A Champion's Lines

While you were sleeping

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Tue, 13 Sep 2011 00:18:00 +0000

There is a new initiative I have for a blog, I am on the lookout for conscious individuals or citizens that pay attention to events transpiring behind the curtain of public media sources. The blog will showcase news material, pictures, and video content from independent news sources highlighting strategic important points that every common man should know. WYWS, is not about propaganda or conspiracy theories, it's simply about presenting objective content designed to challenge views or mass social media puppetry and provoke a radical movement in mind, and community. View sample content here for your pleasure:

"Obama is, of course, greater than Jesus."
-- Politiken (Danish newspaper)

My job is to be so persuasive that if there's anybody left out there who is still not sure whether they will vote, or is still not clear who they will vote for, that a light will shine through that window, a beam of light will come down upon you, you will experience an epiphany ... and you will suddenly realize that you must go to the polls and vote for Obama" - Barack Obama, Lebanon Opera House, New Hampshire. January 7, 2008.

As reported in: Village Voice CNet News.com CNN.com

Artist Michael D'Antuono's painting "The Truth" featuring Obama with his arms outstretched and wearing a crown of thorns atop his head appearing much like Jesus Christ on the Cross, will be unveiled at the Square's South Plaza.

Reflection Thursdays: Self-Assurance

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 18:26:00 +0000

Self-Assurance is similar to self-confidence. In the deepest part of you, you know you are able - able to take risks, able to meet challenges, able to stake claims and most important, able to deliver. but self-assurance is more than just self-confidence. Blessed with self-assurance, you have the confidence not only in your abilities but in your judgement . When you look at the world , you know that your perspective is unique and distinct. And because no one sees exactly what you see, you know that no one can make decisions for you. No one can tell you what you think. They can guide. But you alone have the authority to form conclusions, make decisions. This authority, this final accountability for the living of your life, does not intimidate you. On the contrary it feels natural to you.

Why professional black women find it hard to find a 'good' man.

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 12:05:00 +0000

I read an article from an afro-centered black blog concerning black professionals and was compelled to delve into this subject. I will sacrifice incurring the wrath of black women by saying things most don't want to hear. The question is if there is a scarcity of successful black men or black women just don't know how to treat men rightly? Statistics show that 70% of ~~successful~~ professional black women are unmarried. Of the 70%, 95% of black women want to date the top professional 5% of black men.

According to a 2008 by the Census Bureau, African-American women with a college degree outnumber similarly educated Black men 3:1, suggesting that only 3 out of 10 single professional Black women have a reasonable chance of mating with their match.

Good as a term here is two-fold. Good in terms of personality or good used as a way to reflect professional success. Sidenote: A good man is not a simp. There are good unsuccessful men, and good successful men. That cleared out of the way, there are good carpenters, plumbers, janitors, that work with SuBW sometimes in the same business premises and there are good men that hold high positions of power.

Most times, successful black women find it hard to find a ~~(good~~) man because:

1. They don't know what they want - it is hard for a woman to point out exactly what she wants in a man. All you hear is rambles on prerequisites and what TV says every man should have.

2. Mix their needs with everyone else's.

3. They compromise.

4. Most men already assume they're taken.

5. Most women of power can not balance career and romance well.

6. Judge real men with TV and hip-hop standards: Most black women live in fictitious reality - chasing the illusion of the perfect alpha-male that meets the media-endorsed checklist (height, cars, house, clothes etc.), Every man should have some education, pay and swag to him, but black women are myopic in raising hell standards for men.

7.Black women complain about black men as being too sexual, too lazy, or disloyal. It is self-fulfilling prophecy.

They don't find good men because:

1. Most successful men turn douches.

2. Good men are mostly not successful.

3. Most successful men don't provide her physical attraction or sexual satisfaction

4. Do not know a good man when they see one.

5. She wants to still be in charge.

6. They haven't learned to separate reality from TV, music videos, books and shows.

7. They adamantly claim to be logical over emotions and fall for the same mistakes.

8.Don't realize different men should be held to different standards

9. Love but hate to admit they want a man a little rough around the edge. If there is a lack of communication in a relationship, it hits rock bottom. If you want your man to be a bit more tough, it is only fair to let him know. You can not and should not change a man, let him know what you want.

10. You constantly compare him to every other man out there, rather than treat him like your king.

11. Most are taken.

Reality Check

1. Education to most successful black men is irrelevant. Either you are pretty or you are not. Independence, PHds and nobel prizes don't count, unless the man is less successful.

