You’ve heard it before: traveling to India represents a polarizing experience for many Westerners — you tend to either love it or hate it. Having spent time in India, this is a notion that makes a lot of sense. The streets and roads of India are beset by piles of trash and seem to have no traffic rules; the rich seem to coexist with the poorest of the poor seamlessly;  the food tastes like it has the power to light your stomach aflame.

But What Brings Westerners to India?

There is also the India of immense natural beauty, of profound cultural richness and of infinite spirituality. These are the sort of characteristics—the ones that hold an intangible potential for magical experiences—that place India among the most desired travel destinations in the world. They seem to magnetically attract travelers seeking a life-changing transformation or just an immersion into a way of life that is as far from their own as possible.

You may have heard of the city of Cochin (a.k.a. Kochi), in the tropical southwest state of Kerala. What you need to know, though, is that while the city of Cochin is quite ordinary when compared to India’s other big cities, its Fort Cochin district is what you’ve been searching for—the land of beauty, honesty, sanitation, diversity, and of course, cuisine, tucked away in the tip of the Cochin Peninsula.

Why Fort Cochin?

While certain times of the year can draw tourists from across the globe to the village of Fort Cochin, it nonetheless remains a quaint haven for all travelers to relax and enjoy themselves even during the height of its visitor seasons. Here are five essential experiences when spending time in Fort Cochin.

Chinese Fishing Nets and Waterfront. Lining the waterfront of the Fort Cochin village are souvenir vendors, restaurants and hotels.  Past these typical establishments, though, are a series of Chinese Fishing Nets operated by fisherman every day of the year. The contraptions are huge, seemingly alien and extremely photogenic. The fishermen are also happy to let you try your hand at operating them if want a taste of centuries-old technology still in use. The waterfront, with tons of towering trees, provides a quiet setting for a relaxing walk.

Kathikali Dance (pictured above). Dating back to the 17^th century, Kathikali dances are a staple of any visit to the Kerala region and are easy to attend in Fort Cochin, as it is home of the Cochin Kathikali Center.  See actors dressed in elaborate costumes and make-up as they dance and sing in the highly emotional, very intense performances.

Aryuvedic Massage. Another essential Indian experience, an Aryuvedic Massage is guaranteed to be unlike any other massage you’ve ever had. While the specifics of the massage are best left as a surprise, I can tell you that it is an oddly spiritual experience that you don’t want to miss.

Princess Street. This is the main street of Fort Cochin. Though not very long, Princess Street offers an assortment of shopping and eating options, as well as quiet and reasonably priced Bed & Breakfasts. If you are planning on staying a while (why wouldn’t you?), the Sonnetta Residency is an intimate, comfortable and extremely hospitable hostel that will do much to personalize your connection with Fort Cochin.  Grab a book and soak in some art at the Kashi Art Café, or bargain your way to a new wardrobe of Indian garb. No matter what you choose to do, Princess Street will have no problem keeping you busy.

Churches, Temples, and a Day in the Life Tour by Rickshaw. As the most religiously diverse state in India, Kerala is home to scores of a variety of houses of worship. From Cathedrals to Jain Temples and even Synagogues, any rickshaw-driver in town will be happy to take you around from place to place. These tours often include short stops at slices of the everyday life of a Cochin resident—fruit markets, parks, schools, etc. Your driver will probably make stops at various souvenir shops because the shop owners cut deals with them for stops, but don’t be afraid to call them out on it. They’ll be happy to continue the tour once they know you’re on to them.  The drivers speak excellent English and are normally very informative and friendly. Plus, this is a great way to learn your way around town.

Getting There

Being in the southwest corner of India, Cochin seems pretty far removed from the giant metropolises of India like Mumbai, Chennai or Delhi, often prompting the question, “Well how would I get to a place like this?” Getting to both Cochin and Fort Cochin is simple. First, there is an International Airport in downtown Cochin. After landing here, the trip to Fort Cochin can be made simply by an hour-long bus ride. If train is your preferred method of transportation, then look for trains headed to the Ernakulam Junction. From this stop, just hop on a rickshaw for about 20 minutes, requesting that the driver takes you to Fort Cochin.

All photos public domain except initial fishing boat photo by author.

Onsens, a Japanese term that means natural hot springs or public baths, are not only a cornerstone of Japanese cultural identity but are also an essential experience when traveling in Japan.

For Westerners especially, the idea of bathing publicly can seem exotic or wild, but when in Japan, for the sake of relaxation, health and spiritual renewal, you won’t regret doing what the Japanese do. Here are seven of the best onsens in Japan that are ensured to maximize your natural bathing experience.

Hakone

Only a short JR (Japan Railway) ride away from Tokyo and at the base of Mt. Fuji, this onsen is Japan’s most popular. Despite potential crowds, a wonderful bathing experience is a guarantee at Hakone. See the legendary cherry blossoms blossom in April, or come in autumn to witness the miscanthus sinensis in full bloom. If you can’t make it during either, no worries! Hakone is beautiful year-round. Only a short walk or cab-ride from the Hakone-Juku rail station, the onsen at Hakone is extremely accessible.

Tsuru-no-yu

In the idyllic mountain town of Nyuto, Akita, the Tsuru-no-yu onsen’s milky white waters never fail to renew the soul. Come during winter when snowfall has turned the baths into a warm, natural haven from the cold. These co-ed baths are always in a beautiful setting, offering a year-round view of the gorgeous Lake Tazawa.

