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        <title>30 Days of Thanks - 11/10/09</title>
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        <summary>Continuing on my 30 Days of Thanks journey.... Both daughters had their well-child check-ups today. Kathryn, 13, has been very interested lately in how to get to places, and she's getting a feel for where places are that we frequent....</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com/" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="FLOAT: right"><img alt="30days" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6797f74970b " src="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6797f74970b-120wi" style="MARGIN: 5px" title="30days" /></a> Continuing on my <a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com" target="_blank">30 Days of Thanks</a> journey....</p>
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<li>Both daughters had their well-child check-ups today.  Kathryn, 13, has been very interested lately in how to get to places, and she's getting a feel for where places are that we frequent.  It says something about how seldom we go to the doctor when Kathryn remarked, "I thought the pediatrician was much farther away than this."  "Well, dear, it's because it's probably been over a year since we've been here.  We don't come here very often." Basically, I'm thankful for healthy children! 
<li>Having amazing people in my life who are there for me.  I'm truly lucky that I am loved and that I love in return. 
<li>Walking with Lee this morning.  That was quite a hill!I'm thankful that I have the physical ability to challenge my body. 
<li>Writing this morning.  I have to walk my talk, and I did this morning. 
<li>I'm thankful for always-on technology.  I'm happy I can just pick up the phone, and even those far away in distance are just a voice note away. </li>
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    <entry>
        <title>30 Days of Thanks - 11/09/09</title>
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        <published>2009-11-09T17:59:10-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-11T13:59:26-05:00</updated>
        <summary>Doing 30 Days of Thanks is crucial for me today - and brings home why one would do this at all. Even on bad days, one needs to remember all the reasons she has to be thankful. Here are mine:...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com/" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="FLOAT: right"><img alt="30days" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341bfee053ef0128757b6d41970c " src="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0128757b6d41970c-120wi" style="MARGIN: 6px" title="30days" /></a> Doing <a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com" target="_blank">30 Days of Thanks</a> is crucial for me today - and brings home why one would do this at all.  Even on bad days, one needs to remember all the reasons she has to be thankful.  Here are mine:</p>
<ul>
<li>I have choice. Boy, that's hard to remember sometimes. While I'm not in control of EVERYTHING (dammit), my actions are my choices. 
<li>Funky energy days will pass.  Tomorrow will be better.  That's comforting, as well as something for which to be thankful. 
<li>Christmas music.  Interesting how last year I couldn't stand to listen to it during upheaval, and this year, I'm listening to it waaaaaaaaaaay early, and it brings me comfort and joy. 
<li>Frank (I had to explain to my children that there's only one person in the world who gets to be referred to only by "Frank."  Every other Frank requires a last name.) 
<li>It may be a funky energy day, and I'm so thankful that it's nowhere near a <a href="http://www.writewellme.com/2008/07/the-true-meanin.html" target="_blank">wonky Dawn</a> day. 
<li>As I went through months of blog posts to find the link for "wonky Dawn" above, I skimmed some of my previous posts.  I'm really very lucky to have the business, relationships, and foundation I have.  I'm thankful to have what I have - in total. </li>
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<p>I am thankful for the life I have.</p></div>
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    <entry>
        <title>Perfect or Professional?</title>
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        <published>2009-11-09T06:00:00-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-09T06:00:00-05:00</updated>
        <summary>I take classes, writing and otherwise, because I"m constantly developing, changing, evolving, perfecting. In running my business, I attend workshops, join a mastermind group, work with mentors, try new things, tweak my marketing activities. I don't believe that it's possible...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">I take classes, writing and otherwise, because I"m constantly developing,

changing, evolving, perfecting. In running my business, I attend workshops, join a mastermind group, work

with mentors, try new things, tweak my marketing activities. I don't believe that it's possible to BE

perfect, but I do believe perfection is something to strive for, without being attached to attaining it.


      <p>That means I take risks and that I make mistakes. Does that mean I'm less professional

because I make mistakes? Could I wait to launch or publish something, in the name of professionalism,

until it's perfect? Sure, but would that something truly ever be perfect? Or would that just be an excuse

for delaying, out of fear?

