First, if you do not already know him, then introduce yourself. If he is interested in you enough to want to get to know you better himself, he will add in some women conversation eventually.

Show him interest in his life.
Make it easy for him to be friendly and talkative with you, but not overpowering.
Invite him to a party… but not just to make out with him or anything, be friendly with him alone until he makes it clear that he really likes you, and wants to be around you.
At this point, just be yourself and let things unwind themselves.

Here is some simple women lifestyle personality tips :
If the person you like is shy, then be very gentle to him but admire him for his strengths, few men can resist being told how manly they are unless the girl who tells them is one they are very uninterested in.
Do not be afraid, if you feel you can go up to him without him bashing your heart against the wall (whether on purpose or not) and you notice his seeming interest in you, then you are prob. okay.

And..
Do not use him… boys may be bad about using women, but they can still be weak around an irrisistable women even if they are not interested in her, which means breaking your heart and merely adding on his horrible guilt, or having a stalker who wants you for the WRONG reasons. So do not parade yourself around boys too much, for both your own good and their own good.

1. Which place do u want to have a travel most?
A. Beijing … go to q.2
B. Tokyo … go to q.3
C. Paris … go to q.4

2. Have you ever cried when u see a touching movie?
A. Yes … go to q.4
B. No … go to q.3

3. If your boyfriend or girlfriend still has not come after an hour of your date with him/her, what will you do?
A. wait for another 30 mins … go to q.4
B. leave immediately … go to q.5
C. wait until he/she comes … go to q.6

4. Do u like to go to see a movie alone?
A. Yes … go to q.5
B. No … go to q.6

5. When he/she asks for a kiss in your first date, what will you do?
A. Refuse … go to q.6
B. light kiss on his/her forehand … go to q.7
C. Agree and kiss him/her … go to q.8

6. Are you a humorous person?
A. I think I am … go to q.7
B. I think I am not…………………….go to q.8

7. Do you think you are a capable leader?
A. Yes … go to q.9
B. No … go to q.10

8. Which gender will you choose to be born if you are given a chance?
A. Male … go to q.9
B. Female … go to q.10
C. I don’t mind … Type D (go straight to results below)

9. Have you ever got more than one boyfriends or girlfriends at a time
A.Yes … Type B (go straight to results below)
B. No … Type A (go straight to results below)

10. Do you think you are intelligent?
A. Yes … Type B (go straight to results below)
B. No … Type C (go straight to results below)

RESULTS
Type A : Congratulations! You can extremely attract the opposite sex! You possess a charming beauty in the eyes of them. You not only have a pretty figure, but also have a humorous and gentle personality. You should be a literate person and know how to get along with people and can allocate your time well, thus you are always popular among the opposite sex.

Type B : Quite good! You can easily attract the opposite sex, but you will not easily into the loving trap. Your humor makes them want to get along with you. He/She will be happy being with you!

Type C : Not bad! You cannot attract the opposite sex very well, but you still have something good which make them like to get along with you. You should be an honest person and have a unique view in seeing things. You are quite friendly in the eyes of your friends.

Type D : Oh! You do not attract the opposite sex. You do not have much knowledge, and not much intrinsic humane values. You are too rude to the opposite sex. Thus you are not very popular among them.

Source : Unknown

One of the first steps in date planning is to decide what you are in the mood for, emotionally speaking. If you’ve had a stressful week, for example, think of what kind of evening will make you feel better. If you need a laugh, your date could be dinner and a show at a comedy club.

Of course, you’ll want to consider your partner’s mood, too. Instead of asking what your partner would like to do, ask your partner what kind of emotional state he or she is in. Dating is for both partners; if both feel their needs are being considered, the time together will be more enjoyable.
Decide what kind of mood you need for your date and then plan accordingly. The following list describes some moods you may be in. Next to each mood, write some date ideas that meet each mood for you. Have your partner do the same.

