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ALERT~! New Kind Of Scammer! Maybank Scammer!

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 06:03:00 +0000

ALERT! ALERT!

I have just received an email which asked me to verify my account by logging in into the website which the link provided by the email. PLS! DON'T EVER DO THIS BECAUSE THIS IS SCAMMER!

Be prepare to lose all your money inside the account if you do as what the email asks you. They will claim that you have made an error during login to your online banking Maybank account. Thus, they ask you to login to verify your account.

What are so stupid here is:

They claim that you have failed to login to your Maybank Online Banking Account, or make an error - So how could you login to verify as what they ask you?
The address of the link provided is - http://may2u-banking.com/login.html and this is not from http://www.maybank2u.com (the correct address). Please notice this!
No sign or trademark from Maybank and even if you open the link that they ask you - it's a dull link with small Maybank logo!
I have called my Maybank, asked about this and they said it was not their email! GOT YA~!!!!

So, please whoever who received this kind of email, don't do as what they ask you! Please tell others about this or your friends will be this scammer's victims. I'm going to make a police report regarding this!

This is an example of the email I have received an hour ago!

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Dear Valued Customer:

Your Maybank Account info needs to be verified to allow you have
access to online banking

So we have issued this warning message to you,

This message is sent from our secure server to verify your
Maybank Account info as there have been a multiple error logon
and Maybank failure.

Your access to online banking has been limited temporarily for
security reason's by Maybank2u Online Banking Service.

Verify your account now and enjoy the benefits of Maybank2u Internet Banking,

Follow the steps provided to your on this link below

http://may2u-banking.com/login.html

All information must be followed as been directed

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PLEASE ALERT~!

Blogger Tips - Top Six Internal Linking Tactics To Get Top Google Rankings (by Jason O'Connor)

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 16:42:00 +0000

If you own or run a website and are not following these six tactics for properly linking your website together then you're losing Google traffic as you read this. First some definitions. Internal linking is the links on your website that point to other pages within your same website. External linking is when you link to another website. Tactics are specific things to do to achieve desired results, or any mode of procedure for gaining advantage or success.

There are things you can do when developing or refining your internal linking structure. If you carry out the following tactics, you're going to achieve two things. One, you'll make your website better from a user's perspective. Two, you'll rank better in Google. And it's no coincidence that Google rewards you for doing things that make the website user's experience easier and better. In fact, the most important thing I can recommend is that you create, design and link your website together in a way that benefits the visitor first. Your visitors are most important, not Google rankings.

One last thing before I get to the tactics. Have you heard that links from other websites that point back to your website are essential in getting top search engine rankings, especially with Google? It's true. These links vary in their effectiveness and value depending on the website from which they're coming. But did you also know that internal links often can have similar effectiveness and value as external links? So bear this in mind as you read on.

1) Add links in your navigation or footer as text links to all your important pages and main sections.

This is a very easy and an extremely effective tactic that not all sites do, and even fewer do for maximum results. This is the first thing I look for when reviewing a website for a client. Unfortunately, sometimes artsy Web designers add cool buttons, which are images, to all the main sections of the site, but neglect to include text links as well. Or a programmer decides to make the website's navigation a dynamic drop down menu in DHTML or JavaScript but forgets to include text links to the same pages represented in the menus. Search engines cannot follow image links or links created in JavaScript, they can only follow simple text links, so be sure you add them to your site as well.

So if you want search engines to visit and index (or record) ALL your website's pages, be sure there are text links pointing to all the main sections of your site and to all your important pages.

2) Make use of the rel="nofollow" HTML tag.

This is fairly simple. Google created this tag which tells them NOT to count the link in their search engine ranking algorithm when used on a link. There's debate that maybe Google does count them a little, or will some day in the future. But for now, this tag does greatly decrease a link's value in Google's eyes.

Therefore, consider using this tag on some of your links within your site. For example, let's say you have a homepage and then create two inner pages, and that's the extent of the site. Let's further say that you add a link to both pages on your homepage. If your homepage has some external links pointing to it, then it has some value in regards to Google's ranking system. When you link to each of your two new pages within your site from your homepage, each page gets only 50% of the value the homepage has. (This is all measured in Page Rank). Let's then say that your first inner page is the one you want to rank well in Google, but you don't care if your second inner page even gets found by Google or ranked. You could add the nofollow tag to the second link on your homepage, thereby giving the first inner page 100% of the homepage's value.

Think of the implications. Imagine if you had a website with hundreds or thousands of pages and used the nofollow tag throughout. To understand how to implement this tag, see the two links in HTML below, one without it and one with it correctly included.

http://www.yourwebsite.com">Your Website

http://www.yourwebsite.com" rel="nofollow">Your Website

Finally, if you have pages such as a privacy page, terms page, checkout pages or contact pages that you don't care if they rank well in Google, be sure to use the nofollow tag when creating internal links to these pages.

3) Use descriptive & different phrases to point to the same inner page.

The words that are in the text of a link (also known as the anchor text) affect your search engine rankings. For example, the anchor text in the two links above is "Your Website". If enough of these links that were on quality and valuable sites, including your website's inner pages, pointed to the same page, it would eventually rank well in Google when someone searches for the phrase "your website".

Therefore, be sure to make the anchor text in all your internal links the phrases you want the pages to be found for in Google. If you have a page that sells "blue widgets", make the anchor text in links on other pages within your website that point to this page "blue widgets". Do it like this:

http://www.yourwebsite.com/blue-widgets.htm">Blue Widgets

Going back to the number 1 tactic above, you would be far better off making the anchor text in all your footer links as descriptive as possible. If you want to rank well in Google for "affordable blue widgets" then use this in your links that point to this page:

http://www.yourwebsite.com/blue-widgets.htm">Affordable Blue Widgets

Finally, vary your anchor text when pointing to the same page within your website. For instance, on some of your pages you could link to your Blue Widgets page with the anchor text of "blue widgets", then on other pages link to it using "affordable blue widgets" and then maybe use "widgets that are blue". This allows you to get the page ranked for multiple terms and helps the user since you're being descriptive and making your anchor text better match the content of the page it's on.

4) Make links in your content.

If you have text on your site, make some of the words within the text, links that point to other pages within your website. For instance, if you have an article about blue widgets, or a page that describes how great your blue widgets are, make the first or second occurrence of the phrase "blue widgets" in the text a link that points to your Blue Widgets page.

5) The Home Link Solution

If your website is typical, you'll probably have a link on every page that points back to your homepage. And you should because this helps users. By doing this, you're supplying a lot of link value to the homepage since it is getting all these internal links pointing back to it. Since in the number three tactic I recommended that you make your anchor text the same as what you want to rank for, the word "home" does you no good. I'll assume that you're not trying to get your homepage ranked for the word "home", so make the anchor text what you do want it to get ranked for.

The other option is to add the nofollow tag to all your 'Home' links, thereby canceling out the word "home" altogether.

6) Make important pages at most 2 folders deep with your site and at most two clicks away from your homepage.

The farther away a page is, the worse it ranks. So if you put a page in a folder that is five folders deep within your website folder structure, Google will likely consider that page not as important as a page only one folder deep. Also, make the pages in your website that are most important to get ranked two or less clicks away from the homepage. This is good for users and allows Google to index these pages more quickly.

By following these top six internal linking tactics, you'll be far ahead of the competition, you'll rank better in Google and you'll be making your website visitors' lives easier.

