<rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><channel><title>amandaapparel</title><description>amandaapparel</description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/home</link><item><title>Kurbo is nothing new, just the latest iteration of Weight Watchers for the next generation</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her thoughts about the Kurbo: the WW (Weight Watchers, Wellness that Works) weight loss app for kids. CW: diets, weight loss, eating disorder mentionI was only 7 or 8 the first time I tried dieting. When you grow up fat in America, you get treated a certain way. Pressure to slim down comes from every facet of your adolescent life: family, friends, school, church. You don’t go a day without hearing about someone’s mum<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8efca8615c274ca0a08a02c08f789278%7Emv2_d_5184_3456_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_8efca8615c274ca0a08a02c08f789278%7Emv2_d_5184_3456_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/08/14/Kurbo-is-nothing-new-just-the-latest-iteration-of-Weight-Watchers-for-the-next-generation</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/08/14/Kurbo-is-nothing-new-just-the-latest-iteration-of-Weight-Watchers-for-the-next-generation</guid><pubDate>Wed, 14 Aug 2019 19:12:54 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8efca8615c274ca0a08a02c08f789278~mv2_d_5184_3456_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her thoughts about the Kurbo: the WW (Weight Watchers, Wellness that Works) weight loss app for kids. </div><div>CW: diets, weight loss, eating disorder mention</div><div>I was only 7 or 8 the first time I tried dieting. When you grow up fat in America, you get treated a certain way. Pressure to slim down comes from every facet of your adolescent life: family, friends, school, church. You don’t go a day without hearing about someone’s mum losing *whatever* pounds, or so-and-so’s auntie trying the *who cares* diet. Adverts for Weight Watchers, Herbalife, and other MLM schemes are inescapable. You know your body is wrong, and you know it’s your fault. </div><div>When you start dieting at such a young age, you never get a chance to develop a healthy relationship with food. When you keep a food journal and count calories while you’re still learning basic math, you don’t get to learn how to nourish your body by eating nutritious meals. After all, the only thing that matters is getting smaller. So you reach for a sawdust tasting 100 calorie snack pack, and you crunch on sad, Oreo inspired wafers. Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels, right? </div><div><div>Today, I learned that <a href="https://www.weightwatchers.com/us/">WW</a> (the point-counting cult, sorry, </div>SmartPoints® System<div> formerly known as Weight Watchers) launched <a href="https://kurbo.com">Kurbo</a>, a weight loss app for children aged 8-17. I was instantly transported back to those childhood feelings of being too much. Not good enough. Not thin enough. Not strong enough. Not dedicated enough. I was immediately filled with anger and grief. How dare WW put kids through the same pain I went through as a child? </div></div><div>Now, as <a href="https://twitter.com/femmina">@femmina</a>pointed out on Twitter, this isn't a new phenomenon. “WW never had an issue having children as members.” They're absolutely right. According to WW History &amp; Philosophy, <a href="https://www.weightwatchers.com/about/his/health.aspx">minors under 17</a> are permitted to participate with written permission. However, this all changed in 2018 when WW offered <a href="https://corporate.ww.com/file/Index?KeyFile=392090462">free memberships for teens</a> aged 13-17. Now, this was still in line with <a href="https://www.weightwatchers.com/about/his/health.aspx">WW policy</a> that children under the age of 10 are prohibited from participation...until Kurbo. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_2adf2168ebd258229f76b2641da014e5.html"/><div><a href="https://time.com/5649964/kurbo-by-ww-app/">Time</a> noted that &quot;The app will inevitably draw praise—for giving a new tool to the millions of U.S. children struggling with their weight—and outrage—for potentially furthering unhealthy body standards and eating behaviors—in equal measure.&quot; My carefully curated, fat positive Twitter feed is full of outrage and understandable criticism. Rather than engaging with critics and skeptics, WW are responding with <a href="https://twitter.com/ww_us/status/1161675515733954561?s=20">this copy/paste tweet</a>: </div><div>“Studies show that programs like Kurbo, which focuses on behavior change for healthier eating &amp; more activity don't cause eating disorders. Kurbo provides kids with tools to make balanced food choices &amp; manage their weight in a healthy way.” </div><div>Are they providing access to these studies? Or even just a link to follow? Of course not. They aren’t even providing links to the Stanford University studies that the app is based on. All they provide is a link to Stanford’s paediatric weight control program, which seems to be a dead end for finding concrete data as well. However, <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5215960/">studies have absolutely shown</a> that it is totally common for eating disorders to develop in children and teens who are just “trying to eat healthy.” </div><div>WW, Weight Watchers, whatever you call it, at the end of a day it is a business whose sole purpose is to generate profit. WW can preach about health all they want, but their own <a href="https://corporate.ww.com/file/Index?KeyFile=392090462">press release</a> reveals this goal:</div><div>&quot;Expand the Weight Watchers business: Increase revenue to more than $2 billion, driven primarily by new member growth and improved retention, while increasing profit at a faster rate than revenue.&quot;</div><div>New member growth: Achieved by expanding their customer base from people age 17+ to 13+, then to 8+. Improved retention: Achieved by getting customers started at a younger age, and keeping them on board into adulthood. But it's all about HEALTH, right? Health sure is a funny way to spell money. Diet, health, wellness, clean-eating, and all other fatphobic industries are rooted in capitalism. There's money to be made in convincing people that they need to change, to shrink, to buy the latest product, to try the latest weight loss tactic. </div><div>What happens when we move away from hating our bodies, from dieting, from obsessing over a number on the scale? For me, it was absolutely empowering. Why should I give money to a company that hates me and people that look like me? Why should I bully myself for the adipose tissue on my body when I can cherish it instead? Why stress over every bite that enters my mouth when I can cook nutritious food and stop when I'm full? </div><div>WW want you to depend on them. They want you to be a lifelong member. If, like me, you had a really messed up relationship with food in the past, try depending on yourself and your body's intuition instead. There are loads of helpful resources available, and it's absolutely worth the payoff. </div><div>Recommended reading: </div><div>Ok2BeFat - <a href="https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzCJI_hV11iFYHnjOPGyVwXaFEo2eEc9S">Fat Activism Basics</a></div><div>Linda Bacon - <a href="https://lindabacon.org/body-respect-book/">Body Respect</a></div><div>Sofie Hagen - <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Happy-Fat-Taking-Space-Shrink/dp/0008293872/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1543520995&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=happy+fat+sofie+hagen">Happy Fat</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Ten Fringe Tips</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares 10 tips for surviving and making the most of the 2019 Edinburgh Festival Fringe. This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. So, you made the pilgrimage to Edinburgh for The Fringe...now what? Well, if you haven't already done so then you<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_51c4223dda2549fe87705ec9fcae0c7b%7Emv2_d_5301_3534_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_51c4223dda2549fe87705ec9fcae0c7b%7Emv2_d_5301_3534_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/08/02/Ten-Fringe-Tips</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/08/02/Ten-Fringe-Tips</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Aug 2019 13:53:24 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_51c4223dda2549fe87705ec9fcae0c7b~mv2_d_5301_3534_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares 10 tips for surviving and making the most of the 2019 Edinburgh Festival Fringe. </div><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>So, you made the pilgrimage to Edinburgh for The Fringe...now what? Well, if you haven't already done so then you should definitely book tickets to see the fat performers listed in my <a href="https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/07/23/FatFringe-Guide">#FatFringe guide</a><a href="https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/07/23/FatFringe-Guide">that I posted last week.</a> The festival can be an overwhelming season, for sure. It's hot outside, there is *always* something on, and Fringe burnout is very real. This is my 8th Fringe while living in Edinburgh, and I performed twice before that. Today marks the first day of the 2019 festival, so I'm sharing 10 tips for surviving and making the most of your time in Edinburgh during The Fringe. </div><div>1. Dress for comfort </div><div>Listen. I'm nearly 30, and I've finally embraced dressing for comfort. That doesn't mean you can't look cute or fashionable! It's more just adopting the mentality that you deserve to be comfy, and that your clothes don't have to be pinching and poking you, you know? For me, that shift looked like wearing bralettes instead of wired bras (or going braless, even though my rack is a 40GG haha) and switching from flats and boots to trainers. There are a lot of comfort related things you can't control, like hard seats, attic venues that feel like a sauna, and getting stuck in traffic jams. You deserve comfort wherever you can get it, starting with your shoes!</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_e1ecb8fbf3b0370ec1cd1b7f4c9eac8c.html"/><div>2. Pace yourself</div><div>With all of the excitement and incredible energy in Edinburgh at the start of The Fringe, it's easy to get sucked in and stay up late and get up early and you wind up getting burnt out. Fringe burnout is for real, and so is Fringe flu. You don't want to wear yourself out and end up being sick because of it. Make a plan for the duration of your stay, and remember to take time to rest.</div><div>If you're an overly organised freak like me, you could use a spreadsheet (don't @ me!) to plan which gigs you want to attend. Keeping a mini diary or even a small notebook with you can help you stay on top of the shows, and might even help you squeeze in that amazing drag cabaret you just got a flyer for! Which brings us to number 3...</div><div>3. Totes and backpacks are your friends</div><div>You need a place to put all your stuff! You'll no doubt have 5,000 flyers handed to you by the end of your first day in town, and I *better* not catch you littering! Totes and backpacks a great place to store them, even if it's only until you pass a recycling bin. The following tips include a few more things I recommend keeping in your bag at all times during the festival, because you'll 100% need them. Otherwise a big bag is great for lugging around stuffed animals, your meds, snacks, small dogs, you name it! </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_6764ebdef4c3b1258f8dd82b0bd241da.html"/><div>4. FANS! </div><div>Did I mention it's hot out? It's hot inside. It's hot outside. It's hot under my boobs. It's hot, and you need a fan! Not only do they help you cool off, but you'll look dramatic as hell fanning yourself with one of these bad boys. Better yet, why not get a cute babe or two to fan you instead? That's the dream, eh? </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_cded0482eb2a93c1c4a3fc3213042b87.html"/><div>5. Ask for recommendations</div><div>There's just *so* much going on at all times which makes it hard to decide which shows you should attend. I love asking around for recommendations! Especially by week 2 or 3, people have probably already seen a couple shows and odds are they'd love to tell you about them! Even the Free Fringe has a lot of great stuff to offer, but it's a bit like bargain hunting, right? Asking around for recommendations can help you sift through all the mess and find something that you'll really enjoy. </div><div>6. Protect your skin</div><div>Did I mention it's hot out? Did I? Even when it's not harsh direct sunlight, you still need to be protecting that luscious skin with some SPF. Most UV rays can pass through clouds, which means that overcast and cloudy skies can still put your skin at risk. There are loads of good sunblocks out there that are sprays or sticks, which are amazing for re-applying quickly throughout the day! </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_677ebf23f7979cedb411856a5570cd15.html"/><div>7. Eat like a local </div><div>Sure, you may want to hit up the Harry Potter cafe (not me, I hate HP, sue me) which is totally your prerogative. And of course food trucks are delicious and convenient. However, it's TOTALLY worth it to go off of the main roads and try smaller, local eating and drinking eating establishments. Not only will they be less packed, but they'll likely be less expensive as well. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_fcd54f6b02b4e23b1f37b2e52afe4ad7.html"/><div>If you happen to find yourself in the south side near Summerhall, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/explore/locations/1011975416/august21-edinburgh/">August_21 is a cosy cafe with loads of tasty food, GF/DF/vegan options, and I hear the girl who makes the sandwiches is super cute.</a></div><div>It's me. I am that cutie hahah!</div><div>8. Bring change for tip jars</div><div>Performers, especially street performers, buskers, and Free Fringe acts, rely on tips during this month. Having a coin purse to keep your change tidy is a lot more handy than digging through your pockets or bag trying to find a spare quid or two. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c98d873a41673571db3b2efeaaa427d3.html"/><div> 9. HYDRATE! </div><div>Hey, uh, I don't know if you heard but it is HOT in Edinburgh. If you're sweating, on the sauce, or both, then you gotta replenish your body with heaps of water. Instead of single use plastic bottles, why not pack a reusable bottle instead? There are loads of bottle filling stations around town, and most pubs/venues will hook you up with free water as well. Please stay hydrated kiddos! You deserve it! </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_97fccd1fc5ff0f03fbca58d753295212.html"/><div>10. Be kind</div><div>Finally, the most important reminder. Be kind. For better or for worse, we're all in this chaotic festival season together, and a little kindness goes a long way. Be kind to your surroundings. Be kind to performers. Be kind to folks handing out flyers. Be kind to service staff. Be kind to other audience members. And don't forget, be kind to yourself.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>#FatFringe Guide</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her #FatFringe guide to the 2019 Edinburgh Festival Fringe. Well hello, friends! It’s uh, been a while huh? Eight months of radio silence then BAM! Here I am with a beautifully curated list of fat fringe shows! I have a very complicated relationship with the fringe. I first visited Edinburgh about a decade ago for the fringe, and back then I thought it was the absolute most interesting and exciting event on the planet.<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2aa1c238b9d448508993b947ac9f90f1%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_418/5a3ab3_2aa1c238b9d448508993b947ac9f90f1%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/07/23/FatFringe-Guide</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2019/07/23/FatFringe-Guide</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 Jul 2019 14:18:07 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2aa1c238b9d448508993b947ac9f90f1~mv2.jpg"/><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her #FatFringe guide to the 2019 Edinburgh Festival Fringe. </div><div>Well hello, friends! It’s uh, been a while huh? Eight months of radio silence then BAM! Here I am with a beautifully curated list of fat fringe shows! I have a very complicated relationship with the fringe. I first visited Edinburgh about a decade ago for the fringe, and back then I thought it was the absolute most interesting and exciting event on the planet. After moving to Edinburgh in 2012, I started to slowly distance myself from the fringe, because have you seen the traffic in town? I’m just trying to live my life, and all of a sudden what used to be a 15 minute bus journey is now over an hour! </div><div>This summer may very well be my last in Edinburgh (shoutout to visas, immigration, and the queen herself) I really want to make the most of it. I’ve seen a lot of beautifully curated fringe guides such as <a href="https://feministfringereviews.wordpress.com/?fbclid=IwAR2fKrHVLlgj946p0mi2xdWWW3K-SLvX7rYpLGMuAnNNEF3v1RT6zY565oc">The Feminist Fringe</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/search?q=#transfringe&amp;src=typd">#TransFringe</a>, but I couldn’t find anything that looked at the fringe through a fat lens. Thanks to some help from <a href="https://twitter.com/AmandaApparel/status/1146404514058133504">Twitter</a>, I put together this list of 12 #FatFringe shows for the 2019 fringe season. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_14fc38bc03e545888d558e53adeea0e5~mv2.png"/><div>1. Alison Spittle: Mother of God</div><div>Type of performance: Stand-up</div><div>Venue 14: Gilded Balloon Teviot</div><div>Price: £9-11</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Alison%20Spittle%3A%20Mother%20of%20God%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>I had the absolute pleasure of seeing Alison Spittle at last year’s Fringe, and she’s definitely on my must-see list this year as well. This year’s show Mother of God focuses on Alison’s fight for the role of Mary of Nazareth in her school nativity, and I can’t wait to see it! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f5b9b7da00e6499eac46f3356bddd7b7~mv2.jpg"/><div>2. Beach Body Ready</div><div>Type of performance: comedy, true-life</div><div>Venue 33: Pleasance Courtyard</div><div>Price: £7-10</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Beach%20Body%20Ready%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>Whether fat or not, most of us can relate to the pressure to have a “perfect” body when swimsuit season rolls around. In this show, “The Roaring Girls for a defiantly feel-good show which sticks two fingers up at how the media says you should look.” Love the promo image. Love the message. Love it, love it, love it! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_9d18adbf998f4a168bc9a52463a873fa~mv2.jpg"/><div>3. Crystal Rasmussen presents The Bible 2 (Plus a Cure for Shame, Violence, Betrayal and Athlete’s Foot) Live! </div><div>Type of performance: cabaret, LGBT+</div><div>Venue 61: Underbelly, Cowgate </div><div>Price: £ £9-11.50</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Crystal%20Rasmussen%20presents%20The%20Bible%202%20(Plus%20a%20Cure%20for%20Shame%2C%20Violence%2C%20Betrayal%20and%20Athlete's%20Foot)%20Live!%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>The Bible 2’s got it all: song, dance, and a children's swimming pool. This queer cabaret is from the genius behind Nobel-nominated book: Diary of a Drag Queen. This show is 16+ so no kiddies allowed! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8a6eea77517c492d9c822586abce0fe5~mv2.jpg"/><div>4. Daisy Earl: Fairy Elephant</div><div>Type of performance: stand-up, solo show</div><div>Venue 24: Gilded Balloon Patter Hoose</div><div>Price: £7.50-9.50</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Daisy%20Earl%3A%20Fairy%20Elephant%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>Full disclosure: I’m not sure if this show is positive/neutral/or negative re: fatness. However, I want to show up and support plus size performers, and that includes our sister in fatness Daisy Earl. </div><div>In this show, Daisy explores what it’s like to wake up aged 30 and not feel 30, flirty, and thriving. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b72dbf04be394798854df3004d0134a1~mv2.jpg"/><div>5. Desiree Burch: Desiree’s Coming Early!</div><div>Type of performance: stand-up, storytelling</div><div>Venue 313: Heroes @ The Hive</div><div>Price: £7-10 </div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Desiree%20Burch%3A%20Desiree's%20Coming%20Early!%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>First of all: obsessed with the promo photo shoot. That dress? That background? Perfection. Second, hilarious name. As you may have guessed, this is a relationship show. “Every comic has a relationship show but what happens when that relationship's with the one person you were most trying to avoid?” Super, super keen for Desiree’s show! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_460127eaa6eb4eae8f9f3130e99ddbea~mv2.jpg"/><div>6. FATTY FAT FAT</div><div>Type of performance: solo show, new writing</div><div>Venue 33: Pleasance Courtyard</div><div>Price: £7-10 Saturday-Thursday, £28-34 Fridays</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22FATTY%20FAT%20FAT%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>“Katie is fat. Pretty much always been fat, and will be fat forever.” Katie Greenall is the kind of person you want to be BFFs with, and has quickly become one of my favourite folks on <a href="https://twitter.com/Katie_Greenall">Twitter</a>, and I can’t WAIT to see her perform. This show is also running a <a href="https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/fattyfatfat/fatty-fat-fat-fundraiser/community">Kickstarter</a> right now, so if you’re keen definitely consider giving to that as well! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b3a0ab0d948d4aa3aef2ae0045d246a4~mv2.jpg"/><div>7. MUSE: An Experiment in Storytelling and Life Drawing</div><div>Type of performance: storytelling: visual art</div><div>Venue 387: The Safari Lounge</div><div>Price: £10</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22MUSE%3A%20An%20Experiment%20in%20Storytelling%20and%20Life%20Drawing%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>This is a super interesting sounding performance, and it sounds like a welcome breath of fresh air from the all comedy all the time aspect of the Fringe. “In a world where we learn to hate the bodies of others and fear our own, MUSE offers a chance to find them instead.”</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dbe271b98c59446fbd3ce41ec539acc4~mv2.jpg"/><div>8. Scottee: Class</div><div>Type of performance: contemporary, solo show</div><div>Venue 139: Assembly Roxy</div><div>Price: £11-14</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Scottee%3A%20Class%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>The first of Scottee’s shows is Class: a solo theatre production about you guessed it…class. “Class is a show about what it is to be embarrassed, pretending to be posher than you are and explores why we all get a thrill playing god with green tokens from Waitrose.” I’ve been following Scottee on Twitter for yeeeears, but this will be my first time seeing him IRL and I’m mega excited! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_6ca946e43ed946e9b5dfb14df8ebbf0e~mv2.jpg"/><div>9. Scottee: Fat Blokes</div><div>Type of performance: theatre, contemporary </div><div>Venue 17: Assembly George Square Studios</div><div>Price: £13-16</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Scottee%3A%20Fat%20Blokes%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>The second of Scottee’s shows is a “sort of dance show about flab, double chins and getting your kit off in public.” The show features Scottee, Lea Anderson, and “four fat blokes who've never done this sort of thing before.” This one’s probably in my top 3 must-see shows as well. So, so hype! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_033616f4f3af4b008e0ff4b89a1e282c~mv2_d_2000_2000_s_2.jpeg"/><div>10. Secret Dinosaur Cult Live</div><div>Type of performance: comedy, talk</div><div>Venue 49: Bedlam Theatre </div><div>Price: £8-10</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Secret%20Dinosaur%20Cult%20Live%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>If you’ve never listened to <a href="https://www.secretdinosaurcult.com">Secret Dinosaur Cult</a>…hoo boy are you missing out! SDC has it all: dinosaurs, daddy issues, and improvised jingles. You know, basic cult stuff. I was actually at the VERY first SDC recording last year, and my face heart from laughing so much. Trust me lads, you do not wanna miss this live podcast recording. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_13ff51919b544676acbbb24885b1c76f~mv2.jpg"/><div>11. Since U Been Gone</div><div>Type of performance: theatre, new writing, LGBT+</div><div>Venue 139: Assembly Roxy</div><div>Price: £9-12</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Since%20U%20Been%20Gone%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>Another fresh <a href="https://twitter.com/TheTeddyLamb">Twitter</a> fave of mine is Teddy Lamb. Since U Been Gone is “moving autobiographical account of growing up queer in the mid-noughties, finding yourself and losing a friend.” Storytelling? Check! Pop music accompaniment? Check! Reality TV references? Check! Can’t wait to see Teddy perform IRL! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_436c61c9017540ad9949fca0320072ea~mv2.jpg"/><div>12. Sofie Hagen: The Bumswing</div><div>Type of performance: stand-up, storytelling</div><div>Venue 23: Pleasance Dome</div><div>Price: £9-14</div><div><a href="https://tickets.edfringe.com/whats-on#q=%22Sofie%20Hagen%3A%20The%20Bumswing%22">Book tickets!</a></div><div>You know her, you love her, guys gals and nonbinary pals welcome to the stage: Sofie Hagen! Sofie is great, but you already know that. This year she’s bringing her new show The Bumswing to edinburgh and I mean, that promo photo? Flawless. Be sure to grab her book Happy Fat from your library, local bookstore, or wherever fine books are sold! Now, this is by NO means an exhaustive list of all fat fringe performers. Can you think of any I've missed? What #FatFringe gigs are you looking forward to seeing? Let me know in the comments below! </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Five Favourites 01: November 2018</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares five things she's been living for this November in the inaugural Five Favourites column.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. I'm trying something new here on the blog today, folks! Each month I want to reflect five things I've really<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2acb46d8889b46bf91bf69874af8989f%7Emv2_d_2432_1621_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_2acb46d8889b46bf91bf69874af8989f%7Emv2_d_2432_1621_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/30/Five-Favourites-01-November-2018</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/30/Five-Favourites-01-November-2018</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2018 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares five things she's been living for this November in the inaugural Five Favourites column.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2acb46d8889b46bf91bf69874af8989f~mv2_d_2432_1621_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>I'm trying something new here on the blog today, folks! Each month I want to reflect five things I've really enjoyed. Those things could be anything! This is a sort of miscellaneous post for things I love and want to talk about, but that don't merit their own blog post. Let's give it a go, shall we?</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_35a014bfcc4e46bcafaea7378c431a77.html"/><div>1. <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B07DPZ3VKM/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amandaapparel-21&amp;creative=6738&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=B07DPZ3VKM&amp;linkId=48f54402bf3cb6ad873e16e54207cb46">Pokémon Let's Go Pikachu</a></div><div>This was my birthday gift from Bear! Pokémon Yellow was the first video game I really got into back in 1998. I received it for Christmas in 1998 along with the matching Game Boy Colour pictured above. Fast forward 20 years and I'm playing a remastered version of the Kanto Region classic. I'm having SUCH a good time with it! There's a good balance between original game content and new twists/new takes on the classic. Millennials love a bit of nostalgia, right? </div><div>2. <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B00BN7GODG/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amandaapparel-21&amp;creative=6738&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=B00BN7GODG&amp;linkId=494fd17caba41eee1f215409cfbd7c92">Boots Botanics All Bright Cleansing Toner</a></div><div>Unpopular opinion: <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B00KH6QX08/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amandaapparel-21&amp;creative=6738&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=B00KH6QX08&amp;linkId=487180c63515dbe1a3328f438fb723fc">Pixi glow tonic</a> does nothing for me. I know it's a cult favourite, but I tried it and was just super unimpressed, especially for the price! This Boots Botanics toner is under £10 and leaves my skin feeling fresh and smooth. It's worth noting that my skin is pretty needy because of my psoriasis, but if it works for my mega-dry skin, imagine what it could do for you!</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_f27f047cb12e656ff8e671f4a952284b.html"/><div>3. She-Ra on Netflix</div><div>So, I've already watched this series 1.5 times and I just...oh man. I really enjoy it. I can't tell you much about why I like it without getting spoiler-y, so please do us both a favour and watch it, okay? </div><div>4. <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1608866874/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amandaapparel-21&amp;creative=6738&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1608866874&amp;linkId=1e196440d2f6667c805f68a9162d3066">Lumberjanes</a></div><div>After you watch She-Ra, you may not know what to do with yourself. I recommend the Lumberjanes comic series! I've recently added volumes 5 &amp; 6 to my collection (thanks Bear's parents!) and it's just such a fun, lovely series. This was a project that Noelle Stevenson worked on before adapting She-Ra for Netflix. Prefer graphic novels over comics? Her fantasy <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/0062278223/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=amandaapparel-21&amp;creative=6738&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=0062278223&amp;linkId=5e196d081627799ad13127c2cb32c80d">Nimona</a> is super good as well!</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_169f135926b861a0420bef415e31b6c8.html"/><div>5. <a href="https://www.instagram.com/owenthegriff/">Owen The Griff on Instagram</a></div><div>You know when dogs are so ugly that they're cute? I have a soft spot for ugly cuties, and Owen is my current fave. He's 11 years old and a teeny tiny 5 pounds. His tongue is always hanging out, he loves eating fruit, he likes to walk backwards, and he boks like a chicken. I can't get enough of this little guy! He even has <a href="https://www.lilipibrand.com/collections/griffin">merch</a>! Hint: the <a href="https://www.lilipibrand.com/collections/griffin/products/standing-griffin?variant=6104678531100">18&quot; Standing Owen Pillow</a> would make a GREAT Christmas gift if you happen to be shopping for me! Just gonna speak that out into the universe, haha! </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Visiting Manchester: Things I saw, ate, and did while attending the Manchester Animation Festival</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel recaps her recent trip to the Manchester Animation Festival. Although I haven't visited loads of times, I'm a pretty big fan of Manchester. My old employer's headquarters is in the city centre, so I used to make an occasional day trip to the city for meetings. Was I tempted to egg their building for making me redundant? Yes. However, I was an adult and just gave it the stink eye as I walked past. This visit was even better<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f005410d4ad34c6aa6306aac987100d0%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_399/5a3ab3_f005410d4ad34c6aa6306aac987100d0%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/29/Visiting-Manchester-Things-I-saw-ate-and-did-while-attending-the-Manchester-Animation-Festival</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/29/Visiting-Manchester-Things-I-saw-ate-and-did-while-attending-the-Manchester-Animation-Festival</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2018 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel recaps her recent trip to the Manchester Animation Festival. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f005410d4ad34c6aa6306aac987100d0~mv2.jpg"/><div>Although I haven't visited loads of times, I'm a pretty big fan of Manchester. My old employer's headquarters is in the city centre, so I used to make an occasional day trip to the city for meetings. Was I tempted to egg their building for making me redundant? Yes. However, I was an adult and just gave it the stink eye as I walked past. This visit was even better because I was off the clock, with my <a href="https://www.samuelcbone.com">main squeeze</a>, and got to stay for 4 days and 3 nights! </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_33f7f10f070351b4b10175980972e917.html"/><div>Bear and I stayed in the <a href="https://www.accorhotels.com/gb/hotel-A0H5-ibis-styles-manchester-portland-hotelnewly-refurbished/index.shtml">Ibis Styles Hotel</a> on Portland Street, and it was in a word: quirky. It's been newly refurbished with a weather theme (I guess?) and it felt like it was trying very hard to be young and cool. Now, don't get me wrong. I'd absolutely rather stay in an over the top themed hotel than a boring old Premier Inn (no offence Premier Inn, your beds are majorly comfy). It's just a little difficult to compete when your go-to hotel chain is <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/11/29/Woman-About-Town-citizenM-Glasgow">citizenM</a>, ya know? </div><div>My biggest gripe is that the included breakfast was mehhh. There was bread for toast, cereal, and a couple mini baked goods. The only option for eggs was hard boiled (ew!). The coffee machine was out of order which was mega disappointing. But on the bright side, that gave us the opportunity to go out for brunch, which is the greatest meal of all time in my humble opinion. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_6f609ad1cd8e2d4dcde1527aa1734780.html"/><div>When in Manchester, you have to go to <a href="http://www.homesweethomenq.com">Home Sweet Home</a>. It's mandatory. I'd visited previously for cake (omg their cakes are incredible!) but I'd never been for brunch before. I got chicken &amp; waffles and it was scrumptious. The portion size was just right for me as well. They have good coffee and good atmosphere, and if I lived in Manchester I'd definitely be a Home Sweet Home regular. </div><div>Since we had limited time between screenings, we had to hit up a couple chain restaurants that were close to the festival location like Pizza Express and BarBurrito, but it was either that or spend a fortune Uber-ing around the city. Plus we got discounts with the festival pass, so what can ya do? </div><div>I did try Japanese cheesecake in a small bubble tea joint though! I'd never had it before, so I was intrigued. Turns out it's pretty similar to New York style cheesecake, just with less cheese and less sugar. It had more of a cakey texture, rather than the usual creaminess of NY cheesecake. The more you know! </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_a7a1cdaef4a1100c23cac7bdd881b07d.html"/><div>So the whole reason we were even in Manchester was for the <a href="http://www.manchesteranimationfestival.co.uk">animation festival</a>! As an animator, this wasn't Bear's first time at the rodeo. It was mine though, and I had a blast! He attended more screenings than I did, but I spent alone time in the hotel writing, so it worked out really well. </div><div>The festival was held at <a href="https://homemcr.org">HOME Manchester</a>, which is one of the coolest venues I've ever visited. HOME is so much more than a cinema. It's also a theatre, gallery, cafe, bar, and event space. Their upcoming <a href="https://homemcr.org/whats-on/">events calendar</a> is full of exhibitions, performances, talks, workshops, classes, and more. We have a few good indie cinemas in Edinburgh, but I don't think we have anywhere that does everything that HOME does. I gotta admit, I'm pretty jealous!</div><div>Several of the screenings were compilations of many short films by many different creators, some of which were students and some of which were professionals. It was really interesting seeing so many different styles telling different stories back to back in that format. I quickly learned that it's customary to clap after each short. Again, the more you know! </div><div>The short film collections had ratings like any other film, but I wish there had been an explanation (or a trigger warning, honestly) detailing why they merited that rating. One of the screenings we attended was rated 18. That rating could be given for any host of reasons. It turns out that the programme featured a (multi-award winning) short film that was extremely troubling with my particular brand of trauma. If I had known that ahead of time, I could've either a) mentally prepared for the experience, or b) made an informed decision to opt out of that particular screening. Both outcomes would've prevented me from breaking down crying during the film. </div><div>Now that I've had some time to process that situation, I plan to contact the festival directly and bring this to their attention. Odds are I wasn't the only one troubled by this particular film, and I definitely think that the festival would appreciate the opportunity to grow and improve. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c1fa5eb26d29502185b12ac89a8fda1f.html"/><div>Two of my favourite events within the festival were masterclasses that had experts in the field sharing stories and experiences with the audiences. The first one we saw was the making of Wes Anderson's Isle of Dogs, which was so cool! My absolute favourite session though was with a couple dudes from London based animation studio <a href="https://www.thelineanimation.com">The Line</a>.</div><div>This studio has an amazing body of work, but most relevant to my interests is the music video for Humility by Gorillaz (above). Like, imagine getting to not only meet but work with the artistic genius that is <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hewll/?hl=en">Jamie Hewlett</a>. I was a little second-hand-starstruck to be honest. I'm so glad this was the final screening of our trip, because I don't think anything could've topped that. </div><div>And then I caught the stomach flu, spent the entire train journey home in the loo, and had to cancel my birthday party, but it's cool. I'll totally get over it. Sniffles. </div><div>For real though, this trip was a blast, and I'd love to spend more time in Manchester. If you have any tips on where to visit in the city, be sure to leave them in the comments below! </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Monthly Playlist 01: Big November Mood</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares songs she's been hooked on this November in this inaugural monthly playlist. This month both Carly Rae Jepsen AND Ariana Grande blessed our earholes with new songs. I don't know about you, but these bops have helped keep my mood bright as they days are getting dark. I'm a Scorpio (although I relate more to my Cancer moon, but that is a different story), and this playlist was inspired by zodiac traits. Scorpios are<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_67f7a3ea8af740388acf16551ab10e46%7Emv2_d_6016_4016_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_418/5a3ab3_67f7a3ea8af740388acf16551ab10e46%7Emv2_d_6016_4016_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/28/Monthly-Playlist-01-Big-November-Mood</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/28/Monthly-Playlist-01-Big-November-Mood</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2018 15:02:56 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_67f7a3ea8af740388acf16551ab10e46~mv2_d_6016_4016_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares songs she's been hooked on this November in this inaugural monthly playlist. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_41b779b5ab26534b34895581186aae7d.html"/><div>This month both Carly Rae Jepsen AND Ariana Grande blessed our earholes with new songs. I don't know about you, but these bops have helped keep my mood bright as they days are getting dark. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_01402ffbd75a68cde7feee696a1c9032.html"/><div>I'm a Scorpio (although I relate more to my Cancer moon, but that is a different story), and this playlist was inspired by zodiac traits. Scorpios are passionate, emotional, stubborn, and a lil bit horny on main. These songs are fun, sensual, and a bit over the top...just like me! Obviously I had to put Ari and Carly right at the start. These two singles put me in the BEST mood, you know? </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_f94c738fcae207f1ce9be72d6790735e.html"/><div>Late Street Dive definitely deserve a mention. Their new album is very good in my opinion. I first heard them covering Want You Back (above) and have loved them ever since. They're actually playing in Edinburgh next April. Maybe I'll see some of you babes there!</div><div>Trip by <a href="https://open.spotify.com/artist/7HkdQ0gt53LP4zmHsL0nap?si=pZU5hgVvSr6FFdn_sYJCNg">Ella Mai</a> is a song I randomly happened upon while browsing Tumblr. Her voice is like honey. This song is always stuck in my head lately, and I'm 100% okay with that. </div><div>I really love 1999 as well. The video is super nostalgic and I'm really into it. Charli XCX and Troye Sivan were 7 and 4 years old respectively in 1999 though, which makes me feel *really* old. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_4c9aa979ee38e417ecfe28e935d361e7.html"/><div>There's one song that didn't make the cut for this playlist, even though I've been majorly enjoying it this month. I'm not even a little bit embarrassed to admit that the song is K/DA - POP/STARS. I couldn't care less about League of Legends, but I love a bit of K-Pop and this song freakin slaps!