</p>
      <p>Writers run into this all the time. Don't want to send the query letter because the

manuscript isn't perfect. Don't want to write the book proposal because the book isn't done (when in

reality, you only have to submit a couple of chapters). Don't want to join a writer's group because you're

afraid people might not like your writing. Don't want to publish a website because you can't figure out

what you want it to look like, so you do nothing....

</p>
      <p>Does professional mean perfect?

</p>
      <p>William Wordsworth hated to publish his works because he knew that once he did, they were

essentially dead. There would be no room to change, evolve, perfect his words.

</p>
      <p>We see imperfect all the time. In the book on writing I'm reading, <em>Plot &amp; Structure</em>

by James Scott Bell, there's an error on page 61:

</p>
      <p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>"When using first-person narration, especially
in literary fiction, your can capture attention through voice and
attitude as J.D. Salinger does."
</em></p>

      <p>Do you see the error?

</p>
      <p>Does that error make what Bell has to say any less valuable? Do I choose not to recommend

the book because there was a word usage error that he, his proofreaders, and even his editors missed?

</p>
      <p>NO!!! (It's a great book on structuring your fiction plot.)

</p>
      <p>I've seen errors like this in almost every book I've ever read, whether traditionally

published or self-published. Books by Stephen King, Suze Orman, you name it. Is it possible to put out a

perfect work? Again, no. Does the fact that there might be a typo take away from the beauty of the words

and the message? I don't think so. 

</p>
      <p>This goes beyond even typos though. Think second and third and so on editions. In 1991,

Stephen King released an expanded edition of The Stand, with an additional 500 pages left out of the

original. Well, if the first one was perfect, why an expanded edition?

</p>
      <p>Funny enough, this came up after I wrote a recent article for Fuel on "Wal-Mart, Chico's,

and Nordstrom." Like a smart article writer, I also publish the article on my blog, and I received this

comment:

  </p>
      <p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>"Your post might, ah, look more
       professional if you fixed 'your a professional'" </em></p>

      <p>Here's what's amusing about this. The person who submitted it used an obviously false name

and email address. How professional is THAT?

</p>
      <p>Professional is how you treat people, how you respond to others, how you react to

situations, what kind of proactive measures you put in place once you discover a hole in your systems.

It's basically how you are in the world. It's writing your query letter as a professional, not as a bratty

diva. It's acting as if you care (and hopefully you do). It's treating people with respect.

</p>
      <p>I would have liked to thank Professional Commenter if he/she had given a real name and

email address, appreciating that he/she allowed me to fix something that was a mistake.

</p>
      <p>Should I have made the mistake in the first place? It was a silly mistake, and came about

because I'm putting out a lot of content each week, along with everything else we do here at Write Well U.

 But if I waited until I was sure each letter was perfect, you might get Fuel, oh, say, next month,

instead of each week. I'd rather get content out there and help people, and strive for perfection along

