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20 Quotes on COMMUNICATION in Business and in Life!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 11:45:00 +0000

Dear Why Annie Armen Readers,

May you find these select 20 quotes on COMMUNICATION purposeful and empowering, adding productive value in your lives, both personally and professionally!

Once you’ve had an opportunity to read through all 20 quotes, please take a moment to share your thoughts (in the comments section) to the question posted at the end of this article. Thank You...

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1.     “The single biggest problem in COMMUNICATION is the illusion that it has taken place.” ~George Bernard Shaw

2.     “COMMUNICATION - the human connection - is the key to personal and career success.” ~Paul J. Meyer

3.   “Good COMMUNICATION does not mean that you have to speak in perfectly formed sentences and paragraphs. It isn't about slickness. Simple and clear go a long way.”
~John Kotter

4. “The most important thing in COMMUNICATION is to hear what isn't being said.”
~Peter Drucker

5.     “The real art of CONVERSATION is not only to say the right thing at the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.” ~Dorothy Nevill

6.     “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” ~Epictetus

7.     “The most important things are the hardest to say, because WORDS diminish them.” ~Stephen King

8.     “Every criticism, judgment, diagnosis, and expression of anger is the tragic EXPRESSION of an unmet need.” ~Marshall Rosenberg

9.     "Developing excellent COMMUNICATION skills is absolutely essential to effective leadership. The leader must be able to share knowledge and ideas to transmit a sense of urgency and enthusiasm to others. If a leader can't get a message across clearly and motivate others to act on it, then having a message doesn't even matter."
~Gilbert Amelio, President and CEO of National Semiconductor Corp.

10.    "Precision of COMMUNICATION is important, more important than ever, in our era of hair trigger balances, when a false or misunderstood word may create as much disaster as a sudden thoughtless act." ~James Thurber

11.    “Civilization grew in the beginning from the minute that we had COMMUNICATION -- particularly communication by sea that enabled people to get inspiration and ideas from each other and to exchange basic raw materials.” ~Thor Heyerdahl

12. “Think like a wise man but COMMUNICATE in the language of the people.”
~William Butler Yeats

13. “COMMUNICATION does not depend on syntax, or eloquence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional context in which the message is being heard. People can only hear you when they are moving toward you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them.” ~Edwin H. Friedman

14. “One kind WORD can warm three winter months.” ~Japanese Proverb

15. “Deep LISTENING is miraculous for both listener and speaker. When someone receives us with open-hearted, non-judging, intensely interested listening, our spirits expand.” ~Sue Patton Thoele

16. “Music . . . can name the unnameable and COMMUNICATE the unknowable.”
~Leonard Bernstein

17. “COMMUNICATION works for those who work at it.” ~John Powell

18. “COMMUNICATION can't always follow the top-down model. With the fluidity of information in business today, leaders need to be masterful listeners; they need to be able to receive as well as send.” ~Joseph Badaracco

19. “COMMUNICATION leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.” ~Rollo May

20. “A good CONVERSATIONALIST is not one who remembers what was said, but says what someone wants to remember.” ~John Mason Brown

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Question for Why Annie Armen Readers:

Recently, I read somewhere these words... "Most people know how to communicate"...
Do you find this statement to be true? Why or why not?

Look forward to reading your comments!

~Annie Armen

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Has Media put a Spell on you? -- Tribute to Whitney Houston and Michael Jackson

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 11:30:00 +0000

“I don't like it when they [media critics] see me as this little person who doesn't know what to do with herself -- like I have no idea what I want, like I'm just a puppet . . . . That's demeaning to me, because that ain't how it is, and it never was.” ~Whitney Houston (August 09, 1963 – February 11, 2012)

"Speculate to break the one you hate. Circulate the lie you confiscate. Assassinate and mutilate as the hounding media in hysteria..." ~Michael Jackson (August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009)

Has Media put a Spell on you?

Dedicating this article to music giants -- Michael Jackson, Whitney Houston, Etta James and various others, who have paid a price, unknown to ALL of us, in order to remain authentic to their vision, to their calling as true, "non-conforming" artists!

The music industry and the world has suffered a tragic loss when an authentic artist has come and gone... Therefore, it is so important that we, as human beings, do not take the role of judges, but rather choose to practice compassion and respect for the timeless legacy each has left behind!

"Just because you read it in a magazine, or see it on the TV screen, don't make it factual!" ~Michael Jackson

Dear friends, before you allow media to put a spell on you, please read the lyrics below to Michael Jackson's song called, Tabloid Junkie, taken from his "HIStory" album. Regardless of what you and I may think or believe we know ... artists who are in the public eye day in and day out, are the ones who genuinely KNOW what they speak of out of real, everyday experiences!

Therefore, if one is curious and looking for truth... I find it important to show our respect to artists by reviewing ALL sides of the stories reported... including especially, hearing the artist's music and reading through their lyrics. This is the least we can do, not only as compassionate, understanding human beings, but also as beings of intelligence.

Lyrics to Michael Jackson's Song, Tabloid Junkie (HIStory Album)
Michael's message will live on!

"Speculate to break the one you hate
Circulate the lie you confiscate
Assassinate and mutilate
As the hounding media in hysteria
Who's the next for you to resurrect
JFK exposed the CIA
Truth be told the grassy knoll
As the blackmail story in all your glory

It's slander
You say it's not a sword
But with your pen you torture men
You'd crucify the Lord
And you don't have to read it, read it
And you don't have to eat it, eat it
To buy it is to feed it, feed it
So why do we keep foolin' ourselves

Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
Though everybody wants to read all about it
Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual, actual
They say he's homosexual

In the hood
Frame him if you could
Shoot to kill
To blame him if you will
If he dies sympathize
Such false witnesses
Damn self righteousness
In the black
Stab me in the back
In the face
To lie and shame the race
Heroine and Marilyn
As the headline stories of
All your glory

It's slander
With the words you use
You're a parasite in black and white
Do anything for news
And you don't go and buy it, buy it
And they won't glorify it, 'fy it
To read it sanctifies it, 'fies it
Then why do we keep foolin' ourselves
Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
Everybody wants to read all about it
Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
See, but everybody wants to believe all about it

Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
See, but everybody wants to believe all about it
Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual, actual
She's blonde and she's bisexual

Scandal
With the words you use
You're a parasite in black and white
Do anything for news
And you don't go and buy it, buy it
And they won't glorify it, 'fy it
To read it sanctifies it, 'fies it
Why do we keep foolin' ourselves
Slander
You say it's not a sin
But with your pen you torture men
Then why do we keep foolin' ourselves

Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
Though everybody wants to read all about it
Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
See, but everybody wants to read all about it

Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual
Just because you read it in a magazine
Or see it on the TV screen
Don't make it factual, actual
You're so damn dis-respectable"

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With love and respect to all fellow musicians and artists, who work tirelessly to create music for the world!

~Annie Armen

Communicate Anyway!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Sun, 05 Feb 2012 08:00:00 +0000

"It takes TWO hands to clap to the symphony of life, so Communicate Anyway!"
~Annie Armen (I dedicate this piece to my International Circle of Professionals,
Artists, and Friends ... Personal Message further below)

When Does Real, Mutual "Communication" Occur?

"The most important thing in 'communication' is hearing what isn't being said."
~Peter Drucker

Allow me to paint the picture in this manner...

Imagine for a moment you are at a concert where various classical pianists are about to perform. The first pianist (Pianist #1) plays with all his heart and soul. From the moment he strikes the ivory keys with a dissonant chord, the conflicting sound heard, sends chills up your spine leaving you fully engaged, in a state of mystery and intrigue.

Then, when the tension eases into melodic harmony, you can feel and instantly relate to the various emotional layers and undertones within his heart, as he opens his soul to you through his music and takes you on a personal journey with him, "communicating" feelings of happiness, sadness, intense passion, anger, loneliness, and sudden moments of silence, by applying purposeful dynamics through crescendos, decrescendos, pianissimos, and fortes -- leaving you on the edge, as you storm through intrinsic emotions, glued to your seat, with anticipation for what's next.

At that moment, you feel as though you are watching a movie, where YOU are the main actor/actress, emotionally experiencing moments of your life flashing by. Has this happened to you?

Continuing... with this particular performer, you are so in tune with his playing, that your ears, eyes, mind, heart, spirit, soul, and body are completely connected with every note played, as if he is speaking directly from your core being ...as if you and the pianist are mutually "communicating" as one in the same -- exciting, real, meaningful, memorable, and timeless! Dear friend... when was the last time you experienced real, mutual "communication" like this, whether personally, musically, or professionally?

So you ask yourself, "How can that be? How can a complete stranger know what you are feeling within, and be able to 'communicate' your feelings through his music without ever having met you?"

When Pianist #1 ends his performance, you then find yourself unable to let go, loudly applauding for an encore, while feeling disappointed within that the music, in essence your personal story was interrupted, much like conversations left unfinished.

However, there is nothing you can do... the next performer is already walking up the stage...

Pianist #2, unlike the first performer, technically plays by the script in perfection, without missing a note ... without missing a beat... almost like a human machine ... however, without soulful feeling. You can appreciate his work in mind, but completely find yourself disconnected in heart, and perhaps even confused. In other words, as a listener, you can hear the notes being played... much like hearing and watching a technical Powerpoint presentation during a seminar for example, but you are unable to feel, relate to, and connect with the music, with the performer's heart, with the composer's purpose behind the composition. Is there real, mutual "communication" here?

