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The world is yours

2012-02-20T18:12:00.001-05:00

I've held on to this quote for such a long time, long before I even moved to New York. I thought this quote would be a very appropriate thing to post upon my arrival, but its meaning didn't hold as much weight as it has since recently. I thought that things would change for me as instantly as a light switch when I decided to move to New York. I was more than ready to leave my friends and family at home and start a new life, a life that I wanted to make my own. I almost was desperate to move on from my past, and start over. Now that I've been here for a little over a year, I now realize that as ready as my mind was, my heart needed more time to heal. I am slowly realizing that things can be as good as you allow them to be, and vice versa.

It's funny how things come once you let go.

xoxo

Things I want for no reason

2012-02-14T18:04:00.000-05:00

So it's Valentine's Day, and I recently realized that since moving to New York I haven't had a chance to do any real shopping for myself. That's right. I haven't shopped in over a year. Sure, I'd buy pieces of clothing to help me get through summer and winter, but truthfully my wardrobe hasn't had a major dent in it since I gave birth. This is another wardrobe tragedy story that I'll get back to eventually.

Being broke and living in New York has trained me to avoid both retail and online stores so I wouldn't be tempted to just "charge it." Now that I'm making money, I'm slowly getting back into my retail groove. Just recently I started missing that thing us girls call retail therapy that I started online window shopping, and came across these cute unnecessary finds:

Ninja Pirate Bunny! Pin / $10

Robot Ballerina Necklace / $3

Polka Dot Tape / $10

Love & Beauty Blotting Papers / $4

Po-om-po Strawberry Mini Envelopes / $4

Banana Coin Purse / $6

Batman Mimobot USB Flash Drive / $36

Creative Outlet Stickers / $5

MikeAnDrea by Chaz Cruz

2012-02-07T14:48:00.005-05:00

This past weekend our friend Chaz came by our apartment in Queens to take some press photos of Mike, which naturally, since the location was inside our apartment decided to take some quick snaps of both Mike and I as well. I've always admired Chaz's work, and I was so thrilled that he wanted to shoot us!

Take a peek:

I told Chaz not to, but he insisted in capturing me cutting my nails.

Then he asked me to sit in our laundry cart...

Shooting the shooter (with Shannon in the back!)

I think Shannon said something dirty!

Mike with his first EP and first LP

xoxo

V Magazine // January 2012

2012-01-15T17:53:00.001-05:00

Check out my first credited casting! Let me just say for the record that I had no input whatsoever regarding the creative direction of this shoot, and that my thoughts on hip-hop do not reflect this editorial. My models looks AWESOME though! :)

30 Day Challenge: Your zodiac/horoscope and if you think it fits your personality

2012-01-12T16:46:00.000-05:00

DAY 15

It's super appropriate that I left off on this day's challenge since my birthday just passed. Last Friday in the office one of my co-workers asked me what people usually said about Capricorns. I told her that the most common thing I hear is that we are "passionate, hard workers." So naturally she asked if I thought that was true. I told her that yes of course I thought it was true! Although I don't follow horoscopes much (unless it's mine), most of the things I read - mostly in fashion magazines - seem to deem true. But I think they're measured to make you believe that it coincides with your life.

Here's a snap of my horoscope from last month (Harper's Bazaar):

You draw attention in early December, despite your desire to keep a low profile. The holidays welcome serenity and amorous realizations. Make a New Year's resolution to trust your intuition around lovers. Use your extra charisma, but take work seriously.

I don't take these things too seriously, but if I read something encouraging related to "my sign" I always take those words into account. Great advice though, don't you think?

xoxo

Looking backwards

2012-01-04T20:06:00.005-05:00

So I had this idea a few nights ago, while brainstorming ways to get back into blogging, that I start blogging backwards.

Let me explain.

I had mentioned before how I have so many photos that I wanted to show you all - and that's what I've mainly used this blog for: telling stories through photos! Doing that has helped me cope and understand the root of myself, and thankfully some of you enjoy reading. :) So when I say I that I have this idea to blog backwards, it means that I blog back on the last year starting from December to January. I've royally left this blog to collect so much dust, and I want to give it the love and care that I used to. Things finally seem to be settling pretty well for me here in NY, and I really want to get back into to writing. Hope I'll see you soon.

xoxo

2011 round-up

2011-12-31T19:29:00.021-05:00

Hi darling friends!

