According To Kimberly... // An Orange County Life + Style Blog

First Outing as a Family of 4

2023-10-29T18:25:00.027-07:00

Been mostly hibernating indoors but we finally made it outside, together, as a family of 4...

Our little Kay is still in the newborn stage which means she is still fragile with her immune system still developing. So we have been cautious and trying to avoid extra crowded places with her, just to be safe.

But, we did venture out a couple weeks ago to snap some quick fall photos with pumpkin decor. As a "new-mom-again," you can't help but to feel overprotective and extra worried for your little one when going in public. Like, total Mama Bear status.

So I wanted to go somewhere that was outside and less crowded than usual pumpkin patch places. Hence, Bella Terra was the perfect spot. I like how you can park nearby, walk a couple minutes, and then be at their main grass area where they set up seasonal photo backdrops for the public to take pictures at. Bonus? It's FREE and you can't beat that. We literally went and took our photos in a couple minutes and was done in no time. Super easy breezy as it gets!

Where do you like to take family pumpkin patch photos?

Last year we took them at Pumpkin City at Westminster Mall (just realized I didn't share a blog post on that and we liked it)! But I do have this blog post here sharing 5 other pumpkin patch photo ops in Orange County to check out. So if you haven't gotten your pumpkin photos yet, don't worry there's still time!

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

Check it out: Bella Terra, 7777 Edinger Ave., Huntington Beach, CA 92647

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PostPartum Hospital Experience

2023-10-20T19:30:00.037-07:00

I shared my birth story here but realized I didn't share much of the postpartum hospital experience...

It was such a blur in the past so writing these moments down - or "blogging" about it - helps me to capture and remember the experience a little longer...like I'm creating a small time capsule for it. And, hopefully, it can help give some insight for mamas-to-be on what to possibly expect to happen for them too.

So what happens after delivering the baby?

After giving birth, the labor & delivery nurses will usually check vitals (height, weight, etc.) for baby - in the SAME ROOM you are in - and make sure you/mama are stabilized for at least 2 hours before transferring you and baby to the postpartum unit (during my 1st pregnancy with Kai we never transferred rooms and stayed in the same room the whole time so each hospital may vary on this). You also get the chance to breastfeed and bond skin-to-skin contact with your new precious baby at this time too.

TIP: Make sure your baby is always nearby you (or in same room) and double check that any staff coming into your room has a valid hospital badge.

When we got to our new room, we met our postpartum nurses. Usually by now, it'll be close to one of the meal times which means you/mama can finally eat! (Yeah, unfortunately, once they start you on fluids at the L&D unit, you can't eat so make sure to have a good meal beforehand!) However, I've been waiting 8-9 months to eat certain things again and the hubby made it happen! He went out and picked up some sushi for me and it did not disappoint! Mmm-mmm!

They usually want mama and baby to stay overnight at hospital for 2 nights but we wanted to leave as soon as possible to get back home to our sweet Kaibear. They said the earliest we could be discharged is after 24 hours since baby was delivered and as long as all tests were done beforehand.

What tests, you ask?

Before discharging from the hospital, at least from our experience, your baby will given tests to pass: newborn hearing screen, newborn labs, newborn bath (we opted out of this one), CCHD (critical congenital heart defects) screening, and optional circumcision for baby boys. If baby doesn't pass on the first try, they usually will redo the test again a couple times so that helps give baby another chance to pass. You will also receive a birth certificate form to complete along with a postpartum admission packet and discharge instructions. Since we requested to discharge sooner, this was a lot to get done in a short amount of time. That meant staff was coming in to the room semi-often to conduct either a test or check-in with meals, drinks, have you sign paperwork, etc. It can feel like a lot going on while "recovering" so I don't really advise leaving too soon unless you really really want to. Having that extra day to help spread things out can be helpful and less stressful.

Family and close friends may want to visit too but it is up to you. Remember: you just gave birth and your newborn baby is very vulnerable so it's okay to be cautious who you want to come and it's okay if you don't want any hospital visits. Your health and baby's health are most important right now. I fall on the more cautious side and, since we were just staying 1 night, we only had both our parents (plus Kaibear!) come visit us at the hospital.

How was your postpartum hospital experience? Did you enjoy it?

I briefly remember our 1st postpartum experience from giving birth with Kai {read my blog post about it here} but I remember it felt very VIP since I was working at a sister hospital at that time and my old boss called the hospital I was delivering at to let them know I was coming (cause I happened to go into work that AM). Perks we had that made it extra special: a big spacious room with a shower in the bathroom (felt like a hospital suite!), double beds so the hubby got to sleep on a bed too (versus a couch like this time), hospital meals for both me/patient and the hubby (which was super sweet!), and just great staff service overall! We remember having a really good experience back then and it still holds!

For more info on after birth recovery, you can read about my 2 weeks postpartum experience here.

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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2 Weeks Postpartum Checklist + Updates

2023-10-13T16:00:00.006-07:00

DAY OF BIRTH vs. 2 WEEKS POSTPARTUM - How has it already been 2 weeks since giving birth?!?!!

