<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522</id><updated>2024-11-01T12:42:16.390+02:00</updated><category term="choice"/><category term="control"/><category term="destiny"/><category term="enthusiasm"/><category term="goals"/><category term="happiness"/><category term="health"/><category term="impossible"/><category term="life"/><category term="objectives"/><category term="passion"/><category term="purpose"/><category term="success"/><category term="wealth"/><category term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>WISDOMS Light</title><subtitle type='html'>just one pearl a day.. one simple thought.. one idea.. can change YOUR entire life</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>76</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-1930188769025449063</id><published>2010-09-14T16:13:00.005+02:00</published><updated>2010-09-16T06:02:16.775+02:00</updated><title type='text'>Why Is Making Money  So UNCOMMON?</title><content type='html'>Pillar TWO - 2. &lt;a style=&quot;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);&quot; href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-add-some-personal-initiative.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Initiative&lt;/span&gt; -  dip.initiative&lt;/a&gt; - of our &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;  is ALL about making money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this program we ask a simple question:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Why is it so UNCOMMON to find people making money, retiring wealthy and living a great life..?&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We clearly provide the answers in our program... but it is a very good question for YOU to think about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why are the vast majority of people on this planet in financial difficulty?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think about it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/1930188769025449063/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/why-is-making-money-so-uncommon.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1930188769025449063'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1930188769025449063'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/why-is-making-money-so-uncommon.html' title='Why Is Making Money  So UNCOMMON?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-8304221175927813598</id><published>2010-09-13T17:05:00.007+02:00</published><updated>2010-09-14T17:13:28.115+02:00</updated><title type='text'>Wanna Make Money - Study Where The MONEY Flows</title><content type='html'>If you&#39;re really thirsty do you drive to the desert?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or... do you look for where the sweet water flows abundantly?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So if you want to make money... try get into where the mainstream of money flows with abundance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So where is that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&#39;s for YOU to research!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here&#39;s  a clue from &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gary_Vaynerchuk&quot;&gt;Gary Vaynerchuk&lt;/a&gt; - check out his &lt;a href=&quot;http://fora.tv/2009/10/23/CRUSH_IT_Gary_Vaynerchuk&quot;&gt;Crush It promo video&lt;/a&gt; (apologies for his language - not my  style, but great content) and follow the flow of a trillion dollars in  the near future&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He provides some serious clues to taking INITIATIVE in the next few months and years.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Direct-to-Consumer is coming!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me know where else the money will flow... and let&#39;s put a hand in you taste/test the sweet flow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/8304221175927813598/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/wanna-make-money-study-where-money.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/8304221175927813598'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/8304221175927813598'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/wanna-make-money-study-where-money.html' title='Wanna Make Money - Study Where The MONEY Flows'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-1225858847746976178</id><published>2010-09-13T16:45:00.004+02:00</published><updated>2010-09-14T17:08:43.494+02:00</updated><title type='text'>WISDOMS Initiative Is All About MAKING MONEY</title><content type='html'>Pillar TWO - 2. &lt;a style=&quot;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);&quot; href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-add-some-personal-initiative.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Initiative&lt;/span&gt; -  dip.initiative&lt;/a&gt; - of our &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;  is ALL about making money… it is UNASHAMEABLY about making money… it contends that making money, retiring wealthy… and loving your life… is GOOD.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This section contends that making money… is FUN… and that YOU deserve to enjoy the experience. It only scratches the surface of the tons of opportunities available in this world to make money and have fun. It is deliberately not comprehensive and serves only to open and stimulate your mind to scratch and dig deeper into moneymaking areas that interest you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This section, however, does not contend that money is the ONLY important sphere of your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many other important personal areas of your life that, for you, may well be equal to and even more important than money (e.g. your Spiritual life; your Family life; your Health; your Relationships with others; your Personal Values; how you Make A Difference in the world; etc.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This section will deliberately not deal with these important topics in strictly keeping to its simple brief - making money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This section will need just one simple requirement of you before we proceed - an OPEN MIND - to consider, thoughtfully and carefully, the simple ways of making money that we will discuss.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why do I mention the above... because too many people think that focusing on making money is something &#39;evil&#39;, or overly &#39;material&#39;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let&#39;s face it, it&#39;s better to have money, than not have it... and business is first and foremost about making profit... or MONEY!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have fun learning about it... and doing it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/1225858847746976178/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/wisdoms-initiative-is-all-about-making.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1225858847746976178'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1225858847746976178'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/wisdoms-initiative-is-all-about-making.html' title='WISDOMS Initiative Is All About MAKING MONEY'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-6057637964806219936</id><published>2010-09-12T17:24:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-09-13T16:42:05.974+02:00</updated><title type='text'>Intellectual Schmaltz Is NOT Wisdom</title><content type='html'>I happened to catch &lt;a href=&quot;http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1009/10/lkl.01.html&quot;&gt;Larry King interviewing Stephen Hawking&lt;/a&gt; on Larry King Live yesterday, discussing Hawkin&#39;s new book - Grand Design.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In on the discussion were co-author Leonard Mlodinow - physicist at Cal Tech; Father Robert J. Spitzer - Jesuit priest and president of the Magis  Center of Faith and Reason and Spitzer Center for Ethical Leadership;  Deepak Chopra - spiritual teacher and best-selling author.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1009/10/lkl.01.html&quot;&gt;Read the transcript&lt;/a&gt; - it&#39;s fascinating.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What struck me most is how intellectually stimulating they were, yet in the end they had no answers to the core question they were posing (whether they knew it or not) - does the Supreme Creator exist?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They knew everything, yet knew nothing of the most critical question probably reflected upon by most who have ever lived. Weird huh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gives credence to our view at WISDOMS... the more YOU know, the less YOU know!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep YOUR mind open... and beware the intellectual schmaltz that turns many into unthinking followers of hot air.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/6057637964806219936/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/intellectual-schmaltz-is-not-wisdom.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/6057637964806219936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/6057637964806219936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/intellectual-schmaltz-is-not-wisdom.html' title='Intellectual Schmaltz Is NOT Wisdom'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-5115918136932642625</id><published>2010-09-08T17:27:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-09-09T15:48:41.373+02:00</updated><title type='text'>It&#39;s OK To Voice YOUR Concern</title><content type='html'>Phew, our family are just now recovering from a 3-week emotional roller-coaster ride.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We&#39;ve all been laid-low from a virus contracted from my toddler grand-daughter&#39;s first foray into formal day-care, friend&#39;s lost their 21-year old son to cancer, and my cousin stopped over from America to grieve the loss of her 16-year-old son. Sleep has been sparse!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Boy, when YOU think YOU have problems, nothing compares to the pain that others carry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today, in bouncing back to this forum, I thought I&#39;d share a lesson for all service providers: &lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Never piddle-off your consumer!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is a story of how a service-provider&#39;s poor attitude to her customer exacerbated a common problem that could easily have been resolved into a no-lose for the service provider.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me make it clear that everyone sees things from their own points of view. It&#39;s how you consider the other views that becomes important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will let you follow the emails in order of response:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Subject:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt; Voicing Our  Concern - Re: Taylor Nel - at home - sick&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Hi  K..