tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57614556579137055322024-09-20T10:34:37.815-04:00LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-90048567612895784362008-09-22T19:43:00.007-04:002008-09-22T21:41:57.389-04:00

Researchers at Karolinska Institute in Stockholm, are stating that they found a correlation between genes of cheating voles( similar to a mouse) and genes of men who cheat on their spouse. The gene was present in 2 out of 5 men studied. The study shows that if you have this gene your more likely to have martial problems. If you have 2 kinds of the gene variant then your in double the trouble.

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-46600642280522387492008-08-04T02:29:00.007-04:002008-08-04T12:41:56.758-04:00

Lately there has been a big discussion on the net about "What's the New What," segment on NPR. On July 24, 2008 youth's radio Pendarvis Harshaw aired an essay called, "Sex Without Condoms Is The New Engagement Ring," this has brought some truly negative comments to NPR. Youth Radio's Pendarvis Harshaw says that among his friends, the transition from condoms to no-condoms signifies a lasting

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-35036543598702582592008-07-24T05:47:00.002-04:002008-07-24T06:28:06.157-04:00

My opinion in this book honestly doesn't matter. I don't want this project to become a book of bias material. I want to get to the real reasons for cheating and why it has become a standard in most long term relationships. However, this does not mean that I have not been effected by cheating. In my opinion cheating is something that is so selfish. When someone cheats, in my eyes, at that

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-69752616319820737952008-06-23T00:00:00.006-04:002008-07-30T23:05:32.169-04:00

I did an interview with a wonderful couple whom have an open marriage. Their views on cheating was slightly different than most. Susan is an Senior V.P. of a corporation, Nathan Executive of a major company so needless to say they travel a lot. This was indeed an enlightening interview.LWilson: I see that you in the married but looking chat room, are you looking for a fling?Nathan: No, just

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-78120433403117259642008-06-20T14:57:00.003-04:002008-06-20T15:14:01.691-04:00

I was 17 when my sexual education began. "You are responsible for your own orgasm,” my boyfriend told me. He was the guy I lost my virginity to, the guy I had my first orgasm with, and the guy whose words would one day become my mantra: I am responsible for my own orgasm. I believe that literally and figuratively. In bed, I play an active role in getting what I want. But I also take charge of

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-84191911707365421122008-06-06T14:41:00.008-04:002008-06-06T14:57:11.294-04:00

Well we all have seen serval politicans,whom seem to have a lot to lose, involed in some kind of cheating. I found an interesting article about why they may cheat.His Cheating BrainWhy do powerful men risk everything for sex? It has to do with brain chemistry, evolution and, yes, testosterone.We'll never know exactly what New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer was thinking when he allegedly arranged a

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-929254337964924932008-06-05T21:13:00.008-04:002008-06-06T01:09:05.473-04:00

I read a very interesting article on AskMen.com while doing a little research so I decided to share.Can Cheating Be Healthy For A Relationship?Let me guess; you did a double take when you read the title of this article, right? I'm not condoning cheating in a relationship, nor denying that it's wrong to cheat. I'm merely suggesting that in some cases, cheating may be beneficial to a relationship.

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-58106490782431255912008-05-06T08:54:00.003-04:002008-06-06T02:28:59.116-04:00

Women today I learned that some of us are very confusing. Check out this very confusing interview. LWilson: Why do you think men cheat?Howard: Because women are confusing.LWilson: What do you mean by confusing?Howard: Women always say they want a good man, someone that will take care of home. But, the fact is that when they get that they are not happy. Women like a men that will treat them like

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-30633327252584508612008-04-28T13:52:00.003-04:002008-04-28T13:58:28.319-04:00

You’re doing all you can to fight back the tears and convince yourself that you won’t be a punk when it comes to this. Yet no matter how much you try to stick to your “manly” guns, you find yourself tossing and turning at night, repeatedly asking this one question…“Why did she cheat on me?”You’ve contemplated several scenarios in an attempt to explain her behavior, yet this whole thing feels more

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-54665305710939239362008-04-28T13:38:00.002-04:002008-04-28T13:46:16.187-04:00

There is a great myth being circulated out there that women don’t cheat, women are faithful, women are loyal. Women stay home and tend the hearth. This is, of course, a lie. Think about it – in this day and age, women have the same rights as men. Men and women are almost equal in terms of economic, social, political and domestic power in the western world. A few decades ago, women did not have

