What Women Want Understanding The Opposite Sex

Wedding Vows From The Heart

shadow — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 07:12:41 +0000

I write my feelings daily, or whenever I feel the need, today I was writing, and what seemed to look like a speech that would be made after a wedding by the best man was developing. So I figured hey I can share these and help out man kind or use it at future occasions.

The Message

You are married now with the understanding that marriage is forever, til death do we part, in sickness in health, rich or poorer, there is never any room for, if this or if that happens or if someone does or doesn’t do a particular thing. Marriage means the merging together of two to make one, problems situations and hell will come your way you can count on it, when these storms do come it’s very important that you look to each other for support and understanding fight the good fight together, their will also be times when one section of the whole will be in your need, when these occasions come it is of the up most importance to strengthen the section in need immediately, always make your spouse number one in front of all others, they need to be your most immediate family, If and when their comes a time that the union feels hopeless or is at it’s wits end, ask for help, start your relationship over, rebuild and forgive, never hold past experience over another’s head, people live and learn , reap and sow as they walk through each day of their lives, God will sort out whatever each other deserves but it’s not up to you to make that punishment, For God has brought you together here today for a reason that was meant to be.

Marriage starts, travels and ends with a mind set, make sure yours is positive When there is just that pebble in the ocean of a chance that your marriage will survive , YOU MUST take that pebble and fight for your marriage as if your life depends on it, for if you do not you maybe a person who would write a message like this one, based on hindsight , live this life or you may be alone one day watching a movie and looking for that persons shoulder to cry on during the sad part, another day you could have good news and you feel really good, but it will never be as good as it can be without that one to share it with, that little pesky kiss, that bothered you sometimes, will be worth all it’s weight in gold when it’s gone. Always be faithful, when life tempts you remember life is not always greener on the other side

Sometime in your life you will decide to become fruitful with the sum of your two parts and populate the earth with others that posse characteristic from both the bride and the groom. When this happens it will open a whole new chapter to your life, watching them walk and talk and look up to you will feel like the whole reason, the only reason to live is to see their smile. When you bring your children into this world, I hope it’s with the understanding that you brought these children into the world to bring up and nurture together as a unit but not as a separate entity, you may at times do your nurturing in different but equal ways, but always together. The biggest gift you can give your children is to become a walking talking living example of what is right, you will not always live up to these standards but trying, and mending past mistakes is always a start. And lastly the biggest gift anyone can give to there children is a family based on a strong marriage that never ceases to stop trying to improve.

This message hinges a lot upon forgiveness but it is important that your partner can be honest without the fear of revenge, never put each other down, only up no matter what, because you are one in the same, talk plan, date do whatever it takes, the minute you feel a weakness talk it over, plan, improvise, overcome. This can really be done if you belief in the we are one together- And please bring the bible into your life, a whole successful plan has been laid out there if only you take the time to read it.

So please listen to this message for it may be the most important message one can give and receive on this most important day. Let this be your first guide to a everlasting marriage which ends with a shared tombstone and a beautiful couple gazing down upon future generations. I’m sure so many others only wished that someone gave this speech at their wedding

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Women Love Assholes

shadow — Mon, 04 May 2009 05:35:40 +0000

I recently was talking with a girl about 24 years old about how she meet her boyfriend, The conversation went on about how they worked together and she hated him, he was cocky and full of himself. One day she was outside of her work and a guy that she was interested in shouted across the parking lot, call me latter about,what we will be doing tonight. So her future boyfriend walks up to her and says why don’t I have your number, she replied because you never asked, which at that point she gave it to him and they were together from that day on. She goes on to tell me about how he was rude to her and picked on her, and he thought he was the shit, I told her she was attracted to him because he was cocky, and you know what, I expected her to defend the usual position that women take about nice guys,but to my surprise she admitted that she was attracted to him not despite his behavior but because of it.

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But here is the kicker, to me it just doesn’t make sense, I talk with my male friends all the time and we all agree that having a women that would do whatever you want and treat you like a king is a gold mind.

Just think about it a girl who says, honey let me rub your back, do you want sex tonight and every night, Dinner is ready for you, and so on.

But the reality is that most women who act this way are in love with, or have a crush on a asshole. So life and all of it’s fair ways rewards a male who acts like a asshole with the women who will cater to him.

I’m sure their is studies to prove why women do this, but I guess the take home point is, (it’s just a fact that us men must accept,)

My advise would be to border Asshole, but not exceed it.