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Despite being new and obviously not  wishing to rock the boat with someone that we have just interacted with, I  believe it more important to share our honest feelings  openly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;I must voice our concern and  frustration at having brought young Taylor (1yr 11 mths) into your  establishment Tuesday last week and noticing just how many kids - and staff  - were present with terrible colds and running noses (yellow and green mucous in  the kiddies - clearly infectious).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;This despite being led to believe  that your policy is that those who are sick would be sent back home. I believed  that this was so as not to infect others.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Within two days Taylor had developed a  sniffle (after being free of any colds since birth)... and by Sunday this had  broken out into an upper respiratory tract infection with a gurgling  chest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Now, both granny and grandpa (that&#39;s  us, her full time guardians) are sick with same, and all of us have been knocked  out of action for the entire working week..&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Why I am voicing our frustration is  that this exercise was primarily intended to give us more time to to do the  essential work things that we need to do to generate critical  income.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;We have had a week of sleepless  nights and long days nursing our little one... and basically are not able to get  anything done. We&#39;re back to square one... and actually, are worse  off.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;We have kept her at home whilst  sick, as we expect others to do... and to have done... and your establishment to  have played its part.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;It is costing us the money that we  have paid to you, clinic visits and medicines... and obviously, we&#39;re not  achieving our objectives!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;We are so frustrated that we are  seriously contemplating removing her and requesting a return of our money to  find an establishment that will take their policies  seriously.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Your positive comment in response  will help us to decide on our actions going  forward.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sincerely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Trevor Nel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K&#39;s (name withheld) response:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Dear  Trevor,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Thank you for letting  us know, we hope she feels better soon and please send her hugs and kisses from  us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Kind  Regards&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;After a few sleepless weeks:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Tahoma;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Subject:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Meeting to remove Taylor  Nel - Re: Voicing Our Concern - Re: Taylor Nel - at home -  sick&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Hi  K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Kindly arrange a meeting between  ourselves this morning anytime between 10 a.m. to 12 Noon (can push to 1 p.m. if  need be).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Unfortunately we have now  spent three long weeks of extremely disturbed nights with a very sick  grand-daughter (from one who had not a sniffle since birth prior to attending  your facility)... and now, 3 concerning health issues in 3 weeks clearly picked  up from your facility.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Last night... a dangerously high  temperature for a little kiddie, which now is the final straw in this  little exercise to free up our time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;We are trying to get her into the  pediatrician today to assess how serious this temperature is, and will give you  feedback as to what they believe to be causing  it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;For us, it has been a fruitless and  costly exercise as mentioned in first voicing our  concern.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;It is time to conclude this exercise  as one that has not worked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Please give me a call on the line  below to confirm time... or I will phone in at 9 a.m. to  confirm.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sincerely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Trevor Nel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K&#39;s response and a telephone call followed at which she voiced her annoyance at my not being happy with her service:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Dear  Trevor,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;I have tried to phone  you,  but no answer, I did leave a message.  Can you please get back to me and  let me know what you would like to do.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Kind  Regards&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My response (her comments had now piddled me off... and changed my focus onto her attitude:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Tahoma;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Subject:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt; EFT details - Re: Meeting  to remove Taylor Nel - Re: Voicing Our Concern - Re: Taylor Nel - at home -  sick&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Hi  K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Without  Prejudice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Thank you. Our telephone  conversation of yesterday Tue31 Aug +-12 Noon  refers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;I acknowledge that you have stated  that you will refund the following immediately by  EFT to:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Account name: et al - removed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;i. R400 Stationery term  fee&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;ii. R1300 Sep. fee paid in  advance&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;I do recognise that customer service  (satisfaction) is such a delicate and subjective issue in these cynical times.  However, I still subscribe in my business interests to the age old mantra that -  &#39;The Customer Is Always Right&#39; - even when they may be totally  wrong!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;I note your reaction that you are  &#39;annoyed&#39; with me for wanting to remove Taylor, that we will be &#39;unwelcome&#39; in  the future, that you chair a number of such facilities in the area over which  you have influence, and that my &#39;attitude&#39; will be detrimental to Taylor&#39;s  development in the future.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Whatever your perception, whatever  the circumstances, &lt;strong&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;&quot;&gt;the simple fact is that this exercise did not deliver  the benefit that we were seeking&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; and that we clearly  discussed with you on signing in... and which concern I voiced clearly below  (email sent: Friday, August 20, 2010 1:43 PM). In fact, it has got  worse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;As I assess your reaction, I put  myself into your shoes and assess how I would deal with a clear breakdown of a  business relationship (whatever the cause) at so early a time in the  relationship (my concerns voiced arising from the first week)... and it is quite  simple, I deliver nothing less than a TOTAL REFUND and I keep my mouth and  thoughts about the customer to myself (i.e. How can I make it right for you?).  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;There is no point exacerbating a  customer-service problem that may very well not be of the business-owners  making, it makes for a surprisingly pleasant customer experience... and it  literally buys excellent word-of-mouth.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;I would return the following as  well:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;iii. the R500 registration  fee&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;iv. the R798 August pro-rata fee  paid&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;However, I recognise that this is  your business and your call.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;The ball is your  court.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sincerely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Trevor Nel - 011 -  705-2790&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K&#39;s response:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Dear  Trevor,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;It is with regret you  decided removing your granddaughter from our school.  As was previously  explained to you it is not uncommon for children to become ill when attending a  school for the first time.  In all  likelihood you will experience the same  problems at the next school  and the next until her immune system has had a  chance to build a resistance to the various viruses and bacterial infections. It  is rather absurd to blame our school  for seasonal illnesses and even more so  expecting us to send children home for every sneeze or snivel.  As explained and  you will find this at most schools, we only send children home should they have  elevated fever or contagious disease.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;You clearly do not like  the way our school operates as it is your right to do and it is quite certain we  cannot come to an agreement which will satisfy both  parties.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;However in light of the  situation we will refund you to the amount of R1700.00 which consists of the  monthly R1 300.00 half day school fee and the R400 toiletries/stationery fee.   This amount will be paid into your bank account today and will be seen as the  full and final refund settlement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Good luck with  Taylor’s future  schooling career.