It feels like it just flew by so fast and that's probably how it goes for most parents. Funny, cause even though it's our 2nd time being "new parents" again, there's so many things you forget you did the first time. You're almost like in a deja vu phase where it feels familiar but also new again.

Being parents to a newborn is - no lie - VERY TIRING. You're running on increments of a couple hours of sleep and it can be mentally and physically exhausting. As the mom, you're also trying to recover and heal "down there" aka still bleeding (which can feel like you've got lots of little paper cuts) and trying to produce enough breastmilk to feed your little one.

Did you know: sometimes it can take a couple days after giving birth for your body to start producing breastmilk?? I DID NOT! Cause I didn't have this issue with Kai but did this time around. Luckily, and thankfully, we had some formula at home to feed her with. By the 3rd day post-birth (and doing lots of power pumping - ugh, I hate pumping), my milk production finally kicked in a lot and was producing/leaking almost every hour after. So I've definitely built up a freezer stash now.

Two weeks postpartum checklist:

1 :: Day after leaving hospital (or within 2 days) - 1st pediatrician office appointment.

You'll need to schedule this before leaving the hospital - yes, that means shortly after you gave birth. During the 1st doctor's appointment, your newborn may have lost a little weight which is normal and happened to us.

2 :: Two weeks after birth - 2nd pediatrician office appointment.

By this time, your newborn will usually have gained weight back to original birth weight or more. Our baby girl has been eating a lot so she gained almost 1lb. since 2 weeks ago!

3 :: Two weeks after birth - postpartum depression screening.

Your hospital may send you a postpartum depression screening questionnaire to complete. It is very normal for new moms to be experiencing so many different emotions (aka hormones are everywhere and you're trying to get it balanced again) and they just want to check in with you to make sure you're (mentally) okay, healthy, and safe.

FYI: Your newborn is usually under your health insurance plan for the first 30 days after birth but you need to make sure to contact your employer (or whosever employer your health plan is under) within that 1st month to *technically* add your newborn to your health plan officially.

What are some of your postpartum experiences after giving birth? Was it similar to ours?

We've been adjusting to being parents to a newborn again and lack of sleep - or having lots of interrupted sleep - definitely takes a toll on you and your mental health. Trying to squeeze in naps when we can and drinking matcha when needed. I do gotta admit though - some days I feel like I may need coffee. The first 3 months usually feel like you're in "zombie mode" as you adjust to so many life changes. So try not to be too hard on yourself and take it day-by-day.

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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Sharing our Baby Girl's Birth Story

2023-10-04T17:00:00.005-07:00

YES, we *POPPED* you guys!!! AHHHHHH...

I can't believe we just gave birth last week. It still feels so surreal. Like, I still miss having her in my belly (which I knew would happen). Even with all the hardships this time around, I still find being pregnant such a beautiful and special experience. And it's for such a short time that I really tried my best to enjoy it as much as possible. And I think she knew it too. Cause she waited in there for as long as possible before making her debut at 39.5 weeks! Just a few days before her actual due date! What a sweet baby girl!

On the day of her birth, we actually had a doctor's appointment that morning. I had already started feeling some strong contractions the night before but it was spaced out so I tried to sleep through it until our appointment time. But I had a hunch - a big, inner hunch - that she was going to come soon. That morning, we dropped off Kai to school and I even told his teacher, "I think I'm going to pop today."

Fun side fact :: I wanted to make gift baskets for our L&D and postpartum nurses and had an inner intuition that once we finished making them, she'll come so I waited all month long and kept delaying to make the gift baskets until I felt more "ready" at end of month and then...next day, we popped!

We went to our doctor's appointment for our NST (non-stress test) and my contractions at that time were 9 minutes apart or less - and they lasted for a longggg time too. It was getting more painful and that's how I knew I was going to give birth SOON. I still went through the NST test which took about 15 minutes then saw a doctor afterwards. Our doctor checked and asked me to guess how dilated I was - I never got checked at any of the other appointments - so I said confidently, "FIVE!" (cause that's when I first felt strong contractions with Kai). She said, "nope!" Then I guessed, "seven?" She replied "nope!" I was like, "eight?" She said again, "nope!" I was like, "higher or lower?" And she said, "NINE." I was like shockingly, "NINE?!?!" Our OB doctor said, "no more walking - we're going to admit you right away." I quickly asked, "can I still get the epidural??" The hubby and I looked at each other with shocked faces like, this is it - it's happening now.

So I got wheelchair'ed over to the labor and delivery department then got hooked up to fluids. Then the L&D nurse checked me to see how far I've dilated to see if there's still time for an epidural (cause if you've dilated too far then they can't/won't give it anymore). Luckily, she said I was actually dilated at 6cm so there was still time for me to get an epidural - this made more sense because, although I was in a lot of pain, it still felt somewhat bearable (when the contractions stopped). Shortly later, the doctor came in to give me the epidural and my whole L&D experience changed after that. All my strong contractions were completely gone and I no longer felt the pain down there which was soooo nice. I am not against getting an epidural especially if you're feeling pain - why suffer?