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Life & Personal - How To Say I Love You In 100 Languages

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 08:34:00 +0000

How to say I Love You in 100 Languages

English - I love you
Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian - Yes kez sirumem
Bambara - M'bi fe

Bengali - Ami tomake bhalobashi (pronounced: Amee toe-ma-kee bhalo-bashee)

Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Catalan - T'estimo
Cherokee - Tsi ge yu i
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda

Chinese:
Cantonese - Ngo oiy ney a
Mandarin - Wo ai ni

Comanche - U kamakutu nu
(pronounced: oo----ka-ma-koo-too-----nu)

Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
Cree - Kisakihitin
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Elvish - Amin mela lle (From The Lord of The Rings, by J.R.R. Tolkien)
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki'
Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Frisian - Ik hald fan dy
Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe

Hebrew:
To female - "ani ohev otach" (said by male) & "ohevet Otach" (said by female)
To male - "ani ohev otcha" (said by male) & "Ohevet ot'cha" (said by female)

Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu / Aku cinta kamu / Aku sayang kamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo
Japanese - Aishiteru / Anata ga daisuki desu
Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili - Nakupenda
Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
Korean - Sarang Heyo / Nanun tangshinul sarang hamnida
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Luxembourgeois - Ech hun dech gaer
Macedonian - Te Sakam
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu / Aku sayang kamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Maltese - Inhobbok
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
Ndebele - Niyakutanda

Norwegian:
Bokmaal - Jeg elsker deg
Nyonrsk - Eg elskar deg

Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic - Tha gradh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Setswana - Ke a go rata
Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing 'I Love You')
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Yo Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Surinam - Mi lobi joe
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu

Thai:
To female - Phom rak khun
To male - Jan rak khun
Informal - Rak ter
Informal 2 - Ka rak khe

Tunisian - Ha eh bak
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo

Vietnamese:
To female - Anh ye^u em
To male - Em ye^u anh

Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu di
Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe
Zazi - Ezhele hezdege
Zuni - Tom ho' ichema

Jobseeker Updates - Bloglines Are Hiring - Senior Software Engineer

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 09:53:00 +0000

Guess what? Bloglines would like to hire you now! If you are a software engineer, and loves blogging, I guess this is the right place for you to switch into a new environment. You can apply for the post online or if you have any account with Bloglines, you can just simply login to Bloglines and take a look at a red-colored words at the bottom stated there "We're Hiring". Well, here are the details about the post:

Post : Sr. Software Engineer

Location : Campbell, CA 95008

Description :

Bloglines is seeking qualified candidates for the position of Sr. Software Engineer to work at our Campbell location. The Software Engineer will develop and implement a large scale data processing system in a distributed environment, in C++. The development tasks involve all aspects of scaling and improving a high-volume end-user focused web service.

Responsibilities :

Addressing scaling issues arising from storing large amounts of data and serving a lot of web pages
Maintain and improve RSS crawling and parsing processes
Implement new functionality
Develop tools and utilities to track progress and provide statistics

Technical Skill Level :

Bachelors degree in Computer Science, Computer engineering, related fields or equivalent field experience.
Very strong C and C++ understanding and development abilities
Very strong UNIX abilities, including multithreaded/multiprocess development skills
Good understanding of web protocols such as HTTP and HTTPS
Good understanding of performance issues in a UNIX system and distributed environment
Familiarity with web templating systems
Familiarity with RSS and blogs
Familiarity with scripting languages such as Python, Perl, or Bash
Familiarity with databases such as Sleepycat, GDBM, or MySQL

Professional Skill Level :

Able to work independently with minimum supervision.
Result oriented. Love to work on the problems until solutions are found.
Take initiative.
Able to actively drive project.
Be creative, patient and efficient, produce practical solutions.
Able to adapt to quick requirements change and produce quick solutions.
Attention to details.
Commitment to team.

Required Experience :

5+ years experience
BS in computer science or equivalent field experience

Life & Personal - 3 Hard To Believe Truths About Men

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 08:30:00 +0000

TRUTH #1: Men Don't Need To Chase

It's been said many times by many people that men need to be made to chase a woman in order to want her and commit wholeheartedly. Not true. In fact, this is plain wrong. Rather than wanting to "chase" a woman, men are humans first.

Which means... They want and need to feel a deep, emotional level of attraction for a woman if they are going to be moved to want bigger and better things with you in their life. That everyday "Physical Attraction" a man can feel for any cute woman who walks by is not enough, and will never be enough to make him want something more than a casual fling.

Long story short -

Men can and will want to get close to you even if they just feel this Physical Attraction for you - and you'll likely have a hard time figuring out if they are or aren't feeling that deeper and more intense and lasting Emotional Attraction. Not to mention, a man will get easily "bored" with you and be lazy about a relationship or any kind of commitment if he's not feeling this Emotional Attraction for you. So what is Emotional Attraction?

Emotional attraction goes way beyond what a woman looks like, what she says or how successful she is. If a man senses that a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it, and that she has certain "standards" of what she will or won't put up with from a man, then he will feel incredibly drawn to her. It has nothing to do with playing GAMES or pretending to be "hard to get." If you think that men just want to "chase" a woman and that acting or being "unavailable" is a turn-on for him, then I have to tell you right now, you're not going to get far with a man.

What works to keeping a man interested in you date after date, week after week, is something magical that can only happen if he's feeling emotional attraction for you.

TRUTH #2: Men Feel Emotions Just Like Women

Believe it not, men are pretty sensitive. It's just how they handle what they feel that makes them hard to connect with about it, and hard to understand - Unless you know what's going on with how men handle these things in the first place. Men have a hard time dealing with strong emotions from women.

So you know...in a recent groundbreaking study of how couples interact when in conflict, it was discovered that men often LOOK detached or withdrawn because they feel intensely STRESSED by the argument. It's not that they're more "in control." On the contrary - they feel LESS in control. So they withdraw in order to try and cope. Fascinating.

One of the things men often say to women when there's a conflict or tension in the relationship is, "why are you being so dramatic?" Annoying, right? That's his way of saying, "This is getting too intense and I don't know how to handle it."

You have the power to bring him closer, even when you have something you need to express that isn't light or cheerful. There are certain ways to bring up difficult subjects to a man that ENGAGE him and make him want to do everything in his power to make you feel loved, safe and comfortable. Does it seem like an impossible feat? It's not.

TRUTH #3: Men Want Relationships

Men want to be in a relationship, and they have a strong desire to feel recognized as a great partner by their women. Have you ever accused a man of being "not ready" for a relationship?

Here's a mind-blowing statistic:

WOMEN (not men) break off relationships or file for divorce 70% of the time. That means that women are the ones initiating the end of a relationship much more often than men.

If that surprises you, you may also be surprised to know that a man enjoys being in committed, loving relationships as much as a woman does. AS LONG AS IT DOESN'T FEEL HARD TO HIM.

If you give a man the impression that he can't please you no matter WHAT he does, or that everything he does is pointless because he can't do ANYTHING right, then guess what? He's going to wonder if he's the right partner for you, and he's going to begin to doubt whether or not he should even continue the relationship.

Maybe you're saying, "but I don't do that!" It's true. You may not even be aware that you're doing this. But there are certain words and phrases that communicate this to a man whether you're aware of it or not.

Instead, when you show a man that you trust him to be a good partner to you, you will actually inspire him and trigger his devotion and attraction for you.

Blogger Tips - Another Way To Monetize Your Blog

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 07:32:00 +0000

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As matter of fact, I have heard this program quite a long time ago. So, why don't all of us get a try. Plus, they never ask you to pay for signing up as many other websites which claim to pay you if you work from home with them. Below is the form that you can fill in if you want to join the program.

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The Business Marketing Tips - 3 Simple Marketing Strategies For Your Small Business Explained (by Yves Marie Danie Baptiste)

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 05:31:00 +0000

Strategy #1. - You Must Understand The Lifetime Value of Your Clients

Every business owner needs to fully understand the life time value of their customers.This is the total profit that a customer will bring to your business over the lifetime of your dealings with that customer. The following example will explain why it's important to know this number: Let's pretend you own a book store. If your customer spends $50 every time they walk into your store, and they visit once a month for 4 years, a customer is worth $2400.00. The math would look like this: $50 (average bill) x 12 (number of visits) x 4 (number of years).

Think of how much money you're missing out on if you were thinking of only one transaction? Let's take a look at another example: John Smith sells a cd plus manual kit on how to self-publish a book. The initial manual set is worth $500. John knows that over the lifetime of a customer, a significant number will spend somewhere between $20,000 and $40,000 with additional products!

By knowing his numbers he can afford to allocate a significant amount of money towards his advertising budget to bring in more customers. Why? Because he is equipped with information that he'll make it up on average over the lifetime of the customer.