Zao

It is said that in the 2nd century a wounded Japanese warrior had drawn an arrow out of his side and bathed in the Zao hot spring to clean his wound. Miraculously, the waters of Zao not only cleaned him, but healed him entirely. This is just one of a series of legends rooted in the waters of Zao. How true are these stories? There’s only one way to find out. Situated in northern Honshu, the Zao onsen is accessible via the Johoku Expressway.

Beppu Hatto

A series of eight onsens have been built extremely close to each other in the small town of Beppu; each of these baths is exquisite and beautiful. A day can easily and enjoyably be spent visiting each different one, walking from one to another. The most well known of these baths is the Beppu onsen, located conveniently close to the Beppu station at the center of town.

Kankaiji

Also located in Beppu, the Kankaiji onsen is the most naturally endowed of the hot springs in the Beppu Hatto. Known for its multi-colored waters beset by plants and rocks of tremendous natural majesty, the Kankaiji onsen radiates a wonderful, yet sulphury aura.

Kurokawa

Kurokawa is a charming and small onsen town beside a smooth-flowing river. With multiple onsens clustered together, visitors often walk from bath to bath. Three-day passes are also available for overnight lodgers.

Noboribetsu

At 350 yen, Hakkaido’s most famous onsen is a value luxury bargain. A 15-minute walk from the Noboribetsu station, the hot spring is easy to get to. It can get busy in the evening hours, though, so get there early in the day to ensure maximum relaxation in the natural bath’s sulphur-laden water that is hot, smelly and fantastic.

For the most part onsens require a one time fee. Some offer 2 or 3 day passes if you’re staying over night. Don’t worry too much about knowing what to do when you get there – all signs indicating important rules/policies are in English.

But please do remember to always acknowledge common courtesies and etiquette when bathing:

• clean yourself before entering the bath (baths are for soaking only)
• dry yourself before walking away from the bath
• always have your towel with you (towels are provided)

No matter which of the onsens, mentioned above, you choose to visit, you are guaranteed a profoundly relaxing and almost spiritual experience.

Photo Credits CC: ??, Jrim (flickr), cmbjn843 (fotopedia), benzpics63 (flickr), wikimedia, lazy fri13th (flickr), wikimedia

Disney’s theme parks may be the most popular in the world, but finding a romantic spot in any of them can be hard. Whether it’s the height of summer or the middle of the off-season, you’re likely to be surrounded by hundreds of families, all of them hustling to pack in as many rides as possible. Even when watching a stunning fireworks display at the end of day, you’ll be crammed in shoulder-to-shoulder with other guests, struggling to see over the small child that the parent in front has helpfully lifted onto their shoulders.

Of course, that’s exactly what many of us to head to Disneyland, Walt Disney World and the Disneyland Resort Paris to experience. Theme parks aren’t meant to be quiet and secluded – they’re meant to be packed with kids and adults sharing a great day out. Nobody delivers family fun better than Disney, a company which has spent the last five decades perfecting its offering.

However, with Disney resorts becoming increasingly popular as honeymoon destinations, couples’ retreats or simply a place to escape the treadmill of working life, many visitors will be looking to indulge themselves with a few hours of relaxation and luxury. There are a wide range of opportunities to find a bit of good old-fashioned romance in any of Disney’s theme parks; here are five of the best romantic Disney experiences.

5. Watch the Magic Kingdom’s Fireworks from the California Grill (Walt Disney World)

Dining at Disney restaurants can be a chaotic experience. Most guests are in a hurry to get back on the rides as quickly as possible, and the quick-fire service is designed to help them accomplish this with a minimum of fuss. There’s often little time to linger over your food and enjoy each other’s company, which is a shame as many of the dining locations combine excellent food with unique, impressively-designed settings.

Things are a little different at the California Grill, which is housed at the top of the unique A-frame building that forms the bulk of Disney’s Contemporary Resort. One of few restaurants at Walt Disney World to enforce a dress code, it offers a range of high-quality cuisine (as the name suggests, steaks feature prominently on the menu). Best of all, it provides sweeping views over the Magic Kingdom, the resort’s first theme park and still its prettiest.

As with all restaurants at the resort, booking well in advance is essential. Make your reservation for late in the evening, an hour or two before the Wishes fireworks show is due to commence. Ask for a table close to the window, and you’ll be able to tuck into your dessert as one of the most spectacular pyrotechnics displays in the world takes place at eye-level. In a neat touch, the accompanying music is piped in to add to the atmosphere.

4. Try Out Swing Dancing at the Carnation Plaza (Disneyland)

A little-known fixture of Disneyland’s weekly calendar is the swing dancing that takes place at the Carnation Plaza Gardens every Saturday evening. A live band plays four or five sets from around 7pm onwards, and a hardcore group of regulars descends on the area every week to exercise their dancing feet.

If the idea of joining in sounds a little intimidating, just grabbing a drink or a snack and watching the spectacle can be great be fun. Don’t be worried by the number of experts in attendance, though – the Carnation Plaza regulars are a friendly bunch, and are more than happy to help out beginners. The music is universally excellent, and there’s no better way to bond with your partner than to dance the night away to some foot-tapping old-time tunes.

3. Take a Private Boat Ride During Epcot’s Illuminations (Walt Disney World)

Epcot’s World Showcase is a great place to while away a few hours, particularly during a balmy Florida evening. A kind of permanent World’s Fair, each of its country-specific pavilions houses at least one restaurant serving up local dishes and beverages. During the evening, atmospheric lighting and live bands bring the area to life. Best of all, while it does include a few rides and shows, the pavilions themselves (and the international students that staff them) are the real attractions.