</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_1ce6f7ed7e3f91a7baa58a950477c209.html"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Three easy ways to be an ally to your fat relative at Thanksgiving dinner</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares tips for being a better ally to your fat family members this Thanksgiving. Today is Thanksgiving in America. While I’m not into celebrating a racist, colonialist holiday, many people still enjoy gathering with family, eating a home cooked meal, and celebrating things they are thankful for. If you’re not a fat person, it’s likely that you’ve got fat relatives. I primarily write for my fellow fats, but post is for thin<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e9b71017ec6d4de9885aa76be4b2bc92%7Emv2_d_3707_2471_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_e9b71017ec6d4de9885aa76be4b2bc92%7Emv2_d_3707_2471_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/22/Three-easy-ways-to-be-an-ally-to-your-fat-relative-at-Thanksgiving-dinner</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/22/Three-easy-ways-to-be-an-ally-to-your-fat-relative-at-Thanksgiving-dinner</guid><pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2018 13:13:36 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e9b71017ec6d4de9885aa76be4b2bc92~mv2_d_3707_2471_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares tips for being a better ally to your fat family members this Thanksgiving. </div><div>Today is Thanksgiving in America. While I’m not into celebrating a racist, colonialist holiday, many people still enjoy gathering with family, eating a home cooked meal, and celebrating things they are thankful for. If you’re not a fat person, it’s likely that you’ve got fat relatives. I primarily write for my fellow fats, but post is for thin folks. Here I will outline 3 ways you can be a better ally to your fat relatives this Thanksgiving. I’ll be providing examples, explanations, and offering alternatives for you to try. Let’s dig in. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_4ac3f89407e66fd77cce2094fd46cd07.html"/><div>1. Avoid assigning moral value to food.</div><div>Example: <div>“I’d love a piece of pumpkin pie, but I shouldn’t. I’m trying to be good.” </div></div><div>This is…frustrating. Choosing to eat nothing but vegetables doesn’t make one good, and choosing to eat an entire pumpkin pie doesn’t make one bad. When a person says something like this, they often believe that they’re only talking about themselves. However, by assigning this kind of value to food, they’re actually passing moral judgment on everyone else as well. </div><div>When I’ve heard this said, it’s almost always been said by women to other women. This is a particularly insidious way that people perform femininity. It is troubling because people seem to bond over diet culture by wishing they could eat certain foods, talking about how “bad” they were because they ate dessert, etc. </div><div>When fat people engage in diet talk they are treated more positively than when we are proud of our bodies1. Given that positive treatment, it is understandable why fat folks (or even thin folks who perceive themselves as “fat”) would choose to engage in self policing comments like the one above. However, that doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t strive for better. </div><div>Alternative: “No thank you, I wouldn’t like a piece of pie,” or “A piece of pie sounds great, thanks!”</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_bc318756e3871195c1e3a9c480531af0.html"/><div>2. Refrain from making comments on weight fluctuation or about relatives’ bodies. </div><div>Example: “You’ve really packed on the pounds, eh?” or “Wow! You’ve really slimmed down! What’s your secret?” </div><div>Other people’s bodies are none of your business. Here’s a helpful hint. When you want to make a comment about somebody else’s body: Don’t. </div><div>“But Amanda, I’m just trying to compliment them!” If your aim is to compliment them, then odds are it’s because they’ve lost weight. This is problematic for two reasons. </div><div>1) Weight loss may be unintentional. Your relative may be dealing with mental or physical health problems that have affected their appetite. They may be struggling with an eating disorder. They may have lost weight rapidly due to stress. By complimenting their weight loss, you’re affirming that whatever negative thing they’re going through is actually positive. </div><div>2) Even if the weight loss was intentional, their body is still none of your business. Diet culture (also known as weight loss culture or wellness culture) harms all of us, not just thin folks. A congratulatory attitude toward weight loss enforces diet culture, which enables the structures that marginalise fat folks. </div><div>“Come on Amanda, I’m just trying to motivate them!” If your aim is to motivate them, then it’s probably because they’ve gained weight. This is troublesome for a whole host of reasons, but the following two are the most prevalent. </div><div>1) This “motivation” is actually anti-fat bias which has extremely negative psychological effects on the target including increased vulnerability to depression, economic hardship, isolation, and more2. </div><div>2) There are also many negative physical effects on the target including increased stress, decreased motivation to engage in physical activity, increased binge-eating behaviour3. </div><div>Your fat family member already faces stigma and discrimination in nearly every aspect of their lives4, they don’t need it from their loved ones as well. </div><div>Alternative: Keep your observations about other people’s bodies to yourself. Every time.</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_15dc09b7321166c44cb61db4abbf91c3.html"/><div>3. Let people eat whatever they want without comment. </div><div>“Should you really be going back for seconds?” or “Maybe you should have a salad with that.” </div><div>Remember how other people’s bodies are none of your business? Well, what other people eat is also none of your business. </div><div>The ONLY exception I’ll allow is if somebody reaches for the last piece of pie or the last deviled egg you were also reaching for. In that case, you could arm wrestle, flip a coin, or play rock paper scissors to see who gets the last piece. </div><div>Alternative: “That stuffing was so delicious! I can see why you’d want to go back for seconds!” </div><div>The great thing about these 3 ideas is that they only require one to think before speaking. Ask yourself, “Is what I’m about to say enforcing the idea that fat = bad and thin = good?” If the answer is yes, then don’t say it. Once you master that, it’s time to take one more step. </div><div>Allies, we need you to call out other family members who say hateful, anti-fat things this Thanksgiving. It’s not enough to not say them yourself. If you allow others to harm fat folks without objecting and trying to educate them, then you’ve chosen the side of the oppressor. Sure, challenging loved ones can be uncomfortable, but it’s the only way we can grow together. </div><div>Recommended reading</div><div><a href="https://www.eater.com/2018/11/20/18099157/thanksgiving-family-politics-argument">You’re Morally Obligated to Call Out Your Racist Relatives at Thanksgiving</a></div><div><a href="https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/sarah-michelle-gellars-reminder-not-overeat-thanksgiving-post-met-mixed-reactions-fans-180840500.html">Sarah Michelle Gellar apologizes for ‘thinspiration’ Thanksgiving post: ‘I would never intentionally shame anyone’</a></div><div><a href="https://www.teenvogue.com/story/7-ways-to-be-an-ally-to-native-peoples-this-thanksgiving">7 Ways to Be An Ally to Native Peoples This Thanksgiving</a></div><div><a href="https://newfoodeconomy.org/indigenous-americans-thanksgiving-pre-contact-food-sovereignty/">“We are still alive”: How Native communities grapple with Thanksgiving’s colonial legacy</a></div><div><a href="https://www.bustle.com/p/how-to-argue-with-trump-supporters-in-your-family-this-thanksgiving-yes-you-have-to-5534327">How to argue with Trump supporters in your family this Thanksgiving (and yes, you have to)</a></div><div>References</div><div>1. WANN, M., 2009. Foreward: Fat studies: an invitation to revolution. In: ROTHBLUM, E., and SOLOVAY, S., eds. <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Fat-Studies-Reader-Esther-Rothblum/dp/0814776310">The fat studies reader</a>. New York: New York University Press. pp. IX - XXV. </div><div>2. MCHUGH, M. C., and KASARDO, A. E., 2011. <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/257663653_Anti-fat_Prejudice_The_Role_of_Psychology_in_Explication_Education_and_Eradication">Anti-fat prejudice: The role of psychology in explication, education and eradication</a>. Sex Roles. vol. 66, pp. 617-627.</div><div>3. NUTTER, S., RUSSELL-MAYHEW, S., ALBERGA, A. S., ARTHUR, N., KASSAN, A., LUND, D. E., SESMA-VAZQUEZ, M., and WILLIAMS, E., 2016. <a href="https://www.hindawi.com/journals/jobe/2016/3753650/">Positioning of weight bias: Moving towards social justice</a>. Journal of Obesity. vol. 2016, pp. 1-10.</div><div>4. CARELS, R. A., BURMEISTER, J., OEHLHOF, M. W., HINMAN, N., LEROY, M., BANNON, E., KOBALL, A., and ASHRAFLOUN, L., 2013. <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3543476/">Internalised weight bias: ratings of the self, normal weight, and obese individuals and psychological maladjustment</a>. Journal of Behavioural Medicine. vol. 36, pp. 86-94. </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Will Amy Schumer’s clothing line really cater to all sizes and shapes?</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses Amy Schumer’s clothing line, Ashley Graham’s podcast, and the importance of inclusivity. Banner photo via Pretty Big Deal. In an Instagram post last July, Amy Schumer hinted that she is working on a clothing line with stylist Leesa Evans. According to InStyle, Schumer stated “Leesa Evans and I have created a clothing line for all sizes and shapes at a chill price point.” On Ashley Graham’s podcast Pretty Big Deal,<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fa567205e4e4424ebeb4638185edc2a3%7Emv2_d_1906_1271_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_fa567205e4e4424ebeb4638185edc2a3%7Emv2_d_1906_1271_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/08/Will-Amy-Schumer%E2%80%99s-clothing-line-really-cater-to-all-sizes-and-shapes</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/08/Will-Amy-Schumer%E2%80%99s-clothing-line-really-cater-to-all-sizes-and-shapes</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2018 14:25:06 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fa567205e4e4424ebeb4638185edc2a3~mv2_d_1906_1271_s_2.jpg"/><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses Amy Schumer’s clothing line, Ashley Graham’s podcast, and the importance of inclusivity. Banner photo via <a href="https://www.instagram.com/prettybigdealpod/">Pretty Big Deal</a>. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_afffcbdd2d5591c00c5e3584d0619afa.html"/><div>In an Instagram post last July, Amy Schumer hinted that she is working on a clothing line with stylist <a href="https://www.instagram.com/leesaevansstyle/">Leesa Evans</a>. According to <a href="https://www.instyle.com/news/amy-schumer-clothing-line">InStyle</a>, Schumer stated “Leesa Evans and I have created a clothing line for all sizes and shapes at a chill price point.” On Ashley Graham’s podcast <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/pretty-big-deal-with-ashley-graham/id1437469957?mt=2">Pretty Big Deal</a>, Schumer also revealed that the line will be available at Saks Fifth Avenue, but there was no mention of a date when we can expect to see it. For now, that’s all the info we have. </div><div>Now, if this isn’t your first time on the blog, you’ll know I don’t care much for either of these ladies. In fact, I’ve written at length about Schumer’s film <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/02/19/Regarding-I-Feel-Pretty">I Feel Pretty</a>, and about how Graham sometimes <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/04/Thoughts-on-Feeling-Fat">“feels fat.”</a> That being said, I listened to the podcast episode with the most open mind I could muster. There is a significant amount of criticism of “callout” or “cancel” culture, so I wanted to listen to these two and see if there had been any growth since the last time I wrote about them. </div><div>Spoiler alert: there wasn’t. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_2285f7ef00983fbe449e45ee20f56f0c.html"/><div>Right off the bat, they bond over how bystanders/fans will say to Schumer “You’re much prettier in person” and to Graham “You’re not even as big as I thought you’d be.” Okay…that to me says that Schumer has built a brand in comedy about being the ugly duckling type (she’s not) and Graham has built a brand in fashion for being the fat girl (she’s not). They go on to discuss their apparent beef which I had no idea they had, but apparently the media made it out that they did, so they addressed it. </div><div>From what I can gather, the beef in question is from when Schumer <a href="https://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/amy-schumer-plus-size-only-glamour-magazine-criticises-issue-a6970706.html#r3z-addoor">made a fuss</a> about being included in Glamour’s size issue. They didn’t call her plus size, but they lumped her in with the likes of Adele, Melissa McCarthy, and Ashley Graham. Schumer says that she’s concerned that women will see her being classified as plus (which again, she is not) and they will think, “That’s plus size, then what am I?” </div><div>Graham and Schumer go on to agree that using labels like plus size are stigmatised, so we should do away with them (need I remind y’all about curvysexilicious?). What they fail to realise is that this is the exact reason WHY we need the label plus size, and that this supposed concern for the general population is actually contributing to the aforementioned stigma.</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_d97e868778aa80c7a5e697da4c89ca22.html"/><div>Until all clothing is available in all sizes, <a href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/fashion/people/the-plus-size-market-constitutes-124-of-all-uk-clothing-sales-so/">we need the label plus size</a>. It lets fat consumers know where we can shop. It’s the same for people who need petite or tall clothing. The negativity and stigma surrounding the plus size label is attached by society, but like the word fat, it’s just a neutral descriptor. </div><div>I think that Schumer’s point about “That’s plus size, then what am I?” Is very…telling. In my opinion, this indicates that she agrees with society’s assessment that plus size = bad. It sounds like she knows that fat people are marginalised and are treated poorly, so therefore she doesn’t want to be lumped in with us. Otherwise, what’s the damage with being referred to as plus size? </div><div>This is why people wear shapewear, or dress in clothes that give the illusion of a slimmer figure. That is a tool that allows people to perform thinness to an extent, and it allows them that sliver of distance from fat people. I know from personal experience that how I perform my fatness and how I perform femininity has a direct impact on how I’m treated by society and the amount of abuse I receive from strangers. </div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/Artists_Ali">@Artists_Ali</a> once tweeted, “Plus size models are models, not activists. If you have a question about fat stigma, ask an activist, not a model.” I couldn’t agree more. In my opinion, neither Schumer or Graham are the best to speak out about these particular issues. Do they exist under the same garbage patriarchal beauty standards as the rest of us? Of course. However, experiencing marginalisation in their industries is not equal to experiencing marginalisation as a non-famous, twice their size fat person. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_61622d17599c0ecf2435e908e013d120.html"/><div>There was another thing in the podcast that left a bad taste in my mouth. Both women, but particularly Schumer, were severely focused on health. Of course there is nothing wrong with discussing health, but within the context of their plus size conversation, these particular mentions of health reeked of healthism. As <a href="http://www.dazeddigital.com/artsandculture/article/35746/1/how-body-positivity-lost-its-true-and-radical-meaning">Bethany Rutter once stated</a> “Health has become the stick with which to beat fat people with, and the benchmark for whether body positivity should include someone,” and that’s why this raised red flags for me. </div><div>Schumer’s comments mirrored her Insta post where she said “I think there's nothing wrong with being plus size. Beautiful healthy women.” In the podcast she mentions being an advocate for women and for people of colour. However, in my opinion that sounds a lot like, “I support women…as long as they’re not fat.” </div><div>If fat women aren’t included in Amy Schumer’s feminism, what are the odds we’ll be included in her clothing line? </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>How brand image, online shopping, and fat tax are harming plus size shoppers</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses brand image, online shopping, and the unexpected ways fat tax impacts plus size consumers.Earlier this week, River Island confirmed to Cosmopolitan that it was the latest store to pull its plus size collection from the high street to online only. Various sites such as The Pool published stories on the subject, but as a plus size consumer I feel that I have my own two cents to add to the discussion. River Island<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_9b7b4a4d314144d7b718390f717ae3f5%7Emv2_d_2738_1826_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_9b7b4a4d314144d7b718390f717ae3f5%7Emv2_d_2738_1826_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/07/How-brand-image-online-shopping-and-fat-tax-are-harming-plus-size-shoppers</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/11/07/How-brand-image-online-shopping-and-fat-tax-are-harming-plus-size-shoppers</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2018 15:17:29 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_9b7b4a4d314144d7b718390f717ae3f5~mv2_d_2738_1826_s_2.jpg"/><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses brand image, online shopping, and the unexpected ways fat tax impacts plus size consumers.</div><div>Earlier this week, River Island confirmed to <a href="https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/fashion/a24660367/river-island-plus-size-range-removed-stores-online-only/">Cosmopolitan</a> that it was the latest store to pull its plus size collection from the high street to online only. Various sites such as <a href="https://www.the-pool.com/news-views/fashion-news/2018/45/river-island-removes-plus-size-clothing-from-stores">The Pool</a> published stories on the subject, but as a plus size consumer I feel that I have my own two cents to add to the discussion. </div><div>River Island isn’t a specialist plus size brand. It is a generalist clothing brand that first and foremost serves the straight size (non-plus size) market. This shift from in-store to online only plus size offerings isn’t new. In fact, it’s the latest in a grand tradition of forcing fat people out of stores. New Look, another generalist brand, is an excellent example of this. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c35175e2dcd14453130741e594f31153.html"/><div>I live in Edinburgh, a capital city. There are six New Look locations in town, and only one carries their plus range. It’s about a 30 minute bus ride out of the town centre, and the minuscule curve collection shares a dark, dingy corner at the back with maternity wear. There is a fixture of denim, a fixture of leggings, a few basics, and a handful of “trend” pieces, none of which mirror the actually trendy items from their core range. </div><div>Specialist plus size brands are guilty of the exact same thing. Take plus size retailer Simply Be for instance. Earlier this year they closed the doors on <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/business/2018/jun/14/simply-be-high-mighty-owner-n-brown-close-uk-stores-jobs">all 20 of their UK stores</a> in order to focus on cultivating an online only brand. The thing is, research shows that most plus size purchases do take place online, but the studies lack nuance. Fat shoppers tend to shop online out of necessity, rather than preference. Plus size consumers know this from experience. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_8b3efa3cafdfc418016d9edb8cb3bde1.html"/><div>I wear a size 24/26. Say I need an outfit for an event tomorrow afternoon. In Edinburgh (again, a capital city with many more stores available than in smaller towns), my options are limited to the previously mentioned New Look (Fort Kinnaird), a small Yours Clothing (Cameron Toll), a small H&amp;M+ department (Ocean Terminal), and a Marina Rinaldi boutique (West End) that is extremely out of my budget. I’ve included their locations to note that they are all in VERY different directions. Because I rely on public transport, visiting all 4 shops would take the majority of a day, and would be exhausting. </div><div>Hopping on the train for an hour allows me to peruse Glasgow shops as well, but even then only an additional Yours Clothing, H&amp;M+, and Evans are available (that I know of). Just describing this process is frustrating. Actually doing it is so, so much worse. Odds are I would be able to find something to wear, but it’s unlikely that it would be something in my preferred style or price range. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_65a493950a952182f54b32901ab12cae.html"/><div>But thank goodness there’s online shopping, right? Well, yes. Obviously. However, it’s not that simple, and it’s not that positive. Shopping online as a fat person requires a huge amount of foresight. A community of fat babes can be so helpful, because you can ask around for recommendations, size guidance, etc (shoutout to my <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/1750279065048919/">Edinburgh Fat Club</a> babes!), but if you order from a brand that’s new to you, then you might be in for a struggle. </div><div>If you’re unsure which size to order, you have two options: you either order two sizes and return one later, or your gamble on one knowing full well you may have to return it and order another size (and pay for shipping a second time). Never mind the fact that plus size garments usually costs more than similar style and quality straight size garments, fat consumers also have to spend extra time queueing at the post office to return items that weren’t a good fit. Simply put, the fat tax exploits our time, not just our money. </div><div>In 2017 plus size market was worth an estimated £6.6 billion, and is expected to grow to £8.3 billion by 2022. With that kind of money on the line, why are fat people still forced to shop online? Why don’t retailers want plus size shoppers in their high street stores? Simple: brand image is more important than fat coins. Corporate hatred of fat people is greater than its love of money. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_af07d31feff8d2688bf9ffc3678f37c2.html"/><div>There’s a framework known as <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/238500516_Self-image_congruence_in_consumer_behavior">image congruence theory</a>, which asserts that consumers are likely to align with brands that they think are inspiring. Therefore, in theory, because fat people aren’t seen as aspirational, consumers sizes are likely to align with brands whose values exclude plus sizes. This is why image heavy brands like Topshop will be the last retailers to jump on the plus size clothing bandwagon. This is also why designers like Michael Kors date fat shoppers in the dark, meaning they are willing to take our fat money, but they aren’t willing to advertise offering plus sizes or feature plus models in any brand imagery. </div><div>So why has this topic pulled me out of a six month blog hiatus? Because I’m fed up. I’m fed up with brands underserving plus size people. I’m fed up with thin women thinking it’s sooooo bizarre that fat folks do all of our clothes shopping online. I’m fed up with brands dating us in the dark. </div><div>Fashion is supposed to be a fun way for people to express themselves. Nigel in The Devil Wears Prada says fashion is “greater than art because you live your life in it.” Maybe one day fat people will get to experience fashion in that kind of nuanced, meaningful way. But for now we’re expected to be grateful for the scraps we’ve been given, lest they be taken away. </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Quiz Curve Clothing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares styling tips for wearing one pattern three ways in this post brought to you by Quiz Curve Clothing. This sponsored post is brought to you in collaboration with Quiz Curve Clothing and I have been compensated for my time and writing. Click to shop their range of plus size occasionwear. This post also contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a66eab9e4b4a4425923b4e0a02de63fb%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_501/5a3ab3_a66eab9e4b4a4425923b4e0a02de63fb%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/05/29/Quiz-Curve-Clothing</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/05/29/Quiz-Curve-Clothing</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2018 12:14:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares styling tips for wearing one pattern three ways in this post brought to you by Quiz Curve Clothing. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a66eab9e4b4a4425923b4e0a02de63fb~mv2.jpg"/><div>This sponsored post is brought to you in collaboration with Quiz Curve Clothing and I have been compensated for my time and writing. Click to shop their range of <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/plus-size/occasionwear/">plus size occasionwear</a>. This post also contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information about sponsored content or affiliate links, please visit the policy page.</div><div>Hey gang! Happy bank holiday Monday! I actually have the day (and tomorrow!!!) off work, so I thought I’d take advantage of this free time and finally share some fresh content here on the blog. </div><div>About a year ago Quiz launched their <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/plus-size/">plus size clothing</a> range, and I featured one of their pieces here <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/21/Untitled">on the blog</a>. Now their curve range is larger than ever, and has only gotten more beautiful IMHO. I was especially drawn to this floral pattern, and thought it would be fun to style one pattern three different ways! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_076ee65f0c3842d2badde5775440e1ea~mv2.jpg"/><div>Look One</div><div>The first look is styled around an <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/clothes/00100014171.html">elegant floral jumpsuit</a>. This is something I’d wear to go out with my gal pals for coffee or brunch. On the website it’s styled a bit more formally, but I prefer to give it a more casual vibe by adding a <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEn6">biker jacket</a> and <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JElq">cute trainers</a>, both pink of course! Just because you’re dressing down doesn’t mean you can’t have fun with accessories. As y’all are well aware, I LIVE for a tassel earring, and these <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JErX">green ones</a> are right up my alley. I’ve been seeing straw bags everywhere lately, but I’ve always been unsure about them until I saw <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEsn">this one</a>. I think the pompom charm sold me on it! The colours tie in perfectly with the jumpsuit, don’t you think? Of course if the brunch date is on an Instagrammable patio like it SHOULD be, then you’ll need some beautiful sunnies like these <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEqb">pink retro shades</a>. Just because you’re having food or drinks doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice a killer lippy! I love this <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEu9">pink liquid lipstick</a> for its longevity and intense pigmentation. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_787f6b31f766413c8996b81d6ad797b8~mv2.jpg"/><div>Look Two </div><div>The second look is styled around this stunning <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/clothes/00100014169.html">floral tie waist jacket</a>. Online it’s styled with white trousers and a pink blouse, but I think it would make a beautiful swim coverup for a pool party! See, when I say pool party, I mean cocktails and canapés around a pool. My bleached hair isn’t a big fan of chlorine so I’m not much of a swimmer, but I DO love getting dolled up and lounging about in swimwear, haha! The muted tone of this <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEhS">khaki bikini top</a> and matching <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEii">bikini bottoms</a> are a perfect match for the leaves on the jacket. I paired the suit with a <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEmr">yellow heeled sandal</a>, but flat sandals would look just as nice if heels aren’t your thing. Of course a pool party requires a gorgeous tote, and I love how <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEmX">this one</a> comes with a wee pouch to keep cash, ID, and debit cards handy! It’s important to protect yourself from the sun, and this <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEgp">slogan straw hat</a> is a fashionable way to do so, but don’t forget the <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEnc">sunblock</a>!</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8ce644493b7e412bb1985abf576cd7ed~mv2.jpg"/><div>Look Three </div><div>The third look is styled around this lovely <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/clothes/00100014170.html">floral bardot bodysuit</a>. Now, I don’t go out out very often, but this is the type of ensemble I’d love to wear on a night on the town! While I am a fan of going braless whenever possible, I’d probably opt for a supportive <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEzt">strapless bra</a> to go out out because I’d want to be comfortable dancing and wouldn’t want to accidentally give somebody a black eye haha! These <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEwH">red paperbag trousers</a> are a fun alternative for the whole “jeans and a nice top” look, no? Especially when paired with <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEu7">rose gold platforms</a> and a <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEz6">sequinned cross-body bag</a>. I don’t carry much more than my phone, keys, lipstick, and debit card, when I go out, so there’s no need for a big bag. Plus the cross-body style means I’ve got both hands free! This <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEzU">eyeshadow palette</a> would create a BEAUTIFUL statement eye to accompany the floral pattern. And in a shocking twist of events, I managed to find another pair of <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/JEuS">tassel earrings</a> to finish the ensemble, haha! I know some people don’t like to mix pink and reds, but it’s one of my favourite colour combos at the moment! PS these earrings are also available <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/K5CM">in yellow</a> and they’re just as gorgeous! </div><div>This sponsored post was brought to you in collaboration with Quiz Curve Clothing and I have been compensated for my time and writing. Click to shop their range of <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/plus-size/tops/">plus size tops</a>. This post also contained affiliate links. If you followed these links and chose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information about sponsored content or affiliate links, please visit the policy page.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Dear Jameela,</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel responds to The Good Place actress Jameela Jamil's recent article for Glamour magazine. Banner photo via Digital Spy.Dear Jameela, I read your recent article for Glamour, as well as its previously self-published version on your blog. While I think your intent, articles, and I Weigh campaign all come from a Good Place, I fear that you missed the mark in a few ways. But first, let’s start with where we agree. I agree that women<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1caf89849b0840bf906e867fae8dea3d%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_418/5a3ab3_1caf89849b0840bf906e867fae8dea3d%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/04/07/Dear-Jameela</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/04/07/Dear-Jameela</guid><pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2018 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel responds to The Good Place actress Jameela Jamil's recent article for Glamour magazine. Banner photo via <a href="http://www.digitalspy.com/showbiz/news/a562794/jameela-jamil-edith-bowman-take-fight-to-cancer-with-new-tattoos/">Digital Spy</a>.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1caf89849b0840bf906e867fae8dea3d~mv2.jpg"/><div>Dear Jameela, </div><div>I read your <a href="https://www.glamour.com/story/jameela-jamil-on-i-weigh-instagram">recent article for Glamour</a>, as well as its <a href="http://jameelajamil.co.uk/post/171287759245/i-weigh">previously self-published version on your blog</a>. While I think your intent, articles, and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/i_weigh/">I Weigh campaign</a> all come from a Good Place, I fear that you missed the mark in a few ways. But first, let’s start with where we agree. </div><div>I agree that women should be valued for our integrity, achievements, contributions to society, and kindness. I agree that beauty standards are out of control, and that beauty shouldn’t be the one and only goal for women. I agree, it’s infuriating that women are expected to wake up early to paint their faces and groom their hair to work jobs for which they are paid less. I agree that this societal obsession with beauty can hold women back. However, I don’t think that these problems will be solved by silencing discussion about our bodies and the way we look. </div><div>First and foremost, women have the right to bodily autonomy, but unfortunately that doesn’t exclude us from prejudice based on how we look. For example, a woman may choose not to wear makeup or spend hours styling her hair before going to her office job, but she will still be judged by her coworkers based on her appearance. </div><div>Alternatively, a woman may choose to wear lipstick just to go to the mailbox or to the gym, and that doesn’t make her any less enlightened or less feminist. Whether we always wear makeup, never wear makeup, or somewhere in-between, patriarchal structures mean that women will be judged by the way we look, no matter what. </div><div>Similarly, whether we talk about our bodies, post photos of our bodies, or not, women are immediately judged by strangers based on our bodies. I get that you’re bored of this, and I hear you, but unfortunately fat women, dark skinned women, disabled women, etc. don’t have the privilege of removing ourselves from the body conversation. </div><div>As a fat woman, I’d LOVE to be valued for my academic achievements, my hospitality, my friendships, and my writing. Unfortunately, how bodies are perceived has a negative impact on every aspect of fat women’s lives. At the <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/285699473_Does_social_class_explain_the_connection_between_weight_and_health">doctor our pain isn’t taken seriously</a>. At university <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0277539507000179">we’re seen as lazy</a>. At work <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-011-0022-5">we’re seen as untrustworthy</a>. In television and film <a href="http://www.revelist.com/movies/fat-phobic-movies/4955">we’re seen as sassy best friends to further the heroine’s plot or as a punchline for fatphobic jokes.</a></div><div>We have so much body hate to unlearn, and I don’t think that can be achieved by stepping away from the conversation about bodies. On the contrary, I learned to love my body by listening to critique about body politics. I unlearned body hate by watching fat women like myself on social media doing incredible things like sky diving and pole dancing, and doing mundane things like going to the store or sharing a new outfit. This social media representation changed my life and until we reach the utopia where all bodies are considered good bodies, representation is still of paramount importance.</div><div>It sounds like you’re tired of the way we consume social media, which is totally fair. If I may, I’d like to suggest altering the way you interact with Instagram, Twitter, etc. Something that really helped me learn and grow is intentionally following women who are more marginalised than me. For myself, that meant seeking out women who were darker skinned than me, fatter than me, of varying physical abilities, of different socioeconomic statuses, LGBTQIA+ women, etc. </div><div>After following these women, I listened. I saw the different ways they interacted with the world. I heard their struggles, and learned about the ways their bodies were policed. These women are out here living as activists, some by choice, some by coincidence, and to dismiss their hard work regarding body politics is both disrespectful and damaging to future achievements. For some of us, this is all the representation we have. Please don’t take that away from us. </div><div>If you need to move away from the body conversation in order to hear and see the brilliant and beautiful things that women are doing, then you should do what you need to do. That’s completely your right. But if that’s the case, then I would argue that you’re not listening or looking hard enough. </div><div>Sincerely, </div><div>A loud and proud fat woman</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Regarding &quot;I Feel Pretty&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel critically discusses the trailer for Amy Schumer’s new comedy “I Feel Pretty.” Amy Schumer has just released a trailer for her latest comedy “I Feel Pretty," and to be frank, it’s a hot mess that is giving me a LOT of feelings. The basic premise is this: “Renee Bennett knows what it's like to be average in a world of the genetically blessed. After falling off an exercise bike and banging her head, she believes a spell has<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4cfa96f9d9d64550ab6b75c6e51f3b22%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_4cfa96f9d9d64550ab6b75c6e51f3b22%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/02/19/Regarding-I-Feel-Pretty</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2018/02/19/Regarding-I-Feel-Pretty</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Feb 2018 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel critically discusses the trailer for Amy Schumer’s new comedy “I Feel Pretty.” </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4cfa96f9d9d64550ab6b75c6e51f3b22~mv2.jpg"/><div>Amy Schumer has just released a trailer for her latest comedy “I Feel Pretty,&quot; and to be frank, it’s a hot mess that is giving me a LOT of feelings. The basic premise is this: </div><div>“Renee Bennett knows what it's like to be average in a world of the genetically blessed. After falling off an exercise bike and banging her head, she believes a spell has suddenly made her gorgeous. Except to everyone else, she looks exactly the same. Renee's new confidence suddenly sees her climbing the ranks at the cosmetics company she works for, getting the respect of her idol and boss, Avery LeClaire. Ultimately Renee realizes 'the spell' has lifted, but through the process learns true beauty is not skin deep.”1 </div><div>Sounds positive enough right? You’d think so, but maybe give the trailer a watch before you get too optimistic:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_33753c1c068c8834870447b8185b995d.html"/><div>So what do you think? I…I have some concerns. </div><div>The biggest issue is that for this plot to work the audience must believe that Schumer’s character is so wildly unattractive that it would be preposterous for her to think she’s hot and to be confident in her own skin. “But Amanda,” you may be thinking, “everyone has issues with body confidence and insecurity no matter what they look like!” That’s absolutely correct, and this post isn’t meant to deny or undermine those feelings. However, it is important to acknowledge that Schumer actually IS the epitome of Eurocentric beauty standards.2</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_44404e8d0cf4cc423d464b02d8f4ecf0.html"/><div>Schumer ticks pretty much all of the privilege boxes: white, able-bodied, presumably cis-het, and thin, but for some reason (spoiler alert: the reasons are capitalism and its supporting fatmisia3) Hollywood doesn’t acknowledge that she’s thin. Let’s refer back to the first scene in the film trailer: </div><div>Assistant: Are you shopping for a gift? </div><div>Schumer: Kinda browsing for me.</div><div>Assistant: So sizing is a little limited here in the store, </div><div>but you could probably find your size online.4</div><div>Okay so like, this is clearly meant to depict the Plus Size Shopping Experience,™ but Schumer herself was outraged that Glamour magazine included her amongst plus size celebrities like Melissa McCarthy and Ashley Graham.5 She clapped back at Glamour declaring that &quot;plus size is considered size 16 in America. I go between a size 6 and an 8.”5</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_b5b4f4615ef5ce026288afd3d403e683.html"/><div>I just…ugh. I admit I haven’t lived in the states in six years, but where in the USA would a size 6-8 shopper (UK size 10-12) walk into any major clothing retailer to find that their size wasn’t catered to? The only way I can describe this is performative oppression. Is Schumer held to ridiculously high beauty standards as a comedian and actress in Hollywood? Absolutely. But does she have unrestricted access to more clothing than plus size individuals could ever dream of? Oh yeah, she certainly does. Let’s refer back to another scene from the trailer: </div><div>Schumer: Are you okay? </div><div>Friend: I’m like, dealing with low self esteem and like…</div><div>Schumer: I want to punch you right in your dumb face right now.4 </div><div><div>As I’m sure my fat sisters are aware, this is the classic “If she’s fat, then what am I?” schtick. One could argue that this is more accurately “If she’s ugly, then what am I?” but I would argue that this film and Hollywood in general use fat and ugly as synonyms. The reason I find this so frustrating is because Schumer isn’t exactly the fattest actress in Hollywood. She isn’t even the fattest actress IN THIS MOVIE. SNL star Aidy Bryant co-stars with Schumer in I Feel Pretty, and she wears a size 18</div>6 which is considerably larger than Schumer’s 6 to 8. </div><div>As a plus size woman, Bryant has actually experienced the type of size discrimination portrayed in the opening scene in the trailer. For her work on SNL and Girls she has discussed relying on costume designers rather than fashion designers because unlike fashion designers, costumers “dress all kinds of bodies.”6. Bryant and her team had to get creative for her work on screen, but they had to get even more creative for the red carpet. I’ve often joked about sewing two small garments together to fit my fat body, but Bryant’s team ACTUALLY had to buy two size 12 garments and cleverly sew them together for a red carpet appearance.6</div><div>In the trailer, not much is revealed about Bryant’s character’s relationship with Schumer’s character. All that seems clear is that they’re friends. I’m interested to see how they interact with one another, because there are different degrees of marginalisation. A woman who wears a size 6 will be more marginalised than a size 2, but a woman who wears a size 18 will be more marginalised than both of them. I just, I have so so so SO many concerns.