Women Who Know

"Love the Lord Thy God" Spring Dinner and Program

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Come on February 11th to our Next Activity!

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Spa Night Recipes

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Our Spa Night was so much fun. Thanks to Amber Dickson for hosting, Laraine Webb and Katrina Garvin for teaching classes, Carolyn Friberg for the healthy smoothies and treats, and to all of you who came. We had a great turnout!

Here are the recipes for the homemade beauty products in case you are interested:

Peppermint Foot Scrub:
1 1/2 cups coarse sea salt
1/2 cup grapeseed oil (or use an oil of your choice)
6 drops peppermint essential oil (or use an oil of your choice)

Mix ingredients together and store in a container.

Chia Seed Exfoliant:
1/4 cup coconut oil
1 teaspoon lemon juice
1 tablespoon chia seeds

Mix the ingredients together and store in a clean jar. To use, dampen face and apply scrub in a circular motion to damp face. Allow the mixture to set for two minutes before using a wet washcloth to remove. Splash cold water on your face when you've finished. Store in fridge for 3-5 days.

Whipped Cocoa Citrus Body Butter:

1/2 cup of organic coconut oil
1/2 cup of Fractionated Coconut oil (you can double the regular coconut oil but it will be a little more oily)
1/2 cup of pure organic cocoa butter
1/2 cup of pure organic shea butter
15 drops of grapefruit essential oil
15 drops of wild orange essential oil

Place all the ingredients except your essential oils in a glass bowl. I used a 4 cup glass measuring cup. Place that bowl in a pan filled about 1-2 inches with water and turn the heat to medium. Allow the oils to fully melt.

Remove the glass bowl from the pan and allow it to cool for a few minutes then place in the refrigerator for about 2 hours to fully cool.

Transfer the cooled oils to a stand mixing bowl or use a hand mixer and whip them on high for several minutes until you get a fluffy consistency (see the photo above). Add your essential oils and whip another minute to combine.

Transfer to a glass storage container and keep in a cool place out of the sunlight.

Recipes from Party in the Pantry Activity

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Honey Oat Bread
3 cups all-purpose or bread flour
3/4 cup oats (either old-fashioned or quick)
2 1/2 tsp instant yeast
1 1/2 tsp salt
1 cup milk (almond or soy for vegan/dairy free)
1/4 cup lukewarm water
2 Tbsp butter or margarine
1/3 cup honey (agave for vegan) if you like sweeter bread, just add extra

1 1/2 to 2 Tbsp honey (or agave), warmed (can mix with a bit of butter)
1 1/2 to 2 Tbsp oats

In a large bowl, or the bowl of a standing mixer, combine the flour, oats, yeast, and salt.

In a small bowl, or two-cup measuring cup, warm the milk so that it's hot enough to melt the butter, but not boiling. Add the butter, stirring until melted, then stir in the water and honey.

Pour the milk mixture into the flour mixture, mixing until it just comes together to form a dough. Knead for 10 minutes, until the dough is smooth and elastic. If the dough is still very wet and sticky after 5 minutes of kneading, add more flour, 1 Tbsp at a time, until the dough is barely tacky. If the dough is too dry, add water, 1 teaspoon at a time, to soften it up.

Place the dough in a lightly oiled bowl, cover, and allow to rise until doubled (about 1 to 1 1/2 hours).

Once doubled, place the dough on a clean, dry work surface. If the dough is too sticky, lightly flour the surface before continuing. With your fingers, flatten the dough into a 9 by 12-inch rectangle. Tightly roll the dough, tucking the ends as needed, into a loaf. Place the shaped dough into a 9x5-inch loaf pan, cover with a clean towel, and allow to rise until doubled, about 1 to 1 1/2 hours.

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Place an empty loaf pan on the bottom rack of the oven and bring 2 cups of water to a boil.

When the loaf is doubled again, brush the top with the warmed honey and sprinkle with the oats.

Place the bread in the oven and pour boiling water into the empty loaf pan on the bottom rack of the oven. Bake for 40-50 minutes, until the bread is deep golden brown and the internal temperature is about 190 degrees.

Homemade Liquid Laundry Soap (Front or Top-Loading Machines)
4 cups hot tap water
1 fels-naptha or Ivory soap bar
1 cup washing soda
1/2 cup borax

Grate the bar of soap and add to saucepan with water. Stir over medium-low heat until soap dissolves and is melted.

Fill a 5 gallon bucket halfway with hot tap water. Add the melted soap, washing soda, and borax. Stir well until all powder is dissolved. Fill bucket to the top with more hot water. Stir, cover, and let sit overnight to thicken. It will get quite thick.

Stir again in the morning and mix it well. Dump half of the soap into a second 5 gallon bucket and fill both buckets to the top with water and stir well. Or don't dilute it at all and only use half the amount called for in each load.

Optional: add 10-15 drops of essential oil per 2 gallons. Add once the soap is cooled. Ideas: lavender, rosemary, or tea tree oil.

Top-Loading machine: 5/8 cup per load (approx. 180 loads)
Front-Loading machine: 1/4 cup per load (approx. 640 loads)

Powdered Laundry Detergent (Top-Loading Machine)
1 fels-naptha soap bar
1 cup washing soda
1/2 cup borax

Grate soap or break into pieces and process in a food processor until powdered. Mix all ingredients. For a light load, use 1 Tbsp. For a heavy or heavily soiled load, use 2 Tbsp. Yields 3 cups detergent (approx. 40 loads).

Stain Remover
2 parts hydrogen peroxide
1 part Dawn dish soap

Combine in a spray bottle and use on laundry stains (even ones that have been dried in the dryer).

Strawberry Freezer Jam
4 cups mashed strawberries
5 Tbsp instant pectin
1 3/4 cup sugar
1 tsp lemon juice

Mix sugar and pectin together so there are no lumps. Mash strawberries to desired consistency. Add sugar and lemon juice and mix for 3 minutes. Jam needs to refrigerate for 3 hours to reach desired consistency. place in containers and freeze for up to 2 years.

Peach Freezer Jam
4 cups mashed peaches
5 Tbsp sure-gel pectin
1 3/4 cups sugar
2 tsp lemon juice

Skin the peaches and mash to desired consistency. Follow directions on box of pectin.

Moderate Income Housing Information

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Howard County Housing Accepting Applications for Moderate Income Housing Unit Program

ELLICOTT CITY, MD – Howard County Housing will begin accepting applications for the July enrollment period for the County’s Moderate Income Housing Unit (MIHU) program on Tuesday, July 1. The open enrollment period will end Thursday, July 31.

The MIHU program is an inclusionary zoning program that requires developers of new housing in certain zoning districts to sell or rent a percentage of the new dwelling units to households of moderate income. The program offers quality new homes at reduced sale prices and rents to income eligible families.

As part of the MIHU program, Housing will hold a free “MIHU Buyers and Renters Workshop” on July 15 at 6:00 p.m. at the Gateway Building, 6751 Columbia Gateway Drive in Columbia. The workshop is open to the public and will explain the program’s eligibility requirements and application process for prospective homebuyers and renters. Consumer Credit Counseling Service of Maryland and Delaware, Inc. will also be on hand to present information regarding the importance of credit scores for buying or renting a home. For more information or to register for the workshop, contact Howard County Housing’s Homeownership Division at 410-313-6318 and select option 4.

