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Assistance

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Wed, 30 May 2012 00:57:27 +0000

The current debate over euthanasia or assisted suicide is just heartbreaking.

I felt very strongly about it when it came back into the news a couple of weeks ago with the case of Debbie Purdy.

It seems unconscionable that this incredibly brave woman, who is now confined to a wheelchair because of her MS, should [...]

Older Women Younger Men Relationships – The Cougar

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Tue, 29 May 2012 07:55:40 +0000

33% – the percentage of women over 40 who say they want to date a younger man PARSHIP.co.uk

26% – the proportion of UK marriages where the wife is older ONS

“Are you still fucking that old lady?”

In the beginning his friends all said to him that he needed someone of his own age group and from his own [...]

Pleasurists #176 – my counting is all out

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Sun, 27 May 2012 23:07:05 +0000

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Leaving Your Husband – A Woman of Independent Means

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Sun, 27 May 2012 00:52:35 +0000

It’s almost a year since I told my Husband that I was leaving and I wanted a divorce. At the time, he raised no objection and I began the search for a flat that I could rent, which would keep me close to my children, who would remain with him in their family home as [...]

Silver

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Sat, 26 May 2012 08:17:02 +0000

It’s been there at the back of my mind for over a decade

This day. This date.

25 years since we walked down the aisle.

It was when my children started to talk about how we were going to celebrate it that I realised I couldn’t stay in the marriage.

In the early days, I had dreamed so [...]

A Rude Awakening

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Thu, 24 May 2012 00:42:58 +0000

Sexoteric and e[lust] #12

In the depths of the night, I half wake to the feel of her cool skin wrapping itself around my back.

Soft breasts pushing against my ribs and her groin moulding itself to my buttocks.

At first her fingers merely stroke my neck and cheek, sometimes trailing round and down onto my chest, but always returning [...]

I Love Your Face

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Wed, 23 May 2012 09:01:07 +0000

It had been a good weekend.

Sure, there had been times when we had got cross with each other. It’s what happens when you live together and work together so closely in a confined space for several days without going out.

But, mostly, we just appreciate each other’s finer points.

And then in the the car as [...]

Pleasurists #176

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Tue, 22 May 2012 07:00:51 +0000

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Link Vehicle – Get Paid to Blog

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Mon, 21 May 2012 00:33:55 +0000

For those bloggers who would like to earn cash from their writing, Link Vehicle is an opportunity for you to be paid for anchor text link advertisements in your sidebar, your footer or in your posts. The way it works is that the advertisers pay a certain amount to Link Vehicle which is then split 50/50 with the blogger concerned. To find out more visit Link [...]

e[lust] #36

Joanna Cake, HavingMyCake — Sat, 19 May 2012 11:00:02 +0000

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Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #37? [...]