After they gave some time for the fluids to kick in and epidural to settle, the L&D nurse wanted to do a "practice push." The epidural this time felt stronger than the one I had with Kai cause my legs were a little numb so the hubby had to help hold it. I did a practice push and then the L&D nurse said, "okay STOP - you're good, she's ready" and said she was going to call the midwife to help with delivery. The hubby and I couldn't help but to laugh because the exact same thing happened during our 1st pregnancy with Kai where the nurse told us to stop practice pushing too because they could see Kai's head already and our OB doctor wasn't there yet (he came out with 1 push later). Our midwife came in shortly after and got ready for delivery. Then, after 3 quick pushes, our princess baby girl was out in just a couple minutes!

How did your birth story go?

Everything happened OH-SO-FAST! We didn't have much time to think/process things and just went-went-went to get things moving along. Luckily, it all worked out. We are definitely feeling blessed and thankful to have a healthy baby girl! So now taking time to slow down and enjoy being "new parents again." Will share more of our journey in due time.

As always, thanks for reading and sending air hugs!

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Our Pregnancy 4D Ultrasound Experience

2023-09-11T13:16:00.003-07:00

One of the things the hubby wanted to do (surprisingly) was the 4D ultrasound of our Little Babe 🤰🏻

We did this with our 1st born Kai and I was debating whether or not to do it again this time around and then wasn't planning on it...until the hubby mentioned it. He doesn't really ask for anything so I was shocked he mentioned this so it must've been important.

At 33 weeks, I booked our 4D ultrasound appointment and we got to see our little clay baby 👶🏻 ~ mission accomplished!

WHAT IS A 3D ULTRASOUND?

The 3D ultrasound is the black and white version you usually see at the OB-GYN appointments.

WHAT IS A 4D ULTRASOUND?

The 4D ultrasound is the more multi-dimensional image where it's more clay like (hence why I call these my "clay baby" photos!)

WHEN TO BOOK AN APPOINTMENT:

It is recommended to do the 4D ultrasound between 28 - 32 weeks of pregnancy. We did ours kind of late at 33 weeks so our baby girl was closer to the placenta which makes it harder to capture images of her since she's kind of "smooshed" in there.

WHAT IT COST/INCLUDED:

We got the basic 4D ultrasound package "3D/4D My Precious One" for $109 + tax that included:

* 15 minutes ultrasound session

* listen to baby's heartbeat (sound not recorded - but can purchase this for $20 additional which we did)

* up to 50 images emailed upon request (they no longer provide CD of images or DVD of session)

* 8 glossy 3x5 color printed images

WHERE WE BOOKED OUR 4D ULTRASOUND APPOINTMENT AND WHY:

Cherished Memories at Cerritos Mall (they also have a location in Downey). What I like about going back to same place (they actually moved location inside the mall) is that you can have 10+ people joining you and they have a big screen to view your ultrasound experience. There were other places that has less seating - which is fine if you want it more intimate (and, really, just the hubby joined me at first - and then my sister last time when I had to go back again 2nd time because Kai was sleeping when it was me & the hubby).

Have you booked a 4D ultrasound appointment? Or have you done this yet?

I'm so glad the hubby wanted to do this so we can have these fun memories of her where we try to guess who she looks more like. What's your guess??

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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📷: 1st two photos from @fiarosephotography

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New to OC :: Big Blue Swim School

2023-06-04T11:02:00.000-07:00

School's out and it's time to start planning for summer...

Kai is such an active toddler and we want to put that energy to good use! So when we found out @bigblueswimschool was opening it's 1st OC location in HB (inside 5 Points Plaza), we knew this would be something new and fun for him to try.

We got to take a tour of the place and learn more about their swim programs. It helped us feel reassuring to sign Kai up for swim lessons here. We are so curious/happy/nervous (all the parenting feels) to see him learn and grow from this experience!

They don't officially open until Monday, June 5th but they had a Big Blue Family Fun Day yesterday 06/03rd from 11:30am-3:30pm with live entertainment, activities, giveaways, and more. There was even an ice cream truck onsite! It was such a great community event to welcome Big Blue Swim School to the OC neighborhood!

Has your child started swim lessons yet?

This will be Kai's 1st time and we're excited to team up with Big Blue Swim School to share Kai's swim journey with you!

CHECK IT OUT:

Big Blue Swim School

(inside 5 Points Plaza next to Duck's Donuts)

18595 Main Street

Huntington Beach, CA

{Bonus: current promo of 4 swim classes for $25 ends Monday, 06/05/2023}

As always, thanks for reading and sending air hugs!

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Where to print HOLIDAY CARDS fast!

2022-12-23T20:04:00.003-08:00

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There's soooo many things that go into behind-the-scenes when you receive those cute holiday cards.

Anyone here a last minute planner? I get it. With the holidays, the to-do list is just endless. From planning to taking family photos to picking your favorites and then choosing a holiday card style, there is just SO MUCH WORK involved. And you haven't even printed or mailed them out yet.

