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~The Dangers of Temptations ~~~* To Compromise*~

2020-12-20T13:11:00.000-08:00

We've all compromised at one time or another. Before I continue, let me give the definition of the word compromise: Compromise ... An agreement or settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions. Plainly stated: an agreement between two sides who have different opinions, in which each side gives up something it want or wanted:

Compromises can cost greatly. And, it doesn't always mean that the agreement is always equal, meaning someone sometimes gets less than the other. Temptation to compromise threatens each of us. Temptations comes in many forms. But you don't have to give in to it. Each of us when we are tempted are either tempted because of someone's enticing us or we are tempted because of what we desperately want ourselves.

One way to learn how to avoid compromise is to understand why we find that (whatever it is) so tempting. Young women are pressured into having sex when they know they are not ready. Yet they often give in because of various reasons. To the young women: Don't be forced to give yourself to anyone until its the right time. And, don't let anyone coerce you. I often tell young women this... "A man will always show you who he is, if you open your eyes to see". Temptation can sometimes be a temporary gain for a lifetime of pain! So, don't compromise yourself!

~Where Are They Now~

2019-11-18T05:14:00.000-08:00

I haven't written on my blog in along time.

Where do I began? I truly don't quiet know. I stated the in the previous blog:There is a battle in every man and every woman... And, there are two worlds that exists in each of us... One of, evil and anger, and Love and Hope...

Do you know which one wins? The one you feed the most!!! So, my question to you is... Which one are you going feeding more?

So, let me start... I'm so disappointed in the leaders in our country right now. I'm so disappointed our once seemingly strong leaders have become weakened. How our leaders call what is right wrong ... and wrong, right! I'm hurt to see that men and women choose politics and party over Love and Unity. I recently watched Senate hearings and heard Senators use profanity towards another, openly on television without any regards for the children in our country. That use to not be!

I've observed Senators and Congressmen ( Men and Women) who would stand for right, even if, it meant standing alone, they would still Stand. But now, times have changed. Instead of having a backbone, they have developed a wishbone instead. I've observed a businessman, change, once strong men into mice. We brag that our economy is booming economically, and our goal is to make America great again, but our integrity has become bankrupted.

HEAR THIS CLEARLY... No one man in this country is larger than The OFFICE of The President of The United States of America. The OFFICE is much Larger! Good Strong Leaders do not call women Dogs, and use twitter to berate another . Where are the strong leaders? Politics doesn't matter when truth cries to be heard.

I looked at Puerto Rico in wake of Hurricane Maria. Yes, our leadership has failed them. When help is needed,We Should PROVIDE IT.

Brace yourself for this one: Congress stated and I quote: "While they desperately wish they could lend aid and assistance to the U.S. territory of Puerto Rico while it struggles to recover from Hurricane Maria, the fact remains that the island is all the way over there." End Quote! They said more, but reading it pains my heart. Puerto Rico is still part of The USA.

Donald Trump is not the only issue here. He is only a man with a bullhorn in his hand All he has done is expose the racial side of America. He has aided us and the world in seeing that racism is not dead in America. Bigotry and Hatred still remains. Women are treated and talked about with disrespect and used as sexual objects. Even if, a woman comes forth to tell what happened to her in the past, concerning sexual assualts, her word is discredited, not only by men, but even their own gender turns on them. WHY? What has happened to us?, I heard a lawyer for the President say, and I quote: "The truth is not really the truth." End quote...; Remember the initial statement I made at the beginning of this blog? If not, read it again and choose the one you are feeding!

Politics and B.S. can be synonymous.

I believe that people generally good, and will give Strong Follow-Ship when Strong Leadership is present, and driven by Integrity and Honor and Respect for others!!!

Strong leadership promotes unity not separation...

"Wrong does not cease to be wrong because the majority share in it".

~*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*~

~My Best Friend~

2018-08-30T08:46:00.001-07:00

To my best friend... Do you know who you are? If you don't , then maybe, just maybe by the time you finish reading this you will know who you are.

If I could offer you a little advice, this would be it; Don't worry about the future, or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never cross your mind.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth. This knowledge my not be understood until the power and beauty of your youth is faded. Believe me, in years to come, you will look back at pictures of yourself and remember in a way you cannot explain, how much possibility laid before you and how fabulous you really looked. You are not as fat as you imagine. :)

Be careful whose advice you take, but be patient with those who supply it. The best relationships are ---The ones that last, and the ones that are rooted in friendship.

May I add this:There is a battle in every man and woman... Two worlds that exist in each of us... one is evil and anger, and the other is Love and Hope...

You know which one wins?... The one you feed!!! So, my question to you is... Which one are you going to feed?

Know This:

My vow to you is this: to always hold you with tenderness.. And to have the patience that love demands... to be silent when words are not needed. And to speak with love, tenderness and strength, when words are warranted.

I believe its important to know when to be a man or woman of steel ...( to be Firm and Strong) And when to be a man or woman of velvet...( Soft and Sensitive)...

*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*

~Standing Under The Sun~

2018-03-22T11:34:00.001-07:00

This Poem was written by my friend Aruna. Aruna lives in India. I've never met her face to face, but I hope to do so one day. She is a very talented woman that can jot down a poem from her heart at a moments notice. I believe this is the second poem I have posted by Aruna.

many times a person can read what another has written from their heart and honestly feel them. Aruna has the potential to be a tremendous poem writer.

To my friend Aruna, continue writing from your heart and share your words with the world!!!

From My friend to you:

How would you like to stand under the sun with its rays kissing your face....