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I Found this post from a man about this subject ( remember this guy did not get plastic surgery)

I say this is sadly right. i was “the nice guy” it got me no were i treated women with respect as i was raised to, i got ran over looked over and cheated on. i treat women like they aint shit but hoes n tricks, they eat it up. society is fucked up. its sad when you cant be you to get buy in life. but dont get me wrong nothing is perfect and we all change. there are people who look for different things this is just right in the majority.

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Womens Thoughts Money And Status

shadow — Fri, 23 Jan 2009 04:01:51 +0000

In a women’s eyes a huge percentage of a mans worth is the job the man holds, before I go further, let me explain. You’re at a party and you meet six separate guys that all look identical and they explain what their life is like, all three are looking for a new job currently, lets see what you think of them.

Guy A – Is a 30 year old stay at home dad who cleans, does laundry, dishes, helps with the kids homework and workouts out 3 times a week, he also reads books, and goes to school were he gets straight A’s, he uses the internet and library to study a wide range of educational subjects and is always helping family and friends. He is always trying to educate and teach the kids moral lessons,manners and discipline He made his decision to stay home because economically at the time it was a better choice, and he believed furthering his education until the youngest reached kindergarten was the best decision. His wife was the bread winner while he went to school, but she then divorced him and he is now looking for work. he possesses skills in computers, human services, sciences, mechanics and more but does not have any formal papers to prove his proficiency, he also has a gap in employment of two years that employers frown upon when he was a stay at home dad.

Guy A – very nice, good father, very diversely educated, in good physical condition. wears jeans and a shirt

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Guy B - works as a mail sorter for a private company that pays him, 7:15 a hour, they work him hard for there is no union. He is tired when he gets home, and takes a nap but other wise helps out around the house a little bit. His brain has gone to mush because he doesn’t ever use it, and when he has time he uses it to relax and watch football. He doesn’t go out much or do much, because he has so very little money to survive. he has been applying to the post office for a few years now, but he hasn’t got in

Guy B – no education, knowledge he does have is fading with time, tired, no money.

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Guy C- works at the post office as a mail sorter and receives 20 dollars a hour and 30 dollars a hour over time. He is worked but not overly worked because of the union he belongs to. He is tired when he gets home and takes a nap but other wise helps out around the house a little bit. His brain has gone to mush because he doesn’t ever use it, and when he has time he uses it to relax and watch football. he goes out once a month or so and has extra spending money for fun.

Guy C- education, knowledge he does have is fading with time, tired, decent money.

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Guy D – works in sales and generates 70,000 a year lying and persuading people to buy products they really don’t want, or can afford at a over priced cost. He also uses his persuasive techniques to get what he wants outside of work, and is fairly charming, he has some knowledge but is a good bull shitter that make people belief he is smarter then he is.

Guy D- formal education, good money, cheats people, selfish, wears a suit

Guy E – is a hard working webmaster he spends 1,000 hours self promoting the websites he has designed and a 1,000 more perfecting and learning the computer languages needed to run that website. He receives a modest 500 dollars a month of earning from his website.

Guy F – created a website with front page in a few minutes, and decided to try to make money doing this, his father had money so they hired webmasters to redesign his website and used a large amount of money to promote it, they also used spam techniques to further sales, currently Guy F is bringing in 10,000 a month, and he wakes up when he chooses and goes to clubs at night.

My prediction to the thoughts of how women and other will view them

My guess is that guy A will be looked at as a loser, even though he is fulfilling all the things that make someone a good human being, that consisting of knowledge, strength, health, kindness, and spirituality. Guy B is also a loser and gets no attention from women and is considered low class, Guy C is the same as Guy B but will be considered a good hardworking blue-collar worker, and Guy D will be considered very successful and smart and will attract women despite him going against everything women ever say makes a good man. Guy E is also a loser unless one day his website gets big, Guy F is a smart successful entrepreneur that women love.

I put together this article because I was in discussion with two of my female cousins and my aunt who all agreed they don’t care how good or smart a janitor was they would never date him because he was a janitor or a burger king employee, I then asked what if they worked the same janitor job but owned the business, their attitudes increased toward a yes, I also noticed many men at at parties and social events and listened to women talk about these men behind their backs. My last observation was that for women none of this mattered, you can stay home, work at burger king or be a business women. Women can do whatever they feel like but their value changed very little.