2. Only a strong principled man will lay with your nagging. Once you nag, he is out.

3. There is a lot more fish in the sea for an educated black man and he knows this. He will be looking for the best qualities in a woman.

4. The good successful man is a man with character, substance, quality and morals.

5. The good man will not be perfect.

6. Successful men are not necessarily open to commitment (it’s easy to find a man, just not easy to find a man who is willing to be with you and you only)

7. Every black man deserves credit, making ends in societies where every move is judged as ostentatious and innate racism prevails it is only reasonable to expect black men to find company in the arms of other-raced women.

Social norms, characteristics and stereotypes that define a community or group often always has a root in that group's history. Given that most african-american women are single mothers responsible for leading 60% of Afr.Ame households, rank the lowest on the socioeconomic ladder, and are living at low or below poverty level, it is somehow logical to expect black women to demand for men in better financial, emotional and physical positions. It feels logical to expect hopelessness, anger, frustration and domineering assertion from Black women.

Black educated women that want to marry a Black man should re-prioritize the list when choosing their mate. Consider ‘closet nerds.’ The law student grinding in the library. While he is making moves to take over the world in 2020, stay with him.Catch him on his way up, before graduation. T~~ry not to~~ judge a book by its cover. Switch roles and see where you stand if guys judged you by your cover *check your conscience*

Another option is the good church-going brotha. He may not be model material, nor will he drive the hottest car, or wear the most fashionable gear. However, he will likely treat you like the queen you are, supporting you during the ‘quiet times’ in life, ~~when your make-up is of~~f; and all facades are removed, being ‘naked’ with you…metaphorically speaking. In plain English the church-going brother most likely has all his values and principles intact, and if, you plan on going anywhere in life, especially instilling values in your kids, then you will have to re-evaluate the sullen image of what good gentlemen look like. Not to mention he may also have his Value intact.

Also, redefine yourself, good quality certainly isn't attracted to sub-par material. If you present yourself loosely, you should not expect to get the hardworking successful man to throw away years of diligence for someone who has no value, or skewed self-image of themselves.

Don't think you are something you are not. An Ivy-league education, and loose leaf colored AKA jackets give you leverage from your counterparts and does not guarantee a successful black man. If you both went to school, respect his education.

According to Dr Boyce, Although most women disagree with 'lowering' their standards it's in your best interest to focus on innate qualities within a man, rather than what he can produce externally or economically for your benefit.

Correct your perceptions, feel free to like what you want. If you like a man in jail, rehabilitate him. You attract what you are. Treat others with respect, give men encouragement, restrain your tongue, review yourself and determine exactly what you want and what you think you deserve.

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TM Lewin Bow Tie Collection

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Mon, 20 Jun 2011 14:51:00 +0000

I got the new TM Lewin Bow tie set. I admit I don't know who TM Lewin is nor have I ever heard of him/her. The collection is a symmetric blend of cotton geometric patterned bow ties, cuff links and a pocket square to match. Contemporary and sophisticated elegance for a well-dressed man with a slight touch of chic. I have a blue and wine set. Available for $89.99 per request.

Why your caucasian girlfriend is cheating on you

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Thu, 09 Jun 2011 02:20:00 +0000

Chances are if you are black and dating a white girl she is most likely into black guys. For black men, the reasons for getting into inter-racial relationships can vary but most black men going into inter-racial relationships assume relationships with a woman from a different race removes complex relationship problems. Say, greener pastures. The thought process: she's white, I don't need to keep my game locked. Lies.

the dominance a White woman endures happily is intoxicating. What after that's done? I'm not against getting a White girl, but I do ask that you think of the ending before you commit yourself to one. - Chuck @http://unitedblackamerica.com

Here are the 3 tell-tale signs your woman is cheating on you:

1. You think of her as a fool: Because most white women are easy going and less argumentative than their black counterparts, you misinterpret submissiveness for foolishness, forgetting she's getting submissive somewhere else. Failing to acknowledge her as a woman who needs attention ultimately drives her another man's attention, most likely a brother.

2. You get carried away in the attention: black women flock to interracial couples like vultures most times not always on a good note. Your woman gets caked out for stealing brothers and the guy meets Black Women Coalition - It's a For Colored Girls showdown; matrons, advisors and black single women who either never understand happiness in inter-racial couples or transfer horrid experiences to you and your partner and either persistently seduce or abuse you. Negative attention. Takes time from your relationship. Your woman finds a replacement vice-versa.