The dancing gentle breeze ticking your senses....

The air has to say something about you today....

Did you ever give it a try to listen to your inner soul?

The tears of joy rolling like the wondering dolphins in the sea... Up above the sky like your dreams...

Catch them before they are about to vanish.... Squeeze them to blend a beautiful smile and a drive away the pain like never before... .........

Aruna....

"Close your eyes and feel the release of something wonderful"

~Justice For All~

2018-03-14T17:37:00.001-07:00

State, Local and Federal Legislators, what are they doing about gun laws? No one want to stand up and protest our gun laws. Democrats and Republicans continue to fight against each other. Many legislators appear to be afraid to stand up for what is right. The President seems to be out of touch and when he speaks, he speaks with a lack of sincereness and division.

I watch the President's speech today concerning the shooting in Florida, where several teachers and students were killed. I watch the President very closely and it was as though he was reading from a script. Where is the heart of America? Why is the enforcement of gun laws so difficult?

I don't believe that the NRA is our issue. I believe our issues stems from the weakness in the men and women we voted for to uphold the laws and fight for the people who voted for them. I believe that money is not evil, but when greedy men and women are bought out and forced to defend the NRA and it's belief, that is where our real issue lies.

Further more, if we are not please with the way our Senators and Congress men and women are standing, then we have the power to VOTE them OUT!!!

People we can enforce the law. We can enforce the law by OUR VOTE. We need to vote for men and women with Spines, those who are willing to Move beyond political divisions and stand up for right. The persons we voted for, work for us and not for the President or the NRA, etc...

So much time we spend is just lost. Please God, tell us what is right, tell us what is true. I mean there is no justice. The rich win, the poor are powerless. We become... Tired of hearing people lie. And, after a time, we become dead.... We think of ourselves As victims, and we become victims.

We Become Weak. We doubt ourselves, we doubt our beliefs, We doubt our institutions. And we doubt the Law!!!

But if we stand in unity, if we stand in the strength God Almighty has given us, we can help enforce the law by either making the individuals we vote for stand up for right or, once again, we vote them OUT!!!

Our vote is very powerful. Not some book, not some lawyer, not a marble statue in front of our institutions, or the trappings of the court. these are just symbols for our desires to be just. When WE standing in unison for truth and righteousness we become law.

If we are to have faith in justice, we need only to believe in ourselves and act with justice. I truly believe justice is in our heart. So, we need to vote in men and women who have not lost their conviction to be Honest and Fair no matter who opposes them.

Here is a quote: "When honest men and women stand around and do nothing, Evil prevail".

~*These are my thoughts... I Welcome yours*~

~Make Sure Your Steps~

2017-12-29T08:12:00.001-08:00

Sometimes I sit with a heavy heart. I think of things as they are, and imagine how I would like for them to be. I spend lots of time alone and I've adjusted to enjoying my own company. I've found myself feeling alone, even with the presence of people around me. I isolate myself in a crowd mentally and hide myself in my thoughts.

When I attend a meeting, functions or even a restaurant, I usually sit in a position to watch people as they enter. I've discovered that I'm at war within myself. It's a war of thought. This war of thought can be so tiresome, yet challenging. I have mastered placing myself deep into my thoughts. My mind is my Hiding Place ... It is as though I'm in a world that I cannot explain. Yet I find solace as I enter in.

I've made so many mistakes in life. So many wrong decisions. But, I'm still standing and I refuse to give up. I will take my last breath before I lose this war.

But, truth be told, its not about winning or losing. It's about Right and Wrong! And, this statement lead me into the subject of ~*Make Sure Your Steps*~

I, like you, have made decisions that were not so great. And, I've learned that there are costs associated with making ill advised or wrong decision!!! There are things I've discovered a little late in life, but not too late to recover. As long as God allows me to function, I have an opportunity to overcome my mistakes, to be successful and so do you.

My life as of late seemed to have hiccups. I've seen myself in disarray. But I've come to the conclusion that I need God's Peace each moment to accomplish My purpose in life. Regardless of the thoughts in my mind, I truly understand that He created me to be dependent upon Him. To Trust Him in every situation and in every aspect of my life.

For you to ~*Make Sure Your Steps*~ and to succeed in this life there a few things that you must know.

So, lets begin...

Know what you are worth and never settle for a lesser you!
Refuse to believe the negative things people say about you and the negative things you say and think about yourself.
Believe in you (Yourself).
Be Bold and Be Brave. Dare to step out of your comfort zone.
Keep trying and learning and Trusting God with the ability He has giving you!

Ask God for wisdom: The word of God says: The words of the wise bring healing. Proverbs 12:18

Pray and ask The Lord to give you the power needed for the task you are about to enter.
Ask The Lord to show you the right path; to point out the right road for you to follow. Psalms: 25:4

I have come to the realization that the circumstances and the decisions before me are not superior to who God is, no matter how great they are, God is still Superior.

I don't know where you are or what you may or may not be going through, but my advice to you is to Make Sure Your Steps. Follow most, if not all of what I've suggested. By doing that, you will ensure that you are ~*Making Sure Your Steps*~...

...I hope this Makes Sense...

~*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*~

~If The Truth is Ugly ... Then Only a Lie Can Be Beautiful~

2017-12-11T18:17:00.002-08:00

~Our Leadership Today~

We live in a world today where truth is not necessary the goal for many. Lies are becoming the beautiful new truth and the truth is becoming the ugly lie. There was a time when the truth was spoken even if it caused hurt or embarrassment to to person speaking it. But, it seems as though that day is gone. At least for many.