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8d6b642461224a0681522830fc184e53~mv2.jpg"/><div>Based on the trailer, this film seems to be a classic case of good intentions that were horribly executed. In my opinion, good intentions are not enough. At a shallow level, the film asserts that true beauty lies within. It encourages all women to live fearlessly, with unrestrained confidence. You can change everything without changing anything. But delve deeper, and the film furthers the use conventional body and beauty standards. Because again, for this plot to work the audience must believe that Schumer’s character is so wildly unattractive that it would be preposterous for her to think she’s hot and to be confident in her own skin. When Schumer’s character suffers a brain injury, she essentially begins acting as though she has all the benefits that come alongside pretty privilege, which is still a relatively new concept. </div><div>“It’s problematic when a pretty person denies they’re pretty, </div><div>and pretty people must take ownership of the fact that they </div><div>get special treatment. We do ourselves a disservice by </div><div>saying looks <div>‘don’t matter,’ because looks do matter.”9</div></div><div>As with any other type of privilege, pretty privilege results in power and subsequently happiness and certain freedoms.7 Author and activist Janet Mock says “‘Pretty’ is most often synonymous with being thin, white, able-bodied, and cis, and the closer you are to those ideals, the more often you will be labeled pretty — and benefit from that prettiness.”8 In other words, privilege is just as intersectional as oppression, and Schumer benefits from all the benefits described above. Pretty privilege is conditional and is not often extended to women who are trans, black and brown, disabled, older, or fat.9 </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_f5907f86ea07e7ba0fe76e43e92bd903.html"/><div>Various identities can be performed in order to gain an ounce or two of privilege. Take white privilege for example. Black and minoritised ethnic people cannot easily change their skin tone, but they may choose to perform their racial/ethnic identity differently in White spaces such as the corporate world.10 Another example is thin privilege. In a world where fatness is viewed as revolting and thinness is praised, fat women may choose to dress a certain way such as relying on restrictive shape wear or opting for “flattering” silhouettes to make themselves appear thinner.11 Performing prettiness might also be called performing femininity. In fact, it’s been noted that hyper-femininity (aka performing prettiness) is often expected of fat ladies.12 That means a full face of makeup, not a hair out of place, and being fully done-up at all times. </div><div>So why does all this matter? What does this have to do with I Feel Pretty? After suffering her head injury, Schumer’s character performs as though she benefits from every single drop of pretty privilege the world has to offer. In my opinion, this is problematic because in real life Amy Schumer really DOES benefit from all the pretty privilege the world has to offer. This is similar to The Devil Wears Prada when the whole cast acts like Anne Hathaway’s character is fat, so the audience believes it too.</div><div>TL;DR - If the social lesson of a film is that true beauty is not skin deep, then it may be better to cast a lead actress who doesn’t tick all the boxes of modern Eurocentric beauty standards. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/><div>References</div><div><div>IMDB, 2018., I Feel Pretty: plot [online]. Viewed 19 Feb. 2018. <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt6791096/plotsummary?ref_=tt_stry_pl">Available here</a>. </div><div>LEAVER, K., Amy Schumer’s latest ‘body positive’ film I Feel Pretty seems so offensive and morbid it’s frankly exhausting [online]. Viewed 20 Feb. 2018. <a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/amy-schumer-i-feel-pretty-body-positivity-women-size-image-offensive-a8206901.html">Available here</a>. </div><div>OCONNOR, L., 2017. What is fatphobia/fatmisia? [online] Viewed 20 Feb 2018]. <a href="https://crankyautistic.wordpress.com/2017/06/28/what-is-fatphobiafatmisia/">Available here</a>. </div><div>MOVIECLIPS TRAILERS, 2018. I Feel Pretty trailer #1 [online]. Viewed 19 Feb. 2018. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPgdIHV_zMo">Available here</a>.</div><div>RESPERS, L., 2016. Amy Schumer to Glamour: I’m not plus size [online]. Viewed 19 Feb. 2018. <a href="https://edition.cnn.com/2016/04/05/entertainment/amy-schumer-glamour-body-shaming-feat/index.html">Available here</a>.</div><div>CHAN, L., 2017. The full story behind the size 18 dress Tanya Taylor made Aidy Bryant [online]. Viewed 20 Feb. 2018. <a href="https://www.glamour.com/story/aidy-bryant-tanya-taylor">Available here</a>. </div><div>WOOD, M., 2016. Pretty privilege: top 3 perks of being beautiful [online]. Viewed 19 Feb. 2018. <a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com/maria-wood/pretty-privilege-top-3-pe_1_b_9750726.html">Available here</a>.</div><div>MOCK, J., 2017. Being pretty is a privilege, but we refuse to acknowledge it [online]. Viewed 19 Feb. 2018. <a href="https://www.allure.com/story/pretty-privilege">Available here</a>.</div><div>BEAUCHAMP, S., 2017. Janet Mock breaks down the uncomfortable truth of pretty privilege [online]. Viewed 19 Feb. 2018. <a href="https://nylon.com/articles/janet-mock-pretty-privilege">Available here</a>.</div><div>FLETCHER, T., and HYLTON, K., 2017. ‘Race’, ethnicity and whiteness in the governance of the events industry. Journal of Policy Research in Tourism, Leisure and Events. Forthcoming special issue: Equality and Diversity in the Professional Planned Events Industry. <a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/19407963.2017.1406676">Available here</a>.</div>GURRIERI, L., and CHERRIER, H., 2013. Queering beauty: fashionistas in the fatosphere. Qualitative Market Research International Journal. vol. 16, no. 3, pp. 276-295.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>The Principal Hotel</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel gushes about an amazing hotel visit in this lifestyle post brought to you by The Principal Charlotte Square.This post contains gifted services for review. Although the service was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.Let me just start by saying that this hotel and its launch party completely blew me away. Seriously. Every single<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f3546d8bfbd147ecb780fec4287c1a8d%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_416/5a3ab3_f3546d8bfbd147ecb780fec4287c1a8d%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/10/04/The-Principal-Hotel</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/10/04/The-Principal-Hotel</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Oct 2017 08:46:51 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel gushes about an amazing hotel visit in this lifestyle post brought to you by The Principal Charlotte Square.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f3546d8bfbd147ecb780fec4287c1a8d~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted services for review. Although the service was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>Let me just start by saying that this hotel and its launch party completely blew me away. Seriously. Every single element and detail was an absolute delight, and I’m gonna tell you ALL about it! </div><div>So what’s the 4-1-1 on The Principal? These boutique hotels are dotted around some of the UK’s most cosmopolitan cities like Manchester, York, London, and Edinburgh with several more openings in the works. The Charlotte Square hotel where we stayed is one of two Principal hotels in Edinburgh (the other is on at the eastern end of George Street). This particular hotel was previously known as The Roxburghe Hotel, and it has just undergone a major makeover to the tune of several million pounds! Worth it, TBH! The location was rich in history and tradition, but with a modern twist. I thought it was really interesting how the hotel itself is made up of seven interconnected Georgian townhouses! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a2e409d247684896a6cee38cfd3e2a5d~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_81d8e010afb5441abc336df5e1df78b9~mv2_d_4168_2778_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_6d09ab450bf14319889a638157b0c83c~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_ce7e87cd75384bb995852f452ba978c5~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dfded7c39c8b48ec87c147323bd1d352~mv2_d_4045_2697_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7d9040e316d8459fa5287c403399234d~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c938351f5f5d7ba163c52de4ebe3506f.html"/><div>The room options include guest room, superior room, deluxe room, junior suite, and signature suite. Sam and I stayed in a double guest room, which averages around £170 per night for two adults. Amenities include A/C, WiFi, tea, coffee, milk, sparkling water, a Smart TV, and a deliciously stocked tuck box of treats! Toiletries include shampoo, conditioner, body wash, body lotion, bar soap, cotton buds, and a shower cap. Oh! Did I mention the fluffy monogrammed bathrobes?! </div><div>If the food service is even half as good as the hors d’oeuvres from the launch party, I think The Principal is in pretty good shape! Breakfast is served in The Garden until 10 am, and from 11 until late they serve a light food menu and have bar services available. The hotel also has a full restaurant coming soon called BABA which will open in November, and I’ve already heard great things! If you don’t fancy leaving your room (and I TOTALLY don’t blame you) The Principal have an extensive room service menu which looks absolutely incredible. They have a breakfast menu, daytime menu, drinks menu, and even a late-night menu served from 10:30 to 5am with loads of treats including a mug of Ovaltine and chocolate Hobnobs! </div><div>Now, I believe there was mention of a party?! </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_58e37afc7d1fe22505e1c71536858e72.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_446d03785138d41444f0d463edaf0f6d.html"/><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_33c44818c49cc6ac7d5eac6aa5ef4c88.html"/><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_36cb99b15e64dc153396bac20de08a70.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_5fac4c1c2e2fe814913bee9d4555857c.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_00ac16d67342a09bd05c339251195a73.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_fb908c68f7cac38b2fe1bc14ca34987b.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_253628ead98ac544af17ba983668e6b8.html"/></div></div><div>As a blogger, this is the best launch party I’ve ever had the privilege of attending. As an events management student, this was a great lesson in how to keep folks engaged, entertained, and how to anticipate guests’ needs. As a plain old civilian, this party was ABSOLUTELY amazing! The <a href="https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/principalparty/">#PrincipalParty</a> spanned a good portion of the hotel, and featured different musical performances, drinks menus, and finger foods in each space. The Garden hosted a lavish Aperol pop-up bar, which was GORGEOUS! Later in the evening the incomparable <a href="https://www.facebook.com/RayBlkMusic/">Ray Blk</a> performed, and I am now officially obsessed with her. Seriously, check her out, download her tunes, go see her on tour, you won’t be sorry. On top of the amazing party shenanigans, I got to meet Bex of <a href="https://petitestylediaries.com">Petite Style Diaries</a> and Lyndsey, Toni, and Zoe of <a href="http://www.thequietresolution.co.uk">The Quiet Resolution</a>! </div><div>Just before midnight, bacon rolls and cheese toasties were making the rounds, and guests were invited to the after party across several of the suites and rooms in the hotel. I could keep gushing for aaaaaages about how much fun this party was, and how beautiful the hotel is, but I think you should head along and see it for yourself! Don’t forget to tell them Amanda sent you! </div><div>Huge thanks to Tara and the team at <a href="http://www.stripecommunications.com">Stripe Communications</a> for inviting us along, and congrats on an INCREDIBLE launch party! </div><div>This post contains gifted services for review in collaboration with The Principal Hotel. Click to make a booking at the <a href="https://www.phcompany.com/principal/edinburgh-charlotte-square/">Charlotte Street hotel</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Embroidered Bomber with Yours Clothing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears an embroidered satin bomber jacket in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.Did you know yesterday was International Coffee Day? Turns out it was, and I celebrated with a lovely Pumpkin Spice Latte! If<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c9c6e23d0b40465d9752bba14341c231%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_416/5a3ab3_c9c6e23d0b40465d9752bba14341c231%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/10/02/Embroidered-Bomber-with-Yours-Clothing</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/10/02/Embroidered-Bomber-with-Yours-Clothing</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Oct 2017 15:50:44 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears an embroidered satin bomber jacket in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c9c6e23d0b40465d9752bba14341c231~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>Did you know yesterday was International Coffee Day? Turns out it was, and I celebrated with a lovely Pumpkin Spice Latte! If you saw my <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/09/Black-Like-My-Coffee">recent post with Yours Clothing</a>, then you already know I love having a coffee to pose with in blog photos! </div><div>Have you seen the film Drive? Of course you have! Now, imagine Ryan Gosling’s character as a fat woman, but instead of being a getaway driver she’s driving to the nearest Starbucks drive-thru hahah! That’s ME! Real talk tho, I’ve wanted an embroidered satin jacket ever since that film first came out, and Yours came through with this pink beauty which I LOVE! </div><div>I’m totally into mixing pinks and reds lately. That’s one of those old-timey fashion rules that I think were made to be broken. I think the bright red top looks amazing against the pastel pink jacket, TBH! They create this sort of every-day-is-Valentine’s-Day vibe. I love a bit of romance, so I’m into it. </div><div>At first I wasn’t sure about pairing the black culottes with the super bright top and light jacket, but I actually think it worked really well! The red flats really help tie the whole look together, you know? Originally I had styled this with my red tassel earrings, but it looked overly matchy. These gold heart earrings were a good compromise which I think look stylish without trying too hard. But let’s be real, I’m not exactly into laid-back, effortless, California style. I like having a theme or a vision for my outfits, and this one was very dreamy and romantic. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_cfbf938a0cbd4bf2a7521da865335737~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_66929b21b71d4100a0f214f4e1745506~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8d6c207cb5c040a0b19cd2ead75d2278~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_45832f409c024b11a92c16dcc9867a11~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1aca02eef151495fbcf05b5bacd47152~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_3888a7ac778c4a76ae5c9a3eb0280d3e~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_51fb7f7470524b41a87036a41bf111c3~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fc116358cdb64630b482b81ae3e087cd~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_5dd5e521d92548b9be023d79f7c7e8f4~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_08722c088bf25293bb520508cd2e2f0b.html"/><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_14165f86ead40410f2274f8c5300d44a.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_1b9ec2523e2a7bdff759dda24d016f7b.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_6199c50ecc8819a048ec992a5e6af694.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_1c733c3afe677fb10b1859d393365a3a.html"/>Earrings, H&amp;M, in-store only </div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Yours Clothing. Click to shop <a href="https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/new-in-clothing">new-in clothing</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><div>Photos by <a href="https://www.samuelcbone.com">Samuel C. Bone</a></div><div>Shot on location in Stockbridge, Edinburgh </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Regarding Fat Shaming</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel examines some causes and effects of fat shaming and explains why fat positivity is the answer.CW: This post discusses fat shaming, weight loss, abuse, and eating disorders. In her book Hunger, Roxane Gay (2017, p. 172) writes, “Fat shaming is real, constant, and rather pointed. There are a shocking number of people who believe they can simply torment fat people into weight loss and disciplining their bodies or disappearing<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_50a972fdaba64570b8e0b2a2fb63244c%7Emv2_d_4940_3294_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_50a972fdaba64570b8e0b2a2fb63244c%7Emv2_d_4940_3294_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/20/Regarding-Fat-Shaming</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/20/Regarding-Fat-Shaming</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Sep 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel examines some causes and effects of fat shaming and explains why fat positivity is the answer.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_50a972fdaba64570b8e0b2a2fb63244c~mv2_d_4940_3294_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>CW: This post discusses fat shaming, weight loss, abuse, and eating disorders. </div><div>In her book Hunger, Roxane Gay (2017, p. 172) writes, “Fat shaming is real, constant, and rather pointed. There are a shocking number of people who believe they can simply torment fat people into weight loss and disciplining their bodies or disappearing their bodies from the public sphere.” Fat shaming, weight stigma, and fatphobia play an obnoxiously active role in my day to day life, and in the lives of other fats. As you may recall, I’ve opened up about my experiences with fat shaming <a href="http://ow.ly/tVZ630fh2dz">in restaurants</a>, <a href="http://ow.ly/vF8g30fh2jj">in marketing</a>, <a href="http://ow.ly/JOq230fh2m7">at the doctor</a>, and <a href="http://ow.ly/laiy30fh2qN">on public transport</a>. </div><div>Fat shaming can occur in a number of ways. I know I’ve CERTAINLY experienced it in more ways than I can recall, but there are a few recurring fat shaming techniques. Fat-calling (like cat calling) has been a big one for me. People (read: men) will shout at women in an aggressively “flirtatious” manner, and then suddenly shift to calling them a “disgusting fat f**k” because she ignored their initial remarks. Yes, this is a thing. Yes, it has happened to me. Health concern trolls tend to lurk on social media by following various fat positive hashtags and will proceed to play the role of Dr. Instagram and tell me how I’m killing myself and I’m promoting an unhealthy lifestyle. Others have wished horrible things on me including cancer, rape, and death. These comments are obviously sinister, while some may be thinly masked as well-intended. For example “you’d be so much prettier if you just lost some weight” or is one I think most fat women have encountered. No matter how well intended comments like this may be, they’re still shameful and harmful. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_285f9e07710d52d94dbd74edbf51112b.html"/><div>I have to wonder what people hope to achieve by fat shaming. Some may simply be bullies and trolls who seek to humiliate and harass fat people, but I believe that the primary goal of those who participate in fat shaming to “motivate” their prey into losing weight. Frustratingly, much of the research about the causes of weight stigma focuses instead on the causes of fatness (Puhl and Heuer, 2009; Fruh et al, 2016; Lozano-Sufrategui et al, 2016). While I think there is a discussion to be had about this topic (and a blog post to be written, TBH) I don’t believe the solution is to dissect WHY people are fat. Instead, I believe that fat positivity is the solution, but we’ll get to that in a moment.</div><div>Now, fasten your seatbelt because what I’m about to tell next you will SHOCK you: fat shaming actually causes weight gain, not weight loss (Puhl et al, 2017). *GASP!!!* Additionally, people who are the target of fat shaming generally exercise less, avoid visiting the doctor, and are more likely to have disordered eating (Setchell et al, 2016). Weight stigma triggers the release of the stress hormone cortisol which may cause severe fatigue, muscle weakness, high blood pressure (the irony of which is NOT lost on me), headache, and more (Rodriguez et al, 2016). Fat shaming negatively impacts aspects of both physical and mental health and is heavily linked to depression (Dickins et al, 2011; Nutter et al, 2016). This is particularly disturbing when so many trolls/bullies/fat-shamers claim that they’re just “concerned for the fat person’s health.” </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_f689815593292a16318cbea195ad0d6b.html"/><div>While the effects of fat shaming are overwhelmingly negative, the effects of fat positivity are overwhelmingly positive. Participating in fat-positive spaces online can promote both physical and mental well being (Dickins et al, 2011). This was absolutely the case in my experience. I was drawn to the plus size blogging world because I saw bodies like mine represented, and not as the butt of a joke or as a villain. This visibility is the key to normalising fat bodies (Afful and Ricciardelli, 2015). Anti-fat bias can be significantly lessened simply by repeated exposure fat bodies in the media or on social media, befriending fat people, and working with fat people (Fikkan and Rothblum, 2011). One study describes how participants who have positive views of their own bodies were more likely to have positive views of others’ bodies, including fat bodies (Carels et al, 2013). Another study notes that working for social change instead of self acceptance only may improve a person’s body experience and psychological well-being (McKinley, 2009). </div><div>Working toward a societal shift from fat shaming to fat positivity is precisely why I write blog posts like this one. Why would I be so gung-ho about fat positivity if it hadn’t dramatically increased my quality of life? I can’t offer a 100% money back guarantee that fat positivity will work for you the way it’s worked for me, but I dare you to give it a shot. It just might change your life! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/><div>References:</div><div>AFFUL, A. A., and RICCIARDELLI, R., 2015. Shaping the online fat acceptance movement: talking about body image and beauty standards. Journal of gender studies. vol. 24, no. 1, pp. 1-12.</div><div>CARELS, R. A., BURMEISTER, J., OEHLHOF, M. W., HINMAN, N., LEROY, M., BANNON, E., KOBALL, A., and ASHRAFLOUN, L., 2013. Internalised weight bias: ratings of the self, normal weight, and obese individuals and psychological maladjustment. Journal of Behavioural Medicine. vol. 36, pp. 86-94.</div><div>DICKINS, M., THOMAS, S. L., KING, B., LEWIS, S., and HOLLAND, K., 2011. The role of the fatosphere in fat adults’ responses to obesity stigma: a model of empowerment without a focus on weight loss. Qualitative Health Research. vol. 21, no. 12, pp. 1679-1691.</div><div>FIKKAN, J. L., and ROTHBLUM, E. D., 2011. Is fat a feminist issue? Exploring the gendered nature of weight bias. Sex Roles. vol. 66, no. 9-10, pp. 575-592.</div><div>FRUH, S.M., NADGLOWSKI, J., HALL, H.R., DAVIS, S.L., CROOK, E.D. and ZLOMKE, K., 2016. Obesity Stigma and Bias. The Journal for Nurse Practitioners. vol. 12, no. 7, pp. 425-432.</div><div>GAY, R., 2017. Hunger: A memoir of (my) body. London: Corsair. </div><div>LOZANO-SUFRATEGUI, L., CARLESS, D., P.H.D., PRINGLE, A., P.H.D., SPARKES, A., P.H.D. and MCKENNA, J., P.H.D., 2016. &quot;Sorry Mate, You're Probably a Bit Too Fat to Be Able to Do Any of These&quot;: Men's Experiences of Weight Stigma. International Journal of Men's Health. vol. 15, no. 1, pp. 4-23.</div><div>MCKINLEY, N. M., 2004. Resisting body dissatisfaction: fat women who endorse fat acceptance. Body Image. vol. 1, pp. 213-219.</div><div>NUTTER, S., RUSSELL-MAYHEW, S., ALBERGA, A. S., ARTHUR, N., KASSAN, A., LUND, D. E., SESMA-VAZQUEZ, M., and</div><div>WILLIAMS, E., 2016. Positioning of weight bias: Moving towards social justice. Journal of Obesity. vol. 2016, pp. 1-10.</div><div>PUHL, R.M., PHD., QUINN, D.M., PHD., WEISZ, B.M., M.A. and SUH, Y.J., M.S., 2017. The Role of Stigma in Weight Loss Maintenance Among U.S. Adults. Annals of Behavioral Medicine. vol. 51, no. 5, pp. 754-763. </div><div>PUHL, R.M. and HEUER, C.A., 2009. The Stigma of Obesity: A Review and Update. Obesity. vol. 17, no. 5, pp. 941-64.</div><div>RODRIGUEZ, A.C.I., HELDRETH, C.M. and TOMIYAMA, A.J., 2016. Putting on Weight Stigma: A Randomized Study of the Effects of Wearing a Fat Suit on Eating, Well-Being, and Cortisol. Obesity, 24(9), pp. 1892-1898.</div><div>SETCHELL, J., WATSON, B.M., GARD, M. and JONES, L., 2016. Physical Therapists' Ways of Talking About Overweight and Obesity: Clinical Implications. Physical Therapy. vol. 96, no. 6, pp. 865-875.</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Business Babe with River Island Plus</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears trendy check co-ords in this style post brought to you by River Island Plus.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. This post also contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information about<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7deede5f2fd14d0ca4add80167bef30c%7Emv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_7deede5f2fd14d0ca4add80167bef30c%7Emv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/18/Business-Babe-with-River-Island-Plus</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/18/Business-Babe-with-River-Island-Plus</guid><pubDate>Mon, 18 Sep 2017 11:29:05 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears trendy check co-ords in this style post brought to you by River Island Plus.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7deede5f2fd14d0ca4add80167bef30c~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. This post also contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information about collaborative posts and affiliate links, please visit the policy page.</div><div>This is a V-E-R-Y different look for me. I’ve been seeing these check suits all over the high street, and to be honest I wasn’t certain I could make that look work for me. Thank goodness I gave them a try because I LOVE these coordinating pieces! Mega props to River Island for making this available in both their core range and their plus range. As a fat babe, it’s amazing getting to try trendy pieces like these that SO OFTEN are only available in smaller sizes! </div><div>So you’ve probably noticed by now that I am LIVING for these tassel earrings! I have them in black, red, gold, taupe, and now yellow to match this graphic tee. Sometimes I think it’s cool to be matchy-matchy, even if that might be interpreted as a little cheesy. I for one freakin’ LOVE cheese! </div><div>I decided to embrace the business lady of the 80’s vibe while on this shoot, and I did my best to channel Alyssa Edwards from this iconic lip-sync performance: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_b2e200b642e7b7b928a5506bf6f29b76.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_540fe5506774ac9f80bdd436a02afc0f.html"/><div>All of the clothing items I’m wearing here are a size 26. The tee shirt is BIG, like, more of a tee shirt dress. I happen to love that, but if you wanted it to fit like a standard tee I’d recommend sizing down. I’ve also worn this tee with black leggings, trainers, and a denim jacket for a super chill running to the store kinda look. I think versatility is easily the best thing about this ensemble. It’s been SO easy to work the pieces into fresh new looks with items already in my wardrobe. Depending on how you mix &amp; match the pieces makes it mega easy to dress the pieces up or down.</div><div>The jacket is an absolutely PERFECT fit. It’s a bit oversized, but still neat enough on the arms for my taste. It’s got shoulder pads, which is actually amazing haha! The bar detail on the cuff is SO cute, and has attracted loads of comments and compliments. I’ve also styled the jacket with different tee shirts and jeans for a cool off-duty model vibe (pictured above). </div><div>The trousers are ever-so-slightly big on me, but I’m not convinced that a 24 would be a better fit. I can understand why some people might not be into the pleating on the front because it adds volume and makes my tum look a bit bigger, but I’m not afraid of no FUPA! The trousers look a bit more cropped on the website, but that’s because models are 8 feet tall, and I’m only 5’4.” I wore the trousers with a plain sweatshirt and leopard jacket for my first day back at uni and felt like a mega-babe! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_519342c27ce843daa4acceec7139759b~mv2_d_5162_3441_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4481a42ae4a941b2b329f4316eff90b6~mv2_d_4854_3236_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_cf57e8c0199e4738beb6575ebee2f0e8~mv2_d_2469_3703_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a9852cae451b44b5b8ca5f82f22f5f8f~mv2_d_3840_5760_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_45a2cb305e5e4a539890a54ad50a4b75~mv2_d_3840_5760_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f6c8120129e840eaa93c274b28bacbc9~mv2_d_5420_3613_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c3b11ced2451489baddcaca11d322450~mv2_d_5494_3663_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1133b247c3af4b7eb5bb6fc7f8de63ca~mv2_d_5669_3779_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b6c102873e574381af396efd58856659~mv2_d_5664_3776_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_aba307199a4e490883150a94f5cbf508~mv2_d_3840_5760_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_eb30448152ad448daa0b3b4064bc78cc~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look: </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/hQeY">Paris Print Boyfriend Tee</a>, size 26</div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/hQe0">Grey Check Bar Cuff Blazer</a>, size 26</div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/hQe3">Grey Check Tapered Trousers</a>, size 26</div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/hQe4">Black Quilted Chain Bag</a></div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/hP89">Yellow Tassel Earrings</a></div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with River Island. Click to shop <a href="https://www.riverisland.com/c/women/just-arrived?f-fit=plus&amp;icid=mu/women/just-arrived-plus">new-in plus items</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><div>Photos by <a href="http://lmackayphotography.com">Lianne Mackay: Edinburgh Wedding and Portrait Photographer</a></div><div>Shot on location at the <a href="https://www.edinburghleisure.co.uk/venues/royal-commonwealth-pool">Royal Commonwealth Pool</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>University Uniform with Yours Clothing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shows off one of her typical outfits for uni in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.You guys, AUTUMN IS COMING!!! It’s getting cooler outside, pumpkin spice lattes are back, aaaaand I’m officially back to<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f59584710091451eb5ded26b9153a19a%7Emv2_d_5663_3775_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_f59584710091451eb5ded26b9153a19a%7Emv2_d_5663_3775_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/15/University-Uniform</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/15/University-Uniform</guid><pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shows off one of her typical outfits for uni in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f59584710091451eb5ded26b9153a19a~mv2_d_5663_3775_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>You guys, AUTUMN IS COMING!!! It’s getting cooler outside, pumpkin spice lattes are back, aaaaand I’m officially back to uni. It’s my fourth year, and I’ll be doing my honours dissertation! It’s stressful, and I’m a bit anxious, but it’s actually nice to be falling back into a uni routine. This look is the sort of thing I wear for a typical day in class. </div><div>Recognise this top? It’s the same one I wore in the <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/07/31/Brunch-Aesthetic">Brunch Aesthetic</a> post, but this time I’ve knotted it instead of tucking it in. I usually don’t wear much white, but I’ve actually found myself wearing this top a LOT. It’s mega soft and super versatile. </div><div>The embroidered denim skirt is suuuper cute. I actually tried it on a while ago while visiting the Glasgow store (Hey Ashley, Caitlin, &amp; co!) and I’m glad I did! The size 24 I tried on was way too small so I went up to 26 which I’m wearing here. To be honest, I maybe could’ve done with a 28, just because this one rides up a bit when I’m out and about. I do love a tight skirt though! Showing off all these curves and swerves, lumps and bumps! </div><div>Can we talk about this perfect jacket? I’m usually roasting, but sometimes you just need to wear a jacket. This one is mega-thin and has shorter sleeves which I L-O-V-E. Plus the colour is amazing! I’ve also styled the jacket with a black and white striped dress that has a matching sleeve length and it looked fantastic. The thin jacket material allowed the stripes on the dress to show through, which I thought was a cool look. This jacket is also available in black, navy, olive, and olive, and I could EASILY find a place for them all in my wardrobe. Except for navy…I don’t do navy!</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c7f25aab819a4ecea66980c03622e61f~mv2_d_3840_5760_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8efbac2b9fb24d9689fcec2cb6e8fb3c~mv2_d_3597_5396_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_23c54ca7e7e94622883387b93ee70ca8~mv2_d_3771_5656_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_34da08b7f991488c9f802b0e812b2b95~mv2_d_3760_5640_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b41a71aaf2b44eb5b98d7ecae1e4fa69~mv2_d_5663_3775_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_79cf0c933bcc42ae9dfc32c53dfe0bcd~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c844be36c1624725819cd9e80f6bb106~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_eaea2fba1e324c61aa1db766da94121f~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_59485c341d64437a9eaa1a7c701ca2b5~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dd98e0a8fd354e87a01cc613cd5c7863~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Yours Clothing. Click to shop <a href="https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/new-in-clothing">new-in clothing</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><div>Photos by <a href="http://lmackayphotography.com">Lianne Mackay: Edinburgh Wedding and Portrait Photographer</a></div><div>Shot on location at <a href="https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/stores/edinburgh">Urban Outfitters Princes Street</a>, featuring artwork by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/emertumilty/">Emer Tumilty</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Draped In Velvet with Simply Be</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a lush velvet occasion dress in this style brought to you by Simply Be.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.How LUSH is this location, you guys?! If you follow any other Edinburgh based bloggers, odds are you’ve seen the picturesque Circus Lane. It’s<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b2b4223739234e7c8fffb54b6a16ea88%7Emv2_d_5520_3680_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_b2b4223739234e7c8fffb54b6a16ea88%7Emv2_d_5520_3680_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/13/Draped-In-Velvet</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/13/Draped-In-Velvet</guid><pubDate>Wed, 13 Sep 2017 19:35:45 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a lush velvet occasion dress in this style brought to you by Simply Be.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b2b4223739234e7c8fffb54b6a16ea88~mv2_d_5520_3680_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>How LUSH is this location, you guys?! If you follow any other Edinburgh based bloggers, odds are you’ve seen the picturesque Circus Lane. It’s so unbelievably charming, and I cannot deal! While we were shooting the residents who happened to be out and about were SO friendly! While we were setting up the shots, a sweet old man even offered to let us use their front room to primp in their mirror! We had so many giggles and wee chats with various locals and it was just a really sweet shoot. </div><div>I’m actually obsessed with this dress. I love a bit of velvet, and this gorgeous print totally satisfies my velvet craving. There’s not much I DON’T like about this dress, tbh. The pattern is stunning. It’s true to size, if not a bit on the large side (I assume this is because of the oversized style). The keyhole detail on the neckline is cute, without showing off my bra. The velvet isn’t stiff and structured like it sometimes can be, you know? It’s fluid and flows beautifully! </div><div>The pattern and the hemline are probably my favourite things about the dress. In a shocking turn of events, I like pink and purple, (That deff didn’t inspire my new branding…naaaah…) so the colour palette is perfect for me. Plus the pop of coral breaks up the pastel tones. The sandals match that coral shade perfectly! I know it’s a bit cold out to be wearing sandals, but I’m warm blooded! And I wore a jacket! Don’t judge me! </div><div>I’ve acquired quite a selection of biker jackets, but this grey one has become a firm favourite. Black can sometimes feel a bit too harsh for the look I’m going for. I’m into the grey tone because it’s still neutral, but it’s a bit edgy. It felt like the perfect tone to complement this colourful dress. I wish we had gotten a photo of the jacket’s lining! The combo of edgy and soft is perfect! Maybe supple is a better word than soft? Can I call a jacket supple? Why not? Let’s be a bit extra today, y’all! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4b4b391c2fe24683bac5510833d2627c~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_95d97bcef0d043d0aa6f7e740823b55d~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_92bdad5e10e54405916ddfff171df0e2~mv2_d_5523_3682_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_105d2f5a7c3f438dab8342b4585be182~mv2_d_5520_3680_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b11438ddd73e42579fb843a6725ad2d2~mv2_d_5632_3755_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e36e685b0e214351bd64606ba8d4693d~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_336fd82efd354d2f8f440b2aa16a2934~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_28d37c85f9754266bf2486cbe8104687~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_5eb6ac9c77a94c1b935991545916c266~mv2_d_3840_5760_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_04eb8ba188c743d69e64ce1a104f2f61~mv2_d_3840_5760_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f9c6c6b71c6745b5ba506bffc97b2e51~mv2_d_3840_5760_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_ff241e57e87a41468bf9eeb86aa47f80~mv2_d_5760_3840_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_3d85e6c9899ad1932a2bc5dc06bb7625.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_1702e318f4e784b4662ee0ec6873ed01.html"/><div><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c50e7d5e554b0844d75ef7306e451576.html"/>Earrings: Old H&amp;M • </div>Handbag: Old H&amp;M</div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Simply Be. Click to shop their selection of <a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/fashion/dresses/occasion-dresses/_/N-11kiZ1ytvjol/products/show.action">occasion dresses</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>Photos by <a href="http://lmackayphotography.com">Lianne Mackay: Edinburgh Wedding and Portrait Photographer</a></div><div>Shot on location at Circus Lane in Edinburgh </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Chinos + Chambray with Jacamo</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel styles her boyfriend in shades of blue in this menswear post brought to you by Jacamo.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own (or in this case, my boyfriend’s). For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.So it turns out I have an incredibly photogenic boyfriend! Who knew?! Spoiler alert: I did, haha!<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dbf6d342abfb4a4fa671a5505a43f35e%7Emv2_d_3845_2564_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_dbf6d342abfb4a4fa671a5505a43f35e%7Emv2_d_3845_2564_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/11/Chinos-Chambray</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/09/11/Chinos-Chambray</guid><pubDate>Mon, 11 Sep 2017 10:24:30 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel styles her boyfriend in shades of blue in this menswear post brought to you by Jacamo.