tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30978852711160645892011-07-07T14:30:48.337-07:00speedstickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155663679676527205noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097885271116064589.post-19374446400002825392009-08-02T21:14:00.001-07:002009-08-02T21:55:41.706-07:002009-08-02T21:55:41.706-07:00<div>OK so you want to know HOW TO be a gentleman ?</div><div><br /></div><div>Well my friend there's two things that make you a GENTLEMAN.</div><div><br /></div><div>Being well EDUCATED.</div><div>Being well DRESSED.</div><div><br /></div><div>and I'm going to share five rules of gentleman EDUCATION</div><div>and five rules of gentleman FASHION.</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:48px;">_____________</span></div><div><b> EDUCATION is RESPECT</b></div><div><br /></div><div>Lets start with how to be EDUCATED = there's lessons you only learn from your parents but there's lessons you find out by your-self I'm going to share with you the lessons i have learned by reading the book "ADVANCE YOUR SWAGGER" written by "Fonzworth Bentley" and also common sense that some people don't have.</div><div><br /></div><div>1= DON'T EVER CURSE </div><div>(I know is hard but you have to control it) if you are a girl and you are reading this sorry but by cursing you look like a hood rat and if you are a dude CHILL you are not all that OK ?</div><div><br /></div><div>2= HAVE SOME PHONE ETIQUETTE FOR GOD SAKE !!!</div><div>if you are talking to someone on the phone don't text someone else or listen to music out loud just because you like the radio 99.9 it doesn't mean i like the same alright ? and plus show some respect to the other person on the line.</div><div><br /></div><div>3= LISTEN TO PEOPLE AND BE HONEST </div><div>(Do not lie or be fake) give your best advice </div><div>and make sure to listen the whole story before saying things you are not sure about and don't</div><div>be a hypocrite if you want to say something to someone do it face to face.</div><div><br /></div><div>4= DO NOT PLAY WOMEN (if they play you please have patience its their lost) </div><div><br /></div><div>5= EAT LIKE A PERSON FROM SOCIETY CAVE MAN TIMES ARE OVER.</div><div>chew your food before you talk or better don't talk. put your phone on vibrate no one wants to listen to your ring-tone. and please do not I MEAN DO NOT touch your food with your hand besides its eaten that way.</div><div><br /></div><div> There are many more RULES to learn you can buy the book ADVANCE YOUR SWAGGER" written by "Fonzworth Bentley" or just think before acting and that's very simple.</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:7;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:48px;">_____________</span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><b> DRESSING RIGHT is right !</b></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:'trebuchet ms';">Before you dress You need to know some info.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:'trebuchet ms';">Where are you going ?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';">What is more normal to wear on the occasion ? </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"><br /></span></div><div>OK the next step is how to DRESS = To look good on your clothes you have to take care of your self first i mean hair cuts, showers, shave things you should r-ready be doing daily Look your self in the mirror and be honest see the things you need to fix on you.</div><div><br /></div><div>1= DO NOT WEAR OVERSIZED CLOTHING.</div><div>you are only excused if you are a monk. clothing must be fallowing your body curves not hide it, if you are over weight wear something with horizontal stripes or something black it makes you look thinner.</div><div><br /></div><div>2= DO NOT WEAR TO TIGHT CLOTHING.</div><div>wear things that fit you and allow you to move you never know when you need to run for that quicky quicky do NOT wear your pants low no one wants to see that brown stain on your underwear or the Huggies diaper your mom got you.</div><div><br /></div><div>3= DO NOT THINK YOU ARE BETTER THEN PEOPLE BECAUSE THE WAY YOU DRESS.</div><div>trust me no one is better then anyone do this for your self and no one else,if someone</div><div>dresses bad don't say anything if not asked to give your advice by the person who is involved.</div><div><br /></div><div>4= PRICES DO NOT MATTER.</div><div> if you got a shirt at Walmart it doesn't mean you are a bum</div><div>the most important thing is putting everything together with good taste.</div><div><br /></div><div>5= DID YOU VOTE FOR PEDRO ? ARE YOU A STAR WARS FAN ?</div><div> guess what ? no one cares do not wear shirts with designs you are only allowed to wear small logos like RALPH LAUREN has on its Polo's. are you being payed to promote OLD NAVY IM NOT,if you feel comfortable promoting their brand then this tips are not for you.</div><div><br /></div><div>I do not know rules about women fashions BUT DAM MY MOM LOOKS BEAUTIFULL WHEN SHE DRESSES !! so if you are a girl and you are reading this my opinion is dress with self respect</div><div>and also if you want to go to clubs get drunk dance with 10000 guys and act like a lady of the night maybe you should just disgrace your-self before you pregnant belly does.</div><div>For the dudes If you want to act like a gentleman go ahead its good to become Mature early !</div><div>talk to people that can critic the truth (but watch out ! because some people over do it and lie) get someone to help you also please do not act wild its not necessary relax stay calm and go slow things will come on the right time if you want to fallow the way someone dresses go ahead get someone to inspire from nothing bad about that just make sure they know how to dress. Like for me my main inspiration was my grandfather so get one ! why not huh ?</div><div>and if you got any relationship problems read the other posts share your story we might all relate.