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Kind  Regards&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;Too late, her attitude on the phone had really upset me:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Tahoma;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Subject:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Objection - Re: EFT  details - Re: Meeting to remove Taylor Nel - Re: Voicing Our Concern - Re:  Taylor Nel - at home - sick&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Hi  K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Without  Prejudice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Your first settlement of R1700 is  noted. Thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;I am afraid that, having taken time  over the weekend to digest your assertions from your point of view and analyse  your reactions and latest response, I cannot accept your notice below as &#39;full  and final refund settlement&#39; as you state and offer you the opportunity to  redress the remaining settlement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Firstly, I raised our concern within  the first week over what I am now of the opinion to have been a defective  service on your establishment&#39;s part. (re-read below email: &lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Sent:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Friday, August 20, 2010 1:43  PM)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;This seems to have been acknowledged  by an attempt to address the problem as stated by one B T   &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sent:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt; Friday,  August 20, 2010 5:55 PM ; &lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Subject:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;  Taylor Nel) - &#39;After your wife phoned the school we implemented a new procedure  to help parents whereby we keep a log of whether our staff needed to wipe a  child’s nose, how many times the child has been to the toilet, when nappies were  changed, hands washed etc. This is part of our effort to minimize any possible  risks to the children in our care. We really do try our utmost to make all our  clients happy and want to thank her for the  call.&#39;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;My wife did not phone the school, so  clearly someone else complained as well!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;We have since identified other  schools in the area that DO regard &#39;green running noses&#39; as highly infectious  and a very good reason to instruct parents to keep their children at home, as we  believe and did... and as opposite to your apparent assertions that you are  &#39;forced&#39; to keep such children in the school.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Secondly, you dealt with me on the  telephone in a manner that was, in my opinion, either deliberately or  subconsciously on your part, designed to be evasive, abrasive, petulant,  arrogant, hostile, defensive, and intimidatory to the point of bullying the  consumer. You clearly did not want to meet with me to discuss this face-to-face  as I proposed. I find this to be highly evasive and weak customer-service on  your part as business-owner. I now wonder if you are used to younger families  being intimidated by such reaction/s. Your reaction has so upset me to the point  where I intend to fully assert my/our rights to full and proper  redress.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Thirdly, I have been quite  accommodating in allowing you the opportunity to assess why you have not  delivered the service we were looking for... and you have not taken up that  opportunity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;This now highlights, again in my  opinion, all that I consider to be immoral in the standard procedure adopted by  an establishment such as yours... and I will now highlight those to all and  sundry to ensure that adequate consumer protection (through the facility of  the impending Consumer Protection Act - Oct 2010) is brought to bear to protect  the consumer in this instance of:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;i. withholding of the Registration  Fee at so early a point of dissatisfaction of customer service is effectively an  immoral penalty on the consumer (especially for young parents who cannot afford  to lose such funds and have to find another such fee for the next establishment  - effectively a double penalty).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;ii. where consumer expresses  timeously a dissatisfaction of service outcome (and is clearly  adversely/negatively affected by such outcome) and does not get a refund of fees  - it represents a loss of opportunity cost for the consumer. The whole  exercise of identifying a school has to repeated - albeit with an acute eye now  for the risks and dangers of dealing with those that deliver inadequate  outcomes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sadly, when a business operator does  what you have done, and withholds such fees as above, especially when the  consumer has so clearly voiced their dissatisfaction, they garner nothing more  than massive BADWILL (negative publicity, bad word-of-mouth) and little things  that were not major issues also tend to be highlighted in the consumers mind.  You would not be impressed to hear how we label your style of business in our  discussions, and that purely comes from the way you have made us  feel.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Finally, I have no interest in  hearing how the vast majority of your clients feel (which you claim to all be  highly satisfied), I only have my experience to go on... and it was not what we  were seeking (see email: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-family:Tahoma;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sent:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Tahoma;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt; 01  September 2010 06:54&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Clearly, after assessing your  reactions, and the negative affect on us at having put my/our faith in your  service, nothing less than a total refund will satisfy  me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;The ball is still in your  court.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sincerely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Trevor Nel&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K&#39;s response:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;font: 10pt arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;Subject:&lt;/b&gt; RE: Objection - Re: EFT details -  Re: Meeting to remove Taylor Nel - Re: Voicing Our Concern - Re: Taylor Nel - at  home - sick&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div class=&quot;Section1&quot;&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Mr. Trevor Nel Contact  me urgently!!!!!!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, Principal...!!! My response:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;div style=&quot;font: 10pt arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;Subject:&lt;/b&gt; Re: Objection - Re: EFT details - Re: Meeting to remove  Taylor Nel - Re: Voicing Our Concern - Re: Taylor Nel - at home -  sick&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Hi K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Your apparent arrogance in believing yourself to be  the only one busy accompanied by your &#39;annoyed with you&#39; telephone message  comment of this morning on my answering machine, and your terse comment below,  only serve to exacerbate my opinion of your customer-service  problem.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;I have no intention to be the target of  abuse/intimidation by you via phone again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;This consumer is not your plaything to be  &#39;summoned&#39; to bow down to your terse beck &amp;amp; call.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;You turned down the opportunity to meet to discuss  my issues with you as I had proposed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;You are welcome to state whatever your points in  writing in response to my previous email... or to redress the matter/s  outstanding&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;My points and intention remain as stated in my  previous email below.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sincerely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Trevor Nel - 011 -  705-2790&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K&#39;s response... a call to tell me my fortune and put the phone down.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My response:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;div style=&quot;font: 10pt arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;Subject:&lt;/b&gt; Your 5:15 telephone call refers - notice of intention to  seek court application for redress - Fw: Objection - Re: EFT details - Re:  Meeting to remove Taylor Nel - Re: Voicing Our Concern - Re: Taylor Nel - at  home - sick&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Hi K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;&lt;u&gt;Without  Prejudice&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;You clearly ignored the points made below and chose  to deliver a further vitriolic call to vent your spleen via telephone and to put  the phone down.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;All rights reserved. Please receive this notice of  my intention to seek redress by means of small claims court application should  you not return the remaining R1298 to my account provided as final part of a  total refund by midday Friday 10th September 2010.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Sincerely&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:100%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:12pt;&quot;&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;&quot;  &gt;Trevor Nel - 011 -  705-2790&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;K&#39;s final, final response:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Trevor,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Please check your  account as the money was paid into your account with ABSA Acc Nr. this morning before 10am. Proof of payment was e-mailed to you.  I went  according to our records and paid the amount of R1280.00 still outstanding  according to these records and your demand of a full refund.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;I have now done  everything you asked of me. Stop threatening and harassing me and my company as  I will no longer tolerate your thinly veiled  threats.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;I sincerely hope I  never have the misfortune of dealing with you  again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;Regards,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-size:85%;color:navy;&quot;  &gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:10pt;color:navy;&quot;   &gt;K&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A gnashing of teeth and snarling at the consumer until the end... ;-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For me, it matters not who is right or wrong, deal with your customers with grace.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How would you have handled this issue from the suppliers perspective?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does ATTITUDE play an important role in business?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/5115918136932642625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-ok-to-voice-your-concern.