it is your extra change, in a jar or Christmas club account throughout the year so you have extra cash. There are also &lt;a href="http://www.inboxdollars.com/?r=ref819976"&gt;pay-to-read email companies, shopping websites&lt;/a&gt; where you earn points or money for reading their ads, and shopping on their site. You can save your earnings all year and cash them out in November as money or gift cards. Spending just 30 minutes to an hour a week on this can add up to an extra 200.00 in your pocket at the end of the year. &lt;br /&gt;
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Credit for credit, not just using it as a convenience and paying it off in the month is fine if you have a plan. If you shop well, you will get some amazing deals, and if it means having a holiday over no holiday just factor in your comfort zone on interest. I normally match my savings as long as I can pay it back in 3 months. This yields two months of interest, which sometimes only adds up to an extra 40 dollars or so, with great deals-I am still a head.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;Wine and Whining&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. You need to vent. Let it out. Call your best friend, swap horror stories and let it go. Wine is also a welcome addition to the end of your day. One glass of wine not only helps you relax, it gives you antioxidants and is good for your blood. Several glasses of wine will just give you a headache and unnecessary calories, so if you can practice moderation then add a bottle to your shopping list.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: red;"&gt;Christmas Music and Movies&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. When the “shitter is full”. Nothing works better than watching the Griswold’s with their Christmas adventures in &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/National-Lampoons-Christmas-Vacation-Blu-ray/dp/B000KJT8IG?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=whatdoesnotkil-20&amp;amp;link_code=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969" target="_blank"&gt;Christmas Vacation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=whatdoesnotkil-20&amp;amp;l=btl&amp;amp;camp=213689&amp;amp;creative=392969&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=B000KJT8IG" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; margin: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px !important; padding-left: 0px !important; padding-right: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important;" width="1" /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. Watching Christmas movies while wrapping or listening to music- or if you are Noah, both; adds that holiday feeling and some humor.&lt;br /&gt;
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Noah is awake longer than I would like, because I would like to have a normal bedtime. However, I suppose having to stay up a bit later and watch some late night TV isn’t the worst thing in the world. (That is being smacked and screamed at by the autism-monster). If only I could train my body to make the morning adjustment and sleep later, but know I wake up between 5:30-6:15 every day.&lt;br /&gt;
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One thing I can say for certain, Noah when not the autism-monster, is the most polite and obedient child. Because of that, it becomes obvious when he is not in control, he is just not himself. Behavior is always a symptom of something, the test is finding out what it is.&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhatDoesNotKillUsMakesUsCrazy/~4/qct6Mq0oS9c" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/feeds/8336944146960735570/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/2010/12/crashes-worked.html#comment-form" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6125029086423428487/posts/default/8336944146960735570?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6125029086423428487/posts/default/8336944146960735570?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/WhatDoesNotKillUsMakesUsCrazy/~3/qct6Mq0oS9c/crashes-worked.html" title="The crashes worked!!" /><author><name>Christina Dagnelli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03173392764265696707</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/S4XEX7QrN8I/AAAAAAAAABM/fp6wWAjroZw/S220/seaside4.jpg" /></author><thr:total>0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://christinadagnelli.blogspot.com/2010/12/crashes-worked.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUQCRn44cCp7ImA9Wx9RFEk.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6125029086423428487.post-2731447354292111107</id><published>2010-12-15T14:58:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-15T15:02:47.038-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2010-12-15T15:02:47.038-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="believing in yourself" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="holiday stress" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="staying positive" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="sleep issues" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="noah" /><title>No Rest for the Wicked</title><content type="html">&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/TQkdZTcpUTI/AAAAAAAAAO0/yNdT-3_-XDQ/s1600/PC310055.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" n4="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/TQkdZTcpUTI/AAAAAAAAAO0/yNdT-3_-XDQ/s320/PC310055.JPG" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;It was ten days before Christmas and all through the house all of the creatures were stirring because Noah was restless again. &lt;br /&gt;
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Noah has had sleep issues on and off for…well since birth. We did get it under-control this time last year after taking melatonin for a few months and being fortunate enough to take our first vacation. He was staying awake until midnight or later most nights, but once we started the melatonin he was going to sleep by 10 most nights. Since the clocks went back, it’s been a growing battle. Now the mornings are back to the joyous times of the past where he battles me about going to school, or wants me to build him a time machine. &lt;br /&gt;
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I get the time machine request. He isn’t the only person I know who wishes to have more time, or wants to go back in time to make changes. Perhaps if he listened to me the evening before and went to sleep when requested, he would have woken at the normal time. But it isn’t all his fault. His body is wound up and restless. I get it since I had restless leg syndrome during my pregnancy-which is this creepy feeling in your legs where they want to run but are too tired to do so. Except it’s not just his legs, it is probably his whole body. &lt;br /&gt;