Now .... Rewinding Back to the Original Question
When does real, mutual "communication" occur?

Answer: When the message shared is felt by both the recipient(s) and the composer relating his/her piece! Meaning... when words -- whether written, spoken, or sung (much like musical notes played as illustrated above by Pianist #1) -- are genuinely "communicated" with relatable feelings of love, comfort, trust, compassion, respect, and sincerity, nourishing one's mind AND heart, while transcending all barriers ... THAT is when real, mutual "communication" occurs, leaving a lasting, purposeful impact , both in business and in life!

Personal Message to my International Circle of Professionals, Artists, and Friends With all my Heart:

THANK YOU for doing your best everyday to try and communicate in English with me in private messages on Facebook as well as in professional messages shared on Linkedin... a language that is not your mother tongue. YOU have my utmost respect for Communicating Anyway! NEVER, EVER apologize to me for your spelling mistakes and such. Are you kidding me? It is I who should apologize to YOU for not trying hard enough to communicate with you in your language!

I appreciate you more than words can express... Grateful to you for making my life, and the lives of fellow Americans easier with your committed efforts!

As Dr. Seuss says, "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter, don't mind."

Bottom-line: It takes TWO hands to clap to the symphony of life, so Communicate Anyway! Just because you are unable to technically speak in a particular language, does not mean you are unable to "communicate" with a person who does and is ready to listen with intent and heart!

Continue to Communicate Anyway,
~Annie Armen

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2012 New Year Message ... Inspired by Og Mandino

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Sun, 01 Jan 2012 08:05:00 +0000

2012 New Year Message -- Inspired by Og Mandino

"Today I begin a new life. ...Today, I am born anew and my birthplace is a vineyard where there is fruit for all." ~Og Mandino, Author of The Greatest Salesman in the World

8 Quotes from Og's epic book -- The Greatest Salesman in the World...

1.   "I will greet this day with LOVE in my heart. ...

a. I will love the ambitious for they can inspire me!
b. I will love the failures for they can teach me.
c. I will love the kings for they are but human;
d. I will love the meek for they are divine.
e. I will love the rich for they are yet lonely;
f.   I will love the poor for they are so many.
g. I will love the young for the faith they hold;
h. I will love the old for the wisdom they share.

i.   I will love the beautiful for their eyes of sadness;
j.   I will love the ugly for their souls of peace. ..."

2. "Today I will pluck grapes of WISDOM from the tallest and fullest vines in the vineyard, for these were planted by the wisest of my profession who have come before me, generation upon generation."

3. "In truth, the only difference between those who have failed and those who have succeeded lies in the difference of their habits. GOOD HABITS are the key to all success. Bad habits are the unlocked door to failure. Thus, the first law I will obey, which procedeth all others is -- I will form good habits and become their slave."

4. "I will LAUGH at the world. No living creature can laugh except man. Trees may bleed when they are wounded, and beasts in the field will cry in pain and hunger, yet only I have the gift of laughter and it is mine to use whenever I choose. Henceforth I will cultivate the habit of laughter."

5. "Today I will multiply my VALUE a hundredfold.

One grain of wheat when multiplied a hundredfold will produce a hundred stalks. Multiply these a hundredfold, ten times, and they will feed all the cities of the earth. Am I not more than a grain of wheat?"

6. "I will act now. Only ACTION determines my value in the market place and to multiply my value, I will multiply my actions. ... When the lion is hungry he eats. When the eagle has thirst, he drinks. Lest they act, both will perish. ... I thirst for happiness and peace of mind. Lest I act I will perish in a life of failure, misery, and sleepless nights. Success will not wait. If I delay she will become betrothed to another and lost to me forever. ... I will act now."

7. "I am here for a PURPOSE and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand. Henceforth will I apply ALL my efforts to become the highest mountain of all and I will strain my potential until it cries for mercy."

8. Og Mandino's PRAYER, pay it forward:
"Oh Creator of all things, help me. For this day I go out into the world naked and alone, and without your hand to guide me I will wander far from the path which leads to success and happiness. ... You have taught the lion and the eagle how to hunt and prosper with teeth and claw. Teach me how to hunt with words and prosper with love so that I may be a lion among men and an eagle in the market place. ... I am a small and a lonely grape clutching the vine yet thou hast made me different from all others. Verily, there must be a special place for me. Guide me. Help me. Show me the way. Let me become all You planned for me when my seed was planted and selected by You to sprout in the vineyard of the world. Help this humble salesman. Guide me, God."

Dear Why Annie Armen Friends....

May 2012 produce harvest in every area of your lives, for all the years you have sown loyally with love and commitment. Remember to use your key of COURAGE to step into the new, and with all the chords of your heart, fully embrace "all" that is waiting for you! CHOOSE to make 2012 volcanic, where every opportunity dares to meet and join forces with your unstoppable abilities!

Do you have a New Year Message you would like to share?

Loving, Inspiring, and Successful New Year Blessings to all ...
~Annie Armen

12 Quotes for Christmas

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Mon, 26 Dec 2011 07:00:00 +0000

I dedicate this song to YOU! May you celebrate your "now" this Christmas, and anticipate for the best about to be unleashed for your "tomorrow", in 2012! As you hear this tune, feel and experience the growing anticipation as the music crescendos to soaring heights, building toward something unexpected and amazing! Use your key of courage to step into the new, and with all the chords of your heart, fully embrace "all" that is waiting for you! CHOOSE to make 2012 volcanic, where every opportunity dares to meet and join forces with your unstoppable abilities! Warm Blessings with Love, Appreciation, Respect, and Profound Gratitude to all ... Merry Christmas dear friends! ~Annie Armen

12 Quotes for Christmas

1. "Treasure the LOVE you receive above all. It will survive long after your good health has vanished." ~Og Mandino

2. "FAITH is taking the first step, even when you don't see the whole staircase!" ~Martin Luther King, Jr.

3. "Look at a stone cutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred-and-first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not the last blow that did it, but all that had gone before."
~Jacob A. Riis (Take ACTION and PERSIST On!)

4. "TIME is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you." ~ Carl Sandburg

5. “There are only two ways to live your LIFE. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” ~Albert Einstein

6. "There are indeed times when one should "trust" blindly, just as there are times when one should not. WISDOM consists in being able to tell one from the other." ~Daniel Quinn

7. “AUTHENTICITY is a gift, and each of you are blessed with this gift. Cave not into duplication and cloning of what others say or do, no matter how great! Imitation is NOT a form of flattery, but rather an insult to the real deal that resides in you waiting to surface! Embrace your authentic self with all your might and shine!” ~Annie Armen

8. "Take a MUSIC bath once or twice a week for a few seasons. You will find it is to the soul what a water bath is to the body." ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

9. "Customer satisfaction is worthless. Customer LOYALTY is priceless." ~ Jeffrey Gitomer

10. A Perfect Partnership has no hidden agendas, a single purpose and an insatiable commitment to delivering incremental revenues resulting in a mutual beneficial relationship." ~Don Farrell, Chief Cultivating Officer at Fresh Revenues

11. "When everybody tells you that you are being idealistic or impractical, consider the possibility that everybody could be wrong about what is right for you." ~Gilbert Kaplan

12. "Only YOU hold the key to your inner WHY... Listen to your inner voice, gather your STRENGTH in quiet, find your target, aim, fire!" ~Annie Armen

Do you have a quote for Christmas you would like to share? Please post your quotes below in the comments section!

Merry Christmas and a Volcanic New Year! ~Annie Armen

Annie Armen Show Presents: Generate Revenues Using Social Media --Part 3 of Series

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 13:41:00 +0000

"Great content is essential for success in leveraging social media for business.
Prospects will be IN-TE-REST-ED if YOU are IN-TE-REST-ING!" ~John McGrann

Tonight on Annie Armen Show

Topic for Discussion: Generate Revenues Using Social Media...Yeah Right!

Trusted Social Media Specialist, Dear Friend: John McGrann ... LIVE from Dubai

Time: 4pm PT | 5pm MT | 6pm CT | 7pm ET

Where: Annie Armen Show | VoiceAmerica Channel

PLAY IT FORWARD!
Part 3 Published on iTunes:
iTunes for the Annie Armen Show available on the go!
Direct Link to Audio Archive:
Generate Revenues Using Social Media ... Yeah Right!

Note: Prior to calling in, to ensure quality sound, please turn off your cell phones, lower the volume all the way down on your computers, and be sure you are in an area that is quiet to avoid any outside noise interferences. Also, it is preferable that you call in using a land line as opposed to using your cell phone or a cordless phone. Thank you!

Short Recap from Parts 1 and 2 Below

Is Social Media More Than Just a Craze? Part 2

My dear friend who I call, TRUSTED Social Media Specialist, John McGrann -- Chief Executive Officer at Drive Social Media, headquartered in Dubai -- returns on the Annie Armen Show to take on Part 2 with me in an ongoing series throughout 2011, "Is Social Media More Than Just a Craze". On this round, we focused on developing a social media strategy where you can measure ROI. Imagine that!

Is Social Media More Than Just a Craze? Part 1
If you recall from Part 1 of, Is Social Media More Than Just a Craze, John talked about 5 steps to success.

What are those 5 Steps?
1. Plan
2. Presence
3. Reach Out
4. Nurture
5. Maintain

He also said, in order to make social media work for your business, you need 2 things:
1. System
2. Commitment

Now, Who is John McGrann?