I watch and listen to the news so much until I'm hesitant to turn on my television or radio. Racism, Bigotry, Hatred, Sexual Harassment, Lies, Deceit, Favoritism and Revenge heads up our news.

From the office of The President of the United States of America, it's Congress, Senate and men running for government seats are entering races with blemishes of sexual misconduct hanging over their heads. I, like you, am tired of cowardly politicians who do what's politically expedient instead of what's morally right. Please hear this, injustice done to others because of the color of their skin or their economic status, God will deal with that... TRUST Me!!!

Where does it end? What do we tell our children? is the truth ugly and has a lie become beautiful?

One thing to remember, when a lie is told, you better have a good memory, because if you don't, it will bite you in the butt.

I am also amazed of the memory loss of so many men in leadership roles, when they are questioned concerning certain subjects. But then later, a news flash comes across the T.V. screen, and it is playing a statement made by these men, that came from their mouths. Statements that they have forgotten or selectively refuse to remember.

Listen, it doesn't matter if you are a Democrat, Republican or an Independent... the truth will always surface to the top sooner or later, just like good cream.

When I was in my twenties there was an old Preacher, named Rev. Dunlap. He was speaking at Hunter Hill Missionary Baptist Church in Atlanta, Georgia on this particular Sunday. The title of his sermon: "You Might Get By, But You Will Never Get Away."

I believe that sermon to be true today!!! If you don't believe what I'm Saying, read the book of 1st Kings, chapters 21:1 - 22:40 in there bible. There was a sermon I recall preached by Dr. R.G. Lee over 40 year ago when I first heard it. This sermon is much older than that. The Sermon is titled: "Payday Someday." You can also find that sermon on You Tube.

As I continue to watch the news, and I hear of the women coming forth about sexual misconduct of men in leadership, and they were of object of these men, I can only smile and say Payday has come.

But, Leo Tolstoy said it better: Hear are a few quotes that fit this article:

"Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself".
"The two most powerful warriors are patience and time".
"Though the wheel of God grinds slow, it grinds exceedingly sure, God will make everything right".
"Wrong does not cease to be wrong because the majority share in it".

The sole meaning of life is to serve and obey God and to serve humanity.

JUST A NOTE:
If you are wondering why these women are coming out now to reveal what happened to them years ago, God's timing is always perfect!!!

Things to Ponder:

"Sometimes lies are more dependable than the truth." To some...
"If you don't want to slip up tomorrow, speak the truth today." __Bruce Lee
"The difference between the truth and a lie is that both of them can hurt, but only one will take the time to heal you afterward."

Lastly, There is some truth in a lie that is not seem by most. And, it is about to be revealed in two words: Fear and Cowardliness. Those words are two of lie's main ingredients.

There is power in accepting the truth in who I am and who you are. It may not be a truth that others can accept, but I find it difficult to live any other way. How would it be to live a lie every minute of your life and having to remember the last lie that you told, so you don't slip and tell the truth?

The truth most times is revealed at the wrong time but at the right moment!
Truth never dies!!! And the life of a lie has a time-limit!

~*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*~

~Thinking And Realizing~

2017-09-29T17:35:00.000-07:00

Today I'm sitting and watching the ceiling fan go around and around. And I find myself counting the blades as the fan turns. The time is 02:13AM and I know I should be asleep, but as you can see I'm not. For me this is quiet normal and it shouldn't be!

I discovered that if you want to know the purpose of a thing, you can't ask the thing or expect it to give you answer.

For instance, a car doesn't know it's a car or the features it has or it's ability. The way to know that is to contact the manufacturer or read the owner's manual. I guess that's the way it is with us and God!

God didn't just create us to be a Husbands, Fathers, Wives, Mothers, Sons, or Daughters. Nor to be a friends, Coaches, Drs. Teachers, Etc... Those are just roles that we must attend too and be very good at. However, those roles are not who are as men nor you as a women. They do however aid in defining us as men and women.

Sometimes , I believe God allows life to turn us upside down, so we can learn how to live right-side up. And, when it's all said and done He will prove to be our One True Friend.

Adversity brings about a change in how we live and the things we do. I've learned that I must die to my old way before I can start something new. A Caterpillar is a great example: It craws on it's belly until its time for that life-cycle to end. Then one day, the caterpillar stops eating, hangs upside down from a twig or leaf and spins itself a silky cocoon and it stays there until it's old life is over and the new life of flight has begun. It no longer crawls eating dust. It now flies, soaring higher than before.

I don't believe God close His eyes, but I do believe He allows us to stumble and even fall. But you know what, He always help us find a way to get right back up. My life has had many twists and turns, ups and downs and I've made lots of mistakes; God knows all of them. I consider myself successful, because I believe God knew that I would learn from my mistakes. Even during this particular time when I became very angry with Him and left Him standing as I move away from Him. He stayed close to me knowing that I would return home and back to Him.

God's love never dies no matter what. He Cares for each of us. Regardless of what you're going through in life, know that God's help is right next to you. Two simple words you can always utter when you can't say nothing else and they are Help Lord!!!

**What's in your life that keeps holding you back from knowing Him personally?**

I could go on, but I choose not too. However, I hope these few words help you in some sort of way!

~*Jesus is Truly the Way, the Truth and the Life*~

These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours!!!

~Anger and It's Dangers~

2017-09-25T09:06:00.001-07:00

We all been angry and we've said things that we had never parted our lips. However, words never die, they linger and what's in your heart will eventually come from your mouth. The tongue in your mouth no matter how small can destroy a person, for life. Read: Proverbs: 21:23; Ephesians: 4:29; Proverbs: 15:1.