the way. </p></div>
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    <entry>
        <title>30 Days of Thanks - 11/8/09</title>
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        <summary>I am utterly thankful for Earl Grey tea from Teavana A stunningly gorgeous red and gold teapot from which to drink delicious Earl Grey tea Following my energy. I didn't know exactly what I was going to do with my...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com/" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="FLOAT: right"><img alt="30days" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341bfee053ef0128757b706e970c " src="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0128757b706e970c-120wi" style="MARGIN: 4px" title="30days" /></a> <a href="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a67986b0970b-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="FLOAT: left" />I am utterly thankful for </p>
<ul>
<li>Earl Grey tea from Teavana 
<li>A stunningly gorgeous red and gold teapot from which to drink delicious Earl Grey tea 
<li>Following my energy.  I didn't know exactly what I was going to do with my early morning, but I decided to just BE and follow my inclinations.  No "shoulds" here! 
<li>The amazing technology that allows me to connect with loved ones far and wide (and sometimes near). 
<li>Grandma 
<li>A beautiful fall day that will showcase our house wonderfully for today's open house. 
<li>Possibilities </li>
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        <title>30 Days of Thanks - 11/6/09</title>
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        <updated>2009-11-11T13:56:56-05:00</updated>
        <summary>I'm grateful for Chico's and purple. I get to combine the two of these pieces of gratitude into one piece of clothing. :) I also give thanks for energy and creativity. The possibilities of what I can create are endless,...</summary>
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            <name>writewell</name>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6798a21970b-popup" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="FLOAT: left"><img alt="30days" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6798a21970b " src="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6798a21970b-120wi" style="MARGIN: 5px" title="30days" /></a> I'm grateful for Chico's and purple.  I get to combine the two of these pieces of gratitude into one piece of clothing.  :)</p>
<p>I also give thanks for energy and creativity. The possibilities of what I can create are endless, and I'm so grateful for that.  I'm not bored, and I'm so excited about some projects already in place and those that will emerge.</p>
<p>Life is good - and I give thanks.</p></div>
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    <entry>
        <title>30 Days of Thanks - 11/4/09</title>
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        <published>2009-11-04T09:22:03-05:00</published>
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        <summary>I'm still grateful for Christmas music. :) Among other things, I'm grateful for and I give deep thanks for Gorgeous fall foliage Having moved my desk so that I can look out the window at said fall foliage and watch...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>I'm <a href="http://www.writewellme.com/2009/11/30-days-of-thanks.html" target="_blank">still grateful for Christmas music</a>.  :)  Among other things, I'm grateful for and I give deep thanks for</p><ul>
<li>Gorgeous fall foliage</li>
<li><a href="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6529acb970b-popup" onclick="window.open( this.href, '_blank', 'width=640,height=480,scrollbars=no,resizable=no,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0' ); return false" style="float: right;"><img alt="Deer" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6529acb970b" src="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0120a6529acb970b-120wi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" /></a> Having moved my desk so that I can look out the window at said fall foliage and watch deer frolic on the playground</li>
<li>Bright sunny days</li>
<li>Listening to the weatherman say, "We have a chance of showers today.  Oh, I guess I'd better start being specific... <em>rain </em>showers."  Oooooh, that's right!  We could get <strong>snow </strong>this year!!! I'm hoping! </li>
<li>Creativity</li>
<li>Great, amazing, wonderful clients</li>
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<a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com/" target="_blank">Don't forget to play - and give thanks</a>.                                                                           </div>
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    <entry>
        <title>30 Days of Thanks</title>
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        <published>2009-11-03T19:21:00-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-11T13:55:13-05:00</updated>