To purchase an MIHU home, persons must apply to Howard County Housing during an open enrollment period in order to be placed in the database and on the waiting list. The applicant’s household income may not exceed 80% of Howard County’s median income which, as of January 1, 2014, is $108,844 for a family of four. Applicants must also meet minimum credit score requirements and their household income must be sufficient to qualify for a home mortgage based on industry standards. Base sale prices for MIHUs can range from $136,000 for a condominium to $255,000 for a townhome. Actual sale prices vary depending on the size and amenities of the unit. If you were not eligible in the past because of household income, Howard County Housing encourages you to check current eligibility limits.

Available MIHU homeownership opportunities are at Ellicott Crossing, Gatherings at Ellicott Mills and Howard Square. Located on Rogers Avenue in Ellicott City, Ellicott Crossing boasts townhomes with three bedrooms, three baths, spacious kitchens and efficient gas heat in each home. The Beethoven and Hepburn models both offer more than 1,600 square feet of living space. Also located in Ellicott City, the Gatherings at Ellicott Mills is a new 55+ active adult community currently under construction on Route 40 and featuring two bedroom condo apartments and three bedroom villa townhomes. Howard Square, located off Route 1 in Elkridge, offers one-car garage townhomes with three bedrooms and over 1,500 square feet of living space on three finished levels.

To rent an MIHU unit, an applicant’s household income may not exceed 60% of the Howard County median income. MIHUs are rented on a first-come, first-serve basis, with rents ranging from $1,224 to $1,698, including utilities. MIHUs are interspersed throughout each community and residents enjoy all of the amenities of community life. Alta at Regency Crest, Ashbury Courts, Belmont Station, Mission Place, Orchard Meadows and Penniman Park are currently accepting MIHU rental applications. Prospective renters may apply directly to a participating rental community at any time during the year. Rental management addresses and phone numbers can be found on Housing’s website, www.howardcountymd.gov/housingmihu.htm.

Open enrollment periods for the MIHU purchase program are held quarterly. Interested persons should call Howard County Housing’s Homeownership Division at 410-313-6318, selection option 4, or visit their MIHU website at www.howardcountymd.gov/housingmihu.htm.

Talk from Mary Beinin's Memorial Service and Stories from the Life of Mary Beinin

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Lorin Lund's Talk For Mary Beinin's Funeral

28 April 2014

(Instructional paragraphs taken from The Plan of Salvation missionary booklet)

All of my experiences with Mary occurred after her baptism into The Church of Jesus Christ of

Latter-day Saint. Just over 2/3 of her life took place prior to her joining the church. Thorval

spoke of the many signiﬁcant events in both parts of her life, before joining the church and

afterwards. I will speak primarily of experiences with her during the last third of her life as a way

of sharing the remarkable impact she had in her church experience with all who loved her and

were loved by her.

To provide a little context, I'll speak brieﬂy of the Plan of Salvation. In The Church of Jesus

Christ of Latter-day Saints we believe in God, our Heavenly Father, His son Jesus Christ, and

the Holy Ghost. The Plan of Salvation is God, our Heavenly Father's, plan for the happiness of

His children. It is centered on the Atonement of Jesus Christ. It provides answers to the

questions: “Where did I come from?” “What is my purpose in life?” “Where will I go after this

life?” The Plan of Salvation teaches that our life did not begin at birth, nor will it end at death.

We are made up of a spirit body, sometimes called a soul, and a physical body. Heavenly

Father created our spirit and we lived with Him as a spirit before we were born on earth. We

knew and loved Him. He knew and loved us. This period is called the pre-earth life.

Throughout our pre-earth life, we were taught the principles and commandments that would

lead to happiness. We grew in knowledge, understanding, and learned to love the truth. We

were taught about the plan of salvation. During this pre-earth life, Jesus Christ was chosen as

the Savior; we learned that through Him we would be able to overcome the effects of our wrong

choices.

An important part of God’s plan was for us to come to earth to receive a physical body and to

learn to make correct choices. We would not remember living in Heavenly Father’s presence,

but He would give us the ability to know right from wrong. We would be able to recognize His

love and truth. Through our experiences and trials, we could learn to make right choices

"1consistently. With the help of Jesus Christ, we would be able to return to live with Heavenly

Father when our life on earth was over.

In our pre-earth life, we learned that only by choosing to follow God’s plan could we receive

lasting peace and satisfaction in this life and for eternity. Because He loves us, Heavenly Father

gave us agency, or the power to make choices. He let us choose whether we would follow His

plan and the Savior Jesus Christ.

In the pre-earth life, each of us chose to have faith in Jesus Christ and to follow God’s plan.

Because of our choices, we were born on earth. Only by making these same choices again can

we ﬁnd peace in this life and be able to return to live with Heavenly Father after this life.

Our purpose in leaving His presence to come to earth includes obtaining a body, gaining

experience, and learning to make right choices.

Many aspects of life bring happiness, and some bring sorrow. These experiences help us learn

to distinguish between good and evil and to make correct choices. God inﬂuences us to do good

and to follow Him, while Satan tempts you to ignore God and commit sin. (Sin is knowingly

choosing to do wrong or not to do right.) When we choose to follow God and keep His

commandments, we grow in wisdom and strength of character. We can experience joy even in

times of trial, and you can face life’s challenges with a spirit of peace.

Because Heavenly Father loves us, He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to pay for our sins. This

payment is part of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ voluntarily suffered for our sins,

pains, sicknesses, and sorrows. Through His grace and mercy He can help us in our trials and

relieve us of the guilt and shame that result from our sins.

From the scriptures we read: “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son,

that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)

In paying for our sins, Jesus did not eliminate our agency or personal responsibility--He will not

make us clean against our will. To receive His help and strength, we need to exercise faith in

Him, repent, be baptized, receive the Holy Ghost, and choose to follow His teachings for the

rest of our life. As we rely on the Atonement, we will feel the love of God, and He will help us

"2endure our trials. We will experience joy, peace, and consolation. All that seems unfair in life can

be made right through the Atonement of Jesus Christ and the mercy and love of Heavenly

Father. The Atonement is the central point in the plan of salvation.

When Mary lived in Owen Brown Place, a senior living facility, I was asked to be one of her

Home Teachers. This meant that a young man and myself would visit her at least once a month

to see how she was doing, help her get any needful thing done, and share a gospel message.

My companion was Eric Nichols, a 16 year old in our congregation. Mary loved Eric. Actually,

so he loved all of our young men. Over the years, up until March of this year, whenever any of

them visited her with me she would say hello to me and then go on and on about those

handsome young men and what good men they would surely become. I know they all loved

receiving her praise. Anyway, back to Eric. On one particular visit Eric taught a lesson on the

Atonement of Jesus Christ. He read and explained from the scriptures, then shared his own

feelings about the Savior's love for us. After he ﬁnished, Mary had tears ﬂowing down both

sides if her face. She thanked Eric over and over for explaining the Atonement to her. She said

she had heard lessons in church about it and the missionaries had taught it to her, but that it

never really clicked in her understanding until Eric taught her. She pulled a book out of her

bookcase, one of her prized books about the principles of democracy and governance. She

wrote Eric's name in the cover and told him it was for him when she died as a thank you for

imparting such a meaningful gift to her of understanding the Atonement of Jesus Christ.

Mary valued knowledge and learning. We discussed quite a range of topics over the years.

She knew she was here to learn and to value what is good and she did so.

Also living in Owen Brown Place were many retired folks who were born and lived their

professional lives in Russia. One man, a doctor during his career, made the mistake of

commenting that Mary could never learn Russian because she was too old and she was a girl.

