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	<itunes:summary>Michael Josephson is a noted radio commentator and the founder and president of the nonprofit Josephson Institute of Ethics and CHARACTER COUNTS!. Subscribers and regular visitors to his blog at WhatWillMatter.com will find written and audio versions of radio commentaries, plus quotations, observations, guest articles, videos, images, surveys, and recommendations.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>COMMENTARY 776.4: Parents Are Teachers First</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When John Wooden, the legendary basketball coach, referred to the last game he &#8220;ever taught,&#8221; he was asked about this phrasing. He said simply that a coach is first and foremost a teacher who should not only improve his players&#8217; athletic skills, but also help them become better people. And he was a superb teacher [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>When John Wooden, the legendary basketball coach, referred to the last game he "ever taught," he was asked about this phrasing. He said simply that a coach is first and foremost a teacher who should not only improve his players' athletic skills, but also help them become better people. And he was a superb teacher whose lasting influence is reflected in the values he instilled, not the championships he won.

Henry Adams said, "Teachers affect all eternity." As those who are taught teach others, the teacher's legacy grows. Sadly, the way we select and reward schoolteachers and coaches shows how much we undervalue their crucial role in shaping the character and destiny of our children.

But even worse, we tend to forget that the first and by far the most important teachers are those engaged in parenting. Good child-rearing involves more than providing food, shelter, and education. It also involves instilling good values and habits, teaching right from wrong, and showing how to make good decisions that are both effective and ethical.

Yes, it's important to help kids become smart and competent, but as Teddy Roosevelt said, "To educate a person in the mind but not the morals is to educate a menace to society." Parents need to be attentive and dedicated to assuring that their children have the tools to lead truly good lives, lives with purpose and meaning and value. That means we need to teach, enforce, advocate, and model the best we want our children to be.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>QUOTATION: It’s about the journey — mine and yours — and the lives we can touch, the legacy we can leave, and the world we can change for the better. Things will go wrong at times. You can’t always control your attitude, approach, and response. Your options are to complain or to look ahead and figure out how to make the situation better. You don’t win on emotion, you win on execution.  — Tony Dungy, NFL Coach, Indianapolis Colts Super Bowl Winner 2007</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 19:06:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>QUOTATION: Be demanding without being demeaning. Successful programs consist of people working hard, working together, while never worrying about who gets the credit. Shout praise and whisper criticism.  — Don Meyer, all-time leader in coaching wins in NCAA men’s basketball history, with 922 career victories in 38 seasons</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 19:01:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>QUOTATION: I pray not for victory, but to do my best. To me, the coaching profession is one of the noblest and most far-reaching in building manhood. No man is too good to be the athletic coach for youth. Is this my best team ever? I won’t know that for another 20 years or so.  — Amos Alonzo Stagg</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:59:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>WORTH READING: The Olympic Creed and Oath</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:54:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Creed: The most important thing in the Olympic Games is not to win but to take part, just as the most important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle. “The essential thing is not to have conquered but to have fought well.&#8221; The Oath: In the name of all the competitors [...]]]></description>
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		<title>QUOTATION: What It Takes to Become an Olympian. Some 2,000-Year-Old Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;So you wish to conquer in the Olympic games, my friend? And I too, by the Gods, and a fine thing it would be! But first mark the conditions and the consequences, and then set to work. You will have to put yourself under discipline; to eat by rule, to avoid cakes and sweetmeats; to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>OBSERVATION: Talent is necessary but not sufficient. Winners must also have character  — Michael Josephson</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:41:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Talent is like the ante in poker, you can’t get into the game without it. But at the highest levels of any sport everyone has talent. Champions distinguish themselves by their mental and emotional strength. They treat every setback and obstacle as part of the challenge rather than an excuse. A talented athlete can win [...]]]></description>
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		<title>OBSERVATION: John Wooden on Discipline</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even if there is a price to be paid, don’t be afraid to use appropriate discipline.  It may hurt in the short term, but it will pay dividends in the future.  I believe one of the big lessons of sports for dedicated individuals and teams is that it shows us how hard work, and I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>OBSERVATION: If you plan on getting better, plan on making mistakes</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 18:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Making mistakes is an important part of learning for everyone in every setting, but it has special significance in youth sports because children are easily embarrassed and discouraged, especially if they make mistakes in front of other kids. Parents and coaches should consciously teach children to treat failure and mistakes as necessary and expected stepping [...]]]></description>
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		<title>OBSERVATION: Coaching Is All About Teaching  — John Wooden</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 17:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A leader, particularly a teacher or coach, has a most powerful influence on those he or she leads, perhaps more than anyone outside the family.  Therefore, it is the obligation of that leader, teacher, or coach to treat such responsibility as a grave concern.  I consider it a sacred trust:  helping to mold character, instill [...]]]></description>
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