The perfect way to cap an evening at the World Showcase is to view the Illuminations: Reflections of Earth fire and light display. While just watching hand-in-hand from the edge of the area’s sprawling lagoon will be enough for most, renting a private boat can add an extra layer of magic to the experience. The $300-plus price tag might put off some couples, but get together with a few others and suddenly it becomes a lot more affordable.

You won’t be completely alone on the lagoon, with a number of other boats parking next to yours. Disney is careful not to cram them in too close, so it’ll feel like a private viewing all the same. Keep this one a surprise from your significant other, and be sure to book ahead.

2. Watch the Ships Sail by at the Blue Bayou Restaurant (Disneyland, Disneyland Paris and Tokyo Disneyland)

Pirates of the Caribbean is one of Disney’s signature attractions, and versions of the ride have been installed at four of the company’s five existing resorts. For once, Walt Disney World drew the short straw on this one, and the Magic Kingdom features a shortened version of the ride that fails to live up to the others. Disneyland, Disneyland Paris and Tokyo Disneyland, though, are all blessed with lengthy dark rides that see guests sailing past scenes of pirates on the rampage.

Also housed inside each of the Pirates of the Caribbean attraction buildings at these parks is a version of the Blue Bayou restaurant (known as the Blue Lagoon in Paris), another unforgettable Disney experience. Inside, it is perpetually night-time, with lighting and sound effects combining to provide the illusion of being seated in a Louisiana bayou (at Disneyland and Tokyo Disneyland) or a Caribbean beach (at Disneyland Paris).

None of the scenes of destruction and mayhem can be seen or heard from the restaurant, with only the beginning portion of the ride (which sees riders floating along an eerily calm sea) being visible. Ask for a table near the water, and you’ll be able to watch the ride’s boats peacefully floating by.

1. Gaze Over an African Savannah at Disney’s Animal Kingdom Lodge (Walt Disney World)

The themed hotels at Disney’s resorts are designed to keep guests “in the magic” once they leave the theme parks. There’s no better example of this than the Animal Kingdom Lodge, which is situated close to the hybrid theme park/zoo which lends it its name.

Easily the best of Walt Disney World’s hotel line-up, the Lodge features impressive African theming throughout. The real draw is the expansive mock “savannah” that stretches along much of its length. Home to a variety of animal species including giraffes, zebras and ankole cattle, the area rivals and surpasses many of the attractions in the theme park itself.

The best way to enjoy the view is to book one of the Animal Kingdom Lodge’s “Savannah View” rooms, which will enable you to watch the animals from the privacy of your own balcony. There are a number of offers and deals available during off-peak periods to cut the cost of these rooms, but if it’s still beyond your budget, head to the Lodge anyway. You can enjoy a meal in the excellent buffet-style Boma restaurant, and head outside to find a quiet seat to watch the animals from while the sun sets.

Photo Credits Flickr CC: Trey Ratcliff, armadillo444, Tom Baker, Christoph Juergens, BestofWDW

European cities are the perfect place for couples to get away and find a little romance – it doesn’t have to be Valentine’s Day to treat yourself.  Whether it’s a medieval cities with timeless architecture, or enjoying a modern boutique hotels alongside a centuries-old canal, Europe can bring out the romance in any relationship.  There are so many places that have the perfect atmosphere, it can be difficult to choose the best – but the problem is many of the most romantic cities in Europe are also the busiest.

Don’t let that worry you.  Getting to these various European destinations is so easy with Europe’s great air+train network.  These cities are mostly all on the Euro currency, making it easy to buy foreign currency and not lose your shirt, with also a great selection of hotels to keep it interesting.  But finding some quiet romance?  Let me show you.

Paris

You simply have to start with the number one destination for couples looking for a romantic getaway:  Paris. You can spend much of your trip along the famed Seine, stopping in some of the world’s best – and busiest – museums and churches, buying kitsch art from the locals selling their wares, snacking on crepes and ice cream in between coffee stops.  Paris is a huge city, but the central arrondissements (Parisian districts) are packed with action – and people.

Finding That Special Touch: While I find the café scene relaxing even when busy, one place you can definitely get a quiet moment is the Luxembourg Gardens (Le Jardins Du Luxembourg Paris) – although the city’s 2^nd largest park, it’s not as busy.  And don’t forget to visit the love bridge – Le Pont des Arts – and attach a padlock to signify your affection.

Venice

Venice comes in a close second to Paris as the top romantic getaway in Europe – as I’ve said before, I have a love/hate relationship with it. Couples can enjoy the beauty and uniqueness of Venice, as well as lots of options for good Italian food and wine.  Whether you just wander the alleyways and get lost (literally and figuratively), or hop on a gondola for a classic experience, Venice manages to stretch well beyond its cliché’d image.

Finding That Special Touch: Visiting off season can certainly help, because Venice is suffering from a severe lack of space problem.  In addition, take days to go and see the other islands in the area, like Bubano or San Michele.

Bruges/Ghent

Bruges and its neighborly sister Ghent are perhaps the prettiest medieval cities anywhere in the world, making Belgium less like a vacation and more like a trip back in time.  Top that off with world-famous chocolate and beer and you have a winning combination.  But these cities and their narrow, often car-less , cobblestone streets are filled to the brim with tourists, and who can blame them with picture postcards on every corner.

Finding That Special Touch: Ghent is similar to Bruges and the far less busy option. But in either case, just going for a walk and getting away from the main canals will give you plenty of breathing room; also deliberate carefully on your hotel choice – whether it’s a former monastery or a canal house with a  view, there are some great options in these towns, with rooms so great you won’t want to leave.