I'm sure that man got an earful because I got an earful about the audacity of that statement

weeks after it happened. Mary made it clear that she may be too old to learn Russian, but her

ability to do so had nothing to do with her being a girl so she bet him $10 that within six months

she would know the Russian alphabet, be able to read rudimentary texts, and be able to ask

questions a tourist might ask and understand the response. She worked late into the night,

every night that I could tell, on that bet. At the end of the six months Mary was still working on

"3mastering the alphabet and phrase sounds. She grudgingly turned over the $10, but she made

it abundantly clear that it was only her age the prevented her from succeeding and that if he

ever made a similar comment about the ability of females to learn she would really take him to

task over the matter. She said she had him backed up against the wall by the time she ﬁnished,

wagging her ﬁnger (and maybe a cane) at him. She said he avoided her from then on.

Mary knew she was a daughter of God, that she had gifts, talents, and intelligence given by Him

to her. She knew He loves her, and she would not accept any intimation otherwise. Each of us,

likewise, have talents and gifts given by our Heavenly Father to us, speciﬁc for us.

From an earthly perspective, physical death may seem like an end, but really it is a beginning, a

step forward in Heavenly Father's plan. At death our spirit leaves our body and goes to the spirit

world which is a place of learning and preparation. In the spirit world our memories of this life

will remain with us.

Death does not change our personality or our desire for good or evil. If we choose to follow

Christ during our life on earth, we will be at peace in the spirit world and will rest from our cares.

Heavenly Father knew that many of His children would never have an opportunity to learn about

Jesus Christ during their lives and that others would choose not to follow Him. Because He

loves His children, God provided a way for those in the spirit world to learn about His plan, have

faith in Jesus Christ, and repent. Those who accept and follow Jesus Christ will have peace and

rest.

One of the great gifts of God to all who come to earth is the resurrection. Which is made

possible by the atonement of Jesus Christ. When Jesus died on the cross His spirit went to the

Spirit World. Three days later His spirit was reunited with His gloriﬁed, perfected body that

could no longer die. This reuniting of body and spirit is called resurrection. Everyone who is

born on earth will be resurrected.

Understanding about the resurrection can produce some interesting conversations. On one

occasion I drove Mary and to two other elderly native Spanish speaking ladies to somewhere in

Baltimore county. As we drove they started talking amongst themselves about picking burial

"4sites. Each of them found the church very late in life and they had six husbands between them.

They talked about how they were going about making the decision of where to be buried

because when they were resurrected they wanted to see their husbands right away. However,

because their husbands were each buried in locations far from each other, they would have to

pick one to be buried by, but weren't sure how to make that decision. They asked each other

questions about their husbands and offered advice on which to choose. They laughed about

how hard it was for their children to discuss burial locations and funeral arrangements. How

their children thought it was such a morbid topic and wouldn't talk about it with them so they

would have to make the decision on their own.

After we are resurrected, we will go before God to be judged according to our works and the

desires of our heart.

After we are judged, we will live in a state of glory. Because everyone’s works and desires vary,

heaven includes different kingdoms, or degrees of glory.

Mary's life, from the time my family spent with her, was an example of the peace that comes

from choosing good and following Jesus Christ's example. We shared many Christmas and

Easter dinners, special events, and birthdays. She ﬁlled her space with love, enjoyment, frank

speech, and laughter.

One thing my family learned is that Mary didn't mince words. One favorite memory of my

children is of visiting Mary at the Lorien facility and, because it was close to her birthday, we

decided to sing Happy Birthday to her. So we did our best and thought is sounded pretty good.

However, when we ﬁnished she smiled, said "That's nice, but next time ... bring me a hotdog."

During our visits, when I would make a pun or joke, my family would roll their eyes, but Mary

would laugh out loud. For the past six months, as my family and I said goodby after our visits,

we would tell her that we love her and that we would be back to visit her. Then I would ask,

"and you'll be here right? This is where we should come looking for you?" She laughed every

time I asked.

While Mary was in the Lorien facility, at the conclusion of each of our visits we sang to her. Until

about a year ago she would sing with us. We sang The Princess Pat, I Know an Old Lady,

children's songs, hymns, and her favorites which were My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean, You Are

My Sunshine, I've Been Working On the Railroad, and I Am A Child of God. We sang I am A

Child of God as the last song at each of our visits. We sang it to her last Monday evening.

Today we sang it to her one last time in mortality. The words to the ﬁrst verse of this song are: I

am a child of God and He has sent me here; has given me an earthly home with parents kind

and dear. Lead me, Guide me, walk beside me. Help me ﬁnd the way. Teach me all that I must

do, to live with Him some day.

For 20 years Mary told us that she wanted us to come to her funeral and asked whether we,

including the children, would be there. We always said yes. Today we made good on that

promise. As an expression of our love for her, and our gratitude for the rich blessing she

brought to out home, we are here.

We will no longer ﬁnd Mary in the room where she promised us, each week, that she would be.

But we do know where she'll be until we ﬁnd her. She is undoubtedly busy and happy. And, just

as a ship, when it leaves port, does so amid the tears and goodbyes of that port's families, ... So

the families of another port scan the horizon until someone shouts "here she comes" and they

greet her with rejoicing and welcoming. This was Mary's experience, I'm sure. As it will be all of

ours at some point.

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Stories from the Life of Mary Beinin

February 2, 1911 to April 22, 2014 (37.700 days)

As told by her son, Carl Norton; and by Carl’s wife, Heidi; and by Mary’s sister, Rachel Coleman;

and by Rachel’s husband, Leon; to me, Thorval L. Hickman, Jr with my own added experiences.

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Mary’s birth name was Socorro Maria Louisa Zaragoza de Luna. She has been known to us as

Mary Beinin. Mary’s sister, Rachel, affectionately called her Coco.

Mary came to us or we to her or we all came together on August 31, 1986, the date of her

baptism at age seventy-five into The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. For a strong willed

person to convert to another faith at the age of seventy-five years is truly a testament to that person’s

determination and control over her life.

Mary was born in La Piedad, Michoacan, Mexico. This town, now heavily narco infested, lies

between Mexico City and Acapulco on the Pacific Ocean side of Mexico. View pictures of La Piedad on

the internet. It most certainly looked much different one hundred years ago. The other Zaragoza

children were Anthony, Louis, Frank(ie) Margarita, who died early as an adult, and Rachel.

Mary’s parents were Clemente and Victoria Zaragoza. What were the circumstances of

Clemente Zaragoza taking his family from Mexico to Gary, Indiana? There are two stories. Mary was

quite close to her father and, I suspect, had the most accurate story. Mary didn’t tell me fables. Mary

tells that during the Mexican revolution, her father’s family sided with the revolutionaries. One day two

soldiers from the Mexican Army rode their horses to the home of Clemente’s brother. The soldiers said

that they were seeking Zaragoza. Mary’s uncle answered that he was Zaragoza. The two soldiers then

immediately shot him dead. When Clemente learned of this assassination, he let it be known that he

would seek vengeance on the assassins. They hearing this threat fled north to the United States.

Clemente took chase until he found them in Gary, Indiana. His process for following them is still

unknown to me. There in Gary, these two evidently met an untimely demise on the railroad. Once in

Gary, Clemente brought his family north, which at that time may have been only his wife and young ten

year old daughter, Mary. Rachel says that the family in Mexico tells a different story. They say that the

Illinois Central Railroad in Gary was hiring strike breakers at that time from Eastern European countries

as well as from south of the border. For their protection, I can see why the family in Mexico tells this

story. I side with Mary’s story which she told me a number of times so that I would not forget it.