What I think sucks about this is that your starting wealth and or situation has a lot to do with what you can do as a entrepreneur, and your job is heavily influenced by what the markets have, who you know, or how lucky you get, Basically you can’t control a lot of the factors that influence how much money or status your job gives, But you can daily make yourself a better person, it just seems in today’s society with today’s rules, being a good, or great man without a job or a good job just won’t due.

To all the men out there, use this as a learning tool, make your job your priority then work down from there.

I would love to know what guy you women think is the best man, and or hear comments about the article in a whole and what you think.

Mistakes Men Make With Women

shadow — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 05:10:01 +0000

Having the write attractive qualities and moves is only fifty percent of being successful with women the other half is not ruining attraction with mistakes.

The 10 WORST mistakes “nice-guys” make with Women

1. Complimenting a woman too much and too desperately. A little compliment here and there doesn’t hurt, but always telling a girl she is beautiful will hurt your game. Or kill it outright. This shows that you only value her for her looks, and that you are obsessed with her – both of which are traits of needy guys desperate for sex. And women feel no attraction for frustrated losers.

2. Buying her dinner, drinks, and gifts. A real seducer will never waste money on a girl that hasn’t legitimately EARNED his favor. Showering girls with favors will only cause them to see you as chump with no personality, who has to buy women’s company. It is little better than prostitution, and they will see right through it. Expensive dinner dates and bouquets often result in “lets just be friends”… and if she’s really considerate, one of those rare women who are truly caring and have a good heart, she MAY tell you reluctantly that you’re trying too hard.

3. Giving away your power to her (begging). Always asking her “please!” as if you are a puppet and she is holding the strings. Begging her to stay longer, or pleading with her to like you after she shows disinterest. Begging only makes you look pathetic and spineless, and it gives her the power to say NO. It does make her feel more powerful and validated, but honestly, do you really want her to step all over your dignity? Then don’t beg. It’s NOT charming or “chivalrous” by any means, and you will LOSE respect.

4. Always asking her if she’s okay, or if she’s having a good time. This is a BIG mistake guys make, even guys who think they know the “game”! Believe me, if she’s having fun you’ll notice it in her face and her voice. Nice guys often don’t trust women and sometimes assume that women are inexplicable and even intentionally deceptive. While this may be true of some women, no women will EVER hide her true emotions in front of a guy she’s comfortable with. Asking her makes her LESS comfortable.

5. Always making her decide what to do (“what do you want to do now?”). 90% of the time, she won’t have an answer because women want guys to take the lead, not the other way around. If you sound like you have no clue what to do, you have already lost her. She doesn’t WANT to do anything with a guy who has no idea what to do!

6. Always apologizing for everything you do. Rule of thumb – if you wouldn’t expect a girl to apologize to you for touching you on the arm, don’t apologize to her either! She isn’t Bloody Mary – you don’t have to supplicate or beg for fear of getting your head chopped off! Being submissive and sorry only sends one signal to this soft, delicate creature – you only want her for her *****.

7. Being afraid to share your opinions. This behavior immediately makes you look insecure and you will become a target for her disdain. Most girls will never openly say it, but a guy that’s afraid of his own opinions actually disapproves of HIMSELF on some subconscious level. That’s the behavior of a low-value chump who has no self-respect.

8. Gushing with excessive, NEEDY emotions (i.e. “You are so beautiful, I’m already in love with you!”). This demonstrates low value because you appear to have no standards or patience. If you are meeting a girl for the first time, you will look like the most desperate guy on earth doing this. Even telling a girl you like her will often KILL attraction. I don’t care how many times your mom said it’s the “polite” way to treat girls, it is WRONG! A woman wants things to “just happen”, and the emotional burden of your pounding heart depending on her for instant happiness will just scare the crap out of her!

9. Trying to impress her with your knowledge, money, car, or any other LOGICAL excuses (bragging). This makes you look boring and lacking in substance. It is overcompensation. Once again, many guys have been misled by their parents. You do NOT want to “impress” girls – you want to get them curious about you. Furthermore, women are not attracted by logic. They are attracted by emotion and personality. The more you try to justify why she “should” be attracted to you, the less attraction she will feel. Any sort of rules, logic, and justification of them only will turn girls off!

10. Always trying to become a part of her life (following her, calling her every hour, sending her cards or flowers, asking too eagerly about her friends). This behavior, if it is allowed to continue, can become downright creepy. It communicates that you have no life, and that you are desperate not only for the girl, but also for getting to know ANYONE at all! Why are you so eager to meet her friends so fast anyway?