As a believer, it is important to understand that you can have moments of anger and still remain right with God. But anger that hovers around in your heart can lead to an opportunity for Satan to enter. The devil uses justification in our thought process... He whispers thoughts in our minds by telling us "I wouldn't take that. Who does he or she think they are. You need to let them have a piece of your mind." These types of thoughts allows Satan the opportunity to setup a stronghold in your life. The word of God lets us know that it is an unwise person who allows anger to setup residence in your heart (Ecclesiastes 4:9).

We shouldn't except the devil's strongholds in our lives. More importantly, instead of responding to provocations negatively, which gives it fuel to burn, we should respond with forgiveness as the Lord has forgives each of us. If you have resentment, hatred, dislike or anger in your heart, you cannot come before God to find any type of justification for holding on to these things. The best antidote for these actions is to release it at once by having forgiveness in your heart! Please read: (Psalms 66:18 NIV) and (Proverbs 28:13).

It's very important that we shield ourselves by acknowledging these types of emotions and irritants that we allow to enter our hearts. So, when someone says something to you that you don't like, remember this: (Help Lord) ...The Word of God makes it plain; that as we pray and seek His face, He makes us "quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger" (James 1:19-20 NIV). This create good fruit and this permits the fruit of the Sprit to flourish in the area of self control.

Harboring anger produces bad fruit. which produces very dangerous emotions. We must take the right approach to anger. Stand and fight anger with the word of God and a Desiring heart to walk in obedience. You can forsake anger by walking in the spirit of forgiveness!!!

*~These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*~

~The Chess Games of Relationships~

2017-09-17T13:27:00.003-07:00

I enjoy talking with people and asking questions. Some people I have conversations with simply voluntarily divulge information. I had the pleasure of speaking with man on the subject of having an affair. I often visit Starbucks and I watch facial expressions. This particular guy and I would periodically engage in conversations. Sometimes I can sense if someone is going through a situation. Well he began to talk and conversation ensued. Here is the end result as he shared his heart, which was full of regrets!

Many affairs begin as innocent as two people simply connecting. They may work together, or have become acquainted via church or school, etc. And, if your guard is not intact and your boundaries are not set, a new relationship can become activated and cause you to get involved in an entanglement you just might regret!

The amount of time you spend with that person, via social media, phone or face to face, you may discover a little to late that you have entered into an emotional affair. Affairs does not have to end in a physical relationship, but, it can be as detrimental as entering into the eye of an Hurricane, because both can lead to the death of something or someone, either emotionally of physically. Including a relationship.

Again: Emotional relationships can creep up on you and before you realize it, it has slammed you not only in your face, but also in the heart.

Eye contact is made, interest develop, a conversation began... History is recorded. Once again, this damage begins with curiosity, sharing personal, deep information that should be kept between two people that love each other. Emotional relationship develops attachments of the heart and can lead elsewhere!

If you've ever played or understand the game of Chess, then you should understand this:
Affairs are like a game of chess --- everyone is aiming to capture the Queen or King that isn't theirs, and if your opponent is worthy, she or he can make it past the pawns. Heck, she or he may even make it past your Knights. But every woman's last hedge of protection is her King. Now the minute the King and Queen starts taking each other for granted the opposition slides down or opens up.

The pawns seems harmless at first, but they can bring down the whole kingdom of a relationship, layer by layer.

Listen: Emotional betrayals cuts deeply into the heart of any relationship!!!

These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours

~Hope ... In The Fullness Of Time~

2017-09-16T20:23:00.000-07:00

Hope is a word that has a very powerful meaning. It is a word that gives each of a sense of security that something good will come out of a tragedy or bad news. Note that the word of God states: (Psalms: 112:7) "He will not fear bad news; His heart is steadfast, trusting in the Lord."

In my years of living, I've discovered that God does nothing haphazardly or half-way! Every plan that God has is predetermined and carefully carried out at the precise time. Based on history, the present and the future, this statement holds true... All of God's plans are executed at the precise time.

This I know to be very true, God has a specific plan for each of us who desire His will to be performed in our lives. He works precisely to accomplish His will and goals in each of us, who believes in His word. Not only did He ordain the day of our birth, He also know what each day holds for us, as well as the length of time we will live on this earth. Life is truly a gift from God!

Even though all of God's plans are good , the only way you and I will see His purpose fulfilled in our lives is to fully, completely submit our lives to Him. He gave us a promise: (Roman 8:28 NKJV) "All things work together for good to them who love Him and to them who are called according to His purpose".

Then God also said: Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV) "I know the thoughts I think towards you, says the Lord. Thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope".

My question to you is this: Do you truly trust God? Are you allowing Him to have his way in your life?

{Everything becomes full Circle in the Fullness of Time}

*~These are my thoughts ... I welcome your yours*~

~A Purpose for Adversity~

2017-09-15T08:56:00.001-07:00

Adversity for many appears to be a tragedy for most! As humans we do not like adversity. We like it most when things go smoothly, without incidents! But, that is not the way the human life is to be lived or can be lived... As a matter of fact, it is clearly impossible to live in a world without facing uncertainty, doubt, confusion and for sure, Fear!

I honestly believe that adversity comes to make us strong. Struggle is necessary. When I was around 19 years old, I heard a story between two men. They were out hunting and one found a cocoon. If I may, I will give the men names. Lets call one James and the other John. James decided to take the cocoon home and he sat it on his dresser. The Moth in the cocoon began struggling too gain freedom. James decided to cut the cocoon to make it easier for the Moth to gain freedom. Finally the Moth gained it's freedom, but being fully grown, it couldn't fly.

