Women and Dating - Learn the Game

Getting Your Ex Back After You Are Badly Dumped!

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 18:44:00 +0000

You want to know how to get your ex back, right? I feel ya. Getting dumped is one of the worst things a guy can go through.

Recently I saw a life stress ranking list, and having an intimate
relationship end was actually listed as more stressful than
serving a jail term. So if you're ready to turn it around no
matter how bad she dumped you, let's get going...
Well, below you find the most basic four steps on how to get your ex back. So read on carefully!

The first step to getting your ex back is to re-establish your
value. This is important because by far the most common mistake a
guy makes at the end of a relationship is to become needy. He
practically gets on his hands and knees and begs his woman to
take him back, and unfortunately this has the exact opposite
effect of pushing her away.

It's simple human psychology, understood by any competent
marketer or salesman: if something is in-demand and you have to
work for it, you end up valuing it more. And unfortunately, when
you become the crying man, pleading for your woman to take you
back, she doesn't exactly have to work for you.

You'll have the best success, then, by re-establishing your
value right away by sending your ex-girlfriend a handwritten
cut-off note.

Simply put, you tell her that you're going to give her time and
space apart from you, you agree with the break up, and you're
going to cut off communication with her for awhile so that both
of you can have that healthy distance.

You end the note by saying that something exciting has happened
in your life and you need to tell her about it sometime. This is
extremely effective because it appeals to your ex's sense of
curiosity, which is the strongest human emotion there is.

Later when it comes time to re-initiate communication with your
ex, she will be unable to resist speaking with you again.

(By the way, my idea of a cut-off note works so well that I've
seen another relationship "guru" steal it and claim it as his
own.)

The second step to getting your ex back is to build your attractiveness. I've identified
11 traits that women are attracted to, which I call the
"Attraction Dials." Your turn the dials, and you turn up the
desire a woman has for you.
These Attraction Dials needed to get your ex back are as follows:

1. Being a Leader -- You talk and others (especially other
men) listen.

2. Masculine Good Looks -- Women use the word "cute," "handsome,"
or even "hot" to describe you. They compliment you on various
aspects of how you're put together such as "nice shirt!".

3. Physical Health and Strength -- You're in shape.

4. Confidence -- You move through life with self-assurance,
without fear of others judging you.

5. Being Happy and Non-Needy -- You have no need to pressure the
woman or to try to control her behavior.

6. Having Other Women Interested in You -- If a woman knows she's
got competition to win you, then you look that much more appealing
in her eyes.

7. Being Popular -- You have a large network of people you know.

8. Being Interesting, Intriguing, Fun and a Captivating -- You
bring a huge relief to a woman's boring life.

9. Being Assertive -- You can protect those around you.

10. Making Her Laugh -- If a woman is laughing at what you say, it
is psychologically impossible for her to dislike you.

11. Having Drive -- You're ambitious and have passions you're
pursuing

Step three is to identify the mistakes you made previously in the
relationship and learn from them so that when you have the
relationship re-run, you and your woman will stay together.

After all, it isn't any more fun being dumped a second time!

I'm drastically over-simplifying here, but the elements of a
successful relationship are:

1. You're a man who is generally dominant rather than wish-washy,
confident in himself, and an alpha male.

2. You give your woman positive emotions.

3. Emotionally, she needs you more than you need her. (You can
stand on your own two feet and don't need her to be your
psychologist or mother-figure.)

4. You have frequent and pleasurable physical relations with her.

Step four to getting your ex back is to re-initiate communication with your woman after a
full 21 days of keeping her 100% cut off from you. Then you get
her to hang out with you so you can re-attract her.

In order to be able to meet with her, make sure to let her know
that you're totally fine with the break up and just want to be
friends at this point. Be totally nonchalant and cool. You want
her to wonder what's changed and what's going on with you.

Then when the two of you hang out, you turn her Attraction Dials
and completely astound her and sweep her off her feet.
That's how you get your ex back in your life...Done!

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noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 15:03:00 +0000

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Great Conversation Topics When Meeting Women

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 03 Apr 2010 05:16:00 +0000

So, you're in a conversation with a woman. She's attractive.
And you want to make her interested in you. The question is
"what do you talk about?"

The truth is EVERY time you're in a conversation with a girl, you
MUST apply specific strategies for making her attracted.

This can include flirting, using humor, and displaying other high
status qualities. However, all of these tactics aren't really
helpful when it comes to knowing WHAT topics will make her
interested.

So today, we're going to discuss a few conversation topics that'll
help keep the conversation going WHILE you're creating attraction.
Now if you have problems in this area, then here's a great place
where you can get started:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/make-small-talk-sexy-blueprint.html

As I've mentioned time and time again, attraction starts with HOW
you talk. It's not about WHAT you say. A guy who knows how to
create attraction can take a menu and simply read it to a woman.
All the while sparking HEAPS of sexual chemistry.

So keep in mind that WHAT you're talking about isn't that
important. Really the only thing you need to worry about is
keeping the conversation going!

First off, when in doubt, ALWAYS focus the conversation on the
woman. Whether you're teasing her about something, or discussing
her favorite childhood memory, you'll get a positive response
when you talk about what SHE enjoys.

Remember people (especially women) LOVE to talk about themselves.

If you get stuck, wondering what to say next, ask a question
about a topic she's mentioned. Or even something she's wearing.
A simple "what's the story behind those earrings?" question can
save a dying a conversation.

Moving on...

Besides focusing a conversation on her, there are a number of
"chick-centric" topics that almost all women enjoy. Here are a
few that I've personally used:

~~~> Pop culture

We all share a common experience of what's currently "in" at the
moment. Whether it's a popular movie, song, celebrity,
technology or kitsch item; you can quickly form a bond with a
girl by casually mentioning a reference to something that's
popular at that moment.

Using a pop culture as a conversation topic is one of the best
ways to establish some commonality, without making it seem like
you're trying to force a connection.

As an example, I currently tell a story about what happened on a
"Snuggie" pub crawl I recently attended. Now if a girl has seen
the commercials for the Snuggie, then I've formed an instant
common bond.

And if she hasn't, then I can tease her about not having the
"most awesomely comfortable blanket ever invented!" [My words]

In addition you can also interject references to pop culture in
the stories that you tell women. For instance, one of my
favorite stories describes a group of girls from Eastern Europe
who were stalking me. And instead of simply saying where they
were from, I describe how they had an accent like "Borat."

By including a pop culture reference into conversations, you're
giving woman a powerful frame of reference that makes it easier
to feel connected to you.

~~~> Travel destinations

Not only is this one of MY favorite topics, it also triggers a
feeling of adventure in women whenever you talk about it. Maybe
you just got back from Tahiti, or maybe you're about to go
somewhere cool.

If you don't have a trip planned, then mention some of the best
places you've been to. Talk about why you really liked them.

And if you haven't traveled. Ask about her experiences. What
was the coolest thing she's ever seen? Why?

~~~> Fun childhood memories

Make a positive connection to some of the memories she had
growing up. What did she want to be when she grew up? What was
the first pet she had? Was she a geek in high school or was she
popular?

Remember even the smallest memory can create a fun, emotion-
filled conversation topic:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/make-small-talk-sexy-blueprint.html

~~~> Dreams and aspirations

What's your dream house? What goals do you want to achieve, and
what are hers? Where's one place you must visit before you die?

If you paid attention to some of the emails I've sent in the last
month, then you should have PLENTY to talk about in this area.
The truth is a man with high status has a TON of things he wants
to do in life (Besides meet women.)

~~~> Great experiences

With this conversation topic, you'll harness the power of a well
told story. When you're talking to a woman, you should have at
least 4 or 5 stories that you can tell her. All of which subtly
demonstrate that you're a guy who has MANY of the qualities which
make you a 'catch.'

On the surface, you're telling a story about something you've
done, but at the same time you're subtly telling her that you're
a popular guy, who possesses many in-demand qualities
(intelligence, humor, confidence, popularity, and social
awareness.)

Furthermore, get her talking about some of her favorite
experiences. What's the craziest thing she's done? Has she had
a "life defining moment?" What are the hobbies she enjoys?

~~~> Relationship gossip

Women LOVE talking about relationships. Especially if they're
filled with drama. Whether it's one of her friends or a famous
celebrity from the cover of People, you can feed into the
*naughty* side of her personality by discussing a topic that's a
little bit taboo.

Start with a funny, but revealing story, about one of your friends
and watch as she tells a DOZEN anecdotes from her social circle.

~~~> Uplifting news or current events

This conversation topic shows her that you're up with the times.
Find something cute, funny, or interesting that you saw on the
news and discuss what it means to you.

Just make sure to steer away from religion, politics, or
polarizing social issues on this one. People tend to be VERY
passionate about one or both of these topics, and arguments
arising from them are seldom friendly.

~~~> "What if" questions

What would you do if you had a million dollars and never had to
work again? If you were "king" of America, what would you do?