3. You don't keep your appearance above par: Every woman wants a man as her trophy, constantly neglecting basic hygiene principles will keep sane women away from you. If you're always dressed like a clown or never get your hair shaped up, or fail to follow basic hygiene principles - cologne, roll on, hair - keep your eyes out for the baller who's stoking your woman on the way.

Dating a black girl dipped in vanilla should keep you on the edge the most. She has a body, behind and sway to keep every brother looking out for your snow bun.

All these signs are common to failed relationships regardless of race. But a black man who pursues a white woman to get on easy

The basal line is , once you let ideas, notions occupy your head over treating your woman as the queen she is... then there will be trouble.

How to get a job with your professional look

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 02:08:00 +0000

Since I have been on the job market myself for the past couple of months, I decided to update this blog with tips on how to convey a strong competent professional image in your interview.

Firstly, you should have a resume that strongly portrays your strengths, highlights relevant work experience and showcases interpersonal skills. The goal is to have an employer invite you for an interview on first glances. An employer may require hard copies of your resume, keep those handy.

It is appropriate to keep your look conservative. Conventional black dress pants, white dress shirts and a proper tastefully coordinated black tie is standard. Any variation should be minimal. You may pair up a black or navy suit with a slight sheen or tone on tone with a white, cream or pale blue shirt preferably with French cuffs. Well shined black dress shoes with coordinated black leather belt. Wingtip or Oxford shoes are preferable.

Keep colognes to a light whiff. Your interviewer should not be discomforted by your cologne. Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue for men and Eternity Aqua by Calvin Klein are suitable light airy fragrances.

Your interviewer should pay attention to you and not your ensemble. Do not distract your interviewer with fancy colored notebooks and binders. Do not wear backpacks, it is very unprofessional and uncouth, especially for a student. Bring a leather binder or briefcase. Keep your attire simple, nice and not overly ornate.

Do not wear colored sports coat, you are heading for a job interview not a fashion show.

Buy Osama stickers and t-shirts for charity

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Mon, 02 May 2011 03:55:00 +0000

After several years of eluding the United States Armed Forces, Osama Bin Laden, the key mind behind America's 9/11 tragedy died in retribution by US forces.

If in fact, America is responsible for killing Osama Bin Laden, do we expect to see a lax in America's tight security operations or are extremists likely to usher new wave of terrorist attacks as reprimand for killing their hero. I expect to hear a speech soon enacting an order to return our brave troops in Afghanistan back home and finally end the war that cost America billions of taxpayer dollars, resources, and lives.

And a happy Mother's day it is for Osama's mother.

Reflection Thursdays...Perfect like God

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 23:24:00 +0000

I aim for the best but I am not perfect. God help me use your gifts deposited in me, perfect them for the better of Man and myself, to bring glory to you and become the Perfect Gentleman.

Becoming a Dapper Gent... Sartorial Building Blocks.

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Tue, 22 Mar 2011 21:51:00 +0000

If you've ever thought about changing your style, creating a new image or improving yourself send in your questions and I'll be answering your style and image-related problems. Whether you're sartorially confused, stumped by style or just not a man of the wardrobe, send in your questions.

A Gentleman reasons... Defending the rights of sagging

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Mon, 21 Mar 2011 19:57:00 +0000

Sagging is an idealistic notion of portraying masculinity emanating from prison culture. Freedom of expression is an intrinsic right especially for artists yet the future of the youth is at hand and we shouldn’t allow negative images perpetrate the stereotypes of blacks esp in Ame. A race with a history of vicious struggle for liberation, a now of uncertainty and a future with much to travail should know better.

How long will black people continue to be simple minions for the system. There comes a time where change must come, a deliverance of the people and resuscitation of our values, principles and beliefs. The young men of my generation and those after must redefine the culture, break free from perils of crowd mentality and set paths for new reality.

Revisiting ... the concept of occultic imagery in Hip Hop.

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 17:22:00 +0000

http://blogofthegentleman.blogspot.com/2010/08/hip-hop-deceit.html

A Gentleman Thinks....Education

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 15:23:00 +0000

Like most things I've been asked on my view of Education. My belief is a real-life simple approach to complexities of essays written all in the name of education. My take;

Education is a portal that invokes the mind to broadened horizons, inciting a constant challenge of perceptions, illuminating paths of ignorance, and awakening the mind of the educated to endless seams of possibilities.

To achieve this purpose, we must go beyond books and classrooms and invest the educated in real life applications, culture shock and plough the seeker of more knowledge into the very bout of the unknown.

