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	<itunes:summary>Writer, entrepreneurial vision coach, &amp; former nationally award-winning indie lifestyle boutique owner Abby Kerr talks to enterprising creatives who are building businesses mostly online and often location independently, using free social media marketing tools to connect with peers and prospects in the blogosphere.</itunes:summary>
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		<title>My 2012 Plan To Stay *Out* of Busy-ness {&amp; *In* Creation}</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 00:41:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abby Kerr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m not a business development coach, but I have been doing business online for 6 years: first as the creator and proprietor of an indie boutique that shipped internationally through its website, and currently as CEO of Abby Kerr Ink. I&#8217;ve got a few things to say about how the work of a creative online [...]]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;m not a business development coach, but I have been doing business online for 6 years: first as the <a href="http://abbykerrink.com/boutique-industry/">creator and proprietor of an indie boutique</a> that shipped internationally through its website, and currently as CEO of <strong>Abby Kerr Ink</strong>.</p>
<h3><strong>I&#8217;ve got a few things to say about how the work of a creative online business gets done. And while what I have to say <em>only</em> applies to me and my business, I bet the paradigm may be useful and/or interesting to you*.<br />
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<blockquote><p>*<em>J&#8217;adore</em> productivity hacking, but only when it&#8217;s pressed up against ample spaces of non-taskable time, time in which to root around, see what&#8217;s shiny and promising, and bring up it up into the light. I also have a dorky voyeuristic obsession with how other creatives get stuff done. For instance, this simple little post on <a href="http://www.daniellelaporte.com/white-hot/entrepreneurial-time-management-how-i-rock-it/" target="_blank">how she rocks time entrepreneurial time management</a> is one of my all-time faves from Danielle LaPorte.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Because if there&#8217;s one thing I know for sure about digital entrepreneurship, it&#8217;s this: no two online business owners approach staying <em>in creation</em> and <em>out</em> of busy-ness in the same way. </strong></p>
<h3><strong>My well-optimized weekly schedule probably looks nothing like yours.</strong></h3>
<p>Over the years and across two very different business models, I&#8217;ve tried out several {mostly frustrating and short-sighted} approaches to structuring my work flow, tracking my productivity, and optimizing how stuff gets done most effectively and <em>with actual pleasure</em> &#8212; as opposed to with heart palpitations and knuckle-biting. {I&#8217;ve had the tooth marks to prove it.}</p>
<p>It being the start of a new year, my Mastermind partner and I are especially focused lately on setting up structures to make 2012 our best years in business yet.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve been calendaring our goals, developing content strategy, and planning to build out our businesses the way we want to. Accountability rocks and possibilities reign.</p>
<h3><strong>But we know how it tends to go, and so do you: January&#8217;s all about great intentions and even better expectations.</strong></h3>
<p>Unless you create a structure to contain your brilliance, momentum ebbs and flows, and your $20,000 idea gets lost in the roster of client projects and sessions {which, of course, you&#8217;re very thankful for} and you end up in reaction mode instead of<em> in creation</em>, which is where you want to hang out most of the time.</p>
<p>So finally, in Year 6 of creating my own work in the world, I got wise and dared to design a workweek that meets <em>most</em> of my criteria for uptime and downtime, hyper focus and blessed ease, and administrative thrills and creative throes. {I say <em>most</em> of my criteria because while I&#8217;d<em> like</em> to schedule in thrice-weekly indolent lunches with friends downtown, those would only slow me down.}</p>
<h3><strong>While I can&#8217;t tell <em>you</em> what your ideal workweek looks and feels like, I highly suggest you take some time to freestyle on what feels right to you.</strong></h3>