Strategy #2. - Build Up Your Customer List

Always collect their names, emails, and other contact information from your customers.How will you stay in contact with your customers if you don't collect your information? And if you do ask for their contact details on your sales slips and invoices, be sure you are using them!

And if you are wondering how you collect them it is as simple as asking them for it. This is best done during your customers' purchasing process by asking them to fill out a form with their details. There are many successful companies who did this for years and would mail you catalogs in the mail.

Don't you remember getting them? And when you received these catalogs you would find a comfortable place to relax with pen in hand checking off or earmarking the items you would later order. This enabled these companies to make more money from their customers.

Another way to get your customers to give you their contact information is by having a monthly drawing in which a prize will be given. It will amaze you how many names you could collect by doing this.

Let's say you own a restaurant, you can offer a free dessert to everyone who drops their business card into a fish bowl. It's not impossible to collect over 1000 names over the course of a month. How much will a dessert cost? $2 - $3, if that much. If all business owners were to implement this marketing strategy alone, they would be protecting their businesses in the face of stiff competition. They could send out snail mail to their customers with special offers on slow nights and watch them come flocking in.

This can also be done with emails and faxes. You want to generate more business? No problem. Send out a special promotion.

Strategy #3. - Develop A Strong Relationship With Your Prospects And Clients

If you want to generate new business that you can keep for a lifetime then you'd better make it a number one priority to keep in touch with your customers. The reason you'd want to do this is so that you can remain at the top of mind with your clients. When they're ready to buy, you're the one they'll think of first.

It's not unusual to hear cases in which a business will send out newsletters to their customers for years before they buy. You want to position yourself in such a way that when they're ready to buy -- you'll get the sale.

The lesson here: keep communicating and following up with your customers until they're ready to place an order with you.

Business Updates - Accountancy: Career & Education Fair 2008

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 11:15:00 +0000

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Life & Personal - 3 Quick Break Up Fixes and Remedies (by Christian Carter)

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 11:10:00 +0000

Are you having a hard time getting past a recent break-up? Maybe you were dating for a while and you thought things were pretty amazing, but he wasn't so sure. Or maybe YOU were the one who decided it was better to end things. But now you find yourself wondering if that was really the right move, because you're having trouble moving on.

Are you're still trying to figure out how to get him back, or show him that you're really "the one" for him? You text him, or call him, and maybe agreed to "still be friends" and hang out once in a while. But nothing seems to make you feel better. In fact, the more you talk to him or see him, the WORSE you feel.

Still, you can't imagine not talking to him at all because you still have some very intense feelings that just aren't going away anytime soon. In any case, you're feeling pretty "stuck" right now, and you don't know what to do about it.

If that's true, then stick around and keep reading, because in this article I'm going to give
you 3 powerful remedies for getting past a break-up and getting your love life BACK ON TRACK. These remedies will fast-track you through feeling better and getting past all the confusion of your break-up.

Take a few minutes to read and really THINK about each step, and then commit to follow through on each one. You'll be amazed at how much better you'll feel. Here they are:

STEP #1: RECOGNIZE WHAT WASN'T WORKING FOR YOU

So let me ask you. Are you spending a lot of time thinking about all the ways you screwed up in your relationship with your boyfriend, but all the ways he was great?

Do you keep rehashing an argument, wondering if things would have been better if you said or did something different from the beginning with him, feeling guilty or bad that things moved "too fast" between you (and it scared him away)?

Do you daydream about all the ways he was special, and how you'll never find anyone who understands you quite the same way he did? Romanticizing or re-hashing the past is a pretty common thing many women do when they break up with a man.

Big mistake. Don't do this to yourself.

This is 100% sure to only make you feel MORE AWFUL, not to mention that it keeps you from focusing on what's most important to you right now.

And that is learning how to get what you want and how to have the kind of relationship you deserve in the FUTURE.

When you focus on your ex too much, and you spend your time "pining away" for a relationship, you miss out on a very important lesson. You stop seeing all the ways that the relationship made life a ROLLER COASTER for you.

You don't realize all the ways he wasn't right for you or made you feel less than your true self. You don't learn what it is your really want and need from a relationship in order to be fulfilled. Let's face it, you were led down some very negative emotional paths by this guy, weren't you?

So, instead of thinking only of the "good times" and how much you miss him, consider all
the things he did and said that made you feel insecure, anxious or frustrated - feelings that one way or another probably contributed to the end of the relationship.

What can you learn about yourself, love and men from the things that drove you two apart, so that you're sure to have a more intimate, loving and evolved relationship next time around. Don't repeat those same mistakes in your next relationship.

If you're starting to realize now that even if you love a man, you don't really UNDERSTAND what it is that makes a relationship actually WORK and last with one...

Or you don't understand what you're doing in the relationship that's causing him to withdraw or lose interest in you, you'll just keep bringing those same issues into future relationships.

STEP #2: STOP "LOSING YOURSELF" IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

You probably gave up a lot to be with your guy. You gave up time with your friends and family. You gave up doing things you USED to love doing - things like reading, exercising, going on hikes, visiting art shows,whatever.

You gave it up in order to spend time with him. You gave it up to make him feel comfortable. You gave things up because the RELATIONSHIP seemed important, and you wanted it to work. Sure, I get it. Many women feel like they need to give things up to keep a man happy and attracted. But if you're using that excuse to:

- Stay emotionally attached to him, because you feel that you can't "get over him" easily since you gave up so much

- Feel too depressed to go out with your friends or get back to the things that used to make you feel alive and happy

- Refuse to "get back out there" and date someone new.

Then guess what you're doing? Yep, that's right. You're STILL giving up more of you and your happiness for his sake. Even though he's out of your life.

Have weeks, months or years have gone by, and you're still in the same "sacrificing" place, putting your life on hold instead of realizing your own needs? Snap out of it!

You are actually continuing the very thing that helped break your relationship apart, and made you feel unhappy and unfulfilled.

STEP #3: BE READY FOR LOVE WHEN IT FINDS YOU

When you end a relationship that felt like it had a lot of "promise" and connection, it's hard to believe you'll ever find love again, at least in quite the same way. You might even vow not to date again for a LONG TIME, because you just don't want to get hurt again.

It can feel pretty safe to live inside the little "bubble" you make for yourself, just working on your career, spending time with friends, doing things that make you happy. What do you need a man for anyway? (You think.)

You put yourself and your love life in a "holding pattern" because you don't want to let another man in or get close. You don't want to be vulnerable. What's the point, if all that's going to happen is that you'll end up feeling more of the same, bad feelings you're trying to get over now - right?

Actually, no. I don't agree. Because if you're honest with yourself, you'll realize that you don't want to shut yourself off from what can be the opportunity for an amazing, life-long experience. That one great guy you're meant to be with could be out there right now. Unless you create the "space" for him in your life, you won't be ready for love when it finds you.

Ok, you may feel pretty in-control and safe right now, but are you LIVING? If you're not taking a risk, are you risking never feeling the LOVE and connection that could transform
your life someday? Nod your head right now if you feel even a GLIMMER of truth in what I'm saying. And here's another common thing I hear from women who aren't ready to date again. "There's no good men out there for me anyway. The ones I'm attracted to aren't attracted to me. Or they're taken."

I can see how you may feel that way if you're not sure how you're going to attract the RIGHT guy, or the type of guy you're into. Plus, your recent experience with men has been, well, less than great.

Like when a guy comes on strong at first, then suddenly tells you he's "not ready" for anything serious, or isn't "into" monogamy or commitment. No wonder you'd rather stick a twig in your eye than date again anytime soon.

Yeah, I get it. Alright, but what if I told you that you that I can help you learn exactly how to identify and ATTRACT the right guy, and give you an "edge" that you've never had before in dating? Would it change the way you think and feel about men if you knew exactly how to get a man close and connected to you and KEEP him wanting you and ONLY you, without games, manipulation or "tricks" of any kind whatsoever?

You'll attract quality men because they will "sense" that you are the type of woman they're looking to have something special with. Here's the truth about attraction: It's not about being a great beauty, or about seducing a man into having feelings for you.