Amsterdam

Canals always seem to be an important criterion for romantic getaways or, more likely, the idyllic view from the bridges over them.  What’s nice in Amsterdam is that there seems to be a café or outdoor terrace perched everywhere, so you don’t have to wander far to find a place to sit, relax with a tea or wine, and just enjoy this city’s great views and atmosphere.  Though as a former local, I do suggest you head a little bit off the tourist trail and stop into any shop, bar or restaurant that looks interesting – I’ve yet to find one that didn’t have a charming quirk or two.

Finding That Special Touch:  The answer is perhaps obvious – rent a bike!  But head further afield – Amsterdamse Bos (Amsterdam Forest), De Pijp, or cross the river to Amsterdam North for a gentler ride; ask your bike company for a map before you head out.

Prague

If I had to say what’s the most crowded European city, I’d probably tip my hat to Prague – the crush of tourism is very palpable, especially compared to 10 years ago.  But with the centuries of architecture, the rows of shops with quite favorable pricing / fashion right next to brewpubs, you can see why it is so popular.  I say embrace the crowds and intersperse your sightseeing with plenty of café time and adult libations.

Finding That Special Touch: Go for the romantic dinner in one of the city’s many atmospheric venues, like Restaurant Peklo (which looks like a cave). And please, please make the trip out to Cesky Krumlov or Karlovy Vary – they are both so, well, cute.

Edinburgh

Last but least is another one of my former homes, Scotland’s capital city of Edinburgh.  If you visit Edinburgh in winter, you’ll have the place to yourself – but you probably won’t enjoy the whipping winds and stark temperatures except for your evenings in the pub.  Spring/summer/fall is the way to go, and just enjoy it – those spiral cobblestone streets, majestic castle ramparts, and restaurants hidden away in every nook and cranny have been entertaining travelers for centuries.

Finding That Special Touch: You’ll find a lot of romance in Edinburgh’s north and west sides; my favorite thing to do is walk the Water of Leith, which will drop you off in Stockbridge, a wonderful neighborhood to hang out in.  If you were looking for a walk that’s a bit more strenuous, try any of Edinburgh’s hills – Holyrood Park and Calton Hill being two personal favorites.

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The colors at Keukenhof are beautiful – and the groupings so huge, they seem unreal.

Here’s a snap of those famous striped fields. You’ll see a few of them on the way here to Keukenhof, and there are several on the outskirts of the massive gardens.

I can only imagine the amount of engineering, expertise, and creativity that goes into designing the elaborate layout each year.

As you may have noticed, it isn’t just tulips here at Keukenhof.

Further to the point, Keukenhof also has a lot of “lawn art” – not surprising as you do need some fountains and strange garden decor to break up all that color. This piece was rather striking (and oddly, mirrors some other cow-themed statues in this area of the country).

This isn’t one of those fly-eating flowers, but simply a tulip with a bit of a fringed edge. It’s kind of cheerful, in a way.

Awww: daffodils. Why do they make me smile, every time?

I loved the color of these stripy tulips, especially as they swayed in a passing breeze.

Pink is also a very popular color at Keukenhof. Hard to complain with views like this.

Keukenhof covers around 80 acres of ground. There are 7 million flower bulbs on those grounds. That’s almost ninety thousand flowers per acre!

When I first started filing through my photos to pick the Keukenhof shots for this photo essay, I knew I had to grab an image of these infamous black tulips. I hadn’t seen them before living in Amsterdam, and honestly you don’t see them often in the flower shops, though I have seen them as ultra-modern decor in restaurants and hotel lobbies. I’m not sure how I feel about them.

This yellow-and-red stripe was almost like impromptu border fencing. So sad to think they’ll all be out of bloom in a couple of months.

Last but not least is another shot of pink, because it’s so cheery and vibrant that it has to be good for you. And so is a trip to Keukenhof.

Good to Know

You’ll no doubt be visiting Keukenhof as a daytrip from Amsterdam. You’ll just want to take a train or bus to the airport (ask your hotel for the most convenient line). From there bus 58 runs to Keukenhof; during the major opening times, the buses are clearly marked (seriously, you can’t miss it), and you can buy a bus+entrance ticket for one price, around 20EUR. It’s a quick trip from Schipol Airport, about 35 minutes.

You’ll want to save 2-3 hours, at a minimum, to explore the grounds. There is food and drink (pretty good food and drink, actually) to get you through the day, but wear good footwear and appropriate coats/wet weather gear as you’ll be very outside/exposed.

Always check the Keukenhof website for opening dates and times.

And enjoy. It’s not just the world’s largest flower garden, but one of the prettiest as well.

So you’ve picked which Hawaiian Island you’re going to visit on your next vacation, and this time you’ve picked Kauai. Many of the lush images of Hawaii that we hold in our minds can be found on Kauai, so figuring out where to stay and what to do on your trip will be easy, right?

Indeed it is hard to go wrong, but there’s a lot of vacation punch on this geographically diverse and laid back little island. Knowing something about the terrain ahead of time will help make your planning decisions easier.

Where to Stay on Kauai and a Little Geography

As with all the Islands there is the question of “which side of the island is the best to stay on?” South Shore accommodations are concentrated in and around Poipu Beach. On the North Shore most accommodations are found in Hanalei Bay and Princeville. Most Hawaii holiday packages offer well priced options all around. No matter which side of the island you choose, both Kauai’s north and south shores can easily be explored during your stay.

Kauai’s diverse weather stems from its geography. Being the northernmost of the four major islands means that the island’s North shore, which includes the famed Napali Coast, experiences the state’s first impact of tropical Pacific weather systems. In the center of the island, Mount Wai’ale ‘ale is one of the rainiest places on earth, receiving an average of 452” of rain a year. The South Shore is the most arid and generally the sunniest. Even though each shore has its own distinct microclimate, weather ruining your trip is unlikely.