John McGrann is a UK national and his home was Cyprus for 10 years. He has

lived in the United Arab Emirates (UAE) since April, 2010 and is married to Genny.

John has used his 20+ years IT and Oracle ERP (Enterprise Resource Planning) management experience, chartered management accountancy training, social media certification and seasoned, people development skills to implement and drive business and systems performance on behalf of major organizations globally.

John has consulted on a range of projects and supports assignments for the UK

Government, and international private sector clients including but not limited to: General Electric, Canon, Network Rail, Saudi Telecom, and Touristik Union International (TUI).

Nowadays, his main focus is social media consultancy. As mentioned earlier above, he

is the Chief Executive Officer at Drive Social Media, headquartered in Dubai.

About Drive Social Media

In short, Drive Social Media (DSM) is about assisting clients in developing successful strategies, key training resources and in providing ongoing support to maximize value from social media marketing. DSM provides excellent service and great value for money for their clients. Bottom-line, they have the expertise to understand, match, and exceed clients' needs!

Valuable Resource to Share as a Take Away:

Statistics Show Social Media is Bigger Than You Think

Questions for Why Annie Armen Readers...

1. WHY do you find that folks across industries find it difficult to "identify revenue strategies" from social media?

2. WHY do you find that folks across industries find it strange to "assign the value of revenues" to Social Media?

3. Want to discover what NOT to do in order to generate revenues using Social Media?

4. Do you have ONE revenues results story you can share after implementing Social Media into your marketing plan to attract business?

Be sure to post your comments immediately below!

Fire away,

~The Hurricane

That Does it ... I’ve had Just About Enough of This!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 10:00:00 +0000

Today's post is Inspired by the BBC Classic – Two Ronnies, Fork Handles ....

Have you met The "Difficult" Customer?

"Customer satisfaction is worthless. Customer LOYALTY is priceless." ~ Jeffrey Gitomer

Have you had a run in lately with a “difficult” customer? How about, the slightly peculiar one who may communicate his/her requests in a way that you may not immediately comprehend, leading to the rise of inner frustration levels, eventually resulting in words of outrage expressed, such as -- “That does it, I’ve had just about enough of this!”

Looking for "Washers"
Now… let’s say a customer walks into your fine establishment and requests for “washers”. You (the seller) immediately presume the consumer is asking for dish washers, and begin directing said customer to the aisle where the dish washers are at.

Moments later, customer comes back and says, “No ... washers.”

Seller: “Oh, you mean floor washers… that will be in aisle 10, sir.”
Customer: “No, I am looking for washers.”
Seller: “Then you’re looking for windscreen washers. That will be in aisle 5, sir.”
Customer: “No, not windscreen washers … I am looking for washers, please.”
Seller: “Sir, have you checked for our car washers in aisle 3?”
Customer: “Not car washers … looking for washers.”
Seller: “That does it! Mr. Smith, will you come out and serve this customer…I’ve had just about enough of this!”

Questions for Why Annie Armen Readers

1. What do you find to be the central “issue” in this particular scenario?
2. When the seller called out for Mr. Smith to the rescue, was that his best choice of remedial action to take in handling the “difficult” customer?
3. Could the seller have managed the situation differently? If your answer is yes, tell us how so…

Looking forward to reading your answers!
~Annie

The Brick ... A Thanksgiving Message

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 13:00:00 +0000

“Two kinds of GRATITUDE:
The sudden kind we feel for what we take; the larger kind we feel for what we give.” ~Edwin Arlington Robinson

WHY "The Brick" as a Thanksgiving Message?
While tempted to give you the answer now, please read on... The message will become clear as the story unfolds. The content is written by my favorite author ... "Author Unknown".

The Brick ...
A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the
Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot
where the brick had been thrown.

The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting,

"What the hell was that all about and who are you? Just what the hell are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?"

The young boy was apologetic. "Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but didn't know what else to do," He pleaded. "I threw the brick *because no one else would stop..."

With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. "It's my brother," he said." He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up."

Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat.

He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out his fancy
handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts.

A quick look told him everything was going to be okay. “Thank you and may God bless you,” the grateful child told the stranger.

Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother

down the sidewalk toward their home.

It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver
never bothered to repair the it.

He kept the dent there to remind him of this message:

"Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!"

God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice. ~Author Unknown

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“There are only two ways to live your LIFE. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” ~Albert Einstein

Are you grateful for "The Bricks" in your life? Is there a timeless message you can share with Why Annie Armen Readers as a result of "The Brick" capturing your attention?

With Love and Gratitude Always,
~Annie Armen

What is YOUR Definition of a Perfect Partnership in Business?

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 21:00:00 +0000

"A PERFECT PARTNERSHIP has no hidden agendas, a single purpose and an insatiable commitment to delivering incremental revenues resulting in a mutual beneficial relationship." ~Don Farrell, Chief Cultivating Officer at Fresh Revenues

Annie Armen Show Presents

Revenues Fresh and Sexy

Featuring Trusted Guest Business PRO, Client, My Buddy: Don Farrell

Time: 3pm PT | 4pm MT | 5pm CT | 6pm ET

Where: Annie Armen Show | World Talk Radio Channel

Scheduled to Replay on the following dates:

1. Tuesday, August 16, 2011 at 3pm Pacific

2. Wednesday, August 17, 2011 at 4pm Pacific

Drum Roll Please... Select Highlights About Don Farrell ...

Don Farrell started his hospitality career as a pot scrubber and worked through 30 different jobs on his way up to becoming the Founder and Chairman of the best and largest sales and service training company in the world -- Signature, Inc. Don now writes, speaks, conducts workshops and consults with very "select" clients showing them how to produce FRESH Revenues when others can't.

Questions for Why Annie Armen Readers...

1. What is YOUR Definition of a "Perfect Partnership" in Business?

2. Is there even such a thing as "Perfect Partnership" in business?
3. When do you know you found that "Perfect Partnership" you've always envisioned for your business?

Do Tell,

~The Hurricane

Annie Armen Presents: Tony MacAlpine -- Celebrity Artist ON FIRE (Beat 4)

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Wed, 27 Jul 2011 11:35:00 +0000

“As with any true artist, change is the only constant.” ~Tony MacAlpine

Annie Armen Show Presents
Artists ON FIRE -- Beat 4

Featuring Celebrity Rock Artist: Tony MacAlpine

Annie's Memorable Interview with Rock Guitar Legend, Tony MacAlpine
is scheduled to air on the following dates:

1. Wednesday, July 27, 2011 at 4pm Pacific
2. Tuesday, August 2, 2011 at 3pm Pacific
3. Wednesday, August 3, 2011 at 4pm Pacific

PLAY IT FORWARD!
Published on iTunes:
iTunes for the Annie Armen Show available on the go!
Direct Link to Audio Archive: Annie Armen Interviews TONY MACALPINE!

About Tony MacAlpine

He’s been a producer, band member and solo artist. Guitarist Tony MacAlpine, in his 25-year career, has redefined hard rock jazz-fusion for a generation of progressive-minded music fanatics. Whether it’s with the groundbreaking prog-rock band Planet X (with Derek Sherinian of Dream Theater), the jazz-fusion super-group CAB or the band of another guitar hero Steve Vai, MacAlpine has set the bar exceedingly high. http://www.TonyMacAlpine.com

On June 21, this most anticipated all-instrumental masterpiece Tony MacAlpine (Favored Nations Entertainment) was released, his 13 solo album (and 26th album over-all). The album contains 12 tracks of complex, intricate heavy music that demands concentration. It is a true solo album in every sense of the word. Drummers Virgil Donati and Marco Minnemann, as well as bassist Philip Bynoe are utilized on various tracks. MacAlpine plays everything else: seven-string guitar, eight-string guitar, keyboards, bass and programming.

Written and recorded at “The Cottage” studio in Pasadena, California, MacAlpine has blended jazz-fusion, metal, prog and rock’n’roll into a tightlywound trip of mammoth proportions. "My music is instrumental guitar-oriented heavy rock with a fusion flair," he explains. "Having started with classical piano since the age of five, I've been exposed to many genres and styles from contemporary to the Romantic and Classical periods. This early development helped me define my writing and improvisation which is evident in my sound today. My guitar playing encompasses many different styles, with an emphasis on composition and theater." More at http://www.TonyMacAlpine.com

During this Interview, you will hear the following 5 songs from Tony:
1. Etude #4, Opus #10 (Chopin piece, from Tony's Maximum Security Album)
2. Fire Mountain (From Tony's New, Self-titled album just released -- Tony MacAlpine)
3. Chromaticity (from Tony's album -- Chromaticity)
4. The King's Cup (from Tony's album -- Maximum Security)
5. Angel of Twilight (From Tony's New, Self-titled album just released -- Tony MacAlpine)

Buckle up, and enjoy a shredder of a MacAlpine ride on The Annie Armen Show, coming up NEXT!

Annie Armen Show Presents: Heart 2 Heart with Artists ON FIRE!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 15:55:00 +0000

"There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the other." ~Douglas Everett

Annie Armen Show Presents
Heart 2 Heart with Artists ON FIRE

Featured Guest Artists:
Sam Amazyan (Washington)
John "JP" Iris (France)
Don Coleman (Canada)
Puguh Kribo (Indonesia)

When: Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Time: 3pm Pacfic | 6pm Eastern
Where:  Annie Armen Show | World Talk Radio Channel

Published on:   iTunes for the Annie Armen Show available on the go!
Direct Link to Audio Archive:  Heart 2 Heart with Artists ON FIRE!