That is another big task itself. When it comes to holiday cards, there's a variety of options to choose from and places to order them at too. But it is the weekend of Christmas now (so it may arrive after the holiday if you're mailing cards out) and if you're looking to get some cute family photos to print and give out this weekend, you should totally use what I use!

Did you know (some) Walgreens has a photo department? YES! It's a hidden secret that you may not usually notice when there but they do! You can create your order online and pick up at the store. How awesome is that?!

Go to Walgreens website: Menu / Photo / Cards & Stationary / then scroll down to pick which type of card design you want to use / upload your photos / place them in your card design / write a message / then print!

Some cards have front and back design options. Some have different cardstock paper available (if you choose premium, only select stores have it so it may not be available to print as fast). I usually order the regular cardstock paper and it comes out well every single time (I always get compliments on our holiday cards and friends get surprised that it's not from some "fancy" place).

Did I mean they also have FREE SAME DAY PICK UP?? This makes it super convenient when you're printing last minute or needing the cards ASAP. It's also a major reason why I use Walgreens every year (you don't know how many times this helped me).

Enter promo code "FROST40" for 40% off prints until tomorrow/Friday, December 24th! So hurry hurry you still have time to print out those treasured memories!

Did you print out holiday cards this year?

We took our family photos at the beginning of December and just got the edited version of our favorites back on Sunday and I created my holiday cards through Walgreens and it was ready for pickup 30 minutes after I ordered them. Talk about fast service! So I was able to send our holiday cards out this week - just in time!

TIP :: If your closest location isn't available, "change store" for same day pickup to see if there's other options to get it sooner. Hope this post was helpful!

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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{family holiday photos by Walls of Wonder Photography}

Managing Holiday Stress Tips

2022-12-20T14:14:00.007-08:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

Is Christmas THIS weekend already??!

It feels like no matter how much you prep in advance, there's *always* something that pops up at the last minute aka the holiday stress week. We alllll feel it.

So I'm teaming up with Providence Health System to share informative checklists to help manage mental health before, during, and after the holidays. #ProvidencePartner It's easy to get distracted with a nonstop list of things-to-do but it's also important to take breaks throughout and enjoy the moments in between. Even if it's just a quick 10-30 minutes mental health break!

Have you checked on your mental health this season yet?

To help stay balanced during the holidays, I try to spread things out throughout the weeks and try not to double book events so I don't overextend myself. I used to not do that and would just be tired every week. Now I limit my time and energy and choose wisely on who and how much time I want to invest in people. It took a couple years but I've learned that sometimes saying "no" to others means saying "yes" to yourself, and it's okay to do that and not feel guilty about it.

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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Maternity Care, Your Way

2022-11-30T10:00:00.006-08:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

Now vs. Then

Can't believe it's already been 3 years since I was pregnant with this belly! There are so many changes that your body goes through from pregnancy, labor, and birth to your little one. So I've teamed up with Providence Health System to share information on maternity services they offer. #ProvidencePartner

Work together with an OB-GYN to develop your birthing plan. Providence experts are there to work with you to create personalized maternity care. Got questions? Write them down and ask them at your 1st appointment to find an OB-GYN partner that's right for you!

This is such a life changing journey and it's important to feel comfortable to work with someone who understands and cares. You have options.

For more info on maternity services, visit https://www.providence.org/services/maternity

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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Providence Healthcare Services

2022-11-29T17:00:00.000-08:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

Reality check: we're all getting older. Ahhh! And recently, I had a slight cancer scare.

It's something I wasn't going to share but hoping my experience inspires others to focus on their health too. Teaming up with Providence Health System to talk about cancer screening services. #ProvidencePartner

Went in for my annual mammogram and my results came back asking for additional imaging. Odd, why would they ask that? Came back for another mammogram and also an ultrasound. When the doctor came in after, I was expecting the worst: they found something. Since I have a family history of breast cancer, I'm already at risk. So I was pleasantly surprised when the doctor informed me that my results were cleared.

I love the new adventure life brings but I'm so not into all the health concerns that comes with it. Early detention with cancer screenings can help make a big difference.

For a list of cancer care services, check out https://www.providence.org/services/cancer

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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MAMA + SON OUTFIT IDEAS // Thanksgiving Style

2022-11-28T17:00:00.029-08:00

Who says you can't match with your little boy?! Cause THIS mama does and it's so much funnn.

Thankful to still be able to do this with him cause who knows how long it'll last, you know?

Soak it up.
Enjoy.
Be present.

Hope everyone had a great long holiday weekend!! We had a family gathering feast eating turkey and all the fixings! Our hearts and stomachs are full. <3

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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Think Pink for October

2022-10-26T13:00:00.025-07:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

This month is all about raising breast cancer awareness and, so, you know how important this cause is to me.

My mother passed away from this. So I feel an important need to - not only be aware of this family history myself - but to let others be aware that it can happen to anyone.