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-70981079558388632202008-03-30T13:27:00.005-04:002008-03-31T10:46:50.861-04:00

I'm always online researching for my book I found some interesting articles so I thought I would share. The articles are not post in their entirety a link at the bottom of each one will take you to the full article.Why Do Men Cheat? by Elaine SiheraObviously, women cheat too. But as the question came from a woman, only men will be dealt with here.Men cheat for all sorts of reasons, sometimes it

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-81975287338851315592008-03-05T21:13:00.006-05:002008-03-19T10:37:11.078-04:00

I interviewed a 45 year old man, whom I would have never guessed has cheated on he wife. When I asked him if he did not mind doing an interview he said, "No not at all I'll be online for a while I'm planning a romantic day for my wife for her birthday, I just got to find the perfect gift to show her how much I love her." His response to that made me think that he would never cheat, but never

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-58031373411112821562008-02-19T21:40:00.004-05:002008-02-19T22:05:50.230-05:00

Since I have been getting so many different opinions on things that I have posted on this blog here is everyone's opportunity to give their 2 cents. If you would like to be interviewed for the book you are more then welcome. I will gladly interview anyone whom is willing. Or if you have a comment that you would like me to post for you, I would be happy to post it. You may email me at

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-30519022315969060372008-02-12T18:39:00.002-05:002008-02-13T23:34:55.656-05:00

I have been getting some negative feed back from men about what I'm trying to do. First, let me just say I'm not here for male bashing, once again! This is NOT a one-sided book, everything that is said on this blog and in the book will be direct quotes from men and women. I do not alter anyone’s opinion! Men you are so important in women's lives and all I want to do is give you a voice. So many

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-17657180601292741802008-01-03T16:13:00.000-05:002008-01-04T00:36:38.486-05:00

I recently did an interview with a very cool man I met online. He emailed me and asked if he could participate. This was an interview that I had to post immediately. I was absolutely floored by this interview.LWilson: Why do you think men cheat?Lance: Men cheat for a number of reasons. Boredom, sex, money, peers, there isn't just one reason for it to be honest. Women put to much emotion into the

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-50245266275289031322007-12-29T16:10:00.000-05:002008-01-01T22:27:58.224-05:00

I recently did an interview with a woman I met in a bookstore. I noticed when she walked in she was immediately noticed by the men in the store. I must admit she was very pretty and she was nicely dressed. Every isle she went down men were trying to talk to her. The married men stared until their wives brought them back to reality. I walked up to this woman and asked her if she wouldn't mind

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-17113247673448569432007-12-16T14:29:00.000-05:002007-12-28T21:40:22.382-05:00

After speaking to an older man on how he views men accepting a women cheating, I was left with my mouth wide open.LWilson: Have you ever been cheated on?Sam: Yes, when she cheated I felt it as soon as I looked at her. She was balling when I walked in the door. She broke my heart.LWilson: Did you cheat on her?Sam: Yes, but with her permission.LWilson: That would not be cheating if you had

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-40353418377086649262007-12-15T17:54:00.001-05:002007-12-23T15:48:06.228-05:00

I did an interview a few days ago with a female and these are a few of the answers she gave to the questions I asked.Do you think women enable men to cheat?Yes! Women settle all the time. If women allow it why would men change what they are doing? “Why pay for the milk when you can get it for free,” is a very true statement. Women convince themselves that is ok that he cheats with statements like

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-51401841845237194532007-11-29T16:39:00.001-05:002007-12-09T22:20:54.914-05:00

These are just a few opinions from YouTube. These videos are not a representation of my opinion on the subject!

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-35383410121853758272007-11-12T22:42:00.000-05:002007-11-12T22:49:33.504-05:00

I would like to get an idea of why both men and women think the other cheats. So the first questions will be:Women, why do you think men cheat?Women, why do women cheat?Men, why do you think women cheat?Men,why do men cheat?

LWilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10818525828084357438noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5761455657913705532.post-17176063678875843802007-11-12T22:27:00.001-05:002007-12-15T21:43:02.689-05:00

I'm starting this blog to get some information from men and women. There have been many answers to the question, but none seem to truly answer it. Cheating has been stereotyped to Men, were women cheat just as much as men. I'm going to be posting questions about cheating to give both men and women an equal chance to answer. I just want to know honest opinions about the subject from both sides.

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