Note: Prior to calling in, to ensure quality sound, please turn off your cell phones, lower the volume all the way down on your computers, and be sure you are in an area that is quiet to avoid any outside noise interferences. Also, it is preferable that you call in using a land line as opposed to using your cell phone or a cordless phone. Thank you!

Did You Miss Artists ON FIRE, Beats 1 - 3?

Annie Armen Show Presents --

Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 3

Featured Guest Artists:
Don Coleman and Puguh Kribo

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show
Direct Audio Link: Artists ON FIRE (Series) --Beat 3

Annie Armen Show Presents --
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2

Featured Guest Artists:
John ("JP") Iris & Andy Mackie

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show
Direct Audio Link: Artists ON FIRE (Series) --Beat 2

Annie Armen Show Presents --
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 1

Featured Guest Artists:
Sam Amazyan & James Dore'

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show
Direct Audio Link: Artists ON FIRE (Series) --Beat 1

Valuable Reads, Links and Listening Resources to Artists on FIRE

1. Puguh Kribo's Website: http://www.xhredder.com/
2. Don Coleman's Website: http://www.humblevoice.com/doncoleman
3. Iris Corporation: http://www.iriscorporation.biz

4. Sam Amazyan's Website: http://www.samamazyan.com
5. Tony Macalpine: http://www.tonymacalpine.com

What IS the Right Price and WHY?

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Thu, 14 Jul 2011 11:00:00 +0000

Remember the old classic game show, “The Price is Right, hosted by Bob Barker?”

Here’s a scenario for you…Let me know your thoughts in the “comments” section below, at the end of this article. It will be interesting to see what "prices" you come up with after you've had a chance to read through this piece.

Imagine….
Place yourself in the shoes of an author who not only writes articles, but also writes business books. Now, you’ve composed and self-published several hardbacks, but there is this one comprehensive manuscript you just completed, that you find so practical, so tactical that you genuinely believe and know, there is no other published work out there which contains “usable information now” you’re about to unleash into the business world. Your written masterpiece will save so many business professionals, years of heart aches and pitfalls you experienced. So far so good…right?

Houston, we Have a Problem … I’m Stuck!!!
Here you are about to blast off with your comprehensive book to the public, but you’re stuck on “pricing” because unlike your other collections, this particular masterpiece contains over 600 pages of both relatable and actionable tips spelled out in simplicity and clarity, which will serve as a daily road map for small business owners and entrepreneurs throughout. So you hire a professional business consultant for guidance. The consultant says, “Start off by selling your book as an e-version at $XX.99”…

You immediately ask yourself, “What is my goal … to sell books or to get the book out there to as many people as possible with the intention of getting hired to speak and educate the masses?” Once you targeted your goal, you replied with the price of $X.99 as a reasonable and fair value because you know this will be a book folks will use daily for their immediate business needs.

Now That You Have the Scenario… I ask you…
What do YOU believe IS the right price for a comprehensive “E-Book” of Business of over 600 pages, and WHY?

Better yet, what price would you be willing to pay for an E-version of a comprehensive business book and WHY?

Fire away,
~Annie

Are You Tempted to Quit?

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Fri, 01 Jul 2011 10:05:00 +0000

"Dive into your soul
Search and you will find
The answers to all your doubts
The priceless gift of who you are!
Don’t give up, believe in yourself,
You are blessed, to exist,
So put your talents to the test!

You are meant to be, can’t you see,
You have a legacy, Unstoppable be!"
~ Annie Armen

Dear WHY Annie Armen Readers:

Perhaps this message may be one of Divine intervention for some of you who are intrinsically fighting off the temptation to quit, whether in your personal lives or in your professional lives. Perhaps you may be at the very edge of that choice, and you are "hoping" for a sign, a message from someone, from somewhere, anything that can keep your inner candle of "hope" lit for just a little longer until your dream morphs into tangible reality, right before your very eyes.

In the past month alone, I have received many emails requesting for prayers! Know I am carrying each of you who have asked in daily prayers, and believe with all my heart that answers for you are around the corner! Until such time, dear friends -- NEVER GIVE UP -- no matter what! If you know of someone who needs to be nourished in mind and heart with this message, please pay it forward, thank you.

Message on Time
Over 10 years ago, on my very first LIVE television show produced in Los Angeles, I read the message of "Don't Quit" by Annon. My prayer is that when you read this message today, you will be renewed in Faith, your spirit will be uplifted, your heart will be filled with HOPE, and in mind, you will choose NOT TO QUIT!!! The fact that you are receiving this message IS your answer, confirming your inner instinct to stay on course and go all the way!

That said, let's jump start the month of July, on this first day, with unwavering hope, with unshakeable faith, and with unstoppable action!

DON’T QUIT!
By Annon

"When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh.

When care is pressing you down a bit.
Rest if you must, But don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learn,
And many a person turns about,
When they might have won, had they stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow.
You may succeed with another blow.

Often strugglers have given up
When you might have captured the victor's cup,
And you learned too late when the night came down,
How close you were to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint of the cloud of doubt.

So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit,
It's when things seem worst that you
Mustn't Quit!"

Artists ON FIRE -- Who NEVER GAVE UP!
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 1
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 3

Now... are you tempted to quit?

Please post your comments below...
~Annie Armen

Annie Armen Show Presents: Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 3

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Mon, 27 Jun 2011 11:10:00 +0000

"MUSIC is an outburst of the soul." ~Frederick Delius

Annie Armen Show Presents
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 3

Featured Guest Artists: Puguh Kribo (Indonesia) and Don Coleman (Canada)
When: Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Time: 3pm Pacfic | 6pm Eastern
Where:  Annie Armen Show | World Talk Radio Channel

Published on:   iTunes for the Annie Armen Show available on the go!
Direct Link to Audio Archive:  Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 3

Who is Hurricane Artist Victim #5: Puguh Kribo?
Puguh Kribo, originally born in Surabaya, is from Jakarta, Indonesia. He holds dual bachelor degrees -- One in civil engineering (ST) and the other in law (SH). Influenced by the spiritual tunes of church music growing up, he began pursuing his passion for music since the age of 9 years old, by learning to play the guitar. Today, he is an accomplished, award winning guitarist in Indonesia, endorsed by Stranough Guitar. By day, Puguh is a guitar instructor at music school, and by vision, he is expanding on his dream and passion for music, not only as a respected musician, but also as an accomplished writer, arranger, and music director in Jakarta, Indonesia. In the recent, Puguh launched his new book, titled “Extreme Speed Picking”, and together with his band, Puguh Kribo and The Tritorium, he launched his new album called, "The Black Kraken" -- the first of many promising milestones ahead!    http://www.xhredder.com/

Who is Hurricane Artist Victim #6: Don Coleman?

Don Coleman is a Canadian vocalist, songwriter, performer and AC/DC tribute vocalist whose original songs have received air play on broadcast radio in 126 countries. His songs have been acknowledged in writing by President Bill Clinton and HRH Prince William. Coleman's humanitarian efforts have raised thousands of dollars for many charities including the Canadian Cancer Society, The Friends of The Moncton Hospital Foundation and The Hospital for Sick Children. His song written for the charitable non-profit organization Moncton Headstart has been utilized by Headstart offices in California and Texas for the betterment of children and as an inspiration to members of the organization. He is a songwriter who has captured fans from around the world from all walks of life and musical tastes with his music that touches on many genres including; blues, adult contemporary, hard rock, bluegrass and country. http://www.humblevoice.com/doncoleman

What's NEXT on the Annie Armen Show?: Heart 2 Heart with Artists ON FIRE

Did You Miss Artists ON FIRE, Beats 1 and 2?

Annie Armen Show Presents --
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 1

Featured Guest Artists:
Sam Amazyan & James Dore'

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show
Direct Audio Link: Artists ON FIRE (Series) --Beat 1

Annie Armen Show Presents --
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2

Featured Guest Artists:
John ("JP") Iris & Andy Mackie

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show
Direct Audio Link: Artists ON FIRE (Series) --Beat 2

Question for WHY Annie Armen Readers?
What key disciplines do you find in common between the fields of music and business?

Please post your comments below, we would love to hear from you.
~Annie Armen

Annie Armen Show Presents: Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Wed, 22 Jun 2011 09:30:00 +0000

"MUSIC expresses that which cannot be said and on which it is impossible to be silent." ~Victor Hugo

Annie Armen Show Presents
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2

Featured Guest Artists: John Iris and Andy Mackie
When: Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Time: 4pm Pacfic | 7pm Eastern
Where:  Annie Armen Show | VoiceAmerica Channel

Published on:   iTunes for the Annie Armen Show available on the go!
Direct Link to Audio Archive:  Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2

Who is Hurricane Artist Victim #3: John Iris?

John "JP" Iris is from Albi, France, and he formed the band, Iris Corporation, together with Thibaut Gluchowski, and Will de La Perez. An aura between Brit Rock and Oriental - Poetic and committed lyrics - this is the union of three musicians, each from a different background, standing in harmony on ecology, humanism and spirituality, rejecting communitarianism. A consciousness-raising the band wants to share at every level of social, economical and spiritual pyramids to allow infinite hope. A final work that results in a style drawing from many cultural sources that reflects mankind of tomorrow. “World Rock” uniting oriental sensuality and Rock power, ever respecting the balance and the cultural sharing essential for our earthly future. EP: "First Saint Session" (2008) Album: "A New Saint Session" (2009) http://www.iriscorporation.biz

Who is Hurricane Artist Victim #4: Andy Mackie?

