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How To Deal With Young Pregnancy

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 04:39:00 +0000

Pregnant at the young age is certainly hard to cope with. It will definitely changes your life. It will ruin your study, dignity and family relationship. Nonetheless, it is something that you have to face and deal with, either you like it or not. I would like to urge you guys, no matter what, please don't even thing to take the life of the baby or throw him/her away. There is a way to cope with it without effecting you and the baby. All you need to do is, keep on being patient. Read more to find out How To Deal With Young Pregnancy.

Make up your mind

Think deeply whether you have the capability of becoming a young mother and shoulder the responsibility or not. If you think you don't have the courage and what it takes, deem to give the baby away to other people who is needed and have the capability if non of your family member have the intention to rise the baby.

Keep a good relation with your partner

Yes it is true that not many guys will show up and lend their hands for this kind of matter. However, we have to be more matured without being selfish under this kind of circumstance. So a good relation between you and your partner is certainly vital in order to rise the baby. Help each other and have a discussion and do some planning on how to rise the baby.

Learn how to be a mother

Regardless how hard it is to be a mother at the young age, try to learn it no matter what. Buy the books that relate to this matter or ask people who had gone through this situation. Do not be shy to learn this as it is for the sake of your unborn baby.

Continue your study

Find a way where you can continue study. Discuss with your college/high school about this. Whether you want to put it off or what so ever it is down to your college/high school.

Do not listen to negative comment

Well people make mistake. So the only thing we can do is make it right. For this sort of thing, I am sure there will be many people make a big fuss of this kind of matter. You just take it easy and do not listen to them. Do what you think for your own sake. At the end of the day, it is all about your life as well as the baby's.

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What To Do When Parent Divorce

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Mon, 08 Nov 2010 18:24:00 +0000

Parents divorcing is a something that could wound us(their child/youth) badly. It even could effect our study. The worst part is when you are seems get abandoned by them. Parents divorcing usually will leads us to a bad life such as, taking drugs, start to take beer or alcoholic drinks(boozing) and many more. At the end of the day,we as a youth who people claim as Next Generation Leader might turn to someone who is hopeless, despair and useless. So in order to emerge from this kind of matter without effecting your life, here I provided you with What To Do When Parent Divorce.

Be neutral

What I mean by be neutral is,not taking any sides,either your dad nor your mom. Taking side means you will get involve in their matter and can make thing get worst. Regardless how close you are with your dad or your mom, avoid from being on both side

Try to accept the fact slowly

There is likelihood that certain divorces only for temporary. They will get back together after awhile. So, it is good if you can accept the fact that you parents is separate and be away from each other foryour temporarily,PERHAPS. Give them time to calm down and reminisce their moment being together. Once they have calmed, then only they can think wisely and decide what is the best for the family.

Do not be their confidant/mediator

Remember you are still young. There are lots of things you should take care of other than your parents conflicts. Do not put your self into the conflicts as it will stress you out. You got study to cope with and college assignment to do and bla bla bla. Do not put your self into hot water. This will definitely effects your study.

Share with other family member

Do not bear this all alone. If thing get worse, immediately call your other family members for instance, your aunties, grandpa, grandma or whoever you think that can help you out. You are certainly have no capability to make thing right.

Do not be guilty

Bare in mind,all these are not because of you. Do not take the blame. It is because they(parents) could not found the root of their problem and hence, fail to resolve it and decide to split up. It has nothing to do with you.

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Things to Do When Your Best Friend Betray You

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Sat, 30 Oct 2010 06:37:00 +0000

Best friend is someone who can be trusted and who can be counted on. Best friend should be always behind us regardless under what circumstance. They should support us no matter what. They are the one who keeps our top secret safely but, when they intend to speak it out to other people, that is what we call as BETRAY. Best friend can sometime ruin us and give us a bad time. They might have intention to betray us for their own good.

Neglect them

When you are under circumstance where your best friend tend to betray you, all you need to do is just leave them behind. Do you things by your own without asking help from them any longer. Stop counting on them. Show to them that they are no longer indispensable and you can do everything by your own without their presence.

Do not trust friend more than family

I would advise you,regardless how kind your friends towards you,do not put you 100% trust to them. They can simply take advantage on you as they have your trust. It is better to put your trust on your family for instance, your cousins, sibling etc. From my point of view, they will be more immortal than your friends.

Find a new best friend

Once you have found out that your friend betray you, without second thought, go and look for a new friends. Do not wasting your time to get upset and dwell about what they have done to you either it is good for you or backfire. They are good for nothing.