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5115918136932642625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5115918136932642625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/09/its-ok-to-voice-your-concern.html' title='It&#39;s OK To Voice YOUR Concern'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-4202039143414489535</id><published>2010-08-30T06:58:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-30T07:12:15.743+02:00</updated><title type='text'>It&#39;s OK To Say &#39;NO&#39;</title><content type='html'>In a busy period of discussions and negotiations on possible joint venture collaborations we&#39;ve had to be pretty forceful on driving for a WIN/WIN or walking away from the deal/s... we&#39;ve walked away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Found this article sent by one &lt;a href=&quot;www.ketler.co.za&quot;&gt;Trevor Kettler&lt;/a&gt; which underscores the point:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;The ability to negotiate successfully in  today&#39;s turbulent economic environment can make the difference between being  successful in your daily business activities or a failure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;Below are 10 ways that could assist in your client  interactions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. &lt;strong&gt;Everything can be Negotiated.&lt;/strong&gt;  To  be successful you need to be assertive and not afraid to challenge everything.  Being assertive means asking for what you want without demonstrating anxiety or  anger. Assertiveness is part of the Negotiation process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2.  &lt;strong&gt;Listen and let the other party do the talking.&lt;/strong&gt;  By listening,  you are taking the role of a detective. Detectives ask probing questions and  then shut up. The other negotiator will tell you everything you need to know -  and more. All you have to do is listen.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;strong&gt;Gather all the facts.&lt;/strong&gt;  Acquire  as many facts about the other company, their product, their current situation,  what&#39;s in it for them by having a successful outcome, what their options are,  etc. You can&#39;t make accurate decisions without really understanding their  position. The more information you have, the stronger your position will  be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;4. &lt;strong&gt;Be willing to walk away.&lt;/strong&gt;  Never  negotiate without options. It is when you become too dependent on a positive  outcome that you lose your ability to say &quot;No&quot;. By considering the option to  walk away, will force the other party to make concessions that may be in your  favour.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;5. &lt;strong&gt;Be patient.&lt;/strong&gt;  The more you rush  the more likely you will make a mistake. The side that has more time flexibility  has the advantage. The greatest amount of patience causes the greatest amount of  devastation to the other party as they assume you are not under any pressure to  conclude the deal. They become pressurised to do so and in turn offer you more  concessions with the incentive of you agreeing to conclude.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;6. &lt;strong&gt;Aim for best outcome.&lt;/strong&gt;  Be an  optimist - if you expect the best you will open the door to receive the best.  Sellers should ask for more than they expect and buyers should offer less than  they would want to pay. If you aim higher you will do better. A low expectation  will result in a less satisfying outcome.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;7. &lt;strong&gt;Keep the pressure focused on the other  party.&lt;/strong&gt;  It is human nature to focus our energy on our own pressure by  highlighting our own situation. This is often recognised by the other party and  subconsciously we give the power to the other side. By focusing on our  limitations, we miss the big picture. Our job as the detective is to recognise  their worries and concerns and see how these can assist our  cause.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;8. &lt;strong&gt;Focus on meeting their needs.&lt;/strong&gt;   By understanding their perspective places you ahead of the game. By helping them  to achieve their needs is a sure way of them coming back to do more business.  This is not saying we must give in to all their positions. We must ensure that  their basic interests must be fulfilled not necessarily their  demands.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;9. &lt;strong&gt;Never concede without getting something  in return.&lt;/strong&gt;  Always create a tie-in, &quot;I will do this if you do that&quot;.  Without a tie-in, you are causing the other party to add more concessions. When  you concede and they are not expected to reciprocate, they will feel entitled to  your concession and will not be happy until you give up even more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10.  &lt;strong&gt;Never personalise their attitude.&lt;/strong&gt;  Never get sidetracked by  personal issues that are unrelated to the deal. Focus on solving the problem.  Trying to understand their behaviour can sabotage the outcome as they may be  using dirty tricks to force a conclusion. This will only frustrate you even  further and you could be falling into their trap.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/4202039143414489535/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/its-ok-to-say-no.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/4202039143414489535'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/4202039143414489535'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/its-ok-to-say-no.html' title='It&#39;s OK To Say &#39;NO&#39;'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-2483842793975737800</id><published>2010-08-24T17:03:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.448+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>The Grief Cycle &amp; How it Relates To Accepting Change</title><content type='html'>In sharing the devastating news of an old friend&#39;s loss of his youngest son to cancer at the weekend, I was reminded of the work of Elizabeth Kubler-Ross and the &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model&quot;&gt;5 stages of Grief&lt;/a&gt; that she identified.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Was interested to note that someone had extended her model to include it into an understanding of how one can accept change, especially when it comes along as a result of the dropping of a bombshell of negative news.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;See: &lt;a href=&quot;http://changingminds.org/disciplines/change_management/kubler_ross/kubler_ross.htm&quot;&gt;The Extended Grief Cycle&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/2483842793975737800/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/grief-cycle-how-it-relates-to-accepting.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/2483842793975737800'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/2483842793975737800'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/grief-cycle-how-it-relates-to-accepting.html' title='The Grief Cycle &amp; How it Relates To Accepting Change'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-8179644750585322252</id><published>2010-08-23T06:30:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.449+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>LIFE - Can It Get Any Tougher?</title><content type='html'>This weekend we received the shock news that old family friends had lost their 21-year old son to a 5-month battle with cancer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We&#39;re all heart-broken for them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&#39;s going to be tough saying good-bye this week.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Can life get any tougher than when experiencing the pain of losing a loved one... especially a child?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This, as my grieving cousin flies in from America, having lost her 16-year old son in a car crash during the last week of February. The grief and pain is still very raw. Will it ever dissipate?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes we just have to be GRATEFUL for the small things that affect us when compared to the giant challenges of others!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/8179644750585322252/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/life-can-it-get-any-tougher.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/8179644750585322252'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/8179644750585322252'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/life-can-it-get-any-tougher.html' title='LIFE - Can It Get Any Tougher?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-6902409048324396082</id><published>2010-08-20T06:49:00.005+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.450+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>LIFE - Sometimes YOU Just Have To Have A Sense Of Humour</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;In the immortal words of Robert Burns: &quot;The &lt;span class=&quot;IL_AD&quot; id=&quot;IL_AD7&quot;&gt;best laid&lt;/span&gt; schemes o&#39; Mice an&#39; Men, gang aft  agley.&quot; - &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.electricscotland.com/burns/mouse.html&quot;&gt;To A Mouse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;In order to get more time for myself  to invest  into WISDOMS... we sent our little grand-daughter to day-care last week&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt; (granny &amp;amp; grand-pa are her full-time guardians)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;. She&#39;s never been  sick for even a day in two years.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just four days, and hordes of snotty-nosed kids,  later... and our entire family has been knocked-out with colds and flu since  Sunday. It&#39;s Friday - 90% of what I was going to do this week has not been done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;And we&#39;re not looking like recovering  soon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:100%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the Mexican&#39;s tend to say: &#39;Life, sometimes she  is a beach&#39;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Deal with it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am not necessarily a believer that we are the architects of our own misfortunes... we are not bullet-proof... we are not immortal super-heroes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps the Mexican&#39;s are right... sometimes LIFE just forces you to slow down a bit, lie in the sun... and just smile.. ;-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/6902409048324396082/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/life-sometimes-you-just-have-to-have.