Actually, it's about something deeper and more long-lasting. And the best part is, that once a man feels THIS level of attraction for you, almost nothing can keep him away from wanting to be with you.

Life & Personal - The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing It... (by Christian Carter)

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:54:00 +0000

Mistake #1 : Leading a Man To Think That You Are "Needy" and "Insecure".

Did you know that there are 6 ways you can set off a man's "Insecurity Alert" and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you?

Sadly, even confident women often "accidentally" give off one of these signs... and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date.

As you read through these signals men pick up on as "needy" and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes:

Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.
Speaking negatively about other women. When women call other women names like "slut", "bitch", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good.

Too much physical contact, especially in public. If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him.

Mistake #2 : Appealing To His Sexual Side Instead Of Emotional Side.

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sexalone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.

Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want. In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected.

Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF.

Mistake #3 : Not Knowing Of How To Size Up A Man's "Relationship Potential".

A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.

Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS.

When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts... leading us to overlook potential partner's deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road.

If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why.

It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST... so you don't waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken.

Life & Personal - 4 Simple Rules Not To "STUCK" With A Friends With Benefits Relationship Ever Again (by Christian Carter)

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:39:00 +0000

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FIRST RULE : Know Yourself And What You Are After

You said, "I have made the mistake of admitting to a friend that I have feelings for him." It's NOT a mistake to share your feelings with a man. It IS a mistake to share your feelings with a man:

1) too early
2) in a negative context.

You set yourself up for failure by choosing and "tolerating" a situation that just doesn't work for you. That situation is being "ok" with a purely physical situation when in fact you need-and want-more. When you’re OK with the way things are one minute, but then are looking and asking for something more and saying you’re not happy with the way things are NOW, you’ve INSTANTLY become the kill-joy and antagonist in the relationship.

One minute you're blissfully happy in his embrace and then a day or two later you’re sulking and awkward because you just blurted out what you feel or what you want, and you’ve taken him by surprise.

All because of a "talk" you wanted to have with him. Yeah, I'm riding you a bit hard here, but it's for your own good. Instead of being open with yourself about what YOU are truly after, you pursued this "friends with benefits" strategy to get things moving. That's why you're freaking out. You thought you could handle it. You thought you'd get something out of it. And for a minute, it was fun. But then your feelings snuck up on you.

Eventually you were reminded of what you're really after with a man and what you value. Right now you have two pictures in your mind: One picture is of this "casual" thing going on. And the other one is what you actually want.

The two pictures are so radically different and far apart from each other, that it's no wonder you're acting "insane".

Your expectations are COMPLETELY out of line for what you're ACTUALLY doing with this guy. It's time to stop creating situations in your life that you KNOW won't make you happy or comfortable in the long run - even if they feel good in the moment.

SECOND RULE : Find Your Personal Standard and Stick To Them

Starting things with a man in this "casual sex" way, is a SUREFIRE way to ruin your odds of creating something more meaningful in the future. I'm a guy. I know.

But, more importantly, getting into a "casual" situation with a man you might want to date more seriously and exclusively, has a VERY HIGH potential to make you FEEL AWFUL.

So... Unless you're one out of a hundred thousand women that gets "swept off her feet" by an open, caring, great communicator, who makes moving into a committed relationship effortless... then you're going to have to start asking yourself some real questions about what you really want from your love life. And once you have the answers, actually be honest about them from the start. Here's an important question to ask yourself:"WHAT ARE MY NEEDS?"

And I do mean YOUR needs. Not his. Not what you're accepting or tolerating or hoping to get from a man just because there's nothing better around right now. Be clear here and think it through. I'll give you a minute...

Most of the women I know who are dating have a set of subconscious requirements from the men they’re seeing. That they be honest. That they be exclusive. That it’s going somewhere, and it’s not just going to be casual dating forever.

But these aren’t things they are willing or able to communicate directly with the man they’re seeing. So, they end up in a situation that is anything but what they were looking for. They say, "This is fine for now. I’m just enjoying myself."

They are not being honest with themselves about their bottom-line "must-haves" and therefore can’t express these things to the man, either.

From my experience, here are a few of these "must haves" that women often aren't honest about at the start:

That any man they're involved with, in any way, isn't dating or still involved with another woman
That he's open and ready to explore a serious relationship once they get to know each other
That they share the same values and priorities - or he can at least appreciate and support her values

So, how in touch are you with your REQUIREMENTS to feel good when it comes to men and dating? And how do you communicate these to a man? Do you do it indirectly by acting frustrated and angry when your needs aren’t being met, after you’ve already become intimate and emotionally vested in the relationship?

Or do you do it directly and in a positive context as things are GETTING STARTED, so you're in sync from the get-go?

Remember, 99% of the time, a man is NOT going to make the right decisions for you, or magically and telepathically recognize and meet all your needs. Sticking to a set of minimum standards and then communicating those helps show a man what it’s going to take to make you happy.

THIRD RULE : Radically Reject Behavior That Does Not Meet Your Personal Standards

I observed something FASCINATING about people and relationships a few years back. When we’re in a situation that causes bad feelings and friction of some kind, there is always some kind of "payoff" for one or the other person...and that’s why they persist in sticking with the bad situation.

Here's what you're getting out of the "casual" thing...

You get a safe and risk free path to get close to this guy. Even though technically you're not "close" at all. I call this "working it from the 'friend zone'". After all, how vulnerable would you be if you shared what you REALLY were looking for up front, BEFORE you slept with him?

You might be disappointed or rejected, or you would be unable to continue the "friendship" that you have right now. And maybe having to start over alone might actually be worse in your mind than having something crappy and low-quality that you're "tolerating" now.

But if you look deeper, you'll probably see that your desire for something more was there all along underneath the surface. Therefore, I doubt that you could have been "just friends" with him anyway, even if you never slept together, without you feeling gypped in some way. That’s why you have to show a man that you’re strong and you know what you want, and you won’t settle for scraps or second-best or "good enough for now."

My favorite way of thinking about how to do this, is to be like a "velvet hammer." Be strong and assertive, but warm and gentle at the same time. Say, "I really like you. Probably too much to be JUST friends. This is why I’m not sure we should continue this situation unless you feel the same way."

If you can say this in a way that doesn’t include BLAME or guilt or pressure from you, it the response a man will give will be MAGICAL. He’ll open up and meet you at the level of
honesty and respect you’re coming at him with. And as tough and as "bitchy" or self-centered doing this might sound right now, this is exactly what you need to say to a man if you really want something more with him.

And doing this, and only this, can get you out of your "friends with benefits" situation and into a great relationship. Trying anything else is almost sure to end up in a series of misunderstandings and hurt feelings. But you might be thinking - WHY does this kind of language work with a man?

Because it sends a strong SUBCONSCIOUS signal to a man that the woman is in CONTROL of her life and her world. There's nothing that triggers more intense "long-term" attraction in a healthy and mature man, than a woman who he CAN'T control and doesn't get thrown off-center when her needs aren't met.

Using the "velvet hammer" also has another AMAZING benefit that women don't often recognize... or they don't even see as a benefit at first. It WEEDS OUT the guys who DO need to go away because they're never going to get their act together in the first place, or just don't want to.

You don’t want to be stuck in a dead-end situation that’s just going to make you feel WORSE than you felt before you met him, do you? Of course not.

And sure, sometimes a guy will hear that and disappear for a while. But the best part is, if he’s one of the "good guys" you want to be with for the long-term, he’ll come back around.

And when he does, he’ll have done all the leg work to be a better, more conscious partner. The kind of partner you could have never molded yourself through any amount of fixing or convincing.

FOURTH RULE : Discover and Use What Creates Deeper Connection and Attraction With Men

Ever hear of "approval-seeking" behavior? It's when we try to do and say things simply to
get a positive reaction or judgment about ourselves from someone else. Well, it's a HUGE MISTAKE to make with a man early on. Your need for your guy's APPROVAL is your worst
enemy right now. To him, what you're doing is actually the complete OPPOSITE OF ATTRACTIVE.

I'll give you an example...

Have you ever seen what it looks like when a man is shamelessly seeking the approval of a woman? As he's just getting to know her and he sees that she hasn't completely made up her mind to want to be with him, what does he do?