</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:48px;">_____________</span></div><div>For the latest Hip-hop and daily news also fashion visit</div><div><a href="http://allurbantalk.blogspot.com/">http://allurbantalk.blogspot.com/</a></div><div>New rules COMING SOON !</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(102, 102, 102); white-space: pre; font-family:Arial;font-size:10px;"><a href="http://s175.photobucket.com/albums/w125/nathanomestre/?action=view&amp;current=advance-your-swagger-1.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w125/nathanomestre/advance-your-swagger-1.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket" /></a></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:Arial;font-size:7;color:#666666;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 48px; white-space: pre;"><br /></span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Sincerely your publisher = N.Martins.</div><div>HAVE A GOOD ONE !</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3097885271116064589-1937444640000282539?l=gentlemanspot.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9mQyEiT7fa54CgsPzIm4XK4ya-0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9mQyEiT7fa54CgsPzIm4XK4ya-0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9mQyEiT7fa54CgsPzIm4XK4ya-0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9mQyEiT7fa54CgsPzIm4XK4ya-0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhyAreWeGentlemans/~4/h1ErwS5EdTM" height="1" width="1"/>speedstickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155663679676527205noreply@blogger.com3http://gentlemanspot.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-to-be-gentleman.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097885271116064589.post-18015637745239466222009-07-01T00:07:00.000-07:002009-12-24T17:38:37.903-08:002009-12-24T17:38:37.903-08:00<div><br /></div><div>A good man wrote this as a coment on my old post</div><div>and now what he felt before is a good replica of my feelings now.</div><div><br /></div><div>He said </div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 20px; font-size:13px;">"Its funny how you think u finally found someone to make u happy but thats the person who brings u down further and u believe all love is lost. Until the next time they pop back in ur life with the same sitution and u fall for it every time but the problem with this hole thing is i lost the girl to another man and she sticks on me like glue as if he was never there i head for friends to give advice and wat i got was everything to push me foward in life, so at this point my boys kept me moving and i had life in place. but as always there she is and we get even closer and at this point we tell each other everything and u feel that ur the one 4 her even though she doesnt feel the same way and as everything is confusing enough anyother girl comes in ur life and turns it 180 degrees this girl likes u and u think its to good tol b true but when u think about it u dont care cause this first girl got u in a hold that u feel is stronger than life its self so the other girl justs proves more of the point that u like this girl that has a man. So now u stay talking to this girl as much as u can and u realize that shes upset most of the time cause her man doesnt like her talking to u and shes the one who ends up sad and has tohandle this all on her own and it happens over and over. so thats when it comes down to the lesson i have learned by love and thats the one lesson people tend to hate the most. the truth is i had to leave this girl and keep her out of my mind so im trying to say IF U LOVE SOMEONE STRONG ENOUGH THAT UR ONE TRUE PASSION IS TO SEE THAT PERSON HAPPY IS TO LET THEM GO BECAUSE IF THEY HAVE WAT THEY WANT AND UR THE ONE THAT MAKES THE PROBLEM U HAVE ONE CHOICE IS TO LET THEM B HAPPY<br />thats y im the man who lost<br />sincerely love"</span></div><div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;color:#666666;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 19px;font-size:13px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:100%;color:#666666;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 19px;font-size:13px;"> </span></span></div><div> "WELL MY SITUATION NOW IS"</div><div><br /></div><div>If you think love is amazing well my brother i will have to tell you </div><div>Love is not what you think it is... I have realized love is a lesson that we feel coming but we take time to learn from it.. I'm not going to lie i hate love now.. its hard to be rejected your whole life i mean i always been rejected because i was poor, ugly etc ...i always wanted people to notice my personality since they hated the outside (my character and word is my life). But people never noticed my personality man..i was on the point on giving up on coexisting with human beings until this one girl came along ..when i told her she was the best thing that ever happen to me she didn't get it ..and it was so true what i said to her because she helped me realize there's still people that OPEN their eyes to see ..and that not everyone is cold like i was thinking..well she liked me and i wanted her to stop liking me because i knew she was going to regret later on..i asked her so many times why do you like me ? are you sure you want this ? she always responded </div><div>(YES IM SURE I WANT YOU) (I LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOUR NOT LIKE EVEYONE ELSE AND STOP ASKING OMG) well that certain she had.. made me fall for her everything was fine until she closed her eyes then my personality on her vision was gone and the person she was in love with is a old TRASH old news..the thing that hurts the most is that she don't want me no more she told me she doesn't want to have the responsibility of a GF but why did she WANT that with her ex's and not me ? why did she have time to hang with other people but not 10 min with me since she loved me so much ? why