I'm partnering with Providence Health System to share that 1 in 8 women develop breast cancer! One in EIGHT?? Shocking, right?! Which is why it's soooo important to participate in early detection. #ProvidencePartner

Be sure to schedule annual mammograms starting age 40 - you can do it even sooner if you've had a family history of this (just let your doctor know! I started at age 30).

In the mean time, you can also do self breast exams at home and pay attention for any random lumps or pain.

As a mom now myself, and knowing this runs in my family, I have more reasons to be more aware of it and get check-ups annually.

Early detection can help save lives!

For more info on breast health, screenings, and care, go to https://www.providence.org/services/breast-care

Have you gotten your mammogram for this year yet?

If not, there's still a couple months left to schedule it!

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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Nightmare Before Christmas :: Halloween Boutique

2022-10-11T17:00:00.060-07:00

What's this? What's this? Have you seen the Nightmare Before Christmas boutique yet?

Calling all Jack Skellington, Sally, and Oogie Boogie fans: there's this fun little spot in Corona Del Mar you'll want to check out! It's decked out with dark decor and characters from the Nightmare Before Christmas movie. Totally brings back nostalgic memories of watching it as a kid!

Come experience the Nightmare Halloween boutique going on this month at Roger's Garden's to get you in the mood for the season! Enter through a maze into their creative land of Halloween featuring little tricks and treats inside. You'll find quirky figurines, goodies, and fall scented candles to buy for yourself or gift to others! I found a pumpkin spice diffuser to give to a friend who loves all-things-pumpkin for her new home (can't wait to give it to her!).

Tips to know:

* Free entry to Halloween boutique exhibit.

* Parking is free but is somewhat limited so you may wait a bit.

* It doesn't take long to go through the boutique and something to do if you're nearby.

Have you checked this out yet?

Every year Roger's Gardens go out to decorate for the holidays and it's so cool to see what they come up with next! You can't help to get inspired when you come here. They also have a great variety of plants here too if you are looking to add something new to your garden. We like getting a rosemary plant here - so useful to have at home!

As always, thanks for reading and sending some air hugs!

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ROGER'S GARDENS, 2301 San Joaquin Hills Road, Corona del Mar, CA 92625

Self-Care Ideas for Fall

2022-09-27T17:00:00.017-07:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

Can you believe that fall is already??!

This is your reminder that as the weather changes, so should our self-care routine. There are so many things to enjoy this season and I'm partnering with Providence Health System and Work2BeWell to share 3 fun self-care activities below to get you in the mood for fall! #ProvidencePartner

1) Decorate for autumn with darker tones

2) Visit a pumpkin patch

3) Create a fall dish - or, in my case, a fall-inspired charcuterie board!

4) Enjoy a pumpkin spice treat

5) Go on a nature walk outside

6) Bake an apple pie

7) Light a fall scented candle

8) Decorate for Halloween

What are you excited to do this fall??

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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Napa Valley Wine Train // Family Trip Idea

2022-09-25T10:00:00.017-07:00

If you are planning to visit Napa, you must add this to your to-do list!

Have you heard of the Napa Valley Wine Train before? Probably not. We recently discovered it and knew we had to cross it off our summer bucket list of activities!

What is the Napa Valley Wine Train?

Well, it's what it sounds like: a train ride to wine and dine in the beautiful city of Napa Valley. The train ride is actually a round trip to St. Helena and back. Perfect for adults and even families too! We went our little toddler and he absolutely enjoyed it!

First, book your Napa Valley Wine Train tickets (here). Was debating between the Vista Dome lunch experience and the Gourmet Express Lunch ride. Comparing the two below.

Vista Dome Lunch experience:

* 3 hours ride

* 2 story vista dome with elevated views

* all tables are private tables

* multiple course gourmet meal

* welcome sparkling wine

* adults only (ages 13+) tickets available

* ticket prices vary from around $300 and up (tip not included)

Gourmet Express Lunch experience:

* 3 hours ride

* traditional rail seating in vintage train

* shared seating tables unless upgraded

* multiple 3-course meal

* children and adults tickets available

* ticket prices vary from around $200 and up (tip not included)

They also have afternoon tea, dinner, and full day wine tasting train ride packages to choose from too! We went with the Gourmet Express Lunch experience since we had our toddler with us and choose the "early seating" ticket which means you dine first and then switch to the cable cars side after for dessert. The "late seating" ticket would be the opposite: ride the cable car side first then switch to dining area for lunch. The "early seating" worked perfect for us cause lunch started around 11:30am and then we switched to the cable car side for dessert/tea/coffee around 1:30pm.

TIP :: If you're a AAA member, call Napa Valley Wine Train directly at 800-427-4124 to let them know while you book your tickets so you can save some $.

What kind of food was served?

The ticket includes a 3 course gourmet meal (starter, entree, dessert) created with dishes made from local fresh produce. I'll admit I had low expectations for the food. I mean, how good could food on a train be - right? Well, it turned out, I was pleasantly surprised. You can taste the freshness and quality of the dishes from the first bite. Even more impressive that the chefs are creating all the meals on a moving train!

Also, note that we went in early summer so their menu and other things may change depending on the season.

What's not included?