He buys her gifts.

He calls her all the time.

He offers to do favors and errands for her.

All these are attempts to prove to her that he's good enough to be with her or to get her attention. This is also known as the "really nice guy" approach. Women just never seem quite "feel it" for the super nice guy. Not because of the gifts and flowers and favors, anyway.

A guy can already be attractive AND do nice things. Agreed?... But doing nice things doesn’t MAKE a man more attractive.

Instead of feeling attracted to a guy you weren’t too "into" at first, you start losing respect for him when he goes overboard and tries too hard with the calls, favors and gifts. You lose respect because you know you can CONTROL him.

This isn’t conscious, either. It’s just how you feel, and feelings are pretty powerful forces. Ever stop to think that the same thing might work in reverse between a woman's behavior and a man's? That a man may feel like he can "control" you if you’re running around trying to please him or do favors for him or be "nice" to him in order to get him to want you? Interesting...

For men, approval-seeking behavior KILLS the spark that comes from the uncertainty of not knowing exactly how the women he's with is going to think and act.

If he can predict what you’re going to do and feels like he "has" you in the palm of his hand, what is he going to wonder about when it comes to you? And what if you start acting predictably NEGATIVE? Think about it...

It's a "natural tension" and challenge of not having CONTROL and uncertainty that creates strong ATTRACTION in men.

What most women ask in situations when a man isn't responding the way they want him to is... "WHY is he acting this way and how do I make sense of it and "fix" it?". Well, you can't "fix" a man. And I really feel for you if you're one of those women who are trying. But, you CAN change a situation and the FEELINGS that a man is having for you.You can change how he experiences you.

The toughest and most important thing to understand is that men’s behavior and thinking in these situations isn’t at all LOGICAL. In other words, how a man reacts doesn't make ANY "sense" and doesn't follow any rhyme or reason. So, of course, it baffles and frustrates women when they run it through their own "sense- making filters."

Let me ask you a question... If you were an attractive man, would you want to find a woman that you had to TEACH how to make you attracted and feel good... or would you want a woman who just "got it" on her own... "naturally" and everything flowed?

Duh. (there's that scientific word again)

You'd want the woman who already "got it." So, more likely than a conspiracy against women, men just naturally respond to women who GET IT, and DON'T respond to women who DON'T. OK, let's talk about these concepts a little bit more.

Attraction, and wanting to be with a woman, is about a man perceiving that he and a woman are "naturally compatible" because his emotional and physical sparks fly when he's around her. NOTE: I did NOT use the word "logical" here.

Attraction and wanting to be with a woman long term is NOT the result of a man meeting a woman and then thinking to himself: "Let's see...she's got a good job, works hard, is pretty cute, and is a really good person... Hmmm, I think that we have some natural attraction going on here." WRONG.

For a man, attraction and the desire to be with a woman, and stay with her, is either THERE or it ISN'T. There are no two ways about it.

Fortunately for you I’ve put together and entire program just about attraction: how it works for a man, how to trigger it, what to avoid doing so you don’t accidentally "kill" it. Exactly what does it take for a man to feel a longing for you, to feel connected and devoted to your happiness?

Life & Personal - Not Your Boyfriend But Sleeping With Him (by Christian Carter)

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:26:00 +0000

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A man can feel a certain level of attraction for you that will have him act loving, but is only as deep as him knowing that he wants to get physical with you. It’s another kind of attraction altogether for a man to want a long-term relationship with you.

Do you know what it is that a woman can do that makes the difference? Do you know how to trigger the kind of attraction that gets a man to naturally open up, share himself and think about the future with you?

I’m not talking about purely physical attraction, or the kind that makes a man want to BE physical with you. You know, like the kind of "attraction" that makes a man want just a casual fling... or a Friends With Benefits situation only.

No, I’m talking about the kind of Intellectual and Emotional Attraction that makes a man want to be around you... and want to have you in his life for the long-term.

I’m talking about the kind of attraction that makes him think about you all the time. The kind that makes his heart leap whenever he remembers the times he spent with you. It’s completely possible to do or say certain things that will turn on that magic switch inside a man’s mind that will make him sit up and take notice. That will make him emotionally attracted to you.

At the same time, there are ways to KILL any chance of that kind of attraction...and these are common mistakes that many women carelessly make (especially when they are really INTO a guy).

"Duh."

You OBVIOUSLY have real feelings for him - you're sleeping with him! And I'm willing to bet you had these feelings all along, but you just weren't completely up front about them. Your situation is possibly the WORST kind of uphill battle a woman can have with a man early on.

It's a BIG NO-NO. Actually, it's "THE" big NO-NO in the early dating stage...Using purely "physical attraction" to start a potential relationship. For most men, it’s easy to go from a meaningful and committed relationship to one that’s casual and purely physical.

But, it is almost impossible to go from the "friends-with-benefits" situation to a deep, fulfilling, intimate and lasting situation. I know this first hand, both from my own love life and from talking to lots of men and women I've known in my life.

So... rarely do I give rules, but here's an absolute RULE when it comes to men -

DON'T EVER try and start things with a man at a casual and purely physical level if you EVER want the option for something more meaningful or long-term. Men don't work this way, like it or not.
And don't try to get a man BACK with physical attraction and sex either. It's a dead end street.

Here’s the worst part of this whole situation. You’re smart and you know better. I can tell. It doesn’t surprise me that you couldn’t see this coming. Somehow, when you’re in the thick of it, attraction and "love" can blind you.

Blogger Tips - The Best Free Available Free Domains / Free Subdomains / Free Short URL Services

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:23:00 +0000

Blogger - The Tips - The Currently Available Best Free Domains / Free Subdomains / Free Short URL Services

Well, a few weeks ago, one of my friends, Asher, ask me about free domain names. I have recommended her the Co.Cc as I think it is one of the best free domain that I know. It gives us the control of our own DNS, unlike the other free domains. However, I would like to share a few other free domains and their features - for those who are searching for free domain names.

The CO.CC Free Domain - My 1st Choice (www.your-domain.co.cc)

My first choice is CO.CC - the coolest, and the most simple free domain, with no hidden cost, no ads, no linking back to the company and no-no for what other free domains ask you for exchange. Besides, this free domain gives you the domain mapping!

Well, do you know what is domain mapping? Domain Mapping is the process of pointing a registered domain name to a blog or photo album. Domain mapping is more than domain forwarding, because your permalinks and URL contain the address of your domain (www.you.co.cc), and not a sub-domain (example.blogspot.com).

You can map a CO.CC domain to your blog or photo album.In order to use domain mapping, you have to create A report, MX, NS and CNAME. In addition, CO.CC supports your DNS service. This means that CO.CC gives you control over the DNS records that describe your domain.

Plus, with CO.CC, you can now use your own custom domain with your blog or customized services and you can create customized email accounts. e.g.- you@example.co.cc, me@example.co.cc. What makes CO.CC goes on the top of my list is, they provide you the easier instruction to link your CO.CC domain name with the Google Aps which will provide you free emails. Nice, huh?

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The Uni.Cc Free Domain - As Good As CO.CC (www.your-domain.uni.cc)

UNI.CC is a free domain name that will help making your web sites more accessible using short and easy-to-remember Internet addresses. Plus, no banner ads and linking back!

This site provides domain name redirection service and a site builder tool. However, they do not offer any hosting, mail or FTP services at this time. (But, I guess you can try to link it with Google Aps for free email - harder because no specific instruction as given by CO.CC for Google Aps.)

This domain, as provided by CO.CC, also gives you the control of your DNS server, which gives you the flexibility as what you get from any website with .com domain.

The Dot.Tk Free Domain Name (www.your-domain.tk)

This www.your-domain.tk service is quite a reliable. It does not provide you the control of your DNS, however, it still gives you another advantage which Uni.Cc do not have - email forwarding service.

In Dot.tk, you can make two types of domain - the website forwarding or, the domain only used for the email forwarding. This means, if you already have your own registered domain such as www.allinfoavenue.co.cc, and you want to offer 250 free email service to your readers, you can just sign up for Dot.tk and get the domain for free email service to your readers, such as - username@allinfoavenue.tk. And this email provides the Human Interface Detection service - where you can set up your emails to receive only emails from real human only.