It's New Year's Eve, the apartment is cleaned up and Mike and I are now sitting in our pretty little living room on our pretty little couch, listening to music and waiting for the clock to strike midnight with some neat glasses of Buffalo Trace. As I sit in our new apartment next to the man of my dreams on this very day, I can't help but think back on the year I've had that is 2011. Life is good - at least as good as you make it to be. I know I haven't updated you all much on my where abouts and what abouts, but I promise I will be better in updating this dear blog of mine! (Hi Dad! I promise I'll write more.) For those of you that follow me: I'm sorry for letting this blog go stale! This year has definitely been a year of self realization, self discovery and self recovery. Those that follow me on Facebook and Twitter have a bit of a feel for what's been going on, but in case you don't I'm gonna do my best to get you all up to date in this post.

I rang in 2011 with my love, here in Queens, New York. He was in town up until my birthday (January 6), while still living in Alameda, California so yes, I was in a long distance relationship! February was when I decided to temporarily move back to California until April, when Mike decided to move in with me to New York. This was definitely my biggest highlight of this year. I can't even decipher how prominent this moment was. No more long distance, no more back and forth flights to California, no more empty pockets! Mike moving to New York was a sure sign that this man was the real deal, straight up. And to make matters better, both him and I flew back to New York together on Arieson's [would-be] 4th birthday. What a symbolic way to start a journey together. :)

Mike moving in with me meant that I was finally able to live in New York full-time. I got myself an internship at a modeling agency, and was quickly brought on as a booker. After a few months, I realized that I wasn't in fact a saleswoman so I decided to get into casting, which was the other side of the modeling business. By the help of a colleague, I landed an internship with the lovely Natalie Joos, became her assistant and now I am a freelance casting agent under her name. I am insanely satisfied with where I'm at career wise, to say the least. I've gained a great relationship with Natalie, and I plan to keep that relationship fruitful for years to come. She's a rad chick. I feel very blessed to be working alongside such a profound figure in the fashion world.

In June, my grandmother passed away, on the exact same day my darling Arieson passed away. It was such a heavy moment in my life - I got the call 5am my time, which was 2am California time, minutes before I was to board a plane to California to visit my son's grave. I kept it together on my 5 hour flight alone to California until I was back in NYC for a couple of days to process my feelings. I got to see my mom in California (she lives in the Philippines now), and she was probably the reason why I was able to keep my cool. But once I was back in NYC after that short weekend, I broke down. Badly. The next week I was on another flight back to California, only to make it in time for my grandmother's viewing, then to say my final goodbyes at her funeral, where she was to be buried next to my cousin (who would have been 28 this year) and my grandfather, who passed away when I was pregnant with Arieson. I took a first class flight to LA, thanks to Mike's mom, and a coach flight to SF. June was a heavy, heavy month for me. I wouldn't have survived it without my Mike. Man...

In July, I decided to chop my hair off; partly because of the intense summer heat of New York but mostly to liberate myself from all the hardships I've been through so far. When Arieson passed away, I wanted to chop my hair off, but everyone around me kept telling me how irrational and reactionary I was being. I listened, and kept my locks. I finally gained the courage to just fucking do it. I donated my butt-length hair to Locks of Love, and never looked back. I love my boy cut, and I don't think I'll ever have long hair again. Well...we will see. ;)

Dude, Hurricane Irene. Although it was downgraded to Tropical Storm Irene toward the tail end of its course, it was an experience I will never forget. In California, we don't get hurricanes; we get earthquakes! Preparing for a natural disaster like this for the first time away from family was a bit nerve racking. All the while, I'm glad Mike was by my side through the mind fuck. Here was the result of the "disaster":

New York City was super lucky to have dodged this one. Prayers and positive thoughts to the families who endured the brunt of the hurricane.

Oh, did I forget to mention that Mike and I lived in Harlem for a month?! We were pretty much forced out of the establishment we were living at at the time with a "friend" in October. The timing was the absolute worst because both Mike and I were both working New York Fashion Week in September, among other things, not to mention I was still only an intern at the time, leaving us hardly any financial means to actually move. Considering how desperate we got, we ended up in a cockroach infested slum lord apartment on 138th and Broadway for the month of October. It's safe to say that this was my worst month in New York so far. The building had an energy that so very easily sucked the life out of me, not to mention the one day of snow we had in the middle of Fall. What a mind fuck. I could have easily caved in and lost my mind, but instead I chose to keep on the path and lo and behold, got us a sweet ass spot in our beloved Woodside, Queens area in the building we've been gawking over since moving to Woodside. Although it was a shitty (and I mean shitty) month, I don't think I would have been as thankful as I am now to be living such blessed life in New York City.