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dbf6d342abfb4a4fa671a5505a43f35e~mv2_d_3845_2564_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own (or in this case, my boyfriend’s). For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>So it turns out I have an incredibly photogenic boyfriend! Who knew?! Spoiler alert: I did, haha! This was a really fun post for me because I got to be behind the camera for once! Sam was comfortable giving me total creative and aesthetic control, which was a blast! I’m definitely interested in doing more masculine styling, in the future. </div><div>Jacamo is actually a brand that Sam wears regularly, so we didn’t have to do any guessing in terms of size and fit. In tops he generally wears a 3X long, and in bottoms he usually wears a 44 short. </div><div>It appears I did well choosing a top because Sam LOVED the pattern! The chambray is so soft and mega wearable. It’s worth getting out the iron for, you know? Jacamo is great for button up shirts with a bit of whimsy. Sam also has a white shirt with paper airplanes on it, and a navy shirt with raining clouds on it, also from Jacamo. </div><div>These chinos are a great wardrobe staple. They’re ideal for dressing up with a button-up shirt and proper shoes, or dressing down with a tee shirt + cardigan and trainers. The trousers have good stretch, but don’t get all stretched out while being worn which is a plus. AND they come with a belt! Man, why don’t women’s trousers come with a belt?! </div><div>To complete the look I selected a pack of pin-up girl socks by Joe Browns (which he IS wearing, you just can’t see them. Your girl needs to work on her photography skills, haha!) and these grey shoes that I was worried Sam wouldn’t be into. Initially he struggled a bit getting into them, but after a bit of effort he succeeded. He tells me that they’re SUPER comfortable and that he doesn’t have a blister in sight. After shooting they’re even more broken in and are more comfortable than ever. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_9a9cb6ad8df144e7be791a96372efeed~mv2_d_4007_2671_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d8309fd41cb5477c876d398aca9c943d~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_075c67ab1f424a9881fa41a0dfaa00ea~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_90e4b5b32c3544fc91664c247dc8ac63~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_ff82abd1cf994d318fed5f02734428f1~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_391420ce34064b59b45ea27b9022e8ff~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_35b6b86ae5ef32c29cdeae8396d2293f.html"/><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_434483c0b556061fe07e7f23c4fb2e0f.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_24646891f49b86d568a512855b7bcce2.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_297534a3cf80c4a8ac5a6b348bdeb5ce.html"/></div><div> Hat: Old H&amp;M • Bag: Old Zara</div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Jacamo. Click to shop their <a href="http://www.jacamo.co.uk/shop/menswear/shirts/_/N-1yts866/products/show.action">selection of men’s shirts</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own (or in this case, my boyfriend’s). For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><div>Modelled by <a href="https://www.samuelcbone.com">Samuel C. Bone</a></div><div>Shot on location at the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/EdinburghCocktailFestival/">Edinburgh Cocktail Festival</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>The Kim Woven Dress with Manon Baptiste at navabi</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a beautifully detailed frock in this style post brought to you by navabi.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. This dress has been patiently waiting until I could find a backdrop to do it justice, and I’m SO happy that I waited! I’m obsessed with the<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c2a45ee70bef41a986c3a584253caa05%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_416/5a3ab3_c2a45ee70bef41a986c3a584253caa05%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/30/The-Kim-Woven-Dress</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/30/The-Kim-Woven-Dress</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a beautifully detailed frock in this style post brought to you by navabi.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c2a45ee70bef41a986c3a584253caa05~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><div>This dress has been patiently waiting until I could find a backdrop to do it justice, and I’m SO happy that I waited! I’m obsessed with the way the coloured walls mirror the woven detail in the dress. You may remember Nancy of Sugar Darling looking INCREDIBLE in this dress <a href="http://www.sugar-darling.com/2017/04/kaleidoscope.html">on her blog</a> a while back. Seriously, is she just a babe or what? </div><div>This is the second Manon Baptiste that has blessed my wardrobe (the first was this <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/24/Statement-Sleeves-with-Manon-Baptiste-at-navabi">statement sleeve beauty</a>), and it’s absolutely stunning. The dress is fully lined in the coral shade from the outer design. I LOVE a 3/4 sleeve, so this is right up my alley! </div><div>I decided to size up because the garment didn’t look like it would have any stretch, and it turns out I was absolutely right. I sized up to a 26 to accommodate for my bust and belly, and I’m glad I did! The fit is just right. </div><div>As always, I highly recommend navabi when it comes to the whole online shopping experience. The website is brilliant, and free shipping and returns are ideal. The packaging and the invoice/return slip even have an air of luxury about them. The way navabi deliver both products and services (not to mention a KILLER social media presence) makes them an absolute delight to shop from and work with. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_23b72db824c94708a4b4bd1f7938be62~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_9cd335a9b9044882aecfcf3caf9b196a~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4ca2cd2164be49c4adb80aad10cab52d~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_352bce04d56e4f428026d9961fbca364~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e5b771e3213a4cc5afb22030276363a8~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1a35730bb38c4eff9abd665044b4777c~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_d450ed61e809a1c7c770ff643f0918e5.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_2f53ff011489e291e57c09282f339070.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_be4f88d428498bd551c93e0c028b5ecd.html"/><div>Earrings, H&amp;M, not available online</div><div>Complete the look: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c806060d4d9c4f3d8ac321c45b76fe1d.html"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with navabi. Click to shop <a href="https://www.navabi.co.uk/designer/manon-baptiste/?sort=new">the Manon Baptiste collection</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Slogan Tees</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her favourite slogan tees from River Island, Asos Curve, and more in this wish list post.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. Have you visited the high street shops lately? You can’t take two steps without seeing a slogan tee.<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f21b7652ab59477ca26bd8bc0ad277d1%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_f21b7652ab59477ca26bd8bc0ad277d1%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/28/Slogan-Tees</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/28/Slogan-Tees</guid><pubDate>Mon, 28 Aug 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her favourite slogan tees from River Island, Asos Curve, and more in this wish list post.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f21b7652ab59477ca26bd8bc0ad277d1~mv2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>Have you visited the high street shops lately? You can’t take two steps without seeing a slogan tee. Normally I’m not that into them, but some of the shall we say, “designer inspired” ones have piqued my interest! As usual there are WAY more options for our non-plus size wearing pals, but we’ve got some good options too! </div><div>I think what I’m learning to love about slogan tees is how versatile they are. I’ve been styling the few I own mostly with skirts and sneakers, but also with distressed jeans, striped trousers, etc. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_70c897d00b7146f293b03eab92024b28~mv2.jpg"/><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/foRT">1. Under Cover Boyfriend Tee</a></div><div>I would style this pink tee with a red pencil skirt and a bleached denim jacket. I’m very into the metallic lettering. It’s reminiscent of a certain designer that rhymes with “poochie,” and I’m here for it. </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fQwA">2. Joyeux Tee</a></div><div>This tee would look cool with distressed skinny jeans and a leopard biker jacket. Shoe wise, I think I’d opt for classic white Adidas. To finish the look, a black backpack and a bright red lippy. </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/foTP">3. Mon Coeur Tee</a></div><div>I’d pair this faux CK tee with wet-look leggings and a camel duster jacket. Depending on the day I’d either wear white trainers or black knee high boots. It would look amazing with a white or gold faux-leather shopper. </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/foTP">4. Girls Do It Better Tee</a></div><div>I would style this tee with striped trousers like the ones above, but I’d tie the tee up in a wee knot instead of wearing it down. A platform sandal and ball cap would complete the summery look. </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/foYA">5. Girl Power Tee</a></div><div>I’ve got the sweatshirt version of this tee (see below), and I love wearing it with a pink pleated skirt and black pleather trainers. </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/foXT">6. Body Beautiful Tee</a></div><div>I’m SURE I’ve seen another plus babe rocking this tee on Instagram, but I can’t for the life of me remember who it was! I’d style it tucked into a good ol’ mom jean and black lace up flats. Add a messy bun and you’re good to go! </div><div>Here are a few of the slogan tees from my collection: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_a17be531f700fa4ee6a33823a48f274c.html"/><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fQNa">F E M A L E Tee, size 24</a></div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fQNq">Pleated Skirt, size 24</a></div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_97cdb6de18cb0511ead5201313ffd771.html"/><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fP5J">Paris Tee, size xxxl</a></div><div>Black Pleated Skirt, size 24</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_a69d25c6201b4f39068b7dea551993f5.html"/><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/foYK">Girl Power Sweatshirt, size 26</a></div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fQNq">Pink Pleated Skirt, size 24</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Off-Duty Blogger with Yours Clothing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears comfy loungewear in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.On my blog and on social media in general, it’s very easy to hide behind a false front of “perfection.” Being a blogger doesn’t always consist of<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a699f63d0149439b98094c7b394dd1a7%7Emv2_d_4156_2771_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_a699f63d0149439b98094c7b394dd1a7%7Emv2_d_4156_2771_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/25/Off-Duty-Blogger</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/25/Off-Duty-Blogger</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Aug 2017 14:51:50 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears comfy loungewear in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a699f63d0149439b98094c7b394dd1a7~mv2_d_4156_2771_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>On my blog and on social media in general, it’s very easy to hide behind a false front of “perfection.” Being a blogger doesn’t always consist of fancy dresses in front of picturesque cityscapes, or luxury afternoon tea at the cutest local bakehouse. Bloggers aren’t always ON, you know? Sometimes we’re off-duty. Sometimes (read: most of the time) it includes sitting at home in comfy clothes with a cup of coffee and a laptop. For me, it also includes breaks to play Tetris on my phone, haha! I’m big into Tetris, you guys! </div><div>If you follow me <a href="http://twitter.com/amandaapparel">on Twitter</a> you’ve probably seen me moaning about anti-cold shoulder I am. 99% of the time, that’s how I feel. For SOME reason though, this cold shoulder jumper won me over. The colour is my absolute jam, and it’s so comfy. I sized up so it would be on the baggy side, and I’m super pleased with the fit. I appreciate that it has nice thick straps where my bra sits as well. </div><div>I’ve never worn leggings from Yours before, so I wasn’t sure how these would fit. The mesh lining in the high waist helps keep them from rolling or sliding down, which is fab! I’m on the short side (5’4”) and these are a bit long on me. They do the thing where they gather a bit at my knees and ankles, but since I’ll mostly be wearing them around the house or under boots it’s no biggie! </div><div>Yours DO offer leggings in 28”, 30”, and 32”, but not in the style I was looking for. I’ve also worn these to the gym (with the cross back top from <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/09/Black-Like-My-Coffee">Black, Like My Coffee</a>) and they didn’t roll down while on the elliptical. I’d say that’s indicative of a pretty good fit! </div><div>I dunno about you but I’m SO looking forward to the next day I get to spend reading in bed. I’m back to uni in about a month, so I’m trying to do all the recreational reading I can before I have to do educational reading every night. Ah well, gotta get that degree! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_74e02c1e8a3a4dc3a86474839ae4a4b5~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b5c7720a5c084741b740ff6cf05e87c8~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2f7e3cd1dd864af1bd392396434627cf~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b5a6e0b9ba2c4ca2ad923fa33241acbe~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_55537654615546379e7c7f290e7673a5~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dc09de39246b46089b6b92cbf9a29549~mv2_d_4156_2771_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_5c728b617e0f9047e27e56fe711c2029.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_d72607aebdf648d2f28292813849abb3.html"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Yours Clothing. Click to shop their <a href="https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/new-in-clothing">new-in clothing</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Health At Every Size 101</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel provides a brief history of the Health At Every Size movement, addresses some criticisms, and outlines the main focuses of HAES.TW/CN - This post discusses weight loss, and food/eating. This post is intended to be an introductory course to Health At Every Size (HAES). It is by no means an exhaustive history of the paradigm. It’s simply a starting point for those who are new to the movement, have no idea what HAES is, why it<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c1559bc8f62f4634ae5784623bd71df6%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/23/Health-At-Every-Size-101</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/23/Health-At-Every-Size-101</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Aug 2017 12:15:10 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel provides a brief history of the Health At Every Size movement, addresses some criticisms, and outlines the main focuses of HAES.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c1559bc8f62f4634ae5784623bd71df6~mv2.jpg"/><div>TW/CN - This post discusses weight loss, and food/eating. </div><div>This post is intended to be an introductory course to Health At Every Size (HAES). It is by no means an exhaustive history of the paradigm. It’s simply a starting point for those who are new to the movement, have no idea what HAES is, why it exists, or what alternatives to the pursuit of weight loss might look like.</div><div>A brief history of HAES</div><div>The HAES philosophy is a relatively new and emerging field. Most HAES literature began emerging in the early 2000s, and the first edition of Dr. Linda Bacon’s book Health At Every Size: The Surprising Truth About Your Weight was published in 2008 (Penney and Kirk, 2015). HAES aims to support improved health behaviours for people of all sizes without using weight as an indicator of mediator (Bacon and Aphramor, 2011). HAES principles emerged in response to the so-called “obesity crisis” and to the lack of success in traditional methods of weight loss/weight management (Miller, 2005). The HAES approach differs from a conventional treatment model in its emphasis on self-acceptance and healthy day-to-day practices, regardless of whether a person’s weight changes (Burgard, 2009). </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_6de4a9977a644c04817c1a5e9f2761fc~mv2_d_4032_3024_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>HAES shifts pursuit from weight loss to healthy habits</div><div>HAES is built on three main pillars: </div><div>• Body acceptance </div><div>• Intuitive eating </div><div>• Enjoyable activity </div><div>(Bacon and Aphramor, 2011). </div><div>Where most healthcare practitioners focus on weight loss or weight maintenance, HAES practitioners focus on accepting our bodies as they are. and Kasardo, 2011). Where traditional health (read: weight loss) methods focus on controlling hunger and not giving in to food temptations, HAES focuses on listening to the body’s signals of hunger and satiety (Penney and Kirk, 2015). HAES also teaches people to make connections between what they eat and how they feel by focusing on food and their mood, energy levels, fullness, etc. (Bacon and Aphramor, 2011). This method removes the moral value society often places on food and instead supports listening to what your body needs and wants. By refusing to restrict what foods a person is “allowed” to eat, they are able to end the diet/binge cycle. </div><div>Where physical trainers focus on strict daily workout regimes, HAES encourages people to build activity into their daily routine. Movement should be enjoyable! For you that may be dancing. My boyfriend loves to swim. There are SO many more ways to be active besides running miles on the treadmill. Rather than considering exercise as a moral imperative for people (especially fat people), HAES promotes the opportunity for pleasurable and safe physical activity (Burgard, 2009). Opportunity and accessibility are a huge focus of HAES, but we’ll dive into that a bit later. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_2cf45cbb92f12a063d3b07dc99536de3.html"/><div>HAES critiques and challenges what is “known” about fatness</div><div>There are many assumptions about fatness that people accept as fact, but HAES actively challenges these harmful views including: </div><div>• that fatness poses severe morbidity and mortality risk</div><div>• that losing weight will prolong one’s life </div><div>• that anyone can lose weight and keep it off with determination, diet, and exercise</div><div>• that pursuing weight loss is both practical and positive</div><div>• that losing weight is the only way for fat people to improve their health</div><div>• that fat-related costs create a financial burden on the health system which can be corrected by treating and preventing obesity (Penney and Kirk, 2015)</div><div>Each of these six assumptions are addressed in depth in Weight Science which I’ve linked below under Recommended Reading, and I strongly suggest giving it a read. The journal article is only 13 pages long and includes 178(!!!) references which maybe shouldn’t have excited me as much as it did, haha! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_3c248872b2dd462f9e893fcdefe50117~mv2.jpg"/><div>HAES focuses on accessibility </div><div>Accessibility is the foundation upon which HAES is built. According to Burgard (2009) HAES asserts that everyone, regardless of size, deserves access to “movement opportunities, compassionate medical care, delicious and nutritious food, stigma-free environments, and the right to show up as the unique individuals [they] are” (p. 52). </div><div>I’m particularly grateful that compassionate medical care is mentioned, because the assumption that everyone can and should lose weight is extremely isolating and harmful. HAES doesn’t claim that every person at every size must be healthy, or even must be actively pursuing health. Remember, we discussed how this is ableist in <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing">Regarding Dr. Lush</a>. Instead, HAES argues that all people should have equal access to this pursuit if they choose, no matter their size (Burgard, 2009). Equality, respect, and fairness are all crucial aspects of the HAES model (Aphramor, 2015). </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_14432db82cd81f4cefdcb027de4dee5e.html"/><div>Criticism</div><div>Unsurprisingly, HAES has been met with loads of criticism. Critics say HAES ignores health, that is has no empirical support, that it only benefits people with high BMI, and that it is overly influenced by the politics of size acceptance (Burgard, 2009). In reality, HAES doesn’t ignore health (Um, hello? It’s literally in the name) it just ignores weight as an indicator of health (ASDAH, 2009). The Weight Science article I mentioned before (Linked below! Read it!) is overflowing with empirical data that supports the HAES model, so it’s actually laughable when critics say that there is no/not enough data. Could there always be more data? Absolutely! Especially since this is a developing field. However, that doesn’t negate the data that already exists. While HAES emerged in response to obesity discourse, that doesn’t mean that fat people are the only ones who could benefit from the practice. In fact, HAES has been recommended for people of all sizes (again, literally in the name) but particularly those individuals struggling with eating disorders (Schwartz, 2016). </div><div>If you, like me, are a diet industry dropout, then HAES may very well be for you. These principles have really helped me maintain a good and healthy focus when it comes to eating and moving my body. I feel like I’m no longer being held captive by the calorie police, and it’s been SO liberating. </div><div>Recommended Reading</div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Health-At-Every-Size-Surprising/dp/1935618253/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1503477203&amp;sr=1-3&amp;keywords=Linda+Bacon">Health At Every Size</a> - Dr. Linda Bacon </div><div><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3041737/pdf/1475-2891-10-9.pdf">Weight Science</a> - Linda Bacon and Lucy Aphramor </div><div><a href="http://www.fatnutritionist.com/index.php/health-at-every-size-choice-or-coercion">Health at every size: choice or coercion?</a> - The Fat Nutritionist </div><div>History of the Health At Every Size® Movement: </div><div><div><a href="https://healthateverysizeblog.org/2013/04/30/the-haes-files-history-of-the-health-at-every-size-movement-part-i/">Part 1</a>. </div><div><a href="https://healthateverysizeblog.org/2013/06/11/the-haes-files-history-of-the-health-at-every-size-movement-the-1970s-80s-part-2/">Part 2</a>. </div><div><a href="https://healthateverysizeblog.org/2013/07/16/the-haes-files-history-of-the-health-at-every-size-movement-the-early-1990s/">Part 3</a>. </div><div><a href="https://healthateverysizeblog.org/2013/08/06/the-haes-files-history-of-the-health-at-every-size-movement-the-mid-to-late1990s-part-4/">Part 4</a>. </div><div><a href="https://healthateverysizeblog.org/2013/10/29/the-haes-files-history-of-the-health-at-every-size-movement-late-1990s-part-5/">Part 5</a>. </div><div><a href="https://healthateverysizeblog.org/2017/06/16/the-haes-files-history-of-the-health-at-every-size-movement-early-21st-century-part-6/">Part 6</a>. </div><div><a href="https://healthateverysizeblog.org/2017/07/13/the-haes-files-history-of-the-health-at-every-size-movement-early-21st-century-part-7/">Part 7</a>. </div></div><div>References</div><div>APHRAMOR, L., 2015. This is health at every size®. Well founded [online]. [Viewed 20 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="https://haesuk.files.wordpress.com/2014/04/this-is-health-at-every-sizec2ae1.pdf">HAES Blog</a></div><div>ASSOCIATION FOR SIZE DIVERSITY AND HEALTH (ASDAH), 2009. Health at every size® fact sheet [online]. [Viewed 20 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="https://www.sizediversityandhealth.org/content.asp?id=161">ASDAH</a></div><div>BACON, L., and APHRAMOR, L., 2011. Weight science: Evaluating the evidence for a paradigm shift. Nutrition Journal. vol. 10, no. 9, pp. e1 - e13. </div><div>BURGARD, D., 2009. What is ‘Health at Every Size?’. In: ROTHBLUM, E., and SOLOVAY, S., eds. The fat studies reader. New York: New York University Press. pp. 42-53.</div><div>MCHUGH, M. C., and KASARDO, A. E., 2011. Anti-fat prejudice: The role of psychology in explication, education and eradication. Sex Roles. vol. 66, pp. 617-627.</div><div>MILLER, W. C., 2005. The weight-loss-at-any-cost environment: how to thrive with a health-centred focus. Journal of Nutritional Educational Behaviour. vol. 37, no.1, pp. S89-S94. </div><div>PENNEY, T. L., and KIRK, S. F. L., 2015. The health at every size paradigm and obesity: Missing empirical evidence may help push the reframing obesity debate forward. American Journal of Public Health. vol. 105, no. 5, pp. e38 - e42. </div><div>SCHWARTZ, D., 2016. What is health at every size? NEDA [online]. [Viewed 20 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/what-health-every-size">NEDA</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Western Rose</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears an embroidered longline top and distressed skinny jeans in this style post featuring Simply Be.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. I don’t know about you babes, but I’m SOOO ready for autumn! My birthday is in November, so I’ve<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f24d764474d04604b296b0d3ea9d390d%7Emv2_d_2848_1899_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_f24d764474d04604b296b0d3ea9d390d%7Emv2_d_2848_1899_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/21/Western-Rose</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/21/Western-Rose</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Aug 2017 20:58:41 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears an embroidered longline top and distressed skinny jeans in this style post featuring Simply Be.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f24d764474d04604b296b0d3ea9d390d~mv2_d_2848_1899_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>I don’t know about you babes, but I’m SOOO ready for autumn! My birthday is in November, so I’ve always been a fan of sweater weather and pumpkin flavoured lattes and baked goods. And autumn fashion? Yes please! </div><div>I’m MAJORLY into this embroidered top, you guys! The khaki/olive colour is lush, and the fabric is mega soft. The split hem is casual and looks good with jeans as styled here, or tights for a more comfy look. </div><div>I’m not a huge fan of jeans, but these high waisted distressed skinnies are pretty comfy. Unfortunately they don’t come in a short length (like my usual <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fuwj">Lucy short skinny jeans</a>). I usually hate cuffing my jeans, but I had to triple cuff these bad boys haha! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_90c6780c0ebd420ba2355d3f06723154~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4a8ce86d2525490884834aeb25cc3c6b~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b97522d0c8b04f69bb17c7001920e472~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_cbdb578ad55043448983b84714e41410~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_60706fa382db479f8be2012513e5b6f1~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_96e29c349ab345c582dc341550233b13~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look: </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fuh5">Oversized Embroidered Shirt</a>, size 26</div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fuh8">High Waist Distressed Jeans</a>, size 24</div><div>Ankle Boots (<a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/fuix">similar</a>) </div><div>Shop similar pieces: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_754e337f0eabfe940a4d349bf8b65a67.html"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>&quot;Black men love me&quot; - AKA stuff fat white women say</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses a dangerous stereotype perpetuated by fat white women and highlights the injustice this creates for fat black women. If you (like me) are a fat white woman, then we need to have a serious, grownup conversation. We are doing a MASSIVE disservice to fat black women by perpetuating the “black men love me” stereotype. I did some digging to try and find the origin of this trope, but search results were completely<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f632b4891cb84f1baf413e43b7b9aabf%7Emv2_d_5030_3353_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_f632b4891cb84f1baf413e43b7b9aabf%7Emv2_d_5030_3353_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/18/Black-men-love-me---AKA-stuff-fat-white-women-say</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/18/Black-men-love-me---AKA-stuff-fat-white-women-say</guid><pubDate>Fri, 18 Aug 2017 08:29:19 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses a dangerous stereotype perpetuated by fat white women and highlights the injustice this creates for fat black women. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f632b4891cb84f1baf413e43b7b9aabf~mv2_d_5030_3353_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>If you (like me) are a fat white woman, then we need to have a serious, grownup conversation. We are doing a MASSIVE disservice to fat black women by perpetuating the “black men love me” stereotype. I did some digging to try and find the origin of this trope, but search results were completely inconclusive. I know I was personally exposed to this stereotype at a young age. I was in middle school (age 12-15ish) when I was first made aware of this line of thinking, and I remember it being widely accepted as a fact. Like, “Yeah, duh! EVERYONE knows black men love fat white women!” This is such a widespread stereotype that someone actually took the time to sit down and write THREE books on the topic. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1f31f39674014831b58b111819c2a734~mv2.jpg"/><div>In 2015 plus size model Tess Holliday had a profile in The Guardian that uh…well it was a garbage fire: </div><div>“At one point, an African American guy, middle-aged, said something appreciative as he walked by. ‘What do guys think they’ll achieve by yelling something?’ she asked, shifting her weight and adjusting the cape primly. ‘They’re like: ‘She’ll love this, I’ll definitely get her number.’’ A pause, and then she added, with some satisfaction, ‘I do admit that black men love me. I always forget that, and then I come to a black neighbourhood and I remember.’ And no one quite knew what to say.” (The Guardian, 2015). </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7d6306a58ce849e69a909d712e262e9d~mv2.jpg"/><div>After loads of completely justified backlash, Tess issued a half-baked, excuse ridden apology: </div><div>“‘It was in relation to being cat called by black men significantly more than by white, but perhaps my tone and wording didn’t convey that clearly. It was also meant to play into the idea that black men like bigger women, but the humour of that doesn't come through,’ [Holliday] says. The original Guardian piece reports an awkward silence followed the plus size model’s remarks. A silence that Holliday claims was not present: ‘To further add context, the team included two talented black women - so it was clearly not something intended to cause offence’” (Buchanan, 2015).</div><div>The “apology” contains all three of the classic red flags indicate a deeply rooted problem, not just an isolated slip of the tongue: 1) I’m sorry you were offended, not I’m sorry what I said was offensive 2) It was just a joke! and 3) It’s okay you guys, I have black friends. Tess obviously isn’t the only fat white woman spreading this nonsense loudly and on a public platform. </div><div>So what is the deeply rooted problem? What we mean when we say “black men love me?” Pia-Glenn (2015) explains this beautifully saying “At best, it is reductive in lumping a whole group of people together as being attracted to one thing. And more often than not, it is flat-out dehumanising in reducing the black men in question to flesh-fueled predators, and often includes implied misogynoir, shadily letting black women know that ‘to them you're just fat but they love my jelly.’” Sweeping generalisations (like suggesting black men as one singular unit love you FOR EXAMPLE) are never helpful or productive. These generalisations really only serve to highlight prejudices. </div><div>“But Amanda,” you may be thinking, “Stereotypes exist for a reason! Plus, I’ve experienced this as well, so I know black men fancy fat white women!” Let’s look at some research, shall we? One study found that black women have been found to be less likely than women in other racial/ethnic groups to self identify as overweight, even if they were objectively the same size (Ali et al., 2013). Older studies of “overweight” black women (as defined by BMI) found that 40% of participants considered their figures attractive or very attractive (Kumanyika et al., 1993). In addition, less than 40% of participants dieting. Another study concluded that black women select an ideal BMI that is three points higher than white women (Burke and Heiland, 2008). This data agrees with previous research which also found that lack women identify a larger ideal body size than white women of the same age do (Lovejoy, 2001). </div><div>As Pia-Glenn pointed out, this stereotype is dehumanising and damaging to black men, but I’d like to focus on the implications for fat black women. White women consistently exclude women of colour, even in feminist circles (Carby, 1996). Unfortunately, this within the fat positive community. “I think my least favourite thing about the fat acceptance movement is when white people act like it is more difficult to be a white fat woman than a fat person of colour” (Beatriz as quoted in Williams, 2017, p. 8). “Fat black women are a forgotten demographic, especially in the UK. It’s ironic seeing as the body/fat positivity movement was spearheaded by black fat femmes years ago yet we are somehow erased from all of it. Fat black women do not only have to deal with fatphobia, we have to deal with misogynoir, racism and colourism from our own communities.” (Yeboah, 2017). </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_2b7da8ad9aa1a1140a94b7e48b161b66.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_61f7edde2b6190d57b589b75464e63f3.html"/><div>White women need to do more to advocate for our black sisters within the fat positive movement. We can start by ditching this “black men love me” nonsense, but that’s just Step 1.</div><div>Step 2: Follow more fat black women on social media. Fill your feed with their voices and listen when they talk about injustice and the severe lack of racial diversity in plus size fashion, plus size blogging, and the greater fat community. It’s imperative that we listen, and don’t speak over them. Some babes who discuss these topics include: </div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/NerdAboutTown">@NerdAboutTown</a></div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/SimoneMariposa">@SimoneMariposa</a></div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/ashleighthelion">@AshleighTheLion</a></div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/MichelleCHope">@MichelleCHope</a></div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/InemesitEtokudo">@InemesitEtokudo</a></div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/StephanieDJL">@StephanieDJL</a></div><div>Step 3: Stand up for fat black women when they’re being bullied and harassed. The tweets above are just a tiny sample of the harassment these women experience on an all too regular basis. We also need to check in with our friends when they receive this kind of harassment. It’s not fair to just assume they’re okay when hatred is being spewed at them from anonymous jerks on the internet. </div><div>Step 4: Educate yourself. This is one area where I still have a LOT of room to grow. “I know we all catch shit from the world, but it’s not our job to educate the ignorant” (Shantal, as quoted in Williams, 2017, p. 9). The oppressed group is not obligated to educate the privileged group, so we need to do it ourselves. <a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/tag/race-ethnicity/">Everyday Feminism</a> has loads of resources and is a great place to start. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_fb2e8eda016740e618436f726a2abfa1.html"/><div>Recommended reading</div><div><a href="http://www.nerdabouttown.com/2017/08/black-fat-women-matter-too.html">Black fat women matter too</a> - Steph of Nerd About Town </div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3dVc2btTSQ&amp;feature=youtu.be">White girls</a> - Chris Rock sketch </div><div><a href="http://www.xojane.com/issues/tess-holliday-racist">Tess Holliday's &quot;Black Men Love Me&quot; Comment Was Totally Unnecessary</a> - Pia-Glenn for XO Jane </div><div>References</div><div>ALI, M. M., RIZZO, J. A., and HEILAND, F. W., 2013. Big and beautiful? Evidence of racial differences in the perceived attractiveness of obese females. Journal of Adolescence. vol. 36, pp. 539-549. </div><div>BUCHANAN, R. T., 2015. Tess Holliday apologises after saying: 'Black men love me.’ The Independent [online]. [viewed 15 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/tess-holliday-apologises-after-saying-black-men-love-me-10312198.html">The Independent.</a></div><div>BURKE, M. A., and HEILAND, F., 2008. From ‘overweight’ to ‘about right’ : evidence of a generational shift in body weight norms. Obesity. vol. 18, no. 6, pp. 1226-1234. </div><div>CARBY, H., 1996. White woman listen! Black feminism and the boundaries of sisterhood. In Black British Cultural Studies: A Reader. Chicago: University of Chicago Press, pp. 61-86. </div><div>KUMANYIKA, S., WILSON, J. F., and GUILFORD-DAVENPORT, M., 1993. Weight related attitudes and behaviours of black women. Journal of the American Dietetic Association. vol. 93, pp. 416-422.</div><div>LOVEJOY, M., 2001. Disturbances in the social body: differences in body image and eating problems among African American and white women. Gender and Society. vol. 15, no. 2, pp. 239-261. </div><div>PIA-GLENN, 2015., Tess Holliday's &quot;Black Men Love Me&quot; Comment Was Totally Unnecessary and Uncalled-For. XO Jane [online]. [viewed 15 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://www.xojane.com/issues/tess-holliday-racist">XO Jane.</a></div><div>THE GUARDIAN, 2015., Tess Holliday: 'Never seen a fat girl in her underwear before? [online]. [viewed 15 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/fashion/2015/jun/06/tess-holliday-first-size-26-supermodel">The Guardian.</a></div><div>WILLIAMS, A. A., 2017. Fat people of colour: emergent intersectional discourse online. Social Sciences. vol. 6, no. 1, pp. 1-16. </div><div>YEBOAH, S., 2017, Black fat women matter too. Nerd About Town [online]. [viewed 15 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://www.nerdabouttown.com/2017/08/black-fat-women-matter-too.html">Nerd About Town.</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Bodycon Babe</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a beautiful bodycon dress in this style post featuring Next, Yours Clothing, and more.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. It’s that time of year when EVERY. SINGLE. STORE. has a massive sale on. I recently popped to Next to see if<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e31becfdefae4661b80ac8aa5f096ad7%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/16/Bodycon-Babe</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/16/Bodycon-Babe</guid><pubDate>Wed, 16 Aug 2017 08:10:01 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a beautiful bodycon dress in this style post featuring Next, Yours Clothing, and more.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e31becfdefae4661b80ac8aa5f096ad7~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>It’s that time of year when EVERY. SINGLE. STORE. has a massive sale on. I recently popped to Next to see if there was anything cute I could potentially fat-hack. What’s fat-hacking? I’m glaaaad you aaaaasked! </div><div>Fat-hacking is a term I like to use to describe when a plus size person is able to fit into garments that are not made for plus sizes. For example, in this outfit I’m fat-hacking a size 20 dress from Next, but I usually wear a size 24/26. I’ve got a small selection of garments in my closet that are fat-hacks. For example, I have an “oversized” size 16 dress from Topshop that fits me like a bodycon. I have an incredibly stretchy size 12 (HAH! HAHAHAH! SIZE 12!!!) dress from H&amp;M. See? Fat-hacked! </div><div>I’m not usually one to wear white, but I couldn’t resist this colourful pattern! It looks so summery and fun but also super elegant. One downside to the fit is because it’s a fat-hack, the dress tends to ride up quite a bit. It looks much shorter on me than on the Next website’s model even though I’m a little short stack. </div><div>These shoes have become a quick favourite of mine. They also come in black, but the platform is still white which kinda put me off them. I want the whole shoe, platform and all, to be black. </div><div>How great is the contrast of the dark, moody architecture to the bright, bubbly dress? I love this. Some tourists were watching us take these photos, and some of them decided to photograph us. Classic Fringe shenanigans. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f4aacb0f0e3f4e219755124a27e9c375~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8e199ba175a748b4aa07ce6e2ac758d9~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_aeaddbdb393f4584ab881dd9416164b4~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_623a2af4cfc64681bc4f4449d3536c5c~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1e9a682496a044c0951b287b7674cdf0~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d6a0c8b3089f4b7684bd522d9ef4f546~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_33705fe8d5774c3b8e736ba0a2193131~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look: </div><div>Dress: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eyj7">Next, size 20</a>*</div><div>Shoes: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eykc">Yours Clothing, size 8E</a></div><div>Jacket: Old New Look Curves, size 22 (<a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eykg">similar</a>) </div><div>*Okay, so the Next website SUCKS for sale/clearance items. Unfortunately the search function seems to only work for full price items, so searching by product code or product description doesn't work. Hunting this dress down takes a bit of effort. If you select “dresses” for product category and “£10-25” for the price category you’ll see it listed at £20 and it’ll look like this: </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_abfb4260de7746069435df4ff8a1f351~mv2.png"/><div>Shop similar styles:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_0233b8aebe611f93a63ebd95137e7e83.html"/><div>Photos by <a href="https://www.samuelcbone.com/about">Samuel C. Bone</a></div><div>Shot on location at <a href="http://www.edinburghfirst.co.uk/venues/old-college/">Edinburgh's Old College</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>I.scenery at Simply Be</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her top picks from a recent launch in this brand focus post featuring I.scenery at Simply Be.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. I’m pretty keen whenever I notice a new plus brand on the block, and my latest brand crush is<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a8e6e76180a3418b9356daafa3291a7c%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/15/Iscenery-at-Simply-Be</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/15/Iscenery-at-Simply-Be</guid><pubDate>Mon, 14 Aug 2017 19:53:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her top picks from a recent launch in this brand focus post featuring I.scenery at Simply Be.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a8e6e76180a3418b9356daafa3291a7c~mv2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>I’m pretty keen whenever I notice a new plus brand on the block, and my latest brand crush is I.Scenery. They are a brand “for the woman who wishes to express herself as sophisticated and feminine,” and I think that’s completely spot on. Their pieces are minimal and elegant with a cool </div><div>Scandi-style vibe. </div><div>The <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eZw2">16 piece capsule collection</a> is available now at Simply Be. It includes 7 blouses, 6 dresses, 1 skirt, 1 trouser, and 1 jacket with prices ranging from £25 - £55. The palette features black, white, navy, and merlot with a dash of blush. I’m so into this effortlessly polished look! I’d happily wear any/all of the 16 pieces, but these are my 4 absolute faves:</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_db5c06c786434dfc80648077c1238467~mv2.jpg"/><div>1. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eYM8">Bindhu Shirt</a></div><div>At age 27 I’m FINALLY learning to appreciate a white garment. About time, right? To be honest, what I like most is the perfect contrast of a white top with black trousers or a black skirt. D-R-A-M-A, mama! I’m obsessed with the grey mules this has been styled with as well! </div><div>2. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eYNE">Bita Blouse</a></div><div>This white blouse is a bit more casual than the Bindhu, so I’d style it with distressed blue jeans and a pointed flat. Oh! Maybe in red? With a coordinating red lip? </div><div>3. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eYOD">Blance Dress</a></div><div>I don’t know HOW they’ve done it, but I.Scenery have somehow captured the essence of tacky 90s patterns and transitioned it into an elegant, modern palette. I’m so into this I could cry. This dress would look SO cool with a giant silver statement necklace and patent black loafers. </div><div>4. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eYMe">Blance Blouse</a></div><div>If the dress is just TOO MUCH pattern for you, never fear! It also comes in blouse form! I would love to see this blouse tucked into a structured black pencil skirt with a white biker jacket and black heeled ankle boots. I’ve never had an office job, but I’d like to imagine that’s how I’d dress if I did! </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eZw2">Click to shop the collection at Simply Be!</a></div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_89e37e00a6bf934a548fd785550824f8.html"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Eating In Public: &quot;Look At That Fat Cow,&quot; and Other Horror Stories</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses her experience being fat shamed while eating in public, and shares stories from others with similar experiences. It’s recently been increasingly obvious that my thinner friends and peers have NO idea how much harassment fat people receive on a regular basis. Several are even under the assumption that fat shaming only happens online. I’ve personally experienced fat-shaming on public transport and at the doctor, which<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_84ebd52389fb456882e7049c2d25a680%7Emv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_84ebd52389fb456882e7049c2d25a680%7Emv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/11/Eating-In-Public-Look-At-That-Fat-Cow-and-Other-Horror-Stories</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/11/Eating-In-Public-Look-At-That-Fat-Cow-and-Other-Horror-Stories</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Aug 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses her experience being fat shamed while eating in public, and shares stories from others with similar experiences. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_84ebd52389fb456882e7049c2d25a680~mv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>It’s recently been increasingly obvious that my thinner friends and peers have NO idea how much harassment fat people receive on a regular basis. Several are even under the assumption that fat shaming only happens online. I’ve personally experienced fat-shaming on <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/08/22/Lets-Get-Personal-Everyday-Fatphobia">public transport</a> and <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/28/10-Outrageous-Reasons-Doctors-Have-Told-Fat-Women-to-Lose-Weight">at the doctor</a>, which you may recall. </div><div>A lot of the harassment I've received recently has been while purchasing, ordering, or eating food in public. I’ve had shop workers at the grocery store give me unsolicited diet advice while ringing up my purchase at the till. I’ve overheard “No wonder she’s so fat” from restaurant patrons at the table next to mine while out to eat. I’ve even caught teenagers photographing me eating on my lunch break, and I can only assume the photos were posted to social media. </div><div>This public harassment is one of many ways that fat people endure daily stigma. Fat people are viewed as lazy, sloppy, weak-willed, physically and sexually unattractive, and gluttonous even if the people passing these judgements are patrons of the SAME restaurant eating the SAME foods as us terrible fatties (Nutter et al., 2016). Individuals who shame fat people for eating seem to think that they’re offering up brand new information that will save us poor, poor fatties from ourselves. But the truth is, “It is unlikely that bias, ridicule, or perceptions of being defective have anything other than a negative impact on individuals. Anti-fat prejudice has extremely negative effects on individuals exposed to weight stigma…individuals discriminated against are more vulnerable to depression, economic hardship, and isolation” (McHugh and Kasardo, 2011, p. 619). </div><div>Fifteen people responded to my survey about being harassed while buying or eating food in public. Participants ranged from 23-49 years old, and recalled being harassed at least once a month and up to 3+ times per week. Participants recall being harassed at many locations including the supermarket, corner shop, fast food restaurants, sit down restaurants, fine dining establishments, work, the pub, school, on the street, at the pub, and family gatherings. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_13a11affba06dde4a79ca31fdbcb7199.html"/><div>I asked participants to share if particular experiences stood out in their memories, and these were some of the stories they shared: </div><div>“I was excited for weeks when I learnt that a new Five Guys restaurant was being opened where I live, I went down on opening day to enjoy the delicious burgers. I was sat at a far table on my own because it's a natural defence mechanism I use, if I'm right in the corner of the restaurant maybe people can't see me. It didn't work cos I caught someone very obviously filming me eat on their phone. I was caught so off guard that it started to make me feel sick so I had to leave and throw my half eaten burger in the bin. I've never done that before and that's why it stuck out in my head, I prepare myself for it every time I'm seen with food in public now.”</div><div>“I was in a strange city, on my own, so after a 10 hour day at a work conference I took myself out for dinner. I ordered 3 courses - 12 oysters, a steak and dessert. I had just been served the oysters when a woman from the table next to me commented to her friend 'If I ever get that big and sad, shoot me'. She was looking directly at me, not even pretending to be discreet. I felt like I had been punched. The steak came out and she was laughing and making 'omg gross' comments as I ate. I ended up leaving before dessert came out. I was in tears for most of the meal and this woman thought it was hilarious.” </div><div>“I had one co-worker who would comment on any food she saw me consume at work, not always in a negative way, but always audibly note my eating. This included snacks, meals, or beverages at my desk or in the break room. She would ask about my food if I left the building on my break.”</div><div>“A car sped up to try to hit me as I was crossing at a zebra crossing holding a bag of food and the woman passenger screamed ‘that's what you get, you fat bitch.’”</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_10912469eb262a0debcd607ea2bca81f.html"/><div>Participants recall a range of emotional responses to harassment such as feeling anxious, upset, awful, angry, sad, pissed off, ashamed, and embarrassed. One says they were made to feel “absolutely repulsive, like my personal space has been violently invaded, like I never want to leave the house again.” One recalls “It's changed how I eat and what I buy- I will not eat a chocolate bar outside the house. I tend to order salads when dining with more than just my boyfriend/immediate family.” Another says they feel “Ashamed to be in public, angry that people feel they have the right to comment on my basic human rights to enjoy my food. Sad that it happens when meals can often be the only time I get time to myself to enjoy outside of work.” </div><div>Anti-fat sentiment is pervasive, and incredibly persistent (McHugh and Kasardo, 2011). Clearly, something needs to happen to dissuade people from engaging in this dehumanising form of harassment. I agree with one participant’s notion that to end prejudice we need to change the public’s perception of fatness. Several participants noted that bystanders need to act like allies and speak out against this kind of behaviour, rather than doing nothing or worse, encouraging harassment. One participant says “I wish punching was accepted,” but I can’t condone that kind of retaliation…*wink* </div><div>Special thanks to the following for sharing their stories:</div><div>Anna • Anna G. • Annie • Anonymous • <a href="http://twitter.com/beckybarnesblog">Becky</a> • Carrie • <a href="http://twitter.com/applewriter">Jacq</a> • Jessica </div><div><a href="http://twitter.com/thatwearwolf">Jessica</a> • <a href="http://twitter.com/mellymeep">Mel</a> • <a href="http://twitter.com/sandyonthetyne">Sandy</a> • Sarah • Sarah • Sophie • Terri</div><div>References:</div><div>NUTTER, S., RUSSELL-MAYHEW, S., ALBERGA, A. S., ARTHUR, N., KASSAN, A., LUND, D. E., </div><div>SESMA-VAZQUEZ, M., and WILLIAMS, E., 2016. Positioning of weight bias: Moving towards social justice. Journal of Obesity. vol. 2016, pp. 1-10. </div><div>MCHUGH, M. C., and KASARDO, A. E., 2011. Anti-fat prejudice: The role of psychology in explication, education and eradication. Sex Roles. vol. 66, pp. 617-627.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Black, Like My Coffee with Yours Clothing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears all black everything in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.Hello, lovelies! I’m back again with the second (of five!) looks with Yours Clothing! This look contrasts a bit with the previous look because<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e378dfd2a72b45c0a2ee2316187924c2%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/09/Black-Like-My-Coffee</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/09/Black-Like-My-Coffee</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Aug 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears all black everything in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e378dfd2a72b45c0a2ee2316187924c2~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>Hello, lovelies! I’m back again with the second (of five!) looks with Yours Clothing! This look contrasts a bit with <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/07/31/Brunch-Aesthetic">the previous look</a> because as you can see it’s ALL black. I like my outfits how I like my coffee…black, haha! </div><div>There’s something so effortless and confident about dressing in all black. It feels like a uniform, but it’s mega-chic. I love the grungy grey smudge pattern on the maxi skirt. By the way, the skirt IS a proper maxi, but I have it hiked up right under my boobs. (I’m all about the honesty here at amanda apparel dot com). The skirt features a slit on each side, which is great for muggy summer days! When it’s hot out, I’ll talk all the breeze I can get tbh. </div><div>I know this top isn’t TECHNICALLY reversible…but I’ve definitely worn it backwards so the criss-cross design was at the front. Whether it’s worn 'correctly' or backwards it’s super soft and mega comfortable. I wanted the top to be oversized so it would fit loosely, but here I’ve tied it up to show off more of the skirt’s pattern. </div><div>I’ve not had a black (faux) leather jacket in TOO LONG you guys! I feel like I go from 0 to 100 real quick when I put this bad boy on! It’s amazing having pieces of clothing that help you feel confident. It may not look like it, but I was actually having a rubbish day when we shot these photos. I’m generally a really soft, heart on my sleeve kinda gal. Add depression + anxiety, and let’s just say I’m a crier. Even though this was such a hard day, I’m thrilled that these photos ended up looking so good. I look happy, and confident, and truly myself. And tomorrow is a new day! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7338c1210f0d4984ab784f38023a8105~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_71c39634fa5f40578bc5d18ed2126d56~mv2_d_2405_3607_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_40ccea4158254fd9b790555cb126334f~mv2_d_2389_3583_s_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d5dc28ce525f48faa0976cef5573489e~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_684b2da4ed5340f4a0ec4c2d43b481f3~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_90fdd35cafae48069d0044d323093159~mv2_d_4145_2763_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b9b5f80eed6c480fa01f95f90f79aefb~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c3a6aa9710e333efdd93695c6ee4852a.html"/><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_82ff3d6cfd57d44b1e4229a10bdfd53e.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_dc58f7646be4406ca6e2b8fa06e70aed.html"/></div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Yours Clothing. Click to shop <a href="https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/new-in-clothing">new-in clothing</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page. </div><div>Photos by <a href="https://www.samuelcbone.com/about">Samuel C. Bone</a></div><div>Shot on location at Gifford Park Murals by <a href="http://www.kategeorgedesign.com/#gifford-park-2">Kate George</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Payday Wishlist - 01 August</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her August payday wish list featuring River Island, Anna Scholz, Missguided, and more.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. It’s been aaaaaages since I put together a wish list post, eh? You know when payday rolls around and you go<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_195ec1faa52b45d5a4579b66cfb7abb0%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_418/5a3ab3_195ec1faa52b45d5a4579b66cfb7abb0%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/07/Payday-Wishlist---01-August</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/07/Payday-Wishlist---01-August</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Aug 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her August payday wish list featuring River Island, Anna Scholz, Missguided, and more.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_195ec1faa52b45d5a4579b66cfb7abb0~mv2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>It’s been aaaaaages since I put together a wish list post, eh? You know when payday rolls around and you go from being dirt poor to totally loaded and you start looking at frivolous things you absolutely don’t need? That’s what the payday wish list is all about! Little luxuries that would be wonderful to have, but will have to wait until rent, utilities, etc. are all paid for. Let’s get started, shall we? </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a003cf29ef9046f8a13b917c692db73f~mv2.jpg"/><div>1. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/ela3">Pink eyelet dress</a></div><div>I don’t know if I’ve EVER wanted a dress as badly as I want this one! *MAJOR* heart eyes! I love that it’s in such a cool, gentle shade of pink combines with the eyelet and lace detailing. The dress only goes up to size 24, so I worry that this dress wouldn’t fit me unless it’s stretchy. It’s hard to tell from the photos, but it certainly looks like a stretchy fabric. </div><div>2. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/elck">Cabin suitcase</a> and 3. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/elbn">Weekend bag</a></div><div>These bags are extra unnecessary because I rarely travel, but look how PRETTY! They’re so gorgeous! I’d be serving jetset eleganza in the Ryanair queue, haha! Actually, you could probably take several trips via Ryanair for the price of these bags! Can you imagine going through airport security in that boohoo dress?! </div><div>4. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/elbu">Studded cross body bag</a></div><div>This bag is giving me knockoff Gucci realness, and I’m here for it. I don’t think I’d use such a big strap for such a small bag, though. I’d probably prefer to use it as a small clutch or add a simple gold chain (like a thrifted necklace) as a strap.</div><div>5. <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/elbC">Babe Power perfume</a></div><div>I keep seeing this in my local Superdrug store and it’s actually so nice? Usually when a brand releases a fragrance I’m not into it, but this is definitely an exception. </div><div>6. <a href="http://www.annascholz.com/online-store/skirts/a-line-skirt-with-bird-embroidery-1.html">Ann Scholz a-line skirt</a></div><div>Lads when I stumbled upon this dress I actually gasped. It is STUNNING. Like, I wish it was on my body right now. I don’t know how, but it looks so high fashion and effortless at the same time. It would look beautiful for cute outdoor dates in the summertime! Even though all the best parts of my city are rammed with tourists all summer…ooft, better wrap this up before I get myself worked up over tourists! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/><div>SaveSaveSave</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Thoughts on &quot;Feeling Fat&quot;</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel dissects the phrase “I feel fat” in response to plus size supermodel Ashley Graham’s recent interview with People Magazine.Ashley Graham 101I highly doubt any of you babes aren’t familiar with Ashley Graham buuuuut, just in case here’s a wee crash course. She’s been on the cover of Sports Illustrated, Self, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Glamour, and more. She has a load of hustles like her judge gig on America’s Next Top Model, a<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8cffe7c1c7e74d12a04c66646b49af4d%7Emv2_d_3264_2176_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/04/Thoughts-on-Feeling-Fat</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/04/Thoughts-on-Feeling-Fat</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Aug 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel dissects the phrase “I feel fat” in response to plus size supermodel Ashley Graham’s recent interview with People Magazine.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8cffe7c1c7e74d12a04c66646b49af4d~mv2_d_3264_2176_s_2.jpg"/><div>Ashley Graham 101</div><div>I highly doubt any of you babes aren’t familiar with Ashley Graham buuuuut, just in case here’s a wee crash course. She’s been on the cover of Sports Illustrated, Self, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Glamour, and more. She has a load of hustles like her judge gig on America’s Next Top Model, a lingerie line with Addition Elle, a clothing line with Dressbarn, a collab with Swimsuits for All (***AHEM*** Swimsuits up to size 24, ***rolls eyes***), her own Barbie doll, and her recently released book: A New Model: What Confidence, Beauty, and Power Really Look Like (Morris, 2016; Abel, 2017). </div><div>So how did Ashley reach international supermodel status? With hard work, dedication, perseverance, and a considerably large dose of privilege. “As a plus size woman, Ashley Graham has a huge amount of privilege. She is a small fat, she is hourglass shaped, she has a flat stomach, she is white, she is conventionally attractive, she is straight. And she doesn’t tend to acknowledge any of this. Many of her interviews focus on how hard her modelling career has been because she is curvy, yet she has been in Vogue and is a darling of the catwalk” (Morris, 2016).</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_49e37c3e2d5301c05f181273ac378427.html"/><div>Ashley In The Press </div><div>What I aim to examine in this post is the culture that assumes fat is bad, and what it means to feel fat versus actually being fat. I want to be perfectly clear that this is not a personal attack on Ashley’s character. However, because she is heralded as a body positive pioneer and role model, it’s important to hold her accountable for her words. This is particularly necessary when her words can have a negative impact on, harm, or trivialise marginalised groups. Before diving into the “I feel fat” situation, let’s look at a few other instances where Ashley made statements that were problematic at best. </div><div>Casual ableism</div><div>“I believe you can be healthy at any size as long as you’re getting off the couch and moving your body” (Thomason, 2016). </div><div>In my previous post ,<a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing">Regarding Dr. Lush</a>, I discuss health concern trolls and the fact that health is not a moral obligation. To paraphrase, suggesting that everyone is required to pursue this image of perfect health is incredibly ableist. Being healthy is literally impossible for some people. This type of ableist rhetoric can be wildly alienating for people with disabilities. In this quote I believe Ashley is actually referring to fitness rather than health. Sure, promoting fitness can be beneficial, but using the cliched couch potato terminology isn’t helpful for anybody.</div><div>Curvysexilicious</div><div>“At the end of the day. I just want to be recognized as a model. Yes, I got curves. Yes, I got things that I like to flaunt and talk about and be called curvy, sexilicious, but at the end of the day I don’t want a label.” (Ashley Graham as quoted in Talarico, 2016). </div><div>“Now, the fashion industry may persist to label me as “plus size”, but I like to think of it as ‘my size’. In fact, did you know that the plus size fashion industry actually starts at a US size 8? And it goes up to a US size 16. So basically what I’m saying is that the majority of this room right now is considered plus size” (Ashley Graham as quoted in her TedxTalk, 2015). </div><div>It’s pretty obvious that Ashley wants to #DropThePlus. Ultimately if every single clothing store catered to all, and I mean ALL sizes, we wouldn’t need the term “plus size.” Until then, I need to know where the heck I can shop. If a store doesn’t have a plus size section, then I can’t shop there. But Ashley wouldn’t really know what that’s like since she’s been modelling H&amp;M’s standard size clothing. </div><div>Also, here’s a WILD suggestion I’d like to offer: If you don’t want to be called a plus size model, then don’t accept work from plus size brands. End of. </div><div>Colour-blindness</div><div>“I never told my grandparents that the man I was bringing home was black,” writes Graham. “I naively hoped everyone would be color-blind — which is not what happened” (Olya, 2017).</div><div>Okay, so I’ll give you the Cliff’s Notes version of this story. Ashley’s spouse Justin Ervin is a black man. Ashley’s racist grandmother was NOT impressed when she first met him, and she perpetually snubbed him at family gatherings. She changed her mind about Justin when he rang up to wish her a happy wedding anniversary. Thank goodness for that, otherwise Ashley’s family would’ve had to have a serious, adult conversation about racism, privilege, and prejudice. This is just a gigantic mess. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_526209db66d443ad340f68eda04d5c2b.html"/><div>“There are some days I feel fat.” </div><div>“There are some days I feel fat,” she revealed. “I’m not convinced there’s going to be a moment where every woman in the world wakes up and feels like a million dollars. So, what I want to do is give women the tools that will help when those moments come up. Sometimes it can be as easy as telling yourself that you are beautiful” (Ashley Graham as quoted in Abel, 2017).</div><div>I think what Ashley really means is that some days she feels insecure. Maybe some days she feels bloated. Maybe some days she doesn’t feel as confident as other days. These are all feelings that most people can relate to. What makes this statement so infuriating is that fat does not equal insecure. That is a VERY irritating assumption, and it’s wildly irresponsible on Ashley’s part. Your Fat Friend (2016) says “Being fat is never as simple as a feeling. And feeling fat is rarely about the shape or size of a body. Feeling fat is a shorthand. You say it when you feel unattractive, slovenly, lazy, dissatisfied and unsatisfying. My body becomes your shorthand for your shortcomings.” </div><div>Ashley refers to herself as a “body activist,” (TedxTalks, 2015) yet she is still making the fat = bad assumption? Okay, so maybe change that label to “socially acceptable body activist” because you’re obviously not here for us fats. </div><div>Ashley, if for some bizarre reason you actually read this, PLEASE just keep the words “fat” and “plus size” out of your mouth. I genuinely want to give you the benefit of the doubt. I want to assume your heart is in the right place and that ignorance is the source of your problematic nature. But sis, please LISTEN when people call you out on this stuff. You have to stop just brushing us off as “haters” and playing the victim. </div><div>So, who is fat? </div><div>“KC: I feel like we’ve got a lot of talking about those lines between where fat starts and like who is fat and the external definition I’m just not with. Like, I can’t. I can’t. </div><div>Ariel: No, that’s actually a really good point about who is fat, where does fat start? Maybe where the shape of your body alters how you are received” (Bad Fat Broads, 2016). </div><div>When I started drafting this post, I had a clear conclusion in mind. However, this is a much deeper issue than I previously thought. I’ve been doing a lot more reading, and now I think I need a separate blog post dedicated the discussion of who is fat. So instead of my original plan, I’ll leave you with this teaser quote: </div><div>“The plight of, say, the plus size model, and the plight of the plus size person are two different things,” (Ariel Woodson as quoted in Richards, 2016). </div><div>Recommended Reading:</div><div><a href="https://www.bustle.com/p/i-dont-feel-fat-some-days-i-feel-fat-every-day-62876">I don’t feel fat some days, I feel fat every day</a> - Marie Southard Ospina for Bustle </div><div><a href="http://rubythunder.com/stop-using-fat-as-a-synonym-for-bad/">I don’t feel fat; I am fat</a> - Alysse Dalessandro for On The Plus Side </div><div><a href="http://rubythunder.com/stop-using-fat-as-a-synonym-for-bad/">Stop using fat as a synonym for bad</a> - Kerry of Ruby Thunder </div><div>Bad Fat Broads <a href="http://www.badfatbroads.com/blog/2016/3/15/episodetworeturnto">Episode Two (AKA return to curvysexylicious mountain)</a></div><div><a href="https://medium.com/@thefatshadow/your-fat-friend-doesnt-feel-fat-8ca312f5db2b">Your Fat Friend Doesn't Feel Fat</a> - Your Fat Friend for Medium</div><div>References:</div><div>ABEL, A., 2017. Ashley Graham opens up about confidence: ‘There are some days I feel fat.’ People [online]. [Viewed 07 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://people.com/bodies/ashley-graham-opens-up-about-confidence-there-are-some-days-i-feel-fat/">People.com</a></div><div>BAD FAT BROADS, 2016. Episode one (AKA your faves are fatphobic). [Viewed 09 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://www.badfatbroads.com/blog/2016/3/7/bad-fat-broads-episode-one-aka-your-faves-are-fatphobic">Badfatbroads.com</a></div><div>MORRIS, K., 2017. Ashley Graham is no role model of mine. She Might Be [online]. [Viewed 09 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://shemightbe.co.uk/ashley-graham-no-role-model-mine/">Shemightbe.co.uk</a></div><div>OLYA, G., 2017. Ashley Graham reveals her family didn’t always accept her interracial relationship. People [online]. [Viewed 11 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://people.com/bodies/ashley-graham-family-didnt-accept-interracial-relationsip/">People.com</a></div><div>RICHARDS, A., 2016. Bad Fat Broads is a radical body positivity podcast you need to listen to. Bustle [online]. [Viewed 09 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="https://www.bustle.com/articles/149000-bad-fat-broads-is-a-radical-body-positive-podcast-you-need-to-listen-to">Bustle.com</a></div><div>TALARICO, B., 2016. Ashley Graham: My Sports Illustrated cover is not retouched. People [online]. [Viewed 09 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://people.com/style/ashley-graham-my-sports-illustrated-cover-is-not-retouched/">People.com</a></div><div>TEDXTALKS, 2015. Plus-size? More like my size. [online video]. TEDxBerkleeValencia. [Viewed 09 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xAgawjzimjc">YouTube</a>. Transcript available <a href="https://singjupost.com/plus-size-more-like-my-size-by-ashley-graham-full-transcript/">here</a></div><div>THOMASON, K., 2016. 5 Rules for loving your body with model Ashley Graham. Health [online]. [Viewed 09 June 2017]. Available from: <a href="http://www.health.com/mind-body/ashley-graham-shares-her-secrets-to-feeling-sexy-and-confident-at-any-size">health.com</a></div><div>YOUR FAT FRIEND, 2016. Your fat friend doesn't feel fat. Medium [online]. [Viewed 03 August 2017]. Available from: <a href="https://medium.com/@thefatshadow/your-fat-friend-doesnt-feel-fat-8ca312f5db2b">Medium.com</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Strappy Bralette Set</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a strappy mesh bralette set in this lingerie post featuring New Look Curves.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page.Wow, it’s been a while since I stripped down to my skivvies for the internet eh? Well, no time like the present! I don’t<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c5da3cd6dd2745b381423e90eafd1eb0%7Emv2_d_2048_1365_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_c5da3cd6dd2745b381423e90eafd1eb0%7Emv2_d_2048_1365_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/02/Strappy-Bralette-Set</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/08/02/Strappy-Bralette-Set</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Aug 2017 12:24:44 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a strappy mesh bralette set in this lingerie post featuring New Look Curves.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c5da3cd6dd2745b381423e90eafd1eb0~mv2_d_2048_1365_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page.</div><div>Wow, it’s been a while since I stripped down to my skivvies for the internet eh? Well, no time like the present! I don’t know about you babes, but I have had H U G E boobs since I was about 8-9 years old. I remember loathing wearing bras at that age. I just wanted to play with my Tamagotchi! When I was that young I only wore sports bras to school, and I have vivid memories of boys in my class grabbing the straps and snapping them! (Are boys still that awful? Ugh, probably) As I got older I graduated to bras that come in a box from Walmart and give you SERIOUS Madonna style boobs. </div><div>Okay, Amanda. What’s your point? Welllll….my point is lingerie styles change! And personal taste in lingerie changes! Right now barrettes are EVERYWHERE on the high street, but a lot of plus folks feel like they can’t participate because a) lack of plus size availability and b) LOL what is this tiny triangle of fabric gonna do for me?! I’m a big fan of bralettes. They can’t be beat for comfort and sexiness tbh. </div><div>Only 2 of my 8 local New Look stores stock their curve range, and 0 of those stock curve lingerie. Thank heavens for Asos! They’ve got a decent range of plus size lingerie, including this set I scored a while ago! I was immediately drawn to the strap detailing throughout the set, but I was worried about how they would look on my body. I mean, according to fit details online the model wears a 32DD, and I’m a 40G. That’s a pretty considerable difference! </div><div>I’m SO glad I took a chance on this set because it makes me feel invincible! Do the straps dig in to my back and belly fat? Totally! And that’s okay! This set helps me feel confident, happy, and radiant, and I think those are feelings we could all use a little more of. My only regret is not sizing up in the bra, but this set is really just for lounging around the house so it’s not a HUGE deal. I’m still totally pleased with the purchase! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_18fc0560a9e64b5b911fe653b89a1d0c~mv2_d_1899_2848_s_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_969ffa25e064413a930bc1279e6da25a~mv2_d_1902_2853_s_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_98b7501640df4f749ba658e4c1a3df72~mv2_d_2044_3065_s_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_17f2888e5ecb4f468181708804d63cb5~mv2_d_1802_2701_s_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_19fa1cf5334b43b4b8dd4d1d54121751~mv2_d_2024_3036_s_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb974f1cc9d14a38b5b1c270f1fcc0aa~mv2_d_2048_3069_s_2.jpg"/><div>Edit: Since publishing this post the set has sold out on Asos, but is now back in stock at New Look.</div><div>Shop the look:</div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eymv">New Look Curves Strappy Mesh Bralet, Size 24</a></div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eyk0">New Look Curves Strappy Mesh Brief, Size 24</a></div><div>Also available in pink:</div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eymG">New Look Curves Pink Strappy Bralet</a></div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/eyk7">New Look Curves Pink Strappy Brief</a></div><div>Shop similar items: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_29992f75a492b16385d15b68a4ebfa85.html"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Brunch Aesthetic with Yours Clothing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears comfy and chic pieces for a brunch date in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing. This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.Obviously I’m super interested in fashion, body politics, etc., but I’m ALSO very interested in brunch! The cute yellow<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_14b2a4076aeb479986415716e3da98dd%7Emv2_d_3018_2012_s_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_14b2a4076aeb479986415716e3da98dd%7Emv2_d_3018_2012_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/07/31/Brunch-Aesthetic</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/07/31/Brunch-Aesthetic</guid><pubDate>Mon, 31 Jul 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears comfy and chic pieces for a brunch date in this style post brought to you by Yours Clothing. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_14b2a4076aeb479986415716e3da98dd~mv2_d_3018_2012_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>Obviously I’m super interested in fashion, body politics, etc., but I’m ALSO very interested in brunch! The cute yellow seating at Civerinos Slice caught my eye, and their nosh caught my tastebuds. Is it a bit extra to coordinate my outfit to match our brunch spot? Probably. Am I prepared to be just THAT extra? Absolutely! </div><div>The floral duster is definitely the ‘wow’ piece of this outfit. It’s very thin, which is perfect for summertime. The colourful pattern can easily be coordinated with other neutrals besides white, like I’ve styled here. I’ve also worn it over a simple black dress and it looked fab! </div><div>These trousers have quickly become one of my favourite basics! They’re also available in hot pink, grey, and black, and tbh I’m sure I could find a use for each and every pair! The linen fabric is soft and breathable. I’m not the biggest fan of ironing, but I’m willing to put forth the effort for these trousers haha! I’ve also styled them with a graphic sweatshirt and casual black sandals and felt SO cute and comfy.</div><div>Black tends to be my neutral colour of choice, so I thought I’d stretch myself and pair this statement jacket with white instead. This white top is a great basic and is SO stretchy! I sized up to a 26-28 to ensure that it was a bit loose across my chest. (Whaaat? My boobs are smothered a lot, okay?! Lol) The platform sandals are SO! COMFY! They genuinely don’t feel like wearing heels at all, and as a shorty I’m happy to get all the extra height I can get! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_3966251a761a42239e2d7bc736004071~mv2_d_3456_5184_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_570364067f644feb9ee7b636728e2981~mv2_d_3456_5184_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_5bdda023f29e4bb0ba8ffd5be9fd0525~mv2_d_5184_3456_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7a51b39f0bc944f3a509d515b843edc6~mv2_d_3456_2304_s_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d94b906ab87345d88c78b5d26b0f5e11~mv2_d_3456_5184_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_47ea72fca056442bbc640152e4ed57cb~mv2_d_3456_5184_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8d6915ac28fc4772949471b4c195150a~mv2_d_3018_4527_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_2b86f127ab9ababcc2771434c73d2e9a.html"/><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_893f3a5a402dc1c41f2713675eb74b3a.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_07ae0abac1555a99105d1d36cce96282.html"/><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_29dc745da458668026c802ee17722668.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_ac2bfead879fa3f749ad1820a1c775d4.html"/></div></div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Yours Clothing. Click to shop <a href="https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/new-in-clothing">new-in clothing</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit the policy page.</div><div>Photos by <a href="http://katrin-lange.de">Katrin Lange Design</a></div><div>Shot on location at <a href="https://www.civerinosslice.com/civ-slice">Civerinos Slice</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Food Trucks and Frocks</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a funky frock to The Pitt Market in this style post featuring Traffic People via Simply Be.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. Hey gang! Long time no blog! Summer is in full swing here in Edinburgh and that means FOOD TRUCKS! The<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_de7402f50aeb449ea641fa6b7af483d8%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_416/5a3ab3_de7402f50aeb449ea641fa6b7af483d8%7Emv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/07/10/Food-Trucks-and-Frocks</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/07/10/Food-Trucks-and-Frocks</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Jul 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a funky frock to The Pitt Market in this style post featuring Traffic People via Simply Be.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_de7402f50aeb449ea641fa6b7af483d8~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>Hey gang! Long time no blog! Summer is in full swing here in Edinburgh and that means FOOD TRUCKS! <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/08/10/Woman-About-Town-The-Pitt-Market">The Pitt</a> is my personal favourite street food hot spot. Good eats, good tunes, and good company! </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_aabe35cc4e82c023225fce31e4c1f6a0.html"/><div>Now I’ve had my eye on this dress ever since I saw it on <a href="http://www.ikiwn.com/fatshion/outfits/psychedelic-floral-print-dress-traffic-people">megababe Zoë</a>. Honestly, how INCRED does she look?! </div><div>I would absolutely recommend sizing up in this dress if possible as it has absolutely no stretch. I’m wearing size 26 here, which is the largest size Traffic People currently make. It’s a big snug on me at the bust and at the elbow, but not to the point where it feels like it’s going to burst. I do think a stretch fabric would be a dramatic improvement though.</div><div>With a dress this bold, I opted for plain black sandals and a braided updo. This hairstyle is my new go-to style when it’s just too dang hot to wear my hair down. It’s deceivingly easy to do, and it gets LOADS of compliments every single time. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_31a6d486497a4391a6ad4345334cfd18~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_0048de88cc454d9ba71611cdac0f09ae~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a556f24d09e0409e9f026a3b4a4321c5~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_ef78e731a0cf4ba4a5383bf924d08a03~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4482f8928e9a4b09b7281a0e1a810ff7~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_218f67aa45d447cdbd40484652942318~mv2_d_4288_2848_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look:</div><div>Dress: Traffic People via <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/ccZ1">Simply Be</a></div><div>Sandals: Primark</div><div>Sunnies: Quay via <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/cfV0">Topshop</a></div><div>Bag: Old Ecote via <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/cf59">Urban Outfitters</a></div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/cc0j">Shop the Traffic People collection at Simply Be</a></div><div>Shop similar pieces: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_df91ab92f9a57ccae86bf236f81244a8.html"/><div>Photos by <a href="http://katrin-lange.de">Katrin Lange Design</a></div><div>Shot on location at <a href="https://www.thepitt.co.uk">The Pitt</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Fat Positive Podcasts</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel gushes about Bad Fat Broads, Every Body, and The Fat Lip in this post focusing on fat-positive podcasts.When my husband and I first separated I found it tremendously difficult to listen to music. Even songs I’d never heard before were making me emotional and would bring me to tears, often in public which was a little embarrassing TBH. Podcasts were a great alternative to music because I could be entertained while being<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_797cafc7318848319f8b05fc5513ad7c%7Emv2_d_3780_2520_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_797cafc7318848319f8b05fc5513ad7c%7Emv2_d_3780_2520_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/06/02/Fat-Positive-Podcasts</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/06/02/Fat-Positive-Podcasts</guid><pubDate>Fri, 02 Jun 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel gushes about Bad Fat Broads, Every Body, and The Fat Lip in this post focusing on fat-positive podcasts.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_797cafc7318848319f8b05fc5513ad7c~mv2_d_3780_2520_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>When my husband and I first separated I found it tremendously difficult to listen to music. Even songs I’d never heard before were making me emotional and would bring me to tears, often in public which was a little embarrassing TBH. Podcasts were a great alternative to music because I could be entertained while being educated. Aaaaand the lack of crying on public transport was a definite bonus! These three podcasts have helped me grow tremendously as a blogger and a person. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_83cdc59ec616437e9d4098b9dbd0f4b5~mv2.png"/><div>Bad Fat Broads</div><div>“The bad fat bitch perspective on everything important” </div><div>KC and Ariel (left and right, respectively) are two awesome fat babes that I hope I get to hang out with IRL some day, because right now this is actually me when I listen to BFB: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_017a68f1aa41a472dad96f95e9a14d19.html"/><div>This podcast was founded in February 2016m but I didn’t discover it until the following summer. The conversational aspect of the podcast really drew me in. I would listen to new episodes on my commute home and it felt like riding the bus with a couple of rad fat friends, you know? </div><div>KC is a fat, queer, poly, femme who brings a unique and interesting ministry aspect to the podcast. In one of my favourite episodes, KC leads listeners through a guided meditation for self care. Ariel is a ‘fat black bitch’ and I LOVE her explanation: “People generally don’t like it when you call yourself a fat black bitch, which is why I love to do it.” Ariel always sings in the episode introduction, which I adore! She takes songs and gives them a fat twist with re-invented lyrics. </div><div>Both KC and Ariel are interested in fashion, but they discuss sooo much more than that. BFB helped introduce me to the world of fat academic literature, which has completely changed my writing style. Forgive the mush fest, but I’m honestly just immensely grateful for these two. Even following them on Twitter has enriched my life. KC and Ariel, if you’re reading this, thank you so much for everything you do! </div><div>Favourite episode: Ughhh, there are so many that I love. I can’t pick a favourite, but I really enjoyed the latest - <a href="http://www.badfatbroads.com/blog/episode23">Episode 23 (AKA the WLS whisper song OR You could just shhhhh)</a></div><div><a href="http://www.badfatbroads.com">Website</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/badfatbroads">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/badfatbroads">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.patreon.com/badfatbroads">Donate</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a2263d3c8bac403a80e854078b12afbf~mv2.png"/><div>Every Body</div><div>“A new podcast counteracting the pervasive myths and misconceptions about </div><div>food, dieting and body image with hard science and engaging storytelling.”</div><div>Every Body is the most recent addition to my podcast lineup, but I’m already a huge (Hah! Get it, bc I’m fat?!) fan. It first aired in April 2017 and is hosted by Daria Matza. The episodes are about 25-40 minutes long (again, GREAT for that commute to work!) and each episode features an amazing guest with valuable insight into the world of fat politics. So far the guest list has included Claire Mysko, Michelle Lelwica, Virgie Tovar, Sandra Aamodt, Megan Crabbe, Evette Dionne, Jessamyn Stanley, and Susie Orbach. </div><div>This podcast is relatively new but it’s incredibly well done and I can’t wait to see who will be on </div><div>the show next! </div><div>Favourite episode(s): <div><a href="http://www.everybodypodcast.com/ep-03-lose-hate-not-weight-virgie-tovar-2/">Episode 3</a> with Virgie Tovar</div> and <a href="http://www.everybodypodcast.com/ep-08-fat-is-a-feminist-issue-susie-orbach/">episode 8 with Susie Orbach</a></div><div>I’m so into all the writing that Virgie Tovar does, so naturally I was thrilled when I saw she would be featured in episode 3. Her book Hot &amp; Heavy is currently in my Amazon wish list, but I’ve read LOADS of her work online. Susie Orbach is the author of renowned book Fat Is A Feminist Issue (also in my Amazon wish list) and almost every piece of fat academic literature I’ve read has referenced her work. I’m immensely inspired by these two, and by Daria as well. </div><div><a href="http://www.everybodypodcast.com">Website</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/everybodypodcast/">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/everybodydoc">Twitter</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_502bc359ebd34c949709826877f873c8~mv2_d_2000_2000_s_2.jpg"/><div>The Fat Lip</div><div>“A podcast for and about fat people.&quot;</div><div>The Fat Lip is hosted by Ash and was founded in April 2016. One of my favourite things about this podcast is the timely response to current fat issues in popular culture. For example, Ash responds to This American Life’s ‘Tell Me I’m Fat’ in episode 4, she breaks down the problematic fat tropes of This Is Us in episode 12, and discusses Ashley Nell Tipton’s weight loss surgery in episode 20 (more on that one later). </div><div>As a fellow fat white woman, I really appreciate how Ash discusses fatphobia as it intersects with other forms of oppression (racism, classism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, etc.). It’s important for those of us who experience certain privileges to help educate our peers, and I think Ash is amazing in that respect. </div><div>Favourite episode: <a href="http://thefatlip.com/transcripts/transcript-episode-20-weight-loss-surgery-isnt-selling-justifying-fat-shaming/">Episode 20 - Weight loss surgery isn’t selling out, but justifying it by fat shaming is</a></div><div>If you read my recent post about weight loss surgery (http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/Ashley-Nell-Tipton-does-not-exist-in-a-vacuum) then you may remember me referring to this episode of The Fat Lip. There are so many nuggets of truth in this episode, and I’m so grateful that this episode was produced. </div><div><a href="http://thefatlip.com">Website</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/thefatlippodcast/">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://twitter.com/fatlippodcast">Twitter</a> | <a href="https://www.patreon.com/thefatlip">Donate</a></div><div>Indie content is SO important, and I’m a firm believer in supporting local creators and artists whenever possible. I’m grateful that I’m now in a place where I can support Bad Fat Broads on a monthly basis and The Fat Lip on a per episode basis (Every Body is fully funded at the moment, hooray!). Both BFB and The Fat Lip have awesome incentives for different donation thresholds, and every little bit helps! If you listen to the podcasts and they help you in any way, I highly encourage you to get involved! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Blue By The Beach: VBxTarget on the Promenade</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a blue striped Victoria Beckham for Target dress in this style post.This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. I promised my second Victoria Beckham for Target look would be up soon, and here it is! Lianne and I shot this look after<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2519c53368aa4858927f15d268fb3ae4%7Emv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_2519c53368aa4858927f15d268fb3ae4%7Emv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/27/Blue-By-The-Beach</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/27/Blue-By-The-Beach</guid><pubDate>Sun, 28 May 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a blue striped Victoria Beckham for Target dress in this style post.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2519c53368aa4858927f15d268fb3ae4~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. If you follow these links and choose to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation from the affiliate site at no extra cost to you. For more information please visit the policy page. </div><div>I promised my second Victoria Beckham for Target look would be up soon, and here it is! Lianne and I shot this look after shooting the <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/15/Millennial-Pink-A-VBxTarget-Casual-Cosplay">Millennial Pink</a> photos. Aaaaaand after picking up some treats at <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2015/07/27/WOMAN-ABOUT-TOWN-TWELVE-TRIANGLES">Twelve Triangles</a> who now have a location in Portobello! We had to find somewhere for me to change clothes, right? It may as well be somewhere with delicious donuts! And coffees…and pies…ooft. </div><div>My mum sent both this and the pink VBxTarget dress from the states, and I couldn’t wait for them to arrive. I assumed that the pink dress would be my favourite because duh, it’s PINK! But I was entirely incorrect. This blue one is actually the one I prefer out of the two! It’s 100% cotton which is perfect for summer. How chic is the structure?! The sleeves are gorgeous. The cut is one I’ve NEVER seen in plus size clothing. I’m just totally enamoured. </div><div>This dress is a 2X, which fits me superbly at size 24 (with a 40GG bust). The concealed button closure didn’t even require reinforcement with a small army of safety pins, which is unusual for me! I can se myself wearing this dress a LOT over the summer. I can’t wait to try more easy breezy styles this summer. </div><div>It would appear that using food and/or drinks as props is working for me, so that’s fun haha! Eating in front of people used to be (and occasionally still is) a huge source of anxiety for me, and being photographed while eating has been a really liberating experience! You can actually see me <a href="https://www.bustle.com/p/15-fat-babes-share-their-favorite-rules-to-break-because-wearing-horizontal-stripes-can-get-boring-56590">on Bustle</a> stuffing my gob with some delicious carrot cake! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a8fb22f291a94862b25a2c3a3fba09ae~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dc2144c1f570451a8587f92a83fda151~mv2_d_2867_4300_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_df07a30cdba341d68558d740b20dc4c6~mv2_d_2867_4300_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d1137b721b214154b5a344b65051c084~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_ce93a32c943843029ec0166371c156a9~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_715b17b0ecc349638d0e01e4b9165549~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d3662e2256dc4047a84ac32b2e0c731c~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_9d4d77f3654f43b089f61472a1edd757~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_61c776e5bc7e49229bfc53f1f8414338~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look:</div><div>Dress: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/ECg">VBxTarget</a>, size 2X </div><div>Boots: Old New Look. Similar below</div><div>Sunnies: Vintage. Similar below</div><div>Hat: Old H&amp;M. Similar below</div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/ECh">Shop the VBxTarget Plus Size Collection</a></div><div>Photos by: <a href="http://lmackayphotography.com">Lianne Mackay: Edinburgh Wedding and Portrait Photographer</a></div><div>Shot on location at: <a href="https://www.visitscotland.com/info/towns-villages/portobello-beach-p730811">Portobello Beach and Promenade</a></div><div>Shop similar pieces:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_0d9013e9d46649dc866af3d2a5bd4c1f.html"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Weight Loss Surgery: Ashley Nell Tipton Does Not Exist In A Vacuum</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses the complexities of Ashley Nell Tipton’s recent weight loss surgery announcement.CW: This post discusses weight loss, diet culture, and weight loss surgery (WLS). Another day another disappearing woman act, huh? A quick Google search for Mama June, Gabourey Sidibe, and Ashley Nell Tipton endorses what fat women already know to be true: weight loss is viewed as a far greater accomplishment than any award, starring TV<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_0d20833c0b974cccb732cc1d3d1f97f2%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_0d20833c0b974cccb732cc1d3d1f97f2%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/Ashley-Nell-Tipton-does-not-exist-in-a-vacuum</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/Ashley-Nell-Tipton-does-not-exist-in-a-vacuum</guid><pubDate>Fri, 26 May 2017 13:22:49 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses the complexities of Ashley Nell Tipton’s recent weight loss surgery announcement.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_0d20833c0b974cccb732cc1d3d1f97f2~mv2.jpg"/><div>CW: This post discusses weight loss, diet culture, and weight loss surgery (WLS). </div><div>Another day another disappearing woman act, huh? A quick Google search for Mama June, Gabourey Sidibe, and Ashley Nell Tipton endorses what fat women already know to be true: weight loss is viewed as a far greater accomplishment than any award, starring TV role, or career milestone we could ever achieve. </div><div>First and foremost I believe that each and every single person has the right to bodily autonomy (the right to self governance over one’s own body without external influence or coercion). I would not and do not expect anybody to make a decision about their body based on my thoughts, opinions, or feelings. </div><div>As a fat woman I understand all too well why Ashley would come to this decision. When I was younger (and before I un-learned all the deeply rooted fat hatred I had absorbed), I would have leapt at the opportunity to undergo WLS. Virgie Tovar (2017a) explains this perfectly when she says, “We all know fat people are treated like total shit in our culture, and obviously this is further complicated by where you are on the weight stigma spectrum and whether you are a person with multiple marginalised identities.” </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c82fe93d3f1c19212b6ef77223d3e2e4.html"/><div>I acknowledge that Ashley Nell Tipton is (was?) a superfat woman of colour. On top of that, she is a public figure who starred in a massively popular reality television series. As a non-famous white woman who falls just below what is usually classified as superfat, I realise that I am speaking from a position of privilege. </div><div>What I want to examine in this post is the culture that labels fat as bad, pressures people to undergo incredibly risky WLS, and applauds any form of weight loss (whether intentional or unintentional) by default. I want to be perfectly clear that this is not an attack on Ashley for deciding to undergo WLS. This merely is an analysis of the social context influencing her decision, and the statements she has made both pre and post WLS. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_487c74cf9d3a3a1ff0fc3c079ba236e7.html"/><div>Doctors don’t necessarily have fat people’s best interests at heart </div><div>A key component in bodily autonomy is informed consent. People who are considering WLS will seek advice from their doctor or therapist in an attempt to become more informed, and then make a decision about what’s best for their body. As I discussed in a previous post, <a href="http://ow.ly/cMUS30c3WPq">medical professionals often have severe anti-fat bias</a>. </div><div>In a study of 400 doctors: </div><div>1 out of 3 listed obesity as a condition to which they respond negatively. The only conditions viewed more negatively were drug addiction, alcoholism, and mental illness. </div><div>Doctors viewed obese patients as lazy, hostile, unhygienic, lacking in self-control, non-compliant, unintelligent, weak-willed, and dishonest (NAAFA, 2017)</div><div>The nurses surveyed were just as biased: </div><div>31% said they would prefer not to care for obese patients</div><div>24% said that obese patients “repulsed them”</div><div>12% said they would prefer not to touch obese patients (NAAFA, 2017)</div><div>Can somebody please explain how I’m supposed to make an informed decision when doctors have decided that I’m unintelligent and dishonest just by looking at me? How am I supposed to trust people who are so repulsed by my body that they would prefer not to touch me even in a clinical, medical, 100% non-sexual context? </div><div>NHS Choices (2017) lists several serious risks of complications related to WLS including blood clots, wound infections, the gastric band slipping out of place (?!), leaks in the gut, blocked gut, malnutrition (!!!!!), gallstones, and death. It absolutely blows my mind that doctors are so keen to suggest WLS in spite of these terrifying risks. But you know, anything’s better than being fat, right?</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_356b9b316fd1d0a5dbeb4d1dc1d4b6df.html"/><div>Why the sudden back-tracking and flip-flopping? </div><div>One thing I have always loved about Ashley is the way she doesn’t shy away from the word ‘fat.’ Reclaiming this word that has been used to invoke pain in the past is a powerful thing for many fat people, but we don’t usually see famous fatties embracing the term. Ash from The Fat Lip (2017) points out “She had her breakout moments on Project Runway by talking about fat empowerment and self love. She had the support of the fat positive community. She built her business by using fat positive language.”</div><div>In an interview for Wear Your Voice Ashley discussed the fat activist community in San Diego. She talked about how important this form of activism has been in her personal life, and she encouraged people saying: </div><div>“Enjoy the life you have in your body. If you’re not enjoying it, then do something to change. You don’t have to change your body. You can change the energy you have about your body.” (as quoted in Tovar, 2017b) </div><div>Yes! Awesome! 100% agree. We’re on the same page. Based on the show, interviews, etc. I think Ashley’s fans could tell she was happy and confident in her pre WLS body. This likely inspired some to be happy and confident themselves. </div><div>Now, fast forward to the interview with People about her WLS. </div><div>“I felt trapped in my body.”</div><div>“I’m not telling anyone to get this surgery, I’m just telling you to love yourself enough to know what’s best for you and your health.”</div><div>“This next challenge was going to be an intense, life-changing experience that you do because you love yourself and you love your life, and you want to continue living. I knew that I loved myself enough to get help to make myself feel better.” (as quoted in Olya, 2017)</div><div>Because these interviews were only a few months apart, a lot of her fans feel confused and betrayed by the sudden change of tune. “She said she had loved her body all along. It’s just hard to hear that someone we saw as an icon for our movement didn’t actually believe in it. Was she just lying the whole time? Is she rewriting history to fit her current narrative? Because it sounds a lot like she’s trying to justify her decision to have surgery the rest of the world.” (The Fat Lip, 2017). </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_ab201f29e2abca58293c3f4c4e523d68.html"/><div>“Right to autonomy and right to uncritical praise (for making a private choice public) are not the same damn thing so can we stop with this nonsense.” - Ariel Woodson </div><div>The editor in chief of Ravishly is just outraged that people are having anything but positive reactions to Ashley’s WLS announcement. She says, “Fat activism is one of the few branches of social justice in which fellow activists seem to feel entitled to comment, degrade, harass, and otherwise police the bodies of their peers” (Edelman, 2017). Yeah, no. I’m gonna call BS on that. Fat activism is (shockingly) made up of mostly fat people who are daily degraded, harassed, and have their bodies commented on and policed by peers. Pointing out the complexities of these issues does not make us darned fat activists &quot;haters.&quot; </div><div>“Is it so shocking that a fat person might not want to remain fat?” (Edelman, 2017). No. It Isn’t. Fat people are expected to be actively pursuing the thin ideal, or else. Fat people are <a href="http://ow.ly/IYNA30c45c1">expected to take up less space</a>, literally and figuratively. Fat people experience social exclusion, harassment, and public ridicule every single day (Ali et al, 2013). </div><div>Is it really brave to take steps to eliminate oneself from a severely marginalised group (aka to opt out of being fat)? I would argue that it isn’t. In my opinion this is one way to perform “good fatty” which I’ll be dedicating an entire blog post to very soon. </div><div>Whether Ashley wants it to or not, the press coverage of her WLS will affect her plus size fans. People will naturally have thoughts, feelings, and critiques about this private decision which has been made extremely public. “Because we don’t all live in isolated cabins in the depths of impenetrable forests, our words and actions affect others. While we may feel empowered by our decisions to further conform to societal expectations of feminine appearance, in the grand scheme of things, we end up reinforcing those expectations, which in turn affect others” (Bouris, 2017). </div><div>I want to conclude this post with one last quote from Ariel, because I absolutely agree with her:</div><div>“My belief in bodily autonomy suggests that yes, you can do whatever you want with your body. My belief in fat acceptance suggests that I want the playing field to be level for all bodies to be treated equally regardless of what choice they make” (Woodson, 2017). </div><div>Recommended reading: '<a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/259202017_%27I%27m_totally_smart_and_a_feministand_yet_I_want_to_be_a_waif%27_Exploring_ambivalence_towards_the_thin_ideal_within_the_fat_acceptance_movement">I'm totally smart and a feminist...and yet I want to be a waif' : Exploring ambivalence towards the thin ideal within the fat acceptance movement</a></div><div>References</div><div>ALI, M. M., RIZZO, J. A., and HEILAND, F. W., 2013. Big and beautiful? Evidence of racial differences in the perceived attractiveness of obese females. Journal of Adolescence. vol. 36, pp. 539-549.</div><div>BOURIS, C., 2017. <a href="https://overland.org.au/2017/05/against-choice-feminism/">Against Choice Feminism</a>. Overland [online].</div><div>EDELMAN, J., 2017. <a href="http://www.ravishly.com/Why-are-people-mad-that-Ashley-Nell-Tipton-had-gastric-bypass">Ashley Nell Tipton deserves the right to body autonomy</a>. Ravishly [online]. </div><div>NAAFA, 2017. <a href="https://www.naafaonline.com/dev2/the_issues/health.html">Healthcare Discrimination</a>. NAAFA [online].</div><div>NHS CHOICES, 2017. <a href="http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/weight-loss-surgery/Pages/risks.aspx">Risks of weight loss surgery</a>. NHS Choices [online]. </div><div>OLYA, G., 2017. <a href="http://people.com/bodies/ashley-nell-tipton-gastric-bypass-surgery/">Project Runway winner Ashley Nell Tipton reveals she had gastric bypass surgery last month</a>. People [online]. </div><div>THE FAT LIP, 2017. <a href="http://thefatlip.com/transcripts/transcript-episode-20-weight-loss-surgery-isnt-selling-justifying-fat-shaming/">Transcript: Episode 20 - weight loss surgery isn’t selling out but justifying it by fat shaming is</a>. The Fat Lip [online].</div><div>TOVAR, V., 2017a. <a href="https://wearyourvoicemag.com/dear-virgie/dear-virgie-ashley-nell-tiptons-weight-loss-surgery-wtf">Dear Virgie: Ashley Nell Tipton’s weight loss surgery - wtf?</a>Wear Your Voice [online].</div><div>TOVAR, V., 2017b. Plus-size designer Ashley Nell Tipton: <a href="https://wearyourvoicemag.com/more/fashion/ashley-nell-tipton-interview">“Fucking enjoy the life that you have right now.</a>” Wear Your Voice [online]. </div><div>WOODSON, A., 2017. <a href="https://medium.com/@kiddotrue/why-wont-those-pesky-fat-activists-shut-up-and-let-me-enjoy-my-exciting-and-fun-weight-loss-hero-606423ec1070">Why won’t those pesky fat activists shut up and let me enjoy my exciting and fun weight loss hero story in peace?</a>Medium [online]. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Statement Sleeves with Manon Baptiste at navabi</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a stunning statement sleeve dress in this style post brought to you by navabi.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit our policy page.It's no secret that I LOVE Lana Del Rey. I mean, I have a huge poster of her hanging in my hallway! Sure, I'm a fan of her music. But<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a97b21263cc043d68ea7ff5d1528a377%7Emv2_d_3648_2432_s_4_2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_a97b21263cc043d68ea7ff5d1528a377%7Emv2_d_3648_2432_s_4_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/24/Statement-Sleeves-with-Manon-Baptiste-at-navabi</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/24/Statement-Sleeves-with-Manon-Baptiste-at-navabi</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 May 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a stunning statement sleeve dress in this style post brought to you by navabi.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_a97b21263cc043d68ea7ff5d1528a377~mv2_d_3648_2432_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit our policy page.</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_41c2dc83f3aa455845f987ee4b9e478e.html"/><div>It's no secret that I LOVE Lana Del Rey. I mean, I have a huge poster of her hanging in my hallway! Sure, I'm a fan of her music. But honestly? I'm a bigger fan of the whole package. Lana has an airy vibe about her. She just floats! When I put on this dress I instantly embody all of my favourite things about her, and I feel like I can conquer the world. For me, that is Manon Baptiste's super power. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dd48b7c804f94e5bb5e9332f9093c9dc~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_eafbea5710b34cdca3e702015b59ae54~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_544d8a2695584bd7b80c7efa85f298d2~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Come on, don't I look like I'm off to mourn my sugar daddy's sudden but oh-so-tragic passing? Classic Lana Del Rey behaviour. I was torn, because at first this outfit felt a little bare. There's no jacket (do you see the sleeves? I'm not going to crinkle those up inside a jacket!) and no necklace, but I think the shoe/hat/sunnies/earrings situation complements the dress beautifully. When a dress is so elegant and carefree it doesn't need much to frame it. It speaks for itself, and that's definitely the case with this dress. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_361aea8254f34fc09d29f5eb6c7716e0~mv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e77bf6226e624c63ad64e285293a6b63~mv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_ce25dbfe9f3c4d8fbd34148cd519ce06~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_91908502ea9e4432af5c5326d075b10f~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Size wise, I believe this dress is spot-on. I'm pictured wearing a 24 and it fits beautifully. There's the slightest bit of VBO which I didn't expect from this silhouette, but it doesn't bother me in the slightest. The fabric is a ponte jersey blend (with a polyester lining) that is both breathable slightly and stretchy. As you can see it hits me JUST below the knee, which I wasn't a fan of at first. However, when paired with heels I think this actually creates a chic, elegant look that's a bit different for me and I love it! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_24a3dec9526c4de2a465d522229e3553~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_93b6187c8aa1469198146166b811dad4~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7c050f81db62448a9dcf88b39e74ba08~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This is my first time working with navabi and it has been an absolute dream! I'm a huge fan of their clothes, social media campaigns, and their constant support of both fat customers and fat influencers which Nancy of Sugar, Darling? wrote about beautifully in this <a href="http://www.sugar-darling.com/2017/04/kaleidoscope.html">Kaleidoscope blog post</a>. I truly hope this will be the beginning of a beautiful working relationship between AmandaApparel and navabi. </div><div>Shop the look: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_7d77b057af4daaa6a0ff0aa9f1f8171d.html"/><div>Platform Sandals | Size 8EEE | <a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/sole-diva-block-heel-sandals-extra-wide-eee-fit/no931/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=5205#colour:Flower%20Print,size:">Simply Be</a></div><div>Hat | Vintage | Similar at <a href="http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/accessories/black-wool-floppy-hat_334575501">New Look</a></div><div>Sunnies | Vintage | Similar at <a href="http://www.topshop.com/en/tsuk/product/bags-accessories-1702216/sunglasses-468/lopez-flat-lens-round-sunglasses-6528997?bi=0&amp;ps=20">Topshop</a></div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with navabi. Click to shop the <a href="https://www.navabi.co.uk/designer/manon-baptiste/?sort=new">Manon Baptiste collection</a>. All opinions expressed are genuine and are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit our policy page.</div><div>Photography by Lianne Mackay: Edinburgh Wedding Photographer</div><div>Previous Post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/23/Fat-Positivity-101">Fat Positivity 101</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Fat Positivity 101</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel provides a brief history of the fat positive movement, addresses some criticisms, and discusses the difference between fat positivity and body positivity.This post is intended to be an introductory course to fat activism/ fat liberation/ fat acceptance/ fat positivity. It is by no means an exhaustive history of the cause. It’s simply a starting point for those who are new to the movement, have no idea what fat positivity is,<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2e17cefbf78c495d9f9bfba6ffdac951%7Emv2.jpg/v1/fill/w_626%2Ch_417/5a3ab3_2e17cefbf78c495d9f9bfba6ffdac951%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/23/Fat-Positivity-101</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/23/Fat-Positivity-101</guid><pubDate>Tue, 23 May 2017 21:49:35 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel provides a brief history of the fat positive movement, addresses some criticisms, and discusses the difference between fat positivity and body positivity.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2e17cefbf78c495d9f9bfba6ffdac951~mv2.jpg"/><div>This post is intended to be an introductory course to fat activism/ fat liberation/ fat acceptance/ fat positivity. It is by no means an exhaustive history of the cause. It’s simply a starting point for those who are new to the movement, have no idea what fat positivity is, why it exists, or what modern fat activism looks like. </div><div>A very brief history of the fat positive movement</div><div>*Info-mercial voice* If you like body positivity, then you’re going to LOVE fat positivity!*</div><div>The fat acceptance movement first emerged in reaction to the popularity of anti-fat discourse and the medicalisation of obesity that began in the United States and Canada in the 1950s (Afful and Ricciardelli, 2015). Early fat activism ideologically aligned with other social justice movements, such as the African-American civil rights, gay liberation, and feminist movements (Afful and Ricciardelli, 2015). Early fat positivity was INCREDIBLY intersectional (meaning individuals participating were part of multiple minority groups, such as fat black people, fat queer women, fat disabled people, etc.) which we don’t really see much these days. More on that later. </div><div>The movement inspired the creation of several fat positive organisations like the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance (NAAFA) which was founded in New York City in 1969 (Fletcher, 2009). The NAAFA is still active today and is constantly working to eliminate the very real ways that fat people experience discrimination. Their policies address anti-fat discrimination in adoption and child custody, the diet industry, education, employment, healthcare, the media, research, and size related legislation (NAAFA, 2017). Some key policies NAAFA advocates include:</div><div>“That television, internet, social media and print media discontinue the use of “headless fatties” which de‐humanizes fat people, making them targets for increased discrimination. No part of a person’s body should be photographed without their permission.”</div><div>“That state and federal regulatory agencies adopt regulations and closely monitor and control all aspects of the $59 billion+ diet industry.”</div><div>“That [thin] allies actively support fat rights and publicly object to the mistreatment of fat people.”</div><div>“That obesity researchers reveal all sources of current and previous research funding and affiliations with the weight loss and pharmaceutical industries when publishing or presenting their research.”</div><div>Criticism</div><div>Unsurprisingly, the fat positive movement has received loads of criticism. “Critics say NAAFA, which opposes dieting and weight-loss surgery, is an apologist for an unhealthy lifestyle. But NAAFA says it does no such thing, that some people are just bigger and no less deserving of the same rights as everyone else” (Fletcher, 2009). There is an article currently making the rounds titled Body Positivity Is Killing Women, which I don’t recommend reading (it’s garbage) but if you really want to find it you can search for it. This article, like most criticism of the movement falls under the umbrella of concern trolling. Everyday Feminism defines concern trolling as “the act of a person participating in a debate posing as an actual or potential ally who simply has concerns they need answered before they will ally themselves with a cause” (Fabello and Bacon, 2016). This often manifests in statements **ahem**comments on my Instagram photos** like: </div><div>“I’m all for loving yourself but this glorifies an unhealthy lifestyle.” </div><div>“Obesity kills, and you’re gonna die if you don’t lose weight.” </div><div>“But what about your health? Aren’t you concerned about diabetes?” </div><div>I could break down why each of these concerns are irrelevant, but thankfully Melissa A. Fabello and Linda Bacon already did! You can read their article on <a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/concern-trolling-is-bullshit/">Everyday Feminism</a>.</div><div>Body Positivity vs Fat Positivity</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_b82b55560a848f7eb8fd059e82711581.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_dcdde5fcc90c9c95fc619da321e23cc4.html"/><div>These days you can’t browse social media for 5 minutes without seeing another brand claiming to be #BodyPosi, or another plus size model being heralded as a shining light of BoPo. There are two major problems here. 1) These brands are often not size inclusive. They’ll go to a size 16, even a 26 and claim to cater to all bodies, when in reality they exclude a great amount of people. Even if they did cater to all bodies, these brands are using a social justice movement to sell products. Like??? Major red flag. 2) These plus size models mostly fit a very specific mold. Light skin, ultra feminine, hourglass shape, rock hard abs, etc. Body positivity simply shifts the “ideal” female body from the thin, Twiggy shape to a curvy, Monroe shape. </div><div>This is where a lack of intersectionality is a major issue. Take plus size models/“body positive pioneers” like Iskra Lawrence and Ashley Graham for example. They’re both conventionally attractive and are a socially acceptable weight which most people would refer to as curvy rather than fat. Are they gorgeous? Duh. Have they inspired people? Totally. But the thing is, they can only really inspire people UP TO their size, skin tone, body shape, etc. Is a dark skinned black woman with belly rolls and a double chin going to be inspired by these women? Probably not. Is a superfat disabled woman going to feel represented by them? I doubt it. </div><div>Ariel Woodson of <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/bad-fat-broads/id1091149314?mt=2">Bad Fat Broads</a> says that body positivity is basically the same as #allbodiesmatter and I could NOT agree more. She says, “I generally don't identify as a 'body positive' individual because I think the term in its current iteration actively excludes fat people and other marginalized bodies” (As quoted in Dalessandro, 2016). </div><div>Bethany Rutter of <a href="http://archedeyebrow.com">Arched Eyebrow</a> elaborates on Woodson’s thoughts saying “&quot;Body positivity has been co-opted so comprehensively as to have become meaningless. Since not all bodies are discriminated against, and there are specific characteristics that mean some most definitely are, it stands to reason that a term as generic as 'body positivity' does not work. It's frankly offensive to pretend that thin bodies are treated as badly as fat ones, or white bodies treated as badly as black bodies, and yet that's where body positivity leaves us: Erasing the genuine, tangible, meaningful difference between bodies” (As quoted in Ospina, 2016). The term has become so diluted that claiming body positivity is “the easiest way for corporations to sell stuff to women, and the easiest label for influencers to claim in the search of moral kudos” (Rutter, 2017). </div><div>Personally, I prefer to use the terms fat positivity and fat activism. I consider myself a fat positive blogger. My body doesn't fit the &quot;bopo&quot; mold, and that's okay! I've embraced the word fat, and I love using it to challenge beauty/health/societal norms and standards. Call it what you want, but we have a still have a long way to go. </div><div>So, you want to learn more? </div><div>More here at AmandaApparel:</div><div><a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/28/10-Outrageous-Reasons-Doctors-Have-Told-Fat-Women-to-Lose-Weight">10 Outrageous Reasons Doctors Have Told Fat Women to Lose Weight</a></div><div><a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/03/The-2017-Met-Gala-Unflattering-Silhouettes-and-Taking-Up-Space">The 2017 Met Gala: Unflattering Silhouettes and Taking Up Space</a></div><div><a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing">Regarding Dr. Lush: Using Fatphobia in Marketing</a></div><div><a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/08/22/Lets-Get-Personal-Everyday-Fatphobia">Fatphobia On The Bus</a></div><div>Articles: </div><div>Your Fat Friend for <a href="https://medium.com/@thefatshadow/">Medium</a></div><div>Marie Southard Ospina for <a href="https://www.bustle.com/authors/marie-southard-ospina-112">Bustle</a></div><div>Evette Dionne for <a href="http://www.revelist.com/user/EvetteDionne">Revelist</a></div><div>Alysse Dalessandro for <a href="https://www.bustle.com/authors/alysse-dalessandro-885">Bustle</a></div><div>Twitter accounts: </div><div><a href="http://www.twitter.com/yrfatfriend">@yrfatfriend</a></div><div><a href="http://www.twitter.com/nerdabouttown">@nerdabouttown</a></div><div><a href="http://www.twitter.com/mellymeep">@mellymeep</a></div><div><a href="http://www.twitter.com/bethanyrutter">@bethanyrutter</a></div><div><a href="http://www.twitter.com/applewriter">@applewriter</a></div><div>Podcasts: </div><div><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/gb/podcast/bad-fat-broads/id1091149314?mt=2">Bad Fat Broads</a></div><div><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/every-body/id1210177865?mt=2">Every Body</a></div><div><a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-fat-lip/id1107498406?mt=2">The Fat Lip</a></div><div>Books: </div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Fat-Activism-Radical-Social-Movement/dp/1910849006/ref=pd_cart_bxgy_1_1?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=FJZCM1A2T70T78CZ6KDV">Fat Activism: A Radical Social Movement</a></div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/d/Books/Fat-Shame-Stigma-Body-American-Culture/0814727697/ref=pd_cart_bxgy_1_2?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=FJZCM1A2T70T78CZ6KDV">Fat Shame: Stigma and the Fat Body in American Culture</a></div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Fat-Studies-Reader-Esther-Rothblum/dp/0814776310/ref=pd_sim_14_1?