        <summary>So Stacy lets me know she's doing this new thing out of the blue and do I want to play - NOW? Since it's all about giving thanks and being grateful - and I'd had plenty of things today already...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com/" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="FLOAT: left"><img alt="30days" class="asset asset-image at-xid-6a00d8341bfee053ef0128757b83f6970c " src="http://writewell.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341bfee053ef0128757b83f6970c-120wi" style="MARGIN: 4px" title="30days" /></a> <a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com/" onclick="window.open(this.href,'_blank','scrollbars=no,resizable=yes,toolbar=no,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,status=no,left=0,top=0'); return false" style="FLOAT: left" /> So <a href="http://www.stacybrice.com" target="_blank">Stacy</a> lets me know she's doing this new thing out of the blue and do I want to play - NOW? Since it's all about giving thanks and being grateful - and I'd had plenty of things today already that I was grateful for, I absolutely wanted to play.  :)</p>
<p>To find out more and play along, too (it's really easy - well, is it ever HARD to say thank you?), visit the <a href="http://www.30daysofthanks.com/" target="_blank">30 Days of Thanks blog</a>.</p>
<p>Today I'm grateful for best friends, Starbucks, collaboration, creativity, and Christmas music. </p>
<p>Maybe I'd better explain some of that.  :)  Kathryn and I went running this afternoon, and the plan was to hopefully cool off enough in time for a pumpkin spice latte. We pull up to our new Safeway (with a Starbucks inside) and see people walking out with Starbucks cups.  These aren't normal Starbucks cups; they've already unveiled their holiday season cups.</p>
<p>Okay, at least it's not <em>before </em>Halloween that they've done this.</p>
<p>We walk into the store and find that not only are they featuring new holiday flavors, eggnog latte and gingerbread spice latte, they also have samples of gingerbread spiced latte RIGHT THERE! As a matter of fact, Friendly Starbucks Guy is adding whipped cream to the samples. </p>
<p>I took my sample, and it was delicious. Tasted like Christmas.  So when we got home and I went in my office to do work, I turned on Christmas music.  Yes, it's November 3, but I certainly enjoyed myself!</p>
<p>What are you thankful for?</p></div>
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    <entry>
        <title>Guest Post: The 3 P’s of Promotion: Pursuit, Perseverance, Patience</title>
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        <published>2009-11-02T09:01:00-05:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-02T09:01:00-05:00</updated>
        <summary>by Nancy A. Kaiser Little did I know when I made the decision to turn my personal journal into a book to help others that it would take longer to edit, design and publish than to write. When I held...</summary>
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    Nancy A. Kaiser
    <p>Little did I know when I made the decision to turn my personal journal into a book to help others that it would take longer to edit, design and publish than to write. When I held <em>Letting Go</em> in my hand for the first time I felt a huge sense of pride and accomplishment. The time and money invested seemed well spent. Being a first-time author I was totally unprepared for what follows the birth of a book.</p>
    <p>Now what? Once I went through my circle of influence - friends, family and clients - now how do I find the people who can most benefit from <em>Letting Go</em>? Talk about being unprepared. I’m a pharmacist turned animal communicator. I don’t have a promoter or sales type personality. It’s just not who I am.</p>
    <p>Frustration and discouragement crept back into my life. I spent months online trying to follow suggestions of others with more experience. I joined a local writers group in search of people with more experience than I. They became a wonderful source of support and friendship. </p>
    <p>While many of the presenters are focused on the craft of writing, we had a wonderful presentation on book promotion by Christy Tillery French. When I went up to thank Christy for all the wonderful information she shared, she offered to review <em>Letting Go</em>. I mailed her a copy immediately. Her lovely review was published on TheMidwestBookReview.com in February 09.  </p>
    <p>I followed my publisher’s advice about starting a blog. After only a few posts I received a comment from Carol Upton from Vancouver. Carol has interests in animals and animal communication as well and is a publicist of authors, artists, etc. I followed the path the Universe was showing me and hired Carol as my publicist. What I’d spent months trying to accomplish, Carol did in hours with infinitely more success.</p>
    <p>As a result of Carol’s expertise and contacts, I began receiving requests for radio interviews from hosts all over the US and Canada. As the interview requests kept arriving, Carol began to submit articles I’d written. Everyone she’s submitted has been published, some in print and online, some on multiple sites. The positive response from Carol’s efforts lessened my frustration and discouragement.</p>
    <p>This summer I’ve had three features published in local magazines and newspapers. One was an article I submitted to “Western North Carolina Women” in July. The other two were from Carol’s efforts. What I didn’t know how to do in my own town Carol accomplished from Western Canada. This month I was featured in “All About Women” in my town. The third article is in “The News Herald,” which is a newspaper about an hour from my home. I believe this illustrates the importance of working with someone that is far more experienced at what you need than you are. </p>
