nurul izzatie

Just us.

2014-12-13T19:28:00.001+08:00

I met him 3 years back. We were working at the same place. I was a customer service and he was a team leader n soon after that promoted to manager. (Now we both working in different places)

He is a very shy person and charming in his own way. I love stalking him. Whenever he walked in front of me or beside me or even behind me, my head turns 360 just to look at him. *giggles*

I would helped him and he too. Then we became close to the point where people asked me where is he and people would asked him the same question, "Where's nurul?" The next thing we both realised, we're lovers in a serious relationship.

I have to admit, it's not always a shiny bright day. We had our ups and downs. We had our arguments and differences. We had our obstacles. We had so many breakups and dramas in our life.

And one thing I'm grateful for is that despite our differences, arguments and breakups, we managed to find a way to stick together. We managed to go through almost everything together. We're like a magnet. Put us far away, there's always a way, or I would say, HIS way of putting us back together.

He's different. He's worth fighting for. He took my breath away. He took my heart away. His patience with me and his responsibilities with his family makes me fall deeper. I can't breath.. Heeeeelp! Hahaha. Yes, he has his own flaws. Who doesn't? He is still the guy that has the key to my heart.

Even I annoys him a lot, even I always pissed him off, even I have so many 'karenah', he is still here by my side.

I met him 3 years back and I fell deeper everyday. 3 years and still counting. I'm grateful I met him. Thanks Allah.

"I want to touch a dog!"

2014-10-20T17:31:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum w.t.b..

Mungkin coretan kali ini akan mengundang spekulasi / pandangan hina dan negatif segelintir pembaca but then again, bear in mind that this is just a humble opinion.

"I want to touch a dog!" merupakan satu acara yang dijalankan selama 2 jam di Central Park, Damansara. Acara berlansung dengan pendedahan mengenai cara sentuh dan samak/sertu anjing dalam konteks Islam dan memberi peluang untuk pengunjung mengatasi masalah takut dengan anjing.

Dalam Islam pun tak suruh kita membenci anjing. Malah anjing dibenarkan untuk pegang sekiranya perlu atau dalam erti kata lain, sekiranya bersentuhanan dengan anjing tetapi perlu disamak sekiranya terkena sebarang anggota badan anjing yang basah.

Saya tak lah hebat. Memang banyak khilaf. Maka, disini saya sertakan beberapa video ceramah dari ustaz-ustaz yang saya kerap tengok. Dan ini antara ilmu yang mereka sampaikan khas untuk hukum sentuh/bela anjing dalam Islam.

Prof Madya Dr Mohd Asri Zainul Abidin

Ustaz Rasul Dahri

Ustaz Azhar Idrus

Ni semua ilmu untuk kita renungkan. Saya tak cakap sila lah pegang mana-mana anjing yang anda jumpa lepas ni. Tapi saya nak kongsi ilmu tentang konteks anjing dalam Islam. Ya betul, saya tak lah alim dan penuh ilmu didada. Tetapi tak salah kita kongsi ilmu sesama kita kan? :)

sumber: The Malaysian Insider

I don't think that event was to challenge the authorities, religion department or even anyone. Ianya sekadar untuk memberi kesedaran dan ilmu. Ada yang kata mencabar agama Islam, Rasulullah s.a.w, Allah s.w.t dan juga Imam Shafi'i.. *mintak dijauhkan*

Tapi jom kita baca dan renungkan kata-kata Imam Shafi'i:

“Setiap orang boleh mengingati sesuatu riwayat dan boleh pula melupakannya. Adapun pendapat yang kami cetuskan atau kami dedahkan sumbernya tetapi berlawanan dengan apa yang berasal daripada Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam maka yang benar adalah apa yang berasal daripada Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, dan itulah pendapatku.”

“Apabila kamu mendapati di dalam kitabku sesuatu yang bercanggah dengan Sunnah Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, maka berkatalah kamu dengan Sunnah Rasulullah sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam dan tinggalkanlah apa yang aku kata.”

Dan dalam riwayat lain: “Maka ikutlah ia (Sunnah Nabi) dan janganlah kamu berpaling-paling kepada perkataan seseorang yang lain.”

“Apabila sahih sesuatu hadis maka itulah mazhabku.”