<p><strong>What you&#8217;re tracking for: the structure that <em>feels</em> like just the right balance of client-centered and self-indulgent, big picture thinking and every-detail-matters delivery, luxurious swaths of time and tightly focused hours to blaze through.</strong> Designing your ideal workweek &#8212; and then actually <em>allowing yourself to practice working it</em>, sans Twitter Interruptus and other candy-like distractions &#8212; could be the most important, rewarding, and lucrative move you&#8217;ll make all year, and it&#8217;s only January.</p>
<h3><strong>Here&#8217;s the workweek I&#8217;ve designed for myself this year to keep me<em> out</em> of busy-ness and <em>in</em> creation:</strong></h3>
<blockquote><p>Three weeks in and I can report that my weekends feel longer, my skin is clearer, and my client delivery dates {I durst not use the word &#8216;deadlines&#8217;} all magically seem easier to meet. And for the first time in six years of business ownership, I&#8217;ve got an entire calendar year of service/product/program releases planned out and an editorial calendar to match. Now, to deliver . . .</p></blockquote>
<h3>:: MONDAYS</h3>
<p><strong>Focus:</strong> Abby Kerr Ink. Biz dev and planning. Make sure Google Calendar looks tight and right. Light social media planning for the week ahead {I don&#8217;t auto-Tweet, but I do frame out my focus for the week based on what&#8217;s coming up on the blog, on the creation calendar, etc.}. Write the week&#8217;s blog post{s} and e-newsletter. Heavy-ish admin {including personal admin} to set me up for a clear-minded week.</p>
<p><strong>Mindset:</strong> Easing in self-indulgently. Focusing on the big picture. Letting it be easy. Re-connecting with my voice. Seeing what&#8217;s up on Twitter &#8212; taking the temp for the week.</p>
<h3>:: TUESDAYS &amp; THURSDAYS</h3>
<p><strong>Focus:</strong> Client sessions and copywriting projects. Immersion in their brand identity, voice, and right people market segments. In between and afterward, light admin related to client work: emails, preparing Mp3s, scheduling, etc.</p>
<p><strong>Mindset:</strong> This is my clients&#8217; time that they&#8217;ve invested in me: dollars for value. I make these days all about them. Have planned so that this year, I only take as many 1:1 <a href="http://abbykerrink.com/voice-copy/">copywriting projects</a> as I can manage in 8 eight-hour days a month.</p>
<h3>:: WEDNESDAYS</h3>
<p><strong>Focus: </strong>Abby Kerr Ink service, product, and program development. Creating content to sell. Developing income streams. Writing sales pages. Co-working on Skype with <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/ginimartinez" target="_blank">a peer.</a></p>
<p><strong>Mindset:</strong> Deeply tuned in to my right person avatars &#8212; their needs and wants, business phases, desired results. Honing and articulating the unique value I provide.</p>
<h3>:: FRIDAYS</h3>
<p><strong>Focus:</strong> Connecting with peers on Skype. Big picture strategizing with<a href="http://twitter.com/lcalandrella" target="_blank"> Mastermind partner.</a> Finish early &#8212; keep it to a half day.</p>
<p><strong>Mindset:</strong> Shaking out what worked this week and why. Fine-tuning approach for immediate future. Big convos: strategy, sustainability, what thrills me. Lots of love flowing.</p>
<h3><strong>And, a few nuances I&#8217;ve discovered work well for me:</strong></h3>
<p><strong>On studio hours:</strong> Monday-Thursday, 8/9 AM &#8211; 5 PM, with 60 minutes or so of unstructured time for eating, stretch breaks, textfests with friends. Friday, 8/9 AM &#8211; Noon. No evenings, Saturdays, or Sundays, unless I&#8217;ve gotten myself off-schedule and need to make up hours for a client project in order to meet a delivery date. {Though I set my own delivery dates for my copywriting projects and am not above adjusting them as need be.} Three days a week, start the day off at a park with a friend and our dogs.</p>
<p><strong>On connecting:</strong> I&#8217;m an introvert, albeit a decidedly un-shy one. I&#8217;ve learned {the hard way} that even one non-client hourlong-plus Skype session early in the day can toss me out of my flow to an unrecoverable degree. It&#8217;s not worth it. My personal rule: no more than 3 peer Skype sessions a week, including my 90-minute long Mastermind session. And never more than two hours of Skype on any one day, including client sessions.</p>
<p><strong>On email:</strong> We all know how many hours a day email can eat up &#8212; if you let it. Back in <a href="http://abbykerrink.com/why-i-really-left-indie-retail/">the darker days of my shopkeeping career</a>, I used to let it consume the better part of at least a couple days a week. {Upside: I&#8217;m really great at teaching/consulting/advising over email.} Not no more. Email gets processed almost immediately as it comes in, but segmented into mental folders like <em>2-Minute Reply Now, Reply By End of Day or Tomorrow By Noon, and Reply Within the Next Week If Possible</em>. No free consulting over email, ever.</p>