James and John met again for another hunting expedition. During their conversation, John ask James "how the Moth in the cocoon was progressing". James answered by saying " when the Moth came out and though it was fully grown it couldn't fly". John ask, "what did you do?" James replied "I cut the cocoon to make it easier for it to gain freedom."

It was at the time John told James, The struggle in the cocoon for the Moth was necessary to build up the strength in the Moth's wings to carry the weight of his body, but because you (James) cut the cocoon you handicapped it for life. It will never fly"! ...I hope this story makes sense too you.

The essence of this story is to help you understand that adversity is necessary for our strength and growth. It makes us stronger to face the next challenge. It allows us the opportunity to tell ourselves, "I've been here before and I know I can make it".

There was a little old lady that taught me in a bible class. Her name was Mother Ruth Lindsey! We called her Mother Lindsey. She had a saying that went like this. "The world is a school room, but experience is the best teacher." How true this statement truly is! Experience teaches us a whole lot!

The great thing is that God is always with us. Jesus promised never to leave us nor forsake us. Please take the time to read: Psalms: 37:23-28 and Psalms 112:7. Hold these scriptures close to your heart. They will be a present help in the time of need! One DAY...

~*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours and your comments*~

~Letting Go~ Part II

2017-09-14T12:00:00.000-07:00

Letting go is a subject that pains many of us, or is it? We've all been in situations where a choice needed to be made to either stay or let go. this is true in jobs, relationships, Etc! However, for many of us letting go just may be the easy part, its the moving on part that maybe the most difficult and painful.

Sometimes we fight hoping to keep things as they were. But, predicated on the situation, things cannot remain the same. There is a point where you just have to let go and move on, because regardless of the pain, you have to let go and move on; thats the only way to grow and learn to live and except your new flight in life.

As you move on know this, you must forgive what has happened in the past. It must be over and done with! You must learn to release and let go. Don't hold a negative memory of what happened or against anyone. It makes you small and this can sometimes lead to hatred. Trust me, you do not what hatred to ever set into your heart. We are all continuing to change and I hope for the better.