Regardless of the intent of education, it is important that we understand the final accomplishment of education is never achieved in the life unless, like every other thing in life the seemingly educated accepts the purpose via a choice.

Reflection Thursdays...The basis of sucess

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Fri, 17 Dec 2010 00:43:00 +0000

Success begins and ends based on visions, dreams and an active plan to be bold enough to pursue and believe in them. Continue to follow your vision. Continue to have a plan, and manage your image. The only person who can stop you in life is YOU, not the ~~Haters~~. Everything starts with what you believe. The building path to failure and success are the same, you believe, anticipate, and therefore receive. Self-fulfilling prophecy. Take charge of your fate, and start laying foundations for success and greatness in your life. Don't be passive about your life, you're not some observer that happens to live out your life. You are your author and hold your life's pen.

Why professional black women find it hard to find a 'good' man

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Thu, 16 Dec 2010 23:44:00 +0000

I read an article from an afro-centered black blog concerning black professionals and was compelled to delve into this subject and bring on the wrath of black women by saying things most don't want to hear. The question is if there is a scarcity of successful black men or black women just don't know how to treat men rightly? Statistics show that 70% of ~~successful~~ professional black women are unmarried. Of the 70%, 95% of black women want to date the top professional 5% of black men.

Successful black women find it hard to find a (good) man because:

1. They don't know what they want - woman find it hard to point out exactly what she wants in a man.

2. Most men already assume they're taken.

3. Most successful women of do not balance career and romance well.

4. Judge real men with TV and hip-hop standards: Black women live in fictitious reality - chasing the illusion of the perfect alpha-male that meets the media-endorsed checklist (height, cars, house, clothes etc.), Every man should have some education, pay and swag to him, but black women are myopic in raising hell standards for men.

5.Black women complain about black men as being too sexual, too lazy, or disloyal. It is self-fulfilling prophecy.

They don't find good men because:

1. Most successful men turn douches.
2. Good men are mostly not successful.
3. Most successful men don't provide her physical attraction or sexual satisfaction
4. Do not know a good man when they see one.
5. She wants to still be in charge.
6. They haven't learned to separate reality from TV, music videos, books and shows.
7. They adamantly claim to be logical over emotions and fall for the same mistakes.
8.Don't realize different men should be held to different standards
9. Love but hate to admit they want a man a little rough around the edge. If there is a lack of communication in a relationship, it hits rock bottom. If you want your man to be a bit more tough, it is only fair to let him know. You can not and should not change a man, let him know what you want.
10. You constantly compare him to every other man out there, rather than treat him like your king.

11. Most are taken.

Reality Check

1. Education to successful black men is irrelevant. Either you are pretty or you are not. Independence, PHds and nobel prizes don't count, unless the man is less successful.

2. Only a strong principled man will lay with your nagging. Once you nag, he is out.

3. There is a lot more fish in the sea for an educated black man and he knows this. He will be looking for the best qualities in a woman.

4. The good successful man is a man with character, substance, quality and morals.

5. The good man will not be perfect.

6.  Successful men are not necessarily open to commitment (it’s easy to find a man, just not easy to find a man who is willing to be with you and you only)

7.  Every black man deserves credit, making ends in societies where every move is judged as ostentatious and innate racism prevails it is only reasonable to expect black men to find company in the arms of other-raced women.

Don't think you are something you are not. An Ivy-league education give you leverage from your counterparts and does not guarantee a successful black man. If you both went to school, respect his education.

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Rules of a Gentleman

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Fri, 19 Nov 2010 02:43:00 +0000

Life is not as serious as anyone may ever put it, a true gentleman consciously takes time out to laugh, joke and smile. (I've learned this the hard way). His smile, laughter and warmth should be contagious enough to change the course of a person's day for the positive and for the better. He's not stuck on himself, he builds himself but in the long run builds others around him as he aims for the top. The road to ultimate success is a personal/lone journey but not an empty road. Behind every strong pillar that has ever been for society, are a thousand more pillars that support him. A gentleman is conscious of this, and allows this principle to guide him as he makes decisions and never neglects the pillars that held and support him.

Rihanna- Who's that Chick [Dark Version] : limited time

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 00:40:00 +0000

Rihanna still looks good and I enjoy the overall creativity of the video is pretty good. Side note: Something in my mind tells me there might be ~~(Illuminati)The Illuminati: Facts & Fiction~~ mysteries involved in this work.