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/6902409048324396082'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/6902409048324396082'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/life-sometimes-you-just-have-to-have.html' title='LIFE - Sometimes YOU Just Have To Have A Sense Of Humour'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-5053041541987229251</id><published>2010-08-18T06:15:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.450+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Every Cloud Has The Sun Waiting To BREAKTHROUGH</title><content type='html'>It didn&#39;t take Tony Robbins long to respond to the pulling of &lt;a style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.breakthroughinsider.com/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough Insider&lt;/a&gt; by NBC after just two episodes airing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listening to &lt;a href=&quot;http://training.tonyrobbins.com/803/an-update-on-breakthrough-with-tony-robbins/&quot;&gt;Tony&#39;s response&lt;/a&gt;, shot on the shores of a Fiji island, we learn that NBC is in the process of re-organisation and perhaps looking for a new time slot to air the program to match the 2.9 million viewer demand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We also learn that Oprah gets a similar viewership... go figure!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What interests me is the quality of the programming that NBC have chosen to replace it with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Says something about the shallow nature of viewership demands for non-thinking (mindless?) entertainment on TV... doesn&#39;t it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hey... I like comedies and reality shows too. So is this a commentary on me?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The reality is that it is all about the numbers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tony Robbins deals with it well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/5053041541987229251/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/every-cloud-has-sun-waiting-to.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5053041541987229251'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5053041541987229251'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/every-cloud-has-sun-waiting-to.html' title='Every Cloud Has The Sun Waiting To BREAKTHROUGH'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-198135296171517218</id><published>2010-08-12T13:15:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.451+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Even The BEST Suffer Setbacks</title><content type='html'>Was amazed to hear that Tony Robbins&#39; &lt;a style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.breakthroughinsider.com/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough Insider&lt;/a&gt; was pulled by NBC after just two episodes airing - see: &lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://tvseriesfinale.com/tv-show/breakthrough-with-tony-robbins-nbc-tv-show-pulled-canceled/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough  with Tony Robbins: NBC TV Show Pulled, Cancelled&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I believe Tony Robbins to be one of the best in his field... even the best suffer setbacks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It will be interesting to watch how he takes this failure and turns it into a learning experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/198135296171517218/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/even-best-suffer-setbacks.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/198135296171517218'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/198135296171517218'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/even-best-suffer-setbacks.html' title='Even The BEST Suffer Setbacks'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-5395940337930829547</id><published>2010-08-07T08:13:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.452+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Wear YOUR Failures Like Badges Of Honour!</title><content type='html'>Was swimming at the gym on Friday when this thought entered my mind:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wear YOUR Failures Like Badges Of Honour!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For some reason I was thrown back to thinking about an overly-arrogant business owner from my younger days who signed over franchise rights to myself because he &#39;claimed&#39; I had stated on my CV that I was a varsity graduate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finding that I was making a small fortune from my rights, he wanted to find a way to take the rights back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Amusingly, right from my early days I was always quite proud of the fact that a matric failure could persevere and pass matric in the end, and make his way to varsity only to be found out in his second repeat year... and still go on to do the things that I did in business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I didn&#39;t know then that failure was a great learning experience... but I just found it to be honest and a show of integrity to state in my CV that I had spent a few years trying to get out of matric... and that my varsity career was incomplete.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Besides, I was able to highlight my sporting achievements - representing SA Universities at my favourite sport.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seems that Mr. Arrogant was trying to claim that he misinterpreted that to mean that I had claimed a varsity degree - and that I had there by misrepresented my CV to him. All bull, of course. At best, he read what he wanted to read... at worst, he was just trying to diddle someone out of a contract (and failed... ;-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To cut a long story short, this self-same individual was later jailed for his part in +- R250 million investor-fraud scam. Sometimes what one perpetuates with a lack of integrity catches up with one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And... I have always gone on to broadcast my many years of trying to get out of matric and playing around and not succeeding at varsity (of which I am not proud) as critical learning experiences for myself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, for me, there has never been any shame in trying something (especially something new or out of your comfort zone) and not succeeding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As long as YOU do it with the integrity of giving it YOUR best shot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here&#39;s a thought to explore:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Wear YOUR Failures Like Badges Of Honour!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Found this on Google search: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/content/01_35/b3746632.htm&quot;&gt;Failure as a Badge of Honor&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/5395940337930829547/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/wear-your-failures-like-badges-of.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5395940337930829547'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5395940337930829547'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/wear-your-failures-like-badges-of.html' title='Wear YOUR Failures Like Badges Of Honour!'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-7624509913451614472</id><published>2010-08-04T05:52:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.452+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Breakthrough - So YOU Think You&#39;ve Got Problems?</title><content type='html'>Was just viewing the back-story episode to Frank and Kristen Alioto&#39;s breakthrough moments with Tony Robbins, and phew... the 44-minute episode misses tons of drama from 30-days of shooting the program that just couldn&#39;t be aired due to lack of time. Incredible!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Imagine celebrating YOUR wedding day and becoming a quadriplegic... making a breakthrough with Tony Robbins (&lt;a style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.breakthroughinsider.com/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough Insider&lt;/a&gt; and click on Episode) and then... discovering that your mate has a brain tumor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So YOU think that YOU&#39;ve got problems, huh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here&#39;s what I&#39;m doing right now... I&#39;ve accepted the invite by Tony Robbins to participate in his amazing program.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hi, It’s Tony, welcome to your Breakthrough Challenge course. Together  we’re about to embark on a 6-week journey towards a more extraordinary  quality of life.  It&#39;s just 20 to 45 minutes each week, but I think  you&#39;ll find that this small investment in yourself will give you huge  returns.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Take your personal breakthrough challenge. &lt;/b&gt;I will post a new  personal coaching session for you after every episode airs (don&#39;t worry  I&#39;ll send you a reminder). In each session I will take the lessons from  the show and teach you how to apply them in your own life in a very  simple yet powerful way to create your own breakthroughs and help those  you care for as well.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;I look forward to our journey together… Let’s start!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Live strong and live with passion,&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;Tony Robbins&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt;P.S. I really look forward to hearing your thoughts and comments on  this program because we are utilizing this forum to refine this process  into a course that we will be offering later to help people all around  the world. Thanks!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;YOU can participate too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#39;s FREE... for goodness sake.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;YOUR Personal Breakthrough Program with Tony Robbins.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; What an opportunity!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don&#39;t care who YOU are, or how together YOU are or not, how busy YOU are or not... this is an exceptional opportunity for a fascinating personal learning experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Go to &lt;a style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.breakthroughinsider.com/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough Insider&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/7624509913451614472/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/breakthrough-so-you-think-youve-got.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/7624509913451614472'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/7624509913451614472'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/breakthrough-so-you-think-youve-got.html' title='Breakthrough - So YOU Think You&#39;ve Got Problems?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-4792418676021061966</id><published>2010-08-03T17:29:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.453+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Breakthrough - Confront YOUR Real Issues</title><content type='html'>I cannot exhort YOU more to get along to Tony Robbins&#39; &lt;a style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.breakthroughinsider.com/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough Insider&lt;/a&gt; - and click on Episode.