See, Imam Shafi'i sendiri pun meletakkan kedudukan hadis Nabi lebih tinggi dari kedudukannya.

In my opinion, niat penganjur tu baik untuk memberi kesedaran kepada semua umat Islam. Ada yang kata niat tidak menghalalkan cara. Betul.. Tapi siapa lah kita untuk kata apa dia buat tu haram sedangkan Allah lebih mengetahui.

If I've been given a chance, I might go because I want to overcome my fear on dogs (sebab pernah kena kejar masa kecik), learn how to deal with dogs and also how to "samak".

Saya mungkin kena hentam/kutuk untuk entri kali ni but then again, this is just my humble opinion.

Saya minta maaf sekiranya ianya menyinggung mana-mana pihak.

Why do you have to be sarcastic?

2014-03-10T10:36:00.000+08:00

Seriously, I don't get it. Why?

WHY?

Pernah terfikir tak perasaan orang yang awak semua perli tu? Pernah?

Kalau tak pernah, nak kena perli ke? Nak kena setempek dekat muka? Nak rasa macam mana kena perli kasar menusuk jantung?

Kalau pernah, kenapa perli orang lain pula? Saja nak bagi rasa apa yang awak semua pernah rasa, dekat orang lain?

Maybe you are being sarcastic to others just to make them feel what you have felt before, or being sarcastic is just one of the ways for you to have fun. Either way, I'm going to tell you that it will never end and world will never be a better place for all of us, ever.

I don't like it. I really don't. I don't like it when I see people being sarcastic to others, let alone me doing it to others. *sigh*

Contoh:

"Hai, asyik pakai sleeveless dan short pants je kalau keluar. Macam lahh panas sangat dunia ni kan?" kata si Fina kepada Nani sambil didengari oleh Lisa yang berjalan melepasi mereka. **Ayat perli yang ditujukan indirectly kepada Lisa.

Eh kejap, faham tak contoh tu? Haha. Kira Fina nak perli Lisa tentang pemakaiannya tetapi disuarakan kepada Nani instead of Lisa lah.

If you don't like anything about another person, tell it straight or point it out amicably. In other words, in a nice way.

Kalau perli kasar menusuk jantung sampai menjatuhkan maruah dan perasaan orang lain dan mengumpat depan-depan, dah berapa dosa dah tu. *sigh, again*

Telling it straight to the point even though it might hurts that person; and being sarcastic to embarrass and bring that person down, are two different things.

They're cute!

2014-02-25T14:16:00.003+08:00

I love seeing old people in love and holding hands,

they prove that you really can love someone

for the rest of your life and be together,

forever.

I wish me and my future husband will be like this, InsyaAllah :)

Love Compatibility Horoscope

2014-02-17T11:39:00.000+08:00

Courageous, ambitious Earth signs, Taurus and Capricorn seem to be made for each other. Both value financial success and share a love of beauty, of lasting, classical foundations. Capricorn's irony charms the Bull, while the latter's expert sensuality rescues the Capricorn from his or her natural modesty. They enjoy talking together, and communication is excellent. They confide in each other, promising never to offend or betray the other. This could be a perfect couple.

awww :')

**Note : This is not 100% true, cannot be trusted. Lari jauh akidah nanti. But yeah, for fun boleh lah.

Dear Readers,

2014-02-11T10:07:00.003+08:00

Life is like a wheel, sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down.

Remember that each and everytime you're down, it's not the end of life.

Things will get back up again. Maybe not now, but sooner or later it will. :)

Have a GREAT day!

Cuteness overload !

2014-01-30T17:20:00.003+08:00

Hi.

2014-01-03T11:23:00.002+08:00

For the past 10 minutes I have been in front of my laptop, and was blur do not know what to write. Suddenly it hits me, whether my earning salary is enough? Is your salary enough for you? Do you feel satisfied with the amount of salary you are earning now? If you do, good for you. If you are not, why?

I'm not.

I don't have to pay for house and car since I'm staying with my family. I'm not married let alone have children. So basically every month all I have to pay is my phone bills, education loan, give some amount to my parents and what else? Oh, touch 'n' go toll as well. Other than that, minus plus here and there, I still have some amount to save. So why is it that I don't feel that my salary is enough?