This conversation topic stretches the imagination and shows the
creative side of your personality. What I really like about this
is you can ask a "what if" question, then immediately slip into
a fun role-playing scenario where the two of you discuss what
you'll do WHEN this happens in your lives.

~~~> Immediate surroundings

Look around a room when you're talking to a woman. Discuss the
things that you notice which are "conversation worthy."

Point out a couple in the room. Do they look happy? Are they
on a first date? What are they talking about?

If you train your brain to notice your surroundings, you'll NEVER
run out of conversation topics!

In my opinion, you can discuss just about ANYTHING when you first
meet a woman. My rule of thumb is this. If she's smiling,
laughing and ENGAGED in the conversation, then it's a GREAT topic!

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How To USE One Minute Mind Reading

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 04:47:00 +0000

As humans, we're comfortable around things we know,
like and trust. That's why you feel uncomfortable when
you meet strangers - we all do. Because you're around
people you don't know, and you don't feel safe with.

It's the same for women...

You see, getting picked up by a guy she's never met
(or never seen in THAT way) involves getting to know
someone new. Someone she doesn't feel safe with.
And most men - myself included - screw up not because
you're SAYING the wrong thing...

... Simply put: You're saying or doing something that
makes her uncomfortable. Pushes her out of her
comfort zone. And doesn't allow her to feel safe and
turned on because it's not FAMILIAR to her. So
she's forced to reject you.

So how do you use One Minute Mind Reading? Easy:
To make her feel comfortable being picked up by you.
And you do this by tailoring your approach to her type,her likes, her needs and her emotional nature.
The good news is: This is child's play, once you
realize most women reject men because they
feel uncomfortable or threatened. All you have to
do is follow these 6 tips...

*************************** SHOULD YOU BE COCKY OR SWEET
THE FIRST TIME YOU MEET HER?
***************************

First, check her Time Line. If she's the type
of girl who dates around - you can be as cocky
as you want, because you're COMPETING
against other men for her attention.

If she doesn't date around - You want to
shift gears and be romantic and sweet,
instead of cocky. You'll lure her in with
your charm, instead of pushing her away.
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON your
conversations fall flat - you're simply
using the wrong "tone" to talk to the
wrong woman.

And when you check out her Time Line,
you'll know what to do - every time.

( Pandora's Box Tip: If she has mostly guy
friends, you know to be more cocky. More
girl friends? Stay sweet & charming)

************************ SHOULD YOU CHASE HER OR LET
HER CHASE YOU?
************************

First, check her Time Line. If she's the type
of girl who dates around - you can't chase
her because that's "too much pressure."
Instead: Get her to chase you using
LOTS of Intrigue.

If she doesn't date around - You want to
be playfully persistent. Keep sending her
funny texts until she starts to warm up.
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON you don't get
the girl you want, or she flakes: You either
chase too much to start... or you don't
chase her enough.

And this is one of the major "you should
always do X..." traps we fall into that make
us LESS successful with women!

Simply check out her Time Line and you'll
know whether to chase her until you get her,
or play cool and let her chase you.

( Pandora's Box Tip: If she's trying to "fix"
you, playfully chase her forever. If she's
hard to get on the phone - try using more
and more Intrigue)

***************************** DO YOU MAN-HANDLE AND "CAVEMAN"
HER, OR USE PROTECTIVE TOUCH?
*****************************

First, check her Sex Line. If she talks about
sex with you, feel free to manhandle her a ton.
Being ultra-aggressive is the key to turning
her on.

If she gets embarrassed whenever sex comes
up, you want to use a more protective touch. Things
like putting your hand on her lower back make her
feel safe, so she can "warm up" naturally around
you.
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON women simply
won't go home with you (or take too many dates!)
Using the wrong strategy to turn her on makes
sex literally impossible.

However, when you read her Sex Line, you'll
turn her on - any time you want.

( Pandora's Box Tip: If she's got a tattoo - even
on her hip - she probably loves being manhandled.
Because only this type of woman is adventerous
enough to get ink'd up. She loves risk.)

************************ ARE YOU SUPER SEXUAL, OR DO
YOU USE THE "US" FRAME?
************************

First, check her Sex Line. If she hasn't
had many partners, you want to use the
"us" frame (talking about "us" as a couple)
as much as you can. She's a sucker for
relationships.

If she's more experienced, use Sexual
Tension and Innuendo to ramp up her
sex drive. She'll think about past experiences
she had, which will drive her wild with
excitement.
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON most guys
simply don't get one night stands. When you
use the wrong way to turn her on - she doesn't
feel that overwhelming urge to go home
with you.

When you watch her Sex Line, you'll get
her ramped up in minutes, because you're
using TARGETED tactics.

( Pandora's Box Tip: If she calls other girls
"sluts", you want to use the "us" frame a lot.
If she's more into sex - sexual innuendo is
best)

****************************** SHOULD THE FIRST TIME YOU HAVE SEX
BE WILD... OR SENSUAL?
******************************

First, check her Sex Line. If she's a risk taker,
you'll want to make her first time "special."
By special I mean chains, whips and all
sorts of passionate, kinky stuff.

(If that's your flavor... ;-)

If she hates fast cars, or going on roller
coasters - use more passionate lighting.
Candles, soft music, bubble bath and the
works.
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON you'll sleep with
a girl and she'll never call you again. Most
women feel used after the first time, and
this nips that feeling in the bud.

Because when you check her Sex Line,
you're good to go.

( Pandora's Box Tip: If she's a smoker, she's
probably more of a risk taker. If she's religious,
there's a good chance soft lighting will do the
trick)

*************************** SHOULD YOU SUPPORT HER CAREER
OR DISTRACT HER FROM WORK?
***************************

First, check her Relationship Line. If she's
focused on her career or school above all
else, you want to be supportive. This one's
a no brainier.

However, if she's just working a job to get
some money - you want to distract her from
work as much as possible! Be her mini-
vacation, whenever you see each other.
THIS IS THE MAIN REASON women will
eventually "fall out of love" with a man and
break up. She doesn't feel the bond on a
deep level anymore.

And when you check her Relationship Line,
that will never happen to you.

( Pandora's Box Tip: If she says, "I can do
everything a man can do" - focus on supporting
her and her career. If she has you kill spiders,
you should be her distraction.)

***************************** SEE HOW EASY IT IS TO TELL WHAT
TO DO NEXT? THAT'S BECAUSE NOW
YOU'RE WATCHING THE RIGHT THINGS!
*****************************

Some of this stuff may seem "common sense",
but do you follow it, every time you meet a woman?
I bet not. In fact, I'm willing to wager you pick one of
the above strategies and stick to it like glue, no
matter which type of woman you meet.

But when you use the right technique on the right
"type" of woman, she feels like you're reading her
deepest, most private thoughts.

This gives you the realistic ability to meet
100% of the beautiful women you want, and
"reading her mind" takes only 60 seconds.

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Friendly to Arrogance?!

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 04:50:00 +0000

"Hey Vin, thanks for your emails. they're really helpful

I have 2 sisters and i reckon it helps me understand
women more. I can joke around, play, flirt with girls i
meet(keep it non-serious).Anyway that was before i
started listening to people on their opinion on girls.

Then anxiety began to kicked in(around puberty). I try
and relax and focus on something else, which helps.
Mentally picturing a conversation as easy also helps!
So i've been approaching women and asking for
directions/time for a starter. Everyone is really friendly
and nice! even in asian countries (im from aus,
currently in malaysia)

My question is this. I'm a very high energy, bubbly
kind of person who smiles quite a lot. i've done
martial arts for 10 years so ive got quite an atheletic
body for an asian, im quick to socialise (interact with
people). I'd say i'm really friendly. you'd agree if you
met me.

Generally making friends is not much of a problem
for me. however when it comes to more good looking
people, they seem to be more "snobby". i'll be having
fun while they seem arrogant, which puts me off. what
do you think? the more it happens the more anxiety
i reckon i'll be feeling regarding meeting good
looking people

[the one thing I learned from you that changed my life] I'd
say relax, and from my deduction of your work, it seems
like you advocate that every woman wants to have a
positive energy conversation, and doesnt want to be
placed on a pedastal just because she looks good
(and just be normal)

-Shang"

>>> Hey Shang,

****************************************
YOU GOTTA WATCH YOUR FOCUS!
****************************************

I remember when I started learning
how to meet people and pick up women:
No matter what people really SAID,
I thought it was a little arrogant or
stand offish.

I thought people sincerely didn't like
me for being charming, charismatic
or any of the things I (well, in my case THOUGHT)
I was.

Turns out: I was wrong.

YES - People are insecure, and good
looking people are no different.

YES - Sometimes, being "too friendly"
seems like you want something from
them, instead of being sincere.

YES - Every once in awhile, you just
run into the wrong person at the
wrong time.

HOWEVER -

*************************************
WHAT IF YOU'RE PROJECTING
YOUR DIS-TRUST OF GOOD
LOOKING PEOPLE, ONTO THEM?
*************************************

For instance, you've probably heard of
the term "hypochondriac" before, right?
If you haven't, it basically means someone
who believes they're sick all the time
so strongly...

... They'll actually get sick!

And even though that's a horrible situation
to live in, it demonstrates a psychological
trigger you're running into with good
looking people:

DIAGNOSIS BIAS

*** When you diagnosis someone as
stuck-up... They'll act stuck-up, to you.

That's why changing your focus is SO
IMPORTANT!

So I want you to try this exercise, next
time you meet a good looking person
who may or may not be stuck up to
you:

1) Say hi and be friendly (like you usually
are)

2) Find something "human" about them
(For instance, maybe he's got a stain
on his shirt or something)

3) Laugh to yourself, and realize that
people are people are people, with
the same confidence, flaws, insecurities
and - most importantly - emotions.

********************************************
HOWEVER, IF THEY'RE ACTUALLY
BEING ARROGANT, HERE ARE MY
TOP 3 WAYS TO BE A "COOLER MAN"
THAN MOST ROCK STARS OR CELEBRITIES
********************************************

Bold claim? You betcha. Read on:

*************
#1: RELAX!
*************

Even the best of the best looking, and the
richest of the rich has secret, deep seeded
fears and insecurities.

These manifest differently in different people.

In you, maybe they make you tense up or
"go blank" around women you like.

In very extroverted people, it turns them
into charismatic, social MACHINES!
However, it doesn't change the fact
that many a rock star and almost 90%
of celebrities aren't at peace with
WHO THEY ARE, as a person.

Fix this in yourself by taking a deep breath,
relaxing and accepting yourself, as you are.
Flaws and all.

(It's cool to not be perfect, because as
long as you're taking one small step to
get better and better every day... That's
all you can do :-)

Here's a breathing technique I call
Natural Drugs because it'll help you
relax like no other:

1) Take a deep breath, as deep as
you can

2) Breathe out SLOWLY! As slow as you
can go

3) Breathe in SLOWLY! A 6-8 count is
a good length

4) Breathe out SLOWLY! A 6-8 count is
a good length.

5) Repeat steps 3-4

This technique can technically go on
forever (it's a favorite of professional
singers) and it'll make you INCREDIBLY
relaxed, physically, because you'll
get a huge dose of oxygen to your
brain.

*********************
#2: COMPLIANCE
*********************

Sounds weird, right? Get people to do
things for you, and they'll like you more?
But it's the gosh-darn TRUTH!

And here's why: It's called the principle
of COMMITMENT AND CONSISTENCY,
which basically means the more you
invest in something, the more important
it becomes to you.

This principle makes break ups hard,
and even helps a girl fall in love with
you, the first time you meet her.

And when you use it on other people,
they'll be HAPPY, because they feel
like they're contributing to a greater
good: Your life. Your mission. Your
happiness.

When you couple this with Vision,
you'll be magnetically attractive
to ANY person you want to meet :-)

Simply get someone to do one little
thing for you - like hold your drink.

Then escalate it - Maybe they'll buy
you a water.

Then up and up and up. The sky's
the limit.

Finally,

*************************************
#3: MAKE OTHER PEOPLE FEEL
GOOD
*************************************

Like it or not, everyone's favorite
radio station is WII F.M. - "What's
In It For Me?"

So, while you're trying to get YOURSELF
something -- lets say getting a woman
into bed, or making people like you --
The easiest way to do it is...

... To make other people feel
good.

Give good vibes. Be friendly,
be playful. Give genuine compliments
(at the RIGHT times, of course)

Because think about it: Who would
you rather hang out with? Debbie
Downer who's always complaining,
or your friend who always makes
you feel on top of the world.

It's an easy answer - Making other
people feel good is like giving
them a drug they'll never get
tired of. The EGO loves it!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
HOW'S YOUR FOCUS WITH WOMEN?

Do you get sucked into negative thoughts
when you're around women? Jealousy...
Envy... Guilt... These emotions will make
meeting a woman almost 100% impossible,
unless you know how to shift your mental
focus away from them.

For almost 30 years of my life, I was stuck
in a negative mindset, and it left me terrible
with women. Thankfully, I met a man named
Tony and he taught me The Attraction Code,
which - in a nutshell - Is the most effective
way to "train" your focus in order to make
you an attractive man that women can't
get enough of. Check it out, here:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

****** THINGS TO DO TODAY *******

1) ADJUST YOUR FOCUS - Try switching
your focus when you're around good looking
people, or people you envy

2) USE THE 3-STEP SYSTEM for making
"arrogant" people seem human, then...

3) RELAX because everyone has insecurities

4) GET COMPLIANCE because people LOVE
investing their time and effort in valuable
people, and this investing MAKES you
valuable to them

5) MAKE OTHER PEOPLE FEEL GOOD
because people like people who make
them feel good.

Simple, ain't it? I thought so, too.
In fact, I thought it was TOO simple
to finally be in the "cool club" once
I learned these techniques, that I
doubted their effectiveness, and
took MONTHS to try them out.

That was a mistake!

Now, I'm surrounded by powerful,
charismatic and successful people
and we all help each other grow
and succeed.

If you want a stronger - better - social
circle, this is one of the easiest ways
to do it.

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TOP 3 NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS FOR MEETING WOMEN IN 2010:

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 04:49:00 +0000

**************************
#1: BE MORE SOCIAL!
**************************

And this is where your New Years
Resolution falls: Because meeting
5 new women twice per week is a
great way to get more social.

Also, focus on talking to at least
a handful of strangers - guys AND
girls - Every day, as well.

Being more social makes you more
relaxed and calm around women.
And this relaxation will help women
feel comfortable around you, as well.

5 new women twice per week
is a goal I'd recommend for ANYONE
who's interested in getting better
with women.

*******************************
#2: BE MORE AGGRESSIVE
*******************************

Whether it's going for the phone
number or leaning in for the first
kiss, a major resolution of yours
should be to be more aggressive!

Kiss her when it's time.

Ask her for her phone number.

And use The DiCarlo Escalation
ladder when it comes time to
get intimate.

My friend Julian just told me a
story about last night, where he
was about to go home alone
from a failed first date.

He was at a restaurant, grabbing
a bite to eat when he got his
waitress to sit down next
to him...

... Then looked her straight in
the eyes and asked her if
she wanted to go home with
him.

Now, I don't recommend doing
this exactly word for word... but...
It WORKED!

So whenever you feel like you're
being "too" aggressive with a
woman, keep that story in mind.

Being more aggressive with women
will make your 2010 your most
successful year with women,
ever.

That's my promise to you. :-)

*******************************
#3: BE MORE PERSISTENT
*******************************

About 10 years ago, there was a movie
about space traveling actors who
saved the day.

I admit - It was a terrible movie. The
acting was 2nd rate, the scenery was
flimsy and cardboard... But I LOVED
the movie!

And I loved the movie because the
main character was a charismatic
leader of a man. And his catchphrase
was:

"Never give up! Never surrender!"

That catch-phrase has gotten
me at least HALF of the women
I've slept with and dated, over
the years.

Here's the point:

When a woman doesn't text or
call you back, it's not the end
of the world!

Just text or call her back. And even
if you ruin the relationship (say you
get caught cheating, or she throws
a drink in your face)...

... Just stop talking to her for a month
and then text her a nice, friendly,
NoFlakes! approved text, after
a month.

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Your 'Trust Potion', Inside

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 04:35:00 +0000

For 5 years, I brought women back to
a big, white van. A "kidnapper's" van.

And yet women LOVED coming over
to have sex, next to the dirt, grime and
filth.

Picture this: You meet a beautiful woman
in a coffee shop. Her hair shines in the light,
and her eyes pull you deep into them, until
you can't think about anything except for
how pretty she looks.