So now Mike and I are happily residing in a one bedroom apartment in Queens, with the help of a dear friend Sophia Chang (thanks, girl!) We are still building our little space (buying furniture, kitchen appliances, etc.) but once we are completely settled, I'd love to show you all our home. Oh, I also landed a temp gig at a branding agency. Come end of January - I hope to land a full-time position at this company, while freelancing for Natalie Joos. Mama needs health insurance!

The year was full of SO MANY ups and downs it was almost bi-polar, but it only makes me stronger, and able to deal with stressful situations in a more constructive way. I can only hope that 2012 treats me just as well. Regardless, I know now how to deal with the speed bumps. I just gotta keep hustlin' and networking while staying positive. Positivity is key! I've met so many great people here in New York. I've also met some lame folks, and have discovered how ignorant people you've even known for awhile can be, but I can give a fuck about them. As long as I'm moving forward without those negative people, I'm all good.

Ok, this bourbon-whiskey blend is taking over me, so I best go now. Dad, you'd be proud (hi!). I hope you all come back soon to visit and read up on what's going on with me. Btw, if you do read my blog please don't be shy and let me know that you are reading! I love to meet new readers, and I would love to talk to YOU!

Here's to a wonderful and prosperous 2012. Fuck the bullshit - let's do this!!

xoxo

P.S.
I haven't forgotten about my 30 day challenge! It will commence once again soon enough.

Give Thanks

2011-11-24T12:07:00.006-05:00

Be thankful everyday. For the things you have, for the things you don't have, your health, your past, present and future, the people around you and most of all yourself. Be thankful for today.

Happy Thanksgiving!

xoxo

i-D Magazine // November 2011

2011-11-15T10:25:00.002-05:00

This spread is a big deal because it is the first fashion casting I assisted with for Natalie Joos. It was the very first project she threw me in on my first day of interning for her. And I had zero experience! I was responsible for scouting male and female models with bowl cuts for a shoot that would happen in about a week in Paris. From this, I learned how incredibly slow my work pace was compared to New York standards, and how much I needed to step my game up.

Karmen Pedaru

Yuri Pleskun

Fashion Editor/Stylist Havana Lafittte
Hair Stylist Brent Lawler Makeup Artist Alice Lane
Casting Director Natalie Joos
Photographer Paola Kudacki

Meanwhile...

2011-11-09T23:58:00.008-05:00

Been hella busy getting my shit together in the hustle and bustle of New York City. Hella changes, hella challenges, hella stress, hella fun. I'm still reppin' Cali though! Stay tuned...

Theory Campaign // Fall/Winter 2011

2011-10-15T17:51:00.002-04:00

Aline Weber

Fashion Editor/Stylist Clare Richardson
Casting Director Natalie Joos
Photographer Josh Olins

Hercules Magazine // September 2011

2011-09-15T16:15:00.002-04:00

This was the first professional photo shoot I felt I was actually a part of. I was able to come to the studio, and meet the models as well as the rest of the crew who was responsible for making this editorial come to life. It was awesome seeing Paola Kudacki hard at work, and seeing how stuff like this is made. I'm especially proud of casting Matt Norklun who, by the way, aside from being a model, moonlights as a pilot. :)

Ollie Edwards

Hannelore Knuts

Kimanie Farquharson

Douglas Friedman

Matt Norklun

Fashion Editor/Stylist Francesco Sourigues Hair Stylist Holli Smith Makeup Artist Sil Bruinsma Manicurist Rica Romain Casting Director Natalie Joos
Photographer Paola Kudacki

Zac Posen / Spring 2012 RTW

2011-09-11T17:44:00.000-04:00

Some of my muses from Zac Posen's Spring 2012 RTW show during New York Fashion Week:

Designer Zac Posen
Casting Director Natalie Joos

Hailey Clauson

Harieth Paul

Kendra Spears

Lindsey Wixon

Bruna Tenorio

Coco Rocha

view the entire collection on Style.com

Cut 25 by Yigal Azrouël / Spring 2012 Presentation

2011-09-11T17:33:00.000-04:00

This was my favorite show to cast for this season! Everyone involved was great, and I really enjoyed the collection. Because this was a presentation as opposed to a runway show, it was a lot more relaxed and laid back (which I like!) The models did an awesome job as well as the crew. Congrats to the ever-so-talented Yigal Azrouël!

