But here Nili is 8 years later with a more mature and more powerful voice and her acting talents (that have always blown me away) even better.

And yes, that is her natural hair color. She came out of e with red hair. How special is that when her mom, dad and brother all have dark brown (or gray now) hair?

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Huh?

Quantum physics tells us that everything is energy. Thoughts are energy. Emotions are energy in motion. Put those two concepts together and you cannot refute the fact that your thoughts lead to your emotions that lead to your unique world, the reality each individual creates.

You know the question, “Is the glass half full or half empty?” Your response reveals how you run your head.

Do you see the good side of life or the bad side?

Does  your focus hone in on what serves you and brings you happiness and health? Or do you misuse your imagination thinking about painful past events and create pictures of even more frightening and disappointing circumstances in your future?

Whichever you choose to see is the one you will live. Guaranteed.

Ah yes, quantum physics further explains that the observer influences the result. The mood you experience when you make your observation totally determines the outcome.

Think of it this way…
In a scientific experiment the scientist poses a hypothesis, predicting a specific outcome of the experiment. Then he observes what happens, interprets his data, and writes up the results he observed.
Two things to know:
1.    The scientist sees what he expects and accepts to see and literally is blind to other outcomes–not intentionally. just how the mind works unless a conscious effort is made to include ALL  possible outcomes, including those never anticipated and seemingly unrelated to the issue under scrutiny.

2.  The scientist, by having a desired expectation, influences the result, increasing the chances of verifying his hypothesis.

How do you apply that knowledge in your own life?

Did you ever know someone diagnosed with a tumor (it showed up in a number of tests) who, on the way to the surgical procedure envisioned herself as all healed and then, when final tests were done just before the surgery (to verify where to operates) all tests showed negative? No more tumor. Remarkably the tumor previously revealed on earlier tests also disappeared.

Your mood influences what you will read in the unopened letter, in the status of the gift you sent across the ocean, on the phone call you’ve been waiting for, in the diagnosis from the doctor, etc.

In fact, scientific tests showed that item A, placed in a package and mailed overseas, somehow mutated during shipment into an item B matching the item B at the receiving end which was originally an item A BEFORE the package shipped.

That research is not new. Many similar experiments verify what quantum physicists verified over the years. Thoughts, as conscious or subconscious intentions, are powerful energies that affect outcomes for people, objects, and events.

Now you know why you do not need couples therapy to move a failing relationship to an amazing one of partnership. Only one person does the work and influences the other just using her own energy to heal herself and send love both to him and to the relationship as a separate entity.

Witness the look on most people’s face’s as you pass by them or simply remain still and observe what you see every where. You will see more anger, wrinkled brows, or sadness than you will smiling bright faces. Mostly, though, you will notice ho hum looks that seem to say, “Let’s just make it through this day.”

Consider these statistics: you think 65,000 thoughts each day. OF that 65,000, 95% are the same thoughts you thought the day before – and the day before that and the day before that ad infinitum.

Now add to the mix the fact that 80% of those daily thoughts represent negative events or imagined negative situations.

You don’t have to be a mathematician to understand how that the huge thought form enveloping far too many people on the planet is one of scarcity.: not being enough or not having enough of this and that and everything.

Also realize that only about 1% of people actually think.

The remaining 99% ask their friends and family for advice when they need to make decisions. They do not bother to seek expert advice for things like where to bank, what kind of insurance to get and through whom, where to live and shop, which doctors to see, etc.

Very important life decisions, then, get made each day by people who choose not to take the energy or invest the effort to take responsibility for their important life decisions. One benefit, other getting by being lazy, is they have someone to blame when things fail to work out as they hoped they would.

Hmm.

With so many people not thinking, the only energy on which to draw becomes negative viewpoints of life. All of which elude man’s nature, namely, love. People who live on automatic buy into the huge thought forms of lack.

It is impossible to experience two opposing emotions in any single moment. So anyone thinking of what they want that others already have (envy) will not simultaneously feel gratitude for what they DO have. Neither will they experience joy and love for the other person who has what they themselves want.

What if you decided to live in gratitude?

What if you saw love every place you looked – because actually, every place you look love does exist. You choose whether or not to allow that love into your life.

You expend more energy to feel good than you do to feel bad.

What?

The default energy you experience vibrates at a low and s-l-o-w frequency. You can only attract experiences and things that exist in frequencies in harmony with your current level of vibration. Therefore you must raise your energy level higher to get what you say you want.

Notice I said “what you say you want. ” The bottom line truth is that you have what you want in life in every moment. Affirmations totally work. The problem is most people have no clue how or what they ask for.

Want to know? Look at your life. What you see reflects your requests.

Which brings me back to my initial point: of the 65,000 thoughts you think every day a full 80% are negative.

How can you change that state and plug into the life you desire? Live consciously monitoring your thoughts. Catch yourself when you feel bad because your feelings reveal your thoughts operating out of your awareness.

Mke sense?

What one step will you take today to make the difference that will shift you into happiness so you can live the life you desire? You can do it instantly, It doesn’t have to take weeks or months.

Just do something different NOW.

Do you really think that is what a soulmate does for you? Do you think there is only one perfect match for you that allows a blissful existence forever?

What if a soulmate is someone who loves you so much, on a soul level, that he or she comes into your life to push your buttons forcing you to grow, to evolve on a soul level?

What if living with your soulmate results in your overcoming the blocks you placed on your path that prevent you from becoming all you can be in life and doing all you came here to do?

What if your soulmate pushes you into painful places forcing you to stop, live in the NOW and act, powerfully act, to move your life forward in the direction of your dreams?

