yier20-我是拉子，拉子加油！

Dear GranMa..

2018-01-08T00:01:00.000+08:00

Dear Grandma,

How are you? How's heaven?

I miss you dearly.

It has been more than 5 months since you passed away.
I finally managed to pull myself together and write a few words.

It was a rather chilly day, incessant rain.
You were laying peacefully in the coffin, I bowed and paid my last respect to you.

It shook me up inside, this would be our goodbye forever.

My girlfriend was there to show her last respect to you.
The whole family didn't know that she is my girlfriend.
If you knew, would you give me your blessing?

You finally reunited with Granpa. The love of your life.

May you rest in peace.

You will be forever missed and never forgotten.

See you in Heaven.

作為同性戀必須知道的事

2016-07-23T10:02:00.002+08:00

觉得这篇文章的内容很实在的形容同志(虽然是比较说男同志，但也符合女同志）该注意的事于是转载了。图像&文章摘自作為同性戀必須知道的事

1
愛情不可能成為你身處絕境的救命稻草。經常錦上添花，極少雪中送炭。愛情很重要，但它不是生活的全部。作為一個男人，你必須要努力，讓自己活得更有尊嚴，你必須要有能夠讓自己雙腳堅強站立在大地的東西。沒有這些，甚至是你都不能養活自己，你很難幸福。別指望你能被某個高富帥又癡心又霸道總裁的人看上，然後在他的幫助下，學業事業上升，走向人生巔峰。年少時候我們當然渴望愛情，因為貪戀愛情的美好而忽略了現實的殘酷，而放慢了自己奮斗的腳步。一晌貪歡，接下來就是生活中無盡且瑣碎的折磨。

2 性取向只是我們身上的一個標簽。除此之外，我們就是個平常的人。所以，身為同志，沒有什麼可自卑的，也沒有什麼可驕傲的。不要因為自己是同志就遠離人群。不要因為家人暫時的不能接納就忘記了所有的親情，埋怨他們不為我們著想。除非他們做的太過火，或者矛盾無法調和，否則我們都要盡力盡到我們的責任。更不要不顧一切地遠走高飛。孑然一身固然聽起來不錯，兩個人的二人世界聽起來似乎也不錯但沒有家庭，沒有朋友，也沒有孩子，全靠愛情來支撐余生的時光。我不知道這樣會怎樣，但我更愿意用其他的方式來分擔愛情的擔子，讓它不要那麼累，讓它能更長久的服役。

3 不要看中處子之身，但不要亂，不要隨意約炮，哪怕你情不自禁，一定要戴套。對自己負責，對伴侶忠誠。要學會擔當。同志之間的愛情沒有婚姻，法律，社會的約束，往往會更不穩定。遇到真正合適的，要珍惜。不要圖一時爽快就失去了一直真心陪伴你的人。

6 外貌在圈子里很重要。如果不能改變外貌，至少努力提升氣質。不要自己很懶很饞，不愿健身護膚。被人看不上，然後就埋怨這是個靠臉的時代，人心浮躁，自己生不逢時等等。沒有人愿意聽你嘮叨，也沒有誰有義務透過你不加修繕的外表發現你金子般善良的內心。有時候，我也知道，人對外貌很無奈，因為五官臉型身高就在那。不過，你可以改變你的身材，你可以提升你的氣質，你可增加你的才華，你可以豐富自己的談吐。

文章摘自作為同性戀必須知道的事

Pretty "Woman"

2015-07-02T19:45:00.002+08:00

It was a nice Thailand trip. :)

US Supreme Court Ruling Makes Same-Sex Marriage a Right Nationwide!

2015-06-27T17:42:00.001+08:00

Today is THE DAY! Great News!

Finally USA makes same sex marriage official nationwide!

Australia - Sydney - Miscellaneous

2015-03-22T23:55:00.000+08:00

Due to allergy, I actually cant eat seafood(other than fish). Still, it is too tempting, finally I ate its leg!

4 legs cost $40 AUS

View from my accommodation at Sydney

Ta da~ The Sydney Harbour Bridge

Well known Sydney Opera house, after tried out at Youtube, I decided is not my thing, still prefer broadway!

There was a fire alarm incident( a minor fire) before I entered the place and enjoyed ma dinner. What a dramatic dinner

I love their fish market, seafood (abalon, oyster and etc) are freaking cheap!

Cheaper than Malaysia lol!

Allergy V.S Temptation

Ah, I just love dessert more than anything!

Cruising~

One of my favourite food in Australia( besides the seafood)~

I must said No Fish and Chip can be nicer than UK's...