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=GRC8R2NGSN33W9B9JXCM">The Fat Studies Reader</a></div><div>Previous Post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/17/Skin-Deep-Beauty-Loving-Your-Body-with-Skin-Imperfections">Skin Deep Beauty: Loving Your Body With Skin 'Imperfections'</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_fb084f3033754e729ff53bb587995bd9~mv2.png"/><div>References</div><div>AFFUL, A. A., and RICCIARDELLI, R., 2015. <a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/09589236.2015.1028523?journalCode=cjgs20">Shaping the online fat acceptance movement: talking about body image and beauty standards</a>. Journal of Gender Studies. vol. 24, no. 4. </div><div>DALESSANDRO, A., 2016. 15 <a href="https://www.bustle.com/articles/165804-15-definitions-of-body-positivity-straight-from-influencers-activists">Definitions of body positivity straight from influencers and activists</a>. Bustle [online]. </div><div>DIONNE, E., 2017. <a href="http://www.revelist.com/ideas/fat-acceptance-body-positivity/6632">Fat acceptance activists explain why body positivity is becoming meaningless</a>. Revelist [online]. </div><div>FABELLO, M. A., and BACON, L., 2016. <a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/concern-trolling-is-bullshit/">11 reasons your phony ‘concern’ for fat people’s health has got to stop</a>. Everyday Feminism [online]. </div><div>FLETCHER, D., 2009. <a href="http://content.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1913858,00.html">Brief history of the fat-acceptance movement</a>. Time [online]. </div><div>NAAFA, 2017. <a href="https://www.naafaonline.com/dev2/about/docs.html">Official policies</a> [online]. </div><div>OSPINA, M. S., 2016. <a href="https://www.bustle.com/articles/170978-11-influencers-discuss-the-differences-between-body-positivity-fat-acceptance">11 influencers discuss the differences between body positivity &amp; fat acceptance</a>. Bustle [online]. </div><div> RUTTER, B., 2017. <a href="http://www.dazeddigital.com/artsandculture/article/35746/1/how-body-positivity-lost-its-true-and-radical-meaning">How ‘body positivity’ lost its true and radical meaning</a>. Dazed [online]. </div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Skin Deep Beauty: Loving Your Body with Skin 'Imperfections'</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses her experience with self love and psoriasis, and shares stories from others with similar skin conditions. When it comes to loving your body, some things come easier than others. For me, it’s easy to love my eyes, and my hair, and my bum. My arms and my stomach on the other hand, that takes some work. Right now, I’m working and learning to love my psoriasis covered skin. Taking photos of my fat body helped me learn<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dcfe991f575c41608e8ebe0e49209933%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/17/Skin-Deep-Beauty-Loving-Your-Body-with-Skin-Imperfections</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/17/Skin-Deep-Beauty-Loving-Your-Body-with-Skin-Imperfections</guid><pubDate>Wed, 17 May 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses her experience with self love and psoriasis, and shares stories from others with similar skin conditions. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_dcfe991f575c41608e8ebe0e49209933~mv2.jpg"/><div>When it comes to loving your body, some things come easier than others. For me, it’s easy to love my eyes, and my hair, and my bum. My arms and my stomach on the other hand, that takes some work. Right now, I’m working and learning to love my psoriasis covered skin. Taking photos of my fat body helped me learn to love every roll, curve, lump, and bump, so I thought I’d try the same with my skin. I document my before and after makeup selfies <a href="http://www.twitter.com/amandaapparel">on twitter</a> and tag them with #PsoriasisLife. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_3df691916731c1cc109a3068b20c4ca0.html"/><div>Skin’s a funny thing, isn’t it? We learn from a young age that our skin should be smooth, poorless, evenly coloured, and “perfect” in every other conceivable way. Thanks to YouTube tutorials, amazing cosmetics, Instagram filters, and apps like Facetune, it’s easier than ever to hide the truth. The truth is, I have psoriasis. It’s red and itchy and flaky and sometimes it embarrasses me. But body love means loving my whole body, unconditionally. Psoriasis and all. I asked other babes with various skin “imperfections” about their experience, and this is what they had to say. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_662cf393af217129cbc82a52d880102b.html"/><div>Skin conditions can make people feel disgusting, or less than</div><div>“Now, I feel like it looks disgusting sometimes. It's my own fault for scratching &amp; making it worse but it doesn't make me feel great” - Helen, eczema </div><div>“It’s embarrassing. Wearing strappy tops, strapless, or swimwear always would make me self conscious... a bit uncomfortable. No matter the body wash, intake of water, or treatments, I cannot shake it. I feel shamed…” - Marie, acne</div><div>“I had always been unhappy with how I looked but felt like my skin was one of the few things that were okay and all of a sudden that seemed repulsive to me too.” - Beth, pityriasis</div><div>“When my face flares up, it feels swollen and hot and embarrassing - I don't want anybody to see me.” - Sophie, unknown condition </div><div>“[I felt] like I was an actual snake, I felt disgusting.” - Tracie, psoriasis</div><div>“To be honest, I felt utterly disgusting. People would stare at me in the street and make comments. My skin would constantly weep and peel, and occasionally get infected. My face was bright red a lot of the time and I had a patch of eczema beneath my nose that never shifted, and would get worse if I was hot, sweaty, embarrassed or nervous. The dry skin on my forehead and neck flaked continuously and made me look like I had terrible dandruff.” - Kate, eczema and hidradenitis suppurativa </div><div>“I felt like I was disgusting and, I realise now, I felt depressed. I was at secondary school and I already stood out because I was very tall and I have naturally curly hair. I suspect you can imagine how teenage girls and boys behave towards a girl who stands out in that way, school was an awful time for me.” - Jude, acne</div><div>“My beautiful best friend had flawless skin and I remember constantly comparing myself to her. I felt dirty and greasy and just plain hideous.” - Robyn, acne and scarring</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_8e1feeb5bc96db0b23fbe55c62c2b921.html"/><div>Concealing “problem areas” tends to be a primary goal</div><div>“I have never ever posted a photo without makeup or if you can see my acne or textured skin . I also will scribble my face out if I post a picture with a friend.“ Joy, eczema and cystic acne</div><div>“If I am having a face flare up I can't use make up, so I don't post photos. I do avoid having my hands in photos too.” - Sophie, unknown condition</div><div>“[I hide] face with makeup and all visible scarring in my legs covered with stockings. I am challenging myself against this thinking, but yet I find it kind of horrifying.” - Pauliina, eczema &amp; acne</div><div>“I would never let anyone photograph me when my rosacea flares up.” - Madeline, eczema and rosacea</div><div>“When it's very bad, it does diminish my confidence...I try to cover it up a lot.” - Claudia, acne</div><div>“Yes. I never post photos without makeup so if I do get a rash. I stay off social media like Instagram until it's gone.” - Hayley, allergy rashes</div><div>“I can't remember the last time I wore a sleeveless top without a jacket or cardigan over the top of it to cover my arms/armpits because of the fear of those scars showing, and someone drawing attention to them.” - Emilia, sores and scars</div><div>“I try to cover it up if possible. If it's in a place where I can't conceal it I try not to leave the house, and if I have to I feel like I should apologise for it.” - Mia, eczema and pityriasis </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_7171df26c3469058046039065fe7e9e5.html"/><div>Self love and the body positive movements excludes skin conditions, but how do we change that?</div><div>“People talking about the way bodies are imperfect, normalising differences in skin appearance. Less of an obsession with skin care as a moral obligation, I can't use most lotions and potions cos they'll give me a flare up so I just stick to the same products.” - Mel, sebhorric dermatitis </div><div>“People could perhaps do videos or tutorials explaining how they combine skincare with beauty. That would be cool to see.” - Hannah, eczema </div><div>“Skin conditions being seen casually, not included as something as a big deal.” - Helen, eczema </div><div>“More inclusivity and adding of conditions in articles/blog posts etc.” - Fiona, eczema</div><div>“Showing people with skin issues would be a good start.” - Iy, self harm scars</div><div>“Feature models with skin conditions! Eczema is really hard to cope with but understanding that it doesn't make you ugly is so important.” - Lucy, eczema </div><div>“Rather than only sharing skin stories that are aspirational stories or recovery stories, I'd love to see more 'right now' stories, and people sharing what they are currently affected by without any editing.” - Kitty, eczema</div><div>“I believe that in order to celebrate body positivity correctly we need to celebrate the things that can't be changed, which includes skin conditions. People shouldn't have to cover up and feel embarrassed by something they didn't ask for.” - Madison, hidradenitis suppurativa</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_4765e04a70aedc207cf217a627916945.html"/><div>Doing my part</div><div>Like I mentioned before, I’ve been relatively open about sharing unedited photos of psoriasis on Twitter. I used to be VERY adamant about editing my psoriasis patches out in blog photos, especially if it was for a lingerie shoot. I’ve been moving away from editing out blemishes lately, but I’d like to take that further. From this moment on, I will never use Photoshop to edit out skin “imperfections.” I’ve added the following to my policy page: </div><div>“This blog uses photoshop to stylise and edit photos. However, the following will never be intentionally removed in editing: blemishes, psoriasis, stretch marks, cellulite, and scarring.” </div><div>I hope that this transparency will promote a culture of honesty within the community here at AmandaApparel! </div><div>Previous post: Millennial Pink: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/15/Millennial-Pink-A-VBxTarget-Casual-Cosplay">A VBxTarget Casual Cosplay</a></div><div>Special thanks to the following for sharing their stories:</div><div><a href="http://twitter.com/alexandraaewild">Alex</a><a href="http://twitter.com/alexandraaewild">•</a>Alice • Beth • <a href="http://biancakarina.com">Bianca</a><a href="http://biancakarina.com">•</a>Claudia • <a href="http://instagram.com/truefactliz">Elizabeth</a><a href="http://instagram.com/truefactliz">•</a><a href="http://instagram.com/emiliadaloia">Emilia</a> • <a href="http://twitter.com/wishhopedreams">Fiona</a> • <a href="http://instagram.com/bathelina">Hannah</a></div><div>• <a href="http://instagram.com/plushayley_">Hayley</a> • <a href="http://instagram.com/aitch_to_the_ee_to_the_ell">Helen</a> • <a href="https://twitter.com/pobbadist">Helen</a>• <a href="https://somethinginthewayshemoves.me">Iy</a> • Jen • <a href="http://www.instagram.com/itsjoyshipton">Joy</a> • Jude • <a href="http://wearingmywardrobein2016.wordpress.com">Kate</a> • <a href="http://kittyramblesalot.com">Kitty</a> • <a href="http://www.twitter.com/faeriecorpsey">Lexi</a> • <a href="http://lucyearnshaw.co.uk">Lucy</a> • <a href="http://twitter.com/lucycmorgan">Lucy</a></div><div>• <a href="http://ramblingmads.wordpress.com">Madeline</a> • <a href="http://instagram.com/madsuunn">Madison</a> • <a href="http://thecurvyfashionista.com">Marie</a> • <a href="http://instagram.com/mellymeep">Mel</a> • <a href="http://twitter.com/miasabine">Mia</a>• <a href="http://twitter.com/africurvy">Paulina</a> • <a href="http://twitter.com/robynmccue">Robyn</a> • Sophie • <a href="http://instagram.com/traciejayne_">Tracie</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Millennial Pink: A VBxTarget Casual Cosplay</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel is pretty in pink in this outfit post featuring Victoria Beckham for Target. This post contains affiliate links. “What’s an affiliate link?” I’m glad you asked! If you follow these links and decide to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation at no extra cost to you! It’s a win-win, right? Image via ComplexWhen I saw this dress in the VBxTarget collection I immediately thought of Moonrise Kingdom. Suzy Bishop is<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_47bd4341c591490bb1e65a9825006d79%7Emv2_d_2814_1876_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/15/Millennial-Pink-A-VBxTarget-Casual-Cosplay</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/15/Millennial-Pink-A-VBxTarget-Casual-Cosplay</guid><pubDate>Mon, 15 May 2017 10:15:58 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel is pretty in pink in this outfit post featuring Victoria Beckham for Target. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_47bd4341c591490bb1e65a9825006d79~mv2_d_2814_1876_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains affiliate links. “What’s an affiliate link?” I’m glad you asked! If you follow these links and decide to make a purchase, then I will receive compensation at no extra cost to you! It’s a win-win, right? </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_caf374f3ff3e4bfba50110589fac0357~mv2.jpg"/><div>Image via <a href="http://ow.ly/TDie30bIVdV">Complex</a></div><div>When I saw this dress in the <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/ms4">VBxTarget collection</a> I immediately thought of Moonrise Kingdom. Suzy Bishop is probably my favourite Wes Anderson character of all time (followed closely by Margot Tenenbaum), and all I need are binoculars and a pair of knee high white socks to make this an official cosplay. This is how I think Suzy would dress if she was a 27 year old in 2017 instead of a child in the 1960's. PS if you haven't seen Moonrise Kingdom, head on over to my place. I'll make some popcorn, you bring some sweets, and we'll have a movie night! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_339b3809caad421e89da0e0822f5d4e1~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_89148861d37446bf9902236c6348fa64~mv2_d_2867_4300_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e44e915e4e9b48f3a26765835a5cf4fe~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>So apparently millennial pink is a thing now, and I'm so into it! Steph did an amazing post on <a href="http://www.nerdabouttown.com/2017/04/rock-millennial-pink.html">Nerd About Town</a> wearing head to toe pink and it's too good! Normally when I do a monochromatic look it's all black, or various shades of white/grey/black, but this all pink ensemble is my jam at the moment.  My mum hilariously pointed out this dress and jacket are pretty much the exact same shade of pink as my skin, so the whole look blends together! I mean...she's not wrong, haha! That's where the red sunnies, red lips, fuschia nails, and my DELISH raspberry lemonade come in handy. I wanted to use little pops of bright colour to break up the monotony of monochrome. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d079ee27b9324f6ba45bc3ff64d42ac8~mv2_d_4037_2691_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_83ee30e21ad64d29bd0f41e364e4dfc0~mv2_d_2746_4118_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_eeab50e4d4074cf0b5a758735e7eb8b5~mv2_d_2770_4154_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>After my babe <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cupcakethighs/">cupcakethighs</a> posted a try-on session at her local Target store, I decided to get a 3X in this shift dress. TBH I probably could have gotten away with a 2X, but since this was being shipped internationally I didn't really want to risk it. My bust has plenty room to breathe, which is great! The collar isn't too snug or too loose. It's just right for my size. The sleeves on the other hand are VERY large, especially at the wrist. I appreciate the extra room for my bingo wings, but I'm probably going to have the sleeves altered for a more neat fit. </div><div>My second VBxTarget look will be coming to the blog VERY soon, so stay tuned! </div><div><a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/ms6">Shop the Victoria Beckham for Target Plus Size Collection!</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_25d9535459f241de82450380c0efe01f~mv2_d_4300_2867_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_203a17b095f24ad392e543b4146786ed~mv2_d_2176_3264_s_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the look:</div><div>Dress: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/ms7">VBxTarget</a>, size 3X. Also available <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/mtb">in black</a>.</div><div>Jacket: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/mtg">New Look Curves</a>, size 22</div><div>Loafers: <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/mte">Simply Be</a>, size 8E</div><div>Sunnies: Vintage. Similar at <a href="http://shopstyle.it/l/mti">River Island</a></div><div>Photos by: <a href="http://www.lmackayphotography.com/home">Lianne Mackay: Edinburgh Wedding Photographer</a></div><div>Shop similar pieces:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_4a19fd547fa77da454294524624e77df.html"/><div>More style posts here!</div><div>Previous post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/03/The-2017-Met-Gala-Unflattering-Silhouettes-and-Taking-Up-Space">The 2017 Met Gala: Unflattering Silhouettes and Taking Up Space</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>The 2017 Met Gala: Unflattering Silhouettes and Taking Up Space</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel unpacks a theory about the 2017 Met Gala and discusses patriarchal pressures placed on feminine bodies.Unless you’ve been living under a rock or on a secluded island far FAR away from wi-fi, I’m sure you’re well aware that the 2017 Met Gala has just taken place. What makes the Met Gala so wonderful is the annual theme and avant garde nature of the event. At least, that’s how it’s supposed to be. This year's theme was Comme<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4a8f197e25ef4937bc254fbfd3cacaa5%7Emv2_d_2448_1632_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/03/The-2017-Met-Gala-Unflattering-Silhouettes-and-Taking-Up-Space</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/05/03/The-2017-Met-Gala-Unflattering-Silhouettes-and-Taking-Up-Space</guid><pubDate>Wed, 03 May 2017 07:46:55 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel unpacks a theory about the 2017 Met Gala and discusses patriarchal pressures placed on feminine bodies.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4a8f197e25ef4937bc254fbfd3cacaa5~mv2_d_2448_1632_s_2.jpg"/><div>Unless you’ve been living under a rock or on a secluded island far FAR away from wi-fi, I’m sure you’re well aware that the 2017 Met Gala has just taken place. What makes the Met Gala so wonderful is the annual theme and avant garde nature of the event. At least, that’s how it’s supposed to be. This year's theme was Comme des Garçons to honour Rei Kawakubo as the first living designer profiled since Yves Saint Laurent in 1983. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_5103d0e7b9650906d325eb87102c8554.html"/><div>Frustratingly, this year’s Met Gala looked like any other runway or awards ceremony. In some instances *gestures to Selena Gomez* it looked like a high school prom. Where was the drama? Why are so few thinking outside the box? In the name of investigative journalism, I took to Twitter with this theory: </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_05411fe7f7e1943d43d6476eb19e6d5d.html"/><div>We’ll get back to that theory shortly but first, a herstory lesson is in order! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1abd2523d6764285877e061dc86b2c51~mv2.jpeg"/><div>Image via <a href="http://www.vogue.co.uk/gallery/comme-des-garcons-rei-kawakubo-in-vogue-archive">Vogue Archive</a></div><div>The herstory of Rei Kawakubo and Comme des Garçons </div><div>Kawakubo is a Tokyo born creator whose designs are absolutely stunning. While she never actually studied fashion she did study fine arts, literature, and history of aesthetics (Thurman, 2007). Kawakubo founded Comme des Garçons (translated: like some boys) in 1969 and limited the company in 1973 (Bloomberg, 2017). Her designs have a tendency to be larger than life. Think BIG. Think structure. Think architecture. In these garments, the wearer has no choice but to take up space. That is where we find an interesting parallel for plus size bodies. </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_d683e62690ab17a6af6b3201b8726b17.html"/><div>The “Lumps and Bumps” Collection, Commes des Garçons RTW 1997</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_41b7e4ec78db4476bded98d741d95345~mv2.jpg"/><div>Image via <a href="http://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-1997-ready-to-wear/comme-des-garcons">Vogue</a></div><div>This collection has me feeling some kind of way! I want to be known for lumps and bumps too! Can I put that on my business card? I highly recommend checking out <a href="http://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-1997-ready-to-wear/comme-des-garcons">all the looks from this collection</a>. The garments featured are dramatically filled with padding. Now, the padding is NOTHING like the way plus size models wear padding to fit into bigger clothing (Layne, 2014). The padding is placed models’ hips, backs, shoulders, stomachs, legs, just about any body part that can be padded, and it’s not done in a traditionally “flattering” way. The garments were created to question patriarchal pressures on women’s bodies, and the silhouettes make a powerful statement. So powerful in fact that some observers recall feeling incredibly uncomfortable at the show because of the shock value from the garments (Ahmed, 2016). Can you imagine how uncomfortable they’d be if they saw me stomping down the runway?! Did you notice how the catwalk models aren't even wearing high heels? Kawakubo made this decision very intentionally, and it's ANOTHER brilliant way to visually challenge patriarchal values. </div><div>“It’s our job to question convention,” the Japanese designer </div><div>told Vogue (2017c). “If we don’t take risks, then who will?” </div><div>Taking up space as a political statement</div><div>As women we are constantly being trained to take up as little space as possible. We are taught to sit politely with our legs firmly crossed and our hands in our laps, while masculine folks have the luxury of sprawling out and making themselves comfortable (Powell, 2016). Take a ride on your local public transport and you’ll see the epidemic of manspreading. Feminine bodies are policed 24/7 and are programmed to pursue weight loss (aka literal, physical shrinking) at all costs. I used to buy into this concept as well. I absolutely used to be apologetic about taking up the space my physical form requires, but over the last five years I've managed to unlearn that. Taking up space isn’t just a body issue. Men consistently take up more space online (Stortz, 2016). Additionally, men dominate conversation in the workplace (Goudreau, 2014). </div><div>“Girls, you shouldn't check yourselves from taking up </div><div>too much room. You don't need to earn the right </div><div>to your space.” - Gould, 2016</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_7b202abd0d46531386c1a374415ebfff.html"/><div>Taking up space as a fat woman</div><div>When it comes to taking up actual physical space, women are given one of two boxes to occupy: slim or curvy. As a fat woman it's even harder to sausage your body into one of those two boxes. It's been proven several times that fat feminine bodies are significantly more marginalised and more policed than masculine bodies (Fikkan and Rothblum, 2011). Taking up space for me started with the realisation that I'm under NO obligation to lose weight. I had to learn that <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing">fatness does not equal morality</a>. Once I realised this, I truly started living my life. </div><div>&quot;There's an adrenaline rush that comes with denying the </div><div>common rules of society: that I should always be </div><div>trying to lose weight.&quot; - Virgie Tovar</div><div>as quoted in Baker, 2015, p. 171</div><div>As a fat woman, I understand that I have to fight for my right to take up space. When I was younger and much less confident, I too was obsessed with a slimming silhouette. I wanted to appear as slim as possible, so exclusively wore empire dresses that cut in at the waist then flared away. As we all know from What Not To Wear, Tim Gunn, Gok Wan, etc., this is the ONLY suitable option for fat women. </div><div>“A wonderful way to start the body love journey is to </div><div>wear what scares you.” Jes Baker, p. 184” </div><div>I absolutely agree with Jes. For me, it was skin tight skirts and anything that showed skin. Aside from cleavage obviously, because huge boobs are the one perk of being fat right? *yawn* If this sounds like a huge ask, don’t worry! You don’t have to dive in. You can take baby steps and slowly try on things that you don’t feel you’re allowed to wear. For me, I would wear a super tight skirt with an oversized jumper on top. Some time passed, and suddenly I was confident and happy enough to wear a tight skirt with a crop top! </div><div>Regarding all the non-physical ways we take up space, it's a matter of cutting back on saying “I’m sorry.” As women we are taught to be apologetic, even when it's completely unnecessary (Rettner, 2010). According to Sloane Crossley (2015) the apologies are taking up airtime that should be used for making logical, declarative statements, expressing opinions and relaying accurate impressions of what we want. We are allowed to express our feelings. We are allowed to confront a coworker when they make a racist &quot;joke.&quot; We are allowed to take up space in all ways. Now say it with me, “I am allowed to take up space!” That means on the bus. Online. In the office. At the Met Gala. Wherever you need it. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_eb4a79de2f7e4fff90c67d1bafbdd935~mv2.jpg"/><div>Image via <a href="http://www.vogue.com/slideshow/met-gala-2017-best-dressed-celebrity-red-carpet-fashion#25">Vogue</a></div><div>Acknowledging Fearless Fashion</div><div>A lot, and I mean a LOT of the attendees who actually wore Comme des Garçons are on the Met Gala’s worst dressed lists. Can you imagine?! Because of this total disgrace I want to honour some of the women who honoured event’s theme. As I pointed out on Twitter, it’s worth noting that women of colour are the ones most willing to break through the barriers of desirable hourglass silhouettes and take up space.</div><div>Actual queen and real life angel, Solange Knowles wears Thom Browne. This is a look that you KNOW all the hipsters in Brooklyn are gonna be wearing this winter! It’s called fashion Brenda, look it up! </div><div>Model Helen Laischanh wears Comme des Garçons, and is actually mocked so much that she was turned into a meme?! #rude #disrespectful #haveseveralseats </div><div>Actress Ruth Negga looks stunning in Valentino. This look is simpler than many Comme des Garçons pieces, but the silhouette is reminiscent of Kawakubo’s Japanese roots. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_bbdf8edae25641dc846789c88b9d0935~mv2.jpeg"/><div>Image via <a href="http://www.vogue.com/slideshow/met-gala-2017-best-dressed-celebrity-red-carpet-fashion#25">Vogue</a></div><div>Of COURSE we couldn’t have a conversation about the Met Gala without RiRi! She's another of the very few guests who wore Comme des Garçons. Every single thing about this look is sheer perfection, but I’m most obsessed with her makeup! It’s glowy and gorgeous and I am L I V I N G. I just, I don’t know what else there is to say other than 10/10 couldn’t have been better! As Amanda Richards says, &quot;<a href="https://www.bustle.com/p/all-i-have-to-do-in-life-is-wait-for-death-rihanna-54971">All I have to do in life is wait for death &amp; Rihanna</a>.&quot; </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_131939b6965b4b9a8a5e2a0d760231b4~mv2.jpg"/><div>Honourable mention goes to Aja from RuPaul’s Drag Race season 9 who channeled Comme des Garçons in the Lady Gaga challenge. Work! Sashay! Shante! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/><div>Previous Post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing">Regarding Dr. Lush: Using Fatphobia in Marketing</a></div><div>References </div><div>AHMED, O., 2016. Lumps and bumps at Comme des Garçons s/s97. Another Magazine [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.anothermag.com/fashion-beauty/8174/lumps-and-bumps-at-comme-des-garcons-s-s97. </div><div>BAKER, J., 2015. Things no one will tell fat girls. Berkeley: Seal Press.</div><div>BLOOMBERG., 2017. Company overview of Comme Des Garcons Co., Ltd. Bloomberg [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.bloomberg.com/research/stocks/private/snapshot.asp?privcapId=5663541.</div><div>CROSLEY, S., 2015. Why women apologise and should stop. The New York Times [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/06/23/opinion/when-an-apology-is-anything-but.html.</div><div>FIKKAN, J. L., and ROTHBLUM, E., D., 2011. Is fat a feminist issue? Exploring the gendered nature of weight bias. Sex Roles [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.amascriver.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/Is_fat_feminist_issue.pdf. </div><div>GOUDREAU, J., 2014. Why powerful men dominate conversations while women keep quiet. Business Insider [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.businessinsider.com/men-dominate-conversations-women-keep-quiet-2014-4?IR=T. </div><div>GOULD, A., 2016. Girls, you are allowed to take up space. The Odyssey [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: https://www.theodysseyonline.com/girls-you-are-allowed-to-take-up-space. </div><div>LAYNE, J., 2014. Plus size models wearing fat suits to fit into larger clothing kind of proves that the whole fashion industry needs some editing, and I don’t mean photoshop. Bustle [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: https://www.bustle.com/articles/52897-plus-size-models-wearing-fat-suits-to-fit-into-larger-clothing-kind-of-proves-that-the. </div><div>PITHERS, E., 2017. Met Gala 2017 best dressed. Vogue [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.vogue.co.uk/gallery/met-gala-2017-best-dressed.</div><div>POWELL, A., 2016. Women…why we must visibly take up space. The Huffington Post [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/alison-powell/women-taking-up-space_b_7495274.html. </div><div>RETTNER, R., 2010. Study reveals why women apologise so much. Live Science [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.livescience.com/8698-study-reveals-women-apologize.html.</div><div>STORTZ, M., 2016. Virtual manspreading: when men take up extra space online. Motherboard [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: https://motherboard.vice.com/en_us/article/virtual-manspreading-when-men-take-up-extra-space-online. </div><div>THURMAN, J., 2005. The Misfit. The New Yorker [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2005/07/04/the-misfit-3. </div><div>VOGUE., 2017a. From the archives: Comme Des Carçons in Vogue. Vogue [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.vogue.co.uk/gallery/comme-des-garcons-rei-kawakubo-in-vogue-archive.</div><div>VOGUE, 2017b. Met Gala 2017: the best dressed celebrities on the red carpet. Vogue [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.vogue.com/slideshow/met-gala-2017-best-dressed-celebrity-red-carpet-fashion#25. </div><div>VOGUE., 2017c. Spring 1997 ready-to-wear Comme des Garçons. Vogue [online]. [Viewed 02 May 2017]. Available from: http://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/spring-1997-ready-to-wear/comme-des-garcons.</div><div>More Recourses</div><div><a href="http://www.thefashionlaw.com/home/does-federal-trade-commission-disclosures-apply-to-the-met-gala">Do FTC Regulations apply to The Met Gala</a></div><div><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zQucWXWXp3k">Shrinking Women</a></div><div><a href="http://shemightbe.co.uk/i-not-unapologetically-fat/">Why I'm Not 'Unapologetically' Fat</a></div><div>Previous Post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing">Regarding Dr. Lush: Using Fatphobia in Marketing</a></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Regarding Dr. Lush: Using Fatphobia in Marketing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her thoughts on the recent fatphobic content on Lush UK’s Instagram page. As I’m sure LOADS of you are aware, Lush recently posted these images on their Instagram page in a series of images promoting a film event in their London studio.Naturally, a lot of folks were upset. A lot of (notably not fat) people seem confused about the whole situation. I’ve seen a lot of “Why are people offended? It’s the FACTS” etc. So imma<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4fca044f523a40709c5c60eeb12d1c01%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/29/Regarding-Dr-Lush-Using-Fatphobia-in-Marketing</guid><pubDate>Sat, 29 Apr 2017 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her thoughts on the recent fatphobic content on Lush UK’s Instagram page. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4fca044f523a40709c5c60eeb12d1c01~mv2.jpg"/><div>As I’m sure LOADS of you are aware, Lush recently posted these images on their Instagram page in a series of images promoting a film event in their London studio.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f238179ba8a84f52bd132a28c97121a6~mv2.png"/><div>Naturally, a lot of folks were upset. </div><div><div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_717e6ebe39d5401fb47edf27f9037206.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_d775ec38ea333b16639adccf2ab823af.html"/></div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_6ad0503fb072df5bf340fc31ff8fb10f.html"/></div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_b06f641a7d5b082ade2397e267f100bc.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_2dc9e08a7306e9b98941964379678919.html"/><div>A lot of (notably not fat) people seem confused about the whole situation. I’ve seen a lot of “Why are people offended? It’s the FACTS” etc. So imma break it down for y’all. </div><div>Fat shaming content has NOTHING to do with the brand or what they’re selling (or does it?)</div><div>Okay, let's just ASSUME that all fat people have heart disease and/or cancer and are going to die prematurely directly because of their fat. Let's ASSUME that these statistics Lush posted are completely accurate and true. ***Even though a quick Google search will display LOADS of evidence that nearly all research about the &quot;obesity crisis&quot; is funded by the diet and weight loss industry. I'd say that's a pretty big conflict of interest, as well as a major ethical issue*** Is it really Lush's place to push these standards on their followers? What do they hope to gain from that, as a brand? </div><div>Lush isn’t the first brand to bombard us with nonsense like this. Years ago the CEO of Abercrombie &amp; Fitch famously said that their brand doesn’t cater to larger sizes because fat people aren’t the “cool kids” (Marks, 2017). This implies that brands are much more interested in an image (that conveniently excludes fat people) than cashing in on our fat coins. Doesn’t that seem foolish from a strictly capitalist standpoint? </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e6283bf5dd0c471a8da5e18773349348~mv2.jpg"/><div>BooHoo is a brand that is TERRIBLE about posting anti-fat content, like all the time. Like, what could possibly be worse than a tummy that isn’t completely fat, right?! *rolls eyes all weekend long* </div><div>Back in 2015 Benefit had some ‘harmless fun’ and participated in a ridiculously un-funny fat shaming meme. I’ll be honest, it put me off them and I’ve not bought a thing from them since. This may seem dramatic to some, but it’s my personal decision. I’ve also not purchased from Jeffree Star after his <a href="http://www.revelist.com/beauty-news-/jeffree-star-racist-video/3778/in-her-original-instagram-post-kat-specifically-calls-out-jeffrees-inappropriate-behavior-including-promoting-drug-use-racism-and-bullying/1">plethora of racist comments</a>. I’ve not purchased from Kat Von D after similar <a href="http://perezhilton.com/cocoperez/2016-09-22-kat-von-d-gets-into-diversity-feud-with-follower-on-instagram#.WQNNVWU65E4">racist comments</a> and her unashamedly <a href="http://perezhilton.com/2010-08-20-is-kat-von-d-a-nazi-sympathizer-too">dating a literal Nazi</a>. </div><div>I want to be 100% clear: this is a personal decision. If you still buy from these brands I’m not here to judge you. What you do with your money is strictly your business. </div><div>Faux health concern: when everybody on Instagram becomes Dr. Internet</div><div>Bethany Rutter (2017) says “Health has become the stick with which to beat fat people” and I couldn't possibly agree more. &quot;But Amanda, why are you denying the FACTS?! WHAT ABOUT YOUR BLOOD PRESSURE?!?!?!?!&quot; This is as tired as referring to fat people as whales, but I'm gonna entertain this thought for a moment. </div><div>High cholesterol, blood pressure, heart disease, strokes, and diabetes are ALWAYS brought up to scare and shame fat people in every discussion about heath and fatness. But the thing is, these don’t correlate with fatness. They DO however correlate with yo-yo dieting (Baker, 2015). I know, right?! What a plot twist!!! This is one example of how fatphobia harms thin people. Because these four things are mostly seen as fat people problems, smaller people don't get tested for them and can often go undiagnosed. </div><div>I just find this approach really exhausting. Dr. Instagram is constantly there in the comments on fat people's profiles. But do they comment on photos of people smoking cigarettes? Drinking? No? Oh, okay. It's almost as if they simply hate fat people. </div><div>Health is not a moral obligation</div><div>I’ll say it again for those in the back. HEALTH IS NOT A MORAL OBLIGATION. We live in a society that has decided that thinness = good, and fatness = bad. This is taken one step further when we decide that thinness = moral, and fatness = immoral, aka: gluttonous, lazy, useless, etc (Gilbert, 2008). </div><div>'A person’s “health” does not equal their value as a human being, </div><div>nor should it challenge their right to exercise free will. </div><div>I make choices that support my body’s physical needs because I want to…</div><div>not because it’s a civic duty or moral obligation of any kind.</div><div>For that matter, I also get to choose my own definition of “health,” </div><div>which may very well include mental, spiritual or other non-physical </div><div>forms of well-being.' (Isabel Duke, 2017)</div><div>In other words, you don’t owe health to anybody. You certainly don’t owe health to some brand trying to sell bath products. All people deserve to be treated with respect. This includes fat people. Yes, even unhealthy fat people. When brands post anti-fat content it reinforces the ridiculous notion that fat people should be shamed simply for existing. </div><div>Plus, suggesting that everyone is required to pursue this image of perfect health is incredibly ableist. Being healthy is literally impossible for some people. This type of ableist rhetoric can be wildly alienating for people with disabilities. Would companies shame people with asthma? People who are HIV positive? Who suffer from chronic pain? Of course not, so this isn't really about health.</div><div>After the backlash, Lush posted this so-called apology:</div><div><div>“Hilary, Lush Ethics Director here. I want to say a truly sincere sorry regarding our previous posts, which have caused some of you to reach out raising concerns re body image issues and fat shaming. I am in total agreement and there is no meaningful defence I could tender for the offending post. The only people we have shamed on this occasion are ourselves! Tonight we are hosting the film 'What The Health' at our London studio, and the social posts we have published to advertise this screening do not do the film justice and do not do the issues of diversity and inclusion justice either - all of which are things we care about and </div>should know better how to speak of. </div><div>With this in mind, my suggestion is that we host a future event at our London studio to discuss these issues. I am reaching out to all of you that have expressed concern to not just come to this event, but to help create it. Who would you like to see talk about body image issues? Are there any films or content you think we should show? Let's make an evening where we can come together, celebrate, discuss and educate on this really important issue of our time.”</div><div>Okay, first of all, if Lush were truly sorry don’t you think they would remove the original post? Especially considering the event they were promoting has now (as of 2:00, 28/04/17) already happened? Well, they didn’t. They also don’t seem to be doing anything to monitor the OUTRAGEOUS amount of hate in the comments on their Instagram. I absolutely recommend avoiding the comments. Just know that they are awful and I wish I hadn’t looked at them. </div><div>Additionally, what are they thinking tagging loads of (fat) people who criticised the post, then asking them to do Lush’s work for them?! Rather than listening and learning they seem to want us to create an event on our own? That's not good enough. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_850ef090d6834f07a924edf68741751d~mv2.jpg"/><div>My fear is that Lush has followed in Peta’s footsteps and is participating in really horrible vegetarian/vegan stereotypes. In my opinion, these brands seem (at least on the surface) to be concerned with loving the environment, and animals, but heaven forbid we love fat people, right? </div><div>References</div><div>BAKER, J., 2015. Things no one will tell fat girls. p. 67. Berkeley: Seal Press.</div><div>DUKE, I. F., 2017. But what about “HEALTH?!.” How to not eat cake…really fast standing up when nobody’s watching [online]. [Viewed 28 April 2017]. Available from: http://isabelfoxenduke.com/but-what-about-health-post/. </div><div>GILBERT, K.L., 2008. A meta-analysis of social capital and health, University of Pittsburgh.