Kauai Is All About the Beach, So Be Ready

Kauai has some of the most golden and idyllic beaches in the world. Sandy shores lined with coconut palms and guava trees seem to be located around almost every corner. For the most part you can take your pick based on convenience, but there are two important things we suggest bearing in mind:

1. If you plan to go in the water, perhaps rent boogie boards and high quality snorkeling gear for the week and take them with you wherever you go. Why? Because at some point, even the most non-water sports types will probably be inspired to take a better look underwater from the safety of a crystal clear, protected tidal pool.

2. Please check water conditions ahead of time, and remember that how the ocean looks can be deceiving. Most beaches are not staffed by lifeguards and as with the weather, surf conditions can change frequently and rapidly. If you do find yourself on a quiet beach with calm waters, enjoy, but just be aware of exactly where any protected reefs begin and end. You do not want to find yourself on the wrong side of them.

A Few of the Major Beaches on Kauai

On the South shore, Poipu Beach is probably the most well known and with good reason. It is sunny, sandy with a large grass option for those who don’t care for the sand, and patrolled by vigilant lifeguards. With food and shave ice footsteps away, it is many people’s definition of a perfect beach. A less frequented, but no less attractive beach is located at Salt Pond Beach Park, location of the state’s only natural salt ponds. The protected swimming cove is great for families with young children and beginning snorkelers, while the waters beyond are some of the best on the island for windsurfing.

North Shore beach options are abundant and surprisingly unpopulated. At 1.6 miles long, Lumahai Beach with its crescent shaped shoreline is one of the largest and just right for a beach walk; but without reef protection it is only a swimming choice for the most advanced surfer. A little further down the road is Ke’e Beach. Located at the end of Kuhio Highway at the start of the Napali Coast, the cove-like beach is both stunning and well visited. It is also a prime example of a beach where swimming in certain spots close to shore is generally safe, but beyond the reef most definitely is not. This also marks the start of the 11 mile long Kalalau Trail, the challenging hiking trail that ascends its way up into the heights of the Napali Coast.

Boat Excursions

Boat excursion choices on Kauai vary by season. There are options year round, but here are a couple of things to remember: Boat tours of the North Shore in and around the Napali Coast only run in the summer months. South Shore based whale watching excursions only run during the winter and spring months (December until May), when the humpback whale migrates to the warm Hawaiian waters to breed and give birth. If you happen to be visiting in the fall, no problem! There are plenty of boat tours available including naturalist-led snorkeling trips and fine-dining and sunset cruising.

Add to the list of ‘only in Kauai’: Located on Kauai’s east side, the Wailua River is the only navigable river in Hawaii.

70% of Kauai is Inaccessible by Car

Packed with its extreme microclimates and landscapes, also of note is the fact that over 70% of Kauai is inaccessible by car. This is the main reason why helicopter tours are so popular here.

Unless you are visiting in the summer when a boat tour of the Napali Coast is available or you are a serious hiker, helicopter is the only way to experience the full splendor of this famous slice of coastline. If weather permits, most helicopter tours even fly down into the crater at Mount Wai’ale’ale where you may find yourself surrounded by waterfalls and multiple rainbows. But even if you don’t get to do that, don’t worry. On Kauai, odds are, no matter where you find yourself, rainbows and all kinds of beauty will become a very familiar site.

All photos public domain except “boat excursions” photo by author.

Hey lovebirds – Valentine’s Day is around the corner, and you had better get packing if you’re planning any sort of romantic retreat or special getaway with a significant other.

One thing that I’ve come to appreciate over the years is that when it comes to romantic trips, accommodation is perhaps the most important choice, perhaps trumping the destination itself in many cases.
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Thus here are some of our personal suggestions for a few of the most romantic hotels in the world, all value luxury in style. Some are about the location, some are about the ambiance and charm, and others – well, they just have that something special you can’t quite put your finger on.

The Charles Inn, Niagara on the Lake

Niagara on the Lake is a romantic destination in itself – certainly a stark difference to the hustle and bustle of Niagara Falls, just half an hour south. Essentially just one small strip of shops and restaurants leading up to Niagara Lake, the town is small and quaint. It’s that peacefulness that makes it very romantic, not to mention that there are lots of vineyards just a few miles away. You’ll want to stay at The Charles Inn or its sister property, The Shaw Club – both owned by Niagara’s Finest Inns.

I love the Charles because of the wide porches, perfect for relaxing with a glass of Niagara wine. It also has a very popular on-site restaurant. Rooms are decorated in a very cool “old modern” Niagara style and Judith Jackson bath products are provided. Breakfast and Wifi are included and guests at the Charles are, of course, welcome to enjoy any of the spa services over at the Shaw Club.

Awaroa Lodge, Abel Tasman National Park, New Zealand

The gorgeous Awaroa Lodge appeared to me like a mirage in the desert – perhaps because I’d been on a rather long 2-day hike in the Abel Tasman National Park, at the northwest tip of New Zealand’s south island. This is one of the most romantic hotels in the world to me because of it’s unique location – there aren’t any roads to the island. You have to take a plane or boat, or just walk like I did (perhaps not the most romantic part).

What I love about this place is the remoteness. No worries though – they have plenty of beer and wine stocked, and their superb on-site restaurant uses ingredients right out of the garden in back. The beach here is incredible and since it’s so remote, you almost have it to yourself to enjoy picking up shells, going for a quick swim, or just enjoying a walk along the coastal trail.

