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Bad Behavior Of History Channel Stars

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 08:29:00 +0000

I just had to say this... the History Channel is one of my favorite TV shows. On several of it's popular series, they depict tough jobs performed by tough men (and women) in tough...

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Why You Cant See Your Behavior As Victim Behavior

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 07:10:00 +0000

Victim Behavior is from non functional boundaries. Boundaries can only be seen when you interact with someone else. If you are the party allowing your boundaries to be "over stepped" you have the...

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Little Girl's Reatached Hand, Attitude Alters Reality

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 03:58:00 +0000

So you think you've got problems? Codependents cling to their victim behavior as if it was an old friend .. if you suddenly were not a victim anymore, if the fates suddenly stopped conspiring against...

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Placebos, Reality and Perception

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 21:05:00 +0000

The Placebo Effect by Harriet Hall, MD Jane D. was a regular visitor to our ER, usually showing up late at night demanding an injection of the narcotic Demerol, the only thing that worked for her...

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Spiritual Practice vs. Spiritual Growth

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 02:55:00 +0000

Is your spiritual growth creating the results you want? I'm not talking about enlightenment. I'm talking about growth in other life areas. We are, after all, whole beings. Expansion in one area of...

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Temper tantrum

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 02:22:00 +0000

We have a dog, the dog is kind of neurotic... If you've just stumbled onto this blog please subscribe to my RSS feed and remember to subscribe to What you can do about Victim Behavior via email to...

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Overcoming your Soft Addictions

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 09:38:00 +0000

The holidays are wearing me out, and I'm a grandfather now, a full time grandfather... that's why I've not posted to this blog (or these series of blogs) in over a month. At least I can say the...

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Victim Behavior is codependent behavior

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 06:03:00 +0000

Victim behavior is learned. So what! What are you going to do NOW? "80% of success is WHY to, not how to" Tony Robbins "The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves. We...

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People dont want to get better?

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 21:05:00 +0000

My mother is an L.C.S.W. (Licenced Clinical Social Worker), she's retired now. She worked for the State of Louisiana and had a private practice. She gave up her private practice... in disgust! If...

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Approach Avoidance/ Psychological Reversal

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 16:03:00 +0000

Simply put: Psychological Reversal is where you want X, and your insides want Y. of course this is an oversimplification but that’s it in a nut shell. Now here’s the kicker: the part of you that...

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Installing new behavior

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 19:20:00 +0000

Semantics. What you call something, the context you 'hold' a concept, determines what the parameters of what you believe is possible and not possible. This is part and parcel of the underpinnings...

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Poor Me Syndrome and what you can do about it.

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 02:25:00 +0000

Poor Me Syndrome, and what you can do about it What does Victim Behavior look like? ...the opposite of healthy boundaries, that's what A victim has their Internal Boundaries backwards If you've...

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God's Eye View- the subject object relation

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 21:11:00 +0000

God's Eye View If you've just stumbled onto this blog please subscribe to my RSS feed and remember to subscribe to What you can do about Victim Behavior via email to ensure you can enjoy the latest...

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Part of you is looking at you with contempt

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 20:31:00 +0000

Up till now you thought you were the voice inside your head That voice is your Ego You are much more than an Ego Your Ego is in charge of "Doing" Your 'greater self' (for lack of a better term) is...

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Paradox, to give up the ego, you have to have a healthy one

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 20:25:00 +0000

Paradox, seemingly incompatible ideas: There is a paradox in recovery theory and it's about the denigration of the ego, the giving up of the ego. "Virtually all the major spiritual traditions speak...

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Healing the Shame that Binds You

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 16:14:00 +0000

Healing the Shame that Binds You by John Bradshaw In an emotionally revealing way, Bradshaw shows us how toxic shame is the core problem in our compulsions, co-dependencies, addictions, and the...

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John Bradshaw- Right Brain Healing- the Jesus Nature

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 16:11:00 +0000

"I do not believe the call is to "Do What Jesus Did, the call is to Do What YOU Do. To be fully self actualized, like he (Jesus) was." "This shocks pious minds" "I started teaching this (when I got...

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Train yourself to accept self respect

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sun, 10 Aug 2008 17:29:00 +0000

As a codependent and/or an active addict (and even a "dry drunk" or inactive addict, one that stopped using but still does addictive behaviors)you probably have to: Practice the art of self...

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Blame, it's what Victims Do

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 23:02:00 +0000

Blame, point your finger at the world and exclaim it's all Thier Fault. That's what victims do... the opposite of take responsibility. Broken, missing, dysfunctional boundaries are what makes a...

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I do NOT have cancer!

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:29:00 +0000

My Dad died of prostate cancer in 2005 I had symptoms of cancer, and digestive problems. I just went to the local Frederick Maryland traveling health care clinic: Mission of Mercy and I do NOT HAVE...

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Respect or the lack of it

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:17:00 +0000

Respect, more importantly for a codependent, the lack of internal self respect. This is the central issue for all addictive behaviors (and codependency is an addictive behavior). Internal Self...

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Victims Characteristics-

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 17:56:00 +0000

The following info is from Dr, James J. Messina's http://www.coping.org/relations/martyr.htm site Tools for Coping Series. Victims often: -Lack the knowledge that they are being taken advantage...

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Why so many can't deal with the 12 steps.

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Sun, 29 Jun 2008 20:58:00 +0000

Why is it so many people are Agnostic or Atheist, or like George Carlin (who just died) are Antagonistic towards God? What is it about conventional organized religion that pisses so many people...

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Let the chips fall where they may- the 3rd step

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 23:07:00 +0000

If you believe in a higher power... even if you kinda sorta believe (agnostic) Worry is counter productive What you're doing when you Worry is telling the universe that you concede that you're a...

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Law of Attraction

noreply@blogger.com (David Bruce Jr) — Fri, 30 May 2008 21:21:00 +0000

The Law of Attraction simply says that you attract into your life whatever you think about. Your dominant thoughts will find a way to manifest. But the Law of Attraction gives rise to some tough...

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Sat, 16 Sep 2006 00:00:00 PDT

Maryannaville: Let Your Conscience Be Your Guide..
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Crack Cocaine Addiction Recovery: Relapse or Slip- what you tell yourself makes a difference