    <p>For me, promotion is without a doubt the most challenging part of being an author. I’ve learned that as with everything in life patience is a key element. Everything has its perfect timing. I trust that the Universe knows better than I how to help <em>Letting Go</em> find the people who need it the most, but nothing happens without effort. Once Carol sends me a positive response to her inquiry, it is up to me to pursue the lead. I am still following up with interviews that were offered three months ago. It’s always about timing.</p>
    <p>Perseverance is crucial to help survive the ebb and flow of book marketing and sales. I surrender to the timing of the Universe and let it work its wonders. I truly believe the people who are ready to read <em>Letting Go</em> will find it, but it requires that I do all I can to help it find them. </p>
    <p>Without pursuit, perseverance and patience, I would have given up on promoting <em>Letting Go </em>by now. Calling on each of these Ps at the appropriate time has allowed me to put the hours into promotion that it requires. Although the promotion of <em>Letting Go</em> has delayed the start of the first of my animal-communication books, I do believe that everything happens for a reason.</p>
    <p>Recently I was given a metaphor for all the efforts I’ve put forth promoting <em>Letting Go</em> and my animal work. It’s like pushing a snowball up a mountainside. It’s extremely challenging requiring an enormous amount of effort. But, once you reach the pinnacle with a tap of your little finger it effortlessly rushes down the other side building its own momentum along the way. My friend encouraged me to “keep pushing.” </p>
    <p>So, don’t give up when you’re feeling frustrated and discouraged. Muster all the pursuit, perseverance and patience you have and keep pushing until you reach your pinnacle, and then, TAP!</p>
    <p><em>Nancy A. Kaiser lives in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina surrounded by her family of two Labs and a horse. She operates “Just Ask” Communications, a practice devoted to healing the human-animal bond through enhanced communication and understanding. Her abilities in telepathic animal communication and healing emerged while managing an equine veterinary hospital for 27 years. Nancy is the author of </em>Letting Go: An Ordinary Woman’s Extraordinary Journey of Healing &amp; Transformation<em> and can be contacted via <a href="http://www.nancykaiseranimalcommunicator.com/">www.NancyKaiserAnimalCommunicator.com</a>.</em></p></div>
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        <title>Putting Fear to Good Use</title>
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        <published>2009-10-26T09:00:00-04:00</published>
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        <summary>I was talking with a client last week about some trouble she was having writing some marketing promotions. She was promoting a terrific package and an essay contest where contestants could win her package free. She wasn't getting much response,...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">I was talking with a client last week about some trouble she was having writing some marketing promotions. She was promoting a terrific package and an essay contest where contestants could win her package free. She wasn't getting much response, so I asked a few questions.
        <p>"How much have you promoted the essay contest?"</p>
        <p>"Once."</p>
        <p>"Is it on the front page of your website?"</p>
        <p>"No. We ran out of time, and then I didn't think about it."</p>
        <p>"Why do you think people might not be writing these essays to get this amazing package for free?"</p>
        <p>And that's where the magic began. We dug really deeply to figure out her prospective customers' dreams, pains, objections, and fears. It meant she had to think outside her own head, which was filled with sales and marketing and other business items. Plus, she knew this was a great deal. It hadn't occurred to her that her readers wouldn't immediately see that and rush to enter the contest.</p>
        <p>To expand your perceptions outside yourself, you have to GET outside yourself. This is true whether we're talking about a marketing campaign, a self-help book, a biography, or a fiction book. The key is to get in the head of your reader. Remember: writing is all about the reader, not about the writer. Think like your readers. Interview prospective readers. Ask them questions. </p>
        <p>Here are some questions to get started:</p>
        <ol>
         <li>What are their dreams? </li>
         <li> What's holding them back from doing what you think they should be doing? </li>
         <li> If they were sitting right in front of you, what might they object to about what you're doing? </li>
         <li> How can you address 1 -3?</li>
        </ol>
        <p>For example, if you're writing a self-help book on increasing self-esteem for teen girls, you have to understand their dreams. What motivates teen girls? What do they want? What are their priorities? What's their most pressing issue?</p>
        <p>Next, think about what their fears are. What keeps them up at night? What goes 'round and 'round in their minds while they're at school, on the soccer field, at dinner? And how does all that relate to self-esteem (the theme of your book)? </p>