Overleaf Lodge, Yachats, Oregon

I have to admit, I’m falling in love with the Oregon Coast. I just love its quirks and charms, and the fact that there are so many experiences to be enjoyed. Our travel concierge loves the Overleaf Lodge in Yachats. It’s right on top of the ocean, great views of the crashing waves, etc. The Restless Waters rooms have Jacuzzis with a view!

Namale Resort and Spa, Fiji

If it was good enough for the TV show, the Bachelor, it will be good enough for you. (Don’t worry – the TV crews have left.) Namale Resort and Spa continues to receive rave reviews – and why not?

Namale is located on the south coast of Vanua Levu Island. Funny enough, some of Fiji’s first hotels were here because of the local hot springs, but Savusavu is less tourist than some other areas. Rest assured, though, you’ll have no reason to leave this resort because it’s so relaxing. Their spa sanctuary is famous for its incredible views (and a waterfall massage pool!), not to mention the very comfortable room furnishings and so many nooks on the property to hang out and relax.

Namale also offers some packages which allow you to enjoy some Fijian culture as well, like a local Kava Ceremony or a tour of a local market.

Red Horse Inn, Landrum, South Carolina

I’m most certain that someday the city of Greenville, South Carolina is going to make those “top travel destination” lists. As of now, it’s still undiscovered.

Set your sights a little further north towards the North/South Carolina border, where you’ll find the dreamy mountaintop retreat, The Red Horse Inn. It’s simply a gorgeous facility, where the sunset views (see above) compete with the interiors, which feel much more like an apartment or condo rather than a hotel room. Each room is a bit different – including some rooms in the main house and then cottages off on their own small parcel of land – so it’s worth taking your time before choosing!

Landrum is the perfect place to base yourself for a few days of Carolina waterfall hunting – an outdoorsy and fun way to spend a vacation.

Hotel Harmony, Ghent

As far as romantic places go in Europe, no place beats Ghent, in my opinion.
Charming walks, yummy food and drink, and a terrific ambiance in one of my favorite countries. So why not stay in a place that has the charm it announces in its name, Hotel Harmony?

Ghent is a small city and this hotel is situated canal-side, in a great central location. This building dates back to 1859, but inside are modern furnishings, including clawfoot tubs and wifi (priorities!). Don’t miss the great photo opportunity from the hotel’s small rooftop terrace (tip: visit both daytime and night for great views).

Some of the most romantic hotels in the world now even have an “romance concierge” who can arrange rose petals on the bed, champagne and chocolates, or front row theater tickets. You’ll usually pay dearly for the privilege – our own is a better place to start.

Capella Pedregal in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

Our travel concierge loves the Capella Pedregal resort in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. Although slightly more expensive than other resorts in Cabo, even the basic rooms have ocean views, huge bathrooms and—most importantly—a private plunge pool. How cool is that? They are currently offering 4th night free packages, and if you book with our concierge you’ll get breakfast and a ceviche tasting, as well as a room category upgrade on availability – talk about good value.

Bed and Breakfast on the Park, Brooklyn, New York

Brooklyn is totally the en vogue spot to be in New York, and as a traveler, this side of town is great because you pay a lot less than in Manhattan, are able to get some fresh air on the tree-lined streets, and I love the restaurants anywhere in Brooklyn or even Queens. Bed and Breakfasts, as well as trendy hotels are popping up all over, and there are some very romantic options.

Bed and Breakfast on the Park is certainly a great choice; it’s next to Prospect Park, as the name implies, and of course has easy access into Manhattan. The rooms are very spacious and have special touches – some have fireplaces or private outdoor space, for example. Breakfast is better than a New York bagel, and you’ll love the overall vibe in Brooklyn these days.

Hotel Konvice, Cesky Krumlov, Czech Republic

When it comes to dreamy and romantic cities, Cesky Krumlov takes the cake. It’s so well preserved and so authentic, for a minute you wonder if it’s not real – from the roundabout cobblestone streets to the historic cafes and memorable restaurants (some of which are underground and lit by fire!). And if you base yourself at the homey Hotel Konvice, you certainly can’t go wrong. It’s a small hotel, unassuming, but great value as the rooms are spacious by European standards, and those with castle views are simply jaw-dropping.

DesBarres Manor Inn, Guysborough, Nova Scotia

The folks at DesBarres Manor Inn make a big deal about hospitality from the moment you arrive. Every little detail is taken care of, whether you need sandwiches packed for a day hike or help finding a boat for a trip out on the harbour. As mentioned before, Guysborough is one of the best places to visit in Nova Scotia – but for romance don’t stray far from Guysborough, since the on-site cocktail lounge and restaurant serve up tasty, locally-inspired/sourced dishes. There’s the local pub a block away that makes its own beers – but trust me, you might have trouble getting out of these beds, they’re so comfortable.

Disclosure: Some of these hotels provided complimentary stays when I visited, and some didn’t. All of the opinions are my own. Photos are by author or courtesy of property.

Most visitors come to Kraków for sights – the imposing Wawel Royal Castle, St. Mary’s Church on the grand, medieval Main Square, or bustling Sukiennice Cloth Market to name just a few.

But especially for those new to Poland, Kraków also provides a great introduction to that key aspect of exploring all foreign lands: food. The Main Square, where most people start their city adventure, has plenty of restaurants and cafes to choose from but you can do much better in terms of originality and selection, not to mention price-to-performance ratio, by venturing out a bit.  Here a foodie’s guide to some of the best restaurants and places to eat in Krakow, Poland.