We only knew Mary in her later years – what went before explains a lot about her decisions

made later. To wit, if a stranger were to knock at your door and were to ask to sup with you and your

family, surely you would invite her in. In the course of the meal, you would come to know and

appreciate that stranger to the extent that she may have revealed parts of her life to you. As you are

reading the newspaper a few days after the dinner with the stranger, you discover that this stranger has

died. The article states that the stranger was a world renowned humanitarian who was on her last trip

home. You are not surprised to read this as you may have suspected such just from meeting her. You

are rewarded, though, to learn that greatness had knocked at your door. So it is with Mary Beinin and the anecdotal stories which follow. These stories are not necessarily ordered chronologically, but by

the attributes of character which endeared Mary to all us.

Independence –

According to the family, Mary was focused on living well. And she started showing that

trait as a youth. At about the age of fifteen, Mary saw the dire circumstances of poverty the

family was experiencing in Gary, Indiana. For a while during the Great Depression, they lived in a

railroad box car. It was cold and there were no amenities. She confronted her father saying that

the ducks and pigs in Mexico were better feed than their family in Gary, Indiana; and if he did

not do something about it, she was taking the family back to Mexico. Consider your fifteen year

old saying something like that to you in a similar circumstance. She insisted to her father that he

get his United States citizenship so they could receive some welfare assistance. His pride was

seriously damaged as he was the authoritarian head of the household. He informed Mary that

he wanted to become a US citizen, but would not do so as the US government would require

him to stomp on the Mexican flag. And he was emphatic that he would never stomp on the

Mexican flag. Mary recounted this experience to her very supportive school teachers (Mary

showed much promise as a student). Some or one of these school teachers addressed this issue

with a local investigative reporter for a newspaper in Gary. This reporter exposed the flag

stomping myth and its intent to intimidate and provide spurious facts to the Mexican community

to discourage their obtaining US citizenship.

Mary first obtained her driver’s license at age 72. That age is just a few years before

becoming a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Doing so afforded her

the independence she needed to provide her own transportation to the church building as long

as it was physically possible for her to drive. The meeting house was a good eight miles away.

Her independent spirit propelled her at that age to take a step into the unknown world of

hurling steel cages and rubber objects on oiled pathways with human beings inside guiding or

misguiding the entire projectile. It was said by Carl about his mother that “she was not a good

driver”. At one point, after returning from a trip with a few lady friends which Mary took with

her, one of them got out of the car and kissed the ground on which she then safely stood.

Although being fiercely independent, Mary finally realized at about the age of 80, that

she should no longer drive and gave up her car. Over seven years, Mary had only put twelve

thousand miles on the car. The engine and tires seemed to get her to wherever she wished to

go. Let’s say, Mary was more concerned for people and not so much for machines. When Carl

bought the car from his mother (millions of New Yorkers are known not to have automobiles –

and Carl was one of them), he drove it home to Queens. On the way north on the Delaware

Memorial Bridge while the car was ascending to the top, two tires blew out. The carburetor also

had many ailments. Mary was definitely a “people person”.

Intelligence –

Early on in Mary’s life, her school teachers recognized her impressive abilities at school

and her desire to learn. Her teachers were all super supportive of her efforts and desires. As

Rachel said, Mary was a determined woman. After Mary was graduated from high school, she

received a partial scholarship to the University of Chicago. Her parents were not supportive of

that educational direction for two very practical reasons: one was that they did not have the

funds to make up the balance of the partial scholarship and, secondly, Mary, being the oldest

child, was an important figure in raising the family. At that time she was caring for Rachel who

was but a little child.

Mary never forgot this missed educational opportunity. About two years later, Mary

found a job in Chicago. Finding a job in Chicago was difficult in the early 1930’s as the Great

Depression began to come upon us and as there was still much prejudice against those of

Mexican ancestry. Mary’s teachers had written impressive recommendations as to her abilities.

Learning of Mary’s difficulties in finding work, one of her high school teachers referred her to a

company with which the teacher had influence and which was hiring secretaries. Upon applying,

Mary was told that there were no openings for secretaries at the time. The teacher, incensed,

had her niece apply to the company. The niece was immediately given an offer to be a

secretary. This fine woman, the teacher, marched up to the company, so to say, and confronted

them with the perfidy in their relationship to Mary and to society. Mary was soon hired as a

secretary. It is likely that Mary was the first one of Mexican ancestry hired at this firm and

perhaps at any firm in Chicago at that time. Mary has recorded that people at the firm would

stop by and just stare at her in amazement – What, a Mexican in our company! What next!

Please forgive my interpretation of “staring”.

After relocating to New York City and while working at Sullivan &Cromwell (a prestigious

white glove law firm)as a legal secretary, Mary also took college courses from Hunter College

which was an all female college and which was part of the New York City college system.

Entrepreneurship –

Yes, an entrepreneur. This is not eulogistic hyperbole. During the Great Depression, it

was, of course, difficult to survive financially. While Mary was employed in Chicago, her father

showed films in Gary’s Mexican Hall. For one reason or another, that activity was deemed as

illegal. Mary saw film showing to the Mexican community in Gary as an opportunity to tease

money out of that community to assist in caring for her family. Mary established a relationship

with Mexican film producers who would send the films directly to the family home. These films

were silent films. The silent movies were largely of a romantic nature, and some were cartoons.

Mary went to a movie house in Gary to negotiate (see Negotiation section) with the theater

owner to rent the movie house one night a week. The theater owner was a Greek. Mary’s

father was against the business proposition as he was highly suspicious that the theater owner

had ties to the Chicago mafia. Nevertheless, Mary pursued the business deal. The theater

owner countered her offer with an offer of free usage of the theater one night a week if she

would “date” (go out with) him. She refused. Mary had her standards. [Although the theater owner was not Mexican, this situation brings to mind Mary’s assertions to me that she would

never marry a Mexican man and she did not do so. Mary told me that a number of times. We

should note that she was referring to Mexican men of those times in the society she was raised.

And she held to that position throughout her life.] Mary countered the theater owner’s counter

offer wherein she negotiated a very reasonable fee for the one night rental. Mary sold the

tickets and the movie endeavor was very successful. Movie goers of Mexican ancestry would

even come in from Chicago to view the films. Please note that all entrepreneurs make mistakes.

Mary’s one fatal mistake was to let her father handle the ticket booth. He was a steel worker

when there was work, but had no mind for his daughter’s business. He began to give out free

tickets to his friends (“How can I charge my friends?” was his attitude, and other motives were

most likely operative also). He even gave out tickets to friends whom he had just met two days

before. Since Mary could not dislodge her father from the ticket booth, that chapter in Mary’s

business life came to a close.

Mary saw a second opportunity to provide income for the family. She saw the need to

provide newspapers in Spanish to the Mexican community in Gary, Indiana. So Mary contracted

with two newspaper publishers in Mexico: La Prensa and El Excelsior. The newspapers were

shipped twice weekly to the Zaragoza family home in Gary, then distributed to the Mexican

community in Gary. Mary was a “go-getter”. When she made up her mind, she went forward.

Note her conversion to the Latter-day Saint faith.

While living in New York City, Mary was approached by two investors who proposed that

if she would open a Mexican restaurant they would invest in her business. They proposed that

shecook, and they proposed that they control the money side of business. Mary wanted to cook

and control the cash flow; and, wisely, she declined their offer.

Of note is that in her library was a book entitled as I recall: A Quick Harvard MBA.

Dignitas – Is “A self-assurance which allows one to overcome any odds one faces” as defined by

Mary’s Brother-in-law, Leon Coleman, a retired professor of Cultural History. As defined, I

would add that Mary’s “dignitas” was supported by the Spirit of Christ which hovered over

her entire life and to which she was receptive.