Reflection Thursdays: 9 Reasons You Will Never Be Successful

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 04:00:00 +0000

Unfortunately most people will never be successful. It has nothing to do with luck, growing up in a poor environment, where you’re from, who you know or who you are but more of what you choose to do with the time we have while were here. Being successful is as easy as JUST DOING IT... doing what it takes to get the job done and progress.

These are 9 of the most common reasons I've come to discover people end up failing at what they want to be successful in.

1. Because You Procrastinate- Yes this is one of the more common reasons for most people to never excel in fulfilling their chosen field or business. Instead of taking advantage of every waking moment you make excuses on why you can put it off until tomorrow or put the “grunt” work off until later, which is usually the most important of your daily task. Many will complain about why they’re not successful, but continue to put unimportant events ahead of what really should be a priority to anyone trying to better their situation or build a successful business and the answer is right in front of you and the sad thing is most know it, but fail to do anything about it.

2. Because You Blame What You Lack as your Reasons for Failure- Nine times out of ten if you ask any person or entrepreneur why they have failed in finishing or accomplishing a goal their sentence will begin with Because I don’t…. Depending on what field of business they’re in many of us could guess how that sentence will end. The sad reality is that most of us lack one thing or another and many of our predecessors have overcome many obstacles and proven time and time again that where you live, your financial status, your race, location, height, and/or belief has no take on whether or not you will be successful and it is ultimately up to you

3. Because your idea isn’t as Brilliant and Unique as you think- I know this doesn’t come as a a suprise to most of you especially if you have ever started a business or had an idea that you thought was just revolutionary or unique with no competition, but once you do a little research or decide to launch you see ten other businesses doing the same thing. As I’m sure you have heard this before, but it is obvious most need to hear it again a successful business begins with a great execution and a failure is well… lack there of. Most ideas have been thought of or tried and tested, but many failed because of their execution and how it was brought about. There are many reasons why the same businesses fail while others succeed timing has a lot to do with it, capital, the person or entrepreneur, knowledge on the subject and much more.

4. Because some of your Best Ideas are just Memory or Were Never Brought to Life- I definitely think this is one of the biggest reasons most are never successful. Many of our best ideas that would have spread virally or been a necessity in life were never brought past the brainstorming process or seemed like one of them unobtainable goals, because most of the time the brilliant ideas are the hardest to accomplish or will have you facing the most obstacles to see them come to life. I read an article about how almost everyday people think of at least two million dollar ideas on their way to work during a 5day workweek, but over 90% never put any of them into action pass the the thought phase and without reasonable doubt I agree.

5. Because you’re not patient- Many of us fall into this category and I was once a very impatient person (still am at times) when it came to seeing results with a new venture or goal I wanted to attain. I think the above title is why many of us fall victim to all of these get rich quick schemes we see in our email inbox everyday or on late night TV infomercials. In reality there is no quick-legal ways to get rich or becoming successful anything that is worth attaining will take time to acquire. Many of us abandon a business before we give it time to get over the first years slump or automatically mark it as a failure before it has time to reach its full potential.

6. Because there is always somebody working harder than you- This article goes back to the first reason on procrastinating and reinforces that you’re not taking advantage of every waking moment. Every moment you sleep or take off for a break or make time for anything other than the goal you want to accomplish or the business you want to be number one there is always another team of people or a person working toward the same goal. I think every time you decide to tackle an objective or start a new business that you want to succeed in that you should keep in mind…there is always be somebody putting in harder work and longer hours than you. Remember the number one spot or your accomplished goals wouldn’t feel so ggood if you were the only one going for it, because it wouldn’t be worth attaining.

7. Because you wait on Luck or Opportunity (Meal Ticket) to be given to you- In most instances opportunity is not given to you it is created and you’re lucky if you are prepared. That is why it is important to always be prepared for the unthinkable, because opportunities usually arise when you least expect it and that is why in most cases we’re not prepared and that is what we call bad luck. You can’t wait for ANYTHING to come to you or for somebody to hand it to you. If you want financing for your business go out and get it, if you want to relocate to another city go do it, if you want to be a millionaire before 25 get to work today not tomorrow anything is attainable with hard work and being persistent no matter how small or large the obstacles to success may seem.

8. Because life is too short- This reason basically takes into mind all of the above reasons for reaching success, tried and failed and taking time for granted for when opportunity is presented to you. You should take advantage of every SOUND opportunity that is presented to you, make use of every free second you have available, read up on any topic relevant to any goals you want to accomplish, make no excuses for tasks or goals not completed, and realize that you have nobody to blame, but yourself for any failures that you have or goals that you didn’t accomplish within your lifetime.