* tip is not included so please be kind and remember to tip

* wine is not included

* alcohol drinks are extra

Toddler travel tips:

* ask for booster seat on dining side

* ask ahead for booth seating on lounge side

* bring any water cups/snacks as backup food & drinks

* bring activities (coloring books, small toys, etc.) to keep them entertained

Is it worth it?

Yes, totally! The cost of the ticket is a pretty penny but we felt like it was worth it. The food was actually good and you can't beat the winery views while you get to relax and enjoy. This was something different than other travel experiences. I really liked how it didn't take the whole day to do either so you still have time to enjoy other activities afterwards too.

Would you try the Napa Valley Wine Train?

We're so glad we got to experience the Napa Valley Wine Train and highly recommend it! It was definitely one of our favorite family memories this year and I know you'd love this one-of-a-kind experience too!

As always, thanks for reading and sending air hugs!

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Customized Baby Shower Gift Idea

2022-09-09T10:00:00.009-07:00

This year feels like it's been the year of baby showers, hasn't it?

Before the pandemic it felt like we were attending weddings almost every month. And now? 2022 has been filled with sooooo many baby showers. I've attended 5 so far and have another one coming up later this month. So many blessings coming to the new parents-to-be!

How do you decide on a baby shower gift?

When it comes to baby showers, the soon-to-be parents will usually have a baby registry list where they take time to research and select things that they want for their upcoming arrival. Each person has their own style and preference so it's usually best to go with what they choose from the list if you don't know what to get them.

If you choose something off the list, it's courtesy to include a gift receipt just in case:

1) it's not their style (don't feel offended, we all like different things)

2) they may have gotten duplicates

As an added bonus, I like to include a personal touch: customized baby onesies. I discovered a local Asian female owned brand - Hammond Haus - that creates customized pieces for bridal, babies, and more. The founder, Amanda Nguyen Hammond, is also a fellow blogger friend (we were one of the first bloggers in Orange County over a decade ago!) and she is so creative so I knew I wanted to support her. Hammond Haus carries custom gifts and goods (check out their Instagram here). To order was such an easy - and quick - process to create customized baby onesies. You can have 1, 2, or 3 lines on the baby onesie. I was able to personalize them with the baby's last name (when I didn't know what the baby's name would be) and year to keep it simple and clean. Even made a fun onesie for someone having twins (below)!

Are you into personalized gifts? Would you do this?

If you're not sure what to get at your next baby shower you're attending, check out Hammond Haus. The quality was great and there were also different onesie sizes to choose from. Just make sure you give enough time to have it personalized and delivered. Amanda's made 8 of these customized baby onesies for me this year and all the parents loved them! It's a great addition to add to any baby shower gift - they seriously make such a thoughtful gesture!

As always, thanks for reading and sending you air hugs!

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Managing School Anxiety

2022-08-26T14:30:00.003-07:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

How is summer already almost over??!

I have to admit that I'm kind of not fully ready for it. Next month we'll be taking Kyler to start preschool and I've been going back-and-forth with it (already postponed starting it 3 times ). Can you tell I'm a little bit nervous?!

It'll be KaiKai's first time going to school (AHH!!) and there's so much to prepare for! From getting a physical to going through the checklists of things to-do to then coordinating pick-ups and drop-offs, oh my. Am I really ready for this?? LOL

Partnering with Providence Health System and Work 2 Be Well to share 10 ways to manage back-to-school anxiety in the photos below! #ProvidencePartner

Did anyone start school yet? How do you prepare for it?

Share some tips for this new mama below!

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Wellness Check-In

2022-07-22T08:00:00.010-07:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

The saying goes, take care of yourself first to be able to take care of others.

As a mom, I can't stress this enough!

It's so easy to give, give, give.

Give to our little ones.

Give to our spouse/partner.

Give to family and friends.

But if we constantly do things for others without replenishing ourself, we will run out of giving. And sometimes we might push it and it can take a toll on our bodies.

Teaming up with Providence Health System to do a wellness check-in reminder to take time out for yourself. Even 5-10mins a day of self-care can make a positive impact on your mind and body! #ProvidencePartner

What have you done for yourself today?

I like to start each morning with a cup of matcha - this is my me time. You can go to Work 2 Be Well for more mental health resources.

As always, thanks for reading and sending virtual hugs!

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Summer Self-Care Ideas

2022-06-23T08:00:00.004-07:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

Changing seasons also means it's time for us to switch up our self-care routine!

Summer calls for hot days and being outdoors more. It just doesn't feel like a summer if we don't go and soak up some rays, right?

Partnering with Providence Health System and Works2BeWell to share some of my favorite summer activities:

• going to the beach

• renting a Duffy boat

• having a backyard BBQ

• swimming or even lounging poolside

• planning a staycation

#ProvidencePartner Did you know there are many mental health benefits from the sun?

1) It helps improve your mood (increases serotonin)

2) Gives you some vitamin D nutrition (reduces inflammation)

3) Releases nitric acid into your blood (helps lower blood pressure)

Have you started planning some summer activities yet?