Mood of Date / Type of Activity to Meet Mood

* Relaxing?
* Exciting?
* Adventurous?
* Elegant?
* Sexy?
* Intellectual?
* Romantic?
* Other?

When you understand what kind of date will meet your needs and your partner’s, figuring out what to do is much easier. If your partner tells you she feels like doing something elegant, you’ll know what date ideas will satisfy that need of hers.

Remember, dating is meant to be enjoyable so if you have the least bit of hesitation or dread for a date, then you need to consider changing the mood (or your date!).

By Nancy Fagan, M.S., author of The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Romance, Desirable Men: How to Find Them and Woman Hunt: Find the Right Woman for You. To read more, visit ExpertLoveAdvice.com

In an instant she was leaning against the locker next to his.
“Hiya Randy,” she spoke then suddenly smiled a wide smile directly at him.
“Oh, hi, Maya.” He half choked then he glanced at her as if she had magically appeared in a whirl of fairy dust.

As he turned toward her, Maya twisted a long strand of her brown hair behind her right ear into a springy ringlet.
“What’s up?” Maya looked straight into his eyes with a calm gaze that could have taken his breath away, if he had any.
“Not,” he could hear his heart as it struggled to crack his ribcage, “not much.”
“You know the project we’re supposed to do?” She asked as she leaned toward him.
“Um, yea, um, the English one?” Randy could feel his face heating as he struggled for the right words.
“That would be the one.” Maya still smiling, tilted her head and continued, “Would you like to work on it with Michelle and me?”
“Sure!” Randy blurted. “I’m sure that would be great!”
“Okay, good!” Maya turned as if to head back to her class, “We’ll figure out exactly when we can all get together - maybe tomorrow?”
“Great.” Randy answered as she started down the hall. “Good.” He called after the scent of lilacs that trailed behind her.
She turned back and flashed him a huge smile just before she disappeared through the classroom door.
“Wow.” Randy inhaled deeply as he gathered his books, “Wow.”
He closed his locker and was halfway down the hall to English before he realized he was walking like John Wayne.

Body Language quiz (answers below).

Maya :
a) is trying to trick Randy into working on the project just because he’s smart
b) doesn’t really like Randy
c) is setting Randy up for a date with her friend Michelle
d) is sneaky
e) likes Randy, alot

Correct Answer: e)

Why will Maya and Randy enjoy working on the English project?

In their conversation, Maya demonstrated:

1. Sincerity, trustworthiness.
A person who looks directly at another (or gazes) for a prolonged period without shifting eyes, is indicating trustworthiness, sincerity or caring.
Also, she gave Randy an authentic smile. A smile that “crests” or changes rapidly from a small facial movement to a broad open expression is a true smile.

2. Attraction to Randy Maya’s tilted head and coiling her hair around a finger indicate her interest and attraction.

3. Interest in Randy
Maya’s swing, in her blue jeans, as she walked past Randy indicated her interest in him. The female will often have an accentuated roll of the hips while walking near the object of her interest.

Congratulations!!!
Randy, Maya is most definitely interested in you.

Source : Links2Love

Do you know what hot women’s number 1 complaint about the men who approach them is?

It’s this: Men who approach hot women don’t seem interested in getting to KNOW the hottie at all.

They either throw out a lame line, and just leave it lying there (”like a turd I’m supposed to pick up,” as one woman put it),

OR

they have a rigid list of topics to talk about, and an “agenda” that is supposed to end in sex.

Have you ever talked to someone who had a big “agenda” for your conversation? How did it feel?

It KILLED all the chemistry and spontaneity in the conversation.

While it’s not a bad idea to have some things you could talk about, the most important thing you can do with a hot woman is BE PRESENT IN THE CONVERSATION.

If you are always trying to force the conversation down a particular path, you will be in trouble. You’ll push her away. It will never work.

The secret is to get curious about HER, rather than trying to force your agenda onto the conversation.

We often tell men that they need to be curious with women. And the complaint we get from men is always the same:

“But there’s nothing about her to be curious about!”