On May 01, 2009, Steve Hartman from CBS Evening News referred to Andy Mackie as the Modern Pied Piper who cheated death. He further reported that, every time 70-year-old Andy Mackie draws a breath, it's music to his ears - whether there's a harmonica there or not. As CBS News correspondent Steve Hartman reports, Mackie's just glad to be alive.

Mackie jokes, "I guess they don't need a harmonica player in heaven yet."

Today, 72 years of age (will be 73 in September) – THANK YOU GOD -- Mackie, a Scottish-born retired cattle farmer, lives in a camper in northwest Washington state -- he lives there, even though technically -- medically -- he should have died long ago. After his 9th heart surgery, Mackie's doctors had him on several different medicines. But the side effects made life miserable for him. So one day he quit taking meds and decided to spend his final days doing something he always wanted to do.

He used the money he would have spent on the prescriptions to give away 300 harmonicas, with lessons included. "I really thought it was the last thing I could ever do," he says. And when he didn't die the next month, he bought a few hundred more. Harmonicas in hand, he explains, "I just started going from school to school." It's now 11 years and 20,000 harmonicas later. http://www.andymackiemusic.org/

About Andy Mackie Music Foundation

The Andy Mackie Music Foundation provides instruments, lessons & scholarships to children who want to learn to play music. The Foundation operates on donations from the public, non-governmental organizations and businesses.

Through more than 14 years of dedication, the Andy Mackie Music Foundation (est. 1996) has enriched the lives of children, families & communities through music.

The Foundation provides instruments & lessons to children to foster confidence and a sense of self. The Foundation also encourages children to perform in fundraising concerts which, together with grants & donations, provide the money for instruments, materials, lessons & scholarships to graduating seniors.

Andy has taught more than 20,000 children to play harmonica, mostly in public schools. His efforts were recognized in 2005 at the Northwest Folk life Festival where he set the Guinness World Record for the largest harmonica band ever to perform in one place.

His foundation has also helped more than a thousand children to play stringed instruments and has awarded 105 $500 scholarships to graduating high school seniors to be used toward continuing education. Currently, 5 high school shops in Clallam, Jefferson & Kitsap counties are building instruments for classes of younger students.

Music is Andy’s gift to the world. You can help the Andy Mackie Music Foundation continue to touch countless young lives with the joyous gift of music, along with the lasting confidence and harmony it bestows in children’s lives.

Did You Miss Artists on FIRE, Beat 1?

Annie Armen Show Presents --
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 1

Featured Guest Artists:
Sam Amazyan & James Dore'

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show
Direct Audio Link: Artists ON FIRE (Series) --Beat 1

UP NEXT: Annie Armen Show Presents --
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 3

Featured Guest Artists:
John ("JP") Iris & Andy Mackie

Click HERE for Program Details!

Please post your comments below, we would love to hear from you.
~Annie Armen

Annie Armen Show Presents: Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 1

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Tue, 21 Jun 2011 11:55:00 +0000

"Take a MUSIC bath once or twice a week for a few seasons. You will find it is to the soul what a water bath is to the body." ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

Annie Armen Show Presents
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 1

Featured Guest Artists: Sam Amazyan and James Dore'
When: Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Sam Amazyan is a musican and a composer. His greatest joy in life is creating and performing music that touches and enriches people's lives. Through his musical career, which started when he was 15, Sam Amazyan performed and experimented with a wide variety of musical styles (from classical, to jazz, to rock, to heavy metal, to European, to Middle Eastern music). He has played lead guitar in different bands and always sought out by vocalists and band leaders. He has played in bands for audiences in Armenia, Russia, Europe, Australia, Brazil, and the USA. Today, Sam Amazyan is enjoying performing nationwide at retirement and assisted living homes, helping people through his beautiful music with sounds of world music. http://www.samamazyan.com/

Who is Hurricane Artist Victim #2: James Dore'

James Dore’ is a singer/songwriter, and TV host, currently working on a CD entitled BLAZE! Dore’ has been performing music live, modeling, featured on billboard ads, fitness inform-mercials and fashion shows off and on since childhood. In addition to music, Dore’ has spent time hosting on a show called Destination TV that he wrote and performed the theme song. He has had the privilege of having four of his songs in a 2006 independent movie called Vampire Slayers. Dore’ was hailed as, “One of the best up and coming artist.” on The Tim Ryan Show Live. To sum it all up, platinum recording artist and Dove award winner BeBe Winnans described James Dore’s music as, “Good music with integrity.” http://www.reverbnation.com/jamesdore

A little something about WHY Artists on Fire

For many of our loyal fans and supporters, you have seen the Annie Armen Show travel through the world of causes, to the world of business, with occasional music programs featuring celebrity artists such as Chico Vega's Legendary Drifters, Rahmlee, Rob Mullins, and more. Throughout the years, many of you have shared observations such as, "Annie, there is something so unique about your program. Your show is all heart, all soul, you're on fire, your message is pure in seeking truth and solutions, and your music production rocks. When you speak, you always communicate with heart, humor, wisdom, rhythm and infectious energy. You are a drummer of words, etc..."

Well, each and every one of you are highly astute in your observations! WHY? Next to my number one core value of Faith, music has always been and will always be my core passion, rooted in my DNA since birth. I was 3 years old when I first snuck into my dad's basement in New York to go on the drums and play a complex, time signature of 9/4. Since then, I took my passion for music and rhythm and applied it in business and in life.

As a Communications Artist today, which includes the percussionist, drummer and singer side of me, how can I possibly turn my head the other way and not pay my respect to TRUE ARTISTS ON FIRE from the world of music? Artists who are dedicated to their craft with all heart and soul; artists who push forward no matter how extenuating their circumstances; artists who have embraced resistance, in many cases ... lack of support from family and loved ones, judgment from folks in suits, while staying true and loyal to their dream. Artists who walk to the beat of SHOW MUST GO ON, the very beat taught in business.

Because I have experienced and live BOTH sides of the world -- music and business -- today, I am blessed with this rare privilege to be a soulful voice for our genuine artists who are ON FIRE, artists who do not know the meaning of quit. We will talk about their lessons learned from failures, and their forward successes as a result thereof.

Moment of Hurricane Truth
Out of all the series and programs I have produced and aired throughout the years since television, this particular series -- Artists ON FIRE -- IS representative of my heart and soul, authentic to my very core and being! What you will hear, what you will experience, will be nothing short of heart, love, soul, bringing out hidden treasures and details, often and unfortunately overlooked by many.

NEXT on the Annie Armen Show: Artists ON FIRE -- Beat 2

Annie Armen Show Presents --
Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2

Featured Guest Artists:
John ("JP") Iris & Andy Mackie

Click HERE for Program Details!

Question for WHY Annie Armen Readers?

Are you a musician, artist applying your anointed gifts and abilities in business and in life? Do you have an inspiring story to share?

Please post your comments below, we would love to hear from you.
~Annie Armen

Are You Leaving Your AUTHENTIC Mark?

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Fri, 27 May 2011 22:00:00 +0000

‎"AUTHENTICITY is the alignment of head, mouth, heart, and feet - thinking, saying, feeling, and doing the same thing - consistently. This builds trust, and followers love leaders they can trust." ~Lance Secretan

Friends, how are you doing today?

I hope you enjoy this quote! WHY? Each and every one of you have something unique to offer to this world. Cave not into duplication and cloning of what others say or do, no matter how great! Imitation is NOT a form of flattery, but rather an insult to the real deal that resides in you waiting to surface!

Authenticity is a gift, and each of you are blessed with this gift. EMBRACE IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT AND SHINE!

Questions to WHY Annie Armen Readers:
1. Do you have something in your heart and mind, an idea, an image, a thought you have been wondering about for the longest time?
2. In the middle of your day, has this thought surfaced back into the forefront of your mind and heart?
3. Throughout the year, has this thought reappeared, as if it was haunting you?
4. Did you find yourself setting this thought aside with the honest intention of dealing with it later?
5. When this thought re-surfaced, did you in fact embrace it and take action on it? OR
6. Did you say to yourself, "Man... this other person, I love their idea so much more. Besides, who would even give my idea a second look, much less take it seriously. Not only that, it will take too much time and money, and forget it... who am I kidding..."
7. Did you end up sharing your thought with a few people?
8. What was their reaction? Did you get compliments of, "Wow... you've got a great idea! You better jump on that before somebody else grabs it."
9. One day, you wake up only to find out that your original thought has been implemented with a slight twist. What did you "honestly" feel in that very moment?

Challenge to WHY Annie Armen Readers:
If you have a thought that has been haunting you for the longest time, pick yourself up, SEIZE your thought, OWN IT, and DO SOMETHING NOW, without hesitation! In doing so, you are creating a tangible footprint on earth. In doing so, you are leaving YOUR mark, your AUTHENTIC mark, a mark that will OUTLIVE you!

WHY Annie Armen Tip:
Here is the key! Do it because you believe in it with all your heart, mind and soul, for this will be a PURE desire to originate and tangibly bring forth your idea into this world. When your creation is that authentic, that pure, believe this -- you just killed the word competition out of its existence. Only when you choose to imitate what others do or say, thinking you will make it in the market just as they have, you will reap temporary results.

Something to Remember: The "original" will always outlive the "clone"!

So ... if you are looking for a lifetime impact, if you are looking to earn a lifetime achievement of satisfaction authentically, be true to your mind and heart, and BELIEVE that YOUR authentic idea, YOUR authentic thought will be a great gift to this world, and how sad if you choose to deprive us all of the real deal that resides in you!