However, the email will be active if you received at least 10 emails in the period of 90 days. And unlike the CO.CC which links to Google Aps, your email need to be linked with external email inbox - such as my anneailing@allinfoavenue.tk will be linked to my primary mail anne.ailing@gmail.com, the email with .tk is just your virtual or surface email address. :)

What makes this domain name special is, they allow you to register unlimited domain names with them. But, there is a condition here, the domain names will expire when the users of your website are less than 25 people in 90 days.

But the disadvantage for this domain is, you will have the ads banners on your site. But, if you do not mind having a medium-sized banner on top of your website page, I think it is ok. :)

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The CO.NR Free Domain (www.your-domain.co.nr)

Well, I do not have any free domain with this free domain provider yet. But, I have heard it also provides quite a good service. This domain requires no setup fees, no monthly fees, no yearly fees, no renewal fees, etc. And you can use your free domain name as long as you wish (or as long as our service exists). Plus, no banner ads!

It also provides the service of URL forwarding. However, I am not sure about the instructions on how to use the domain.

The .tf Free Subdomain Names (www.your-domain.edu.tf and much more!)

AMAZING!!! I am totally amazed with this one. It is different with others. Reliable service and yet, they provide you with various .tf domain names; .net.tf, .eu.tf, us.tf, int.tf, ca.tf, de.tf, at.tf, .co.at.tf, ch.tf, edu.tf, ru.tf, pl.tf, cz.tf, bg.tf, and sg.tf. Wow, is that great?

It is free, alterable at any times, and you can even register and protect your domain names, even without any homepage yet! Besides, they give you the free webmaster support and management of your multiple domain account.

You can protect your domain from disallowed accesses, so that only authorized users have access to your site by inputting their user name and password! Further features: Unlimited users, self registration by user, passwort reminders for users, individual page for "access denied " and still much more! Of course, you have your own control on your DNS server!

Plus, they provides you with unlimited email addresses. And no annoying ads! How could they provide such a great service? Wow! I'm going to register mine! LOL~!

The .tc Free Subdomains Names (www.your-domain.net.tc and much more!)

Hurm? This free domain service is quite similar to the .tf domain provider. It gives you various .tc domain names; co.tc, nte.tc and much more. No ads, and all the features in .tf is also provides by the .tc service. But I think the .tc sounds more pro, right?

The Biz.Fly Free Subdomain Names (www.your-domain.biz.ly)

This domain name service gives you 3 great options - free domain registration, free web hosting or free for both with the domain name of www.your-domain.biz.ly. Service is quite reliable.

They offer you Free Email Forwarding, creating unlimited Subdomains, Unlimited Email Addresses, and modifing all DNS records such as A, MX and CNAME records, and more. No banner ads!

However, they ONLY accept completely finished websites that are in English and require one link back to their website.

The Biz.Tc - Another Free Subdomain (www.your-domain.biz.tc)

Well, this subdomain service is quite generous - they also have the same features with the Biz.Ly subdomain provider. They have emails and suprisingly, no banner ads! So, for people who want to have free subdomain name and free web hosting with many great features, you can just grab this opportunity!

The EU.Org Free Domain Names (www.your-domain.eu.org)

EU.org provide free subdomain registration (subdomains of .eu.org) to users or non-profit organizations who cannot afford to buy a domain name. They allow to modify all the DNS records (A, NS, MX, etc.) for the choosen domain name - a complete domain name deligation.

NO ads at all, but the service is ONLY available for the residents and/or non-profit organizations of Europe.

The Da.Ru Free Subdomain Names (www.your-domain.da.ru)

Da.ru free subdomains service offer free subdomains of .da.ru domain name (like http://www.username.da.ru) both in form of free url redirection and with the ability to create DNS records such as NS, A, MX and CNAME and point them to any server, IP or host you like.

Their free url redirection service have ads in form of small bottom frame, but the DNS subdomains service is ad-free.

The Za.Net and Za.Org Free Domain Names (www.your-domain.za.net and www.your-domain.za.org)

ZA NiC was created to provide free subdomain registration under ZA.NET and ZA.ORG domains to companies, not-for-profit organisations or private users who cannot afford a paid domain name. They allow to modify all the DNS records (A, NS, MX, etc.) for the choosen domain name - a complete domain deligation.

NO ads at all, but the free subdomains service is ONLY available for the residents and/or organizations within South Africa.

The Ne1.Net and r8.Org (www.your-domain.ne1.net and www.your-domain.r8.org)

This site offers free domains in the form of you.ne1.net or you.r8.org. They currently offer two types of redirection: direct redirection and cloaked redirection where the target/true URL is hidden. All new accounts start out being either WAP accounts (link back to http://wap.ne1.net/ required) with no ads or regular cloaked accounts type with a small warning/ad frame at the top of the page.

They also allow you to manage your accounts where you can update your account details: email, login password, target URL and other settings (depending on the account type).

The C-O.In - Free Short Subdomain (www.your-domain.c-o.in, www.your-domain.c-o.cc, www.your-domain.coz.in and www.your-domain.cq.bz)

They offer short subdomains like c-o.in, c-o.cc, coz.in & cq.bz. No Ads, stats, path-forwarding, URL cloaking, quick-signup, meta-tags and much more. Sign up today for a c-o.in address.

A rather new free URL redirection service that offers some very nice free short URL's that look catchy enough. The URL redirection service seams to be quite fast a the time of review, and they do not add any forced ads to free short URL's provided.

The F2B.be Free Subdomain Service (www.your-domain.ssr.be and another 7 domains)

F2B.be is a free, ads-free subdomain redirection/forwarding service. They offer 7 domains to the users - .ssr.be, .short.be, .f2b.be, .n0.be, .n3t.nl, .tweaker.eu, and .freakz.eu.

The sg5 Free Redirection (www.your-domain.sg5.biz and much more!)

SG5 Redirection provides free URL redirection services which allow you to redirect an easy-to-remember yoursite.sg5 address to your web site, no matter where it's hosted.

Easy to register free URL redirection, choice of sg5.co.uk, sg5.info, sg5.biz, etc. free short url's. No banner ads and no pop ups.

The 9gif.Com Free Short URL Redirection (www.your-domain.9gif.com and www.your-domain.1fx.net)

Offers free URL redirection service such as http://anyname.9gif.com/ and http://anyname.1fx.net/ with cloaking, hit's tracker, easy to remember name and meta tag support.

Free URL redirection service with nice features, but they do place ads on users sites in form of bottom frame ad.

The Just.As Free URL Redirection (www.your-domain.hit.as and many-many more!)

Free URL Redirection with many nice domains sach as hit.as, just.as, going.to and more. Users get a short URL with a corresponding email address (http://username.just.as & username@just.as). Subdirectory URL redirection is also available (http://goin.to/username). Small pop up ads.

The Army.net (www.your-domain.army.net)

Web-based E-mail, Email Forwarding and Webpage URL redirection addresses for United States Army Officers, Soldiers, NCO's Friends and Families.

Users get a free short url like http://username.army.net and a free web-based email address like username@army.net as well as free email forwarding.

Blogger Tips - What Are Dos and Donts For The Public WiFi?

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:12:00 +0000

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Free Wi-Fi service is great. Paid Wi-Fi may be a bit safer (offering you better protection since most have encryption in place), but a wired connection is always best. But then again, wired or wireless--there are no guarantees. There is one other caution: It won't protect the data you send over the internet. That is, if you log into a site, your userID and password may still be seen. So, here are the tips of using public WiFi.