Listen: There are ALWAYS a LOT of things you could be curious about — you just have to train yourself.

In case you are thinking you can only be curious about exciting, interesting women, we are going to disprove that right now.

We went to a dating site and found several very DULL, plain profiles. We think you’ll admit that a lot of what these women say is pretty plain (like, “I enjoy having fun”). Notice how we get curious about even the simplest things these women say:

Example 1:
Her profile says,

“I’m a nice and caring person. I’m looking for that special sweet and caring man to share my life with. I’m looking for true love, I believe in it.”

Pretty plain, right? Not much to be curious about, right?

Wrong.

Let’s break it out:
She said, “I’m a nice and caring person.”

Things you might get curious about:

- “What kind of things do you care about?”

- “Are there kinds of people you tend to care about?”

- “Do you care about causes? Animals?”

- “What kind of person is it easiest to be nice to?”

She said, “I’m looking for that special sweet and caring man to share my life with.”

Things you might get curious about:

- “How does a man show you he is sweet and caring?”

- “What was the sweetest thing a man ever did for you?”

“I’m looking for true love, I believe in it.”

Things you might get curious about:

- “How would you know when you found true love?”

- “Have you ever felt like you had true love?”

- “What might a true love be like?”

(PLEASE NOTE: You would NOT ask a woman all these questions — but you could ask one or two.)

Did you notice how many questions we were able to pull out of her very simple statements? That’s the power of curiosity.

Example 2:

“I’m a half Thai, half Japanese. I’m a cute girl who is honest, great with sense of humour and love good conversations. I love travelling, going out, sports and having some fun.”

Let’s break it out:

She said, “I’m half Thai, half Japanese.”

Things you might get curious about:

- “Where did you grow up?”

- “Did you get to experience both cultures growing up, or mostly just one?”

- “Have you visited Thailand or Japan?”

- “What do you like best about those cultures?”

She said, “I’m a cute girl who is honest, great with sense of humour and loves good conversations.”

Things you might get curious about:

- “What kind of things do you find funny?”

- “Do you like funny movies? Which ones?”

- “What kind of thing do you like to talk about?”

She said, “I love travelling, going out, sports and having some fun.”

Things you might get curious about:

- “Where do you like to travel?”

- “What was your best trip?”

- “Where would you like to go?”

- “What would your ideal vacation be?”

- “What sports do you like?”

- “Do you like to watch sports on TV, live, or participate in them?”

- “Which sports do you like to participate in?”

- “What do you like to do for fun?”

Are you getting the idea? These women didn’t give much info about themselves, but there were TONS of questions we could ask them. Each question can start a conversation, and give you MORE things to be curious about.

Even better, when you are curious, and let the conversation flow, there can be chemistry! You’ll never get that trying to impose a “pattern” on a conversation.

You MUST learn to pull questions out of everything a woman says. Here’s how to get good at it, quickly:

1) Go to a dating site and search for women in your area.

2) Look at the profiles of the women who attract you.

3) Look at what she’s written about herself, sentence by sentence. Find something to be curious about in each sentence.

4) Write the women simple emails, telling them hello, telling them a little about yourself, and asking one or two questions.

5) When they write back, ask MORE questions, based on what they wrote.

If you do this exercise, even a little bit, you’ll start to be able to get curious about women in any situation — online, or in person.

You won’t need a stack of things to talk about with women — your curiosity will provide the conversation for you.

About Author : Ron Louis and David Copeland are dating coaches and authors of the best-selling How to Succeed with Women and creators of the tape series course, The Mastery Program : Your Step-by-Step Course in Finding, Meeting, Dating and Seducing the Women of Your Dreams.

Source : Girl Dating Tips

First dates are stressful even when everything goes right. When you or the other person messes up, a couple hours can seem like an eternity. But after the date is over, what you do next can etch the bad experience into your mind or help you overcome it. Here are some things you can do to recover from a disastrous first date.