Bravery – An aspect of Dignitas

Mary, her husband and Carl lived in the lower East side of Manhattan. Coming home one

night late from working at Sullivan & Cromwell, (this would be a good scene for a suspense

thriller), two burglars had descended from the skylights built over their top floor apartment to

take what they could find. As the burglars heard the rattling of Mary’s keys opening apartment

door, they fled through the door as it opened. I suspect that Mary graciously waved them

through.

At another time in that great city of safety, two thugs were trying to break into Mary’s

apartment. She was home all alone. Thinking quickly, Mary yelled loudly to her husband, Irving,

who as said was not at home: “Irving, bring me the pistol!”. The thugs fled.

While walking on a pathway in Columbia, Maryland, (a city of ostensible tranquility),

Mary saw two men walking towards her making motions indicative of and preparatory to a

personal attack. As they came closer, Mary stated firmly: “You better not try it”. They also

disappeared into the ether and quickly.

And as Leon put it, even at the Lorien Health Center, Mary refused many times to die.

Commitment – An aspect of Dignitas

Whatever Mary did, she was committed to it.

After leaving Chicago to come to New York City, Mary worked for a tenant lawyer (See

Isaiah 1:17 “…relieve the oppressed, judge the fatherless, plead for the widow”).

Mary also sought connections. She became the personal secretary to the wife of one of

the relatives of Solomon R. Guggenheim. During her tenure with Mrs. Guggenheim, Mary

worked for a number of charitable causes for low or no pay. When Mrs. Guggenheim decided to

vacation in Europe, she invited Mary to continue her work with her during the European

vacation. Mary declined as her negotiations with the law firm, Sullivan & Cromwell, were in

process.

In the 1970’s, Mary also worked with Caesar Chavez’ group as a secretary.

Mary remained a good Democrat all her life. Blame me, but I even took her to vote in

one election when she was in her nineties. She was very adept even from her wheel chair at

using the touch screen ballot.

Working with the white glove New York City law firm of Sullivan & Cromwell was

prestigious especially for some one of few connections and no formal college degree; but

Sullivan & Cromwell saw her intelligence and zeal. Some times her commitment went a bit too

far. Mary confined to me once (and this is almost a quote): “Oh, Brother Hickman, why couldn’t

I have found this Gospel earlier! I would have done so many things differently.” As Mary tells

the story, as a legal secretary for Sullivan & Cromwell in NYC (beginning in the early 1960’s), she

would put her attorney’s work at the bottom of the in-box pile. Why? Because the steno pool

took their work always from the bottom of the pile (FIFO – First In First Out). I replied in jest

something like this and she laughed: “Oh, Sister Beinin such a serious misdeed of advancing

your attorney’s work ahead of others surely disqualifies you for a Celestial Glory in the

resurrection”.

Generosity of Spirit -

As with most people with a generous spirit of love, Mary was always free with hugs and

kisses for family members.

As the oldest child, Mary would purchase Christmas presents for the children in the

family for and on behalf of her parents, who were almost poverty stricken. To conceal the

source of the gifts, Mary even bought one for herself so as to immunize her from suspicion as

the gift giver.

Rachel, Mary’s sister, tells of Mary coming to visit her and her husband and children.

Mary would bring gifts for the children. These gifts would be practical and of such a nature as to

arouse admiration from the children’s peers. Mary was also very savvy.

Mary’s generosity of spirit also included loving jabs at the weaknesses or foibles of those

she loved and who loved her. This characteristic is just about the opposite of bullying as bullying

entails no love. Rachel tells of one such example when Mary was back visiting home in Gary,

Indiana. Only Mary and she were in the house. Frankie, one of the boy children, then aged

fourteen came home with his friends to do the then equivalent of today’s “hanging out”. This

was most likely in the early 1930’s. Giving proper respect to Frankie’s entertaining his friends at

home, both Rachel and Mary left the room. As soon as they left, Frankie was heard to say: “OK,

men what do you want?” Who knows what was “wanted”. Nevertheless, when Mary and

Rachel returned to the room where Frankie and friends were, Mary stated to Frankie: “I didn’t

know you all were men”. They all had a laugh.

Mary would pinch her pennies, then make a monetary gift to a family member of her

accumulated sum. In these gifts, according to Carl, there was “never a whiff of ‘you owe me’”.

Negotiation –

Mary would negotiate or dicker with any one with whom she was dealing.

When Carl was about sixteen years old, his mother, Mary, wanted to buy a typewriter for

him. She took Carl to a typewriter repair shop on lower Fifth Avenue in Manhattan. She

selected the model and then dickered with the old Jewish gentleman who ran the shop. Carl

says that he would have just paid the price asked. It seemed to him that the negotiation lasted

for hours. Most likely not. When the right price was reached, Mary made her last pitch for the

best price by saying that the deal would be closed if the shop owner would absorb the sales tax

cost. When hearing that story, we all laughed as had the shop owner.

When Mary finally decided to get her driver’s license, she also purchased a car. It was a

Nissan. Even then at age 72, she dickered with the salesman to get the best price. Had I known that aspect of her nature, I would certainly have invited her to a number of our own auto

purchases and just sat back and relaxed while Mary got me the best deal.

Thrift –

Mary saved money even on Social Security. Carl was surprised at what she had saved

during her retirement.

While employed at Sullivan & Cromwell, she would often work long hours to get her

work done even until the wee hours of the morning. The firm would give her taxi fare for the

ride home, but thrifty Mary would take the subway home and save the difference in spite of the

dangers of riding the NYC subway at night.

When Carl turned eighteen, Mary purchased a life insurance policy on Carl’s life with her

as beneficiary and had him pay the premiums. As an eighteen year old, it was hard for Carl to

understand why she had done that especially having him pay the premiums. Now of course, he

understands the financial loss, not to mention the emotional loss, which his untimely passing

would have been to her in her old age. Carl has been that influence in caring for his mother

which would have been lost if he had predeceased her. Had Mary seen the future even more

clearly, she would also have had Rachel take out a life insurance policy on her own life with Mary

as the beneficiary. Rachel has also been a great asset to Mary in her declining years, which

would have been a great loss had Rachel predeceased Mary.

Competitive –

One Sunday when arriving at the Owen Brown Place to pick up Mary to bring her to

church with our family, we noticed that she was limping. I asked her what the cause of the limp

was. She laughed and in her usual moments of self revelatory candor said some thing to the

effect that she was an old fool. She was then in her mid eighties. She allowed as to how she

should never have challenged the younger woman at Owen Brown Place to a foot race on the

tenth floor of her building. Whether in her youth or later, I do not know, but she had been

known as “speedy” Beinin.

Please note Lorin Lund’s story about Mary’s bet with the Russian. You’ve gotta laugh and

admire Mary’s spunk.

Some Anecdotal Stories About Mary’s Sojourn with us in the community of The Church

of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

Mary came to us at the beginning of her declining years. We did not know but a small

part of what is written above about her life. Her joining this church is an expression of all of her

personal traits.

Having been a former Catholic, Mary would often express her disappointment with the

Catholic Church as it was in the Mexico of her childhood and in Gary, Indiana. On one occasion, I

expressed sympathy for the Catholic Church by saying that the Catholic Church of today is not

what it was in the Mexico of her youth, nor in the Gary, Indiana of the Great Depression. Mary’s

response to me was: “Oh, Brother Hickman, I do hope that you are not going to become a

Catholic”. Quote – Unquote. I had to smile.

While driving Mary to Church, in the early days when she was still in her intellectual

prime during her late seventies and eighties, she would give us a long dissertation on the legal

process. I can see why Sullivan & Cromwell liked her. They were also an honest group. After

Mary left their employ, she moved to Columbia, Maryland. They lost touch with her. When

their records showed she had turned sixty-five years of age, they began to search for her.