Charlotte Ronson / Spring 2012 RTW

2011-09-10T16:37:00.006-04:00

Some of my muses from Charlotte Ronson's Spring 2012 RTW show during New York Fashion Week:

Designer Charlotte Ronson

Casting Director Natalie Joos

Iris Egbers

Svieta Nemkova

Charlotte Nolting

Johanna Fosselius

Leticia Lamb

Samira Carvalho

Elin Amos

Wang Xiao

Suzie Bird

Kel Markey

Allaire Heisig

view the entire collection on Style.com

United Bamboo / Spring 2012 RTW

2011-09-09T17:53:00.000-04:00

Some of my muses from United Bamboo's Spring 2012 RTW show during New York Fashion Week:

Designer United Bamboo
Casting Director Natalie Joos

Brenda Kranz

Allaire Heisig

Ruby Jean Wilson

Dovile Virsilaite

Antonia Wesseloh

Wang Xiao

Emma Ahlund

view the entire collection on Style.com

Yigal Azrouël / Spring 2012 RTW

2011-09-09T17:14:00.001-04:00

Some of my muses from Yigal Azrouël's Spring 2012 RTW show during New York Fashion Week:

Designer Yigal AzrouëlCasting Director Natalie Joos

Ruby Jean WIlson

Antonia Wesseloh

Kate Kosushkina

Bo Don

Harieth Paul

Wang Xiao

Kelsey Van Mook

Aline Zanella

Zhenya Katava
view the entire collection on Style.com

30 Day Challenge: What you wore today

2011-08-25T23:02:00.000-04:00

DAY 14

H&M flannel and shorts, vintage scarf (belonged to my mom)

Uniqlo knee highs, Steve Madden boots

I've never been one to post these type of photos. I get so self-conscious! I don't put as much effort as these style bloggers do. First, I don't own many pieces of clothing (I don't even have a closet), second, I don't invest nearly as much money on photo worthy clothes than I do on food and third, I'm quite shy in front of a camera. I'm working on it though. I usually like to be behind the lens. So there you go. :)

30 Day Challenge: Your opinion about your body and how comfortable you are with it

2011-08-24T23:37:00.000-04:00

DAY 13

This is a sensitive subject. I normally don't like talking about other people's bodies and body types (unless they are models or celebrities), and I especially don't like talking about my own. I think a conversation about one's body is pointless. It makes people self-conscious when they shouldn't be.

Here's an observation: when girls talk about their bodies, there's ALWAYS something wrong with it. When girls talk about other girls' bodies, they tend to point out both their perfections and imperfections. Then they compare. Girls can be so particular about a menial subject. I choose not to partake in such nonsense; the more it is mentioned, the more it becomes obsessive. A person's body does not define their character!

I love my body. You have to. It's all you've got. If everything works and you're healthy, there should be no reason to hate your body. Once you start hating on your body, you start hating on yourself. If you're unhappy, then do something about it! Work with what you've got. A lot of people like to comment and point out my build, considering how much I eat and the fact that I carried a baby in me for 9 months. I know they are just complimentary, and I appreciate them. But please believe that I am no more gifted than the next "lucky" girl. I eat healthy, I drink lots of water and I work out. It's quite simple. I take care of myself pretty much. You've got to.

Plus, I have a boyfriend who loves my body, stretch marks and everything. The least I can do is keep it the way he likes it. ;)

30 Day Challenge: Five guys whom you find attractive

2011-08-23T22:00:00.005-04:00

DAY 12

Jon Kortajarena by Terry Richardson
Sergio K

Jon Kortajarena
Michael Fassbender
Joseph Gordon-Levitt
DJ Stretch Armstrong
James Franco

Mike knows this list better than I do.

30 Day Challenge: Your family

2011-08-22T13:38:00.003-04:00

DAY 11

The internet was down at my apartment for an entire week last week (AN ENTIRE WEEK), so I decided to take the time to organize and back up all my photos in my laptop and hard drive since I couldn't live my life (ok, I'm being dramatic). As I was archiving everything, I realized that I don't have many photos of my family. It's weird, I know, but it explains why I don't talk about them much on this dear blog (what's a blog these days without photos?). I'm also rather private when it comes to my family. Not many of my friends really know who they are besides my closest ones. I'm quite protective of them. I'm very particular as to who gets to meet them, so if you've met and actually spoke to both of my parents, you must be awesome.