It's a great way to enjoy the season and treat yourself. Just remember SPF if you'll be out longer than 15 minutes!

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Polar Playground featured on Thrillist: 12 Places Going Viral on TikTok

2022-06-20T08:00:00.090-07:00

Hi friends! I'm a little late at posting media features of Polar Playground so going to start sharing them.

Polar Playground is a dessert shop in Huntington Beach, California that specializes in ice cream creations and handcrafted cotton candy characters. Have you been here yet??! If so, THANK YOU for supporting our small business!! The Mister is the mastermind behind the artistic and flavorful combinations and I'm just so proud of him!

We've been blessed with many media and press features throughout the years and I didn't realize I haven't been sharing them here so going to try to be better at it.

A couple months ago (alright, it was November 2021), Polar Playground got featured in Thrillist's "12 LA Restaurants That Are Going Viral on TikTok Right Now" (here). Even though we're located in Orange County (next to Los Angeles), it's pretty cool to be listed alongside so many other fabulous LA eateries! The list includes Paris Tokyo, Saddle Ranch Chop House, Dollar Hits, Fatima's Halal Grill, Cupid's Hot Dogs, Veronica's Kitchen, Krazy Cup, Supersweet Tattoos + Coffee, Nursr-Et Steakhouse Beverly Hills, The Red Chickz, and Gucci Osteria da Massimo Bottura (which just earned a Michelin start this past September!). Click on the restaurant name to get more details including address info.

Have you checked out any of these viral TikTok spots yet?

We've actually been Saddle Ranch before since they have a location here in Orange County! It was a fun spot with Western vibes and great for a night (or day) of entertainment. Next time I'm in LA, I want to try and check out Gucci Osteria now.

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What Do You Do For A Living?

2022-06-18T08:00:00.014-07:00

I get this question asked often: what do you do for a living?

And the truth is, it's not one short answer. I have never been the type of person that does just one thing for work. I've always been busy multi-tasking, even during my free time. Maybe it's a sickness (haha) but that's just me.

So what do I do? For those that don't know, I'll keep it simple.

I am a mental health therapist, co-business founder of the cotton candy dessert shop Polar Playground (IG: @polarplayground), and (of course) a life+style blogger for AccordingtoKimberly (thanks for your support all these years!).

Nowadays we don't really wear "one" working hat anymore. It's all about having multiple streams of income while doing things that bring you joy.

Focus on 3 types of "jobs" to work on:

1 - to help others

1 - to challenge you

1 - to be a creative outlet

I think that's why I don't get bored working and wearing different "hats." There's always something new to learn and do!

What about you? What do you do for a living?

Curious because you never know who may need your skilled service. I recently reconnected with an old friend that I haven't seen in maybe a decade(?) because months ago they shared their job skill and last week I was looking for service and reached out to them. Now we are working together. Cause if people don't know what you do, how will they know to go to you for that service? Something to think about. ;)

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38 and Feeling Great! Sharing 38 Inspirational Life Quotes

2022-05-20T21:30:00.008-07:00

Officially 38 today and it doesn't even feel like it.

After a certain age, it just seems like age is just a number. Especially when you're "in between" milestone numbers, right? But that doesn't take away the fact that sometimes what we do between those milestone years leads to what you're trying to achieve by then. Meaning, they are just as important!

To kick off turning 38, I'm sharing some quotes below that inspires me - and I hope it inspires you too! Most are anonymous (I don't know from who but if you do, please share!)

38 inspirational life quotes to live by:

1. "In my life I've lived, I've loved, I've lost, I've missed, I've hurt, I've trusted, I've made mistakes, but most of all, I've learned."

2. "Current vibe: working for the lifestyle I promised myself."

3. "Small circle. Clear mind. Happy heart. Private life. Peaceful days."

4. "I don't believe in failure. It's not failure if you enjoyed the process. - Oprah

5. "Don't rush anything. Good people end up with good people."

6. "Your diet is not only what you eat. It's what you watch, what you listen to, what you read, the people you hang out around...Be mindful of the things you put into your body emotionally, spiritually, and physically."

7. "Breathe in, breathe deep, breathe through, breathe out." - Taylor Swift

8. "Consistency is a love language."

9. "Put yourself at the top of your to-do list every day and watch how everything falls into place."

10. "Life is easier when you don't focus on what everyone else is doing."

11. "Some people will judge you for evolving while others will celebrate who you're becoming. Be mindful of your tribe, beautiful. Their vibes impact you more than you realize."

12. "You've got to learn to be your own hype woman, coach, best friend, and lover. At the end of the day, no one is going to care more about your success and happiness than you are."

13. "Don't waste your time with people who don't value your worth or match your energy, your time is one thing you can't get back in this life."

14. "May anything that's bothering you be cleared, healed, solved, and released."

15. "Remember when you manifested what you wanted? You can do that again and more."

16. "Take that risk, it could change your life."

17. "The quieter you become, the more you can hear."

18. "Your glow up will be hard for some people to watch. Glow anyway."