These mistakes are all hurting millions of men, and the crazy part is that they can EASILY be avoided once you know what they are and why they are HUGE turn-offs to women. And indeed, make no mistake about it – they definitely ARE. So if you are currently doing any of these “nice-guy” things, don’t feel insulted – just STOP DOING THEM, and your rejection rate will be cut in half. Only half of seduction relies on knowing the right techniques and internalizing the beliefs and attitudes behind them. The other half simply consists of not screwing it up!

Now I’m sure we’ve all heard the conventional wisdom on women and “dating” from friends, parents, John Gray, Oprah, Dr. Phil, Hollywood movies, the media, etc. You know… all the “accepted” pop-culture advice that tells you to buy women flowers and ask them to plan the date, impress her with your money, car, house, etc. and not make any moves, not talk about your opinions for fear of “offending” her, be super-“respectful” like a nervous schoolboy who has never touched a girl before… basically, advice telling to make ALL of the above mistakes! And I’m sure ALL of those people had their reasons for giving you that advice, but… I’ve got some bad news for those folks: this is the same wussy puritanical feminist advice that existed in the 1960s, and even THEN, it didn’t attract women.

The “conventional wisdom” is WRONG!

Girls are NOT attracted to guys that buy gifts, talk about their car or house, apologize for touching a girl, or give her the power to plan the evening. In fact, women are continually REPULSED by all of these behaviors. The biggest reason nice guys fail with women is that women simply do not trust nice guys. Nice guys look FAKE, because they are. What with all their showing gifts on a woman, all their begging and submitting and complimenting, they communicate EXTREME desperation and neediness – yet in spite of how badly they desire the girl, they are afraid to make a move, which communicates fear and lack of confidence. So from both ends, they come across as LOSERS. Think about it. Would you act all desperate like that around your friends? Why would a guy act like that, unless he is trying to get something from the girl? Either he must be trying to sell her something (and failing), or he is desperate for sex/marriage/a relationship, or any combination of the three. She is always thinking “WHAT does he WANT from me?” And that is NOT the state of mind you want her to be in, if your goal is to actually get laid.

There are only THREE things that nice-guy behavior will tell girls about you, and NONE of them are good:

1. You are desperate and needy
2. You have no confidence or direction in life
3. You are NOT a prize to be won over, thus you have NO sexual value to her

Does this sound like she’s impressed? Obviously something is VERY wrong with the way most guys go about attracting women. They actually SCARE women away! Being a “nice guy” doesn’t show women that you “care” about them. It actually creeps them out!

When I first figured this out, it was as eye-opening as seeing my reflection in the condensed droplets of water glistening like diamonds on the perfectly polished, shimmering surfaces of solid gold faucets in a gold-plated shower fit for a King! It was truly astounding. This was the answer to YEARS of asking why women were creeped out by all the conventional “approaches” that guys use. Being “nice” in chick-speak actually means “trying too hard”. And it took a girl telling me this to finally make me understand. Nice guys try to hide the fact that they want to sleep with a girl – yet by their submissive actions they make if OBVIOUS that they want something from her. They are “trying too hard” to get SEX, and the girl sees through it INSTANTLY. Women WILL have sex with you, but NOT if you come across as wanting it more badly than they do. If you’re a real Prize to be won, you need to act like sex is NO BIG DEAL! That’s right, I am NOT making this up. A real MAN is not needy. A real seducer is not desperate for sex, because he believes that he, not the girl, is the Prize. After all, if you are truly a Prize, like Casanova, then you can get sex whenever you want and that it’s not even necessary to have it anytime soon. You are not needy. There is no scarcity of women in your life. And you feel no fear in communicating with women. THAT is the attitude which makes you a Prize, regardless of whether you are already getting lots of sex or not. You must internalize this attitude first to truly have strong game.

-Errol Flynn

Now there’s a little trick to how the human mind works that allows you to turn the whole situation around and ELIMINATE nervous desperation so you can actually attract women instead of frantically fawning over them.

Nervous desperation can only arise when you come from a frame of SCARCITY. Imagine you are trying to catch a train to a party in a different city. Now imagine that you arrive at the train station and find out you missed the train. The loser would get all worried and nervous and start working himself into a neurotic frenzy, and go home. The winner would ask the ticket seller for a free train schedule and find out that there are 3 more trains headed to the same destination city, that will arrive at the station in only 10 minutes! Now most guys see girls with a “loser” mindset. They waste time on girls they have already turned off, and often ignore other girls that are ready to be seduced. They waste opportunities, or sometimes don’t even see them.