Keep your antivirus protection up to date and your sensitive data secured--even separately on a drive that is not connected to your laptop when accessing public Wi-Fi.
Don't transmit anything that you wouldn't write on a postcard and send for the world to see, unless it is absolutely necessary.
Make sure you have NO shared folders on your hard drive. [Optional] Disable or remove the "printer and file sharing" service entirely. This is the ultimate but perhaps extreme answer to point 1., above.
Install a good security service that has both incoming and outgoing firewalls. Something like Norton Internet Security or an equivalent product (the Windows firewall, which may be fine for home use behind a router, has no outgoing firewall). - I would personally recommend you Kaspersky Internet Security 7.0 (Anne Ai Ling)
To protect your personal data, do not log onto sensitive sites (you have to decide what those are) when using an UNENCRYPTED WiFi network. You will know if you are using an encrypted (WEP or [very much preferably] WPA) network or an unencrypted network, because to use an encrypted network you will have to be given and will have to enter encryption keys (note, this is not the same thing as a password).
The other thing to look for is whether the login screen is http (unencrypted) or https (encrypted) (this is a different encryption from network encryption, e.g. from WEP or WPA). If the login screen is https, you are probably safe even if the network itself is unencrypted. Look for the "padlock" symbol in your web browser.
Download the free Linux operating system Ubuntu 8.04 and added it to your Vista machine. There is nothing on the Ubuntu partition that would be of interest to a snooper, so even if they could hack into your computer, they'd gain nothing. But the fact is, most hackers would not attempt to hack a Linux machine. There are too few of them. They'd look for Windows machines. Or you can also try PCLinuxOS which is lighter on resources and takes up less space on the hard drive.
Use your common sense and dont open emails that contain pictures etc unless you have been prior notified by the sender that they will be included in the next email (and you trust the sender)
Make a backup of your system on disk then make another keep one at home take one with you that way if all goes wrong you can at least take the computer back to how it was. Or, you make a restore point before connecting to unknown hotspots, that way if the hotel or starbucks change system settings or install programs on you to enable their system to work, you can restore back when you leave.

Online Business - The Gmail Scammers!

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:05:00 +0000

You will find your email account, PayPal, clickbank.com, credit cards, online banking and etc disowned/closed/misused, if you reply them with your details~!

Listen! Listen! A very latest news from myself especially for the Google users - gmail.com! Have you currently received an email from these persons - ferera davinto which uses ggl.account3@gmail.com and tkhzouz@gmail.com?

Well, these two persons are now sending emails using the gmail.com account and asking you to verify your gmail.com account by replying to them with your username, your bith date, your country and password. Isn't it funny?

I will say this is the most stupid scamming plan that they are doing because, they ask you to verify your gmail.com email account, and yet, their emails are automatically listed by the gmail.com in the spam category!!

However, I still would like to remind all of you - especially the new users, not to be fooled by these two scammers and sending all the info that they need. Do you know that, by giving those info they ask, they will be able to access your gmail.com account? Plus, they will be able to access tons of important emails of yours - this includes email from paypal~!

Plus, by knowing your birth date and territory, they will be able to disown, close or making a fraud regarding your account. In addition, if you have made any purchases through the internet, they will be able to access for your credit card account. And if you have any account of online banking, an affiliates such as clickbank.com, you will then lose everything to these scammers.

So, just ignore them and please, report them as spam to the gmail.com staffs. We have to do this to stop these people~!!!

Here is the example email that both stupid scammers send to me (and the emails are dumped into the spam box by gmail.com - how could they claim they are gmail.com staffs?)

Welcome to Gmail

Account Alert

VERIFY YOUR FREE GMAIL ACCOUNT NOW !!!

Dear Account User,

This Email is from Gmail Customer Care and we are sending it to every Email Accounts User for safety. we are having congestions in our system due to the anonymous registration of Gmail accounts so we are shutting down some Email accounts and your account was among those to be deleted.We are sending you this email so that you can verify your account and let us know if you still want to use this account.If you are still interested please confirm your account by filling the space below.Your User name,password,date of birth and your country information would be needed to verify your account.

Due to the congestion in system we would be shutting down all unused Accounts, You will have to confirm your E-mail by filling out your Login Information below after clicking the button, or your account will be suspended within 24 hours for security reason.

Dear Account User,

Confirm Your Account Details

Gmail ! ID:.........................
Password:..........................
Your Birthday:....................
Your Country or Territory:...........

Warning!!! Account owner that refuses to update his or her account before 0ne day of receiving this warning will lose his or her account permanently.

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Online Business Tips - What You Must Do Before Your Ad Campaigns Begin?

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:52:00 +0000

If you don't have your own products or services to sell, but promote affiliate programs, you are going to find this article very helpful. In fact, if you the information provided below, you will noticed that the words 'very helpful' are nothing compared to the value delivered... All the basic information, you must know, before you start advertising your affiliate programs, is included...

First of all, you must be sure that you are promoting a high quality product, that delivers great value to buyers. Don't think that both of these are the same, and that if it is of the highest possible quality, it will deliver great value...It might be of the highest possible quality, but also so expensive that the actual value-for-money is low. This way, it won't deliver great value to consumers and your results won't be good. How can you know that it is high quality and has high value-for-money?

Simply, if they have many unsolicited testimonials from satisfied customers and the product is very popular, it's almost certain that it meets both of these criteria. But, in order to be 100% sure, you will need to buy the product and see for yourself, if it really delivers great value... The next step you have to follow, before you even consider paying to advertise an affiliate program, is make sure the sales' letter is converting well. Unfortunately, the only way to be sure that is works is by testing it.

Although, the sales' letter may appeal to you...it may persuade you...it may make you think that you have found a winner...Potential buyers might think differently and NOT make the purchase! So, before unleashing a big ad campaign about any affiliate program, test first to see if the sales' letter they have in place delivers results. The third and very important is to make Back-End sales. If you don't have your own products, you can make back-end sales by building a list and promote other affiliate programs to this list.

Unfortunately, this is the ONLY way to do it and the ONLY way also to make sure that you will profit from EVERY ad campaign, even those that make you lose money up front. The last thing you have to do is follow up with your potential customers...Most people won't buy the product or service you are promoting through your affiliate link, when they visit the site, but by following up with them, you will be able to convert more of them to buyers. This way, you will also make sure, that the sale and commission is credited to your account, by keeping them informed about the product and not let another affiliate make the sale!

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Widgets For Beginner - Xara 3D Heading Maker

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:28:00 +0000

I was searching for a software to make a flash banner for my web site when I suddenly bumped into this page www.xara.com and found this widget that amazes me - Xara 3D Heading Maker.

I tried some of the functions and really-really satisfied. It is very easy to understand all the instructions. And it also has the live preview where I can see my stuff after some alteration. It is very nice and it takes just a few minutes to finish it. And still, the result is satisfying.

So, if you want to have a try on this software, you can try it here - directly on my page. I think it is worth of my money having the software and this great widget. Plus, the Xara 3D Heading Maker is a FREE interactive online application that allows visitors to your web site to make their own 3D text-based graphics dynamically - and then save them as well.

Putting the Heading Maker on your site is a simple process - all you have to do is paste just two lines of code into your web page. All the hard work is done by our servers, so there will be no extra workload for yours. Besides, Xara is offering a trial download for this software.

So, here is the widget, so you can make your 3D headings in here, my page:

But, if you want to have it on your page, you can simply copy the code below and paste it on any HTML section that you want - between the open body and close body tags.

The Business Updates - Web 2.0 Expo New York

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:22:00 +0000

Hey guys, I would like to invite you to join WebAsyst at Web 2.0 Expo New York, and celebrate the power and innovation of the East Coast web industry with the people directly involved in the design, development, engineering, marketing, and business of next-generation internet technology. Connect with the brightest minds, the biggest ideas, the most valuable tools and–most importantly–each other.

WebAsyst is a Silver Sponsor of the Web 2.0 Expo to be held in New York City at the Javits Center beginning September 16th.

Exciting Keynote Line-up

Jay Adelson Digg	Marc Benioff Salesforce.com	Arianna Huffington The Huffington Post

Dan Lyons a.k.a Fake Steve Jobs Forbes.com	Clay Shirky shirky.com	Fred Wilson Union Square Ventures

Conference Tracks

The conference agenda includes three Focus tracks that take a look at how Web 2.0 is impacting the workplace and business: Finance, Performance and Scaling, and Web 2.0 at Work.