Tell you what,

I won't have enough money to spend. For things I like such as money to travel, to shopping, and to do what ever I want without even have to think twice! Gosh I wish. You wish too, right?

I've been thinking of having my own business for quite some time now. But I do not know which line/industry to go in or what kind of business that will help me to succeed. I need your help. Any idea, fellas?

Dah kena mula berfikir untuk masa hadapan. Senang hidup anak-anak nanti. HAHA!

You should too, readers.

*Being grateful and moving forward is two different things.

From The Rib of Man

2013-11-11T16:57:00.002+08:00

Woman was made from the rib of man,

She was not created from his head to top him,

nor from his feet to be stepped upon,

She was made from his side to be close to him,

From beneath his arm to be protected by him,

Near his heart to be loved by him.

Stop bully. Spread love.

2013-11-01T12:32:00.002+08:00

Dear brothers and sisters, stop bullying. Spread love, share it with others.

Let's start this month with a positive vibes.. continuously.

My privacy is a really BIG THING for me.

2013-10-30T17:19:00.001+08:00

For some, it might be some kind of a nice feeling if they have hundreds and thousands of followers. If tak, mula nak rasa insecure. Different person has different view, kan? Tak salah pun. Pandai-pandailah accept the pros and cons. Indeed, there's nothing wrong with having so many friends/followers.

For me, I can't. To whom I want to share my daily schedule/pictures with, it is I who decide. cewah. No, seriously. I don't mind having only 50 friends/followers in my social networks page as long as I know you and I don't mind sharing it with you.

To my parents', my sisters', my brothers', and even my cousins' friends, if I didn't approve you in any of my social networks page, tolonglah jangan terasa. Maaf banyak-banyak.

It's just that,

My personal life, my family and my friends are not some kind of a display item where random anonymous people can judge and comment as they want.

Have a great day! :)

-_-"

2013-09-05T12:31:00.003+08:00

I don't get it. Why people tend to be sarcastic like, "takpe menteri banyak duit dia bayar, kite miskin naik basikal je". What the h-e-l-l is wrong with you people? Menteri won't even read your status in facebook. Really they WON'T. Unless you have thousands of followers. If you don't, you are wasting your time. Trust me.

Bear in mind, not everybody think like how you think, like what you like and support what you support. Please use other medium so that your voice and thought can be heard. Doesn't matter opposition or government, don't use harsh words.

If you don't like sarcasm, so does others.

2013-08-26T01:15:00.001+08:00

Things are good now. Thank you Allah. Thank you for everything. :)

She is beautiful

2013-08-22T10:36:00.000+08:00

Today is a story telling

of a girl who has everything.

She is what they said

beauty with brain.

HE decides everything that happen
for it has its own reason.

---

A mistake of a drunk man
changed the whole life of a woman
as she was sixty percent -- burnt
in a car accident.

They said it's justice as he was jailed for seven years
but is it justice as she is still alive?
suffering like hell -- fifty surgeries -- face like an alien
trying to survive as each day passes

One day a mother met her -- drunk man's mother.
Without hesitated she held that poor girl in her arm
a warm hug as from a mother to a daughter

With tears in her eyes, she apologize for her son's mistake
as he also felt terrible every single day in jail -- for his stupid mistake
for that, they pray for her happiness.

With calm -- no anger in her eyes
she forgives him without asking why.
She forgives a man who made her lost everything -- her face -- her life
without asking for anything -- at all.

oh -- what a beautiful tough girl

It is true what they said

beauty lies inside definitely will appears outside.

So now ask yourself,

"Am I beautiful enough?"

-nurulizzatie

jacqueline saburido

Two.

2013-08-21T16:36:00.000+08:00

In order to learn, we have to experience.

In order to rise, we have to fall.

In order to take, we have to give.

In order to success, we have to suffer

because --

You will never know the ending,

If you don't have the beginning.

-nurulizzatie

2013-07-31T16:29:00.000+08:00

2013-07-31T11:33:00.001+08:00

The more i know about social networks, the more I don't like it.

The more I don't like what I'm turning into.

Fullstop.

Quote #4

2013-07-30T09:16:00.000+08:00

When you arise in the morning, give thanks for the morning light, for your life and strength.