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here YOU will view the story of... &#39;Frank and Kristen Alioto, a couple whose wedding night turned tragic after Frank  suffered a swimming pool accident that rendered him a quadriplegic. With Tony  Robbins&#39; help, Frank learns to overcome his limitations and reclaim his life and  marriage.&#39;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If those &lt;a style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.breakthroughinsider.com/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough Insider&lt;/a&gt; files are taking up too much bandwidth (as they do at my end), perhaps follow these sub-standard links that someone appears to have hacked to promote their own product. The Tony Robbins&#39; message and content is the most important:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt; &lt;div id=&quot;watch-headline-title&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;eow-title&quot; dir=&quot;ltr&quot; title=&quot;Breakthrough with Tony Robbins part 1 of 5&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch#%21v=O1auuhqNBcw&amp;amp;feature=related&quot;&gt;Breakthrough  with Tony Robbins part 1 of 5&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;Step 1. Re-write YOUR Story&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;Step 2. Confront YOUR Real Issues&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt; &lt;div id=&quot;watch-headline-title&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;eow-title&quot; dir=&quot;ltr&quot; title=&quot;Breakthrough with Tony Robbins part 2 of 5&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0KqEPqQvFY&amp;amp;feature=related&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Breakthrough  with Tony Robbins part 2 of 5&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;Step 3. Discover Your Inner Strength&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;Step 4. Redefine What Is Possible&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; id=&quot;watch-headline-title&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;eow-title&quot; dir=&quot;ltr&quot; title=&quot;Breakthrough with Tony Robbins part 3 of 5&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mYIZVQxL708&amp;amp;feature=related&quot;&gt;Breakthrough  with Tony Robbins part 3 of 5&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;Step 5. Exceed Your Expectations&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt; &lt;div id=&quot;watch-headline-title&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;eow-title&quot; dir=&quot;ltr&quot; title=&quot;Breakthrough with Tony Robbins part 4 of 5&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abXq4icWKCc&amp;amp;feature=related&quot;&gt;Breakthrough  with Tony Robbins part 4 of 5&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;Step 6. Change Your Belief System&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt; &lt;div id=&quot;watch-headline-title&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;&quot; id=&quot;eow-title&quot; dir=&quot;ltr&quot; title=&quot;Breakthrough with Tony Robbins part 5 of 5&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVpwJUFCH04&amp;amp;feature=related&quot;&gt;Breakthrough  with Tony Robbins part 5 of 5&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;  &gt;Step 7. Own Your Breakthrough&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/4792418676021061966/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/breakthrough-confront-your-real-issues.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/4792418676021061966'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/4792418676021061966'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/08/breakthrough-confront-your-real-issues.html' title='Breakthrough - Confront YOUR Real Issues'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-3979725835983657355</id><published>2010-07-31T10:44:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.453+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Are YOU About To Make YOUR Big Breakthrough In Life?</title><content type='html'>Had a fascinating group discussion yesterday with participants in our - &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt; - process and witnessed the clear moment of breakthrough for a number in the group.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For them, I provide this link to perhaps the finest BREAKTHROUGH specialist in the world right now - Anthony Robbins:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Play all around this link, view everything - &lt;a style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot; href=&quot;http://www.breakthroughinsider.com/&quot;&gt;Breakthrough Insider&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enjoy - YOU are ready for this... :-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/3979725835983657355/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/are-you-about-to-make-your-big.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/3979725835983657355'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/3979725835983657355'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/are-you-about-to-make-your-big.html' title='Are YOU About To Make YOUR Big Breakthrough In Life?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-5961924977043083348</id><published>2010-07-30T17:17:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.454+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Winning Is Tough - How Tough Are YOU..?</title><content type='html'>Well worth taking another listen to &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arthur_L._Williams,_Jr.&quot;&gt;Art Williams&lt;/a&gt; .&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just how committed are YOU?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Art has it right in this priceless clip from 1987.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listen here:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;270&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/RcBBBBFrlv8&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1?rel=0&amp;amp;border=1&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowscriptaccess&quot; value=&quot;always&quot;&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/RcBBBBFrlv8&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1?rel=0&amp;amp;border=1&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; allowscriptaccess=&quot;always&quot; allowfullscreen=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;270&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/5961924977043083348/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/winning-is-tough-how-tough-are-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5961924977043083348'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/5961924977043083348'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/winning-is-tough-how-tough-are-you.html' title='Winning Is Tough - How Tough Are YOU..?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-1046153838165757853</id><published>2010-07-28T07:54:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.455+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Can YOU Be Better, Make Something Better? You Betcha!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arthur_L._Williams,_Jr.&quot;&gt;Art Williams&lt;/a&gt; is a billionaire insurance executive with a simple message.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU can be better, create something better, do something better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Listen to him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;270&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/RWZxCsEnIz0&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1?rel=0&amp;amp;border=1&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowscriptaccess&quot; value=&quot;always&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/RWZxCsEnIz0&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1?rel=0&amp;amp;border=1&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; allowscriptaccess=&quot;always&quot; allowfullscreen=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;270&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/1046153838165757853/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/can-you-be-better-make-something-better.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1046153838165757853'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1046153838165757853'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/can-you-be-better-make-something-better.html' title='Can YOU Be Better, Make Something Better? You Betcha!'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-4791138271859877613</id><published>2010-07-28T07:33:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.455+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Winning - Are YOU Almost There?</title><content type='html'>So what is the difference between winners and losers in life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&#39;s a question that many people ask.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU can do no worse than to listen to Art William&#39;s profound message. He gets it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width=&quot;320&quot; height=&quot;270&quot;&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;movie&quot; value=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/TU7Y6HiLXto&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1?rel=0&amp;amp;border=1&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowFullScreen&quot; value=&quot;true&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name=&quot;allowscriptaccess&quot; value=&quot;always&quot;&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/v/TU7Y6HiLXto&amp;amp;hl=en_US&amp;amp;fs=1?rel=0&amp;amp;border=1&quot; type=&quot;application/x-shockwave-flash&quot; allowscriptaccess=&quot;always&quot; allowfullscreen=&quot;true&quot; width=&quot;445&quot; height=&quot;364&quot;&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/4791138271859877613/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/winning-are-you-almost-there.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/4791138271859877613'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/4791138271859877613'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/winning-are-you-almost-there.html' title='Winning - Are YOU Almost There?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-6996374221882229606</id><published>2010-07-26T06:33:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.456+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>When A TEAM Win Is Better Than An Individual Win</title><content type='html'>Lance Armstrong - 7 times winner of the Tour de France - is perhaps one of the race&#39;s most iconic figures... and in his last Tour de France (2010) he was beset by all sorts of problems that left him in 23rd place overall.