Victoria Library, I love the old design.

Australia Gay Parade

2015-03-22T00:00:00.000+08:00

* For a very clear view, you can go setting to select "1080p"

~~I yet to have time to write down my thoughts about Gay Parade at Sydney. I will have to find time later to do this :)~~

24June 2015

It was crowded, I was walking down the street with my gf. The cheers was so loud that I could feel my eardrum hurting. The expression on the performers were so lively, I could sense their soul rejoicing wildly. Performance after performance, they dance so freely, they sang with their soul, they were so wonderful.

For a moment, I felt I set my foot in the heaven. I walked into a world of my same kind. I don't need to disguise myself like I used to do, For a moment, it won't be awkward to walk on the street and kiss her. For one moment like this, although it was short, I have waited for long.

那个因音乐而不自禁摇晃的你

2014-12-04T23:02:00.001+08:00

亲爱的，

这些日子，在你身边，看见你指间弹奏音乐时的快乐。

因美丽乐符而不自禁摇晃的你，这是我从来没有看见过的你。

记得你曾经在睡前问我你该不该参加这个笛子班，我鼓励你去。

如果是些许年前的我，我可能会叫你专心的做你的事业。

因为以前的我心里终究会担心不够钱就没有好的生活。

亲爱的，随着这些年的物事人非，我明白人生是一个一去不复返的旅程。

钱是很重要，但是有些事物比钱更重要的事，就是那些令你感动的事。

亲爱的，要竭力追求那能点燃你激情的事物。

就如当时的我追求你一样。

期待着你弹指间奏出的美好。:)

爱你，

翼儿

晨之美

2013-03-20T21:56:00.000+08:00

亲爱的,

一碟早餐,一粒番茄,双簧蛋,两条香肠,,四片面包

,一粒一粒连绵的红豆,还有好多好多的冬菇.

这是我们的英式早餐:)

你坐在我的身边, 时而微笑时而聊天,时而一口一口的吃美味的早餐.

亲爱的,能感受到晨之美,因你美妙的相伴.

就这样的过着每一天,多好

翼儿

Dear,

Our breakfast- a tomato, the double eggs, two sausages, four slices of bread,

red beans and lots of mushrooms.

This is our English breakfast :)

You sit beside me, smiling and chatty. A mouthful of delicious breakfast.

A beautiful morning because of your wonderful companions.

What a wonderful life,

Yi Er

你不知道的事

2011-11-10T21:48:00.000+08:00

亲爱的，

深夜，从抵达美国华盛顿DC的一刻忙碌到现在可以安静的给你写封信。

要飞离你 17010.50公里，于我在心里是困难的。亲爱的，美国是一个人人称羡的天堂，而我此刻要不是因为公事，我是决不愿意离开你一步的。你从来不知道那看似潇洒的我，离开你的举步艰辛。

这些日子忙工事和出外公干，忙的昏天昏地，每每我深夜11或12点才回家见你，你偶有生气因我太忙碌而没有办法多陪伴你。

亲爱的，这点我对你是愧疚的。那看似思想开放的我，其实是一个非常传统的人。
亲爱的，我那么努力是我渴望你和我在一起能很幸福，我们能有很好的未来。

是的，无论我看上去是多么潇洒，其实我在这一点上，终究有我的执著。

看着夜空，想想虽然我有时会因为个人的傲气而说，遇到我你运气好。经过了那么多人事人非，我深知, 亲爱的，遇见你是我的运气，我要好好的爱你。

You know, whenever I see you coming, my heart will always smile "that's her, the girl that hold my heart forever"

爱你，
翼儿

True Gay Story-"Prayer for Bobby"-Especially for Christian Family

2010-07-18T18:10:00.001+08:00

Dear all,

This film is recommended by Kaye. I watched it before & cried, I think it is very inspiring especially those from Christian family that struggle so much due to family take gay as a great sin. Would love to share it here.

Thanks Kaye for sharing with us such great firm. May God bless us all.

Trailer of "Prayers for Bobby"

The speech given by Bobby's mother after his death.

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Message from Kaye:

"You guys got to watch this new movie called 'Prayers for Bobby'. It's based on a true story, very real & meaningful and really touching. The speech given by Bobby's mother (the clip was named 'A child is listening') can just make you cry. I cried during watching the clip."

Funny~翼儿无聊事迹之好笑升级篇

2010-07-10T16:51:00.003+08:00

http://cutepuppydog.net/wallpapers/funny_chihuahua.html

Long time din't share some story here. It's Saturday, so let's get abit of fun here~

My niece is 6 years old now and her cunning level is increasing.