<p><strong>On working conditions:</strong> Usually at home. Occasionally at a coffee shop with free Wi-Fi, which is my preference, but on client session days, I prefer to be at home where the acoustics and the noise level are better and I can get a clean recording for them. Often in loungewear/yoga-type clothing, but better in my favorite Gap Long &amp; Lean jeans and a top I love. And earrings.</p>
<p><strong>On productivity tools:</strong> I live Monday-Friday by Google Calendar, color-coded and time-blocked to the hilt. Because my inner taskmistress is a linear thinker, I maintain my prodigious To Do list on <a href="http://workflowy.com" target="_blank">WorkFlowy</a>. And I like <a href="http://ticktocktimer.com" target="_blank">TickTockTimer</a> for structured writing or admin bursts. All free tools. I schedule client sessions via <a href="http://www.timetrade.com/" target="_blank">TimeTrade</a> [not an Affiliate link] for a very reasonable yearly fee, and it syncs with Google Calendar.</p>
<p>Hope this dissection of how I&#8217;m doing business lately is interesting for you.  While a nuts-and-bolts post like this is a departure from the usual convo, planning for success has been top of mind lately and I felt compared to share my personal approach.</p>
<p><em>Have you figured out your ideal workweek? I&#8217;d love to hear about it in the comments.</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2012 23:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abby Kerr</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tara Mohr wants you to play bigger in 2012 than ever before. I interviewed her about it here as she opens registration for Playing Big, a women&#8217;s leadership and professional development journey. Tara Mohr is someone I always have my eye on. I love watching how people craft their online platforms, and take considerable notice [...]]]></description>
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<h3><strong>Tara Mohr wants you to play bigger in 2012 than ever before. </strong></h3>
<p>I interviewed her about it here as she opens registration for <a href="http://bit.ly/dRdDPR" target="_blank">Playing Big, a women&#8217;s leadership and professional development journey</a>.<strong><br />
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Tara Mohr is someone I always have my eye on. I love watching how people craft their online platforms, and take considerable notice of those who manage to weave their inner journey into their brand, teaching, message, and offerings in a way that&#8217;s seamless and free of precociousness. Tara is one who does this well. {In other words, she shares her life with her audience in a way that&#8217;s not just <em>here&#8217;s more about meeeeeeee!</em>}</p>
<p>Tara Mohr &#8212; poet, <em>Huffington Post</em> blogger, women&#8217;s leadership development coach &#8212; is back for the second year with <a href="http://bit.ly/dRdDPR" target="_blank"><strong>Playing Big</strong>, an intensive group coaching experience for women</a> who are ready to embrace their voice in a bigger way and put it forth into the world. She has ample experience at doing this and the heart of a teacher. <strong>As a Playing Big affiliate, I endorse this program and think it&#8217;s a great fit for many of you in my reading audience who are ready not only to play bigger in the interconnected aspects of entrepreneurial life and personal development, but are ready to approach publishing your work in greater ways.</strong></p>
<h3><strong>Here are 7 questions with the fantastic Tara Mohr:</strong></h3>
<h3><strong>1.} Tara, my readers and clients often struggle with the element of &#8216;voice&#8217; in their online platform &#8212; what voice <em>is</em>, how to know if they&#8217;re &#8216;in&#8217; their own voice when they&#8217;re creating content. What do <em>you</em> know about voice that you&#8217;d like to share with them?</strong></h3>
<p>Each of us can access a state of being where our natural voice flows forth freely and powerfully. I believe it&#8217;s worth the effort to get to that place. It is so joyful to share your true voice in the world. <strong>And it&#8217;s so effective &#8212; from a professional point of view &#8212; to express a clear, strong voice in the marketplace.</strong> For me, I always find there both incredible fulfillment and a huge audience response when I write a <em>Huffington Post</em> article where my voice really comes through. Those articles I write with good information but without much voice fall by the wayside in a world cluttered with so much information.</p>