        <p>Finally, if you had a teen girl right in front of you, and you told her you had this great book on self-esteem that was going to help her overcome her fears and help her reach her dreams, what might she say? What objections might she come up with? What doubts about you or your material might she have? What holds her back? </p>
        <p>This works for fiction, too, although a little differently. What do people need right now? Some experts say that any time we have a national crisis, economic or otherwise, fantasy fiction sales go up. People need to escape and feel as if they're entering a world far better than their own. Perhaps a safer world. Or maybe a more dangerous world that makes the real world look tame by comparison. </p>
        <p>As far as objections, that might come down to something as simple as why should they waste their time reading your book? You only have a few seconds to capture their interest in the book store or on Amazon.com. Book buyers first look at the front cover, and then turn the book over to look at the back (or at the front cover flap). You have to grab them immediately. Make your description compelling.</p>
        <p>Figure out your readers' dreams and fears, and your own writing will look a lot less scary.</p></div>
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        <title>Guest Post: Why Grammar Mistakes Proliferate: Don’t Writers Care?</title>
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        <summary>Recently I learned what a hot topic grammatical errors can be when one of my favorite blogs, Article Writing and Marketing Insights from Ezine Articles, took a subject close to my heart and made it relevant to everyone who writes....</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">Recently I learned what a hot topic grammatical errors can be when one of my favorite blogs, Article Writing and Marketing Insights from Ezine Articles, took a subject close to my heart and made it relevant to everyone who writes. <br /><p>
    Within 24 hours of posting “Avoiding the (6) Common Grammatical Errors That Make Authors Look Du…Unprofessional,” the blog received 776 views and 93 comments. That’s evidence of how “hot” the topic of incorrect grammar can be! </p>
    <p> The blog post started:
     in these days of txting, iming and all low caps, its easy to take shortcuts to writing 
     However, even though we now use our keyboards as we once did our phones, what most people do not understand is how unprofessional the improper use of the English language can make an article, and its author, look. Look at the sentence above again. Does it look professionally written to you? <br />
    Now, I’m not saying you need to go back to 9th grade English class and try and figure out where your participles are dangling, but making sure you have a command of the basics is essential.</p>
    <p> The post went on to list six common errors that make authors look unprofessional. Five of them are what I call Word Trippers—a pair of similar words with different meanings and spellings that can trip people up: loose/lose, affect/effect, it’s/its, their/there, than/then. (The sixth addressed misuse of semicolons, something that riled writer Jeff Rubin so much, he established September 24 as National Punctuation Day.)</p>
    <p> Among the blog comments, the most philosophic came from a subscriber named Jenny who wrote, “I am always amazed at how many who consider themselves writers make these mistakes -- which are so easily avoided if one is paying attention. Personally, I think they just don't care. Thanks for a provocative post that is a very good starting point in dealing with a problem that is unfortunately much bigger than those six examples!”</p>
    <p><strong> Do They Care?</strong></p>
    <p> As an editor who deals with mistakes like these in articles and manuscripts, I endorse Jenny’s observation that the problem is bigger than six examples. But I challenge her statement, “I think they just don’t care.” </p>
    <p> Rather, I see three factors at play here:</p>
    <ul>
     <li> People tend to write in a stream-of-consciousness manner, eager to get ideas down (that’s how I approach drafting of my ezine and the initial piece is downright sloppy). In this creative mode, fine tuning isn’t the first priority.</li>
     <li>“Instant messaging” is just that! People seem to be hurrying to move on to the next thing, feeling good about “getting that done” and prematurely declaring the piece complete. They don’t make sure what they’ve written comes across exactly the way they wanted to say it.</li>
     <li> Writers often lack the desire, discipline, or dedication to revisit their prose with a fresh eye, a clear mind, and breathing space to think it through.<br />
     Half-Baked Prose</li>
    </ul>
    <p> I call the result of this propensity to write fast, move on, and never look back “half-baked.” After all, you wouldn’t eat a loaf of bread that’s half-baked. Why would you send out a written piece that isn’t fully “cooked” either?</p>
    <p> The solution? Take time to put your writing “back in the oven” and question the key elements: the validity of the thoughts, the logical thread of persuasion, and the correct use of each word. </p>
    <p> Yes, gremlins such as incorrect grammar and punctuation still get through unintentionally. So do unclear transitions and inexact word choice. Because of these, reviewing your written piece only once simply isn’t enough. </p>