Give thanks for your food and the joy of living.

If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies within yourself.

- Tecumseh (1768-1813)

So, thank you for reading this blog. :)

i miss old times

2013-07-25T10:17:00.000+08:00

I do.

What I miss is the word for today,

COMMUNICATION

A person i know very well taught me this word. Not the definition but the meaning; on how important communication is. If you are reading this, thank you.

I miss those days when there is no friendster, myspace, tagged, facebook, or any other social networks.

This is because nowadays everybody seems to be comfortable expressing what they feel towards others; on social networks.

Somehow communication seems no longer relevant where instead of confronting just among you and your friends or family, you chose to expose to public where everybody can see your problems. Everybody can comment and judge.

As if it is okay to be judged by judgmental people; as long as you express your thoughts. *sigh*

I admit that there are few good things on social networking where you can find new friends, love, old mates and etc.

But having people fights over and over again even though it has nothing to do with you is so not good, like spreading rumors.

Relationship ends, husband and wife cheated, brothers sisters and bestfriends fought.

Trust gone, doubts everywhere, lies here and there.

I feel so sad.

At least I know my privacy and boundaries on what to be shared and what not. For me, you can't simply come into my life and judge those I love.

Enough said, I miss old times.

Word of the day

2013-07-05T18:04:00.001+08:00

HOPE.

Stop for a minute, take a deep breath, and look back at your life. Look back for all the things that worries you, holding you back, bringing you down, and scares you.

There are so much about this life, well.. our life to be exact, that we are afraid of. "Can I accomplish this?", "I'm getting fat..how to lose weight?", "How to make people like me?", "How to live life to the fullest?", "Will I found the right person?", "What would people think about me?", "How much will I earn?" aaaaannndd the questions go on and on and on.

The thing is, there are many things that we worry and feel insecure. Sometimes, some people hide their insecurities by pointing out other people's fault or flaws. Pleeeaasee.. stop it! Not just it shows more of your insecurities but also bring people down. uh-uh.

Like you, I have my own insecurities and questions that sometimes caused me to feel really down, and cried at night until I fell asleep. I know you do to. Angry about things at home, other people's attitude, life and other stuffs. Some even try to commit suicide because they give up on life.

But stop right there.

I want to share a video. An inspirational video. After watching it, I was like "How pathetic I am worrying about simple things when other people are making their circumstances into something that would light up others"

It's about Nicholas James Vujicic, a guy born with no arms and legs yet he has became a guy with full of inspiration to others.

The short version.

The long version.

I hope this entry will give you new perspective on life and gives you hope to find the best in you. Life is short. Spread peace and love, give more but expect less.

"You can either be angry for what you don't have

or be thankful for what you do have.

Do your best and God will do the rest"

- Nick Vujicic, a guy born with no arms and legs.

What is love for you?

2013-06-22T20:51:00.001+08:00

Love is when you don't have a specific reason on why you fell for that one special person. You really don't have "one good reason" because you love everything about that person. Every single thing. That you can just share everything; your favorite food (where you normally don't share it with others), even your toothbrush and you don't find it disgusting to share it with.

A person who will irritates you, annoys you, make fun of you, and calls you with thousands of names yet you find it funny and lovely.

A special 'nervous-with-butterflies-in-stomach' feeling where it comes naturally without you forcing it.

A feeling like home when you with that special one. Where you can just sit down and do nothing, and still time flies fast.

Love is also when you know that person has so many flaws, yet you still love him/her unconditionally, that makes you willing to go through every obstacles, every pain.

The real feeling where it just doesn't "go away" easily.

That is love. At least for me.

A broken glass

2013-06-09T14:01:00.001+08:00

the glass has broken.

the fingers are full with cuts,
trying to fix,

a broken glass.

-nurulizzatie

Distance

2013-06-07T19:00:00.001+08:00

and i keep waiting,
for you to take me.
and you keep waiting,
to save what we have.

so i'll make sure to keep my distance.

- Christina Perri

2013-05-26T21:48:00.001+08:00

I'm drowning inside for tears that won't come out.

Believe

2013-04-02T20:36:00.001+08:00

Good things come to those who wait,
Better things come to those who try,
Best things come to those who pray.

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