Listen, often enough in a relationship, one of you are going to be put in the spotlight to make a decision to stay or moving on and let go. Either way it goes, that decision will either make both of you or break one of you. So please make the right decision if you are ever in this situation. Don't result to trying to hurt each other either physically or emotionally!

~~~Love and Forgiveness Conquers All~~~

~*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*~

~Man ~ Woman & History~

2017-09-13T20:47:00.000-07:00

I remember back in the day how my mom depended on my dad to provide a living for us. Every Thursday my father was paid. Bills got paid and food and other necessities were purchased. Well, for whatever the reason my dad and mom no longer liked each other and my day left us. Thus my mom became an independent woman, fighting to keep a roof over our heads, clothes on our backs and food in our stomachs. By the way, it was six (6) of us and seven counting my mom.

Thus birth the discussion ~*The Man ~ Woman & History*~:

History tells us that men have aways been measured by how hard they work, cultivated, create and how well they protected and provided for their wife and children. In older days, whether men realized it of not, they were seen as conquerers, providers and in some instances as heroes in the eyes of their wives and children.

But somewhere along the way that changed. Women started to become their own heroes and more and more independent. Maybe because their men or (man) forgot to be relic because they (some women) no longer cared to be protected anymore or maybe women had to become their own heroes and providers because of the pain they had to endure in life, by the man (men) they loved! I'm certain when men began to falter on their responsibilities, women became insecure. And, I believe the fight instinct that God instilled in them pushed forward.

Many women because of their situation, and maybe what they saw as young girls made them see the light of needing an education to better themselves as individuals and to prepare themselves as independent women, for just in case!

Whatever the cause or reason, something took away a man's reason for being a man or providers and protectors for their families. Or, He (The Man) gave it away because of reasons even he can't explain. But we know that someone or something told him he was no longer as important anymore and when that happened, it turned the world upside down!

Now we see women as CEO's of mega corporations. Board members of major companies, Super moms because they have become the bread winner in their homes. I don't dare criticize women's accomplishments. I take my hat off and give them a bow because they have persevered through rough terrain to get to where they are today.

Women are Strong, Enduring, Nurturing, Comforting and, are Positive influences. God made them that way. Men pushed them to fight a good fight to burst through Victoriously.

Congratulations Women!!! You Are My Personal Heroes. I thank God for my Mother ... (Jessie Louise (Pat) Edwards! She did a wonderful job for me and my siblings!

There is so much more we can say on this subject....... But not now. To be revisited!!!

~*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*~

{The Struggles of Life}~

2017-09-04T09:35:00.001-07:00

~*Sometimes Struggles is a necessary fight for New Life*~

Struggle is a word and situation we are all familiar with! But what is struggle: Struggle is "a forceful or violent effort to get free of restraint or resist attack".

What is the most important struggle you've ever had to deal with? Whatever it is or was Don't be so quick to label that struggle as the hardest or the most important one.

Some of you may feel that the most important struggle is to find the most important quality in the man or woman you're going to marry. Their ability to handle situations, their ability to make you laugh, is he or she reliable, trust-worthy, are they handsome enough or is she pretty enough. Can he take care of or support a family? We don't think that beauty fades, careers end, children grow-up, and move away, spouses get sick, struggles happen, family members die, senility sets in when you're sometimes, but the ability to smile and even laugh each and every day is the most precious gift God can give you to get you through all of what you may be going through!

I honestly believe that struggles are necessary to build up emotional strength and trust in God and the ability He has given us fight.

Sometimes struggles can be violent. Yet we must be violent enough in a good way to take what we need by force. That statement I would love to explain if you don't understand. So, if you request an explanation, just ask send me a request and I will be happy to explain! :)

These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours

~What's In A Thought~

2017-03-18T15:17:00.000-07:00

I come to realize that silence is very loud especially when it is accompanied with thoughts.

Believe it or not, but we live and breathe words. Mahatma Gandhi stated: "A man is a product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes". You will have to be the judge of that statement as it relates to you.

At this point, I remind myself of some of the most remarkable people in my life. These people that I know are no doubt some of the same people in your life. You know them as Parents, Grand-Parents, aunts and uncles, sisters, brothers, teachers and lastly friendships!

Our thoughts can lead us down a downward path or on an upward spiral!

In thoughts we find answers to many issues and problems that plagues us and mankind as a whole. For sure we cannot help ourselves or the world upon which we live with negative thoughts or belittling others. However, positive things can be accomplished by hard work, humility, faith and hope in mankind and ultimate trust in God!

My advice to myself and to you is this; Stay mentally alert to everything that goes on around you; be curious, imaginative and observant. Strive to increase the range of the eyes and ears, and take time to listen, and understand. I believe its through a growing awareness that a person can and will succeed!

Remember, thoughts can be our enemy as well as an asset to each of us. The Bible states in Proverbs 23:7(a)... "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he". So, think positive thoughts. It doesn't necessarily matter where you live, but how you live. Viewing the pictures above, your thoughts and attitude can place you in poverty or place you in a High-Rise in Manhattan. Thoughts can lift you from depression into a life of joy and happiness and excitement!

Thoughts can be your friend or they can be your enemy!!!

This I know personally; therefore, I make my mind my friend and not allow it to be my enemy!

Which do you choose?

Live through a clean and positive mind, filled with positive and beautiful thoughts! I say this because we are snared (entrapped) by the words we speak and the thoughts we think... So again, Be, Speak and Think positive!

Time waits for no one; so continue pressing until you reach the highest possible goal. Through thoughts you will play many roles in your life, so act your part well. Be a star performer and pursue the tasks that God has placed in your life. If things seems hopeless before you, just know that it is just another challenge to overcome!!! ... God sees everything!!!

Lastly, The world, more than ever before is in need for enlightened, responsible men and women ... boys and girls with quality leadership. Leadership that involves integrity, moral soundness, honesty of purpose and courage of conviction enrooted in knowledge, understanding and dedication to the welfare of others.

Even more ... Our government is in need of the same, in a Desperate Way!

I can not control how you interpret this writing any more than I can control what you think of me...

~*These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours*~

~A Man's Worth~

2017-01-14T12:33:00.000-08:00

I don't have the right and neither do you to say anything that will hurt, degrade or diminish a man in his own eyes nor in the eyes of others. What truly matters is what that man thinks of himself. However, the purpose of this writing is not to elaborate on that, but to ask a question.

How do you as a man value yourself? how do you determine your true net worth? Is money the determining factor of your worth, if not what is?

Many men value their worth based on the money they have stored up in the banks or the amount they carry in their wallets. If this is the basis of your net worth then your true net worth has been somewhat mis-understood!

I like to think that most men are generally good. I believe if he acts on integrity and do right he will be successful in all he does. And I believe that every man has a purpose.

But the question is still: How much is a man worth?

Wealth is not measured by money alone, but by the kind of love he has around him at the end of the day. Because its that love that gives him the will to fight, to fight for something better than what he had since the day he was born!

I trust this writing makes sense to you...

~~~These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours~~~

~You Do What You Are~

2017-01-14T12:32:00.001-08:00

People often are what they do. But in this writing I want to change that old cliche' and say, You do what you are! To be yourself in a world that is constantly changing and molding people into it's likeness is a great accomplishment.

Like I said, You do what you are. You are born with a gift. If Not that , then you get good at something along the way. And, what you are good at you don't take it for granted, you don't betray it. And, if you betray your gift, that you betray yourself, that is sad!

So, who are you? What is your God given gift? Do you know, have your sought it out? If not, you need too. Because as I said, you do what you are. Look at what you do on a regular basis and determine. If what you do, you don't like then work on a change. But know this, every God given gift is GOOD!

You are an individual. Find out what makes you unique and allow God to develop it in you. Refuse to run with everyone else and set yourself apart. To be different can be a great thing.

Don't be afraid of who you are or the gift you posses.