1. Forgive yourself.

Most of us, when under stress, do things we wouldn’t normally do. If you talked too much–or not enough–if you laughed too much, if you overreacted to some statement, or if you behaved in a way that was out of character for you, don’t beat yourself up. We’re often harder on ourselves than we would be on another person. Show some compassion toward yourself. Acknowledge that you did the best you could under the circumstances. Admit that it’s natural to feel nervous on a first date. Remember that nobody is perfect, and if you didn’t act like you should have, it isn’t the end of the world. Be kind to yourself by not falling into the self-punishment trap. It’s important to recognize that negative reaction and cut it off as quickly as possible. If you can’t seem to be objective about it, talk it over with a trusted friend.

2. Forgive the other person.

If you’re a decent judge of character, you can usually tell when someone was motivated by nervousness or lack of confidence. Just as you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself, you shouldn’t beat up the other person either. By taking for granted that first dates usually don’t go well, you take a big step forward in emotional maturity. Some people approach first dates with the idea that they’re something to get over with and put in the past. The anxiety of trying to impress the other person frequently causes something to go wrong. Unless the other person was abusive or rude, they deserve a second chance.

3. Be prepared to move on.

If you did something awkward or that warrants an apology, sending flowers is a polite thing to do. And yes, men love to receive flowers! But be prepared if the other person doesn’t wish to see you again, then don’t pester them. Unwanted pursuit of another person is stalking. No matter how much you like the other person or are attracted to them, stop it. You’ll only embarrass yourself or get in trouble with the law.

4. Don’t let the experience affect your self-confidence.

See yourself as a worthwhile, attractive person. You have many good qualities, and just because this person didn’t recognize them, that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone else out there who can. If the other person doesn’t want to see you again, they represent only their opinion, not everyone’s of the opposite sex. A person who believes in himself or herself exudes an attractiveness that can’t be faked.

5. Look for the lesson.

You are a work-in-progress. Wisdom is the sum of knowledge and experience, so take those two and figure out what you can learn from that first date. We all make mistakes, but if we’re wise, we won’t make the same mistake twice. Make up your mind to do things differently the next time, or if you weren’t to blame, decide not to feel guilty when things don’t work out. You deserve someone who will appreciate you for who you really are. Resolve, above everything else, to be kind, honest, and authentic. Eventually you’ll meet someone with those same qualities, and that’s when the real fun begins!

Article written by Jack Zavada, a baby boomer single who is the author of four novels and over 5,000 newspaper and magazine articles. His web site is www.inspiration-for-singles.com

I do NOT consider a woman walking away without stopping to talk to you, her saying “No thank you”, or any other time when a woman just simply doesn’t engage to be “rejection”.

If you DO consider these things to be rejection, please stop reading now, call your mom into your room, and tell her that it’s time you grew up and moved out… and that she’ll get over the fact that she can’t choose your clothes for you and hug you when you have a boo-boo anymore.

I digress…

I’ve found that there are a few main reasons why women actually DO reject men (by the way, it’s VERY rare that I actually get “rejected” anymore… it’s probably happened to me once in the last 100 times I’ve started a conversation with a woman… because I don’t do dumb-ass things anymore).

Here are the main ones:

1. The guy isn’t paying attention, and he does something stupid to begin with.

Some guys think it’s appropriate to walk up to a woman, put their arm around her, and say “Hey baby, you sure do look hot tonight”.

Some guys don’t see anything wrong with following a woman around all night, staring at her constantly, then walking over with a nervous, sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying “You remind me of my sister”.

These are bad ideas.

2. The guy doesn’t stop when he should.

If two women are sitting alone at a table in the corner, and one of them is obviously upset, and you walk over to them and say “Hi, can I buy you a drink?”… and the upset one looks at you and says “No thanks, we’re in the middle of a conversation” (then looks away from you back at her friend)… and you say “Aw, cummon, have a drink. You need to lighten up and have some fun”… and she looks back at you and says firmly “We’re busy”… and you say “What, are you in a bad mood or something? I’m just trying to buy you a drink”… and she says “We don’t want a drink”… and you say “Well maybe your friend does”… and the friend says “No, I don’t want one either”…

OK, hopefully you get it.