</div><div>HALL, J. 2016. Five ads that took body-shaming to a whole new level. Dazed [online]. [Viewed 28 April 2017]. Available from: http://www.dazeddigital.com/artsandculture/article/31606/1/the-five-worst-examples-of-body-shaming-ads. </div><div>MARKS, H., 2017. Fat shaming or smart marketing? Why Lululemon (and others) don’t sell plus sizes. Bust [online]. [Viewed 28 April 2017]. Available from: http://bust.com/general/10300-fat-shaming-or-smart-marketing-why-lululemon-and-others-dont-sell-plus-sizes.html. </div><div>RUTTER, B. 2017. How ‘body positivity’ lost its true and radical meaning. Dazed [online]. [Viewed 28 April 2017]. Available from: http://www.dazeddigital.com/artsandculture/article/35746/1/how-body-positivity-lost-its-true-and-radical-meaning. </div><div>Recommended Reading</div><div><a href="https://mitheringsfrommorningside.wordpress.com/2013/07/12/the-smell-of-bullshit-part-24-more-stories-from-employees/">Stories from Lush Employees</a></div><div><a href="http://www.beautyliestruth.com/blog/2015/5/the-ugly-truth-about-lush">The Ugly Truth about Lush</a></div><div><a href="http://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/go-back-selling-bath-bombslush-10308123">Go Back to Selling Bath Bombs</a></div><div><a href="http://www.misskathrynsmisstakes.co.uk/2015/10/shaming-body-shaming.html?spref=tw">Shaming Body Shaming</a></div><div><a href="https://www.the-pool.com/news-views/opinion/2017/17/lush-might-care-about-the-environment-but-they-don-t-seem-to-care-about-fat-people">Lush Might Care About the Environment, but They Don't Care About Fat People</a></div><div><a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/01/concern-trolling-is-bullshit/">11 Reasons Your Phony 'Concern' For Fat People's Health Has Got To Stop</a></div><div><a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/03/let-fat-people-be-happy/">What Happens If We Let Fat People Be Happy?</a></div><div><a href="http://shemightbe.co.uk/bath-bombs/">10 Bath Bombs That Aren't From Lush</a></div><div>Previous post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/28/10-Outrageous-Reasons-Doctors-Have-Told-Fat-Women-to-Lose-Weight">10 Outrageous Reasons Doctors Have Told Fat Women to Lose Weight</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Fatphobic Doctors: 10 Outrageous Reasons Doctors Have Told Fat Women to Lose Weight</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses her struggles as a fat woman seeking medical care and shares her top tip for speaking with your GP.Content warning: This blog post mentions weight loss, fat phobia, anxiety, depression, suicide, and fertility. If these are topics you’d prefer to avoid, that’s totally cool! Feel free to check out the style page instead. When fat people talk about how we’re fighting for equality, we’re not just talking about shopping<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2d233b7042cf4ede976f255111d2de47%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/28/10-Outrageous-Reasons-Doctors-Have-Told-Fat-Women-to-Lose-Weight</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/28/10-Outrageous-Reasons-Doctors-Have-Told-Fat-Women-to-Lose-Weight</guid><pubDate>Fri, 28 Apr 2017 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel discusses her struggles as a fat woman seeking medical care and shares her top tip for speaking with your GP.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2d233b7042cf4ede976f255111d2de47~mv2.jpg"/><div>Content warning: This blog post mentions weight loss, fat phobia, anxiety, depression, suicide, and fertility. If these are topics you’d prefer to avoid, that’s totally cool! Feel free to check out the style page instead. </div><div>When fat people talk about how we’re fighting for equality, we’re not just talking about shopping for clothes. Access to fair healthcare is the biggest struggle for many folks out there. My personal healthcare experience has changed significantly since I moved to the UK. Back in the states my family doctor was also a fat woman. She provided me with tests when they were needed, she never pressured me to lose weight, and she helped me with PCOS way back in the day. </div><div>Since moving to the UK I’ve had my fair share of doctors. Each new post code means a new GP office, and it usually takes some time to find one who isn’t blatantly prejudiced against fat people. I’ve been with my current practice for 10 months now, and my usual doctor is an angel. She helps me manage anxiety and depression, she helped me get off of my birth control, and I only wish she had been available when I recently visited the doctor for wrist pain. </div><div>I’ve been struggling with an annoying case of carpal tunnel. It’s manageable, but it’s starting to complicate my uni and work life. I booked an appointment to speak to a doctor about treatment options. After inspecting my wrist she immediately agreed that it was carpal tunnel, and was pleased that I’ve been wearing a wrist brace and treating it with anti-inflammatories. Right when I think the appointment is going well, the doctor gives me elevator eyes. You know, when they look your whole body up and down then up again? She looks me square in the face and says, “You know, carpal tunnel may be caused by your weight and diabetes. Weight loss would be a useful treatment for you to pursue.” </div><div>Okay, so. Hmmm. First of all, the doctor didn’t ask about any activity or motion that could’ve caused this. I work in retail, which means loads of repetitive motion with my hands. I’m a student, which means hours of writing and typing every week. I’m not a doctor, but in my opinion those are probably the aspects of my lifestyle that caused this flare up. As for my weight, obviously I’m fat. But fat does not equal diabetic, and fat diabetic people still deserve treatment options when they have physical ailments. In the past I’ve been able to prepare myself for potentially fat phobic comments from doctors, but this time I was not at all prepared. Naturally, I took to Twitter and Instagram and asked other fat women to share similar stories. As always, the fat babes of social media had my back! </div><div>10 Outrageous Reasons Doctors Have Told </div><div>Fat Women to Lose Weight</div><div>1. Cervical screening </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_35fb024b754bcbdab19f060f4e811488.html"/><div>2. Back injury </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_ffc2cebf683c8ad345c38ea2308b5134.html"/><div>3. Gallbladder issues</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_30176b1b98797cf08a5d67e52b6794a5.html"/><div>4. Foot pain </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_86bea63707cd48ae8adba189455d86c1~mv2.png"/><div>5. Thyroid disorder </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_ee9f1959dc3f2cdb440a37108e856169.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_88bde29e690e76b6b30c6feee66356e4.html"/><div>6. Respiratory concerns</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_6cbebb8712b58719bc039f3e0e9c2040.html"/><div>7. Reproduction and fertility</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_170f7e6e8f0a40d7824733f531e335e0~mv2.png"/><div> 8. Knee Pain</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_3d375354d84643c698524f40e6fb49b7~mv2.png"/><div>9. Anxiety and depression</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c95202f84acc44bf899613f72e132582~mv2.png"/><div>10. Wait for it: DRY. SKIN. *eye roll emoji for days* </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_538797ca04a523e24d1467535c641ac7.html"/><div>If you've had similar fatphobic experiences at the doctor, I'm so sorry. It can be outrageously intimidating because we're not taught how to advocate for ourselves at the doctor. We're brought up assuming that the doctor knows best and that they're truly neutral about bodies, but that isn't always the case. I want to share a good response when a doctor suggests treating your fat rather that treating whatever is troubling you. </div><div>&quot;I understand that you think this is about my weight, </div><div>but I'd like to know what you would recommend to </div><div>someone smaller than me with the same symptoms.&quot;</div><div>This shows that you're proactive, and that you want to be treated fairly and without discrimination. Whenever I meet a new doctor they always ask me what I do. I like to use that opportunity to share &quot;I'm a full time student, a part time sales associate, and a plus size blogger/activist.&quot; This at least gives them a hint that I'm happy at my size and I don't want to talk about weight loss. </div><div>Alternatively, you could always follow in Molly's footsteps! (You can buy the shirt <a href="https://www.chubbycartwheels.com/products/diet-industry-dropout-tee">here</a>!) </div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_8907edcd164d6a8edf602224773c3d0a.html"/><div>More resources on this topic:</div><div><a href="http://www.themilitantbaker.com">Jes Baker</a> dissects fat and health in chapter 5 of her book <a href="https://www.waterstones.com/book/things-no-one-will-tell-fat-girls/jes-baker/9781580055826">Things No One Will Tell Fat Girls</a></div><div>Daria Matza discusses medical fatphobia in episode 6 of <a href="http://everybodypodcast.libsyn.com/website/ep-06-fat-shamed-at-the-doctor-evette-dionne">Every Body Podcast</a></div><div><a href="http://www.revelist.com/user/EvetteDionne">Evette Dionne</a> writes about her experience at <a href="http://www.revelist.com/real-talk/fat-shaming-doctor-visit/6545">Revelist</a></div><div><a href="https://twitter.com/yrfatfriend">Yrfatfriend</a> has a valuable<a href="https://twitter.com/yrfatfriend/status/856557755582136320">thread on twitter</a> about this topic</div><div>Previous post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/25/Babydoll-Beauty-with-Elomi-Lingerie">Babydoll Beauty with Elomi Lingerie</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Babydoll Beauty with Elomi Lingerie</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a beautiful blue babydoll set in this lingerie post brought to you by Elomi.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are my own. Visit our policy page for more information on collaborative posts. I suppose it’s no secret that I’m a HUGE fan of Elomi lingerie! The lingerie section here on the blog is FULL of gorgeous Elomi products. I reviewed the Etta full<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7004a21c034240b9b391d120720da2e4%7Emv2_d_2848_1898_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/25/Babydoll-Beauty-with-Elomi-Lingerie</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/25/Babydoll-Beauty-with-Elomi-Lingerie</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Apr 2017 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a beautiful blue babydoll set in this lingerie post brought to you by Elomi.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_7004a21c034240b9b391d120720da2e4~mv2_d_2848_1898_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are my own. Visit our policy page for more information on collaborative posts. </div><div>I suppose it’s no secret that I’m a HUGE fan of Elomi lingerie! The lingerie section here on the blog is FULL of gorgeous Elomi products. I reviewed the <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/02/23/Lingerie-Lounge-Elomi-at-Mymilla">Etta full cup bra</a>, the <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/03/01/Lingerie-Lounge-Elomi-at-Clara-Olivia-Plus-exclusive-discount-code">Betty babydoll set</a>, and the lush <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/08/30/Lingerie-Lounge-Raquel-by-Elomi">Raquel set</a>. Now I’m thrilled to share the beautiful Anushka babydoll set!</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_70d1da236c28061408a95179053f1838.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_23efa2b2017c6d2ce8ccee930e471086.html"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e6cc7e36c97543c9861d62a5027ea40b~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_6aa0c8ff001d4d18ae0f3dde364e570c~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_cd3d80766294462faae0fc89f7bd0a4b~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>As always with Elomi, you know you’re getting beautiful, high quality lingerie. My oldest bra from Elomi is over a year old, and while the elastic is showing signs of wear, everything else is in fantastic condition. I’ve not been betrayed and stabbed by the underwire, which is a HUGE sign of quality in my book! </div><div>I wear a 40GG on top and a 3X on bottom. I’ve put on a bit of weight since my last Elomi order, and I probably could have done with a 42GG, but this size is still suitable. It’s just a little big snug. But like, let’s be real. I’m not exactly wearing this outside the house, am I?! A little bit of spillage here and there isn’t a big deal in this case. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c900e0647d3148b2a9746ddbd05787d4~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_33edf6e943cb44c2bb1ffea22d286e5b~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>I love how the blue is on the subtle side. The sheer black overlay makes it look ever so slightly darker. I think it makes the blue more rich. I’d say these pants are a bit more snug than any other Elomi pants I’ve worn. I assume that’s because the whole front of them consists of the blue fabric and black overlay. That blue has ZERO stretch, but they still went on me no problem! As you can see in the photos, they hit right at my bellybutton, which is super comfortable. BTW the only reason I didn't choose show off the back of this set is because the pants are 100% sheer, and I wasn't in the mood to moon the internet today. I'm sure you understand, haha! </div><div>Other pieces in the Anushka range:</div><div><a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/anushka/aw16/padded_half_cup_bra.aspx?colour=midnight">Padded half cup bra</a></div><div><a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/anushka/aw16/plunge_bra.aspx?colour=midnight">Plunge bra</a></div><div><a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/anushka/aw16/thong.aspx?colour=midnight">Thong</a></div><div>All Anushka pieces are <a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/anushka/aw15/babydoll.aspx?colour=red">also available in red</a>! </div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Elomi. Click to shop their selection of fuller figure <a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/lingerie/latest-collections.aspx">lingerie</a> and <a href="http://www.elomilingerie.com/swimwear/collections.aspx">swimwear</a>. All opinions expressed are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit our policy page. </div><div>More lingerie posts here!</div><div>Previous post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/21/Untitled">Blush Babe with Quiz Clothing</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Blush Babe with Quiz Clothing</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a lush blush choker top in this outfit post brought to you by the new curve collection at Quiz Clothing.This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine. Visit our policy page for more information on collaborative posts. Have you heard the news? Quiz Clothing have expanded into the plus size world! Their new curve collection currently consists of 77 items<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_de7f1e931d6c492f845d5a8905788a6a%7Emv2_d_3532_2355_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/21/Untitled</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/04/21/Untitled</guid><pubDate>Fri, 21 Apr 2017 13:48:49 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a lush blush choker top in this outfit post brought to you by the new curve collection at Quiz Clothing.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_de7f1e931d6c492f845d5a8905788a6a~mv2_d_3532_2355_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review. Although the product was gifted, all opinions expressed are genuine. Visit our policy page for more information on collaborative posts. </div><div>Have you heard the news? Quiz Clothing have expanded into the plus size world! Their new curve collection currently consists of 77 items in sizes 18-28. The collection is full of beautiful colours, lots of beaut Bardot styles, and is SUPER affordable with garments ranging form £12.99 to £34.99. Of course we hope and expect that their sizes will soon extend to 32+ but it’s still a much greater effort than the usual size 24 cut off we often see from brands, so thanks for that, Quiz! </div><div>As you maaaaay have noticed over on Instagram, I am SUPER into this top! I posted more than a few teaser photos, but I couldn’t help it! My brilliant photographer Lianne captured SO many shots that I just had to share! I wanted to show the versatility of the top, so I styled it two different ways. </div><div>First, I paired the top with with leggings and pumps. This is a great daytime look for grabbing coffee with your pals, which is exactly what we did! I love the oversized fit of the top with super snug leggings. The pumps and shopper are nice and casual, but this look would also be great with a chic pair of flats and a more structured handbag. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_99c6a389c77549548f1693cc9ca9b732~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d16ad0c59c5d44ef88b88fc774ac743b~mv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4d3071b34657481588c0ffa1507df1cd~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2109f40284e74a1a9c86359245f7bb3b~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_825f951119bb4e6bba4db2552cd995d8~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the cafe look:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c2be0f687c37d771113038c5d23cba72.html"/><div>Pink Jacket: <a href="http://www.asos.com/new-look-plus/new-look-plus-leather-look-biker-jacket/prd/7680170?iid=7680170&amp;clr=Pink&amp;SearchQuery=&amp;cid=9577&amp;pgesize=1&amp;pge=0&amp;totalstyles=1&amp;gridsize=3&amp;gridrow=1&amp;gridcolumn=1">New Look Curves, Size 22</a></div><div>Black leggings: <a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/stretch-jersey-leggings-short/tm811/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=5205#colour:Black,size:">Simply Be, Size 22, short length</a></div><div>Black knot pumps: <a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/sole-diva-knot-detail-slip-on-pumps-e-fit/gp180/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=5205&amp;cmCategory=-MINIBAG#colour:Nude%20Pink,size:8">Simply Be, Size 8E</a></div><div>Grid shopper: Old New Look. <a href="http://www.asos.com/asos/asos-croc-bonded-shopper-bag/prd/7314532?iid=7314532&amp;clr=Pink&amp;SearchQuery=pink%20shopper&amp;pgesize=27&amp;pge=0&amp;totalstyles=27&amp;gridsize=3&amp;gridrow=1&amp;gridcolumn=2">Similar at Asos</a></div><div>Next, I decided to swap leggings for bare legs. I love how the oxblood boots coordinate with the blush colour of the top, which I’ve styled here as a dress. That’s one of the perks of being 5 foot 4! If a top or tunic is long enough you can get away with wearing it as a dress! The only issue with bare legs is the batwing sleeves. I noticed that if I raise my arms quite high or put my clutch under my arm the dress became MUCH shorter, and an uncomfortable amount of thigh was showing, haha! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c698be43cd884f3e9448cde408faf7b4~mv2_d_3532_5298_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_4fdd263e68a840658aee55c7975b43e1~mv2_d_3481_5221_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_58077d0054d54de2b0d054842f2e957a~mv2_d_3249_4874_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_5733c7832f0f4b66b6c43a3d49da7e0d~mv2_d_3648_5472_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_d5c55a1d3a554ff680512f1428bcb918~mv2_d_3319_4978_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2605209123b34efe8b2d399f9a23b018~mv2_d_5472_3648_s_4_2.jpg"/><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_80cc11f7970e49c3add1246d9058843c~mv2_d_4103_2735_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Shop the botanic look:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_c2be0f687c37d771113038c5d23cba72.html"/><div>Oxblood ankle boots: Old Simply Be. <a href="http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_068010735502?CMP=SSH&amp;tmcampid=28&amp;tmad=c&amp;sku=8291570&amp;placmp=SSH_4358241016_418021255_27816129895&amp;mkwid=swmazI5zs%7Cpcrid%7C102581914615%7Cpkw%7C%7Cpmt%7C%7Cpdv%7Cc%7Cprd%7C8291570&amp;gclid=CPiMrN7StdMCFe4Q0wodJ08HJw&amp;gclsrc=aw.ds">Similar at Debenhams</a></div><div><a href="http://www.newlook.com/shop/womens/bags-and-purses/pink-floral-embroidered-clutch_520847714">Blush studded clutch: Old River Island. Similar at New Look</a></div><div>I’m really pleased with the overall sizing of this garment. Obviously it’s an oversized cut, but I’d say it runs true to size. I’m wearing a size 24, and my only gripe about sizing is that I wish the sleeves were a bit more snug. In my opinion, the colour is displayed accurately on the website. The material is super soft to the touch, and I like the weight of it. My only fear is that because it’s slinky it’ll be easy to catch and get pulls in the material. Only time will tell! Until then I’ll just keep washing it inside out on a delicate cycle.</div><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Quiz Clothing. Click to shop their new <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/plus-size/">curve range</a> and <a href="https://www.quizclothing.co.uk/clothes/dresses/going-out-dresses/">going out dresses</a>! All opinions expressed are my own. For more information about collaborative posts, please visit our policy page.</div><div>Special thanks to:</div><div><a href="http://www.lmackayphotography.com/home">Lianne Mackay Wedding Photography, Edinburgh</a></div><div><a href="http://www.cult-espresso.com">Cult Espresso, Edinburgh</a></div><div><a href="http://www.rbge.org.uk">Royal Botanic Garden, Edinburgh</a></div><div>More outfit posts here!</div><div>Previous post: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/03/17/What-I-Wore-Ribbed-Realness">Ribbed Realness</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Ribbed Realness with Pink Clove</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears pairs a neutral ribbed dress with black satin and black pumps in this outfit post brought to you by Pink Clove.This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Pink Clove. All opinions expressed are my own. For more information about sponsored content, please visit our policy page or feel free to get in touch. Have you babes been seeing the new-in items at Pink Clove? There is a lot to love, tbh!<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_43f718ab9af0487e942d3ff3e6e993c1%7Emv2_d_2517_1679_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/03/17/What-I-Wore-Ribbed-Realness</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/03/17/What-I-Wore-Ribbed-Realness</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 Mar 2017 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears pairs a neutral ribbed dress with black satin and black pumps in this outfit post brought to you by Pink Clove.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_43f718ab9af0487e942d3ff3e6e993c1~mv2_d_2517_1679_s_2.jpg"/><div>This post contains gifted products for review in collaboration with Pink Clove. All opinions expressed are my own. For more information about sponsored content, please visit our policy page or feel free to get in touch. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8465ef52634b4d938d485a8d2212457d~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Have you babes been seeing the new-in items at Pink Clove? There is a lot to love, tbh! There’s a lot of black (Yaaas!), gingham, and rocker chick vibes. I’m about it! The site currently offers UK sizes 16-28, and I would love it if they extended to 32 plus. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_8f637f5479784d6da1990e690737b2f9~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Is there anything worse than seeing a garment online that you adore only to be utterly disappointed when it arrives and the colour/texture/cut is all wrong? Thankfully that’s the exact opposite of my experience with this dress! It runs true to size, the colour is a gorgeous neutral, the ribbed material has loads of stretch, and I think I look fab! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_b52b4c2940fb42e0bd5f21412c3a91b8~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Remember <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/16/What-I-Wore-Pink-Velvet">my last post</a> where I talked about loving a tight fitting dress? Same story here! For this look I was trying to channel like, plus size Kim Kardashian vibes, you know? A nice, tight neutral bodycon dress with black outerwear. I can't be bothered wearing sky high heels like Kim does, so I swapped strappy stilettos for these slip ons. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_e16ba9a6e4c947bdb9be60df9bf74101~mv2_d_2848_4288_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This is the money shot, you guys! Work that Beyoncé hair fan! Of course mine's just Edinburgh's natural wind, but a girl can dream! Be sure to check out all the new arrivals at Pink Clove and take advantage of 10% off your first order! </div><div>Shop the look:</div><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_8163e94e34278d9cb99ca16ebbe54b6d.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_67b7f6f227d3c83f7fd2a51f41ab0d79.html"/><iframe src="//static.usrfiles.com/html/5b9dde_5ac1fcc42bddbc8956657b6c1a0dfb23.html"/><div>More style posts here! </div><div><a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/16/What-I-Wore-Pink-Velvet">Previous post: Pink Velvet</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Pink Velvet</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a velvet midi from Simply Be in this outfit post inspired by luxury and romance.When I started kindergarten at six years old our teacher had us play a game to get to know each other. I remember she asked what each student’s favourite colour was and I proudly proclaimed, “black!” Well Ms Lagree, look at me now! I still have a touch of black, but these days I prefer shades of pink. Let’s focus on what’s really important<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f0981fe76a9f426480e92dbe55e15d89%7Emv2_d_2463_1642_s_2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/16/What-I-Wore-Pink-Velvet</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/16/What-I-Wore-Pink-Velvet</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2017 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel wears a velvet midi from Simply Be in this outfit post inspired by luxury and romance.</div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_f0981fe76a9f426480e92dbe55e15d89~mv2_d_2463_1642_s_2.jpg"/><div>When I started kindergarten at six years old our teacher had us play a game to get to know each other. I remember she asked what each student’s favourite colour was and I proudly proclaimed, “black!” Well Ms Lagree, look at me now! I still have a touch of black, but these days I prefer shades of pink. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_c4e24cd10c9247b799623e58ea7164a0~mv2_d_2796_4193_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Let’s focus on what’s really important for a second. This dress has pockets! That’s right, y’all! They’re even big enough to hold your lipstick, bus pass and phone! Not having pockets on femme clothing is so frustrating, but do you know what’s even worse? Those itty bitty teeny tiny pockets that can barely hold a lipstick and £0.50. Like, why tease us like this?! Put out, or get out TBH! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_aeeb04d509514b2e9362aa6994e43006~mv2_d_2558_3837_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>Velvet is one of those fabrics that seems to be reserved exclusively for winter, like fur. But in this flirty pink colour I feel like this is a good transitional piece to help me sashay into spring! I’m looking forward to warmer days where I won’t need to layer up, but for now (at least!) a bomber jacket is necessary. Because the dress sleeves are so wide and drapey, any layers that go on top need to be pretty wide in the sleeve as well. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_30505d5c36dd40df9659625ac5f058a2~mv2_d_2808_4213_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>I am living for this leopard + pink combo, especially the faux fur stole! I want to embrace that sort of elderly woman who always get properly dressed up, even just for a quick trip to the corner store for milk. I’m always blown away by that sort of elegance and glamour, so why not practice while I’m still young? </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2fd95a5dbf1c41e1ad6f08ad7ccf1e28~mv2_d_2463_3694_s_4_2.jpg"/><div>This dress is currently a favourite of mine. I love anything that hugs all of my rolls, and this dress definitely does that. To be honest, I could’ve probably gone down to a 22 and been a tiny bit happier with the fit. The velvet has got loads of stretch which is nice. I love when you don’t have to worry about testing the fabric’s limits when you sit down, haha! The dress actually comes with a matching pink velvet belt, and has elasticated belt loops on the hips (where the bust of the dress meets the skirt) and I'm just nooooot into it. Because the belt is velvet it's super dense. I've tried using the belt as a skinny scarf, and also as a headband, but I wasn't particularly into either of those looks. Maybe I'll find some way to recycle it eventually haha! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_bd0991701ef2442c9d3fd287732feb75~mv2.png"/><div>Bear and I didn’t go out for Valentine’s Day because a) we’re just not that into it and b) we’re trying to save our money, honey. If we had gone out though, I definitely would have styled my pink velvet with pink faux fur and pink pleather like I did here over on my <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BQX9dGrgUCk/">Instagram</a>! </div><div>Shop the look:</div><div>Dress: <a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/simply-be-velvet-midi-wiggle-dress/yg076/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=4402#colour:Rose,size:">Simply Be, size 24</a></div><div>Bomber: <a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/simply-be-satin-bomber-jacket/gy815/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=4402#colour:Black,size:">Simply Be, size 22</a></div><div>Flats: Old Target (USA), <a href="http://www.asos.com/asos/asos-leonie-square-ballet-flats/prd/6058180?iid=6058180&amp;affid=14173&amp;channelref=product%20search&amp;mk=abc&amp;currencyid=1&amp;ppcadref=333136221%7C20505847101%7Cpla-178093516341&amp;gclid=CIrhuO-BktICFcWd7QodBA8Gig">similar at Asos</a></div><div>Stole: Vintage, similar at <a href="http://www.houseoffraser.co.uk/Dents+Womens+animal+print+faux+fur+scarf/251319713,default,pd.html&amp;_$ja=tsid:91443%7Ccid:706311087%7Cagid:42381012448%7Ctid:aud-131079952360:pla-268916507226%7Ccrid:177826412626%7Cnw:g%7Crnd:6104942666080390194%7Cdvc:c%7Cadp:1o3%7Cmt:">House of Fraser</a></div><div>More style posts here!</div><div>Previous outfit: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/13/What-I-Wore-Embroidered-Frock">Embroidered Frock</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Manicure Maintenance</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her top tips for getting the most out of your salon manicure in this beauty chat post. It’s no secret that I’m a gigantic fan of Cutie Kills. She is my nail saviour, and I cannot recommend her enough! Honestly, if you’re in or around Edinburgh get in touch with Zara and get yourself a fresh set of claws. When you’re in the salon every 3-4 weeks getting your nail extensions filled, well, leeeeet’s just say that money<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_0d51e0aa41ac47959fd1cd9313ce9eeb%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/15/Beauty-Chat-Manicure-Maintenance</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/15/Beauty-Chat-Manicure-Maintenance</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2017 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel shares her top tips for getting the most out of your salon manicure in this beauty chat post. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_0d51e0aa41ac47959fd1cd9313ce9eeb~mv2.jpg"/><div>It’s no secret that I’m a gigantic fan of <a href="https://www.facebook.com/cutiekills/?fref=ts">Cutie Kills</a>. She is my nail saviour, and I cannot recommend her enough! Honestly, if you’re in or around Edinburgh get in touch with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cutie_kills/">Zara</a> and get yourself a fresh set of claws. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_92effa9a537745108149109439c8e985~mv2.jpg"/><div>When you’re in the salon every 3-4 weeks getting your nail extensions filled, well, leeeeet’s just say that money adds up. As far as I’m concerned, these nails are an investment that I want to take good care of. At my very first salon appointment Zara said “treat them like jewels, don’t use them like tools.” That may be cheesy, but it’s true! I'm a big fan of these 6 items that will keep your nails looking salon fresh between infills. </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_2239be8f78814512ab60a74a6030452c~mv2.jpg"/><div><a href="https://www.paperchase.co.uk/stationery/pen-shop/all-pens/slim-rose-gold-pen.html">1. Rose Gold Pen</a></div><div>I always have a pen on me, and I use it for everything so I don’t compromise my coffins! I use it on the touch screen tills at work, I use it in stubborn toilets that you push a button to flush (WHY is this a thing?!) rather than pressing a handle, you name it! Sometimes the pen is overkill and I’ll just use my knuckle, like when I need to press the button on the bus or at a cross walk. Just don’t use your nails! </div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/GGG-Triangle-Capacitive-Stylus-Samsung/dp/B01L731VEW/ref=sr_1_17?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1487099588&amp;sr=8-17&amp;keywords=iphone+stylus">2. Smartphone &amp; Tablet Stylus</a></div><div>I like to keep my nails like, ridiculously long. Like, so long that typing and texting can get a bit difficult. That’s where a stylus comes in. Sure you may look like a nerd, but at least you’re a nerd with flawless fingertips! </div><div><a href="http://www.superdrug.com/Holiday---Prepare-to-Bare/Palmers-Cocoa-Body-Scrub/p/410752">Palmer’s Cocoa Body Scrub</a></div><div>Every few days I like to do a scrub to get any dead skin off of my hands and cuticles. You cannot go wrong with Palmer’s, you guys! The scent is amazing, it’s ridiculously affordable, and most importantly it works!</div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Fred-Friends-TUFF-Tattooed-Gloves/dp/B00634EA30?th=1">Tattooed Washing Up Gloves</a></div><div>Whether you’re washing dishes or doing other household cleaning, you’ve got to wear gloves grrl! I always wear them to wash dishes because I cannot STAND touching mystery gunk in the dishwater. (Is there anything worse?!) Whether it’s a fun decorated pair like this, or classic Marigolds, the gloves protect your manicure from not just wear and tear, but from any chemicals in household cleaners. </div><div><a href="http://www.boots.com/soap-and-glory-original-pink-hand-food-10217808">Soap &amp; Glory Hand Food</a></div><div>I’ve tried dozens of hand creams, but this one always has me coming back for more! The scent is girly, it leaves the slightest shimmer, and honestly I’m just about it. Plus it’s almost always on offer at Boots!</div><div><a href="http://www.boots.com/sally-hansen-vitamin-e-and-cuticle-oil-10155963">Sally Hansen Nail &amp; Cuticle Oil</a></div><div>I never understood the appeal of nail oil, but Zara insisted that it was worth it. Let me tell y'all, she was SO right! I picked up this Sally Hansen oil and I like to use it any time I’m on the bus. For me that’s a minimum of 2x per day. I can’t even remember the last time I got a hangnail, or any dryness around my nails for that matter! It makes my cuticles soooo soft.</div><div>What about you, dolls? What products or tricks do you use to keep your nails in tip top shape? Let me know in the comments below! </div><div>More beauty posts here!</div><div>Previous beauty chat: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/06/09/Beauty-Chat-Gel-Nail-Extensions-by-Cutie-Kills">Gel Extensions by Cutie Kills</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title>Be Your Own Valentine</title><description><![CDATA[Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel encourages you to treat yourself this Valentine’s Day in this wish list post, because you’re worth it! Whether you love it, hate it, or just don’t care (nihilism is in this season, lol) it’s Valentine’s Day. It’s super weird because I’m suuuuuch a romantic, but I’m not particularly into this whole mushy, lovey-dovey holiday. However, I am VERY into any excuse to treat yo self! I stuck with a classic romantic colour palette<img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1c1ee90bfd5b4d0e936c55885d86e8ea%7Emv2.jpg"/>]]></description><link>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/14/Wish-List-Be-Your-Own-Valentine</link><guid>https://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2017/02/14/Wish-List-Be-Your-Own-Valentine</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2017 13:31:15 +0000</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div>Edinburgh based plus size style and fat positive blogger AmandaApparel encourages you to treat yourself this Valentine’s Day in this wish list post, because you’re worth it! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_1c1ee90bfd5b4d0e936c55885d86e8ea~mv2.jpg"/><div>Whether you love it, hate it, or just don’t care (nihilism is in this season, lol) it’s Valentine’s Day. It’s super weird because I’m suuuuuch a romantic, but I’m not particularly into this whole mushy, lovey-dovey holiday. However, I am VERY into any excuse to treat yo self! I stuck with a classic romantic colour palette with dreamy pinks and reds with this list of my 10 top buys for being your own valentine today! </div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_bff312c4face42a78e35c6ccd3e47265~mv2.jpg"/><div><a href="http://www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.0439023002.html">1. H&amp;M Block Pattern Scarf</a></div><div>It is SO. COLD. OUTSIDE. Like, Baltic. This scarf would be a cute way to bundle up while going on a romantic outing with your partner, walking your dog, or running to the shop for a bottle of rosé. </div><div><a href="https://www.paperchase.co.uk/gifts/bags-and-travel/all-bags/rose-gold-backpack.html">2. Paperchase Rose Gold Backpack</a></div><div>Rose gold is everywhere right now (and copper, and copper that people call “rose gold,” but that’s another story) and honestly, I’m into it. I’m also having a moment with backpacks. This is v similar to the grey Zoella bag I picked up at Boots last Christmas. </div><div><a href="http://store.starbucks.co.uk/pink-and-white-hearts-tumbler-473-ml-16-fl-oz/011065452,en_GB,pd.html?navid=tumblers-and-travel-mugs&amp;start=10&amp;navid=tumblers-and-travel-mugs">3. Starbucks Pink and White Hearts Tumbler</a></div><div>How cute is this travel mug from Starbucks? I’ve gotten MUCH better lately about bringing a mug with me (just like bringing a shopping bag to save the environment and save myself £0.05 at the till) which is great, but now I’m totally just using it as an excuse to buy more tumblers. Classic Amanda, amirite? </div><div><a href="https://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/wolf-whistle-nude-pink-scalloped-frill-top-p">4. Wolf and Whistle Scalloped Top</a></div><div>I recently worked with Wolf and Whistle on an outfit post, and I just REALLY believe in this brand. The colour palettes they use are just lush. Their curve range currently goes up to size 26, which I hope &amp; pray extends to 32 in the near future because it is so good. I’m rooting for you, Wolf and Whistle! </div><div><a href="https://debutmagazine.co.uk">5. Debut Magazine: The Self Love Issue</a></div><div>Debut Magazine is the UK’s first career and lifestyle magazine highlighting women in the creative industries, and I am OBSESSED. The third issue focuses on self love, which is a major priority for me. I wish I was a millionaire so I could invest in what they’re doing at Debut. Stay tuned for a brand crush post about these folks really soon! </div><div><a href="http://www.asos.com/asos-curve/asos-curve-smart-midi-dress/prd/7250089?iid=7250089&amp;clr=Moltenred&amp;SearchQuery=&amp;cid=9577&amp;pgesize=36&amp;pge=0&amp;totalstyles=69&amp;gridsize=3&amp;gridrow=8&amp;gridcolumn=1">6. ASOS Curve Red Wiggle Dress</a></div><div>This dress would just hug all of my curves and swerves and I looove the lush red colour. You could wear this dress for date night, whether you’re hitting up a five star restaurant with bae, a hipster dive with your gal pals, or treating yourself to a solo Nando’s.</div><div><a href="https://www.fossil.com/uk/en/products/lips-lapel-pin-sku-ja6856p.html">7. Fossil Lips Lapel Pin</a></div><div>I’m gonna be real with you here. I’ve avoided the whole enamel pin trend because I just KNOW that once I buy one, I’m going to want to buy loads. But they’re so cute and such a fun way to personalise jackets, bags, backpacks and more! </div><div><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Ootd-Fashion-Flat-Coloring-Book/dp/1780678703">8. Laura Hickman #OOTD Fashion Flat Lay Coloring Book</a></div><div>Okay, I have had this colouring book on my mind ever since I saw it in my local Urban Outfitters. I tend to go in for like, trend inspo, but I reeeeally don’t like giving them money for loads of reasons. I was SO thrilled to find Laura Hickman’s colouring book on Amazon! This is the most Blogger™ thing I’ve ever seen and I need it like ASAP.</div><div><a href="http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/simply-be-ribbed-bardot-body/yg286/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=5205#colour:Soft%20Pink,size:20">9. Simply Be Ribbed Bardot Bodysuit</a></div><div>GIVE. ME. ALL. THE. PINK. BARDOT. GOODS. I cannot get enough, and this bodysuit will 100% be a uniform purchase after payday! It’ll look great with skinny jeans and flats, or a really voluminous skirt and heels. Add a choker and you’re good to go!</div><div><a href="http://www.curvykate.com/curvy-kate-kitty-merlot-plunge-longline-babydoll">10. Curvy Kate Kitty Longline Babydoll</a></div><div>Consider this your friendly reminder that you don’t need to be in a relationship or dating anybody to get yourself some nice lingerie. A nice bra or babydoll makes me feel equal parts strong and sexy. I’d love to wear this babydoll around the house while eating popcorn and watching Drag Race on Netflix.</div><div>I hope you babes all have a great day today, and remember that you’re SO much more than your relationships. You’re beautiful, and worthy of love, and I think you’re really freakin cool! </div><div>More wish list posts here!</div><div>Previous wish list: <a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/11/29/Wish-List-House-of-Fraser">House of Fraser Womenswear</a></div><img src="http://static.wixstatic.com/media/5a3ab3_75bdbc683c454e9ea604ee113145e6d7~mv2.jpg"/><div><a href="http://www.amandaapparel.co.uk/single-post/2016/11/29/Wish-List-House-of-Fraser"></a></div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div><div>Save</div></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>