Sense you do what you are, make sure you are good to the bone. Because then and only then --- You doing what you are indicates you are a good individual.

~~~These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours~~~

~Let the Sun Shine through~

2016-12-29T13:17:00.000-08:00

As I write this, my mind recalls the little girls in Africa who were abducted and raped. Some even became mothers during their abduction. I think about the young children that can no longer play unattended in their own yard in fear of some rapist or pedophile attacking them.

I remember back in the 50's and 60's when young men were drafted to the arm forces. Many left afraid of the unknown and some didn't return. These young left home to fight a war they knew nothing about. Some returned returned blind, no arms, one leg or no leg at all. And for what?

Why do these things have to happen? Why don't we allow the sun to once again shine and reflect the rays of love that once existed?

Everybody knows, when little children play, they need a sunny days to grow straight and strong and our job is to let the sun shine through. Yes, I do believe the windows of the world are covered with rain; I also wonder when will the black skies turn blue again?

Think on this: The world is going through a storm right now. I know because I hear and see the results of on going wars! But, it is during the storm that we learn the lesson. We have a choice to let these storms make us or break us. We all need to take time to reflect on our choices in life. Many times we create our own storms by the choices we make individually and as a country.

I remember when boys grew into men, we started to wonder when our country would call. Please allow me to say this, we all know when men can't be friends, their quarrels often end in wars and the result is some has to die. We must let the sun shine through on our attitudes and dislikes and hatreds!

I've heard that whenever rain appears, it's really angel's tears ... How long must they cry?

Lastly, I Pray that racism will end, hate will turn to love, people will learn to live together, children can be children again!

I've never seem white, black, brown or green blood. The only color blood any of us has ever seen is RED! So, Why can't we live together and... Let the Sun Shine Through...

Lets all JOIN together and put an end to Terrorism, Hate and Racism!!!

!!!Let The Sun Shine Through!!!

~I trust this reading made sense to you~

When Disturbing News Come

2016-12-25T03:35:00.000-08:00

I refuse to be shaken or fall into disarray when bad news comes. I will not let a bad report effect my joy or rob me of my peace of heart and mind! I will not allow bad news to discourage me or cause me to become afraid or fall into a fearful mode.

I know that God has a plan to overcome every difficult situation. Whether it be poor health, a death or a lack of finances. Adversity will not defeat my life or cause me to fail in any category of my life. Whats going on in my life and your life is no surprise to God. I know God will always make a way, where there seems to be no way. I cast every issue of my life on the Lord and you should do the same. Please read (1st Peter 5:7).

I Will not worry, fear, or allow anxious thoughts to trouble me. God's Holy Spirit gives me insight, wisdom, and favor to navigate through this and all of my adversities!

God is my provider, my deliverer, and my strong tower, as describe in (Psalm 18:2 and Psalm 144:2). I've learned to live independent of circumstances. The Holy Spirit gives me clear and specific directions concerning what I should do.

Our Lord Jesus has promised never to leave me or forsake me. Therefore, I will not let my heart be troubled. I will trust in God and I will boast in His Word! What the enemy has meant for evil, God will turn it into my good. I will patiently wait and see the salvation of the Lord.

As you can see, this was written in the first person. So, when you read this, see yourself and read this in the same manner. No Matter What the issue is in your life ... The victory has already been won! Refocus your thinking!

Sometimes I have to write words down and read them in order to see whats being said in my mind and then apply it to my life.

I trust this writing help you as much as it has helped me

~Circumstances and Despair~

2016-12-03T08:04:00.000-08:00

There are some old familiar acquaintances that I wish not to rekindle a relationship with. It has been several years since I've seem these old nemesis. And, reuniting with him was not my choice!

Circumstances in my life recently changed and it cause a reunion. This reunion was not one I wanted to reunite with. These are people I knew slightly, and who are not close friends. But if you are weak these persons will control who you are, where you are going, and the way you feel.

The names of these people are are Circumstances and Despair. Yes, you heard right, Circumstances and Despair. There is a quote that says: "Circumstances are the rulers of the weak; they are but the instruments of the wise."

I believe the boldest and bravest thing a person can do, is continue moving forward in life when they have the notion and desire to give up, due to their circumstances.

I don't care what happens in life, no matter difficult or troubling things seem to get, DO NOT enter the world of despair. I don't care if every window, door or entrance is closed on you, God will open a door or window or entrance just for you!!! Don't stop, Don't quit, Do give-up! Be gracious and thankful, you were the chosen one! Because it could have been someone you deeply love that fell into a relationship with Circumstances and Despair, and they may not have been as strong as you to overcome, and may have taken the short path out ... and killed themselves. So, be glad its you and not them!

In Everything gives thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you!

Remember, you can loose it all, except one thing, Your freedom. Your freedom to choose your attitude in a given set of circumstances. You can always choose the right door to walk through.

Also remember, words are very powerful; so use positives words when you are having difficulties in your life. Sometimes walking from an issue is, in order; but walking away from an issue/circumstance is not giving up on life, you're just moving on to something more productive!

I trust all of this makes sense to you!!!

Don't be the person who always blames his or her circumstances for where they are, and who the have become. Don't trust circumstances to validate who and where you are!

Fight, and Fight... and when you are done fighting to strive to be a success; continue to fight and persevere to help your brother and sister. Regardless of Race, Creed or Color! Because all of our blood is RED...

~These are my thoughts ... I welcome you comments~

~Choose~

2016-12-03T08:03:00.000-08:00

{Which seat do you choose?}

There are so many truths concerning life. I believe we should find certain truths that pertain to us as individuals, making them principles by which we live.

The human face can mislead in thousand different ways, but the eyes never change. Therefore, I always start with a person eyes. You see, eyes don't lie. I view the eyes as the open window pertaining to the status or condition of a person's heart and mind. This is strange, but sometimes you can look into a person's eyes and see yourself. Not from the mirroring glare, but the hidden you that you withhold from others.