Now, dare I ask ...
Are YOU leaving your Authentic Mark?

Can't wait to hear your comments... Bring it!
~Annie

Annie Armen Show Presents: THRIVE, Don't Survive!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Wed, 20 Apr 2011 22:45:00 +0000

Annie Armen Show Presents

Topic for Discussion: THRIVE, Don’t Survive!
Featured Guest Expert | Long Time Friend: Dr. Ivan Misner

Special Guest Appearance: Allen C. Buchanan

Time: 4pm PT | 5pm MT | 6pm CT | 7pm ET
Where: Annie Armen Show | World Talk Radio Channel

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show available on the go!

THRIVE, Don’t Survive!

My dear, long time friend for over 10 years, Dr. Ivan Misner – Founder and Chairman of Business Network International (BNI) -- returns on the Annie Armen Show to take on, "THRIVE, Don't Survive". Joining us, special guest appearance by Allen C. Buchanan – award winning networker and referral expert, President of Champions SoCal BNI , referred by Ivan -- tonight appearing on the Annie Armen Show for the very first time!

Shhhhhhh…..Hurricane Warning!!!

I am planning on swooping both Ivan and Allen into one of my signature Hurricane Twisters. What that is exactly? Here’s comes the funny part … I HAVE NO CLUE! All I know, before going into this interview is that both Ivan and Allen are in for an unexpected surprise. Let’s just hope they “trust” their Hurricane Hostess! Well, we’re about to find out! Normally you always hear me saying, “buckle up” …Let’s just say, I’m fastening my seat belt together with you for whatever is about to happen LIVE on air, real time, no script! Don’t say you didn’t receive your Hurricane Warning ….

Sneak Peek into “Outside the Box” Tips to Help Boost Your Business

During our interview, Ivan will be talking about some of his “outside the box” tips, which include:

1. Innovation in adversity is a key factor

2. Attitude – it all starts there, doesn’t it?

3. Look for “new” and “emerging” opportunities

4. Be Creative with your offers

Pay Special Attention to 2 Quotes Ivan will be sharing during this interview, inspired by Warren Bennis:

1. “Innovation is directly connected to your adaptive capacity.”

2. “It is your ability to adapt that determines your true value as a leader.”

Bank on this – There is always a WHY behind everything I share with you! Don’t miss out on Ivan’s story about his latest encounter with Warren Bennis, who is the Founding Chairman of the Leadership Institute at the University of Southern California -- widely regarded as a pioneer in leadership studies.

Now, Who is King Ivan?

Dr. Ivan Misner is the Founder & Chairman of BNI, the world’s largest business networking organization, founded in 1985. The organization has thousands of chapters throughout every populated continent of the world. Each year, BNI generates millions of referrals resulting in over billions of U.S. dollars worth of business for its members.

Called the “Father of Modern Networking” by CNN and the “Networking Guru” by Entrepreneur magazine, Dr. Misner is considered to be one of the world’s leading experts on business networking and has been a keynote speaker for major corporations and associations throughout the world.

He has written twelve books, including his New York Times Bestseller; Masters of Networking as well as his recent #1 bestseller, Networking Like a Pro. He is a monthly columnist for Entrepreneur.com and is the Senior Partner for the Referral Institute – a referral training company with trainers around the world. In addition, he has taught business management and social capital courses at several universities throughout the United States.

Ivan has been featured in the L.A. Times, Wall Street Journal, and New York. Times, as well as numerous TV and radio shows including CNN, CNBC, BBC in London, and a regular guest on the Annie Armen Show now in our 11^th year.

Drum Roll Please… Who is Allen C. Buchanan?

Allen C. Buchanan is the President of Champions SoCal BNI, award winning networker, award winning referral expert, who is recognized for his signature “ONE TO ONE” meetings! What does that mean?

How can I put this bluntly … TUNE IN AND FIND OUT! In addition to hurricane twisters, Allen is definitely in for a treat with his mentor, Ivan Misner. I intend to make this one memorable interview with impact for ALL!

Valuable Reads, Links and Resources

1. Business Network International (BNI)

2. BNI Business Index Report

3. Ivan Misner’s Business Networking Blog

4. Allen Buchanan’s Blog

Question for WHY Annie Armen Readers:

How is business for you today compared to this time last year?

Be sure to post your comments immediately below!

Enjoy the interview and pass it on!

~Annie Armen

When Did s/he Give the Impression s/he Needed Your Advice?

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Thu, 14 Apr 2011 03:35:00 +0000

Can You Relate?

Often times, I have found that when an individual chooses to step out of his/her private space to connect with another whether for personal or for professional reasons, 9 times out of 10, s(he) only wants to talk and clear his/her mind. Now, here comes the kicker in all this. The one who is listening to what is being said automatically presumes that he or she has somehow received the green light to communicate their opinion, thoughts, and offer advice when in fact, his/her presumption couldn’t be more further from the truth.

Allow me to draw you a picture in the form of a dialogue between two professional colleagues, using the pseudo names Bob and Rachel.

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Do You Want to Talk?

Bob has had “THE” day of all days, filled with unwanted surprises, one shoddier than the other. Just when he thought his day couldn’t get any worse, he gets a call from his attorney that “the deal” did not go through, the very deal he desperately needed to financially secure stuff at the home front as well as at the office. He slams the door to his office, and literally closes himself off from the world at this point, not knowing what to think, how to feel, what to say, what steps to take next, completely in a state of shock, almost to the point of feeling numb.

Just 30 minutes later, a close business colleague of his that he had not seen in over a year, decides to surprise him and pay a visit at the office. Of course, she had no idea of the day he has had. Filled with excitement, she charges into his office, only to find a dark space where the office blinds were shut tight, and him lying down on the floor, as if he was lifeless. In that moment, she collects herself, tempers her joy, and softly calls out his name. [WISE CHOICE by Rachel to temper her joy and to use a softer tone to greet Bob, creating a space of trust and comfort].

Rachel: “Bob, its Rachel.”

Bob: “Rachel, please don’t take this offensively, but can you come back tomorrow, or any other day but today?”

Rachel: “No worries. I’ll come back tomorrow then.” [Again, wise choice by Rachel, not to question Bob, but to act on what he requested, leaving him room to breathe and think. So far so good, but then...]

Bob: “WAIT! Don’t go! The truth is, your visit is the first good thing that has happened today, and what I said earlier, scratch it. I was reacting from emotions. You just caught me by surprise, and for what it’s worth, I’m glad you are here.” [Instead of roaring like a lion, Bob decides to share his space with Rachel. Result -- signs of calmness, comfort, transparency, authenticity, and trust are slowly beginning to surface and clear the air of tension... so far so good...let's see what happens next...]

Rachel: “Bob, do you want to talk?” [Excellent choice of words to ask, “do you want to talk” as opposed to “are you ok” or “is everything ok”? WHY? Rachel in effect is respecting Bob’s space, as opposed to invading his private thoughts, leaving him room to make the decision if he wants to talk, free of judgment and presumption. Secondly, Rachel is not coming off condescending or superior, but rather “human”, from a position of trust. As you keep reading, see how Bob continues to open up just a little more…]

Bob: “Well, not really. Besides, I wouldn’t even know where to start. All I can tell you for now is that I have had the day from hell, and just trying to collect the pieces, get up and push forward as if this day did not exist! I feel like I’m in a nightmare and all I want to do is wake up and snap out of it…”

Rachel cuts Bob off and immediately says, “Let me tell you what works for me during times like this …Here is what I recommend …” [BUZZER GOES OFF…“WRONG MOVE” ….Although unintentional, Rachel just pushed Bob even further away the second she chose to go on autopilot and offer unsolicited advice. When did Bob give the impression he needed Rachel's advice?]

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5 Take Aways:

While most of what I’m about to share with you may be construed as “known” knowledge, please remember that with practice, it becomes MORE THAN stand alone knowledge. What you will experience is “knowledge WITH long-lasting impact”!

1. Whether we are experiencing ups OR downs in business or in life, it is absolutely vital to be cognizant of one’s private space at all times.

2. When someone chooses to openly share about his/her situation, particularly when the situation is not pleasant, PRESUME NOTHING!

3. Listen with heart on a “human” level, and be present with him/her in that moment, eye to eye, ear to ear, heart to heart, mind to mind free of assumptions, free of judgments of any kind.

4. If you are a coach, mentor, counselor of any kind, be sure to keep your ego in check; better yet, throw it out the door! Just because someone has chosen to talk with you, does not place you in a superior position, but rather in a position of trust – HUGE difference! Recognize the distinction as it is critical for continued communications and potential referrals in the future.

5. Offer advice, share thoughts, or express your opinions ONLY when asked. Even then, take measures to be certain that he or she is truly looking for advice, or seeking to find answers himself/herself.

Did you find this article helpful?
Post your comments immediately below; we’d love to hear from you.

~Annie

20 Quotes on VALUES in Business and in Life!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Sun, 03 Apr 2011 05:00:00 +0000

Dear WHY Annie Armen Readers:

What are YOUR favorite quotes on “values”? Please take a moment to post your favorite quote choice(s) at the end of this post.

In the mean time, may you find these purposeful quotes on VALUES empowering and meaningful to your inner WHY in business and in life!