    <p><strong>     Three Steps to Perfection</strong></p>
    <p> I suggest if you habitually add these simple steps, you can “bake” your piece close to perfection: </p>
    <ol>
     <li> Print your piece and then go to another area to read it aloud as if a 10 year old needed to understand it. You’ll recognize unclear passages quickly that way. <br />
     <br />
     </li>
     <li>Question each word for its meaning, spelling, and role in the sentence, then take time to look up what you suspect isn’t correct. Don’t rely on memory alone; it can be shaky. Instead, access easy-to-use resources that will make your writing life easier. <br />
     <br />
     </li>
     <li>Revise, reread, revise, reread . . . until you’re satisfied.<br />
     Above all, slow down and think about your readers, be they 10 years old or 100. No one wants to eat half-baked bread; nor do they want to read partly polished prose. Flavor your writing until it’s “cooked” just right! </li>
    </ol>
    <p><em>Barbara McNichol edits the gremlins out of nonfiction articles and books, and helps authors avoid the pitfalls of half-baked prose. She created </em>Word Trippers: The Ultimate Choice for Choosing the Right Word When It Really Matters<em> as a resource that keeps writers on a professional path. Visit <a href="http://www.barbaramcnichol.com">www.barbaramcnichol.com</a> to sign up for her free Word Tripper of the Week ezine or contact her at 520-615-7910</em></p></div>
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    <entry>
        <title>Hold On To Your Dreams</title>
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        <summary>Every now and then I have to showcase my children's amazing talents. :) This is a poem written by Kathryn (a.k.a Medium Child) for a quick English assignment. They had to read dream poems and then write a stanza of...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p>Every now and then I have to showcase my children's amazing talents.  :)  This is a poem written by Kathryn (a.k.a Medium Child) for a quick English assignment.  They had to read dream poems and then write a stanza of their own.  Kathryn was inspired and wrote four.   </p><p><em>Hold on to your dreams<br />Before they fly away; <br />Hold on to your dreams<br />So they don’t go astray.</em></p><p><em>Hold on to your dreams; <br />Don’t ever let them go.<br />Hold on to your dreams<br />Or away they will blow.<br /></em></p><p><em>Hold on to your dreams<br />For one day they’ll come true; <br />Hold on to your dreams<br />Or there’s nothing else to do.<br /></em></p><p><em>Hold on to your dreams; <br />Keep climbing up the mountain.<br />Hold on to your dreams; <br />Your life will flow like a fountain.</em></p></div>
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        <title>What Propels Entrepreneurs to Success?</title>
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        <published>2009-10-13T11:22:00-04:00</published>
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        <summary>Quick question: Do you know what propels most entrepreneurs and authors to success? Answer: It all starts with the right support. I truly believe that one of the best and easiest ways to get more of the important things done...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"><p><strong>Quick question: </strong>Do you know what propels most entrepreneurs and authors to success?  </p>
      <p> <strong>Answer: </strong>It all starts with the right support.</p>
      <p> I truly believe that one of the best and easiest ways to get more of the important things done in your business, so YOU can get on with growing your business and making more money, is to make sure you're working  with the right people. </p>
      <p>For authors, it's just as important.  You need to be working on the creative aspects of writing the book and engaging in the marketing and PR.  You can't be wasting your time with registering for ISBNs, confirming book store signings, and researching book review sites.  That's where a highly-trained virtual assistant or author's assistant isn't just handy, but is crucial. </p>
      <p> And one of the most supportive, efficient, and valuable partners you can work with is a virtual assistant. It's also one that many people overlook and tend to put off working with the longest. Or think isn't appropriate for their business. </p>
      <p>       There's a lot of confusion about virtual assistants out there! And my friend Marcia Hoeck means to set it straight. </p>
      <p> Marcia helps entrepreneurs create businesses that will run without them. She's owned her own successful small business for 25 years. Her business ran almost by itself, because of the systems she developed and put in place. (In 2008, Marcia spent approximately 30% of her time in her business, leaving 70% to pursue other interests. And 2008 was her most profitable year! That year the income from that company increased by 60%!) </p>
      <p> Now she coaches other entrepreneurs using her in-the-trenches strategies to grow their businesses, free up their time, and make more money using the power of leadership and teams. </p>
      <p> Marcia's been so interested in the subject of virtual assistants that she spent 6 weeks this spring specifically interviewing virtual assistants (VAs), people who work with VAs (that's people like you!), VA service providers, and leaders in the VA industry to find out what THEY SAY are the best ways to find, hire, and work with virtual assistants - 