You fight your nerves, and start a conversation
with her. You say a few interesting things,
keep it from dying out on you and you
touch her in a way that gets her turned
on.

Finally, you suggest getting out of here.
"Going back to your place", you call it.

Next thing she knows, she's looking at
a big, white van. With no windows. The
same kinda van most news stories feature
when someone gets hurt, raped or killed.

And instead of turning to leave, she
wraps herself in your arms, then whispers
gently in your ear, "I can't wait to see the
inside"

Sound too good to be true? You better
believe it was! When I first started bringing
girls back to my "place", they'd laugh at me
and never call me again.

So I had to discover the secret "love potion"
that makes women have sex with you, even
in the SCARIEST or RISKIEST places
possible.

Including when you don't have a car or
house handy, to seal the deal.

What was my secret? I'm going to show
you, in this email. I'm also gonna show you:

--> MAKE HER TRUST YOU: She'll trust you blindly, and follow you
like a puppy, when you do this.

--> SPEAK WOMANESE?
When you say something, women
hear a whole something else. Use
these tips to make her understand
just how bad you want her.

--> HER GAME, EXPOSED:
She's got a *few* tricks up her sleeve,
and I'll show you how to use them ALL
to your advantage.
And, as always, today's email comes
from a question YOU submitted to: askvin@vindicarlo.com
---- 3 GOLDEN EMAIL QUESTION RULES ----

1) Start with what you've learned
from me, and what's worked for
you. So I know what experience
you've got, and how to help you
move forward.

2) Then, tell me about your
situation - BRIEFLY - and
ask me a question.

Make sure your spelling is checked
and your grammar is good. No need
to be perfect - just presentable.

3) If you were going to tell your
friends ONE PIECE OF ADVICE
you learned from me that changed
your life... What would it be?

You should answer that question
last so that EVERYONE can learn
from your email. Not just the guys
who share a similar situation.

---

Let's dig in to today's email.
You ready? You better be ;-)
*** AWESOME QUESTION FROM A READER ***

"Hi Vin!

I have The Attraction Code, DSP, Scubed and Conversation Cure.
I liked Attraction Code the most (I read it about 10 times in last year).
I have always been very social during the day, but I was completely
introverted in clubs.

Focus helped me to always stay positive, to have fun no matter
how the environment is. That makes me the life of the party
wherever I go. I also learned how to keep my dominance.

I no longer have the need to have perfect comeback when a woman
tests me, I just continue what I was talking or cut the thread and keep
the conversation positive (same applies to amoging). It helps me not
only with women but also other times when I feel pressure.

Thinking this way makes me a happier person.

After DSP I really think game became more natural to me. I got in
touch with my vision a lot more and somehow lost all need to
impress. I talk a lot more about my goals, beliefs, desires, feelings
with girls. I establish themes about what kind of girls I like and
immediately focus on getting compliance.

DSP also changed the way I look at sexual tension. Before I was
too aggressive.Girls seem to like my new attitude a lot (on Monday
3 different good looking girls invited me for a coffee, otherwise
I get girls giving me many windows of opportunity).

But I have 1 problem. In the summer I had strong leadership, but
now in the winter I have problems with isolation. I don t have a
driver license and live with my parents (so do the majority of girls
I meet).

I will get the drivers license, but I would really appreciate if you would
tell me any isolation location for situation like this.

I would also love to see this playette email, because girls I hooked
up with in last couple of months were 9 and 10 usually. They have a
lot of orbiters that would do anything for them.

I noticed that their game usually has this two parts: being hard to
get and compliance but I would love to see more.

Thanks in advance

Alexander"

>>> Hey Alexander,

I just want to say INCREDIBLE job, in
2009-2010! A few 9's and 10's... Girls
asking you for coffee...

... This was like my DREAM when I started
out meeting women.

(And I think re-reading / re-watching the programs
you have... even these emails... Has a lot to do with
it. Because the more you read / watch something,
the deeper it seeps in)

However, no matter how insane your
skill set is with women... If you don't have
a house or a car to seduce women in,
you've got a giant road-block in your
path to the pussy.

***********************************
HERE'S HOW TO GET WOMEN
IN BED, WHEN YOU CAN'T GO
BACK TO YOUR PLACE:
***********************************

Really, the easiest answer to your
question is, "Get a hotel room, dude"...
But there's a secret problem with
that, which most men don't notice:

You see, no woman will go back to
a hotel room with a guy she hasn't
slept with. Because hotel rooms
always have sex involved... And
unless you've "done it" before,
she'll feel cheap and used.

So I'm gonna teach you how to
get women to sleep with you
in crazy places - like bathrooms,
dark corners and other exciting
places...

Whether you want to get a girl,
and don't have a place to bring
her...

Or if you want to sleep with a girl
in only 20 minutes to a few HOURS
after you met her...

Even if you want a sexy date with
your current girlfriend - or girlfriends...

... When you know the secret
I'm about to teach you, you'll never
again worry about "where do I bring
her?", ever again.

***********************************
THE SECRET IS TRUST! AND
THIS TECHNIQUE MAKES HER
TRUST YOU - QUICKLY:
***********************************

When a woman trusts you, she'll
follow you anywhere. She'll do whatever
you ask her to. And she'll be devoted
as devoted can be, to where another
guy couldn't even dream of stealing
your girl.

(Even if his eye contact and body
language were TIGHT!)

Women see their man like a safari
guide. She looks to you for advice in
LIFE, and she wants you to "know the
road", so she doesn't make a mistake.

When she trusts you - her guide -
She'll follow you into treacherous waters,
she'll come with you, even in the most
dangerous places... And she'll feel excited,
intense and adventurous the whole time.

When a woman doesn't trust you, you
transform from Crocodile Dundee,
"Master of the Wilderness", into a tame,
witless Hippie who doesn't know his ass
from his elbow and just wants to "go with
the flow, man"

She'll lose attraction for you, quickly.
And she'll feel lost. Confused. Repulsed.

How do you make her trust you? Well,
here's the answer:

Speak In Her Native Language!

If you start naming shrubs and trees in their
Latin names, she'll believe you know what
the fuck you're doing... And she'll trust you,
completely.

HERE'S HOW THIS APPLIES TO DATING:
You need to show her you're dominant,
in control, calm and collected - at ALL TIMES!

***********************************
USE THESE TIPS TO SPEAK HER
LANGUAGE, AND MAKE HER TRUST
YOU, AT ALL TIMES:
***********************************

* NEVER GOSSIP - and let her know
that you don't "kiss and tell"

Obviously, don't just SAY you're a private
individual... Maybe you'll tell her a story
about a friend of yours. Your friend had
sex with a guy, he blabbed and her
reputation was ruined.

Let her know how terrible that was,
and how big of an asshole you think
he is.

* TALK IN "SEXUAL TERMS" - Women know
what's up: When you're talking to a girl you
like, she knows there's a romantic subtext.

So when you only talk on a "friendly" level,
she feels like you want something from her,
something dark. This makes her feel less
and less attracted to you.

Simply touch her, or use sexual tension
words or even invade her space a little
bit.

Just make sure your interaction is SEXUAL!!!
... !!!

* KNOW WHAT SHE'S THINKING! Keep your 'feelers' out, figuring out how
she feels, at all times.

When you know she's "hot to trot", use
this technique...

***********************************
ONCE YOU'VE GOT HER TRUST,
USE THIS TIP TO END IN SEX:
***********************************

Simply LEAD HER!

It's weird, isn't it? That when a
woman trusts you... All you have to
do is lead her, without feeling
guilty about it.

Simply grab her hand, start walking
to the nearest "dark corner" and lead
her towards sex

Obviously, if she says "NO", you should
stop... But if you've been following these
tips, she'll be really into you.

And once you've got her alone, you'll
have no trouble at all escalating with
her.

Women LOVE Adventure!

Women LOVE Sex!

Women LOVE Adventurous Sex!

Use this email to give it to her... Good ;-)

Now that you know this secret
about women, you'll see the
world in a whole new light

You'll see opportunity where you
only saw rejection, before. And your
confidence will be THROUGH THE
ROOF when it's time to "close"...

... Even if you don't have a "place" to
bring her.

JUST MAKE SURE YOU LOOK FOR
HER SIGNALS!

Because if she's ready to go, she's
ready to go...

And if she's not, she's not...

So if you screw up her signals, you
may as well be dead in the water.

***********************************
SO HERE ARE THE SIGNALS
WOMEN USE TO "GAME" THE
MEN THEY LIKE:
***********************************

Women's "game" isn't like man's
"game" - She's much more subtle
about what she likes.

She teases... She pokes... She plays
hard to get...

... And at the end of the day, she's
going to decide whether to have sex
with you based on one of three
things.

I'll reveal all three things in the
*very* near future, and for now,
just remember that you'll get
NOWHERE without TRUST!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
WHAT IF YOU DON'T HAVE TIME
TO WINE AND DINE HER?

Well, then you better build some
serious trust, like I showed you
above. Also - You need to add in
some additional Sexual Tension,
to get her dripping wet and horny
beyond belief.

If you'd like the best tips for Sexual
Tension, today, you could either
watch porn and try - without success -
to backwards engineer what turns
her on... Or... You can simply read this .
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

*** SEXY THINGS TO DO, TODAY: ***

1) Build TRUST with her, by speaking
her language

2) Learn her language by watching what
she says, does and FEELS

3) Then LEAD her to a safe spot for
physical escalation

Listen, I know your pain... Like I said before,
I spent my first 5 years learning this stuff
out of the back of a big, white cleaning van.

So what was the secret to my success with
women, even though my "home" scared
every girl who saw it?

Trust. A whole lot of it. :-)

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5 mistakes on a first date

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:08:00 +0000

OK, on to the advice. Here are some first date
tips you MUST remember ...

First, control the environment. Select a
comfortable location which you're very familiar
with. Don't leave anything to chance.

(For example, a restaurant where you know the
staff and the best dishes on the menu, or a bar
where you know the manager or doorman. Not
only does this ensure a smooth experience, but
it also makes you look knowledgeable and socially
savvy.)

For first dates, you should have an "A," "B" and
"C" location. If location A is closed or too crowded,
switch to B, and so on.

(DON'T try out a new place on a first date. If you
want a new experience, do it on date #3 or #4.)

Why the backup plan? Because the location you've
selected could be closed for renovations.

Or bad weather might ruin the plan.

Or her psycho steroid-freak ex-boyfriend, the one
she never told you about, might be unexpectedly
hanging out there.

The point is, you must ALWAYS have a second
location ready to take her to at a moment's notice.

(I should also note, stay away from nightclubs.
They're chaotic, unpredictable, and often filled
with liquored-up dudes who will mack on your
girl the moment you hit the bathroom.)

Remember: CONTROL THE ENVIRONMENT.

Next...keep your spending to a minimum. With
first dates, never try to impress her by taking
her to a nice restaurant. This puts you in the
WRONG position.

This is her chance to sell herself to YOU,
not the other way around. Meet her for coffee
(not at a Starbucks -- find a cool, non-generic,
comfortable coffee shop for dates).

Or, meet her for drinks. Again, skip the
places that everyone knows, and find "date
locations" that will show her you're an
original type of guy who knows the cool
"off the radar" spots.

(BONUS TIP: Make her feel extra special by
saying to her, "This is one of my favorite
places. I think of it as my private sanctuary,
I never bring anyone here. But I thought you'd
enjoy it so I wanted to show it to you.")

Look, when a guy drops a bunch of cash on
a girl he hardly knows, the date becomes
burdened with expectations.

He's thinking, "I'd BETTER get some action
at the end of the night after spending this
much..."

And she's thinking, "now this guy probably
EXPECTS me to put out, but if I do, he'll
think I can be bought and paid for ..."

See, it's awkward for both people. Don't
spend unnecessary cash. Keep it on a
casual Mack level and control the flow.

Next, keep the date brief. Two hours or less
is usually perfect, so don't plan some all-day
activity. You want an escape hatch in case the
chick turns out to have some serious personality
defects.

Unless the sparks are flying and things are
headed for a first-date hookup, it's better
to cut things short.

(Say, "Well I've got a huge day tomorrow,
I need to be up early ... I had a great time,
we'll have to do this again soon.")

Remember the first rule of showbiz: "Leave
'em wanting more." You can seal the deal the
next time you see her.

Also remember, let her do most of the talking.
Be a good listener and ask questions that
prompt her to open up and share with you.

Maintain the attitude that this is HER chance
to impress YOU. It's better to be vague and
cultivate a sense of mystery around yourself.

You don't need to lie, but you CAN be vague.
If you were a bank teller, you could play it
like this...

HER: "So what do you do for a living?"

YOU: "I'm in the financial industry. Let's
just say it involves a lot of pressure and a
lot of money changing hands, but I'm good
at what I do and I love every minute."

Then, change the subject. Keep the spotlight
on HER. Women love to talk about themselves,
and share, and they appreciate a guy who
listens.

The more details she shares with you, and
the more you seem to appreciate what she's
saying, the more it feels to her like a
connection is building.

Finally...DON'T split the check. Some women
try to be "progressive" or show their independence
by offering to pitch in some money. If she does,
politely decline and pick up the check.

But here's the trick: you've got to make her
feel like she EARNED it. Tell her, "It's my treat
tonight. I appreciate your company and I've
really enjoyed hearing about (insert something
she was telling you about herself: her job, her
goals, somewhere interesting she visited, etc)."

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Using NLP to Seduce

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 08:11:00 +0000

Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a powerful tool in many areas, from therapy, to sales, to self-improvement. As a powerful tool of influence, many man have asked how it can be applied to seduction. It can be applied in simple ways with limited effect, or it can be used to make a woman desire you completely. Here is how to use NLP to seduce
1. Positive use of language
A simple but effective use of NLP is to make sure you never use negative language. Saying “today wasn’t amazing, thinks didn’t go as perfectly as I’d imagined” is so much better to hear than “today was awful, things went terribly”. Just simply using positive words rather than negative words allows you to convey the same information without affecting the mood.
2. Pacing and leading
If she is speaking negatively, first pace it by agreeing and expanding on it, but then take charge and turn things positive by changing the subject or positively reframing the negative event. Pacing and leading also applies to energy and state. If she is cold with you, don’t be loving with her, instead match her coldness and then slowly lead her into being seductive by slowly becoming seductive yourself. The same applies to if she is tired or bored, pace and then lead.
3. Mirroring and matching
When people spend a lot of time together, they tend to share mannerisms, reactions, vocabulary, and tone and speed of speech. You can see this with good friends, couples, and relatives. If you match and mirror someone, they will feel a lot more comfortable and relaxed with you and like they have known you longer.
Do this by:

Speaking at a similar speed, and using a similar amount of gestures.

Feeding back the words they use in conversation.

Mirroring the way they sit, the amount of eye contact, and the facial expression. You can get away with a surprising amount of mirroring and matching - they don’t seem to notice!

4. Anchoring
Anchoring is the process of linking a touch, sound, or visual input to an emotion. When the woman laughs, you can click your fingers, or touch her and it will anchor the emotion to the click or touch. Later you can try to re-trigger the emotion by simply firing the anchor - the touch or click. You can also anchor by playing songs when she is with you that she will later hear and associate to being with you.
5. Patterns
NLP patterns for seduction involve the use of language to bring out an emotion in the girl that is desirable given the current circumstances. An example of an NLP seduction pattern would be:
“Have you ever just met someone and almost immediately you start to feel incredibly comfortable like you’ve known this person forever and then as you just let the barriers drop and you let them more inside you start to naturally feel a sense of rightness, like this is meant to be”.
For greater effect, the italicised words should be “marked out” by delivering them slightly differently.
NLP is a powerful tool of influence, and to land the girl of your dreams you are going to want to use all the tools at your disposal to maximise your chances. Work on the above techniques and your newfound success with women will surprise and delight you!

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6 Rules For Meeting Women During The Daytime

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 16:17:00 +0000

There are a lot of different ways to meet women.

Yet, most guys ONLY use places like bars & clubs.

The truth is the BEST chance to really meet a woman is OUTSIDE
a loud, noisy venue.

To skyrocket your success with women, you need to be ready to
meet women at any point in your day. (Here's a site that
teaches you everything you need to know about creating instant
sexual attraction with your conversations):

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/women-persuasion-system.html

I've found that it's actually easier to meet a girl when you're
out during the daytime.

In fact this can be your SECRET WEAPON for meeting women. One
that your friends will wonder how you're "getting" all these