I am not talking in the form of being your biggest cheer leader. I am talking about arguments, lack of honor or respect, poor communication, frustration and all the behaviors you think you never desired on your path in life. BUT without arousing those parts of you hurt by those feelings, why would you ever “go there” and seek change on your own part?

What happens when you live in comfort and all goes swimmingly well all the time?

For one thing you probably wonder if what is happening is real. Most likely your doubts come with reasons to feel that way.

People who live in comfort simply feel no motivation to grow and change. Pain pushes people into action, yes?

Am I saying that living in a wonderfully fulfilling relationship is a dream? NO. Just realize there is no such thing as a relationship without constant button pushing and continual growth.

When you live with your soulmate maybe, just maybe, that growth happens for both parties. And you discover how to resolve the frequent hurt feelings and misunderstandings easier and faster every time something comes up.

Make sense?

Do you even know the real out-of-your-awareness reasons you and your partner came together in the first place?

You were not attracted to each other for the reason you think brought you together. You probably think sexual attraction, common interests or displaying opposite personality traits (shy woman with an outgoing man, non-emotional man with a very emotional woman) drew you toward one another.

Those are the conscious reasons you told yourself causing you to act but not the “why” underlying those actions.

What if I told you that living through and healing the difficulties in this relationship allowed you to heal every similar relationship issue across your life? Think your boss, a former friend, your parent, your child, etc.

How you do anything is how you do everything. Fix one relationship. Watch all of them heal spontaneously.

Why?

What do you think really goes on in your soulmate partnership?

The thing is, you cannot fulfill your desire to live in happiness until you create love for yourself. You gotta love yourself first.

Okay, so what happens when you love yourself first?

You create new programs within your subconscious. Your frequency increases to the level where everything you desire exists: the feel good emotions, friends, jobs, things, etc

Everything is energy – verything, including you and me. All things are also energy. Thoughts are energy. All energy vibrates at specific frequencies.

Feel good energy vibrates as higher amplitude waves (think sound waves from your high school physics class) that move fast.When you feel good you feel energetic and happy. Sad and bad emotions and experiences vibrate as lower amplitude waves and long slow motion.

No matter how many techniques you use to create instant happiness you will never stay in that energy without making the internal shifty to love. When you live love everyone in your world will interact differently toward you. In fact, your love will flow out, surround and fill others.

Yes, your love will flow into and surround others raising their frequencies to new heights too. Yes, the way to change relationships is to take care of you. It is never about the other person and always about you.

No one is blaming you–or anybody else–for anything. No blame exists. Not really.

The only thing that keeps you stuck in the muck of daily living is your lack of self love. The same holds true for those with whom you feel disconnected or even angry.

The person who you think you are merely reflects your self image. Your self image reveals the programs others instilled in your subconscious mind when you were too young to filter out messages that did not serve you. those programs, operating out of our awareness, run your life in every moment.

Self love means knowing your True Self–who you were at birth. When you know your True identity, as opposed to the person you define yourself to be, you cannot feel anything but love. You live in constant gratitude for every little thing in your world. You automatically see how the Universe supplies all you ask for at precisely the moment it serves your highest and best interest to accept it and allow it in to create your new reality.

Make sense?

Loving yourself first is not only NOT selfish, it is mandatory! You cannot give what you do not have. Until you love yourself first and become love all you can really do is know about love. You cannot be completely happy or know boundless joy and success without love.

You either love someone or something or you don’t. There are no shades of gray. Just as you cannot be a little bit pregnant you cannot love a little bit. Love carries no conditions. Regardless of what someone says or doesn’t say, does or doesn’t do – when you love that someone you love the person and see him as separate from his behaviors.

Where are you on your love yourself first barometer? Do you know your True Self? Do you participate in the daily communications your True Self shares with you? Do even know how to hear or talk to your True Self?

Every problem you will ever encounter in life results from a disconnect in one of the above three areas—every single big and little issue. Start with who you are being in life and you will automatically arrive in happiness.

Happy people enjoy their lives, no matter what they are doing. They do not limit their fun times to recreation or activities labeled “fun.”

When you think of all the fun things you do, do you think of the fun things that you do in all areas of your life?

Take a moment to look across your life and see what is it that you can do in each area to make each task fun. Some people listen to music and dance while doing the dishes or cleaning the house.

You can entertain yourself–laugh, sing, dance or even learn—while doing many household chores.

Get really loud. Act goofy and downright silly. Let yourself enjoy whatever it is you do instead of dreading those tasks.

Make it a point to spend ten to twenty minutes for yourself everyday. Do something you enjoy doing just for you.

I imagine you heard that Norman Cousins reversed a fatal illness by watching funny movies and television shows.

When you laugh your body releases wonderful chemicals through your system that cause healing. His laughter made him well. He beat a fatal disease by being happy and entertaining himself.

Keep yourself healthy and happy by enjoying yourself. Do something that makes you laugh out loud every single day. What would that be for you? Think. There must be something somewhere.

Maybe you might read a funny story, a funny play or even a joke book. Or step out of your conservative box and act like a kid—play!

Your body and mind will reward you with continued or improved health.

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You know that you can use a computer to communicate. You know how to read and understand American English. You know your name.

You also know what you don’t know.

You now that you do not know how to pilot a submarine. You know that you do not know how to speak Ancient Greek. You know that you do not know how to perform brain surgery. Agree?

There is another category that you probably never heard about: what you don’t know you don’t know.

Into that category falls the items in your subconscious mind that drive your behaviors in every minute. Your self-image falls into that domain. Your money set-point does too. Your style and competency for how you participant and show up in relationships also exists outside of your awareness.

The programs that others programmed into your subconscious when you were a baby and small child determine who you can and cannot be, what you can and cannot do, and what you can and cannot have in life.

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