she says she care but don't make one phone call ? why she says she wants me but next day she doesn't WHY ? well idk and im tired of confusion and fake preaching.. to tell you the truth i don't care anymore ( i can't care anymore ) i have forced my self to move on from her and no it wasn't easy i used to wake up and think about her and go to sleep hugging my pillow thinking about her i used to wish i would see her on my dream since i didn't see her that day ..BUT now things are different since she don't want me anymore and i cant do anything but respect her wishes and because i want her happy i will leave her alone and i will move on from being rejected again ( i got used to it ) AND I don't blame her for anything i blame me for anything that happen even tho i haven't done anything but tell her how much i liked her and the lesson i learned from love was that love teaches you things time to time to make you think twice next time on w.e decision you make something simple that took a long time for me to learn.</div><div><br /></div><div>What is the lesson you learned from love ?</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Sinceriyl the new me.</div><div><br /></div><div>this song represents the new chapter on my life.</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; white-space: pre; "><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/i4LQBv2eMLk&amp;hl=en_US&amp;fs=1&amp;"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/i4LQBv2eMLk&amp;hl=en_US&amp;fs=1&amp;" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object></span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3097885271116064589-1801563774523946622?l=gentlemanspot.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/FZKmZPXVh9uw9htDN99AQoEtG1I/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/FZKmZPXVh9uw9htDN99AQoEtG1I/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/FZKmZPXVh9uw9htDN99AQoEtG1I/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/FZKmZPXVh9uw9htDN99AQoEtG1I/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhyAreWeGentlemans/~4/_7l-J2RAcU0" height="1" width="1"/>speedstickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155663679676527205noreply@blogger.com7http://gentlemanspot.blogspot.com/2009/07/im-sorryis-love-teacher-what-did-you.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097885271116064589.post-88826251146993314042009-05-16T16:01:00.000-07:002009-05-18T17:40:06.690-07:002009-05-18T17:40:06.690-07:00<div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(85, 26, 139); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); white-space: pre-wrap; font-family:'-webkit-sans-serif';font-size:14px;"><div style="text-align: left; "><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline; -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "> </span><br /></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;"><blockquote></blockquote>My life has always been A roller coaster it goes UP and DOWN all the time all the problems i got i fixed it. but there is a empty space inside me and that space is requesting for a girl that empty space is asking for love I KNOW IT IS. I will share my story with you maybe you can share yours with me. I was deeply in love with this girl(A) there was something that she had that got me hypnotized i even disrespected her pride i called her a Slut (to test her because the way she was acting) to see what she was going to do and she didn't do anything negative but say nice things to me so after that i knew she was perfect for what i wanted to do i was looking forward on changing her into a good person so i showed her some tough love to make her better then she was r-ready while i was helping Girl(A) a another girl(B) came along she liked me allot she was fallowing me around telling me she cared about me but i didn't take her seriously because i was in love with someone else and i told her that since Day one ( in order to respect her feelings ) i was sick and tired of trying to start a relationship with with Girl(A) she loved to party etc i needed to forget about her i needed that so much in order to sleep at night i even prayed i had her trust she never lied to me. Girl(A) stopped smoking and drinking maybe my mission was accomplished for a while i don't know what her status is (today) because she refuses to talk to me now ( i blew her respect towards me when she most needed me ) so i have no idea how she's doing today but i pray that she's doing fine. __________________________________________________________________________________ i thought about giving girl(B) a chance she always told me ( i love you ) ( i don't like to party ) but after we got more serious the true colors came out she was a totally different person she had party's every week meet her ex's around. and hates when i complain about it so i come up being the bad person in the end i cant forget the fact that she lies to me and something that upsets me is that i like her now and she is acting so strange i cant understand how a person would waste their time after a dude and after they got the dude they wanted so much they just get in the IDC status she says she loves me but has no time for me she has time for people who don't care about her i have no idea on what to do so i guess i will just go where ever the boat floats me........ __________________________________________________________________________________ I'm a man looking forward on having a good time with someone that wants a serious relationship i want someone that doesnt change their minds like the weather i want someone confident on what they want and need and someone who doesnt lie so i can help her broken heart help heal mines. whats your love story ? share it on a comment names are NOT needed sincerely Lucky God bless.</span><br /></div></span></span></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3097885271116064589-8882625114699331404?l=gentlemanspot.