<p>For many women it does take effort to re-access our voices, because we lost our voices along the way. I certainly did! But I found there were particular ideas and tools that helped me get my voice back &#8212; and now that&#8217;s what I teach. I am on-fire-passionate about making sure as many women as possible got these tools. That&#8217;s why I do what I do.</p>
<h3><strong>2.} When you are really feeling the power of your own voice, what does that look, sound, or feel like to you?</strong></h3>
<p>It feels like <em>yirah.</em><em> </em>In ancient Hebrew there are two words for fear. The first word is &#8220;<em>pachad</em>&#8221; which means &#8220;the fear of projected or imagined things.&#8221; This is our usual fear &#8212; worries about worst-case scenarios, about embarrassing ourselves, about being challenged. Most of us feel some <em>pachad</em> when we start sharing our voices authentically in the world: &#8220;<em>Will they laugh at me? Do I sound ridiculous? Am I qualified to say this?&#8221; </em></p>
<p>The second ancient Hebrew word for fear is <em>&#8220;yirah.</em>&#8221; This is the word used in the Old Testament whenever people encounter something sacred. When Moses meets the burning bush, he feels &#8220;<em>yirah.</em>&#8221; <strong><em>Yirah</em> is described as a kind of trembling awe we feel when we are in the presence of the sacred.</strong> It is also described as &#8220;the fear that comes over us when we are inhabiting a larger space than we are used to.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>When we share our authentic voices, we feel <em>yirah</em>, because we are in the presence of the sacred: our own authentic voices are the sacred.</strong></p>
<p>For those reading, I invite you to start looking for your own moments of <em>yirah</em> &#8211; that fear-like feeling they feel when they inhabit a larger space in the world than they are used to, or when you touch the sacred ground of your own true voice.</p>
<h3><strong>3.} What led you to create Playing Big and please give us a character sketch of the woman it&#8217;s designed for.</strong></h3>
<p>I saw, from my own life and from my work as a coach, that <strong>so many talented women were really holding back in sharing their brilliance with the world</strong>. I wanted to change that.</p>
<p><strong>I knew from my own experience that to play big, you need inner transformation and tactical skills training.</strong> I have an MBA and a lot of experience on the tactical side of playing big. But I am also a coach and a personal growth teacher who works with people on the inner side of playing big. So I created a program that brings together both. Both are really needed for women to play big: the inner work and the outer work.</p>
<p><strong>The woman it&#8217;s designed for knows she wants to play bigger. That could mean a literal playing bigger &#8211; reaching more people in her work. Or it could be an inner shift &#8211; going for her real dreams, creating passions, or desires.</strong> The women in the program are in business, the social sector, and the arts. Many are entrepreneurs, but some work in larger companies. What they share, more than a demographic, is a common sensibility: they are smart, committed to enriching the world for the better, and they feel a longing to play bigger.</p>
<h3><strong>4.} What did you learn from last year&#8217;s Playing Big that influenced the way you changed or redesigned some aspect of this year&#8217;s program?</strong></h3>
<p>I am very committed to offering quality, effective programs, so I partnered with a PhD expert in program evaluation to really evaluate the impact of the program. The evaluations were overwhelmingly positive. Most of the changes we are making are logistical about how the journey can run as smoothly as possible. <strong>One of the changes I&#8217;m most excited about is that this year there will be an option for participants to also purchase on-one-on support with me or with one of my favorite coaches, <a href="http://www.amykessel.com/" target="_blank">Amy Kessel</a>.</strong> This is exciting because it means women can complement all the group learning and content they will be absorbing with some focused individual support when they need it!</p>
<h3><strong>5.} Who&#8217;s really playing big out there, in your opinion? Whose voices do you admire and drink deeply from in the space?</strong></h3>
<p>Playwright and actress Anna Deveare Smith, former Global Fund for Women CEO Kavita Ramdas, and coach Martha Beck. In their own way, they are each continually <strong>taking huge risks, showing up in the world with authentic voices, and changing their industries</strong>.</p>