girls.

Now I want to be honest here. "Day Game" requires a different
style than what's commonly used in the bar scene.

It's a great way to meet women. But if you're using the same
tactics you'd use in a noisy club, you'll come across as a
crazy person.

To help you get started with daytime meetups, I recommend
following these SIX rules:

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Rule #1- Look your best
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To make day game work, you MUST look your best...at ALL times.

Remember, you never know when you'll come across a women you want
to approach. If look like a slob, then you'll give off a
slobbish appearance.

You should always look sharp if you want to meet women during the
daytime.

This means adhering to basic guidelines for a top-notched
appearance (i.e.: Shave, shower, apply cologne wear nice clothes,
etc.)
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Rule #2- Talk to everyone
=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=

We're all guilty of going "autopilot" as we run errands and do
stuff during the day.

For many it's not the "time" when we meet women. They're doing
chores and don't want to think about approaching a random girl.

So it seems weird to walk up to a woman during the daytime and
start a conversation.

Unfortunately this attitude will get you NOWHERE.

To improve your day game, you must get into the habit of
initiating conversations with those around you. (Even if they're
not women)

The more you practice talking to people, the more natural it'll
seem to approach a girl.

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Rule #3- Have an extraction plan
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Too many guys have the "One Night Stand" mentality.

They only concern themselves with how to 'get laid' within the
first few hours of meeting a woman.

To have success with Day Game, you should give up the idea that
you can "speed seduce" a girl the same day you meet her.

Sure it can happen. But it's pretty rare.

With that being said, you can easily meet a girl and move the
conversation to place where you can get to know one another.

What I suggest is simple...

When you're out during the day, find a place where you can have
a quick "mini-date."

This could be a coffee house, shopping at a mall, or even a trip
to a park.

My point is this:

You want a place where you can immediately go and continue the
conversation. By pre-planning a location, you'll make it seem
like a normal part of your daytime activities. Here's a way to
PERSUADE women to join you:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/women-persuasion-system.html

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Rule #4- Demonstrate high status
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Even when you're outside the "singles scene", it's still
important to demonstrate a high status personality.

To be attractive to a woman, she has to see that you're a
confident guy who can naturally attract women. She should feel
like you're a guy who has a busy life, filled with interesting
things.

So if you're not comfortable with your confidence, then I
recommend you learn why women are attracted to guys who can show
this side of their personality.

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Rule #5- Be an interesting guy
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Again, this is another rule which applies in ANY environment. To
build attraction, you must show that you're a genuinely fun guy.

This means IMMEDIATELY showcasing a personality which she'll
like. For instance, you should:

- Tell fun stories about your life
- Use humor in a funny but teasing manner
- Make interesting comments about her
- Ask her provocative questions.

The more interesting you appear, the more she'll be into YOU!

Again, this site has a many pointers about how to display a
hypnotically attractive personality during the daytime:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/women-persuasion-system.html

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Rule #6- Establish Physical Contact
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The final rule is absolutely important for making a "connection"
with a woman...

If you want to be interesting to woman, you must CREATE sexual
chemistry.

And one of the quickest ways to do this is to establish physical
contact.

Within 5 minutes of initiating a conversation, you should be
touching her a fun, familiar manner. This can include giving
high-fives, handshakes, or using humorous body language routines.

The key here is to do it in a FUN way. So don't act like a
creepy pervert that likes to grope women.

Just remember that it's often easier to meet women during the
day. If you keep your eyes open and know how to take advantage
of hidden opportunities, then you'll discover that it's easy to
pick up women.

Simply implement the six rules I just listed and you'll
successfully meet LOTS of women during the daytime.

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Dating Tip: 10 DEADLY Mistakes Guys Make During and After a Breakup

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 18:40:00 +0000

Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is
breaking up with you.

1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates
tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.
Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.

2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should
come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No
matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave
you.

3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so
things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to
bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is
still there and your words are not going to mend it.

4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't
care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not
the other way around!)

5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the
more she will ignore you.

6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.
(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up
with me during exam period...") It won't work. It will only
make her DREAD being with you even more.

7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.
Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!

8) Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All
she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you,
they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never
lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation
has to come from WITHIN.

9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You
can't buy her heart back with money.

10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more
you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.

These are the most common mistakes guys make during a
breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things.
If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed.
You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend
goodbye, let alone get her back. I deal with dozens of breakup
cases every week, so I KNOW what I am talking about!

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#1 secret of 'pickup artists'...

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 12:07:00 +0000

I get asked a lot, what it's like to be a
famous "pickup artist?"

It has become a popular term recently. There
was that bestselling book "The Game," and then
reality TV shows like "Pick-up Artist" and "Beauty
and the Geek..."

But let's talk a little about the term "pick-up
artist" for just a second.

What does the term really mean?

Well, in my opinion, a pickup artist is a guy who
cultivates specific skills - a system - to attract
beautiful women so that he will get an advantage
in the dating and seduction game.

Does being a pickup artist mean that he's a
bad guy?

A jerk?

A woman-hater?

No, not at all. However, as I'm about to tell you,
many of the so-called "pick-up artists" don't
comprehend the true nature of these skills...
or how they SHOULD be used.

Many of these pick-up artists (PUAs, as they're
often called) just want to be able to "stack"
things in their favor, because they feel hurt
or insecure about the fact that women control
the sex.

The problem is that some of these guys think
it's about tricking or manipulating women, to
build up their own low self-esteem.

But if you're like me, you just want a level
playing field when it comes to dating and
attracting women.

No one plays more games than women do! You
know I'm right. They flirt with us, and then play
"hard to get"...they ACT like they're into us, and
then they don't return phone calls...and then
when you get into a relationship, that can be
when the mind games REALLY start...

And what about the girls you meet at the
bars or the nightclubs? They're all dressed
up, looking hot, and you would THINK they
came out tonight to meet a guy...but all they
do is BLOW OFF the guys that have the guts
to approach them!

Look, I love and respect and women. I'm sure
you do, too. But I say it's time to stop playing
these silly games and letting women have ALL
the power.

I want to help you SHOW women why you're the
guy they should be with.

I know you want to ATTRACT women in an authentic
way, and stop feeling like you're "auditioning" every
time you try to start a conversation with a girl.

And I know you DON'T want to rely on cheesy
"pickup lines," or tricking women into liking you.
Because let's face it -- "pickup techniques" might
get you in the door with a girl, but you're never
going to get a quality girlfriend that way.

So if you asked me, "Dean, aren't you a
pick-up artist?"

No, I'm not.

I'd describe myself as a very social person.
I'm fascinated by the way people interact and
relate to each other. The "social dynamics"
that go on between us. And I've learned that
people (especially women) can be VERY predictable.

This means you can BECOME a charming, charismatic,
attractive person -- IF you understand what makes
women tick, and the "triggers" that activate their
attraction instincts.

At the end of the day though, "getting women" is
just one part of feeling successful. I could teach
you to go out there and lie to women, and manipulate
them, and get them into bed...but then I'd DEFINITELY
be a "pick up artist," and I wouldn't be doing you
any favors, really.

I'd rather help you adopt a new attitude towards
dating, and a set of skills, that are going to help
you tonight...tomorrow...and for the rest of your life.
(Once you're in a relationship, being a "Mack"
means your girl will STAY attracted to you...because
you'll be a super-confident, dynamic, charismatic guy
she'd be crazy to leave!)

It's like the saying goes, "You can give a man a
fish, and feed him for a day...or you can TEACH a
man to fish, and feed him for a lifetime."

When I realized how fortunate I was to
figure out a set of techniques and strategies
for attracting women -- methods that seriously
work -- that's when I wrote M.A.C.K. Tactics,
and then The Alpha Rules.

I decided I would help other guys race up the
learning curve and stack the deck the correct
way: by living an overall LIFESTYLE they could
be proud of, and that women would flock to.

You see, when you become more socially savvy
and aware, you stop being merely a "pickup
artist" and you become the ALPHA - the leader
of the pack, the man that women cannot resist.

YOU control the attention structure of the
tribe - your circle of friends, your family,
your co-workers... You are the ALPHA.

Now the first skill you really need to work on
is your social networking ability.

I know you want to get more women in your life,
but the most important step in being attractive
to women is to be attractive to almost everyone
around you.

You see, something we noticed about ourselves
and all the other people out there that got
really good with women was that they were all
genuinely interested in other people. Even if
they considered themselves "shy," they still
found reasons to initiate comfortable
conversations with other people.

If you go out with the idea in your head that
you're only going to talk to this one attractive
woman in the store - or the bar, or the party,
or wherever - you're actually hurting your chances
at getting her interested in you.

Yes, you read that right. If you go out trying
to do "pickup" on women when you go out, you
make it worse for yourself over the long run.

A guy will think about approaching a hot woman
so much that he ends up creating a very insecure
and nervous vibe when he finally does go up and
talk to a woman. She senses this - immediately -
and it's the one thing that will freak her out
and repulse her.

Instead, what he should be doing is reducing
that level of anxiety and intense focus so that
when he's in any social situation, he's already
conditioned to talk to anyone around him.

One way to accomplish this is to do an exercise
like this:

The next time you're in a line or queue for
a movie, or your grocery store, anyplace at
all, just turn sideways and look at the person
behind you or near you for a second. (It doesn't
matter if it's a man or woman for the purposes
of our exercise.)

Ask yourself: What do you think his/her story is?

Take a good long look (without making it obvious
that you're doing so). Imagine one thing you would
ask them if you had just encountered them in another
social situation. Then, look away and glance at a
magazine for a second to forget about that person
and lower your anxiety about them.

Then, just as you feel relaxed, turn back and ask
them your question.

The key to this exercise is that you have to
feel like an authority -someone who has a right
to talk to strangers, and that you are not doing
anything "wrong" or "weird" by talking to them.

As Eleanor Roosevelt once said:

"No one can make you feel inferior without
your consent."

Feel justified and empowered, no matter what
the other person's response is.

If this is too much to do initially, then you
can warm up a little by just chatting up the
clerk or someone who has to talk to you because
of their job. This will take some of the edge
off the conversation and allow you to move
further along, and also remove some of the
mental angst of talking to "strangers."

You want to talk to as many people as you
can in your day-to-day lifestyle, so that
when it comes time to talk to the women
that really matter to you, it will feel
much more natural to her.

Being a good pickup artist is what a lot
of guys aspire to, only to discover that
what they were really doing all along was
being a naturally interesting person.

You can do better... you can become
3-dimensional and genuine with women
through M.A.C.K. Tactics.

A lot of guys have read Neil Strauss'
book "The Game" and now think that the
clever openers and one-liners that he
talks about will work for them.

It might, but it probably won't.

Why not?

Because you have to have the ability to
project your personality with any technique,
or women will see right through you and walk away.

Trust us. We used to do it the same way:

- Walk up to woman

- Use clever line or witty opener

- Apply a "neg hit" or some other technique to
play off her self-esteem

- Close by asking her for her phone number.

What we found was that we got really good at getting
numbers, but without the right Alpha Man Attitude,
women weren't buying into it. Second dates were
rare, and sex was unlikely.

You need techniques that will work anywhere,
on any woman, and at any time. This strategy
will also yield you more personal success and
fulfillment than any other "seduction program"
out there.

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Improve Your Game...

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 17:25:00 +0000

1. Master Your Body Language.

When talking to people, try to be in the dominate position (in the
center up against the bar). Lean back often, take up space and
speak a bit louder than normal.

Do not fidget or do other social anxiety things.

Don't hold your drink in front of your chest, if you have a drink
hold it low in your LEFT hand, nobody wants to shake hands with a
cold hand.

Have strong posture, don't slouch or lean in to talk to people.
Think of how a cowboy or gun fighter would stand. Mimic that.

Take up more space than you would normally.

Use kino early and often, but always in a friendly non-sexual way.
Use arm pats and brief touches when talking to people but nothing
creepy or sexual. Touch other people in the group, not just the
hot girl you are trying to attract. I love to touch with the back
of my hand on her upper arm when I am about to make a point or need
her attention.

Any chance you can to touch the back of a girls neck or hair is a
fantastic way to spike her attraction. This is pretty easy once
you are fully engaged in an interesting conversation (for example
when playing Marry, Fuck Kill - you can lean in touch the back of
her neck and whisper who you would fuck and why).

When breaking eye contact, always break it to the side - never look
down after any sort of eye contact, it makes you look very
insecure. This is a good characteristic to employ regardless of
where you are.

When giving a compliment, always maintain strong eye contact. Hold
it for 1 second and smile, and look to the side (never down).

When toasting a drink (even a small toast, be sure to NOT toast
until she makes eye contact with you). This is VERY powerful.

2. Learn How To Be Playful And To Flirt More

Have a few go to lines that I always use when teasing. I love
saying "What is wrong with you?" with a big smile. WHENEVER a girl
calls me a name (player, dork, "you suck", anything), ALWAYS reply
with the same thing like a little kid would.

For example:
Shelly: You are a dork
Bill: You're a dork! (said in a childlike playful way)

If she does anything awkward, ask her in a playful way (with a
smile): What's wrong with you? Be careful though, you don't want
to be perceived as be mean or arrogant when flirting.

If she does something really socially awkward, don't tease her
about it.. that is not playful or fun.

Don't try to act cool it just makes you look insecure, just be a
confident leader. Don't act like a clown... women don't sleep with
clowns.

Without being creepy, let girls know by your words and actions that
you are a fun sexual being. Sex with you is fun and normal.
Always have a 'somewhat' canned conversation to go to with a small
side story (we all have something crazy we have done that can be
brought up in conversation without it feeling forced). I have an
amazing one, that I will sharing soon and it has never NOT gotten
an amazing response. It is not uncommon to have a girl tell me
that I am her soul mate after this 'canned' discussion. Remember,
it is not memorized, it is just an interesting topic that is fun
and playful and helps show her how spontaneous and fun I can be.

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To Make A Woman CRAVE And Gladly Give You EVERYTHING

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 10:41:00 +0000

"To Make A Woman CRAVE For You"

If you're a single guy still searching for your dream girl,
then I'm sure you've absorbed lots of advice on how best to