Early in the morning(everday) my niece must wash buttok, she say yes but her Daddy saw no water on the floor so scold her.

What happen next?

Next day she splash water on the floor ....BUT... her Daddy check and her buttok is still.. dry.

Story ends.

Shake head... My dear niece is getting cunning nowadays, but I think"哎哟，真好玩~“

我依旧为你疯狂

2010-06-07T22:15:00.001+08:00

Dear,

早安~

周一工作天终于结束。惦记你，每一分每一秒，无论是我在桌上埋首工作，还是聆听着好玩的音乐。

前往家的脚步悄然，迎面笑声，是我的外婆和阿姨因聚首的欢笑声。我多期盼开门迎来的是你。

我们的距离，成了我生命难以承受的重。

然而也因这片片刻刻的等待，深刻了我对你的爱。

亲爱的，一年呼啸而过，我依旧为你疯狂，你成了我生命永恒的爱的诗歌，这份爱永流不息。

我深爱你，

翼儿

你在爱人记忆里是如何的呢 - 跨时代

2010-05-23T18:13:00.002+08:00

"我在我的爱人记忆里是如何的呢？"我常猜想。

我想我一直渴望在我的所爱的人记忆里我是可以跨世代的-寓意永恒的。

爱上周杰伦是好几年的事了。他刚出的专辑-跨时代，我迫不及待的定购！RM89 值得，aww，新鲜的专辑~

刚到手的周杰伦精装专辑！万岁！

CD+DVD+ 九个徽章（专辑），好有纪念价值~

我很喜欢唱“可爱女人”给我所喜爱的人，有人也像我一样喜欢周杰伦吗？或你有喜欢的歌曲是给爱人的？

一周年纪念日 =)

2010-05-09T20:40:00.000+08:00

*这篇日记因我太忙碌而延迟了。

三周前，跟亲爱的度过了一周年纪念日。心里满满的感激上天，跟你在一起的时间，每一分每一秒都很珍贵。

Yeah~我们的第一个特别纪念日! 谢谢你送我的花~很喜欢~

亲爱的，接下来的日子，每一年都要一起度过每一个纪念日~

爱你，

翼儿

梦想的家园

2010-05-08T23:13:00.002+08:00

梦想的家园之客厅-有孩子篇

(picture http://www.ikea.com.my/)

梦想着与你有孩子篇=)

我与你快乐在家~

(picture http://www.ikea.com.my/)

*ignore those price tag though.

这一位小女孩，长成了令我魂萦梦系的佳人

2010-04-29T19:37:00.001+08:00

Dear,

今天开心吗？愿我遥远的祈祷，能把快乐带给你。

今天我在公园跑步，就跑出快乐。一步一步触碰着土地，抚慰了我心灵的疲惫。

刚把我们的照片晒出来，看见照片里的你，我的眼神有着深深的爱恋，

这一位小女孩，长成了令我魂萦梦系的佳人。

*这一两天内会把照片寄给你。=)

爱你，

翼儿

When Problems Come....

2010-04-25T23:14:00.000+08:00

I love this quote very much and every time I face problem, I will read this quote,

"don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.” Jim Rohn quotes

May God bless us all.

Must See - Best Lesbian Relationship Ever *Publicly.

2010-04-10T20:17:00.001+08:00

I watched this video a couple of weeks ago and think this is a must see video for lesbian who wish to have good long term relationship.

In this video, lesbian couple- Ellen & Portia talks about commitment, common issues in lesbian relationship, suffering, overcoming it, and all sort of subjects towards keeping a long term girl to girl relationship.

Video 1, I like these parts :
1)Oprah: "when do you know she is the one for you?"
Portia: "when I first laid eyes on her"

2) Oprah: "You call each other -my wife, my wife?"
Ellen: "it's really hard to call her -husband?!"

Video 2, hum...
Both of them are wearing their ring on their left hand? I thought is left hand for man and right for woman?
* there goes my typical view!

What do you think? Which part of the video you like?

讓時間開口

2010-04-03T19:46:00.000+08:00

最近一直聆听这一首歌，有些事，决定了，我已不适合再开口，就这样吧。

祝大家都要快乐。

GAME: If You Know What This Is - You Are Marvelous!

2010-03-25T22:00:00.001+08:00

I took this picture from Museum of Mordern Art, New York.

I have asked many people what is their guess for this picture.

Hint: Do you guessing with healthy mind, okay?

The Lazy Girl's Way To Health & Beauty- My First Attempt

2010-03-18T21:34:00.005+08:00

Ever imagine you can be vibrantly healthy and happy just by the comfort of sitting in your home?