Breakfast (and Second Breakfast) in the Old Town

One perfect place to start the day is Dynia Cafe located just a short walk from the Main Square (Krupnicza 20). Scrambled eggs with bacon and onions, cottage cheese with cucumber and chives, or a selection of sweet and savory omelets are sure to please. The atmosphere is great, too. Exposed brick walls and pumpkin-themed orange and red décor (dynia = pumpkin in Polish) give the interior a cozy, warm glow. If the weather is nice, don’t miss an awesome patio in the courtyard.

After a few hours of sightseeing, it’s time for a break, and in that respect Poles and Hobbits have one thing in common: second breakfast. It is a light meal typically consisting of a sandwich or pastries. A great choice, especially for vegetarians, is Greenway, a hip urban chain right off the Main Square (Mikołajska 14) with plenty of healthy choices, including a variety of delicious Polish soups such as barszcz (borscht) and krupnik (barley soup). If you have a sweet tooth, a stop at Czarodziej confectionery (Karmelicka 15) is a must. Unassuming interior conceals one of the best-kept secrets of Kraków, kremówka cream cake – Pope John Paul II’s favorite.

Discover Culinary Traditions in Kleparz

In the afternoon take a leisurely stroll to Kleparz, a district just north of the Old Town. Between the 14^th and 18^th centuries, it was a separate town and as such had its own main square, which is still there. Surrounded by historic buildings including the School of Fine Arts and St. Florian Church, it is of prime culinary interest. Jarema restaurant is the key highlight. Famous for serving traditional fare, it makes great bigos (hunter’s stew), żurek (sour rye soup), gołąbki (stuffed cabbage rolls), and grzaniec (mulled wine), which are perfect for chilly evenings.

Season permitting, stop by at the Kleparz fresh produce market to enjoy local goodies from Mother Nature. The market is right on the Kleparz square. Juicy berries, vine-ripened tomatoes, golden hazelnuts, giant sunflowers, and aromatic forest mushrooms form a delightful mosaic.

Dine with the Angels

There are certainly many excellent dinner choices to select from. But whatever you do, don’t miss Pod Aniołami – Under the Angels (Grodzka 35). Hidden in a gorgeous gothic cellar, this Kraków institution offers classics done to perfection such as Polish dumplings (pierogi), or wood-fired grilled duck filet with baked apples. It ain’t cheap, but it’s well worth it. The restaurant is conveniently located half way between the Main Square and Wawel Castle along lively Grodzka street with many shops, restaurants, and beautiful churches like the one below, Romanesque-style St. Andrew’s. And on every street corner you can spot someone selling a perfect snack – salt, poppy seed, or sesame-sprinkled obwarzanki (Polish bagels).

It’s not just vodka that is famous in Poland – the country is also Europe’s third largest producer and consumer of beer. Tyskie, Zywiec, and Warka are just a few of the many brands you can sample in pubs across the country.

Late Night Noshing in Kazimierz

Kazimierz, the old Jewish quarter of Kraków, is a thriving district just south of the Main Square with charming narrow streets, historic synagogues and museums, atmospheric cafes, and lively bars. After dark, the place to be is Plac Nowy, a market square by day that becomes a popular hangout place when the sun goes down. Cool-crowd cafes and pubs surround the square so it’s easy to explore different venues. The top one is Alchemia (Estery 5), a cult destination for artsy types fond of good beer and good music, and timeless candle-lit atmosphere.

For a late-night bite right on Plac Nowy, nothing beats Grill na Kazimierzu – Kazimierz Grill – an inviting open-air stand that attracts bohemian pub-crawlers with a sizzling selection of sausages and other simple, yet sumptuous, specialties. Don’t miss grilled oscypek, traditional smoked sheep cheese served with cranberry sauce. Amazingly good!

If, after a full day, you still have the energy and stomach capacity left to explore after dark, head back to the Main Square and hop between many bars and clubs that inhabit its mysterious cellars. Treat yourself to zapiekanka – open-face sandwich on a baguette topped with the basic combo of cheese, mushrooms, and ketchup. Vodka tasting is also mandatory, with the number one item to try being Polish bison vodka, Żubrówka.

Bottoms up!

All photos courtesy author.

I had no idea that there was more than one Vancouver until I moved to Seattle. And honestly, I still didn’t know about it until meeting more friends down in Portland. Now, I regularly visit with friends who live in Vancouver, or VanWA as we call it.

Vancouver, Washington is just across the river from Portland, Oregon; it’s the “original” Vancouver because it’s nearly 75 years older than the perhaps better-known Vancouver, Canada.

Vancouver is known for its quality of life, but as far as vacations are concerned, Vancouver can be a nice daytrip from Portland or a great place to base yourself if you’re planning on exploring southern Washington, the Columbia River Gorge, or the Oregon coast. Here are some tips on a few fun things to do in Vancouver, WA.

Vancouver, Washington – Outdoors

If you’re lucky, you’ll get a nice clear day for your Vancouver adventures. That’s because Vancouver is a great place to stretch your legs, in places like Fort Vancouver. This was the 19th century trading headquarters of the Hudson’s Bay Company, which is still around – it’s one of the oldest commercial companies in the world.

The fort is now a historic attraction introducing you to the lifestyle of a fur trader. Consider taking the walk along the Renaissance Trail as a scenic route into the fort. Aviation geeks should also stop by nearby Pearson Air Museum, which sits on the oldest continually-operating airfield in the U.S.

Another suggestion is Esther Short Park, a pretty downtown park; it’s a great place to sit under the clock tower and just relax.