go about meeting and dating her by now. A lot of this sage
advice is also pretty much "common sensical" as you've
undoubtedly discovered by now.

Therefore, assuming you know enough not to show up on a first
date looking like you just combed your hair with an M-80 or
wearing cowboy boots and shorts, maybe a few of the following
ideas can give you just enough of an edge to make the
difference between Date #2 with an exciting little fox, and
a date with ol' Rosie Palm instead:

1) How NOT to Act like a Fake on a First Date

A woman often makes a far more profound emotional investment
into a relationship than a man does. So for her, TRUST is an
immensely important issue. Dating is not just a convenient
way to get her rocks off, rather it's a case study of the male
psyche. Can she trust you to be a good future father, for
instance?

Don't laugh -- unless she's middle-aged and well beyond the
having kids phase of her life, this "mating calculus" is
ALWAYS running somewhere in the back of a woman's mind.

Therefore, acting like a phony with an obviously fake 'come-on'
personality only demonstrates how easily you are willing to
embrace deception in order to get something you want -- thus
undermining your "trust quotient".

To any woman other than the sad exception of the chick who's
looking for another loser for her next AA reclamation project
(maybe 10% to 15% of the female population), you are TOTAL
POISON... a potential cheater and heartbreaker just waiting
for his next victim to arrive. She may dump you right away,
OR depending on the depth of her general bitterness towards
men, keep you around to engage in a little recreational
torture if she's got a vendetta to settle with a guy like you.

Beware!

2) Create New Memories Instead of Swapping Them

Here's the very best dating advice I can ever give anyone:
in order to make any date memorable and fun, spend 90% of
your activities in the present moment.

It's very easy to get caught up in the deadly "talking trap"
on a date -- where the two of you sit around and get lost in
deeper and deeper conversation. These chatting dates can
slip out of control and become subtle passion-killers --
especially if you're not careful to keep the big picture in
focus.

Before you know it you're spilling your guts out about the
nasty abuse experienced at the hands Father Hamhands from
your altar boy days, or waxing poetic about your bleeding
hemorrhoids and how they love to swell up in the springtime.
Yeesh!

For a seduction to go off like a thing of beauty, you must
reveal yourself slowly -- bit-by-bit -- as you gradually
come to know her. Think of dating as an emotional veil
dance... a striptease -- the point of which is to make her
anticipate when the next Veil of Male Mystery will come off!

This is the kind of thing she's been dreaming about all her
life. Why? Because it makes everything that's to follow
(including the sex) all that much more delicious for her!

So always try to stay active on a date (it doesn't have to
be an extreme sport-fest or anything, even something like
visiting a flea market will do...) so that you are
BUILDING a memory with her instead of SHARING one.

Focus on having experiences with her that the two of you
can reminisce about some day in the future -- instead of
spending time caught up in a lot of drawn-out amateur
psychotherapy sessions in a bar somewhere.

Conversation is very important in any new relationship,
and is the pathway to her eventual sexual surrender, but
you must provide her with a reason to WANT to know so
much about you before opening up your soul.

Never forget the importance of your veil dance!

3) Don't be a Bore

A boring person is anti-charismatic -- which is to say that,
instead of making people feel good about themselves by
acting interested in them, the boring person makes us want
to run away screaming from the agony of having to listen
to another second of his self-absorbed bullshit!

The point of any early conversational exchanges that you
have with a woman (beyond simple flirting of course,
which has a different purpose) should always be focused
on drawing HER interests out rather than dwelling upon your
own stuff (but don't come across like a ruthless Nazi
interrogator either... go easy on the breathless
questioning!)

Share a little bit of course -- but keep YOUR interests
lost in the background. Her response to a few casual
queries about her life or current dreams holds clues to
your LifeLine (which I talk about in Without Embarrassment).

Cling to it tightly and work on expanding its scope.
Submerge your own ego for the first few dates. Don't
worry, when you finally hook her she'll begin questioning
you intently... maybe TOO intently! But that probably
won't happen until after you've had sex with her.
(Then get ready for the onslaught!)

4) Forget about Trying to Act "Like Yourself"

The standard dating advice that you hear to "be yourself"
or "just act like yourself" (whatever the hell that means)
is pure horseshit. Romance is a world of fantasy and
dreams, and especially so for women. You need to learn
how to strike a balance between coming on like a
phony-baloney and seeming TOO safe and friendly.

Seduction is a delicate bubble that can be burst with
increasingly less effort as it ripens. A first date is
NOT the place to remain in the role of your everyday
average old sort of guy... that's spells B-O-R-I-N-G.

A spark must be present to ignite the fires of desire in
that deep primal portion of her brain!

When you think about it, it should be EASY for any guy to
get juiced up for a date... dating some new chick for the
very first time is not something that happens every day
in your life.

Face it, ordinary life sucks for the most part... romance
can be a welcome escape from the 9 to 5 daily drudgery of
work and all the other aggravations that torture us.

So treat this rare event for what it is... something unique,
unrepeatable and potentially unforgettable. And even if
she seems too cool to care, trust me... her hopeful
romance motor is humming in high gear as well!

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5) Five Minutes of Nerves is Okay, then Calm Down

After some initial awkwardness due to understandable
jitters, you should be able to calm down and hit your
stride. If you have a real problem controlling automatic
body reactions to nervousness (bad sweating, stuttering,
facial twitching, etc.) my best advice is to get a book on
yoga and practice it WITH AN OPEN MIND.

You don't have to go nuts and join the Green Party or
anything, but DO try some of the deep breathing and
relaxation techniques. They really work and can give
you the self-control edge you might need. This will project
through in your attitude as a cool confidence that is the
unmistakable sign of a High Status Male!

Learn to always keep your movements around women graceful
and deliberate, almost like a snake charmer. Modulate
your voice in a throaty style (lowered volume) and keep
the tone of your words sounding almost a little bit
"conspiratorial" (without going overboard and making a
fool of yourself, of course).

The point is that a squeaky voice sounds fearful and
adolescent, so strive to keep your voice projection
strong and in check. (Rent a movie called Body Heat
(from 1984 I think) and study the vocal style of the lead
character Ned as portrayed by actor William Hurt.

His entire manner is just perfect for seduction and
absolutely drips with an edge of male mystery. Plus,
this movie is an awesome murder mystery that you'll
thoroughly enjoy as well.)

6) Obsession is the Hallmark of the Weak Male

Dominant males will show an interest in any attractive
woman they encounter because they are highly sexually
driven. But -- because they have many options with
females open to them -- they do NOT act obsessive
about any particular woman.

So don't be obsessed with her... just be interested.
Proclaiming ridiculously inappropriate nonsense like
"...I love you" or "You're the girl I've been
searching for my whole life..." on a first or second
date is the frightening talk of the potential stalker.

So chill out and behave like you've been down this
dating and mating road a few times already.

7) No Matter What Happens... Assume that She Likes

You, and Learn How to Believe It

I'm not kidding here... this is an essential Jedi mind trick
that you MUST somehow learn to play on yourself. Simply
ASSUME that any woman you're working will always like you --
and do whatever the hell it takes to sell this idea to your
unconscious mind!

Women can become mesmerized by men who seem to be captivated
by them, but this kind of vibe can only shine through your
body language if it's GENUINE -- and for that to happen,
you have to believe that she will respond favorably to
you... no matter what.

Remember... ATTITUDE + UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS = THE SUBJECTIVE
TRUTH. Your attitude is always a naked expression of your
unconscious beliefs about yourself. Therefore, it is
interpreted by others as revealing the absolute truth
about YOU... whether you like it or not. So learn to
control the self-image that you project by pushing all
crappy beliefs about yourself out of your brain.

And before long you'll soon have your pick of all the
best looking women in your world!

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First Date Questions

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 10:38:00 +0000

Most men do the standard interview questions on a date: where are you from, what do you do, what hobbies do you have, favourite film, what do you read, do you have brothers and sisters.The fact is, the average beautiful woman has been on hundreds of first dates and has been approached by guys in bars and clubs thousands of times. She doesn’t want to answer these questions over and over. How do you stand out and make a killer first impression? Ask great questions!
Great questions fall into a number of categories. They all share a few traits:

They are original.

They bring out an old memory.

They bring out a positive emotion.

They challenge her.

Let’s get onto the questions:

1. Did you have an Imaginary friend when you were young?

2. Do you remember your first day at school?

This is a question that brings out strong emotions because it is something that they probably haven’t talked about for a long time, but that has strong emotions attached to it.

3. If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere in the world, where would it be?

This is another good question and replaces boring questions on this subject such as “do you like travel?” and “did you go on holiday this year”. Get her to describe the place vividly until she feels like she is there!

4. Are your friends mostly men or women?

This tells you something about their character and also gets them talking about people they care about and their friends.

5. What’s the one thing you can’t say no to?

This is a good way to find out something they really enjoy, it could be chocolate, it could be fresh orange juice. It should make their eyes light up. You can then describe how good it is to eat that chocolate or drink that fresh orange juice and watch how you can lead them into a desiring state.

6. What talents do you have that would surprise me?
This is a great question, and is a challenge. Early on in an interaction, they won’t feel any need to answer challenging questions. By the rapport stage, they will feel some pressure to respond to a question like this to prove themselves to you. Remember that she is likely to ask the same back to you, so have
something ready.

7. Have you been in love?

Focus on the time when they were actually in love, don’t ask what happened - this would focus on the break-up! You will make her want those feelings again, and since she is with a cool guy, she’ll probably be imagining them with you. This is a great one, for a number of reasons: First, it brings out the emotion and memories connected with love. Second, it gets onto the subject of relationships and so gets her to easily start to imagine a relationship with you.

Throw out some of these great questions and you’ll have the woman thinking you are the most interesting person she ever met. Not only that but you’ll have a deep connection, something you can never get with “so…..do you have any hobbies?”

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7 Ways To Unlock Her Wild Side

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 10:36:00 +0000

Today I'm going to share with you a secret most
men will NEVER know about women. Here it is:

Girls are just as wild... if not WILDER... in
bed than you are!

The problem is that most guys never get to SEE
that hidden wild side in women, because they don't
know what to do to make them comfortable enough to
let it out.

Here are 7 things you can do starting TONIGHT to
get YOUR girl to become more wild and fun in the
sack... and even act out some of those crazy
fantasies you've been wanting to try...

1. Talk Sex OUTSIDE The Bedroom

Most couples save all of their sex talk for when
they are actually in the bedroom, which is NOT the
best time to have those talks AT ALL!

Instead, bring up sex during other times, such
as when you see a hot scene in a movie, or hear
about a new celebrity couple.

For example, joke with her about how she probably
just wanted to watch a movie for the sex scene in
it... or ask her how bad she thinks the latest
reality tv star is in bed on a scale of 1 - 10.

The point is to make sex talk a normal part of
your conversations, so she knows that you are
really comfortable with the topic. This casual sex
talk outside the bedroom makes for more intimate
talk inside the bedroom, and that's what you want!

2. Make Mixing Things Up A Habit

If you're doing the same type of sex "routine"
every time, all you are doing is encouraging your
girl to fall into a routine too!

Instead, make mixing things up a habit. Make it a
point to undress her differently each time, or let
her undress you first. Kiss her neck when you
usually would kiss her on the ear. Or get it on
outdoors, or someplace other than your bed. This
encourages her to try different things as well!

3. Start Small

Listen, I know it's tough, but you just can't go
from having the same old "vanilla" sex with a girl
to having threesomes and putting on that furry
costume you've been eyeing (haha gotcha =) ). You
need to start with small things that are just
SLIGHTLY out of the norm.

Get one of those feathers and give her a tickle
with it, or surprise her by pulling an ice cube
out of your bedside cocktail and teasing her
nips. Neither of these things will freak a
woman out, but they do let her know you are
ADVENTUROUS and get her in the mood to try new
things!

4. Ask Her

Don't be afraid to ask her, "Have you ever seen
anything in sex scenes in movies that you wanted
to try?" It's an easy way to bring it up, and you
might be surprised at her answers!

5. Explore Naughty Environments

Exploring environments where the naughtyness is
built in, is a surefire way to find out more about
what types of things she might go for... and get
her in a naughty mood at the same time.

This could be as simple as going into an ordinary
bookstore and "accidentally" wondering into the
sex book section, or visiting a full-blown sex
shop.

Another trick is to get a company to send you a
catalog of sex toys in the mail... have it addressed
to a different name and pretend it was a mistake
if you are feeling shy ;)

6. Make A "No Way" List

When you are talking about things she DOES want to
try, ask her to tell you what's on her "No Way"
list. What types of things has she heard of that
she would NEVER try? Give an example that is "out
there" to get things started... say, "For example,
you'd never want to put on a bugs bunny suit or
anything, right? What else?" This will get her to
list the things that totally turn her off so YOU
know what they are and avoid rejection.

7. Play The "Surprise Game"

Tell her you want to play a game where each of you
will surprise the other with something new to try
in the bedroom. It doesn't have to be anything
risque... it could be a new position or just a new
place to get it on.

The point is to create a fun, spontaneous vibe. As
time goes on you can get more and more risque...
introduce toys or even - if you feel the time is
right - ask her if she's ever fantasized about
another girl. Start small and before you know it
she might be surprising YOU with just how naughty
she can be!

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How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 10:34:00 +0000

"How do I ask THIS girl on a date?"

This is something many a guy has wondered when talking to a girl
for the first time.

He's enjoys talking to her, think she's attractive, and wants to
see her again.

But he doesn't know how to ask her out.

So what's the secret to getting that first date?

The truth is there isn't a magical formula for asking a girl out.

Most of the time, a conversation filled with flirting and sexual
tension will NATURALLY flow into making plans for a future
encounter:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

However with that being said, there are a few rules and
guidelines to follow if you want to turn a first conversation
into a date:

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#1- Flirty Conversations
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Above ALL things, a woman HAS to enjoy the conversation she's
having with you! If she's glancing around the room and looking
for a chance to escape, then a date with her will NOT be in your
future.

To make her want to date you, she HAS to feel sexual attraction.

Unless you create a feeling of chemistry, the BEST that can
happen is she'll think of you as a "great friend"...YUCK!

When you're talking to a girl, you MUST create sexual tension
by knowing how to use basic flirting techniques. (Here's a
place that can help you do this):

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

You can flirt by teasing her, joking around, playing flirty
games, telling stories, and establishing rapport. All of
these tactics will help you spark her interest.

The truth is the MORE you successfully flirt at this point, the
EASIER it'll be to get that date! Use the first 10-15 minutes
of the conversation to your advantage. Show her that you're a
guy that she NEEDS to see again!

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#2- Test Her Reaction
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EVERYTHING you need to know about a girl's interest is found in
her body language. In fact, it's been proven that 90% of all
human communication is done on a non-verbal level.

So even if she's smacking you and telling you "what a jerk you
are", her body language is saying something COMPLETELY
different.

If you want to see if she's interested in a date, you have to
study her reaction to your flirting conversation.

Here's your goal... When talking to this girl, you have to
sky-rocket her sexual attraction. Whether it takes a few
minutes OR a few hours, you must build your conversation to the
point where you KNOW she's attracted to you.

How can you tell?

Well...EVERY woman has a NUMBER of signals which indicate her
level of interest. Here are some common signs of attraction:

~~~> She keeps the conversation going by asking you personal
questions

~~~> She's touching you throughout the conversation

~~~> She's laughing and fully engaged in what you have to say

~~~> She's teasing YOU back whenever you're joking with her

~~~> She starts to hint about what you like to do and ask what
you're doing during the week.

Now I personally think a lot of these are OBVIOUS signs of
interest. Unfortunately most guys don't seem to pick them up.

The honest truth is MOST of the time you'll simply *feel* when
"it's on" and when it isn't. Use these signs as a guideline NOT
as the absolute truth!

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#3- Asking for the Date
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A lot of guys place TOO much emphasis on bringing girls on the
PERFECT date.

My advice?

If you want to impress her, don't TRY to impress her.

Confused yet?

The BEST date idea isn't something elaborate. Instead it's
bringing her to an activity that you would NORMALLY do during
the week. AND you ask her in a way that does NOT come across
as a date request.

When the conversation is going well, simply think about what you
have going on during the upcoming week. (In the following site,
you'll learn the importance of being a guy who is out there
doing fun, interesting things):

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

If you follow this advice, you should doing a LOT of things...
Are you meeting friends at a bar? Are you going to a concert
or sporting event? Even easier, are you going to the mall to
shop?

A date shouldn't be a formal, fancy event. It should a fun,
casual activity that gives you a chance to deepen the connection
you had during the first conversation.

The point is this. If you've done the previous two steps
correctly (flirt and spark interest), she'll WANT to see you
again.

At the moment when she's laughing AND having fun, you casually
mention what you're doing during the week. THEN simply invite
her to come along with whatever you're doing and get her number.

It's really that simple.

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#4- Text and Call For Re-Attraction
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Here's a FINAL step to ensure that this number turns into a
date....

Without going to into TOO much detail here, women OFTEN get
"buyer's remorse" when giving out their number. If you want to
keep her interest, you MUST maintain that sense of sexual
tension during the period between the number exchange and the
first date.

Bottom line is you have to work on RE-ATTRACTING her.

The essence of this technique is you call and text her to keep YOU
in the forefront of HER mind. By STRATEGICALLY calling and
texting her with flirty messages, she'll subconsciously
anticipate your next encounter:

(There are bonus items here which explains how to call and text
women in a way that builds sexual attraction):

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/flirt-mastery-system.html

Asking a girl on a date doesn't have to be a complicated process.
As long as you're creating that fun vibe, it's easy to make her
interested in seeing you again.

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Time to talk Rapport...

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 04:49:00 +0000

Huh?
What the heck is rapport?
(That was my initial reaction to the concept when I first read the word)
Kind of a vague concept, particularly when we're talking about
creating it with an attractive woman.

Rapport is simply when you are in "sync", being on the same
"wavelength" as the person with whom you are talking.

This is another way of saying that you are both interested
in “getting to know each other”.

Wide rapport is when you discuss a number of topics, and establish
a commonality on each.

Deep rapport is when you discover a commonality a discuss it
at length, doing deep into the subject.

See that Schttrj? Can you imagine which is better
for dating? Well, the answer will almost certainly surprise
you.

The tendency for guys is to dive into deep rapport the moment
it seems like you have one thing in common.

This is a h-u-g-e mistake! Here’s why:

Lets imagine you engage & hook her, and are now
in the connect stage. (btw, in "The Natural Art of the Pick-
Up, I'll teach you these 3 stages to a naturally smooth encounter
with a beautiful woman)

You both quickly realize that you share the wonderful
commonality of hiking.

You feel that this is your "in", and you proceed to share
all sorts of stories and experiences with hiking.

You might even spend 10-15 minutes on this.

You then ask for her number, and she eagerly provides it.

You call the next day, only to get a lukewarm response from
her as she quickly gets off the phone.

If you've met some women in your time, particularly off of
a cold approach - I bet you've made that mistake before.

So what the heck happened here?

You’ve established rapport very deeply, all centered on
the topic of “hiking”. She knows that you have that
one thing in common, but not much else.

Here is her mental process (which I've verified with women btw):

"Well, I liked him, he seems sweet and cute and
all, but could we talk about hiking for two hours on a
date? I'm just not sure about giving away a Friday night
with the girls to hang with this guy. If I felt more
comfortable about my time with him, I'd be willing - but I
just don't know if we have more than just hiking in common
and if the conversation would be awkward and
uncomfortable."

In order for a woman to look out over her calendar and be
willing to carve out 2-3 hours to be with you on a date,
she needs to feel CONNECTION (which is aka - comfort and
trust).

If she knows you only have one thing in common,
she will not feel comfortable giving you this amount of
time and you won't get the date.

Ideally, you want to discover 3 things in common with a
woman before you secure her phone number.

This is VERY strong & guarantees a date.

(that's right - guarantees)

So, if you want to play solid "game" and you have the time
and opportunity, go for 3.

For our purposes then, "wide rapport” is when you socially
develop 3 things in common with her. This is the best
scenario for securing a date with a woman.

If you are introduced socially via a mutual friend then you
already have a clear advantage here as your mutual friend is
ONE of the commonalities.

This explains why meeting women thru your social circle is
such a good idea Schttrj.

A mutual friend (particularly if it is a woman) builds
tremendous comfort and trust.