This means no longer trap in heavy traffic, lousy public transport system, limited parking lot, high parking fees & hot weather in KL.

I'm not the ONLY ONE imagine this so far, I bet you did imagine this before.

As I stepped into year 2010, I hold a new & very simple motto "work less for more". In simple words, I'm a lazy person and I always like to ask question like this "Ada shortcut tak?".

Every month, there is a moment for "Aunty visit", "Da Yi Ma" or commonly known - Period time. As my body still very weak (Chinese doctor put me on 3 months herbs scheme), so I sit/rest at home and decided to have some fun and play smart.

Because of the motto "work less for more", what have I done?

There are few things I seriously dislike about KL - heavy traffic, lousy public transport system, limited parking lot, high parking fees and hot weather.

* I don't personally owned a car. Still use family's car.

So...This is my first attempt to buy Malaysia product via internet. I bought 老行家-虫草白凤丸 online

*I did buy other stuff from oversea before but not Malaysia product.

Here's my parcel!

I can't wait to open it up!

Price Per Box

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Retail price per box: RM88

Online Price: RM79.20(10%online discount) + RM 6 delivery ( price varies, depends on location) = RM85.20

Delivery time: 3-5 Working days

Web Site: http://www.lohongka.com.my/index.php?lang=en

I bought 2 box, total is RM158.40.
Money SAVED RM13.60 + free from heavy traffic, lousy public transport system, limited parking lot, high parking fees & hot weather in KL.

My first attempt -->SUCCESS~

How about you? Ever tried anything like this?
Among my friends here, I think most likely Kaye or Yean have experience in buying online. Don't ask me why, just my guess :P

同志的尊严

2010-03-02T19:52:00.006+08:00

很喜欢Kaye 在部落格里给我的留言，很感激她给我发了这个留言。是关于一个Gay告诉straight people同志的权利及straight people 应该学会尊重同志。他在video 里也给于同志很好的祝福。

我看了英文的版本，很喜欢~

在这里，我也亲自翻译了中文版本。

英文

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Johnny Weir: "I hope that more children have the same opportunities as me, with the same parents as me, that let me be an individual, who gave me freedom, and taught me to believe in myself before anyone else would believe in me. I hope more young boys and girls can grow up to have that love and support from their families, and it's very clear to me that those two men talking on that program did not have that kind of upbringing."

中文
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Johnny Weir：“我希望更多的孩子像我一样有同样的机会，如同我一样拥有尊重我的父母 - 他们让我成为一个独立的个体，给了我自由，并教我在别人相信我之前，先相信我自己。

我希望有更多年轻的男孩和女孩长大后能够有爱和家人的支持，并且这件事很清楚的就是 -我觉得说这话的两个男子的成长背景并没有达到这样的教育"
* 两个男子说了不遵重同志的话。
Johnny Weir：“我希望更多的孩子像我一样有同样的机会，如同我一样拥有尊重我的父母 - 他
*这是Kaye 在部落格里的留言,很有意思~

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End of February, the end of the Winter Olympics too. Check out this unique figure skater named Johnny Weir. Ranked eighth in the world.

People are still very close minded toward gays and afraid of things that are very uniquely different from them. Even at the Olympics, there are 2 Australian commentators and a Canadian broadcaster making homophobia jokes about Johnny Weir.

He finished sixth overall in the figure skating competition. Most ppl commented that it was an unfair judging.

Check this web, I like his speech.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/02/26/johnny-weir-fires-back-at_n_478547.html
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喜欢天的蓝色

2010-03-02T17:56:00.005+08:00

喜欢天的蓝色，因为清澈透明，没有隐藏，真实而单纯。

让人容易看透。

有一些事，我终究已经看清，何必遮掩。

人为何那么难呢？

为何你连诚实面对的勇气也没有?叹息。

很怪的二月份

2010-02-25T20:03:00.000+08:00

很怪的二月份，情人节及农历新年粘在一块，还要加Internet 罢工。

很久没有上来部落格了，Internet-P1 Max 从农历新年就不工作整整一个星期。。
以为换掉streamyx 会好一点，唉。。。
本来情人节要在家跟亲爱的S.E 在网上庆祝情人节也未能如愿。
惟有到家里附近的cyber cafe去。

AWKWARD FEBRUARY!!!

农历新年快乐! Happy Chinese New Year!

2010-02-14T19:05:00.000+08:00

祝各位Happy Chinese New Year!农历新年快乐!

祝你虎年快乐，心想事成！

我忙着庆祝情人节及农历新年, 忙的乐乎乐乎~嘻嘻 ~