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, still he engineered a team that was to take the First Team prize... and grab the headlines to highlight the challenges faced by 28 million cancer sufferers around the world (by highlighting the number 28 on the back of their podium jerseys).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;http://www.roadcycling.com/artman2/uploads/1/team_radioshack_lance_armstrong_black_jerseys.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 720px; height: 477px;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.roadcycling.com/artman2/uploads/1/team_radioshack_lance_armstrong_black_jerseys.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Super-achievers are always looking for ways to engineer a win in everything they do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lance Armstrong is a master at this... on top of being one of the best athletes of his time!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today&#39;s thought is brought to you by:&lt;br /&gt;WISDOMS - Powerful PEAK Performance Program</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/6996374221882229606/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/when-team-win-is-better-than-individual.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/6996374221882229606'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/6996374221882229606'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/when-team-win-is-better-than-individual.html' title='When A TEAM Win Is Better Than An Individual Win'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-1602220707061567059</id><published>2010-07-26T06:20:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.456+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>How To WIN By Not Winning At All</title><content type='html'>Alberto Contador wins the 2010 Tour de France... without winning a single stage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think about it... there&#39;s a metaphor in there somewhere.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The race doesn&#39;t always go to the fastest, or to the best climber... it also goes to the smartest strategist who maintains a constant peak performance state to outlast the rest.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here he is signaling his 3rd Tour de France win:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;http://www.roadcycling.com/artman2/uploads/1/alberto_contador_winner_2010_tour_de_france_andy_schleck_denis_menchov_podium.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 720px; height: 477px;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.roadcycling.com/artman2/uploads/1/alberto_contador_winner_2010_tour_de_france_andy_schleck_denis_menchov_podium.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/1602220707061567059/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/how-to-win-by-not-winning-at-all.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1602220707061567059'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/1602220707061567059'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/how-to-win-by-not-winning-at-all.html' title='How To WIN By Not Winning At All'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-722920809946972822</id><published>2010-07-26T06:05:00.002+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.457+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>How To Win When YOU Don&#39;t Feel Like Getting Out Of Bed</title><content type='html'>Ever had a sleepless night with bronchitis before an important day?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ever just not felt like getting out of bed to face the day?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course YOU have... we all have!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What do YOU do?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That was Mark Cavendish&#39;s vexing decision to make after 17 tough, tough days of The Tour de France and a sleepless night with bronchitis before the 18th stage.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What he do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He pushed himself up... got dressed... onto his bike... and began pedaling.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Five hours later &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.roadcycling.com/articles/2010-Tour-de-France-Results---Stage-18_003761.shtml&quot;&gt;he sprinted first across the line in Bordeaux&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur=&quot;try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}&quot; href=&quot;http://www.roadcycling.com/artman2/uploads/1/Mark_cavendish_wins_stage_18_tour_de_france_2010_1.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img style=&quot;display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 720px; height: 477px;&quot; src=&quot;http://www.roadcycling.com/artman2/uploads/1/Mark_cavendish_wins_stage_18_tour_de_france_2010_1.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; border=&quot;0&quot; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes when YOU are not feeling well, it pays just to try to do things as YOU would normally do. If YOU are well-trained, prepared, disciplined... that might just carry YOU through to an incredible result.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/722920809946972822/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/how-to-win-when-you-dont-feel-like.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/722920809946972822'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/722920809946972822'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/how-to-win-when-you-dont-feel-like.html' title='How To Win When YOU Don&#39;t Feel Like Getting Out Of Bed'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-7094539434995089147</id><published>2010-07-22T06:06:00.004+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.457+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Enjoying YOUR Journey - Can It Be Done?</title><content type='html'>Watching Lance Armstrong&#39;s intense focus over the 16th stage of the Tour de France 2010 - the world&#39;s fastest-paced and most beautiful travelogue - one cannot help wondering if the professional riders really get to enjoy the journey.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just take a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.letour.fr/2010/TDF/LIVE/us/1600/etape_par_etape.html&quot;&gt;look here&lt;/a&gt; at the sheer quality of the reporting online and at the beauty of the countryside that they go through.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many metaphors could be extracted from the Tour de France, but the reality is that these professionals spend their lives training in these mountains, taking in the beauty during their resting periods, to get to the point where they can put their heads down to race flat out.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So YES... despite what YOU may see on one competitive day of a cycling race... YOU really can enjoy whatever YOU do... these riders do!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Life is a journey to be enjoyed!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size: 85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/7094539434995089147/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/enjoying-your-journey-can-it-be-done.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/7094539434995089147'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/7094539434995089147'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/enjoying-your-journey-can-it-be-done.html' title='Enjoying YOUR Journey - Can It Be Done?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-8984838819396738116</id><published>2010-07-22T05:49:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.458+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>What Experience Does For YOU</title><content type='html'>Watching Lance Armstrong break away into the lead up the infamous Col de Tourmalet in his final Tour de France - 2010, one of the experienced commentators quipped: &#39;Lance is unlikely to have the speed in his legs to win in the final sprint, but what he does have is the experience to outwit and outlast the others&#39;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well called. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bicycling.com/tour-de-france/expert-analysis/armstrongs-swan-song&quot;&gt;Lance narrowly missed crossing over the line first by a second or two&lt;/a&gt;... and that after a 200 kilometer race with the world&#39;s best&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“It was full-gas all day,” Armstrong said. “I’m not the best on the  race, but I still have the spirit of a fighter, I suppose. I focused on  the stage. Tried to get in some moves, but I wasn’t fast enough in the  end.” - &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bicycling.com/tour-de-france/expert-analysis/armstrongs-swan-song&quot;&gt;quote&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And that is what experience gives YOU - the stamina to hang in longer than most.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU know how to deal with the pain that comes with peak performance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU know how to work through the lows to reach those highs that will come.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Experience gives YOU the stamina to operate at a faster pace than most.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Experience keeps YOU in the game longer than most.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Build up YOUR experience... it pays in the long run.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                           - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/8984838819396738116/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/what-experience-does-for-you.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/8984838819396738116'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/8984838819396738116'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/what-experience-does-for-you.html' title='What Experience Does For YOU'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-2352978676890775084</id><published>2010-07-19T06:37:00.003+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.458+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Do YOU Find The TIME To Do Mindless Things?</title><content type='html'>There&#39;s not much nicer than a roaring fire on a mid-winter&#39;s evening.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And once or twice a week, for some forty-five minutes to an hour, you&#39;ll find me swinging an axe to chop firewood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My wife calls it a &#39;mindless&#39; task and wonders why I just don&#39;t pay someone to do it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, here&#39;s the thing, it is not a mindless task for me... not only is it keeping me in some sort of physical condition, it also allows me to think through new business projects and ideas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other 5 days a week, I swim for an hour (3 times a week) or gym for an hour (twice a week)... again, &#39;mindless&#39; activity, some might say... five glorious hours per week where I get some quality THINKING done.