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1. "Effectiveness without values is a tool without a purpose." ~Edward de Bono

2. "Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value." ~Albert Einstein

3. "Treasure the love you receive above all. It will survive long after your good health has vanished." ~Og Mandino

4. "The quality of a person's life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor." ~Vince Lombardi

5. "Your beliefs become your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny." ~Mahatma Gandhi

6. "The ultimate determinant in the struggle now going on for the world will not be bombs and rockets but a test of wills and ideas - a trial of spiritual resolve: the values we hold, the beliefs we cherish and the ideals to which we are dedicated." ~Ronald Reagan

7. "Maturity is achieved when a person postpones immediate pleasures for long-term values." ~Joshua L. Liebman

8. “We never know the worth of water 'til the well is dry.” ~English Proverb

9. “In a knowledge economy, a good business is a community with a purpose, not a piece of property.” ~Charles Handy

10. “Without commonly shared and widely entrenched moral values and obligations, neither the law, nor democratic government, nor even the market economy will function properly.” ~Václav Havel

11. “What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.” ~Oscar Wilde

12. “I value the friend who for me finds time on his calendar, but I cherish the friend who for me does not consult his calendar.” ~Robert Brault

13. “The crucial variable in the process of turning knowledge into value is creativity.” ~John Kao

14. "Knowledge is of no value unless you put it into practice.” ~Anton Chekhov

15. “The reason I beat the Austrians is, they did not known the value of five minutes” ~Napoleon Bonaparte

16. “Nothing is more despicable than respect based on fear.” ~Albert Camus

17. “Guard well your spare moments. They are like uncut diamonds. Discard them and their value will never be known. Improve them and they will become the brightest gems in a useful life.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

18. “I can't change the fact that my paintings don't sell. But the time will come when people will recognize that they are worth more than the value of the paints used in the picture.” ~Vincent van Gogh

19. "We're so engaged in doing things to achieve purposes of outer value that we forget the inner value, the rapture that is associated with being alive, is what it is all about.” ~Joseph Campbell

20. "Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, but only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself." ~Og Mandino

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Friends, what are YOUR favorite quotes on “values”?

Very much looking forward to reading your posts!

Fire away and Pass it on!
~Annie

When you hear the words, "I am a Life Coach" -- What thoughts come to mind? BE HONEST!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 04:05:00 +0000

Dear Why Annie Armen Readers:

Just two weeks ago, I asked the following question on Linkedin:

When you hear the words, "I am a Life Coach" -- what thoughts come to mind? BE HONEST!

To my unexpected surprise, 55 business professionals took a moment out of their hectic schedules to post their replies publicly, while several chose to respond privately. Now I've decided to re-post this question on Why Annie Armen Blog, to extend the same opportunity to you.

When was the last time you experienced eyes rolling, or thinking silently within "here comes another one" the moment you heard the introduction: "My name is __________________, and I am a Life Coach. How can I help you?"

We all know that this type of thinking extends toward other professions as well. For the purpose of this discussion, I am choosing to focus on "life coach". WHY? I truly believe that your “honest” feedback here will provide insights to "genuine" life coaches, and no doubt will help their business in some way.

Again, be as HONEST as possible, communicating with respect and compassion! If you have a story to share, one that completely turned you off from working with life coaches, please do tell, without giving any names and in general terms. On the flip side, if you have a story to contribute, one that moved you into productive action with results after working with a life coach, be sure to share this as well -- again, without revealing names... because the last thing you want is to be perceived as someone who is posting a plug on behalf of a friend/colleague to attract business for said life coach. My hope is that your story will shed some light and resonate with hearts and minds currently swimming in the sea of confusion on this topic.

Both personally and professionally, I am always looking to connect with EXCEPTIONS TO THE NORM in every field, and I find that many professionals in specific fields (law, medical, insurance, just to name a few) go through similar unnecessary challenges simply because their profession has been negatively branded due to unethical practices by others, however to no fault of their own, and without WHY explanations.

Thank you all in advance for taking the time to contribute. I truly believe your informative comments with feedback will help many professionals who are currently struggling in this particular field.

Curious though …Do you have any solutions to share as well?

Fire Away and Pass it On!
~Annie

WHY Talk About Vaccines in a Professional Forum like Linkedin?

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Sat, 12 Mar 2011 06:00:00 +0000

As you may recall, I ran a show this past week on the topic of “Do I Give My Child a Flu Shot” featuring my close friend for years, Dr. Edward Group III from Global Healing Center. Team Hurricane did a phenomenal job in posting program info and details in various professional forums, one of which was on Linkedin.

Earlier yesterday, I came across a comment posted on Linkedin that read as follows:

“Please explain what this has to do with business. LinkedIn is a business link.”

What a great request! I was thrilled to catch this. WHY? Simply because this particular thought runs in the minds of so many people, and finally someone stepped forward and openly communicated what was on his mind. Imagine how many professionals on Linkedin this wonderful gentleman helped, whether or not that was his intention, by coming forward and requesting for an explanation. Certainly gave me an opportunity to dive right in and do what I love doing best – explaining WHY behind it all!

That said, I honored this gentleman's request by explaining in this manner …

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"About a month ago, I had asked the following question on Linkedin:

What are your two most valuable assets in business and in life?

1. Time and Money
2. Sales Staff & Customer List
3. Tangible & Intellectual Property
4. Time and Energy
5. Family and Health
6. Time and Space
7. You and Human Capital

Once you decide on your final answer, explain "WHY" with clarity of purpose.”

Was simply promising to see answers that came back to "family and health," "time and energy"...

Now...

Questions in the form of answers:

1. Just because we are CEO-s, entrepreneurs, professionals, does that make us
immune to life's on goings, particularly when it concerns the health of our kids -- of our future leaders?

2. When we say the health of our kids is important to us, does that not mean at ALL times, including when we are doing business whether at work, or networking in a professional, virtual forum?

3. Do business professionals and leaders have children of their own to care for? Does that not make them parents as well? Aren't their children a very important reason as to WHY they work long hours to make sure their families are safe, secure, and well taken care of?

4. Even if one does not have children, does he or she not have colleagues,
business partners who are parents with children or pregnant with children on the way, who are perhaps open to receiving valuable "health" information that can be of benefit?

5. Very important... Without our heath and energy, how can we run our business
effectively? Moving along to the next question...

6. If one's child got sick as a result of a flu shot (IMPORTANT: See “Valuable Reads and Resources from Global Healing Center -- Links Below) and showed unusual symptoms, will that not affect the overall focus, effectiveness, efficiency of one's day in the office (let us remember, while a professional at work, a parent at home), thereby affecting one's productive time and energy? Could this have been avoided by choosing to be aware of information that can help sustain better health at home, while ensuring a peace of mind at work?

7. "Success" is a relative, subjective term, defined uniquely by others regardless from what walk of life. But no matter how we define it, investing "time" in gaining knowledge that can add to our "health" can only contribute more toward our present and future success. After all, are they not connected?

My Goal is to Learn ONE Thing New Every Day!

In business and in life for that matter, we always encourage one another to learn on a daily basis. How many times have you heard the following specific objective communicated throughout your journey: “My goal is to learn ONE thing new every day”?

Therefore, if we are to take "learning" as "conditional", limiting our daily learning by what we uniquely construe and individually define as “what is” or “what is not” business, we can unintentionally blind ourselves toward unexpected, unwanted, unintended consequences that could have been avoided, had we taken a proactive moment to learn, apply our goal, and pass that knowledge along to those we care about, and to those who can benefit from it.

And if that’s not bad enough, because of our personal thinking and beliefs, unless we are careful and purposeful, we are in effect depriving other professionals/parents from gaining knowledge that may have been vital to him or her – a perfect example of an “unintended consequence” leading toward more unintended consequences, such as emergency hospitalization -- and that is no exaggeration! How can that be good for anyone's business?

Bottom-line, HEALTH beginning with our kids, with ourselves, is VITAL to our long-term success, and the two go hand in hand -- hence my WHY behind posting about vaccines in a professional forum like linkedin.

Hope my explanation to your request as to “what this has to do with business” has now been clarified. ~Annie

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Valuable Reads & Resource Links from Global Healing Center to Research:

Dear Why Annie Armen readers, what are your thoughts to all this?

An inquiring Hurricane would like to know. Post your comments immediately below!

Pass it on!

~Annie

Annie Armen Show Presents: It’s Not The End! What Matters is How You Finish!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 10:25:00 +0000

Annie Armen Show Presents

Topic for Discussion: It's NOT the end! What Matters is How You Finish!
Featured Guest: YOU

Time: 3pm PT | 4pm MT | 5pm CT | 6pm ET

Where: Annie Armen LIVE | World Talk Radio Channel

Published on: iTunes for the Annie Armen Show available on the go!

Note: Prior to calling in, to ensure quality sound, please turn off your cell phones, lower the volume all the way down on your computers, and be sure you are in an area that is quiet to avoid any outside noise interferences. Also, it is preferable that you call in using a land line than using your cell phone or a cordless phone.
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"I am here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow into a mountain, not to shrink to a grain of sand. Henceforth will I apply ALL my efforts to become the highest mountain of all and I will strain my potential until it cries for mercy." ~Og Mandino – Greatest Salesman in the World

Dear Why Annie Armen Readers,

Right now, in this very moment, are you going through a difficult time? Do you feel helpless in your given situation, and feel stuck, not knowing what to do, where to go, who to talk to? Do you truly believe that there is no hope to get you out of your quick sand, whatever that quick sand is to you? Somewhere along the line, do you feel your faith has been contaminated, where you just don’t know what to believe anymore? In a given split second, has the faint thought of the very words, “it’s all over” crossed your mind, and that you’ve reached the end of your rope?