If you ever do something like this, you are a dumb ass, and you deserve to be slapped and have 47 drinks thrown in your lap.

3. Making a woman nervous with your body language.

If you start talking to a woman, but your posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting around but not meeting hers, and you’re wearing an unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails tucked in, you’re probably not going to get a favorable response.

If you creep a woman out, things aren’t going to work for you.

4. Not understanding a woman’s body language and other communication.

When you start talking to a woman, she will let you know within a very short time if she’s receptive to talking to you.

If you’ve been reading too many books that say “A woman will signal her availability and interest by flipping her hair, licking her lips, and cocking her head coyly at you”, then get over it.

This stuff happens to Brat Pitt, not to YOU. And if it DOES happen to you, then skip this part.

When you first start talking to a woman, she’s either going to keep talking to you in an open, comfortable way, or she’s not. She’s either going to act like things are cool, or she’s going to act like they’re not.

This is an amazing thought, but women get nervous too. They will often stop talking just because they can’t think of anything to say, etc.

But you need to pay attention.

Experience is the best teacher here.

My simple point is that MOST GUYS CAUSE REJECTION by what they’re doing. They aren’t paying attention, or they’re doing things that are offensive.

If you just avoid a few major mistakes, learn how to start conversations with women, and do a few simple things to things RIGHT, you’ll all but totally avoid “rejection” from the women you approach

Adapted from Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo

Always be honest, at least try to be it, don’t play games. Even avoid stretching the truth, because the first time you got caught, let’s hope it will not destroy your credibility.

Be on time. No doubt about this but if your date is late, be pleasant, and listen to their reason as it might be legitimate.

Be confident, just tell yourself that you’re not nervous, and make it excited. When you are confident people will have more trust in you and your abilities. Even, if you don’t consider yourself to be a confident person, act as if you are.

Ask your date a powerfull questions, use words such as what, where and how, and give your date the opportunity to give a more comprehensive answer.

Avoid assumptions, it’s better to find out than to do guess work.

Build rapport with your date, it’s the presence of trust, harmony and co-operation in a relationship to make them feel like your partner. You can create rapport by creating commonalitites, by matching their language, gestures, breathing, voice and facial expression.

Try a sporting event, neither one of you have ever seen live. A golf tournament, polo match, professional tennis tournament, volleyball, tractor-pull, dressage, sumo-wrestling - whatever you can agree on doing together that’s different.

Run, hide and take an unexpected business trip out of town!

What’s he going to do? “I plan on taking my top girl to an all-inclusive beach resort and send flowers and chocolate to the rest. Put your calculator to work and let me know about what my Valentine tab will be!” Elvis Preston king

This article written by Elvis Preston King and has over 1000 sexy girlfriends 18 to 22 years old. I’m not sure about this guy but you can email him at seniorplayboy1@yahoo.com.

“Randy!” I yelped. “My engagement ring is gone.”

It was Valentine’s Day, and my husband, Randy, and I were on our way from my niece’s wedding, which had taken place in one town, to the reception, which was being held in another city about fifteen miles away.

If there hadn’t been other cars behind us, I think my husband might have been tempted to slam on the brakes.

Of course, one of the things I have always admired about Randy is his ability to remain unruffled during a crisis. Like that time one winter when the landlord had arranged for contractors to build a sloped roof over the flat roof of a house we were renting, and the next thing you know, the snow trapped between the two roofs started melting, and then gallons of water began dripping into the house and THEN the ceiling caved in…

Or that summer when I had agreed to help teach a one-week summer school course at the university for high school students and had come down with a terrible case of the stomach flu on Monday, and Randy had cheerfully agreed to take my place. All week he divided his time between teaching the class and then rushing home to see if I needed anything…

Or the Thanksgiving right after my father had died and we were hauling home some of my parents’ furniture—all that I had left in the world of both of them because my mother had died seven years earlier—and it had started to rain part of the way through our 250-mile journey. Randy stopped the pick-up truck we had borrowed from a friend to cut his shoelaces into pieces so he could tie the tarp down better to keep the furniture dry…

In each of those instances, my husband had been an unshakeable source of strength who came to my rescue.