Do not stick to only one click

You shouldn't get along with small amount of people. Make friends with everybody. They will be needed if something bad crop up between you and your best friend

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Ways To Avoid Fighting With Parents

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 17:46:00 +0000

Parents sometime killing us with their strict control and not-understanding conduct. And sometime we just don't get it why are they trying to prevent us from doing something that we love to do although the prevention is for our own good. We tend to even rise our voice to our parents when we piss off and out of control. And, we will get guilty afterward. That is normal. Even me, pretty often bust up with my parents,especially my mom. It is a common thing for youth,like us, So now, I will provide you Ways To Avoid Fighting With Parents

Dwell what have you parents sacrifice for you

Yes it is hard to carry out. But take a few second before you want to yell at your parents and dwell what have they done to you to fulfill what you desired for(cloth,stuff etc),and how hard they were trying to complete you with everything.

Take a deep breath

Take a deep breath before you deem to shout at your parents. Take a really deep breath. Bare in mind that, fighting with them will solve nothing and make thing getting worse. Shouting at your parents, imagine how rude you are to shout at someone who has raised you with full of loves and sacrificed a lot for you.

Get your self in their shoes

Think how is it feel if your children do bust up with you,shout at you and bla bla. Imagine how disappointed would you be at that point in time. Yes, you will never know how is it feel when someone who they raised against them when they are now standing taller than they are. Put your self in the position, then you will know!!

Just act like you listen to nothing

This is when your parents keep nagging at you. And it is freaking irritating,isn't it. Well at that moment,all you have to do is, neglect what they say,dispute about you and etc. It will keep you calm and not to mention avoid from fighting.

As a youth,yes there is likelihood that we are really easy to get piss off. Nonetheless, we can control that 'piss off', can't we? Think before you act,for the sake of yours.

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Ways To Avoid From Pregnant

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Wed, 27 Oct 2010 17:27:00 +0000

Firstly,I would like to emphasize here that the purpose of writing this is not to encourage youth to do sex and abortion. What I am about to tell you guys are just Ways To Avoid From Pregnant. As we all know that most of us nowadays tend to do sex with our partner without thinking the consequence. In Malaysia, they did a rash decision when they got pregnant which is throw their baby away. Yeah I know it sounds cruel and heartless. But this is the fact. Therefore,i made up my mind to tell you guys about Ways To Avoid From Pregnant.

Get the condom on

I know that usually, we are reluctant to get the condom on. And I really don't know that. Why is it hard for you to get the condom on,pal? You put your life on the line without covering your dick with condom. It is a small stuff. Yet,it is the most important stuff to deem before get your dick in to the pussy. Trust me. Hehehe.

'Eject' your dick before comes

Yes doing this can prevent your girlfriend from pregnant. Simply pull out your dick before the sperm comes out of your dick.

Jumping up and down after sex

Hahah yeah this might sound funny. Nevertheless, it is something that you would prefer to do in order to prevent from pregnant.

Douche your pussy

Just after sex,douche your pussy for several times to get ride of the sperm .This is what usually people will do after sex. The best way is, bathe and clean your pussy after sex. Ditch the excess sperm.

This is just my suggestion, get the pregnancy test the sooner is better after fornicating to check whether you are pregnant.

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Reasons Why We Love Facebook

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Tue, 26 Oct 2010 08:49:00 +0000

Why most of youth nowadays spend most of their time with Facebook?What does Facebook has that captivated most of us?Facebook is a must to be logged in when we browse the internet?The major amount of Facebook users is surely us,youth!And Why is it?Here I am telling you Reasons Why We Love Facebook

Look for a couple

This is the common purpose of signing social networking, to look for a couple.Correct me if i am wrong by saying that the main objective to sign up for Facebook is to look for a new boyfriend/girlfriend.

Stalker

There is a likelihood that among us decided to sign up for Facebook is just to snoop around other people profiles. It is either the profile of someone they adore to or a stranger.

Keep in touch with friends

Yes Facebook can get you close with your friend although you both are 100 miles away from each other. Facebook could make you guys feel like staying close with each other.

Do Hacking

To those hacker,they sign up for Facebook because of one reason,and it is HACKING.What are they going to do is,add as many users as possible,and they will try to hack their accounts.

For celebrity

People like Taylor Swift , Justin Bieber and those kind of people really need Facebook. They need Facebook in order to get close with their fan and keep them update with their activities.

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6 Ways To Pick Up Girl In Club

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Mon, 25 Oct 2010 16:54:00 +0000

Picking up girl in club is not as easy as it seen. There are many hot guys in the club so it means you have to compete with them to get a girl.Here are the 6 Ways To Pick Up Girl In Club.