9. Because you will NOT make a change today- Even though this article stated in the beginning that “you will never be successful unless you make a change today” most of us will read it in its entirety and actually agree with its content, but will still go back to our same habits of procrastinating, blaming what we lack, putting together half-thought out ideas with poor execution, never bringing our greatest ideas pass the brainstorming process, being impatient and not persistent, letting someone work harder than you for that number one spot, waiting on our meal ticket, still understanding the odds are against you, but not working harder to overcome them, not taking advantage of all our time on this earth to see our dreams and goals manifest into something greater than we could ever imagine.

It is still in your hands whether or not you will become successful and defeat these odds. Just don’t become victim to one of these common mistakes and reasons for not being successful within your lifetime.

Rules of a Gentleman

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Fri, 29 Oct 2010 14:22:00 +0000

A Gentleman understands the importance of goals and their role in paving a Gent's direction in whatsoever endeavors. He knows it is important to have his goals written out - in ink and paper. A Gentleman knows what he wants to achieve specifically.

Willow Smith - Whip My Hair

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 01:03:00 +0000

For this little angel, I see many big bright prospects in her future. There're some unique, and creative fashion and style concepts in the video, I like the blend of colors,classic ethereal themes of gloss, black, white and checkerboard style patterns. I'll coin lil Willow's style "dappere", my gender constructed feminine term for Dapper, if you don't like it, go to hell.

Rules of a Gentleman

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 21:00:00 +0000

A Gentleman understands appropriation and the importance of keeping everything moderate. He understands that anything done past moderate and modest amounts causes an imbalance in his general well being and in the long run is detrimental to his development. He is not one to over-indulge in his cares and wants regardless of his level of desire or passion. A gentleman is self-controlled and disciplines himself to master himself mentally, emotionally, socially, spiritually and physically.

Rules of a gentleman #3

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 23:55:00 +0000

Shoes are a reflection of so many facets of a gentleman's life; Your shoes should never be found wanting in shine, texture, style, neatness and general care. Take time out to make sure your shoes speak and represent you well.

See more on my other blog: The Perfect Gent

The power of the skinny tie

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 00:26:00 +0000

Time and again, the skinny tie has weathered the customaries of ins and outs associated with fashion phases, seasons, trends and periods. In every (my) opinion, skinny ties are classic, timeless and should join the team of men's closet essentials - blazers, jeans, white tees, black tees, dress shoes...you know the list. Skinny ties are key agents of 'cool', stylish and Gq-esque swag. I started my quest for skinny ties at age 16+, i know I began early for the manhunt of classic style agents. Now at 18+, I still haven't garnered enough skinny ties like I'd like, I'm still latching on to the silk and cotton - my next stop are wool and every other material out there. The versatility of skinny ties is what keeps my appeal for them,
there are really no rules (common for most other men fashion accessories) for wearing skinny ties except the obvious not wearing a second tie also. They are suitable and appropriate for everything from club nights, to date nights, dinner parties, formal and informal occasions, work wear, friday business casual, everything from daytime to nightfall. They're classically paired with dress pants, and for a relaxed look anything from jeans to chinos. Every shirt and almost every accessory can accompany the skinny tie, allowing room for creativity and dress style to be event appropriate. A skinny tie is the language for the urban modern gentleman, it projects your inner style and charm. It polishes and lengthens your physique, adds a dash of energy, yet still hold on to that reputation of prestige and chivalry. Skinny tie's are sharp, modern, and subtle.Who says a Nigerian man can't be dapper? Truly for the urban modern gentleman, the skinny tie is a must-have for every man's closet.

Rules of a gentleman #2

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 23:43:00 +0000

The gentleman never compares himself to anyone, regardless of status, class or position. As Gentlemen we strive to innately understand that each person is a unique and sole copy of himself, thus let's each man aim to maximize HIS own potential.

It is also imperative that we maintain a conscious attitude towards selecting our role models. A man is the very least who he tries to be Prov 23: 7 as a man thinks in his heart, so is he.

Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else.

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Ciara on Maxim

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Tue, 21 Sep 2010 19:14:00 +0000

Smash or Pass?

Rules of a gentleman

noreply@blogger.com (Mr. Dapper) — Mon, 20 Sep 2010 23:37:00 +0000

Your phone/digital device is an extension of yourself. As a gentleman, just as you wouldn't associate yourself with certain people, & attributes. Your phone should never be used to call or text any/every body. This is misrepresenting yourself. You have class, so should ur words & deeds - digital and otherwise

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