Instead of keeping his options open, the nice guy clings to one girl frantically, fearing that if she walks away, he will never have another chance – this fear is based on his perception that there is scarcity – not just scarcity of women, but scarcity of the possibility that any of them will like him: he already sees himself as undeserving and low-value, and ironically this fear causes him to become low-value. “She’s the ONE, I have to be really nice or else I’ll lose her” is a typical scarcity-frame excuse. “All the hot girls have boyfriends” is another one. Both of these pessimistic attitudes make nice guys very unattractive to women. A real Casanova won’t even consider a woman’s boyfriends an obstacle. You want the girl, not her boyfriend’s position. And many times the boyfriend is not even real. It’s an excuse to get rid of needy guys that she feels no attraction to (we’ll get into this later in depth). And if he sees this girl as just another girl, with an “abundance mentality” then he feels no need to get worried over this girl – he can tease her, joke around with her, and ignore the boyfriend entirely! And many times, the girl will admit she was lying later on, or even cheat on a real boyfriend.

But most guys are blind to this truth. Most guys see tons of imaginary obstacles in the way of them getting the girl. They often get discouraged the very first time, and assume things like “all the girls are taken” or “I don’t have enough money to attract women” or “only the few best-looking guys can get the girl”. Where do all these negative beliefs come from? Part of the answer has to do with flawed popular beliefs about women, and part of it has to do with the ancient origins of the scarcity mentality. Some guys see scarcity in everything – in their lifestyle, in their behavior, and even in what they have to work with in seduction. They just feel inadequate, even if they are fabulously wealthy and successful! The question is, where did this scarcity mentality come from?

Well, let’s go back to when man first started living in communities. Yes, cave-man times. The Stone Age. If you lived back then, you would belong to a tribe and live the life of a hunter-gatherer. And hunter-gatherer tribes ALWAYS had to deal with scarcity. Scarcity of food, water, shelter, security, and life expectancy. You had a short life, and had only a few years to find a mate, reproduce and pass on your genes. Now there was always someone who always got the best of what the tribe had to offer. He was the tribal leader. Sometimes he was the strongest warrior, or the best hunter. However he rose to the top, he had to fight other males to stay there. And he got any woman he wanted, because he was the only law in the tribe.

Now assume you are a young man in the tribe. And these tribes were small - 50 people or less. And out of them, about half of them would be women (more if some of the men were killed while hunting or by rival tribes). Now many of these women would be already taken by another man. And others would be too old to reproduce. So among a tribe of 50, there might have been only 8 young, sexually suitable women available for a man to mate with. Those were not very good odds. This is the very root of the scarcity mentality.

But it gets worse. Back then, your very survival depended on finding a mate – it was instinct. And there was more trouble to come. If the tribal leader or one of his friends were eyeing those same girls, then trying to attract one of those girls could result in you getting your skull cracked open by the tribal leader and his posse. And even if the girl you were trying to attract was not desired by the big boys, one mistake and she would tell all of her 7 friends about it. If her friends were there with her, it would get even worse: they would judge you, and if they didn’t like you for whatever reason, she would never go with you. Whereas men only competed with each other, women were already engaged in a cooperative “sisterhood” where the opinions of their friends were paramount. You would INSTANTLY lose social value, and failing to attract one girl could ruin you chances with all of them – even worse, it could make you an outcast. And a man with no tribe would be a man with no future. Not only was he less safe from big predators – he also had no mate and no way of passing on his genes. He was, for all practical purposes, sterile.

And so when approaching a potential mate, he had to be VERY careful. Back then being careful was more important than being bold – the name of the game was SURVIVAL – or, to put it more precisely, Scarcity-Survival. And over thousands of generations it became an evolutionary instinct wired into men’s brains. It was a “safe” instinct to have, because early in human evolution, there were NO guarantees. You had no clue if you were going to have enough to eat the next day, there was no safety from predators or other males, and there was NO way of knowing who else had their eyes on the girl you desired, or what would happen if you made a wrong move – there were only a few available females, and you only had a few chances to get it right!