       and what they can do for your business. 
    She asked them about the successes they've had, and all the failures, too. She found out what can go wrong and what can go right, so YOU don't have to go through all that. As a matter of fact, she even interviewed me.  :) </p>
      <p> And now she's ready to tell you about what she's learned with her brand-new, free TELECLASS: </p>
      <p> <strong><a href="http://www.autowebbusiness.com/app/?af=1047792">How to Get More Done AND Make More Money: 2 Simple Steps to Find, Hire, and Partner with the Perfect Virtual Assistant</a>.</strong><a href="http://www.autowebbusiness.com/app/?af=1047792" /></p>
      <p> Wednesday, October 14: 2:00 p.m. eastern/11:00 a.m. Pacific.   </p>
      <p>       Can't make the call? Sign up anyway, and you'll get the recording.</p></div>
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        <title>3 Things Make the Biggest Difference in Moving Your Writing Forward</title>
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        <summary>As writers, we all want to continuously be moving along in our goals. Think of it as a river. A river constantly flows. There may be places where it looks very calm and barely moving, but if you look close...</summary>
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<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">As writers, we all want to continuously be moving along in our goals. Think of it as a river. A river constantly flows. There may be places where it looks very calm and barely moving, but if you look close enough, you'll see a current.
    <p>At times, your project feels like it's a rushing river; other times, it's trickling along like a small stream. </p>
    <p>We have to manage our energy, time, and resources in both places - and everything in between - along the project spectrum. It's easy to get caught up in your own writing and let it pull you along. The problem with that, though, is that when the torrent is done, you may feel as if you've been deserted. And that can lead to self-doubt. "What's wrong with me? Yesterday, I cranked out 5000 words! Why can't I write anything today?" And that leads further to "Oh, maybe this is an awful idea, and I should stop." Or "No one is going to read this. Who the heck do I think I am?"</p>
    <p>If we find ourselves in the slow and steady part of the meandering writing river, we may question if we're ever going to get there. It seems as if everyone else you know is passing you by, full steam ahead. </p>
    <p>Here's the thing... life, business, writing, you name it... is a cycle. We have our high energy states, and that's followed by a low energy state. We have our low energy states, and that's followed by a high energy state. What can confuse it even further is when our creative energy doesn't match our physical energy. Then we're even more frustrated because we have all these ideas without the physical ability to put them into play. Or, worse in my opinion, plenty of energy and not one creative idea in sight. </p>
    <p>What's the key to managing your writing project, without getting caught up in the negative mind chatter, and keep it sailing along? Three things... Kindness, small steps, and celebrations.</p>
    <p>First, recognize that there are cycles. BE in those cycles. Feel the gift that they bring. If you're moaning that you have all these ideas, but you're exhausted from a 10-day business trip and can't possibly write a word, understand that you need rest and rejuvenation. The physical energy will come later. Capture the ideas so that you don't lose them, and know you'll come back to them when your physical energy is more in alignment with your creative energy.</p>
    <p>Part of that recognition means being kind and understanding - to yourself. Most of us fall down in that area. We have such high expectations of ourselves, and we think we should be writing books, running businesses, raising kids, cooking healthy, gorgeous meals, training for a marathon, going to spinning class, volunteering in the PTA... Um, no. </p>
    <p>Imagine that you're talking to a friend who's being awfully hard on herself. What would you say to her? Now turn that kindness and compassion inward.</p>
    <p>Next, nobody ever writes "Write my book" on their to-do list on Monday and then crosses it off on Friday. It just doesn't happen. Break down your writing project into as many small steps as you can think of. Your steps should be as concrete as find two competing books, research statistics on fuel usage in New York City from 1950 - 1990, brainstorm chapter titles, write the introduction. Put each step on an index card. Then put the cards in order. Take the top three, and that becomes your current to-do list for this project. </p>
    <p>Finally, and this is the important part that almost everyone misses... When you complete one of those action steps, celebrate it. Give yourself a pat on the back. Call your staunchest supporter and crow!!! Cross it off the list with glee. Put a gold star on that index card. Truly let it sink in that you're making strides in this project. </p>
    <p>Following these three steps will keep you moving, and eventually, you'll get to your destination.</p></div>
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