And he didn’t disappointment me this time.

“Where did you have the ring last?” Randy asked as he calmly kept driving.

I thought back over the hectic events of the day —

Let’s see…just before we left the church, I was busy buttoning up my niece’s train…and before that I was occupied with watching the ceremony and trying not to cry…and before that I had been busy pinning on corsages and boutonnieres while the photographer impatiently breathed down my neck, never mind that he was late getting to the church…

When HAD I last noticed I was wearing the blue topaz ring with the delicate gold swirl around the stone?

That was part of the problem. I was not accustomed to seeing the ring on my finger. A few years earlier, I had decided I would only wear it for special occasions. Between cold weather in the winter and gardening in the summer, I put on hand lotion about ten times a day, but if I don’t take the topaz ring off every time, then the little crevices get all disgusting, and yet, I was afraid I would lose the ring if I kept taking if off…

“THAT’S IT!” I exclaimed. “Hand lotion!”

My husband gave me a sidelong glance. “Huh?

“Just before we got to the church, I took off my ring and laid it in my lap so I could get some more hand lotion, but I didn’t put it back ON.”

By this time we had nearly reached the reception hall.

“Check the floor,” Randy suggested.

I frantically thrust aside the floor mat…but there was no ring.

Then I groped under the seat. No ring there, either.

Randy quietly asked the next logical question. “Did it somehow fall into your purse?”

I hurriedly checked my purse. Nope. No ring.

“Could it have fallen into your coat pocket?”

My coat had big, horizontal pockets…but…no ring.

“All right,” Randy said, as he searched for a place to turn around, “that must mean it fell onto the ground when you got out of the car.”

Fell on the ground!

I could feel my throat growing tighter. “What if somebody drove over it?” I wailed.

“Don’t get yourself all worked up for nothing,” Randy said soothingly.

“For NOTHING? But — it’s my ring…the one you gave me when you asked me to marry you…”

Actually, Randy didn’t give me the ring. Santa Claus did. In a crowded mall. In front of a group of parents who were there with their kids. When Randy got down on one knee, everyone applauded…

“We’ll find your ring,” my husband said. “Don’t worry.”

Although the drive back to the church seemed to take twice as long, we finally reached the parking lot.

“Now, let’s see,” Randy murmured, “we were parked over there…”

And before I could manage to unbuckle my seat belt, he had stopped the car, thrown open the door and…

“Here it IS!” my husband shouted triumphantly, scooping the ring off the ground.

If I’d felt like crying tears of consternation before, I felt like sobbing with relief now.

“Happy Valentine’s Day,” Randy said with a smile. “Hold out your hand.”

As he slid the ring onto my finger, however, I noticed HIS hands were shaking. And not just a slight tremor.

I pointed this out to him.

“Yes, well,” he said, “it’s not every day your wife loses her ring in a parking lot and then you spend the next half hour hoping it didn’t get stuck in somebody’s tire treads.”

I stared at him in disbelief.

Oh, sure. For years I’ve been under the impression that the man didn’t have a nerve in his body — that nothing ever rattled him.

And now this.

Then again, it also means that I have discovered one more reason to admire my husband. Even when he’s rattled, he can still think calmly in a crisis.

If only he could teach me to do the same thing.