Now fast forward a bit to the Middle Ages. At this point, human society had advanced far past the level of the Stone Age. But scarcity was STILL a big factor – this time because the crude tribal hierarchy of the Caveman had evolved into the strict class structure of feudalistic Europe (or feudalistic China/Japan/India/Aztecs/Incas/ or whatever empire it was). In all of these societies, there was a rigid class structure, and the best luxuries were reserved for the nobility and the kings. There were very rigid rules of marriage and prohibitions on extra-marital sex – but the noblemen could often break these laws at will and get away with it. Women were of course denied this privilege and confined to the home (yet they still attempted revenge – women often withheld sex or used their virginity as bait to tempt potential suitors and get what they wanted – and thus discovered their fatal power over the Average Frustrated Chump). And poor men had no choice at all. Peasants could only marry peasants, no matter how ugly. Yet rich men would often take peasant girls as their mistresses if they were attractive enough. The traditions and laws of feudal society were designed to benefit the rich and well-connected at the expense of everyone else. So the most beautiful women were STILL reserved for the “tribal leaders”. And scarcity in choosing a mate was still a VERY real part of life. Swiving a woman of a higher social class was often punishable by death! In some parts of the world, it still is. In addition, screwing the wrong woman back then would, at the very least, result in your entire family being disgraced, and you would be an outcast. You would lose all respect in your society, and possibly all of your friends and allies.

So as a result of both Cave-man tribalism and rigid feudal society, men have always had the anxiety of scarcity and fear of punishment weighing on their minds. And this anxiety became ingrained into their instincts. It still affects men today. We may think we live in a modern, egalitarian world, where the poor can become rich, where the little guy can become a tribal leader in every material way – but we are STILL seeing women from a frame of scarcity – just like our much less fortunate Caveman ancestors.

The fact is that your brain is like a machine. But it is a very outdated machine. Its basic programming is over 40,000 years old! In out modern society, where we have cultural norms, laws, and law enforcement to prevent some guy from cracking your skull open over a girl, most men are still perpetually scared of really interacting with a woman. Just interacting, mind you! The instinctive male inside is still afraid something bad might happen. And in fact, he is often more scared of the woman losing attraction than of a possible “boyfriend” threatening his life. He is still thinking in terms of the 8 available cave girls – in other words, scarcity. Ironically, this burning desire not to “mess this up” makes a man so nervous that he makes the girl uncomfortable with him, and ultimately he messes it up!

-Errol Flynn

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Dating Tips For Men

shadow — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 20:48:39 +0000

Dating tips part one is all about what you need to do before and upon meeting potential women for dating. It addresses first impressions, looks, attraction and psychology.

Part 1- Before and upon meeting

Part 2 - How and where to find women

Part 3 - Early dating

Part 4 - Steady dating

You may want to start with a evaluation of your looks before you proceed, see Rate My Body-Face

What Women Look For In A Man

Physical Looks

Evaluate your physical looks in terms of strengths and weaknesses, and remove or hide your weaker points and highlight your strengths, Be sure to address height, weight, hair, skin, teeth, eyes hands.

Build The Body Women Want

Mens Facial Care

Oral Teeth Care

How To Freshen Breath

Take out a piece of paper and start at the hair and move down, body part by body part and address how you will improve each.

These physical looks will be part of the cover to your book, the part women will see upon first impression, so they are important and the easiest to address, This will also display to women that you know how to take care of yourself and are neat.

Evaluate your clothing, Make sure it is in style, and appropriate for the right occasions, Research colors that go with your skin, or designs such as strips that can change the way your body type looks.

Do Women Like Suits And Ties

Men in Uniform

Smell, you must be clean and smell good, your clothes must smell good, but you must insure that the smell is good and not overbearing.

Top Ten Ranking Colognes For Men

Effectiveness Of Pheromones

Make Your Clothes Smell Good

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Body Language

1.Body language can enhance physical looks and make women perceive you as more attractive according to some scientific studies, Body language also sends subconscious messages that women will trust about your personality.

Links and video’s on Body language

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Status

Real or perceived status and even potential future status are all real factors with women who are dating, Women want a man that they think other women want, one their friends approve of, one who has power, status or power through money.

Go to college even if it’s part time, This shows education and drive to better your self, (AKA future status and wealth)

Keep a at least two fifty dollar bills and 3 tens and 4 fives in your wallet at all times, Do not flash or try to prêt ray this money, people will see it, This will make people think.

Know a wide variety of topics politics, economics, current affairs and never be a extremist in one view or the other.

