Great news, Big Business is running another Humour, Improv and Attraction seminar in Chicago on June 12th! Big Business plays professional comedy shows as well as traveling the world as a Love Systems instructor. He’s extremely qualified to teach humour for attraction and has received rave reviews.

Some of you may remember the free interview I did with Big Business when he first launched the seminar back in January 2010: http://www.adventuresofkeychain.com/2010/01/14/keychain-exposes-big-business-14/

Interested in training your comedy muscles and learning the fine art of improvisation (so you never run out of things to say again)?

SIGN UP HERE: http://www.lovesystems.com/training-programs/humor-improv-attraction

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This year I’ve been invited to speak at the Real Man Conference in Aachen, Germany on April 10 and 11.

I spoke at the first of these events in 2008 (read my review here) and absolutely loved it. It was a fantastic chance to get close and personal with some of the dating communities superstars. I made some great friends, learned a ton about myself, improved my game and generally had a blast!

There are some fantastic speakers this year, including Orlando Owen, Paul Janka, Asian Playboy and Badboy. To get a sense of the scale of the event, check out this video from the last conference (extra points if you can spot me!):

This really is the best dating and seduction conference in Europe that I’ve ever attended – if you can get there, I strong recommend it!

<CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP>

See you there!

Keychain

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I’ve started writing a guest blog on istaggered.com – a site to do with mens’ wedding issues (stag parties, best man speeches etc…). I’m challenging the readers to follow my blog for a year and am ‘guaranteeing’ that by the end of it they won’t be single anymore.

I thought I’d repost the first article for your interest and amusement

Enjoy!

Keychain

LINK: http://www.iamstaggered.com/featured/the-stop-being-single-challenge-part-one

REPOST:

Dear Reader,

Welcome to the Batchelor-Buster blog! Over the next weeks and months I’ll be presenting short, informative articles designed to radically change the way you conduct your dating life.

Contrary to the usual wishy-washy dating advice out there, I won’t bore you with vague exhortations to “just be yourself”, “be confident” and “be funny”. I’ll give you specific, tried and true techniques that will, if followed, turn your dating life around.

Whether you’re single and looking for that special someone or just want to increase your options with women, I’ll teach you how to take charge of your dating life and become the selector.

Sounds pretty enticing right?

But there’s a catch…

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”. – Rita Mae Brown

Mark, a good friend of mine, is chronically single. He’s unsatisfied with the type of women he meets and always seems to fall into relationships of convenience with women that don’t really inspire him. Mark dates women from two main sources, his workplace and social circle. In fact, this is where most of us assume we’ll find our partners.

The problem is that Mark’s choices are very limited. His dating life is out of his control; with such a passive approach to dating he is forced to rely on Fate, Cupid or blind luck to send an attractive, single woman across his path. It’s much like a caveman hunting deer by standing still in a forest and hoping some poor creature will run onto his spear by sheer chance!

What if Mark had the skill and confidence to strike up a conversation with any woman, in any situation? What if he could approach the cute brunette in the queue at the coffee shop, or the arty redhead on the tube? What if he could actually meet, have an interesting conversation and set up a date with the kinds of attractive women he sees around him every day? His options would be limitless!

Well, that’s what I propose to discuss in this blog: the skills, habits and mindsets required to actually take charge of your dating life and create some choice for yourself.

Earlier, I mentioned a catch and here it is: change. If you want to change the results of your dating life, you’ll need to change what you put into it. I’ll be suggesting specific changes that may challenge you. Most of us tend towards homeostasis and resist change but I encourage you to consider that if what you’re doing right now isn’t working, what have you got to lose by trying something different?

First Things First

Let’s finish with a quick exercise to work out the kind of woman you want. Now, at times (such as at 2am in a Friday night bar after a stiff drink or six), I might feel like just about any pretty girl with a pulse and a cute smile could be a candidate for my time and affection, but in my higher moments I have been known to hold to some form of standards!

These flashes of refinement and discernment, however rare, are actually a necessity to being successful in dating. On a more serious note, as you follow this blog and start changing the way you conduct your love life, your options will increase so much that you’ll need standards to choose which women to get to know better.

I’m not going to ask you to list the physical attributes that you find sexy in a woman. For most guys this is a no-brainer, our bodies tell us right away if we’re physically attracted to a woman or not. Physical attractiveness is very important and is the entry requirement for a woman to qualify for a date with you. But there are throngs of gorgeous women out there who measure up on a purely physical level – many more than you could possible date in a lifetime. We’ll need to deepen our search if we want to sort through this bounty of beauties to find the right match.

Let’s list eight non-physical qualities that you look for in a woman. Whether you want someone who is enthusiastic about travel, sexually confident and open-minded or a great cook, write them down. A man who clearly knows what he wants tends to get what he wants.

Save this list, you’ll need it for later blog installments.

Next time we’ll discuss easy and effective ways to start a conversation with any woman in any situation. We’ll look at some great opening lines and reveal the oh-so-common mistakes that cause most men to send women running!

Until then,

Steve Jones, aka Keychain

www.lovesystems.com

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A team from Channel 5 News spent some time with us at our recent London Bootcamp to film a Valentine’s Day Special. They attended the seminar and shadowed five students and me as we hit the town. A panel of presenters discuss the segments at the end of the video (so skip forward if you want to hear what they say about us!).

I’ve uploaded the video to youtube for you and embedded it below. Your thoughts and comments are most welcome!

Enjoy!

Keys

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Have you heard of ‘being stuck in your head’, when you overthink everything so much that you’re actually paralysed and cannot act at all? Well this is THE WORST CASE of this you’ll ever see

Enjoy!

Keys

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I’m excited, Mr.M just forwarded me an insiders’ copy of the finished phone and text game ebook and it’s insane!

First of all, it’s absolutely huge. This isn’t some shoddy collection of articles that barely touches twenty pages…nope, this behemoth is one-hundred and seventy five pages long!

I get so many emails from guys who have taken our bootcamps and maybe a 1-1 or two – they’re able to get numbers by the dozen but still mess up on the follow-up. Guys, without decent phone and text game you’re not gonna get many dates.

There are full-length transcripts of phone conversations and text-banter that show the whole progression of turning a cold number into a hot date. You can be sure I’ll be analysing these closely to steal all the good stuff

I heartily recommend you get this new book and turn those tough numbers into solid dates! Check it out here: http://www.lovesystems.com/pages/affiliate_link.php?f=/books/phone-text-game&kbid=85116&m=230

All the best,

Keychain

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