<h3><strong>6.} Clients come to me for brand editing and copywriting, and for 2012 I&#8217;m developing products to teach indie entrepreneurs how to develop their own voice in the marketplace &#8212; to hone skill sets needed to write more powerfully for their own entrepreneurial realm. Yet some women will still choose me to write their copy rather than write it themselves. Can &#8216;playing big&#8217; and working with a copywriter to develop your voice go hand in hand?</strong></h3>
<p>Absolutely!! In fact, I think <strong>I&#8217;ve really supported my own playing big by getting professional help</strong>. I work with a publicist and a coach &#8212; both of whom invariably see things differently than I do. <strong>They get me out of my own fear-based decisions, my own self-imposed limitations, and my false stories.</strong> My business has moved forward leaps and bounds because of their contributions.</p>
<h3><strong>7.} Role reversal: what question would you like to ask my readers? We&#8217;ll invite them to respond in the comments. <img src='http://abbykerrink.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </strong></h3>
<p>I would love to know what Playing Big means for them in 2012? What does it look like?</p>
<p><strong>Over to you, reader: what does Playing Big mean for you in 2012? Would love to hear from you in the comments.</strong></p>
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<p><strong>BONUS FOR MY READERS:</strong></p>
<p>If you decide Playing Big is for you and book your spot via my Affiliate link <a href="http://bit.ly/dRdDPR" target="_blank">{this is it right here}</a>, I&#8217;ll treat you to a 45-minute mini version of my signature brand editing session, <a href="http://abbykerrink.com/lustermaker"><strong>The Lustermaker</strong></a>. Simply forward your receipt from Playing Big on to me at abby {at} abbykerrink {dot} com and I&#8217;ll get you set up.</p>
<div>See you in the comments!</div>
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<blockquote><p><em>This post was inspired by Megan Auman&#8217;s annual &#8220;Best Things I Did for My Business&#8221; posts.</em><em><a href="http://designinganmba.com/2011/12/21/the-3-best-things-i-did-for-my-business-in-2011/" target="_blank"> You can find her 2011 post here.</a></em></p></blockquote>
<h3><strong>2011. What. a. year.</strong></h3>
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<p>If you were alive on Earth this year, I&#8217;m guessing it was a challenging one for you in at least one major area of your life {health, finances, relationships, creativity, etc.}. I can&#8217;t think of a single person I know &#8212; online peer, client, personal friend, or family member &#8212; who didn&#8217;t have what they&#8217;d describe as a <em>really</em> rough year.</p>
<p>Was it in the water? In the stars?</p>
<p><strong>Regardless, I&#8217;m seeing and feeling us all breathe a collective sigh of relief to be stepping<em> out</em> of this year and into a new one.</strong></p>
<p>This last week of the year is always a good time to be thoughtful and critical about not only what<em> didn&#8217;t</em> work so well that year, but more importantly, what <em>did</em> work well.</p>
<p>Inspired by Megan Auman&#8217;s insightful post, I&#8217;m collecting my own &#8216;best practices&#8217; for <strong>Abby Kerr Ink</strong> for 2011 right here. Perhaps this&#8217;ll become an annual tradition for me, too.</p>
<h3><strong>The 3 best things I did for my business &amp; brand in 2011:</strong></h3>
<h3><strong>1} Discerned my truest teachers. Drank deeply. And wised up.</strong></h3>
<p>2010 was my first year as an online-only business {95% non-local clients at that time; currently 100% of my clients are non-local}. That year, if I subscribed to one e-newsletter or RSS feed, I subscribed to 250. {No joke.} My <a href="http://gmj.gallup.com/content/688/input.aspx" target="_blank">inner archivist/curator</a> was flattered . . . and nearly maxed out.</p>
<p><strong>I entered 2011 <a href="http://abbykerrink.com/why-unsubscribed/">unsubscribing from lots of feeds and email lists,</a> which was a terrific decision.</strong> I honed my weekly blog reading down to about 15 or 20 subscriptions, and as soon as two or three installments in a row from any one blogger failed to educate/enrich/deepen my learning in a way that <em>I</em> experienced as meaningful, relevant, and timely for my phase of business growth &#8212; I clicked the Unsub button. I still follow this precedent for myself.</p>
