You need to put your mind into it, as to much
talking will dampen your moment, talk to him by all means but make sure its
about you both and how you are both making each other feel. In order to make it
pleasurable for him a good hand job should have rhythm start slowly and the
steadily increase your pace, don’t vary your speed by speeding up and then
slowing down for no apparent reason and make sure you continue till it is over.
Keep a good grip as this shows you are interested lack of enthusiasm would be a
bad thing and would cause problems for the both of you.

One thing to remember when giving a good hand
job is to vary your hand motions here are a few techniques to help you out that
are well known.

Switch Hitter- This is using both hands
alternating back and forth to find a pattern that supplies him with most
pleasure.
Double Whammy- Bring both well lubricated hands down the
shaft, some penis’s require both hands but if not use the other hand to lightly
tickle his testicles, you can also vary the direction of your hands one up and
one down there’s no doubt two hands are better than one.
Shuttle Cock-
This is not very well known although is the best technique for a good hand job
take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft,
now flick the penis back and forth between your hands holding the loose skin of
the shaft, it may not seem like it is very appealing to him at first but give it
time and it will soon start to arouse him. Orgasms achieved by this method can
sometimes be very messy but will always be remembered.

These are just a few techniques for you to try,
however a good hand job is really down to what you and your partner feel
comfortable with.

For that added extra spice use a Butt Plug or Anal beads whilst giving your man a good hand job.

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And the greatest thing about the Tenga Egg is that it can double as
a toy for your woman as well. Some couples have found it to be a
great addition to their bedroom play together. They turn it inside
out and place it over her favourite clit massager or dildo to
enhance her stimulation and senses.

The Tenga Eggs could be used for an Adult Easter Egg Hunt. You
women could hide them in a special place and when it’s found then
participate with him as he opens it up. Let him give you a
self-pleasuring show as you spread your legs open in front of him
and pleasure yourself. Alternatively, you could open the egg and
make the breakfast for him. Have fun.

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Foreplay is often understood as the set of activities done before
actual intercourse. The typical menu includes kissing, caressing,
getting & giving head, touching, groping, hugging, fingering etc.
Men feel like dogs if they don’t engage in it, and they’ve heard or
read somewhere that plenty of it makes them a great lay ­ so they
sign up. Foreplay makes gentlemen out of horny boys.

Doesn’t matter if you’re a newbie or an expert, foreplay works like
a charm ­ definitely gets Eve going.

Why? You wonder why? BECAUSE IT LARGELY EMBODIES WHAT WOMEN,
THE XX GENDER, ARE ALL ABOUT.

They want it far, far more than any other part of the program, yes,
even penetration. Not only because they need extra tricks to heat
up, but because it is in foreplay that their physical and emotional
needs are met.

She wants to feel needed, wanted and appreciated. Kissing,
caressing and gazing into her eyes accomplish exactly that. It
makes her gasp, Wow, he thinks more of me than just a vagina on
heels!

It’s the most personal part of the act, and probably the only time
her presence is being fully recognized. (Because when the pumping
begins, men often fly off to their own worlds and forget about
their partners.)

But foreplay geniously bridges the emotional and the physical. To
her, it captures the essence of the phrase: Being with a man. And
something very interesting happens during foreplay. Eve not only
senses the touch, the physical connection, but the emotional
underpinnings as well.

For example, when you kiss her, she doesn’t just feel the lips
touching, she relishes the emotional bond. (This connection is what
women fuss about.)

In addition to this, foreplay is especially designed for the
senses. The sensual bombardment is so remarkable, and the potential
for pleasure so high, that it rivals the ecstasy of an orgasm.

Being multi-sensory, significantly fascinated by process and
details, women relish every drop of the stuff going on. The smell
of candles, the sound of lip-locks, the caress of your fingers, the
slow and steady build-up of sexual heat ­ women are a sucker for
these.

Not that sensual bliss is solely found in foreplay, but tastefully
done, Foreplay can be like one long orgasm.

Really! One… long… lasting. . .climax! The Grossly Underplayed
Card

In a committed relationship, there are certain physical accesses
and privileges that only YOU, her partner, can avail of.

Foreplay is one.

No one else is licensed to connect with her in the manner that you
are encouraged to. Not even her long time girlfriend can do that to
her body, as society limits them to hugs & kisses. Only you are
tolerated to caress her breasts, lick her body or slip your
fingers…without a lawsuit. Nobody else has that PRIVILEGE of
ravishing and indulging her.

Only you. Hands, tongue, any part of you, can mesh with hers…
without apologies… without
restraint.

Unfortunately, this is an underused card. Men take foreplay for
granted, not understanding their total franchise of her body,
mistaking kisses and caresses as means to an end.

The irony, is that out of the many uncontrollable emotional forces
operating inside your woman’s body, one of the most potent is the
yearning to be kissed & touched. She’s dying to be kissed and
craving to be touched. She wants the warmth of another person. In a
committed relationship, the source of all that (and more), is YOU.
The only one who can fill such an unimaginable need.

Think about that for a moment.

Why Is It Easier To Suck At Foreplay?