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4 Sex Tips that will drive her wild...

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 16:13:00 +0000

Sex is a healthy, fundamental component of all good
relationships. It unites men and women everywhere,
both physically and emotionally and allows both the
guy and the girl to truly unleash and express their
animalistic AND sensual sides.

But no one's sex life is perfect - things slow down,
the energy seems to disappear, it's not as fun or
exciting as either of you would like, in short, it
needs improving.

The question is, what can you do to get back (or even
create for the first time) that special spark that makes
great sex so...well, great? Here are 4 top tips.

1. PLAY GAMES. The thing that often grinds sex lives
to a halt and makes lovemaking become so much of a
hassle is the pressure and responsibility that surrounds
the whole subject. For the man, there's the burden of
having to make the girl reach her own climax.

For the woman, there's the strain of making sure her
man is sexually satisfied and not bored and liable to
go looking elsewhere for sex or questioning the stability
and longevity of the relationship they're both in.

To counteract these negative pressures, try making having
sex a less traditional, scheduled, boring task. Instead,
pick a couple of fun games that you can play together that
are fun and flirty and that can lead casually and smoothly
into the actual sex.

Twister, strip poker and spin-the-bottle are all great
games that incorporate physical contact and allow both
you and your partner to have a little no-hassle,
no-responsibility fun that does or doesn't have to
lead to a bout of impromptu lovemaking.

2. NEW LOCATIONS, NEW POSITIONS. People often have
a very 2-dimensional outlook on the nature of sex
and how one should go about having it. The vast,
vast majority of people, for example, only have
sex in the bedroom.

And even they have a set routine, lights dimmed
or off, the same progression through the various
stages of sex: a little foreplay, intercourse in
missionary and maybe doggy if the guy's lucky and
the girl is feeling up to it, then it's pretty much
over.

Even if your personal situation has more life
than that, sex in the bedroom can still become
a drag after a while.

So, switch it up. Think about different locations
you can use: the living room, bathroom, kitchen...
consider all possibilities, even if they at first
seem far-fetched and silly.

Also, think about locations away from the home once
in a while. Motels and cheap hotels offer a couple
a fresh place to explore each other.

Secondly, improvise and experiment with the positions
you use. Missionary, girl on top, spoons, and doggy
are all great, but always try to mix in a few more
unusual, adventurous ones to spice things up.

Even if you find yourself in a tangle with your partner,
you've still had fun and been spontaneous, which
is a key component of any great sex life.

3. COMMUNICATE FANTASIES. Something few men and women
do is talk to their partners about what turns them on,
about things they'd like to try, scenarios they'd love
to act out, etc. etc.

Make telling your partner about things that turn you on
a regular thing and, in return, you listen to their
previously private fantasies and day-dreams.

If doing it face-to-face is too embarrassing, consider
sending saucy messages via email or text message. You'll
find that after reading about what really gets your partner
going, you'll be much more excited and motivated to please
them sexually, and they'll feel the same way back!

4. SPECIAL OCCASIONS. When you do the same thing many times,
even if it started out feeling new and exciting, it can get a
little run-of-the-mill and boring. So, to inject a real sense
of passion and renewed excitement into your sex life, make
certain evenings special nights in (or out, then in!).

Go the whole way to making it feel almost like a celebration
and do whatever's necessary to separate it from your usual lovemaking sessions. Popular favourites include getting dressed
up separately from your partner, perhaps at a friend's house,
then meeting them in a restaurant for a meal.

Then, on returning home, you can indulge each other with a
slow and sensual massage or perhaps carry out one or more of
the fantasies you've been hinting to each other about. From
there, sex can begin - maybe on the floor of the living room
or even on the stairs - remember, impulsiveness and
adventurousness are a turn on, use them to kick-start your
sex life.

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Creating a Magnetic Facebook Profile...

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 14:46:00 +0000

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1 - Showcase Quality Pictures
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Women are like guys in one way. When they're looking at a
profile, the first area they look at is the Photos section.

If you want to improve your Facebook success , I recommend you
initially focus on this section.

It's REALLY important to spend a little money on the pictures
that you include in your profile. In other words, you should get
PROFESSIONAL shots taken and use them as your primary photos.

Think of it as an investment. For the price of a few hundred
dollars, you'll have photographs that'll bring out the best in
you!

Besides your primary photos, you should also include other images
that show you doing exciting things. Women want to be with an
interesting guy, so you should include pictures that showcase you
doing adventurous stuff!

Furthermore, it also helps to include pictures of you with your
friends AND other women. If done in a subtle way, you can show
that you have a social life and you're pres-selected by women.

Finally, DELETE any 'tagged' pictures that don't make you look
your best. Sure it might be funny to see you drunk and passed
out at some party, but this is a look that most women don't find
attractive.

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2- Use Proper English
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I'm going to be honest here...

MOST guys really suck when it comes to writing things on their
Facebook profile. Primarily, they use slang, make spelling
mistakes and include tons of grammatical errors.

While I'm NOT an authority on writing, I DO have a profile that's
mistake free. Plus I make sure that it's written in PROPER
English.

Remember that women look for reasons to DISQUALIFY men. Don't
be a moron. Look over your profile AND make sure it's mistake
free.

The following is a site that can help you write a Facebook
profile that's naturally attractive to women:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/online-game-system.html

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3- Write in a Positive Tone
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Your Facebook profile is NOT the time for confession. I'm
going to restate the obvious...women WANT to disqualify you. By
providing a list of faults, you'll only give her a reason to
instantly click away from your profile.

For instance, here are some things you should NOT include on your
profile:

* Self deprecating humor
* A discussion of failed relationships and/or divorces
* Any hatred or animosity towards women
* Insecure or needy comments
* Rants about unimportant topics

The goal of your profile is to appear like a guy who is cool and
free from baggage. Basically you want her to think that you're
interesting enough to meet and possibly date!

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Most women who use Facebook to meet guys want a bit of adventure
and excitement. The truth is ALL women want a guy who can be
both fun and interesting.

Keep this fact in mind when you're writing your profile. Instead
of discussing boring topics, you should focus on acting like an
exciting guy that'll pique her curiosity.

For instance, don't talk about your educational background,
discuss the interesting things you've done with your life.
(If you haven't done anything, then talk about goals you want
to accomplish!).

Again, here's something that can help you do this:

==> http://www.chickmagnet101.com/online-game-system.html

Furthermore, the WAY you write can have a positive effect on
women. Focus on writing about yourself in a fun and descriptive
manner. Use emotional descriptions rather than bland statements.

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While it's important to accurately describe yourself, you don't
want to be TOO forthcoming about your entire life. Your Facebook
profile is NOT the place to list everything you've ever done.

Instead of trying to cover every potential question, you want to
leave some blanks in your life. These "question marks" will
provide great topics of conversation over email, on the phone and
in person. Remember that a bit of mystery can be a good thing!

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One mistake guys make is to appear desperate enough to date ANY
women. Making a statement like this can be huge mistake. By
telling women that you don't care WHO you date, you're only
demonstrating a lack of standards in your life.

Instead of being open to dating any girl, you should be a little
challenging with who you "accept". For instance, you can list
the PERSONALITY types that interest you. Or you could discuss
some hobbies you hope to find in a girl.

Women WANT to be with guys who have standards. If they know
they're selected over OTHER girls, then they'll value what you
have to offer.

Just remember that Facebook (and other online dating sites) only
gives you ONE shot at making a first impression. If your profile
stinks, she'll quickly move on to the next guy.

So if you want to improve your chances, then I recommend you
implement the six elements I discussed in this article and create
a profile that'll instantly attract the attention of EVERY woman!

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The 8 Steps In A Natural "Pick-Up"

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 19:59:00 +0000

#1) First you've gotta have great body language and
tonality. If a girl sees that you're needy in your body,
she'll lose interest and if she can sense that you're
insecure in your voice, she will also lose interest. Be
heard, but don't shout. If she has to say "huh?",
you've lost her.

#2) Next, you've gotta be able to open up the
conversation. To my knowledge, there are 4 skills you can
choose from: a direct approach, an
environmental/situational, a teaser opener and an opinion
opener. Depending upon the circumstances, any one of these
will do the trick. There's no need to become GREAT at any
of these, just be competent and you'll be fine, OK?

#3) Third, and this one's hugely important, you've
gotta be able to flirt. Flirting is what separates the
friends from the boyfriends. Flirting builds sexual
tension, which is mandatory in attracting women - no
tension, no date - it's that simple.

Do this after the opener, and base it around what she says
to you. Be tasteful, and don't go TOO far with the cockiness.
But, if you can find that edge of both a lite insult, but done
with a great sense of humor, you'll never have a lonely
Saturday night again.

#4) Fourth, you've gotta be able to transition smoothly
from flirting into connecting. In order for a woman to feel
confident about giving you her number, she's gotta feel
connection with you. Makes sense right? In order then to
influence the interaction away from the playful banter of
flirting into more "getting to know you" talk, use my
skill called baiting.

This is where you dangle bait throughout the interaction,
eliciting questions from her to you allowing her to transition
the conversation into more "connect" based talking. If she
takes the bait, so to speak, you know she’s attracted to you
(why else would she want to know more about you then, right?).

#5) Fifth, Wide rapport is the essence to a solid
connection when you first meet a girl. If you discover that
you have one thing in common with a woman - say it's rock
climbing - then it's natural to want to spend all of your
time talking about just that. Well, that won't get the job
done man.

You see, she needs to feel a strong sense of connection to
truly want to carve out a few hours of her life for a date
with you. Therefore, I suggest you find 3 commonalities.

Takes a bit of art to do that, but the art is what makes
pick-up fun. With 3 commonalities discovered,
you’ve accomplished wide rapport...congratulations!

#6) Next, a bit of Kino can go a long way. I'm not
talking about feeling her up here, or going wildly
"sexual state" on her (thanks Gunwitch), but some
subtle gentle touches, say to the hand or arm, maybe when
making a simple point through the interaction, can go a
long way to showing her that you are confident enough to
enter and leave her physical space. The entering builds
tension, and the leaving releases it.

Subtleties like this place you in the leadership role in the
interaction, again emphasizing that you aren’t her future
BFF (gag).

#7) Seven - the compliment. You must state some level of
interest in her. Flirting conveys sexual tension, yes -
which solidifies attraction, if done effectively. But a
compliment at this point in the interaction helps HER feel
good in knowing that you are interested in her.

If she's stuck around for this long, she's definitely interested
in you and now, in order to feel secure that you're a man
of integrity and honesty, she will want to hear that you
find her interesting and attractive in some way.

A good compliment focuses on HER and not her GENETICS. Never
compliment a woman’s eyes, hair, legs, boobs, ass or
anything - not until you’re getting physically intimate
with her - instead, allow her to feel SEEN by you by
complimenting HER personality.

Maybe she has a great sense of humor, a hip sense of style,
whatever. Just acknowledge something about HER (and not her
DNA), and you’ll be fine.

#8) Last, time to close it out with a number close - or, if
this is a one night stand in the making - you move to a
venue change. The number close is easy, use this and
you’ll be fine:

"It's been great chatting with you, but I've gotta
run along to a lunch meeting (or whatever), but how can we
continue this at another time?".

The venue change requires a simple over-sell:

"Have you ever been to Art Cafe? They have the coolest
environment in the west village, with amazing music, and we
can grab some amazing latte and red velvet cake before
I've gotta run home. What do you say, shall we?"

Either way, if she's chatted with you for this long, and
you've done the above simple steps, you're sure to
create a sturdy bridge to next time, whenever that is.

Keep it simple, and focused on these 8 steps and you'll
have a very sturdy social "spine" in the field out
there. Yes, there is a bit of art in between all of these,
but that can’t be taught and can only be learned thru
live experience.

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Want To Be The Man Who Stands Out?

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 19:56:00 +0000

Want To Be One Of Those Naturals Who "Gets It"?

Want Major Dating Success To Come Your Way?

If so...here's a phrase you need to become VERY familiar
with - one that you're going to want to even obsess a bit
about.

If this were Vegas, I'd be willing to throw a bit of cash
at the fact that you are probably not very good at this
vital technique.

It single-handedly transformed my "game" from good
to killer, once I understood it.

Master this, and start throwing social "atom bombs" at
very attractive women.

So what the %&$# am I talking about already???

Sexual Tension.

This separates the men from the boys.

Get this skill down pat, and you will have to throw your
phone away...because it will forever drive you CRAZZY
with it's incessant ringing!

If you're really paying attention as you read this, you should
be asking yourself right now:

How Do I Create And Intensify Sexual Tension?

Good question Schttrj, so glad you asked that...

There are plenty of ways to do it, but there is ONE way, one
skill that is mandatory.

Body language is important, vocal tone is important,
your level of relaxation is important, what you wear is
important...