A story by LeAnn R. Ralph, the editor of the Wisconsin Regional Writer (the quarterly publication of the Wisconsin Regional Writers’ Assoc.) and is the author of the book, Christmas in Dairyland (True Stories from a Wisconsin Farm) (August 2003). She is working on her next book, Give Me a Home Where the Dairy Cows Roam. Share the view from Rural Route 2 and email bigpines@ruralroute2.com

Imagine it’s Valentine’s Day and you’ve just received a glorious bunch of roses. You put them in your best vase and you stand back to admire them. You’d love to make them last as long as you possibly can, but other than keeping them out of direct sunlight, you’re not sure what to do.

Here are some tips on how to extend the shelf life of your roses:

Fill the vase with fresh water and add a half teaspoon of household bleach for each litre (16 fluid ounces) of water.

Remove the roses from the vase and put them in a temporary container.

Remove your roses from their temporary container and lay them flat on a counter top.

Clean the vase by washing it thoroughly in water with household bleach.

Remove any leaves which will show below the waterline in the vase.

Don’t place roses in drafts or direct sunlight, or near fruit, heaters, TVs or refrigerators.

Change the water daily to extend the vase life of your roses.

Cut about 20 mm (3/4 inch) from the base of each stem immediately before placing it in the vase. This removes any air bubbles.

Freshly picked roses can last up to two weeks with a little extra care and enjoy!

You should not be friends with her. First, she feels safe expecting this of you as though she is the bigger person. Of course, she has nothing to lose! You on the other hand have your self-respect and dignity, your emotional well being, etc. There is absolutely no risk to her in expecting this of you! Further, if she doesn’t find that “Prince Charming”, she can always fall back to you! Does all this piss you off? Good! It should!

What you should do? First, if you really want to understand The Test and be ready to pass the next one, (and believe me if not her, someone else will Test you), pick up your dating book and commit it to memory. Second, DO NOT accept being her friend. In fact, I’d go so far as to be insulted that she thinks that she can keep you on that lead! If she wants a pet, tell her to go to the pound.

Lastly, only you know if there is even the most remote chance of being with her again. If so, stop all contact with her right now. She’s going to need some time on her own - alone - to remember what a great guy you are. Second, when she does call, you need to be out and having a great time. This is where you want to get your buddies to give you a hand. Have them help you get out and start meeting other women. If you’ve taken care of your friendships, they will be there for you - and will understand what you’re going through. Especially, don’t answer the phone on weekends. Your friends and family will understand if you don’t pick up and have to call them back.

Then, when she does call, be ready to pass her next test!

Some times its gets to you with only girls- just shopping and all the gossiping and when we are really need a break, I think hanging out with a guy friend, discussing politics, sports or anything under the sun can be interesting as well.

I seriously recommend that if we want to start going out with a guy, first introduce him to all your guy friends. I have a lot of guy friends who are just friends, and I think it’s great to have a guy around who is not your boyfriend, lover or brother but is still protective of u and its easy bein with a guy and knowing he’s not hitting on you. Its safe because guys know immediately if this other guy is all bullshit or if he is genuinely nice.

I believe why cross over from friends to something else and risk losing a good friend because your friend can also play a key role in helping you to “network” and find available men among his acquaintances for your next romantic relationship and vice versa.
When a friend is your friend, they will always there to help, advice and more importantly he can always discuss with a woman what he may not be able to share with his guy friends.

However, you shouldn’t think that this fairy-tale will happen by itself. To realize this romantic idea correct, you should prepare to it carefully, and then you’ll be remembering it for long years, telling about it to your granddaughters. And don’t be carried away by the thought that everything will pass without a hitch, like in your dreams. No. You’ll have to cope with lots of small troubles, ready to spoil SUCH evening irretrievably. So, what should you think over and prepare, to get a successful candle-light evening?

Let’s firstly determine purposes and tasks of this event.

General purpose: a romantic supper for two can precede any other planned events: from first declaration of love, first night, promise to buy a mink fur-coat or diamond necklace to reanimation of relations, which are already not romantic at all, for an unspecified wedding anniversary.

Concrete purpose: a romantic supper should urge your always such passive partner on making a step in necessary direction. Task: to portray yourself in the most favourable light: the most beautiful, reasonably witty, little mysterious and tremendously sexual, regardless of your chosen purpose.