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I have considered doing the melatonin again, but I know more occupational therapy is a better fit. Unfortunately his current OT can only work with him in school, and though she is practically magical, she is very pregnant and can’t toss him around like she normally does. I have no doubt she does the most she can with him. I have done occupational therapy with him over the years; however I am not as magical in that way. I also have limited time and energy because of necessity of work, which occupies just about every Noah-free-minute I have.&lt;br /&gt;
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It is an annoying circle. Insurance doesn’t cover autism therapies, so you have to rely on the school or pay for it yourself. But to pay for it means you need more money. But if you already don’t have enough you need more work to pay for it. Yet there are only so many hours in the day, and if you burn yourself out trying to make the money. Then what is the point if you’re dead before your time or now in need of therapy yourself?&lt;br /&gt;
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&amp;nbsp;&lt;/strong&gt;Regardless of the trials, I know the only thing I can do is keep moving forward. Staying positive is all you have sometimes, and being persistent is more important to finding success then most other things in this world. You have to figure for everyone who succeeds, someone else had to fail. This is why I keep going, one day it will be our turn, and we will be the ones who are fortunate and successful and it will be our jobs to help those who aren’t as fortunate yet.&lt;br /&gt;
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But for now, I suppose I will give him a few more crashes and tickles, and some melatonin.&lt;br /&gt;
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margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="240" ox="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_gTNEXjKB6zQ/TPq-U3agmDI/AAAAAAAAAOw/RG_oywJd7I4/s320/P9280140.JPG" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Writing in my blog hasn’t occurred much recently at all. All of my time for writing has been spent on making money due to the necessity of having it for those pesky things like the electric bill and groceries. Still, the blog is more enjoyable, and like many writers, I hope it will one day bring in some funds so I can justify writing in it. Or I hope to at least win the lottery so I can write more.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;I am a HUGE believer in doing what you love, following your natural talents and abilities and not selling yourself out or short. I live this and I am hopeful one day I will also reap the financial benefits, or at least make things even from some bad luck from the past.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I am grateful I am determined, un shakable, and keep preserving despite the length of this journey.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;I believe a person who has interests that drive them-has to do this, because there is no real choice if they want to be successful and fulfilled.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;If you don’t have many interests and just wish to make money to survive this is something else, life isn’t just work. But I believe most people have abilities and gifts they should share as opposed to squander.&lt;span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;A career takes up most of a person’s time, where a job can vary.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Calibri;"&gt;Time is a valuable resource in which we cannot replenish or buy, no matter what we do; it just has to be spent wisely. &lt;span style="mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri;"&gt;So here's to spending my time as wise as possible and working smarter, not harder. I need to divide some of my time for this blog and other non-income generating things which can one day lead to more income. Perhaps 25 percent of my allotted time is a fair amount.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;I also have to spend more time promoting my book until I get an agent who will do that for me. &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Little-Squares-with-Colors-A-Different-way-to-look-at-Autism/264272518793"&gt;So here is a link to my fan page on Facebook.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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This is one of my son’s favorite statements when he does not want to hear what I am telling him, be it going over the consequences for some less-than kosher actions, or explaining why something is dangerous or unfavorable. &lt;em&gt;No you can’t just download anything off of the internet, because of viruses and spyware.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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Noah is eight, and has autism so I expect these statements and misunderstandings. It is the grown adults in the world that also don’t want to hear the truth, and may be screaming this in their own heads, that I find interesting and maybe a little sorry for.&lt;br /&gt;
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Truth is subjective most of the time anyway, and as Fox Mulder would remind us during the &lt;em&gt;X-Files&lt;/em&gt;, it’s out there. Maybe some of the things that are truth that don’t bother me, like they do others, is because I like to look at the positive side of life, or am grateful for what is working, what is good. I also never assume “truth” from every blip I read on the internet, if the &lt;a href="http://www.suite101.com/content/nj-governor-chris-christies-budget-for-2011-a215857"&gt;New Jersey governor&lt;/a&gt; is going to cut a bunch of programs, and drastically alter our budget-my first thought is to read the full budget. Because NJ needs help with its government, spending habits, and change is good. I am not a republican, I didn’t vote for Christie, but I at least have appreciation he is trying to fix things, and am grateful that I am not in charge of the millions of household he is.&lt;br /&gt;
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Having an opinion though is important, and my one wish these days is for people to take a bit longer to formulate one, as opposed to the knee-jerk reaction, which usually makes them sound like a jerk. Saying you want Michael Vick disemboweled during a football game does not make me feel more sympathetic to dog fighting. But for the record, I think dogs-like horses- are heroes to humans, should have more rights and should never be abused or taken advantage. But wishing harm on others who could possibly just not know any better, or even those that do, only makes the opinions of those with hate as unimportant.&lt;br /&gt;
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It is not want I want to teach my son, who will at times annoy people, offend them and may make choices or mistakes that will be upsetting. My open-hearted and open-minded ways of thinking are valuable, necessary skills that will keep him safe, loved and filled with possibility, despite the way of some people in the world. I want him to learn to handle the truth, accept it, think about it and move on. &lt;br /&gt;
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