But much more than that, FLIRTING is your key to the
riches of sexual tension.

How well do you flirt?

Well, if you don't know, look at the results you're getting
from your interactions with women.

Satisfied?

Are you set for a date this Saturday night?

Have you gotten laid in the last 30 days?

Have you met a new girl in the last week?

Do you have a girlfriend who you love, and who
loves you?

If so Schttrj, feel free to stop reading now man.

But, if you're like most "average" guys out there, then
you need to work on this skill.

So, lets get real and be serious about this for a moment...
or, better yet, let's NOT.

Being too serious, and trying to flirt, is like C3PO trying
to break dance.

Listen, I work with a lot of guys and I know that most of
them feel pretty clueless when it comes to flirting.

They either overdo it, and come off like a horse's $&# or the
don't do it enough, failing to create any sexual tension AT ALL.

These guys tend to live with the "nice guy" label, and have
many female "friends" in their lives but little romance.

"Let's Just Be Friends" is what they hear from women, not:

"Can I come over?"
"What are you doing tonight?"
"There's this great party, and I'd like you to come with me -
are you free?"

Do you hear those phrases from women?

Keep reading....

The first key to flirting is to RELAX. When you are uptight
about a girl "liking you", she will sense it and lose
interest FAST. This is not rocket science here Schttrj.

When you feel this way, look her in the eye and imagine her
snoring.

Think I'm kidding - try it out!

I know it sounds strange, but when you see that pretty
face of hers blaring out a loud snore while asleep,
she tends to lose all the importance you have given her.

The idea I want you to get here is to realize that she is
not deserving of your power, so why be freaked out in
her presence?

Second, being flirtatious means being playful. There is a
lot written up out there about the importance of being
"cocky".

Frankly, this idea is played out. The guys I meet
tell me the same thing over & over:

"Every time I get cocky with her, she loses interest in me.
I always come off like an ass!"

Yep. That's why we don't talk cocky here. The key is to be
PLAYFUL. Teasing her is GREAT.

Treat her like she's the nerdy kid in high school. When she
does something dumb, bust her on it. When you do this though,
do it with a smile - be sure she knows you are teasing her.

Otherwise, without the playful attitude, you will be categorized as a jerk.

Incidentally, NEVER make fun of her looks. Feel free to
compliment her "look", but never tease her about her genetic
appearance. Tease and bust on her behavior only. This is
where the fun happens.

The magic combination is to combine this playful attitude
with being a gentleman. Open doors, pull out the chairs,
offer your arm when going over the curb, help with her
jacket...all of those chivalrous things...DO THEM.

Feel free to be as nice and courteous to her as possible.

But, be sure to mix that with teasing and a playful
combination. Having this mixture allows you to be a
gentleman. Without it, you become her "friend" and a
"nice guy". Yuck!

By revealing that you are considerate and fun, you become
the big winner. It is the essence of what is called
"push/pull".

I cover this in massive detail in my ebook.

You've heard of "How To Get A Girlfriend", right?

For now, just note that when you tease her, you subtly (psychically)
push her away.

When you are considerate and chivalrous, you pull her towards you.

This creates TENSION.

This tension is also known as - Sexual Tension. To flirt
like a man means to be the master of tension.

When to dial it up, when to slow it down, and when to drop it
altogether.

It takes experience to master it, but focus on these
principles & ride the fast track:

- Relax - nothing is more unattractive than an uptight guy,
chill out and lower the stakes;

- Playful - tease her, poke fun at her, call her a "brat" and do it with a
smile;

- Gentleman - Open doors, offer your hand and make her feel
special;

- Confidence - do all of the above with confidence, and you
will help her feel comfortable and valuable...this combo
makes you the big winner.

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"I WANT to reinvent my personality."

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 19:54:00 +0000

This community of dating advice for men does a lot of great
things - it coaches us on how to interact with women, it reveals
wisdom about female psychology, it helps us naturally (and
unnaturally) meet more women, it helps focus us on fashion &
style...it does a LOT, doesn't it Schttrj?

But, there is one very corrosive belief that many guys
suffer from, which is dead WRONG:

The belief that you - or anyone - must REINVENT his
personality in order to attract women.

That is the height of neediness, and the most dramatic way
that you can GROW insecurity in your life.

If you've directly, or indirectly, bought into this belief
- perhaps through watching "The Pick-Up Artist" on VH1, or
through reading other newsletters/ebooks etc. - please, RIGHT
NOW, swear off that belief like it was crack cocaine.

It's unhealthy, and IMPOSSIBLE.

Instead, I'd like to offer you an alternative, which can
speed up your possibilities with women AND stabilize the
foundations of your social life.

That advice?

GO WITH IT.

However you are is FINE - A-OK - GOOD TO GO...but, you may
need a bit of tweaking here and there.

Some of you may need a complete overhaul in "the shop"
while others may just need a good polish/buff job.

Your personality is YOU and you're not going to REINVENT
it...you, nor I, nor Mystery, nor anyone has that ability.

So, don't even waste your time with it.

Instead? Find your PURPOSE - your deepest life's wish, and
GO with it.

That, more than anything else, will lead you to the
"promised land" with women.

Remember what I said earlier:

Women CARE that your life has purpose and meaning to you.

This is the number 1 most attractive 'thing' to women.

If you start with that, and build your social skills,
personal style, lifestyle, social circle, approach techniques,
etc AROUND that, you will be on the fast track to dating success.

This is a more natural path to dating success, and it is
actually DOABLE.

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Attraction Signals from Women

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 19:50:00 +0000

Here is a list of twenty-five ways women signal initial
interest to us:

1) Repeatedly glances at you from across the room
2) Walks by your location, going out of her way to be
   noticed by you
3) Smiles at you
4) Positions herself so that her body is open to you,
   wanting you to see her
5) In a tight environment (say, by the bar or on the subway)
   will subtly, and purposely, bump you to get your
   attention and prompt an "excuse me"
6) Stands close to you, subtly encroaching on your personal
   space
7) Repeats herself, and talks about boring things to keep
   the conversation going
8) Asks you personal questions
9) Ignores her friends or cellphone to keep talking with you
10) Touches you in any way while speaking with you
11) Compliments you
12) Talks about you in any way to other people
13) Introduces you to her friends
14) Flirts with you
15) She asks you her name early in the conversation
16) Brags about something in her life, trying to impress you
17) Laughs at things you say
18) Talks for a longer than normal amount of time
19) She fills in awkward pauses
20) She agrees to spend time alone with you; even a small
    side conversation at a party, bar, or other social setting
21) Asks if you are single
22) Fixes her hair, clothes, makeup, etc
23) Plays with her hair while talking with you
24) Agrees with everything you say
25) Has that "doggy dinner bowl" look - her eyes glaze over
    and her lower lip pouts. This one's a biggie!

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How to Approach Women - Even the IMPOSSIBLE Women...

noreply@blogger.com (Natural Ron) — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 08:41:00 +0000

Dean & Carlos' Desk - Monday, 6:10 PM:
Hey, C&D,
Last night, I’m at my local nightclub and I see this wickedly hot brunette standing by the bar with her equally hot girlfriend. I’ve seen this chick the last couple of times I’ve been to the club, and I want to talk to her but I know I’m going to get shot down.

I’ve watched at least six guys try to walk up to her and start a conversation … and with a polite smile, she blows off every one of them.
I’ve been racking my brain trying to come up with something to say that will get me in the door…something funny or clever that make her give me a chance. Do you guys have any clever openers that work with girls who are super hot but a bit stuck up?
- Poulz
Zagreb, Croatia
______________________
CARLOS & DEAN ANSWER:
Oh, yeah bro. We’ve been in your shoes.
It’s painful to think about how many nights we used to waste at the bars and clubs, watching beautiful women and WISHING we had the guts to walk up and start a conversation.
Years back, Carlos was in a bar in Kansas City and couldn't think of what to say to this cute blonde college girl in the bar. But he was ABSOLUTELY determined to do SOMETHING that night, so he walked over and put his business card in her hand. She tossed it over her shoulder on the floor.
Now THAT was cold. No man should have to go through that. Ever.
Now that we’ve got the game all figured out, it seems crazy just how much importance we used to attach to those initial walk-up situations. We were like most guys … scared to just walk up to a girl and start a conversation, because we didn’t know how to approach women effectively or think of something impressive to say to her.
We were at a bar last night doing some field research, and we observed a guy… let’s call him “Beta Bob.” (A name to protect the innocent and soon-to-be rehabilitated.)
Bob was swilling down the beers and (very obviously) trying to figure out how to approach a very adorable Catherine Zeta-Jones lookalike sitting a few barstools down.
Finally he stood up, sucked in his gut, and walked up to her. He opened with something basic - "I just sensed you needed someone cool to talk to..." It wasn't particularly clever, but she smiled, laughed, and seemed interested in chatting.
What followed was a few minutes of generic small talk. Beta Bob asked her if she’d been to this bar before … what her job was … where else she liked to hang out … yada yada.
This entire encounter had the appearance of a very awkward job interview. She was starting to look bored and fidgety, checking her cell phone, looking around for her friends… What started out very promising was rapidly going down the toilet.
After four or five questions, Beta Bob ran out of juice. The conversation hadhit a brick wall. He took a nervous sip of beer, looked down at his shoes, and then … she politely excused herself to go use the restroom.
Needless to say, she didn't come back.
We see situations like these all the time. And in many cases, it goes a lot worse … the girl doesn’t even give the guy the CHANCE to ask questions.
Her instincts immediately tell her, “this guy is nervous/ clueless/ annoying/ boring/ etc.”, and so she BLOWS HIM OFF or SHOOTS HIM DOWN before he can even introduce himself. Beta Bob's woman was actually nicer than she had to be.
Basically, when this happens to a woman, her instincts are telling her: “This guy is NOT an Alpha Man.” Why should she waste her time letting a Beta Guy hit on her? Beta Guys have no clue what women want…
Two things we want you to keep in mind:
1. Your approach is about more than using the right “opener,” or using “pickup lines.” In fact, the actual words don't mean diddly to your overall success.
Guys have this faulty programming that makes them think that they can onlyapproach and talk to a woman with a "pickup line." In fact, it's the LAST thing she wants. You saw what happened to Beta Bob - he had a decent opener and STILL flubbed it on the first down.
2. Having a conversation with a girl is about much more than making small talk and exchanging information about each other.
Just as before, the content is actually irrelevant. The vibe and feel you leave her with IS.
Here's your next exercise, and it's on the subject of "vibing."
The next time you're in a conversation with a woman and things start going a little dry, or you're not able to keep it juiced with topics, we want you to notice the following:

- Your energy level: How excited do you feel to be talking with this woman? Are you feeling "zippy" and juiced, or grogggy and lethargic? You need to keep your excitement UP. Up up up!
- Your emotional state: What's your mood? Are you feeling positive? Or positively negative? If you're down or in a mood, everyone will know it, and you won't get very far. Your emotions must be conducive to hers or she will never "sync" up with you for the vibe you're looking for.
- Her emotional state: What's her mood? Is she tuned in and enthused, or is this conversation like poking yourself in the armpits with a ball-point pen? Some women aren't worth talking to, no matter how squeezable those blouse-bunnies look.
If she's a drag, she's going to take you with her, and you STILL won't get laid. But if you can turn that around and shake her out of her stupor, you'll get ten times further than the last few dorks who just told her to "Cheer up!"
- Your level of self-awareness: Are you paying too much attention to that part of you that's watching the conversation from a distance? A lot of guys get a bit too self-aware in their conversations, to the point where they are more focused on their own performance than the good time that he should be having right now just talking to a woman.

If you notice these four zones and find that they are out of whack, you need to first of all LET GO.
Yes, you heard us right. Don't start pushing and paying even more attention to the problem area. That's what will doom your conversation.
More focus on the wrong areas will only make them grow even larger.
Let them GO.
The more you relax and tune into the "vibe" between you and her, the faster you will get back on track. Use the "GCC" technique we taught you in an earlier newsletter and you'll get past this hurdle with no sweat. Don't just fall into some old pickup artist routine and start throwing out random stories or games. You have to be REALLY present with a woman to be successful in anyplace other than a bar or dance club.
If you want to meet women easily and generate real attraction, you’ve got to understand how this stuff works on a deeper level. In our book The Alpha Rules, we break it down like a science.
You’ll learn all the different elements that go into a successful approach. Then we’ll explain how to GUIDE and CONTROL the conversation so that you never run out of steam, and her attraction level keeps rising.
Best of all, she’ll want to impress YOU instead of the other way around. Yes, it’s true…if you learn these conversation strategies, you’re never again going to feel like you’re “auditioning” for the role of her possible boyfriend.
Instead, SHE will feel like she needs to meet YOUR high standards.

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