Focus on: Performance and Scaling

Focus on: 2.0 at Work

The Workshops

In addition to the conference sessions, the workshops give you a hands-on opportunity to master the power of Web 2.0 technologies though a collaborative learning environment.

The Expo

Web 2.0 Expo will feature a tradeshow filled with 100+ exhibitors showcasing all things Web 2.0 — tools, technologies, services, infrastructures, and more! The Expo Pass includes:

All Keynotes

Expo Hall & all events there, Wednesday through Thursday

Beauty Tips - Touch & Go!

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 09:13:00 +0000

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So, you have to meet a client this evening after the office hour? And you do not have enough time to re-do your make-up. Plus, traffic jams and you are scared that you will be late?

I have faced the same situation as above. And it makes me feel uncomfortable when I can not "prepare" myself the best that I could when meeting my clients.

So, I have tried these tips as my emergency "recovery" for a fresh look. Why don't you just try the tips below and keep these touch up tips at bay for a freshly made-up face - through out the day.

Keep the essentials such as blotting paper, cotton buds, facial tissues, facial sprays, concealer, blush, translucent powder, mascara, eye pencil and lippie in a small make-up purse.
Refrain from dusting on too much powder throughout the day to cover shine as it can appear cakey. Use blotting sheets instead to take away shine that builds up throughout the day.
As for visible existing spots or pimples that pop out suddenly, dab concealer precisely on them.
Re-line your eyes with a creamy eyeliner so that it glides on better.
A sheer, moisturizing lip color does not dry out the lips so you can use it as many times as you wish.
Pick a cream blush as it blends easily into the skin.
Refresh your make-up with a light burst of facial spray. This will also leave your skin looking dewy.

The Business Networking Tips - Post Promotion Finesse (by Elsa Samuel of Cleo Magazine (M))

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 08:26:00 +0000

Congratulations! You have just earned that promotion. But with the bigger paycheck and advancement opportunities come pitfalls such as jealous colleagues. Here is how to handle the change gracefully.

Stay The Same Around The Click

A promotion can stir things up in the office if you have been particularly close with some colleagues. Be prepared for some resentment or jealousy from the colleague who lost the promotion to you. Deal with these instances by acting natural. For example, if you were the joker in the group, continue doing so. Just be the person you have always been.

Gradually Ease Into Your New Position

New power can easily get to your head. When you are armed with a new title, power and better pay, it may be tempting to start giving orders as soon as possible. Turn to your manager and peers for guidance during the first few weeks and treat it as a training time. Your humility and interest in learning will grant you brownie points with old and new colleagues.

Use Your New Tools

For example, the expense account or assistant your new role came with. Do not confuse these benefits as perks; these are tools to help you get your job done. However, refrain from abusing the privileges either. Get your assistant to handle things like faxes and scheduling so you can better focus on your duties.

Travel Tips - How To Handle When You Have Too Much Baggage?

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 07:55:00 +0000

Souvenirs and cheap bargains are usually the culprits behind those extra luggage kilos when you leave. And this also happens to me when I went back from Tawau, Sabah, to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

I had my luggage extra for 10 kilos and had to pay for more than hundred to load my extra luggage - the souvenirs, the cheap bargains of shirts, blouses and etc.

However, as I have myself experienced this, I have some tips for people who loves shopping and faces the same situation. Pick up these tips so you will never tip the check-in luggage scales.

Write In - Airlines such as Malaysian Airlines (MAS) give allowance of an extra five to ten kilos of baggage check-in weight to students. Write in to the headquarters once you have gotten your ticket (and before you take-off) to make this request.
Check In Extra Early - Checking in earlier than the requisite two hours before flight, will make it easier to check-in those extra loads. The ground staffs is usually and likely to be more lenient then as there is less people in the line and they are not in the hurry.
Ask For Help - If you are in the airport and you notice that other passengers are traveling light, do not be afraid to ask for their help. Politely ask them if you could check-in with them. No harm for trying, right?
Stuff It In - Make full use of your handbags, valise and even laptop cases. Some laptop have many pockets and you can just fully utilize them by stuffing some of your things in the pockets. but please, do not be too obvious until you can see your laptop cases turn into a blowfish.

And if in the event that you are charged for excessive baggage, consider redeeming your Frequent Flyer points for extra baggage allowance. On the other hand, if you are traveling with friends, make sure that you buy the tickets in group as it will help you in this matter. And you can also use the relatively cheaper freight services such as ABDA airfreight, which is available in major airports all over the world. For more info, please logon to www.abda-excessbaggage.com

Have a nice and heavenly travel~!

Fashion Tips - Find The Right Fit

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 07:46:00 +0000

Everybody loves T-shirt and never gets enough of it. I have bundles of my T-shirt with variety of colors - from as dark as black to the innocent and snowy white color. T-shirt really suits in all occasion; as long as you know how to wear and match it. It even can be your office wear and look nice with its simple style and lining.

However, how to find the right one which fits you very well - look fabulously attractive on you? It is actually not only about the cut and design, or color; it is the right fit which far more crucial than anything!

A cap sleeve is more flattering; it makes your arms and waist look trimmer.
Make sure the fit is snug, but not restrictive as a T-shirt that is too tight can reveal everything underneath including bulges, or how 'twiggy' and 'stick' you are.
T-shirts that hit at the waistband of your jeans or below are the most flattering - no matter your body shape is.
If you have broad shoulders, pay attention to your sleeves seams. It should stop just above your armpit.
For bulging shoulders, wear something that is not tight on the area, something that covers a bit of your top shoulders might look nice and can play a trick and cover them.

And if the next time you are going to buy your new T-shirts, make sure you have the right fit. Colors and designs are also important. But, the right fit will make them look fabulously on you. Even it is simple, it might look gorgeous if you have it right with your body.

Beauty Tips - Make-Up Remover Substitutes - Owh My God! Where Is My Make-Up Remover?

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 07:36:00 +0000

I have faced this problem before. Usually it happens when I have to involve in a far distance travel. It is not I am careless or what, but sometime I used to keep my make-up remover in my make-up bags that I used to bring to college. Thus, I will sometime forget to take it out and slip it into my travel bag. And when this happens, I find the things below are really come in handy as my make-up remover substitutes.

Baby Oil - such as Johnson's Baby Oil, would be the best thing to replace your make-up remover. It is soft to your skin and yet, nourishes the skin too.
Milk - You can not find any baby oil, but you have a bottle of milk n your fridge. Just grab it and use as your make-up remover. It helps in removing light make-up and smooth the skin.
Olive Oil - It is rich with Vitamins A and E, as well as antioxidants. This oil also has anti ageing properties and is gentle enough for the eyes to remove even the waterproof mascara.
Almond Oil - It has Vitamins A, B1, B2, B6, and E. These vitamins help to soften, sooth and moisturize your skin.
Baby Wipes Paper - LOL~! Many will not believe this. But some of the brand like Johnson's would include the vitamins such as A and E as one of the ingredients. You know that how soft the baby skin is, thus the product also suits as your make-up remover. It still helps you to have soft skin like your baby.

Well, if the next time, you have this problem, just find for the substitutes in your house. I believe the things listed above are usually or always available in our house. Take care~!

Beauty Tips - Taking Care Of Your Dreadlocks Hairstyle~!

noreply@blogger.com (Ms. Anne Ai ling Mustapha) — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 07:26:00 +0000

So, if you are working in a creative arena or field, you might want to try something new on your hairstyle (but please, this style not for the faint-headed people, LOL~!). Well,if you have tried this style, here is the tips on how to take the dread out of maintaining your locks.

Try to resist the temptation to shampoo your new set of dreadlocks for at least two weeks. This is to allow your scalp to adapt to the new schedule. Once your locks are secure, it is ideal to shampoo every four days, depending on how your scalps feels.
Use low-lather shampoos as it will not leave any residue behind. Avoid washing hair with hot water for it may melt the wax used to secure your twists.
Conditioning should be skipped. Its softening function will loosen your locks.
Squeeze excess water from each lock with a bed sheet as towels may lint on your hair.
Once your hair is dried completely, begin the wax and twisting process again. Comb each lock back toward the scalp to get the tangled texture needed to maximize the twists.