Have friends and lady friends if possible,

Never put another man or people down, this will show insecurity and turn women off to who you are. Instead say neutral, or say good things about others, but be sure to never look like you’re a kiss ass or idealize any other man

Always be busy and know what you have done or will be doing for conversation with women, Remember the movie you saw, or the project you did in the garage.

When women perceive you as always active and busy, they will think of you in a better light.

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Confidence:

All women want a man who is confident but not arrogant, confidence is the number one turn on for women, why do you think men who are players get so many girls, even when the girls know that he is the wrong one

Confidence will be displayed through your actions, body language and voice.

As for your voice, you want to talk slow and relaxed, never use body language that makes you seem nervous or not confident.

Deep Voice

Tip- Take up space, stand with your feet apart be relaxed. Make eye contact, never lean in

When you make plans be the leader don’t ask “were do you want to go” have a plan already set and also a plan B, but never ask what do you want to do, at least not at first.

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The ability to cause attraction (not being a easy catch, but a challenge)

Women who are secure about them self’s never want to feel like a man chased them down, they want to feel that they pursued a man with their flirting or attitude and that’s why you were finally interested.

Never seem to interested, don’t move to the next step until she gives you cues to keep going, If cues are not coming stop trying completely, one of two things will happen, she will step up her game, or she was never going to be your girlfriend.

Others:

Embedding is a word that is from the mystery method of dating and in my mind will work but takes a lot of practice and skill, The idea is to first talk the way women relate to, that is more emotional, men say everything to the point and in chronological order, with women the insertion of the words I feel, I felt, like, it was like, then in the conversation you feed their minds thoughts about you, for example if you say “on my flight to” in a conversation it could mean to the women, where does he fly, he travels a lot, maybe he’s a business man, Or my ex girlfriend was a model or had a corvette, can mean you able to attract high end pretty women.

Their are more dating secrets, But we can’t release them all.

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Rate My Body-Face

shadow — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:55:48 +0000

Websites that allow users to rate your body or face, can be used as a potential benchmark to how attractive you are to the outside world. These site do have flaws, and are only a small indicator of looks, Site owners should take these into account, and make a more accurate rating system for people who use the site for the intended purpose, and not as a social network or to inflate their rating for bragging rights

Pros-

1. Large database of users who do not know your personality can rate your looks on different scales like, a 1 to 10 rating, would you hit this, hot or not,

2. Sites can rank overall body or face or both

Cons:

1. People mess around, and rate either to high or to low because they don’t care

2. Some sites allow you to view what others have rated you, and then the rated person reciprocates with a good rating.

3. When a face site includes your body, it gets factored in, and the same way with body sites that include your face.

4. People rate other things like a cute dog, with a guy in a photo

5. Low ranking given by jealous people

6. People don’t want to give low rankings to people by human nature,unless they think he or she is a jerk.

Other factors I have observed are that on almost every site, the top women are rated higher then the top men, for example on site x the top 10% of women are ranked nines and tens were the men are ranked seven to nines, The cause of this maybe a few factors, one being women s wide range of what’s attractive, and two, men bringing other men down on purpose.

I also noticed in my opinion that some sites for some reason or another are not accurate, This is my opinion maybe I’m wrong and these guys are the hottest, as for women the top women s rankings are pretty accurate, with the exception of women who show more skin, or act seductive always get rated higher then they should, some men rate women with private pictures higher because then the women may allow him to be a friend to see the private pictures..

See: http://www.ratemyface.com/top/topguys1.html for example check out the top 3 guys then, look at CaptainReigh
Rated 12th best

I wish a site would allow you to upload body parts individually, and then a whole body with no face, and a whole body with a face, each would be rated on a one to ten scale for attractiveness, cuteness, sexiness, and would you have sex with him or her, a comment would be required to what you like, or do not like about each. All social networking would be stripped, and no one would know who rated who, and guys could only rate women unless they were homosexual and women can only rate men unless they were homosexual, bisexual could rate both. Ratings would also be by age groups.

Well that’s not a reality yet so for know I recommend http://wouldyouhitthis.com to the newest user because you will receive a lot of votes in a very short time.

http://www.ratemybody.com/ - I signed up over 6 months ago and only have a few votes, Seems you market your self here by adding code to your social networking or personal websites.

http://www.ratemyface.com/index.cfm - I haven’t used them so far,so can’t comment

http://www.ratemyfaceoff.com/index.cfm

http://www.ratemymug.com/

http://www.likemybody.com/index.php

http://www.hotornot.com/

http://www.cutemeter.com/home.html

http://ratepeople.com/

Sign up for a number of these sights, and average the data, you should be able to come to some conclusion on your overall looks, and what your strong and weak points are. I do think I may add a rate your looks section to this site in hopes in improving the original idea.