Finally, they found her here in Columbia and paid her back retirement and for whatever period

her annuity was designed for. In this matter of longevity, I am sure that she also exceeded their

expectations.

Bishops in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day saints are “called” for periods of five

to six years. They continue in their full time jobs and put in an extra ten to twenty hours a week

or more in their callings. As a new member of the Church, Mary did not understand that

process. So one Sunday, we were sitting in the Church’s Sacrament Meeting and the then

current Bishop, Lowry Mauerman, was released from his calling as a Bishop. He had served his

term. Mary turned to me and said (quote): “What did he do wrong?” Of course, the answer was

that he did nothing wrong. It was just that the time for his “calling” as Bishop had expired.

Again, I had to smile as I understood that Mary had deep insights into humanity, but just yet did

not know all of our ways.

Mary brought her years of experience to the Relief Society (women’s auxiliary) meetings.

One Sunday while traveling home from the church meetings with our family, Mary commented

about the Relief Society lesson for that week. The lesson was on the trials and hardships of life,

suffering. She recounted the comments of many of the younger sister recalling the trials they

had experienced. Mary expressed to me that these young sisters did not know what trials and

hardships really were. I suspect that the severity of hardships and trials for each woman (and

man) is relative to the spread between her best and worst times. From my view of Mary’s life,

her spread between the good and bad times has exceeded that of most of us.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is highly organized. We believe that the

Resurrected Christ has specifically chosen and called a prophet and twelve apostles in His church

to be special witnesses of Him to the world. The current living prophet in essence calls each

Bishop and, through delegation, ordains each Bishop to that office. The Bishop oversees the

“callings” of individuals to each function in the Church. One such function is that of a Home

Teacher. A Home Teacher is assigned to take a special interest in the three or four or more

families assigned to him and to his companion.

Mary has had a number of Home Teachers over the years and Visiting Teachers who

represent the Relief Society. I have recently served also as one of her home teachers. One of

my home teaching companions was Carlos Holgado, who was born and raised in Spain and also,

by the way, imprisoned by Spain’s Franco for his political views. Mary’s hearing at the time

Carlos and I were her home teachers was seriously impaired such that I had to speak to her only

inches from her ear. Even at that, it was hard for her to understand my words. Now, Carlos

would stand four feet from Mary in her bed at the Lorien Health Center and speak to her in

Spanish. And much to my amazement, Mary would respond in Spanish; and Carlos and she

would carry on a long conversation. Neuroscientists – go figure!

What has been impressive to me has been the care of those in the wards (congregations)

in the area who have visited and ministered to Mary over the years without any specific calling

to do so. Such actions reflect the instructions of the Lord through the prophet Joseph Smith that

“…it is not meet (to tell precisely what to do in a particular circumstance) that I should command

in all things; for he that is compelled in all things, the same is a slothful and not a wise servant;

wherefore he receiveth no reward. Verily I say, men should be anxiously engaged in a good

cause, and do many things of their own free will, and bring to pass much righteousness; for the

power is in them, wherein they are agents unto themselves. And inasmuch as men do good they

shall in nowise lose their reward. But he that doeth not anything until he is commanded, and

receiveth a commandment with doubtful heart, and keepeth it with slothfulness, the same is

damned.” (Doctrine and Covenants 58:26-29). As said, over the years, many members of the

Church wards in this area have visited and cared for Mary of their own free will.

These visits remind me of Jesus’ teaching on the Mount in Matthew Chapter 6:1, where

He says: “Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye

have no reward of our Father which is in heaven.” In keeping with that spirit of service which

seeks no recognition, I cite two families whose names I shall not mention, but which have visited

and served Mary at the Owen Brown Place (even though the Ward boundaries had changed,

they still continued to serve her – of that man Mary told me “I would die for him” indicating her

gratitude for his and his wife’s service) and the second family visited her at her last place of

residence nearly every week; and neither of these families were under organizational obligation

to do so. Nor do any of the other many families who have visited Mary over the years seek for

any reward in Heaven, but only out of the love of an aging and lonely woman lying in bed for

years on end. And while Mary was still physically able to attend church, two families were able

to drive her to church every week. Those many families who have so served shall not be

mentioned by me for fear that some would be left out; nevertheless, being left out would not

matter to them as they have visited out of love and compassion. A number have even moved

from the area and may never hear of her passing. Of course, I must also mention Mary’s sister,

Rachel, who visited Mary a number of times each week although it came to a point where Mary

could not even remember these visits.

We shall remember Mary fondly over the years. Her life stories will be instructive in

many instances and good for recall when similar situations present themselves as teaching

moments.

Garden Dinner Party

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Our Spring Dinner was a big success last night. It was wonderful to see so many of you there. A special thank you to all of those who put in hours of preparation and planning to put on this event. The food and decorations were wonderful! Thank you to those who helped cook the chicken, spoke, performed, and help with set up and clean up. We are so blessed to have each other and the Relief Society organization.

(photo credit: Stephanie Morgan)

You're Invited to a Garden Dinner Party!

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Job Interview Seminar

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Here are some details about a job interview seminar this Tuesday January 21 at 7:30 pm at the church. Remember that hours three and four of the seminar are the following Tuesday, January 28. For more information, contact Brother Hickman: thorval.hickman@gmail.com

Dynamite Job InterviewsThe What, Why, and How of getting a GREAT job!

Job interviews can be FUN!

Find out what interviews are really about, and how to make this work for both you and the employer.

Learn what and how to prepare for an interview, how to follow up on interviews without being a pain in the neck, and how to get what you need in offer negotiations.

-- Improve your “employability” in just 4 hours.

Seminar Objectives:

1. Understand what makes an employer want to call you after reading your resume, and how to tailor your resume to maximize these effects.

2. Learn how to prepare for a truly effective interview -- one that both you and the employer will feel good about.

3. Acquire the concepts and skills to help every interview be a great interview.

4. Discover how to follow up after a great interview -- how to push without being pushy; how to stay informed without irritating prospective employers.

5. Avoid common mistakes in handling job offers – insure that you get what you need if possible, and learn how and when to get what you want.

6. Feel motivated and excited about preparing for interviews and finding somewhere to try these ideas -- even if you are not seriously looking for a new position.

About the Presenter:

David Swenson has been a senior field manager for the world’s leading computer graphics company. For three years he built a technical staff throughout the central United States to provide customer support over the phone. He averaged more than one new employee per month -- and many, many interviews.

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Water Storage

Commercially bottled water in PETE (or PET) plastic containers may be purchased. Follow the container’s “best if used by” dates as a rotation guideline. Avoid plastic containers that are not PETE plastic.

If you choose to package water yourself, consider the following guidelines:

Containers

Use only food-grade containers. Smaller containers made of PETE plastic or heavier plastic buckets or drums work well.

Clean, sanitize, and thoroughly rinse all containers prior to use. A sanitizing solution can be prepared by adding 5 ml (1 teaspoon) of liquid household chlorine bleach (5 to 6% sodium hypochlorite) to 1 liter (one quart) of water. Only household bleach without thickeners, scents, or additives should be used.

Do not use plastic milk jugs, because they do not seal well and tend to become brittle over time.

Do not use containers previously used to store non-food products.

Some good choices:

30-55 gallon FDA approved food grade plastic barrels 5 gallon plastic jugs two-liter soda bottles

Water Pretreatment

Water from a chlorinated municipal water supply does not need further treatment when stored in clean, food-grade containers.

Non-chlorinated water should be treated with bleach. Add 8 drops of liquid household chlorine bleach (5 to 6% sodium hypochlorite) for every 4 liters (one gallon) of water. Only household bleach without thickeners, scents, or additives should be used.