19. "The cost of being wrong is less than the cost of doing nothing."

20. "Simply let things arise and unfold naturally instead of formulating expectations and worrying. Things usually turn out just fine."

21. "Stay close to people who want more for you. Not more from you."

22. Some people are in your life to test you until you stand up and say: Enough is enough. I am worth more than what you offer me."

23. Remember that the reason you're doing this is to make your life better."

24. "Nobody can make you happy until you're happy with yourself first."

25. "If it's out of your hands it deserves freedom from your mind, too."

26. "It's okay to be sad about something you thought you had healed from."

27. "Love yourself instead of loving the idea of other people loving you."

28. "There is no magic cure for overcoming the grief of relationships and friendships ending. Mourning is a natural part of life when you've experienced a loss and in some cases, creating your own closure is a part of the healing process." - Minaa B., LMSW

29. "Stop thinking. Stop pondering. Stop strategizing. Stop debating...GO DO." - Gary V.

30. "It might be hard, but it's not impossible."

31. "The struggle you are facing is a test to see if you are truly committed to the life you say you want."

32. "Watch me, manifest everything I want."

33. "Walk, talk, and act like the QUEEN you are."

34. "Celebrate yourself, babe. Nobody knows what it takes to be you."

35. "I have the strength to be who I want to be."

36. "When it doesn't bother you anymore like it used to, that's peace."

37. "In the end we won't remember the most beautiful face and body. We will remember the most beautiful heart and soul."

38. "Take care of the woman you are today, you've worked so hard to become her."

Do you have any favorite quotes to share or add to this list?

This is still my favorite quote by the infamous Maya Angelou: "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." Hence why, it's important to treat everyone with kindness.

As always, thanks for reading and sending you virtual air hugs!

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Mental Health Awareness Month

2022-05-19T10:30:00.010-07:00

{This post is sponsored by Providence Health System which helps to support this blog; the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

Hi there and hello! How are you feeling today?

May is Mental Health Awareness Month and as a mental health advocate myself, this is an important cause I want to continue sharing about!

I'm partnering with Providence Health System to share some mental health advice. #ProvidencePartner If you - or someone you know - is going through a tough time, please understand that you are not alone. It's so important to talk to someone about what's going on whether it's family, friends, or a licensed therapist. Keeping it inside is unhealthy and can take a toll on the body. There is help out there, there is help available, and it's okay to ask.

Have you checked in with your mental health lately?

The more we talk about raising mental health awareness, the more we can feel comfortable sharing it and getting help when needed.

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Lady M x Baccarat Luxury Cake Truck Event Happening NOW

2022-05-13T10:00:00.000-07:00

Have you heard?!? Lady M Cakes and Baccarat have joined together to create a special treat for you!

Yes, there's a CAKE TRUCK serving these luxury cake slices on Baccarat dishes! How fancy fun is that?!?

For a limited time, this collaboration is open to the public from May 13th, 2022 to May 14th, 2022 from 12pm-6pm. Happening outside Macy's Men store parking area. Grab some friends, treat yourself, and enjoy!

Who's stopping by and getting a slice of mille crepe cake??

Lady M's signature crepe cake and green tea crepe cake are some of my fave flavors. They also have a limited edition red "B" cake with raspberries inside created just for this Baccarat event! What a great outing idea for family, friends, and - if you happen to be already shopping here - a nice way to treat yourself. Thanks South Coast Plaza for inviting us so we can share this great event so others can join in on the fun too! More info about the event here.

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How to Cope with Stress

2022-04-25T17:30:00.006-07:00

{This is a paid sponsored post - the opinions are of my own. Thank you.}

While there's no one-size-fits-all solution to this, there are several ways to cope with stress. Last time I talked about listening to your body to understand when - and what - may be triggering you stress.

I'm so happy to be partnering with Providence Health System again but this time, I'm going to share 3 different coping skills to try that you can pretty much do anywhere any time.

Deep breathing - slow inhale through your nose for 4 seconds, hold breath for 3 seconds, slow exhale through nose for 6 seconds. You can close your eyes or stare at the wall while doing this.
Meditation - try clearing your mind for 30 seconds to start. You do this in silence or while listening to nature sounds. The point is to try to block out outside thoughts when you're trying to focus on clearing and calming your mind.
Distraction - sometimes we need to distract our minds to think of something else to focus on to be able to relax and give time to gather our thoughts in a calmer state.

These aren't any secrets. As a mental health therapist, I share these healthy coping skills to try. The perk is that, not only is it convenient, but you don't need any equipments to do it. I like to think of our mind having a bucket of different coping skills to use and when we need it, it's nice to have a variety to try. What may not work this time (for whatever situation it is) May work next time (for a different situation).

Who doesn't like options right?

The more you try different coping skills, the more you find what works for you and when. Again, I can't emphasize it enough to continuously listen to your body when it's trying to tell you something. The more we become self-aware of ourselves, the better we can understand why we think the way we do.

You can find free mental health resources for teens, parents and educators at @Work2BeWell on Instagram or online at Work2BeWell.org.

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