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I think back to my many swimming &amp;amp; running training days...and younger days of paddle-skiing days in the surf (up to 3 hours at a time - if not much of the day if I could)... these &#39;mindless&#39; activities were all great THINKING time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;THINKING time - the most precious time that YOU can have!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do YOU do it?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do YOU get out and walk, run, swim... participate in some &#39;mindless&#39; activity.. ;-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It might just be good for YOU and YOUR business. Do it!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let&#39;s  close today&#39;s  thought with an &#39;interview&#39;  comment or 3 from     the  twenty-second of our  potential &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/06/creating-businessopportunity-what-i.html&quot;&gt;virtual                 Board of Advisers&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seth_Godin&quot;&gt;Seth Godin&lt;/a&gt; - American Entrepreneur, Author, Public Speaker - Permission Marketing &amp;amp; Purple Cow.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;post-body  entry-content&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.doshdosh.com/review-of-seth-godins-purple-cow/&quot;&gt;quote&lt;/a&gt;:           &#39;Cows, after you’ve seen them for a while, are boring.  They may be perfect cows, attractive cows, cows with great  personalities, cows lit by beautiful light, but they’re still boring. A  Purple Cow, though. Now that would be interesting. (For a while.) The essence of the Purple Cow is that it must be remarkable. In fact,  if “remarkable” started with a P, I could probably dispense with the  cow subterfuge, but what can you do? This book is about the why, the  what, and the how of remarkable..&#39;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.doshdosh.com/review-of-seth-godins-purple-cow/&quot;&gt;quote&lt;/a&gt;:         &lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&#39;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;My goal in Purple Cow is to make it clear that it’s safer to be risky  –to fortify your desire to do truly amazing things. Once you see that  the old ways have nowhere to go but down, it becomes even more  imperative to create things worth talking about. You must develop products, services, and techniques that the market will  actually seek out..&lt;span class=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&#39;&lt;/span&gt;    &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.doshdosh.com/review-of-seth-godins-purple-cow/&quot;&gt;quote&lt;/a&gt;:    &lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&#39;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;The Purple Cow is so rare because people are afraid. If you’re remarkable, it’s  likely that some people won’t like you. That’s part of the definition  of remarkable. Nobody gets unanimous praise– ever. The best the timid  can hope for is to be unnoticed. Criticism comes to those who stand out.&lt;span class=&quot;sqq&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt; The winners will be companies that figure out what’s working fastest–and  do it more (and figure out what’s not working–and kill it). The lesson here is simple: The more intransigent your market, the more  crowded the marketplace, the busier your customers, the more you need  the Purple Cow. Half-measures will fail. Overhauling the product with  dramatic improvements in things the right customers care about, on the  other hand, can have a huge payoff.&#39;  &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                          - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/2352978676890775084/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/do-you-find-time-to-do-mindless-things.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/2352978676890775084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/2352978676890775084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/do-you-find-time-to-do-mindless-things.html' title='Do YOU Find The TIME To Do Mindless Things?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1111253928138963522.post-794255742181138584</id><published>2010-07-18T07:50:00.005+02:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T08:19:46.459+02:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="choice"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="control"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="destiny"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="enthusiasm"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="goals"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="happiness"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="health"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="impossible"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="life"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectives"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="passion"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="purpose"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="success"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wealth"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="wisdom"/><title type='text'>Do YOU Create &#39;Million Dollar Ideas&#39; For YOUR Business?</title><content type='html'>The biggest fun one can have in life is creating really successful ideas that make a lot of money.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do YOU know how to &#39;milliondollarize&#39; YOUR business ideas.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Mastery&lt;/span&gt;, almost speaks for itself, and is &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thefreedictionary.com/mastery&quot;&gt;defined&lt;/a&gt; as: &lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt;outstanding skill; expertise&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That makes &lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Business Mastery&lt;/span&gt;-&lt;span style=&quot;font-style: italic;&quot;&gt; the display of outstanding skill and expertise in areas of business&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Each and every one of our &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/06/creating-businessopportunity-what-i.html&quot;&gt;virtual                  Board of Advisers&lt;/a&gt; described below these posts has displayed some element of business mastery in their chosen field of business.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;YOU can too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS&lt;/a&gt;,     the sixth pillar of our - &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS        - Powerful Peak Performance Program&lt;/a&gt; - &lt;a style=&quot;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);&quot; href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-peak-at-business-mastery.html&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: bold;&quot;&gt;Business Mastery&lt;/span&gt;  - dip.bus.mastery&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a style=&quot;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);&quot; href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-fire-up-entrepreneur-within_10.html&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  was developed to stimulate the development of  quality Million Dollar Ideas, Joint  Ventures, Strategic Alliances for practical  launch in the market place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let&#39;s  close today&#39;s  thought with an &#39;interview&#39;  comment or 3 from     the  twenty-first of our  potential &lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/06/creating-businessopportunity-what-i.html&quot;&gt;virtual                 Board of Advisers&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Cowell&quot;&gt;Simon Cowell&lt;/a&gt; - British music executive, television producer and entrepreneur - Pop Idol, American Idol, Britain/America&#39;s Got Talent, X-Factor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;post-body  entry-content&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.evancarmichael.com/Famous-Entrepreneurs/652/Simon-Cowell-Quotes.html&quot;&gt;quote&lt;/a&gt;:           &#39;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;When I was 30 the company that owned Fanfare went bust, and I effectively lost  everything. I had to move in with my parents. In hindsight, it was the best  thing that happened in my life because I learned the value of money: not to  borrow money and not to live beyond my means. And I learned that getting there  is more fun than being there. But one thing that I have always been able to do  is to own up to my mistakes and not blame others.&#39;&lt;span class=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.evancarmichael.com/Famous-Entrepreneurs/652/Simon-Cowell-Quotes.html&quot;&gt;quote&lt;/a&gt;:         &lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&#39;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;Work hard, be patient, and be a sponge while learning your business. Learn how  to take criticism. Follow your gut instincts and don&#39;t compromise.&lt;span class=&quot;body&quot;&gt;&#39;&lt;/span&gt;    &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.evancarmichael.com/Famous-Entrepreneurs/652/Simon-Cowell-Quotes.html&quot;&gt;quote&lt;/a&gt;:    &lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&#39;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;&lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;If you&#39;ve got a big mouth and you&#39;re controversial, you&#39;re going to get  attention. &lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;I can&#39;t bear political correctness. I don&#39;t like a rule driven life and I hate  the fact that you can&#39;t criticize a fat person. &lt;style&gt;&lt;/style&gt;I actually really like Donald Trump. I think he&#39;s entertaining. There are so  many unhappy billionaires, and he&#39;s a happy one with a great sense of humor. I  didn&#39;t think I&#39;d like him. I like people who don&#39;t take themselves too  seriously.&#39;  &lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Today&#39;s    thought is  brought to you by:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://wisdoms123.blogspot.com/2010/05/wisdoms-powerful-peak-performance.html&quot;&gt;WISDOMS                          - Powerful PEAK Performance Program&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/feeds/794255742181138584/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/do-you-create-million-dollar-ideas-for.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/794255742181138584'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1111253928138963522/posts/default/794255742181138584'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wisdomslight.blogspot.com/2010/07/do-you-create-million-dollar-ideas-for.html' title='Do YOU Create &#39;Million Dollar Ideas&#39; For YOUR Business?'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>