Storage

Containers should be emptied and refilled regularly.

Store water only where potential leakage would not damage your home or apartment.

Protect stored water from light and heat. Some containers may also require protection from freezing.

The taste of stored water can be improved by pouring it back and forth between two containers before use.

Water Purification

If your water supply is not known to be safe or has become polluted, it should be purified before use. Water purification is generally a two-step process.

Step 1: Clarify

Cloudy or dirty water must first be made clear. It should be passed through filter paper, fine cloth, or some other filter. It should be allowed to settle, and then the clear water on top can be carefully drawn. Filtered or clear settled water should always be disinfected before use.

Step 2: Disinfect

Boiling Method

Bringing water to a rolling boil for 3 to 5 minutes will kill most water-borne microorganisms. However, prolonged boiling of small quantities of water may concentrate toxic contaminants if present.

Bleach Method

Adding 8 drops of fresh liquid household chlorine bleach (5 to 6% sodium hypochlorite) to every 4 liters (one gallon) of water will kill most microorganisms. Only household bleach without thickeners, scents, or additives should be used. The use of bleach does not address toxic contamination.

Commercial Water Filters

Commercial water filters can effectively filter and purify water contaminated with microorganisms, toxic chemicals, and heavy metals. Their effectiveness depends on design, condition, and proper use.

Water storage for 72-hour kits

You should store 1 gallon of water per person, per day.

example: A family of 5 should have 15 gallons of water in their 72-hour kit.

Find ways to help make that water easily portable in case you need to ‘grab and go’ quickly. (Storing all 15 gallons in one container would not be easily carried)

These 8-gallon containers on wheels can work well. Easily transported.

(for sale on Amazon for $35)

Family Support Group Resources

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Dear Sisters,

This Tuesday we began the family support group at my home. If you were unable to attend, but are interested in the material that was covered, you can download the manual we will be using and follow along with us. The twelve step program is designed to bring us to Christ and to make the atonement active in our lives. And for those who have watched a loved one struggling with addiction, it can help us bind up the broken heart.

The link to the manual:

http://www.healingthroughchrist.org/our_workbook.php

Love,

Merilee Clay

Triple Berry Pie Recipe

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Triple Berry Pie

time

prep:

20 min

total:

1 hr 10 min

servings

total:

8 servings

what you need

cups halved strawberries

cup blueberries

cup raspberries

cup sugar

1/4

cup MINUTE Tapioca

pkg. (15 oz.) ready-to-use refrigerated pie crusts (2 crusts)

Tbsp. butter or margarine

make it

MIX berries, sugar and tapioca in large bowl. Let stand 15 minutes.

PREHEAT oven to 400°F. Prepare pie crust as directed on package for 2-crust pie, using 9-inch pie plate. Fill with fruit mixture. Dot with butter. Cover with second pie crust. Seal and flute edge. Cut several slits in top crust to permit steam to escape.

BAKE 45 to 50 minutes or until juices form bubbles that burst slowly. Cool.

Cheesecake Recipe

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Here is the Cherry Cheesecake Recipe from our Enrichment activity:

Cheesecake (Wanda Franklin’s version)

Crust
1 ¼ cup graham cracker crumbs
¼ cup sugar
¼ cup melted butter

In 9” pie pan, stir together graham cracker crumbs and sugar until well mixed.
Stir melted butter into crumb mixture until well mixed, then press crumbs evenly on bottom and sides of pie pan with the bowl of a spoon.
In an oven that has been preheated to 350 degrees, bake pie crust for 10 minutes.

Filling
8 oz. cream cheese
1 large egg
14 oz. can of sweetened condensed milk
¼ teaspoon salt
3 tablespoons lemon juice (fresh or bottled)

After pie crust has baked for five minutes, start making filling.
Cut cream cheese into four or more pieces and put into blender with egg, milk, and salt.
Blend until smooth.
While blender is running slowly, add lemon juice in center and blend until mixed well. (Lemon juice starts firming up the filling, so it’s easier if you add the lemon juice just before you pour the filling into the pie crust. If the pie crust is not done yet, you can let the mixture rest in your blender. When the pie crust is ready, start the blender back up and add the lemon juice.)
When pie crust has finished baking, remove it from oven and turn oven down to 300 degrees.
Pour filling into baked pie crust.
Bake cheesecake in 300 degree oven for 50 minutes or until top is very lightly browned and mostly firm.
If you don’t have a blender, you can let the cream cheese soften, then use a mixer to make the filling.

Topping
1 can of any kind of pie filling or you can use any kind of fresh fruit with or without a sugar glaze or you can make your own topping, such as the following:

2 cups blueberries or pitted sour cherries (pie cherries)
½ cup sugar
2 tablespoons cornstarch
¼ cup fruit liquid and/or water
1 teaspoon vanilla flavoring (or ½ tsp. vanilla plus ½ tsp. almond is nice for cherries)

If using frozen blueberries or cherries, let them thaw completely, then drain off liquid into a measuring cup. Fresh pitted cherries may also have some cherry liquid that you can use.
If you don’t have ¼ cup of drained liquid, add water to make ¼ cup.
If you have more than ¼ cup of drained liquid from the two cups of fruit, use all of it.
Put fruit liquid/water, sugar, and cornstarch in saucepan over medium heat and stir constantly until cornstarch starts losing some of its milky color. Add half of fruit and continue stirring constantly but gently. When mixture starts becoming firm, add remaining fruit and stir gently until mixture is the consistency of pie filling. The purpose of adding the fruit by stages is so that most of the fruit will retain its shape.
After removing pie filling from stove, stir in flavoring.
Let cheesecake and topping cool to room temperature, then spread filling on cheesecake.
If some cherries are showing the side where their pit was removed, turn them over with a spoon to show their best side.
Keep refrigerated.

Note: When I freeze blueberries or cherries for pie filling, I mix 2 cups of fruit with ½ cup of sugar and freeze the mixture in individual containers. Sugar helps the fruit freeze better. When I cook the pie filling, I don’t add more sugar. I just add cornstarch to the sugary liquid that drains off the fruit before I cook it.

Key Lime Pie Recipe

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Here is the recipe for the Key Lime pie at the Food Preservation activity:

Key Lime Pie VII

INGREDIENTS:

1 (9 inch) prepared graham cracker crust

3 cups sweetened condensed milk

1/2 cup sour cream

3/4 cup key lime juice

1 tablespoon grated lime zest

DIRECTIONS:

1.	Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).
2.	In a medium bowl, combine condensed milk, sour cream, lime juice, and lime rind. Mix well and pour into graham cracker crust.
3.	Bake in preheated oven for 5 to 8 minutes, until tiny pinhole bubbles burst on the surface of pie. DO NOT BROWN! Chill pie thoroughly before serving. Garnish with lime slices and whipped cream if desired.

Food Preservation Night

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Our Food Preservation Night was a great success!!

Elizabeth Grange taught us how to prepare canned butter (information at the end of this post for those who are interested). We each got our own jar of butter to shake and shake and shake.

Becky Harms taught us about freezer jam, apple butter, different canning methods, and little tricks and tools to make it easier. Then we got to sample the jams and apple butter!

After the classes were finished we enjoyed ice cream and homemade pies (while still shaking our butter jars).

Special thanks to Carolyn Friberg for coordinating all the details and for the lovely decorations. A big thank you to Elizabeth Grange and Becky Harms for teaching. Thank you to all those who made pies and thanks to all those who came.

CANNED BUTTER  

by Elizabeth Grange

Canned butter is shelf stable for 5 to 7 years. It requires no refrigeration either before or after opening. It is great for food storage, camping, or emergencies.