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_LLUqrLjUylIZMXaAoR06rhDGwM/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_LLUqrLjUylIZMXaAoR06rhDGwM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_LLUqrLjUylIZMXaAoR06rhDGwM/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/_LLUqrLjUylIZMXaAoR06rhDGwM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhyAreWeGentlemans/~4/JjyIPlatFCU" height="1" width="1"/>speedstickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155663679676527205noreply@blogger.com10http://gentlemanspot.blogspot.com/2009/05/i-cant-understand-why.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097885271116064589.post-75542663875745742912009-04-01T18:08:00.000-07:002009-04-01T18:12:47.929-07:002009-04-01T18:12:47.929-07:00<a href="http://s175.photobucket.com/albums/w125/nathanomestre/?action=view&amp;current=againsttheworld-Copy-1-1.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i175.photobucket.com/albums/w125/nathanomestre/againsttheworld-Copy-1-1.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket" /></a><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3097885271116064589-993264586933142975?l=gentlemanspot.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ic-vtFQ3vk2dkvm6KmNwhxcM1BI/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ic-vtFQ3vk2dkvm6KmNwhxcM1BI/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ic-vtFQ3vk2dkvm6KmNwhxcM1BI/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Ic-vtFQ3vk2dkvm6KmNwhxcM1BI/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhyAreWeGentlemans/~4/Nwv9RaSzfdE" height="1" width="1"/>speedstickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155663679676527205noreply@blogger.com1http://gentlemanspot.blogspot.com/2009/01/game-against-love.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097885271116064589.post-52682308544550039752009-01-21T17:37:00.001-08:002009-01-21T17:48:27.209-08:002009-01-21T17:48:27.209-08:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: -webkit-monospace; font-size: 13px; white-space: pre-wrap; ">Well man when a plane falls what happens ? People go to rescue it correct ? A girl with a broken heart is the same thing she needs help and she deserves it because every women deserves to be treated like a QUEEN so when she falls make sure to be there ready to help her The most important thing is to be yourself she might not realize how much you can do, and be for her but one day she will. Sincerely LUCKY </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 13px; white-space: pre;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 13px; white-space: pre;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Verdana; font-size: 18px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 16px;"><br /></span><div><br /></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3097885271116064589-5268230854455003975?l=gentlemanspot.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lWxXTIO0TBPQYA14_uUvhnTmi6I/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lWxXTIO0TBPQYA14_uUvhnTmi6I/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lWxXTIO0TBPQYA14_uUvhnTmi6I/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lWxXTIO0TBPQYA14_uUvhnTmi6I/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhyAreWeGentlemans/~4/-l7WWDpf-Yo" height="1" width="1"/>speedstickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155663679676527205noreply@blogger.com0http://gentlemanspot.blogspot.com/2009/01/should-we-give-up.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097885271116064589.post-67214017366468358042009-01-21T16:32:00.001-08:002009-01-26T18:49:16.789-08:002009-01-26T18:49:16.789-08:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style=" white-space: pre-wrap; font-family:-webkit-monospace;font-size:13px;">Ok my man ! I want you to close your eyes, and imagine the most beautiful girl in this world. Does she look happy ? Does she smile like there is no tomorrow ? I bet she does. But here is one thing I have to tell you, people can hide lies sadness inside by having a simple smile But the truth is that they are suffering inside. Is hard to be a gentleman looking for true love if all women care this days are Shoes, clothing brands , the car you have , and the phone you use. Personality is garbage. There are girls with different point of view's For example: This girl from my school has the best smile in the world she dated many guys that broke her heart then after that she dated a pothead that was about to start selling what kind of men is this ? After a while she started dating this guy that is a Uneducated person who doesn't deserve her, and that will hurt her heart but i know one thing she doesn't care about what you are wearing and that makes her SPECIAL. Now you sit and think ... "DAM that girl needs help" yes I thought the same thing but when you offer her help to show what love really is she doesn't want to know so she says: (I don't care about you or what you think) so now you ask your self just like I ask my self all the time " Is it worthed to be a gentleman ? " that question I don't have the answer for it But I can tell you one thing Everyone will get the person they deserve one day. Sincerely LUCKY</span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3097885271116064589-6721401736646835804?l=gentlemanspot.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div> <p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bU3pTASPTYQ370kqOiPTmINTfR4/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bU3pTASPTYQ370kqOiPTmINTfR4/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bU3pTASPTYQ370kqOiPTmINTfR4/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bU3pTASPTYQ370kqOiPTmINTfR4/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/WhyAreWeGentlemans/~4/6hk4F8copoY" height="1" width="1"/>speedstickhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08155663679676527205noreply@blogger.com6http://gentlemanspot.blogspot.com/2009/01/are-we-wasting-our-times.html