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Do Women Like Suits And Ties

shadow — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 04:59:45 +0000

Do women find suits and ties attractive on a man,do suits and ties subconsciously remind women of control power and status, A tie may signal to women that the wearer, takes care of himself and is driven to succeed in life, Are all these statements true, I’m not sure yet, my first hour of research has pointed to 50% of the women going crazy over men who dress up, and the other 50% like men in plan jeans and a t-shirt, I can’t figure out if their is a age range,maybe the younger women like the jean guys and the older the suit guys, I will have to start a survey / poll to get more data.

What I do know is that it will be in a mans best interest to own a suit and tie and learn how to tie a tie,I believe also that dressing up will bring some level of respect and may even advance your career or other parts of your life that will help you be more successful with the women.

I also did a small experiment and wore dress pants,shoes and a tie for one week, and regular jeans and a sweater for the following, I can tell you that I felt people were more friendly and trusted me more the week i wore the tie, I also received more smiles!

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I wanted to improve navigation it seems older articles were getting lost in the categories and not accessible to visitors at womenwant.info, so I added a page that has all the links for articles, and other pages that have the video and poll links.

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Men in Uniform

shadow — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 05:38:19 +0000

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Your uniform or clothes make a large impact on women. Men in uniforms are seen as more attractive by women. Scientist and researchers grouped together a test group and showed them pictures consisting of men wearing various uniforms and clothing, then they switched the men to different outfits and showed them to different groups of women and asked them to rate their attractiveness. The results showed that a man who is dressed in a burger king uniform and rated a 3 by women was rated as high as a 8 or 9 when dressed in a military uniform a suit or a lab coat by a different group.

Take Clinton out of the president’s office and put him in a fast food restaurant and I don’t think Monica would give him a second look.

In an informal classroom study, Wiederman said most females agreed that men would find model Cindy Crawford attractive even if she worked as a waitress or retail clerk. However, women found a movie star like Mel Gibson less attractive if he worked as a garbage collector or factory worker rather than an actor.(Marc Ransford, 1998, para. 7-9). https://www.bsu.edu/news/article/0,1370,-1019-548,00.html

As funny as it may seem rating a mans looks, or your own attractiveness is very difficult to rate because unlike men who will think the same women, is just about as hot in unmatched salvation arms clothes as she would be in a designer dress,Women place high emphasis on outerwear. Surveys and studies are pointing toward the fact that women think men in uniforms,Suits and just about any uniform that says hay! I have money, or can get some in the future are givin extra points in the attraction department.

When you put some of these rock singers on stage, you have all sorts of attractive women trying to meet them,” he said. “But, if you put these guys with their long hair and tattoos outside the local convenience store, most women wouldn’t even consider talking to them.”

I read this, and come to the conclusion that these feelings of attractiveness toward men dressed a certain way may come from a biological need,but none the less, it seems a little shallow. It’s like me saying Martha steward looks more attractive to me because she can cook and do traditional womanly duties very well.

Related Data On The Saying Clothes Make The Man

1. John Marshall Townsend, professor of anthropology at the Maxwell School at Syracuse University, says that women’s status requirements often complicate their search for a mate. Townsend showed a group of female medical students, law students and professionals pictures of men dressed in different ways — wearing, for instance, a fast-food uniform or a designer suit and Rolex watch. He also gave participants descriptions of each man’s social status.

The results were decisive. “Here’s Mr. Hottie, but if he’s in the wrong costume, and given the wrong status description, then she won’t go out with him, much less go to bed with him or marry him,” said Townsend. “You could put Cary Grant in a Burger King outfit, and he looks dorky.”

If women do occasionally date “down” in terms of social status, Townsend said, “that would be out of desperation.”

By contrast, he says, men are likely to date any physically attractive woman. When it comes to marriage, “guys are not completely insensitive to social class,” but, he said, they’re “not looking for socioeconomic gain.”

2. Although physical characteristics are an important aspect of attractiveness, research has also shown that attire is a determinant of attractiveness as well (Bardack & McAndrew, 1985).

3. It has been shown that men dressed in business suits are perceived as more attractive than are men dressed in casual attire among female college students (Mehrabian & Blum, 1997)

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