My parents divorced when I was 7-years-old, and both remarried around my teens. I grew up and lived with my mom and step-dad, and would occasionally see my dad and step-mom, mostly on weekend and holidays. It was tough getting used to having two sets of parents, but having a step-brother helped. We are fairly close in age, so we were able to relate in some ways. He lived with us when I was in high school. My step-brother's name is Nathan, and he's 5 years older than I am. My parents names are Amanda and Angelito; my step-dad is George and my step-mom is Maria.

I'm very close to both sides. I have great relationships with both my mom's and dad's extended families, and I consider my step-dad's family as my own. It took some tough love and trying times, but it's worked in my favor so far. Nowadays, I only see my family on holidays and rare occasions, but it's not because I now live in New York. Even when I was living in California, it would be the same story. I come from a family (as a whole) where our relationships are stronger because we have our own lives; if we saw each other so often we'd probably be killing each other or ourselves. In my family, no news is good news. The kind of relationship I have with my family has partly made it that much easier to move away from them to New York. So I guess that's a good enough explanation as to why I don't carry many family photos with me. I'll leave it up to my bopper cousins to take the photos and distribute them via Facebook tagging. I actually had to gather these photos from none other than Facebook! So for all you curious monkeys, I present to you, my darlings, my family:

Mom & and my step-dad George

Dad & my step-mom Maria

My step-brother Nathan

Wanna know more? Ask me. :)

30 Day Challenge: Put your music player on shuffle and write the first ten songs that play

2011-07-26T11:00:00.001-04:00

DAY 10

The White Stripes - The Nurse

Esthero - Superheroes

Hall & Oates - I Can't Go For That

David Bowie - Under Pressure

Prince - Loveleft, Loveright

Jamie Cullum - Next Year, Baby

Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Hysteric

Earth, Wind & Fire - That's The Way Of The World

Astrud Gilberto With Stanley Turrentine - To A Flame

Yann Tiersen - Le moulin

I am going to admit right now that I had to skip some HNRL unreleased songs, so this list isn't completely honest. ;)

xoxo

30 Day Challenge: How important you think education is

2011-07-21T20:35:00.003-04:00

DAY 9

I don't want to get into politics, but lack of education is the very reason why Americans like Sarah Palin. So yes, of course I think education is important. I can agree that the education system can use some work, but for the most part, education is what keeps children curious. I myself was never into school when I was growing up, but I do believe that everyone needs some sort of formal education in their lives, regardless. That way most Americans can get away with being half-stupid. I think K-12 is good. In college, I learned how to party. I gained my networking skills from going out and socializing, and in the industry I'm in, that's all you really need to know.

How important do you think education is?

xoxo

30 Day Challenge: What you ate today

2011-07-20T23:51:00.002-04:00

DAY 8

Ugh! I really like today's topic because I'm always taking photos of my food, but I wasn't very thrilled with the photos I've taken of the food I ate today. Had this topic been this past Monday or yesterday, I would have given you guys some awesome photos of the awesome food Mike and I ate for dinner during Restaurant Week here in NY. Also, I've developed this really bad habit of not eating breakfast and lunch everyday. I know, it's horrible, but I work so much that sometimes I forget to eat. When I do eat, it's usually a small snack. I actually made sure to remember to eat lunch today since I knew today's topic was pertaining to food. I really wanted to show you guys some awesome photos of the food I ate today, but alas, I am ashamed to even publish my poor photography quality of my food!

For lunch, I met up with my friends Marisue and Joe, who are visiting from San Francisco, at a Spanish spot called Despaña in Soho. It was my first time there. Not bad! I had chorizo con castañas with some bread. It was a very small tapas dish, but it was delicious.

I found this photo on their website. I couldn't leave you guys wondering what my dish looked like, even though I didn't take this photo!

For dinner, I met up with Mike and we went to 1534, a bar also in Soho. We shared some bar snacks: salt cod fritters and croque monsieur with spicy dijon. Unfortunately, I couldn't find a photo of this dish from their website or Yelp, but it was damn delicious. It was also my first time at this spot as well.

I also want to let you all know that today's food does not reflect my normal intake when I'm in a good mood. I've also been stressed, which explains my lack of appetite as of lately. It's not good. I love to eat food! I love to eat good food, and Mike and I love to dine out. Soon enough I'll get back on track.

xoxo

30 Day Challenge: Five pet peeves

2011-07-19T10:00:00.003-04:00

DAY 7

Bad manners
Radio music
Dirty dishes (actually, dirty anything...besides Chuck Taylors)
Poorly made cocktails
Distasteful fashion decisions

That was easy.

xoxo