YOUR APPEARANCE.
A romantic supper means sitting opposite at a tiny table with a symbolic fruit-piece and mutual contemplation together with intimate conversation. So, quit your agonizing doubts as for your tights color and shoes model. This will be absolutely unimportant, at least during the supper itself. Instead, you should pay especial attention to everything that will be visible above the table.

HAIRDOS should be of three sorts, forms and trends, when your hairs won’t be included into content of each dish. Pay a special attention to your HANDS. You hands will be an object of detail investigation during the whole supper. Regardless of the motions you will do: conduct a fork, try on a wedding ring or hold your partner hand. So, here’s an urgent request: don’t be lazy to do a careful manicure.

CLOTH – the most temerarious. Motionless sitting at the table gives you a possibility to show your most sexy decolletes, arm-holes and low necks, which wouldn’t stand still while moving. With all that going on, you’ll be able to return your partner’s thoughts in a necessary course with a light (but rehearsed) motion of shoulders, regardless of a topic of conversation.

DECORATIONS should be few in number, but definitely shining. They will find an attractive precious glitter in an illusory aura of romance. Don’t show excess of zeal with really precious jewelry. In a subdued, moreover candle-light, gold and precious stones sparkle extremely intensively. And if you begin shining like a Christmas tree, your loved one will think that his hopes or tries to support such spendthrift are vain. Danger # 2: shimmering quaking metallic gleam of your face sometimes can give an absolutely unexpected effect.

Shimmering bright LIPS are undoubtedly attractive. However, until you learn picking like a bird, rest of your lipstick by the end of a supper won’t cause you partner’s thirst for passionate kissing. By the way, persistent sorts of lipsticks are no exception. Although they will probably stay till the end of a supper, but, as a rule, they are very insipid while kissing. You can cover your lips with a colorless lip gloss, but it will be eaten soon too, so, the most reliable is to lick your lips with a wet tongue from time to time. You should do this slowly, sincerely, looking at your partner lustfully through your eyelashes.

MANNERS. During romantic supper you shouldn’t fuss, jump up and shriek. Even if your elbow turned out to come to a sauce-boat, close to you, take it out of it slowly, showing that your refined personality is higher this ketchup.

You shouldn’t also stress on food. First of all, you came here not for eating. And secondly, we’ve lost our talent to cause love by a sensual process of eating long ago, together with other remnants of past. So: pinch off a bit, chew slowly, advisable with a closed mouth.

From time to time check your hairdo, make-up and look in the mirror. Of course, you shouldn’t do this sitting at the table or in HIS presence. By the way, if you need to retire for a moment, you still should say you have to check your make-up. Even if you have been living with your partner for an unspecified quantity of years, you shouldn’t confirm your spiritual closeness with a detailed report about your reasons to visit a ladies’ room or your own bathroom (if you have a supper at home, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t observe etiquette).

TABLE. If you arrange a romantic supper at home (that’s quite possible), you’ll have to begin laying the table beforehand. Formalities should be observed. As we’ve already said before, table is tiny, burdened only with flowers, candles, glasses and two covers. You should compensate few objects separating you and your partner with their quality. So, use family cut-glass ware and don’t use aluminium spoons. Put all the rest aside, but at arm’s length, to prevent yourself from jumping up every moment.

MENU should be considered carefully. Don’t order (cook) spaghetti, chicken and fish with bones, pancakes and the rest dishes, after which you have to wash yourself usually. Don’t drink too much champagne and soda water: their sparkling is perfidious. Well, as for onion and garlic – this depends on your further plans.

Contributed by Yana Mikheeva, the creator of the WomansPassions site for women and about women, it is an on-line resource for women and about women. There you can find articles on various subjects, such as: diets, receipts, health, cellulite, figure, aromatherapy, wholesome food, psychology of relationships, pregnancy, parenting, fashion and many others.
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