Tips: When processing a lot of butter, the more people you have to shake the jars, the better. This would be a fun family activity. Any brand of SALTED butter will do. Unsalted butter will work, but has a toffee-like texture. Each pound of butter does slightly more than a pint. 11 pounds of butter will do 12 pints.

Sanitize the jars and lids. Meanwhile, unwrap the butter and put them in a saucepan or large pot to melt. Stir often to prevent burning. A double boiler or small pan balanced over a pot of boiling water works best for me since butter burns quickly and I tend to get diverted easily.

When jars are sanitized and butter is melted, pour butter into jars using a sterile funnel. Be sure to leave 1 inch space at the top of the jars. Place the hot, sanitized lids on top of jars and screw on the rings.

Shake, shake, shake the jars of butter, holding them with a dish towel since they will be hot. If, like me, you are working alone, you can shake one jar for a minute, then another, rotating the process. I wouldn't can more than 4 jars at a time unless you have a lot of energy, or someone to help you with the shaking. After the butter solidifies and the jar is cool to the touch, refrigerate it over-night, or until it is completely solid. Now it is ready for long-term storage.

Couch Needed

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If anyone has a spare sleeper sofa or a futon to donate, please let me know. There is a sister in our ward who needs somewhere to sleep and her couch is fairly broken down.

Please contact Merilee Clay if you can help. Thanks!

Family History FHE Ideas

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This month the Bishop has challenged us to have Family Home Evening every week and to have at least one of those focus on Family History. How are you doing on that goal? There are still two more weeks, so it's not too late! Here are a few family history ideas that might be helpful to those of you who might be struggling with where to begin, especially when you are inexperienced and/or have small children.

For the Little Ones, this blog has a simple lesson outline. There are some adorable video clips done by familysearch.org that are sure to get the interest of young children.

Another idea, that fulfills requirements in Faith in God as well as Personal Progress, is to fill out a pedigree chart together. You can find a simple one geared toward children here (it also includes interview questions), or a more detailed one here. Use these forms as a catalyst to talk about your ancestors and share facts and stories.

Familysearch.org has gone through a major over hall in the last several months. Check it out! You can sign in using your lds account. Find your family tree. Look at your fan chart. Just get on and explore. There are a lot of tutorials and videos available at https://familysearch.org/learningcenter/. Particularly there are three introductory videos (which are actually easier to locate on theyouth.lds.org family history section).

Speaking of the youth site, there is a TON of excellent information collected for youth about family history at https://www.lds.org/youth/family-history

There are many videos geared toward the youth. They also have youth that have commented and shared their own experiences with family history work.

For those of you who might be a little more adventurous try and find an ancestor in the 1940 Census. There is a nice video that explains what a census is and how it is helpful in Family History work. Try and put as much information as you can in the search fields. If you do not get an accurate result try broadening your search by removing some of information. Often there are errors in the information that was recorded by the census taker (and subsequently indexed), including misspelling of names, incorrect ages and birthplaces. Don't give up! Despite these flaws census records are valuable snap shots of a family in time. Find yours!

If you have any questions contact a ward family history consultant or the family history center. You are not alone, there are many people that are willing to help!

Happy Tree Climbing!

General Conference Talk Lesson Schedule

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Elders Quorum/High Priests/Relief Society’ 4th Sunday Lessons

June 2013 through October 2013

June 23, 2013 General Conference Talk – President Thomas S. Monson – Obedience Brings Blessings (Sunday Morning April 2013 Conference)

July 28, 2013 General Conference Talk – Elder Stanley G. Ellis – The Lord’s Way (Saturday Afternoon April 2013 Conference)

August 25, 2013 General Conference Talk – President Boyd K. Packer – These Things I Know (Saturday Morning April 2013 Conference)

September 22, 2013 General Conference Talk – Elder L. Whitney Clayton – Marriage: Watch and Learn (Sunday Morning April 2013 Conference)

October 27, 2013 General Conference Talk - Elder L. Tom Perry – Obedience to Law is Liberty (Sunday Morning April 2013 Conference)

"Stuff Swap" Donation Info

2013-05-14T12:38:00.004-04:00

For those of you who are interested in participating in the "Stuff Swap" activity with the Ellicott City Ward:

They are planning on having two sessions for the sisters to drop stuff off/sort items at the stake center. The first is Saturday, June 8th from 10-12pm and the second is Tuesday, June 11th from 10-12pm.

Once again, the actual activity is June 11th from 7-9pm. Anyone is welcome to come and look through the items. You don't have to donate to take. Anything left over will be donated to charity.

Jennifer "Jen" Danielle Kernan

2013-05-12T20:14:00.000-04:00

We are sorry to announce that Stephanie Brosius' sister, Jen, passed away this past week. Many of you knew Jen since she grew up in our ward. Please keep Stephanie and her family in your thoughts and prayers. Click here for information on the funeral services and to read the obituary.

Also, if you knew Jen and have any memories or experiences that you would like to share the family is compiling a memory book for Jen's posterity.

Stuff Swap

2013-05-08T14:10:00.003-04:00

The Ellicott City Ward is hosting a "Stuff Swap" on June 11th from 7 to 9 p.m at the church and invited our ward to participate. They are planning on providing tables for the following categories:

Women's Clothing
Men's Clothing
Children's Clothing
Books
Toys
Small House Hold Items (no furniture.)

Basically, you bring the things you want to give away and put them on the appropriate tables and then you are free to browse and take whatever you want. All leftover items will be donated to charity.

Cancer Research Study

2013-04-26T07:47:00.001-04:00

Here is a message from Wanda Franklin about an opportunity to help with Cancer Research:

I am a participant in this study and have a brochure about it that I’d be glad to give to you. They need more participants and have appointments available in June. Participation is free, and our participation helps cancer research.

You can find more information at www.cancer.org/cps

You can see available appointments at https://www.seeuthere.com/rsvp/invitation/invitation.asp?id=/m1c9c3bc-1CK78M1VB5OA7

Relief Society Birthday Dinner

2013-03-16T11:28:00.000-04:00

The Relief Society Birthday Dinner was a big success! Thank you to all those who helped put this great event together, all those who made cakes, and all those who came. We missed those of you who couldn't make it -- hopefully you can make it next year!

Here are a few of the highlights...

Seneca Stake Preparedness Fair

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The Seneca Stake is putting on a Preparedness Fair this Saturday:

Below is a schedule of classes for the Preparedness Fair on Saturday,16 March 2013. It runs from 9:00 am to 4:00 pm. It will be held at 18900 Kingsview Road in Germantown, MD. If you would like a copy of the class schedule you can email c2bulletin@gmail.com or click on the image below to enlarge.

There will be an assortment of 20 and 50 minute classes, from 5 to 7 every hour to choose from. The classes will be on a variety of subjects related to preparedness and self-reliance.

There will also be snacks available to purchase.

The fair is free and open to the public. Everyone is welcome, and encouraged to invite friends and neighbors.

Looking Ahead: Temple Trips and Family History Classes

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Here is the schedule for our Relief Society Temple Trips and Family History Classes for the next six months. Please mark these dates on your calendar and join us!

April 17 (Wed.) 11:00 am temple session (meet at the church at 9:45 am)
May 23 (Thurs.) 10:00 temple session (meet at the church at 8:45 am)
June 12 (Wed.) family history class from 9:30-12:00 (meet in the Family History Center in the lower level of the church)
July----(summer break)
August ----(summer break)
September 25 (Wed.) 10:00 am temple session (meet at church at 8:45 am)

If you have questions please ask Shawntel McPhie (mcphiemom@hotmail.com)