<p><strong>I intuitively honed in on about 5 or 6 entrepreneurial/business coach voices that resonated <em>deeply</em> with me in terms of strategy, mindset, and perspective.</strong> I vetted these teachers carefully to make sure that as far as I can see, the talk they talk is the walk they walk. I watched and learned from these teachers through their blogs, their launches, and the way they conducted themselves in the space. {&#8220;<em>The space</em>.&#8221;}</p>
<p>Also, I selected 3 branding/copywriting peers to keep an eye on for business development, impact, and strategy. I think of them as my <strong>Worthy Peers</strong>. Two of them were a bit ahead of me in terms of reach and biz growth, one of them behind me. All three I deeply dig, respect, and have watched this year {mostly from afar} as they connected with their audiences, launched their own products and services, turned out great content, and grew their influence. <strong>I highly suggest you ferret out your own Worthy Peers, too. It helps you track of how you&#8217;re different from your competition, and gives you extra incentive to keep upping your game.</strong> {A full post about Worthy Peers to come.}</p>
<p>I also chose <em>one</em> business mentor with whom to invest deeply in my learning. Something interesting happened when I did that. <strong>Not only did I start having a more lucrative and sustainable experience in my own business, but I reconnected with my own power center.</strong> I got shaken free of the belief that one person has the system, the answers, the template for a successful business. {Not that this was the promise I was sold, or bought into.} <strong>I re-embraced the truth that ultimately, at the end of every phase of learning, it&#8217;s your business and you, plus your right people.</strong> <strong>There are no gurus.</strong> Learning is a wonderful thing &#8212; my inner Sage <em>really</em> gets down with some good learning &#8212; but my inner Ruler writes my own story, 100% of the time. I&#8217;m responsible for my results &#8212; the triumphs and the flops. And <em>that</em> inner knowing is worth every penny.</p>
<h3><strong>2} Deepened and strengthened friendships with online peers. And realized afresh the interconnectedness of everything and everyone.</strong></h3>
<p>2011 was the year I formed and solidified my <strong>brain coterie &#8212; my group of  trusted peers who are growing their online businesses at about the same rate I am, and with similar values underpinning the biz dev</strong> &#8212; but more than just mastermind partners and people to work through new ideas with, these women rapidly became some of my dearest friends.</p>
<p>{You know who you are.}</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t speak enough about the value in sharing this online business experience with likeminded friends. If you haven&#8217;t found those deep friendships in the entrepreneurial community yet, be patient. Don&#8217;t rush it. Your people will appear around you when the time is right.</p>
<h3><strong>3} Raised my prices.</strong></h3>
<p>Raising my prices allows me to filter for &#8212; <em>no,</em> not wealth &#8212; commitment. <strong>As consumers, we invest most in what we value most, or in what we can&#8217;t get at the same quality for a lesser price.</strong> More than what the market dictates, <em>brand experience</em> truly does govern what consumers pay for goods and services. Time after time, I will sow my dollars with the brand I most want to affiliate with because of how it makes me <em>feel</em>, the possibilities it allows me to open up for myself, or the experience it creates for me. <strong>When it comes to investing in services {and sometimes in physical products}, I choose brand experience over features articulated and over price. And I&#8217;ve found that my right people clients do, too.</strong></p>
<p>Time after time, I found that clients who questioned my prices upfront or wanted to negotiate in some way about features-for-dollars, well, they just weren&#8217;t my right people. Not by a longshot.</p>
<p><strong>One note about price-raising: I raised my prices <em>not</em> arbitrarily, but when I could better <em>articulate</em> and actually <em>deliver</em> more value over time to my clients. </strong>And when I noticed that I work better with fewer people at a deeper level, over time. And in order to do that, prices have to go up as smaller, lower-priced services go by the wayside.</p>
<h3><strong>So that was my business in 2011 in a nutshell: deeper learning, deeper connection, and deeper value reflected in higher prices.</strong></h3>
<p>Thanks to Megan Auman for inspiring this reflection. Now I&#8217;d like to hear from <em>you</em>.</p>
<p><em>What were the 3 best things you did for your business and brand in 2011? Tell me in the comments. And Happy New Year!</em></p>
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