No doubt, life has its twists and turns; at times in our favor, and at other times, plain unfavorable. Of course, the ideal situation would be to experience more pleasantries in life then having to go through struggles and challenges. However, we both know that behind each and every problem, there lies our greatest window of opportunity should we choose to persist with the problem long enough to solve it and find out.

So, What Do you do? Do you Sink or Swim?

Allow me to paint you a picture in this manner:
Imagine for a moment, you have no arms; you have no legs. In fact, you were born this way. Now, when you fall, do you stay down? Or, do you pray for someone to come to your rescue and help you back up? What if there is no one available in that given moment? Do you wait while face down on the ground until someone arrives to elevate you back up? Or, do you do everything you can to get yourself off the ground?

Now, perhaps this next question may cross your mind… How can someone with no limbs get himself/herself back up without any help? If in fact you asked yourself this question, it is indeed a great question, one drawn from logic.

With that, I am challenging you with the following: If you are capable of asking such a great logical question, how about transferring some of that mental energy and fueling up your inner heart and will to believe that you CAN get up, and that you WILL commit yourself by taking consistent action toward getting back up no matter how many times you fall trying, and no matter how long it takes! Easier said than done? Of course! However, have you considered that possibility as a choice?

Do You Know "What" ONE Word Stands Between Sink and Swim?

Let’s think about this for a moment … What is the ONE word that stands between sink or swim, between you staying face down on the ground or getting back up? The ONE word that lurks in the background, hidden from eyes that can tangibly see, silent from ears that can hear, yet always there, available 24/7 at your beck and call, waiting for you to seize and take action.

I am dedicating tonight’s show to one rare human being. A human being who defines “EXTRA” in front of ordinary; a human being who crushes the word “impossible” and by his faith and actions, exemplifies POSSIBLE. When I came across this man’s journey, heard his motivational presentations, in my opinion, he stood out as the best motivational speaker I have ever come across to date.

WHO is this man you ask?

TUNE IN TONIGHT and I will reveal answers to this and many others questions you may have. In fact, I am inviting you to call in and join me, LIVE on the air. When you hear what I have to share, I believe you will immediately feel empowered, and you will experience a surge to get back up and rise above your circumstances.

WHY? Because YOU CAN!

WHY? Because “It’s Not the End; What Matters is How You Finish” … Always remember this!

Napoleon Bonaparte said, “The Word IMPOSSIBLE is not in my dictionary.”

I am asking you …. is the word “impossible” in yours? If “Yes”, what are you going to do about it? Post your comments below, I want to hear from you!

“If one of moment of fear can give birth to failure, then one moment of FAITH can reverse it!” ~Annie Armen

Two Children

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Sun, 27 Feb 2011 13:45:00 +0000

AnnieBiotics®

"Dive into your soul
Search and you will find
The answers to all your doubts
The priceless gift of who you are!

Don’t give up, believe in yourself, You are blessed, to exist, So put your talents to the test!

You are meant to be, can’t you see. You have a legacy, unstoppable be!" ~Annie Armen

I kindly invite you to take a moment with me to think about all the potential scientists, scholars, poets, composers, gifted musicians, educators, and like professionals we have lost due to neglect, lack of communication | encouragement | validation growing up, lack of parental leadership as one, due to destructive labeling of kids, abuse whether mentally | emotionally | physically... all amounting to lack of unconditional LOVE.

Now, think about adults (kids all grown up yet carrying the child within) who walk through life broken. He or she believes they do not deserve the best that life can offer. Such adults live their lives carrying at times, unbearable inner scars and fears; in essence becoming their own worst enemy, pursuing life and business decisions with doubts, indecisiveness, guilt, self-hatred, lack of confidence, lack of self respect, hopelessness, helplessness ... functioning without purpose, without vision, without joy, without any kind of Faith, completely oblivious and apathetic to "WHY" he or she is here on earth. Painfully sad, isn't it?

On the flip side, you read about childhood and adult success stories. How did they manage to breakthrough those challenges and eventually succeed?

So what is the difference between these children? Between these adults who carry those same children within? Why do only a few make it while many struggle through business and life?

Just over 10 years ago, when I first started producing my television program in Los Angeles, I came across a simple yet uniquely profound poem titled, "Two Children", written by my favorite author -- "Unknown". It goes something like this:

Two Children

Same family,
Same neighborhood,
Same school,
Same stress,

Same neglect,
Same abuse,
Sullen, withdrawn,
One shrinks,
The other grows,
Warm, popular.
One finds nourishment, the other hardens.

What is the difference?

One found a caring adult,
The other did not,
One was encouraged,
The other was not,
One was expected to succeed,
The other was assumed to fail.
One pops back, one stays down.
Both are children.
Both are the future.

-- Unknown

Any Questions? How about thoughts, comments?

~Annie Armen

Flaunt Your Marriage!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Why Annie Armen) — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 06:51:00 +0000

How exciting to hear about two people who choose to stay true to their vows, who honor their commitments to one another, who choose NOT to give up when the going gets tough, and stick it out long enough to share in the many roller coaster adventures when riding this train called marriage!

Look, No One Said it Was Ever Going to be Easy!

There are times when two people can’t get enough of one another, and then there are times where husband and wife are ready to duke it out (figuratively speaking of course), tempering themselves from having to strangle one another out of daily frustrations. I suppose it all comes with the territory! Gotta love being human!

Let’s face it … day in and day out, we hear about broken relationships, betrayals, lies, divorces, and more. Why? Here’s the unfortunate truth. As much as people say they hate drama, it is the VERY event they are drawn to most! On the one hand, many get all righteous and preach a good game! Then, not 60 seconds later, he or she will turn the tube on, bump up the volume and intently listen to what’s happening in the lives of celebrities like Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, or watch Jerry Springer, and the like. Does that make some of us hypocrites? Without a doubt! However, once again, gotta love being human!

So, I decided since others are bountifully covering the "drama" sides of relationships, sex, lust, and cheating ... I am choosing to celebrate YOUR marriage, YOUR anniversary! Very rare we hear about or celebrate marriages that last. WHY? Probably because there is no juicy gossip, no drama involved, where lives can be wrecked in an instant for the vain purpose of drawing in a crowd to bump up ratings and pointless attention! Seriously, pretty pathetic if you ask me.

Here’s the Bottom Line

Staying married & making it work through thick & thin, is a HUGE commitment, HUGE accomplishment, one that is worth celebrating in a MEGA way, shouting through the roof tops! KUDOS TO ALL OF YOU WHO HAVE TAKEN THE MEANING OF RELATIONSHIP, THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL!

So by all means, FLAUNT YOUR MARRIAGE & introduce yourself here by posting your comments below! What an honor to have this particular blog post with your marriage shout outs archived for the long-term, inspiring many across the globe! My prayer is for less divorce, less separation, and MORE anniversary celebrations throughout the world!

Challenge to Why Annie Armen Readers

What do you find to be the common denominators between achieving a successful marriage with your significant other in life, and achieving a successful marriage with your business? How are the two connected, and WHY?

Fire Away!

~Annie Armen

Why Annie Armen

20 Quotes on COMMUNICATION in Business and in Life!

Has Media put a Spell on you? -- Tribute to Whitney Houston and Michael Jackson

Communicate Anyway!

2012 New Year Message ... Inspired by Og Mandino

12 Quotes for Christmas

5. “There are only two ways to live your LIFE. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” ~Albert Einstein

Annie Armen Show Presents: Generate Revenues Using Social Media --Part 3 of Series

That Does it ... I’ve had Just About Enough of This!

The Brick ... A Thanksgiving Message

“Two kinds of GRATITUDE: The sudden kind we feel for what we take; the larger kind we feel for what we give.” ~Edwin Arlington Robinson

WHY "The Brick" as a Thanksgiving Message? While tempted to give you the answer now, please read on... The message will become clear as the story unfolds. The content is written by my favorite author ... "Author Unknown".

The Brick ... A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

“There are only two ways to live your LIFE. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” ~Albert Einstein

What is YOUR Definition of a Perfect Partnership in Business?

Annie Armen Presents: Tony MacAlpine -- Celebrity Artist ON FIRE (Beat 4)

Annie Armen Show Presents: Heart 2 Heart with Artists ON FIRE!

What IS the Right Price and WHY?

Are You Tempted to Quit?

Annie Armen Show Presents: Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 3

Annie Armen Show Presents: Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 2

Annie Armen Show Presents: Artists ON FIRE (Series) -- Beat 1

Are You Leaving Your AUTHENTIC Mark?

Annie Armen Show Presents: THRIVE, Don't Survive!

When Did s/he Give the Impression s/he Needed Your Advice?

20 Quotes on VALUES in Business and in Life!

When you hear the words, "I am a Life Coach" -- What thoughts come to mind? BE HONEST!

WHY Talk About Vaccines in a Professional Forum like Linkedin?

Annie Armen Show Presents: It’s Not The End! What Matters is How You Finish!

Two Children

Flaunt Your Marriage!!!

“Two kinds of GRATITUDE:
The sudden kind we feel for what we take; the larger kind we feel for what we give.” ~Edwin Arlington Robinson

WHY "The Brick" as a Thanksgiving Message?
While tempted to give you the answer now, please read on... The message will become clear as the story unfolds. The content is written by my favorite author ... "Author Unknown".

The Brick ...
A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.