Try to get out from the club for awhile

Outside the club is less competition to pick up the girl and I believe that there are girls that smoke at outside.So if you see them being all alone,without second-thought,just go and approach them.

Don't act like a desperado

Even if you have got a phone number of a girl,it is not necessary to get thrilled to the maximum.Just act normal.Act like you have something else to do and get back to her half an hour later.

Go on ladies night

There are full of chicks on ladies night. It's easy for you to pick the right one and meets your taste of girl.

Get the hot outfit

Try to wear something hot to be more attractive as well as more confident. Make your self looks astonished.

Observing with your friend

At the early stage, all you need to do is just have a conversation with your friends or dance with them while snooping around to see if there is a chick you desire for. Find out if she is alone or in a group. If she is all alone,trust me that this is the best condition you should approach her.

Eye contact

Have you ever heard that you eyes are the best secret weapon?If you have found one, do eye contact with her. If she gives respond, definitely she is yours.

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The Effects of Smoking

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Sat, 09 Oct 2010 03:05:00 +0000

Major number of youth are not yet aware of the effects of smoking.They have no idea how can smoking effect their life,financial and notably their health at the young age.In this article,I’ll bring you the effects of smoking regardless your gender.

Financial

As a student,who has no income and still asking for pocket money from parents and decide to smoke,ergh don’t you found it as pathetic????Bare in mind that those money are from your parents and you asking for it just to buy a box of cigarettes. Why don’t you use it to catch a movie,buy a birth day present for your parents/somebody you love or any other stuff instead of just wasting it for cigarette? You will face a financial problem due to wasting for cigarette.You couldn’t cope to manage your financial to buy your books,hang out and cigarette as I believe that cigarette is pretty expensive,isn’t it?

No chicks/guys

Do you know that girls mostly prefer to non-smoker?You might be thinking that smoking makes you looks more mature,cool or something and bla bla. But actually you are definitely wrong. You mouth will get smelly because of smoking and when it comes to you talking to them,do you expect them to smell your smelly mouth??And it is same goes to girls,do you expect guys to smell your smelly mouth??

Health

Although we are still young,we shouldn’t waste the precious of that period of time by doing something that will harm our health.Smoking certainly will harm your lungs. Yes you won’t feel the effect by now,but wait for the next 10 to 15 years time, you are more exposed to disease for instance heart disease,stroke and heart attack. In the other words, cigarette is killing you for every puffing you take.

As a youth,we have to be mature than the age we are. We have to think for the future and appreciate our young age by doing something that can assure you to have a better life for the future.

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Quitting Smoking Tips

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Fri, 24 Sep 2010 18:05:00 +0000

Quitting smoking is something hard to be done. There are many smoker out there had attempted to stop smoking but end up with failure. Smoking is certainly good for nothing and it wastes every single dollar of your cash which you spend to buy the cigarette. However, you shouldn't be worried for any longer as I have the Quit Smoking Tips that telling you a few vital tips to stop smoking.

Throw away all the cigarettes

Yes I meant throw it all away. Nothing left. Certainly, it is something hard to do. But please believe in me, for the sake of yours, just throw all the cigarettes away and get your self away from them. I would like to ask you a question? What is the purpose of you to keep all those thing if you intend to be a non-smoker? Will you need them in future as you have been a really non-smoker?

More on non-smoker than smoker

If you are surrounded by smoker before, get yourself away from them. It is certainly doesn't mean that you are abandoned them it is just that,you are not strong enough to resist the temptation of smoking when you are with them. Try to give an excuse in case they ask you out or something. Be more with non-smoker because it is hard to smoke in front of them as you will feel awkward to do so.

Avoid from the places where you normally smoke

Being at the places where you normally smoking will only make you dwelling about back to smoking. Try to avoid those places . This is not asking you that you can't go to those places permanently okay.

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What Makes Youth Smoke

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Thu, 23 Sep 2010 18:24:00 +0000

Most of youth are smoking nowadays and it is increasing day by day. They are thinking that smoking is cool and makes them look matured. Without knowing the consequence of smoking,they feeling good when smoking in public and it seems that smoking is a good habit to do everyday . Yet, that is not fully their foul. Agree with me if I'd say that smoking would be their life experience where they can learn about the world thinggy ? In case you want to know What Makes Youth To Smoke, here are the reasons why they decided to smoke at the first place.

Being youth is a part of period of time where they want to look perfect, even me,myself(I am 19 years of age) would do whatever it takes to look perfect. They will try to do whatever they could to look cool including smoking. Correct me if I am wrong by saying that they are will be proud to smoke in public and notably in front of chicks. Tell you what, chicks really hate smoker and I really meant it.