Washington supplies over half of the Apples grown in America, and Vancouver is home to the state’s oldest apple tree, planted in 1826!

Vancouver, Washington – Indoors

Ok, so I’m being realistic – the weather can be miserable here in the Pacific Northwest. But Vancouver has you covered – a few fun things to do if it rains:

• Visit the Vancouver Library: Pictured above, I love this place – I suppose I’m admitting to be a bit of a geek, but with a top notch onsite cafe, lots of reading rooms, and a viewing deck upstairs should the skies clear for a moment, this is a wonderful place to kick back.
• Get a Buzz: There are lots of other buzz-worthy opportunities around, regardless if they are the caffeinated variety or not. Try Dripster or Mon Ami (pictured below). If you’d rather splurge on alcohol, By the Bottle is a local downtown beer shop with a tasting room. For wine, Gouger Cellars – run by a former pharmacist! – just north of downtown offers some great wines.

There are also lots of shops around downtown with antiques and other odds and ends. Go exploring and see what you find!

Food and Drink

You won’t go hungry in Vancouver, Washington – here are some killer restaurants:

• Tommy O’s: Wow, this “Pacific Rim Bistro” surpassed all of my expectations, which were high to begin with. You have to try their kalua pork – SO SO SO good!
• The Grant House: Their porch is actually the lead photo up top; I love this place because of the historic significance – the building is one of the old officer’s quarters just across from the Fort. Great food too, wonderful ambiance – reservations strongly recommended.

And if you need to cure sweet tooth cravings? Head for Treat, Vancouver’s downtown cupcake joint.

Where to Stay

You might want to stay in a hotel in Vancouver, Washington if you are considering checking out some of the wineries in the region or exploring the Columbia River Gorge; it also offers quick access to the Portland airport. Although prices aren’t drastically different than downtown Portland, two choices stand out:

• Red Lion Hotel – Inn at the Quay: You can’t get closer to Oregon than this, as the hotel sits just minutes from the Interstate bridge. Red Lion hotels are known for being friendly and comfy, and you’re still close to all the Vancouver attractions.
• Vancouver Hilton: Right in downtown Vancouver, this is a great spot where you can walk to several attractions, food, and drink.

I am not a gardener, and not since a young lad have I even spent much time working my hands into the soil. My observations on the parallels of gardening and travel are courtesy of a recommend read, by author Margaret Roach.

I first heard of Margaret’s story from fellow online personality Pam Slim. Pam had mentioned how Margaret (whom I suspect doesn’t mind that we are now on a first name basis) was once a high-ranking executive working directly under Martha Stewart and left that job to tend to herself on a farm in upstate New York. The story is not unlike my own – minus the farm part, of course – so I was curious to learn more. Margaret recently published a book about her travails, And I Shall Have Some Peace There, and the trailer hooked me instantly:

Getting some White Space

I think we all can appreciate the need for a bit of white space, and it was interesting to learn how our protagonist worked like hell in New York City, and then fled to her upstate getaway like a war-torn refugee. (This fact alone makes the book the perfect long-flight-companion, but keep reading – there’s more.)

Once free from the corporate shackles, Margaret finds that her neighbours and rural creatures are now her new mentors – less like teachers, more like walls of reflection. I love the reference to one of her neighbours, Herb, who I believe, in a way, probably kept more of an eye on her than she suspects. She mentions the way he moves – the way many travellers (should) move:

He walked in the manner I have come to know as distinctively his: purposeful but never rushed, a man going somewhere but content on taking his time getting there.

As the pages turn, I was surprised to see how deep this story goes. Not deep as in the sense of a complex story line, or a raucous plot of characters – though the ups and downs of country life does introduce one to a miscellany of insects and animals. No, the depth here is watching Margaret’s thoughts and feelings untangle, as she begins to ditch Margaret-Roach-Executive-For-Martha-Stewart and learned who the heck just Margaret is.

The Passing of Seasons

One other thing that I appreciated in this book is the turning of the seasons. Without boring one with the details of maintaining a rural property, Margaret walks us through the variations of things to do while Mother Nature conducts her busywork. Winter brings snowfall and indoor work; spring brings planting and preparations; summer, the enjoyment of one’s labours fresh from the garden; and the fall, a hectic pace to can and jar and prepare for winter again.

I couldn’t help but reflect on certain points in each year that Margaret brings up; for example, she always mentions her little frozen cubes of pesto, packed away, waiting for the perfect moment of enjoyment. It reminds me of travel rituals and how the travel process is almost full circle: the first elation and pondering of a trip (winter), making the bookings and getting all of the preparations in place (spring), the enjoyment of it all (summer), and coming home to share those stories and reflect on poignant souvenirs of the (fall).

Not every trip perhaps flows so nicely through four stages, just as each year the seasons can have a mind of their own. But both are cyclical, and everyone has a favourite season or two.

In Closing

Margaret blew me away with her headline story and book trailer. And when I emailed her how I empathised with her tale and was looking forward to finding a copy of the book for myself – she dropped one in the mail for me, with a simple note attached – Waste Not, Want Not. (Thank you.)

For someone who lost her way and struggled to find it again, I’d say that Margaret is the one now giving the wise words of advice. With one last temptation to encourage you to add this to your airplane reading, I’d like to close with a short passage I found quite interesting.

As I write this, I hear Meryl Streep invoke Karen Blixen: “I have been a mental traveler.” … I want people to look and learn, Peter the Great said around 1717, referring to the Kunstkammer, as he knew this cabinet-as-organizing principle. Sounds good to me, Peter; sounds like a plan: Look and Learn.

If you want to look read and learn, click here to get your copy from Amazon.