As I’ve said, foreplay works, it doesn’t matter whether you’re a
newbie or expert, you can get a woman going. But when a
well-intentioned guy fumbles, it’s not necessarily because he’s a
jerk or that he fundamentally sucks. He’s probably still getting
the hang of it.

Guys don’t have socially acceptable avenues to practice foreplay…
except in the act itself. Both practice and the real thing happen
at the same time and if you don’t make-out or get laid, you don’t
get practice.

Compare that to Eve’s world where they’ve been hugging and kissing
since they were kids, where touching marks the affairs of women.

Moreover, foreplay involves a lot of being in the moment. Which,
again, the goal-oriented fellows don’t do. We don’t ruminate, we’re
always on the move, always making things happen, changing the
world. The slow and steady build up that women like goes against
every force of habit. We don’t even know what the heck being in the
moment really means.

When guys operate as if sex involves paper work or deadlines, they
may do their darn best, but they will still suck if they don’t stop
acting as if they’re at the office.

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Men use cock rings with partners and/or by themselves. Some are actual rings as their name suggests, made of metal or rubber. Since these cock rings are not adjustable, the right size needs to be chosen for a proper fit. For example, one that fits too tightly could be hard to remove and could cut off circulation in the penis entirely. Metal rings can cause a rash or other skin reactions in some men, so this is something to consider when shopping around. Adjustable cock rings made of rawhide or leather straps are easier for beginners to use since the fit can be changed, and taking them off is more manageable. Avoid using cock ring substitutes; rubber bands, binder clips, and vices, for example, cause too much constriction.

Cock rings fit over the shaft and the testicles/scrotum when a man is not erect. Ball by ball, the testicles go through, then the penis shaft dives in head first through the remaining ring space. The ideal cock ring stays in place when the penis is soft, yet it can fairly easily slip off or unsnap when the penis is hard. Lube can be added to make putting rings on and taking them off a little easier, something that works for finger and toe rings, too.

Adult-oriented stores with genital jewelry departments sometimes have fitting rooms where you can try on merchandise. If you’re into advanced planning, you, or your partner, can measure your penile girth, or approximate how many of your fingers bunched together equal the thickness of their fleshy friend. The flexibility of rubber and other elasticized cock rings allows a greater range of fit for more differently endowed men, but they are not one-size-fits-all.

For safety and pleasure, a cock ring needs to increase the size of the erection only slightly. If you notice more pronounced swelling, then the fit is too tight. In that case, take the cock ring off immediately. It’s also vital for men to take off their cock ring at the first sign of pain or if the genitals feel cold. In addition, it’s dangerous to leave a ring on for too long, including wearing one to sleep when spontaneous erections are all the rage. An erection of several hours can cause blood coagulation in the penis, making it difficult to lose the erection. This is called priapism, a prolonged erection. Since new blood cannot enter the penis, this can be severely painful and cause permanent damage to the erectile tissue. If this happens to you, seek medical attention as soon as possible, and don’t worry the staff at the ER has seen this before.

Another place you might want to forgo a cock ring around your penis is the airport. In these high-security times, metal detectors will catch some of these penis-erectors that are tricky to explain and/or remove for closer inspection.

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You and your mother-in-law are in the kitchen, preparing dinner. Suddenly your five-year-old walks in, waving your Rabbit. “Mommy,” she says, “can I borrow your toy?”

What would you have do? One option is to grab it and say, “Oh, so there’s my hand mixer” and proceed to use it to make scrambled eggs. A smarter one is to make sure it never happens at all.

While there’s no shame in enjoying sex and using a few accessories in the process (busy mums need all the convenience products they can get), you’ve got to keep them away from the prying eyes and hands of your children. Don’t leave it in the bathroom. Don’t prop it on your bedside table. And even if you put it in a drawer, unless it’s got a thick lock, you can assume that they’re going to find it. Remember, these kids can easily twist open a bottle of prescription medicine, despite a full team of product designers who’ve worked to make the darn thing “child proof”. What chance does your bathroom cabinet have?

For smaller sex toys, you can keep them in locked drawers dedicated solely for your “private stuff” (including birth control, the tape from that night your husband was “fooling around” with the video camera, and your whips and chains.

Remember, though, that extreme temperatures can damage or lower the efficiency of some sex toys and contraceptives like condoms. You’ll also want to guard against mould and mildew: its dark in those cabinets, and if you live somewhere with high moisture, you’ll find that while the kids can’t find it, the bacteria will. Nothing lowers libido faster than seeing a vibrator covered in green fuzz.

The best thing to do is to keep one of those moisture-absorbent sachets in the drawer, or if you can’t find that, a small container of baking soda. Always clean your sex toys after use, and dry them properly with a clean towel.

For lingerie, g-strings, knee-high boots, or even your French maid’s uniform, you may need other storage options. Delicate lingerie is best stored in boxes with tissue inside (place them on high shelves). You can place the other items in a bigger box, or hang them in a zippered garment bag. You may want to invest in installing a lock on your clothes cabinet—you’ll need one to protect your jewellery against thieves, anyway.

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