Human love to try. There is a case where youth are smoking because they were just intending to get the feel of how smoking does feel like at the first place. Out from nowhere, the 'TRY' turned to ADDICTIVE. From the 'TRY' they became an active smoker.

Friends are playing an important role in life. They can take us to a good side or a bad side. Therefore, being choosy on choosing friends is pretty important. Friends can influence you to start smoke or they them self, would love to encourage you to smoke, to join them.

Does smoking can heal the stresses????Do you think so?? Well I am certainly against that. There is no such thing that by smoking, it can makes the person feel better and a way from stress.

So, do you still intend to smoke in future?????? Wait for my articles about Quit Smoking Tips and Consequences Of Smoking. They will be posted shortly. If you have any experience or opinion on What Makes Youth Smoke, please leave some comment. I really look forward for it.

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Clubbing Tips for Youth

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 04:43:00 +0000

Clubbing is AWESOME!!!!This is the place where you can catch hot chicks eyes.You have to concern in every single angles.If you don't want people to look down on you at the club,be as perfect as you could.Get your nice cloth on.Keep your self clean and smell good!!!I repeat,smell good!!!Here are the things you should concern about.

Right Cloth

Bare in mind,you are going to club, not a market nor street.So,get the right cloth on.You cannot simply wear t-shirt and jeans.That's it.Trust me,you will be never get into the club.You have to wear something casual.Do not wear your beach flip-flop,t-shirt and short.Nevertheless, you can try to wear t-shirt with your blazer.It looks cool.

Cover Charge

Check out the club cover charge. Make sure you bring the sufficient cash to club.If you go on ladies night,you girlfriend will enter the club freely.Yet,you still got to pay for the cover charge. In Malaysia, the average of cover charge is merely 50 bucks to 25 bucks. It it depends on the club you go.You will be eligible to choose one drink for free of charge(FOC) if I am not mistaken.

Pick Up Line

There is a likelihood that usually guys go to clubbing is to get to know with a new girl.Well I would say that it is cool.If you think the girl that you encounter is suit you and hot enough for you,then go for it. The probability of you to get her is a second case. Give a try. If you get her,then she will be yours otherwise you just say BYE BYE.Go for other girls. Do not act like a creepy guys. Thats all. You will get the girl if you act like a cool guy.

Buy a pack of gum

Hellooooo gums are really needed to ensure your mouth always in good smell. So bring along the gums. Plus It will helps you to be more confident. Trust me.

So i hope the tips above could help you to go clubbing.Please share with us your tips or experience go clubbing by leaving a comment below.

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First Date tips

noreply@blogger.com (Farhan Yun) — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 14:55:00 +0000

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First date is the scariest date ever. We scared if our date may reject us because of our real appearance, we are worried if we accidentally annoy them, and we are concerned about what our date thinks about us. These anxieties are totally make us out of control and can’t behave normally. Plus our confidence will reduce and everything that we do is going so badly. To make the first date going well and end up with a good relationship, and make them think good about us instead of assume us not suitable for them, make them think that we really fall in love with them, and treat them like a princess, there are a few things that you should do on a first date. Here are the tips on the first date.

Be punctual

Make yourself to be on time. Or a few minutes earlier. Wait for your date is better. The fastest way to make a poor impression on a first date is to be late. If you encounter any problem at the last minutes, such as you car is break down or the road is congested, let her know as soon as possible. Don’t make her wait for you for a decade.

Let her talk about herself

I think it is better if you let her to talk about herself instead of you talk about yourself. Talk about you on the first date may irritate her. Make yourself looks like really interested on her. Plus you can get to know her better and figure out what you might have in common.

No phone call or text

In case of you receive any phone call or text message, you should just ignore it I guess. Unless if the phone call or text message is from your parents, then only you pick up the phone call or reply the message .try to convince her that the phone call and the message is from your parents otherwise she may be jealous or think negative about you because she has no idea who is the heck nudge you. I would recommend you to set your cell phone silent. Pay as much attention as you could for her. Remember, treat her like a princess.

Clohing

You are not necessary to wear an expensive for first date just because to look stunning. Good manner is better than good looking. So just wear cloth that makes you feel comfortable. If possible, try to wear a new cloth because it will improve your confident.

So I hope no more anxious for your first date in future. Try to treat her as nice as you could. Make her feel like a princess. Don’t forget when the relation is on, don’t ever neglect nor hurt her. Appreciate what you have been worked hard for on the first date. And if u speechless on the first date, check out my article about What To Talk About On The First Date.

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