Sometimes I feel like I live in a city of mirrors.

There are so many things that are important in life. But, sometimes prioritizing those things can sometimes be very difficult. However, this is what I've come to understand; life is too short to waste any amount of time wondering what other people think about me. Besides, if they had better things going on in their own lives, they wouldn't have time sitting around talking about me.

Whats important to me, is not others' opinion of me, but my opinion of myself. Not being concerned of what others think of us is very difficult sometimes. I guess its fair to say, the first things we learn are the hardest to forget.

However, the person in this life that you will always be with the most, is yourself. Even, when you are with others or in a crowd, you are still with yourself, too! So, while other's opinions can affect us, my opinion of myself should matter most.

Our time here is limited and no one should waste time living someone else's life. There is a term called dogma, which is actually living the results of other people's thinking. Remember, you have an inner voice, don't let the noise of other people drown out your inner voice!

Marianne Williamson stated this:

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

So, be the man and woman, boy and girl God has equipped you to be. Never attempt to be anyone except yourself. Trust God with all your decisions and be obedient when He advises you as to which way you should go.

I hope these few words help shape your destiny. Dare to be different...

~Your feedback on this subject is greatly appreciated~

~From within~

2016-11-15T13:36:00.001-08:00

I believe that the best things arise from within. I believe people are afraid because of two reasons. 1: They are unaware of their inner strength and 2nd: they have yet to learn how to rely on and trust in God!

Hear is God's Hidden plan for you: First you need to understand that God has a hidden plan for you that He wants to make you aware of. God said "I know the plans that I am planning for you, saith the Lord, plans of welfare, and not calamity, to give you end and expectations". In other words God's plan is to prosper you and give you hope and a future. (Jeremiah 29:11)

What we call a process, God calls an end!

If you and I can stay in the midst of the all the turmoil, chaos, circumstances and issues in your life and can remain unperplexed and calm because you see Jesus, that's God's purpose in your life; not that you may be able to say "I've done this or that and now all is well". God's purpose for you, is that you depend upon Him and His power now. That you see Him walking on waves-No shore or land in sight, no success , just absolute certainty that it is alright because you see Him. Remember, God is everywhere, He is in everything. My study today vape from Mark 6: 45-52. Relating back to the feeding of the multitude. A question to ponder: when chaos hits, turmoil is boiling, trouble is surrounding you, are you calm, are you unperplexed because you see Jesus in the midst or are you in disarray?

God loves you so much. Learn to trust Him in the midst of all of your concerns. When things are falling apart.

I've learn that its okay to be disappointed, just don't give up!!!

These are my thoughts, I welcome yours

... When love is Strong ...

2016-10-19T12:06:00.002-07:00

There is a quote and I do not remember where I heard this. But here it is: " True love cannot be found where it does not truly exists, nor can it be hidden where it truly does".

E.E. Cummings wrote this:

“I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart)I am never without it (anywhere

I go you go,my dear; and whatever is done by only me is your doing,my darling)

I fear no fate (for you are my fate,my sweet) I want no world (for beautiful you are my world,my true)

and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant and whatever a sun will always sing is you

here is the deepest secret nobody knows (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows ... higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)

and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart ... (I carry it in my heart)”

― E.E. Cummings

I trust you've enjoyed the reading...

...The person you do not see...

2016-06-19T21:01:00.001-07:00

There is a twilight zone in our hearts that we ourselves cannot see. Even when we know quite a lot about ourselves-our gifts and weaknesses, our ambitions and aspirations, our motives and our drives-large parts of ourselves remain in the shadow of consciousness. This is a very good thing.

We will always remain partially hidden to ourselves. Other people, especially those who love us, can often see our twilight zones better than we ourselves can. The way we are seen and understood by others is different from the way we see and understand ourselves. We will never fully know the significance of our presence in the lives of our friends.

That's a grace, a grace that calls us not only to humility, but to a deep trust in those who love us. It is the twilight zones of our hearts where true friendships are born.

Moving forward:

I have lived a long life, and I have seen a few things. I walked away from from situations that were detrimental to me. I have seen things you wouldn't believe, I have lost things you will never understand. And I know things, secrets that must never be told, knowledge that must never be spoken.

Lastly,,,,,,, I know this does not appear to have a meaning or a purpose, But:This is my problem. I want other people to tell me how they feel. But I'm not so sure I want to return the favor. Color me selfish or not knowing how!

...~These are my thoughts ... I welcome yours~...

Where Information Lives!!!

~*The Dangers of Temptations *~~~* To Compromise*~

~*Where Are They Now*~

~*My Best Friend*~

~*Standing Under The Sun*~

~*Justice For All*~

~*Make Sure Your Steps*~

~*If The Truth is Ugly ... Then Only a Lie Can Be Beautiful*~

~*Thinking And Realizing*~

~*Anger and It's Dangers*~

~*The Chess Games of Relationships*~

~*Hope ... In The Fullness Of Time*~

~*A Purpose for Adversity*~

~*Letting Go*~ Part II

~*Man ~ Woman & History*~

{*The Struggles of Life*}~

~*What's In A Thought*~

~~~A Man's Worth~~~

*~You Do What You Are~*

~~~Let the Sun Shine through~~~

~~When Disturbing News Come~~

~Circumstances and Despair~

~~~Choose~~~

Marianne Williamson stated this:

~From within~

... When love is Strong ...

*...The person you do not see...*

~The Dangers of Temptations ~~~* To Compromise*~

~Where Are They Now~

~My Best Friend~

~Standing Under The Sun~

~Justice For All~

~Make Sure Your Steps~

~If The Truth is Ugly ... Then Only a Lie Can Be Beautiful~

~Thinking And Realizing~

~Anger and It's Dangers~

~The Chess Games of Relationships~

~Hope ... In The Fullness Of Time~

~A Purpose for Adversity~

~Letting Go~ Part II

~Man ~ Woman & History~

{The Struggles of Life}~

~What's In A Thought~

~A Man's Worth~

~You Do What You Are~

~Let the Sun Shine through~

When Disturbing News Come

~Choose~

...The person you do not see...